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IndependenceSquare62 | 2020-11-15 05:54:45 | 1,605,419,685 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | juh3qw | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/juh3qw/ghosted_then_instagram_request/ | 9 | I exchanged a few messages with a guy I met on bumble and we had a phone conversation that I thought went well. We texted a bit and planned to speak a second time before meeting (his suggestion). The day we were supposed to speak again he canceled and I didn’t think much of it. He said he would touch base the next day.... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Ghosted then Instagram request? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/juh3qw/ghosted_then_instagram_request/ |
Flaky-Adeptness2472 | 2021-07-03 03:05:43 | 1,625,281,543 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ocpq3w | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ocpq3w/advice_on_my_first_tinder_date/ | 1 | I (19F) have been trying to date for a while now but covid has made it really difficult to meet new people. I've recently downloaded Tinder (again) and happened to meet a guy (19M) who I enjoy talking to. We've been talking for a few days, and I found out he studies near where I live, so we decided to go out for lunch ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice on my first Tinder date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ocpq3w/advice_on_my_first_tinder_date/ |
[deleted] | 2020-07-20 20:43:13 | 1,595,277,793 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hutbzy | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hutbzy/now_i_like_this_woman/ | 1 | At my University, I met this woman on tinder. At the time I was just looking to talk and she was looking for someone to bring home to her folks. We have hung out 3 times. One was to watch a movie, the second later that night at a school sponsored fun activity, and the third at a sport game. Because of campus closing, I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Now I like this woman. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hutbzy/now_i_like_this_woman/ |
master_ki- | 2020-10-19 06:38:50 | 1,603,089,530 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | jdwp95 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jdwp95/a_weird_situation/ | 1 | I’m new to reddit so I’m still figuring it out! So my boyfriend (22M) and I (22F) have been dating for about six months. We’ve known each other for all of high-school but we were never super close because we were both in separate serious relationships. Pretty much after a month of my previous serious relationship of fi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A weird situation | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jdwp95/a_weird_situation/ |
Nissassa223 | 2019-11-24 22:54:47 | 1,574,636,087 | null | ['matched', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | e16djo | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e16djo/going_out_with_a_friend_i_havent_talked_to_in_a/ | 1 | So I (M20) was randomly swiping through Tinder the other day and I matched with one of my friends (F20). We haven’t talked since the end of spring because we weren’t in the same class anymore and I became even more busy with my training for rowing before flying home for the summer. Would it be good to talk about things... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Going out with a friend I haven’t talked to in a while. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e16djo/going_out_with_a_friend_i_havent_talked_to_in_a/ |
euphoric_maiden | 2024-07-27 16:40:42 | 1,722,098,442 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1edkm4f | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1edkm4f/what_does_manly_activities_for_dates_mean/ | 2 | I (24F) have been dating this guy (24M) for more than a month now, we matched on a dating app, and I really like our overall vibe—energetic, fun, and romantic. I find it cute that he's been taking me out on manly activities like axe throwing and monster truck shows. I honestly don't mind it, I enjoy seeing him have fun... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What Does 'Manly' Activities For Dates Mean? | 2 | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1edkm4f/what_does_manly_activities_for_dates_mean/ |
TheMarshall87 | 2023-09-15 01:58:22 | 1,694,743,102 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 16j0m2e | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16j0m2e/getting_back_into_it/ | 1 | NM here 36 hetro Seattle .So I’ve been in a stupid relationship for the last 4 years , 2 of which I couldn’t nt walk due to a shattered foot . Now feeling confident,able to walk and to approach people. Everyone’s snapped and extra stand off ff ish after the lock downs or online dating wants an arm and a leg. Any insigh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting back into it. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16j0m2e/getting_back_into_it/ |
modvenger | 2023-10-24 02:42:31 | 1,698,115,351 | 0 | ['matches', 'swiped', 'online dating'] | 0 | 17f2h26 | true | Discussion | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/17f2h26/to_keep_online_dating_or_not/ | 1 | So I’m taking yet another online break from the multiple apps i’ve been on. I feel like i’ve swiped on everyone i wanted within 10 miles. (No car, from nyc) I’m 44m, slightly above average looking, but I feel I have a lot to offer. Where i shine is in the personality department (at least I hope: funny, kind, creative, ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | To keep online dating or not… | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17f2h26/to_keep_online_dating_or_not/ |
Grundlage | 2022-08-22 13:21:22 | 1,661,174,482 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | wutih7 | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/wutih7/profile_review_help_34m/ | 6 | I'm back on OLD after about a year off and would love some advice on how to improve my profile. Some relevant context: After a couple of weeks I am getting a like once every few days (from people I am not attracted to), am matching with about 1/6 of the people I send messages to (though some of those matches did not r... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Profile review help? (34M) | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/wutih7/profile_review_help_34m/ |
Suchomimus101 | 2022-07-08 09:45:43 | 1,657,273,543 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | vu6y75 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vu6y75/is_tinder_worth_it/ | 2 | I’ve heard it’s just for short term sexual relationships and I’m not looking for someone who wants to fuck me and then wants to break up. The emotional state of my partner and feelings overall really matter to me and I’m wondering if I’ll find that on Tinder. I have noticed that a lot of girl’s profiles are filled with... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is Tinder worth it? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vu6y75/is_tinder_worth_it/ |
Pete_D_301 | 2023-03-02 18:12:45 | 1,677,780,765 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 11g9m71 | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11g9m71/is_it_possible_to_search_for_a/ | 2 | I (30M) have been single forever, and I just got rejected by a woman (28F) that I met on a dating app. This marks the umpteenth rejection that I experienced, and I feel that dating apps aren't helpful/useful and are just wasting my time/money. What should I do? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it possible to search for a relationship/friendship without using dating apps? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11g9m71/is_it_possible_to_search_for_a/ |
simba_kang | 2018-09-10 18:42:17 | 1,536,604,937 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9epuif | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9epuif/did_i_miss_something/ | 7 | I am 30F (no kids) and the guy I was dating is 31M with an 8 year old son (the child lives with his mom and stepfather in a neighboring city). Backstory: I met him on Tinder 3 months ago and we immediately hit it off and had a connection that went beyond anything I've experienced. Around the 3rd date I asked him what h... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Did I miss something? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9epuif/did_i_miss_something/ |
Onlyfriends0936 | 2024-07-13 16:35:11 | 1,720,888,511 | 0 | ['dating app', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1e2eltp | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e2eltp/anyone_tried_boo_dating_app/ | 1 | I'm done with Tinder (too much effort) and Hinge (too serious), never heard of Boo. Any thoughts? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone tried Boo dating app? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e2eltp/anyone_tried_boo_dating_app/ |
Acrobatic_Champion34 | 2024-03-09 08:25:02 | 1,709,972,702 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1baczf2 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1baczf2/im_afraid_of_being_alone/ | 2 | I (M19) am scared that i actually dont find another gf. I Had a relationship for 2 Years that went pretty good so far but when we broke up 6 Months ago its frusttrating to get a new Girlfriend. I Had some dates with women (Though, one was only talking and then never seeing eachother again and the other one was making o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Im Afraid of being alone | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1baczf2/im_afraid_of_being_alone/ |
ipodmaster929 | 2020-09-20 18:57:55 | 1,600,628,275 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | iwjsu7 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iwjsu7/i_feel_like_i_did_something_wrong/ | 1 | I've been talking to this girl for a few days that I met on a dating app, we've FaceTimed a lot, and we're planning on meeting this week when we have time (were both in college so are busy with work) last night I was at a party, and she snapped me her in bed and wrote "I'm freezing" I didn't know if I should make a mov... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel like I did something wrong | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iwjsu7/i_feel_like_i_did_something_wrong/ |
Even_Hovercraft6257 | 2024-07-15 00:25:04 | 1,721,003,104 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1e3hcaf | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e3hcaf/what_to_do_how_do_i_stop_feeling_this_way/ | 1 | I have a boyfriend, but his father has a farm, and sometimes he goes there when his father needs him. He was in university and has now graduated and will start working. However, when he goes away for a period, I feel very lonely. I don't have any friends, and I went through a bad episode. I knew some people from dating... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to do, How do I stop feeling this way? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e3hcaf/what_to_do_how_do_i_stop_feeling_this_way/ |
FatDaddyMushroom | 2022-11-01 12:24:46 | 1,667,305,486 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | yj7cgr | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yj7cgr/messaging_on_dating_app/ | 7 | Alright, I need real help. I cannot get one woman to hold anything near a conversation on any dating app I am on. I do not like texting to get to know people. But I have tried making more engaging texts. I ask questions about things on the profile. I sometimes will ask about a hobby or interest and tie it back into som... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Messaging on dating app | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yj7cgr/messaging_on_dating_app/ |
Vvvv618 | 2021-01-05 10:56:45 | 1,609,844,205 | null | ['swipes', 'tinder'] | 0 | kqw7g6 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kqw7g6/not_really_advice_but_a_thanks_to_everybody_who/ | 18 | So I’ve (28M) been lurking the dating_advice Reddit for quite some time now and for whatever reason, I’m suddenly inspired to try Tinder again. I’m not hoping for much, but it’s much better than the totally hopeless mindset I’ve had for almost forever. I’ve never been in a relationship, and I don’t think it’ll happen t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not really advice but a thanks to everybody who contributes here. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kqw7g6/not_really_advice_but_a_thanks_to_everybody_who/ |
Any-Sir5067 | 2024-05-13 15:41:11 | 1,715,614,871 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1cr2ews | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cr2ews/whats_the_line_for_texting_my_extinder_date/ | 1 | Hello folks, I went on a couple of dates with this tinder girl, then she started flaking on me but she was always genuinely invested into me during all the texting which kinda confused me. One day I got super stressed about many things in personal life and also she flaked on same day for third time in a row. Then I cou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What's the line for texting my ex-tinder date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cr2ews/whats_the_line_for_texting_my_extinder_date/ |
BuytiefullMesss | 2024-03-27 09:29:07 | 1,711,531,747 | 0 | ['matched', 'swiped', 'dating site', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1boxpa5 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1boxpa5/my_crush_and_am_i_doing_it_right/ | 3 | I've been looking for a friend with benefits kind of relationship. I swiped right on a guy on bumble... He matched with me. We chatted a little about some pleasant and innocent things like how much we enjoy exploring and walking. He asked for my number. We chatted a bit more on a text app. I was not absolutely sure abo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My crush... And am I doing it right? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1boxpa5/my_crush_and_am_i_doing_it_right/ |
DependentCampaign364 | 2023-09-17 14:49:48 | 1,694,962,188 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16l2mjw | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16l2mjw/where_can_i_meet_traditional_young_men_with_good/ | 1 | I am a traditional young woman. I believe in gender roles. After I am done with my education, I want to get married to a traditional man. I want a man who makes at least six-figures. I do not want to use dating apps. Where are young men with good incomes who are around 25-30 years old? Thank you. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where can I meet traditional young men with good incomes? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16l2mjw/where_can_i_meet_traditional_young_men_with_good/ |
babygirlvane | 2024-05-20 00:27:49 | 1,716,164,869 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1cw2pap | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cw2pap/tinder_analogy/ | 1 | Lately he thought that Tinder is the same as the little search game we play but in a 🍆 hahaha mood (catching pokemon), it wouldn't be working out well hahaha | dating | t5_2qhb1 | tinder analogy ¿? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cw2pap/tinder_analogy/ |
AegonThaConqueror | 2017-02-12 16:07:56 | 1,486,915,676 | null | ['pof'] | 0 | 5tm4o9 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5tm4o9/did_i_mess_up_pof/ | 0 | So I just sent a message to this girl I found on POF. She plays video games and it says she a silly person, so my message goes like this: "Hello I stumbled upon your page and was wondering if I could smash? And by that I mean play you in Super Smash Bros on the 3DS? lol" Is this a dick move? Or am I just overthinking i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I mess up? (POF) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5tm4o9/did_i_mess_up_pof/ |
IMadeThisForAAN | 2021-02-11 13:06:57 | 1,613,048,817 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | lhka9j | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lhka9j/22f_nervous_about_first_date/ | 14 | 22F. I've been battling with low self-confidence for a long time, finally went to a therapist, lost some weight, and now that I felt ready, I got a Tinder account. I hit it off with a guy, we talked for about an hour, we set up a date for valentine's day. He had a decent bio and actually asked me about the things I wro... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 22F, nervous about first date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lhka9j/22f_nervous_about_first_date/ |
chaseman421 | 2016-02-04 16:47:39 | 1,454,604,459 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 4462z3 | null | null | 13 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/4462z3/how_do_you_deal_with_negative_though_loops/ | 3 | I asked this in /r/askmen but didn't get great responses. A girl I talked to when I was abroad and who I thought I would date, ended things about a week after I got back to school. It's been almost two weeks and I can't stop the negative thought loops about her. What did I do wrong? Is there still a chance for us? Why ... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | How do you deal with negative though loops? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/4462z3/how_do_you_deal_with_negative_though_loops/ |
Rissa_Ma94 | 2024-03-13 07:10:15 | 1,710,313,815 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bdla2q | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bdla2q/am_i_defective/ | 1 | I feel like I am a weird strand of the asexual spectrum, but, I am not aromantic because I am in love with the idea of love and romance. I feel like now everything is so sex positive and sexualized that people like me just hide away in singledom because it's less stressful or uncomfortable than having to communicate th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I defective? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bdla2q/am_i_defective/ |
thekopbav | 2024-01-07 15:28:31 | 1,704,641,311 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 190ukpj | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/190ukpj/what_went_wrong/ | 1 | I (25m) met a girl on Hinge (25f) and we went out on a date, which she was very enthusiastic about. We went to see a concert followed by talking at a bar. She was really into me and was able to carry the conversation. It was around 11pm and she said she had work the next day, but I wanted the night to continue so I pro... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What went wrong? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/190ukpj/what_went_wrong/ |
New_King_1428 | 2024-04-07 23:12:47 | 1,712,531,567 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1byigdc | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1byigdc/how_can_i_stop_looking_for_attention_and_external/ | 1 | I guess I’m wondering why I am seeking external validation from men and how I can stop. I started dating a couple of months ago and since then I have almost become guy obsessed and I know it all stems down to wanting attention and to feel wanted, and validated. I don’t know why this has happened because I was content b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I stop looking for attention and external validation from toxic men? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1byigdc/how_can_i_stop_looking_for_attention_and_external/ |
Successful-Hotel4411 | 2024-03-14 13:58:03 | 1,710,424,683 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1belskv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1belskv/recent_ldr_breakup_advice/ | 1 | Me (female, 27 yrs old from Italy) and my ex ( male, 26 yrs old from Mexico) broke up 3 days ago after being in long distance for 1year and 6 months. I made a specific detailed post about our relationship here : I also wanted to share that I was ready to move my whole life to Mexico since he never expressed any will to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Recent LDR Breakup advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1belskv/recent_ldr_breakup_advice/ |
Splintercycle | 2022-07-17 02:46:37 | 1,658,025,997 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | w0x48e | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w0x48e/how_to_not_get_too_attached/ | 1 | So I recently started seeing this girl I met off a dating app. We’ve gotten together about 5 times in a 2 week time period. I am very bad at reading people, but It seems like she likes me, and I like her. I feel like we moved things along pretty fast. I guess I have feelings for her somewhat bc I’m typing this. But I f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to not get too attached | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w0x48e/how_to_not_get_too_attached/ |
alloverated | 2022-12-13 20:49:30 | 1,670,964,570 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | zl6isq | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zl6isq/i_just_need_support/ | 1 | Note: this is a long post. This is my first time opening myself up to someone after 4 years of no dating. I started dating this guy a month ago (met on Tinder). He asked if I was looking for something serious to which I positively replied, he said the same, and things grew from there. We promised to learn more about ea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just need support :( | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zl6isq/i_just_need_support/ |
AddictionSorceress | 2023-09-17 05:17:34 | 1,694,927,854 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 16ks8ij | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16ks8ij/i_need_some_advice/ | 1 | Am gonna have sex for the first time, with a my boyfriend soon. We have been talking about it...(AM 35 YEAR OLD VIRGIN IF THAT ADS TO THIS OR NOT) THIS ISN'T ABOUT "THE FIRST TIME" ADVICE It's about the first time, and still getting the pregnant fear. This wasn't cover in your "please dont ask about first time" thing..... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I need some advice.... | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16ks8ij/i_need_some_advice/ |
Traditional_Oven3959 | 2023-10-08 11:35:05 | 1,696,764,905 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 172wzp0 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/172wzp0/does_my_male_friend_i_met_through_hinge_like_me/ | 1 | Basically I matched with him on Hinge Jan 2022(he moved there in April due to military so def was a fuckboy lol), met him in Hawaii Aug 2022 during my two week trip to visit my roommate. We didn't even kiss or do anything except the first night i met him we danced together at a concert of one of his favorite artists. H... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does my male friend I met through hinge like me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/172wzp0/does_my_male_friend_i_met_through_hinge_like_me/ |
some_clickhead | 2020-07-12 18:43:39 | 1,594,579,419 | null | null | 0 | hpzjph | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hpzjph/the_highs_and_lows_an_anecdote/ | 7 | So I matched with this super cute looking girl on Hinge. We immediately start a convo and everything is going smooth as butter, we are asking a few questions about each other but it doesn't feel like an interview, we are vibing and talking about happiness and joking around and shit and after 20 minutes I say "speaking ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | The highs and lows... an anecdote | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hpzjph/the_highs_and_lows_an_anecdote/ |
Solarmor | 2019-10-27 06:04:25 | 1,572,156,265 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | dnpkbj | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dnpkbj/is_online_dating_worth_it_and_how_well_has_it/ | 1 | I keep getting ads for tinder and other sites but idk if it's even worth it or if it's an app just for hook ups. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is online dating worth it and how well has it worked out for you? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dnpkbj/is_online_dating_worth_it_and_how_well_has_it/ |
MadeInLead | 2024-09-24 23:01:28 | 1,727,218,888 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fopycu | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fopycu/where_to_find_women_ages_1825/ | 1 | M23. I've always struggled to find women in that age group. I'm not sure why but after High School they just suddenly vanished. I had a GF I met at work but she dumped me and my new job is mostly older people. So that's not really an option. Never had success on Tinder. Most events are with people 30+ like concerts or ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where to find women ages 18-25? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fopycu/where_to_find_women_ages_1825/ |
LezBeHonest255 | 2019-05-04 08:56:25 | 1,556,960,185 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | bkj8f5 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bkj8f5/any_idea_how_to_meet_someone_before_i_turn_30/ | 1 | I am 25 tomorrow and literally never had a relationship, not even when I was in my teens did I fool around or even date for that matter. I never expected to be on the road towards 30 and have 0 experience. I'm quite disappointed tbh, everyone around me is eithe rin a relationship, engaged or married. I know, I know, do... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any idea how to meet someone before I turn 30? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bkj8f5/any_idea_how_to_meet_someone_before_i_turn_30/ |
Anglophile007 | 2018-10-03 23:17:51 | 1,538,608,671 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 9l6g0f | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9l6g0f/please_stop_doing_this_fellas_plus_i_need_your/ | 10 | I am in no way trying to imply that every man does this. This is, however, what happens to me the majority of the time. I don't feel as if I am rushing things or leading the man on in anyway, and it might just be me feeling uncomfortable about it, but well, here goes : I'm messaging with a guy and after the fourth or s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Please Stop Doing This Fellas! (Plus I need your advice) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9l6g0f/please_stop_doing_this_fellas_plus_i_need_your/ |
Repulsive-Quantity56 | 2023-12-06 16:15:16 | 1,701,879,316 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18c7g74 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 27 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18c7g74/cant_get_over_girls_i_used_to_talk_to/ | 26 | First off I’m a 21 year old male, never had sex or even got my first kiss 😐 shits embarrassing but thought I’d add that to give a little more info. Well anyways I always try to go back to girls I used to talk to and can’t seem to let them go. Just always feel like I’m not ever gonna find someone like that again. Like ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can’t get over girls i used to talk to | 26 | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18c7g74/cant_get_over_girls_i_used_to_talk_to/ |
BEB_1991 | 2024-07-07 18:49:09 | 1,720,378,149 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dxnqg0 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dxnqg0/improving_aspects_of_my_life/ | 0 | If I do decide to date in the future, I want my looks where they need to be. I have problems dating because of my looks. Something I should have done sooner - I regret it. People don't want to know me. Men don't find me attractive. I want to be overwhelmed and picky due to the many options I'll be getting. After surger... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Improving Aspects of my Life. | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dxnqg0/improving_aspects_of_my_life/ |
Throwaway7847629 | 2021-01-29 13:28:16 | 1,611,926,896 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | l7siew | true | I Need Advice | 29 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/l7siew/not_sure_if_i_should_bail_out_of_tomorrows_date/ | 7 | I've been on three dates with a guy from OLD since November. We live two and a half hours away from each other and the dates have been good, but I have a bad feeling about things. There's hardly any communication in between our dates, which have been spread 2-3 weeks apart. He was the one driving the distance to come s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Not sure if I should bail out of tomorrow's date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l7siew/not_sure_if_i_should_bail_out_of_tomorrows_date/ |
noprideinsomniac95 | 2018-05-03 16:16:13 | 1,525,364,173 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 8grknp | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8grknp/going_on_dates_with_people_you_already_know_you/ | 3 | So I've been single for a few months now, and been doing online dating for most of that time. I had zero luck with it for a few months, and now I have two dates scheduled, and a few more I can probably get. The only thing is none of these girls really "check my boxes". They either live too far, aren't quite what I'm at... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Going on dates with people you already know you probably won't date long term. | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8grknp/going_on_dates_with_people_you_already_know_you/ |
Revolutionary_Sea336 | 2023-01-11 20:59:11 | 1,673,470,751 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 109fs27 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/109fs27/whats_your_favorite_pick_up_line/ | 1 | What’s y’all’s favorite pick up lines to use on dating apps? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What’s your favorite pick up line? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/109fs27/whats_your_favorite_pick_up_line/ |
Reasonable-Order5135 | 2024-03-21 02:57:35 | 1,710,989,855 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bjwfab | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bjwfab/realized_that_i_actually_do_want_to_be_in_love/ | 2 | I’m a 21 year old guy with no experience in romance or sex. Originally I wasn’t interested in relationships and then when I got out of high school I could find the time to consider one. Over the three years since I’ve graduated high school my time has been dominated by college classes and constant work to pay bills. Th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Realized that I actually do want to be in love | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bjwfab/realized_that_i_actually_do_want_to_be_in_love/ |
hexesdouble | 2017-10-06 01:16:01 | 1,507,252,561 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 74kfdg | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/74kfdg/committed_to_my_non_relationship_even_though_he/ | 3 | Met a guy abroad, and we spent a couple of days together, then I went home. It's been 3 months of us talking every day. Thats a lot of invested time and feelings at this point, and I feel pretty committed to him. I like to tell him everything, even if it's about other guys who have cropped up in my life. At one point I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Committed to my non relationship even though he isn't | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/74kfdg/committed_to_my_non_relationship_even_though_he/ |
yourcomputerwife | 2024-03-18 18:27:44 | 1,710,786,464 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1bhxxhk | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bhxxhk/i_look_like_their_ex/ | 1 | I think we’re both just looking for something casual, but is it a bit weird if I look like their 10 year relationship ex? The full situation: He (34 M) superliked me on tinder, they are attractive and seem cool / employed so I was excited and matched, chatted, and exchanged numbers. I’ve been getting over a breakup so ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I look like their ex | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bhxxhk/i_look_like_their_ex/ |
efogs11 | 2019-02-19 05:23:08 | 1,550,553,788 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | as6ug5 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/as6ug5/finally_got_over_a_horrible_hinge_date_from_3/ | 1 | Obligatory bs apologizing for mobile formatting and this is my first post blah blah trigger warning I’m posting this saga in order to process what happened but also in hopes that other people can relate, listen and/or give reassurance and encouragement. Okay so 3 weeks ago, I went on a Hinge date with this guy at a bar... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Finally got over a horrible Hinge date from 3 weeks ago then found out that he gave me Chlamydia | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/as6ug5/finally_got_over_a_horrible_hinge_date_from_3/ |
fusionstorm96 | 2023-08-17 01:59:34 | 1,692,237,574 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15t9g7v | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15t9g7v/i_26m_am_bored_of_living_alone_but_also_cant_find/ | 1 | Basically the title, I broke up with my ex 2 months ago, it was a 7 years relationship and we lived together for 3.5 years I know it's really soon for me to be lloking for a new relationship but I'm starting to feel really bored when I'm alone in my house. To give more context I already started doing a lot of things I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (26M) am bored of living alone, but also can't find someone interesting | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15t9g7v/i_26m_am_bored_of_living_alone_but_also_cant_find/ |
IntelligentDemon | 2023-08-09 02:23:42 | 1,691,547,822 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 15m25s8 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15m25s8/ladies_pls_help_me_put/ | 1 | https://tinder.com/@laksh03 This is my profile, I am not getting any matches. Suggest any changes | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ladies pls help me put | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15m25s8/ladies_pls_help_me_put/ |
curiousdog56789 | 2022-03-26 01:20:39 | 1,648,257,639 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | toagp1 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/toagp1/a_man_ive_never_met/ | 1 | I (F early 30s) have been talking to this guy(M early 30s) that I met off a dating app. We have been talking(texting/calling/video calling) for about a month and have not met yet. He recently had to move out of the city we both live in to a town about an hour away. I really really like this guy and I’m so excited to me... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A man I’ve never met | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/toagp1/a_man_ive_never_met/ |
sympnoia | 2019-08-27 19:48:10 | 1,566,935,290 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | cw9ine | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cw9ine/when_it_gets_complicated_just_let_it_go/ | 68 | I matured a lot with the years and I have come to realize something when it comes to dating. If its not going smoothly its not worth your time and energy. If you have to pull all the weight of the conversation, the other person is not that interested. If you make plans and something always comes up, move on. If the oth... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When it gets complicated, just let it go. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cw9ine/when_it_gets_complicated_just_let_it_go/ |
cdiddy19 | 2020-07-26 23:07:07 | 1,595,804,827 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | hyguao | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/hyguao/fear_of_commitment_finally_dipping_my_toe_into/ | 0 | Which online dating service should I start with? I have a fear of commitment, due to covid many sites offer video dates which seems pretty non-committal non scary to me. Now I'm not sure which online dating service I should try. What do you ladies think? And any other woman out there afraid of commitment? | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Fear of commitment Finally dipping my toe into online dating | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/hyguao/fear_of_commitment_finally_dipping_my_toe_into/ |
abc993 | 2024-03-21 23:44:56 | 1,711,064,696 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1bkl9gc | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bkl9gc/why_do_my_hinge_matches_do_this/ | 1 | I been experiencing something very frustrating with online dating. I recently recreated my hinge profile with new photos and I've been getting about 30+ matches a week, however the level of engagement I've been receiving is extremely poor. ALL of these 30+ matches have stopped responding at some point. While I expect c... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why do my hinge matches do this? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bkl9gc/why_do_my_hinge_matches_do_this/ |
Bingobangoblammo | 2021-11-20 03:42:47 | 1,637,379,767 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | qxwzg0 | true | null | 246 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/qxwzg0/tired_of_old_messages_just_complimenting_me_on_my/ | 72 | I know that my complaint doesn’t sound that bad, but I put a lot of effort on my profile to show my interests and hobbies. And most messages I get just start with you’re beautiful, you’re so pretty and nothing else. No questions no comments on concrete things I’ve said that can lead to conversation….and anymore I just ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Tired of OLD messages just complimenting me on my looks | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/qxwzg0/tired_of_old_messages_just_complimenting_me_on_my/ |
Tszemix | 2024-04-26 19:31:31 | 1,714,159,891 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cdu9uz | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cdu9uz/what_to_do_if_friends_and_family_suck_at_taking/ | 2 | Bought myself a tripod and noticed how much better I look when I am taking the photo myself. Feels like my friends and family don't give a damn. I've even tried asking them nicely to take multiple photos or to retake any bad ones but with no success. Every time they get very upset and often refuse to take any more phot... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What to do if friends and family suck at taking photos? | 2 | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cdu9uz/what_to_do_if_friends_and_family_suck_at_taking/ |
Probability-Bot | 2020-05-31 11:52:55 | 1,590,925,975 | null | null | 0 | gtxs95 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/gtxs95/deleting_the_apps_for_now/ | 9 | I dated someone for a year. Things ended In Dec. Very reluctantly got back on OLD. The usual go nowhere conversations, a cancelled date, and the usual BS. One actual live date since i got back on about late Jan that is until last night. Met her last night for about 30 min. Not to sure about this one. Im supposed to be ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Deleting the Apps for now... | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gtxs95/deleting_the_apps_for_now/ |
becalmedmariner | 2018-08-09 07:48:57 | 1,533,800,937 | null | ['swiped', 'swiping', 'OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | 95ufh9 | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/95ufh9/i_dont_like_the_person_old_seems_to_be_asking_me/ | 7 | I know I'm not ready for dating yet but I downloaded a couple of those swipey apps over the past couple weeks to see what they're all about. I dipped my toes in and did some swiping but inevitably deleted the accounts and apps. It's nice to be reminded that there are actually girls my age looking for someone. Even if i... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I don't like the person OLD seems to be asking me to be. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/95ufh9/i_dont_like_the_person_old_seems_to_be_asking_me/ |
MFRobots | 2023-01-30 12:00:58 | 1,675,080,058 | null | null | 0 | 10p08az | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10p08az/he_was_ignored_online_she_fell_for_him_in_person/ | 27 | How this proves that the person you passed online, could've been a great match in person There was a message board story I recall of a man, like many others who have sent out messages to women, only to be ignored. Then one day he's out and about at this local street event or function, and he spots a woman he had messag... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | He was ignored online, she fell for him in person | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10p08az/he_was_ignored_online_she_fell_for_him_in_person/ |
Harbinger311 | 2019-07-19 19:24:46 | 1,563,564,286 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | cfbxul | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cfbxul/mid_40s_male_new_to_online_dating/ | 3 | I've been trying out online dating now for 5 years, but never got a bite before. Several nights ago, a girl that's way out of my league (late 20s with incredible profile pictures that look like a model's) responds and we start a chat. The girl then gives me her email address so that we can converse on chat (Hangouts). ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Mid 40s Male New to Online Dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cfbxul/mid_40s_male_new_to_online_dating/ |
Illustrious-Humor330 | 2023-05-24 11:56:38 | 1,684,929,398 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 13qjg0s | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13qjg0s/is_he_a_player_or_is_he_actually_a_guy_who_wants/ | 6 | Honestly, we were able to chat about a lot of things from family to life to job. But when I asked what he wanted in a relationship, he said physical intimacy is a huge part and maybe we should hold hands within one or two dates, and to have sex at one month mark. He made jokes about calling me his wife, but I am doubtf... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he a player or is he actually a guy who wants a relationship? | 6 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13qjg0s/is_he_a_player_or_is_he_actually_a_guy_who_wants/ |
Snow_Da_92 | 2021-06-22 07:42:23 | 1,624,347,743 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | o5hfy2 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o5hfy2/looking_for_good_altgoth_dating/ | 1 | Hey guys. I recently got out of a long relationship and I'm trying to hop back into the dating game. The problem is I have a pretty specific type: goth, emo, and alternative folks Theres an abysmal shortage of alt people on the dating apps I've tried. A big part of that is probably due to where I live, but I was wonder... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Looking for good alt/goth dating | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o5hfy2/looking_for_good_altgoth_dating/ |
Noexit007 | 2020-07-02 04:01:32 | 1,593,662,492 | null | ['dating sites'] | 1 | hjpybb | true | Other | 102 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hjpybb/dating_with_terminal_cancer_i_am_struggling/ | 649 | I am sure some of you read the title and thought, shouldn't there be more concerning things on your mind at this point? Dating seems like something not to worry about. But see, the problem is I am not simply going to up and die in 3, 12, or even 24 months. Or at least I hope not. I am what they call, a long-term termin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating with terminal cancer - I am struggling. | null | 0.98 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hjpybb/dating_with_terminal_cancer_i_am_struggling/ |
SrZiino | 2019-08-26 05:34:08 | 1,566,797,648 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | cvjtwg | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cvjtwg/never_have_i_asked_a_girl_out_before_she_was_the/ | 1 | Let me explain, months ago I matched with a girl on tinder, we talked but never lead to a date so we never met. Yesterday I went shopping, I went to this store, went it and was browsing what to buy, then I turn and notice this girl is looking at me and looks away immediately after I look at her. Noticed it was the girl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Never have I asked a girl out before, she was the first one, but need some advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cvjtwg/never_have_i_asked_a_girl_out_before_she_was_the/ |
FoodQuestions1993 | 2023-08-19 01:42:07 | 1,692,409,327 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15v2uof | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15v2uof/discuss_my_hinge_matches_with_me/ | 1 | Anyone willing to talk through a handful of hinge matches with me? I’m a 30M and while I’m not too bad looking, I really don’t have a lot of experience with one night stands, quick hook ups, or “spitting game”… I have mostly gotten with girls while in a longer relationships. I moved to a larger city about 6 months ago ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Discuss my hinge matches with me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15v2uof/discuss_my_hinge_matches_with_me/ |
Downtown-Detective46 | 2023-07-28 17:07:44 | 1,690,564,064 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15c35n7 | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15c35n7/he_changed_his_hinge_location_when_he_was_out_of/ | 1 | This guy(29) and I (26) have been seeing each other for roughly two months. He’s been the one to initiate all dates and definitely has pursued me more than I have him. Ironically when he was out of town, he kept drunk texting me that he thinks we should be in an exclusive relationship. A different drunk spell, he told ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He changed his hinge location when he was out of town | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15c35n7/he_changed_his_hinge_location_when_he_was_out_of/ |
n33tzsch3 | 2024-02-04 01:11:25 | 1,707,009,085 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1aibm1o | true | null | 103 | 1 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1aibm1o/girl_told_me_she_is_asexual_just_before_date/ | 46 | About a month ago, I (25 Male) matched with a girl (27) on Hinge. She is educated, classy, successful, and very attractive. Honestly, she's out of my league, but I do like her. We have our first date planned tomorrow, but the other day I ran into a couple problems and as bad as it feels, I am thinking about canceling. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl told me she is asexual just before date? | 45 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aibm1o/girl_told_me_she_is_asexual_just_before_date/ |
PSGfanfromUS | 2022-11-09 00:18:54 | 1,667,953,134 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | yq39ba | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yq39ba/i_need_to_let_this_girl_know_that_i_dont_anything/ | 1 | Just like the title says. I (21M) just got out of 3 years relationship, decided to download tinder and I met this girl(20). We went out a couple times and last time she invited me over and we were about to have sex but I told her “it’s too soon”. But really what I wanted to say was “I don’t really want to get intimate,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I need to let this girl know that I don’t anything more than a friendship. Not even sex. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yq39ba/i_need_to_let_this_girl_know_that_i_dont_anything/ |
Cuddlyteddy2 | 2023-03-26 21:08:01 | 1,679,864,881 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 122zoff | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/122zoff/why_do_we_wait_for_the_other_person_to_reply/ | 1 | So after focusing on myself for a while I gave into trying to put myself out there on the dating apps. I knew it was going to be a bad decision but I thought try it for a few days to see how it goes. Anyways I've had a few matches more than I expected but I feel like I'm slipping back into the rabbit hole of waiting fo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why do we wait for the other person to reply? | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/122zoff/why_do_we_wait_for_the_other_person_to_reply/ |
madluna33 | 2024-07-29 00:49:41 | 1,722,214,181 | 0 | null | 0 | 1eemlko | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1eemlko/best_dating_app/ | 3 | Hi. Anyone who could recommend the best dating site? I have tinder at the moment. Had some decent chats here and there. I was wondering if there’s any other app that’s good? I’m trying to get back in the game after 10 years. Not rushing with things. Just wants some connection that can potentially build up into somethin... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Best dating app? | 3 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1eemlko/best_dating_app/ |
t0rrent8675309 | 2019-08-19 16:54:35 | 1,566,233,675 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | csjtfm | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/csjtfm/i_thought_it_went_well/ | 2 | Met a girl on tinder and took her bouldering for our first date. I thought we really clicked. We laughed and were constantly talking. I knew she had already eaten, but I asked her if she wanted to go get something to eat after we had been climbing for a little over an hour. She said she wasn’t really hungry, but she’d ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I thought it went well... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/csjtfm/i_thought_it_went_well/ |
bitebo | 2015-09-27 11:02:52 | 1,443,351,772 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3mke6e | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3mke6e/need_some_advice_really_confused/ | 2 | oh im a guy and we are both 23 So I met this girl on tinder 2 weeks ago we really hit it off, were flirting and all from the start, so we went for coffee on wednesday we were there for about 2 hours and I was getting mix signals like she was not making a lot of eye contact but she was letting me touch her hand alot ( w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need some advice really confused | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3mke6e/need_some_advice_really_confused/ |
ContentElephant | 2018-08-17 21:54:45 | 1,534,542,885 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 986e6c | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/986e6c/dateing_site_has_me_puzzled_need_some_pointers/ | 2 | Well, as the title says. I registered on two dating sites some weeks ago. I try to write semi long messages that will prompt a discussion, based on the information i can gather about the person on the profile text and images. But all i end up getting is "message read." Im not understanding and not even checking my prof... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dateing site has me puzzled, need some pointers. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/986e6c/dateing_site_has_me_puzzled_need_some_pointers/ |
life_isnt_cake | 2016-02-11 22:57:16 | 1,455,231,436 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 45blrs | null | null | 9 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/45blrs/reddit_in_your_opinion_whats_the_best_place_to/ | 0 | Not really any clubs or meetups around me, just stores, coffee shops, and some malls a little bit away. Also already tried online dating with no luck. | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Reddit in your opinion whats the best place to meet friends/potential partners under 21 in a rural area? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/45blrs/reddit_in_your_opinion_whats_the_best_place_to/ |
MereanaGlersgov | 2019-04-28 13:34:52 | 1,556,458,492 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | biba67 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/biba67/should_i_message_old_tinder_match/ | 0 | Hey guys, need your advice. About 5 months ago, I matched with a really cute girl on tinder that seemed like exactly my type. After exchanging a few messages, I asked her to text me and gave her my number but she stopped replying after that. Realising it might have come off as douchey, I apologised and asked if she wan... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I message old tinder match? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/biba67/should_i_message_old_tinder_match/ |
helpoutanibba | 2024-05-28 14:19:41 | 1,716,905,981 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1d2km8q | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d2km8q/dating_apps_dont_work/ | 4 | 23 (M) Been on many dating app for a year or more now not a single date. ps everyone's profile either looks fake or if they match they just don't reply i don't get it | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps don't work | 4 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d2km8q/dating_apps_dont_work/ |
Winitdango23 | 2019-03-26 20:50:28 | 1,553,633,428 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | b5v372 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b5v372/not_sure_if_she_is_interested_or_not/ | 6 | So I met a girl on tinder and we talked and I got her snap. We continued talking and I asked her on a date and she said yes. When the day came she said she was sick and wanted to do it another day so I agreed. That day came and I didn't get a response from her. So I stopped talking to her for 3 weeks. I knew she was in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure if she is interested or not. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b5v372/not_sure_if_she_is_interested_or_not/ |
TAyforLifestyle | 2022-01-26 17:03:32 | 1,643,216,612 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | sdaqea | true | null | 160 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/sdaqea/dangers_of_connecting_on_whats_app/ | 62 | I've had several back-and-forths with a dude on Hinge. The system has eaten a few of our messages. He's mentioned a few times prefering What's App and now wants to transition to that-- I have read here that can be a red flag. If I What's App him from a Google Voice number, what are the cautions? (I'm also pretty "meh" ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Dangers of connecting on What's App? | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/sdaqea/dangers_of_connecting_on_whats_app/ |
ThrowRA_6784 | 2024-08-15 04:18:13 | 1,723,695,493 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1esm3qr | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1esm3qr/feel_like_i_25m_have_a_really_great_match_31f_but/ | 3 | I met this chick on Hinge, and we share a deep common interest in cars and bikes and I’ve never had a chat flow so natural, and we’re supposed to meet for a date Saturday. I have several concerns though: She has multiple houses and vehicles and is moving. I’m worried about if she has something going on like a divorce o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feel like I (25M) have a really great match (31F) but really worried about my safety and age gap. | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1esm3qr/feel_like_i_25m_have_a_really_great_match_31f_but/ |
Consistent-Solid-264 | 2023-08-03 03:42:08 | 1,691,034,128 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 15gt299 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15gt299/should_i_tell_him_i_miss_him/ | 1 | So i (f20) moved to the beach this summer. Im working a summer job here, but i may stay longer depending on how i feel since im not in school right now and dont really want to move back in with my parents. I met a guy (19m) a couple months ago who lives here. We talked in a coffee shop briefly, then happened to match o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should i tell him i miss him? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15gt299/should_i_tell_him_i_miss_him/ |
isthisbs | 2013-02-19 01:40:27 | 1,361,238,027 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 18sfbl | null | null | 10 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/18sfbl/not_ready_to_be_in_a_relationship_is_it_any/ | 4 | I'm 32 female, he's 30 male. I've been seeing this guy off and on since November. He initiated the break-up always, and I initiated the make-up soon after. This time I am completely done. I told him my pride is hurt because I kept taking the initiative to get together and he kept taking the initiative to break-up. Note... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Not ready to be in a relationship. Is it any relationship or just relationship with me? | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/18sfbl/not_ready_to_be_in_a_relationship_is_it_any/ |
[deleted] | 2019-12-08 22:30:22 | 1,575,844,222 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | e80m8r | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/e80m8r/how_should_i_react_to_a_man_calling_me_ugly/ | 0 | I was on this dating app and this guy messaged me saying "hey sexy". I said "don't call me sexy. That's mad disrespectful" He replied "tbh my baby you're ugly but i was just trying to make you feel good lofl". How would you reply? | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How should I react to a man calling me ugly? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/e80m8r/how_should_i_react_to_a_man_calling_me_ugly/ |
Ok-Personality9856 | 2022-12-19 02:21:48 | 1,671,416,508 | null | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | zpfam2 | true | null | 65 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zpfam2/guys_who_are_looking_for_something_serious_any/ | 13 | I've marked in my profile that I am looking for a relationship. Anytime I match with a cute guy that has chosen not to answer that prompt, or who has "still figuring it out," I take that as a sign of emotional unavailability. I treat those dates more as practice dates; I pay for myself, put on my best show, and never l... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guys who are looking for something serious, any reason why you would not check off "looking for a relationship" on Bumble/Hinge? | null | 0.74 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zpfam2/guys_who_are_looking_for_something_serious_any/ |
heykal75 | 2022-08-08 16:59:27 | 1,659,977,967 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | wjdzyc | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/wjdzyc/pros_photos/ | 11 | After 15+ years, I plan to go OLD in September. Since I don’t have that many good recent photos plus ever the perfectionist, I was thinking of hiring the services of a professional photographer. It’s not that expensive: 50 to 100$. What do you think: good or bad idea? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Pros photos? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/wjdzyc/pros_photos/ |
Lonely-Back | 2024-02-05 16:43:47 | 1,707,151,427 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ajky9q | true | null | 98 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ajky9q/my_date_got_upset_i_didnt_want_to_go_inside_his/ | 84 | I 37F matched with an ethnic guy from far far away 30M. We talked first in the phone for about an hour and got along pretty well. We met the next day, got along as good as we did over the phone and we ended up kissing. The next we texted and talked a few minutes on the phone. The following day we went hiking with my do... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | My date got upset I didn’t want to go inside his apartment on the second date | 84 | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ajky9q/my_date_got_upset_i_didnt_want_to_go_inside_his/ |
Swimpast4 | 2020-02-25 17:20:32 | 1,582,651,232 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | f9dm5c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f9dm5c/a_girl_i_like/ | 1 | So I’m 20 and this girl is 19 she works full-time goes to school and she lives in an apartment she’s pretty goal driven and so am I I really like her and she says she’s in to me but I’m afraid that maybe I give her too much attention but she says I don’t I’m pretty sure I’m in competition with other guys as she is stil... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A girl i like | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f9dm5c/a_girl_i_like/ |
BetterTurnover | 2019-09-08 18:36:41 | 1,567,967,801 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | d1evs6 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d1evs6/what_does_this_guy_want/ | 0 | So I met this guy through mutual friends 2 years ago at a party. We exchanged numbers and texted a bit but it never led to anything. Because I got back together with my ex at the time. Then last year, I see him again. We talk and chat, but nothing happens. I go on a trip and he messages me on my social media back and f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What does this guy want? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d1evs6/what_does_this_guy_want/ |
717sadthrowaway | 2022-11-22 20:29:30 | 1,669,148,970 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | z242aa | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/z242aa/inexperienced_and_kinky/ | 0 | 30, M, NB. I get a decent number of matches, and average a date a month, or so. The problem is I was a virgin until I was 27, and im still not 100% comfortable with sex. I'm also into various kinky things, some of which, while harmless, are taboo. I am afraid to open up to people about my lack of sexual experience, or ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Inexperienced and kinky | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/z242aa/inexperienced_and_kinky/ |
hornerh2 | 2019-12-16 04:12:46 | 1,576,469,566 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | eb9zd3 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eb9zd3/for_anyone_with_the_knowledge_of_tinderboys/ | 1 | I know a guy thru several mutual friends. We matched on Tinder but we never messaged or spoke about it (I didn’t even realize we did until days after). A few weeks go by, and he unmatches with me. Days later he adds me on snap. We don’t snap constantly but its almost everyday. I like the guy but I have no idea how to p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | For anyone with the knowledge of Tinder/boys | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eb9zd3/for_anyone_with_the_knowledge_of_tinderboys/ |
BlinkerFive0 | 2022-08-16 14:51:59 | 1,660,661,519 | null | null | 0 | wpwc9j | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/wpwc9j/time_between_texts/ | 3 | How much time does everyone let go by between texts to figure the other person isn't interested? So if you text someone good morning at 8am on Monday, they say good morning and then they disappear for 24+ hours...would that be considered they've probably moved on? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Time between texts? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/wpwc9j/time_between_texts/ |
rick6457 | 2016-05-30 02:20:17 | 1,464,574,817 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 4lngdn | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4lngdn/losing_my_virginity_through_tinder_22m/ | 3 | I've never really had experience with girls due to growing up socially awkward but I've changed a lot through college. The problem is I still don't have a social circle of friends that know lots of women (similarly socially awkward fellas as well), so I really don't know how to meet them. I've tried to go out to bars a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Losing my virginity through Tinder [22M]? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4lngdn/losing_my_virginity_through_tinder_22m/ |
Muddy_galoshes | 2024-03-11 15:26:32 | 1,710,170,792 | 0 | ['matches', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1bc5t2h | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1bc5t2h/letting_other_matches_down/ | 42 | 40F. Been on Bumble for a little while and have a handful (maybe 6-10) “matches” in my inbox, all of whom I’ve been chatting with for a bit and are waiting for me to keep the conversations going/schedule a time to meet up. My issue is that I went on an amazing date yesterday and will likely go on more (already planning... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Letting Other Matches Down | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1bc5t2h/letting_other_matches_down/ |
[deleted] | 2019-05-19 08:46:11 | 1,558,255,571 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | bqen90 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bqen90/im_sure_she_is_in_a_relationship/ | 1 | I’ve been talking to her on hinge for over a week now. I asked her out and she dodged the question but still talks to me and asks me questions. We did get each other on Facebook however yesterday. I’ve been looking at her pictures as you do. She’s got loads with this guy and one of them is on her preferred photos list.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m sure she is in a relationship | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bqen90/im_sure_she_is_in_a_relationship/ |
geekyshyguy | 2019-08-10 00:28:34 | 1,565,396,914 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | coazmm | true | null | 117 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/coazmm/why_is_is_so_hard_to_find_the_right_one/ | 216 | After being in a relationship for 5 years, I've been living the single life for 2 years. It's not as glamorous as some people make it seem. I feel my efforts to be myself have fallen short, but see so many happy couple who enjoy the same things I do. It's starting to get hard to put myself out there cause the results h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is is so hard to find "the right one" | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/coazmm/why_is_is_so_hard_to_find_the_right_one/ |
LynRock | 2022-06-13 18:23:11 | 1,655,144,591 | null | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | vbiqb8 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vbiqb8/power_of_ghosting/ | 7 | 32/M here. I have a thick skin but not immune to ghosting all the time. But let me tell the world why Ghosting is necessary. I always phone screen before a date. Standards aren't high for phone chats but I need to see if we can talk and mesh well. The girl starts monologging and every time I talk I'm barraged with "mmh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Power of Ghosting | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vbiqb8/power_of_ghosting/ |
Most-R | 2021-05-09 11:35:26 | 1,620,560,126 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | n8cfx2 | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n8cfx2/how_do_you_meet_womens_impossible_physical/ | 0 | I have been using online dating on/off for a decade. It's always the same. No matter how I make my profile or what photos or bio I use I basically get nothing except a few likes at the start from severely overweight women and then nothing else. Yeah I know what you're thinking. How can he complain about "women's imposs... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you meet women's impossible physical standards in online dating so you can even talk to them? | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n8cfx2/how_do_you_meet_womens_impossible_physical/ |
Dangeresque21 | 2018-03-27 00:51:33 | 1,522,111,893 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 87eb8e | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/87eb8e/am_i_too_aggressive/ | 2 | F[26], just trying to navigate casual dating/hook up culture. I match with someone on a dating site, we talk for a bit and there’s chemistry.. flirting ensues and numbers are exchanged.. Pictures are sent (usually by the guy first) and I reciprocate if I’m interested/feeling it.. we start talking about taking it furthe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I too aggressive? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/87eb8e/am_i_too_aggressive/ |
Paul-in-Ohio | 2018-06-09 08:25:53 | 1,528,532,753 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 8prgdg | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8prgdg/1_year_attempting_online_dating/ | 7 | As the title says I've tried several dating sites and apps for a year. Yes, a year. Had one person tell me they were not interested. Other than that not one response. Radio silence. 41 years old male I've asked a few people I know if I'm ugly and was told no. But you are kind of creepy / weird looking. And cold dead ey... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 1 year attempting online dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8prgdg/1_year_attempting_online_dating/ |
Unknown_artist95 | 2021-07-19 16:29:36 | 1,626,712,176 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | onhk90 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/onhk90/quick_question/ | 2 | On the facebook dating app, I met what seemed to be a nice guy. We started talking last Tuesday andit was mostly: Him: hi Me: hi, how are you? Him: good you Me: good Him: hahahahaha if you didn’t want to talk, you shouldn’t have matched And then he bloked me. What have I done wrong? This happened in like a day, I was a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Quick question | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/onhk90/quick_question/ |
Jmcguitar | 2020-04-19 00:46:48 | 1,587,257,208 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | g3yjcq | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g3yjcq/25m_dont_know_where_to_meet_a_like_minded_woman/ | 25 | I’m a man and turning 25 in a month. I’ve begun to feel very alienated and cynical. I was dumped a month and a half ago by a girl I dated for a year and a half who I honestly thought I’d marry someday. She always talked about the future to me. But then one day I guess she got scared of it and left. Said I did nothing w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 25(M) - Don’t know where to meet a like minded woman anymore | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g3yjcq/25m_dont_know_where_to_meet_a_like_minded_woman/ |
BrokenTeen5318 | 2024-04-16 22:57:30 | 1,713,308,250 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'pof', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 1c5u1t1 | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c5u1t1/so_what_do_i_do_i_m_20_am_confused_on_what_to_do/ | 1 | I (20, M) from Minnesota have tried all the dating apps. Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, PoF, Facebook dating (which doesn’t show me people in my state), & Reddit - nothing. Hardly any likes, very few matches that when I do get I don’t get a message back. I live in a more rural area that I can’t afford to move out of (smack dab... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So what do I do? I (m, 20) am confused on what to do next | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c5u1t1/so_what_do_i_do_i_m_20_am_confused_on_what_to_do/ |
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