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Akardt
2020-04-11 00:27:03
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/r/dating_advice/comments/fysnvq/change_of_attitude/
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First of all, english is not my primary language. I apologize for my (big) mistakes, please be sure that I do my best. I don't really know where to start and and how to share this, but I would really appreciate some advice from people not close/related to me, as those often tell me what I want to hear. So, I (M 31) met...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Change of attitude
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fysnvq/change_of_attitude/
MilitisCrudus
2019-01-02 11:03:14
1,546,426,994
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absfsv
true
null
14
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/absfsv/breaking_the_ice_how_do_you_initiate/
4
Hi everyone, first time poster here. Was in a LTR till recently, however now I'm trying OLD and being more comfortable initiating in person. I did OLD before my last relationship and remember having mixed response rates. My first messages were usually about them with a bit about myself. For example if it was about cook...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Breaking the ice - how do you initiate?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/absfsv/breaking_the_ice_how_do_you_initiate/
poozemusings
2017-12-26 23:30:47
1,514,331,047
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['dating app', 'hinge']
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7mb7i8
false
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7mb7i8/how_often_should_i_be_texting_her/
5
I met a girl on the dating app Hinge and made a date to go to a museum with her this Saturday. How frequently should I message her between now and then? I don't want to be annoying, but I also don't want her to forget that I exist.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How often should I be texting her?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7mb7i8/how_often_should_i_be_texting_her/
mintim4
2018-03-09 21:36:55
1,520,631,415
null
['tinder']
0
83ad71
false
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11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/83ad71/does_he_actually_like_me_or_am_i_just_reading_way/
1
So, met this guy on tinder, go on a few dates, hook up, and end up talking to each other every single day. We discussed it before, and he strictly wants FWB. That’s fine, nbd on my part. But here’s the confusing part. I think he actually likes me, but because he was really hurt from his divorce, he doesn’t want to catc...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Does he actually like me or am I just reading way into it?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/83ad71/does_he_actually_like_me_or_am_i_just_reading_way/
[deleted]
2018-09-25 03:33:30
1,537,846,410
null
['online dating']
0
9ior4i
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/9ior4i/feeling_lonely_want_to_meet_new_people_but_i_feel/
3
I broke up with my ex-girlfriend about 3 months ago. My brain tells me that its a relationship that I don't want or need. She didn't treat me badly directly, she's actually a really nice person. She had severe mental health issues and she would push me away and we wouldn't speak for weeks. When men and relationships en...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Feeling lonely, want to meet new people, but I feel guilty because of my ex.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9ior4i/feeling_lonely_want_to_meet_new_people_but_i_feel/
King_Sauce15
2023-07-21 04:59:38
1,689,915,578
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155dx7w
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/r/dating_advice/comments/155dx7w/dating_advice_needed/
1
How do I decide who to pick? Whether it's advice through scripture or experience, I could really use it. I have gone on a date with three different women and I am now in uncharted waters. I've never had options before growing up, I liked or matched with one person and then dated them until the relationship reached thei...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating Advice Needed!
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/155dx7w/dating_advice_needed/
Panacea4316
2017-12-19 19:19:45
1,513,711,185
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['OLD']
0
7kviqa
false
null
44
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7kviqa/anxiety_from_feeling_out_of_my_league/
1
So at the beginning of the month, we'll call her TA, had liked me on one of the apps, and i liked her back and she immediately messaged me and we've really hit it off. We've texted all day (outside of work) for probably like 2 weeks at this point, between yesterday and Sunday we spent 4.5hrs talking on the phone. We kn...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Anxiety from feeling "out of my league"
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7kviqa/anxiety_from_feeling_out_of_my_league/
likeidonteven
2023-01-23 08:15:11
1,674,461,711
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['matched']
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10j7gog
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/10j7gog/did_i_40m_do_something_weird_could_i_have_done/
4
So I (40M) matched with (35F) and we texted back and forth for about a couple hours, the replies getting quicker and quicker, seemed like it was going well, it was a nice, polite conversation. Then it just seemed like she got impatient, was suspecting I was a scammer or something. I'm copy-and-paste'ing (typo's and all...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Did I (40M) do something weird? Could I have done anything better?
null
0.76
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10j7gog/did_i_40m_do_something_weird_could_i_have_done/
am_i_a_lawyer
2021-01-18 21:38:06
1,611,005,886
null
['matched', 'swiped', 'bumble']
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l04h39
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/l04h39/mixed_signals/
3
I (22F) started speaking to a guy (23M) I matched with on Bumble and we had an amazing connection. Within a month we were emotionally so close, it felt unreal and we both acknowledged that. Suddenly, he stopped speaking as often and when he did, it just wasn't the same. Whenever we had plans to meet, he'd just stop spe...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Mixed signals
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l04h39/mixed_signals/
wonderfulworm
2023-09-26 01:31:50
1,695,691,910
0
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge']
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16saa6m
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16saa6m/dating_after_a_complicated_relationship/
1
So, I got out of a two year relationship semi-recently. I’m 20F, so I don’t have a whole lot of experience outside of that relationship and one previous one. My ex recently moved away, and I’ve been doing a good job of moving on. Im bisexual, so dating men and women, and I’m not looking for anything serious at all. I k...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating after a complicated relationship
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16saa6m/dating_after_a_complicated_relationship/
HopelessRomeAntic
2019-09-28 16:44:15
1,569,689,055
null
['OLD', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'eharmony']
0
daiewg
true
null
16
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/daiewg/so_im_new_to_the_old_scene_and_the_stories_i_read/
5
Some basic background: I spent my early 20's single, then from 24 - 33 I had 3 long-term relationships, all pretty much back to back. They started organically from women I already knew through work. They were great women, but for various reasons, things (clearly) didn't work out. My last girlfriend broke up with me in ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
So I'm new to the OLD scene, and the stories I read are not encouraging...
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/daiewg/so_im_new_to_the_old_scene_and_the_stories_i_read/
GuitarCFD
2019-06-13 17:31:46
1,560,447,106
null
['OLD']
0
c08qzd
true
null
47
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/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c08qzd/what_methods_other_than_old_are_you_using_now/
16
I've kind of fallen on OLD because: Friends all married Not really familiar with where people my age go Completely out of date meeting women firmware. Not really interested in the bar scene. Just curious if any of you have had success with one thing or another.
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
What methods other than OLD are you using now that you're over 30?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c08qzd/what_methods_other_than_old_are_you_using_now/
candicewilson1990
2020-04-23 23:33:18
1,587,684,798
null
['dating apps']
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g6xin5
true
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1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/g6xin5/feeling_sad_wasting_so_much_time_on_the_wrong_guy/
1
I (29F) met a man (33M) more than 2 years ago when he just got out of a long term relationship. We dated for two months but then he faded away. He said he wasn't ready. After that we met like friends off and on, but quite infrequently. He then went back to his ex for like a month but they broke up eventually. He entere...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Feeling sad wasting so much time on the wrong guy
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g6xin5/feeling_sad_wasting_so_much_time_on_the_wrong_guy/
mjjjaaaa
2023-01-02 22:49:51
1,672,699,791
null
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
101qcvp
true
Question ❓
484
0
/r/dating/comments/101qcvp/have_you_ever_met_up_with_a_guy_from_a_dating_app/
338
Long story short, I'm a tall guy 6 ft 3. Whenever I'm on dating apps, women constantly question how tall I am. Obviously when I say 6 ft 3 they get all giddy. But I can't help but wonder, what if I was only like 5 ft tall? Or 5 ft 2? Or 5 ft 5? I'd still be the same person except for my height. But I'm pretty sure most...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Have you ever met up with a guy from a dating app without knowing his height?
null
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/101qcvp/have_you_ever_met_up_with_a_guy_from_a_dating_app/
flora831
2017-12-15 06:53:32
1,513,320,812
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['plenty of fish']
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7jy3lq
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1
0
/r/dating/comments/7jy3lq/maybe_there_are_plenty_of_fish_but_i_only_want_one/
6
There is this guy I've been into for awhile and while he said he liked me too, things weren't really adding up. He never really wanted to hang out. Well today he told me that he isn't interested in pursuing anything after all and is hung up on someone else. While I appreciate the honesty, I'm still upset. At least he d...
dating
t5_2qhb1
maybe there are plenty of fish, but I only want one.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7jy3lq/maybe_there_are_plenty_of_fish_but_i_only_want_one/
Horror-Background-79
2024-05-17 18:46:16
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0
null
0
1cucyds
true
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20
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cucyds/bumble_to_users_you_need_sex_users_to_bumble_get/
14
https://www.nytimes.com/2024/05/14/style/bumble-celibacy-ad-apology.html?unlocked_article_code=1.sU0.HXR-.M0zh8YjEg3Wy&smid=url-share&fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR1mAG37DjBucybkFH9wffNJZ7sS8FzHkpRjV4skseAMcn4TpQ0p-fEP5GI_aem_AaRsxPL92qaN-RxgXzUnutDsgX0DUq9xv0KevLcjLGZaRoNgfjxY1rW7o4rot2vbC587KT-VqRwwrJPOXuPZqZuW Read the...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Bumble to Users: You Need Sex. Users to Bumble: Get Lost.
14
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cucyds/bumble_to_users_you_need_sex_users_to_bumble_get/
Turbulent-Mango3234
2021-10-18 14:19:59
1,634,566,799
null
['tinder']
0
qanmrn
true
I Need Advice
14
0
/r/dating/comments/qanmrn/should_i_talk_to_the_guy_i_have_been_dating_for_a/
5
So this guy (23) and I (20) met on Tinder and have been dating for a month now. On our first date, he told me I was the first person he had gone out since he started his Tinder account three weeks prior to our first date. And for a while he made it really seem like I was the only girl he was dating, as he acted super b...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I talk to the guy I have been dating for a month about where we stand?
null
0.78
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qanmrn/should_i_talk_to_the_guy_i_have_been_dating_for_a/
BeeWee2020
2023-06-06 03:51:27
1,686,023,487
0
['bumble']
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1422ov8
true
null
317
1
/r/datingoverforty/comments/1422ov8/acceptance/
195
I'm 45, single, really good career, great friends and I've been working on myself for 20 years. I can paint, dance, travel well and I've done stand up and improv comedy before. I've been told I'm pretty blah blah. However I think I need to accept I'm never going to find anyone. I live in Los Angeles and done the apps, ...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Acceptance
195
0.95
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1422ov8/acceptance/
jaximointhecut
2024-09-16 22:10:00
1,726,524,600
0
['dating apps']
0
1fihld0
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fihld0/girl_at_the_front_desk_of_my_gym_looking_for/
1
I’ve noticed her checking me out a few times and we always lock eyes, I could be wrong but I have a feeling she’s into me. I’m definitely into her. I never approach, just kind of let things happen naturally. Every time I leave we give each other a little smile. I just don’t know what to say lol. I’m used to using datin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Girl at the front desk of my Gym, looking for advice on how to approach?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fihld0/girl_at_the_front_desk_of_my_gym_looking_for/
pretty_in_pink4567
2018-12-14 18:39:24
1,544,812,764
null
['tinder', 'okcupid']
0
a67je0
true
null
7
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a67je0/new_ads_for_tinder_and_okc/
9
I just stumble upon an article about how OKC and tinder are changing their ads to focus on how great being single is instead of focusing on finding your match. I know that the target of those campaigns are the millennials, but I thought that's an interesting perspective. I even had a great example yesterday - my ex and...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
New ads for tinder and okc
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a67je0/new_ads_for_tinder_and_okc/
throwaway11235816
2019-08-19 05:36:17
1,566,192,977
null
['matches', 'tinder']
0
cscrns
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cscrns/lucky_enough_to_get_a_date_setup_after_my_first/
2
For context I'm a 21M university student who's home for the next few weeks before heading off across the country for school. Here I am bored as all hell on a Sunday morning and I do the thing I said I'd never do...I made a Tinder account. I make a quick bio with pictures and pretty soon I have a few matches. Obviously ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Lucky enough to get a date setup after my first day using Tinder; not sure what her intentions are
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cscrns/lucky_enough_to_get_a_date_setup_after_my_first/
Fun-Paper-4846
2023-05-28 07:09:30
1,685,257,770
0
['dating apps']
0
13ttx23
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/13ttx23/why_a_guy_would_ask_me_for_the_secon_date_in_the/
2
I met a guy on one of the dating apps. We made jokes about going together to some places for the first and the second dates which was a bit awkward. When we met after like 10 minutes of the first date he started recommending an activity for the second date. At the end of the date, he suggested it again. What would it m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why a guy would ask me for the secon date in the beginning of the first?
2
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13ttx23/why_a_guy_would_ask_me_for_the_secon_date_in_the/
AngularBanjoes
2023-12-08 15:24:07
1,702,049,047
0
['matches', 'swipes', 'dating apps', 'hinge']
0
18dp5mt
true
Question ❓
3
0
/r/dating/comments/18dp5mt/have_dating_apps_and_their_users_changed_in_the/
1
I'm [32m], recently out of a six year relationship and I've jumped on the apps. When I was 25 I did pretty well, got a lot of matches, could usually find at least a date a week if I wanted to. Now... I'm barely getting a match. I don't think I'm physically less attractive than I was then, is it that I'm older and peopl...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Have dating apps and their users changed in the past 5-6 years, or do different age groups use them differently?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18dp5mt/have_dating_apps_and_their_users_changed_in_the/
power9955
2020-12-18 23:13:57
1,608,333,237
null
['matches', 'OLD']
0
kfw3nj
true
I Need Advice
4
0
/r/dating/comments/kfw3nj/messaging_people_through_social_media_for_a_date/
2
Has anyone ever done it successfully? Specifically with someone they haven't really interacted with irl. There's a girl I met a few months ago via a mutual friend. I was in a relationship at the time, which unfortunately ended a while ago now. We're friends on facebook, but other than that one meeting, I've never spoke...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Messaging people through social media for a date? (M21)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kfw3nj/messaging_people_through_social_media_for_a_date/
nikki101598
2019-02-01 20:27:11
1,549,052,831
null
['tinder']
0
am6ebj
true
null
2
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/am6ebj/looking_for_tipsadvice_on_how_to_hookup_with/
0
Hi this is my first post so sorry if I break any rules but I am looking for any advice anyone has on how to hookup with people and be safe about it. For example, if you meet someone on tinder, what precautions do you take before, during and after you meet up? Do you go to their place or is it more dangerous to invite t...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Looking for tips/advice on how to hookup with people safely
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/am6ebj/looking_for_tipsadvice_on_how_to_hookup_with/
dirntbag
2016-07-19 14:28:39
1,468,938,519
0
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
4tle68
null
null
25
null
/r/AskWomen/comments/4tle68/what_do_people_expect_from_tinder_and_bumble/
8
I have bumble and I have never been in a relationship. I thought it'd be great to meet some guys that are outside of my friend group and maybe things would develop from there. However, I'm hearing that a lot of people consider bumble a sex app/an app for hooking up with people - not for relationships? I'm wondering wha...
AskWomen
t5_2rxrw
What do people expect from tinder and bumble?
8
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/4tle68/what_do_people_expect_from_tinder_and_bumble/
McGoobles123
2014-07-01 12:54:40
1,404,219,280
0
['online dating']
0
29k4th
null
null
2
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/29k4th/a_little_help_met_her_online/
2
I'm young, and so is she. I'm 16 will be 17 this November and she turned 17 just last week. I met her online 5 months ago. At first she was just my friend. I got to know her better and I learned that we have a lot in common. I really mean a lot, from favorite games to all sorts of life experiences. I'm still learning m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
A little help? (Met her online)
2
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/29k4th/a_little_help_met_her_online/
PenguinLegos
2022-06-26 10:04:56
1,656,237,896
null
['matches', 'dating apps', 'dating sites']
0
vl1fhv
true
null
21
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/vl1fhv/if_i_get_0_matches_on_dating_apps_should_i_even/
3
Pretty sure I’m coming to the conclusion that if I’m not attractive to get matches on dating sites then I’m probably to unattractive in general. People have said to skip the apps and try in person but if the apps show me as I am physically and I get no matches then it kinda confirms that I’ll be ugly in person too. So ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
If I get 0 matches on dating apps. Should I even bother with trying in person?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vl1fhv/if_i_get_0_matches_on_dating_apps_should_i_even/
Spare-Transition-340
2024-09-02 16:16:52
1,725,293,812
0
['matched', 'bumble']
0
1f7aqwu
true
null
32
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1f7aqwu/is_ill_let_you_know_always_a_no/
10
I (26f) matched with a really pretty girl (28f) on Bumble. She is super smart and lives near me. The lesbian dating pool is not super big here so I was pretty excited to match with someone that lives close. The day we matched she invited me to go to a music festival she was gonna go to but unfortunately I couldn’t. I a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is “i’ll let you know” always a no?
10
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f7aqwu/is_ill_let_you_know_always_a_no/
honey-combed
2017-04-15 21:43:01
1,492,292,581
null
['dating app']
0
65lmcn
null
null
8
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/65lmcn/am_i_hard_to_read_or_is_he_hard_to_read/
1
Hi. I've gone on two dates with someone I met from a dating app. The first date felt like it went well since we had pretty engaging conversation, we would tease each other and laugh quite a bit -- he paid for drinks and I was the one who said I had to leave for another event after an hour and a half of talking. But he ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I hard to read or is he hard to read?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/65lmcn/am_i_hard_to_read_or_is_he_hard_to_read/
CurlyNerdyBry94
2020-10-03 17:44:37
1,601,747,077
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
j4jdgi
true
I Need Advice
7
0
/r/dating/comments/j4jdgi/weird_pet_peeve/
3
Okay, so I matched with this woman on Tinder a couple of weeks ago and we had already had a FaceTime date, it went well :) Sooo we were texting a week later and she got somewhat annoyed with me when I took an hour to respond to her and she said that it was one of her pet peeves because she doesn’t really like texting. ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Weird Pet Peeve
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j4jdgi/weird_pet_peeve/
Camera0810
2024-06-18 13:59:52
1,718,719,192
0
['tinder']
0
1dirdqq
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dirdqq/been_single_for_too_long_and_dont_know_how_to/
3
I 21F have been living in Japan for past 10 months. I plan to go back to my country after finishing my studies. I struggle with one perticular issue and that is interacting with people. It might be romantically or making friends. I suck at it a lot. I've been alone in my teenage and now my parents have started asking i...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Been single for too long and don't know how to date now.
3
0.71
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dirdqq/been_single_for_too_long_and_dont_know_how_to/
Somebodybutob0dy
2023-11-02 21:32:50
1,698,960,770
0
['tinder']
0
17mef7d
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17mef7d/tinder_account_help_in_intense_city/
1
Need some help with my bio/photos - based in London so ultra-competitve "dating market" "Either in a pastry shop somewhere reading with a coffee or in the gym. My trip to Paris just got cancelled so looking forward to Dubai and South Africa in December - any travel tips?" https://tinder.com/@moinlondon
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Tinder account help in intense city
1
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17mef7d/tinder_account_help_in_intense_city/
chumbleway
2016-02-04 16:57:12
1,454,605,032
0
['tinder']
0
4464os
null
null
7
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/4464os/should_i_message_her_on_facebook/
4
So, the other day my roommate/drummer's friend came by who he hadn't seen in a while. Turns out she moved down here and just started classes (college town). I came out of my room for the last part of their hang out and just talked for maybe 30 minutes about being single and how funny tinder was. She left and that was t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I message her on facebook?
4
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4464os/should_i_message_her_on_facebook/
Pinkes91
2021-02-22 04:12:07
1,613,967,127
null
['dating apps']
0
lperpm
true
I Need Advice
1
0
/r/dating/comments/lperpm/rusty_not_sure_whats_next/
2
Not sure what to do next... As everyone I have my own issues as any other human being. Maybe I look for a connection in all the wrong places (dating apps) but there’s no other alt. Option for me to meet people. I’ve hooked up and dated people. Just ended a somehow traumatic dating period with someone that abused me emo...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Rusty, not sure what’s next
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lperpm/rusty_not_sure_whats_next/
Pandorasbox2021
2024-07-11 00:00:38
1,720,656,038
0
['dating apps']
0
1e0b1o2
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1e0b1o2/how_to_date_a_workaholic/
1
I have been on 3 dates with this guy in 3 months. We get along great in person and have similar goals In life and both want a lonerm relationship. But here's the issue. He's a workaholic and seems to have no work life balance. He works very late and drives 3-5 hours a day to various job sites. I work weekends so it's h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to date a workaholic
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e0b1o2/how_to_date_a_workaholic/
jomanser
2024-01-16 20:35:55
1,705,437,355
0
['hinge']
0
198d658
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/198d658/should_i_approach_gym_girl_or_send_a_like_on_hinge/
1
There's this girl at my gym that I see all the time who I think is really cute. I'm not sure if I should go talk to her irl or just send the like on hinge. I'm not sociable when I'm in the gym bc I'm super focused, and its hard for me to transition between the two. It kind of makes me wonder if I send her a like, she d...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I approach gym girl or send a like on hinge
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/198d658/should_i_approach_gym_girl_or_send_a_like_on_hinge/
flappypants13579
2019-08-13 15:26:19
1,565,709,979
null
['online dating']
0
cpuo9l
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cpuo9l/i_just_cannot_pull_the_trigger_with_online_dating/
2
So I'm divorced with a five year old kid. I keep starting conversations and then dropping off for a week or two. I know this is not cool to do. Usually I get uncomfortable with one person and then just avoid everyone. I'm scared that someone will harass me or I'll get in some difficult situation like my marriage. I'm k...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I just cannot pull the trigger with online dating
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cpuo9l/i_just_cannot_pull_the_trigger_with_online_dating/
AndLatherRinseRepeat
2014-01-12 01:30:25
1,389,490,225
0
['online dating']
0
1v006a
null
null
42
null
/r/AskWomen/comments/1v006a/what_do_you_ladies_think_about_relationships/
9
Hey ladies. Recently I became single. I've been single before this relationship, but I think I can say for the first time in my life that I am actually actively looking to date with the hopes of a relationship if things go well. So, I have a date scheduled for Thursday evening. I'm really excited and probably even more...
AskWomen
t5_2rxrw
What do you ladies think about relationships starting from online dating?
9
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1v006a/what_do_you_ladies_think_about_relationships/
KeyImpress7690
2024-01-28 22:36:31
1,706,481,391
0
['matched', 'swipe', 'dating app']
0
1adf9pq
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1adf9pq/confusion/
1
Hey all, I’m just kind of confused about a crush I’ve been having. I’m in college, and over the past few months I’ve become friends with this girl in my school. We are in an open-mic club together, and she has complimented my music a few times, even making slight physical contract like on my arm, and even hugging me af...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Confusion
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1adf9pq/confusion/
gokussj3kp7
2021-06-07 19:58:16
1,623,095,896
null
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
nulyag
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/nulyag/never_been_in_a_date_before_wanted_advice_on_how/
0
I'm 22M and never been on a date before because of being an introvert and all, thus i have 0 dating and relationship experience, and a lot of my seniors at my workplace have tried to make me understand that i should start already to get some experience or it'll be a problem later the older i get, so i wanted to know if...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Never been in a date before, wanted advice on how and where to start
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nulyag/never_been_in_a_date_before_wanted_advice_on_how/
throwitawae12
2015-01-20 00:16:23
1,421,712,983
0
['tinder']
0
2sztpz
null
null
6
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2sztpz/i_22f_am_spending_the_night_at_a_guys_24m_parents/
3
Long-time lurker here... anyways, Background: I have been dating this guy I met off Tinder for a couple months and we have been seeing each other about 1-2 times a week. I think he is so nice and smart and awkwardly charming...He just graduated from grad school (masters) and is living at home with his parents for the t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I [22F] am spending the night at a guy's [24M] parents' place this weekend. Help?
3
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2sztpz/i_22f_am_spending_the_night_at_a_guys_24m_parents/
Swinging_at_Balls
2018-08-29 14:19:00
1,535,552,340
null
['tinder']
0
9b9okx
true
null
288
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/9b9okx/tinder_makes_me_feel_like_complete_crap/
356
I have spent so much money on this stupid app with boosts and Tinder gold and it still hasn’t gotten me anywhere. I’ve been ghosted, gotten numbers but didn’t get a text back, been on dates where they said they would like to chill again but never hit me up or reply back. Hell, girls have even given me fake numbers. It’...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Tinder makes me feel like complete crap.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9b9okx/tinder_makes_me_feel_like_complete_crap/
YN_Decks
2021-05-15 00:21:59
1,621,038,119
null
['matched']
0
ncmt2b
true
null
339
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ncmt2b/how_to_courteously_stop_seeing_someone_youve_gone/
576
I matched with someone online about a month ago, and we went on a total of 5 dates. No labels and hadn't gotten too romantically serious, but our conversations were fun and each date would last 3-5 hours, so we spent a decent amount of time together. However, I wasn't quite feeling the romantic chemistry. We had met en...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
How to courteously stop seeing someone you've gone on 4-5 dates with
null
0.98
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ncmt2b/how_to_courteously_stop_seeing_someone_youve_gone/
HungryAnswer1776
2023-06-01 05:53:54
1,685,598,834
0
['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid']
0
13x9kfh
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/13x9kfh/what_tips_can_you_give_me_24m_about_a_fresh_start/
1
For some background, I am 5'7", White/Hispanic mix, dark brown hair & eyes, and around 177lbs. As of today, I have only kissed 3, maybe 4, girls in my life, and none those interactions even mattered to any of them. For the past 10-11 months, I have been in another state for a grad school program that I graduated from a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What tips can you give me (24M) about a fresh start in my home city after being away for nearly a year?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13x9kfh/what_tips_can_you_give_me_24m_about_a_fresh_start/
Sherbert93
2019-11-21 14:19:16
1,574,345,956
null
['hinge']
0
dzjxy3
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dzjxy3/should_i_m26_move_on_from_her_f25/
3
This will likely be a long post because I feel the story is necessary. I typically struggle protecting myself when dating and so I need some advice. I met this girl off Hinge at the beginning of October and it was like a breath of fresh air from the stagnant dating scene I was a part of for the past few months. It felt...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I (M26) move on from her (F25)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dzjxy3/should_i_m26_move_on_from_her_f25/
UseAggravating6406
2023-11-03 06:43:21
1,698,993,801
0
['tinder']
0
17moyq7
true
null
3
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17moyq7/need_advice/
1
Hi guys hope you guys doing okay, anyway I would like your advice if you don't mind: Before six month I met someone on tinder and I didn't know that he was dating already someone, I mean it's not just dating he has boyfriend and he didn't lie about that but the problem he did lie about his states in his relationship, a...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Need advice
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17moyq7/need_advice/
DeanG30
2023-04-19 16:25:14
1,681,921,514
0
null
0
12s1las
true
null
10
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/12s1las/reactivating_your_online_dating_profile/
2
If you deleted your online dating profiles and later re-activated them, what was your reason for doing so?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Re-Activating Your Online Dating Profile?
2
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12s1las/reactivating_your_online_dating_profile/
donjuliosmuse
2020-02-23 23:21:52
1,582,500,112
null
['tinder']
0
f8hud3
true
null
4
1
/r/dating_advice/comments/f8hud3/any_toxic_relationship_relapse_advice/
2
So I (F21) have a bad track record with exes. Most recently I have been just lonely and sexually frustrated. I tried tinder and hooking up randomly but it hasn’t worked out for me, just felt too weird. Recently I hit up my ex (not really since we never were official, just FWB but there were definitely feelings ) anyway...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Any toxic relationship relapse advice?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f8hud3/any_toxic_relationship_relapse_advice/
FROZENLAVA2990
2024-09-27 20:59:55
1,727,470,795
0
['dating apps', 'tinder']
0
1fqy00j
true
Question ❓
91
0
/r/dating/comments/1fqy00j/are_dating_apps_any_good/
14
18/F I hear tinder and some other dating apps are only for hookups and I'm looking for a serious, long time commitment that will end in marriage. Any suggestions guys?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Are dating apps any good?
14
0.68
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fqy00j/are_dating_apps_any_good/
LamborghiniPanawagon
2022-05-10 09:24:53
1,652,174,693
null
['matches']
0
umenco
true
null
13
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/umenco/matches_dont_put_in_as_much_effort_andor_bring_as/
1
I [30s M dating late 20s/early 30s F] find myself initiating and then carrying conversations on apps, over text, phone calls, and/or on actual dates themselves, and I'm not even doing anything that impressive, simply listening, asking questions, trying to be engaging, etc... pretty average stuff, nothing over the top. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Matches don't put in as much effort and/or bring as much to the table
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/umenco/matches_dont_put_in_as_much_effort_andor_bring_as/
thatawkwardmoment8
2021-08-30 18:06:13
1,630,346,773
null
null
0
penkjs
true
null
40
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/penkjs/is_it_even_worth_it_to_entertain_something_where/
30
I’ve met two guys through online dating who became my boyfriend , with one lasting almost a year . From the beginning we mutually were persistent with texting and taking the initiative to at least do a few phone calls before meeting on person . Now I’m single again and unfortunately the only way to really meet people i...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Is it even worth it to entertain something where a guy says they want to “see where things go “
null
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/penkjs/is_it_even_worth_it_to_entertain_something_where/
Dry-Ad8580
2024-04-10 18:38:30
1,712,774,310
0
['online dating']
0
1c0sxz9
true
null
12
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1c0sxz9/is_there_a_point_at_which_one_in_this_case_33m/
9
I (33M) have grappled with loneliness for a long time; despite being an introvert, I know firsthand that there is such a thing as too much solitude. My friends have all gotten married, and most have one or more kids - and so, the proverbial cheese (i.e.., me) stands alone. The problem is, I have absolutely no idea how ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is there a point at which one (in this case 33M) ought to throw in the towel?
8
0.91
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c0sxz9/is_there_a_point_at_which_one_in_this_case_33m/
Ok-Department1767
2024-05-06 11:25:01
1,714,994,701
0
['matched']
0
1clgmwm
true
I Need Advice 😩
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1clgmwm/matched_by_oscar_should_i_go_on_this_date_reposted/
1
(Reposting this as I included a website link on my original post which I didn't realise is against the rules) So back in mid-January I signed up for "Matched by Oscar" on a whim after I saw them on Meetup. I took a good 20-30mins answering some questions, and it sounded semi-promising. More than 3 months later, I recei...
dating
t5_2qhb1
"Matched by Oscar" - should I go on this date (re-posted)
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1clgmwm/matched_by_oscar_should_i_go_on_this_date_reposted/
EVILRAFFAM
2024-08-15 21:27:45
1,723,757,265
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
1et71eo
true
Question ❓
17
0
/r/dating/comments/1et71eo/am_i_getting_breadcrumbed_or_she_just_busy/
3
I matched with a girl three days ago, going to call her C. So C messaged me and we talked and have a decent amount in common. She is busy with work, so I do not hear alot from her, maybe 3 times a day or something like that. After talking for a few days, I thought I would shoot my shot and see if I can get a date and s...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Am I getting breadcrumbed? Or she just busy?
3
0.72
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1et71eo/am_i_getting_breadcrumbed_or_she_just_busy/
LonesomeDove57
2020-12-04 16:46:36
1,607,100,396
null
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
k6oht9
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/k6oht9/dating_in_rural_places/
2
So quick run down. I'm a 26 yo M, and live in a rural county. We have no bars (well two but they're terrible and disgusting), no clubs, nada. You have to drive at least an hour and a half to a big city. I was in military, got out came back home, and don't know anyone. I've been using dating apps, mainly tinder, bumble,...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating in Rural Places
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k6oht9/dating_in_rural_places/
bbgurl
2013-09-16 19:56:02
1,379,361,362
0
['tinder']
0
1mitgd
null
null
8
null
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1mitgd/have_any_twox_ladies_used_tinder/
5
Just wondering what the experience was like. Have you met anyone you liked from it? Or are all the guys on there just looking for a fast hookup (like grinder)?
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Have any twox ladies used Tinder?
5
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1mitgd/have_any_twox_ladies_used_tinder/
AllTheXylophones
2024-02-28 06:58:29
1,709,103,509
0
['matched', 'swiping', 'tinder']
0
1b1zraw
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b1zraw/reconnecting_with_an_old_fling_both_midlate_20s/
3
Almost a couple years back when I was living in Seattle, I was swiping on Tinder and matched with this gorgeous woman (let's call her Ellie) with a bio mentioning she would be in the city for a weekend. I messaged her asking her to let me be her tour guide, and we hit it off. When we actually met in person, we had inst...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Reconnecting with an old fling (both mid-late 20s) - how do I go about this?
3
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b1zraw/reconnecting_with_an_old_fling_both_midlate_20s/
Own_Butterscotch_342
2024-02-08 14:42:29
1,707,403,349
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
1alx8t4
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1alx8t4/unsure_if_shes_truly_interested/
1
So I've (22M) been talking to this girl (18F) for 3 weeks that I matched with on tinder. We had our first date last week and it went really well, bought her flowers, took her out to eat. We eventually made out, cuddled and eventually even some oral sex. We both agreed that we didn't want to just hook up, I even said "I...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Unsure if she's truly interested.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1alx8t4/unsure_if_shes_truly_interested/
PistolJuice
2023-06-11 14:18:40
1,686,493,120
0
null
0
146v3td
true
null
26
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/146v3td/is_it_okay_to_not_want_to_call_someone/
2
If I’m texting someone I match with, is it okay to skip the phone/video calls before meeting in person? Is setting up a call something most people try to do? If so, why? Couldn’t you have just as good of a conversation through text? Texting is just a lot easier and more comfortable for me. I get really tense and anxiou...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Is it okay to not want to call someone?
2
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/146v3td/is_it_okay_to_not_want_to_call_someone/
danny244888
2021-01-05 04:15:27
1,609,820,127
null
['dating app']
0
kqqaqr
true
I Need Advice
1
0
/r/dating/comments/kqqaqr/am_i_alone/
1
Is it just me or is it every time I talk to any woman that isn't like a friend of mine that all women just stop responding to me after couple days. Makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. Now I guess I'll fill in missing segments of this. Meet someone on well conveniently a dating app, even though they never work...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Am I alone?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kqqaqr/am_i_alone/
meisoo27
2018-06-22 17:13:15
1,529,687,595
null
['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
8t319d
true
null
30
0
/r/dating/comments/8t319d/19f_what_the_fuck_am_i_doing_wrong/
24
Let’s cut to the chase. I’m 19F and fairly attractive. I’m mixed- Asian/Hispanic, and 5”9. People have a hard time guessing where I’m from and love to throw in I’m ‘exotic’. I turn heads whenever I walk down the street and have gotten a few creeps to physically follow me to try to get my number. Keyword: creeps. Yet, w...
dating
t5_2qhb1
19F what the fuck am I doing wrong
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8t319d/19f_what_the_fuck_am_i_doing_wrong/
ttthrowwawwayyyyyy
2024-03-24 13:00:58
1,711,285,258
0
['hinge']
0
1bmk763
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bmk763/how_should_i_20f_make_amends_with_my_friend_21m/
1
I 20F have very little experience with men and dating. I had a boyfriend for a year in high school but since we went to different schools and were both too young to drive I don’t consider that a real relationship. I’m in college and I have even less going on now. Freshman year was on Zoom so I barely even had friends l...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How should I 20F make amends with my friend 21M after we kissed and never spoke again?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bmk763/how_should_i_20f_make_amends_with_my_friend_21m/
bojanglez34
2017-02-10 07:59:35
1,486,713,575
null
['dating apps', 'tinder']
0
5t628s
null
null
9
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/5t628s/dating_apps/
1
Hey I don't really go out much and when I do there's not really any attractive girls lol what are some good dating apps besides tinder? I already use tinder
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating apps
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5t628s/dating_apps/
8Captcrunch8
2023-03-06 00:51:06
1,678,063,866
null
['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
11jjhmz
true
null
13
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/11jjhmz/online_dating_isnt_designed_for_you/
5
Recognize that the sole purpose of these apps isnt to help you find a relationship. The app is there to generate money. It depends on you being single and lonely. Example. Cars of yesteryear are exceptionally easier to maintain then current vehicles. It wasnt uncommon to find your neighbor changing his(im a guy folks. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
online dating isnt designed for you.
null
0.7
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11jjhmz/online_dating_isnt_designed_for_you/
jimmiefan48forever
2023-03-20 09:21:32
1,679,304,092
null
['online dating']
0
11wduf7
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/11wduf7/am_i_22m_justified_for_giving_up/
1
So I waned to vent/make a rant but I’m not sure which sub to put it in. The title is correct, I’ve officially given up on finding love because it just feels impossible for me. I’m a 22 year old man and I’ve been romantically lonely for 7 years now and I don’t see it ever changing. I had a pretty fun childhood, everythi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I (22M) justified for giving up?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11wduf7/am_i_22m_justified_for_giving_up/
AudaciousPanther
2023-08-13 00:14:36
1,691,885,676
0
null
0
15pk2r3
true
null
38
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/15pk2r3/unpopular_opinion_men_know_from_the_very_first/
1
I have a lot of female friends who struggle getting commitment from men they like and they hope that one day he'll magically come around. As a man, I can promise that we almost always know if we're going to pursue a relationship with you from date one. Is she pretty, cool personality and have her shit together? If yes,...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Unpopular Opinion: Men know from the very first date if you're girlfriend material or not
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15pk2r3/unpopular_opinion_men_know_from_the_very_first/
Gauss-JordanMatrix
2024-06-03 19:52:28
1,717,444,348
0
['tinder']
0
1d7dqj7
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
7
0
/r/dating/comments/1d7dqj7/i_fumbled_an_1110_i_know_its_dumb_for_me_to_be/
1
Like, she was basically Megan Fox on Transformers 1. I literally ordered creatine, pre-workout, arginine, and all the other supplements I used when I was shredded again. It was a massive self-confidence boost. Then I fumbled by saying "Just say no if you're uninterested" after she kept me on read for 6 hours. I had ask...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I fumbled an 11/10, I know it's dumb for me to be sad about this but I just want to vent.
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d7dqj7/i_fumbled_an_1110_i_know_its_dumb_for_me_to_be/
Veench333
2023-10-17 19:46:34
1,697,571,994
0
null
0
17a6vhy
true
null
0
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/17a6vhy/is_match_worth_using_as_a_free_member_has_it/
1
I used Match several years ago but it was almost impossible to use it as a free member as you couldn't message anyone at all unless you paid for a sub. I just tried it again and it seems to have a Tinder like/pass kind of system now that I don't remember being there before. I'm considering trying it out again properly ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Is Match worth using as a free member? Has it changed since I last used it?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17a6vhy/is_match_worth_using_as_a_free_member_has_it/
Tinyboxturtle
2018-06-12 03:19:32
1,528,773,572
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
8qfol3
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8qfol3/still_not_over_guy_i_only_went_on_a_few_dates/
2
Long story short: matched on tinder w/ dude at my school. We met up a few times and eventually went out. Nothing happened but we had a good time and I felt like we had a lot in common. He stopped messaging me after a while and I got the hint. It's been a month and a half now though and I still find myself tempted to me...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Still not over guy I only went on a few dates with a month and a half ago. Is this normal?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8qfol3/still_not_over_guy_i_only_went_on_a_few_dates/
Walg1989
2019-11-16 20:42:33
1,573,936,953
null
['matched', 'dating app']
0
dxcdnx
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dxcdnx/advice_first_date_from_dating_app_match/
1
I'm a 21yr M. So I matched with a girl that I've chatted with for couple days on a dating app. It usually ends here for me but I hope it will be different this time. My go-to would be to ask her out to grab a coffee (she's not old enough to go to the bars) but she's a damn barista lol i'm sure she wouldn't want to go t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
ADVICE- First date from dating app match
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dxcdnx/advice_first_date_from_dating_app_match/
Pepperidgefarm21
2022-02-23 17:29:35
1,645,637,375
null
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
szmwzq
true
null
18
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/szmwzq/how_do_i_ask_if_we_are_exlusive/
4
Been out of the dating game for a like 4 years after a rough breakup. Me(27M) and this girl I met on Hinge (24F) have been seeing each other for about 2 months I want to say and I really like her. I am weird and paused my dating apps on the second date ( don't like talking to a ton of girls at a time, I know it's dumb)...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I ask if we are exlusive?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/szmwzq/how_do_i_ask_if_we_are_exlusive/
FeelingMatch
2018-07-06 09:35:33
1,530,869,733
null
['matches']
0
8wiqyo
true
null
13
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8wiqyo/anybody_have_some_tips_on_how_to_come_up_with/
3
When the profile is empty, all I can think of is the generic "hey what's up". Otherwise, I make a comment about something on their profile if they have a bio. But sometimes I have problems coming up with something to say when it's a statement of some sort, for example, one of my matches on JustDating has "this is how I...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Anybody have some tips on how to come up with better openers?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8wiqyo/anybody_have_some_tips_on_how_to_come_up_with/
UberFantastic
2019-04-23 23:47:48
1,556,063,268
null
['OLD']
0
bgni8s
true
null
44
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bgni8s/rate_my_rejection_text/
21
I‘m pretty new at OLD, and last week went on a date with a guy who I didn’t really click with. He’s a nice guy, but we just had no chemistry and no flow to our conversation. Lots of awkward silences and politely laughing at jokes etc. This guy, let’s call him Fred, has just asked me over to his home for dinner, and now...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Rate my rejection text?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bgni8s/rate_my_rejection_text/
EggyBabi
2024-05-18 05:38:10
1,716,010,690
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
1cuq7x0
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cuq7x0/i_had_sex_before_getting_into_a_relationship_with/
1
I'm 21 (F) and before about a month ish or so ago I hadn't done anything physical with a guy except one awkward kiss I had at 19. I matched with this guy on a dating app when I moved to the state I currently live in about a year and half ago now. We've been talking for about like 500 days and we hadn't met in person un...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I had sex before getting into a relationship with a guy and I don't know how or if I should ask what it meant to him
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cuq7x0/i_had_sex_before_getting_into_a_relationship_with/
1996brown-eyed-girl
2017-12-22 11:22:23
1,513,941,743
null
['tinder']
0
7lgv73
false
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7lgv73/i_went_on_a_really_awkward_first_date_and_i_seek/
8
I went on a first date with this guy I met on Tinder. He was nice, but socially awkward. Honestly I thought I was shy and awkward, but FUCK I wracked my brain to find ANYTHING to talk about for the hour and a half we were together. There was a decent amount of awkward silence where I blurted out completely irrelevant a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I went on a really awkward first date and I seek opinions and wisdom and reassurance.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7lgv73/i_went_on_a_really_awkward_first_date_and_i_seek/
SlimAndFast
2021-06-07 01:58:12
1,623,031,092
null
['dating app', 'dating platform']
0
nu1a3m
true
Question
30
0
/r/dating/comments/nu1a3m/dating_platform_for_teens/
0
I don’t want to try girls from my school anymore, I want to find a dating app for teens. Any ideas? I’m ready to solve my problem lmao
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating platform for teens?
null
0.44
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nu1a3m/dating_platform_for_teens/
Top_Arachnid378
2024-07-24 20:40:45
1,721,853,645
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
1ebc0b9
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1ebc0b9/guys_help_me_am_i_getting_love_bombed_im_so/
1
A few weeks ago I matched w a guy on hinge since we both gonna go Japan for traveling we start talking, and a few days in, he seemed to really like me, I was gonna go Okinawa in Japan, but that’s not in his plan. However, he changed his plan and booked the hotel n flight just to see me, also said he got sth for me in J...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Guys help me am I getting love bombed I’m so confused
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ebc0b9/guys_help_me_am_i_getting_love_bombed_im_so/
DatingQThrowaway1
2021-05-05 22:22:48
1,620,253,368
null
['online dating']
0
n5sb94
true
null
93
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/n5sb94/how_should_i_bring_up_my_31m_felony_conviction/
58
About 5 years ago I (31m) was convicted of a white-collar felony involving falsifying records, requiring my changing career fields, and I served 6 months on home detention with an ankle bracelet. This was well publicized and is easily discoverable via Google with my unique name... I'm extraordinarily embarrassed about ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
How should I bring up my (31m) felony conviction?
null
0.9
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/n5sb94/how_should_i_bring_up_my_31m_felony_conviction/
lohexaj273
2022-05-10 19:57:08
1,652,212,628
null
['online dating']
0
umr8fi
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/umr8fi/how_do_i_move_on_or_proceed/
0
I just got rejected and now I don't know what to do. I've never had anyone and I'm way too old to never have had a relationship period. Even my own mom choose a relationship with her boyfriend over her kids. I've been alone my whole life and I always hear people talk about how relationships are bad and stuff, but I jus...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I move on or proceed?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/umr8fi/how_do_i_move_on_or_proceed/
StarMunch28
2024-03-30 05:47:04
1,711,777,624
0
['dating apps']
0
1bragpa
true
Giving Advice 💌
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1bragpa/been_single_awhile/
10
I haven’t had a long lasting relationship in 3 years and honestly I’m trying hard to meet people that really wanna talk or be serious. I feel like communicating how I felt was always difficult back then but I feel like I’ve became a different person now I got my drivers license at 20 ,I’m finally focusing on trying to ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Been single awhile :/
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bragpa/been_single_awhile/
cupidshold
2023-08-29 23:07:15
1,693,350,435
0
['dating app']
0
164xlkm
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/164xlkm/how_to_go_forwards/
1
Hello! I (18NB) met a person through a dating app (genderfluid, 18NB). We get along really well and I enjoy our conversations. There's no issues apart from the fact they're texting is awful. When they do text we have great conversations. They've apologised multiple times (without me asking). Recently we went 3 days wit...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to go forwards
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/164xlkm/how_to_go_forwards/
TheJoestJoeEver
2021-07-13 09:57:52
1,626,170,272
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
ojcee9
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ojcee9/someone_looked_for_me_on_tinder_we_matched_then/
4
Hey everyone. I have this girl in my gym, whom 2 weeks ago i exchanged intense eye contact with. I generally don't pursue a woman at the gym. I go back home, i download tinder to find her, but i don't. The next day she finds me (apparently she downloaded it or activated it overnight), and we match. I send a message, bu...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Someone looked for me on tinder, we matched, then she disappeared
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ojcee9/someone_looked_for_me_on_tinder_we_matched_then/
Big-Awareness-9547
2024-08-11 00:01:47
1,723,334,507
0
['matches', 'swiped', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'badoo', 'okcupid']
0
1ep74xk
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ep74xk/decided_on_completing_giving_up/
1
Haven't had any luck at all for almost four years since I've entered the dating game at all. I've tried using a plethora of apps such as Skout, Meetme, Flurv, Badoo, Okcupid, Hinge, Nymph, and Bumble. But the ones that have caused me completely to give up were Tinder and Tagged. I've posted decent pictures of myself, w...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Decided On Completing Giving Up
1
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ep74xk/decided_on_completing_giving_up/
MrGoatmaster69
2024-03-05 19:44:43
1,709,667,883
0
['online dating', 'bumble']
0
1b7eiai
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b7eiai/opposite_views_on_kids_chat_now_or_facetoface/
1
I'm heading out on a date with a girl next week. Interestingly, she has a badge (bumble - online dating) that declares, "I don't want kids," while mine is the opposite, "I do want kids." I'm pondering over the timing to bring this up. Should I address before we even meet, perhaps through chat? Or is it wiser to wait un...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Opposite Views on Kids: Chat Now or Face-to-Face?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b7eiai/opposite_views_on_kids_chat_now_or_facetoface/
Wolfforlunch
2021-08-17 00:55:53
1,629,161,753
null
['matched', 'dating app']
0
p5tbth
true
null
17
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/p5tbth/i_m_28_want_to_ask_this_girl_to_go_on_a_date_with/
8
Here's a wild one. I matched with this girl on a dating app, and I knew right away she looked extremely familiar to me; anyway, I sent her a message but never got a reply back and it's been like 3-4 days. Today, I randomly did a search for her name in my phone contacts, and found a contact with the same first name as t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I [M 28] want to ask this girl to go on a date with me, but don't know how to approach it. Need help.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p5tbth/i_m_28_want_to_ask_this_girl_to_go_on_a_date_with/
TiniestRickk
2017-03-05 03:12:19
1,488,683,539
null
['online dating']
0
5xku0r
null
null
14
null
/r/dating/comments/5xku0r/should_i_just_give_up/
2
So I'm 26, male, and from the US. When I was younger I used to go to bars and clubs but I haven't been in awhile, and while I have been successful at dating in the past I feel like I've hit a wall now. I've done a lot of online dating lately but no real success, and I feel like what I want in the dating world is unatta...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I just give up?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5xku0r/should_i_just_give_up/
mevich417
2020-10-11 02:35:09
1,602,383,709
null
['tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
j8xgaz
true
I Need Advice
9
0
/r/dating/comments/j8xgaz/please_give_me_some_dating_tipssuggestions_single/
6
Hi all. I'm a 29 year old male. Active/fit/ career focused/live on my own/make great money. Healthy mentally, physically, emotionally. I consider myself pretty attractive and always had a lot of partners in high school and college. Getting women was easy, and relationships were usually successful. Fast forward some yea...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Please give me some dating tips/suggestions. Single male and getting extremely BORED
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j8xgaz/please_give_me_some_dating_tipssuggestions_single/
throwaway2233445589
2022-10-08 19:55:56
1,665,258,956
null
['tinder']
0
xz1yqn
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xz1yqn/hi_everyone_im_a_22_year_old_working_engineer/
0
Tinder seems to be working very badly (only meeting fuckboys) so I deleted it. Where can I “put myself out there”? I’m good looking (not perfect but very pretty) so I feel like I could get approached, but I don’t have many friends, I don’t drink, smoke and I’m a virgin (not looking to lose it). Any hope for me? Advice?...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Hi everyone. I’m a 22 year old working Engineer. Where can I meet people irl?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xz1yqn/hi_everyone_im_a_22_year_old_working_engineer/
2Pac-Lives
2021-03-29 16:37:08
1,617,035,828
null
['tinder']
0
mftjg8
true
null
45
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/mftjg8/how_do_i_tell_a_woman_that_im_still_a_virgin/
28
So here's the deal, I'm already 35-years-old and I've just started officially dating. I finally worked up the courage to ask this woman out that I've been talking to on Tinder, and we've already been out on a few dates and had a great time. But she just told me that on our next date she wants to have sex, and I haven't...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I tell a woman that I'm still a virgin without scaring her away?
null
0.97
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mftjg8/how_do_i_tell_a_woman_that_im_still_a_virgin/
Icy-Race2642
2024-03-04 20:09:35
1,709,582,975
0
['dating apps']
0
1b6krj4
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1b6krj4/does_dont_want_children_mean_youre_not_open_to/
100
Question - in dating apps, when someone has "don't want" for kids, does that mainly mean they don't want to pop out a baby with their future partner, or does it also mean they don't want to date single parents who have kids, say half time, from a previous relationship?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Does "don't want children" mean you're not open to dating single parents?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b6krj4/does_dont_want_children_mean_youre_not_open_to/
thehalfguard
2018-04-25 21:36:35
1,524,692,195
0
['online dating']
0
8exc2x
false
null
16
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8exc2x/how_long_do_you_push_the_conversation/
3
When you ask questions, try to be engaging and get just an answer back when do you stop push/engaging and asking questions? I'm pretty content at the moment, so if I get an answer with no engagement I've been just giving up on the conversation recently. Curious where you all draw the line. Edit: Also to be clear, I'm s...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
How long do you push the conversation?
3
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8exc2x/how_long_do_you_push_the_conversation/
Superb-Pattern-1253
2024-02-27 06:08:49
1,709,014,129
0
['hinge']
0
1b14rgf
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b14rgf/may_have_fucked_things_up_did_she_leave_the_door/
1
so i (33m) met a girl of hinge (31f) about 2 months ago. we have hung out a few times (5) done various things but were usually together a few hours at a time. things seemed to be going well but i may have messed things up. basically what happened was i knew she was going out of town for a bit and i was trying to see he...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
may have fucked things up? did she leave the door open? is my plan the best way to proceed?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b14rgf/may_have_fucked_things_up_did_she_leave_the_door/
TheOverthinkingGuy30
2018-04-11 22:09:41
1,523,484,581
0
['tinder']
0
8bl3dv
false
null
18
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8bl3dv/tinder_selfdescription_advice_needed/
5
I search for a long term partner, but wouldn't mind a hook up until I got a serious match, but how do I write this without turning off the girls who are searching for a loyal guy, which I really am. My current one is: "Open for both, casual and long term relationships", which isn't ideal IMO (obviously I wrote my hobbi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Tinder self-description advice needed.
5
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8bl3dv/tinder_selfdescription_advice_needed/
Patient-Regret-6722
2024-04-09 20:26:37
1,712,694,397
0
['online dating']
0
1c029zw
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1c029zw/online_dating/
1
Hi everyone I’ve been single for awhile after my girlfriend dumped me on my birthday a few years ago. I have had the occasional one night stand or just having friends set me up but it never goes anywhere. I’m wondering if anyone has advice of online dating or something? I am a 23male and idk where to go from here. Any ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Online dating
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c029zw/online_dating/
mike1234456
2022-11-24 19:06:49
1,669,316,809
null
null
0
z3s0o4
true
null
20
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/z3s0o4/new_special_someone_being_really_really_nice/
15
I matched with this woman (I’m a guy) almost a week ago and we’ve been FaceTiming everyday since then, messaging each other through out the day etc… some Lovey dovey shit… She always give me compliments and we both mention that we’ve never experienced such a connection before never having met someone in real life. We d...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
New special someone being really really nice
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0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/z3s0o4/new_special_someone_being_really_really_nice/
[deleted]
2014-12-06 14:57:06
1,417,877,826
0
['tinder']
0
2ognqp
null
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9
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/r/dating_advice/comments/2ognqp/date_ill_let_you_know_texting_18m/
6
Lately I've just done stuff the quick way: I meet a girl, text/chat with her for a short while and ask her on a date. The conversations were always interesting imo and were never like 'hello, how are you, etc...'. They almost all reply with "I'll get you know." and you guessed it, of course they don't let me know. I do...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
"Date?", "I'll let you know" texting. [18M]
6
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2ognqp/date_ill_let_you_know_texting_18m/
FunctionFamous8410
2023-01-04 02:16:35
1,672,798,595
null
['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
102r2qb
true
null
39
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/102r2qb/need_advice/
0
I (28 f) have been messaging a couple of men on dating apps, mostly hinge and bumble. Men have come out and said many dates they’ve gone on women haven’t looked how they had anticipated them to look. I asked them to elaborate and they insinuated these women were much larger than their photos and looked completely diffe...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Need advice
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/102r2qb/need_advice/
Ok_Shoulder6615
2024-05-23 00:50:27
1,716,425,427
0
['matches', 'online dating']
0
1cyg862
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cyg862/any_tips_for_how_to_meet_people_in_the_real_world/
1
for context I’m 19m, 6’0, pretty attractive. But I’m very shy when it comes to taking to ladies. I only have guy friends. Some have met their partners online, and the rest have met through mutual friends. But none of my guy friends have many friends that are girls. So that’s not an option for me. I’ve tired online dati...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Any tips for how to meet people in the real world?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cyg862/any_tips_for_how_to_meet_people_in_the_real_world/
samlosco7
2019-12-18 11:34:45
1,576,668,885
null
['online dating', 'pof']
0
ecbgcp
true
I Need Advice
15
0
/r/dating/comments/ecbgcp/is_it_possible_to_find_a_date_other_than_the/
0
I'm 28 years old fit body and half way decent looking but not perfect. Fist thing I wanna mention is online dating. I use meet me, pof, and scout, Facebook. I have had conversations and some meet ups not that I call that a date. It's been 3 years since I've had sex not that I'm worried about that but the point is it se...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is it possible to find a date other than the internet?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ecbgcp/is_it_possible_to_find_a_date_other_than_the/