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Sea_Reaction5676
2024-06-27 17:22:14
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Giving Advice 💌
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/r/dating/comments/1dpwsi9/one_of_the_reasons_why_some_capricorn_women_end/
1
Married To Your Work As a Capricorn, you are naturally ambitious, hard-working, and tenacious. While these qualities are part of what makes you such a great catch that any man would be lucky to find, they can sometimes lead to unexpected problems. You can be so driven and focused on your work life that you may tend to ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
One Of The Reasons Why Some Capricorn Women End Up In Unfulfilling Relationships
1
0.29
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dpwsi9/one_of_the_reasons_why_some_capricorn_women_end/
[deleted]
2014-10-28 02:10:10
1,414,462,210
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['online dating']
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2kj1go
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/r/AskWomen/comments/2kj1go/ladies_what_do_you_look_for_in_an_online_dating/
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This could go many directions, like: 1) What type of photos work best 2) What do you look for in a bio 3) What is most important Obviously we all have personal preferences. That's not what I'm interested in. I'm more interested in general things every guy/girl should incorporate in (or remove from) their profile. Looki...
AskWomen
t5_2rxrw
Ladies, what do you look for in an online dating profile?
0
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/2kj1go/ladies_what_do_you_look_for_in_an_online_dating/
Worried_Weakness2938
2024-07-16 02:25:15
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/r/dating_advice/comments/1e4dce1/should_i_take_a_risk_to_someone_who_has_a/
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Hello, I took the courage to post here and seek some pieces of advice. I gave my best efforts and put all the positive words into this. I currently have a suitor (M20) whom I met on Tinder. We've been talking for three months already and he courted me this last week of June. On the first day we talked, he shared with m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
should i take a risk to someone who has a cheating history?
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e4dce1/should_i_take_a_risk_to_someone_who_has_a/
Hansar003
2023-10-30 18:52:00
1,698,691,920
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17k0lu9
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/r/dating_advice/comments/17k0lu9/what_to_say_when_i_dont_want_to_see_them_again/
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I (27M) am quite new to online dating so I haven't figured out any standard practices yet. I've been talking to a couple of women recently and I went on a first date with one of them a couple of days ago. I've come to the conclusion that I really don't like the stress multi-dating brings me and I have higher hopes for ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What to say when I don't want to see them again because I want to focus on someone else?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17k0lu9/what_to_say_when_i_dont_want_to_see_them_again/
sundayjourney
2022-10-16 13:03:02
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Question ❓
17
0
/r/dating/comments/y5gb60/my_bumble_date_stood_me_up_but_he_asked_me_out_why/
8
yesterday i (f/25) made a bumble account and swiped right on a nice looking (m/32). to get you to better understand i don’t swipe on the overly wealthy/ cocky men nor someone who doesn’t take care of themselves, i need right in the middle of handsome and humble. I am pretty and definitely not overly cocky/ flashy in my...
dating
t5_2qhb1
My bumble date stood me up, but he asked me out, why?
null
0.9
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/y5gb60/my_bumble_date_stood_me_up_but_he_asked_me_out_why/
Knurek27
2022-02-04 15:17:47
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/r/dating_advice/comments/skfppy/i_lost_the_will_to_look_for_somebody/
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I(26M) was a little bit late to the party and consider myself a late bloomer. I fought hard to get out of deppresion, getting stabilised and getting my life in check. I'm definetely past that and didn't feel the feeling of hopelessness in a very long time and not planning to. I've been on OLD for about half a year. Can...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I lost the will to look for somebody
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/skfppy/i_lost_the_will_to_look_for_somebody/
evilpuppie
2020-10-25 08:41:01
1,603,615,261
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['online dating']
0
jhq6ix
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29
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/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jhq6ix/just_after_advice_or_opinions/
0
Hi I'm 32 been single for 10 years now it's crazy. Bit of background I'm a fit healthy guy, have healthy friendships with family and friends. Love to laugh and try to help others have fun. Run my own business for a long time now, and people are very important to me and treating them fairly. I've talked to therapists an...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Just after advice or opinions
null
0.38
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jhq6ix/just_after_advice_or_opinions/
for_want_of_wings
2016-02-05 16:57:41
1,454,691,461
0
['dating sites']
0
44bojc
null
null
10
null
/r/dating/comments/44bojc/cant_seem_to_build_interest_in_anyone/
5
A little background/insight: I am a 32/f and I have been single for about a year and a half with no real dating to speak of. After my last serious relationship went south (he was cheating and lying about it, thinking I didn't know), I haven't really had any interest in dating. Now I'm interested in starting to date aga...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Can't seem to build interest in anyone.
5
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/44bojc/cant_seem_to_build_interest_in_anyone/
hi5torimakr
2020-08-22 03:03:02
1,598,065,382
null
['dating apps']
0
ieb0k0
true
null
12
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ieb0k0/genuinely_curious_has_the_advice_of_focus_on/
2
Nothing is more infuriating than being given that advice. Sure people may mean well, but for someone who has little to no luck with women, has generally always been single it feels like a slap to the face. For reference I'm 23 m, with everything locked down I can promise you I won't have the phenomenon of not looking a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Genuinely curious. Has the advice of focus on yourself, don't look for love it'll find you when you're not looking, and enjoy being single ever worked for anyone?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ieb0k0/genuinely_curious_has_the_advice_of_focus_on/
Hopefully987
2021-11-11 19:26:23
1,636,658,783
null
['swipe', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
qrswfr
true
null
26
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/qrswfr/something_i_learned_about_the_apps_might_be_useful/
30
I'm no longer dating but I found a guy on Tik Tok who has worked for some dating apps who has shared how they work. Assuming he is being honest, he said that Tinder has an algorithm that the more you swipe right and less people match with you, the lower your "value" goes so you are shown to less people. So if you have ...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Something I learned about the apps, might be useful
null
0.93
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/qrswfr/something_i_learned_about_the_apps_might_be_useful/
powowinsidehell
2022-02-11 05:52:13
1,644,558,733
null
['online dating']
0
sprvhs
true
null
6
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/sprvhs/how_many_dates_to_feel_attraction_or_none_at_all/
4
It's been a while since I've gone on multiple dates with someone. Most of my experience has been negative with online dating, not getting past the first date. I've become quite comfortable being single, but also definitely closed off and cautious due to past experiences. So now, I've met someone who is sincere, shows i...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
How many dates to feel attraction or none at all.
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/sprvhs/how_many_dates_to_feel_attraction_or_none_at_all/
lostasianguy
2017-08-29 19:44:16
1,504,035,856
null
['online dating']
0
6wtplr
false
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/6wtplr/why_is_it_i_do_so_much_better_with_women_offline/
1
I get zero replies online. I have a well-written profile that I think accurately describes myself well. I have a couple good pictures which consist of selfies as well as me engaging in activities I enjoy. I think it has a lot to do with my height and ethnicity. I am 5'5 and I am Asian male. In real life, when I have op...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why is it I do so much better with women offline?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6wtplr/why_is_it_i_do_so_much_better_with_women_offline/
DingusKhan12345
2020-12-04 20:00:29
1,607,112,029
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['dating apps']
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I Need Advice
1
0
/r/dating/comments/k6sb1x/how_to_meet_dates_without_the_use_of_dating_apps/
4
I’m gonna keep this short but essentially I’ve had pretty bad experiences with dating apps from the simple and common ghost treatment to people not telling me they don’t live anywhere near me till after days of talking. Point is I want to meet people irl but not just at work as I prefer to keep my dating life separate ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How to meet dates without the use of dating apps during covid.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/k6sb1x/how_to_meet_dates_without_the_use_of_dating_apps/
Dadouuh
2024-04-29 20:37:33
1,714,423,053
0
['dating app']
0
1cg9q7q
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cg9q7q/should_i_ask_her_for_a_date/
1
I [20M] met this girl [21F] on Instagram something like 2 months ago, and since we're 2h of drive away from each other we never met. I told her I got her instagram via a dating app so I was wondering what she was looking for rn, and she told me she didn't really know, and we agreed to just talk and know each other for ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I ask her for a date ?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cg9q7q/should_i_ask_her_for_a_date/
BrickCity45
2023-06-27 06:13:10
1,687,846,390
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14k5bxe
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5
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/r/dating_advice/comments/14k5bxe/i_m21_dont_want_to_be_in_a_relationship_anymore/
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Tl;dr i want to be single after 2 years but I don’t want to break her heart. And In all honesty I do love and care about her as a person. But I just don’t feel mentally ready to commit for a lifetime being in a relationship. I feel burnt out already and I really think it’s because we moved in together 9 months ago and ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (M21) don’t want to be in a relationship anymore with my (F21) partner
2
0.63
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14k5bxe/i_m21_dont_want_to_be_in_a_relationship_anymore/
MetaCrisisTen
2018-12-31 03:48:12
1,546,228,092
null
['tinder']
0
ab3cw0
true
null
12
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ab3cw0/feeling_lonely_in_a_relationship/
1
I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and lately it's been going downhill. We claim to be working on it but some days I don't know if we're getting better. A large source of our conflict is his medical issues. His pelvic floor muscle gives out sometimes leading to chronic pain, which leads to problems such as...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Feeling lonely in a relationship
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ab3cw0/feeling_lonely_in_a_relationship/
dolviolex
2018-10-05 16:51:38
1,538,758,298
null
['tinder']
0
9lo0id
true
null
45
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9lo0id/feeling_a_bit_torn_and_needshould_make_a_decision/
8
Hey good people, I am looking for some feedback/advice from others who have been in this scenario and ones how have good insight on what I should do. Back story: I am mid 30’s, had a relationship all of my 20’s but have been single for the last few years. I am career successful, financially stable and fully independent...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Feeling a bit torn and need/should make a decision here.. help?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9lo0id/feeling_a_bit_torn_and_needshould_make_a_decision/
Unhappy-Attorney-184
2024-03-28 15:00:01
1,711,638,001
0
['dating app']
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1bpxo70
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bpxo70/my25_bf25_has_been_messaging_w_his_ex_and_planned/
1
Hi everyone, this is my first post like this but I’m really stuck and don’t know who to talk to about this. For context, my bf 25 and I f25 are approaching 2 years together in the fall. We were looking for apartments together but had little luck. In the meantime we’ve moved into his parents basement, over two hours awa...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
My(25) bf(25) has been messaging w his ex and planned to get together to talk
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bpxo70/my25_bf25_has_been_messaging_w_his_ex_and_planned/
reaeve-121
2021-06-11 00:42:25
1,623,372,145
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nx35i7
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/r/OnlineDating/comments/nx35i7/met_someone_online_and_im_interested_but_their/
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I've started talking with someone that has a lot in common with me. I'm just getting out of a relationship so i already planned on taking it slow so distance helps. My concern is i want to continue to get to know them and i really enjoy speaking with them. I am just scared to build a relationship and then when i meet t...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Met someone online and I'm interested but their out of state currently
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/nx35i7/met_someone_online_and_im_interested_but_their/
futureButt
2018-01-31 16:42:57
1,517,416,977
null
['tinder']
0
7ub7kv
false
null
14
0
/r/AskMen/comments/7ub7kv/do_you_flirt_straight_off_the_start_line_in_a/
12
Ok, you got me, it's a thinly-veiled request for advice. Or maybe just a sanity check. I like to just make smalltalk until I'm confident the person on the other end won't be waiting for me with an axe. Then I ask if they like coffee. I'm wicked introverted, so I like to have at least gotten to know someone before I rea...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
Do you flirt straight off the start line in a Tinder conversation? How close do you like to know someone before you flirt with them?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/7ub7kv/do_you_flirt_straight_off_the_start_line_in_a/
holypotato23
2023-08-15 09:21:08
1,692,091,268
0
['tinder']
0
15rnkbr
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15rnkbr/i_think_the_guy_i_love_is_hiding_something_for_me/
1
hey i am new here and i need an opinion and i have a question. over a year ago i met a guy through tinder, immediately i noticed that we have a lot in common, gaming legend of zelda, geek stuff vrchat and a lot more..i know he's struggling quite a bit with his mental health, he know i'm there would always be for him bu...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
i think the guy i love is hiding something for me.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15rnkbr/i_think_the_guy_i_love_is_hiding_something_for_me/
Big_Maybe2675
2024-07-03 23:14:03
1,720,048,443
0
['dating app']
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1dus5cb
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null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dus5cb/its_been_3_days_am_i_blocked_or_is_his_phone_off/
2
i’m a 20F & i’ve been talking to this guy for about a week, we met off a dating app and it’s been pretty good to say the least and we were planning on hanging out this week to get to know each other. we have been texting each other non stop and he normally replies pretty fast & when he doesn’t he apologizes and tells m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
it’s been 3 days. am i blocked or is his phone off??? plz read
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dus5cb/its_been_3_days_am_i_blocked_or_is_his_phone_off/
Full-Metal-Jae
2023-07-05 14:44:38
1,688,568,278
0
['tinder']
0
14rco96
false
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/14rco96/i_think_i_messed_it_all_up/
1
So I (27M) met this beautiful girl (25) through tinder. We are both looking for something not so serious but still only one sexual partner (so hopefully each other FWB). Prior to the date, matching on tinder, we had texted not a lot to be honest. I am a bad texter, and so is she. I’m super cool with that, because I alw...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I think I messed it all up
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14rco96/i_think_i_messed_it_all_up/
hope2overcome
2020-02-29 16:23:59
1,582,993,439
null
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
fbeuv9
true
null
21
0
/r/AskMen/comments/fbeuv9/how_to_get_dates_without_using_dating_apps/
7
Most guys I know are mortified of approaching a girl for her number. And, most men (myself included) have horrifyingly bad luck in online dating. So, I am trying to understand how do you get dates.. How did you meet your gf, your fling, your SO?
AskMen
t5_2s30g
how to get dates without using dating apps
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/fbeuv9/how_to_get_dates_without_using_dating_apps/
linguisticons
2024-02-04 16:04:30
1,707,062,670
0
['dating apps']
0
1air7sj
false
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1air7sj/how_does_it_come_across_if_someone_gives_you_a/
2
Hi all! I have to say I was in a 4ish year relationship that I got out of a few years ago. I bring this up because I’ve never really had the most experience with this, but let’s just say I’m an okay looking dude and have enough charisma to not completely embarrass myself. That being said, I am completely done with dati...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How does it come across if someone gives you a business card with their cell phone number? Looking for the least overwhelming way to share contact info in public
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1air7sj/how_does_it_come_across_if_someone_gives_you_a/
ManLikeJones
2022-10-10 18:47:48
1,665,427,668
null
['OLD']
0
y0mn06
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/y0mn06/exclusive/
1
I have been dating a girl for two months or so and last week we sort of had a DTR chat. She said if I had been dating others recently, or if I still wanted to then it would hurt her a lot and she would have to end it. We also discussed getting with others as a one time thing, say at a club or party or whatever. I had b...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Exclusive?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/y0mn06/exclusive/
slut_tea
2017-11-11 18:05:37
1,510,423,537
null
['online dating']
0
7c9wlq
false
null
19
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7c9wlq/casualfwb_confusion/
8
Hi -- throwaway because my usual reddit name is associated with me IRL. I love this sub and read/comment often. I'll try to keep this brief. I'm in my early 30s (F) and met a man over the summer via online dating. We hit it off, and have slept together a few times. I'm not looking for anything serious at the moment and...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Casual/FWB confusion
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7c9wlq/casualfwb_confusion/
stillmisshim
2023-05-18 01:38:40
1,684,373,920
0
null
0
13kkrj2
true
null
15
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/13kkrj2/received_a_rose_on_hinge/
0
I received a rose. I know we all get one rose a week. Does receiving a rose mean that I have to have been in their standouts? Or does it mean I could've also just been in their regular deck? I never noticed if I can send roses to the "normal" people, and can't see now because I used my rose already (on a standout) this...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Received a rose on Hinge
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13kkrj2/received_a_rose_on_hinge/
Quiet_Addendum7923
2024-08-05 10:57:39
1,722,855,459
0
['hinge']
0
1ekkvj3
true
null
31
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/1ekkvj3/how_soon_is_too_soon_to_kiss_or_be_intimate/
8
My set of standards is all out of whack for modern dating l. I'm a 45yo male musician (with a day job) in the NYC scene. Been dating for 1.5 years since my wife of 17 years (also a musician) and I divorced. Working on myself and am really tired of being alone. This Spring a woman (39yo divorcee with a poly past) slept ...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
How soon is too soon to kiss or be intimate?
8
0.66
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1ekkvj3/how_soon_is_too_soon_to_kiss_or_be_intimate/
Ok-Mix8090
2024-07-22 23:00:07
1,721,689,207
0
['matched', 'online dating']
0
1e9s6sj
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1e9s6sj/i_still_feel_too_worthless_to_date_even_though_i/
1
So i am starting to feel very hopeless about my life and dating situation. So a little about me, i've been in therapy for years now, got a stable job, got friends, and am really passionate about fitness (boxing and lifting mainly). I would describe myself as a friendly, calm, motivated, funny and caring person. But sad...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I still feel too worthless to date even though i have "worked" on myself [26M]
1
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e9s6sj/i_still_feel_too_worthless_to_date_even_though_i/
ThrowRaptor
2023-06-07 02:54:39
1,686,106,479
0
['matched', 'swiped', 'bumble']
0
1431cob
true
null
15
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1431cob/keep_running_into_my_bumble_crush_from_over_a/
20
Ok y'all, this is crazy. I (F28) found a guy on bumble over a year ago. He was like, my IDEAL person. Everything from looks and hobbies I was so smitten just from his profile. I swiped right and nothing happened...either he didn't reciprocate or he just didn't use the app but I shortly deleted the app myself. Fast forw...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Keep Running into my Bumble Crush from over a Year Ago
20
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1431cob/keep_running_into_my_bumble_crush_from_over_a/
silkiechiken
2021-05-12 02:05:41
1,620,785,141
null
['online dating']
0
nadvj0
true
Venting
9
0
/r/dating/comments/nadvj0/rant_on_online_dating/
0
I'm early 20s, a girl, in a large city. For perspective. I match with plenty of people. I message first, no response. I respond to their message with any sort of exclamation point, or anything longer than one sentence with proper grammar and capitalization, no response. Basically any sort of attempt at genuine conversa...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Rant on online dating.
null
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nadvj0/rant_on_online_dating/
SlPerfect483334
2023-10-25 06:10:50
1,698,214,250
0
['tinder']
0
17fy7j8
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/17fy7j8/does_the_isfp_guy_like_me_or_not/
1
I recently met a guy from tinder who is a foreigner. Our meeting was very cozy, and he was really comfortable. He has been writing to me every day since that day. I asked him if he talks to his friends as often as he talks to me (to find out if I'm bothering him). He said that sometimes in on/off mode. And that he like...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Does the isfp guy like me or not?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17fy7j8/does_the_isfp_guy_like_me_or_not/
TallWishbone6
2019-01-10 14:29:16
1,547,130,556
null
['matched', 'bumble']
0
aejm2i
true
I Need Advice
11
0
/r/dating/comments/aejm2i/should_i_30_m_even_bother_asking_her_25_f_out/
1
Had a date with this girl last night. We matched on Bumble weeks ago, but we couldn't meet until last night because I had to be abroad for a while. I looked forward to the date for some time because she seemed quite interested in me. She texted me quite a bit leading up to the date. I met up with her at some bar/restau...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I [30 M] even bother asking her [25 F] out again?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/aejm2i/should_i_30_m_even_bother_asking_her_25_f_out/
smurf_on
2019-01-30 03:06:05
1,548,817,565
null
['tinder']
0
al89xo
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/al89xo/should_i_get_a_tinder/
3
My roommate and the rest of our friend group are urging me to get a Tinder, even though I don't really care for it that much. Never really got why I don't want one, just that I have heard of other bad experiences with Tinder. Should I get one or not even bother?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I get a Tinder?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/al89xo/should_i_get_a_tinder/
TheTinySpark
2020-05-29 22:44:37
1,590,792,277
null
['bumble']
0
gt30gf
true
null
37
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/gt30gf/do_your_feelings_for_someone_ever_have_a_sudden/
19
I (34F) met a guy a couple years older than me on Bumble back in December. I was still recovering a little bit from an absolutely gutting breakup of a 2.5 year relationship and I had imposed a 6 month moratorium on all dating to give myself time to heal, which was in progress when I met this guy. I was feeling ok but n...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Do your feelings for someone ever have a sudden drop off?
null
0.85
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/gt30gf/do_your_feelings_for_someone_ever_have_a_sudden/
Wanderingstill7
2024-01-15 06:23:38
1,705,299,818
0
null
0
1971z1g
true
null
0
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1971z1g/on_the_ur_my_type_app_does_anyone_know_what_the/
1
The title says it all.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
On the Ur My Type app, does anyone know what the Diego Matchmaker option is that you can switch on or off?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1971z1g/on_the_ur_my_type_app_does_anyone_know_what_the/
selfdoubt5421
2024-04-28 21:58:35
1,714,341,515
0
['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'coffee meets bagel', 'okcupid', 'eharmony']
0
1cfidzx
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1cfidzx/seven_years_multiple_apps_money_wasted_and_i_dont/
1
I've been single for seven years and it's the most miserable experience possible. I hate being single. Over the years I've worked on improving other aspects of life. For instance I got a job that I really love doing and pays well enough I could finally move out and live on my own. I go to therapy every week and have be...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Seven years, multiple apps, money wasted, and I don't know what to do next
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cfidzx/seven_years_multiple_apps_money_wasted_and_i_dont/
Redtube_Guy
2012-05-16 18:05:13
1,337,191,513
2
['okcupid']
null
tqa4w
null
null
6
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/tqa4w/im_a_21year_old_m_trying_to_successfully_date_a/
7
I met her through OkCupid. I messaged her and I honestly did not expect a reply back. But anyways we exchanged numbers and talked on the phone once. So finally meet after 2 weeks of messaging we meet at a lounge/bar. We share many things in common and I feel there is somewhat of a physical attraction. I really want to ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm a 21year old M, trying to (successfully) date a 27woman. Is there hope?
9
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tqa4w/im_a_21year_old_m_trying_to_successfully_date_a/
sameoldlove204
2018-12-28 01:35:00
1,545,960,900
null
['bumble']
0
aa5kfu
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/aa5kfu/how_does_one_deal_with_a_ghoster/
0
Earlier this year I met a lady on Bumble. We essentially spent four months together while she was back in town for the summer. As expected, the summer came to an end and we went our separate ways. This is where things get a little murky and I need help making sense of things. So we never really had a conversation about...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How does one deal with a "ghoster"?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aa5kfu/how_does_one_deal_with_a_ghoster/
Yoloq1234
2022-09-30 11:33:42
1,664,537,622
null
null
0
xryz24
true
null
15
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/xryz24/profile_review_please/
1
I've just set my profile up on Hinge. I'm 29 year old male. 5'5 (just measured myself) and athletic. I don't like posting my pictures but happy to DM for you lot to see. Prompts: Dating me is like: Coming home from work and remembering you have some leftover pizza ( Hopefully not with pineapple on it though 🤣) One thi...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Profile review please :)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/xryz24/profile_review_please/
SnakeQveen
2024-02-26 05:24:01
1,708,925,041
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
1b09q91
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b09q91/help/
1
Hey I matched w this guy on a dating app, he had few pics, none great of his face but his bio was funny. We started messaging back and forth and comfortably it started getting sexual. Then he messaged me a much clearer picture of his face and…he looks a lot like my brother Now I absolutely don’t see him sexually, I’m c...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Help!
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b09q91/help/
[deleted]
2021-08-22 08:22:48
1,629,620,568
null
['matches', 'tinder']
0
p98t4g
true
I Need Advice
8
0
/r/dating/comments/p98t4g/my_dating_life_is_a_joke/
5
Ok my friends, first of all I don't want to brag about a single thing about me or my life (since I am very depressed about both of them). But I am truly losing any hope. Sorry in advance for the lenght. English is not my main language. First of all, people constantly say me that I have a very good personality (caring, ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
My dating life is a joke
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/p98t4g/my_dating_life_is_a_joke/
destroythemarket
2023-10-05 19:03:47
1,696,532,627
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
170qaqn
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/170qaqn/i_lied_to_my_tinder_date_that_im_62_but_im/
1
I’m a really really short dude and wanted to experience what it’s like for other people to look at me as 6’2 instead of 4’11. I’ve matched with a girl on tinder and we’ve been talking for a while. Then realized we had a lot in common and she really liked me. I want to set up a date. Am I screwed?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I lied to my tinder date that I’m 6’2 but I’m actually 4’11 what do i do?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/170qaqn/i_lied_to_my_tinder_date_that_im_62_but_im/
WillSpiritual7776
2024-01-27 16:33:43
1,706,373,223
0
['eharmony']
0
1acequd
true
Question ❓
10
0
/r/dating/comments/1acequd/are_there_any_legit_dating_websites/
2
I have tried a couple of em and there is the pattern of paywall. On Cupid I got 10 messages within an hour. You cant even see the messages without paying. I tried eHarmony and you cant even view profiles without paying membership. I thought eHarmony legit because of how "profound" the account making process is. But Cup...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Are there any legit dating websites?
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1acequd/are_there_any_legit_dating_websites/
throwaway1234xxxxqt
2020-03-22 14:31:44
1,584,887,504
null
['tinder']
0
fn0r5u
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/fn0r5u/is_he_m32_using_me_f28_even_though_weve_never_met/
0
Using a throwaway because we both have reddit, typing from phone so I'm sorry, please read. Im from Italy and in quarantine. I met a guy on tinder and we've been talking a lot. Recently we got into sexting and the conversations have changed into being more sexual. He sent me a nude after asking for consent and never as...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is he (m32) using me (f28) even though we've never met?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fn0r5u/is_he_m32_using_me_f28_even_though_weve_never_met/
helo98712
2019-08-21 16:03:37
1,566,403,417
null
['dating sites']
0
ctiupn
true
null
33
0
/r/dating/comments/ctiupn/about_attraction/
11
You hear this a lot that if you're "putting that much effort into being attractive, no one will find you attractive." And also, to love yourself. The issue is with dating sites. How is a guy who isn't attractive supposed to get a date? How are you supposed to love yourself if nobody loves you? I don't get this saying. ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
About Attraction
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ctiupn/about_attraction/
SoftAnimator7631
2020-10-13 18:13:59
1,602,612,839
null
['tinder']
0
jaj0g7
true
I Need Advice
5
0
/r/dating/comments/jaj0g7/woman_i_started_seeing_sends_me_nudes_and_speaks/
2
Just as the title says.... I met this woman on Tinder 2 months ago, and we haven't had a lot of interactions together. I live 3 hours away, and work multiple jobs, so I have seen her twice in person, and it was simply talking, having a few drinks, and then having sex. In between each time we have seen each other, we te...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Woman I started seeing sends me nudes and speaks sexually ALL the time, but is mad at me for doing the same?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jaj0g7/woman_i_started_seeing_sends_me_nudes_and_speaks/
jjch102296
2022-09-04 06:10:19
1,662,271,819
null
['dating apps']
0
x5fmsi
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/x5fmsi/what_are_the_best_dating_appswebsites_for/
1
I am looking for a good app/website to meet a good girl who could be the one. I am not looking for playing games.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
what are the best dating apps/websites for international dating intent on marriage?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x5fmsi/what_are_the_best_dating_appswebsites_for/
Capable_Salt7749
2023-08-02 09:07:20
1,690,967,240
0
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
15g3saf
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15g3saf/feel_like_im_boy_crazy_or_something/
1
Hi there, I'm not sure if this is the right place to post but I am hoping to get some insight/advice from some people. So I noticed this within the last month because I have been sort of isolating from the world for the past few years, with Covid definitely contributing but not completely explaining everything. I think...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Feel Like I'm Boy Crazy or Something
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15g3saf/feel_like_im_boy_crazy_or_something/
feelingfree87
2020-10-15 19:53:11
1,602,791,591
null
['matches', 'OLD', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
jbux9y
true
null
72
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jbux9y/dating_profile_feedback_please/
29
Hi everyone. I am a 33F and don't seem to be getting many matches on OLD or when I do they don't respond. Would it be possible to get some constructive feedback on my profiles, especially from the men in their 30s? Here are my Bumble and Hinge profiles: (Hinge) and (Bumble). Thank you! Edit: Thank you everyone for th...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Dating profile feedback please!
null
0.92
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jbux9y/dating_profile_feedback_please/
HypoGaba
2020-04-05 20:15:37
1,586,117,737
null
['swiping', 'OLD', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid']
0
fvkhpj
true
Question
4
0
/r/dating/comments/fvkhpj/time_spent_on_old_apps/
1
To the men here- how much time do you spend on dating apps? A few of my male friends are spending hours- multiple times a day too. They are also on almost every OLD app tooOkCupid, bumble, tinder, hinge, you name it they are on it How do you keep up?? Are you just swiping away or actually having multiple convos going o...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Time spent on OLD apps
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fvkhpj/time_spent_on_old_apps/
Belle_Uni
2019-02-13 00:57:13
1,550,019,433
null
['OLD', 'hinge']
0
aq0oy7
true
Question / Request for Support
25
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/aq0oy7/how_often_do_you_text_with_a_person_you_connected/
8
I know everyone’s opinions vary, so I want to get an average answer. Is there a ghosting standard? I still consider myself to be new to dating (on and off for 2 years). I want to know when I’m being ghosted. I don’t want to continue a 1 way conversation for days... Back story if you wanna read more: This guy and I conn...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
How often do you text with a person you connected with via OLD but haven’t met?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/aq0oy7/how_often_do_you_text_with_a_person_you_connected/
nouseforaname888
2019-07-09 21:16:05
1,562,706,965
null
['swipe', 'tinder']
0
cb705b
true
null
35
0
/r/dating/comments/cb705b/i_received_a_someone_likes_you_with_a_very/
9
I got a someone likes me with the following tinder bio: Not gonna say name for privacy sake Age : 36 “Feminist, atheist, Star Wars, SFF, puns, cerebral, divorced, and a single parent, wannabe musician, empathy above all else, selectively social, dog mommy, not into traveling, partying, etc. have strong opinions, can’t ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I received a “someone likes you” with a very lenhy tinder bio. It seems rather bitter but what do you guys think?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cb705b/i_received_a_someone_likes_you_with_a_very/
sirenzsongs
2024-04-29 13:32:21
1,714,397,541
0
['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
1cfz7mm
true
I Need Advice 😩
17
0
/r/dating/comments/1cfz7mm/i_cant_be_attracted_to_people_i_met_on_dating_apps/
8
Advice on how to get over this is highly appreciated. I, 21f feel incapable of really falling in love with someone I've met on a dating app. I don't have difficulty matching with guys I find interesting and attractive and I went on a few dates, though I always have to practically force myself to go on them. Usually we ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I can't be attracted to people I met on dating apps.
8
0.7
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cfz7mm/i_cant_be_attracted_to_people_i_met_on_dating_apps/
letsstoplurking
2018-09-11 11:32:37
1,536,665,557
null
['OLD']
0
9ewpsf
true
null
5
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9ewpsf/am_i_putting_my_guard_up/
3
Long time reader, first time poster on this awesome subreddit. Dating for a few months now after a five-year relationship blew up. Enjoyed and not enjoyed reacquainting myself with OLD after that long hiatus, but finally feeling pretty comfortable with it. On the other hand, I've struggled with having my guard up due t...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Am I Putting My Guard Up?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9ewpsf/am_i_putting_my_guard_up/
Few_Invite_6272
2024-09-23 02:33:44
1,727,058,824
0
['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'hinge']
0
1fnabpo
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fnabpo/when_is_it_time_to_try_online_dating_again_is/
2
After a 6 month situationship, I (28F) tried to get on a dating app (Hinge) 2 months after the “breakup.” The conversations went no where for the most part. One FT “meet,” the guy got me confused with another girl he was talking to TWICE during the convo. Another guy and I FT “met” and when asking how his day was going...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
When is it time to try online dating again? Is there hope to meet IRL anymore?
2
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fnabpo/when_is_it_time_to_try_online_dating_again_is/
StLuna97
2023-11-16 19:16:27
1,700,162,187
0
['matched', 'dating app', 'badoo']
0
17wuxs2
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17wuxs2/guy_i_like_says_he_needs_my_money/
1
So about a week ago I (F22) matched with this guy (M21) on a dating app called Badoo(I don't have the app anymore cause I deleted it). I really like him. The next day of matching with him I slept with a guy that is his mate, which was the biggest mistake ever in my opinion. So now he's told me about two,three days ago ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Guy I Like Says He Needs My Money
1
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17wuxs2/guy_i_like_says_he_needs_my_money/
hide_or_escape
2023-02-19 17:42:49
1,676,828,569
null
['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps']
0
116izjz
true
Question ❓
6
0
/r/dating/comments/116izjz/could_this_new_way_of_dating_solve_the_struggles/
0
Very recently I had this idea to use my blog for dating and a blog post of my "ideal girl" where I describe myself and my ideal precisely in great detail and all the things that I consider "essential" from an ideal. Then I share this blog post to every single match without saying anything. The girls have to check it ou...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Could this new way of dating solve the struggles of modern online dating? (Preparation, Blogging, Focus on Idealism and Essentialism)
null
0.25
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/116izjz/could_this_new_way_of_dating_solve_the_struggles/
Different-Practice-5
2023-08-07 19:47:15
1,691,437,635
0
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
15kuy44
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15kuy44/dating_app_user_experience_survey/
1
Hey friends, We are excited to introduce our new social/dating app that uses Artificial Intelligence as your personal “wingman” to help you find your perfect match and build meaningful relationships. To provide the best experience for our users, we would appreciate your feedback on the features and functions you prefer...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating App User Experience survey
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15kuy44/dating_app_user_experience_survey/
WillyWonkyness
2023-01-27 17:05:37
1,674,839,137
null
['matches', 'swipe', 'swipes', 'dating apps']
0
10mpzrr
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/10mpzrr/do_you_ever_feel_that_the_lack_of_compliment/
1
The only time I have ever received compliments are from past gfs, msgs on dating apps and dates? A best friend of mine also says personally wise im her type, attractive wise she doesn't like white guys but she thinks im physically attractive. My other really good friend says im super cute, she would date me if she wasn...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do you ever feel that the lack of compliment towards men lowers your self esteem?
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10mpzrr/do_you_ever_feel_that_the_lack_of_compliment/
Hundy_Sticks
2020-07-31 20:26:09
1,596,227,169
null
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
i1evr0
true
I Need Advice
8
0
/r/dating/comments/i1evr0/i_keep_getting_ghosted_and_i_dont_know_why/
1
I've been using dating apps for the past 2 months or so and I can never get the conversation past one or two days before I just get ghosted. The other person has always seemed interested in talking then it just stops for no reason and I want to keep talking but don't want to come across as needy or to percistant. I kno...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I keep getting ghosted and I dont know why
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/i1evr0/i_keep_getting_ghosted_and_i_dont_know_why/
aviator122
2023-02-12 00:00:52
1,676,160,052
null
['dating app']
0
1101u2h
true
null
13
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1101u2h/is_sending_delivery_flowers_on_valentines_day_to/
1
Here is the context. Me (26 M) has gone on 4 dates with a girl that I really like. We meet on online app and she lives 3 hours away from me. I don't mind the drive at all because I have had a lot of fun escaping my boring town and not being alone for the first time in 2 years. Her profile online said she's only looking...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is sending delivery flowers on valentines day to a girl I'm not in a relationship with coming on too strong?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1101u2h/is_sending_delivery_flowers_on_valentines_day_to/
PeculiarPete
2024-07-03 13:56:50
1,720,015,010
0
null
0
1duezmo
true
null
1
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1duezmo/im_getting_really_worn_down/
2
I'm a divorced Dad with 50/50 custody. Started online dating 2 years ago and had some great dates and met some great woman but it always seems to end the same way when we both start developing feelings. Most recently I started seeing this amazing woman that I really clicked with. We've been seeing each other for four m...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
I'm getting really worn down...
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1duezmo/im_getting_really_worn_down/
Thriftless_Ambition
2023-07-28 13:53:50
1,690,552,430
0
null
0
15by4f3
false
null
88
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/15by4f3/why_do_women_do_this/
1
For context, I am a straight man so I have no clue whether or not men do this too. But I have noticed that there are a concerning number of women (it seems like 1/3 of the women I'm seeing) who put things that are just straight up red flags on their bio. Here are some examples: "I'm crazy", "I have an attitude problem"...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Why do women do this?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15by4f3/why_do_women_do_this/
ArthurCallahan1
2020-08-09 12:01:54
1,596,974,514
null
['tinder']
0
i6i7d9
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/i6i7d9/is_it_too_soon_to_ask_her_out/
3
M20 here, I've liked this girl (F20) for a long time but she's been in a relationship since I met her, until a few weeks ago when she found out that her bf (who I never liked) had been cheating on her for a while. I want to ask her out but I know it's very soon after her breakup. That being said, she is on Tinder now (...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is it too soon to ask her out?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i6i7d9/is_it_too_soon_to_ask_her_out/
Mysterious_Search606
2024-05-21 22:00:17
1,716,328,817
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
1cxk2x5
true
null
244
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cxk2x5/i_m27_got_rejected_by_f30_for_owning_a_house/
134
I am not sure if this is even the proper plave to post it but here I go. I just got rejected because I own a house on my own. We matched on a dating app this afternoon and she actually sent the first message, I was rather exited because that doesnt happen often, if at all. We had an amazing conversation untill we hit t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (m27) Got rejected (by F30) for owning a house.
134
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cxk2x5/i_m27_got_rejected_by_f30_for_owning_a_house/
Lopsided_Ask_3581
2024-07-30 18:54:00
1,722,365,640
0
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
1eg1emb
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1eg1emb/overthinking_in_the_early_stages_of_dating/
1
I have downloaded some dating apps a few weeks ago and I acutally go a couple of good matches. So, I met up with this one girl from about 30 km away. We took a walk and talked for like two hours and agreed to meet again. A couple of days she came to my place and we took another walk, cooked dinner together and talked s...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Overthinking in the early stages of dating
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eg1emb/overthinking_in_the_early_stages_of_dating/
ActNo5363
2023-12-22 22:37:13
1,703,284,633
0
['dating apps']
0
18oqvrf
true
I Need Advice 😩
5
0
/r/dating/comments/18oqvrf/small_town_blues/
1
I'm in buttfuck iowa in a small ass town, the kind where everyone knows everyone. The only people that have showed interest in me are either underage [wtf leave me alone], an ex of a friend, not my type, and they've all been girls. Flattering, but not what I'm looking for. How do I put myself out there without like get...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Small town blues?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18oqvrf/small_town_blues/
Jones3391
2022-02-23 21:41:37
1,645,652,497
null
['dating apps']
0
szsu4p
true
null
118
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/szsu4p/anyone_have_success_going_on_dates_outside_of/
97
I'm a 30/M who works from home and in my experience it seems to be virtually impossible to go on a date with a woman that hasn't been facilitated through an app. I've tried going on Meetups, but the main problem there is how diverse the groups of people are. Once you filter for the actually single people of a similar a...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Anyone have success going on dates outside of dating apps?
null
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/szsu4p/anyone_have_success_going_on_dates_outside_of/
Kelly_the_tailor
2023-02-10 20:23:06
1,676,060,586
null
['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid']
0
10z1zky
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
1
0
/r/dating/comments/10z1zky/i_just_cancelled_my_dating_profiles_erased_all/
1
After 4 years of using dating apps, I (F, 40) cancelled them all. I had Hinge, OKcupid, and Bumble. I dated around 10 to 20 men a year. Most of them I never saw again after the first date. One or two times, it looked like it could develop into something interesting. One time even felt like 'almost' a relationship of 2 ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I just cancelled my dating profiles, erased all dating apps from my phone
null
0.55
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10z1zky/i_just_cancelled_my_dating_profiles_erased_all/
[deleted]
2020-07-27 03:59:51
1,595,822,391
null
['dating apps']
0
hyl660
true
null
13
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hyl660/accidentally_met_two_guys_that_i_was_talking_to/
0
I have been texting two guys that I met through two different dating apps. 1) I am really interested in guy 1. He is my type. Sweet, charming and smart. We’ve been talking over texts for over 3 weeks. I asked him if he was interested in meeting me with social distancing guidelines. He responded saying “haha good questi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Accidentally met two guys that I was talking to on the same night. It was awkward, what should I do?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hyl660/accidentally_met_two_guys_that_i_was_talking_to/
toomanymessages
2016-12-13 16:56:02
1,481,648,162
0
['bumble', 'okcupid']
0
5i4o8b
null
null
3
null
/r/dating/comments/5i4o8b/recently_back_at_this_dating_101_for_introverts/
2
I'm out of a marriage recently and waiting for the divorce to be final (I'm in a state with a mandatory waiting period--everything is already split up and the paperwork is done). It was amicable, no drama. I spent some time doing the workaholic thing and figuring out what I wanted, and I've just started dating again. I...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Recently back at this... Dating 101 for introverts?
2
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5i4o8b/recently_back_at_this_dating_101_for_introverts/
unconscionable
2021-01-11 02:20:54
1,610,331,654
null
null
0
kut0i6
true
null
15
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/kut0i6/keep_your_profile_positive_and_focus_on_who_you/
62
I'd like to offer some tips on how to improve your profile, after having seen a lot of good ones, and a lot of bad ones. Do: Say what you're looking for, and be playful about it Politely disclose some non-negiotables, if appropriate Address ONLY the people you are looking to attract with every word you write, and every...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Keep your profile positive and focus on who you want to attract
null
0.96
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/kut0i6/keep_your_profile_positive_and_focus_on_who_you/
basketballguy4
2019-11-09 00:57:12
1,573,261,032
null
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
dtox4u
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dtox4u/if_i_m24_dont_get_matches_or_dates_on_dating_apps/
5
I dont get matches really, I had 2 recently. One would reply enthusiastically once a day but stopped replying when I asked her out on a date. Another left for a trip and gave me her number so we could talk when she gets back early next year, she never responded back. She was also replying once a day. I should give up a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
If I [M/24] don't get matches or dates on dating apps that means I am not good enough right?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dtox4u/if_i_m24_dont_get_matches_or_dates_on_dating_apps/
v_medic
2019-11-17 23:41:43
1,574,034,103
null
['matched', 'dating apps', 'bumble']
0
dxuq2j
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dxuq2j/canceling_10_minutes_before_a_third_date/
1
About 3 weeks ago, I (27 F) matched with a guy the same age as me on Bumble. We started chatting via text message pretty quick. Conversation just flowed and we had a lot in common. As a side note, I haven’t used dating apps too religiously due to negative experiences with some of the creeps I encountered, and I’m inter...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Canceling 10 minutes before a third date?!
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dxuq2j/canceling_10_minutes_before_a_third_date/
Lakes_Dogs_Music
2024-07-26 22:49:31
1,722,034,171
0
['online dating', 'bumble']
0
1ed1b42
true
null
85
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1ed1b42/how_to_greet_on_the_first_live_date/
23
Recently divorced after nearly 33 yr marriage. 57 yrs old. Finally trying out online dating. Signed up for Bumble, and got a few good conversations on the first day. I am meeting one of them for drinks tonight…. We had very positive messaging conversations through the app. My question is, what are the unwritten rules a...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
How to greet on the first live date
23
0.94
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1ed1b42/how_to_greet_on_the_first_live_date/
akmcf
2023-08-22 15:36:18
1,692,718,578
0
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
15y9crp
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/15y9crp/getting_stuck/
1
2 years ago I went through a very tough breakup. I loved so many of the traits and things about my ex, but we were fundamentally incompatible. Our relationship couldn’t have survived, she’s moved on. As a guy, I’ve been head down, arse up in my studies, therapy and gym, trying to become the best and healthiest version ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Getting stuck
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15y9crp/getting_stuck/
kvenzx
2022-09-09 12:41:28
1,662,727,288
null
['hinge']
0
x9uic1
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/x9uic1/accepting_that_he_may_potentially_be_slow_fading/
1
After 3 great dates, I think the guy I’ve been talking to for the past month is slow fading me. Slow fading, for those are haven’t heard it (which I’m sure you have), is like the less harsh version of ghosting. It sucks and the other person does it, I think, to escape having to flat out reject you or tell you their fee...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Accepting that he may potentially be slow fading me
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x9uic1/accepting_that_he_may_potentially_be_slow_fading/
Thegirlthatcried
2019-11-20 20:49:00
1,574,282,940
null
['dating sites']
0
dz81vx
true
I Need Advice
28
0
/r/dating/comments/dz81vx/im_going_to_die_alone/
0
After trying to move on from my ex for 3 years I think I've come to the conclusion that I'm going to be lonely forever. I have tried countless dating sites, met with people, went out more if doesnt work and I dont settle. Me I'm a 23 year old woman, not ugly a little mature for my age. The problem I think is I live In ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I'm going to die alone
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dz81vx/im_going_to_die_alone/
BashRose1
2016-09-08 22:54:24
1,473,375,264
0
['tinder']
0
51u5q8
null
null
7
null
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/51u5q8/i_cant_get_over_him/
0
Around this time last year, I began taking to this guy. We matched on tinder and we soon added each other on snapchat, Facebook and instagram. We flirted on snapchat for 4 months before he deleted me on Facebook and snapchat without any explanation. I was heart broken Even though we were never anything official, it sti...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
I can't get over him
0
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/51u5q8/i_cant_get_over_him/
upinmyclouds
2019-05-30 01:43:25
1,559,180,605
null
['matched', 'dating apps', 'hinge']
0
bunbpu
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/bunbpu/meeting_online_date_for_dinner_on_friday_what_if/
1
So basically I (20f) matched with a 23m (I'll call him John) on hinge. I haven't really been on a real date with someone I've met from dating apps/online. Here are some of the things I've been pondering over in my head the past few days, please help. \- John and I have been texting for the past week, everyday actually ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Meeting on​line date for dinner on friday, what if I'm not what he expected?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bunbpu/meeting_online_date_for_dinner_on_friday_what_if/
VHSDreams93
2020-06-16 08:59:01
1,592,297,941
null
['matched', 'dating app', 'hinge']
0
ha09wu
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ha09wu/i_27_m_am_texting_to_my_crush_24_f_who_i_met_on_a/
1
I matched with a girl on Hinge back in March, right when all hell started to break loose. Our only means of communication have been texting and Snapchat'ing on and off for close to 3 months now. The conversations with her just flow, and for the most part they're flirty, fun and I feel like our personalities and sense o...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I [27 M] am texting to my crush [24 F] who I met on a dating app, but is giving me mixed signals regarding meeting in person
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ha09wu/i_27_m_am_texting_to_my_crush_24_f_who_i_met_on_a/
Sensitive-Bit-3380
2024-01-14 01:06:35
1,705,194,395
0
['tinder']
0
1963fn2
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1963fn2/i_f25_think_my_fiancé_m25_is_cheating_on_me/
4
So, I am F(25) and he is M(25) and we have been together for 5 years. He proposed to me last August before we had to go long distance for 4 months. We still saw each other every month. However, in October I found all sorts of things on his phone and computer. I saw searches like "how to find a prostitute", "how to get ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I F25 think my Fiancé M25 is Cheating on me…
4
0.76
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1963fn2/i_f25_think_my_fiancé_m25_is_cheating_on_me/
CarbonatedMolasses
2020-06-02 01:58:02
1,591,063,082
null
['online dating']
0
guy7mf
true
Other
3
0
/r/dating/comments/guy7mf/22m_never_dated_dont_really_care_but_curious/
7
22m, I've never been on a date or done anything romantic besides flirting with friends and co-workers which is fun. It's a very long and confusing story on why I've never dated before or done anything romantic but that's how it is. For a while I really was trying to get a gf but didn't know how so I got really into sel...
dating
t5_2qhb1
22m Never dated, don't really care, but curious
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/guy7mf/22m_never_dated_dont_really_care_but_curious/
Ill_Maintenance8161
2022-03-26 20:25:06
1,648,326,306
null
['online dating']
0
tp3bk1
true
Support Needed
5
0
/r/dating/comments/tp3bk1/has_this_happened_to_you/
2
So I've been single for a long time and I thought I'd give online dating a try again and what a mistake that was. But I did meet a woman who was very nice looking but very evasive. By that I mean I was trying to get to know her on the first date. It was basically a one sided conversation. I'm trying to make meaningful ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Has this happened to you?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tp3bk1/has_this_happened_to_you/
joemamma6
2024-07-17 02:08:42
1,721,182,122
0
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
1e56llb
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1e56llb/how_do_you_find_people_for_long_term_relationships/
1
A lot of the advice I see here is focused on getting numbers or a first date, but I feel like I'm having the opposite problem. As a 22 year old woman I get a lot of offers for hookups by 45 year old strangers on the street or on dating apps, but I'm struggling trying to find someone my age interested in long term relat...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do you find people for long term relationships?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e56llb/how_do_you_find_people_for_long_term_relationships/
Throhoweigh
2023-09-14 09:49:22
1,694,684,962
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
16ie5or
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16ie5or/person_im_dating_cant_deliver_bad_news_how_can_i/
1
I’m going to preface this by saying I may sound pathetic. I don’t really care though. I used to care about stuff like that and it got me nowhere. So I’m just going to be completely honest about what has happened and what my actual feelings are. There are some things I cannot go into full detail about and you may not ag...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Person I'm "dating" can't deliver bad news. How can I help?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16ie5or/person_im_dating_cant_deliver_bad_news_how_can_i/
Dry_Opinion_46
2024-04-23 13:25:08
1,713,878,708
0
['dating apps']
0
1cb4ksv
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1cb4ksv/does_anyone_have_some_good_dating_spots_in/
2
Just as the post says I’m just looking for places in Orangeville that are good to go meet people. I am not successful with dating apps.
dating
t5_2qhb1
Does anyone have some good dating spots in Orangeville.
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cb4ksv/does_anyone_have_some_good_dating_spots_in/
openmikee
2021-07-03 23:36:03
1,625,355,363
null
null
0
od8wcd
true
null
27
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/od8wcd/girl_kept_talking_about_herself_showed_little/
26
So I (30M) was talking to a girl I met online. I asked her about her and then expected her to eventually ask about me cause if she’s interested that’s what a person does, right? Maybe not. I started hating myself that I wasn’t giving her a chance to ask questions about me. And then finally I just started talking about ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Girl kept talking about herself, showed little interest in getting to know me
null
0.91
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/od8wcd/girl_kept_talking_about_herself_showed_little/
StayHappy_DontWorry
2018-09-28 13:29:29
1,538,141,369
null
['tinder']
0
9jmyex
true
Support | Trigger
5
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/9jmyex/after_seeing_some_of_the_posts_from_this/
1
ok lets start from the beginning. So it's been a while since i got with a girl, the last girl i was with lied to me about cancer in order to manipulate me to get my attention to her cause we had just broken up for like the 5th time in a row (long story dont ask). So long story short i totally cut myself off from being ...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
After seeing some of the posts from this subreddit on /r/all, i wanted to post my story. Male, 21 and while it isn't as bad as some of the stories i read, i never really got treated well for it and wanted to share my story to a group that might understand (LONG POST)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/9jmyex/after_seeing_some_of_the_posts_from_this/
mr_shoes305
2017-10-26 15:28:25
1,509,031,705
null
['OLD']
0
78wasz
false
null
19
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/78wasz/cold_weather_feeling_void_from_no_so/
3
So today was the first day of cooler weather in my (M) part of the US. I am feeling missing a relationship more all of a sudden. Something like the cold weather reminding me of how nice it is to be with a s/o during the holiday, etc.... not sad but sighhh. I’m doing the OLD routine at the moment. Any one feel that way ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Cold weather feeling void from no s/o
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/78wasz/cold_weather_feeling_void_from_no_so/
urdoingsogood
2023-11-20 05:19:40
1,700,457,580
0
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
17zh5a6
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17zh5a6/anymore_dating_apps/
1
I went from tinder to bumble to hinge to cmb and even fb dating. Is there any other more reliable dating apps. Thank you !
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Anymore dating apps?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17zh5a6/anymore_dating_apps/
Blame-My-Period
2022-07-29 15:13:52
1,659,107,632
null
['tinder']
0
wb7czk
true
null
16
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wb7czk/to_the_ladies_who_date_men_explain_how_do_you/
0
After scrolling this sub do you jump on tinder, go on dates w/ guys and smile/enjoy? Do you genuinely enjoy sex, romance and their company ? There's no voice in the back of your head and paranoia deep down? What about the negative/toxic stories you read here and on the Media? I've seen stuff here that makes me thank go...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
To the ladies who date men, explain how do you still look for sex and romance w/ them even after the horror stories you read here and in the Media.
null
0.43
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wb7czk/to_the_ladies_who_date_men_explain_how_do_you/
I_Am_A_nobody1
2022-04-09 21:34:04
1,649,540,044
null
['matches', 'online dating']
0
u02v1g
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/u02v1g/im_intimacy_deprived/
1
Please read everything I’m 21 years old and am very lonely. I hate to admit this but this is true. The reason why I titled my post this is because I’ve never been on a single date in my life. The only attention I have received from a woman was when I was maybe 3 or 4. And this was from my mother so that doesn’t count. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I’m intimacy deprived
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u02v1g/im_intimacy_deprived/
xander919
2018-02-03 00:43:26
1,517,618,606
null
['tinder']
0
7uw07e
false
null
3
0
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So I’ve been talking to a girl through tinder. She stated messaging me first , we seemed to get on well , have a laugh and had a lot in common. I asked her if she wanted to go for some food and she said that sounded great and looked forward to it. When I suggested date she said that she was working , so I said let me k...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating advice, do I send the message
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7uw07e/dating_advice_do_i_send_the_message/
[deleted]
2021-07-08 09:27:51
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Thank you for all of the feedback It is genuinely appreciated
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t5_34cyw
I received a threatening phone call and it sounded exactly like someone from OLD.
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https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/og3qzk/i_received_a_threatening_phone_call_and_it/
urdaughtersex
2024-04-30 07:32:34
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I Need Advice 😩
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I (m22) think I have the worst luck when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. In high school I was surrounded by girls my age, and yet not one person ever liked me back. Same thing at uni, bars/clubs, and the odd part-time jobs that I'd work. I've been on and off with a bunch of dating apps and same result, no matc...
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t5_2qhb1
Where to meet single women?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cgn03l/where_to_meet_single_women/
Miserable-Fig803
2022-07-23 14:40:19
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Hello! :) I came across this dude on tinder, and we've been talking for a month. He had told me that he was looking for cool people there, so I started talking to him as friends. We text a lot, and call very frequently. He always asks me about my day, and remembers every little detail I've told him, and has told me I'm...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is he into me?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w65kgf/is_he_into_me/
agirlnamedyeehaw
2021-08-10 20:52:26
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Hi So I’m 22F and I just graduated college, so now I’m living back home with my parents. I have a full time job and am WFH (saving up some money until I figure out when to move out and to where), but I feel like I lost some independence- you know what I mean? I want to go out and about and go on dates (kinda sucks that...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating while living with my parents feels so juvenile
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p1y1nu/dating_while_living_with_my_parents_feels_so/