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CapNKirkland | 2018-10-10 23:54:33 | 1,539,215,673 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 9n4v8p | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9n4v8p/does_it_exist/ | 2 | I see online websites or dating apps specifically made for men looking for BBWs (Big Beautiful Wemon) But ive never seen the male equivalent anywhere. (places specifically for wemon looking for big boys) Does it exist? And if so, where? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does it exist? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9n4v8p/does_it_exist/ |
love_to_taste_ass | 2021-05-29 00:47:25 | 1,622,249,245 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | nnbuj5 | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/nnbuj5/what_are_you_going_to_do_to_celebrate_this/ | 0 | I'm going to stroke a little, toke a lot, and drink some beers. Probably play some video games. Might try to set up a tinder smoke-smash-n-fo situation if I'm not too lit. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are you going to do to celebrate this Memorial Day weekend? | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/nnbuj5/what_are_you_going_to_do_to_celebrate_this/ |
TheOtherWrist | 2024-08-05 13:35:47 | 1,722,864,947 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1eknyc8 | true | Question ❓ | 55 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eknyc8/is_casual_sex_harder_for_younger_men/ | 0 | I’m 21 and would rather stick to casual sex for the moment. I’m very picky in love but still crave intimacy a lot. However, in the last two years, I’ve only had sex with like a dozen of women (I mainly use dating apps, had thousands of matches and about thirty dates) I still fill rather unfulfilled. Even more so that t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is casual sex harder for younger men? | 0 | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eknyc8/is_casual_sex_harder_for_younger_men/ |
rasputin_dead | 2018-04-12 08:05:28 | 1,523,520,328 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8boj1m | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8boj1m/clueless_monkey_here/ | 1 | Guys and girls. Need help pls. I am 27. Never been in a relationship prior. Met this girl on tinder. Talking for 3 days. I booked tickets to a concert and we are going there 3 weeks from now. My main concern is how should I not fuck this up? I do not want to come off as too eager. At the same time I want to let her kno... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Clueless monkey here! | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8boj1m/clueless_monkey_here/ |
timmins613 | 2017-11-24 01:01:10 | 1,511,485,270 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | 7f3wu6 | false | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7f3wu6/advice/ | 1 | You are correct that dating is a tricky thing especially when one can just swipe right by someone without getting to know them. But, we do decide who we are attracted to all the time in real life and on apps. I think relationships and love are inherently mean that we allow ourselves to be vulnerable and therefore, poss... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7f3wu6/advice/ |
jijisku | 2024-06-01 13:23:43 | 1,717,248,223 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1d5mwn4 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d5mwn4/first_time_dating_on_tinder_didnt_go_so_well/ | 2 | Here's the thing. I met a guy on Tinder over a month ago, and we've been meeting up every week since we met. Everything was going well, but the thing is, English isn't my first language and I still have a lot to improve (when I speak). So sometimes we get stuck because of that. Also, we're really different. He's like a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First time dating on Tinder, didn’t go so well. | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d5mwn4/first_time_dating_on_tinder_didnt_go_so_well/ |
Cosack | 2022-08-01 15:36:43 | 1,659,368,203 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'bumble'] | 0 | wdkfmg | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wdkfmg/500_beeline_in_72hrs/ | 2 | Ex (mid 20s) I'm still friends with called me to complain about her Bumble experience, and some of it surprised me so sharing with other people it might surprise. She's deleting the app because of it being "exhausting." Exhausting in this case means: - 500 likes in three days. Sent a screenshot of the number as proof. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 500+ beeline in 72hrs | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wdkfmg/500_beeline_in_72hrs/ |
probablythrowaway___ | 2023-02-20 22:39:40 | 1,676,932,780 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 117mvqy | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 26 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/117mvqy/were_you_just_not_attracted_to_me_is_what_i_24f/ | 17 | I am tired of being lied to. Maybe I’m very fresh from a relationship where I was lovebombed like crap and I didn’t know. I went on date with this guy we’ve talked on and off for two weeks. Date was yesterday and I thought it went great. I went to his bbq place he co owns. Towards the end he says do I want to double up... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | “We’re you just not attracted to me?” Is what I 24F want to send 28M | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/117mvqy/were_you_just_not_attracted_to_me_is_what_i_24f/ |
throwaway09812903123 | 2024-01-20 16:19:12 | 1,705,767,552 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 19bfbha | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19bfbha/a_couple_questions_for_the_masses/ | 1 | long-time lurker, first time caller, finally looking to pick any brains that may lay their eyes upon this. I feel like i've been in this dilemma and sometimes I just feel directionless. 22M, autistic, nerdy, really only getting out of the house for work, errands and an occasional dinner outing, I live in a kinda tight-... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | a couple questions for the masses | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19bfbha/a_couple_questions_for_the_masses/ |
squatting_your_attic | 2023-07-08 22:50:57 | 1,688,856,657 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 14uhxbh | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14uhxbh/got_love_bombed_and_dumped_like_a_disposable/ | 1 | Honestly I'm probably just as bad in this story because I saw the red flags and I knew I was being love bombed but I just went away with it, for idk, reasons. I have no one to tell this story to and I feel like shit... so if you wanna read, go ahead. I'm in Madrid for 12 days (leaving in 3) and on my second day I had a... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Got love bombed and dumped like a disposable object while solo traveling | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14uhxbh/got_love_bombed_and_dumped_like_a_disposable/ |
Ok-Conference1752 | 2023-02-07 12:22:48 | 1,675,772,568 | null | ['swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 10w0hy8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10w0hy8/i_stopped_using_dating_apps_and_started_putting/ | 0 | 26F, like many of you guys I've had very poor luck with dating, especially dating apps. Over the past year, I've really begun to work on myself. I started working out, got into therapy, began a few side hustles for extra $, cut off a few bad friends. Everything independently with me has improved, but still I've had tro... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I stopped using dating apps and started putting myself out there, and I thought my experience might be able to inspire some of you: | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10w0hy8/i_stopped_using_dating_apps_and_started_putting/ |
MolassesSerious1403 | 2024-06-11 09:55:11 | 1,718,099,711 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1ddabxf | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ddabxf/is_she_in_to_me/ | 1 | M44 here. Separated 2 years ago and not been Interested in dating until recently so joined Hinge. One particular lady (33yo) caught my eye both appearance-wise but she also seemed very down to earth and genuine based on her bio and Interests so I messaged, we matched and we were chatting via the app for a week or so be... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is She in to Me? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ddabxf/is_she_in_to_me/ |
lDlOTEQUE | 2022-03-31 22:13:14 | 1,648,764,794 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ttb7lc | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ttb7lc/any_experience_with_tinder/ | 1 | (excuse my bad english) hey guys so I’ve been talking to this guy that I matched with on Tinder last year. (I’m from Venezuela and he’s from England btw) in April 3rd we’re turning 1 year “together” and we have plans of meeting really soon. basically we have something that we call “emotional fidelity” which means that ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | any experience with Tinder? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ttb7lc/any_experience_with_tinder/ |
PuffMyCubanCigar | 2014-02-02 21:31:48 | 1,391,376,708 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1wu4xk | null | null | 4 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/1wu4xk/would_you_be_more_likely_to_give_a_guy_the/ | 2 | Lets say you stuck up a conversation with an attractive person either out on the town or on a dating site. You both hit it off fairly well but after a while he says something that raises a small potential red flag (maybe like a yellow flag). Do you think you would be more likely to brush it off and keep talking to the ... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Would you be more likely to give a guy the benefit of the doubt if you talking in person vs talking online? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1wu4xk/would_you_be_more_likely_to_give_a_guy_the/ |
BorgusTorgus | 2022-09-28 00:11:05 | 1,664,323,865 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | xpx5k0 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xpx5k0/more_bumble_matches_all_of_a_sudden/ | 5 | My (33M) best friend (straight woman) recommended I change my info to seeking casual instead of relationship and write about how I'm busy with work/grad school with limited free time. I made the changes and used some spotlights (like tinder's boost) and now I'm getting about 4 or 5 likes per day from women instead of 4... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | More Bumble matches all of a sudden | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xpx5k0/more_bumble_matches_all_of_a_sudden/ |
Zeb0215 | 2021-05-27 04:50:23 | 1,622,091,023 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | nlzu3c | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nlzu3c/are_they_a_catfishno_intentions_of_meeting/ | 1 | I've been messaging a guy I met through a dating app for almost a month yet we still haven't met... We've spoken twice during that time, sent several voice messages however he always seems to be too busy to meet. Always saying "we have to meet soon..." They work as a therapist (I've checked the profile picture in Googl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are They A Catfish/No Intentions of Meeting | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nlzu3c/are_they_a_catfishno_intentions_of_meeting/ |
sillyhumansuit | 2019-08-03 15:13:46 | 1,564,845,226 | null | null | 0 | cljtfx | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/cljtfx/are_we_ok_that_the_match_group_owns_online_dating/ | 31 | The Match Group owns, Tinder, Hinge, Match, PlentyOfFish, Meetic, OkCupid, OurTime, and Pairs. They have systematically monetized each site ruining them in the process. An example would be the increase of price rates over 30 on Tinder and the complete overhaul of messages on Okcupid. Essentially it’s a monopoly and the... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Are we ok that the Match group owns online dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/cljtfx/are_we_ok_that_the_match_group_owns_online_dating/ |
fok-et-al | 2020-03-27 16:46:51 | 1,585,327,611 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | fq0f7l | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fq0f7l/what_do_i_do_about_photos_and_dating_apps_i_have/ | 4 | I'm female but kind of a hermit and over the years I've barely taken any pics. I've also lost weight. If I take photos now they're all going to be indoor selfies anyway in the same outfit. Would that work? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I do about photos and dating apps? I have barely any photos or they're all old and bad... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fq0f7l/what_do_i_do_about_photos_and_dating_apps_i_have/ |
HK_Gwai_Po | 2021-09-20 03:35:24 | 1,632,108,924 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | prmu4v | true | null | 82 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/prmu4v/rejection_sucks_to_receive_but_its_also_painful/ | 131 | I’m a very socially awkward person so I often get very anxious about these things and would hate to be offensive or mean. So I matched with two guys around the same time and been out on dates with them both. Both have good chemistry and I like them both very very much but now I’ve made up my mind and become a lot close... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Rejection sucks to receive but it’s also painful to give. I need some advice on how to word it. | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/prmu4v/rejection_sucks_to_receive_but_its_also_painful/ |
Appropriate_Tea9048 | 2023-04-30 19:24:34 | 1,682,882,674 | 0 | null | 0 | 1340lkt | true | null | 135 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1340lkt/what_do_you_think_would_help_fix_online_dating/ | 20 | Or at least improve it? I don’t want to hear anything that puts down the opposite sex or dismisses what they deal with. I’m done with that | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What do you think would help fix online dating? | 20 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1340lkt/what_do_you_think_would_help_fix_online_dating/ |
topbomlover1 | 2021-11-08 12:13:12 | 1,636,373,592 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | qpcc5t | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qpcc5t/how_to_stop_being_the_chaser/ | 0 | So in my (F21) past relationships, the trend I see is that I am usually the chaser (apart from one). I say that I'm interested, I ask them out on dates, I reserve the restaurants, I make the first moves. I just don't understand. I know maybe it's a bit sexist, but I always thought guys should be the first ones to make ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to stop being the chaser | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qpcc5t/how_to_stop_being_the_chaser/ |
nomellamesprincesa | 2017-10-16 10:24:54 | 1,508,149,494 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 76pkom | false | null | 15 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/76pkom/not_sure_what_to_dothink/ | 2 | For a bit of context, look , and , and more recently . TL;DR for context: Met a guy on holiday, was supposed to be a hook-up but we took a liking to each other, kept texting, have met once since and it was great, he suggested we get together again later this month and was supposed to move back to where we met for a fe... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Not sure what to do/think | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/76pkom/not_sure_what_to_dothink/ |
downwitbrown | 2022-06-10 09:29:01 | 1,654,853,341 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | v93v6r | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/v93v6r/in_general_how_many_message_attempts_do_you_make/ | 1 | You match with someone. You say hello or some other witty line. No response. They living their best life. Do you try again? How many times? Just curious what’s your rule of thumb you play by. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | IN GENERAL - How many message attempts do you make to initiate a conversation whilst online dating? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/v93v6r/in_general_how_many_message_attempts_do_you_make/ |
GrievousPuck | 2020-08-09 13:19:27 | 1,596,979,167 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | i6j7cz | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i6j7cz/is_she_not_interested/ | 1 | 23M here and talking about a 23F if that matters. I matched with this girl on Tinder and after a bit of back and forthing we exchanged Instas. We've been talking on and off, but everytime I try to ask a question about her like "What kinda boardgames do you like" and such, she dodges most of them and asks something else... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is she not interested? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i6j7cz/is_she_not_interested/ |
321send | 2021-10-05 21:25:56 | 1,633,469,156 | null | null | 0 | q2608k | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/q2608k/my_boyfriend_doesnt_know_if_he_likes_me/ | 0 | ok so basically i (20f) have been talking to this guy (21m) for almost around a year now but we live in two different states and also lockdown is here so we can’t really see eachother anyway over the past however many months we’ve become super super close. we text literally everyday, call each baby, babe, send 😘😘, co... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | my boyfriend doesn’t know if he likes me | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/q2608k/my_boyfriend_doesnt_know_if_he_likes_me/ |
bisexualsthrowbetter | 2016-09-08 19:22:19 | 1,473,362,539 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 51t2s9 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/51t2s9/dating_as_college_student/ | 1 | Hello everyone! I'm a college sophomore, bisexual female and a supervirgin (correct me if I'm using term incorrectly) who just transfered to a new university. I did my best to follow the common advice here: "be who you want to attract." but I can't seem to have any luck. I am outgoing and (not to sound conceited) I am ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating as college student? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/51t2s9/dating_as_college_student/ |
highonscifi | 2019-09-26 00:10:22 | 1,569,456,622 | null | ['OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | d9bt7q | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d9bt7q/what_has_been_your_experience_on_hinge/ | 3 | I recently downloaded it as a last ditch effort to see if it could restore my faith in OLD but honestly I am not impressed..... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What has been your experience on Hinge? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d9bt7q/what_has_been_your_experience_on_hinge/ |
No_Doughnut7238 | 2023-10-18 17:49:35 | 1,697,651,375 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 17aws7l | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17aws7l/too_early_to_tell_if_things_would_have_worked_out/ | 1 | I (25M) recently had been going out with someone (26F) for just over one month. I'll call her O. We were taking things slow, and things were going well. Even though she was a little shy at first, she gradually warmed up and was quite easy to talk to. I sensed she was hesitant with physical touch/kissing, so I did my be... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Too early to tell if things would have worked out? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17aws7l/too_early_to_tell_if_things_would_have_worked_out/ |
rkuchiki123 | 2023-09-09 17:43:09 | 1,694,281,389 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16ebsyx | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16ebsyx/people_in_relationships_do_you_miss_dating_around/ | 1 | A friend of mine has been with his gf, who he met on Hinge, for 3 months. I feel like they're a good match; they have a lot in common and she seems sweet. He's also not the type of guy to get into a relationship with just anyone, so he must like her on some level. We got dinner last night and he admitted to me he somet... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | People in relationships - do you miss dating around? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16ebsyx/people_in_relationships_do_you_miss_dating_around/ |
DadJoke_Mod_Reindeer | 2023-08-02 19:10:47 | 1,691,003,447 | 0 | null | 0 | 15ght38 | false | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15ght38/summer_romances_coincidence/ | 1 | Is there something about people finding love in summer time? I just got out of a relationship that got pretty serious and my last serious one was also last summer. I hear the term summer romance a lot and was wondering if you felt there was something to that? Or what? Maybe just coincidence. I don't expect love to come... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Summer romances? Coincidence? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15ght38/summer_romances_coincidence/ |
wherethepecsat | 2021-09-17 03:02:20 | 1,631,847,740 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | pps092 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pps092/keeping_a_girl_interested_through_text_for_10/ | 2 | Background: Matched with girl on tinder, seem to click well and have a good amount in common. Asked her on date for the weekend, she said she was a bit busy, but was available next weekend and agreed to a date then. Followed up and got her phone number. Cool. But now I feel like the hard part will be keeping her intere... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Keeping a girl interested through text for 10 days before first date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pps092/keeping_a_girl_interested_through_text_for_10/ |
Stock_Blackberry2904 | 2024-06-15 15:24:17 | 1,718,465,057 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dgke2y | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dgke2y/is_there_a_reason_that_men_dont_like_me_enough_to/ | 1 | Hi, I (23F) haven’t been in a real relationship since high school and I graduated in 2018. I’m not really sure if it’s just the dating culture or if it’s me but I can never make it out of the talking stage or I get stuck in these cycles with men who want all the benefits of a relationship and don’t want the title. I am... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there a reason that men don’t like me enough to start a relationship with me? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dgke2y/is_there_a_reason_that_men_dont_like_me_enough_to/ |
origami__crane | 2015-11-11 03:55:30 | 1,447,214,130 | 0 | ['tinder', 'plentyoffish', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 3sd77i | null | null | 9 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/3sd77i/i_need_your_help_guys_not_sure_if_im_seriously/ | 3 | I'm a 21 year old girl, currently in college, living about 3 hours from home. I have ALWAYS dated guys. I was in a 3 year relationship 17-20 (he was my first everything) and then 3-4 mini relationships lasting usually about 3-4 months each. Those didn't end that well- I lost interest, felt they were too controlling, I ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I need your help guys. Not sure if I'm seriously questioning my sexuality or building it up in my head and deceiving myself. Afraid to tell anyone in person. | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/3sd77i/i_need_your_help_guys_not_sure_if_im_seriously/ |
usctrojan415 | 2022-11-08 23:30:46 | 1,667,950,246 | null | null | 0 | yq255m | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yq255m/whats_360_a_year_for_a_dating_app_subscription_if/ | 0 | https://qz.com/a-dating-app-subscription-isnt-actually-a-bad-idea-at-a-1849756537 Interesting way to view this... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What’s $360 a year for a dating app subscription if it could lead to a 50% monthly discount on a 1-bedroom $3,800 flat? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yq255m/whats_360_a_year_for_a_dating_app_subscription_if/ |
BusyLight32 | 2018-11-02 15:46:12 | 1,541,173,572 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 9tl8xs | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9tl8xs/is_it_a_date_or_just_a_meetup/ | 0 | So I met this woman OLD and we went from chatting via the app to phone calls. The first call was 6 hours, we really hit it off, and made plans to meet up tonight. We are meeting for dinner and a show. After making those plans, we chatted again, this time for 4 hours. My question is when we do meet for the first time to... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Is it a date or just a meetup | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9tl8xs/is_it_a_date_or_just_a_meetup/ |
Animedingo | 2014-11-15 05:56:10 | 1,416,030,970 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2mcx03 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating/comments/2mcx03/whats_missing_21m/ | 5 | I've been trying online dating for quite some time now. But, I've never had anything come about from it. and it's not that I'm not finding girls I relate to, I do. I find girls I enjoy talking with for several days at a time, but it never goes anywhere. I consider asking them if they want to hang out but by the time I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What's missing? (21M) | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2mcx03/whats_missing_21m/ |
3WideTop | 2022-02-15 15:09:23 | 1,644,937,763 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | st51wj | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/st51wj/where_is_this_going/ | 14 | So, I (41,M) have been dating (43,F) for almost 2 months now. Met on Facebook Dating the day after Christmas and went on our first date 2 days after matching. She has a good government job,, loves what she does, owns her house and is pretty well off. Kind of has her shit together. Openly admits she was in a shitty 14 y... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Where is this going? | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/st51wj/where_is_this_going/ |
Mean-Potential-9892 | 2022-08-26 21:28:34 | 1,661,549,314 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | wyks6w | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wyks6w/how_to_avoid_getting_stood_up/ | 0 | So online dating I have no issues getting matches or keeping up conversation, but it seems like every time I organise to meet up theres an excuse to bail last minute. Or I get ghosted. I’m not offended if someone’s busy or have other plans pop up, it’s just really frustrating to clear some time and then have that time ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to avoid getting stood up? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wyks6w/how_to_avoid_getting_stood_up/ |
Outrageous-Camera253 | 2023-04-21 04:16:54 | 1,682,050,614 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 12tq12r | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 56 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12tq12r/im_sick_of_women_using_me_for_my_height/ | 0 | It's always the same experience with women on dating apps. "OMG you're 6 ft 4, you're so TALL 😍😍". And legit they want to show me off to their friends and family like I'm some kind of trophy. I've honestly had it with this sort of behavior. As good as it may seem, everything seems so superficial. I'm a human being, I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm sick of women using me for my height. | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12tq12r/im_sick_of_women_using_me_for_my_height/ |
joshua9568bau | 2022-08-14 23:36:25 | 1,660,520,185 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wok3wd | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wok3wd/fwb_acting_increasingly_suffocating_and_needy_help/ | 0 | For the past month, I (23m) have been seeing this girl who I met on tinder. At first, everything was great We enjoyed our time together, have great sexual chemistry, etc etc. But lately she’s been increasingly suffocating and needy. And, quite frankly, it’s been really irritating me. For instance: 1. She calls me at ra... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Fwb acting increasingly suffocating and needy. Help! | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wok3wd/fwb_acting_increasingly_suffocating_and_needy_help/ |
shopenhr | 2023-09-02 18:52:11 | 1,693,680,731 | 0 | null | 0 | 168ahzw | true | null | 228 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/168ahzw/as_a_straight_man_i_get_05_likes_a_week_that/ | 1 | That's how distorted it is. Seems is just not worth bothering with, and most of the female matches I get seem to just be maybe that don't respond, or only respond once or twice. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | As a straight man, I get 0-5 likes a week that never go anywhere, but if I set myself as gay, I get over 100 likes a day. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/168ahzw/as_a_straight_man_i_get_05_likes_a_week_that/ |
ghost_of_seneca | 2022-10-09 12:07:54 | 1,665,317,274 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | xzk30l | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xzk30l/how_do_you_find_dates/ | 2 | I’m looking for advice on how to meet more women and date more often. Here’s some background: - I do go out, but mostly to chess evenings. There’s almost no women there - but I enjoy the game. - There’s nobody at work I would consider dating, plus dating at work is weird. - I took up bouldering for a bit, but going alo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you find dates? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xzk30l/how_do_you_find_dates/ |
angstyactivist | 2023-12-18 08:07:33 | 1,702,886,853 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18l3lvk | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18l3lvk/a_guy_23m_ended_things_with_me_23f_a_few_months/ | 1 | A guy (23M) ended things with me (23F) a few months ago because he thought he could “do better,” but now we’re dating again?? Over the summer I met this guy (we’ll call him Alex) on a dating app and we instantly hit it off. He took me on fancy dates and was super sweet to me, we hung out at least a dozen times within a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A guy (23M) ended things with me (23F) a few months ago because he thought he could “do better,” but now we’re dating again? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18l3lvk/a_guy_23m_ended_things_with_me_23f_a_few_months/ |
Koolor | 2023-06-05 01:46:55 | 1,685,929,615 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 140y6o8 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/140y6o8/to_younger_guys_who_like_althipsteredgy_girls/ | 0 | I am probably going to be flamed but just know I mean this with all the best intent. I am now 30, when I was 15 it was 15 years ago. That thought really made me reflect. Indeed my fellows it's speeding up each year, your parents are not lying. I look back and think if I could share something for my younger dating self ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | To younger guys who like "alt,hipster,edgy" girls | 0 | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/140y6o8/to_younger_guys_who_like_althipsteredgy_girls/ |
Successful_Rabbit489 | 2021-02-17 01:57:43 | 1,613,527,063 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | lljbnp | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lljbnp/is_it_wrong_to_suppress_part_of_myself_while_im/ | 1 | I (18M, and in hs) have been talking to a girl (18F, about a month older and in college) who I met on Bumble. We’re both brainy types and a bit introverted. We’ve planned an artsy coffee date as our first meet up since we’re both into that kind of thing, and over the last week we’ve had little burst of conversation and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it wrong to suppress part of myself while I’m trying to go out with a girl? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lljbnp/is_it_wrong_to_suppress_part_of_myself_while_im/ |
WindowFuzz | 2023-04-28 12:06:40 | 1,682,683,600 | 0 | ['OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | 131psrl | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/131psrl/what_do_you_do_with_your_old_app_accounts_once/ | 2 | The OLD app system is quite confusing. It seems like there are five levels of disengaging: (I pulled some of this from an article on Lifewire titled "How to Delete Tinder") 1. Hide/pause our profile 2. Stop our monthly paid subscription (unsuscribe on iPhones) 3. Hide/remove the app from the home screen on our smartpho... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | What do you do with your OLD app accounts once you enter into an exclusive relationship? | 2 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/131psrl/what_do_you_do_with_your_old_app_accounts_once/ |
wonderingwoman6 | 2022-01-13 03:24:00 | 1,642,044,240 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | s2p60h | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s2p60h/cant_read_the_guy_im_dating/ | 5 | Hey Reddit friends I’m having difficulty reading the guy I’m dating. He first messaged me on a dating app, and I replied a week later after resuming. He was much more serious over text, so I was pleasantly surprised when he was the opposite in person. I didn’t expect for us to click so well, getting every joke and maki... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can’t read the guy I’m dating | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s2p60h/cant_read_the_guy_im_dating/ |
a12non34y56mo78us | 2022-09-25 01:04:17 | 1,664,067,857 | null | null | 0 | xn9e91 | true | null | 86 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/xn9e91/does_anyone_else_feel_like_youre_a_personal/ | 58 | I am sure that personal trainers have many people who come into their gym and say they want to get into shape. They stick with it for a month, and then go back into their old patterns. People say they want to get healthy, but are not willing to put in the effort, to actually get stronger and drop body fat. Do any other... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Does anyone else feel like you're a personal trainer? | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/xn9e91/does_anyone_else_feel_like_youre_a_personal/ |
Kainispain | 2021-06-22 22:02:07 | 1,624,399,327 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | o5yhh6 | true | Question | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o5yhh6/going_exclusive_after_two_long_dates/ | 8 | After I (22m) met this girl (21f) on tinder, we have gone on two date one was 11 hrs and the last one was 13 hrs. We were out downtown both days, doing stuff, and just clicked. I asked her on the second date if she wanted to go steady and she said yes. I am just worried I rushed the question. Any advice would be great. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Going exclusive after two long dates? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o5yhh6/going_exclusive_after_two_long_dates/ |
Rogue_23 | 2018-10-21 20:13:39 | 1,540,152,819 | null | ['matched', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 9q6qmf | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9q6qmf/we_setup_a_date_but_she_stopped_messaging_me/ | 1 | So I matched with this girl on OkCupid and we seem to have hit it off. I asked her out for some coffee, and she agreed, but she said she was busy at the moment traveling for work, but that we will meet soon. After that, she stopped messaging me even though it says she was online all day the next day. Do girls feel obli... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | We set-up a date, but she stopped messaging me | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9q6qmf/we_setup_a_date_but_she_stopped_messaging_me/ |
chickenbuttarentsexy | 2016-01-12 07:50:50 | 1,452,585,050 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 40lkac | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/40lkac/m23_where_do_i_meet_girls/ | 1 | I really need to get back into the dating game, but I have no clue where to start. Where do people my age like hanging out? Bars? I'd prefer not to do online dating. I'm more interested in meeting people in person. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [M23] Where do I meet girls? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/40lkac/m23_where_do_i_meet_girls/ |
dylangerescapeplan_ | 2023-10-17 06:08:53 | 1,697,522,933 | 0 | null | 0 | 179rn96 | true | null | 96 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/179rn96/women_on_dating_apps_who_want_to_know_what_the/ | 1 | Are you looking to date or are you looking for a gay best friend??? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Women on dating apps who want to know what the guys favorite Taylor Swift song is | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/179rn96/women_on_dating_apps_who_want_to_know_what_the/ |
whizzter | 2022-08-12 19:10:16 | 1,660,331,416 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | wmtbcd | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/wmtbcd/m41_wondering_how_to_better_flirtcharmmarket/ | 12 | Feels strange to ask this at my age but I think this is the only part that I’m bad at but not really able to pin down why. To get a context, earlier I thought that I was shy but realized that I had no problem speaking to a couple of hundred people or working as a teacher for adults. I don’t usually have a problem speak... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | (M41) wondering how to better flirt/charm/market myself | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/wmtbcd/m41_wondering_how_to_better_flirtcharmmarket/ |
MwahMwahKitteh | 2022-07-29 01:13:38 | 1,659,057,218 | null | null | 0 | war39q | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/war39q/gender_preferences_how_will_that_even_work/ | 8 | I noticed that on OKCupid, they have at least ten different genders... More genders than you can shake a stick at or I know what the heck they are... But I know what I'm attracted to, so if I did happen to put "Cis Man", how exactly is that going to work when probably 99% of cis men on there have just "man" as their ge... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Gender preferences... How will that even work? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/war39q/gender_preferences_how_will_that_even_work/ |
LittleFruityG | 2024-04-28 16:36:57 | 1,714,322,217 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1cfaml7 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cfaml7/not_feeling_attracted_to_anyone/ | 1 | I’m 22F, straight, and have been dating around for a year after breaking up a 6 year relationship. I moved on from my ex soon after the breakup so that’s not the issue. I just can’t find any men I’m truly attracted to. They can be 6’5 with a godly figure, all dripped out in ice and yeah they’ll initially catch my atten... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Not feeling attracted to anyone.. | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cfaml7/not_feeling_attracted_to_anyone/ |
throaway742 | 2018-04-23 11:50:21 | 1,524,484,221 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8eauln | false | null | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8eauln/well_i_36m_got_a_girlfriend_34f/ | 287 | Been talking to a girl for a month now. This last weekend was the second weekend I've spent with her. I've a few overnights also with her. We text and Snapchat constantly. We have talked exclusivity or anything but it has been implied by both of us that we were not selling anyone else. Friday night I overheard a little... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Well, I (36m) got a girlfriend (34f)..... | 287 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8eauln/well_i_36m_got_a_girlfriend_34f/ |
AZNightwriter | 2019-05-10 14:40:46 | 1,557,499,246 | null | null | 0 | bmz3ly | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/bmz3ly/american_greed_online_dating/ | 1 | Season 12, Episode 14 profiles a guy named Daylon Pierce who swindled hundreds of thousands from women in the Phoenix area (coincidentally while I lived there) and blew it all gambling, partying and living it up. It got me thinking about how I feel. Honestly I am not sure. On the one hand... These women were victims. N... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | American Greed Online Dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/bmz3ly/american_greed_online_dating/ |
shabbatshalom44 | 2021-04-22 03:22:21 | 1,619,061,741 | null | ['online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | mvw909 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mvw909/is_ok_cupid_legit/ | 1 | I’ve been on for like a week and I’m not gonna lie, it seems dead. I’ve messaged with two people, one of whom messaged back once. Maybe it’s just been so long that I forget what it’s like. I just got out of the longest relationship in my life maybe a year ago. I’m 32M heterosexual. Any tips for online dating? I don’t h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is OK Cupid legit? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mvw909/is_ok_cupid_legit/ |
TheCoolMomofDom | 2023-03-14 17:42:45 | 1,678,815,765 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 11rcwxt | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11rcwxt/to_end_or_not_to_end_this_situationship/ | 2 | I'm kinda at a loss here, so I figured I'd get some outside prospective. I (30F) having been seeing this guy (38M) for about 3 1/2 months now. We met on hinge, and instantly hit it off when we met. The chemistry is insane, both sexually and emotionally/mentally, and I feel like I've known him my whole life. We always j... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | To end or not to end this situationship | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11rcwxt/to_end_or_not_to_end_this_situationship/ |
Damampapoo | 2022-09-02 19:55:27 | 1,662,148,527 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | x4au6s | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x4au6s/is_it_okay_to_not_have_pictures_with_glasses_on/ | 2 | I don’t like my pictures in glasses and absolutely don’t have any pictures in glasses. I am kinda able to also sustain the day without glasses, but I do have to wear them if I want efficiency and no damage to eyes. But now, I don’t wear lenses. So I basically have images without glasses but I wear glasses, I would be s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it okay to not have pictures with glasses on dating apps, if you actually have them? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x4au6s/is_it_okay_to_not_have_pictures_with_glasses_on/ |
CaliforniaWyatt_22 | 2024-05-31 10:06:51 | 1,717,150,011 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 1d4s31w | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 22 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d4s31w/what_do_women_look_for_in_a_guy_on_a_dating_app/ | 1 | When you're looking for a romantic long term relationship, what are some turn-ons and turn-offs when you see a guy's profile. I've been casually on dating sites and apps for several years now. And have barely caught a nibble of the ocean of great women out there. And I rarely get a match, or if I do, I don't get a resp... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What do women look for in a guy on a dating app? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d4s31w/what_do_women_look_for_in_a_guy_on_a_dating_app/ |
redsavage0 | 2013-09-21 21:55:18 | 1,379,800,518 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1mv01k | null | null | 20 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1mv01k/online_date_doesnt_look_like_her_picture/ | 14 | So over the last couple days I've been chatting with this girl on Okcupid. We hit it off and we decide to add one another on facebook after we agreed to meet up. Problem is now that I see more candid photos of herself and her profile pictures were not an accurate representation of her at all. Call me shallow or whateve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online Date doesn't look like her picture. | 14 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1mv01k/online_date_doesnt_look_like_her_picture/ |
upyoars | 2016-06-07 01:10:30 | 1,465,261,830 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 4mwglx | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4mwglx/to_all_online_dating_beta_men_and_losers_the_truth/ | 0 | Fuck online dating. It doesn't work if you're not white or good looking. The hot women you're trying to get with are already fucking other way better looking tall white dudes. I've been cucked before by too many online dating whorez. Your best bet is to go to malls and bookstore and pick up women there. Start out frien... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | To all online dating beta men and losers. The Truth. | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4mwglx/to_all_online_dating_beta_men_and_losers_the_truth/ |
Ok_Valuable_1212 | 2022-08-21 12:53:57 | 1,661,086,437 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | wtyxhd | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wtyxhd/ignored_after_asking_what_are_we/ | 3 | Hi, I'm a 27(F) and I met a 28(M) off Bumble. Okay, I'll try to make this as short as possible. I started talking to him early June - after only 3 days of talking on Bumble, he asked for my number and we started talking on WhatsApp. The thing with this guy that is super different than other guys is that he goes to coun... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ignored after asking "what are we" | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wtyxhd/ignored_after_asking_what_are_we/ |
UserSunsOutMumsOut | 2024-08-24 16:05:15 | 1,724,515,515 | 0 | ['matches', 'swiped'] | 0 | 1f08t58 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f08t58/im_convinced_being_bald_is_getting_me_no_where/ | 1 | So I’m 29M and let me tell u when I literally mean no matches on all the apps I mean NO matches, NO likes NO NOTHING, this is having a huge impact on my confidence I feel so crap and so low, I’m convinced it’s because I’m bald and 5”9, like do women in their 20s really get grossed out by bald men? I feel so crap I’m te... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m convinced being bald is getting me no where | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f08t58/im_convinced_being_bald_is_getting_me_no_where/ |
Sunfire_fire | 2023-08-02 12:59:19 | 1,690,981,159 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15g8aet | false | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15g8aet/dating_apps_are_hard/ | 1 | I don't know if this is the right place, but I am trying out dating apps. I don't really get too many hits and the people that I talk say a little bit to me and do not talk to me again. How long do you usually wait until you delete an apo because it is not working? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps are hard. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15g8aet/dating_apps_are_hard/ |
glenngalea | 2018-08-11 19:29:05 | 1,534,015,745 | null | ['matches', 'pof'] | 0 | 96j5ur | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/96j5ur/is_pof_full_of_bots/ | 1 | I sarted using POF a month ago in the UK and 75% of my matches are bots Ot goes by a name followed by a 4 digit number, and they are all in need of real man😂 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is POF full of bots? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/96j5ur/is_pof_full_of_bots/ |
UnableRain | 2023-12-21 01:33:44 | 1,703,122,424 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18nb0iq | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18nb0iq/developing_insecurity_about_my_appearance/ | 1 | I (24M) personally have not been super insecure about my looks for most of my life. I went from "damn I'm good looking" overconfident to "yeah I look good, I'm happy with it" over the years. However recently, my experience on dating apps and 'the scene' in general is really making me question my attractiveness and I ab... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Developing insecurity about my appearance | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18nb0iq/developing_insecurity_about_my_appearance/ |
OBITO125 | 2021-12-12 20:12:55 | 1,639,339,975 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | rex780 | true | Support Needed | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rex780/got_a_date_but_her_replies_are_so_slow/ | 3 | Hey so long story short, i found this girl on a dating site and talked for awhile. She asked me when I’m free and I did the same and we decided to go out this coming Friday. However her reply times are soo bad. Sometimes she takes 16hours to get back to me. Her replies however aren’t dry and have substance. She asks me... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Got a date but her replies are so slow? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rex780/got_a_date_but_her_replies_are_so_slow/ |
candicewilson1990 | 2017-08-06 18:27:50 | 1,502,044,070 | null | ['dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6s003b | false | null | 28 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6s003b/i_28f_was_wondering_whether_i_have_been_in_the/ | 7 | Have been dating on and off for almost 7 years now. I'm reasonably intelligent, went to Harvard, have a good job, very petite and girl next door. Definitely not hot but i dress up nicely, do makeup etc. People say that I'm chic. I am not American and just came here for college and then work. I was on dating sites for 3... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (28F) was wondering whether I have been in the wrong dating pool and wasted all these years... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6s003b/i_28f_was_wondering_whether_i_have_been_in_the/ |
Significant_Cricket | 2018-11-26 20:21:10 | 1,543,263,670 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | a0n3gl | true | null | 692 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a0n3gl/i_27f_worry_ive_reached_that_age_of_dating/ | 1,736 | I don't know if "that age" is a real thing, hence the post; I feel like it's this magical age where the opposite sex starts giving you the suspicious eyeball like "Oh she's single.....but why is she single? Is she secretly addicted to snorting cocaine off roaches' asses? Six kids from eight men? Better safe than sorry.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [27F] worry I've reached "that age" of dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a0n3gl/i_27f_worry_ive_reached_that_age_of_dating/ |
[deleted] | 2014-12-30 10:13:36 | 1,419,934,416 | 0 | ['pof', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 2qsym0 | null | null | 8 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2qsym0/is_it_cheating_when_a_guy_talks_to_multiple_women/ | 0 | I have been in a off and on relationship with guy who does this. He started this behavior when we were on a FWB break. We aren't in a established relationship and so it makes it confusing for me. He gets all weird and worried that I would cheat on him when I mention my friends who are guys that i have known since I was... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Is it Cheating When A guy talks to Multiple Women While Dating Another Women? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2qsym0/is_it_cheating_when_a_guy_talks_to_multiple_women/ |
pinkflamingo0102 | 2021-07-11 04:25:08 | 1,625,977,508 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ohxqrp | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ohxqrp/how_to_differentiate_between_gut_instinct_and/ | 3 | I met this guy on a dating app. We texted a week before first date. Something seemed off about his texts. He wasn't like other guys. He texted constantly (which other guys didn't do so early on). By constantly I mean: he'd text me during the workday asking "what are you doing" and if I didn't reply in 5 minutes would s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to differentiate between gut instinct and being too picky? | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ohxqrp/how_to_differentiate_between_gut_instinct_and/ |
galacticposhuty | 2024-08-19 23:22:20 | 1,724,109,740 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1ewgexv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ewgexv/im_having_touble_talking_to_girls_again/ | 1 | Hi im a 21-year-old (M).This might be a bit off topic for this subreddit but i dont really know where to post it. So to start off we need to go back. I was a funny and "normal" kid until I was 13 when a close female friend rejected me (she was into other guy) which left me traumatized. I became extremely insecure aroun... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Im having touble talking to girls… again :( | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ewgexv/im_having_touble_talking_to_girls_again/ |
MrUnknown1996 | 2021-01-29 18:46:26 | 1,611,945,986 | null | null | 0 | l80j3r | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/l80j3r/facebook_dating/ | 1 | Has anyone here actually used the dating feature on Facebook? If so have you had any luck with it? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Facebook dating | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/l80j3r/facebook_dating/ |
nherrbold | 2019-02-08 00:19:46 | 1,549,585,186 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | aoamoh | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/aoamoh/how_to_date_with_hardly_any_past_experience/ | 1 | I'm a 19 year old guy at college. I have never had any sort of romantic relationship with any girl. I have very limited time outside of class/classwork. I also hardly talk in class so not really anyone knows me at all from class. I've tried online dating on tinder but only ever got two dates that never went anywhere. T... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to date with hardly any past experience? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aoamoh/how_to_date_with_hardly_any_past_experience/ |
Legitimate-Ad8822 | 2024-02-01 08:41:31 | 1,706,776,891 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1ag6hob | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ag6hob/are_there_women_out_there/ | 1 | (Title inspired by a post I've seen yesterday) What became of a cordial relationship? We all want something real, honest, loyal, and unconditional. As of 2024, I have officially quit the dating apps after being on and off for 3 years it's quite funny I've paid twice for Hinge and once for Bumble and I feel defeated wit... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are there women out there? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ag6hob/are_there_women_out_there/ |
Forsaken-Alternative | 2024-03-09 00:28:23 | 1,709,944,103 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ba45il | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ba45il/stereotypes_of_mens_profiles_on_facebook_dating/ | 1 | Has kids Blue collar worker Diesel mechanic Construction worker Electrician Plumber Trucker Ginger with beard Tattoos Piercings Dad bod 420 friendly Hunts deer and catches fish Only looking to hookup Country music lover Motorcycles and guns Boat and ski jets Dogs and cats for days Dry conversations and one worded or ab... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Stereotypes of men's profiles on Facebook dating (some are my pet peeves) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ba45il/stereotypes_of_mens_profiles_on_facebook_dating/ |
HeavyFishing925 | 2023-05-10 02:46:54 | 1,683,686,814 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 13de6hb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13de6hb/wanting_to_run_back/ | 0 | 4 month relationship over and it’s the longest I (24M) ever had. Went on 3 dates with this girl. She told me things about her past and personality which had me believing she wasn’t very touchy and needed space. I read her wrong and failed the third date by not getting closer with her. I failed harder when I opened up a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Wanting to run back | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13de6hb/wanting_to_run_back/ |
Ok-Acanthaceae9896 | 2024-03-22 00:09:04 | 1,711,066,144 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1bklsz0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bklsz0/hinge_match_is_crazy/ | 5 | I recently matched with a Venezuelan immigrant who lives in Denver, and she's very attractive, so i asked her out on a dinner date. She invites me to video chat with her that night but she doesn't speak any English, so we just text instead. The following day (after only 2 hours of sleep) she gets mad at me for not text... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hinge Match is Crazy | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bklsz0/hinge_match_is_crazy/ |
07budgj | 2018-07-19 11:08:44 | 1,531,998,524 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 904wq7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/904wq7/topics_to_keep_the_conversation_flowing/ | 1 | (M22) talking to (F18) from france. We started talking a few days back via tinder (switched to fb after a few messages) and did a video call last night as both of us are new to online dating etc. We've had some great conversations over mutual interests (skiing, sports, traveling, world cup, family, pets etc) however so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Topics to keep the conversation flowing? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/904wq7/topics_to_keep_the_conversation_flowing/ |
IntelligentVariety64 | 2021-11-08 04:49:08 | 1,636,346,948 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | qp6apy | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qp6apy/ghosted_after_planning_dates_on_dating_apps/ | 2 | I'm a newly single dad trying dating apps for the first time, I'm in my late 20s. Haven't been in the game since high school so I'm kinda clueless. I'm out of shape but am quickly improving myself, lost 20 pounds since seperation. Ive gotten a few matches which really gave me a confidence boost, but my chats have gone ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ghosted after planning dates on dating apps | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qp6apy/ghosted_after_planning_dates_on_dating_apps/ |
gg371 | 2019-04-24 15:42:52 | 1,556,120,572 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bgw5kj | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bgw5kj/im_being_iced_want_to_unfrost_it/ | 2 | I’m being iced by a girl (https://poly.land/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/relationship-accountability-spectrum.png). We met via Tinder almost a year ago. I’ve seen her only once in that time, which we both agreed was a great date. After that she had a ton of school work which I totally understand. Yet the past 8 months sh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm being iced and want to unfrost it ;) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bgw5kj/im_being_iced_want_to_unfrost_it/ |
120GB | 2015-10-28 04:47:24 | 1,446,007,644 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 3qirvd | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3qirvd/how_do_i_respond_to_this_okcupid/ | 0 | I'm new to this shit, i desperately need help on how to respond to messages like this. I've never dated anyone in my life. http://imgur.com/gallery/rGbpSg8/new | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do i respond to this?? -OkCupid | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3qirvd/how_do_i_respond_to_this_okcupid/ |
lionrockspirit | 2019-07-09 05:45:24 | 1,562,651,124 | null | ['swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | cawoji | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cawoji/tinder_reboots_the_unmatched_profiles_back_into/ | 9 | i noticed something weird last night, my "people that already liked you" has been stuck at around 10+ for 3 months, then suddenly last night it dropped to 3+. my deck had been sparse for weeks, then this morning when I swiped, there's tons of women in the deck. there's no way they all suddenly logged in this morning at... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | tinder reboots the unmatched profiles back into the deck after 3 to 4 months? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cawoji/tinder_reboots_the_unmatched_profiles_back_into/ |
trakun8 | 2021-02-03 06:56:18 | 1,612,335,378 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | lbhuv9 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lbhuv9/my_date_is_depressed_and_every_time_i_see_him_he/ | 1 | I have been seeing someone for the past 3 months. Everything was good up until about a month and a half when he started to tell me about his depression and how his depression was caused because of his breakup with his ex-girlfriend. Honestly, I don’t think he was ever over her to begin with even though they broke up 3 ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My date is depressed and every time I see him he wants to die. I’m not sure anymore. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lbhuv9/my_date_is_depressed_and_every_time_i_see_him_he/ |
DueMacaron7789 | 2021-10-16 01:25:33 | 1,634,347,533 | null | null | 0 | q920qu | true | null | 78 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/q920qu/whats_up_with_all_the_undercover_gay_guys/ | 0 | It seems like i either meet men who just want sex online (but claim that they want a relationship) or guys that give me gay vibes. Please tell me if I am reading too much into these signs which make me thing a guy is gay. I hope it at least gives some of you a laugh First guy I went out with was a wealth management inv... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What’s up with all the undercover gay guys | null | 0.16 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/q920qu/whats_up_with_all_the_undercover_gay_guys/ |
Hippowdon8 | 2021-07-30 20:02:21 | 1,627,675,341 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ousrni | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ousrni/how_do_i_start_meeting_someone_as_a_socially/ | 3 | What can you do to start dating? How can you meet someone with the same interest as you? I would say that I'm socially awkward , walking up to someone is a no go. I'm also not good looking so I'd have to do with my personality but here's when the socially awkward part comes in, i can be a funny guy but that's only when... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do i start meeting someone as a socially awkward person? | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ousrni/how_do_i_start_meeting_someone_as_a_socially/ |
AlecCorbett | 2017-12-14 10:00:47 | 1,513,245,647 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 7jqo70 | false | null | 47 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7jqo70/why_is_it_so_hard_to_find_a_girl_that_likes_gba/ | 14 | As in Game Boy Advance. As in the nintendo's 4th update to the gameboy. Super serious. This is impossible. I just want a girl that will play pokemon ruby, ready 2 rumble boxing, and/or loves the 2d fire emblems. We can work together to find e reader cards on ebay or track down japanese reproduction carts. I literally s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is it so hard to find a girl that likes GBA | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7jqo70/why_is_it_so_hard_to_find_a_girl_that_likes_gba/ |
Dubber70 | 2016-03-15 17:28:52 | 1,458,062,932 | 0 | ['pof'] | 0 | 4ajgkd | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating/comments/4ajgkd/advice_after_3rd_date/ | 2 | Hey everyone, just want some more advice/ some to speak to about it. So I met this girl 24 same age as me on pof, we have been chatting since end of January and have been on 3 dates in 6 weeks, text chat has been pretty slow/tame but the dates have been amazing. Our 3rd date we spent 6hours together on a night out, dri... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice after 3rd date | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4ajgkd/advice_after_3rd_date/ |
1thedude12 | 2019-04-09 04:47:00 | 1,554,785,220 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bb3s7s | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bb3s7s/how_ask_for_hookup/ | 0 | I have been snapping my tinder match for a while and it seems like she is quite into me. How do I proceed to ask her out for an hookup. I want to see how things go before fully commiting to an realtionship. Any insights would be great. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How ask for Hookup | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bb3s7s/how_ask_for_hookup/ |
KittyConfetti | 2021-05-09 19:37:51 | 1,620,589,071 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | n8lpeu | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/n8lpeu/so_much_effort_just_to_ultimately_stop_responding/ | 8 | I (34f) matched with a guy (I think same age M) on tinder a bit ago, maybe a few weeks. The talk was mildly good, nothing spectacular but not boring enough to write him off. There were a couple moments his personality seemed to come through better so I chalked it up to him being reserved or not coming off well over tex... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | So much effort just to ultimately stop responding | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/n8lpeu/so_much_effort_just_to_ultimately_stop_responding/ |
Pleasant-Meet7849 | 2022-12-04 20:46:30 | 1,670,186,790 | null | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | zcl44c | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zcl44c/why_do_guys_ask_for_your_number_and_not_follow_up/ | 0 | I (30F) matched with a guy using OLD and we tried to set up a time for a first date. He had to cancel the day of because of work but asked for my number and apologized. He said he might be free on Sunday but never responded to me since Friday. Why not just say you’re not interested? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do guys ask for your number and not follow up? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zcl44c/why_do_guys_ask_for_your_number_and_not_follow_up/ |
jennifo14 | 2013-01-10 19:45:19 | 1,357,847,119 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 16bx73 | null | null | 41 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/16bx73/fwb_situation_is_totally_one_sided_and_i_need_help/ | 0 | Let me know if this is the wrong subreddit(seems like a good place though). Anyways, I've(22F) known this guy(23) for just around two years. We met on an online dating site and have remained friends ever since. But here is the thing. We have incredible chemistry and we work really well together but whenever we get clos... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | FWB situation is totally one sided and I need help! | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/16bx73/fwb_situation_is_totally_one_sided_and_i_need_help/ |
ChangeDating | 2023-10-17 01:16:47 | 1,697,505,407 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 179mcjh | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/179mcjh/hello_all_my_names_max_i_am_28_and_my_friends_and/ | 1 | Hello all My name is Max, I am 28 and my friends and I created our own dating app "Change - the dating app". TDLR: I created a dating app that is free, not selling data, and for meaningful connections. check it out here Intro Anyways, a couple of years ago I downloaded Tinder and other dating apps and realized how supe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hello all My names Max, I am 28 and my friends and I created our own dating app "Change - the dating app". It's Free and we wont sell data. Check it out and FEEDBACK is appreciated | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/179mcjh/hello_all_my_names_max_i_am_28_and_my_friends_and/ |
123marsh | 2022-10-11 18:05:46 | 1,665,511,546 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | y1fw6d | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/y1fw6d/i_dont_think_hes_interested_but_he_still/ | 1 | Hi! I (26 F) went on a dating app and matched with someone. I'm an introvert and have never dated before, so this was very new to me. He (27 M) messaged me first and we started talking. The conversations we had were, to be honest very dry, it felt like I was the one trying to engage more. For example, I would ask quest... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't think he's interested but he still entertains my texts, is he just being polite? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y1fw6d/i_dont_think_hes_interested_but_he_still/ |
Elegante0196 | 2024-05-05 14:45:43 | 1,714,920,343 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1cksv8f | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cksv8f/my_hinge_date_gave_me_the_key_to_his_new_apartment/ | 1 | I’ve been talking to this guy for the past month and a half now. He’s super sweet, & we have so much in common. He recently got an apartment in my city (in which he planned to move here before he even met me). We’ve only hung out 3 times, and spent the night two times after that in his new place. He won’t be back in to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My hinge date gave me the key to his new apartment | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cksv8f/my_hinge_date_gave_me_the_key_to_his_new_apartment/ |
ReichRob | 2022-06-04 12:58:24 | 1,654,347,504 | null | null | 0 | v4ocrx | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/v4ocrx/heres_to_the_swiping_left_or_right_people/ | 19 | As I read many online dating experiences, mostly bad ones, I feel identified with so many of them, so many that I have thought of even writing a book about them, now more than ever, as I finally found my one and only, just when I had given up and decided I would only make acquaintances to chat with. After dating him fo... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Here's to the swiping left or right people | null | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/v4ocrx/heres_to_the_swiping_left_or_right_people/ |
lightechone | 2024-08-25 09:03:49 | 1,724,576,629 | 0 | ['swiping', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1f0s5av | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f0s5av/how_to_define_what_i_am_looking_for/ | 1 | Hi all I (30M) plan to start dating and would be thankful to receive some advice. In my 20s I was overweight, stressed and didn't care about dating. It was a hard journey, but now I feel like I built up myself. Lost weight, got a career & savings, better mental health, my own home etc. You know the drill... Time to dat... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to define what I am looking for? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f0s5av/how_to_define_what_i_am_looking_for/ |
heydeanna43 | 2023-12-02 18:13:13 | 1,701,540,793 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1899ihx | true | null | 88 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1899ihx/are_you_completely_lost/ | 53 | Hear me out, I F53, divorced now 6 years ago and separated 8 years ago, find myself totally lost in space. The kids have left home, friends are no longer around, moved away, distanced, married, whatever. I meet a ton of women I hang out with but zero men. My daily routine is work, cook, chores, walk, hike, gym, play pi... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Are you completely lost? | 53 | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1899ihx/are_you_completely_lost/ |
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