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keibatsuonegai | 2022-10-11 18:58:46 | 1,665,514,726 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | y1h7h0 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/y1h7h0/am_i_doing_something_wrong_i_think_so/ | 2 | A week ago I matched with a girl. We had a good flirting chat with her sending some pics. So we went on a walk. We grabbed some food and had a good long conversation irl, like the dialog wouldn't end. I made many compliments on how she has a good style, how good she looks ( cuz i really think so) Some days later I invi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I doing something wrong? I think so. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y1h7h0/am_i_doing_something_wrong_i_think_so/ |
RedBedBull | 2024-07-22 21:17:46 | 1,721,683,066 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1e9pqlo | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e9pqlo/what_do_i_do/ | 3 | Hi guys, I (29 M), had an extremely challenging childhood and youth with multiple family tragedies. Life has thankfully stabilized over the past few years and something as luxurious as dating has become possible only around 27. When I started going out, I felt like an outcast but I have fixed my fashion and become more... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I do? | 3 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e9pqlo/what_do_i_do/ |
RealMedium920 | 2022-02-24 05:07:47 | 1,645,679,267 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | t02j8e | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t02j8e/dont_like_dating_within_my_age_group_yet_not/ | 1 | So I've reached my mid-20s and have realized that my dating dilemma is caused by the fact I simply don't like pursuing relationships with women that are in my age group. I understand that your 20s are when you figure yourself out, become more responsible, and begin the journey towards achieving your life goals. However... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Don’t like dating within my age group yet not taken seriously by those outside of it. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t02j8e/dont_like_dating_within_my_age_group_yet_not/ |
FuelSuccessful4291 | 2024-02-28 04:56:28 | 1,709,096,188 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1b1xmg9 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b1xmg9/should_i_f_27_pursue_this_guy_m_31_if_ive_been/ | 1 | This is a mess, I know. For starters, I’ve always been one who’s wanted a long term relationship, I’m talking marriage, kids, but with the right person. I’m 27 and I’ve been wanting this practically my whole life and this mindset has really gotten me hurt because no one I’ve dated has shared that same desire. I’ve rece... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (F 27) pursue this guy (M 31) if I’ve been with his brother? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b1xmg9/should_i_f_27_pursue_this_guy_m_31_if_ive_been/ |
Large-Oven4672 | 2021-09-03 02:48:07 | 1,630,637,287 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | pgwgyc | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pgwgyc/my_confusing_recent_dating_experience/ | 1 | I(m21) recently met (from bumble)and started hanging with a really nice woman(f21), at first we just drove to burger King and sat in the parking lot and talked. The whole time she was dying laughing at my jokes and seemed to enjoy my company. The next time we saw each other was a few days later when she asked me to rid... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My confusing recent dating experience | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pgwgyc/my_confusing_recent_dating_experience/ |
dreamer220 | 2024-04-05 02:31:01 | 1,712,284,261 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bw6ptn | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bw6ptn/is_he_serious/ | 1 | This guy (31M) I met on a dating app, asked my number saying he isn’t too active on the app and is more responsive on his phone. But after exchanging numbers, he STILL takes daysss to respond to my texts, but when he does he kinda writes genuine long texts and asks questions. I’m not sure if he’s serious, what should I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he serious??? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bw6ptn/is_he_serious/ |
Im_Ur_Hukleberry | 2022-04-28 10:01:34 | 1,651,140,094 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | udridd | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/udridd/best_first_question_ever/ | 110 | To preface, I am pretty much a geek when it comes to SciFi. My favorite all time book series is Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy. Here’s the story. Yesterday I got a match on Bumble. I looked at her profile and saw she liked Sci-fi as well. Before I could message her she sends me, “what would you answer If all I typed w... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Best first question ever! | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/udridd/best_first_question_ever/ |
poppyseed6 | 2023-10-13 04:55:10 | 1,697,172,910 | 0 | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 176qtna | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/176qtna/im_22_and_scared_of_dating/ | 1 | I’m 22f and have had flings here and there, but nothing ever more than a one time thing. At heart, I’m a hopeless romantic. I envy my friends and their boyfriends and just can’t even fathom that I will ever be able to have anything like that. When I was 16 I thought things were getting serious with a guy, turns out he ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m 22 and scared of dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/176qtna/im_22_and_scared_of_dating/ |
awaygroundhog | 2020-03-01 23:54:28 | 1,583,106,868 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | fc33b8 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fc33b8/i_cant_say_no/ | 1 | Everytime someone asks me out, whether it be in person or online on dating apps, I literally cannot say no. It's not really a problem for those moments when people like you know, just ask u out on the streets (those I say no to pretty quickly just by walking away), but it's when I like know the person and like them eno... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I can't say "No" | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fc33b8/i_cant_say_no/ |
superthrowaway2015 | 2015-05-17 03:17:56 | 1,431,832,676 | 0 | ['eharmony'] | 0 | 3689wg | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3689wg/is_eharmony_any_good/ | 8 | I've heard the site went down hill, looking for other opinions. I sent one woman the question (provided by the site moderators as a stock question) of "How do you feel premarital sex?" and got back a 4 page diatribe on feminism and other silly bs To the deleted answer -- its a question the creators put on their site. I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is eHarmony any good? | 8 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3689wg/is_eharmony_any_good/ |
TheSlyGoose | 2021-11-21 11:07:57 | 1,637,492,877 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | qystgk | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qystgk/spooky_season_is_over_but_ghosts_are_real/ | 1 | So I (24m) just seem to get ghosted constantly. Matched with 20f talked for a week conversation was fire super compatible on first impression. Arrange a date and the morning of the day comes. I send a message as I have been doing with her along the lines of "hey good morning how did you sleep? Looking forward to seeing... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Spooky season is over but ghosts are real. | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qystgk/spooky_season_is_over_but_ghosts_are_real/ |
persisttogrow | 2022-02-04 12:25:25 | 1,643,977,525 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | skc2wy | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/skc2wy/do_i_have_to_change_my_appearance_to_be_desirable/ | 1 | My gut says no, but my inexperience has got me questioning things. I’m a bi 27F. I’m very natural in that I never wear makeup and I like to dress comfortably. I dress up occasionally and I enjoy it. When I go to events I put on minimal makeup. Being fully made-up actually makes me feel really uncomfortable and like I’m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do I have to change my appearance to be desirable? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/skc2wy/do_i_have_to_change_my_appearance_to_be_desirable/ |
bayleybay | 2023-03-13 04:31:27 | 1,678,681,887 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 11q0355 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11q0355/reaching_out/ | 1 | I met someone on a dating app and may sound so dumb but I truly have never felt the same connection with anyone else as I did with them. We had planned a date and then some family stuff came up and we rescheduled. We were going to go to their place not cook dinner together and drink our favorite wines. The day before t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Reaching out | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11q0355/reaching_out/ |
Libelulaclandestina | 2020-05-05 17:26:10 | 1,588,699,570 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | ge21r0 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ge21r0/do_men_get_anxious_about_texting_their_dating_app/ | 1 | Man, I feel like a silly teenager asking this, but here it goes. I tried posting on AskMen, but sadly it was removed. In order to keep my barely existent dating life afloat during the quarantine, I have resorted to dating apps. Now, dating apps rarely work for me. However, this time I’ve found a guy who gives me a good... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do men get anxious about texting their dating app crushes? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ge21r0/do_men_get_anxious_about_texting_their_dating_app/ |
Plantmama007 | 2022-08-09 19:06:12 | 1,660,071,972 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | wkbr50 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wkbr50/what_would_you_say_is_the_best_dating_site/ | 2 | I’m 46(F), UK, looking for a serious relationship | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What would you say is the best dating site? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wkbr50/what_would_you_say_is_the_best_dating_site/ |
Only-Note-7054 | 2020-08-16 10:52:28 | 1,597,575,148 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | iaqdy1 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iaqdy1/getting_over_great_date_that_went_nowhere/ | 1 | I (23M) went on a date last weekend with a girl I met on a dating app - it was just a one-on-one date, we picked up food and ate in her car as to avoid too much social exposure (I’m working abroad, and COVID is relatively in control in the country I live in). The date went wonderfully. Easy conversation, I found her be... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting Over Great Date That Went Nowhere | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iaqdy1/getting_over_great_date_that_went_nowhere/ |
diolkos | 2013-05-27 18:23:52 | 1,369,679,032 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1f5e4a | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f5e4a/dare_to_make_your_first_dating_for_free_here_now/ | 1 | a href='http://cleverdate.com/lp/lp2/?ac_token=yMP8eWoAmd9DLlsandcid=3andutk=eHtip2vC7L4vLgj'Need A Sugar Daddy? Our Unique Dating Site Allows You to Bid for an Attractive Girl Get Her Attention Now. Join Free/abr /a href='http://cleverdate.com/lp/lp2/?ac_token=yMP8eWoAmd9DLlsandcid=3andutk=eHtip2vC7L4vLgj'http://cleve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | dare to make your firST DATING FOR FREE HERE NOW | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f5e4a/dare_to_make_your_first_dating_for_free_here_now/ |
Lyra_Hydrus43 | 2023-12-08 15:56:52 | 1,702,051,012 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 18dpuwf | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18dpuwf/tinder_online_dating_troubles/ | 1 | I’m having a hard time using tinder in my late 20s versus my early 20s. Tons of guys would ask me out and I’d put in little effort. Now, I put in the most effort with an original and decent bio (that’s also relatable to my interests), and the few messages I get are stale and don’t go anywhere, or the effort isn’t there... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder/ online dating troubles | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18dpuwf/tinder_online_dating_troubles/ |
hamster-mum-520 | 2024-05-06 07:40:12 | 1,714,981,212 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1cldbmd | true | Question ❓ | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cldbmd/is_age_still_an_issue_in_modern_dating/ | 2 | I’m 35F. noticed that there are less interactions on dating apps for me — is it true that age is an issue? that OR people are slowly fizzling out from dating apps in general? Interactions as in chatting on the apps and being asked to go on dates. I still get a lot of likes and matches but nothing further…. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is age still an issue in modern dating? 🤔 | 1 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cldbmd/is_age_still_an_issue_in_modern_dating/ |
HasteMaster | 2021-03-18 17:19:47 | 1,616,087,987 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | m7vu48 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m7vu48/consequences_of_putting_another_means_of/ | 1 | I made post regarding Tinder the other day, and how I’m unfamiliar with it. I think I’m getting the hang of it. I did talk to two women, but it didn’t really go anywhere as they wanted to take the conversation to another social media platform, and I didn’t have it (one wanted to go on Snapchat and the other on Instagra... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Consequences of putting another means of communication on Tinder? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m7vu48/consequences_of_putting_another_means_of/ |
Philosorapter_26 | 2021-08-04 16:55:17 | 1,628,096,117 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | oxwymr | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oxwymr/dating_experience_during_covid/ | 1 | Does anyone else feel like that they're dating life is still on hold due to covid? I dunno what its like in other countries but here in Ireland many places are still doing takeaway only or outdoor seating and only fully vaccinated people are allowed eat indoor in most places. Maybe its just the usual but I hardly ever ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating experience during covid | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oxwymr/dating_experience_during_covid/ |
Dunedread | 2022-09-18 00:37:27 | 1,663,461,447 | null | ['swipe', 'online dating'] | 0 | xh2em1 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xh2em1/online_dating/ | 1 | Been trying dating online and the encounters always leave me a little bewildered. The last one I was talking to a girl for 5 days then asked if she'd be interested in going out to eat with me. She hit me up with a "really". And I just sat there and looked at my phone and thought why did this person swipe on me and enga... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | online dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xh2em1/online_dating/ |
Imperator_Furiosa_ | 2021-10-15 16:50:40 | 1,634,316,640 | null | ['matched', 'swipe', 'dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | q8sgnt | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 109 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/q8sgnt/why_swipe_right_if_you_dont_have_plans_of_engaging/ | 86 | It just confuses me why some people over Tinder or Bumble (or other dating app) would even keep their profiles active and continuously swipe right but no plans of engaging/communicating to the person they matched with after saying ‘hi’? I mean, I totally get that the person might be busy (so am I), and doesn’t have all... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why swipe right if you don’t have plans of engaging? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/q8sgnt/why_swipe_right_if_you_dont_have_plans_of_engaging/ |
sixtysixpixistix | 2023-03-01 08:05:19 | 1,677,657,919 | null | null | 0 | 11ey3g1 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11ey3g1/are_there_any_free_dating_sites_that_let_you/ | 0 | I only ask because such a site is absolutely possible. It's how all the dating sites, like okcupid, used to work. Hell, dating over snail mail would be more productive than dating over the top ten sites prescribed for dating | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Are there any free dating sites that let you direct message? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11ey3g1/are_there_any_free_dating_sites_that_let_you/ |
SgtCheesepuffs | 2017-07-22 18:54:33 | 1,500,749,673 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 6owpg4 | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6owpg4/should_i_ask_this_girl_out_on_a_coffee_meet_up_or/ | 2 | I'm a bit socially awkward, but I started talking to this girl I met on a dating site. She messaged me and liked my profile and I messaged her back and liked her profile. However, she is busy with work and other things so doesn't get on much to check her messages. We have exchanged around 6 messages each (which from wh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I ask this girl out on a coffee meet up or wait? If I should how should I ask? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6owpg4/should_i_ask_this_girl_out_on_a_coffee_meet_up_or/ |
February2nd2021 | 2021-05-30 19:22:29 | 1,622,402,549 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | noieik | true | null | 57 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/noieik/i_matched_with_a_guy_on_bumble_who_ive_seen_post/ | 47 | I \[F32\] have a NSFW account (it's NOT this one, so don't bother looking in my post history) that I post a lot of nudes of myself on... but I absolutely never include my face. I have probably 3,000 followers on that account, but I'm completely anonymous there. Well I follow a guy who also posts a ton of nude photos of... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I matched with a guy on Bumble who I've seen post many nudes on Reddit. Do I tell him I know? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/noieik/i_matched_with_a_guy_on_bumble_who_ive_seen_post/ |
Plus-Power6458 | 2023-07-15 05:36:35 | 1,689,399,395 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 150373t | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/150373t/should_i_ask_out_a_guy_ive_met_at_the_gym/ | 1 | I (31f) got out of a long-term relationship about eight months ago and have been getting used to being single again. I've been hitting the gym (as one does) regularly and noticed an attractive guy (\30m) who looked familiar. While leaving the gym, he walked over to me and said hi. That's when I realized he lives in my ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I ask out a guy I've met at the gym? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/150373t/should_i_ask_out_a_guy_ive_met_at_the_gym/ |
Rafferty28 | 2022-05-25 19:50:01 | 1,653,508,201 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | uxphpv | true | Question | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uxphpv/men_why_do_some_men_lie_about_their_age_on_dating/ | 0 | No judgment! I've been hearing about this a lot, so I'm curious. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Men: Why do (some) men lie about their age on dating apps? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uxphpv/men_why_do_some_men_lie_about_their_age_on_dating/ |
heatman2333 | 2023-11-15 00:41:15 | 1,700,008,875 | 0 | null | 0 | 17vh58i | true | null | 67 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17vh58i/question_mainly_for_the_women/ | 8 | Genuine question, what is wrong with how has your day been/going? The number of times where I’ve had a small decent conversation and it just stops with that question is wild. Not mentioning I’m the one that nine times out of ten have to start and carry the convo(which I don’t really mind) but I feel like that can be a ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Question mainly for the women | 8 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17vh58i/question_mainly_for_the_women/ |
waunderbra | 2020-07-15 19:33:38 | 1,594,841,618 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | hruc6s | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/hruc6s/i_met_a_man_during_quarantine_advice_welcomed/ | 8 | I (36F) recently started a "relationship" with a (40M) in my neighborhood (2 blocks away). Early June. We met on a dating app, recognized each other from the neighborhood, and decided to get to know each other. I'm looking for advice, as I am marriage minded and dating after 30 makes this scenario difficult to navigate... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I met a man during Quarantine (Advice Welcomed) | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hruc6s/i_met_a_man_during_quarantine_advice_welcomed/ |
CaliDude75 | 2024-01-27 17:43:48 | 1,706,377,428 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1acgcvs | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1acgcvs/what_are_women_looking_for_in_old_chat/ | 1 | I’ve noticed a trend lately. Some women in their OLD profiles say “Don’t ask me how my day’s going.” What are you expecting us to say/ask about when your profiles all seem the same: “Looking for a partner in crime to travel, sleep in on Sunday mornings, cuddle in bed, then brunch.” 🙄 Please…Help me understand. 😐 | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What are women looking for in OLD chat? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1acgcvs/what_are_women_looking_for_in_old_chat/ |
0A3throw | 2024-09-09 07:34:56 | 1,725,867,296 | 0 | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | 1fcjugu | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1fcjugu/i_cried_before_my_birthday_vent/ | 5 | It will be my birthday in a few hours but I cried while washing dishes after dinner, alone in my apartment. I stopped OLD over a year ago because of a worst experience I ever had. Was led on by someone for half a year. Due to long distance and a death in his family we didn't meet in person till several months later aft... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I cried before my birthday (vent) | 5 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1fcjugu/i_cried_before_my_birthday_vent/ |
diudiaoacc0unt | 2024-06-20 18:59:23 | 1,718,909,963 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dkjili | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dkjili/feeling_abit_hurt_after_girl_told_me_she_met/ | 1 | Long story short, met this girl on dating app last month. Went on the fourth date today. I feel like she and I vibe very well. I told her Im only talking to her, and her likewise. But she wanted to confess that after our second date, she met another guy for the first time. I was kinda shocked. The reason was we vibed w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feeling abit hurt after girl told me she met another guy while we’re talking | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dkjili/feeling_abit_hurt_after_girl_told_me_she_met/ |
ThrowRA_peepee | 2023-11-26 15:24:54 | 1,701,012,294 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 184d1ti | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/184d1ti/she_told_me_shes_not_ready_for_a_romantic/ | 1 | She told me she’s not ready for something romantic. Should I message her when some time has passed? Now first off I know I have no choice but to move on. We only went on like four dates. At first we talked about taking it slow. I agreed because that’s what I wanted to do aswell. We matched really well. There was so man... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | She told me she’s not ready for a romantic relationship. Should I message her after some time? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/184d1ti/she_told_me_shes_not_ready_for_a_romantic/ |
Iwillachieveit | 2020-08-08 19:32:50 | 1,596,915,170 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | i658i0 | true | Question | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/i658i0/hack_how_to_bypass_the_topless_photo_screener_on/ | 0 | Good Afternoon, The topless photo screener on Bumble, is really annoying, especially since I worked hard for this 8 pack! Does anyone know how to bypass it? No negative comments please. Thanks | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hack: how to bypass the topless photo screener on Bumble | null | 0.22 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/i658i0/hack_how_to_bypass_the_topless_photo_screener_on/ |
LynRock | 2023-01-28 00:07:28 | 1,674,864,448 | null | null | 0 | 10n0ik2 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10n0ik2/would_you_use_a_dating_app_that_lets_you_match_1/ | 12 | Would anyone here use an app for "serious" people where you can only have one match at a time? Once you unmatch you can swipe again but I wonder how people would date if you didn't have as much of a selection. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Would you use a dating app that let's you match 1 at a time? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10n0ik2/would_you_use_a_dating_app_that_lets_you_match_1/ |
_wholovesorangesoda_ | 2022-11-29 15:38:32 | 1,669,736,312 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | z7xdgz | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z7xdgz/quit_your_moping_and_get_back_out_there/ | 17 | After going on 10 dates (all from online dating), I finally felt like I met someone who I could truly connect with. We had a natural connection, and amazing sexual chemistry. I felt relief that I could finally rest from the war zone of the dating world. But things didn’t end up working out, and it was primarily because... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Quit your moping, and get back out there. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z7xdgz/quit_your_moping_and_get_back_out_there/ |
Ok-Ad-3363 | 2021-01-20 06:27:43 | 1,611,124,063 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | l13i6j | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l13i6j/crossing_a_barrier/ | 1 | I just don't get how most people make a connection so fast with another one. I've broke up with my girlfriend almost 3 years ago, but since then nothing else happened and I feel so lonely... I have tried some dating app, but I can't get through that barrier with anyone. Really feel so stuck | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Crossing a barrier | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l13i6j/crossing_a_barrier/ |
Richardzon_ | 2019-01-14 19:42:26 | 1,547,494,946 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | afzhsm | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/afzhsm/fall_in_love_too_quick/ | 1 | A few months ago I stopped dating a girl from Tinder, she was super cool and we had a lot in common, we both got on well and things were going smoothly . But as it was the first time I started to see someone semi-seriously I got bit paranoid. She used to fly to California often to see an ex and his family (where the pa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Fall in love too quick... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/afzhsm/fall_in_love_too_quick/ |
jessilynn713 | 2020-06-06 13:00:41 | 1,591,448,441 | null | null | 0 | gxqk3q | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/gxqk3q/i_need_your_thoughts/ | 11 | I (F39) met a guy (M40) on Reddit by chance thru a comment thread. We moved our conversation to private DMs. We have conversed now for about 3 mos. I’ve shared with him many personal things. We’ve had deep conversations. He lives out of state. But, and I’ve always realized we would probably continue to be friends that ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I need your thoughts. | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gxqk3q/i_need_your_thoughts/ |
easterracing | 2014-07-27 16:33:19 | 1,406,478,799 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 2bv7wp | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating/comments/2bv7wp/vent_time_and_can_someone_tell_me_why_this/ | 2 | I was talking to a female friend, whom I had met on OKCupid, and things were going well. We had talked on the phone a few times, and were all prepared to meet up for dinner. We neglected the July 4th holiday in our planning and and had to reschedule. We decided on July 6, but she might be busy for various reasons. She ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Vent time.. and can someone tell me why this happened? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2bv7wp/vent_time_and_can_someone_tell_me_why_this/ |
Overall_Owl_7403 | 2022-07-07 07:56:59 | 1,657,180,619 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | vtd7rp | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vtd7rp/help/ | 0 | My Girlfriend (f18) and I (m19) met on tinder we are going out this upcoming Sunday. I’m taking her on a hike she really liked the pictures I showed her prior to us dating and said “we need to go there before I go back to school”. I’m taking her on Sunday. She told me she was gonna kiss me before she left the first nig... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help! | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vtd7rp/help/ |
Lost-Island7346 | 2024-05-20 08:34:29 | 1,716,194,069 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1cwan4f | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cwan4f/ive_known_him_for_34_days_and_hes_offering_to_buy/ | 1 | I (24F) met this guy (27M) on tinder and he’s very conventionally attractive - abs, tall, jawline, good hair. He basically looks like a wattpad protagonist. He looks unreal. This is the first thing that causes me to overthink because I think I’m average looking and he’s ten times more attractive than me. But I brush th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’ve known him for 3-4 days and he’s offering to buy me a phone??? Help 😭🤚 | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cwan4f/ive_known_him_for_34_days_and_hes_offering_to_buy/ |
Probability-Bot | 2022-04-18 01:25:36 | 1,650,245,136 | null | null | 0 | u61dd1 | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/u61dd1/lets_chat_on_here_for_now/ | 0 | So ive been messaging on the App with a Lady. Today will be day 6. Typically i try to move things off the App between day 3-5. On day 4 i asked if she would like to exchange numbers so we can chat and set a meetup. Thats when i got if you dont mind can we just "chat on here for now" line. Exp has taught me that "chatti... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Lets chat on here for now... | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/u61dd1/lets_chat_on_here_for_now/ |
cplus4 | 2021-04-15 18:33:08 | 1,618,511,588 | null | ['matches', 'bumble'] | 0 | mrkxu2 | true | Venting | 41 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/mrkxu2/that_didnt_last_long/ | 19 | I’ve (m46) been seeing this woman (f50) since early March. Met her via Bumble and quickly went to phone texting. She’s very much my type when it comes to appearance and her texting game is great. Lots of initiation from her end which tbh is rare amongst women I’ve dated. Her children are grown and barely college gradua... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | That didn’t last long | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/mrkxu2/that_didnt_last_long/ |
Soft_butnasty_1004 | 2024-05-07 15:38:10 | 1,715,096,290 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1cmeuz5 | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cmeuz5/what_do_you_think_makes_a_relationship_serious/ | 3 | I have been seeing a guy for a bit more than a month now. We met on hinge and naturally progressed from the talking phase to the exclusive phase. He however, in vague terms has told me that we do not have a future. We are from two different communities (he belongs to one that is quite conservative) + he is 1.5 years yo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What do you think makes a relationship serious? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cmeuz5/what_do_you_think_makes_a_relationship_serious/ |
corkmuncher | 2024-07-14 06:31:09 | 1,720,938,669 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1e2viwj | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e2viwj/is_he_just_not_into_me/ | 1 | Hi, Any insight and advice is appreciated! For context I’m a 21f. I met this guy on hinge we were texting for awhile and he would usually reply in 30m-1h then and we went on a date. It was super good we smoked a joint and talked for a few hours, the conversation flowed well. He told me he wanted to meet again after to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he just not into me? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e2viwj/is_he_just_not_into_me/ |
[deleted] | 2011-10-18 22:11:11 | 1,318,975,871 | 7 | ['dating site', 'dating sites', 'okcupid'] | null | lgrxb | null | null | 23 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/lgrxb/reddit_brought_turmoil_to_my_love_life_if_you_can/ | 9 | Okay, so: Sign up for Wusoup (dating type site I found through reddit that has a bunch of redditors). 2. See guy on there that I think is cute, he likes reddit (instant connection) and seems to be a good artist. Strike up conversation. Turns out he just moved into town, doesn't know many people yet. 3. Give OKcupid a g... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Reddit brought turmoil to my love life, if you can believe it. I need some fresh perspectives from my 2x homies. I think you'll get the gist of it if you only want to skim through the bold points. | 16 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/lgrxb/reddit_brought_turmoil_to_my_love_life_if_you_can/ |
henker220 | 2023-09-28 02:51:21 | 1,695,869,481 | 0 | null | 0 | 16u4fti | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16u4fti/is_my_location_working_against_my_profiles/ | 1 | I’m 25M and have been puzzled as to why I haven’t been getting matches since I feel my profiles are the best they’ve ever been and I try to make necessary adjustments when I post for review. However, I live an hour and a half (in any direction) from the big cities in my state and my hometown is kinda small so I have to... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is my location working against my profiles? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16u4fti/is_my_location_working_against_my_profiles/ |
[deleted] | 2011-09-08 19:48:45 | 1,315,511,325 | 0 | ['online dating', 'eharmony'] | null | k96ad | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/k96ad/online_dating_advice/ | 3 | I've seen a lot of posts here relating to online dating, but I've never tried it. A long-term relationship (5 years) ended a year or so ago and now I'm considering trying out online dating. Any pointers for a complete newbie? EDIT: Thank you all for the responses thus far. I meant to ask in the original post about whic... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating advice? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k96ad/online_dating_advice/ |
ItsBrittanyYall | 2023-03-04 12:48:37 | 1,677,934,117 | null | null | 0 | 11hyefq | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11hyefq/would_you_date_a_retail_sales_worker/ | 0 | If so, why would you? And if not, why not? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Would you date a Retail Sales Worker? | null | 0.47 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11hyefq/would_you_date_a_retail_sales_worker/ |
Jojokabm | 2023-03-08 00:18:53 | 1,678,234,733 | null | null | 0 | 11lghu7 | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11lghu7/asian_profiles_on_dating_apps_fake_or_genuine/ | 12 | I get likes from several Asian women on dating apps but when I match and chat with them, they don't want to meet for coffee or lunch. Instead they switch the conversation to WhatsApp or Telegram and then try to convince about investing in crypto or some business scheme. I always end up refusing and they end up blocking... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Asian profiles on dating apps - fake or genuine? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11lghu7/asian_profiles_on_dating_apps_fake_or_genuine/ |
conflictedcyclist | 2023-12-03 15:57:22 | 1,701,619,042 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 189wf3z | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/189wf3z/why_do_i_get_friendzoned/ | 1 | A bit of context: I have extremely limited dating experience. I spent much of the time from age 14-18 starting businesses which absolutely consumed all of my free time. I did school/ work/ repeat basically 7 days a week. I was absolutely obsessed with money. I just started college in September and realized that my soci... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do I get friendzoned? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/189wf3z/why_do_i_get_friendzoned/ |
BeachFluid2035 | 2024-09-22 14:49:12 | 1,727,016,552 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fmv0xs | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fmv0xs/i_f23_rejected_the_guy_i_like_24/ | 0 | Hello everyone, I hope you are well. I need a little bit of advice: I've put on a lot of weight in the last year. I used to go on dates even when I was a few kilos over my normal weight and it didn't seem like a problem until I put on even more weight in the last few months. But I have also lost a few kilos. I am curre... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (f,23) rejected the guy I like (24) | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fmv0xs/i_f23_rejected_the_guy_i_like_24/ |
Worldly_Collection87 | 2022-08-17 20:35:51 | 1,660,768,551 | null | ['OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | wqzex8 | true | null | 83 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/wqzex8/32m_hinge_profile_review/ | 5 | Hi all, I would really appreciate a review of my profile. I'm recently single so I'm a bit out of practice with OLD. https://imgur.com/a/DfxsIHg Made some pic changes/edits Also, here are the audio/video pieces. I guess those are relevant. The audio isn't actually that blown out, that's just how it sounds recorded from... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | 32M Hinge profile review | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/wqzex8/32m_hinge_profile_review/ |
shannonscx10 | 2019-02-08 08:13:41 | 1,549,613,621 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | aoegkr | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 40 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/aoegkr/bumble_finally_paid_off/ | 206 | On the 21st of January I (21M) matched with a lovely girl on Bumble. She had everything going for her, she's drop dead gorgeous, had a bio she actually put some effort into, good pictures, interesting hobbies and not just the usual "love the outdoors and travelling" bs. Anyways we really hit it off and while we don't n... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Bumble finally paid off! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/aoegkr/bumble_finally_paid_off/ |
abestraw01 | 2023-08-09 11:59:56 | 1,691,582,396 | 0 | null | 0 | 15md9r3 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15md9r3/instagram_scam/ | 1 | Got chatting with this girl on Instagram and within a few minutes I could tell something was up. Claims she is Spanish parent died when she was 10, moved to Liverpool UK (except she couldn't convince me she's based in Liverpool) sent me a few pictures which I know aren't hers(makes me wonder who's the owner of the pict... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Instagram scam | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15md9r3/instagram_scam/ |
itszulutime | 2020-07-15 01:48:54 | 1,594,777,734 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | hrepua | true | Personal Story | 79 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/hrepua/a_fun_first_date_story/ | 630 | I (37/M) matched with a woman (44/F) on Bumble last week after a long break from OLD. The rapport was good....we texted throughout each day for about a week before we were finally able to meet in person. We picked a public hiking area, and I packed some fun snacks (wine, cheese curds, strawberries, etc...). We had sent... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | A fun first date story | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/hrepua/a_fun_first_date_story/ |
alex_harold | 2020-03-30 19:10:33 | 1,585,595,433 | null | ['swiping'] | 0 | frx1x0 | true | Other | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/frx1x0/not_attracted_to_anyone_these_days/ | 2 | Maybe it's just a sign of the times... I've heard others say they've felt put off by any human contact during this shutdown... but has anyone else found that their attraction to others has plummetted recently? I feel shallow af swiping left so much... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Not attracted to anyone these days... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/frx1x0/not_attracted_to_anyone_these_days/ |
RangerMan612 | 2023-05-27 16:19:33 | 1,685,204,373 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 13tbk9z | true | Question ❓ | 41 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13tbk9z/are_soulmates_a_thing_do_you_believe_they_are/ | 12 | I've always had this feeling that there is someone out there that matches my vibe, humour and personality, someone I could do silly things with and they would do something equally silly back. I'm not sure if it's something I've aquired from movies or TV shows as I believe I've believed in soulmates since I first starte... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are soulmates a thing? Do you believe they are? | 12 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13tbk9z/are_soulmates_a_thing_do_you_believe_they_are/ |
Puzzleheaded_Mix_409 | 2024-07-29 06:26:44 | 1,722,234,404 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1eeslel | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eeslel/confused_is_it_me_or_am_i_missing_something/ | 1 | Sorry for the long post.. Let me preface this by saying that I'm usually the avoidant type but find myself being anxious with this person, which is highly unnerving. Need help on how to proceed: I've been talking to this guy (40M) who lives close to me, for almost a month. I'm pretty confident in what I want at my age ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused. Is it me or am I missing something? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eeslel/confused_is_it_me_or_am_i_missing_something/ |
Rivman96 | 2015-09-19 02:25:46 | 1,442,629,546 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3lieyt | null | null | 22 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/3lieyt/ladies_of_askwomen_how_do_you_prefer_to_be/ | 8 | Also, how do you prefer a man shake your hand in other situations? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Ladies of AskWomen - How do you prefer to be physically greeted when first meeting someone on an OKC/Tinder date? Handshake? Hug? Side hug? | 8 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3lieyt/ladies_of_askwomen_how_do_you_prefer_to_be/ |
AAKurtz | 2023-02-13 00:13:58 | 1,676,247,238 | null | null | 0 | 110ugik | true | null | 60 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/110ugik/women_please_understand_the_importance_of_the/ | 0 | Metropolitan areas have a lot of fake accounts that prey on lonely men. For the average guy, I would say about 10% of his matches are going to be fakes. I hate to say this, but if I match with an attractive Asian girl, there is about a 50% chance it's a fake account. As a result, I require everyone I match with to do a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Women, please understand the importance of the video chat | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/110ugik/women_please_understand_the_importance_of_the/ |
CharacterCow8132 | 2022-06-12 19:01:52 | 1,655,060,512 | null | ['OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | vast9x | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vast9x/dinner_for_first_meet/ | 3 | I (28M) usually like grabbing coffee when meeting someone from OLD for the first time. I feel like it’s a more comfortable, low-pressure way to meet someone you barely know, plus it’s easy to schedule. If it goes well, we can walk around the city or go to a park and keep getting to know each other. Or if one of us isn’... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dinner for first meet? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vast9x/dinner_for_first_meet/ |
mannersrus | 2021-05-14 23:51:44 | 1,621,036,304 | null | null | 0 | ncma1w | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ncma1w/what_subtle_clues_do_you_look_for_to_see_if_youre/ | 2 | I know there are the more obvious ones like only 1 pic, broken English, fishy storylines, etc.. but sometimes I think it can be a little more challenging with some of the profiles so what subtle clues do you look for or you should just be aware of when it comes to online dating profiles? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What subtle clues do you look for to see if you're dealing with a fake profile? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ncma1w/what_subtle_clues_do_you_look_for_to_see_if_youre/ |
Furious_Octopus123 | 2023-11-14 07:17:28 | 1,699,946,248 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17uwx04 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17uwx04/completely_lost_regarding_dating_and_its_steps/ | 2 | I (25M) arrived in America from Europe 3 months ago for university and let's say I have been struggling. I only had one relationship before (3 years ago and she is the one who chased me) so I'm no expert. I've been able to talk to quite a few girls but I have had absolutely no luck. They seem interested in talking to m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Completely lost regarding dating and its "steps" | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17uwx04/completely_lost_regarding_dating_and_its_steps/ |
harrohamtaro | 2021-08-28 16:16:31 | 1,630,167,391 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | pdcqfy | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/pdcqfy/how_do_you_treat_yourself_kindly_in_the_process/ | 53 | Relationship noob (f) here, would appreciate some advice. Recently I started OLD in a way I had never done before. I worked on myself with CBT for a few years and made sure I’m mentally ready before downloading the apps, and persevered in making connections even though none has worked out so far. In the past I’ll retre... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How do you treat yourself kindly in the process of figuring out dating and relationships? | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/pdcqfy/how_do_you_treat_yourself_kindly_in_the_process/ |
pizzaburritocentral | 2020-02-22 17:54:15 | 1,582,394,055 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | f7w124 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f7w124/how_to_know_if_a_guy_m26_is_interested_in_dating/ | 7 | Hi everyone. I got out of an almost 3 year relationship a few months ago and I'm getting back into dating again. Long story short, I was on Hinge and this guy (I'll call him J) I knew from several classes messaged me. He's really attractive and funny, but I was in a relationship so I never pursued him in the past. We w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to know if a guy (M26) is interested in dating you (F21)? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f7w124/how_to_know_if_a_guy_m26_is_interested_in_dating/ |
Sunshine_weather7175 | 2023-03-23 21:40:40 | 1,679,607,640 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 11zyfbv | true | null | 47 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/11zyfbv/social_media_connections_randoms_on_ig/ | 0 | What site for guys would connect to an ig handle? My bf doesnt use ig he has no posts but random young women or scantily clad women will follow him. Usually these women follow mostly men and have no posts. Theyre also usually ‘new’ accounts. How do they find his account? I know its not bumble bc his isnt connected and ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | social media connections - randoms on IG | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/11zyfbv/social_media_connections_randoms_on_ig/ |
Traditional_Pea7294 | 2024-08-05 13:55:08 | 1,722,866,108 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1ekoeaz | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ekoeaz/how_to_ask_what_are_we/ | 1 | Hey everyone. So I (M 20) met this guy (M 21) on Hinge about a month ago and it's been going well I would say, but I'm confused as to what we are and I don't know how to ask because neither of us have done this before. I would say we're friends. When we first started talking, it was actually pretty natural and smooth u... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to ask "what are we"? | 1 | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ekoeaz/how_to_ask_what_are_we/ |
Narrow_Committee_142 | 2024-04-29 15:47:07 | 1,714,405,627 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1cg2fic | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cg2fic/should_i_just_call_it_quits/ | 1 | So I've been talking to/hanging out with this guy I met on hinge for a month or two now. In the beginning it felt more like dating, we would hangout grab some food, see a movie and we would text more frequently. We end up at his house on the 4th date and do some sexual activities, not sex but everything else. From then... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I just call it quits? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cg2fic/should_i_just_call_it_quits/ |
Slow_Excitement_3423 | 2024-08-27 13:41:58 | 1,724,766,118 | 0 | null | 0 | 1f2hdb2 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1f2hdb2/girl_says_were_not_compatible_after_we_fool/ | 0 | We had been on about five dates and it seemed like it was really good, each date lasted hours and we hung out every time and she kept looking toward the next one. Last date she came over and I made her dinner and we played games, then it led to us making out and fooling around. While she ends up sending the night and t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Girl says we’re not compatible after we fool around and she spends the night | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f2hdb2/girl_says_were_not_compatible_after_we_fool/ |
CoconutAndLime811 | 2024-02-13 03:41:20 | 1,707,795,680 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1apjuws | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1apjuws/stood_up_twice_in_3_days/ | 1 | I’m usually pretty positive about dating, but I’m just going through it right now. Matched with a guy a week ago and the convo was great. He asked me out for Saturday. That morning he sent me his address. I wasn’t comfortable meeting at his house for the first date, so I asked if he wouldn’t mind meeting at a place hal... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stood up twice in 3 days | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1apjuws/stood_up_twice_in_3_days/ |
garebe | 2019-03-26 05:31:10 | 1,553,578,270 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | b5lteb | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b5lteb/reconnecting_to_high_school_acquaintance/ | 1 | So a couple weeks ago, I came across a profile on Hinge which belonged to a high school acquaintance of mine. We were both on the school newspaper our junior year, and we worked not necessarily closely together but had a small working relationship. We became Facebook friends because of that (still are), but we didn't t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Reconnecting to High School Acquaintance | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b5lteb/reconnecting_to_high_school_acquaintance/ |
hereiamninja | 2019-09-02 16:14:13 | 1,567,440,853 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cyr1ek | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cyr1ek/how_to_reject_person_in_a_nice_way/ | 0 | Been on 2 dates with this girl from Tinder (no physical contact/nothing intimate) and I can clearly see she is not the right one for me. What is the better way to reject the girl? Shall I text her or ask for a date and tell in person? I want to avoid ghosting as I did it once before and felt shitty afterwards. Thanks f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to reject person in a nice way? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cyr1ek/how_to_reject_person_in_a_nice_way/ |
DrQuackerus-101 | 2024-02-09 05:48:24 | 1,707,457,704 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1amh3m3 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1amh3m3/im_not_sure_what_to_do/ | 1 | 22m here, I met this girl 18F in a dating app. Im only in the app to hookup with people and even stated it. So i matched this girl, she told me she isn’t into hookups or relationships just friends and im fine w it. We became somewhat online friends, we played games and she opened up about her family problems. It was ba... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m not sure what to do | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1amh3m3/im_not_sure_what_to_do/ |
ICanSeeTheBay | 2021-09-15 05:24:21 | 1,631,683,461 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | pojt4m | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pojt4m/so_unclear/ | 1 | So Tinder date tonight with a woman I’ve been messaging for 3 weeks or so. Competing schedules, bad timing slowed a meet up but it always seemed we would. Anyway she’s a lot different than most I’ve gone out with, real wild streak, fuck it all to a degree attitude, unvaxxed(😟), good looking and not worried about looks... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So Unclear | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pojt4m/so_unclear/ |
HaidarBoss | 2021-07-02 22:24:39 | 1,625,264,679 | null | null | 0 | ocl0rb | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ocl0rb/match_taking_long_to_respond/ | 4 | So I matched with this girl on a dating app and I could tell we have a lot in common. I messaged her on the app and got her phone number. I texted her in the afternoon and she replied later asking how my day went. I replied and asked her back but she hasn’t responded in 3 days. Is she just busy? Or did she lose interes... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Match taking long to respond | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ocl0rb/match_taking_long_to_respond/ |
sofia_apple | 2023-11-21 03:23:37 | 1,700,537,017 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1807c2e | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1807c2e/fwb_20m_is_acting_a_little_too_intimate_and_i_18f/ | 1 | To make a long story short, I (18F) just got out of a relationship and my fwb (20M) just recently broke up with his gf of 1 year. I’ve never had a FWB before so I’m not accustomed to what’s appropriate. We met on bumble with what we're searching for set to " don't know yet", we've known each other for a few days now I'... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | FWB ( 20M ) is acting a little too intimate, and I ( 18F ) don't know how I should address it if at all. I've never had a casual relationship with anyone. Thoughts? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1807c2e/fwb_20m_is_acting_a_little_too_intimate_and_i_18f/ |
Princess-She-ra | 2020-01-18 19:22:50 | 1,579,375,370 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | eqky7n | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/eqky7n/hi_there_new_to_this_forum/ | 12 | I've been lurking and sometimes participating in a number of Reddit forums, never thought to look for a datingover50 but a datingover30 popped up on my feed so i went exploring and here I am. I'm 59F, divorced, trying the online dating thing but embarrassingly not getting very far. a few texts, a few phone calls, one r... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Hi there, new to this forum | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/eqky7n/hi_there_new_to_this_forum/ |
AWildMagikarp5 | 2024-05-05 00:24:01 | 1,714,868,641 | 0 | ['matched', 'swiping'] | 0 | 1ckep46 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ckep46/went_on_the_perfect_date_while_in_a_situationship/ | 1 | so i’m (23m) currently in a situationship with a girl (22f)who really likes me. i’ve told her i don’t a relationship atm since i just got out of a long term relationship and not ready to be in a new comitted relationship, she understood but was sad about it. we text basically everyday but meet maybe once every week or ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | went on the perfect date while in a situationship | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ckep46/went_on_the_perfect_date_while_in_a_situationship/ |
YoureSewDramatic | 2022-12-31 00:02:32 | 1,672,444,952 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | zzfqjd | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/zzfqjd/want_to_share_a_positive_story/ | 893 | I'm (35F) presently on a trip, alone, to see the Aurora Borealis which is best viewed far away from city lights from midnight til 2am. They're quite unpredictable so when they make an appearance, you don't have time to waste. The roads are also terrible with ice. I had arranged help from a local guide before my trip ev... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Want to share a positive story | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/zzfqjd/want_to_share_a_positive_story/ |
BigBossMan538 | 2019-02-22 19:49:11 | 1,550,864,951 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | atly76 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/atly76/body_image/ | 1 | I'm getting into the online dating world. Haven't been having much luck so far though. I'm not sure why. Do I just not look good? Is my profile not good? Is it just a case of right place at the right time? I'm 247 pounds and am trying to lose weight. I know that you should lose weight for your own benefit and not to im... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Body image | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/atly76/body_image/ |
Sugar_Weasel_ | 2022-04-02 01:48:24 | 1,648,864,104 | null | null | 0 | tu7g2b | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/tu7g2b/ignorant_or_a_psycho/ | 4 | Saw a profile on Hinge using the “dating me is like…” prompt. Dude filled it in with “like dating Ike Turner 😘” Do you think he knows? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ignorant or a Psycho? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/tu7g2b/ignorant_or_a_psycho/ |
PsychologicalHand5 | 2021-07-08 02:44:53 | 1,625,712,293 | null | null | 0 | ofy7wm | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ofy7wm/getting_asked_the_what_are_your_turn_onsturn_offs/ | 21 | I always felt trapped when asked that question. It seems very innocent, but sometimes it seems like it’s a chance for someone to fake their personality for a while just to please you or to get what they want (it’s happened before). I also noticed it turns into the whole dreaded “not like the other guys” conversation (N... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Getting asked the “what are your turn ons/turn offs” | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ofy7wm/getting_asked_the_what_are_your_turn_onsturn_offs/ |
wenevergetfar | 2023-11-23 15:27:22 | 1,700,753,242 | 0 | null | 0 | 1823l9p | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1823l9p/too_niche/ | 1 | Hey yall im new here so idk how inclusive u guys are, ill expect some backlash. Do you think im just too niche for people to even wanna date me? Im a nonbinary/transfeminine nonmonogamous kinky, subby switch thats only interested in women that are my type. I get likes and matches but hardly any real conversation. Ik th... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Too niche | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1823l9p/too_niche/ |
eska35 | 2018-05-23 19:10:18 | 1,527,102,618 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 8lm16i | false | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8lm16i/type_1_herpes_positive_need_advice/ | 1 | I received type 1 from a previous partner in my past. I’m a decently attractive guy in mid 20s and have had decent success meeting women on tinder and bumble. The girls I am interested in either just want to be friends or stop talking altogether after I tell them what I have. It’s extremely disappointing and my mental ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Type 1 herpes positive need advice | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8lm16i/type_1_herpes_positive_need_advice/ |
Badjb10 | 2020-10-06 08:52:41 | 1,601,974,361 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | j61ofq | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j61ofq/how_to_get_started/ | 2 | I’m a college student (M/20). I haven’t been able to meet a lot of new people because of the pandemic and online dating just doesn’t seem to work for me. I don’t get a lot of matches and when I get matches, I don’t get a lot of responses. How do I meet someone organically in a situation like this where I’m anxious abou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to Get Started? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j61ofq/how_to_get_started/ |
jewfro667 | 2015-10-11 18:03:34 | 1,444,586,614 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 3ocrtg | null | null | 78 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/3ocrtg/i_slept_with_a_girl_from_okcupid_a_few_days_ago/ | 30 | I noticed lately that I'm basically using a lot of women for sex. Mainly women I meet online who I think are attractive in their picture then meet in person and when sex happens, they aren't attractive to me anymore. The ones I do find attractive I'm not sleeping with. So I slept with this one girl and after it she tur... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | I slept with a girl from okcupid a few days ago and despite saying I want to see her again, I realized the next day I don't. What do? | 30 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3ocrtg/i_slept_with_a_girl_from_okcupid_a_few_days_ago/ |
anonymousdyslexic | 2022-06-09 05:50:55 | 1,654,753,855 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | v89vv2 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v89vv2/went_on_a_second_date_ended_with_telling_him_to/ | 1 | So I (f21) met this guy (20) on tinder. We went out one night got drinks and spoke till 2am. It was really nice and we both had fun so we decided to go out again. We went bowling and then went to a bar but we both had work the next day so we didn’t stay for too long. He dropped me home and we hugged goodbye. I texted h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Went on a second date ended with telling him to make a move | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v89vv2/went_on_a_second_date_ended_with_telling_him_to/ |
Valuable_Gas_1404 | 2024-09-08 08:15:18 | 1,725,783,318 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fbsv0z | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fbsv0z/how_do_you_even_meet_people/ | 4 | I genuinely do not know how to even meet people offline to make even an in-person friendship, let alone a physically intimate relationship. Going to public events hasn't worked because everyone there already has people they are with and are unwilling to interact with me for more than a few sentences. I don't really wan... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you even meet people? | 4 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fbsv0z/how_do_you_even_meet_people/ |
ContemporaryKino | 2022-08-18 02:21:31 | 1,660,789,291 | null | null | 0 | wr7brg | true | null | 78 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/wr7brg/my_match_turned_out_to_be_disabled_how_do_i_turn/ | 45 | EDIT: She wasn’t actually paralyzed. It was a test. Now I feel like an actual asshole. I did consider to go, but in the end I decided to sacrifice myself and told her that I’ve been dating this other girl on the app while she wasn’t responding, as an excuse to avoid damaging her self esteem. Well, at least I realized t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | My match turned out to be disabled. How do I turn her down without coming off as an asshole? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/wr7brg/my_match_turned_out_to_be_disabled_how_do_i_turn/ |
GraySpear227 | 2024-02-19 13:52:26 | 1,708,350,746 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1auns7a | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1auns7a/how_to_deal_with_a_dry_texter/ | 1 | I (M23) recently matched with a girl (F23) on a dating app and I’ve been trying to be engaging with her. I’ve asked her questions about her, her life, her hobbies, where she went to school (we live close to eachother) and no matter how many open ended questions I ask she just gives a closed answer and doesn’t reciproca... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to deal with a dry texter? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1auns7a/how_to_deal_with_a_dry_texter/ |
Dazedheartthrowaway | 2018-08-07 03:09:12 | 1,533,611,352 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 957yy0 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/957yy0/dazed_and_confused_with_a_colleague/ | 0 | (Super long post I had originally posted in r/sex, I'm so sorry_) So I'm at this point where I'm exasperated and confused. I recently had come out to this guy I fell for, only for an issue to come up that separated me and ex-bf years ago. So.. When i was 19 I started going out exclusively with this guy named Joseph I m... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Dazed and confused with a colleague. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/957yy0/dazed_and_confused_with_a_colleague/ |
Final_Surround_1556 | 2023-09-15 22:22:39 | 1,694,816,559 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16jqsbn | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16jqsbn/where_do_you_prefer_to_meet_romantic_interests/ | 1 | Im in my 20s and am part of that middle generation that lived before social media and also right in the middle of it. I don’t have too many issues with confidence in approaching people to strike up a convo in person but these days, it almost feels creepy to approach someone at a grocery or book store. Seems like not th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where do you prefer to meet romantic interests? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16jqsbn/where_do_you_prefer_to_meet_romantic_interests/ |
dating-adventures | 2022-08-20 18:22:02 | 1,661,019,722 | null | null | 0 | wtdufj | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/wtdufj/if_you_close_the_hinge_app_without_liking_or_xing/ | 9 | If so, how long does it usually take? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If you close the Hinge app without liking or x-ing a profile, will that profile show up again in your stack? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/wtdufj/if_you_close_the_hinge_app_without_liking_or_xing/ |
lightlyroastedturnip | 2020-09-27 21:58:46 | 1,601,243,926 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | j0zrhz | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j0zrhz/ed_during_1st_time_together/ | 2 | I (21F) met this guy (22M) on a dating app. We talked for a few days on the app then switched to texting when he gave me his number. I really liked him and thought we were pretty compatible so we set up a date to grab coffee then watch a movie at his house. I thought the date went well. We never ran out of things to ta... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | ED during 1st time together | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j0zrhz/ed_during_1st_time_together/ |
cracklefish7 | 2017-11-10 16:54:38 | 1,510,332,878 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7c2bes | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7c2bes/new_to_dating_and_not_sure_what_is_normal/ | 1 | Throwaway account, just to be safe ) I (36, F) am recently divorced after almost a year separation (and almost a year prior to that of knowing I wanted a divorce but not sure how to get out of an abusive situation). I was married for 10 years, and really only "dated" my ex. I had gone on only one other date that I can ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New to dating and not sure what is "normal" | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7c2bes/new_to_dating_and_not_sure_what_is_normal/ |
Jollyho94 | 2023-08-12 12:35:42 | 1,691,843,742 | 0 | null | 0 | 15p3i70 | true | null | 92 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15p3i70/should_i_reach_back_out_to_a_guy_i_talked_to_last/ | 1 | So I matched with this pilot last week and he was attracted to my profile because I put I want marriage and kids. He told me since he’s a pilot he makes good money and can take care of me if I got pregnant by him. I told him I want to wait till I’m 30 next year to get pregnant then he started saying he’s “ 43 years old... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I reach back out to a guy I talked to last week who talked about his sperm & wanting to get me pregnant?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15p3i70/should_i_reach_back_out_to_a_guy_i_talked_to_last/ |
ultimate_poster | 2017-03-20 05:07:31 | 1,489,986,451 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 60eowz | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/60eowz/tinder_convo_going_good_until_she_blocked_me/ | 1 | i matched this girl on tinder and we had a good convo there before adding each other on snapchat. we talked on there for a few days and even tried to meet up for lunch but couldnt. now i found out she unmatched me on tinder and snapchat with no warning. are there anyways to get around that without seeming creepy or sta... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder convo going good until she blocked me... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/60eowz/tinder_convo_going_good_until_she_blocked_me/ |
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