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BurnerForThisPost
2012-01-14 01:42:16
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['dating site']
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og9fp
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null
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null
/r/dating_advice/comments/og9fp/what_makes_a_good_dating_site_profile/
2
I decided to go on on a dating site a while ago. At 22, I consider myself a bit too young to be using a site like that, but I rarely get a chance to talk to women so I thought I would give it a go. I haven't really written much on there because I fear that it would sound totally lame. I am average looking and have a pi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What makes a good dating site profile?
2
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/og9fp/what_makes_a_good_dating_site_profile/
Kelly1139
2017-08-13 16:59:34
1,502,643,574
null
['online dating', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'pof', 'okcupid']
0
6tg8cl
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null
2
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/r/dating_advice/comments/6tg8cl/online_dating_sites_which_ones_do_you_prefer_and/
3
Online dating has become a staple for singles in our society these days. Many havv found long lasting, meaningful relationships via online dating. In my experience not all dating sites/apps are equal, and I'm curious to know which ones you all enjoy the most. OKcupid, POF, Tinder, ect... What dating sites have you trie...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Online Dating Sites - Which ones do you prefer and why?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6tg8cl/online_dating_sites_which_ones_do_you_prefer_and/
margo_th
2024-09-27 18:44:40
1,727,462,680
0
['dating site', 'pof']
0
1fquya3
true
null
14
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/r/dating_advice/comments/1fquya3/should_i_meet_him_32f_35m/
1
I met my Bf on dating site it's called POF. We both claimed that we're now in relationship and he does told me he is in love with me and he does say he loves me everyday and he truly cares about me. He is a Paramedic we have not seen each other yet because the job that he's in. But he decided to quit the job and so he ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I meet him? 32F 35M
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fquya3/should_i_meet_him_32f_35m/
HIFDLTY
2017-10-19 03:18:58
1,508,383,138
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
77bvl7
false
null
45
0
/r/AskMen/comments/77bvl7/guys_who_have_an_ex_that_theyve_never_gotten_over/
53
3 years on for me and I'm still completely messed up from breaking up with my ex girlfriend. I've tried pretty much everything, new hobbies, new friends, new outlook. Tried and Tinder and Bumble and honestly I just don't feel attracted to anyone at all anymore. Was on medication until March, it didn't help. I'm in ther...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
Guys who have an ex that they've never gotten over, how do you deal with it?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/77bvl7/guys_who_have_an_ex_that_theyve_never_gotten_over/
sanohe
2021-05-15 14:12:54
1,621,087,974
null
['matches', 'swiping']
0
nczs3m
true
null
77
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/nczs3m/women_who_are_dating_younger_men_7_years_or_more/
54
I'm 35 and live in a major coastal city. I divorced 4 years ago and have 3 kids. When I got back into dating my assumption was that I would work best with older guys. Maybe late 30s and early to mid 40s. The opposite has been true. Despite me consistently swiping on guys my age and older (as well as guys younger) my mo...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Women who are dating younger men (7 years or more). How has the experience been?
null
0.87
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/nczs3m/women_who_are_dating_younger_men_7_years_or_more/
ViceVersaMedia
2023-06-24 13:36:15
1,687,613,775
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
14hta14
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/14hta14/24m_should_i_try_to_play_off_a_dumb_text_i_sent/
1
We matched some time last week, and have been texting on the phone semi-regularly since Thursday. I was a bit drunk last night and made a particularly immature joke thinking I was being cute/funny. For context: she works very long hours and on weekends only. I was out at the bar around 9 when I check up on her, I ask “...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[24M] Should I try to play off a dumb text I sent to a Tinder match or just move on?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14hta14/24m_should_i_try_to_play_off_a_dumb_text_i_sent/
RareMoon1
2020-06-15 20:43:21
1,592,253,801
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
h9oh5g
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/h9oh5g/guy23m_visible_on_snap_map_only_for_me20f_when/
2
Don’t know if this belongs here, but people of reddit I need your opinion I dated this guy 5 weeks ago and it got pretty complicated. He didn’t show me enough so I ended up having sex with another guy, then told him about it, then he said it was fine at last, then we decided to carry on and then I found out he was text...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Guy(23M) visible on snap map only for me(20F) when not dating?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/h9oh5g/guy23m_visible_on_snap_map_only_for_me20f_when/
holmesksp1
2021-06-17 01:32:57
1,623,893,577
null
['matches', 'swipes', 'OLD']
0
o1l2xb
true
I Need Advice
12
0
/r/dating/comments/o1l2xb/how_should_i_manage_old_multiple_matches_without/
3
So luckily after a dry spell of dead-end conversations and actually not doing much of any new likes and swipes on several apps I've gotten several matches with people that I liked weeks ago, all at once and the convos are going somewhere. Managed to set up a date with two of them, one of them just happened today and we...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How should I manage OLD multiple matches without being overwhelmed?
null
0.72
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o1l2xb/how_should_i_manage_old_multiple_matches_without/
Pure-Network644
2022-01-08 12:47:53
1,641,646,073
null
['dating app']
0
ryz45l
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ryz45l/was_seeing_someone_for_6_months_and_seemingly_out/
1
Redditors, I’d just really like some help on processing this. Any advice on how to move on would be greatly appreciated! I met this person on a dating app, we took a couple of months to meet for various reasons but spoke everyday. They were definitely more interested in me to begin with. I can be a bit ‘difficult’ but ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Was seeing someone for 6 months and seemingly out of nowhere they said they didn’t want a relationship
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ryz45l/was_seeing_someone_for_6_months_and_seemingly_out/
readyheartsx
2019-10-06 23:22:07
1,570,404,127
null
['dating apps']
0
deb5kp
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/deb5kp/anyone_else_do_this_or_is_it_just_me/
1
I’m using a few dating apps which probably isn’t a good idea because I just got out of a serious relationship. But anyways some of these dudes like to talk themselves up to me “Oh wow you are so sexy I think we’ll make a great couple” add me on all social media. Act all into it the first couple of days. And then just c...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Anyone else do this or is it just me?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/deb5kp/anyone_else_do_this_or_is_it_just_me/
JohnnyTallGuy
2024-02-27 13:15:24
1,709,039,724
0
['tinder', 'bumble', 'pof']
0
1b1bkvo
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b1bkvo/where_to_start_uk/
1
I'm bored of casual and non existent promises I actually want a full on long term maybe more relationship. I'm 54 what age would I match with I'm very young at heart and very fit. I know of Tinder POF etc etc and I don't know which to invest in I hear Bumble is the only one not owned by match group. What's does a 45 to...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Where to start UK
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b1bkvo/where_to_start_uk/
PeacesofAutumn
2019-06-02 21:47:22
1,559,512,042
null
['hinge']
0
bw2qe1
true
Giving Advice
6
0
/r/dating/comments/bw2qe1/went_on_3_different_dates_in_3_days/
1
Date 1 with old fwb on Friday. 30 mins before he “cancels” because he’s called in to work. Ok cool probably was a bad idea anyways. Date 2 with guy I’ve been on a few dates with before on Saturday. Art show followed by dinner where he “forgets” his wallet at home. Ok cool I’ll pay for dinner no big deal. Pretty sure ea...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Went on 3 different dates in 3 days.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bw2qe1/went_on_3_different_dates_in_3_days/
Any-Rest-394
2024-05-25 13:19:08
1,716,643,148
0
['hinge']
0
1d0bvi2
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d0bvi2/what_is_the_reason_for_this/
1
Marched with a guy on hinge about a year and a half ago, we talked for about two months but it was clear he only wanted something physical so I never met up with him or moved forward. I ended contact and he ended up in a new relationship and he’s been dating that person for a little over a year now, except a handful of...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What is the reason for this
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d0bvi2/what_is_the_reason_for_this/
Appropriate-Shift841
2024-04-23 03:02:47
1,713,841,367
0
['matches', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
1cau3on
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cau3on/been_on_dating_apps_for_3_months_and_no_luck/
1
I’m using bumble and Hinge, I pay for premium but still zero matches What I’m doing wrong? I have 6 good pictures on my profile.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Been on dating apps for 3 months and no luck
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cau3on/been_on_dating_apps_for_3_months_and_no_luck/
xsbfloraison
2019-01-10 02:24:33
1,547,087,073
null
['swipe', 'dating app', 'tinder']
0
aeeex3
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/aeeex3/on_the_dating_app_while_with_me_does_this_sound/
5
hi guys, Im a 22F who met this man 30M through tinder about 2 months ago. background- we chatted for about a week before deciding to meet. unlike other guys I have met, he never tried to get physical with me. I was the one who initiated our first kiss on the 5th date. he texts me everyday and is basically a total gentl...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
on the dating app while with me... does this sound like a bad idea?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aeeex3/on_the_dating_app_while_with_me_does_this_sound/
RandomBelgian125
2023-09-24 07:58:19
1,695,542,299
0
['hinge']
0
16qrw0g
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16qrw0g/am_i_in_the_wrong_for_not_wanting_to_be_friends/
1
As I cannot seem to post this on Am I The Asshole, I thought I would put it here to hear about what you people think about this. So just before summer, I (23m) met this girl (21f) on Hinge. We start talking and get along well and after a while we hang out for the first time. Anyway, she is in an open relationship and d...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I in the wrong for not wanting to be friends after FWB?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16qrw0g/am_i_in_the_wrong_for_not_wanting_to_be_friends/
Cold-Corgi6775
2023-03-20 20:38:42
1,679,344,722
null
null
0
11wv2nd
true
null
39
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/11wv2nd/got_love_bombed_and_no_hookup_what_a_ride/
4
How would you interpret this? Love Bombed Met a girl on bumble. Immediately texting non stop. Both seemed to vibe very well. Sexting happened very quickly like day 2. She sends full nudes and the works. Always texting me good morning. We went on a date and it went very well. Spent 8 hours, made out a bit. Texted about ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Got love bombed and no hookup, what a ride
null
0.63
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11wv2nd/got_love_bombed_and_no_hookup_what_a_ride/
Wonderment55
2020-03-25 01:42:06
1,585,100,526
null
['online dating']
0
foht4w
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/foht4w/women_dont_give_guys_a_chance_in_online_dating/
6
You can and you can't tell anything about anyone from three photos and three paragraphs in an online dating profile. It's not the Holy Grail. Then people falsify profiles via age, inaccurate pictures, inaccurate marital status. I find that even with a well written dating profile and good pics far too many women don't g...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Women don't give guys a chance in online dating... not really. How can they?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/foht4w/women_dont_give_guys_a_chance_in_online_dating/
thewhymachine
2018-01-18 01:29:34
1,516,238,974
null
['OLD']
0
7r64lv
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null
2
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7r64lv/returning_after_a_ltr_could_use_some_advice_on/
1
Hi all, Ive been lurking in this sub but haven't posted yet. Ive been separated for over a year, and my divorce should be final quite soon. Due to a variety of problems with my ex, I have my 7 year old all but one night a week, so I feel it would be unfair to a potential partner seek an actual relationship at this time...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Returning after a LTR, could use some advice on getting started.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7r64lv/returning_after_a_ltr_could_use_some_advice_on/
therealmccoy1998
2024-03-31 13:31:31
1,711,891,891
0
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
1bsahhl
true
I Need Advice 😩
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1bsahhl/am_i_doing_something_wrong/
1
I’m an attractive (I’ve been told) male (25Y/O) who has recently been looking to settle down and find my future partner. I live in a very small state in the US and have lost hope in finding anyone through dating apps, in my previous life I would use them for casual sex and meaningless connection. I’m not sure that onli...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Am I doing something wrong?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bsahhl/am_i_doing_something_wrong/
SpringingTime
2021-06-29 03:00:02
1,624,935,602
null
['bumble']
0
o9zloi
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/o9zloi/ghostedfuture_advice/
1
I was ghosted on my first date ever. I (29 F) had been messaging with a guy (31 M) in my town for a week on Bumble. On the eighth day, he asked me out for coffee. We made plans to go out six days later at a certain time and place. We texted every day in the meantime. The day before the scheduled date, he messaged me ab...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Ghosted...Future Advice?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o9zloi/ghostedfuture_advice/
jwc_11
2023-08-13 15:56:33
1,691,942,193
0
['matched', 'bumble']
0
15q2gp6
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15q2gp6/i_23m_am_being_ghosted_by_a_girl_23f_i_met_on/
1
I had matched with this girl on bumble about 2 weeks ago. We hit it off on bumble and I got her number after less than a day of exchanging messages on bumble. After that we consistently texted everyday. She was responding to texts pretty quickly and had engaging texts, not one to two word answers. We ended up FaceTimin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (23M) am being ghosted by a girl (23F) I met on bumble
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15q2gp6/i_23m_am_being_ghosted_by_a_girl_23f_i_met_on/
Mundane-Wedding3109
2023-11-07 05:16:47
1,699,334,207
0
['bumble']
0
17pn3op
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/17pn3op/how_can_i_get_out_of_the_phase_of_just_talking/
1
I don’t wanna just talk I want to go out and meet him . Any advice will be well received . We already exchange numbers and we talk regularly but both of the dates we have planned didn’t happened bc I was busy or him.
dating
t5_2qhb1
How can I get out of the phase of just talking with a bumble date?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17pn3op/how_can_i_get_out_of_the_phase_of_just_talking/
Glorious_Pumpkin
2023-11-11 05:55:25
1,699,682,125
0
['dating app', 'tinder', 'hinge']
0
17so695
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17so695/i_accidentally_unmatched_a_1010_after_we_planed_a/
1
tldr: accidentally got drunk, unmatched the 10/10 cutie I had a date with but now Iv got a second chance but I need help with what to say So there’s this reallllly attractive girl (19F) that i (19M) was talking to. we were planning to get tacos and hang out at my place the night before Halloween. I’m not a drinker at a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I accidentally unmatched a 10/10 after we planed a date and I just found her another dating app, could one of y’all help me figure out what to say
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17so695/i_accidentally_unmatched_a_1010_after_we_planed_a/
giles_goat-boy
2020-08-30 04:38:06
1,598,762,286
null
['dating site']
0
ij6ybq
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ij6ybq/trying_to_reconnect_with_an_old_crush/
1
M(29), Recently saw an old crush's profile on a dating site and it brought up all these old feelings for her. She didn't go to my school so I can't say we were ever friends, just met a few times (she was friend's with my cousin). I've been thinking about her a lot over the past few days and hoping she contacts me. I've...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Trying to reconnect with an old crush
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ij6ybq/trying_to_reconnect_with_an_old_crush/
TheValyrianBiologist
2019-04-09 21:23:03
1,554,844,983
null
['dating apps']
0
bbdku2
true
null
42
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/bbdku2/how_do_i_ask_guys_on_dating_apps_their_height/
0
It’s a real sore spot that’s hard to navigate, but I want to know physically about the person I’m going to meet. Height is not insignificant like shoe size. Guys are asking me about my height and weight etc. Why is it not ok to ask a guy about his height? And how is a nice way to ask that doesn’t provoke a negative res...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I ask guys (on dating apps) their height?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bbdku2/how_do_i_ask_guys_on_dating_apps_their_height/
lugool4
2016-12-21 22:59:39
1,482,361,179
0
['tinder', 'okcupid']
0
5jn1b6
null
null
24
null
/r/dating/comments/5jn1b6/tried_everything_nothing_works/
2
TL;DR: I talk to a lot of girls and none of them like me. I'm 19 and in college (and Asian, if it matters). I've never been in a relationship. I follow all the advice people typically give when you're looking for a partner: I act confident. I dress nicely, I have a nice haircut. I treat girls like people and just have ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Tried everything, nothing works
2
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5jn1b6/tried_everything_nothing_works/
NessFromOnett
2015-01-15 18:37:16
1,421,347,036
0
['online dating', 'dating sites']
0
2sjg5t
null
null
5
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2sjg5t/never_been_on_a_second_date_29m/
1
I am approaching 30 years old and I can count on one hand the number of dates I have been on. I've only ever made it to second base and both times were at parties where I was way too drunk. All four of my siblings have been married and most had kids by the time they were my age. My roommate just got engaged to his girl...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Never Been on a Second Date [29M]
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2sjg5t/never_been_on_a_second_date_29m/
Pacific9
2017-09-29 13:50:33
1,506,693,033
null
['online dating']
0
737wok
false
null
124
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/737wok/lets_have_some_fun_online_dating_codes_what_are/
16
For example "Netflix and chill" has become synonymous with sex. What are some others that you know of?
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Let's have some fun... Online dating codes. What are they?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/737wok/lets_have_some_fun_online_dating_codes_what_are/
TazMedium5
2022-08-15 16:42:13
1,660,581,733
null
['matched', 'OLD']
0
wp4btz
true
Casual Conversation
31
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/wp4btz/im_quite_surprised_success/
82
I actually met a really nice guy (39M) from OLD. A month ago we matched, and a week later went on a date. Initially I wasn't sure, but his energy was amazing, and I got drawn in. Our lives don't necessarily match up too well, but when we hang out it's wonderful. It's working out to 1x/week, but we hang out for hours. W...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
I'm quite surprised. (success!)
null
0.92
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/wp4btz/im_quite_surprised_success/
ameliapond11
2024-05-29 06:28:38
1,716,964,118
0
['hinge']
0
1d35jtm
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d35jtm/should_i_give_him_a_chance_or_no/
1
24 F. Been talking to a guy for almost 2 months now (but we are both super slow repliers like 1 message a day or every 2-3 days lol). I was waiting for him to ask to meet up like 2 months ago and did think we’d be compatible and now he finally did but I’m not particularly excited about it cause I have 0 feelings toward...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I give him a chance or no
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d35jtm/should_i_give_him_a_chance_or_no/
Bigbuckrocks
2021-02-26 03:59:23
1,614,311,963
null
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
lspcz0
true
Tinder/Online Dating
0
0
/r/dating/comments/lspcz0/anyone_try_bloom_seems_like_a_pretty_good_way_to/
2
I actually joined one of their events (for free) through Eventbrite, which led me to a link to download their app. The app doesn't look like just another Tinder which is a pretty good sign, but then again, I don't know if I should get my hopes up. If this doesn't work, I'm probably just better off painfully pining afte...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Anyone try Bloom? Seems like a pretty good way to meet others during the pandemic, with a different approach than Tinder, Bumble, and literally everything else. Then again, I've trusted too many dating apps and been disappointed too many times. They do weekly "speed date" nights via video chat.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lspcz0/anyone_try_bloom_seems_like_a_pretty_good_way_to/
frogmicky
2024-03-13 10:02:17
1,710,324,137
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
1bdnqxc
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bdnqxc/what_would_you_do/
3
So I matched with someone on Hinge I was really into her and I asked lots of questions and she answered them. Then I realized that she hadn't asked me any questions during our 1/2 hour chatting. I unmatched her was I too hasty unmatching from her. I always think it's a good thing to be inquisitive about each other was ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What would you do?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bdnqxc/what_would_you_do/
Euphoric_Teaching_95
2023-07-23 12:46:09
1,690,116,369
0
null
0
157dz6v
false
null
48
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/157dz6v/what_is_this/
1
I’ve recently been on a few dates with someone and while dating he mentioned he got jealous because he likes me. We both got massages and I got a male massage therapist. He was good looking but I was focused on my date so didn’t think of it. After he told he felt jealous and said “you probably want him” Later He’d take...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What is this?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/157dz6v/what_is_this/
HannahTyler420
2024-04-25 06:40:57
1,714,027,257
0
['dating apps']
0
1ccl6zk
true
Question ❓
7
0
/r/dating/comments/1ccl6zk/for_people_in_relationships_where_did_you_meet/
1
For context I’ve been going through a breakup and lost hope for meeting people. I have no clue how people just meet, and I really don’t wanna resort to dating apps bc they seem so dangerous to me. I really just wanna hear the stories of how you people met your partner and maybe gain some hope for the future
dating
t5_2qhb1
For people in relationships, where did you meet your partner?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ccl6zk/for_people_in_relationships_where_did_you_meet/
toniperalti
2023-11-10 18:16:16
1,699,640,176
0
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
17sa4eo
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17sa4eo/i_25m_am_talking_to_a_new_girl_23f_and_i_cant/
1
Hi, I (25m) am going through a dating rough patch. I’ve previously been in a long term relationship that ended really toxic and has left my view of dating tainted. The past relationship involved cheating and lying/abuse towards me. That was about 2 years ago. I have since been using dating apps and casually dating. I m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (25m) am talking to a new girl (23f) and I cant think straight
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17sa4eo/i_25m_am_talking_to_a_new_girl_23f_and_i_cant/
Lock3tteDown
2024-04-11 00:28:14
1,712,795,294
0
['dating apps']
0
1c11bfe
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1c11bfe/finding_indian_girls_to_date_in_delaware_and/
1
Which dating apps are best for finding Indian girls for someone like me who's 30M? The usual T,B,H? Any apps our there specifically geared towards Indian Asians where we can date in DE or even across states in the US?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Finding Indian girls to date in Delaware and bordering areas
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c11bfe/finding_indian_girls_to_date_in_delaware_and/
rockpaperscissors101
2024-04-03 05:10:20
1,712,121,020
0
['online dating', 'dating app']
0
1bukffo
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bukffo/online_dating/
1
Hi all So I recently joined online dating after two years of being single. Last relationship was super unhealthy. I met someone on a dating app but I am having mixed feelings about it and I don’t know if I’m reading too much into it given my past. We have been talking for about a month now but have only seen each other...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Online dating
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bukffo/online_dating/
OlleyfromIndi
2022-08-16 22:11:16
1,660,687,876
null
['online dating']
0
wq78kb
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/wq78kb/can_i_get_a_review_for_my_dating_profile_about_me/
2
I am a 26M getting back into online dating. I am looking for advice on how to improve this about me for my new profiles. I think it sounds too formal but am unsure how to lighten the tone so advice on that would be especially appreciated. A thinker a dreamer, and a general nerd. I love peace and quiet, deep conversatio...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Can I get a review for my dating profile "about me"?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wq78kb/can_i_get_a_review_for_my_dating_profile_about_me/
dolphin_culture
2023-07-18 06:58:37
1,689,663,517
0
null
0
152qy1s
false
null
107
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/152qy1s/whos_doing_well_on_the_apps/
1
Seems like everyone is struggling with OLD, regardless of age, gender, etc. Anybody having a good time? What do you attribute to your success? Are you conventionally attractive/do you think that plays a large role? Open-minded? Low-standards? Highly selective? Examples of “success”: Acquiring matches that respond or me...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Who’s doing well on the apps?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/152qy1s/whos_doing_well_on_the_apps/
pewpew0352
2024-02-06 05:56:31
1,707,198,991
0
['dating apps']
0
1ak2tc3
false
null
61
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ak2tc3/do_many_women_really_not_want_children/
1
Dating women of reddit, why do many of y'all really not want children? This is in no way meant to be belittle anyone or cause any arguments, just purely out of curiosity as to why I see so many dating profiles now a days saying don't want children. I am a dad to a 7 years old, and have been single for 5 years now. I re...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do many women really not want children?
1
0.52
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ak2tc3/do_many_women_really_not_want_children/
eggyeoh
2023-07-14 01:36:41
1,689,298,601
0
['matched', 'dating apps']
0
14z2rmz
false
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/14z2rmz/is_he_not_interested/
1
I (28F) went on two dates with a guy (32M) and really like him but I think he might be playing with me or just not interested or both. It’s really hard to resist his charms, want a confirmation from others if I should avoid or make an effort. When we matched online he sent a message asking if I wanted to meet up. We ha...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is he not interested?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14z2rmz/is_he_not_interested/
lilybeige
2022-03-19 22:06:39
1,647,727,599
null
['hinge']
0
ti65j0
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ti65j0/when_the_guy_is_not_ready_what_should_i_do/
1
So I (F27) met this guy (M27) on hinge a few weeks ago, and the first few weeks were amazing. We had an instant connection, made good conversation, and both had similar interests. On our first date, after two weeks of texting, I learned he gotten out of a relationship back in November (Same as me). Long story short, af...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
When the guy is not ready, what should I do?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ti65j0/when_the_guy_is_not_ready_what_should_i_do/
thefluffyburrito
2021-08-14 22:47:50
1,628,981,270
null
null
0
p4hu8u
true
null
5
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/p4hu8u/should_i_make_a_new_profile_or_continue_an_old_one/
1
I joined a lot of free apps around 5 months ago and was most impressed with eharmony. I'm now ready to start using a paid version of one of these apps since the free version is sort of unusable. Should I create a new Eharmony account or use my old one that's already been made? I'm not sure if my profile has been "turne...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Should I make a new profile or continue an old one?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/p4hu8u/should_i_make_a_new_profile_or_continue_an_old_one/
VirtualHydraDemon
2024-04-05 18:28:29
1,712,341,709
0
['dating app']
0
1bwpav4
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bwpav4/dating_app_to_in_person_date_advice/
1
Want some advice on meeting people from drafting apps. Do people not talk even a bit before meeting up? I’m in Spain and almost within the first 5 minutes of matching, men want to meet up, and that too the same afternoon or evening. Do people even briefly discuss what they are looking for or is that a conversation to b...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating app to in person date advice
1
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bwpav4/dating_app_to_in_person_date_advice/
doublewowws
2023-01-30 09:42:58
1,675,071,778
null
['online dating']
0
10oxzva
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/10oxzva/guy_im_dating_doesnt_text_first_because_of_exams/
1
I (23F) met him (24M) through online dating we’ve been on 2 dates so far. I like him a lot and would love to see how far this can go. However I don’t know if he likes me that much or not. It is very hard to tell. He has been trying to set a date for us to meet again for about 2 weeks but he cancelled them every time du...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Guy I’m dating doesn’t text first because of exams, is this normal?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10oxzva/guy_im_dating_doesnt_text_first_because_of_exams/
Catladywithplants
2024-04-11 01:31:47
1,712,799,107
0
null
0
1c12o4d
true
null
20
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c12o4d/is_it_possible_for_people_to_find_out_where_you/
2
Exchanged numbers with someone but I made it clear I changed my mind. Kept calling me through Whatsapp for 2 weeks. Blocked him finally. Then he calls in the middle of the night. Blocked his number for good. Kinda scared this guy will show up at my house. He doesn't know my full name though. And I don't have any social...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Is it possible for people to find out where you live using your phone number?!
1
0.56
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c12o4d/is_it_possible_for_people_to_find_out_where_you/
Fine-Change3835
2024-09-16 15:29:58
1,726,500,598
0
['hinge']
0
1fi7jzz
true
null
15
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fi7jzz/27f_i_have_a_crush_but_my_inexperience_in_dating/
0
I (27F) have never been in a serious relationship. There have been significant men in my life (one who I called my boyfriend for about a year but we were long distance due to COVID; another who I spent a lot of time with but it was a bad situationship; and my last serious one who asked me to be his girlfriend but I rea...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
27F - I have a crush but my inexperience in dating is making me so so anxious
0
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fi7jzz/27f_i_have_a_crush_but_my_inexperience_in_dating/
candyfloss2124
2020-06-27 13:25:37
1,593,264,337
null
['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
hgtgc1
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hgtgc1/how_many_dates_is_too_many_dates/
0
Do you think there is a limit on the amount of people you should meet up with before it just gets a bit ridiculous? I prefer to meet up with people as you get a much better gist of what they are like. I've been using dating apps for about 2 years now and I've met up with 12 people. I've just simply not met anyone I've ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How many dates is TOO many dates?!
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hgtgc1/how_many_dates_is_too_many_dates/
puppys_mistress
2023-08-14 20:00:05
1,692,043,205
0
['dating app']
0
15r5993
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15r5993/how_to_cut_off_a_casual_date/
1
I'm looking for advice on how to cut off a casual date now that I've found someone I want to be exclusive with. I've been talking to this guy for a couple weeks that really only wanted to date casually we've had a couple of dates but he's stood me up a total of three times and we've never gotten to the point where we'v...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to cut off a casual date
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15r5993/how_to_cut_off_a_casual_date/
KeenActual
2024-01-26 23:16:34
1,706,310,994
0
['dating apps']
0
1abw0d5
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
11
0
/r/dating/comments/1abw0d5/i_am_tired_of_dating/
1
I am so tired of dating. In general I (41m) get a fair share of dates, especially in these dating apps. It was fun the last 2 years…meeting new people, exploring my more liberal side. But now I want to have something more, and I can’t get past the first date. It is extremely frustrating to the point where I starting to...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I am tired of dating
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1abw0d5/i_am_tired_of_dating/
burppppppp
2020-05-11 16:48:25
1,589,215,705
null
['dating apps']
0
ghr97q
true
null
25
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ghr97q/lockdown_has_made_me_f_feel_content_with_being/
90
Ive been single all my life and have always wanted to get into a relationship. Prior to lockdown i was pretty active on dating apps and was talking to someone. But since lockdown, I realised that i enjoy spending time doing things i like, doing things for myself, and for the first time in a long time i feel like i don’...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Lockdown has made me (F) feel content with being single
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ghr97q/lockdown_has_made_me_f_feel_content_with_being/
thiccyeon
2023-06-26 06:10:26
1,687,759,826
0
['matched', 'swiped', 'tinder']
0
14j8zpi
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/14j8zpi/i_dont_believe_anyone_would_like_to_date_me/
1
My toxic trait is that whenever someone agrees to go out on a date with me I unconsciously assume it’s a joke. How do I overcome this? I was stood up multiple times, that could be the factor. Or got cancelled minutes before leaving the house. It happens even on Tinder. From time to time I get matched with really attrac...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I don’t believe anyone would like to date me
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14j8zpi/i_dont_believe_anyone_would_like_to_date_me/
Peon-Flux
2023-03-23 23:03:28
1,679,612,608
null
null
0
1200sos
true
null
30
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1200sos/have_you_noticed_wonen_base_a_large_percentage_of/
0
In social psychology this is called preselection, but I call it strange and weak minded. Men on the other hand are immediately less interested if a woman is spoken for. Why would you be so dependent on what other people think or unable to screen dudes yourself? The dumbest part about this is that women are quite possib...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Have you noticed wonen base a large percentage of their selection on what other women think of you and want you more if you are taken?
null
0.45
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1200sos/have_you_noticed_wonen_base_a_large_percentage_of/
fitrainz
2021-11-13 09:31:57
1,636,795,917
null
['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
qsxs18
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/qsxs18/i_31m_get_offers_for_casual_hookups_but_im/
3
Hi, Currently I 31m am having trouble going from matches to dates (casual hookups I do seem to get offers for, as well as woman in open relationships) but that's not something I'm interested in. I get around 5 matches a week on tinder and barely anything on bumble read 0 for a month. For a guy living in a more rural ar...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I 31m get offers for casual hookups but I'm looking for long term and I can't get that it's exhausting.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qsxs18/i_31m_get_offers_for_casual_hookups_but_im/
F0rate
2021-03-01 11:08:56
1,614,596,936
null
['matches', 'online dating']
0
lv6jev
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lv6jev/discouraged_never_dated/
1
Hey everyone. Never really posted anything like this but here I go. I'm a 21 year old man who's never had a girlfriend. I've always wanted someone I can be affectionate with and experience life with. The fact that I've been single for so long sometimes gets to me as I deeply desire this kind of connection. I sometimes ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Discouraged, never dated.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lv6jev/discouraged_never_dated/
BlackAFRanger
2024-09-23 14:02:31
1,727,100,151
0
['dating apps']
0
1fnl72o
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1fnl72o/36_yo_and_i_guess_clueless/
1
So let me just start with the question in case there’s some TLDR going on, how in the WORLD do you organically create situations to approach women (or whomever you’re after) in your 30’s? Im 36, so social gatherings are few and far between because my peers are married and busy. I’ve never had issues meeting women, I’ve...
dating
t5_2qhb1
36 Y/O and I guess clueless
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fnl72o/36_yo_and_i_guess_clueless/
jickay
2020-02-02 03:55:28
1,580,615,728
null
['dating apps']
0
exiid9
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/exiid9/any_mid30s_out_there_who_have_found_someone_how/
1
I'm starting to feel more and more like it's getting harder to meet someone at this age (35M). Trying to find something serious at this age, but don't know many people anymore. And dating apps have very low luck for me. I don't think I'm the most attractive but I'm not bad either. Definitely think I could be more confi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Any mid-30s out there who have found someone? How did it happen?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/exiid9/any_mid30s_out_there_who_have_found_someone_how/
Brilliant-Leg3540
2023-08-25 14:40:23
1,692,974,423
0
['dating app']
0
16115jw
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16115jw/what_does_it_mean_when_my_male_friend_talk_about/
1
Me (27F) and my friend (26M) have met a while back on a dating app. He was going through a break up and I needed a friend. After 2 hangouts he hints that we were on a date. He says that he wants to try with me. And we kissed. We tried for another date but things went south. We stopped talking for months. I hit him up a...
dating
t5_2qhb1
What does it mean when my male friend talk about us having sex
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16115jw/what_does_it_mean_when_my_male_friend_talk_about/
ynl204
2019-03-06 07:49:51
1,551,858,591
null
['tinder']
0
axwaw0
true
null
13
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/axwaw0/me_23f_dating_a_guy_24m_he_said_hes_afraid_of_a/
1
Hi. Im getting a mixed feelings from this guy that ive been seeing. We met online (tinder) but i made it extra clear that i was not into hookups looking for potential relationships. I dont have much expectations on tinder, but this guy was fascinated with what i do and he really wanted to meet up with me. When we first...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Me 23F dating a guy 24M he said he's afraid of a relationship but he sees the potential in us. I have mxed feelings.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/axwaw0/me_23f_dating_a_guy_24m_he_said_hes_afraid_of_a/
Jeff_blueseuf
2022-02-05 21:32:17
1,644,096,737
null
['tinder']
0
slhb6z
true
Tinder/Online Dating
14
0
/r/dating/comments/slhb6z/should_you_asks_girls_height/
4
I am a 23 year old male and really enjoy using tinder and meeting new people. I am 5’9 so I am taller then most girls I see but Of course there is always a girl or two around that is taller than me. That being said I am still very much attracted to girls taller than me but I completely understand why most girls want th...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should you asks girls height?
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/slhb6z/should_you_asks_girls_height/
fluffypillow210
2016-07-25 06:22:52
1,469,427,772
0
['dating site']
0
4uh6jg
null
null
6
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/4uh6jg/am_i_doing_something_wrong_warning_long/
1
Started talking to this girl recently who I met on a dating site, similar interests and whatnot. But she stopped responding. Not sure if I'm boring, not flirty, or what. So, I'm gonna post our convo and see if you guys can tell what's wrong. ME: Hey there, managed to catch any rare pokemon in Go yet? And, if you could ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I doing something wrong? (warning: long)
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4uh6jg/am_i_doing_something_wrong_warning_long/
FallDeeperAlice5268
2022-10-05 18:23:59
1,664,994,239
null
['hinge']
0
xwi7n1
true
null
16
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xwi7n1/how_can_i_find_gothic_or_alternative_girls/
0
I really want to meet or possibly date gothic or alternative girls. I'm currently on hinge and I'm not finding the sort of people I'm looking for. There's cool people but no one really alternative. What are my options? E: thanks for the downvotes
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How can I find 'Gothic' or 'Alternative' girls?
null
0.38
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xwi7n1/how_can_i_find_gothic_or_alternative_girls/
tokkieface
2018-04-12 19:04:07
1,523,559,847
0
['matched', 'OLD']
0
8bspzy
false
null
64
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8bspzy/ghost_back_from_the_dead/
8
Hello DOT! I am in need of your advice and realness, once again. I have written about this ghost before on this sub, if you are interested. and . Well, my ghost returned from the dead. We spoke a few times via text since our relationship ended in December. He recently got in touch and basically wants to get back toget...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Ghost back from the dead?!
8
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8bspzy/ghost_back_from_the_dead/
ShafordoDrForgone
2022-03-16 16:59:38
1,647,449,978
null
null
0
tfmoq5
true
null
35
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/tfmoq5/science_only/
0
To keep this bias free we'll say that "Science" means "scientific consensus". If that means "conspiracy" to you, you do you. I'm curious what distribution of people is on OLD who believe in anything other than the scientific consensus (God, Astrology, Communicating with the Dead, Astral Projection, Tarot Cards), as wel...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Science only
null
0.42
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/tfmoq5/science_only/
LDNTRN
2023-01-18 22:31:01
1,674,081,061
null
['matches']
0
10fkgrz
true
null
20
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/10fkgrz/how_to_express_my_feelings_and_have_balance_in_a/
4
I’ve been in a number of relationships (including current LDR) where I’m told I come across as a bit disinterested, cold or they feel like there’s some sort of an imbalance. Things are run on my clock. I travel a lot so even being in the same city means there’s a physical distance at times. I’m a recovering avoidant; h...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
How to express my feelings and have balance in a partnership.
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/10fkgrz/how_to_express_my_feelings_and_have_balance_in_a/
jb06162012
2023-11-13 04:05:05
1,699,848,305
0
null
0
17u2gdt
true
null
0
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/17u2gdt/matches_not_responding_on_fb_datingwhite_circle/
1
Are my messages not going through on fb dating? All messages today have a gray circle with a check mark next to them. Shouldn’t they be blue?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Matches not responding on FB dating..white circle with grey check mark?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17u2gdt/matches_not_responding_on_fb_datingwhite_circle/
MiniPantherMa
2023-11-23 23:21:16
1,700,781,676
0
['online dating']
0
182drpq
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/182drpq/hobbies/
1
What do you look for in the "hobbies" section of an online dating profile? Or when you ask a date what they do for fun? I feel self-conscious about my answers. When I'm not working, I go to the gym, or go walk outside. I go to trivia nights, and used to go to gaming nights. (I may start that up again.) I have TV shows ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Hobbies?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/182drpq/hobbies/
mulleargian
2016-05-26 17:35:33
1,464,284,133
0
['swiped', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
4l6h70
null
null
13
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/4l6h70/think_ive_been_ghosted_aching_to_reach_out_could/
1
So I've posted re this before, however it's still driving me insane. TLDR; I met a guy on a dating app, who was flaky from the very beginning (before we even first met). We hung out three times, but pretty briefly; first for a short walk, second he came to mine and we had a pretty good evening watching tv/drinking wine...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Think I've been ghosted, aching to reach out... Could this in any way be ok?
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4l6h70/think_ive_been_ghosted_aching_to_reach_out_could/
Tomarush
2015-11-21 22:33:11
1,448,145,191
0
['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating site']
0
3tquc8
null
null
2
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/3tquc8/how_much_would_you_pay_to_send_a_message_on_a/
1
It seems like every dating application has a monthly subscription plan of sorts. What do you think online dating site/app users would be willing to spend if they were charged for each message sent instead of a monthly subscription fee?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How much would you pay to send a message on a dating app?
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3tquc8/how_much_would_you_pay_to_send_a_message_on_a/
HotPear980
2024-05-04 15:43:50
1,714,837,430
0
['online dating']
0
1ck38z5
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/1ck38z5/feeling_weird_dont_know_what_to_do_next/
1
I was always one of those girls who idealised relationships and marriage despite my parents own marriage being a total failure. I always thought I would find the loml young and get married early life definitely did not turn out that way. 25 f in a relationship that is not very solid, the guy is still building his caree...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Feeling weird/ don’t know what to do next
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ck38z5/feeling_weird_dont_know_what_to_do_next/
rhz10
2021-10-05 14:06:20
1,633,442,780
null
['OLD']
0
q1x334
true
null
19
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/q1x334/old_for_octogenarian_mom/
7
Hi, Everyone. While I recognize that the average age here is well-younger than my (rather youthful looking) 80-something mom, she's expressed interest in dating. Due to Covid, organized, in-person social events are not the best choice. OLD would be another option. Can anyone recommend (either from personal experience o...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
OLD for octogenarian mom?
null
0.9
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/q1x334/old_for_octogenarian_mom/
[deleted]
2014-12-28 23:58:21
1,419,811,101
0
['online dating', 'pof', 'okcupid', 'match.com']
0
2qns2o
null
null
5
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2qns2o/28m_ive_had_three_serious_relationships_asked_a/
7
I've been single for 18 months, and realised about 6 months ago I should stop moping around over my last relationship and get back to "normal". My previous relationships (4yrs / 2yrs / 3yrs) have all been serious (cohabiting), and they have all been "initiated" (shitty choice of word) by the girl; so I had ZERO experie...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[28M] I've had three serious relationships; asked a girl out for the first time last week
7
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2qns2o/28m_ive_had_three_serious_relationships_asked_a/
Silent_Brick_5797
2021-09-09 13:12:38
1,631,193,158
null
['dating apps']
0
pkxjmo
true
null
20
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/pkxjmo/anyone_else_have_no_luck_with_women/
0
I (M21) have only had 2 relationships. Body count doesn't matter to me but it seems like all my friends also my age have had 4 or 5 relationships before I even get 1. I'm a rather upstanding guy I don't cheat I don't lie and I'm really sweet. Im just over average build cause my job keeps me rather fit. What am I doing ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Anyone else have no luck with women
null
0.38
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pkxjmo/anyone_else_have_no_luck_with_women/
AmeliaCunningham
2019-09-21 19:14:51
1,569,093,291
null
['tinder']
0
d7eu63
true
null
10
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/d7eu63/why_do_i_feel_ashamed_when_i_tell_people_that_i/
3
I tried tinder for 3 days and found that it made me feel weird so I uninstalled it. But I did meet a really cute and nice guy there that I went out with today. A friend asked me how I met him when I told her that I was hanging out with this guy I met and I was really ashamed of telling her that I met him online. Is the...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Why do I feel ashamed when I tell people that I met him online
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/d7eu63/why_do_i_feel_ashamed_when_i_tell_people_that_i/
UnifiedForce
2020-08-16 22:05:51
1,597,615,551
null
null
0
ib1i40
true
null
12
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/ib1i40/28_m_made_my_first_ever_foray_into_old_a_week_ago/
2
As the title says, I've never had personal experience with online dating apps before, though I've heard much about them on Reddit and elsewhere. Starting with Bumble and OC and seeing how it goes, then branching out to Tinder, Coffee meets Bagel and Hinge if necessary. I'm trying to manage my expectations since I'm awa...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
(28 M) Made my first ever foray into OLD a week ago with OkCupid and Bumble. I'm a nerdy hermit trying to appear attractive. What can I do better?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ib1i40/28_m_made_my_first_ever_foray_into_old_a_week_ago/
psychokiller90
2023-10-30 18:25:00
1,698,690,300
0
['dating apps']
0
17k0037
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/17k0037/do_dating_apps_really_work/
1
I’ve (33m) been single for approximately six months now and thought about getting back out there in the near future. I’ve never tried dating apps before but seems like that’s where most go nowadays to meet new people. What can I expect? Is it worth it? I’ve heard good and bad things but thought I’d ask here as well.
dating
t5_2qhb1
Do dating apps really work?
1
0.99
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17k0037/do_dating_apps_really_work/
myownpersonalthroway
2019-03-02 16:53:54
1,551,545,634
null
['dating app']
0
awjnj4
true
Giving Advice
25
0
/r/dating/comments/awjnj4/nsfw_psa_from_a_bisexual_girl_for_guys_dating/
5
Since joining a dating app and getting a feel for guys after a few dates I have some advice, but other women can put their two cents in if they feel I am wrong. PSA: Stop. Telling. Women. Your. Penis. Is. Big. And. Acting. Like. You. Are. Saying. It. Because. You. Are. Concerned. It. Might. Not. Fit. If, You know, Some...
dating
t5_2qhb1
NSFW: PSA from a bisexual girl for guys dating
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/awjnj4/nsfw_psa_from_a_bisexual_girl_for_guys_dating/
dwn2mrzgrl
2024-08-23 20:13:17
1,724,443,997
0
null
0
1ezmjek
true
null
2
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ezmjek/match_appis_there_any_point_in_it_if_you_dont_pay/
0
This app is insanely priced compared to other dating apps. You literally can’t see anything unless you matched with someone. I have preferences set and literally no one on my feed is remotely close to my preference so chances of matching is unlikely. (I only have one preference set so it’s nothing crazy). I have 99+ li...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
MATCH App-is there any point in it if you don’t pay for premium? For anyone who does pay, Is it even worth it?
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ezmjek/match_appis_there_any_point_in_it_if_you_dont_pay/
sngoo
2014-08-25 04:39:12
1,408,941,552
0
['tinder']
0
2ei578
null
null
13
null
/r/dating/comments/2ei578/went_on_an_amazing_first_date_with_great/
2
So I went out on possibly the greatest first date of my life the other night. There was great chemistry, spontaneity, great conversations and hottt make out sessions. We both agreed that it was an amazing date, and we both couldn't wait to see each other again. Thing is, we met on Tinder, which is notoriously just a ho...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Went on an amazing first date with great chemistry, but we met on Tinder.
2
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2ei578/went_on_an_amazing_first_date_with_great/
Striking_Train583
2022-09-18 19:36:19
1,663,529,779
null
['matched', 'hinge']
0
xhpvjv
true
Question ❓
2
0
/r/dating/comments/xhpvjv/matched_with_a_girl_who_i_know/
1
Im a college student and i always see this girl at parties and bars near my school i have spoken to her through mutual friends, when i talked to her i never got a flirty vibe from her, i did get her on snap before and i matched with her hinge last night. Ive never macthed with a girl i already knew so im not sure of wh...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Matched with a girl who i know
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xhpvjv/matched_with_a_girl_who_i_know/
okarinkyoumaaa
2023-01-10 13:25:47
1,673,357,147
null
['bumble']
0
1089s30
true
Question ❓
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1089s30/should_i_bumble/
1
What are the pros and cons of bumble? I'm not inclined to use the app because I feel like I'm giving up on love I should be perfectly able to have without using an app. Thoughts?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I bumble?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1089s30/should_i_bumble/
MadhatressOG
2022-05-13 01:50:55
1,652,406,655
null
['dating apps']
0
uogvfm
true
Question
4
0
/r/dating/comments/uogvfm/even_though_i_agree_that_social_media_makes/
0
I am looking for someone local that I am attracted to but I don't know how to find them I have tried dating apps and discord but until I can go out in person can you guys give me online resources they can be through discord I have a physical disability and my family members have anxiety and other issues so that's why I...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Even though I agree that social media makes dating harder how do you date on reddit
null
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uogvfm/even_though_i_agree_that_social_media_makes/
Salaamry
2018-11-16 20:19:55
1,542,399,595
null
['dating site']
0
9xpsjz
true
null
11
1
/r/dating_advice/comments/9xpsjz/asking_where_i_am_every_time_he_calls/
2
So I just met this guy like 3/4 days ago and every time he calls me, he always ask where I am? Am I wrong for feeling some kind of way? I feel like he is going to want to control and know my every move, I mean it's just been 3/4 days. And yeah we met on a dating site and he is in another country, already talking about ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Asking where I am every time he calls.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9xpsjz/asking_where_i_am_every_time_he_calls/
quasipopo
2018-05-21 07:40:28
1,526,888,428
0
['online dating', 'pof']
0
8kz3fz
false
Requesting Support
5
0
/r/dating/comments/8kz3fz/dating_a_taken_woman/
1
A couple months ago I started talking to this woman on POF. She's the most normal person I've ever seen on that app. She told me she was already with someone, but things weren't great. We talked a while, days, I would check in with her a couple weeks later to see how things were going. Things were still not great. A co...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating a taken woman
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8kz3fz/dating_a_taken_woman/
Impossible_Wave_2970
2021-01-04 00:11:27
1,609,719,087
null
['matched', 'dating apps']
0
kpwkqf
true
null
13
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/kpwkqf/women_in_relationships_does_having_sex_too_early/
4
Women in relationships: do you attribute when you decided to have sex with your now partner to them taking you seriously? Okay so this post is going to sound weird. Sorry about that. I want to get opinions of women who are not in my immediate friend group. I’ve been single my whole life. Never had a boyfriend and I am ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Women in relationships: does having sex too early ruin your potential of getting into a relationship with the person you’re dating?
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kpwkqf/women_in_relationships_does_having_sex_too_early/
Courvy
2024-04-18 23:45:08
1,713,483,908
0
['dating apps']
0
1c7iesj
true
I Need Advice 😩
18
0
/r/dating/comments/1c7iesj/am_i_invisible_to_women_or_am_i_doing_something/
1
So I’m 20 years old and in college. My college is also majority female. However throughout my whole life I’ve watched my friends get girlfriends and now my roommates. I go on these dating apps and I feel like I get nothing, I’ve tried them all. I occasionally will get a match here and there but either there’s no respon...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Am I invisible to women, or am I doing something wrong?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c7iesj/am_i_invisible_to_women_or_am_i_doing_something/
beforeburner
2020-09-09 22:51:12
1,599,691,872
null
['OLD']
0
ipr4cn
true
null
83
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ipr4cn/dating_a_non_drinker_initial_thoughts/
33
I've been alcohol free for 2 years and find myself thinking about reentering the dating scene. I'm mainly curious to know how many of you would think this is a net positive vs negative. I plan on being transparent about it in my profile (I'm not on OLD yet). Have any of you experienced this personally? Was it hard to f...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Dating a non drinker? Initial thoughts?
null
0.9
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ipr4cn/dating_a_non_drinker_initial_thoughts/
johnhtman
2022-09-30 19:32:43
1,664,566,363
null
['matches', 'online dating']
0
xsaams
true
null
17
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xsaams/26m_never_had_a_girlfriend_unemployed_cant_drive/
0
I'm 26 and have hardly even been on a date. Because of it I have very bad social anxiety and lack of confidence around women. Although I'm extremely lonely and also truthfully horny. I'm not a virgin, but it's been years since I so much as kissed a woman. I used to use online dating, and would almost be a virgin if not...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
26m never had a girlfriend, unemployed, can't drive, and still live with my parents. Is there any hope?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xsaams/26m_never_had_a_girlfriend_unemployed_cant_drive/
Picklebreath666
2020-11-17 10:00:47
1,605,607,247
null
['swiping']
0
jvqgv3
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/jvqgv3/when_ive_dated_online_and_i_meet_someone/
1
Also any guys out there that are truly monogamous and stopped swiping and talking to girls completely when they met their SO? I’ve been cheated on and now I feel like it’s just natural for guys to continue swiping and talking to other women when in a relationship.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
When I’ve dated online and I meet someone interesting and begin to see them regularly, my natural instinct is to stop dating, swiping, and searching and get to know them. Id just find it strange and against my gut and heart to talk to other people. Is this a mistake? I’m a woman.
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jvqgv3/when_ive_dated_online_and_i_meet_someone/
Coughfeel
2024-03-28 14:44:55
1,711,637,095
0
['OLD']
0
1bpxbsk
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1bpxbsk/it_was_disgusting/
1
I had a date with a milf in an open marriage last night and it was so bad that I made something up to go see my situationship. She kept sweating so fucking damn much it was just disgusting. All over her damn face, the whole time. She parked right next to the bar so it's not like she had just ran or anything. And it was...
dating
t5_2qhb1
It was disgusting
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bpxbsk/it_was_disgusting/
moviephiles
2019-03-28 15:57:22
1,553,788,642
null
['dating app']
0
b6kjg4
true
I Need Advice
11
0
/r/dating/comments/b6kjg4/guys_texts_me_everyday_but_doesnt_ask_me_out/
1
So I met this guy in a dating app. We went out a couple of times. Although, we haven’t seen each other for a month now. He texts everyday but doesn’t ask me out. Edit: By a couple of times, I meant five months of going out and texting everyday. It sucks that people don’t have the basic human decency to tell others they...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Guys texts me everyday but doesn’t ask me out
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b6kjg4/guys_texts_me_everyday_but_doesnt_ask_me_out/
[deleted]
2022-12-09 23:14:56
1,670,627,696
null
['matched', 'swipe', 'hinge', 'okcupid']
0
zhbzoe
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/zhbzoe/are_there_no_apps_where_you_message_people/
0
I had the most luck with okcupid. But now everything is just swipe and hope you get matched. Which is stupid imo. Hinge is a little better where people can see who liked you, but it's only one at a time. If you're the 100th liked, you're not going to get seen any time soon
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Are there no apps where you message people directly anymore?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zhbzoe/are_there_no_apps_where_you_message_people/
ignoretenderness
2023-07-14 16:15:19
1,689,351,319
0
['dating app']
0
14zknzk
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/14zknzk/waiting_too_long_to_go_on_first_date/
1
Hi, I (22F) recently met someone on a dating app (22M) that I’ve grown fond of. I thoroughly enjoy talking to him and we have a lot in common, he’s kind and patient and honestly checks all my boxes. I look forward to talking to him and even if we didn’t work out romantically I know we’d be good friends. Here’s the catc...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
waiting too long to go on first date
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14zknzk/waiting_too_long_to_go_on_first_date/
justduck
2015-11-02 05:30:13
1,446,442,213
0
null
0
3r6ed1
null
null
7
null
/r/OnlineDating/comments/3r6ed1/seriously_vent/
1
I'm picky. I even had one guy message me that I was "too picky 4 ur looks" Read my list of "MUSTS" and tell me if it's really that bad: 1) Heterosexual cisgender male 2) Age 28-38 (I'm 33) 3) Within 25 miles (sometimes I click 50) 4) Protestant (practicing) 5) Doesn't have OR want kids 6) Is geeky or will tolerate my b...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Seriously? (vent)
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/3r6ed1/seriously_vent/
JicamaWitty6129
2023-04-26 22:12:38
1,682,547,158
0
['hinge']
0
1301cnd
true
Giving Advice 💌
7
0
/r/dating/comments/1301cnd/male_dating_profile_red_flags_a_working_list/
1
I made a comment on a previous post in this thread that you can find great guys on the apps.. you just need to know what profiles to weed out. At first I wasn’t specific, but have since decided to take the time to actually list things out. I am starting it off below (no particular order). I will update with other sugge...
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t5_2qhb1
Male Dating Profile RED Flags (a working list)
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1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1301cnd/male_dating_profile_red_flags_a_working_list/
Ok_Amoeba5908
2024-09-22 16:47:36
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['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble']
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1fmxpo3
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/r/dating_advice/comments/1fmxpo3/firsttime_dating_for_someone_with_social_anxiety/
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I'm a 25 year old heterosexual male with moderate autism but with very visible social anxiety and general awkwardness. I'd really like to start a relationship now that I am in my mid-twenties, but the problem is I have no clue how or where to start. I've decided that going for the online dating route (e.g. Tinder, Bumb...
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t5_2s4kl
First-time dating for someone with social anxiety
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fmxpo3/firsttime_dating_for_someone_with_social_anxiety/
Mousie1011
2024-08-15 11:01:26
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1ess9ty
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Question ❓
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/r/dating/comments/1ess9ty/which_do_you_prefer/
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So when using dating apps where you can remove, unfollow, block, delete etc, do you prefer for the other person to say why they don’t want to persue things based on a photo you sent, or do you prefer to just get blocked/ deleted? Which is better for you? Love to get opinions.
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t5_2qhb1
Which do you prefer?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ess9ty/which_do_you_prefer/
Puzzleheaded-Cat9918
2023-11-10 04:02:20
1,699,588,940
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['matched', 'dating app']
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17rvom0
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/r/dating_advice/comments/17rvom0/losing_interest/
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I (21 F) matched with a cute guy on dating app. He’s about my age and we only met up once. We’ve been taking about a month now. We are somewhat slowly getting to know each other but neither of us have our own place (bummer). We talk almost every night even with our busy mismatched schedules but lately I feel like he’s ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Losing interest
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0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17rvom0/losing_interest/
MakeupMua16
2020-12-26 16:47:13
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['tinder']
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kkli8y
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/r/dating_advice/comments/kkli8y/what_are_some_ideas_that_i_can_tell_my_parents/
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I met him off tinder but my parents would kill me if I told them that because they think tinder is just pedophiles so besides saying I met him off tinder what are some good ideas how I can tell my parents I met him? Also I don’t have many friends so I only currently have one friend that I hangout with a lot.
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t5_2s4kl
What are some ideas that I can tell my parents how I met a guy?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kkli8y/what_are_some_ideas_that_i_can_tell_my_parents/