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40kAnime-san | 2024-06-05 01:36:04 | 1,717,551,364 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1d8e5hg | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d8e5hg/ghosted_after_agreeing_to_go_on_a_date/ | 1 | So I matched on an app with someone, we had a great conversation over the course of several days, we both had common interests and experiences and shared them, and finally decided to meet up. I offered a couple days that worked for me, she offered one that worked for her, and we settled on a day to meet. We did not dis... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ghosted after agreeing to go on a date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d8e5hg/ghosted_after_agreeing_to_go_on_a_date/ |
thatshawtyp | 2016-10-18 00:09:05 | 1,476,749,345 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 580skt | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/580skt/thinking_of_taking_a_year_off_from_dating_what_do/ | 2 | F, 22. For the last 2 or so years I feel like I've been going on a dating rave. Just dates with one man after another and it not going anywhere substantial. I'll admit I've received my fair share of Tinder dick which I never really expected would lead anywhere, but now I feel a certain conviction to just take time off.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Thinking of taking a year off from dating. What do y'all think about this? Have you ever taken a break from dating? How did this enrich your life? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/580skt/thinking_of_taking_a_year_off_from_dating_what_do/ |
ellie_bird | 2021-01-19 01:46:34 | 1,611,020,794 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | l09a24 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/l09a24/panic_attack_after_first_date/ | 5 | Panic attack after a first date So I’ve been trying out the online dating thing this year, and I’ve been on a couple first dates, none that have panned out. Today I met someone after messaging for a few dates and it was fine - nice guy, easy conversation, but I didn’t necessarily feel the spark. So when I got home, I p... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Panic attack after first date | null | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/l09a24/panic_attack_after_first_date/ |
BlowMeAwayToTheWind | 2022-01-08 07:31:15 | 1,641,627,075 | null | ['OLD', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ryudwn | true | null | 83 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/ryudwn/i_am_too_scared_to_meet_men_on_dating_apps/ | 32 | Fist of all it is exhausting and time consuming messaging the men (I am female) on dating apps. I have a lot of hobbies and interests that keep me busy and after a long day of work I would much rather be doing those then messaging internet strangers. I would also rather be attending some neetups that I like. So by the ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I am too scared to meet men on dating apps | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/ryudwn/i_am_too_scared_to_meet_men_on_dating_apps/ |
TaurusHeart | 2024-03-02 01:44:57 | 1,709,343,897 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1b4c6st | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b4c6st/girl_told_me_shes_gonna_be_late_by_an_hour/ | 1 | Used Hinge and asked her out on a date, we both agreed on 7pm as a good time. Fast forward to today, I show up a couple minutes to the time and she said she’s “running behind schedule”. That’s all. She didn’t tell me a specific amount of time at this point. I said that’s okay (because it really was) and asked her by ho... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl told me she’s gonna be late by an hour? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b4c6st/girl_told_me_shes_gonna_be_late_by_an_hour/ |
gothamknights88 | 2019-12-23 01:07:06 | 1,577,063,226 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | eed8so | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/eed8so/what_is_something_youve_learned_about_dating_this/ | 5 | Taken from the askwomen sub, since we have a different perspective. What's something you've personally realized/learned/felt about dating in the last decade. especially since this decade has been the birth of a lot of dating apps (tinder, bumble, coffee meets bagel, ect.). Do you primarily use dating apps, still go to ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What is something you've learned about dating this last decade? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/eed8so/what_is_something_youve_learned_about_dating_this/ |
2guyshangingoutnaked | 2023-08-14 23:43:41 | 1,692,056,621 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15rb9ql | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15rb9ql/i_feel_like_dating_advice_on_how_men_can_meet/ | 1 | Try public or cold approaching: but women don't like being approached by strange men. Leave them alone. But also they like it because it shows courage. At bars: leave women alone they want to hang out with their friends but also go to bars where there are lots of women. Dating Apps: They are ineffective but also its so... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel like dating advice on how men can meet women is always contradictory. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15rb9ql/i_feel_like_dating_advice_on_how_men_can_meet/ |
LakeWild1437 | 2024-07-21 14:28:21 | 1,721,572,101 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1e8njh0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e8njh0/need_urgent_help/ | 1 | Someone please tell me what to do It all started back in November of 2023 where I matched with this girl on a dating app she was in another country my home country actually and we started talking but she used to disappear for a couple of days at a time and wasn’t showing much interest so in January of 2024 I had a trip... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need urgent help | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e8njh0/need_urgent_help/ |
Throw_RAdepressedme | 2023-10-21 23:30:33 | 1,697,931,033 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17dflhg | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17dflhg/is_this_toxic_behaviour/ | 1 | So I have a crush on a person in a professional setting. I have no idea if they like me back but all I know is that they’re hot and cold with me. When I’m showing them interest, they show me interest. Though they’ve hurt me emotionally sometimes. They know I have a crush on them and they casually mention a person they ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this toxic behaviour? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17dflhg/is_this_toxic_behaviour/ |
ssskbpe | 2023-04-21 04:55:07 | 1,682,052,907 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 12tqtyq | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12tqtyq/how_do_you_find_time_to_date_multiple_people/ | 1 | Where do you find so many available single people? The only source I know is online/dating apps. How do you find time to date multiple people? Work, studying/self-improvements, gym, hobbies, social with friends… I am already super busy and I don’t even know how can people date multiple people? How do you find time to t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you find time to date multiple people? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12tqtyq/how_do_you_find_time_to_date_multiple_people/ |
sttmvp | 2024-09-05 17:48:34 | 1,725,558,514 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1f9snvo | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1f9snvo/reddit_over_50_dating_and_match_maker_sub/ | 1 | Reddit over 50 dating and match making sub I’ve read so many interesting and Informative post here and one of the topics that comes often is online dating or dating in general.. I looked briefly didn’t find on so if there’ isn’t one, couldn’t we create an over 50 dating, match making and friends sub here on Reddit to e... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Reddit over 50 dating and match maker sub | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1f9snvo/reddit_over_50_dating_and_match_maker_sub/ |
bonuslife45 | 2024-03-19 01:12:34 | 1,710,810,754 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bi7vqh | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bi7vqh/hahahahaha/ | 1 | Love it when a walking STD messages you on a dating app, exchange photos and then get ghosted. Classy. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hahahahaha | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bi7vqh/hahahahaha/ |
plantpotgal | 2020-01-08 20:39:56 | 1,578,515,996 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | elyicy | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/elyicy/is_it_ok_to_try_dating_others_when_your_into/ | 4 | I’m (21f) attracted to a guy (23m) where we have hooked up and expressed interest in each other previously but now a relationship is not going to happen. I don’t want to be attracted to him anymore but feelings don’t listen to the brain, typically i stop being attracted to them when a new person comes into my life that... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it ok to try dating others when your into someone else | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/elyicy/is_it_ok_to_try_dating_others_when_your_into/ |
Tucky876 | 2024-06-22 19:26:36 | 1,719,084,396 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dm3eus | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dm3eus/is_it_wrong_to_view_dating_apps_like_videogames/ | 1 | In this day and age with all the bs that comes with dating apps... I just think of them as something I go on when I'm bored now. Like years back I was seriously engaged in it and actively pursuing but with all the nonsense if I find someone I find someone. I am so comfy with my peace I don't care anymore... Am I wrong?... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it wrong to view dating apps like videogames | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dm3eus/is_it_wrong_to_view_dating_apps_like_videogames/ |
United_Whereas8786 | 2024-07-14 06:10:19 | 1,720,937,419 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1e2v7da | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e2v7da/why_is_dating_so_hard/ | 0 | I tried every dating app possible - on-brand and obscure - and I’ve either been ghosted, close to being scammed, or been told I’m too boring. I came back to dating apps after a break to reevaluate myself, and still nothing. I tried asking women out in person and have had absolutely no success. I tried having some frien... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is dating so hard? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e2v7da/why_is_dating_so_hard/ |
Ploikblah | 2021-08-04 11:48:52 | 1,628,077,732 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | oxqzd1 | true | Question | 33 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oxqzd1/is_it_normal_to_lose_hope_in_ever_getting_a_date/ | 40 | 23M kissless virgin, never been on a date. I find dating to be even more difficult than my law degree. I just have no clue how I'm supposed to get a date considering I can't get a match on any dating app and never met a woman who was interested in me irl. I'm beginning to think it will never happen, I'm more likely to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it normal to lose hope in ever getting a date? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oxqzd1/is_it_normal_to_lose_hope_in_ever_getting_a_date/ |
tgwe2020 | 2021-03-16 16:44:10 | 1,615,913,050 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | m6dcy4 | true | null | 121 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m6dcy4/not_enough_people_are_talking_about_how_lonely/ | 182 | Hey y'all, I am a 25 year-old male. Unfortunately, dating these last few months has been damn-near impossible. Earlier on in the pandemic, it seemed like it was much easier to connect with someone on a personal level, even if we couldn't meet in person. However, in March 2021 I can't even get passed the "small-talk" st... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not enough people are talking about how LONELY things are for single people right now | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m6dcy4/not_enough_people_are_talking_about_how_lonely/ |
Himalayan_Hillbilly | 2018-11-23 21:02:26 | 1,543,006,946 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 9zs1pf | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9zs1pf/girl_i_saw_a_few_times_says_she_doesnt_want_a/ | 4 | So I met a girl on Hinge and met up with her a few weeks ago. We had a really great time together and I felt that there was an instant connection. We slept together the first night and she seemed really into me. We meet up again a few days later and again had a really good time. On that second date, she said that she w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl i saw a few times says she doesn't want a relationship | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9zs1pf/girl_i_saw_a_few_times_says_she_doesnt_want_a/ |
Cipusas2001 | 2020-08-30 09:14:37 | 1,598,778,877 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ij9y5b | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ij9y5b/need_advice_on_a_girls_feelings_for_me/ | 1 | So I've met this girl on tinder who surprisingly is my cousins Girlfriends friend and we have been talking. Met twice, first time we met about a week ago and it was amazing, late night in the car by the water holding hands and hugging, talking about deep stuff and everything. Met again yesterday, drove around the city ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice on a girls feelings for me | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ij9y5b/need_advice_on_a_girls_feelings_for_me/ |
Gullible_Cat1325 | 2023-11-03 19:32:30 | 1,699,039,950 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 17n301a | true | Question | 85 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/17n301a/where_can_i_start/ | 5 | Ok, so after all the amazing advice, encouraging insight and all around great people on here I've decided to give it a shot and try to find my one and only. So where can I start? Getting out to local bars is not my thing at all cause I don't drink at all. Are there any good apps that are preferably free? I see a lot of... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Where can I start? | 5 | 0.65 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17n301a/where_can_i_start/ |
Tiny_Chain_4522 | 2021-09-30 10:27:58 | 1,632,997,678 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | pygzrg | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pygzrg/it_was_easier_back_in_the_day/ | 1 | I used to do the whole online dating thing back in the early days, when it was still seen as just being full of weirdo's. To be honest it was a simpler time, more innocent shall we say. The chat seemed easier and friendly, people often actually wanted to meet and didn't just want an ego boost. Yes some I met just for s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | It was easier back in the day | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pygzrg/it_was_easier_back_in_the_day/ |
kiwiphonograph | 2015-08-06 02:15:35 | 1,438,827,335 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3fyd3u | null | null | 13 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/3fyd3u/what_are_your_adventure_date_ideas/ | 21 | Cruising though Tinder you always see people posting about "love going on adventures... " or something involving that word in their bios. So Askmen what does that mean to you? Is it an "off the beaten path" date idea? Just a buzzword people use to seem interesting? If just a unusual date idea what do you try and do? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are your "adventure" date ideas? | 21 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3fyd3u/what_are_your_adventure_date_ideas/ |
rebelwithahorse | 2024-03-23 07:35:42 | 1,711,179,342 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1blmkp9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1blmkp9/i_dont_know_how_to_end_this_relationship/ | 1 | I met a man from a dating site, and he’s very lovely, he’s kind, polite, very complimentary, I’d say a pretty quiet guy, there’s things we have in common, but he’s just not doing it for me, partly because of how intense he is But also, he’s just not for me. There’s part of me would have loved this to work, but I’m not ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don’t know how to end this relationship! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1blmkp9/i_dont_know_how_to_end_this_relationship/ |
repentantGeraldine | 2023-04-08 05:34:45 | 1,680,932,085 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 12fcsmt | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12fcsmt/oversharing_and_referencing_exwife_and_their/ | 2 | Please help. I matched with a guy online and we really hit it off. We are both very well read, share the same odd sense of humor, share a love of music and feel strongly about its role in our lives…basically we were just pretty fascinated by each other. We spent hours talking and enjoying every minute of it. He mention... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Oversharing and referencing ex-wife and their close relationship a red flag or overthinking? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12fcsmt/oversharing_and_referencing_exwife_and_their/ |
anotherworthlessman | 2018-02-25 18:36:08 | 1,519,583,768 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 806dts | false | null | 38 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/806dts/general_thoughts_and_musings_on_dating_what_is_it/ | 5 | Consider the following in terms of what dating is and what should realistically be expected. You're meeting another broken fucked up human being on every date. Just as fucked up as you are and trust me, you're definitely fucked up. You're also both unique and special with your own goals for relationships and otherwise.... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | General thoughts and musings on dating: What is it? A dose of realism | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/806dts/general_thoughts_and_musings_on_dating_what_is_it/ |
CauliflowerLarge6587 | 2021-11-10 05:51:50 | 1,636,523,510 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | qqng2y | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qqng2y/need_to_vent_and_open_up/ | 0 | First post here but I wanted to have some input. And there is alot to "unpack" I (32M) was with my now ex (30F) for 4.5 years. We met on a dating app back then and things were going great from what I could see had 2 kids together and were engaged to be married. BUT earlier this year her sisters boyfriends sister downlo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need to vent and open up | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qqng2y/need_to_vent_and_open_up/ |
disgusting38372782 | 2023-10-24 19:01:45 | 1,698,174,105 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17fkfrf | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17fkfrf/what_is_the_best_way_to_meet_people_for_dating/ | 1 | I'm 27 female and naturally quite unattractive and overweight. I know this probably makes people angry that I would be interested in dating if I am that way, but I have seen other people who look kind of like me with romantic partners. I have never dated before or even had anyone be romantically interested in me irl. A... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is the best way to meet people for dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17fkfrf/what_is_the_best_way_to_meet_people_for_dating/ |
Ice666White | 2022-04-26 20:09:09 | 1,651,003,749 | null | null | 0 | ucli7o | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ucli7o/quick_tips_from_a_tinder_employee_about_the/ | 1 | It is said that the ELO score was scrapped or adjusted, with some things changing and some things being the same. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Quick Tips From A Tinder Employee About The Algorithm/ELO Score | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ucli7o/quick_tips_from_a_tinder_employee_about_the/ |
Small_Run_3575 | 2023-08-30 19:15:41 | 1,693,422,941 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 165nuhm | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/165nuhm/should_you_avoid_reaching_out_to_people_you_went/ | 1 | Since I graduated college 2 years ago, I’ve tried hitting up two girls that I went to high school with (who were both in my class), basically just asking if they were interested in meeting for coffee or something. They both turned me down lol. I really want to avoid getting a reputation as this creepy guy who just like... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should you avoid reaching out to people you went to school with? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/165nuhm/should_you_avoid_reaching_out_to_people_you_went/ |
Beepbeepboobop1 | 2024-06-02 00:36:16 | 1,717,288,576 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1d616ap | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1d616ap/lets_talk_about_leagues_and_ratings/ | 1 | I decided to redownload my OLD apps (yay) which has me thinking more about dating in general. Let’s talk about “leagues” and rating. Does anyone else get uncomfortable with this. When men talk about “average women only want Chad-they wont even look at men at their level” to me it reads as entitlement. What they’re real... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Let’s talk about “leagues” and ratings | 1 | 0.39 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1d616ap/lets_talk_about_leagues_and_ratings/ |
life_404error | 2023-05-31 11:50:23 | 1,685,533,823 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 13wk125 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13wk125/how_to_make_first_date_not_awkward/ | 1 | I met a guy on a dating app and we have been chatting for a little over one year. He proposed to date me recently and we are looking forward to our first physical date. What should we talk about and do on the day to ensure the date is not going to be awkward? I'm afraid that it will be awkward as we only chat over inte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to make first date not awkward? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13wk125/how_to_make_first_date_not_awkward/ |
BabyMamaMagnet | 2021-05-09 00:39:55 | 1,620,520,795 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | n82jbm | true | Giving Advice | 46 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/n82jbm/ive_been_seeing_a_lot_of_complaining_and_sexism/ | 4 | There are a lot of bitter men out here on this sub reddit mad and bitter about women getting a lot of matches and themselves not getting any at all. My advice for you as a fellow cis male. LEARN TO MOVE ON. Rejection happens to everyone and even if you didn't get rejected and that person you think is hot is really a pi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I've been seeing a lot of complaining and sexism | null | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/n82jbm/ive_been_seeing_a_lot_of_complaining_and_sexism/ |
Conqisntbad | 2021-03-24 22:17:56 | 1,616,624,276 | null | null | 0 | mcibvq | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mcibvq/matches_not_responding/ | 3 | On Hinge it seems like I’m getting 1-2 matches a day and conversation starts for about 10 minutes and they seemed to die out after 10 minutes or so without any warning and too early for it to lead anywhere. It wouldn’t be so weird if this didn’t happen to almost all my matches. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Matches not responding | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mcibvq/matches_not_responding/ |
sweet-Honey-36 | 2022-09-07 04:55:25 | 1,662,526,525 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | x7w2tk | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x7w2tk/should_i_reach_out_again/ | 1 | Hi everyone I 23F got out of an abusive relationship a little over a year ago and I finally am ready to date again. I’m not really looking for anything long term right out of the box, but I’m more so looking to find great guys to be friends with and see if anything organically grows from there. Friends to lovers if you... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I reach out again? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x7w2tk/should_i_reach_out_again/ |
01double | 2024-01-05 13:15:51 | 1,704,460,551 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18z6mw7 | true | Giving Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/18z6mw7/5_evidence_of_std_spread_by_dating_apps/ | 1 | Dating apps can influence the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases in several ways. Dating apps can facilitate more connections, potentially leading to increased sexual activity. This higher number of sexual encounters may contribute to a greater risk of STD transmission. Some users on dating apps may engage i... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | 5 Evidence of STD spread by Dating Apps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/18z6mw7/5_evidence_of_std_spread_by_dating_apps/ |
nf0x | 2021-07-21 15:53:38 | 1,626,882,818 | null | null | 0 | oosptj | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/oosptj/matching_on_more_than_one_app/ | 1 | If you meet someone on one app and have a few fun dates, but then run into them again on another app because their profile keeps getting pushed to you - what’s the best protocol? Match again on a new app to restart convos, or just swipe left and move on? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Matching on more than one app | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/oosptj/matching_on_more_than_one_app/ |
Grand_Ad_7430 | 2024-08-04 08:58:17 | 1,722,761,897 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ejqvfn | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ejqvfn/i_f21_kind_of_got_ghosted_and_it_made_me_feel_shit/ | 1 | I live in a relatively small city so I use dating apps. I talked to this girl for 2 weeks or so and I really liked her, we had lots of things to talk about and it seemed we were on the same kind of wave. At the end we went on a date and i had a lot of fun, we talked about ourselves, things we had in common, etc. The da... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (f21) kind of got ghosted and it made me feel shit | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ejqvfn/i_f21_kind_of_got_ghosted_and_it_made_me_feel_shit/ |
Possible-Bet3981 | 2024-06-26 15:26:17 | 1,719,415,577 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dp1c07 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dp1c07/at_a_loss_with_dating_any_advice/ | 1 | Need some advice as I feel like I’m missing something. I’m 27f, and fairly attractive (6/10). I have a lot of friends so I don’t feel my personality is that repulsive. I have a good job, and hobbies. I volunteer, and I’m part of a run club. I’m on tinder and hinge (free version), I’m getting matches but the conversatio... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | At a loss with dating. Any advice? | 1 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dp1c07/at_a_loss_with_dating_any_advice/ |
beigesun | 2023-02-11 12:53:27 | 1,676,120,007 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 10zmydz | true | null | 286 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10zmydz/girl_leaves_me_alone_at_a_bar_to_be_with_her/ | 890 | I’ve been talking to this girl since December, we met off bumble. Went on a couple dates and she’s been over a few times already. This past month we’ve seen each other at least once a week and texting pretty frequent, but not all day. Anyway, yesterday she invites me to the gym. I think ok cool yeah, I already invited ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl leaves me alone at a bar to be with her fiends who are also there, then blocks me when I go home | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10zmydz/girl_leaves_me_alone_at_a_bar_to_be_with_her/ |
HughJarse8 | 2023-09-19 18:55:08 | 1,695,149,708 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 16mz5ph | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16mz5ph/women_ghosting_after_setting_up_a_date/ | 1 | Hi all, Basically had a girl match me (23M) on tinder on Monday morning and send me a really nice compliment, which honestly made my morning and boosted my ego a bit. Feel like I have never had that happen to me. Anyway, we spoke a little and I dropped her a couple of compliments and she then suggested we go out for dr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Women ghosting after setting up a date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16mz5ph/women_ghosting_after_setting_up_a_date/ |
modernbee | 2024-05-09 18:15:28 | 1,715,278,528 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1co3wvl | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1co3wvl/fwb_silence/ | 1 | Hi- I (41F) dated someone (41m) for 3 months I met on OLD. We are both divorced, no kids. He broke it off pretty suddenly (I thought things were going great) in January citing long term compatibility concerns (one of which is that within our dating window I’d moved two hours from him) but said he wanted to stay friends... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | FWB Silence | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1co3wvl/fwb_silence/ |
sirlordjax | 2022-03-30 02:16:15 | 1,648,606,575 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | trvxla | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/trvxla/online_dating_advice/ | 1 | I’m a 27M, is online dating pretty fucked if you’re an average looking dude. It seems to be a pay for play (I don’t spend money on OLD apps) type situation when it comes to getting matches. I right swipe without no fucks given and I still don’t get matches lmao. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/trvxla/online_dating_advice/ |
Neither-Zombie-1369 | 2023-03-08 00:04:14 | 1,678,233,854 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 11lg4uy | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11lg4uy/is_the_3rd_date_too_soon_to_tell_her_how_i_feel/ | 1 | I (18M, 19 in 2 weeks) matched with a girl (20F) on bumble and went on a first date 3 days after matching. It went great and we both agreed to a second date before we left. 5 days later (2 days ago) she went with me on a trip for work that was about 60 miles one way. We were together for about 8 hours that day and ende... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is the 3rd date too soon to tell her how I feel? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11lg4uy/is_the_3rd_date_too_soon_to_tell_her_how_i_feel/ |
truthoaway | 2022-08-06 03:30:27 | 1,659,756,627 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | whed09 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/whed09/how_do_i_get_out_of_this_funk/ | 2 | So, I've (30m) been living the past 10 years in a small town where the closest city is 2 hours away. I have had a grand total of 2 relationships, one of them on and off for 6 months, and the other was long distance for about two years (although my partner at the time told me they stopped loving me halfway through and b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I get out of this funk? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/whed09/how_do_i_get_out_of_this_funk/ |
Iamthegoat1997 | 2023-12-12 06:43:36 | 1,702,363,416 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 18gftfw | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 44 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18gftfw/he_asked_me_for_a_booty_picture/ | 1 | So (F26) I’m seeing this guy I met on hinge (M27). Our first date was great We talked about what we wanted and we were both on the same page (Commitment and long term) We actually ended up hanging out again the next day. I ended up spending the night and we had sex. I also spent the whole morning and afternoon with him... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He asked me for a booty picture… | 1 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18gftfw/he_asked_me_for_a_booty_picture/ |
Floopoo32 | 2020-09-15 13:46:58 | 1,600,177,618 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | it92zv | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/it92zv/whats_the_best_way_to_date_a_shy_person/ | 9 | Hi. I'm 34 f totally falling for a guy (28??) I met in tennis, my biggest hobby. I asked him to play me this week, he was agreeable to that. I'm going to to ask him to drinks after. Not sure what the 2nd hangout should be? He appears to be a shy guy, I say this because he seems more reserved and struggles to meet my ey... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What's the best way to date a shy person | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/it92zv/whats_the_best_way_to_date_a_shy_person/ |
BumblingBeta | 2019-08-12 14:48:01 | 1,565,621,281 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | cpdcql | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 128 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cpdcql/why_is_it_always_assumed_that_a_man_must_have_a/ | 63 | This seems to be the common theme on every thread where men post that they aren't getting results. You will typically have a male (it's always a male, females don't face this problem) saying they aren't getting any replies to their messages, they're receiving next to no matches, and generally just faced with a stone wa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is it always assumed that a man must have a "negative attitude/mindset" if he's not getting any results from online dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cpdcql/why_is_it_always_assumed_that_a_man_must_have_a/ |
sleepingforsythe | 2019-03-03 00:06:27 | 1,551,571,587 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | awo72c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/awo72c/cult_boyfriend/ | 1 | I don't want to talk myself up like I'm so cosmic and unique, but I'm sort of a strange guy, a little quirky and awkward. I have a niche sense of humor and some very specific interests. It's difficult for me to make small talk but if you get me started on something I'm passionate about or something I can relate to, I t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Cult boyfriend | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/awo72c/cult_boyfriend/ |
oceanwithmyfriends | 2022-01-16 06:08:05 | 1,642,313,285 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | s558d1 | true | I Need Advice | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s558d1/friends_dont_seem_to_like_my_bf/ | 0 | So I’ve been talking to this guy for a few months and we’ve been dating for a few weeks. I really like him, he’s really kind and affectionate to me in a way no other man has treated me. However, I keep getting weird signals from my friends. When I talk to my friends about my relationship they seem to have a disapprovin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Friends don’t seem to like my bf | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s558d1/friends_dont_seem_to_like_my_bf/ |
catluxe | 2023-12-05 04:33:16 | 1,701,750,796 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18b3tk8 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18b3tk8/feeling_pretty_disheartened_by_the_fact_that/ | 2 | I (24F) just feel so behind. Everyone I know seems to be already married or on their way to being, some even have kids, but I’m so busy with school and my stress is so high that any new relationship falls apart, and I don’t even feel capable of loving anyone. I’m frustrated because I don’t get why it’s like this for me... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feeling pretty disheartened by the fact that everyone I know is married or in a LTR but I’m still in college | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18b3tk8/feeling_pretty_disheartened_by_the_fact_that/ |
sjmittal | 2021-09-05 17:36:45 | 1,630,863,405 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | pihh9y | true | Seeking Advice | 13 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/pihh9y/from_india_widower_2_daughters_options_please/ | 9 | Well I am over 41, been a widower for over a year now. I have two daughters 1 year and 6 years. I don't know if I ready to date or get into a relationship or not but I sometimes feel a need for a companion. Someone to just talk to, hey how was your day, this was may day Also secretly I feel my daughters would be much h... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | From India, widower, 2 daughters, options please | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/pihh9y/from_india_widower_2_daughters_options_please/ |
bombardianking99 | 2023-05-25 05:57:19 | 1,684,994,239 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | 13r9f1o | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13r9f1o/after_having_a_great_convo_she_ghosted_me/ | 1 | So I (23M) decided to give online dating shot after my friend convinced me to try it. A couple days go by and I havent matched with anyone that initially was a "woah" moment for me except this one girl who ghosted me. On her profile it said that shes a black car girl energy looking for a golden retriever boy energy. Go... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | After having a great convo she ghosted me | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13r9f1o/after_having_a_great_convo_she_ghosted_me/ |
MKMatty | 2017-06-30 16:30:27 | 1,498,840,227 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6kh0sy | null | null | 17 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/6kh0sy/anxiety_sufferers_how_do_you_keep_calm_in_a/ | 7 | Bit of a story, I apologise in advance. I've been single for just over a year. Matched with a fine looking lady on tinder a month ago. She stresses she just wanted a messaging companion, which suited me fine at the time, as it let me shelve a lot of my anxiety as it was in my head that my attraction was one sided and I... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Anxiety sufferers, how do you keep calm in a relatively new relationship? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/6kh0sy/anxiety_sufferers_how_do_you_keep_calm_in_a/ |
Day9125 | 2022-07-25 01:53:42 | 1,658,714,022 | null | ['swipes', 'OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | w7c6xk | true | Question | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w7c6xk/how_does_one_avoid_feeling_hopeless_after_years/ | 14 | (27M) and this is geared more towards the men but I imagine some women out there might feel the same. After being single for almost 5 years, things just haven't worked out in the slightest. Between messing things up, and getting women I don't really want (looking at you, online dating) it just has started feeling reall... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How does one avoid feeling hopeless after years of being single? | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w7c6xk/how_does_one_avoid_feeling_hopeless_after_years/ |
Worried-Might-6355 | 2024-07-08 22:01:46 | 1,720,476,106 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dylicy | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dylicy/why_do_people_feel_they_need_to_know_what_my/ | 0 | Is it just curiousity or is it based on the idea that there are good and bad minorities? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do people feel they need to know what my racial background is, especially on dating apps? | 0 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dylicy/why_do_people_feel_they_need_to_know_what_my/ |
Al-Dorado | 2020-02-02 17:37:48 | 1,580,665,068 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | exrvk7 | true | null | 61 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/exrvk7/what_are_your_experiences_with_online_dating/ | 8 | I just got out of a lonime relationship and I'm up to try out online dating. Of course it might be easy to find new people from the comfort of your home, but I'm reluctant. Some services seem like they just want your personal data and sell those to ad-companys. Do you have any good experiences with it? Do you prefer ce... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are your experiences with online dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/exrvk7/what_are_your_experiences_with_online_dating/ |
Kindly_Discipline_61 | 2023-10-07 20:33:16 | 1,696,710,796 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 172g4vo | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/172g4vo/dating_for_disableds/ | 1 | I got a neuro related problem in my spinal cord because of which I got paralyzed down the waist and it has been a few years since. I am 30 right now and I really feel the emotional and the physical need. I tried some dating apps but as soon as the girls get to know that I have a problem they stop talking to me. I have ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating for disableds | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/172g4vo/dating_for_disableds/ |
grenkr | 2017-12-23 21:48:23 | 1,514,065,703 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 7lra1d | false | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7lra1d/any_ldr_dating_sites/ | 1 | Hey, so I'm seeking some help/advice here, I've pretty much given up on dating anyone here local, my area is a dry hole, most women are taken and the few single ones have issues, so are there any dating websites dedicated to only long distance relationships? I know they likely would be a challenge to have and keep up b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any LDR dating sites? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7lra1d/any_ldr_dating_sites/ |
Marz_Def | 2023-08-19 03:28:40 | 1,692,415,720 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 15v518t | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15v518t/went_on_a_date_where_she_brought_her_friend_group/ | 1 | So I met this girl on tinder a few weeks ago and we’ve texted quite a bit. She invited me to a local festival that I thought would be a date between us. Unbeknownst to me, she also brought along like 6 friends of hers. I was pretty awkward and said basically nothing because I didn’t know anyone. After this, she blocked... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Went on a “date” where she brought her friend group | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15v518t/went_on_a_date_where_she_brought_her_friend_group/ |
NannersBoy | 2023-08-07 17:44:37 | 1,691,430,277 | 0 | null | 0 | 15krlf0 | false | null | 29 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15krlf0/people_who_use_anything_but_mainstream_apps_are/ | 1 | The League, Feeld, Clover, Badoo, Raya, Hily, Truvada… I don’t care what it is, if it’s so obscure your Reddit thread about it gets 0 replies you shouldn’t use it. It simply stands to reason that if NOBODY has heard of it, NOBODY uses it. There’s no hidden cache of women who for no discernible reason say “Fuck Hinge, I... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | People who use anything but mainstream apps are nuts | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15krlf0/people_who_use_anything_but_mainstream_apps_are/ |
DevelopingHuman98 | 2023-07-17 20:18:04 | 1,689,625,084 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 152cqle | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/152cqle/why_are_dating_apps_like_this/ | 1 | I’m F(25) and met this guy on a dating app M(30). We had a good conversation going on, he asked for my number to plan our date. He didn’t confirm the day of and we hadn’t discussed when we were going to meet. He had also told me he just moved and busy with a new job and furnishing a new apartment. So I texted him to se... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why are dating apps like this? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/152cqle/why_are_dating_apps_like_this/ |
thewhitewolf7602 | 2020-05-17 01:57:48 | 1,589,680,668 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | gl72ar | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gl72ar/so_she_accepted_my_friend_request_now_what/ | 2 | There’s a girl a like at work, as you may or may not have read in my first post. I was a little hesitant to add her because I wasn’t sure how she would react to it. Plus I had also seen her profile on Facebook Dating, but I didn’t like or dislike it. I don’t know if she saw mine or not, but to my own surprise she accep... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So she accepted my friend request. Now what? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gl72ar/so_she_accepted_my_friend_request_now_what/ |
Yahim93 | 2024-03-16 20:41:20 | 1,710,621,680 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bgfl4l | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bgfl4l/i_really_need_some_help/ | 1 | 30 years single guy , came in Germany for work about 6 months ago , been doing my best to find a reason to move on and keep hanging around despite not having much success when it comes dating, I usually don't mind being alone as I rarely feel lonely, but recently I've start realize that the people around me got someone... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I really need some help | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bgfl4l/i_really_need_some_help/ |
herdingnerds | 2022-02-21 21:03:00 | 1,645,477,380 | null | ['bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | sy4dbs | true | Seeking Advice | 30 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/sy4dbs/back_in_the_friend_zone/ | 10 | Hi folks, I am a 50 YO female who dates men. I was married from 24-to 30 and have been in committed, monogamous relationships since then. I like dating and mostly date online (Hinge, Bumble, OkCupid). I am emotionally intelligent, have done a ton of therapy, and consider myself to have strong boundaries, be outspoken, ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Back in the friend zone? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/sy4dbs/back_in_the_friend_zone/ |
Conscious_Culture617 | 2022-05-30 14:13:20 | 1,653,920,000 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | v114fa | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v114fa/hinge_date_help/ | 1 | I’ve used hinge a couple of times I’ve gone on one date and usually I’ve come to find I never really like the person beyond that. Recently though I matched with a girl who is 28. I’m 25 about to to turn 26. I really like her. Not only is the girl extremely beautiful to me but I tease a lot and she teases me right back.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hinge date help?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v114fa/hinge_date_help/ |
Foreign_Safety2712 | 2022-10-12 18:54:43 | 1,665,600,883 | null | null | 0 | y2c5ov | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y2c5ov/anyone_like_to_talk_longer_to_prescreen_does_that/ | 3 | I am a 29m. I dont get like a ton of matches, but still I made myself exhuasted by going on to many dates and realized I was not filtering well. what I have found is that even with more understanding of who would or wouldnt work for me, I still end up going on dates with people I instantly knew was a mistake. Not based... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Anyone like to talk longer to "pre-screen"? does that run the risk of losing people? | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y2c5ov/anyone_like_to_talk_longer_to_prescreen_does_that/ |
[deleted] | 2021-12-12 19:31:22 | 1,639,337,482 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | rewbka | true | I Need Advice | 36 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rewbka/tired_of_playing_the_numbers_game/ | 5 | I’m on literally every dating app available. I get no matches whatsoever and I’ve super sterilized my profile (i.e. lied) about my interests to get women interested who I probably wouldn’t have a snowball’s chance in hell with anyway. I work all the freaking time so I don’t have the time to get these picture perfect ph... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tired of playing the numbers game | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rewbka/tired_of_playing_the_numbers_game/ |
riskyalpaca | 2020-06-24 07:15:55 | 1,592,982,955 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hewfva | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hewfva/getting_back_into_the_game_any_tips/ | 2 | It's been over a few years since I've been officially trying the dating scene, ma y of my early attempts always ended in failure with the person getting quite tired or bored of me within a few days of talking, (I'm aware it's quite pathetic don't worry I am trying ), since lockdown I've recently gotten back into tinder... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting back into the "game" any tips? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hewfva/getting_back_into_the_game_any_tips/ |
Temporary_Pause7800 | 2024-02-22 17:13:31 | 1,708,622,011 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1axbs4k | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1axbs4k/what_should_i_do/ | 2 | First off I was In a relationship in 2021 which ended rough due to me not being able to express my emotions. This was due to mental health problems I had at the time. I was with this girl for a year and it was one of my best relationships at the time. She was caring,honest and all the things a guy could want in a healt... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should I do? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1axbs4k/what_should_i_do/ |
Death_Star_ | 2018-05-25 16:39:30 | 1,527,266,370 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'coffeemeetsbagel'] | 0 | 8m368m | false | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8m368m/black_women_and_asian_men_how_has_it_been_dating/ | 4 | So, I’m curious re: 1) how black women and Asian men have been faring in the dating world, particularly online (when there’s the barrier of a picture) — has it been tough? Easy? Any stories? Anything about yourself to add? 2) what people outside these two groups think of this finding and their opinions on the matter 3 ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Black women and Asian men, how has it been dating, particularly online dating? There’s the notable if infamous study on those two groups being the “least desirable.” Thoughts? Anecdotes? Approaches? Everyone else: what do you think? | 4 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8m368m/black_women_and_asian_men_how_has_it_been_dating/ |
AlexDaGreat999 | 2018-03-06 08:00:54 | 1,520,323,254 | null | ['tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 82deyd | false | Question | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/82deyd/do_you_recommend_okcupid/ | 1 | I tried Tinder but I had little success so I guess I’ll have to move on to another site unfortunately. I’m thinking about transitioning to Okcupid. Is okcupid safe? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you recommend Okcupid? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/82deyd/do_you_recommend_okcupid/ |
FAOyster | 2022-08-31 21:04:18 | 1,661,979,858 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | x2ompg | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x2ompg/compulsive_red_flag_hunting/ | 0 | That's it. I've become a distrustful, bitter woman. Throwing in the towel on OLD. After a streak of hurtful experiences, dating has been making my anxiety go through the roof. I am so utterly scared to be hurt again that I am approaching dating with distrust, overthinking to the point of insanity, compulsively hunting ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Compulsive red flag hunting | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x2ompg/compulsive_red_flag_hunting/ |
LegendererLegend | 2023-09-11 08:32:19 | 1,694,421,139 | 0 | ['swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 16fpw5i | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16fpw5i/i_have_never_been_with_a_woman_i_found_attractive/ | 1 | Admittedly, I don’t have a lot of girl friends, but if I meet a girl (in real life or on the dating apps) that I think is pretty, and if the conversation is remotely engaging, I always ask to spend more time. However, after a lot of rejections, I came around to just going for women who reach out to me, who don’t really... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have never been with a woman I found attractive, what do? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16fpw5i/i_have_never_been_with_a_woman_i_found_attractive/ |
aregulargirl089 | 2022-12-26 21:29:38 | 1,672,090,178 | null | ['OLD', 'dating app'] | 0 | zvxg4m | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zvxg4m/will_i_ever_find_someone_on_a_dating_app/ | 1 | Im 23F and most of my dates in my life have been from OLD. If it wasn't for that, I probably only had 2 dates in my entire life. I would like to find someone, but due to my experience and people I've met online, I can sense that I will never find someone there. But I don't meet people in real life anymore, if I'm inter... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Will I ever find someone on a dating app? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zvxg4m/will_i_ever_find_someone_on_a_dating_app/ |
CAwildcat | 2018-01-23 17:54:36 | 1,516,730,076 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 7sg85q | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7sg85q/where_does_a_girl_meet_men_in_nyc/ | 1 | I (26F) am so tired of the dating app guys -- Emotionally unavailable looking for hookups. I have a hard time meeting guys because apparently I'm "intimidating" (Tall with a resting bitch face). I'm not necessarily looking for a BF or a husband but I'm also not looking for just a hookup. Some emotional connection would... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where does a girl meet men in NYC? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7sg85q/where_does_a_girl_meet_men_in_nyc/ |
Bourbon75 | 2021-06-12 14:14:04 | 1,623,507,244 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ny7p02 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ny7p02/i_never_promised_her_anything_why_am_i_the_asshole/ | 1 | I made it very clear in my online dating profile that while I am looking for love and to settle down, I'm not trying to just jump into a relationship with the first person I meet. I also made this clear when I started talking to the girl. I never said I love you, never bought her anything, never even told her we were e... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I never promised her anything. Why am I the asshole? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ny7p02/i_never_promised_her_anything_why_am_i_the_asshole/ |
UpbeatSchool1348 | 2022-08-14 01:52:53 | 1,660,441,973 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'eharmony'] | 0 | wnuipv | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wnuipv/view_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | To be clear, this question is for people looking for genuine relationships on dating apps not use it for hook ups. What is missing in current dating apps? I’m 42 and single, living in NYC. Been on dating apps for almost 10 years and can safely say I’ve been on over a thousand dates. In the beginning there were a few su... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | View on Dating Apps | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wnuipv/view_on_dating_apps/ |
SeriousPuppet | 2022-07-04 00:13:00 | 1,656,893,580 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | vqupaj | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vqupaj/ladies_how_do_you_feel_about_seeing_kids_in_the/ | 2 | When you are on the dating apps and come across a picture of a guy with his kid, how does that make you feel? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ladies, how do you feel about seeing kids in the guy's picture? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vqupaj/ladies_how_do_you_feel_about_seeing_kids_in_the/ |
Total_Revolution_235 | 2023-05-05 03:44:55 | 1,683,258,295 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 1389pi6 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1389pi6/confused_mef39_himm46/ | 0 | So there’s this guy I like.. we met on Facebook dating. Ugh he’s so… everything.. anyway I’m just starting to get to know him. We’ve been on 2 dates.. well he asked me if I was talking to other guys. I was honest with him and told him yes. He asked if I had met any or been on a date with any. I told him no. Well one of... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused.. me-f/39 him-m/46 | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1389pi6/confused_mef39_himm46/ |
Lousykhakis | 2024-08-09 01:44:52 | 1,723,167,892 | 0 | ['matches', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1ennjgs | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ennjgs/advice_for_single_young_guy_who_isnt_sure_what_to/ | 5 | 27 year old guy here I've been primarily using bumble to try to get dates these days, started about 3 months ago. I have over 100 likes and tend to get probably 3-5 quality matches a week. This has been my luck with bumble this time around -Went on a date and she was sweet, but ended up trauma dumping and also to put i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice for single young guy who isn't sure what to do | 5 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ennjgs/advice_for_single_young_guy_who_isnt_sure_what_to/ |
savtaylor1 | 2022-03-19 17:19:12 | 1,647,710,352 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | thzzrj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/thzzrj/how_and_where_do_you_meet_people/ | 1 | Tinder is AWFUL. I’m not the most outgoing, pretty introverted but I want to meet new people. Are there other ways besides tinder? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How and where do you meet people? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/thzzrj/how_and_where_do_you_meet_people/ |
omistar1 | 2022-04-19 11:17:16 | 1,650,367,036 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | u72pyo | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u72pyo/i_cant_tell_if_shes_interested/ | 1 | Im 18m and I met a 18fm that's single I been talking with this girl for a couple days and I can't tell if she interested she gave a slight bit of mix signals and I can't really tell if she likes me she been very nice and charming the whole time and one of the signs I noticed is that she talk higher to me which some peo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I can't tell if she's interested | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u72pyo/i_cant_tell_if_shes_interested/ |
bsbnkd | 2022-07-05 09:48:37 | 1,657,014,517 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | vru60r | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vru60r/should_i_f30_stop_seeing_the_guy_m30_i_am_dating/ | 2 | In May I met a guy via tinder, we are living in different cities 1.5 hours away from each other. We hit it off quite well and we started meeting almost every weekend. In June I tried to define the relationship , but he told me to be more patient and see where this goes. However, we talked about exclusivity and we both ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I (F30) stop seeing the guy (M30) I am dating because I caught him using tinder? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vru60r/should_i_f30_stop_seeing_the_guy_m30_i_am_dating/ |
Either_Leave_6099 | 2021-03-24 16:58:46 | 1,616,605,126 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | mcaq4l | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mcaq4l/how_to_escalate_as_a_female/ | 1 | I [ F 25] have been seeing a guy I met one bumble [24] for 2 months now and been on 5 dates. We usually hang out as friends and towards the end of the date he will hold be hand or cuddle but that’s pretty much it. He doesn’t flirt, compliment me or even say my name. It could be because he’s shy or socially awkward and ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to escalate as a female | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mcaq4l/how_to_escalate_as_a_female/ |
sarxlives | 2021-12-02 12:27:43 | 1,638,448,063 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | r76e2p | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/r76e2p/i_dont_quite_get_online_dating/ | 2 | So for a few months I've been trying online dating but I'm not quite understanding what my role, as a guy is supposed to be. While yes, I understand that you're supposed to be somewhat aggressive when attracting females by really understanding then or capturing their attention but I find that it's a bit difficult... Fo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't quite get online dating. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r76e2p/i_dont_quite_get_online_dating/ |
secretly_diaphanous | 2023-07-23 07:41:05 | 1,690,098,065 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1578dgu | false | null | 117 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1578dgu/old_men_asking_for_pics/ | 1 | So my (F55) OLD profile shows a few face shots and a few boating and beach pics, where I’m in a one piece bathing suit. In one, I’m kneeling in the sand, in another I’m sitting in the boat bow and my legs are visible. Twice today I blocked men for asking for more pics after just a few exchanges. Im wondering if I’m bei... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | OLD- men asking for pics | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1578dgu/old_men_asking_for_pics/ |
ConkerThePaladin | 2019-06-06 02:52:25 | 1,559,789,545 | null | ['dating sites', 'tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | bxbkco | true | Question | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bxbkco/actually_good_dating_sites_and_advice/ | 1 | Hey Reddit, lonely guy here. I’ve been using tinder and POF for quite a while but I can never match with anyone that isn’t a bot or someone who wants me to pay for sex. Are there any actually good sites that I could use instead? Also, I’d like to know what it is I’m doing wrong. Whenever I do end up talking to a real w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Actually good dating sites? (And advice!) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bxbkco/actually_good_dating_sites_and_advice/ |
ThrowRalove22 | 2024-01-30 17:12:10 | 1,706,634,730 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'dating site'] | 0 | 1aetjuo | false | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aetjuo/cheating/ | 1 | Im gone keep it short and simple Me and this guy been going out for about 5 months we met on a dating site just recently I went through his phone and found out his still using the dating apps most recent message was last week he used the same corny line he used on me He said he never met up with anyone kinda believe be... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Cheating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aetjuo/cheating/ |
theboyislost | 2022-08-08 13:02:22 | 1,659,963,742 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wj8bvw | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wj8bvw/how_do_you_date_outside_of_dating_apps/ | 4 | Sounds like a stupid question, I know…but I’m in my 20s and no longer in college so it feels way harder to meet people. How do people meet new people with the purpose of dating? I feel like just hanging at bars/clubs is weird and I wouldn’t know how to just go up to a stranger and start randomly talking to them and eve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you date outside of dating apps? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wj8bvw/how_do_you_date_outside_of_dating_apps/ |
ThoughtNo8420 | 2023-11-03 17:19:04 | 1,699,031,944 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17n03w9 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17n03w9/help_with_approaching_women/ | 2 | Hello, was wondering if I could get opinions I am a male who had 0 luck on the dating apps so looking to switch to approaching in person. I have been told im reasonably attractive, I'm 6'4", very athletic/muscular, and have a good career. Would women be intimidating at approaching me or me approaching them? It seems I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help with approaching women | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17n03w9/help_with_approaching_women/ |
ComfortableCoach251 | 2023-10-11 06:05:13 | 1,697,004,313 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17572sr | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17572sr/what_to_do_after_getting_friendzonedkind_of/ | 1 | I (20M) recently began hanging out with this girl and her close friends from my high school. We have gotten close over the past few months and I realized I developed feelings for her. I told her best friend about my feelings because I didn’t really know what to do. He just told me to tell her but I didn’t want to at th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What to do after getting friendzoned…kind of? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17572sr/what_to_do_after_getting_friendzonedkind_of/ |
lukon87 | 2022-01-26 10:20:54 | 1,643,192,454 | null | null | 0 | sd2t7p | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/sd2t7p/best_dating_app_uk/ | 3 | I have recently sperated from my partner of 10 years. So I would like to start dating again. I am a bit behind the times and I would like to know what dating app is the best. I don't mind paying ad long as its reasonable. I am based in the UK. Thanks for your help | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Best dating App uk | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/sd2t7p/best_dating_app_uk/ |
Acceptable_Sock_1237 | 2024-08-31 15:48:40 | 1,725,119,320 | 0 | ['swipe'] | 0 | 1f5qday | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f5qday/ive_been_trying_to_date_for_nearly_four_years_ive/ | 1 | Its not just 3 bad dates with different ppl, its the fact that ive been trying this dating thing for nearly 4 years actively and besides a spontaneous hookup which usually isn't my style and two extremely short relationships im basically getting nowhere. On top of that the girls that I feel like id be most compatible w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ive been trying to date for nearly four years. I've had 3 terrible dates in the last week and a half. Losing all hope. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f5qday/ive_been_trying_to_date_for_nearly_four_years_ive/ |
WildCricket | 2022-10-14 16:25:09 | 1,665,764,709 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | y3yfoe | true | Casual Conversation | 45 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/y3yfoe/burn_out_or_something_else/ | 41 | 44F. Left my ex 6 years ago after 17 years together and divorce has been final for 5. I've dated. Usually doesn't make it past a month. Then they realize they aren't ready for something serious. Okay. Annoying that they pursued me, but okay. I'm not in any rush. Getting married again is hard to imagine. With two guys t... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Burn out? Or something else? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/y3yfoe/burn_out_or_something_else/ |
nekoarcanist | 2020-12-16 04:14:27 | 1,608,092,067 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | ke228a | true | Question | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ke228a/geek2geek_4_real/ | 0 | Ive looked into dating sites such as geek2geek and they invariably are not authentic in some way or another. Does anyone know where a irl geek2geek place would exist? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | geek2geek 4 real | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ke228a/geek2geek_4_real/ |
littleducky00 | 2024-05-16 21:23:29 | 1,715,894,609 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ctocc7 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ctocc7/should_i_upgrade/ | 1 | I (25F) just re-joined Hinge and I’m not getting as many likes as I did when I joined a few months ago. I’m also noticing a trend of people lying about their ethnicity, which is really putting me off. Is it worth upgrading to Hinge X or +? I am not in the mood to pay extra if it’s not going to enhance my experience but... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | should I upgrade? | 1 | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ctocc7/should_i_upgrade/ |
Shebebutlittle7 | 2020-01-20 23:15:39 | 1,579,562,139 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiping', 'hinge'] | 0 | erlkvw | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/erlkvw/guy_has_2_dating_profiles_on_the_same_site_with/ | 1 | SO.... I was talking to a really nice guy and having nice, respectful and thoughtful conversation. Difficult to find when you work in ministry. They usually don´t seem to ¨GET¨ I´m not looking to date for validation. So this was refreshing. So at first... the profile that I accepted with a swipe said he went two Missip... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Guy has 2 Dating Profiles on the Same Site... With Different Creditinals... Creep or Discrepency ! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/erlkvw/guy_has_2_dating_profiles_on_the_same_site_with/ |
throwRA133333 | 2023-10-29 14:23:56 | 1,698,589,436 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17j3zrd | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17j3zrd/not_looking_for_anything_serious_do_you_announce/ | 2 | Any women who have used dating apps and weren't looking for anything overly committal, did you put it in your profile? Or did you set the boundaries up front when chatting with them? What were your experiences with each approach, respectively? My brother put 'not looking for anything serious' in his (worked out well an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | "Not looking for anything serious" - do you announce it in-profile or during texting? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17j3zrd/not_looking_for_anything_serious_do_you_announce/ |
kruppkake | 2024-01-22 04:30:44 | 1,705,897,844 | 0 | ['matches', 'swiping'] | 0 | 19cn918 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19cn918/dealing_with_burnout/ | 1 | 23m Hi all, I got broken up with 7 months ago out of the blue from a 2y relationship. I’ve been using all the apps since and managed to get a few matches and 2 dates. They did not go well, but I was happy I got out there. But lately I’ve been going on every day swiping and I’m just depressed. Matches almost never respo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dealing with burnout | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19cn918/dealing_with_burnout/ |
ICanEatABee | 2024-08-31 05:04:10 | 1,725,080,650 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f5fl62 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f5fl62/im_not_sure_if_i_can_do_this_any_longer/ | 2 | It's really painful man. I'm the one rejecting them, surprise to me. I thought I'd have a lot more issue dating than this. I talk to them on dating apps and eventually I find out I don't like them the same way after a couple weeks. In the past 3 months or so I've rejected 4 girls now and it breaks my heart so much to s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm not sure if I can do this any longer | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f5fl62/im_not_sure_if_i_can_do_this_any_longer/ |
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