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hodor_is_a_bad_cat
2023-03-03 03:19:24
1,677,813,564
null
['tinder']
0
11gpr9u
true
Question ❓
4
0
/r/dating/comments/11gpr9u/tinder/
1
Does this app do nothing but contribute to anyone else's depression? I feel like it's designed to eat away at your actual soul.
dating
t5_2qhb1
Tinder
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11gpr9u/tinder/
Archonik1
2016-10-06 04:10:59
1,475,727,059
0
['online dating', 'dating sites', 'tinder']
0
563nx8
null
null
2
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/563nx8/how_did_you_meet_your_sorealize_they_were_someone/
2
I [M21] have had a considerate amount of experience in dating but it hasn't gone all that well in terms of long term relationships. Most of the women I go out with are through online dating and primarily Tinder because I never have any luck with other dating sites. I feel like I need to learn how to meet people in real...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How did you meet your SO/realize they were someone you wanted something serious with?
2
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/563nx8/how_did_you_meet_your_sorealize_they_were_someone/
uslars
2021-03-01 12:47:44
1,614,602,864
null
['tinder']
0
lv8d2x
true
null
13
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lv8d2x/im_m23_and_i_dont_know_what_im_doing_wrong/
3
I‘m M 23 and I don‘t know what I‘m doing wrong. English is not my first language, so don’t be to harsh on me. I‘ve never been in a relationship before and this discourages me highly and lowers my self esteem to some degree, to be honest. I know, that a relationship isn‘t the key to happiness and fulfillment but getting...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I‘m M 23 and I don‘t know what I‘m doing wrong.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lv8d2x/im_m23_and_i_dont_know_what_im_doing_wrong/
NoIdeal2772
2022-02-24 18:42:52
1,645,728,172
null
['tinder']
0
t0i5te
true
I Need Advice
10
0
/r/dating/comments/t0i5te/sending_a_sympathy_card/
1
I was seeing someone from Tinder very very very very briefly (1 week). Then it kinda just faded out and we both ghosted each other. To be fair, he seemed to be the first one to kinda lose interest and all. Anyways, when we were together he told me a lot about his family and this was something we both liked about each o...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Sending a Sympathy Card
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/t0i5te/sending_a_sympathy_card/
Economou
2015-07-31 01:58:09
1,438,307,889
0
['dating sites']
0
3f8kuw
null
null
5
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/3f8kuw/30m_just_got_out_of_an_11_year_relationship_fear/
9
So I've just gotten out of an 11 year relationship, she left me for another guy. I'm ok with the break-up, but it has left me self-conscious about my appearance. We had gotten together right after high-school, and I've never dated anyone else. I have thinning hair and a receding hairline, and I feel like my teeth are c...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[30m] just got out of an 11 year relationship, fear won't get dates because of physical flaws.
9
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3f8kuw/30m_just_got_out_of_an_11_year_relationship_fear/
DifficultElephant
2021-11-03 15:31:24
1,635,953,484
null
['dating apps', 'tinder']
0
qlwz4a
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/qlwz4a/anyone_else_feel_you_should_just_be_more_forward/
1
Started talking to this guy on tinder and he seems really nice and he said he enjoyed talking to me. I gave him my number and he messaged me on WhatsApp and we texted a bit but now he hasn’t replied in a couple of days. Personally I hate texting people constantly that I’ve spoken to on dating apps, I would rather just ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Anyone else feel you should just be more forward or bad to double text?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qlwz4a/anyone_else_feel_you_should_just_be_more_forward/
[deleted]
2022-08-15 20:04:07
1,660,593,847
null
['dating apps', 'tinder']
0
wp9doy
true
null
0
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/wp9doy/dating_apps_when_inexperienced/
0
Hello everyone, To put things short; this post is just the question I am asking you is literally the title of this post, but I'll give you some more background in case it'd be necessary. So I (22F) am moving to another country in 3 weeks. I knew this would happen because of my studies, and I'll stay there for 2 years. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating apps when inexperienced?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wp9doy/dating_apps_when_inexperienced/
Sithis1979
2020-11-27 10:24:54
1,606,472,694
null
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
k1yr72
true
Venting
85
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/k1yr72/bargain_bin/
12
I gave up on dating apps. Every time I match with someone the ladies I match with I unmatch with me after an average exchange of three messages in total. I had an epiphany the other day. I realized that there are hundreds of thousands of other guys out there looking for love too. It is human nature that the more choice...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Bargain Bin
null
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/k1yr72/bargain_bin/
someonelookinforlove
2020-07-31 19:54:09
1,596,225,249
null
['dating app']
0
i1eb5w
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/i1eb5w/what_to_expect_from_a_phone_call_from_a_dating_app/
4
Hi So I (21F) installed a dating app around a month ago and I met this guy (20M) a few days ago. He's really nice and I find him quite attractive Only thing is, we had a call and I don't know what to make of it. I found that he was really quiet and we had a lot of long silences... We were trying to think of fun questio...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What to expect from a phone call from a dating app?
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i1eb5w/what_to_expect_from_a_phone_call_from_a_dating_app/
cyb0rgasm
2018-10-29 01:46:21
1,540,777,581
null
['dating apps']
0
9s8x3f
true
I Need Advice
6
0
/r/dating/comments/9s8x3f/need_some_advice/
2
From reading most posts here I feel as if everyone is in the same boat so maybe you all can offer some advice. Ive given up on dating apps. A few issues I have had with them are as follows; -First, I feel that interactions feel unnatural. For the life of me I can't stir up conversation over text, Im much better at talk...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Need some advice...
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9s8x3f/need_some_advice/
overthinkerrrrrr1234
2024-04-04 18:59:18
1,712,257,158
0
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
1bvvi6j
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bvvi6j/am_i_being_too_difficult/
1
I (31F) recently went on a few first dates. Yes that may sound odd but I use a dating app where you can only match with each other through your profile but you can't speak after. You plan a date through the app and you interact on the date for the first time. I am a terrible texter and I don't enjoy the chatting on dat...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I being too difficult?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bvvi6j/am_i_being_too_difficult/
phantomlord1971
2024-08-18 12:01:24
1,723,982,484
0
['dating apps']
0
1ev7ky8
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
11
0
/r/dating/comments/1ev7ky8/20_never_been_in_a_relationship/
15
20M im about to be 21 and never been in a relationship and im kinda starting to worry, im painfully shy and its hard for me to talk to anyone let alone women my age, i feel like being a loner all of school kinda stripped me of developing fundemental social abilities and im reaping the consequences of it now. i know im ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
20 never been in a relationship
15
0.95
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ev7ky8/20_never_been_in_a_relationship/
RealMrsEaves
2019-07-11 22:18:11
1,562,883,491
null
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
cc27v7
true
null
11
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cc27v7/boyfriend_of_6_months_plans_on_moving_away_in_a/
3
I (32F) met my boyfriend (30M) of 6 months on a dating app earlier this year after years of little success on both dating apps and real world scenarios. This is the first guy I've ever dated where everything just feels so natural, comfortable, and easy (while still exciting). I trust him 100% which is refreshing after ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Boyfriend of 6 months plans on moving away in a few years. How do I proceed?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cc27v7/boyfriend_of_6_months_plans_on_moving_away_in_a/
Dragon_butterfly_01
2024-07-02 08:52:04
1,719,910,324
0
['bumble']
0
1dth593
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dth593/the_first_one_feels_right_should_i_continue/
2
Hello, I need some dating advice. After working on myself for three years, I (F28) am finally dating again using Bumble. I've been dating a guy for three weeks now, seeing him six times: twice briefly and four times for actual dates involving activities. He gives off a golden retriever energy, which I love (he has no s...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
The first one feels right: Should I continue dating others?
2
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dth593/the_first_one_feels_right_should_i_continue/
Snoopa2113
2021-04-19 11:37:01
1,618,832,221
null
['online dating']
0
mtyotu
true
I Need Advice
3
0
/r/dating/comments/mtyotu/i_need_some_advicevent_and_hopefully_some/
1
Hi Redditors, First some background. I am a 29 year old man from Australia. I am a single father to 4 year old twin girls who I have 50/50 custody of. I got out of a 6 year long relationship with the mother of my children back last June. The relationship was abusive to say the least. Anyone who says that's men can't be...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I need some advice/vent and hopefully some direction
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mtyotu/i_need_some_advicevent_and_hopefully_some/
_confused2_
2019-11-22 08:22:49
1,574,410,969
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
dzy5bt
true
null
17
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dzy5bt/i_25f_think_i_may_have_a_crush_on_a_guy_19_ive/
1
I've recently turned 25, and am back in school in an intensive film program. 80% of my classmates are younger than me in the 18-20 year old range. Going to give the background on my history- or lack thereof- with guys for context: I've had a horrific time with guys my whole life - literally so bad at talking to guys I ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (25F) think I may have a crush on a guy (19)? I've never been in a relationship...
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dzy5bt/i_25f_think_i_may_have_a_crush_on_a_guy_19_ive/
bullzeyebugz
2023-12-29 20:28:16
1,703,881,696
0
['hinge']
0
18twkx6
true
null
122
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18twkx6/he_32m_says_i_30f_ghosted_him_i_beg_to_differ/
20
over the summer, I started dating this guy that I really liked. but, after about 2 months or so, it became clear he didnt really feel the same way. he'd often say we weren't exclusive, would never stay the night, put little to no effort into dates (even though I would usually pay my part, and sometimes cover the whole ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
He (32M) says I (30F) "ghosted" him. I beg to differ
20
0.69
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18twkx6/he_32m_says_i_30f_ghosted_him_i_beg_to_differ/
bathroomcypher
2021-03-18 15:38:26
1,616,081,906
null
['tinder']
0
m7tie4
true
null
20
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/m7tie4/my_date_m_35_says_he_likes_me_a_lot_and_doesnt/
2
Been posting several times about this super shy man and always received good insight so here I am again. To make a story short: we met on Tinder in November, started dating regularly (once/twice a week) since December. Sex always has been easily the best we ever had, we get along, we both go out on dates and spend time...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
My date (m 35) says he likes me a lot and doesn't want to fall for me (f 36). Male perspective needed.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m7tie4/my_date_m_35_says_he_likes_me_a_lot_and_doesnt/
Enough_Possibility38
2024-05-20 02:45:31
1,716,173,131
0
['online dating']
0
1cw5b2g
true
null
247
1
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1cw5b2g/how_many_over_50s_are_just_giving_up_on_dating/
242
I was chatting with someone for 24 hours total, mostly about work and general interests and he felt the need to send a naked pic of him at his office 🙄. To “ see if I had a sense of humor”. No I guess I don’t. This isn’t the first unsolicited nude in the past year. A couple others did the same unrompted. I find this e...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
How many over 50’s are just giving up on dating and relationships?. Online dating is so draining
242
0.99
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1cw5b2g/how_many_over_50s_are_just_giving_up_on_dating/
Scrotis
2017-05-16 00:58:08
1,494,896,288
null
['tinder']
0
6bedsf
null
null
2
null
/r/dating/comments/6bedsf/no_luck_dating_after_breakup_23_male/
1
I've been rather successful up until this point, not that it matters but I've been with 14 women, 10 of those from tinder. Leading up to my relationship 2 years ago I was doing very well in that regard, but it's been 2 months since we split and it seems like I lost whatever appeal I had. If anything I'm more attractive...
dating
t5_2qhb1
No luck dating after breakup. (23 Male)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6bedsf/no_luck_dating_after_breakup_23_male/
[deleted]
2022-03-22 00:37:39
1,647,909,459
null
['swipe', 'dating apps']
0
tjqjtz
true
Tinder/Online Dating
8
0
/r/dating/comments/tjqjtz/it_is_easy_to_be_dismissive_on_dating_apps/
40
Especially when you feel like you have a ton of options, it is easy to be dismissive of people for every trivial thing. The person doesn’t look good in a red hat. Not feeling it, swipe left. The match sent me one boring message in an otherwise interesting interaction? On to the next. Woke up today and didn’t feel attra...
dating
t5_2qhb1
It is easy to be dismissive on dating apps
null
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tjqjtz/it_is_easy_to_be_dismissive_on_dating_apps/
SyrahFan_555
2024-07-12 19:34:13
1,720,812,853
0
['OLD']
0
1e1qe54
true
null
6
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/1e1qe54/flakey_or_casual/
1
So OLD is flakey… while I would not consider myself a flakey person, I too, am very occasionally… flakey without meaning to be rude. One bit of advice that seems prevalent is date multiple people for several months, get to know them well, make decisions later. I’ve never been sure how to put this into action given that...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Flakey or Casual?
1
0.56
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1e1qe54/flakey_or_casual/
Reyerd
2017-11-29 14:18:25
1,511,965,105
null
['tinder']
0
7gdkcz
false
null
15
0
/r/dating/comments/7gdkcz/making_a_move/
9
I posted a little while back about going on a tinder date with a girl that her friend actually set up by using her account. I've now been on three dates with her which have gone really well. She's very beautiful and infectiously fun to be around. I feel very lucky. I've since come to learn from her that the reason her ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Making a move
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7gdkcz/making_a_move/
HokageChef
2023-12-03 00:25:17
1,701,563,117
0
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
189h5sr
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/189h5sr/i_have_no_idea_what_to_do/
1
I (20M) recently saw an old friend (F21) who ive known for 12 years now on Hinge. I messaged my friend Lucas for help on what to do. Basically the gist of that conversation was "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." We both knew that people barely check dating apps and normally have notifications off. He advised ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I have no idea what to do
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/189h5sr/i_have_no_idea_what_to_do/
MolassesSubstantial1
2021-06-14 18:18:00
1,623,694,680
null
['dating app', 'dating apps', 'hinge']
0
nzt6wo
true
Venting
7
0
/r/dating/comments/nzt6wo/dating_is_rough/
13
I (20f) met this guy (26m) on hinge and we started going out and quickly go into a relationship. We were dating for about a month and a half and things were going well. He asked me to be his girlfriend a few weeks in and I said yes because we had both been up front about the fact that we had wanted a relationship. At t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating is Rough
null
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nzt6wo/dating_is_rough/
SubaruToyotaFan1986
2016-08-06 15:15:38
1,470,496,538
0
['online dating', 'dating sites']
0
4wg924
null
null
9
null
/r/dating/comments/4wg924/30m_how_to_reboot_my_dating_life/
4
I am 30 years old, male, from the United Kingdom. I have Asperger's Syndrome. Currently my dating / love life has gone nowhere, I've tried: - Online dating sites [but it got nowhere, and the people I heard from faded into obscurity, and never heard from again]. - Trying to chat up people I liked [but I sounded unconfid...
dating
t5_2qhb1
[30M] How to reboot my dating life?
4
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4wg924/30m_how_to_reboot_my_dating_life/
tyses96
2022-01-11 23:04:02
1,641,942,242
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
s1qe2q
true
I Need Advice
18
0
/r/dating/comments/s1qe2q/got_a_date_with_girl_who_is_out_of_my_league_now/
3
So I matched on tinder with a girl I used to be with when I was a lot younger. We were both 14 ( I'm 25 now) and we lost our virginity together. Fast forward to now and we matched on tinder and damn she is way more beautiful than I remember. Typically she's way more beautiful than the girls that I get with. But we matc...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Got a date with girl who is out of my league, now what?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s1qe2q/got_a_date_with_girl_who_is_out_of_my_league_now/
AccordingQuit5090
2024-03-07 03:31:33
1,709,782,293
0
['dating apps']
0
1b8k8y4
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b8k8y4/not_sure_what_to_do/
2
I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month now and he’s honestly the nicest guy i’ve ever met. We have mutual friends, share the same hobbies and music taste, and the conversation has been great. On top of all that- he treats me sooo well. We’ve been on about 5 dates so far and last night he drunkenly confessed his lo...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Not sure what to do
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b8k8y4/not_sure_what_to_do/
Lorenzo_Pure
2023-06-09 13:25:14
1,686,317,114
0
['matched']
0
14557tr
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/14557tr/good_or_bad_what_is_your_experience_with_right/
1
So, a 22F and I 23M dated (at the time) for 3mos and a bunch of our qualities, aspirations, wants, etc., were matched! It’s been 7mos and every day gets better. She broke up with me because she had to go away for PA school, which I can understand is very intense. We’re still friends over social media, but I don’t conta...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Good or bad, what is your experience with right person but wrong time?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14557tr/good_or_bad_what_is_your_experience_with_right/
behiindmyeyes
2021-06-20 18:07:01
1,624,212,421
null
['dating apps', 'tinder']
0
o4bdfb
true
Tinder/Online Dating
3
0
/r/dating/comments/o4bdfb/which_dating_apps_would_i_find_people_who_want_a/
2
I know a lot of dating apps have many people who are looking for a variety of things but some apps are mainly full of people who are looking for a hookup or casual dating like tinder. Especially harder cause I’m 20 and people around my age are exploring and don’t want to settle. Just wondering what apps have worked out...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Which dating apps would I find people who want a relationship instead of a hookup or casual dating?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o4bdfb/which_dating_apps_would_i_find_people_who_want_a/
[deleted]
2013-10-08 18:16:14
1,381,256,174
0
['dating site', 'dating sites']
0
1o018p
null
null
0
null
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1o018p/suggestions_for_meeting_guys_my_age/
1
I'm single, 36, no kids and no plans to have any of my own, looking to meet guys in their 30s and early 40s. I've been on the dating sites off and on for a while and I haven't had much luck. Met tons of people.. seen a few of them for a short time.. but nothing's clicking. I find they're either too needy or too self in...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Suggestions for meeting guys my age?
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1o018p/suggestions_for_meeting_guys_my_age/
CocoGrasshopper
2020-12-24 16:06:32
1,608,825,992
null
['dating app']
0
kjhto7
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/kjhto7/how_do_i_stop_selfsabotaging_myself/
2
Ive done a variation of this with every relationship that I’m in. I’ve been in therapy for the last five years but I actively lose interest in people once they show interest in me. Nothing drives me more wild than a person I’m into who clearly has no interest back. I tend to start platonic friendships with most people ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I stop self-sabotaging myself?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kjhto7/how_do_i_stop_selfsabotaging_myself/
Acrobatic-Savings678
2021-03-05 09:29:26
1,614,936,566
null
['tinder']
0
ly8amr
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ly8amr/am_i_being_needy/
1
Ive been seeing this guy for a few months and we started out with heaps of contact and we’d call for hours almost every day. Then for the last two weeks it’s been super silent and we’ve only called once, and I feel like there’s been a significant lack of time with each other. He lives in a different city so i value our...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am i being needy?
null
0.66
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ly8amr/am_i_being_needy/
atro2123
2019-02-04 20:24:35
1,549,311,875
null
['online dating', 'dating site']
0
an5viq
true
Tinder/Online Dating
1
0
/r/dating/comments/an5viq/date_someone_who_dated_a_friend/
2
Would you date a girl who talked to your friend a few years ago for a few weeks? They never met because they connected through an online dating site. They didn't have any feelings for each other either.
dating
t5_2qhb1
Date someone who dated a friend.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/an5viq/date_someone_who_dated_a_friend/
softbal20
2020-04-26 00:09:18
1,587,859,758
null
['matched', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
g84cof
true
I Need Advice
10
0
/r/dating/comments/g84cof/am_i_the_problem/
1
I’ve been on bumble and hinge since I broke up with my ex last year. On and off of course. I’ve matched with a few guys. It never seems to last longer than 2 weeks to a month. I’m 27f and upfront about what I want- like it’s in my profile that I do not want random hookups. The latest one really threw me though. I was r...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Am I the problem?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g84cof/am_i_the_problem/
LivinDeadGhoul
2021-09-25 05:06:44
1,632,546,404
null
['bumble']
0
pv069o
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/pv069o/need_advice_on_a_clingy_guy/
1
I need advice yall Here's the tea: I was bored in quarantine a month ago and was texting with my friend about Bumble. She convinced me to join it and long story short I met a guy I really like. We talked every day all day for two weeks and called on the weekends because we clicked so well and had everything in common. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Need Advice on a Clingy Guy
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pv069o/need_advice_on_a_clingy_guy/
throwra_ifuckedup
2022-01-05 23:11:44
1,641,424,304
null
['matched', 'bumble']
0
rwzlwp
true
null
17
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/rwzlwp/i_feel_like_the_person_i_matched_with_might_be/
4
So I'm not transphobic, I have no issues with trans people and love everyone equally. But when it comes to dating I am not interested in a relationship with someone who is trans. I'm a 28 year old guy looking to date women in a major US city. I matched with someone on bumble who seems cool but I can't shake this feelin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I feel like the person I matched with might be trans. Any advice in this situation?
null
0.69
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rwzlwp/i_feel_like_the_person_i_matched_with_might_be/
hotrod280
2021-08-07 22:22:13
1,628,374,933
null
['swiping', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'coffee meets bagel', 'okcupid']
0
p02pkg
true
Tinder/Online Dating
96
0
/r/dating/comments/p02pkg/online_dating_apps_are_scummy_in_how_theyve/
241
So apps like bumble, hinge, okcupid, coffee meets bagel, etc. have added options to filter people by things such as height and race (for some it’s a paid feature but others it’s free). At face value, I thought this was a good thing. Now when I’m swiping through an app Ideally only women who’s preferences I’m within sho...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Online dating apps are scummy in how they’ve handled women filtering men
null
0.92
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/p02pkg/online_dating_apps_are_scummy_in_how_theyve/
destro4822
2022-01-06 01:49:43
1,641,433,783
null
['tinder']
0
rx2wwx
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/rx2wwx/not_understanding_social_queues/
1
I am a 40 year old divorced man. I started a new job around a 6 weeks ago. I have been as of recent thinking about trying to meet someone in a romantic nature. My social cues are so far off and would like some insight. Start conversing with a great woman at work. Leads to how difficult daring can be. Laugh about terrib...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Not understanding social queues..
null
0.66
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rx2wwx/not_understanding_social_queues/
Aggravating_Plate_87
2024-08-14 20:18:13
1,723,666,693
0
['bumble']
0
1esbkr4
true
Support Needed 🫂
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1esbkr4/probably_was_ghosted_but_giving_the_benefit_of/
1
Not even sure if I’m venting or asking for advice here. I met someone on bumble two weeks ago and they were so reciprocal and into the conversation. They were going back home for a week so our plans to hangout didn’t occur until the day he was coming back, we planned a date. The date happens and I really enjoyed, I tho...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Probably was ghosted but giving the benefit of the doubt (rookie mistake)
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1esbkr4/probably_was_ghosted_but_giving_the_benefit_of/
bbstar23
2022-08-27 04:21:13
1,661,574,073
null
['online dating']
0
wytd78
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
12
0
/r/dating/comments/wytd78/rant_on_my_dating_life/
0
I’ve been going on so many dates in the last 3 weeks. It seems like most girl do not come back to your place on the first date. Maybe younger girls it’s more doable but the girls i date are 30-49 years old and it takes like 3 dates or more just to bring them back to your place. It’s a lot of work. I slept with 2 girls ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Rant on my dating life
null
0.25
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wytd78/rant_on_my_dating_life/
kmitch7
2020-10-21 15:47:06
1,603,295,226
null
['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
jffdf6
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/jffdf6/a_guy_im_interested_in_and_know_in_real_life/
0
A couple months ago my friend [22M] introduced a new guy to our friend group [24M]. I [21F] think he’s really cute and funny, but I don’t know him super well. A couple days ago he matched with me on a dating app and is talking to me on there. We’re also snap chatting a little. Does this mean he’s interested in me? Do p...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
A guy I’m interested in and know in real life matched with and is talking to me on a dating app?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jffdf6/a_guy_im_interested_in_and_know_in_real_life/
yckawtsrif
2024-07-29 18:53:03
1,722,279,183
0
['dating apps']
0
1ef7iyq
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1ef7iyq/ive_lived_and_dated_all_over_the_world_with/
0
Hey, folks. In my younger years, I lived in Vegas, California, Singapore, Auckland, Amsterdam, and Brisbane. I also traveled a lot while living in those places to locales such as NYC, Vancouver, Hong Kong, Sydney, etc. Whether for one-night stands or actual relationships, and whether through Meetup groups or dating app...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I've lived and dated all over the world with mostly positive experiences, but I'm disappointed by the general rudeness of Southern (US) women. What gives!?
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ef7iyq/ive_lived_and_dated_all_over_the_world_with/
ParkingBranch5001
2024-08-05 16:54:37
1,722,876,877
0
['swiping']
0
1eksuwp
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1eksuwp/postrejection_rumination/
1
I [M28] went on 7 dates with a girl [26], I really liked and she ended up breaking it off. I can’t stop ruminating on what I did wrong, and I feel like I lost someone who could have been a great partner for me. Honestly, there were barriers on her end to this becoming a relationship - when I asked her what she was look...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Post-rejection rumination
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eksuwp/postrejection_rumination/
No-Risk2002
2024-05-13 08:52:31
1,715,590,351
0
['dating apps']
0
1cqulrg
true
I Need Advice 😩
6
0
/r/dating/comments/1cqulrg/21_only_had_one_gf_in_my_whole_life/
5
I’m 21 years old and have had only one girlfriend, I have quite bad social anxiety and crumble whenever I talk to a girl, I’m also very self conscious about my looks so it’s kinda a recipe for disaster. I’ve never tried dating apps because I’m too scared I’m going to come across a girl I know. Any idea on what I can do...
dating
t5_2qhb1
[21] Only had one GF in my whole life.
5
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cqulrg/21_only_had_one_gf_in_my_whole_life/
Dajbman22
2016-12-30 18:34:04
1,483,122,844
0
['online dating']
0
5l4z0r
null
null
28
null
/r/AskMen/comments/5l4z0r/guys_who_like_ghouls_how_well_do_you_do_with/
21
You know, funny little green ghouls.
AskMen
t5_2s30g
Guys who like ghouls, how well do you do with online dating?
21
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/5l4z0r/guys_who_like_ghouls_how_well_do_you_do_with/
TalkBeneficial4632
2023-10-17 08:41:15
1,697,532,075
0
null
0
179tpun
true
null
53
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/179tpun/girl_stopped_talking_to_me_after_i_didnt_reply/
1
What would you guys make of this? Looking for some advice and opinions. I’ve been in some toxic relationships before and this gave me kinda toxic vibes but not sure if I’m just being inconsiderate or biased or overthinking it. I got chatting to this girl online and she was very chatty and open. Sent long messages back ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Girl stopped talking to me after I didn’t reply for a weekend?
1
0.99
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/179tpun/girl_stopped_talking_to_me_after_i_didnt_reply/
RandomGuy0512
2023-06-11 23:34:37
1,686,526,477
0
null
0
1478zdq
true
null
293
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1478zdq/whats_the_deal_with_most_men_in_their_late/
98
I’ve noticed this particularly on Tinder with the new-ish feature that puts a badge on your profile with what you’re looking for. It’s most, if not all men in their 30s on tinder with the “short term fun” badge. And they are the only ones who seem to swipe right on me even though my profile says “looking for long term....
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What’s the deal with most men in their late 20s/early 30s all wanting “fun and friends only?”
98
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1478zdq/whats_the_deal_with_most_men_in_their_late/
FTTBNL
2022-05-18 16:14:35
1,652,890,475
null
['OLD']
0
usgiyi
true
Tinder/Online Dating
4
0
/r/dating/comments/usgiyi/army_of_darkness_stunk/
1
WHAT. I am by no means a snobby cinephile, and Army of Darkness is just a silly comedy/horror movie, but man I keep running into people via OLD apps that seem to just hate the things I like. I like to think I like cool things, good/entertaining movies, music, literature, etc, but man finding people who like what I like...
dating
t5_2qhb1
"Army of Darkness Stunk"
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/usgiyi/army_of_darkness_stunk/
Optimal_Suspicion
2020-07-30 03:37:21
1,596,080,241
null
['matches', 'swipe']
0
i0eyu2
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/i0eyu2/why_would_you_put_the_effort_in_to_message_only/
3
Part of this is just venting, but I really want to know if I'm alone in experiencing this because if I am then something has to be wrong with me as it's the only common thread here, but I can't fathom what I'm doing to cause this. I'm 31 M, looking for F at similar age. I'm on multiple apps - generally I don't get a lo...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why would you put the effort in to message, only to unmatch/block immediately after?
null
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i0eyu2/why_would_you_put_the_effort_in_to_message_only/
Brewdie93
2018-07-29 12:48:02
1,532,868,482
null
['matches', 'tinder']
0
92uj6c
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/92uj6c/why_are_girls_like_this_is_it_me/
0
First off just a little bit about me. I'm 25, average build, I work out, have a physical job, my own car, introvert who plays video games a lot, have a lot of tattoos. I don't have trouble getting matches on tinder, but connecting with a girl who has the same type of humour or interests is hard to find. So anyway, I ha...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why are girls like this? Is it me?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/92uj6c/why_are_girls_like_this_is_it_me/
DaddysLittleFoxie__
2024-01-18 03:09:19
1,705,547,359
0
['swiped', 'bumble']
0
199fz5w
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/199fz5w/how_do_i_even_meet_someone_in_person_23f/
3
I met my 2 ex’s on bumble and it went incredibly bad they were both serial cheaters and manipulative and just not good men tbh. I don’t know how to meet someone in person. idk if I’ve ever been approached in person tbh. My self esteem is on a sliding scale most the time tbh I think mainly because I’m so used to my desi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I even meet someone in person? 23f
3
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/199fz5w/how_do_i_even_meet_someone_in_person_23f/
mighty_Ingvar
2020-10-01 14:25:38
1,601,562,338
null
['online dating']
0
j39k4a
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/j39k4a/what_are_good_online_dating_services/
1
I (M18) have been wanting to get into dating for a while now. I am a shy person when it comes to talking to new people, so I thought I might try online services. All the services I have looked at so far have reviews that range from mixed to bad, so now I don't know what to do.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What are good online dating services?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j39k4a/what_are_good_online_dating_services/
ariavril
2022-04-01 09:38:28
1,648,805,908
null
['tinder']
0
ttmrdh
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ttmrdh/2_years_later_yet_hes_still_around_what_exactly/
1
I met this guy from tinder 2 years ago, we always have the best times together when we hangout (best tinder date ever). BUT he took things too slow and seems to have a lot going on in life especially when his career just started out and require him to travel a lot. Worse part is, he's not so much into texting as he bel...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
2 years later, yet he's still around. What exactly is his intention?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ttmrdh/2_years_later_yet_hes_still_around_what_exactly/
OldHyena4452
2024-03-22 19:20:50
1,711,135,250
0
['dating sites']
0
1bl7lrw
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1bl7lrw/situationship_hell/
2
I’ve been talking to this guy for three months. We’ve met up and have an amazing time in person. He treats me perfectly and says as all the right things. He said he’s just waiting for the right time to make me his girlfriend but he’s active on dating sites and constantly following new girls. We’re long distance so it’s...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Situationship hell
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bl7lrw/situationship_hell/
Round-Effort-6972
2021-05-24 03:51:58
1,621,828,318
null
['dating app']
0
njowbg
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/njowbg/pretty_bummed_after_guy_seems_to_be_fading/
1
So I (28) met this guy (40) more than a month ago and we had been talking far before then on an off for a couple months. I had to cancel the first couple times we were supposed to go on a date. Overall he seemed really friendly and I would say wholesome. We eventually met up to go on a hike and overall I really liked h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Pretty bummed after guy seems to be fading
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/njowbg/pretty_bummed_after_guy_seems_to_be_fading/
spiralgalaxym83
2020-08-22 22:45:11
1,598,136,311
null
['swipe', 'dating apps']
0
ies51a
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ies51a/worried_about_the_future_of_dating/
4
I've been single for almost 3 years now and during the start of my last long term relationship, dating apps weren't really a thing or popular at all, so coming out of a long term relationship and adapting to a world where we have to swipe for partners makes me feel a lil nervous about ever having an organic connection ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Worried about the future of dating
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ies51a/worried_about_the_future_of_dating/
Nukemanrunning
2024-09-01 04:20:41
1,725,164,441
0
null
0
1f65zy4
true
null
12
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f65zy4/any_idea_where_to_start/
74
(25 M) So, I've been having no luck as of late. I've used Tinder and this other dating app called Boo for awhile and I feel like I'm on here by myself. I've been on Boo for about a year and so far only got one match that kinda went somewhere for a bit, and nothing on tinder outside of scams. So, any program or dating a...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Any idea where to start?
74
0.97
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f65zy4/any_idea_where_to_start/
Independent-Safe1458
2021-01-27 22:20:40
1,611,786,040
null
['bumble']
0
l6g1x7
true
I Need Advice
6
0
/r/dating/comments/l6g1x7/if_they_take_a_long_time_to_message_back_are_they/
1
I’m sure this depends what platform I am using to message, but I’m not sure how long is too long to wait. I was messaging someone on bumble, they are getting back to me within an hour or two. I was texting another (we exchanged numbers), and it was a flowing conversation with small breaks. Now, I messaged someone on In...
dating
t5_2qhb1
If they take a long time to message back, are they really interested?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l6g1x7/if_they_take_a_long_time_to_message_back_are_they/
ClairAragon2
2024-05-23 03:09:50
1,716,433,790
0
['dating sites']
0
1cyivzv
true
I Need Advice 😩
29
0
/r/dating/comments/1cyivzv/how_do_i_get_men_to_talk/
1
How do I get men to talk on dating sites. F25 I would like to know who they are before I meet them. Everytime I talk to them they give me a "heyyy" or "hello". I speak from my heart of my lifestyle and who I am and try to ask them about themselves. I get ghosted every time. All the conversations I have never leads to a...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How do I get men to talk?
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cyivzv/how_do_i_get_men_to_talk/
Alphaboy666
2019-01-04 16:55:42
1,546,620,942
null
['tinder']
0
ack1oo
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ack1oo/the_more_dates_i_go_on_the_more_shallow_im/
1
I've started using tinder and I've probably dated about 10 woman in the past few months. All for different lenhs of time and different reason. (Casual, serious, fwb ect). Thing is I look at myself now compared to who I was a few years ago and I realised physically and personality wise I'm much more picky. I'm not sure ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
The more dates I go on the more shallow I'm becoming? Why is this?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ack1oo/the_more_dates_i_go_on_the_more_shallow_im/
beautyandtheanxiety
2018-12-04 08:39:54
1,543,912,794
null
['swiping', 'tinder']
0
a2ywd1
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/a2ywd1/i_21f_have_a_fwb_23m_and_a_second_date_with/
2
Some background: I recently broke up with my first love. He crushed my heart. I didn’t think I was into casual sex (my ex was my first love and first sexual partner), but then I met my fwb. He’s very sweet, and we are sexually compatible. I was afraid of catching feelings for him, so I kept on swiping on tinder. I had ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (21F) have a fwb (23M) and a second date with another guy (25M)... idk what to do.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a2ywd1/i_21f_have_a_fwb_23m_and_a_second_date_with/
Jonfitzm
2018-11-25 02:37:35
1,543,113,455
null
['tinder']
0
a04tvn
true
null
15
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/a04tvn/smash_bros_date_for_my_second_date_ill_be_playing/
5
This is a serious post. We met on tinder and in her bio she said she could destroy me in smash. She's a fairly casual player though; decent, but not competitive. For some context, I've been playing smash competitively for years, both smash 4 and super smash bros melee. I attend tourneys regularly and have consistently ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
SMASH BROS DATE- For my second date, I'll be playing smash bros Melee with a hot (competitive) gamer girl at her place. Do I let her win, or show my wild side?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a04tvn/smash_bros_date_for_my_second_date_ill_be_playing/
Ok-Yogurtcloset2696
2024-09-26 13:34:11
1,727,357,651
0
['online dating']
0
1fpwbgz
true
null
19
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fpwbgz/ladies_need_advise_danger_danger/
0
I’m 45M and she’s 45F , met online dating. Went on one date and went pretty well. We have been texting and talking on phone , but 2 times she misunderstood my texts, 1st time I could legitimately see how she took something the wrong way and I explained and she say my point of view. But this second time last night I was...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Ladies need advise Danger Danger
0
0.22
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fpwbgz/ladies_need_advise_danger_danger/
ShhhBigBone
2023-11-08 18:36:19
1,699,468,579
0
['dating site']
0
17qs9ej
true
Question ❓
48
0
/r/dating/comments/17qs9ej/are_white_guy_intimidated_by_black_women/
1
I this guy today delivering them out that I had chatted with briefly from a dating site and I said good morning handsome thanks for delivering to know and he just looked at me and smile and blushed and then he started to say something but then he was like you welcome have a nice day what the f is that ask me for my dam...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Are white guy intimidated by black women???
1
0.35
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17qs9ej/are_white_guy_intimidated_by_black_women/
[deleted]
2023-03-20 17:12:17
1,679,332,337
null
['dating apps']
0
11woqj5
true
null
182
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/11woqj5/why_dont_older_men_put_recent_pictures_of/
100
Lmao. I noticed a majority of older men never put pictures that are recent of themselves, on their profiles. Its usually from when they were younger... Like why?? You can obviously tell they don’t look the same. Its just inconsiderate of what the other person was expecting, for you to look like. I don’t know. Its weird...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why don’t older men put recent pictures of themselves on dating apps?
null
0.85
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11woqj5/why_dont_older_men_put_recent_pictures_of/
RevolutionOk5115
2024-07-16 01:49:42
1,721,094,582
0
['OLD', 'online dating']
0
1e4cmeo
true
null
21
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/1e4cmeo/should_i_try_again/
11
I took a break from dating, including online, and now I want to get back out there. It’s been about seven months since I’ve dated anyone. I have had some luck in the past, or “good dates” from online dating, so I feel like I want to give it a try again. I did enjoy having someone to talk to about work, interests, life,...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Should I try again?
11
0.87
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1e4cmeo/should_i_try_again/
ElderLong
2018-05-13 17:22:15
1,526,232,135
0
['dating app']
0
8j5cn7
false
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8j5cn7/how_to_start_dating/
1
So starting with background : Im 21 Currently work a good, stable medical job Small apartment Small dog Lower Middle class Somewhat smart 196 lbs, 6'2 White Raised on wooded farmland w/ very little contact with folks my age Very stunted social skills This is where I am at the moment. Ive never had a girlfriend in my li...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to start dating?
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8j5cn7/how_to_start_dating/
butterywaffles9
2021-09-08 04:00:06
1,631,073,606
null
['matches', 'swipe', 'OLD', 'online dating', 'hinge']
0
pk32fa
true
Giving Advice
3
0
/r/dating/comments/pk32fa/how_to_combat_dehumanization_on_your_online/
1
I am giving this advice from a man's perspective, though I came to these conclusions through both talking to women my age (I'm 23) that I am platonically close with, and through trying it out for myself; I do feel that other ages and genders could also benefit from it. I also exclusively use hinge which makes implement...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How to combat dehumanization on your online dating profile
null
0.57
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pk32fa/how_to_combat_dehumanization_on_your_online/
Ill_Associate_4592
2023-11-11 18:17:00
1,699,726,620
0
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
17t08bv
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17t08bv/howwhen_did_you_meet_your_so/
1
19F almost turning 20 and my last relationship was 3 years ago. Slowly starting to lose hope as every time I start talking to a guy in end up not working out. Most of my friends are in relationships or seriously talking to a guy. I've tried dating apps before but deleted it after a few days, wondering how many people m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How/when did you meet your SO?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17t08bv/howwhen_did_you_meet_your_so/
Nonamer_09
2020-04-30 10:51:58
1,588,243,918
null
null
0
gatg2w
true
null
0
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/gatg2w/should_i_schedule_or_wait/
1
So I was texting to a girl we get along, we set up a date for after the quarantine, but we are starting to text less (I guess we are both bored of texting, at least I was) so I told her if she wants to talk she could call me, she asked for my number so I give it to her Now that I think about it I should have a schedule...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Should I schedule or wait?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gatg2w/should_i_schedule_or_wait/
EastwardSpoon
2022-06-15 19:23:05
1,655,320,985
null
['online dating']
0
vd2g4j
true
Question
14
0
/r/dating/comments/vd2g4j/requirements_for_online_dating_in_the_50s/
3
I'll preface this by saying I've never dated or really socialized, I'm 46 and considering creating an online dating account. However I am a bit lost as to how you to actually go about that. People my age aren't going out partying or climbing mountains for photos, so what type of photos should I be including to attract ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Requirements for online dating in the 50s?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vd2g4j/requirements_for_online_dating_in_the_50s/
downwitbrown
2023-04-08 13:37:25
1,680,961,045
0
['swipe', 'tinder']
0
12fmco0
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/12fmco0/dating_with_intention_online_why_is_it/
0
Genuinely serious: I just have a few questions. I use tinder more than the other apps because I find women tend to respond on that app at least initially. Let’s say my settings are the following and I’m looking for the following. Relationship goals: long term Relationship type: monogamy Family plans: kids Why would you...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating with intention online. Why is it overwhelming or frustrating ?
0
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12fmco0/dating_with_intention_online_why_is_it/
Standard_Step_2361
2023-12-03 13:28:47
1,701,610,127
0
['dating apps']
0
189ti8t
true
null
25
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/189ti8t/gym_flirting/
1
Gym flirting? I’m a 34F and I’m trying to avoid the dating apps atm, so I’m looking for alt ways to meet people whether friends or something more. I’ve gone to my gym fairly consistently for the past year and there’s this guy there that I think is really cute. I spotted him not long after I joined in January, and I alw...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Gym flirting?
1
0.46
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/189ti8t/gym_flirting/
knr50166
2020-06-29 10:56:37
1,593,428,197
null
['online dating', 'dating site']
0
hhxro8
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hhxro8/actions_speak_louder_then_words_confused/
3
I am very confused by the actions of this guys that I have been talking to since like 2 weeks . We met 2-3 weeks ago and I approved him first bc we have things in common. He also replied back and started communicating. What bothers me is that I am always the first person to reach out and say "good morning", "gnite" "ca...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Actions speak louder then words? Confused
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hhxro8/actions_speak_louder_then_words_confused/
AcademicWasteBucket
2022-12-17 12:34:08
1,671,280,448
null
['hinge']
0
zo5e6k
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/zo5e6k/how_do_i_even_meet_people/
1
I just don't really get how in this modern world I am meant to meet people who will be potentially something romantic. I am 26 year old guy living in London. I have tried meeting through friends but it's really turned up nothing. I am pretty introverted and talking to strangers is not something I am particularly inclin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I even meet people?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zo5e6k/how_do_i_even_meet_people/
Dogs-are-life-99
2023-04-08 14:56:50
1,680,965,810
0
null
0
12foiu0
true
null
15
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/12foiu0/does_it_even_mean_anything_if_you_get_some/
6
I'm on Facebook dating and I get some likes and then I'll match with the ones I feel would be a good fit for me. But whenever I message them, they don't reply. I think I've had like 6 talk to me in the month of March. How am I suppose to find my person when no one taks to you or replies?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Does it even mean anything if you get some likes/matches on a dating app but yet none of them talk to you?
6
0.76
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12foiu0/does_it_even_mean_anything_if_you_get_some/
[deleted]
2014-07-30 16:49:03
1,406,738,943
0
['tinder']
0
2c5ksc
null
null
0
null
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2c5ksc/tinder_reasons_why_i_swipe_left_in_under_5_seconds/
1
Tinder: Reasons Why I Swipe Left In Under 5 Seconds -Shirtless and not near a body of water -Selfie -Mirror Pic -Muscle Tee -Leaning against a car -Group shot: I guarantee on principle you are the least attractive there - You belong at the jersey shore -You’re in a nightclub -Your hair is longer than mine - you look li...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Tinder: Reasons Why I Swipe Left In Under 5 Seconds
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2c5ksc/tinder_reasons_why_i_swipe_left_in_under_5_seconds/
Silent-Change110
2024-02-06 23:05:53
1,707,260,753
0
['matched', 'dating app', 'bumble']
0
1aknmhk
true
I Need Advice 😩
7
0
/r/dating/comments/1aknmhk/missed_connection_with_someoneshould_i_restart_my/
1
I matched a guy on bumble and ghosted by accident after we had a couple convos. I was having a rly emotionally overwhelming week and was unable to reply for the week. I regret it, because when I went back to reply, he had unmatched me. Theres more..he happens to work in my building. We have similar jobs and stuff in co...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Missed connection with someone..Should I restart my dating app to find him again?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aknmhk/missed_connection_with_someoneshould_i_restart_my/
milarosendaal
2020-03-13 10:57:31
1,584,097,051
null
['matched', 'okcupid']
0
fhxtrc
true
I Need Advice
9
0
/r/dating/comments/fhxtrc/why_did_he_loose_interest_after_showing_he_was/
2
A few weeks ago I was on my way to a party and took the local tram to get there. I hopped on the packed tram and stood by the entrance since there where no seats empty. Whilest standing there a guy (about 1,5m before me) was also standing and was eyeballing me. I wasnt really paying attention but i remember wondering w...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why did he loose interest after showing he was interested??
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fhxtrc/why_did_he_loose_interest_after_showing_he_was/
Maximum_Fantastic
2021-11-16 18:41:57
1,637,088,117
null
['bumble']
0
qvestq
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/qvestq/met_this_cute_girl_we_clicked_pretty_quick_but_im/
1
So I met this girl on bumble and I really like her we vibes pretty well but the thing is holding off right now is I’m going to bootcamp for the Marines on February 14 and. Idk if I should be dating or get into a relationship because I’ll be gone for quite a while. My question do you guys think I should start relationsh...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Met this cute girl we clicked pretty quick but I’m leaving for Bootcamp soon
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qvestq/met_this_cute_girl_we_clicked_pretty_quick_but_im/
Pyxl393
2018-07-06 19:52:21
1,530,906,741
null
['dating apps']
0
8wn4po
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8wn4po/dating_etiquette/
1
Okay I have an inquiry I would like input on. I have recently become single and so I started using the dating apps and talking to guys and I ran into a situation where a guy asked what I was doing that night. I had a date, but this was a guy I was going to be going on a date with in a few days and I wasn't sure what to...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating Etiquette
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8wn4po/dating_etiquette/
Business-Matter9087
2022-03-31 16:07:22
1,648,742,842
null
['dating apps']
0
tt35cz
true
Question
17
0
/r/dating/comments/tt35cz/serious_why_do_so_many_white_users_on_dating_apps/
4
Or in similar vein, “I love (race/ethnicity)s”. Like…OK? Why does it matter? Don’t you realize that’s not very complimentary but instead comes off as objectifying and fetishizing? And it’s not just me, but a lot of my POC friends (men, women, straight, gay, black, Asian, Latinx, etc) share the same experiences. Whereas...
dating
t5_2qhb1
(Serious) why do so many white users on dating apps immediately announce that am their first (race/ethnicity)?
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tt35cz/serious_why_do_so_many_white_users_on_dating_apps/
GodofPH
2014-12-30 16:36:47
1,419,957,407
0
['okcupid']
0
2qtqzj
null
null
5
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2qtqzj/in_this_weird_limbo_how_to_make_sense_of_it_m23/
2
Prepare for a story that goes in weird directions, that may be hard to follow. About a month ago, I began talking with a girl on OKCupid. We hit it off pretty fast. We had a lot of shared interests and had a great conversation, soon she asks to transition it to Google Chat, and by the end of the night, she'd given me h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
In this weird limbo, how to make sense of it? (M23, F24)
2
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2qtqzj/in_this_weird_limbo_how_to_make_sense_of_it_m23/
gregfdzd
2021-06-03 16:01:36
1,622,736,096
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
nrgxx5
true
I Need Advice
33
0
/r/dating/comments/nrgxx5/tinder_bumble_not_just_0_match_but_0_like/
9
Hi Please pardon the lenh of this post but maybe you'd be more enlightened about the situation if you have all the informations. I'm a 23-yo guy and actually never was engaged in a relationship for more than two days. I don't rely on my parents for anything since a few years, I'm fully independent, which means that I h...
dating
t5_2qhb1
[Tinder, Bumble] not just 0 match, but 0 like
null
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nrgxx5/tinder_bumble_not_just_0_match_but_0_like/
Background-Western75
2023-10-16 19:37:16
1,697,485,036
0
['bumble']
0
179elha
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/179elha/why_was_i_ghosted_after_3_great_dates/
1
I’m a 31f, and I went on 3 great dates with this guy from bumble. He seemed way more interested in me, then the other way around, but he kept messaging me every day, checking in, and consistently planning dates. The 3rd date imo was the best one. We seemed to really connect and it went super well. So much so that he sa...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why was I ghosted after 3 great dates?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/179elha/why_was_i_ghosted_after_3_great_dates/
Ace_Atreides
2022-09-11 03:40:07
1,662,867,607
null
['matched', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'bumble']
0
xb88q5
true
I Need Advice 😩
8
0
/r/dating/comments/xb88q5/help_need_tips_on_talking_with_bumble_match/
1
Hi everyone 23m here... So, I'm not really into online dating apps but I have been trying for a few months to see if I had any luck, and FINALLY I matched with a girl that seems to be really sweet and, well, a match She was the one who liked me first even. So the first couple days the talk was goodspent some good times...
dating
t5_2qhb1
help! need tips on talking with bumble match
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xb88q5/help_need_tips_on_talking_with_bumble_match/
crushedfeelings
2023-01-24 23:09:57
1,674,601,797
null
['matched']
0
10kjav7
true
null
117
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/10kjav7/my_friend_says_red_flags_i_trust_this_sub_to/
1
Last week i (41F) matched with a (50M) Friday he said he wanted to hang out with me Monday ( yesterday) today or Wednesday. This was before I decided to go see him Friday after work. He never followed up to hang one of these days. He did react to my IG story last night so we had a little chat on IG and he asked me if I...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
My friend says red flags, I trust this sub to weigh in
null
0.53
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/10kjav7/my_friend_says_red_flags_i_trust_this_sub_to/
[deleted]
2022-11-05 03:40:17
1,667,619,617
null
['swipe']
0
ymj5vl
true
null
208
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/ymj5vl/does_anyone_really_want_a_relationship_anymore/
67
I know it is easier to just ask for sex and maybe 8 times out of 10 when a request is made it is actually accepted. But is there a human out there who actually wants to have a relationship with another human and treat that human like they have actual feelings. I have yet to find one. How am I attracting the only want s...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Does anyone really want a relationship anymore?
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/ymj5vl/does_anyone_really_want_a_relationship_anymore/
Greyfeathers12
2019-07-31 20:08:27
1,564,603,707
null
['online dating']
0
ckdoyp
true
Question
0
0
/r/dating/comments/ckdoyp/have_you_ever_had_more_sucess_in_dating_or/
2
I am 31 year old male, and I have lived in my home city my entire life. I've never really been fond of the idea of living here or settling here for the rest of my life. I've always felt out of place and I was never really happy living here growing up. There is alot to do here in the city but, for me I don't really need...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Have you ever had more sucess in dating or finding a relationship after moving?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ckdoyp/have_you_ever_had_more_sucess_in_dating_or/
bmm_reddit
2023-01-09 17:50:59
1,673,286,659
null
['dating apps']
0
107kttz
true
null
0
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/107kttz/please_help_me_to_understand_some_gestures_in_the/
1
Hi. I'm more than 30yo and I went on my first date (in reality I prefer to call a meeting, at least in my country a "date" is related to something more romantic) with a woman a few days ago. We met each other on Internet (NOT on dating apps). The weather was awful, so we ended up on cinema. During the movie she rest he...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Please help me to understand some gestures in the first date
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/107kttz/please_help_me_to_understand_some_gestures_in_the/
whiterabbit1116
2024-08-09 05:04:45
1,723,179,885
0
['dating apps']
0
1enrdes
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1enrdes/can_a_casual_relationship_turn_serious/
1
I (25F) recently started dating, again. After being single for a few years I learned a lot of men in my area are looking for “casual” relationships. i believe that means being intimate with someone and maybe even liking them, but not dating them. I got on dating apps and found someone who i could potentially see myself...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Can a casual relationship turn serious?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1enrdes/can_a_casual_relationship_turn_serious/
PepperoniSpumoni
2024-09-04 22:49:00
1,725,490,140
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
1f971jk
true
Question ❓
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1f971jk/is_it_weird_to_ask_for_a_last_name/
1
Ive been texting a guy I matched with on Hinge for about a week. We haven’t met in person yet, and before we meet I’d really like to see if he has a Facebook, or is on social media. Unfortunately I’ve had negative experiences in the past (went on a few dates with a man who I unknowingly knew was in a relationship) and ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is it weird to ask for a last name?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f971jk/is_it_weird_to_ask_for_a_last_name/
Js2295
2024-04-01 20:14:08
1,712,002,448
0
['matched', 'swipe', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
1bteaql
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1bteaql/need_advice_how_should_i_interpret_this_situation/
1
Hi everyone, Last Friday, I(28M) met a new group of people at a dinner. Among them were a couple of girls I had matched with on dating apps years ago, but nothing came of it back then because I was younger and less experienced. Now, I'm older and feel more confident. I believe the girl(27F) I'm interested in recently s...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Need Advice: How should I interpret this situation and what should I do next?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bteaql/need_advice_how_should_i_interpret_this_situation/
Weary-Dot-3637
2024-08-14 05:43:14
1,723,614,194
0
['matches']
0
1ertube
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/1ertube/outta_my_league_what_to_do/
1
Okay guys, here’s the deal i have like 5 people who i’m courting all at once 😅. I am a complete amateur and have not dated in half a decade, now 26m i am out of my depth. I have put so much work into fitness and career, and I’m at a point where i’m getting a lot of matches; sometimes 20 a day. I’ve stopped matching pe...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Outta my league, what to do?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ertube/outta_my_league_what_to_do/
solement
2019-09-16 22:37:29
1,568,673,449
null
['matched', 'hinge']
0
d57wfu
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/d57wfu/i_22f_want_to_back_out_of_dating_anyone_but_dont/
1
So over the summer, a lot of my friends and classmates fell in love and started dating people. I guess I felt left out or like something was wrong with me for only having one boyfriend my whole life and not dating for so long after. I got on Hinge and matched with this really great guy who lives 4 hours from where I li...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (22F) want to back out of dating anyone but don't know how to tell a guy (23) I've been talking to that I'm no longer interested
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d57wfu/i_22f_want_to_back_out_of_dating_anyone_but_dont/
EqualPermission2075
2021-05-15 20:42:30
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I Need Advice
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/r/dating/comments/nd80ce/when_is_a_good_time_to_be_official/
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So I (23M) started talking to this girl (23F) on tinder and we have gone on a bunch of dates and hangout almost everyday. We kind of act like we are a couple but she says she needs time to work on herself since she got out of a long relationship in March. I understand and I encourage self growth. I am previously marrie...
dating
t5_2qhb1
When is a good time to be official?
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0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nd80ce/when_is_a_good_time_to_be_official/
04bjtd
2023-12-02 08:58:25
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188zp4k
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null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/188zp4k/am_i_reading_into_cultural_differences_or_should/
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So, I’m a guy living in the UK and I’ve been talking to this person from South Africa for the last 5 months. We met on Hinge but until recently it’s been mutually just a friendship. She moved to the UK in September and shortly after, started dating someone but that has since ended. Over time we have spoken more and mor...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I reading into cultural differences or should I go for it?
3
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/188zp4k/am_i_reading_into_cultural_differences_or_should/
flexylol
2021-04-08 18:16:35
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null
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mmxwo9
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null
11
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/mmxwo9/should_i_jump_the_gun_and_pay_for_okc/
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Badoo is a total disaster, they charge out of the just for msging. I feel Badoo is like a circus side-show, not a dating site. It's....really BAD.... I am on free OKC for a month or so, and it's like NIGHT AND DAY, especially after I took a break from it checking out Badoo. There are many attractive woman on OKC, and m...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Should I jump the gun and pay for OKC?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mmxwo9/should_i_jump_the_gun_and_pay_for_okc/
Krowboi
2021-03-08 17:05:34
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m0kbpe
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null
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0
/r/dating_advice/comments/m0kbpe/what_to_expect_when_video_calling_a_girl_i_met_on/
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So I've (30M) been chatting with this really interesting girl (28F) on a dating app for a couple of weeks now. Since we're still stuck in lockdown we aren't able to meet up in person, but we agreed to have a video call later this week. Lead up: We we're talking about how we don't look our ages, and I passed a cheeky co...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What to expect when video calling a girl I met on a dating app
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m0kbpe/what_to_expect_when_video_calling_a_girl_i_met_on/