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kn_27 | 2018-03-12 21:24:34 | 1,520,889,874 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 83yozl | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/83yozl/21_male_friendrelationship_advice/ | 3 | 21-hetero Male: Currently friends with someone I feel I have real chemistry with. It's been over two years since my last serious relationship and I feel personally ready to at least be open to a new relationship if I feel something is there. I am not really into dating (tinder, bumble, other dating apps) to be honest, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 21 Male: Friend/Relationship Advice? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/83yozl/21_male_friendrelationship_advice/ |
a_sinking_ship | 2019-06-21 23:48:20 | 1,561,160,900 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | c3idxm | true | null | 46 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/c3idxm/almost_30_years_old_i_have_very_little_experience/ | 1 | I had a close call today as a passenger of a vehicle and I thought to mysel "I almost died a virgin." A little about me, besides my looks I do not have much going. Low paying "job", still live with my parents, no college degree (I did go to college but I never graduated). Almost 30 years old years old. During college a... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Almost 30 years old. I have very little experience and I don't want to die a virgin. What advice do you have for me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c3idxm/almost_30_years_old_i_have_very_little_experience/ |
hannanban | 2024-07-26 14:41:09 | 1,722,004,869 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1ecprw5 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ecprw5/4_months_happily_together_then_dumped_on_our/ | 1 | I’m just struggling to understand this situation. I was with a very sweet and considerate guy (or that’s what he showed me until the end) and we had such a great time together. I was really falling in love with him and I had trusted him. Then I found out he was liking sexual instagram posts including looking at it whil... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 4 months happily together then dumped on our first argument | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ecprw5/4_months_happily_together_then_dumped_on_our/ |
RealisticEconomist6 | 2020-07-20 15:18:14 | 1,595,258,294 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | hun2f9 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hun2f9/please_update_me_on_current_dating_norms_online/ | 1 | So, I’m a bit old school (40F) and just started back on Match this month, and I’m a bit overwhelmed with what the new norms are. The last time I dated was a decade ago. Is it a given that anyone on a dating app is dating multiple people at once, perhaps sleeping with them as well? If so, then whenever one relationship ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Please update me on current dating norms online | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hun2f9/please_update_me_on_current_dating_norms_online/ |
Gigglertreatment | 2019-05-12 06:56:02 | 1,557,644,162 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | bnm8oh | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bnm8oh/i_feel_like_a_horrible_person_27f/ | 2 | So, I think I've made a huge mistake. One of my jobs is working as an entertainment columnist for a local newspaper. Pay isn't great but I get free tickets to movies, theatre etc., which is amazing because I genuinely love that stuff. Another journalist from the newspaper; who I had met at some events before, but don't... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel like a horrible person (27F) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bnm8oh/i_feel_like_a_horrible_person_27f/ |
Scary-Needleworker52 | 2023-01-05 10:08:37 | 1,672,913,317 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 103vema | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 129 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/103vema/whats_the_worst_date_you_ever_had/ | 254 | Back in the days when I was on tinder, I matched with this girl who posted a list of expectations from the guy she’d accept to see. After a week of texting, she apparently caught a grammar glitch in my text(I speak 4 languages and English isn’t my native language albeit no on notices that), and she proceeds to tell me ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What’s the worst date you ever had? | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/103vema/whats_the_worst_date_you_ever_had/ |
Embarrassed-Ad-7795 | 2022-11-06 05:19:59 | 1,667,711,999 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | ynhiyi | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ynhiyi/reaching_out_to_past_hinge_date/ | 4 | Basically went out on a couple of dates with this guy I met on Hinge back in October last year, super sweet guy and we genuinely got along very well but just wasn't romantically attracted to him so called things off but asked him if he'd want to remain friends bc we had a lot of common interests and I did enjoy spendin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Reaching out to past Hinge date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ynhiyi/reaching_out_to_past_hinge_date/ |
yeetskeet777 | 2021-05-13 21:38:00 | 1,620,941,880 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | nbs451 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nbs451/long_read_but_i_need_help_can_someone_give_me/ | 1 | I am male 16 and she is female 14 turning 15 this year So I met this girl on vrchat yesterday and I already like her, yes I know it's to soon. She said no and rejected me but she says it was because she would rather get to know me better first but even though I'm young I've realized that we do not have alot of time on ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Long read but i need help. Can someone give me advice I'm stuck in an emotional corner? | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nbs451/long_read_but_i_need_help_can_someone_give_me/ |
cer7607 | 2021-06-21 11:18:58 | 1,624,274,338 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | o4stfe | true | I Need Advice | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o4stfe/is_it_unethical_to_talk_to_multiple_girls_when/ | 1 | I've been talking to 3 different girls on an online dating app. They all seem very great and having different things about them that I like. I went on a date with one this past weekend and it went great. She has a wonderful personality and we really clicked. Then there's another girl I started talking to around the sam... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it unethical to talk to multiple girls when you're using an online dating app? | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o4stfe/is_it_unethical_to_talk_to_multiple_girls_when/ |
BobJaguar | 2020-02-06 21:17:39 | 1,581,023,859 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ezza1f | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ezza1f/postghost_feels/ | 10 | Hi all. Just want to vent I guess? I [30F] matched with this guy [37M] on Tinder a few weeks back and clicked immediately. He’s quick and funny and super charming. We like the same stuff and have a very similar outlook on life. He’d text sporadically asking to come round late at night (standard hook up behaviour) and I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Post-ghost feels | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ezza1f/postghost_feels/ |
JasperGrizzly | 2022-07-14 18:55:19 | 1,657,824,919 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | vz3dk2 | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vz3dk2/i_cant_get_over_a_girl_who_i_only_briefly_dated/ | 1 | This may be very embarrassing to type out but I was talking to a girl from Hinge every day for only 2 months, and in the span of 2 months, only got together with her 2 times. She ended things with me almost 3 weeks ago because she said her life is getting too crazy (probably a lie) and literally every day I've cried at... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I can't get over a girl who I only briefly dated and I'm getting very concerned | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vz3dk2/i_cant_get_over_a_girl_who_i_only_briefly_dated/ |
Representative_Leg29 | 2023-10-06 11:29:51 | 1,696,591,791 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1719uqz | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1719uqz/girl_29f_im_32m_seeing_hangs_out_with_a_guy_from/ | 1 | I’m dating this girl who I met on Bumble. We’ve gone on two dates so far. We were supposed to meet up this weekend for dinner but I had to cancel due to me getting sick. Since we matched we’ve been talking just about everyday. Usually she’s the one reaching out to me first because she’s busy with classes. She’s been op... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl (29f) I’m (32m) seeing hangs out with a guy from her spin class. Should I be worried that she might lose interest in me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1719uqz/girl_29f_im_32m_seeing_hangs_out_with_a_guy_from/ |
sgwolfe | 2023-11-26 05:23:26 | 1,700,976,206 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1843g5m | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1843g5m/was_she_just_using_me/ | 1 | So I (m35) began dating a girl (f27) I met on Bumble back in July. Went on a coffee date and ended up having a great time and conversation with her. She mentioned that she had an only fans account (wasn’t mentioned on her dating profile) and that she had a pretty big following but she only did solo content. I was fine ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Was she just using me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1843g5m/was_she_just_using_me/ |
Single-Macaron-3714 | 2021-04-10 02:48:56 | 1,618,022,936 | null | ['matched', 'swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | mnwj6x | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mnwj6x/duped_again/ | 24 | So I (37F) matched with a guy (34m) about a week ago. Guys it was going great. We matched on Sunday; chatted all day and made plans to meet Monday. Then we also went out Tuesday and went out on Friday. I had to go out of town on Saturday but we made plans to go out following Monday. Each date went great but I will say ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Duped again | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mnwj6x/duped_again/ |
Justatrowaway22 | 2019-11-27 15:22:23 | 1,574,868,143 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | e2hgo7 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/e2hgo7/i_30_wondering_if_this_is_a_slow_fade_or_hem31_is/ | 3 | Okay so here it goes. Recently met a guy through online dating. He messaged and appeared witty. We discussed our backgrounds and he said he had not been in a relationship in 7years, he said he was always career and sport-focused. The next day he gave me his number and I didn't reply. I had been on two dates with anothe... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I (30) wondering if this is a slow fade or he(M31) is literally just busy. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/e2hgo7/i_30_wondering_if_this_is_a_slow_fade_or_hem31_is/ |
Efficient_Storm2419 | 2022-04-04 22:21:20 | 1,649,110,880 | null | ['online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | twevmv | true | I Need Advice | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/twevmv/should_i_avoid_trying_to_date_before_im_a/ | 15 | I know these are things I should promptly change, but currently I am unemployed/not in school, never had a post-high school "glow up," barely exercise, and don't leave the house much. I'm not a very productive/passionate person, and am generally what you'd consider a loser. Most people would not date someone like this,... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I avoid trying to date before I'm a "functional adult"? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/twevmv/should_i_avoid_trying_to_date_before_im_a/ |
Burstingtick41 | 2024-04-24 11:53:11 | 1,713,959,591 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1cbw7jr | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cbw7jr/does_cold_approaching_work_any_other_options/ | 1 | Hi everyone, After a little over a year since my last relationship ended, I’ve decided to get back into the dating scene. I met my ex via online dating. But after having quite a bit of experience using dating apps, I can’t even think of the words to describe just how insanely terrible it is. Don’t even get me started o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does cold approaching work? Any other options? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cbw7jr/does_cold_approaching_work_any_other_options/ |
Onisontahh | 2021-01-18 04:31:47 | 1,610,944,307 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | kzn5kj | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kzn5kj/how_should_i_have_responded_to_girl_who_cancelled/ | 1 | So long story short there’s this girl, we went out a year ago, didn’t go that well (sort of awkward), she matched with me on tinder a month ago, we had a first date and it went well, so now we were gonna go on another date after she got back from break but she’s cancelled twice so far. In the past the following has alw... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How should I have responded to girl who cancelled on my twice for second date? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kzn5kj/how_should_i_have_responded_to_girl_who_cancelled/ |
MiezMiez4ever | 2020-10-25 21:46:43 | 1,603,662,403 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | ji1wxv | true | null | 92 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ji1wxv/your_experience_with_bumble/ | 11 | What has your experience with Bumble been? I'm 29F and recently downloaded it. It's not so widely used where I live, but the stack seems quite decent. I've previously used Once and Tinder. Had a lot of dates in summer 2019 with Once and ended up dating someone for 5 months. After that I used Tinder for a little while, ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Your experience with Bumble? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ji1wxv/your_experience_with_bumble/ |
hello_there669 | 2020-11-23 18:12:47 | 1,606,155,167 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | jzmzhq | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jzmzhq/how_does_people_meet_in_this_day_and_age/ | 5 | Corona aside, how does people meet each other, in a way allowing them to talk, fall in love and all that? I get online dating, something my socially anxious but charismatic ass like a lot (my ex/whatever [it’s complicated]), but where I live, there aren’t too many people using that. I might have thought something like ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How does people meet in this day and age? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jzmzhq/how_does_people_meet_in_this_day_and_age/ |
doonuter | 2011-08-16 20:31:53 | 1,313,526,713 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | null | jku6q | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/jku6q/i_dont_want_to_be_an_asshole/ | 2 | So I've been seeing this girl for several weeks now. We met on okcupid, and hit it off pretty well. On the second date, we hooked up. We've been fooling around a few times a week since, and we've never discussed being exclusive or anything like that. However, she often tells me that she really likes me, and asks me que... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't want to be an asshole | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jku6q/i_dont_want_to_be_an_asshole/ |
Lodreus503 | 2018-09-17 22:51:26 | 1,537,224,686 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 9gp643 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9gp643/best_dating_apps/ | 1 | What would you consider to be the best dating apps? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Best dating apps? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9gp643/best_dating_apps/ |
BenjAmerican | 2019-06-29 20:30:17 | 1,561,840,217 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | c746zk | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c746zk/first_date_in_a_long_time_tonight/ | 1 | Tonight (in about 2 hours) I have a date and this is the first date I’ve in about a year and a half since a bad break up. We met on the app Hinge, talked for a bit and now we are we’re getting dinner tonight. I’m really excited but I’m also keeping an open mind in case it doesn’t work out. Wish me luck! 😄 | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date in a long time tonight! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c746zk/first_date_in_a_long_time_tonight/ |
rlh422 | 2017-01-18 15:02:53 | 1,484,751,773 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 5optbw | null | null | 12 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5optbw/dating_app_yes_or_no/ | 7 | So I go to college where everyone knows everyone and I wouldn't say there is much of an LGBT community and I am lesbian. I am currently trying to be friends with my ex who I dated on and off for a year and a half. We broke up for good for many reasons but a big one was her family isn't supportive and she's dead set on ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app yes or no? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5optbw/dating_app_yes_or_no/ |
maytru3 | 2021-02-15 05:27:49 | 1,613,366,869 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | lk6mvm | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/lk6mvm/what_do_you_look_for_on_her_social_media/ | 0 | Sometimes when I match someone they will ask for my social so I will give them it and without fail they have always ghosted me including canceled or stood up our date we had planned before they saw my IG. I am not very physically attractive but my friends who I've shown my online dating profiles have said that the pict... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What do you look for on her social media? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/lk6mvm/what_do_you_look_for_on_her_social_media/ |
DifferentFun7 | 2023-02-28 21:15:22 | 1,677,618,922 | null | ['matches', 'swiping'] | 0 | 11ek65z | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/11ek65z/anxiety_around_multidating_and_intentions_from/ | 52 | I (30F) recently met someone very wonderful (31M), and usually when I get to this point of genuinely being interested in someone, swiping and matching on apps goes on the back burner and I focus on the person in front of me to see things out. At first I’ll go on first dates with 2-3 people and then if all works well, o... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Anxiety around multi-dating and intentions from matches | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/11ek65z/anxiety_around_multidating_and_intentions_from/ |
MonteCousteau | 2020-12-23 01:28:09 | 1,608,686,889 | null | null | 0 | kij1h7 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/kij1h7/funny_profile_pictures/ | 22 | So I've been single and using dating apps on and off for about 6 years now and in that Time I've come across my fair share of funny/weird/bizarre and frankly fucked up profiles in my time. Including but not limited to a woman strangling a swan, a girl in sexy lingerie while holding a toddler and most strangely of girl ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Funny Profile Pictures | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/kij1h7/funny_profile_pictures/ |
iTouchRouters | 2021-07-22 05:03:24 | 1,626,930,204 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | op75dc | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/op75dc/how_do_i_get_build_confidence_to_get_numbers_from/ | 2 | TLDR: saw a girl, no idea what to say to her, left the store and internally kicked myself for not knowing what to say or being confident enough to say it. how do i get and build confidence to get numbers from women in public? i feel i spent way too much time on this so use the TLDR if you don't want to read an essay. i... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do I get and build confidence to get numbers from women in public? | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/op75dc/how_do_i_get_build_confidence_to_get_numbers_from/ |
[deleted] | 2013-06-26 00:45:38 | 1,372,207,538 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1h2r0v | null | null | 21 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/1h2r0v/25_year_old_guy_who_hasnt_had_a_kiss_yet/ | 4 | Throwaway account So I'm 25 as the title says and I am a complete virgin. I've never had a girlfriend, never had a kiss, never even really held someones hand. I've had hugs from friends and coworkers, but that obviously doesn't mean anything. I thought I was "straight edge" in high school so I avoided this stuff at all... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | 25 year old guy who hasn't had a kiss yet. | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1h2r0v/25_year_old_guy_who_hasnt_had_a_kiss_yet/ |
Rubixthing | 2016-02-07 17:19:16 | 1,454,865,556 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 44mhlb | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/44mhlb/flirty_texts_a_question_for_women/ | 12 | So, I'm talking to this girl I met on Tinder. Got her number, we met up once, we both had fun and I really want to see her again. Now, before I ask her out again I want to get her excited to see me, so I need some flirty texting ideas. I am terrible at this kind of stuff, hence this post. (Mind you, I'm not in this jus... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Flirty texts: a question for women | 12 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/44mhlb/flirty_texts_a_question_for_women/ |
prettyprincess6255 | 2019-03-20 16:10:48 | 1,553,098,248 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | b3dvdr | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/b3dvdr/lack_of_romantic_relationships/ | 2 | Hi Guys! Sorry for the improper formatting but I’m on my phone. For a little background: I am a normal, social 22 year old, admittedly pretty (not because i am narcissistic or conceited but because i have noticed the pretty privilege i’ve been awarded on multiple times), and yet I can’t find a romantic partner to date ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Lack of Romantic Relationships | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/b3dvdr/lack_of_romantic_relationships/ |
Parking_Gur7852 | 2023-12-06 23:37:42 | 1,701,905,862 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 18chowo | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18chowo/would_this_be_ok_to_do_to_a_girl_im_talking_to/ | 1 | Alright a little background i m started chatting with this girl through snap (we originally matched off tinder, also we only ever communicate online) alrifht back to the story so weve chatted on snap here and there but the last two months have just been snaps back and forth virtually good morning and good night snaps. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would this be ok to do to a girl im talking to? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18chowo/would_this_be_ok_to_do_to_a_girl_im_talking_to/ |
PainlessSauce | 2022-08-30 13:17:59 | 1,661,865,479 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | x1ixi5 | true | Question ❓ | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/x1ixi5/is_it_embarrassing_to_be_on_dating_apps_for_too/ | 2 | I had a girl ask me one time how long I've been on the dating app. She told me she's only been on it for a few months and I said that I've been on and off for almost 6 years. (Many dates and a few gfs but obviously none that lasted) Anyways, I felt a sense of judgement when I answered and I didn't know if that's someth... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it embarrassing to be on dating apps for "too long"? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/x1ixi5/is_it_embarrassing_to_be_on_dating_apps_for_too/ |
Suspicious_Milk_1234 | 2023-07-14 07:30:44 | 1,689,319,844 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 14z9m22 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14z9m22/am_i_just_overthinking/ | 1 | I (M26) have been talking to a girl (F24) that I met on Hinge regularly for almost a month now. I didn’t want to rush into meeting and we both have pretty tight schedules, but we managed to meet up last Friday night for a first date. Overall I feel that it went okay, not great and not bad. I was pretty nervous as it wa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I just overthinking? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14z9m22/am_i_just_overthinking/ |
giftedhands81 | 2016-02-08 19:37:08 | 1,454,960,228 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 44skcj | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/44skcj/common_lies_in_online_dating_profiles/ | 2 | The online dating world is competitive and you need to make the best impression to get noticed. Creating a dating profile is easy to set up, so unfortunately what you see and read will not always be true. Here are some common lies that are used in online profiles. Age Online dating sites allow you to choose your specif... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Common lies in online dating profiles | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/44skcj/common_lies_in_online_dating_profiles/ |
Sewendipity | 2023-05-01 13:11:49 | 1,682,946,709 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 134m4wy | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/134m4wy/old_is_a_wild_ride/ | 3 | My favorite person I met moved across the ocean (we knew that was going to happen, just didn’t expect to like him so much), the next one ended up having a girlfriend (found this out after 2 months of talking), and now I’m apparently talking to a guy in prison. This has been exhausting 😅 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | OLD is a wild ride | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/134m4wy/old_is_a_wild_ride/ |
mkmk1010 | 2023-10-26 18:22:03 | 1,698,344,523 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 17h2xa7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17h2xa7/guy_friend_zoned_me_after_first_date_but/ | 1 | Met a guy (m32) on hinge and went out for a drink. Convo was good but he let me split the bill. And on the way out he was trying to wrap his hands around my waist which I felt a little uncomfortable so I avoided that. He didn't walk me home (in fact, I walked to him to metro station as it was on the way to my home lol)... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy friend zoned me after first date but ...? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17h2xa7/guy_friend_zoned_me_after_first_date_but/ |
mstenger404 | 2017-06-14 08:51:58 | 1,497,430,318 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6h6a3i | null | null | 17 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/6h6a3i/what_do_you_like_to_see_in_tinder_profiles/ | 1 | What appeals to you, and what do you prefer to see more of? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | What do you like to see in Tinder profiles? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/6h6a3i/what_do_you_like_to_see_in_tinder_profiles/ |
MetalTango | 2023-07-04 22:30:32 | 1,688,509,832 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 14qt09r | false | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14qt09r/finally_kindling_a_relationship_should_i_stay/ | 1 | I have been dating this girl now for nearly 2 months and we are somewhat going strong. I wouldn't put anything official but she's about to start med school and I would say that she's very comfortable with me visiting. We've not consummated but there is a strong physical connection. I deleted all my other apps besides b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Finally kindling a relationship, should I stay focused? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14qt09r/finally_kindling_a_relationship_should_i_stay/ |
whstewart88 | 2020-04-01 12:26:53 | 1,585,744,013 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | fsyte4 | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/fsyte4/you_wont_meet_anyone_if_you_just_lay_in_bed/ | 8 | A friend recently gave me this line when I was dealing with some depression tied to feeling like I am to old for the dating game (31M, 32 in May). Was a very valid point of course, only real way to meet people from bed is through online dating, which seems like a waste of time anymore. The thought though came to mind..... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | You wont meet anyone if you just lay in bed... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/fsyte4/you_wont_meet_anyone_if_you_just_lay_in_bed/ |
wlwlwlwllil | 2022-01-13 01:58:21 | 1,642,039,101 | null | null | 0 | s2ndi5 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/s2ndi5/im_reaching_my_limit/ | 1 | I'm not a relationship person. I was ill in my younger years and eventually, out of personal necessity so I didn't kill myself, other interests took over any serious commitment I was able to put in building relationships. I don't lead with this. It's a secret. I'd describe myself as introverted. Other than my usual ang... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I'm reaching my limit | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/s2ndi5/im_reaching_my_limit/ |
bubnicka | 2020-05-04 11:52:37 | 1,588,593,157 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | gda7as | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gda7as/tinder_starting_tips/ | 5 | So I just started using tinder, just a bit casually I guess. I was wondering if anyone could give any tips for a tinder-newbie, like opening lines or just the general gist of things. Anything would be useful, thank you 3 | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder starting tips | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gda7as/tinder_starting_tips/ |
JoesephMamaaa | 2019-11-24 12:56:52 | 1,574,600,212 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | e0y78m | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e0y78m/what_do_i_m18_do_about_this_weird_tinder_situation/ | 1 | So I matched with this girl on Tinder a few weeks back. Eventually it dawned on me that we used to hang out at the same places, she knew some of my friends, and I remembered she was the girl that got super awkward around me for some reason. Anyway, we matched, talked for a while, then the responses got really drawn out... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I (M18) do about this weird Tinder situation? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e0y78m/what_do_i_m18_do_about_this_weird_tinder_situation/ |
Smart-Can-6714 | 2023-09-28 07:03:04 | 1,695,884,584 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 16u90zs | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/16u90zs/lust_vs_like/ | 1 | This is just a rant / ‘tell me I’m not alone’ post I (40m) have just started dating after a long relationship and a few years single getting my head together. After a couple of non starters, I met someone on OLD, chatted, met for coffee and then went on a second date for drinks, kissed, held hands, cuddled. It was nice... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Lust vs Like | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/16u90zs/lust_vs_like/ |
araknadash | 2021-12-23 21:46:15 | 1,640,295,975 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | rn675o | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rn675o/so_hungover_a_bumble_date_who_wants_to_be_friends/ | 1 | I had 3-4 bumble dates with a guy, who i think i have fallen head over heels for. I know its very silly to fall for someone in just few dates and Im trying really hard not to, but its just my heart (i cant help it). Anyway, one of those dates we were having a conversation about love and relationship, he proceeded to te... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So hungover a bumble date who wants to be friends | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rn675o/so_hungover_a_bumble_date_who_wants_to_be_friends/ |
obeth22 | 2023-08-30 17:19:08 | 1,693,415,948 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 165krkf | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/165krkf/should_i_have_foreseen_this_dumping_was_he_using/ | 1 | I (30F) was dating a guy (29M) for 2 months. He dumped me last night over text and I wasn't expecting it at all. Did I misread any signs and any insight into what happened? Details: We met on Hinge and hit it off pretty immediately. Our first date was at a bar and lasted 7 hours because we couldn't stop talking. In tot... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I have foreseen this dumping? Was he using me? Trying to learn for the future. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/165krkf/should_i_have_foreseen_this_dumping_was_he_using/ |
Dense-Face-487 | 2022-12-04 08:03:46 | 1,670,141,026 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | zc41lj | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zc41lj/advice_for_a_newly_single_guy/ | 1 | I'm a 43 year old man living in suburban NY about 20 miles east of NYC. I just got out of a 19 year relationship (married for 13). A lot has changed since I was last single in 2003. I've read that cold approach is almost completely dead and is more often than not, socially unacceptable. I've also heard that nightlife i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice for a newly single guy | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zc41lj/advice_for_a_newly_single_guy/ |
itsok504 | 2022-11-05 13:28:28 | 1,667,654,908 | null | null | 0 | ymty4u | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ymty4u/we_have_a_date_in_a_hour_the_last_thing_i_sent/ | 15 | I was expecting her to respond to the message with Ok or even just liking the message. She also goes to sleep pretty late so I was also expecting her to open it. She seemed pretty excited about us meeting. I doubt she still sleeping or didn’t see my message | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | We have a date in a hour. The last thing I sent her last night was “we talk more in the morning I will message you first thing in the morning” on instagram. She hasn’t opened the message it still says “sent” Should I message her again or leave it alone? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ymty4u/we_have_a_date_in_a_hour_the_last_thing_i_sent/ |
SlowEgg8178 | 2022-10-14 04:23:13 | 1,665,721,393 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | y3jv5d | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/y3jv5d/i_28m_am_tired_of_dating_in_this_day_and_age/ | 2 | I've been on countless first dates some of which led to few more, some led to hook ups and most led no where. I know some has to do with online dating, too many options, but I believe there is one other major reason. Girls usually put in no investment into these firs dates. I've had experience where the girls has taken... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [28M] am tired of dating in this day and age | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y3jv5d/i_28m_am_tired_of_dating_in_this_day_and_age/ |
Jonkftw | 2017-11-02 09:47:01 | 1,509,616,021 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 7aag4b | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7aag4b/first_date_woes/ | 1 | Hi guys, I began to speak to this girl on 'bumble' around 2 weeks ago. We've texted alot over the last 2 weeks, pretty much every day. She seemed really keen, very attentive and lovely etc. I arranged a date with her which took place last night, we chatted for hours, everything went well. She's really cute and reciproc... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date woes? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7aag4b/first_date_woes/ |
Rounak_nath | 2022-03-25 20:31:36 | 1,648,240,296 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | tnydo3 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tnydo3/as_a_men_is_it_ok_to_declare_im_looking_for_a/ | 3 | If it's okay then how to say it casually. (I forgot to mention serious relationship) | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | As a men is it ok to declare I'm looking for a relationship, at an early stage of talking on a dating app? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tnydo3/as_a_men_is_it_ok_to_declare_im_looking_for_a/ |
boosteddub07 | 2019-06-12 00:43:52 | 1,560,300,232 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | bzkjid | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bzkjid/dated_a_coworkernow_what/ | 1 | A few months ago a woman I work with started messaging me a lot and showed interest which ended with us going on a few dates even though I was uneasy about dating a coworker. All along she seemed to have a wall up and it sounded like it was due to bad past experiences dating, which is whatever I was willing to work wit... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dated a coworker....now what | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bzkjid/dated_a_coworkernow_what/ |
EdwardTheMartyr | 2019-09-10 15:58:00 | 1,568,131,080 | null | null | 0 | d29ldq | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/d29ldq/who_is_tinder_for/ | 15 | From what I've heard and read on the Internet, Tinder is for hookups and casual dating, not a website for long term relationships with marriage as the end goal. That true? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Who is Tinder for? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/d29ldq/who_is_tinder_for/ |
casual_onion | 2022-05-02 05:28:21 | 1,651,469,301 | null | null | 0 | ugifne | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ugifne/unmatched_the_day_of_the_date/ | 9 | I'm at a loss. I've been chatting for just over a week now, good chat with long conversations. So much in common with me. Yesterday, we confirmed the venue and location, had a few back and forth messages about the venue. Then it went silent, she said she was busy so I left it. Went to check this morning, she's deleted ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Unmatched the day of the date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ugifne/unmatched_the_day_of_the_date/ |
indie-care | 2020-05-20 17:00:51 | 1,589,994,051 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | gnf63v | true | Question | 23 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gnf63v/do_you_think_online_dating_will_evolve_to_virtual/ | 9 | As we've seen in the part years, Tinder and other online platforms for dating has taken the world by storm. It used to be laughable to use Tinder and go on dates through tinder. Now it's almost more normal than approaching others in person. With knowing this, do you think virtual reality would be the future of dating. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you think online dating will evolve to virtual reality dating in the future? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gnf63v/do_you_think_online_dating_will_evolve_to_virtual/ |
rumisgirl | 2020-09-30 20:58:54 | 1,601,499,534 | null | ['matches', 'swipe'] | 0 | j2uleq | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 44 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/j2uleq/do_you_automatically_swipe_left_on_someone_with/ | 8 | My friends and I were talking and they said they automatically swipe left on anyone labeled as moderate or conservative. Awkward because I told them a while back that my match (now boyfriend) listed himself as a moderate..... (I consider myself liberal). Early on in our dating phase, I mentioned that while I don’t expe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you automatically swipe left on someone with different politics than you? | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j2uleq/do_you_automatically_swipe_left_on_someone_with/ |
shubhmad96 | 2024-03-03 16:30:31 | 1,709,483,431 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1b5l88c | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b5l88c/how_to_meet_new_dates/ | 1 | I currently work from home, so get very little time before and after work.Most of my friend circle are in different cities due to work.So have virtually non existing social life. Also,tried dating apps but came across a few scams and some matches dont reply after matching up. Want to start my dating life back again. Ne... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to meet new dates | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b5l88c/how_to_meet_new_dates/ |
miskomiska | 2019-12-04 16:37:19 | 1,575,477,439 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | e61tmm | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e61tmm/is_there_something_wrong_in_my_head_world_of/ | 5 | Hey everyone! I'm 25(F) and so far I've only been in one long relationship (5 years). It's been more then a year since the break up, and I've started dating again. I've gone on quite a lot of dates (mostly through tinder, got quite a lot of matches, but also friends of some friends, or just some random people I met irl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there something wrong in my head? World of dating and (no) feelings | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e61tmm/is_there_something_wrong_in_my_head_world_of/ |
Logical-Map-650 | 2023-08-05 07:00:32 | 1,691,218,832 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15ioknv | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/15ioknv/how_do_you_carry_on_a_conversation_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | Someone people seem like they’d be cool but I can’t think of things to say that’d make us connect enough to ask to hang out. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do you carry on a conversation on dating apps when you can’t find much on the profile to comment on? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/15ioknv/how_do_you_carry_on_a_conversation_on_dating_apps/ |
Thisdrawingsucks | 2018-01-19 20:58:49 | 1,516,395,529 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7rlgu7 | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7rlgu7/how_to_cancel_a_date_once_i_realized_im_not_that/ | 1 | Met this girl on tinder and we immediately hit it off, she invited me out to coffee and movies at her place. She’s cute but not really my type, how do I tell her I’m not that into her. Possible outs: she has pictures of her and her ex where she tagged things like ilovehim, they broke up two months ago She’s really reli... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to cancel a date once I realized I’m not that attracted her (she asked me out) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7rlgu7/how_to_cancel_a_date_once_i_realized_im_not_that/ |
heckityspleckity | 2019-01-09 14:50:01 | 1,547,045,401 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | ae7ifo | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ae7ifo/advice_on_the_middle_point_of_finding_a_romance/ | 1 | I’ll try to keep this short, I know the title might be a little confusing. Basically, I (22m) have always been a super friendly and very socially confident guy but I really struggle with acting on romantic interests. It’s a bit weird, I can do it if I’m on a tinder date, which I feel is because I know the other person ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice on the middle point of finding a romance. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ae7ifo/advice_on_the_middle_point_of_finding_a_romance/ |
candidburrito | 2019-03-07 05:05:44 | 1,551,935,144 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | ay8uyc | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ay8uyc/taking_my_first_old_break/ | 10 | I wish I were taking a break for really positive and uplifting reasons, but the truth is I’m taking a break because I’m really sad and disappointed. I’m putting all my apps on pause or hold in hopes that some time away will help “clear the cache,” so to speak. Does anyone have any advice for me during this time? I’m so... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Taking my first OLD break | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ay8uyc/taking_my_first_old_break/ |
Remote_Suicide | 2024-07-22 21:55:32 | 1,721,685,332 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1e9qo3b | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1e9qo3b/hello_men_of_reddit_how_do_i_master_the_science/ | 0 | Hello, Im 28, decent hair, look relatively young (if you want a reference, I basically look like young Stalin). Bodyheight is 1,88 and Im not overweight. Ive always struggeled with the scienece of women. I have zero clue and zero experience. How do I start and where do I start? I need the basics of dating. Ive tried Ti... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Hello Men of Reddit, how do I master the science of girlfriends? | 0 | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1e9qo3b/hello_men_of_reddit_how_do_i_master_the_science/ |
kripticblade | 2014-06-05 21:02:34 | 1,402,002,154 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 27eynj | null | null | 15 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/27eynj/online_dating_what_are_some_positives_that_would/ | 5 | Women of Reddit, online dating is a big event happening almost everywhere.. It is almost next to the number of users on FB. Some people put a lot of work and dedication into their profile, and a simple hello or hi is given. Or maybe even a well thought out line off of Your profile. What's going on on the other side? Wh... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | ONLINE DATING: What are some positives that would likely get you to respond or continue the conversation. | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/27eynj/online_dating_what_are_some_positives_that_would/ |
Gagirl4604 | 2017-05-13 14:17:46 | 1,494,685,066 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6ay1ml | null | null | 13 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6ay1ml/bots_and_scammers_on_tinder/ | 4 | So what's everyone's experience here? I've had some weird conversations (syntax, grammar, non sequiturs, etc.) that led me to wonder if I was talking to a bot. I also think I'm a scam target right now. Texting someone who claims to be high up in the military, divorced, etc. Pics on Tinder match the name I was given. Th... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Bots and scammers on Tinder | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6ay1ml/bots_and_scammers_on_tinder/ |
SnooMacarons1274 | 2022-01-18 05:47:14 | 1,642,484,834 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | s6q2y2 | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s6q2y2/should_i_text_him/ | 0 | I (25F) matched with this guy (26M) on bumble about a week ago. We hit it off right from the start. We FaceTimed that same night and talked for about three hours. We decided to meet up the next day. He picked me up and took me for a drink at Starbucks. There was a lot of chemistry and even though we hung out for about ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I text him? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s6q2y2/should_i_text_him/ |
nbeason4553 | 2023-01-26 22:44:37 | 1,674,773,077 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 10m4wkb | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10m4wkb/posing_for_pictures/ | 0 | So I’m a bigger buy 6 foot 265lbs and I have no idea how to pose for pictures for dating apps. Any advice for me? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Posing for pictures | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10m4wkb/posing_for_pictures/ |
Motor_Selection8496 | 2023-05-19 23:34:56 | 1,684,539,296 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 13mbhs0 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13mbhs0/everything_was_going_great_but_why_did_you_have/ | 0 | I met this really cute girl (24f) on tinder and we had a great conversations and first few dates, even the sex was great but god damn we were just getting to know each other (closer) and she proceeds to give me details about having sex with another man, i know we never discussed being exclusive or what kind of relation... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Everything was going great but why did you have to tell me details about having sex with another person | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13mbhs0/everything_was_going_great_but_why_did_you_have/ |
Emotional_Dig_1990 | 2023-12-15 11:57:02 | 1,702,641,422 | 0 | ['swiping', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18iygr9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18iygr9/i_27f_am_jaded_to_online_dating_i_think/ | 1 | I am from a small town in Manitoba, Canada. It is nearly impossible to meet anybody organically in this VERY conservative town. There are no bars or hang out spots to go. I turned to online dating apps and reddit.. however, I don't feel an attraction to ANYONE. I can see somebody and think they are a good looking man, ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I 27F am jaded to online dating (I think?) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18iygr9/i_27f_am_jaded_to_online_dating_i_think/ |
FeedEastern2497 | 2022-02-10 20:07:08 | 1,644,523,628 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | spfpxl | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/spfpxl/after_5_years_why_wait/ | 1 | So I’m a 23 female who’s been on dating apps since I was 16. I met this guy (m30) on tinder when I was 18 and he was 24 almost 25. Every time we start something I end up going through something and backing away. It happened several times and it usually me who backs away and end up in another relationship. So in January... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | After 5 years why wait? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/spfpxl/after_5_years_why_wait/ |
The_Advocates_Devil_ | 2020-06-24 01:12:38 | 1,592,961,158 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | herbr0 | true | Question | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/herbr0/match_making_services_has_anyone_used_these/ | 2 | How are match making services when compared to online dating or meeting someone in a bar? Are the matches good fits? Interested in the whole process too as a man. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Match Making Services. Has anyone used these services? How was the experience? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/herbr0/match_making_services_has_anyone_used_these/ |
Confused_Cat20201 | 2023-12-07 20:53:33 | 1,701,982,413 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18d5bb6 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18d5bb6/am_i_doing_something_wrong/ | 3 | I've been on dating apps for this entire year. I've been dating out of my comfort zone, dating guys that i don't find attractive, dating guys that i do find attractive, nice guys, army guys, white guys, brown guys, country guys, ALL THE GUYS. I admit I am picky because i know what i want. But i wanted to date outside o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I doing something wrong? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18d5bb6/am_i_doing_something_wrong/ |
throwawaybmambaa | 2021-12-24 07:59:13 | 1,640,332,753 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | rnhgbb | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rnhgbb/im_definitely_gonna_give_up_now/ | 0 | Just a quick question for those who found love on Reddit or had success with online dating, just how did you do it? Really, because I need to know Today makes it one year and 10 days I've been on Reddit and I guess I never had any luck with meeting someone here. So with that in mind I guess I'm just gonna give up on on... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm definitely gonna give up now.. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rnhgbb/im_definitely_gonna_give_up_now/ |
ShafordoDrForgone | 2022-11-19 02:17:09 | 1,668,824,229 | null | null | 0 | yz154a | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yz154a/moneyball_of_old/ | 3 | (If you haven't seen Moneyball, it is an excellent movie. There isn't much to spoil but I won't spoil it) Does anyone wonder if most people are just terrible at determining the value of the person in front of them? If it happened for a century's worth of multi-billion dollar baseball, surely it's possible that most of ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Moneyball of OLD | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yz154a/moneyball_of_old/ |
Public_Course9167 | 2024-05-27 15:18:22 | 1,716,823,102 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d1tx0g | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d1tx0g/how_often_do_you_meet_someone_that_you_actually/ | 2 | On dating apps or in real life? Don’t get me wrong, I meet plenty of people who I like. But people that I REALLY just connect with, every couple of years. It’s very rare. And then on top of that, it’s even more rare if it’s mutual. Asking bc I met this guy a few months ago, and without getting into our situation— it’s ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How often do you meet someone that you actually connect with (physically, emotionally, intellectually)? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d1tx0g/how_often_do_you_meet_someone_that_you_actually/ |
throwawayaccountt789 | 2019-04-24 09:59:11 | 1,556,099,951 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | bgsqkj | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bgsqkj/met_him_on_a_dating_we_were_talking_for_many/ | 2 | I (22F) met him (20M) on dating app. His ex comes back to his life and he wants me to remain as friends. Many months ago I met this guy, lets call him Jeremy. We exchanged numbers and as the days went by we got closer. We didn't meet in person because we live hours away from eachother. We confessed that we loved each o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met him on a dating. We were talking for many months. His ex appeared and he wants us to stay friends. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bgsqkj/met_him_on_a_dating_we_were_talking_for_many/ |
fandangleapple | 2024-08-03 12:43:19 | 1,722,688,999 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ej2h0v | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ej2h0v/18m_help_plz/ | 1 | Not really relationship advice but I'm 18 and I feel like I'm missing out. Everyone ik has been in a relationship before but I haven't had anything close. Not even a talking stage straight nothing. I'm not even shy or unconfident 😭😂 I'm kinda tall and workout and play basketball. But the Wells just very dry. No girls... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 18M help plz | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ej2h0v/18m_help_plz/ |
yakuma00 | 2023-09-28 09:48:31 | 1,695,894,511 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 16ublmb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16ublmb/how_do_i_30f_stop_the_short_term_relationship/ | 1 | I have met some guys through OLD who I’ve gotten pretty deeply involved with. At least 3 men in the last 10 months. I’ve genuinely liked and cared for them in their own ways. Now, let me preface again, that I’ve been blocked by all three men. Obviously, none of them worked out and I’ve felt pretty heartbroken about it.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I (30F) stop the short term relationship cycle and create safe boundaries? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16ublmb/how_do_i_30f_stop_the_short_term_relationship/ |
[deleted] | 2021-11-28 21:49:12 | 1,638,136,152 | null | ['OLD', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | r4fc74 | true | Giving Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r4fc74/for_all_the_man_who_struggle_with_dating_here_a/ | 1 | Hi , maybe I m not the best giving advice but I just have the next experience in old and Real life and I will explain my situation I'm 21 , man , bisexual ( a great turn off for most of people, both men and mostly women ) , 5'7 , and I conduct a normal- difficult life with a lot of Problem, and a lot of you who complai... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | For all the man who struggle with dating , here a little advice that I would give you! | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r4fc74/for_all_the_man_who_struggle_with_dating_here_a/ |
FatBarbarella | 2018-03-03 22:13:33 | 1,520,115,213 | null | ['OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | 81tf5m | false | null | 32 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/81tf5m/whatd_i_do/ | 2 | The best OLD success ive had came with Tinder, however im starting to see that as more of a hookup site...? Ok. A few times i have gotten to the point of texting and sharing pics (not nudies) and then...poof. They just stop. Im a single mom and i work, this is in my profile, as is my age and some general info. I have r... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Whatd i do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/81tf5m/whatd_i_do/ |
Late_Arm5956 | 2024-08-20 15:21:34 | 1,724,167,294 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1ewycsv | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ewycsv/am_i_getting_the_ick_too_soon/ | 0 | Or am I not giving enough grace for awkwardness? Matched with this guy on FB dating two days or so ago. We messaged a bit yesterday. He wanted to add me as a FB friend. I respectfully told him no and explained that I had met too many internet creeps and didn’t feel comfortable yet. He agreed that there are a lot of int... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I getting the “ick” too soon? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ewycsv/am_i_getting_the_ick_too_soon/ |
blessedwiththecurse | 2021-03-25 06:35:09 | 1,616,654,109 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | mcruxb | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mcruxb/is_she_testing_me_to_see_how_i_would_react/ | 1 | So I’ve been messaging this girl I met on tinder for about 3 weeks now, we’ve been trying to arrange a date for a while now but due to conflicting schedules we just haven’t been able to. Bare in mind, our conversations are overtly sexual. Yesterday evening we were casually messaging and she asks me the following out of... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is she testing me to see how I would react? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mcruxb/is_she_testing_me_to_see_how_i_would_react/ |
Comfortable-Signal40 | 2022-06-17 21:21:12 | 1,655,500,872 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | veqfaw | true | Seeking Advice | 50 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/veqfaw/i_just_met_the_girl_of_my_dreams_help/ | 13 | So I really need some advice. I was recently away on a trip last weekend and met this amazing woman on Bumble. We were both in the same town visiting from different parts of the country and we hit it off right away. She was there with a good friend to celebrate some big moments (her recent divorce and her friends soon ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I just met the girl of my dreams - HELP | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/veqfaw/i_just_met_the_girl_of_my_dreams_help/ |
lilsebastianswaffles | 2019-08-04 19:01:59 | 1,564,945,319 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cm04kb | true | null | 114 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/cm04kb/have_you_ever_been_sexually_hung_up_on_someone/ | 0 | So I don't date any more, but I hook up. I have a Tinder profile that states this very explicitly. A couple of months ago, I started talking to this guy and we really clicked. He lives about an hour and a half away and eventually came up to hang out. Sex was off the fucking charts. I've had a lot of sex in my lifetime ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Have you ever been sexually hung up on someone? How do you just get over it? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cm04kb/have_you_ever_been_sexually_hung_up_on_someone/ |
simplyme1993 | 2021-10-19 19:05:24 | 1,634,670,324 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | qbierk | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qbierk/back_to_high_school_dating_101/ | 2 | Sooooooo I'm a 28 year old female. Divorced. I've never really really gone out in the dating realm before. I've had FWBs and 1 relationship outside of my ex husband and I'm so apprehensive about dating again. I have social anxiety so I get nervous and uncomfortable when I'm around alot of people. What are some good dat... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Back to High School - Dating 101 | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qbierk/back_to_high_school_dating_101/ |
New_Industry_9933 | 2023-09-08 23:27:59 | 1,694,215,679 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16dpu01 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16dpu01/im_looking_to_settle_down/ | 1 | I’m (f) 29 am looking forward to settling down and creating a future with someone, I’m just extremely busy at the time due to work due to starting a new job,What is a good dating app to meet people who want to settle down? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m looking to settle down | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16dpu01/im_looking_to_settle_down/ |
ask_nae | 2023-09-02 13:31:34 | 1,693,661,494 | 0 | ['tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 1682mbs | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1682mbs/i_dont_like_hook_up_culture/ | 1 | Tinder, whisper, okcupid. I been in some pretty toxic sexual relations that I’m sure left me with ptsd. What I really desire from guys is an emotional connection but I haven’t been getting it because I been engaging with these guys sexually too soon leaving me traumatized | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I don’t like hook up culture | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1682mbs/i_dont_like_hook_up_culture/ |
bakedashellbitch | 2021-01-29 13:56:19 | 1,611,928,579 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | l7t3qt | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l7t3qt/what_to_do_when_youre_not_interested/ | 7 | Hi! this is my first post here :) I recently entered talking stages with this man from a dating app and he’s really sweet, but didn’t want to facetime with me. I always do better flirting in person because there’s so much more to pick up on about someone in the nonverbals; how they act around others, how they carry the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | what to do when youre not interested | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l7t3qt/what_to_do_when_youre_not_interested/ |
Thehoodradical | 2021-04-30 07:04:07 | 1,619,766,247 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | n1ofkf | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n1ofkf/had_a_fantastic_date/ | 3 | Hey reddit I(27Male) had a date yesterday with a girl from facebook dating, it was fantastic, i told her about my disability that i got a bad hip and can't do sports like running and so on, and it was ok for her. we had some drinks went on a walk, little boat trip enjoyed time together, she offered a second date but wh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | had a fantastic date. | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n1ofkf/had_a_fantastic_date/ |
yeet_away34 | 2021-03-20 20:27:33 | 1,616,272,053 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | m9fgg7 | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m9fgg7/im25_finally_met_long_distance_datef21_had_a/ | 2 | Tip tl;dr Meet girl online, waited way to long to meet. met, had great time, she acted like she has feelings for me. then says she doesn't. met again, even more romantic, but she still doesn't want more than friendship/say she doesn't know if she has feelings for me. we agreed to not talking for a while. I am unsure ho... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I(M25) finally met long distance date(F21), had a great time, but she claims feelings are gone. any way to save this? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m9fgg7/im25_finally_met_long_distance_datef21_had_a/ |
LongHairedKraut | 2023-03-25 20:25:46 | 1,679,775,946 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 121y0j6 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/121y0j6/27m_not_sure_what_i_even_want_out_of/ | 1 | Posting on here since r/seduction is dead This will be a long post so bear with me please As the title says I'm 27 years old and single. When it comes to dating I was a late bloomer in every respect. I didn't kiss a woman until I was 19 and only lost my virginity at 21. The longest relationship I've been in lasted a ye... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 27m, not sure what I even want out of dating/relationships anymore | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/121y0j6/27m_not_sure_what_i_even_want_out_of/ |
Historic_Noodle | 2024-06-03 19:49:21 | 1,717,444,161 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1d7dnnb | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d7dnnb/led_on_feel_a_bit_off/ | 1 | I met this classmate last semester. Had a lot of great conversations in class. We went to grab a coffee during the semester and I thought that was nice. Overall, it went well. I've noticed that was a great communicator and planner. Fast forward to last week, we planned to grab some drinks at a bar. Had this planned for... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Led on? Feel a bit Off. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d7dnnb/led_on_feel_a_bit_off/ |
OrangeCatFace | 2021-01-07 22:49:31 | 1,610,059,771 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ksoxxr | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/ksoxxr/pets_and_dating/ | 17 | Thanks so much all I'll update after this evening Edit no. 2 - thanks again to all of you The evening went well.. a few sniffles but not anything too uncomfortable for the "other" special girl in my life.. next day she felt pretty much great.. I'm also using a dry (no rinse) wash with the daily brushing and it's becom... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Pets and dating?? | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/ksoxxr/pets_and_dating/ |
everafterdating | 2016-06-09 06:43:56 | 1,465,454,636 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 4n9n6c | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4n9n6c/how_you_can_make_the_most_of_your_online_dating/ | 0 | Online dating is a wonderful way to meet other singles, but some people can find it overwhelming. These tips help you to make the most of your online dating experience and find the love connection that you are searching for. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How You Can Make the Most of Your Online Dating Experience | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4n9n6c/how_you_can_make_the_most_of_your_online_dating/ |
snakeservant | 2012-10-06 07:43:22 | 1,349,509,402 | 0 | ['eharmony'] | 0 | 11198g | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/11198g/23m_loser_needing_some_encouragement/ | 5 | I'm about the definition of a loser. First kiss wasn't until a year ago. Have had exactly two dates in the last 3 years. I tried eHarmony for a year and that went absolutely nowhere. I've always struck out with women. Every single one of them i've pursued since high school either wrote me out of their life, treated me ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [23M] loser needing some encouragement | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11198g/23m_loser_needing_some_encouragement/ |
candyswan1 | 2018-03-06 01:02:19 | 1,520,298,139 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 82b2nr | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/82b2nr/should_i_stop_pursuing_would_appreciate_input_on/ | 2 | I met a girl off of Bumble and we went on one date, it went okay (definitely could have gone better). Lasted about 2.5 hours and one drink (she didn't really even drink hers). When we talked over Bumble, her responses were always kind of delayed (mine were too though). But it got worse over text, she will take hours (i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I stop pursuing? Would appreciate input on texts. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/82b2nr/should_i_stop_pursuing_would_appreciate_input_on/ |
Long-Mycologist-8358 | 2023-01-23 04:09:38 | 1,674,446,978 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 10j3e56 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10j3e56/unmatched_and_confused/ | 2 | Matched someone on Bumble. Conversation was going great. We moved to exchanging numbers. Had a lot in common. We are both in our young 30s and looking for something serious. He called me out the blue the day before I had to move and we didn’t get to talk long. Let him know about the move. Even texted in the AM the day ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Unmatched and confused | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10j3e56/unmatched_and_confused/ |
im2old_4this | 2021-04-03 04:05:07 | 1,617,422,707 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | mj0zly | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mj0zly/38_and_so_confused/ | 0 | I live in northern Colorado and am going through a very drawn out divorce... It's not up in the air my two kids know everything as does the rest of my family, but I really just need a woman that I can be with. I'm the type of person that needs physical touch. I want to find somewhere that I can upload my pic so I can f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 38 and so confused | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mj0zly/38_and_so_confused/ |
ami2weird4u | 2024-06-12 17:55:06 | 1,718,214,906 | 0 | null | 0 | 1decy8q | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1decy8q/are_there_any_dating_apps_that_dont_have/ | 20 | I’ve done Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, POF, FB Dating, Coffee Meets Bagel, and some other app (forgot the name). All of them had a romance scammer. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Are there any dating apps that don’t have catfishes/romance scammers? | 19 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1decy8q/are_there_any_dating_apps_that_dont_have/ |
XOPrincessG | 2020-09-04 14:00:33 | 1,599,228,033 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | imgg6j | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 238 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/imgg6j/tinder_is_a_circus_and_i_dressed_like_a_clown/ | 1,150 | My match (bio claimed he was a gentleman) made reservations a week prior to a nice Italian restaurant for Thursday. We chatted briefly and he confirmed the night before. The reservation was at 8:30p. The day of the date I was waiting for him to hit me back, which he did 1 hour before the reservation. He told me to "Com... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder is a circus and I dressed like a clown last night. | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/imgg6j/tinder_is_a_circus_and_i_dressed_like_a_clown/ |
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