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VirtualCapital2838 | 2022-10-23 16:03:27 | 1,666,541,007 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | yblfwe | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 33 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/yblfwe/are_my_standards_too_high_25m_never_been_in_a/ | 19 | About me: Currently in law school and I work part time at Starbucks. I workout and have the build of a soccer player and I do charity work on the side. Im also 5’6 which doesn’t really bother me. My primary way of meeting girls is through OLD and while I do get my fair share of matches, I’ve only gotten one date out of... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are my standards too high? 25M Never been in a relationship | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yblfwe/are_my_standards_too_high_25m_never_been_in_a/ |
Slow_Frosting_9227 | 2024-05-11 14:00:28 | 1,715,436,028 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1cpi56l | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cpi56l/stuck_in_a_relationship_and_i_dont_know_what_to_do/ | 1 | Hi r/dating_advice I (26M) need an advice on how to manage my relationship. Communication doesn't work as I thought because every time I try to express my needs it gets in a spiral where it ends in me saying sorry. I'm in a relationship with a girl (22F) which I met on Tinder. We got in a relationship a little bit to f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stuck in a relationship and I don't know what to do | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cpi56l/stuck_in_a_relationship_and_i_dont_know_what_to_do/ |
Sea-Artist1154 | 2024-01-22 05:01:31 | 1,705,899,691 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 19cntgw | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19cntgw/how_to_vet_a_match_on_hinge_when_hinge_has/ | 1 | Pretty much what the title says. My match requested in-person date and I told him I would like to have a video call first. But then I noticed Hinge doesn't have that feature anymore. Due to safety reasons, I don't want to take this off Hinge either because we have only been chatting for a few days. So, I am not comfort... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to vet a match on Hinge when Hinge has removed video call feature? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19cntgw/how_to_vet_a_match_on_hinge_when_hinge_has/ |
bomb_atomically | 2020-02-11 04:20:22 | 1,581,394,822 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | f22zoz | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/f22zoz/i_did_it_dot_i_erased_all_the_dating_apps_on_my/ | 65 | TLDR: Met a girl who made me rethink about life and the direction I was going in. Thanks to her and this sub, I realized the world will not wait for me or feel sorry for me, and I have to work on myself first before I can take the next step. I (M29) went out with a girl (F24), let’s call her Samantha, and it was one o... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I did it DOT I erased all the dating apps on my phone | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/f22zoz/i_did_it_dot_i_erased_all_the_dating_apps_on_my/ |
DriedPilot | 2017-05-23 03:55:26 | 1,495,511,726 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6csbtc | null | null | 16 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6csbtc/tinder_date_need_advice/ | 4 | So I matched with this girl on tinder [F,19] and she asked me [M,21] out for drinks, but I am worried about her appearance. I sound shallow, but I realize that if she isn't my type, I don't want to waste her time and mine on a date if she is a little too curvy for me. Her pictures are always close up of the face and I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder Date - Need Advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6csbtc/tinder_date_need_advice/ |
OneRepulsive3756 | 2024-05-24 01:21:00 | 1,716,513,660 | 0 | ['dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1cz93c8 | true | Question ❓ | 31 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cz93c8/what_to_use/ | 2 | I’m 30 years and feel pretty accomplished…great paying job, have a house, a dog, emotionally stable, financially independent. There isn’t much I need at this point. After talking to my therapist I told him I’m happy but feel like I’m missing on some joy. We determined I’m missing someone else in my life. I agree with h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What to use | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cz93c8/what_to_use/ |
Thesurveyoer | 2019-05-19 01:53:51 | 1,558,230,831 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | bqbmrc | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bqbmrc/do_people_even_go_on_dates_anymore/ | 3 | I \[19m\] am getting so frustrated with 'modern dating'. I don't know if there is something wrong with me or what, but I haven't been able to get a date in over a year(since getting out of High School). I feel like I know how to talk to girls and flirt, I actively use Tinder, and I have confidence and self respect, but... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do people even go on dates anymore?! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bqbmrc/do_people_even_go_on_dates_anymore/ |
zevb3k | 2018-07-22 20:41:42 | 1,532,292,102 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 910v0h | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/910v0h/mixed_signals_how_should_i_approach_it/ | 1 | I met this fellow on tinder. (Only my second tinder date and dont think I'll be using that site again) BUT I am into this last guy I met from there. We have many common interests that are not so common. We are both 28 and we are both parents to a little one. His 2, mine 4. Both boys. Apologies if this seems long, I'll ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Mixed signals, how should I approach it? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/910v0h/mixed_signals_how_should_i_approach_it/ |
Jolly-Rub-3412 | 2023-09-08 20:58:02 | 1,694,206,682 | 0 | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 16dlzyz | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16dlzyz/help_me_analyze_what_went_wrong_or_just_listen_to/ | 1 | I don’t have a lot of friends or close confidants so thought I’ll share here. Met this guy (24) on a dating app (Tinder) in March. We instantly clicked and started going on dates twice-thrice a week. We officially started dating in June. We did all the"couply" things including meeting each other's friends, meeting his ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help me analyze what went wrong? Or just listen to my rant. I am beyond confused. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16dlzyz/help_me_analyze_what_went_wrong_or_just_listen_to/ |
cholerexsammy | 2024-07-13 06:15:45 | 1,720,851,345 | 0 | null | 0 | 1e23gcs | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1e23gcs/advice_please_brains_trust/ | 4 | I met a boy through an app - messaged, spoke on the phone and had two dates. He is the nicest chap, puts in effort for the dates - which I’ve never had before, easy to talk too and we have so much in common but I feel absolutely nothing - nada, zip nothing - how do I let him know without hurting his feelings that nothi... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Advice please brains trust | 4 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1e23gcs/advice_please_brains_trust/ |
Bluemugredmug | 2023-11-05 00:34:55 | 1,699,144,495 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 17o0017 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17o0017/should_i_tell_him_not_to_come/ | 1 | Hey gang, 32F, matched with a 32M while I was in Paris recently. Incredibly, impossibly, we hit it off immediately and fell into what felt a bit like love - in fact, he told me he was very into me which was a big deal for him, has had limited female partners etc. Two days later I had to travel to Spain and we decided h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I tell him not to come? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17o0017/should_i_tell_him_not_to_come/ |
Already_Deleted_Once | 2016-02-28 04:34:06 | 1,456,634,046 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 4806ll | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4806ll/when_to_start_casually_kissing/ | 3 | I [21M] just started seeing this girl I met on Tinder whose the same age. Our first date was great, good, long conversation and I gave her a peck on the cheek at the end but that was it. Our second date was last night and we went to see a show at a local bar. At the end of the date we kissed, it was great and we both d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When to start casually kissing? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4806ll/when_to_start_casually_kissing/ |
luddface | 2023-07-19 09:19:28 | 1,689,758,368 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 153pw4m | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/153pw4m/hi_i_am_a_man_who_has_been_lurking_this_sub_for/ | 1 | So, my questions are: 1. I have the last couple of years only seem to have found emotionally unavailable women. Every time I meet someone I get emotionally invested with, I always get the excuse that they are not ready for a relationship right now, or something of the sort. I am very open in my emotional communication,... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Hi! I am a man who has been lurking this sub for quite some time. This sub is one of the reasons I have become a feminist and changed my view on women (which growing up was problematic). I now have two questions for women here about dating. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/153pw4m/hi_i_am_a_man_who_has_been_lurking_this_sub_for/ |
HotCatLady88 | 2023-03-10 13:35:00 | 1,678,455,300 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 11npdob | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11npdob/catfish_or_not/ | 1 | Matched with a guy on tinder and have been texting for over a week now. No efforts to meet in person yet and every time I suggest to meet he is cagey. Today I texted him if he has plans Saturday and if he is free we should meet. He goes about how he will be going to Turkey to help rebuild with his friends…..??ok cool b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Catfish or not? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11npdob/catfish_or_not/ |
throwawaymoleee | 2019-07-18 19:31:28 | 1,563,478,288 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | cex1zi | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cex1zi/girl_just_stopped_messaging_and_its_eating_my_soul/ | 1 | So I matched with this girl on tinder 5 days ago and we really hit it off from the beginning. When the tinder conversation started we talked for like 2 hours straight with one message every 5 seconds. The next day we talked on snap as well for 2 hours straight without pause, 1 snap every 10 seconds. She is really aweso... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl just stopped messaging and its eating my soul | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cex1zi/girl_just_stopped_messaging_and_its_eating_my_soul/ |
DABIGGESTBOSS4623 | 2019-07-11 17:36:13 | 1,562,866,573 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | cbylgo | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cbylgo/worried_im_annoying/ | 2 | I(20m) matched with thos woman on tinder and we have mostly just been texting. I asked her out for this weekend, but she said she'd need to see as her father's birthday is coming up and she wants to see if they're doing anything. So we have mostly been texting and I usually text back immediately if I can, but I feel li... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Worried I'm annoying | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cbylgo/worried_im_annoying/ |
thedude88889 | 2016-10-12 00:41:43 | 1,476,232,903 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 571fls | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/571fls/what_kind_of_a_person_am_i_right_for/ | 1 | I'm a 27 year old male, very average/plain looking, good job and education, lean and 6'0 tall. I've never had a gf and never had any girls interested in me. I really, really want a gf/companionship but it seems impossible, quite literally. I'm a little shy but i have a normal personality. I'm just not super funny or su... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What kind of a person am I right for? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/571fls/what_kind_of_a_person_am_i_right_for/ |
mamaphoenix86 | 2024-03-07 17:59:57 | 1,709,834,397 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1b913fw | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1b913fw/why_do_men_not_like_condoms/ | 3 | I, 37 F met a man, 52 on Hinge two weeks ago. Went out for a dinner and he invited me over to his after because he didn't want me driving under the influence home. The next morning, he wanted sex and I said no. He even joked that a blowjob doesn't count as sex, but I countered it by telling him if it would count if we ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Why do men not like condoms? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1b913fw/why_do_men_not_like_condoms/ |
pictogasm | 2021-03-29 17:27:51 | 1,617,038,871 | null | null | 0 | mfuojk | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mfuojk/what_would_make_an_emotionally_healthy_dating_app/ | 0 | Everyone seems to agree that modern swipe apps suck for just about everyone looking for an actual relationship. What would make an emotionally healthy and productive dating app for you? How would you make that work for all people all the time? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What would make an emotionally healthy dating app? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mfuojk/what_would_make_an_emotionally_healthy_dating_app/ |
awakenomad | 2019-07-02 04:32:32 | 1,562,041,952 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | c84t3z | true | null | 135 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/c84t3z/congrats_on_being_single/ | 873 | Whether you're struggling with dating, happily single, lonely all the time, or working through your shit to become whole I say: Congrats on being single! If you're single right now it means you didn't settle for something that's less than what you want and deserve. It means you're working on yourself, you're learning a... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Congrats on being single! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c84t3z/congrats_on_being_single/ |
Excellent-Abrocoma53 | 2022-12-17 09:07:28 | 1,671,268,048 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | zo2dec | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zo2dec/weird_dating_situation_need_another_outlook/ | 2 | So, about a month ago, I downloaded a dating app. I matched with this guy and I could see we had great chemistry over text, so we decided to meet, went on a date and hooked up the next day. The sex was amazing, so we discussed the possibility of doing it again. However, I was moving to another city so the situation was... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | weird dating situation, need another outlook | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zo2dec/weird_dating_situation_need_another_outlook/ |
starskitty | 2020-09-19 18:31:39 | 1,600,540,299 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ivy0n8 | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ivy0n8/take_care_of_financial_situation_or_just_get_back/ | 8 | 35f, single parent. I got off the OLD apps when Covid hit and have been focusing on me. I would really like to be out of debt (it's not terrible but will be a couple years til I'm free) before getting serious about dating again but I'm lonely and let's face it, I'm struggling because I'm doing this alone. So do I get b... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Take care of financial situation or just get back out there? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ivy0n8/take_care_of_financial_situation_or_just_get_back/ |
BurrStreetX | 2018-06-20 14:23:50 | 1,529,504,630 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8sip24 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8sip24/long_post_but_i_am_at_a_point_where_a_need_advice/ | 4 | Get ready peasants, this is gonna be a long ride that I will try and shorten up: I am a 23 year old guy, gay, and living in the midwest. A year ago I got out of a HORRID relationship, and have been single since. I am pretty damn picky. Its hard to find a gay guy, that (like me) doesn't act gay whatsoever, that likes cr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Long post, but I am at a point where a need advice, even If the only advice are things I already know but dont want to hear. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8sip24/long_post_but_i_am_at_a_point_where_a_need_advice/ |
Honest_Glove9962 | 2024-01-04 22:59:49 | 1,704,409,189 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18yqrtz | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18yqrtz/should_i_write_her_again/ | 1 | me - can't wait to see you again, when are you gonna be free next week? her - i'll tell you later, management is coming and i have to coordinate with them me - wish you success, looking forward to see you the week is gonna be over soon and still no response. last message was last week. I feel she found someone else bec... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should i write her again? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18yqrtz/should_i_write_her_again/ |
whisper_18 | 2022-11-17 02:42:05 | 1,668,652,925 | null | null | 0 | yxe82y | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yxe82y/is_asking_for_verification_weird/ | 2 | I’m (25F) new to the concept of online dating, and really just post pandemic dating in general. My last relationship/situationship was 3+ years ago and I havent made much effort to pursue anything since. I downloaded tinder for fun just to see what was out there but have no intention of hookups. I matched with a few gu... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is asking for verification weird? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yxe82y/is_asking_for_verification_weird/ |
AlaskaYoung5 | 2020-07-04 05:08:09 | 1,593,839,289 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | hkxurs | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hkxurs/the_unexpected_cruise_romance/ | 2 | During New Years I went on a cruise ship with my family. I fell so deeply in love with this guy I met, there was something just so different and unique about him that made me fall so hard. I gave him my contact info expecting him to text me back after the cruise. I waited for so long without one text, 26 weeks just cry... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The Unexpected Cruise Romance | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hkxurs/the_unexpected_cruise_romance/ |
warmcoffee00 | 2023-10-19 09:15:21 | 1,697,706,921 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17bex1h | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17bex1h/not_sure_about_his_intentions/ | 1 | Hey, I'm hospitalized in a psychiatric hospital and since I was bored I downloaded tinder, not expecting much out of it. Instead, I met a military guy I really like. He's 26, I'm 25. We text and video call everyday, we did sexting a lot. He says he's serious about me. I am not sure if I should trust him since I'm reall... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure about his intentions | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17bex1h/not_sure_about_his_intentions/ |
BroadStreet_Bully5 | 2017-08-24 11:36:22 | 1,503,574,582 | null | ['dating apps', 'pof'] | 0 | 6vq93f | false | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6vq93f/this_is_what_a_610_pof_looks_like_after_two_days/ | 1 | Friend of mine sent me this. She's not ugly, but not a dime. I was just amazed. 2 days she said. This is why I hate dating apps and this why no one ever returns your messages. They're a joke. http://imgur.com/vUShRG7 | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | This is what a 6/10 PoF looks like after two days. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6vq93f/this_is_what_a_610_pof_looks_like_after_two_days/ |
vpons89 | 2023-11-07 10:16:49 | 1,699,352,209 | 0 | null | 0 | 17pr5c0 | true | null | 106 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17pr5c0/regardless_of_where_you_are_in_the_convo_if_you/ | 1 | Tired of seeing “its only ghosting if you’ve met or have planned a date” if you’ve began a conversation even if you’ve only had one text exchange and you don’t say your not interested or unmatch its still ghosting. You can make up whatever arbitrary rules you want to try to justify it but by definition its still ghosti... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Regardless of where you are in the convo, if you dont say your not interested or unmatch then your ghosting | 1 | 0.37 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17pr5c0/regardless_of_where_you_are_in_the_convo_if_you/ |
blueacidb00ts | 2019-12-05 17:32:28 | 1,575,567,148 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | e6kh4t | true | Question | 26 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/e6kh4t/did_i_dodge_a_bullet/ | 4 | Curious, I matched with someone on OLD we swapped numbers/social media and she was cool but decided OLD wasn't for me as it was wasting so much time. I said this to her and wished her all the best and that was that, she said we should still meet for a coffee as I seemed cool but I reiterated that it's still a date so d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Did I dodge a bullet? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/e6kh4t/did_i_dodge_a_bullet/ |
Kind_Lawfulness_347 | 2023-06-27 19:44:02 | 1,687,895,042 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 14kndd9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14kndd9/what_do_you_do_when_everything_else_doesnt_work/ | 1 | This one will be kind of long, I apologize! 24/m I've never had much luck dating. When I was in Highschool I dated one girl and it was ROUGH. We dated for a few months and I never had the courage to kiss her. I dated another girl a few years later for about the same time, and I felt much more confident with stuff like ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What do you do when everything else doesn't work and you kind of give up? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14kndd9/what_do_you_do_when_everything_else_doesnt_work/ |
frosting-spoonfuls | 2021-01-29 22:54:42 | 1,611,960,882 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | l86wh6 | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l86wh6/what_if_height_matters/ | 0 | I (F23) matched with a guy (m26) on tinder a few days ago. We hit it off, really, really well He seems to be as interested in me as I am in him but I have one slight concern. I am a decently tall girl, about 5'8 and I'm worried he might be shorter than me. I know for most this is not a big issue BUT my height is someth... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What if height matters! | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l86wh6/what_if_height_matters/ |
wildstar100 | 2023-11-09 17:41:18 | 1,699,551,678 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | 17rigy3 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17rigy3/joined_online_dating_too_soon/ | 1 | So I am in a bit of a conundrum. I joined the dating app Bumble last night and woke up this morning to find I had been liked several times. I decided to pay for a one time premium upgrade. And I haven’t swiped right on any of the people who liked me yet. I’m hesitant to do so simply due to the fact that I am supposed t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Joined Online Dating Too Soon? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17rigy3/joined_online_dating_too_soon/ |
Timely_Treacle_5660 | 2024-03-11 01:50:14 | 1,710,121,814 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bbrjy4 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bbrjy4/wanting_a_relationship_but_not_knowing_about_kids/ | 3 | Something that really pisses me off when I’m on dating apps is when a guy (age set 23-35) says that they’re looking for a long term relationship (or whatever the app says) but doesn’t know about kids. Like that is such an important factor in a relationship that you need to figure out BEFORE you get into a long term one... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Wanting a relationship but not knowing about kids | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bbrjy4/wanting_a_relationship_but_not_knowing_about_kids/ |
bthetpv | 2020-08-24 06:16:49 | 1,598,249,809 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ifjp1x | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ifjp1x/checked_his_phone_againwould_like_to_tell_him/ | 1 | My boyfriend (23M) and I (22F) have been dating for more than 9 months. Met on tinder last year in April, finally met in November. One of my biggest insecurities is jealousy and I can seriously let it get ahold of me. I checked his phone when first started dating and before we met, he talked to so many girls on either ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Checked his phone again..would like to tell him what I saw but I don’t but I feel extremely sad... | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ifjp1x/checked_his_phone_againwould_like_to_tell_him/ |
Genzhateclub | 2022-11-09 05:17:26 | 1,667,971,046 | null | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | yq9g7x | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yq9g7x/hinge_dating/ | 1 | Is it normal for men to right away ask to hang out before asking for my number or have one conversation? so many of my matches have been just asking to meet up off the bat… | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hinge dating | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yq9g7x/hinge_dating/ |
livingwell1332 | 2021-09-18 19:37:06 | 1,631,993,826 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | pqsyj0 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pqsyj0/an_old_tinder_match_21f_reached_out_to_me_20m/ | 1 | I matched with this girl a few months back and she had discussed a hookup situation. I wasn’t digging it and we agreed to be friends. We’ve talked on and off since she moved back to college and she reached out to me today after a month or two… which really flattered me ngl. Thing is, I kinda regret that decision of for... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | An old tinder match (21F) reached out to me (20M) again | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pqsyj0/an_old_tinder_match_21f_reached_out_to_me_20m/ |
Careless-Archer-1558 | 2023-09-26 12:15:28 | 1,695,730,528 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 16sm8t5 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16sm8t5/i_have_a_stutter_and_i_suffer_from_rsd_and_trauma/ | 1 | So I’ve had a pretty bad stutter my whole life which has stopped me approaching women, I’m not a bad looking guy and I have interesting shit to say or whatever but I’m just very bad at those first interactions, and I end up talking in half sentences to avoid stuttering, not just that but I’ll maybe take too long to mak... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I have a stutter, and I suffer from RSD and trauma, just feel like I’m gunna die alone. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16sm8t5/i_have_a_stutter_and_i_suffer_from_rsd_and_trauma/ |
Revolutionary-Cap967 | 2021-12-03 04:12:15 | 1,638,504,735 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | r7q3s9 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/r7q3s9/1st_date_and_he_asked_if_i_wanted_to_invite_my/ | 1 | Not sure how to go about this. I’m 26F and he is 29M. First time this has ever happened to me. Met off of OLD. He asked me out and suggested doing a painting date, which sounds fun and beyond just drinks. Anyways, I said yes and we’re sorting out a time. When he asked “does your friend want to tag along?” 👀 Tbh I ment... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 1st date and he asked if I wanted to invite my friend? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r7q3s9/1st_date_and_he_asked_if_i_wanted_to_invite_my/ |
BatmanAdams | 2023-10-18 19:05:07 | 1,697,655,907 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17ayjzx | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17ayjzx/trouble_finding_a_starting_point/ | 1 | I am a 26M who is in his second year of medical school. I've had two long-term relationships before. Both of them ended poorly; one with me being serially cheated on and the second with my emotional needs being unapologetically neglected until I cordially ended the relationship. It's been a year since that second relat... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Trouble Finding a Starting Point | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17ayjzx/trouble_finding_a_starting_point/ |
Strangeponder | 2024-07-16 17:51:00 | 1,721,152,260 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1e4v3nm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e4v3nm/dont_know_where_to_start/ | 1 | Hello! I (M21) haven't dated since high school, and I've been focusing on myself and my future, and now I'm a slightly above average looking, decently in shape, and have a steady and well paying job. And now I want to get out there and find a girlfriend, the only problem is I have no idea where to start, I don't go out... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Don't know where to start | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e4v3nm/dont_know_where_to_start/ |
Alittlelostsheep | 2017-06-17 09:12:33 | 1,497,690,753 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 6hsi12 | null | null | 32 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6hsi12/why_do_men_only_want_booty_calls_from_me/ | 6 | Whether we meet in a bar, political event or a dating app, it always ends up leading to the guy initiating a booty call. I like to think I am pretty conservative, body count of two at 25. I don't show a lot of skin(not that it measures anything but some people are stupid enough to think that the way you dress can signa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do men only want booty calls from me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6hsi12/why_do_men_only_want_booty_calls_from_me/ |
Lonley_Lover | 2023-04-19 01:52:04 | 1,681,869,124 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 12rckun | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12rckun/struggling_to_get_back_out_there/ | 1 | I (25m) got out of a 2 year relationship about five months ago. It was very one sided and I ended it because when I opened up about what was concerning me she (24f) couldn’t have cared less. I don’t believe the break up even affected her honestly. I’ve been starting to try online dating and even a few social gatherings... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Struggling to get back out there | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12rckun/struggling_to_get_back_out_there/ |
throwaway10492672 | 2023-08-12 22:26:14 | 1,691,879,174 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 15phjlb | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15phjlb/a_guy_ive_been_seeing37m_told_me34f_he_deleted/ | 1 | I[34f] had a fight with a guy I’ve been seeing[37m] and went home separately. After we made up he told me he was so upset that he even installed a dating app but he deleted it after getting bombed with messages as he found it stressful. I found this funny because wouldn’t a guy be happy when he’s bombed with messages? ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A guy I’ve been seeing[37m] told me[34f] he deleted dating app but I found his account | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15phjlb/a_guy_ive_been_seeing37m_told_me34f_he_deleted/ |
magicmikejones | 2020-12-14 00:59:03 | 1,607,907,543 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | kcn2i9 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kcn2i9/how_to_find_someone_when_you_are_an_alternative/ | 11 | I am 28M. I am a composer, guitarist, and occultist. My interests are music, philosophy, sociology, anthropology, psychology/psychoanalysis, religion, etc. I’m very serious about dedicating myself full time to my interests, and I’m working on making a career out of them. Despite being very talkative and having a lot of... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to find someone when you are an “alternative” person? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kcn2i9/how_to_find_someone_when_you_are_an_alternative/ |
No-Consideration1105 | 2022-04-29 02:15:27 | 1,651,198,527 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | uebgcv | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uebgcv/i_always_start_dating_apps_then_chicken_out_and/ | 2 | How do I become more brave and start getting into dating. My friends suggested starting a dating app since I've never dated a guy before but dating apps so far have kinda terrified me and I don't usually post photos of myself too. I usually have no problem speaking with people online or in person when it's not dating r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I always start dating apps then chicken out and delete them. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uebgcv/i_always_start_dating_apps_then_chicken_out_and/ |
[deleted] | 2020-11-26 19:32:23 | 1,606,419,143 | null | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | k1lqft | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k1lqft/thoughts_on_double_texting_a_fairly_new_girl/ | 1 | Met a girl on a dating app about a week and a half ago. We are from same hometown/high school etc but I am a bit older than her. Wondering the thoughts on double messaging her. She agreed to go to dinner after this week and that it sounded fun, and we added each other on snap. Not a lot of activity on snap so far but i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Thoughts on double texting a fairly new girl | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k1lqft/thoughts_on_double_texting_a_fairly_new_girl/ |
Future_Ad8467 | 2022-02-21 02:37:05 | 1,645,411,025 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'pof'] | 0 | sxieza | true | Question | 74 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/sxieza/online_dating_frustration/ | 6 | (41M) I subscribed to Bumble, thinking it should be a good change from the other dating apps. I've tried Match, Tinder, POF and now Bumble. I've come across a few profiles of people that liked me first, I like them back, now we're a match, great! They have 24 hours to send me a message. On these two particular profiles... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Online dating frustration | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/sxieza/online_dating_frustration/ |
[deleted] | 2015-08-13 08:14:37 | 1,439,453,677 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 3gts5m | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3gts5m/what_to_do_next_if_anything/ | 7 | Backstory: I [27M] matched with very attractive woman [24F] on Tinder. She messages me first. We meet up later the same day at a bar, drink, talk, hit it off. We kiss at end of date. She texts me a fair amount in between these dates, just about every day. A lot of just general "how was ur day" stuff. 2nd Date: Outdoor ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to do next (if anything)? | 7 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3gts5m/what_to_do_next_if_anything/ |
JomboEX | 2024-03-22 18:28:21 | 1,711,132,101 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bl6bko | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bl6bko/what_am_i_doing_wrongwhat_should_i_go_or_do/ | 1 | Hello guys. So i am 30(M) never in my life had a girlfriend(not even as a kid) so i want to experience the feelings like going on a coffee date or in the park,holding hands,sharing personal stuff all things that my fellow classmates were doing 15 years ago. So i made up my mind and made account in dating app 2 weeks ag... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What am i doing wrong,what should i go or do ? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bl6bko/what_am_i_doing_wrongwhat_should_i_go_or_do/ |
matk95 | 2017-08-23 03:57:51 | 1,503,460,671 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6vghag | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6vghag/seeing_a_girl_but_dont_know_what_to_think_of_it/ | 2 | So I met this girl through tinder, we met 3 times so far, about once a week, one time just casual chat at night because we're both busy but it went well. Second time I drove her to nearby cliffs to watch the shooting stars. That went well too, on both of these we were talking a lot, laughing, enjoying the time. We met ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Seeing a girl but don't know what to think of it | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6vghag/seeing_a_girl_but_dont_know_what_to_think_of_it/ |
Elegant_blue_93 | 2023-08-07 02:24:20 | 1,691,375,060 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15k7tfs | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15k7tfs/how_do_i29f_meet_a_decent_guy/ | 1 | I've been single for a while now, and I'd really like to meet a decent guy. I've had zero luck in since my ex ghosted me. I met him at a previous job 3 years ago. However, I work from home now. I got to the gym, but I'm too shy to approach men, and I don't have a lot of experience outside of my ex and my first relation... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I(29f) meet a decent guy? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15k7tfs/how_do_i29f_meet_a_decent_guy/ |
Vert190 | 2023-11-15 22:52:02 | 1,700,088,722 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 17w6fwp | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17w6fwp/how_should_i_try_something_with_an_old/ | 1 | hi, i started using a dating app, and while scrolling i saw a woman from my old high school. We weren't friends in high school but we got along, and had a few laughs. She was a popular girl and i was a nerdy, kinda ugly, guy. Years have passed, didnt think about her until i saw her again in the app. We are currently bo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how should i try something with an old acquaintance? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17w6fwp/how_should_i_try_something_with_an_old/ |
TecksMecks | 2015-03-04 10:49:44 | 1,425,466,184 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 2xw97r | null | null | 541 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2xw97r/on_dating_sites_how_do_you_feel_when_the_girls/ | 489 | ....cuz it kind of pisses me off. It seems incredibly accusatory and negative. And of course, if I was a jerk or a player, I would obviously ignore their request. Anyway, I find it so refreshing when a woman's profile is entirely positive. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | On dating sites, how do you feel when the girl's profile says something like "Don't email me if you are a jerk or a player"? | 489 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2xw97r/on_dating_sites_how_do_you_feel_when_the_girls/ |
deezseeds | 2021-08-26 09:27:26 | 1,629,970,046 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | pbvz4c | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pbvz4c/im_25_and_still_single_people_are_telling_me_im/ | 20 | I will hold my hands up and admit the reason I've not had a relationship since 18 was due to my mentall illness and anxiety, I never felt good enough to even try. It's my fault really, no one is to blame for me. Recently I have made positive changes, such as joining the gym, being more social etc, but this is all very ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm 25 and still single, people are telling me I'm getting on now and should be with someone, I feel bad about this. | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pbvz4c/im_25_and_still_single_people_are_telling_me_im/ |
sarahnada96 | 2024-06-27 12:41:18 | 1,719,492,078 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dpqc5s | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dpqc5s/i_think_i_found_the_one/ | 1 | So I have been dating through bumble and hinge for a while on and off. Yesterday was the first time that I go to a date and I really feel what the French call « me feeling » He’s such a nice guy, gentleman and ticks all the right boxes, green flags all over him. And I’m going on a gym date with him today or Saturday Pl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think I found the one | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dpqc5s/i_think_i_found_the_one/ |
djxpress | 2024-02-24 20:47:43 | 1,708,807,663 | 0 | null | 0 | 1az4xau | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1az4xau/new_to_old_is_it_common_to_get_ghosted_after/ | 1 | I'm a 40+ year old male using Hinge in So Cal. I get plenty of matches and have gone on a few dates. Got my old gf from the app after joining the first week. No longer with gf so decided to go back on the app. I've had several matches, texting, exchanging phone numbers, and even talking on phone with the other person. ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | New to OLD, is it common to get ghosted after talking and making plans? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1az4xau/new_to_old_is_it_common_to_get_ghosted_after/ |
n351320447 | 2024-07-31 05:30:11 | 1,722,403,811 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1egfblw | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1egfblw/what_to_do_when_you_get_a_match_on_hinge/ | 1 | The initial like had a question on a prompt they had. They match with me but don’t answer my initial question. FYI I’m Male matching with Females. Do you just re ask the question lol. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What to do when you get a match on hinge? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1egfblw/what_to_do_when_you_get_a_match_on_hinge/ |
thebuttcake | 2020-10-12 02:02:04 | 1,602,468,124 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | j9i87v | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j9i87v/i_24f_struggle_with_wanting_to_get_attention_from/ | 1 | I went out recently with a friend and dressed really nicely, I know I looked good and if anything I felt a bit self conscious because I knew I would be looked at a lot. I was right, and at one point a guy came up to us and starting talking to us. My friend is very outgoing and talked to him, I mostly just nodded or smi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [24F] struggle with wanting to get attention from guys when I go out but also hating when I do. I’m not sure how to get past this and whether this is the problem I have dating. | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j9i87v/i_24f_struggle_with_wanting_to_get_attention_from/ |
DistributionWise2294 | 2023-09-22 04:03:15 | 1,695,355,395 | 0 | ['swipe', 'OLD'] | 0 | 16p0hfm | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16p0hfm/would_you_let_the_so_know_if_their_partner_bf/ | 1 | I've had men in long term relationships dm me after seeing my profile from OLD. they're not the type I'd swipe on even if they were the last male on earth.their ig account shows they have SO. I let the SO know of the situation and they're appalled / shocked / humiliated their SO is on OLD behind their back hitting on o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Would you let the SO know if their partner / bf / fiancée/ husband hyu with sexual undertones | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16p0hfm/would_you_let_the_so_know_if_their_partner_bf/ |
Sad-Ad-5494 | 2023-12-27 21:50:59 | 1,703,713,859 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18sc956 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18sc956/tinder/ | 1 | How can I make a girl like me? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18sc956/tinder/ |
nxyera | 2022-02-23 12:19:27 | 1,645,618,767 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | szg5u6 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/szg5u6/how_to_get_the_one/ | 2 | I'm 24, throughout my life, I got few female friends but never got chance to have a girlfriend. I was kind of nerd, so never bothered to get one desperately, but now that I have started to earn I wonder if could be able get one. I am from India, so clearly tinder/bumble also don't work. I read on few post that try talk... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get the one | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/szg5u6/how_to_get_the_one/ |
LittleMissMillie09 | 2023-05-14 15:11:21 | 1,684,077,081 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 13hepoo | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13hepoo/dating_with_scars/ | 1 | I (22F) am interested in meeting someone hopefully organically I don’t want to use dating apps or anything like that but I’m just kinda nervous about one thing. I have a lot of scars. From self harm and some from suicide attempts that are pretty obvious. Sometimes I wear clothes to cover them (and I tend to dress prett... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating with scars | 1 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13hepoo/dating_with_scars/ |
UnfairEvent3221 | 2024-04-08 15:30:12 | 1,712,590,212 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bz0th7 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bz0th7/help_my_ex_girl_26f_broke_up_with_me_28m_to_work/ | 1 | My ex girlfriend whom I loved so much left me 3 months ago saying she needed to work on herself. Prior to that we had small argument I asked her if I can see her and resolve our differences but she refused me insisted she just wanna end the relationship over the phone. I accepted and never insist, beg or plead, I immed... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help! My ex Girl 26F broke up with me 28M to work on her self, should I take her back ? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bz0th7/help_my_ex_girl_26f_broke_up_with_me_28m_to_work/ |
ComprehensiveCold363 | 2024-04-06 00:31:06 | 1,712,363,466 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1bwxzdq | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bwxzdq/am_i_missing_something_women_behaving_badly_in/ | 1 | So I recently matched with a girl on an app and seemed to be going well, I told her I was genuinely interested and we setup a physical date. Everything went ok up to the date. The day itself, she tells me the location to pick her up and I drove down, right there she stopped replying and I was just left there with my ca... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I missing something? Women behaving badly in dating | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bwxzdq/am_i_missing_something_women_behaving_badly_in/ |
Bao_Xinhua | 2022-09-20 20:10:06 | 1,663,704,606 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | xjj57c | true | null | 103 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/xjj57c/swipe_left_or_right/ | 17 | On a widow (don't know for how long) who's profile picture is her and her deceased husband. Otherwise a pretty normal profile. What say ye? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Swipe Left or Right | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/xjj57c/swipe_left_or_right/ |
henker220 | 2020-10-16 22:46:39 | 1,602,888,399 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | jcjyjf | true | Venting | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jcjyjf/i_deleted_all_my_dating_apps_and_dont_really_feel/ | 0 | I'm a 22 year old autistic male with virtually no social life. My nearest friend is an hour and a half away and always busy and I hardly get to see him often. I don't have any people-oriented hobbies. I mostly read books, watch series/YouTube, and play video games. Frankly, I'm not really interested in much else. I sur... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I deleted all my dating apps and don't really feel much better. Maybe this is how it will always be | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jcjyjf/i_deleted_all_my_dating_apps_and_dont_really_feel/ |
happyclam420 | 2018-12-01 02:46:53 | 1,543,632,413 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | a1z782 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/AskWomen/comments/a1z782/have_you_ever_been_on_a_tinder_or_similar_date/ | 4 | I'm just curious. How did it go? Did you know this going into the date? If not, when did you find out and what was your reaction? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Have you ever been on a tinder (or similar) date with someone who turned out to be an alt-right extremist? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/a1z782/have_you_ever_been_on_a_tinder_or_similar_date/ |
EasyRadio9005 | 2024-07-27 20:01:38 | 1,722,110,498 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1edp5vt | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1edp5vt/i_told_a_girl_that_i_liked_her_on_the_second_date/ | 1 | So I (23M) went on a couple dates with someone (23F) that I met on a dating app. We got along really well on the first date. We were from the same city and had similar talking styles. We also wore matching outfits which I thought was really cool. After the first date, I let her know that I had a great time and would lo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I told a girl that I liked her on the second date. Now I’m worried I might have scared her away | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1edp5vt/i_told_a_girl_that_i_liked_her_on_the_second_date/ |
lonelyloser1234567 | 2017-04-30 06:34:59 | 1,493,534,099 | null | ['tinder', 'pof', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 68e5p3 | null | null | 39 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/68e5p3/why_are_there_so_many_unattractive_women_on/ | 0 | I don't mean to sound shallow, but going on POF, OKCupid or Tinder feels like going into a parallel universe. 90% of women are obese, some are morbidly obese, but what strikes me most is that they have ridiculous standards. It's like a collection of the most unattractive females in one spot. I'd have to stand at walmar... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why are there so many unattractive women on online sites? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/68e5p3/why_are_there_so_many_unattractive_women_on/ |
FlowerPhilosophy | 2023-03-11 23:20:58 | 1,678,576,858 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 11oygkr | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11oygkr/did_every_single_thing_wrong_if_anyone_wants/ | 1 | I (f, 27) met this guy (m, 29) on hinge about a month ago (February 9th). He wasn't even my type, but there was something in his eyes -now I know it was substance abuse hehe Anyway, we just hit it off so incredibly well. Shared about our childhood trauma and how it subsequently has made relating to others difficult. Bo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did every single thing wrong If anyone wants further proof that medical students can be dumb af (me) then please read.... also help, I am so confused and sad | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11oygkr/did_every_single_thing_wrong_if_anyone_wants/ |
Expensive-Plan-1557 | 2021-02-04 22:33:17 | 1,612,477,997 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | lcs60w | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lcs60w/afraid_that_ill_never_find_love_need_some/ | 2 | I (25f) have only been in one relationship that lasted 7 months and didn’t have my first boyfriend till I was 24. I’ve had things with guys here and there before then but they never progressed into a serious relationship. My ex dumped me and I was devastated bc I really loved him so much and it took me forever to final... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Afraid that I’ll never find love. Need some reassurance | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lcs60w/afraid_that_ill_never_find_love_need_some/ |
J_5401 | 2020-10-28 20:24:45 | 1,603,916,685 | null | ['matched', 'swipe', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | jjvm8i | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jjvm8i/accidentally_matched_with_her_friend_on_a_dating/ | 3 | I (20m) have been talking to/seeing this girl (20f) for a couple weeks now. Things have been going pretty great, and this past week I met her friends, roommates, hung out with them all, and it went very well. Suddenly, the girl seemed to either completely lose interest in me or be mad at me. I haven't asked her why tha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Accidentally matched with her friend on a dating app | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jjvm8i/accidentally_matched_with_her_friend_on_a_dating/ |
Foreign_Safety2712 | 2022-10-06 01:14:32 | 1,665,018,872 | null | null | 0 | xws4r7 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/xws4r7/the_once_a_day_responders_boundaries_or_not_that/ | 10 | I get it. At my age people are busy and arent going to hover over their phone. Also, its good to have boundaries with online dating. I do however find it difficult to feel like there is any motion at all with a once a day message. And usually if its once a day its like at 10pm right before they go to bed. I have had a ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | The once a day responders. Boundaries or not that interested? 29m | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/xws4r7/the_once_a_day_responders_boundaries_or_not_that/ |
Cryingsstar | 2024-03-14 17:03:06 | 1,710,435,786 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1beq4fd | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1beq4fd/was_i_love_bombed/ | 1 | I (21F) have started talking to this guy(24M) that I matched with on a dating app, in the 2 weeks that we have started texting back and forth we went on 3 dates and the 3rd we made out in his car. Later that night he texts me telling me how great I am, that our date went really well etc. he would always text good morni... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Was I love bombed?!? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1beq4fd/was_i_love_bombed/ |
CrazyUncleDino | 2023-05-16 15:52:12 | 1,684,252,332 | 0 | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | 13j8zzl | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/13j8zzl/too_much_texting_or_calling/ | 16 | It is the age old issue with OLD, how much do you text or call a person you've connected with? I (DWM 60) matched with a woman (DWF 59) recently and we traded texts all morning on Sunday. Based on our bios & photos we have a lot in common, live about an hour apart, and are both teachers. At the end of my fifth message,... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Too Much Texting or Calling? | 16 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/13j8zzl/too_much_texting_or_calling/ |
Tim-Man | 2023-08-28 13:16:07 | 1,693,228,567 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 163luib | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/163luib/old_alternatives_and_perspective/ | 1 | Article from Psychology Today points out the ubiquity of OLD as well as alternatives as people tire from the apps not meeting their needs. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-in-the-digital-age/202308/how-to-date-without-an-app | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | OLD Alternatives and Perspective | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/163luib/old_alternatives_and_perspective/ |
Throwawa9380 | 2024-02-18 14:33:36 | 1,708,266,816 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1atvehk | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1atvehk/i_am_scared_of_datingmarriage/ | 3 | I am scared about prospect of marriage. Hi I am 26M, indian. I am 5ft 8in, so not exactly short. But I have a medium/exotic skin complexion. Now I have tried dating but couldn't date anyone. Either the timing was wrong, they were already committed or due to their personal preferences. I have tried online dating apps su... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I am scared of dating/marriage | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1atvehk/i_am_scared_of_datingmarriage/ |
treelightways | 2022-07-20 00:13:33 | 1,658,276,013 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | w37u4k | true | null | 167 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/w37u4k/feeling_rejected_would_love_some_reassurance_and/ | 36 | I'm feeling a little rejected and embarrassingly it's not that common for me to get rejected on dates so am needing to process a little so I can grow this muscle, and could use some different perspectives - shared in kindness. (I see people can be brutal with each other here, and I'm also feeling super tender dealing w... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Feeling Rejected - would love some reassurance and perspective 3 | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/w37u4k/feeling_rejected_would_love_some_reassurance_and/ |
imjusttrying25 | 2023-07-07 20:24:02 | 1,688,761,442 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 14tibpl | false | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14tibpl/need_advice_on_handling_a_persistent_guy_from/ | 1 | I really need advice, as I'm not sure what the right thing to do is. (It's a bit long but please bear with me) I, 28F, just moved to a new city in early late January for a job in a city I knew absolutely no one. I got on Hinge and met this guy 27M as one of my first dates here. He is of Indian origin and worked at my c... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice on handling a persistent guy from work, getting uncomfortable. What should I do? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14tibpl/need_advice_on_handling_a_persistent_guy_from/ |
dumbspringa | 2015-10-16 19:07:24 | 1,445,022,444 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 3p0xe2 | null | null | 21 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/3p0xe2/in_online_dating_do_the_use_of_emoticons_im_not/ | 0 | As a newly single male in early thirties navigating the minefield that is online dating (after a loong gap), I would like women's perspective on few questions I have: I tend to joke around a lot in my messages. So, I almost always end with a :), lest it should offend the recepient (nothing controversial, I steer clear ... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | In (online) dating, do the use of emoticons (I'm not even talking about emojis) in messages put you off of a potential suitor? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3p0xe2/in_online_dating_do_the_use_of_emoticons_im_not/ |
Zealousideal-Lab-281 | 2023-08-02 15:08:32 | 1,690,988,912 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 15gbe77 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15gbe77/going_on_a_first_date_and_nervous/ | 1 | I (21f) haven’t been on a first date in quite a whileee. tomorrow I’m getting sushi with this guy I met off hinge. I guess I’m always worried that it’s gonna get like awkward or quite or I’m not gonna know what to say hahaha. idk I always have so much anxiety around these things.😅 what kind of topics do you guys bring... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | going on a first date and nervous | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15gbe77/going_on_a_first_date_and_nervous/ |
frogmicky | 2019-06-20 23:09:24 | 1,561,072,164 | null | null | 0 | c32uv7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/c32uv7/she_liked_my_pic_but/ | 1 | We've had a short conversation today my messages are thought provoking I think and hers are short. As he doesn't answer my questions and there are long gaps in 5he conversation like an hour or so. Should I un-match her or keep trying. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | She liked my pic but...... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/c32uv7/she_liked_my_pic_but/ |
chimperchimp | 2019-09-04 23:40:26 | 1,567,640,426 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | czss8k | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/czss8k/a_one_night_stand_lied_to_me_about_his_age/ | 1 | Tdlr: guy said he was 32, was actually 42. Feel tricked, naive, and lied to. Keeping it simple, i was in a friends with benefits situation for an year and a half with someone I really liked. I proposed a relationship, he didn't want it. For 2 months i mulled over him, it was super distracting and realized I needed to d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A one night stand lied to me about his age, questioning my judgement. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/czss8k/a_one_night_stand_lied_to_me_about_his_age/ |
Kind-Fan-5293 | 2024-05-15 07:03:29 | 1,715,756,609 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cseph6 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cseph6/is_your_partner_being_active_on_dating_apps_while/ | 1 | If you found your partner was actively checking dating apps despite being in an exclusive and committed relationship, would you take that as a sign that the relationship is not going to last? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is your partner being active on dating apps while in an exclusive relationship a sign that the relationship is not going to last? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cseph6/is_your_partner_being_active_on_dating_apps_while/ |
ipattz | 2017-05-19 07:01:17 | 1,495,177,277 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6c236f | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6c236f/how_do_you_convince_yourself_that_its_okay_if_a/ | 2 | Alright so fair warning, I'm an over thinker and stress myself out way too easily but bare with me. I have a date with a guy tomorrow and as cute as he is, I have this gut feeling that maybe he just wants to be friends or he's lost interest. It's really stupid but like the "tone" of the texting seems different? But I k... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you convince yourself that it's okay if a date doesn't develop further? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6c236f/how_do_you_convince_yourself_that_its_okay_if_a/ |
nicholas_1227 | 2023-09-18 06:53:54 | 1,695,020,034 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16lo95z | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16lo95z/slow_burn_but_hes_moving_away/ | 1 | So I have been in my healing single phase for 8 months or so, but decided to jump on hinge out of shear curiosity (I was always back and forth about it bc meh dating apps) and just started joking with someone on there that actually could carry a convo with me and have fun, we text for a few weeks because I was on vacat... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Slow burn but he’s moving away | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16lo95z/slow_burn_but_hes_moving_away/ |
Blaze_556 | 2022-09-24 23:07:13 | 1,664,060,833 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | xn6vv7 | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/xn6vv7/did_something_on_the_apps_change/ | 6 | I deleted my apps earlier this year due to reasons. I downloaded them a few weeks ago. Using the same pics and same info from before but it’s damn near dead now. I used to be able to get matches here and there. I haven’t had a single one since I got the apps up and going again. Probably my sign to delete again | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Did something on the app’s change? | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/xn6vv7/did_something_on_the_apps_change/ |
littleboopeep | 2020-10-24 01:41:52 | 1,603,503,712 | null | null | 0 | jh0ec1 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/jh0ec1/is_long_distance_relationship_work_this_time/ | 1 | This year is a crazy year. Since everyone says is a new norm doing online. Is meeting someone online possible even you're thousand miles away? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is Long Distance Relationship work this time? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/jh0ec1/is_long_distance_relationship_work_this_time/ |
ashesandsparkles | 2024-06-30 00:55:20 | 1,719,708,920 | 0 | null | 0 | 1drpogx | true | null | 154 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1drpogx/what_are_ridiculous_things_men_deal_with_on_old/ | 38 | As I female, I’m aware of all the crap we have go through. I’m interested to know if it’s the same for men? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What are ridiculous things men deal with on OLD? | 38 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1drpogx/what_are_ridiculous_things_men_deal_with_on_old/ |
MissingDumpling | 2024-03-17 17:28:01 | 1,710,696,481 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1bh36k9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bh36k9/he_is_turning_cold_confused/ | 1 | I matched with a guy from different city (F25, M30). We hit it off from the very 1st message, then he started calling me frequently before a trip he planned to my city. Calls were awesome, hours flying, same sense of humour, he admitted himself he gets along with me so well that it rarely happens. He gave me a lot of s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He is turning cold? Confused | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bh36k9/he_is_turning_cold_confused/ |
TeslaCoil77 | 2020-09-16 00:07:14 | 1,600,214,834 | null | null | 0 | itkrsp | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/itkrsp/one_old_okc_dating_strategy_ive_devised/ | 0 | So, I've had really good luck with OkC one of the ONLY modern dating sites I've gotten dates and even relationships off of, during COVID I've noticed a TON of inactive profiles. Respectively so. I've since devised a plan, if I like them keep them in my likes until I see them log on at least once then I'll send a intro.... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | One OLD (OkC) dating strategy I've devised.. | null | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/itkrsp/one_old_okc_dating_strategy_ive_devised/ |
Justanothergirl82 | 2019-06-30 04:02:11 | 1,561,867,331 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | c78t2v | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c78t2v/love_gone_bad/ | 3 | Hi guys! Im really going through a difficult time. I dont normally discuss my private life but I feel like this is a safe place to do so. Yesterday I decided to break things off with my fiance. The problem is, although he says he loves me, he despises my 13 year old son and frequently says derogatory things about him. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Love gone bad... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c78t2v/love_gone_bad/ |
PureInternet8317 | 2024-01-11 11:52:38 | 1,704,973,958 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 193zxzy | true | Question ❓ | 87 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/193zxzy/how_to_stop_feeling_like_a_loser_for_not_being/ | 30 | I tried delving into the world of hookups, was promptly asked to leave. 0 likes or matches on dating apps, not one look in my direction in clubs and bars. I realize that woman only want the hotties for hookups so my experience is not that uncommon, but I still feel like shit because my male friends have FWBs, ONSs, and... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to stop feeling like a loser for not being able to find casual sex partners? | 30 | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/193zxzy/how_to_stop_feeling_like_a_loser_for_not_being/ |
Wing_walker | 2013-09-26 17:15:19 | 1,380,215,719 | 0 | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 1n6s98 | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1n6s98/dating_when_youre_60/ | 1 | Hi all, I just needed some advice. My mother is 61 this year and finally looking for love. My dad walked out on her to marry 17 year old stripper in the Philippines 22 years ago, and let her with 4 kids to raise. She never dated anyone, and just concentrated on us. Sorry about the sob story, I just wanted everyone to k... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating when you're 60+ | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1n6s98/dating_when_youre_60/ |
spookyghost123456 | 2020-06-21 04:23:58 | 1,592,713,438 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | hd0mfr | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hd0mfr/is_it_ghosting_if_i_dont_respond_to_a_guy_that/ | 3 | Basically, I met a guy on Hinge, we started talking over Snapchat, and he ghosted me after we made plans for a second date. After a week of no contact I blocked him and the next day he messaged me on my Hinge profile saying “Hey how are you?”. Is it ghosting to not respond? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it ghosting if I don’t respond to a guy that reached out after he ghosted me? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hd0mfr/is_it_ghosting_if_i_dont_respond_to_a_guy_that/ |
buku-o-rama | 2023-04-27 16:27:39 | 1,682,612,859 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 130ucxe | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/130ucxe/we_ended_on_an_awkward_note_and_now_shes_joined_a/ | 2 | I went out on a date with this woman from Bumble back in December. She expressed strong interest in meeting up again. I wasn't super interested but she was nice and I figured I'll see what happens. Then a few days later she sent me a strange message saying she's not gonna be using the app and she'll probably be back in... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | We ended on an awkward note and now she's joined a Meetup group I'm in, how do I act if we run into each other? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/130ucxe/we_ended_on_an_awkward_note_and_now_shes_joined_a/ |
blueberries498 | 2021-07-15 21:47:40 | 1,626,385,660 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ol2rh9 | true | Venting | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ol2rh9/just_another_ghost_tale_is_there_hope/ | 1 | I’ve (28F) been on two dates with this guy I met on tinder (28M) and they have been wonderful. We vibed, there was chemistry, great conversations, shared values etc. We did hook up on the second date. I don’t usually sleep with guys that early on but the moment felt right with him so I went for it. Now, we have been te... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just another ghost tale - is there hope? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ol2rh9/just_another_ghost_tale_is_there_hope/ |
Pale-Alfalfa-2432 | 2023-11-21 05:09:39 | 1,700,543,379 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 180992g | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/180992g/women_arent_attracted_to_me/ | 3 | I’m 19(F) and i am bisexual. but i am definitely more attracted to women than men. i’ve been in the dating world for a little over a year. but i have never gone out with a woman. even for a little bit i made it so my dating apps only showed me women. i wanna say i had it set like that for 2 or 3 months. and i had only ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Women aren’t attracted to me? | 3 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/180992g/women_arent_attracted_to_me/ |
distresseddream | 2018-03-21 05:21:42 | 1,521,609,702 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 85zows | false | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/85zows/28_and_barely_had_a_date_how_can_i_fix_this/ | 9 | I have a really hard time talking with girls I am attracted to. Like if I find a girl attractive I will actively avoid her . Not because she did anything wrong but because I am scared of her . I don't know how to stop getting in my own way . I also seem to be really adverse to saying hi to people and saying there names... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 28 and barely had a date . How can I fix this? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/85zows/28_and_barely_had_a_date_how_can_i_fix_this/ |
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