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_Schmutzinator_ | 2020-08-29 23:28:19 | 1,598,743,699 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'eharmony'] | 0 | ij2jhz | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ij2jhz/23m_good_ways_to_meet_introverts_looking_for/ | 3 | Sorry if this isn’t the right place for this. I’ll delete if needs be. I (23M) have signed up for eHarmony, Match, Bumble, Hinge, and even Tinder, but I’m not having much luck finding someone who doesn’t want an adventure every five minutes (nothing wrong with that at all, it’s just not my style). On the rare occasion ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (23M) Good ways to meet introverts looking for serious relationships? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ij2jhz/23m_good_ways_to_meet_introverts_looking_for/ |
itscsharpmaj7 | 2021-04-02 18:20:32 | 1,617,387,632 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | miq74n | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/miq74n/23f_how_do_you_tell_asian_parents_youre_dating_or/ | 8 | I'm 23 y/o Asian, never had a boyfriend before and wanted to start dating. My parents are very overprotective, conservative and never really liked the idea of dating while studying. I'm very obedient and never even tried to defy this rule or ask about it. But i'm now 23 and feel quite lonely and at a disadvantage so I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (23F) How do you tell Asian parents you're dating or want to date? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/miq74n/23f_how_do_you_tell_asian_parents_youre_dating_or/ |
coo_coo_mf | 2017-12-18 06:02:41 | 1,513,576,961 | null | ['pof'] | 0 | 7kjdza | false | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7kjdza/so_were_done_here_right/ | 8 | I am in a weird situation and just want to run it by some neutral parties. I think a 4 month relationship i was in is over now, or at least dying a slow and painful death. Aug 2017: meet hot guy on POF. We grab glass of wine. Heavy chemistry. Spend 4 wks seeing each other. No sex until date 4. Sept 2017: invited me to ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | So... we're done here, right? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7kjdza/so_were_done_here_right/ |
Mysterious_Bank_5605 | 2022-12-21 13:24:20 | 1,671,629,060 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | zrlu45 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zrlu45/need_advice_is_she_into_me_30m30_f/ | 1 | I’ll keep this story short. I matched with a really cool woman about 3 months ago and since then we have been on and off with communication. In between that time I’ve deleted the app out of boredom just to download it again and rematch with her. Admittedly I text more than her as she tends to message on the app every f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice! Is she into me? 30+M/30 F | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zrlu45/need_advice_is_she_into_me_30m30_f/ |
SayOuch | 2015-08-22 02:18:08 | 1,440,209,888 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3hxb34 | null | null | 17 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3hxb34/i_just_made_a_tinder_need_some_advice_from_people/ | 8 | I made one today so I'm pretty new to it and I'm wondering how long after getting a match should I message a woman? Also I have no idea what to message them. I'm really shitty at social situations so any help is appreciated. Thanks! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just made a tinder, need some advice from people who use/used it | 8 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3hxb34/i_just_made_a_tinder_need_some_advice_from_people/ |
meowgica | 2019-11-29 22:15:46 | 1,575,065,746 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | e3lysx | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e3lysx/awkward_tinder_dates/ | 5 | So I'm (24f)seeing a guy (28m)from tinder, we were on the second date, on the first date when we were saying goodbye, I didn't know what to do( should we hug or kiss or what), he didn't know either, i told him that this is weird, so we just fistbumped lol it was awkward. Anyway, we went on the second date, it was much ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Awkward tinder dates | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e3lysx/awkward_tinder_dates/ |
ProfessorRoi | 2023-11-09 15:59:54 | 1,699,545,594 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17rg5x5 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17rg5x5/pressured_to_date/ | 2 | Over the summer I went on a lot of dates and it just never went well for me. I’ve been ghosted and rejected on numerous occasions. And I’m not saying it’s their fault, but I did my best to communicate, make them comfortable, be a gentlemen, and show them a good time. Anyways, after that, I decided to take a break and n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Pressured to date | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17rg5x5/pressured_to_date/ |
redzephyr40 | 2016-10-03 09:40:51 | 1,475,487,651 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 55mx5l | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/55mx5l/how_do_i_get_to_know_women_casually/ | 2 | Hey guys and girls. I know how to get to know women but not "casually", I am 21 years old and most of my friends are girls,in relationships and so was I but my ex broke up with me 3 months ago. My problem is that I mostly had more girl-friends then girlfriends. I think it is because I got raised only by women so I kind... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I get to know women casually ? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/55mx5l/how_do_i_get_to_know_women_casually/ |
Johnl582 | 2020-10-08 15:26:50 | 1,602,170,810 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | j7f2qr | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j7f2qr/we_text_but_she_doesnt_seem_to_care/ | 13 | I don’t know what to do honestly, I feel drained. I’ve matched with a really nice girl and at first we had a really good chat. Or at least that was what I thought. She even gave me her number. She’s never bother to ask me anything. She doesn’t ask any question about me and we’re only talking about her. In addition, she... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | We text, but she doesn’t seem to care | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j7f2qr/we_text_but_she_doesnt_seem_to_care/ |
ExplicitlyLooking | 2024-09-17 00:11:12 | 1,726,531,872 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1fikghc | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fikghc/reasonable_time_to_expect_a_text_back/ | 1 | I [25M] started talking with this woman [26F] on September 3rd, 2 weeks ago. I met her on hinge. She has said, “I’m sorry, I suck at texting” but I tend to struggle to believe that in today’s world. Don’t get me wrong, I have went a while without texting someone back once or twice in that timeline, but never all day on... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Reasonable time to expect a text back? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fikghc/reasonable_time_to_expect_a_text_back/ |
lukdorofrivia | 2020-11-05 16:09:22 | 1,604,592,562 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | jolfnh | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jolfnh/online_dating_and_ghosting/ | 2 | Hello everyone, Was hoping to get some insight moving forward and what expectations i should hold. Im (19M) new to online dating and was ghosted a few times already. Specifically, i would ask if theyd (the women i was asking) want to hang out, and they would say yes. But so far of the two that said yes and i made plans... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating and ghosting. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jolfnh/online_dating_and_ghosting/ |
exx52 | 2022-06-30 10:21:34 | 1,656,584,494 | null | ['swipe', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | vo51tb | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vo51tb/how_social_media_and_dating_apps_have_ruined/ | 2 | I was in a very long term relationship and when I got out I started using dating apps. It was all new to me…. And 2.5 year later, oh boy what a journey. I’m a good looking man. I receive compliments from women at work or at the gym. Pleasant looks when walking down the street. Dating apps at that time seemed easier and... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How social media and dating apps have ruined relationships | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vo51tb/how_social_media_and_dating_apps_have_ruined/ |
Powerful-Address-610 | 2021-12-25 19:20:46 | 1,640,460,046 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | rofn3s | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rofn3s/how_do_i_interpret_this_super_confusing_behavior/ | 1 | I am currently in a super confusing situation with someone who friend-zoned me and could use advice. I recently moved away from home to pursue a graduate program. Before I moved, I matched on a dating app with someone I know through family friends. I’d liked this guy for a really long time and so it seemed amazing that... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I interpret this super confusing behavior? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rofn3s/how_do_i_interpret_this_super_confusing_behavior/ |
bellerephonious | 2017-02-23 08:52:09 | 1,487,839,929 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 5vpdxa | null | null | 12 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5vpdxa/three_dates_and_dumped_really_really_confused/ | 1 | Okay so here's the basic rundown - met her on a dating site, she's been single for about three years, previous relationship was long term, she was engaged and had a dress, then found out he'd been cheating on her for almost all of the relationship. Since then I think no dating until me. We go for our first date - she i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Three dates and dumped - really, really confused | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5vpdxa/three_dates_and_dumped_really_really_confused/ |
ThrowRAQueenSteez | 2020-07-17 09:50:43 | 1,594,979,443 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hssx8y | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hssx8y/is_it_worth_pursuingtrying_to_get_back_together/ | 2 | (tldr at the bottom) I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months in February last year (for reasons that I'll elaborate on in the next few paragraphs) and, as usual, the first few months were a relief and I was confident in my decision to end that relationship. But as time went on, I've been significantly doubting my deci... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it worth pursuing/trying to get back together with my (22F) ex-boyfriend (21M) who is a serial monogamist? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hssx8y/is_it_worth_pursuingtrying_to_get_back_together/ |
srslyshelbs | 2017-11-26 08:23:38 | 1,511,684,618 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7flp1m | false | null | 25 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7flp1m/just_spent_3_hours_getting_dating_advice_from_a/ | 9 | i know. i should have seen this one coming. this is just too funny not to share. so here we go... i decided i wanted to share my tinder profile on the /r/tinder weekly profile review thread to get some feedback. in doing so, i hosted the screenshots of my profile on imgur. and as a result got tons of unwarranted commen... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | just spent 3 hours getting dating advice from a guy on imgur... only for him to ask me for nudes | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7flp1m/just_spent_3_hours_getting_dating_advice_from_a/ |
Whereareyouand | 2017-07-09 23:43:04 | 1,499,643,784 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 6mau7h | null | null | 45 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6mau7h/for_those_who_have_done_online_dating_for_a_while/ | 5 | I've been doing it for a full year now. I've met a few guys, not many, I'd say about 10 or 11 of them. I had only one 2nd date and we kept seeing each other for about six months. I wasn't meeting anyone else during that six months. It ended about one month ago with me back to these apps again. The people I saw this tim... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | For those who have done online dating for a while, how long have you been doing this and how do you feel that you are still doing this after all this time? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6mau7h/for_those_who_have_done_online_dating_for_a_while/ |
Bwalker38 | 2019-08-18 20:05:42 | 1,566,158,742 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | cs6bag | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cs6bag/how_do_i_keep_a_conversation_going_long_enough_to/ | 1 | MY QUESTIONS ARE AT THE VERY BOTTOM IF YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE READING WHAT THE SITUATION IS WHO I AM I'm (24M) I'm a computer assembly technician for a small company and coach middle school kids in the afternoons twice a week. I'm 6'1" 215 lbs between an athletic an average build. I'm not one for random hook-ups, or one n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I keep a conversation going long enough to actually ask somebody out on mobile dating apps? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cs6bag/how_do_i_keep_a_conversation_going_long_enough_to/ |
616xDaisy | 2023-10-23 07:32:11 | 1,698,046,331 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 17eesx3 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17eesx3/a_guy_is_acting_different_after_our_meeting_but/ | 1 | So I met a guy on Bumble and we had a date on Thursday. We were texting quite a lot before the meeting and he was super sweet. I would say that the meeting was great, we cuddled and kissed, he said I look way better in real life. However I noticed that he is acting a bit different now? He texts me just as often however... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A guy is acting different after our meeting, but proposed another date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17eesx3/a_guy_is_acting_different_after_our_meeting_but/ |
twa8u | 2021-08-30 08:31:25 | 1,630,312,285 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | pedypx | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pedypx/sos_would_need_some_help/ | 0 | Hello guys I matched up with a cute girl on bumble. We were together in school, we never talked after that. I used to see her every now and then on social media and now after 10 years, we matched on Bumble This is something I am thinking to DM her with on Instagram “Hello H We matched on bumble Right now, due to a cris... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | SOS. Would need some help | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pedypx/sos_would_need_some_help/ |
Pretty_Section1235 | 2024-01-07 23:08:56 | 1,704,668,936 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1915lxg | true | null | 47 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1915lxg/minor_rant/ | 59 | Long time listener/first time caller- I’m on OLD because let’s all be honest, it’s the easiest way to meet the most singles. Sometimes it’s great! I’ve had some lovely dates and haven’t had the worst (yet) but my biggest pet peeve, even more than the fish pics or pics in cars with sunglasses is the “I don’t see likes, ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Minor rant | 59 | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1915lxg/minor_rant/ |
greyhas82 | 2017-11-15 07:57:39 | 1,510,732,659 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 7d2mzm | false | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7d2mzm/guy_ive_been_talking_to_deleted_his_bumble/ | 17 | We’ve been on 4 dates in the last month and I’m pretty sure he’s looking for a relationship. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy I’ve been talking to deleted his Bumble profile today. How good of a sign is that? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7d2mzm/guy_ive_been_talking_to_deleted_his_bumble/ |
Baldguysad | 2022-01-09 04:58:03 | 1,641,704,283 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | rzjveb | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rzjveb/how_to_approach_this/ | 1 | So I (29m) was using a dating app today when I matched with (27f). We hit it off good and I got her phone number after a few messages. When I was messaging her I said "we could meet for coffee sometime (or weed, weed is fun)." Her profile mentions she smokes. She replied with "coffee or weed sounds good!" After getting... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to approach this? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rzjveb/how_to_approach_this/ |
jeestriing | 2020-02-11 02:26:12 | 1,581,387,972 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | f21j4u | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/f21j4u/dating_apps/ | 1 | Which app would you be more likely to pay for using? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/f21j4u/dating_apps/ |
Evening_Dragonfly_59 | 2024-05-13 09:33:43 | 1,715,592,823 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1cqv64r | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cqv64r/is_he_over_his_ex_or_not/ | 1 | So, me and this guys matched on a dating app months ago. Nothing special short convo never really went anywhere. Months later he Messages me on Instagram and we instantly just hit it off. At that point he was in Thailand for a couple months, and we kept in contact pretty much everyday. No phone call under 1-2 hours, we... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he over his ex or not? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cqv64r/is_he_over_his_ex_or_not/ |
Prinlot22 | 2023-10-04 08:04:52 | 1,696,406,692 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16zhb0r | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16zhb0r/what_do_i_even_reply_to_him_i_am_acting_like_a/ | 1 | First time on dating app Hinge. funny story but he liked my picture then I pressed on his profile and first thing I noticed was that he has Leonardo DiCaprio 90s hair. I wanted to say something but he sent me a sweet message saying "Hi you are very beautiful." I replied and said maybe we can dress up as Romeo and Julie... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I even reply to him. I am acting like a nervous teenage girl at 29F | 1 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16zhb0r/what_do_i_even_reply_to_him_i_am_acting_like_a/ |
BananaOak12345 | 2024-04-08 22:42:21 | 1,712,616,141 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bzbwqs | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bzbwqs/asking_this_girl_out/ | 1 | About two weeks ago I made a post about maybe chatting with a girl I ride the bus to class with and maybe asking her out. I still haven’t done that unfortunately, but just today I found her profile while on a dating app and now I’m kind of conflicted. I’m not sure if I should try to match with her or just talk to her I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Asking this girl out | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bzbwqs/asking_this_girl_out/ |
Lost_Leader5273 | 2023-11-03 17:56:22 | 1,699,034,182 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17n0wjo | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17n0wjo/2_weeks_in_am_i_overreacting_arent_i/ | 3 | Met 2 weeks ago via dating app, went on 3 dates the first week, including a dinner at their place. Super respectful and enthusiastic and this week has been… silent. Had made prior plans for last night and early in the day I asked if plan was still on and was told “unfortunately no, how about tomorrow?” I happened to ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 2 weeks in, am I overreacting aren’t I? | 3 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17n0wjo/2_weeks_in_am_i_overreacting_arent_i/ |
metler88 | 2022-07-17 03:27:48 | 1,658,028,468 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | w0xv97 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w0xv97/where_do_i_go_to_meet_people/ | 1 | I've decided to give up on the online dating scene and try actually meeting women but I'm not sure where to start. I've had relationships in the past when I was in school but now I'm not around single women my age at any point in my normal day and don't know how to meet anyone. I don't have any friends to bring out wit... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where do I go to meet people? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w0xv97/where_do_i_go_to_meet_people/ |
rainy_w3dnesday | 2023-12-28 07:51:46 | 1,703,749,906 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18soht6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18soht6/struggling_with_finding_other_ways_to_meet_people/ | 1 | I (20F) feel like I am at a loss for finding good ways to meet potential dates. I don’t particularly want to use dating apps - not because I’m against other people using them, but because I don’t like that many of them require you to pay money to fully access all of their resources. Call me old fashioned, but I’m also ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Struggling with finding other ways to meet people other than dating apps. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18soht6/struggling_with_finding_other_ways_to_meet_people/ |
ask_nae | 2023-08-27 02:40:06 | 1,693,104,006 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 162edbk | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/162edbk/so_sad_that_i_been_giving_men_free_sex_now_they/ | 1 | I caved and offered 5 men free sex in my life I’m 30 years old and having a hard time with letting it go. I always wanted to wait until marriage but I begun masturbating at 17 years old in HS with myself. I was around girls who used online dating apps and online apps to talk to strangers where I met a 28 year old guy w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So sad that I been giving men free sex now they won’t leave me alone | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/162edbk/so_sad_that_i_been_giving_men_free_sex_now_they/ |
Dwilson3422 | 2021-05-26 09:05:36 | 1,622,019,936 | null | ['swipe', 'OLD'] | 0 | nlcfai | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nlcfai/whats_with_so_many_women_asking_about_my_dick/ | 0 | This isn’t a post about my dick but I am genuinely curious. I’ve (M late 40’s) been off and on OLD for the last couple months. I’ve always heard of many women complaining about getting dick pics, so many profiles mention “if you’re wanting a one night stand swipe left” etc Yet literally every woman I start to connect w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What’s with so many women asking about my dick | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nlcfai/whats_with_so_many_women_asking_about_my_dick/ |
jeep-run- | 2023-11-24 04:25:22 | 1,700,799,922 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 182jhm3 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/182jhm3/does_this_scream_emotionally_unavailable/ | 1 | I have this friend that met a guy who was going/is now divorced. He was a smooth talker and talked her up early on. She fell pretty hard but his effort was always minimal. They would see each other out and he would be all over her and call her that night, talk to her for hours but then fall off the face of the earth un... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does this scream emotionally unavailable? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/182jhm3/does_this_scream_emotionally_unavailable/ |
butt_naked_wonder | 2023-01-31 12:28:36 | 1,675,168,116 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 10pxs33 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10pxs33/i_31m_attended_a_party_with_a_woman_30f_im/ | 0 | First off, let me provide some context before I get into the actual story here. Back in August, I ended a relationship with my girlfriend of four years due to us not being on the same page about kids (I have one from a previous relationship and don't want any more). About a month later, I made the decision to get sober... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (31m) attended a party with a woman (30f) I'm interested this weekend. Things went south, and I'm kind of at a loss | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10pxs33/i_31m_attended_a_party_with_a_woman_30f_im/ |
Worthyshot | 2024-08-31 07:40:13 | 1,725,090,013 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1f5hvt2 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f5hvt2/more_matches_from_philippines_than_india/ | 1 | Context : I have bumble premium and one more dating app and whenever I set the location to Philippines I get alot of matches (atleast 20+ a day) But whenever I set it back to India I barely get 2-3 a day sometimes not even that Am I unappealing to Indian women? Or is it just that their standards are sky high? Im 21M , ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | More matches from Philippines than India | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f5hvt2/more_matches_from_philippines_than_india/ |
CaptDoofy | 2019-09-12 19:21:58 | 1,568,316,118 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | d3cwzl | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/d3cwzl/unexpected_success_story_so_far/ | 51 | Posting this on a burner account since I haven’t divulged this information to family yet. But I just had the greatest date of my life last night, possibly greatest night. I (31M) was all but fed up with online dating. Eight months of bad dates, flakes, and anxiety. I was a week or less away from deleting all of the app... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Unexpected Success Story... So Far | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/d3cwzl/unexpected_success_story_so_far/ |
okbutaftervirgin | 2022-06-07 10:29:50 | 1,654,597,790 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | v6ryza | true | null | 99 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v6ryza/advice_about_looking_fatter_irl_than_in_pics/ | 68 | I’m fat at 95kg, and I am trying to hook up with guys via OLD. People are consistently surprised at how fat I am. I apparently look much thinner in pictures than I do IRL. I don’t edit my pictures, I have no filters, I just use unedited pictures my friends took or selfies I have. I have consistently gotten the feedback... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice about looking fatter IRL than in pics | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v6ryza/advice_about_looking_fatter_irl_than_in_pics/ |
jhuidobro | 2021-05-27 16:08:36 | 1,622,131,716 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | nmaur8 | true | I Need Advice | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nmaur8/need_some_advice/ | 1 | So I started talking to this girl on Tinder and soon moved to Whatsapp. We were both having a good time over text and I proposed to meet irl last weekend. She said that she was going to be super busy so I told her to let me know when she could go grab a drink. She responded 3 days later with a "yesss". Now 4 days have ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need some advice | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nmaur8/need_some_advice/ |
auroraborelle | 2022-08-22 20:24:22 | 1,661,199,862 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | wv45ci | true | null | 47 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/wv45ci/one_for_the_ladies/ | 5 | Men of DOF, feel free to chime in, but mostly looking for some female perspective. Has anyone felt like your experience of physical attraction has decreased with age? (I mean YOUR age. As in, over time you’re experiencing less physical attraction generally—less often and usually with less intensity—regardless of the ma... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | One for the ladies | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/wv45ci/one_for_the_ladies/ |
Anyanka_Tin | 2024-01-13 01:24:46 | 1,705,109,086 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 195bsun | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/195bsun/i_26f_am_scared_men_will_only_want_me_for_sex/ | 1 | I think this is the right subreddit for this? I’m a hopeless romantic. I love old love songs, old movies, star crossed lovers, a good Cinderella story. I love passion, devotion, admiration. And I am honestly really scared I’m never going to find it, that men will be too busy wanting to have sex with me and not just lov... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (26F) am scared men will only want me for sex | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/195bsun/i_26f_am_scared_men_will_only_want_me_for_sex/ |
EVILRAFFAM | 2024-06-08 16:23:48 | 1,717,863,828 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 1db6o9x | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 115 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1db6o9x/is_online_dating_worse_than_ever/ | 95 | 2 years ago I met my ex gf on online dating and had a relationship. We broke up 4 months ago and though I would put myself out there again. I am an average looking man, successful job, Takes decent pictures. I get 0 matches on Bumble and Hinge, even when I change my bio and pictures it has no success. Facebook dating s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is Online dating worse than ever? | 95 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1db6o9x/is_online_dating_worse_than_ever/ |
Different_Analysis25 | 2020-08-20 00:39:46 | 1,597,883,986 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | id073g | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/id073g/serious_what_is_it_like_being_attractive_to_women/ | 7 | A little about me, I have never had success with women. Couldn't get a date if my life depended on it. I am fairly short, about 5'7", big nose, thinning/receding hair, being skinng my whole life. (I am trying to hit the gym). Never had a women be interested and to be fair I cant really blame them being quite unattracti... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | [Serious] What is it like being attractive to women? | null | 0.74 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/id073g/serious_what_is_it_like_being_attractive_to_women/ |
Dry-Expression1218 | 2023-11-29 15:45:35 | 1,701,272,735 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 186sg4h | true | Seeking Advice | 54 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/186sg4h/experience_with_long_distance_datingrelationships/ | 7 | With a large % of posters in this sub finding various difficulties in dating (whether OLD or organically), has anyone found success in long distance dating or LTR ? I recently met someone at a restaurant/bar in an airport during a long layover and seemed to connect. We exchanged numbers and my take away is that she wan... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Experience with long distance dating/relationships? | 7 | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/186sg4h/experience_with_long_distance_datingrelationships/ |
Annoyed_NYC | 2020-11-14 21:25:36 | 1,605,389,136 | null | null | 0 | ju9nhd | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ju9nhd/question_for_the_ladies_about_beards/ | 0 | I was wondering, from a woman’s perspective, what are your initial thoughts on men with beards. Like when you come across a profile with a man and he has a beard, do you find it attractive? And if so how long? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Question for the ladies about beards | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ju9nhd/question_for_the_ladies_about_beards/ |
narwhal021_ | 2023-10-01 02:42:16 | 1,696,128,136 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16wpjxt | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16wpjxt/girl_canceled_getting_drinks_even_though_before/ | 1 | So I matched with this girl on hinge and it seemed like she was very interested. A couple of messages in she already starts asking me out for drinks and even offered her number to me without me even asking. We text a little more to set up when to meet, she’s asking me what time we should meet and what bar we should go ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl canceled getting drinks even though before she was very interested | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16wpjxt/girl_canceled_getting_drinks_even_though_before/ |
lyndsaynoel83 | 2024-04-06 13:54:48 | 1,712,411,688 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bxc5au | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1bxc5au/you_can_tell/ | 1 | Female here. I just wanted to discuss how to tell what people want on the dating apps. I think it's really easy to tell who the Fck boys are. Tell me your observations please! | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | You can tell | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1bxc5au/you_can_tell/ |
lucytran27 | 2024-07-16 13:16:00 | 1,721,135,760 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1e4odtg | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e4odtg/i_was_ghosted_after_two_dates_was_i_too_sensitive/ | 0 | I met a guy on dating apps. Everything was nice. We shared similar hobbies. The first date was really nice. He said he would text me after arriving home. I could feel he was sincere. And he did. Then we kept texting and we went on the 2nd date. I was a bit confused and a bit tired on the 2nd date due to it was a rainy ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I was ghosted after two dates 🙃. Was I too sensitive or Was I correct? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e4odtg/i_was_ghosted_after_two_dates_was_i_too_sensitive/ |
APsychosPath | 2019-04-01 02:48:27 | 1,554,086,907 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | b7wcys | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/b7wcys/men_anyone_else_having_trouble_with_dating_apps/ | 1 | I've literally tried every dating app there is and I've never been matched once with anyone. I am (not to sound conceited) a very attractive Male (19) and... somehow I've never had any sort of luck with these apps. I understand it's harder for Guys than girls, but all my friends have had good progress with them.... why... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [Men] Anyone else having trouble with dating apps? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b7wcys/men_anyone_else_having_trouble_with_dating_apps/ |
Northamerican33 | 2021-12-16 12:52:40 | 1,639,659,160 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | rhq4ng | true | null | 131 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/rhq4ng/should_i_ask_her_out_or_move_on/ | 43 | Matched with her online. Started messaging. 2 days and about 20 messages in. The problem is, I ask her questions and she responds with short answers and never asks a single question about me. Not one. I even will throw in an interesting tidbit about myself, and no comments. Now normally I'd just move on from this. Figu... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Should I Ask her out or move on? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/rhq4ng/should_i_ask_her_out_or_move_on/ |
lifeblood74 | 2022-12-18 21:40:23 | 1,671,399,623 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | zp972a | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zp972a/pushy_and_demanding_according_to_woman/ | 1 | So I get a few responses from a woman I just matched with on OLD. I ask to meet. She says she needs to see if we have same interests and a connection. Cool. So I say what do you want to know. Her response was she didn't know. What I say something like in person you can let conversation go as it wants. But online you ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Pushy and Demanding according to woman | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zp972a/pushy_and_demanding_according_to_woman/ |
Jcarter67 | 2021-02-21 15:59:37 | 1,613,923,177 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | lozyp7 | true | Question | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lozyp7/does_anyone_still_use_tagged_dating_app/ | 1 | If not tagged what apps do you use. I like tagged because you can talk to people immediately without having to match or pay. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does anyone still use tagged? ( Dating App) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lozyp7/does_anyone_still_use_tagged_dating_app/ |
TheFwkor | 2024-06-06 00:37:49 | 1,717,634,269 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1d95ivn | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d95ivn/if_im_a_decent_looking_guy_but_im_young_and/ | 1 | I don't really have much luck getting relationships on dating apps and I guess it makes sense since I'm still in college and don't have a real solid job yet. Should I just try shooting for stuff more short term like casual dates and hookups? Ironically I actually want a relationship but having a pretty face doesn't rea... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | If I'm a decent looking guy but I'm young and haven't really figured out my career yet should I just be using dating apps for hookups instead? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d95ivn/if_im_a_decent_looking_guy_but_im_young_and/ |
Ok-Ordinary-5069 | 2023-04-05 13:58:24 | 1,680,703,104 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 12cl9lx | true | Question ❓ | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12cl9lx/lost_in_thoughts_and_dont_know_how_to_advance/ | 1 | Hi. A short introduction for general image: M29, have extra weight, long hair (mainly ponytail when going outside). Have a beard and moustache but don't trim it often. Absolutely dislike how I look without facial hair. I am an introvert, don't open up to people quickly. So far I have one friend (moved to another countr... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Lost in thoughts and don't know how to advance | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12cl9lx/lost_in_thoughts_and_dont_know_how_to_advance/ |
Lonewolfing | 2021-05-20 20:59:16 | 1,621,544,356 | null | ['swipes', 'dating apps'] | 0 | nhbc9s | true | null | 558 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/nhbc9s/is_ethical_nonmonogamy_really_that_common/ | 363 | Alright. I’ve been on dating apps on and off over the past few years. In the past year or so I’ve noticed a rise in men saying they’re only open to ‘ethical non-monogamy’. Now, I’m very open to other people’s life styles, and as long as people truly are being ethical, then all power to them. It’s really none of my busi... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Is ‘ethical non-monogamy’ really that common? | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/nhbc9s/is_ethical_nonmonogamy_really_that_common/ |
alwayshungry204 | 2021-08-05 19:42:50 | 1,628,192,570 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | oyq3vb | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oyq3vb/shout_out_to_the_respectable_daters_out_there/ | 141 | This is an appreciation post to a guy I was talking on OLD for a couple of days. While our messages was long and the conversation was moving forward, he messaged me today saying he met someone that he wants to focus his attention on and it felt unfair to us all if we continued talking. Yes, it sucked that it didn't wor... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Shout out to the respectable daters out there! | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oyq3vb/shout_out_to_the_respectable_daters_out_there/ |
faithinstrangers92 | 2022-07-05 06:21:55 | 1,657,002,115 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | vrrbc3 | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vrrbc3/why_do_so_many_people_feel_that_physical/ | 5 | It's taken me years to come to terms with the fact that I can't choose who I'm sexually attracted to. During this time I'd try to date people who I wasn't that physically into because I liked their personality - big mistake - because it would end in me telling them that I wasn't ready to date at the moment and I think ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do so many people feel that physical attraction is just a minor component of a romantic relationship? | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vrrbc3/why_do_so_many_people_feel_that_physical/ |
Objective-Border-663 | 2024-09-28 19:39:41 | 1,727,552,381 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1frmbwl | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1frmbwl/i_recently_was_dumped_by_someone_i_think_was/ | 1 | I’m a 27F and he is a 31M. I’m a black/ African his family is from the Mediterranean. He recently broke up with me after six months together. Met on a dating app. We’re going on three or four dates a week. If we have things going on at work, we might take a week apart, but we still communicate over text. One day I deci... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I recently was dumped by someone I think was prejudiced. Have you ever dated someone who was prejudiced or simply disliked/unwilling to understand your culture? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1frmbwl/i_recently_was_dumped_by_someone_i_think_was/ |
guacamole_24 | 2021-02-11 02:23:54 | 1,613,010,234 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | lhals1 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lhals1/how_to_ask_a_guy_what_his_intentions_are/ | 1 | I (22F) have been seeing this guy (22M) for a few months now. I really like him and he gives me all those butterflies people talk about. He seems to like me too but I am not sure if we are on the same page regarding actually dating. I'm confused because he introduced me to his parents, while I thought that's something ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to ask a guy what his intentions are? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lhals1/how_to_ask_a_guy_what_his_intentions_are/ |
omgarethereanynames | 2022-09-23 14:19:07 | 1,663,942,747 | null | null | 0 | xlyvld | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/xlyvld/would_you_match_if_this_was_in_his_bio/ | 0 | I would pick you up in my white, windowless van. We would stop at the hardware store for some zip ties and duct tape. Then we would park in a nice dark alley. Tell me what this rag smells like.... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Would you match if this was in his bio? | null | 0.21 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/xlyvld/would_you_match_if_this_was_in_his_bio/ |
ftmthrowawayacc | 2023-11-19 19:01:40 | 1,700,420,500 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17z46qp | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17z46qp/ghosted_after_2_dates/ | 3 | Mainly just a vent post because I needed to get this off my chest. Sorry it’s gonna be a really long one, tldr at end! So early this September, I was dumped by my boyfriend of roughly a month. It was right before I went on a several week long trip, so between the amount of time I had to think on plane rides and being i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ghosted after 2 dates… | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17z46qp/ghosted_after_2_dates/ |
Hot_Investment4093 | 2024-09-22 06:58:49 | 1,726,988,329 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1fmna09 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fmna09/what_do_i_do_about_a_connection_i_potentially/ | 2 | I met with this guy I met on hinge on 3 occasions. When we initially started texting he seemed nice and interested and wanted to meet me to play in a game of horse. Here and there he’d make hints about how he wanted to introduce me to new things and what not. Which I basically ignored and continued with a different top... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | what do I do about a connection i potentially sabotaged? How do you think he feels towards me? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fmna09/what_do_i_do_about_a_connection_i_potentially/ |
rawdogonlycrew | 2022-09-18 15:02:10 | 1,663,513,330 | null | null | 0 | xhiyr9 | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/xhiyr9/therapists_dont_keep_up_with_modern_day/ | 0 | Every therapist I had was either an old guy or a woman and they just don't understand dating as a man at all. My male therapist keeps telling me you just have to go out and girls will show interest and approach you and she will give you the "look." That has never happened to me and I'm not even ugly. And obviously the ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Therapists don't keep up with modern day culture/worlds outside their own | null | 0.28 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/xhiyr9/therapists_dont_keep_up_with_modern_day/ |
LLislife | 2022-01-07 20:12:28 | 1,641,586,348 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | rygntv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rygntv/question_about_tinder/ | 1 | If I change my location, will a match's distance away also change on Tinder? Or do they have to open the app for the distance to change? Thanks! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Question about Tinder | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rygntv/question_about_tinder/ |
Beautiful_News_474 | 2021-03-08 11:28:18 | 1,615,202,898 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | m0drcc | true | Question | 32 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m0drcc/i_just_became_21m_but_have_never_had_any/ | 5 | Anyone here begin at a late stage like me? After becoming 21 I realized I’ve never really had any partner or even a moment of closeness with someone and feel like if I actually had value, someone might’ve made an advance to me or something might’ve happened by now. All of my friends are are happy about their relationsh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I just became 21m but have never had any relationship. Feel like a lost cause. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m0drcc/i_just_became_21m_but_have_never_had_any/ |
Kirastic13 | 2024-03-05 14:37:19 | 1,709,649,439 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 1b76p5t | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b76p5t/would_it_be_okay_or_worth_it_to_facebook_message/ | 1 | I came across a friendly and attractive girl through work. We met at as new hires during a week-long company orientation. We’re both brand new nurses working under the same company/hospital health network. The new hire orientation was held at my hospital, (the primary hospital), but after orientation, she’d go off to w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Would it be okay or worth it to Facebook message a girl I like and got to know through work in my specific situation? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b76p5t/would_it_be_okay_or_worth_it_to_facebook_message/ |
CaramelYogi | 2024-02-01 22:33:37 | 1,706,826,817 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1agnq3n | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1agnq3n/do_i_have_a_male_validation_issue/ | 1 | So I met this guy on hinge and we were hitting it off really really well. We both have similar interests and top notch banter between each other. Everything was going well, until I looked up his name in the “are we dating the same guy” Facebook group for my city. He was on the red flag list! So I messaged the girl that... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do I have a male validation issue? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1agnq3n/do_i_have_a_male_validation_issue/ |
StretchTucker | 2024-03-08 17:24:45 | 1,709,918,685 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1b9toeo | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b9toeo/honestly_at_this_point_im_just_confused/ | 1 | So i (25m) tried dating online for a while and had a nice profile that i put effort into, good prompts, really just trying to put the best foot forward but i really wasn’t getting any likes or matches. a few sure but they rarely went anywhere. i dated like 2 girls for a couple months each but we just weren’t compatible... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | honestly, at this point i’m just confused. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b9toeo/honestly_at_this_point_im_just_confused/ |
laugh-at-anything | 2023-09-26 23:10:06 | 1,695,769,806 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16t3e2e | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16t3e2e/how_should_i_phrase_my_text_to_the_girl_i_think/ | 1 | So, I went on a first date with a girl I met on Hinge this past Friday. We had great conversation and she asked before she left if she'd see me again, to which I said yes. She is in medical school right now, so can be very busy. She sent me a short text at the end of the night saying she hoped I had a good rest of my d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How should I phrase my text to the girl I think has ghosted me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16t3e2e/how_should_i_phrase_my_text_to_the_girl_i_think/ |
newdaterinator | 2023-02-21 17:11:39 | 1,676,999,499 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 118ad1f | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/118ad1f/wanting_to_potentially_get_back_into_the_dating/ | 1 | 1. What are the best apps these days? I’m 27 if that makes a difference. 2. Is having social media like instagram / Facebook a necessity? I haven’t had either of those in a long time but, last time I was on a dating app (5 years ago), many or most of the profiles had instagram links. 3. I’ve build by body pretty well o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Wanting to potentially get back into the dating game and have some questions | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/118ad1f/wanting_to_potentially_get_back_into_the_dating/ |
bombzombie | 2020-06-06 02:21:25 | 1,591,410,085 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | gxifw1 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gxifw1/how_do_i_actually_get_anywhere_with_this/ | 3 | Ive been using tinder for around 4 months now and to my absolute dismay I havent had a single date. I’ll match with a girl, attempt to start a conversation, aaaaand she unmatched me. Im not poking and prodding or spamming messages or something stupid like that, I will just send a message and wait. Its really messing wi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I actually get anywhere with this? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gxifw1/how_do_i_actually_get_anywhere_with_this/ |
Trav17AwesoME | 2021-12-09 20:22:48 | 1,639,081,368 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | rcqc6r | true | Question | 38 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rcqc6r/looking_for_a_fwb_but_dont_know_how_to_start_one/ | 4 | So I've never had a FWB before but I'm wanting to try it out. I hear stories about them but nothing about how to get one. Where should I start? I don't get opportunities to meet new girls and the few that I do know are not options for that. I tried online dating but hasn't worked out. Would love any advice even if it's... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Looking for a FWB but don't know how to start one | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rcqc6r/looking_for_a_fwb_but_dont_know_how_to_start_one/ |
HigherLove2 | 2018-06-17 19:18:11 | 1,529,263,091 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 8rtb0o | true | null | 106 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8rtb0o/men_is_there_any_truth_to_shes_too_intimidating/ | 0 | This is long, please bear with me. I went to a concert with friends last night, general admission, thick crowd. One of my friends and I are very extroverted. We walked through the crowd all night looking for people we knew so that we could say hello. I network a lot for my very public facing job so that behavior, along... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Men - Is there any truth to “she’s too intimidating to approach?” | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8rtb0o/men_is_there_any_truth_to_shes_too_intimidating/ |
19Cairnsy98 | 2020-04-30 23:57:08 | 1,588,291,028 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | gb7fb7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gb7fb7/i_cant_talk/ | 1 | So whether it's in real life (on a date) or on dating apps I have no idea what to say to anyone so my only talk is small talk I don't know how else to make conversation so after 5 minutes (10-15 message on an app) I've ran out of questions and don't really know what to say and I'm nervous of saying the wrong thing so I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I can't talk. | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gb7fb7/i_cant_talk/ |
[deleted] | 2020-01-03 06:03:03 | 1,578,031,383 | null | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | ejb9ch | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/ejb9ch/hinge_dating_app/ | 5 | Any of ya’ll in our age group tried it? Experiences? Impressions? Same as everything else, or slightly different like they want us starry-eyed optimists to believe?🤞🏼 | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | HINGE dating app??? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/ejb9ch/hinge_dating_app/ |
spontaneous-plan-xyz | 2024-08-09 01:31:57 | 1,723,167,117 | 0 | null | 0 | 1enn9zi | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1enn9zi/why_are_people_always_curious_about_who_else_ur/ | 1 | So went on a first date with a girl. She was asking a lot of questions and one thing she asked me was if i was see or talking to other people. I said yeah She told me how those went and i kind of just gave a generic answer but then she was asking me what makes her different from the others and also asking if she was th... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why are people always curious about who else ur talking to and seeing? | 1 | 0.51 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1enn9zi/why_are_people_always_curious_about_who_else_ur/ |
FloatDH2 | 2022-03-07 17:41:49 | 1,646,674,909 | null | null | 0 | t8ur27 | true | null | 70 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/t8ur27/loving_to_laugh_is_not_a_interesting_personality/ | 87 | Naw, seriously. Might as well replace “laugh” with eat, sleep, or taking morning shits. Enjoying a basic human function, so quirky. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Loving to laugh is not a interesting personality trait. | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/t8ur27/loving_to_laugh_is_not_a_interesting_personality/ |
Equivalent_Reach_834 | 2023-10-27 02:06:07 | 1,698,372,367 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 17hcxyf | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17hcxyf/bumble_date/ | 1 | Wondering how's the character/personality like for a mid 30's Indonesian Chinese from Jakarta ? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Bumble date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17hcxyf/bumble_date/ |
seafoamgreenlobster | 2019-12-15 20:29:52 | 1,576,441,792 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | eb46wu | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/eb46wu/will_i_ever_find_love/ | 2 | Soooo, I don’t know where I’m going with this post... I’m just feeling all kinds of things I suppose. I’ve been “online dating” since I was a teen in 8-9th grade. I didn’t have the liberty of hanging out with people outside of school and spent the majority of my time on the internet playing games and talking to strange... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Will I ever find love? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eb46wu/will_i_ever_find_love/ |
recoveredandrestful | 2024-06-08 02:10:25 | 1,717,812,625 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1das4z4 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1das4z4/no_kiss_on_the_first_date_is_that_probably_a_bad/ | 1 | Hey All I (39f) can't believe I'm back here, dating again. Blerg. I really hate the dating apps. Anyways, I met a guy (38) on Bumble. He's super cute, and our Bumble convo went great. We quickly exchanged numbers and began texting, then we jumped to phone calls. Conversation with him flows easily. We've been flirting. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | No kiss on the first date..... is that probably a bad sign? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1das4z4/no_kiss_on_the_first_date_is_that_probably_a_bad/ |
gamefreak2065 | 2023-11-21 08:57:56 | 1,700,557,076 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 180cr02 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/180cr02/im_screwed/ | 1 | Well, not only have I never gotten a match on any dating app, since 2017. Ads being flagged on CL, mainly for dinner dates. Also, bots answering my ad on Doublelist, but I found out something today. Went to a mall, long time in a long while and I have intense social anxiety, being around people now. I don't have proble... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm Screwed | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/180cr02/im_screwed/ |
geumkoi | 2023-03-08 18:13:46 | 1,678,299,226 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 11m3kpb | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11m3kpb/where_can_i_meet_new_people_without_using_dating/ | 3 | 24F –I have no experience in intimate relationships. I have dated swiftly in the past and done some sexual stuff but nothing too serious. I think I'm ready to get in a relationship but I just can't find anyone I'm attracted to or that is attracted to me enough to try something. I tried dating apps for awhile and none w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where can I meet new people without using dating apps or partying with friends? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11m3kpb/where_can_i_meet_new_people_without_using_dating/ |
No_Vacation9555 | 2024-04-04 12:50:43 | 1,712,235,043 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bvmbpx | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bvmbpx/need_your_opinion/ | 1 | I have been single for a long time, never really the type to go in a relationship had a few situationships before that never lasted. I tried dating apps this year and met someone whom I didn't know I'd care for and liked so much after a long time. he made me realize what I wanted from a man, he showed me my exact type.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | need your opinion | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bvmbpx/need_your_opinion/ |
[deleted] | 2015-03-03 04:16:19 | 1,425,356,179 | 0 | ['tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | 2xr30g | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2xr30g/24_male_inexperienced_with_dating_should_i_be/ | 1 | ... Or should i just jump and hope for the best. I've been having self confidence issues the last two years and I think I'm finally getting over them. I haven't had sex or a relationship in that time and i'm intimidated by hook up websites like tinder and pof. I wouldn't mind a relationship but i would also like to get... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 24 (male) inexperienced with dating, should I be wary of hook up sites like, tinder or pof? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2xr30g/24_male_inexperienced_with_dating_should_i_be/ |
Russiawith_love | 2017-10-16 19:31:46 | 1,508,182,306 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 76syeh | false | null | 23 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/76syeh/could_use_some_advice_although_im_definitely/ | 2 | So a while ago I met this awesome guy on Tinder. We went out 4 times and had sex on the third date which was great. We had this connection I’ve just not felt with anyone for years and years. We talked for hours, laid arm in arm, had everything in common etc. After date 4 he text me freaking out because he was worried a... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Could use some advice - although I’m definitely being lame. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/76syeh/could_use_some_advice_although_im_definitely/ |
Dotrin | 2022-02-13 03:51:34 | 1,644,724,294 | null | ['matched', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | sr9e0i | true | I Need Advice | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sr9e0i/a_semi_long_one_advice_will_be_appreciated/ | 1 | This guy(28) and I (24) have been dating for about two weeks now, we matched on Hinge at the end of last month and to be more specific have been on 3 dates and hung out 3 times. We had sex for the first time yesterday, but before we got it on I asked what he wanted. He said he wanted to date me and i said i didn't want... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A semi long one (advice will be appreciated) | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sr9e0i/a_semi_long_one_advice_will_be_appreciated/ |
monaissastylez | 2020-10-13 18:25:13 | 1,602,613,513 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | jaj8p8 | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/jaj8p8/no_reply_in_two_days_should_i_unmatch_and_block/ | 1 | Or is that too extreme? For context, I matched with a very attractive guy on Hinge and the exchanges were fun and aligned from the start. He said he was looking for a relationship as was I..not that either of us was trying to jump into anything super fast for the sake of it, but we seemed to be aligned in that way. So ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | NO REPLY IN TWO DAYS. SHOULD I UNMATCH AND BLOCK? | null | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jaj8p8/no_reply_in_two_days_should_i_unmatch_and_block/ |
bloodthirsty_emu | 2020-12-29 09:50:36 | 1,609,235,436 | null | ['matches', 'OLD', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'eharmony'] | 0 | kmbg6b | true | null | 52 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/kmbg6b/old_advice_for_those_considered_less_attractive/ | 11 | I saw a similar post a minute ago, and rather than hijack the comments I've decided to make my first post The question was concerning advice for "average" looking guys and making a first connection etc after matching. The issue for me (34 and never been on a date) has been that no matter how I present myself or style m... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | OLD advice for those considered less attractive? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/kmbg6b/old_advice_for_those_considered_less_attractive/ |
imtooweak212 | 2018-08-14 21:15:18 | 1,534,281,318 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 97c9ml | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/97c9ml/how_did_u_learn_to_forgive_yourself/ | 1 | i find my biggest problem is forgiving myself for past issues i’ve never been in a relationship but the meager experience i did have (outside of tinder and other apps nowadays) leaves me feeling like im not good enough and never will be for anyone im trying to unlearn this but all i find on the internet are half-assed ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | how did u learn to forgive yourself? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/97c9ml/how_did_u_learn_to_forgive_yourself/ |
Trajen_Geta | 2024-05-03 20:49:48 | 1,714,769,388 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cjiqt4 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cjiqt4/m33_feeling_hopeless/ | 0 | M(33) Honestly I am at the point of losing all hope in finding love. I have not been able to connect with anyone or actually meet someone. I tried all forms of dating apps with no luck like 1-2 likes a month. Meeting people IRL is almost impossible it seems like such a challenge. I try and stay active in doing coed hob... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | M(33) Feeling hopeless. | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cjiqt4/m33_feeling_hopeless/ |
Brilliant_Kick1816 | 2022-03-05 19:13:06 | 1,646,507,586 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | t7gjef | true | Question | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/t7gjef/are_guys_afraid_of_dating_women_who_they_know/ | 0 | I'm asking bc I've seen too many stories of how men hide the woman they're dating from their friends bc idk, the girl might be chubby or just not conventionally attractive. Even in my own experiences, I've had some matches on tinder talk about how ugly some of their matches are and it's like...you didnt have to swipe r... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are guys afraid of dating women who they know, from a societal standpoint, arent deemed attractive? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/t7gjef/are_guys_afraid_of_dating_women_who_they_know/ |
candidburrito | 2019-09-08 06:32:16 | 1,567,924,336 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | d17j58 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/d17j58/how_do_i/ | 10 | How do I (31F) position myself on OLD as a person who’s physically restricted (by chronic health issues) in an location where people base their whole personalities around doing things outdoors? I have a chronic illness that, when flared up, keeps me inside and inactive more than I’d like. I’m naturally pretty easy to e... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How do I... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/d17j58/how_do_i/ |
puestadelsol | 2023-09-17 06:02:29 | 1,694,930,549 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16ksylu | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16ksylu/is_this_weird/ | 1 | My (f23) birthday is on wednesday I have a date from hinge that following saturday with a guy I have been talking to for about a week and a few days. He said he bought me a birthday gift. Ive never had a guy from an app who i have never met buy me a gift. I have had a guy who I went out with on a few dates get me gifts... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this weird? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16ksylu/is_this_weird/ |
BnJova | 2020-02-06 16:25:12 | 1,581,006,312 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ezupj0 | true | I Need Advice | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ezupj0/5th_date_conversation_ideas/ | 2 | I've meet a really nice girl on tinder. We've gone on 4 dates and a 5th one in the future. I'm having a hard time keeping the conversations flowing and idk what to really say. She's more on the quite side and I do most of the conversation engagement. She also does a lot of work while also going part time school, while ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 5th date conversation ideas? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ezupj0/5th_date_conversation_ideas/ |
TheKaleKing | 2024-03-10 01:12:45 | 1,710,033,165 | 0 | null | 0 | 1baxrv8 | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1baxrv8/is_posting_a_picture_with_a_friend_who_happens_to/ | 7 | I have a picture on my profile with a friend of mine that looks way better than me and I got feedback that I should remove it because it gives makes me look bad therefore less chance of a match. In my mind though, if a girl will swipe left on me just because I have a picture with a friend that she thinks is hotter, it ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is posting a picture with a friend who happens to be better-looking than me bad? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1baxrv8/is_posting_a_picture_with_a_friend_who_happens_to/ |
A_Violent_Encounter | 2018-02-19 20:46:00 | 1,519,073,160 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 7ypze4 | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7ypze4/which_dating_appssites_are_you_using/ | 4 | Hi all, just wondering if I might be missing out on some. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Which dating apps/sites are you using? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7ypze4/which_dating_appssites_are_you_using/ |
A_nice_Redditor_ | 2023-03-12 10:16:05 | 1,678,616,165 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | 11pb4sj | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11pb4sj/help_me_understand_this_girl/ | 1 | First of all, I know how this situation looks like, but maybe there are some positive thoughts I haven't thought yet. So, I met this girl online and we clicked pretty fast. Somehow her first message was a question to date, but we had to arrange the date a week later. Meanwhile we chatted a lot, at first initiated by he... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Help me understand this girl | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11pb4sj/help_me_understand_this_girl/ |
kuromibxtch | 2024-06-30 01:15:15 | 1,719,710,115 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1drq1ay | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1drq1ay/never_been_in_a_relationship/ | 2 | im 18f bi, and i’ve never been in a relationship , or even had anyone be interested in me before. i’ve had maybe 3 guys in my entire life show interest over text but i always feel like it’s a joke/ prank , how could anyone actually be interested in me. i hate online dating and find it superficial and just doesn’t appea... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | never been in a relationship | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1drq1ay/never_been_in_a_relationship/ |
dark-soul-23 | 2023-07-23 03:16:14 | 1,690,082,174 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1573ipe | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1573ipe/why_do_guys_always_act_different_after_meeting/ | 1 | I(18f) chose to start using dating apps as a way to be more social because I’m trying to work with my anxiety, but to also find someone to connect with. I met k(22m) on one dating app, and it seems like we really hit it off, we were either talking most of the time or asleep, he even took me on a super sweet date, but a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why do guys always act different after meeting them?? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1573ipe/why_do_guys_always_act_different_after_meeting/ |
SmallishBiGuy | 2017-05-19 04:26:14 | 1,495,167,974 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | 6c1hri | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6c1hri/thinking_of_settling_for_less_37m/ | 1 | I'm growing weary of finding a highly compatible match. I'm 5' 7", and feel that my height limits me to some extent with women, especially in online dating. I was in a 6 year relationship with an older woman that moved away last year. I've been single for just over a year and I get very few responses online. Now, I am ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Thinking of settling for less (37m) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6c1hri/thinking_of_settling_for_less_37m/ |
chowaniec | 2015-11-04 22:35:39 | 1,446,676,539 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3rjwuu | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3rjwuu/from_hookups_to_hiking/ | 1 | I (27M) recently met a girl (25F) on tinder, and we've met up for drinks and hooked up the past couple of weekends. We have common interests and get along pretty well, but her behavior is kind of distant: she isn't very flirty/affectionate, she doesn't initiate or keep up texting, she doesn't seem to want to hang aroun... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | From hookups to hiking? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3rjwuu/from_hookups_to_hiking/ |
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