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dannyboy09_7 | 2022-03-30 13:07:04 | 1,648,645,624 | null | null | 0 | ts61ll | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ts61ll/online_dating_coaches/ | 0 | I have been on online dating websites for over 3 months now, and i have not gotten a single match. I honnestly want to try a dating coach now. Anyone have any dating coach reccomendations, I do not want to spend more than $100 on a coach, so if you have a recomendation please let their pricing be under 100 | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Online Dating Coaches | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ts61ll/online_dating_coaches/ |
Gold-Potential-209 | 2023-09-22 08:13:20 | 1,695,370,400 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 16p4k1s | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16p4k1s/my_24m_bf_stopped_doing_cute_things_for_me_i_23f/ | 1 | We met through tinder, at the end of May. We’ve been together for almost 4 months. Since we talked about being in a relationship, I let him know what I needed to feel happy in a relationship. I was really happy because he said he is clingy like me and that my needs would be met. I also mentioned to him how in my past r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My (24m) BF stopped doing cute things for me, I (23f) had given him lots of chances to treat me like his GF again, and I gave him an ultimatum to do things differently or we will have to reconsider being together. This Saturday he's supposed to give me at least a letter as sign of commitment. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16p4k1s/my_24m_bf_stopped_doing_cute_things_for_me_i_23f/ |
JRoovs | 2019-02-24 23:29:02 | 1,551,050,942 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | aue31g | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/aue31g/when_youre_not_attracted_to_him_how_do_you_tell/ | 2 | I guess it’s just that. I do a lot of online dating and pictures have been accurate but when I meet them I just don’t feel attracted to them. I’ll always make the most of it and see the whole date through and make good conversation. Then afterwards I have no intention of carrying things on but I’m too nice (or maybe av... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When you’re not attracted to him... how do you tell him you’re not interested? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aue31g/when_youre_not_attracted_to_him_how_do_you_tell/ |
Cravenmorhed69 | 2024-04-16 05:13:36 | 1,713,244,416 | 0 | null | 0 | 1c581bk | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1c581bk/got_stood_up_i_think/ | 10 | Started talking to this girl like a week and a half ago. We eventually exchanged numbers, bonded over similar interests and even talked on the phone for nearly 2 hours. She lived about 1.5 hrs from me so I asked if we could meet half way ish for our first date. I let her know when I leave my place and she does the same... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Got stood up (I think?) | 10 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c581bk/got_stood_up_i_think/ |
pixiechickie | 2019-01-06 07:04:36 | 1,546,758,276 | null | null | 0 | ad3e8h | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ad3e8h/hey_old_men_clean_up_your_acts/ | 14 | I've admitted several times in several posts that I'm an "older" woman who is looking to date and find a lasting relationship online (OLD) And even based on the popularity of subreddits such as Dating Over 30, I'm one breath away from dead in my 60s. So it's unlikely that most of you here have had any reason to look at... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Hey old men Clean up your acts | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ad3e8h/hey_old_men_clean_up_your_acts/ |
sleepingtalent901 | 2016-09-30 18:11:01 | 1,475,259,061 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 55988j | null | null | 15 | null | /r/dating/comments/55988j/is_it_normal_to_feel_this_lonely_m21/ | 6 | My whole life I've always felt really normal. Friends, relationships, flings, etc. Then I dated someone for two years who was crazy for me and left about a month ago (probably something due to her own issues, who knows). And honestly Ive forgotten about her but I feel like I cant move on. Ive tried everything tinder, b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it normal to feel this lonely [M21]? | 6 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/55988j/is_it_normal_to_feel_this_lonely_m21/ |
[deleted] | 2014-11-22 01:24:33 | 1,416,619,473 | 0 | null | 0 | 2n1je9 | null | null | 3 | null | /r/OnlineDating/comments/2n1je9/matchcom_uses_fake_profiles_to_lure_you_in/ | 2 | They will wink and like a photo of yours. Usually these profiles have no user picture, and they are all located in Los Angeles. You will receive these messages when you're not a paid subscriber, and also when you deactivate subscription renewal. It's really obvious and it's also fraud. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Match.com uses fake profiles to lure you in | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/2n1je9/matchcom_uses_fake_profiles_to_lure_you_in/ |
starriz117 | 2024-08-01 20:28:28 | 1,722,544,108 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ehqwq9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ehqwq9/any_advice_on_how_i_can_improve_myself_to_get/ | 1 | Hey all, I'm 27 and I'm going on 28 in a few days. I've never been in a relationship... Well, my only relationship lasted 2 weeks. I've never been successful at all in the field of dating and I'm wondering what I can improve. I've always been extremely content with my life. I have my dream job that I've wanted since I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any Advice On How I Can Improve Myself To Get More Dates? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ehqwq9/any_advice_on_how_i_can_improve_myself_to_get/ |
Domodude17 | 2014-05-18 20:44:58 | 1,400,445,898 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 25vypb | null | null | 33 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/25vypb/how_can_i_avoid_coming_off_as_overeager_or_needy/ | 12 | When I say talking, I mean talking as in dating, not just chatting. I have been talking to this lady I met on Tinder, and we chatted for about a week before we went on a date. We went to the park and talked and then went to get ice cream. It went well, I got a hug, and we agreed to go on another date. That was on Thurs... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How can I avoid coming off as "over-eager" or needy when i'm talking to women? | 12 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/25vypb/how_can_i_avoid_coming_off_as_overeager_or_needy/ |
Straight_Mail_3285 | 2022-10-12 22:32:28 | 1,665,613,948 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | y2hoqt | true | Question ❓ | 29 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/y2hoqt/should_you_text_everyday/ | 12 | Hey guys, I’m a 25F talking with a 31M from Bumble. We’ve been texting every day but yesterday he left for a trip for 2 weeks. We’ve never met yet. He’s already asked to see me once he comes back, but I feel like if we text all the time we’ll run out of things to talk about when we see each other in person (and that’s ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should you text everyday? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/y2hoqt/should_you_text_everyday/ |
inverted_nature | 2022-06-01 20:56:46 | 1,654,117,006 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | v2r7qz | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/v2r7qz/boymomgirlmom_in_online_dating_profiles/ | 1 | Why do so many people use terms like BoyMom and GirlMom in dating profiles? The technical meaning is clear and I get that it is a way of self-branding/labeling in the age of Vloggers and whatnot and at first I just thought it was odd. But, I've seen it a lot, and the more I thought about it the more I questioned the re... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | BoyMom/GirlMom in online dating profiles? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v2r7qz/boymomgirlmom_in_online_dating_profiles/ |
Most_Cup_6366 | 2024-08-28 20:53:56 | 1,724,878,436 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1f3k2gl | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f3k2gl/girl_no_responding/ | 1 | Just looking for some ideas on why a girl would talk to someone on a dating app for a while and then not respond anymore (ghost). A while being like 2 weeks but keep in mind that I asked her for her number, she didn’t say no but wanted to continue in the app chat. And then another week goes by of talking. And then she’... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl no responding | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f3k2gl/girl_no_responding/ |
Comprehensive-Pipe-1 | 2023-08-25 03:23:14 | 1,692,933,794 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 160njc1 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/160njc1/m20_needs_urgent_help_with_f20/ | 1 | So I met this girl on a dating app, and it turned out she was from the same city as me. We connected quickly through Snapchat and decided to meet up after a week or so. We watched some movies and were intimate most of the time. We decided to meet up at hers again, and the night went on to repeat as the first until she ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | /M20 needs urgent help with /F20 | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/160njc1/m20_needs_urgent_help_with_f20/ |
Neftroshi | 2019-11-25 23:38:40 | 1,574,725,120 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | e1p029 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e1p029/men_over_23_and_not_in_school_how_do_you_meet/ | 3 | I've heard people tell me to hit up bars 'cause that's where anyone over 21 goes outside of dating apps, but I don't drink. Should I still go? Other than that... The grocery store? Is it weird to just go up to a random girl picking out groceries and ask her out? Yes. Yes it is, but does it work? I heard it does for som... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Men over 23 and not in school, How do you meet people to date nowadays outside of dating apps? Should I go to a bar even if I don't drink alcohol? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e1p029/men_over_23_and_not_in_school_how_do_you_meet/ |
bananawrangler69 | 2020-01-02 07:50:11 | 1,577,951,411 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | eivc0w | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eivc0w/tinder_matches_and_snapchat_messaging_have_left/ | 2 | Recently I got out of a long term relationship in which I lived with my GF. Since then, my flirting skills and ability to gauge interest have suffered a bit. Sometimes I read too deep into things or don’t know the proper things to say. Needless to say, navigating the dating scene has been hard. A week ago I (23M) start... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder matches and Snapchat messaging have left this 23 year old guy with a lot of questions following the end of a long term relationship. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eivc0w/tinder_matches_and_snapchat_messaging_have_left/ |
drspoonvp | 2023-09-16 20:55:27 | 1,694,897,727 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16kht4t | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16kht4t/should_i_give_up_if_she_only_responds_once_a_day/ | 1 | We’ve been talking for about a week + from a dating app. At first she would respond constantly. But the last few days she responds once a day at best saying she’s a bad texter. Did she just lose interest and I’m psyching myself into not seeing it? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I give up if she only responds once a day on the basis of ‘being a bad texter’? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16kht4t/should_i_give_up_if_she_only_responds_once_a_day/ |
SatchBoogie1 | 2015-11-08 21:35:32 | 1,447,018,532 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'okcupid', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 3s1w93 | null | null | 19 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3s1w93/cant_get_a_second_date/ | 1 | This is a completely loaded question, but I will do my best to help figure out what I am doing wrong... Been using online dating for a while now. Using OkCupid and Tinder. I've also used Match and eHarmony (switched back and forth between the two). I would say my profile details and pictures are up to date and give a d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can't Get a Second Date | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3s1w93/cant_get_a_second_date/ |
milkybluish | 2018-12-13 18:29:58 | 1,544,725,798 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | a5w62b | true | null | 67 | 2 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/a5w62b/is_this_a_breakup_text/ | 5 | My texting interpretation skills suck. Here's background: Me (early40F) and him (early50M). He is freshly divorced, three months single, after a 25-year-marriage. He has only been on the dating apps for about two months. We were texting like maniacs when we first matched, then went on a fantastic first date. It lasted ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Is this a breakup text? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a5w62b/is_this_a_breakup_text/ |
[deleted] | 2014-07-16 19:51:19 | 1,405,540,279 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2avydm | null | null | 15 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2avydm/getting_out_of_a_tinder_hookup/ | 12 | Hey everyone. Last night I drunkenly made plans to meet up with a guy I had been talking to on Tinder. He wants me to come over tonight to hookup but I'm a little wary (I've never met up with anyone off of it before, especially alone at their place). I want to get out of this but, being my paranoid self, I am afraid th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting out of a Tinder Hookup | 12 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2avydm/getting_out_of_a_tinder_hookup/ |
gti04 | 2023-04-10 14:17:55 | 1,681,136,275 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 12hk67f | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12hk67f/help_and_advice_needed/ | 2 | Hello all, I’m looking for some help and advice, I’ve downloaded multiple dating apps and none really seem to work. Not trying to come across as arrogant or rude but I rate myself quite highly. I’ve got a well paying job, I’ve bought my first house at 24, I’ve got a nice car, a decent and caring personality, a good sen... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help and advice needed | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12hk67f/help_and_advice_needed/ |
highMaintenance6857 | 2024-09-01 18:06:08 | 1,725,213,968 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1f6kuja | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f6kuja/will_i_ever_be_able_to_date/ | 1 | I’m F was in a emotionally abusive relationship for almost 3yr. My ex cheated on me multiple times, says he loves me but his actions never matched basically emotionally abused me. When he left i got depressed and was in really bad condition almost ‘don’t wanna live’ situation. It’s been more then a year I’m better now ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Will i ever be able to date? | 1 | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f6kuja/will_i_ever_be_able_to_date/ |
Melodic_Trash_7179 | 2023-02-17 18:50:48 | 1,676,659,848 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 114uek3 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/114uek3/need_advice_on_a_potential_scam_on_a_dating_app/ | 1 | So I’m 19, I met this girl on a dating app who claimed to be 18. We talked for a couple days nothing serious, we were very far apart anyway. Then last night she sends a text saying that she’s actually 16 and asking if that was ok. I said no I’m not comfortable with that. She ignored me and continued texting. For some r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice on a potential scam on a dating app. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/114uek3/need_advice_on_a_potential_scam_on_a_dating_app/ |
RagefireHype | 2024-04-21 19:11:09 | 1,713,726,669 | 0 | null | 0 | 1c9pygx | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1c9pygx/36m_are_dating_apps_not_for_me_since_i_dont_want/ | 9 | As someone exploring the dating game after a 7 year LTR ended, I downloaded Bumble and Hinge as those seem to be the best ones for men as I looked around. I hear the metagame is "talk a few sentences, sup an IRL date or it never goes anywhere" Here's the thing.. We aren't going to live together even if this works out f... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | [36M] Are Dating Apps not for me since I don't want to go on an IRL date within 24 hours of 'matching'? | 9 | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c9pygx/36m_are_dating_apps_not_for_me_since_i_dont_want/ |
TranceM9 | 2024-04-22 06:01:50 | 1,713,765,710 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1ca3cqj | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ca3cqj/what_should_i_do/ | 1 | Hi guys I just wanted to get some advice on anyone who has been in my shoes or just in general whoever can provide their own two cents. I am a tall guy who has been fat his whole life and introverted and I am now turning things around in the span of 9 months ive gone to 167kg to 140 with 0 intentions to stop untill i g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should i do? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ca3cqj/what_should_i_do/ |
bluebananasocks | 2019-04-30 14:46:04 | 1,556,635,564 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bj45ch | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bj45ch/do_you_ever_get_over_your_first_love/ | 2 | Hey reddit! I use this account to rant about my feelings, I don’t really have someone I want to talk to about this so what’s better than sharing it with the whole internet? Ok so last year I (F19) met my first boyfriend of off tinder (M22) and we dated for six months with minimal fighting, and then one day, out of the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do you ever get over your first love? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bj45ch/do_you_ever_get_over_your_first_love/ |
serpentscat | 2024-04-13 05:23:38 | 1,712,985,818 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1c2ubrv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c2ubrv/is_this_my_closure_or_should_i_give_it_another/ | 2 | a while ago i matched with this guy on hinge and we instantly hit it off. we developed a really substantial, intimate connection and we just had our first date this week. it went really well and we also ended up hooking up twice. before, he made it seem like he really wanted to date and he would say these very sweet un... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | is this my closure or should i give it another chance? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c2ubrv/is_this_my_closure_or_should_i_give_it_another/ |
hecticbellerin | 2020-05-01 01:25:33 | 1,588,296,333 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | gb8v9p | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gb8v9p/met_a_great_girl_on_hinge_but_we_couldnt_go_on_an/ | 3 | So some background info: I'm 24, she's 23. She's coming off a pretty recent 8-year relationship so she's pretty new to the dating scene (and she's told me countless times that she doesn't know what's okay/not okay when it comes to dating). Me and her matched after about a week of her officially creating her profile and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met a GREAT girl on Hinge, but we couldn't go on an official date due to quarantining. After a month of me and her talking through text every day she decided she wanted to be more serious with someone else that she met on Hinge. Should I be okay with being her rebound? | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gb8v9p/met_a_great_girl_on_hinge_but_we_couldnt_go_on_an/ |
holyshitnuggets | 2017-08-21 03:35:47 | 1,503,286,547 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 6v0erj | false | null | 55 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/6v0erj/whats_the_best_way_to_find_guys_actually_looking/ | 9 | I just moved to a new place. Almost all of my friends actually met their partners on Tinder/OKC/Bumble so I thought I'd try Tinder out. I'm not looking for just a hookup situation--I stated that clearly in my profile...but still, I get guys making sexual comments in our very first conversations, or them telling me they... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What's the best way to find guys actually looking to date, not just hook up? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/6v0erj/whats_the_best_way_to_find_guys_actually_looking/ |
Haile-Selassie | 2024-08-16 11:59:28 | 1,723,809,568 | 0 | null | 0 | 1etmvlv | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1etmvlv/badoo_scam/ | 1 | Shutting down a fake account using my info on "Badoo". Just started getting password update emails out of nowhere, never heard of it before, and no idea how long it's been happening or what it's been used for. In searching for info on Badoo, it seems this is actually pretty common for Badoo accounts to be used in some ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 'Badoo' Scam | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1etmvlv/badoo_scam/ |
hs3589 | 2022-03-28 13:41:10 | 1,648,474,870 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | tq9kjd | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tq9kjd/somebody_please_tell_me_i_should_relax/ | 2 | So I (34F) went out with a guy (35M) that I met on bumble last Sunday. Our first date went well. Lasted 5 hours. Deep conversation, hand holding, him complimenting me. He asked me out again and we saw each other on Wednesday. It also went great. Same stuff as the first date. He looked like he wanted to kiss me but we d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Somebody please tell me I should relax...! | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tq9kjd/somebody_please_tell_me_i_should_relax/ |
oceaneyesbillie | 2020-10-12 11:10:29 | 1,602,501,029 | null | ['swiped'] | 0 | j9oykn | true | Question | 41 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/j9oykn/how_important_is_someones_weight_to_you/ | 19 | I haven't dated much and I feel some insecurity coming up with a guy who looks pretty fit. I messaged him because of something he wrote in his profile, not his abs, as looks aren't the most important thing. I don't have a type, but I probably wouldn't have swiped on him had he not written something that caught my atten... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How important is someone's weight to you? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j9oykn/how_important_is_someones_weight_to_you/ |
sou1f1ower | 2023-04-24 18:34:58 | 1,682,361,298 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 12xrx79 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12xrx79/i_got_banned_off_of_pure_dating_app_for_no_reason/ | 2 | the team said they won’t unban me. rip to me finding people to hook up with. tried signing up from a spare phone and i got blocked again on that. i can only think it’s because men are annoyed that i don’t reply but not my fault they’re creepy. wtf. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | i got banned off of pure dating app for no reason | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12xrx79/i_got_banned_off_of_pure_dating_app_for_no_reason/ |
J4mie_ | 2022-05-04 10:12:51 | 1,651,659,171 | null | ['dating site', 'tinder'] | 0 | ui39aw | true | I Need Advice | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ui39aw/m28_i_have_never_been_on_a_date_need_advice/ | 9 | Hello, I've never been on a date, tried Tinder multiple times and another dating site but never got a match or a reply from a woman. It is terribly depressing because I am now 28 years old. All my life I've been either rejected, ignored or friendzoned by women. I don't know what to do anymore and I don't want to be at ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [M28] I have never been on a date, need advice | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ui39aw/m28_i_have_never_been_on_a_date_need_advice/ |
Buzbyy | 2023-01-14 19:27:59 | 1,673,724,479 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 10bx00t | true | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10bx00t/dating_apps/ | 4 | Looking to start dating again after a difficult break up a few months ago. Before then hadn’t really been single for long for several years. What are the best dating apps to use? I’m F29 in London, looking for relationship rather than hookups. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10bx00t/dating_apps/ |
sunnyside_up13 | 2024-06-04 22:07:50 | 1,717,538,870 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1d89o39 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d89o39/i_really_like_this_guy_but_im_worried_hes_ugly/ | 1 | So basically, i recently got Bumbl and have been randomly matching with people for a day or two then moving on. Well, just a week or so ago i matched this guy and we have been talking since. I really like him, he texts me a lot, hes nice and curious about me, and i like his voice (we have played games before) im just w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I really like this guy but im worried hes ugly… | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d89o39/i_really_like_this_guy_but_im_worried_hes_ugly/ |
adamantcondition | 2022-01-27 16:19:42 | 1,643,300,382 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | se23bt | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/se23bt/why_does_it_seem_everyone_these_days_is_into_kink/ | 3 | Granted, this may be a side effect of dating in the Poly/ENM scene, but it seems more widespread. I will readily admit that my sexual orientation is pretty vanilla. I’m not hetero-flexible or into power play or really anything outside of the emotional affection and physical stimulation. That said, I still think I contr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why does it seem everyone these days is into kink or fetishes? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/se23bt/why_does_it_seem_everyone_these_days_is_into_kink/ |
Nsxd9 | 2023-08-07 05:14:54 | 1,691,385,294 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15kb4of | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15kb4of/find_a_virgin_to_have_a_relationship_with/ | 1 | I’m 23 and a virgin, and without coming off as rude, don’t really want to engage myself with someone who’s been with plenty of people in the past. Is it possible for me to find a virgin girl? I read some stupid stat like 74% of the girls out there have been on birthday control (within a age range) and only 1.3% of the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Find a virgin to have a relationship with? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15kb4of/find_a_virgin_to_have_a_relationship_with/ |
Koen456 | 2024-09-24 16:43:56 | 1,727,196,236 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1foh2iw | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1foh2iw/does_she_like_me/ | 1 | So after a pretty long relationship of 8 years with my ex I decided to start dating again. Last month I've (M27) met this wonderful girl (F25) via Bumble and we have been on 3 dates, 2 of them I've asked her and the last one she asked me on a date (all of them lasted 4-6 hours) and another full-day date is already plan... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does she like me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1foh2iw/does_she_like_me/ |
[deleted] | 2021-11-23 18:06:51 | 1,637,690,811 | null | ['OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | r0j82d | true | null | 54 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/r0j82d/the_slow_burn_or_the_fuck_yeah_strategy/ | 92 | Let's say you're on a first date. You two vibe well, have plenty in common, maybe share a passion, so the conversation is stimulating, and you're (mostly) physically attracted (but not blown away, either)... You know that there's something about them that isn't quite sitting right, but you are also curious to know them... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | The Slow Burn or the "Fuck Yeah" strategy? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/r0j82d/the_slow_burn_or_the_fuck_yeah_strategy/ |
hadeals | 2020-03-17 03:39:31 | 1,584,416,371 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | fjyfs3 | true | Venting | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fjyfs3/long_distance_dating_during_corona/ | 14 | I (24f) met a lovely boy (24m) on Bumble and had the perfect first date. He exceeds my wildest dreams of the “ideal” mate, we are like minded in terms of the big picture of life and different in ways that balance each other out. We spent 10 hours together on the first date and it always feels like time doesn’t exist wh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Long distance dating during corona | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fjyfs3/long_distance_dating_during_corona/ |
ninjaofthedude | 2023-07-14 22:59:07 | 1,689,375,547 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 14zuxnn | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14zuxnn/are_there_any_good_courses_or_coaching_programs/ | 1 | I am hoping you guys can help me out with this as online dating is very difficult to navigate. Hoping you guys can help me out. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are there any good courses or coaching programs for online dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14zuxnn/are_there_any_good_courses_or_coaching_programs/ |
thedailywit | 2018-07-18 13:22:07 | 1,531,920,127 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 8zvg3v | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8zvg3v/anxious_about_asking_for_a_second_date/ | 1 | So I (24/m) started using Bumble about a week ago. To my surprise, I matched with a supa cute girl (22) who ended up messaging me almost immediately. We chatted for a bit, sporadically at first, until on Monday I finally asked if she wanted to go on a date this Thursday. She said yes It was great I gave her my number, ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anxious About Asking For a Second Date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8zvg3v/anxious_about_asking_for_a_second_date/ |
corsicanviking | 2023-10-29 16:47:08 | 1,698,598,028 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17j6zzx | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17j6zzx/virgin_male_at_almost_26_lost_all_hope/ | 1 | I never had a girlfriend, never even kissed a girl and it makes me feel something went wrong with my life. I've tried dating apps and it doesn't work while my only friend dates dozens of girls with these apps. It ruined my confidence and makes me feel like no one finds me attractive. I've struggled with mental health p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Virgin male at almost 26, lost all hope. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17j6zzx/virgin_male_at_almost_26_lost_all_hope/ |
LarryVel | 2015-11-09 18:51:05 | 1,447,095,065 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'pof', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 3s60am | null | null | 34 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/3s60am/for_those_that_have_tried_paid_online_dating/ | 28 | Has anyone actually experienced catphishing from paid dating sites at all? I know from personal experience that Tinder is notorious for fake accounts and POF and OKC have some of those accounts as well, but aren't quite as bad (from my experience) | AskMen | t5_2s30g | For those that have tried paid online dating sites (Match, eHarmony, etc.), what are the chances of encountering female catphishing accounts? | 28 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3s60am/for_those_that_have_tried_paid_online_dating/ |
Last_Selection6181 | 2021-06-30 02:08:34 | 1,625,018,914 | null | ['swiping', 'dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | oan5n3 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oan5n3/how_do_i_fix_this/ | 1 | Hey just looking for some advice, so I met someone after matching on Bumble the dating app, and we went on 4 small dates. I instantly felt a connection and was interested in pursuing things with her but I made a mistake. So the day after our last date, she messaged saying she doesn’t want to to continue because I was s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do i fix this? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oan5n3/how_do_i_fix_this/ |
TheFrogsMightbegay | 2024-09-22 18:35:06 | 1,727,030,106 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1fn05gq | true | null | 47 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fn05gq/i_dont_want_kids_she_does_want_kids/ | 0 | So I (24m) met this amazing woman (24f), we matched on tinder a few ago and have been on 4 dates so far. She’s amazing and I’ve honestly never met someone like her. During our date yesterday the topic of kids came up and I don’t really want kids, she does want kids when she finishes her PhD program. We aren’t a serious... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don’t want kids, she does want kids… | 0 | 0.48 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fn05gq/i_dont_want_kids_she_does_want_kids/ |
dontcomplain1 | 2017-11-26 00:39:17 | 1,511,656,757 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7fjbam | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7fjbam/when_you_are_going_to_hookup_with_a_girl_on/ | 7 | How should I react to this tbh? I asked her out on a date and she said she would have to stay the night here and sleep at my place or it's not worth it when she has to drive all the way back home after the date. I mean this is the first date, usually it just goes that we either already have sex on the same day at her o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When you are going to hookup with a girl on tinder that is coming to you out of town and she asks if she can stay the night .. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7fjbam/when_you_are_going_to_hookup_with_a_girl_on/ |
lifesweetener_08 | 2021-09-28 08:02:56 | 1,632,816,176 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | px1ji1 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/px1ji1/he_ended_things_because_of_his_depression_and_im/ | 3 | I (24F) have been exclusively dating a guy (27M) for the past two months. We met on Bumble and instantly were very attracted to one another. During the two months, we would see each other two times a week (one mid-week and one day of the weekend). This is the first guy I've managed to open up to and saw a future with. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He ended things because of his depression, and I'm hurting | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/px1ji1/he_ended_things_because_of_his_depression_and_im/ |
throw_ra_phimosis | 2022-08-22 20:03:32 | 1,661,198,612 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wv3me0 | true | Question ❓ | 440 | 2 | /r/dating/comments/wv3me0/uncircumcised_guy_ruined_date_because_of_extreme/ | 1,019 | Ok, hear me out. With all the recent talks about how boys shouldn't be circumcised at birth and everything, I feel like what happened during my date is relevant and I need to hear your opinions. I met this guy on tinder a couple weeks ago, my bio clearly states that I'm looking for casual only, I have something on the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Uncircumcised guy ruined date because of extreme phimosis. | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wv3me0/uncircumcised_guy_ruined_date_because_of_extreme/ |
seymour_scoops | 2019-03-25 13:57:45 | 1,553,522,265 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | b5b0fp | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/b5b0fp/how_do_you_get_over_someone_who_doesnt_like_you/ | 1 | Long story time. About a year ago I was out at a bar and my friend and I pursued a couple girls. We talked, we're having a great time and getting a little drunk. Well as the night is going on it is clear who is with who, but the problem was I had plans to get picked up by a recent Tinder hookup to go fuck. My drunken m... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do you get over someone who doesn't like you back when you see them regularly? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/b5b0fp/how_do_you_get_over_someone_who_doesnt_like_you/ |
TheReal_NightMonkey | 2021-01-27 04:00:51 | 1,611,720,051 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | l5vv45 | true | null | 71 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/l5vv45/i_thought_i_would_be_ok_by_now/ | 132 | So, I emigrated from a third world country when I was 18 years old (the conditions there, especially for women, were nothing but horrendous and despondent). I came to the United States all by myself. I managed to teach myself how to speak English and that allowed me to go to school and graduate. I'm 24 now and... I fin... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I thought I would be ok by now... | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/l5vv45/i_thought_i_would_be_ok_by_now/ |
gothclavdia | 2021-04-20 13:29:57 | 1,618,925,397 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | muqc6s | true | I Need Advice | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/muqc6s/no_text_after_date/ | 3 | im a 20 year girl, he’s 24. we already sort of knew each other (we used to live in the same dorms), we matched on tinder and then he started messaging me with the phone number he already had from the dorms days. was acting very nice through texts and then pretty soon asked me if i wanted to hang out. we went on a date ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | No text after date | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/muqc6s/no_text_after_date/ |
[deleted] | 2020-11-22 16:36:16 | 1,606,062,976 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | jyyk56 | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jyyk56/a_guy_ghosted_me_but_idk_y_he_did/ | 0 | 21 female i matched w this really (imo) handsome guy on a dating app. we found out we'd a LOT in common. he gave me his phone , and we began texting/FTing every other day. it was going so great. we'd the best convos whenever we'd talk. the longest FT call we had lasted almost up to three hours, and it was so nice and f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | a guy ghosted me, but idk y he did. | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jyyk56/a_guy_ghosted_me_but_idk_y_he_did/ |
redditthrowaway9292 | 2015-11-28 14:59:29 | 1,448,722,769 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3ul9w7 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/3ul9w7/is_it_weird_to_match_with_someone_on_tinder_and/ | 0 | was going through my matches and saw a guy with a cute profile. | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Is it weird to match with someone on Tinder and initiate conversation a month-ish later? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/3ul9w7/is_it_weird_to_match_with_someone_on_tinder_and/ |
TrashDwellingTroll | 2020-10-31 23:16:44 | 1,604,186,204 | null | ['swipe', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | jls7y3 | true | Question | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jls7y3/dating_app_tips_for_men/ | 4 | Seems like a lot of guys struggle on dating apps, me included. Ladies, help us out! What is more likely to get you to Swipe Right on a guy, reply to a message, or just overall stay interested? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating App Tips for Men? | null | 0.65 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jls7y3/dating_app_tips_for_men/ |
emojijohnson | 2021-01-03 19:18:11 | 1,609,701,491 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | kpqv5m | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kpqv5m/help_compiling_a_list_of_overused_lines_in_old/ | 4 | We all know "OLD sucks!" But it's also one of the only ways to connect with people right now, especially with the pandemic. I think all of us (men and women) can agree most of us need to work on our bios. There's so much competition in OLD, it's important to stand out and make an impression to result in better/more mat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help compiling a list of overused lines in OLD profiles | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kpqv5m/help_compiling_a_list_of_overused_lines_in_old/ |
Sychotics | 2019-03-23 16:01:09 | 1,553,356,869 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | b4kqx4 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b4kqx4/where_to_invite_girl_over/ | 1 | Hello, i haven't had a date since I was 19 and that was 7 years ago. I'm on vacation now staying in an airbnb so I figured i try my luck on tinder. Got a few matches, which makes me really happy. The only problem is that my airbnb says I "can't bring friends over." So i'm not sure what the best thing to do in this case... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where to invite girl over? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b4kqx4/where_to_invite_girl_over/ |
wondering-soul | 2021-07-31 22:21:38 | 1,627,770,098 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | ovgbfm | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/ovgbfm/those_of_you_who_used_bumbledating_apps_for_more/ | 16 | I have a bumble account but I’m not sure how to build it out. I have some pics of me with my dog and a couple mirror selfie’s. I guess the basics of the question is does anybody know what women are looking for or what they find appealing in profiles? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Those of you who used Bumble/dating apps for more than a hookup, what did you have on your profile? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/ovgbfm/those_of_you_who_used_bumbledating_apps_for_more/ |
Not_Out_Yet | 2014-03-03 21:00:35 | 1,393,880,435 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1zgrov | null | null | 13 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1zgrov/stupidish_question_should_i_contact_him/ | 8 | I haven't gone on very many dates, to be honest. I'm semi-recently out of a 4.5 year relationship, and before that I wasn't the most socially adept, so my dating knowledge is pretty much that of a college freshman. I'm also only recently interested in guys (25 F, here), and I feel like this is all very uncharted territ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stupid-ish question: Should I contact him? | 8 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1zgrov/stupidish_question_should_i_contact_him/ |
Mill_City_Viking | 2021-08-08 13:46:26 | 1,628,430,386 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | p0ex9t | true | null | 34 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p0ex9t/women_of_reddit_what_do_you_want_to_read_most_in/ | 5 | To be clear, I'm not asking women here to write my own personal dating profile. And for the sake of this exercise, let's just assume the profile pics are all fantastic. What makes you most want to match? What makes a man stand out? Is it humor? Financial security? Emotional maturity? Sense of adventure? Introspection? ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | WOMEN OF REDDIT: What Do YOU Want To Read Most In A Man's Dating Profile? What Makes You SWOON? | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p0ex9t/women_of_reddit_what_do_you_want_to_read_most_in/ |
Sweet-Lemon28 | 2022-02-13 19:02:11 | 1,644,778,931 | null | null | 0 | srq4d0 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/srq4d0/thoughts_on_activity_photos_that_dont_show_the/ | 9 | I know it’s important for your first profile photo to clearly show your face and to have at least one full body photo. Curious to know (especially from the guys out there) if you want to see at least one photo of an activity she likes doing? All of my good face photos don’t show my personality but I have photos of me s... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Thoughts on activity photos that don’t show the person’s face very well. | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/srq4d0/thoughts_on_activity_photos_that_dont_show_the/ |
MutedCompetition7588 | 2024-09-26 14:03:10 | 1,727,359,390 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fpwyb8 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fpwyb8/massive_gaming_going_on/ | 1 | I know we all know this. But what even is actually going on. Individuals I've matched with in the past, so I know they are on the apps. I closed out my account, but ended up signing up again because things didn't work out. I run out of matches for my criteria. This goes on for a few days. I get a trickle of candidates ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Massive Gaming Going On | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fpwyb8/massive_gaming_going_on/ |
Jackb31qw | 2020-05-13 16:13:15 | 1,589,386,395 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | gj21xw | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gj21xw/think_i_messed_it_up/ | 2 | Been speaking to a guy over a month but haven't met because of quarantine. Pretty much hit it off and things got more intense over the weeks to the point where we said that we were exclusive. I felt he set a precedent and we used to have drunk chats all tbe time about how we like each other etc. However, after a month ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Think I messed it up? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gj21xw/think_i_messed_it_up/ |
Beneficial_Ad_9579 | 2024-09-22 17:01:12 | 1,727,024,472 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fmy0s3 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fmy0s3/28m_zero_datingintimacy_experience_whatsoever_how/ | 1 | Hey everyone, So I am a 28 year old guy(living in Austin, TX) with ZERO dating or relationship experience whatsoever. That means I have never been on a date, never kissed a girl, been in a relationship, etc. Of course, I am obviously a virgin as well. At this rate, am I doomed to die alone? I normally don't want to wor... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [28/m], zero dating/intimacy experience whatsoever. How hopeless am I? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fmy0s3/28m_zero_datingintimacy_experience_whatsoever_how/ |
Stevie2Shoes | 2020-03-14 17:58:00 | 1,584,208,680 | null | null | 0 | fimgk1 | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/fimgk1/girl_is_flirtatious_while_texting_but_quiet_while/ | 6 | So I've known this bird for a while and recently we started texting. Some of the convos we've had were really flirtatious on both sides. Today we facetimed for the first time but it was very anti-climactic. When I tried to get a conversation going she would half the time reply with either yes, I guess, not sure (aka sh... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Girl is flirtatious while texting, but quiet while calling | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/fimgk1/girl_is_flirtatious_while_texting_but_quiet_while/ |
dra214 | 2017-05-23 14:35:33 | 1,495,550,133 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6cv11z | null | null | 16 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6cv11z/me_20_f_and_her_18_should_i_just_wait_for_her_to/ | 2 | I guess for more context and background, you can check my previous post. This is an update on a girl that I was taking the same class with whom I matched with on tinder during the semester but we never talked in person except her approaching me out of all people to ask about a test. Only time we talked in person. So th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Me: 20 (F) and her: 18. Should I just wait for her to get back to me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6cv11z/me_20_f_and_her_18_should_i_just_wait_for_her_to/ |
RedditnobodyX | 2021-06-19 07:28:25 | 1,624,087,705 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | o3am2r | true | Giving Advice | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o3am2r/the_golden_rule_of_online_dating/ | 68 | If a person you are communicating with is interested in you romantically the effort will be there to be a part of your life. Don’t blow up the other persons phone just give the person a call and leave a voice message or shoot them a text message, if they value you they will make time to reply and an effort to go out on... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The golden rule of online dating | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o3am2r/the_golden_rule_of_online_dating/ |
milicacosic | 2017-11-20 18:40:22 | 1,511,203,222 | null | null | 0 | 7eb1f6 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/7eb1f6/the_world_of_online_dating/ | 2 | Hello I am a journalist doing an investigative piece on online dating and I would like to have an emailer with someone in regards to how it is changing the way we date today and you opinions of online dating itself. I hope you are able to help me. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | The world of online dating. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/7eb1f6/the_world_of_online_dating/ |
Any_Buy2221 | 2022-08-28 11:26:35 | 1,661,685,995 | null | null | 0 | wzt6oi | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/wzt6oi/whats_up_with_the_purple_lipstick/ | 0 | That's a new style? nasty. We're living in the age of clown faces. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | what's up with the purple lipstick? | null | 0.12 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/wzt6oi/whats_up_with_the_purple_lipstick/ |
Acid_In_My_Eyes | 2022-05-24 06:44:27 | 1,653,374,667 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | uwkn58 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uwkn58/do_you_think_its_safe_to_meet_someone_for_hooking/ | 9 | I matched with someone older than me, a woman, who has 2 kids, and is 38. She is very sexual and flirtatious in her messages and wants to meet for dinner. She also said we could makeout. She lives kinda far away like 30 minutes. Do you think it's safe? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do you think it's safe to meet someone for hooking up? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uwkn58/do_you_think_its_safe_to_meet_someone_for_hooking/ |
Imikur | 2021-08-19 00:02:06 | 1,629,331,326 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | p73ihj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p73ihj/how_to_date_during_pandemic/ | 1 | Has anyone a working solution for dating during the pandemic? At first I thought Apps like Tinder or Bumble could be a solution but my experience with them is as shit as always. Are there other platforms that work better? I'm a fat european male(27), I know my chances are almost non existent but still. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to date during pandemic? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p73ihj/how_to_date_during_pandemic/ |
ImtheN1 | 2019-06-17 14:22:33 | 1,560,781,353 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | c1o3la | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c1o3la/too_soon_to_ask_to_meet_up/ | 2 | So, I recently downloaded a dating app and then i got a match with a pretty girl, we got along pretty well and we chat every time that we are not busy. the problem is that today i asked if she wants to go out grab a coffee on sunday and then she said yes(huhhaay) and now i don't know what things to talk to her anymore.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Too soon to ask to meet up? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c1o3la/too_soon_to_ask_to_meet_up/ |
Lickmybagels | 2023-12-30 20:11:26 | 1,703,967,086 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 18uohu2 | true | null | 370 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18uohu2/everyone_loses_interest_when_i_bring_up_my_career/ | 448 | I'm in my late 20s and have been a carpenter since I was 18. I enjoy my work and it brings me great satisfaction. I only make around 30-35 an hour but I'm good with my money and experienced in investing. I have over 130k net worth. I'm over 6ft, go to the gym 5 days a week, and got lucky in the looks department. I get ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Everyone loses interest when I bring up my career. | 448 | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18uohu2/everyone_loses_interest_when_i_bring_up_my_career/ |
Churro_Dude_666 | 2017-12-18 02:15:47 | 1,513,563,347 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7ki84x | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7ki84x/that_one_girl_you_cant_forget/ | 2 | I feel kinda like a loser posting this, because it's about a girl i didn't actually meet. Basically I matched a girl on tinder in January. Quirky, fun to talk to, good looking, and she lives/lived 5 minutes round the corner from me, jackpot right? Well, for a number of reasons, it got to maybe the start of March and we... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | That one girl you can't forget | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7ki84x/that_one_girl_you_cant_forget/ |
brangeli | 2016-04-07 14:48:07 | 1,460,040,487 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 4drd00 | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4drd00/online_dating_how_often_women_initiate_first/ | 2 | what i want to know is how many men out there get the message from a woman first ... Thank you | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | online dating , how often women initiate first message | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4drd00/online_dating_how_often_women_initiate_first/ |
AlwaysWylin | 2019-09-27 17:36:36 | 1,569,605,796 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | da3rsq | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/da3rsq/struggling_to_understand_females_or_im_just/ | 2 | Hey all, If you could give me (22M) some advice about the below situation as to what to do or if I'm just thinking of everything the wrong way that would be great :) thanks in advance! So I've just got back on the dating scene recently, downloaded a couple of apps here and there to start meeting new people as usual. We... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Struggling to understand females, or I'm just dumb/overthinking? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/da3rsq/struggling_to_understand_females_or_im_just/ |
ihavequestionsfory0u | 2021-01-13 14:01:50 | 1,610,546,510 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | kwgz1e | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kwgz1e/i_30f_met_him_29m_once_and_i_cant_forget/ | 1 | So I met this guy at a friends birthday get together around this time last year, just before corona restrictions started hitting. We spent some time talking, had some drinks. I’d originally matched with him on bumble maybe 3 months before meeting but he never replied to my original message, and when we met he didn’t sh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (30F) met him (29M) once and I can’t forget | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kwgz1e/i_30f_met_him_29m_once_and_i_cant_forget/ |
Peaceandheart | 2019-08-10 21:04:44 | 1,565,471,084 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | conmt5 | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/conmt5/what_do_you_think_the_prerequisites_are_to_be/ | 0 | As a guy. Attractiveness is maybe a 3/10 | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What do you think the prerequisites are to be successful in online dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/conmt5/what_do_you_think_the_prerequisites_are_to_be/ |
nilgoc | 2020-01-21 05:45:49 | 1,579,585,549 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | erqaa5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/erqaa5/unmatched_for_asking_about_work/ | 1 | I (22M) matched with a girl(19F) on bumble tonight. Things seemed to be going alright. I had to be the one to keep the conversation going mostly, she didn't really ask my any questions, but she was replying fast the whole time (we talked for about 2 hours) and seemed to be enjoying the conversation. No short answers re... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Unmatched for asking about work? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/erqaa5/unmatched_for_asking_about_work/ |
Risky-Move | 2021-06-17 11:43:20 | 1,623,930,200 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | o1v8uh | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o1v8uh/should_i_go_on_a_date_with_her_or_not/ | 2 | So I matched with a girl on Bumble last Sunday who is a medical resident at a hospital near me. She texts me about once or twice a day and her texts are always pretty full, but she doesn’t usually ask me many questions. I asked her two days ago if she were open for a date this weekend and she said yes for this Sunday l... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I go on a date with her or not? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o1v8uh/should_i_go_on_a_date_with_her_or_not/ |
Silic0nValleyJo3 | 2022-06-29 18:13:38 | 1,656,526,418 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | vnmao9 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vnmao9/how_long_do_you_wait_to_ask_someone_you_meet_on/ | 3 | I’m a 24m and I’m curious about general etiquette when it comes to online dating. I’ve generally found that people typically send one response a day, which only allows for some small talk. I’m wondering, from both men and women, when do you expect it to move forward and what’s the next step? Should I ask for a phone nu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long do you wait to ask someone you meet on an app to meet in person? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vnmao9/how_long_do_you_wait_to_ask_someone_you_meet_on/ |
goldenboy1845 | 2020-09-23 10:18:27 | 1,600,856,307 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | iy7h2t | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iy7h2t/shes_a_lovely_person_but_kinda_far_away_any/ | 9 | So a few weeks ago I (m21) matched and started chatting up a very lovely lady (f23) I meet over hinge, and things seem to be goinh absolutely amazing so far. We seem to get along with one another quite well so far the only issue is that we live about 2 hrs away from one another. We both drive and have decently packed s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She's a lovely person but kinda far away! Any suggestions | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iy7h2t/shes_a_lovely_person_but_kinda_far_away_any/ |
Fuckthiscrep | 2016-05-04 22:32:43 | 1,462,401,163 | 0 | ['swiped', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 4hx0yq | null | null | 13 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4hx0yq/22m_is_online_dating_just_not_for_me/ | 1 | I have been on OKCupid for more than two months and have had no luck at getting any dates. I messaged every girl that I believed had similar interests to me, but they weren't interested in talking. I also tried Tinder out and swiped right on literally everyone, but had no luck on that as well. An example of the typical... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (22M) Is online dating just not for me? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4hx0yq/22m_is_online_dating_just_not_for_me/ |
lemomingming | 2024-08-05 06:08:46 | 1,722,838,126 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ekgmql | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ekgmql/i_just_want_someone_like_yamada_from_my_love/ | 0 | 21(f) really attracted to met who are tall with glasses on (lmao) and who is a nerdy type like me Tried different dating apps but im scared of their expectations (not confident with how i look like) + I don’t look for fb :c (i just want to have someone who is a friend and my love at the same time c:💖) I JUST WANT A WH... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | i just want someone like yamada . . . (from my love story with yamada kun at lvl999) | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ekgmql/i_just_want_someone_like_yamada_from_my_love/ |
nathynwithay | 2020-11-11 14:19:21 | 1,605,104,361 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | js8wz7 | true | Question | 129 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/js8wz7/how_to_be_okay_with_not_being_good_enough_to_date/ | 31 | Like multiple guys one here, I'm not good enough to date anybody but at least I'm aware. Online dating isn't going to work out. Not just because of lack of looks but the understanding that any message I send is just going to waste mine and the other persons time Before covid I wouldn't approach women because there's an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to be okay with not being good enough to date | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/js8wz7/how_to_be_okay_with_not_being_good_enough_to_date/ |
reowooryu | 2024-08-29 04:26:07 | 1,724,905,567 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1f3tsf1 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f3tsf1/making_plans_to_meet_at_least_a_day_every_week/ | 1 | A guy I've only met for one time (after chatting for 2 weeks) is now asking me for the days that he and I could meet every week. I'm very new to Online Dating and haven't dated for many years lol. I thought after a first date, it should be something like .... do we want to go a second date on a specific day, make arran... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Making plans to meet at least a day every week after a first date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f3tsf1/making_plans_to_meet_at_least_a_day_every_week/ |
Explorer_East234 | 2022-06-17 22:02:14 | 1,655,503,334 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | veraap | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/veraap/milf_dating_advice/ | 0 | What dating app is best to find milfs? I am 18 and just want to find an older woman as they are more mature and interesting. Thanks! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Milf dating advice. | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/veraap/milf_dating_advice/ |
jaywalkker | 2023-05-19 16:39:52 | 1,684,514,392 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 13m0r54 | true | Seeking Advice | 89 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/13m0r54/ladies_please_review_my_about_mebio/ | 62 | Update 2: I feel speechless. The bio I presented is essentially the result of lots of (recommended) journaling exercises in which I am attempting to reclaim my self-identity. The distilled essence of who I am. Divorce is still pretty fresh so not getting out there just yet, but turning to the future. While I posted thi... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Ladies - Please review my About Me/Bio | 62 | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/13m0r54/ladies_please_review_my_about_mebio/ |
Stunning-Obligation8 | 2021-09-02 14:40:07 | 1,630,593,607 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | pgj7sn | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pgj7sn/why_cant_i_keep_a_stable_casual_relationship_with/ | 0 | Don’t want to sound like a cliché but I’m a pretty attractive guy, 6’7”, empathetic, I guess the one thing I don’t have going for me is stability right now, but I’m not trying to bring anyone else into my life. I usually use dating apps and have run the gamut, only to have barely anything come of my matches. First of a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why Can’t I Keep a Stable Casual Relationship with Women? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pgj7sn/why_cant_i_keep_a_stable_casual_relationship_with/ |
MoviePassReviews | 2022-01-25 21:17:18 | 1,643,145,438 | null | null | 0 | sco6pi | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/sco6pi/have_you_ever_run_into_someone_irl_that_you/ | 6 | Like you see them at a store or a bar randomly and say "hey I matched with you" | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Have you ever run into someone IRL that you matched with on one of the apps? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/sco6pi/have_you_ever_run_into_someone_irl_that_you/ |
lostinmadison711 | 2022-12-26 19:38:58 | 1,672,083,538 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | zvuy09 | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zvuy09/scam_sites/ | 1 | Anyone had luck with the scam sites filled with AI and bots? they use fake accounts to message you to get you to spend money on the site. I signed up for one dating site...not sure which first. Next thing I know I'm connected to a "partner website" frequently and I can't cancel them fast enough. Worst thing of all, I p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Scam Sites? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zvuy09/scam_sites/ |
DeviceNo97 | 2023-09-13 02:50:08 | 1,694,573,408 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16hbb30 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16hbb30/dating_apps/ | 1 | I judge people for using dating apps. I’ll always be like, “it’s not weird I know people who’ve used them and they work” But deep down I’m like y’all are LAME…… my ex told me that he started using a dating ap to get over me and I’m like damn at least I’m not that desperate! Am I being judgmental? My gay male friend use... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16hbb30/dating_apps/ |
PaleDonut0 | 2024-02-24 01:19:29 | 1,708,737,569 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1ayhrp0 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ayhrp0/was_he_nervousshy_or_just_not_that_interested/ | 1 | I went on a first date with a guy I met on hinge last night. He initiated that we should hang out and we figured out where to go and he even made a reservation. It was nice, we talked and got along, laughed etc but there were a couple times when there was awkward silence where we’d just look at each other and not say a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Was he nervous/shy or just not that interested? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ayhrp0/was_he_nervousshy_or_just_not_that_interested/ |
throwaway47285728581 | 2023-08-14 10:30:19 | 1,692,009,019 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15qqxcu | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15qqxcu/i_want_intimacy_cuddles_but_not_necessary/ | 1 | Been out of a very long term rl since a year. I tried dating and getting hookups but nothing lead to anything as I am still to hung over my ex. Now I still starve for intimacy but its more like of the type of wanting to cuddle with someone be it watching a series or in bed for sleep. Is there even a market for somethin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I want intimacy (cuddles) but not necessary hookups/dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15qqxcu/i_want_intimacy_cuddles_but_not_necessary/ |
babyybubbless | 2024-03-26 22:20:18 | 1,711,491,618 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1bol0ax | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bol0ax/had_to_ask_him_for_his_number_and_on_a_date/ | 1 | so i (22f) posted yesterday that ive been chatting with this guy (24m) from tinder and 3 days of talking on the app he hadnt asked for my number or tried to make plans. so i ended up asking him for his number and we’ve been texting. since yesterday ive been hinting that i have no plans for the week and am gonna be real... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | had to ask him for his number and on a date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bol0ax/had_to_ask_him_for_his_number_and_on_a_date/ |
smoshylumb8 | 2024-05-16 23:58:55 | 1,715,903,935 | 0 | ['matched', 'OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | 1ctrohm | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ctrohm/just_got_unmatched_again_on_old_what_am_i_doing/ | 1 | I'm 25M and have been using online dating on and off for over 5 years now and I keep getting either unmatched or just ghosted and I'm really frustrated because I don't understand why this happens all the time. Here is a copy of the messages from this girl I matched with, please tell me if there's something wrong I said... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just got unmatched again on OLD, what am I doing wrong here? | 1 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ctrohm/just_got_unmatched_again_on_old_what_am_i_doing/ |
Mini_Couper | 2017-08-29 15:47:19 | 1,504,021,639 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6ws2uc | false | null | 29 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6ws2uc/tindering_how_do_i/ | 0 | So I now have a Tinder account. I have only ever used OKC. How do I use this thing? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Tindering, how do I? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6ws2uc/tindering_how_do_i/ |
OverThinking2024 | 2024-05-16 07:18:40 | 1,715,843,920 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 1ct77ow | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ct77ow/how_long_do_you_wait_before_giving_out_info_on/ | 2 | I don't know if I'm too much of a worrier. I've been on Facebook dating around 3/4 weeks. I have massive trust issues from past trauma so it's going to take me a while to trust someone... and I keep getting asked for either Facebook, number, Instagram etc. Now sometimes it's after a day or so and that's a straight no. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long do you wait before giving out info on Facebook Dating? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ct77ow/how_long_do_you_wait_before_giving_out_info_on/ |
mythrowawayaccountfr | 2018-04-10 18:03:19 | 1,523,383,399 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8b9tbr | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8b9tbr/havent_dated_in_a_while_am_i_in_the_wrong_here/ | 1 | So I recently (about 6 months ago) got out of a very toxic and emotionally draining relationship. Since then I've had very little interest in getting into another relationship because I'm afraid of wasting time on another person and I also have a habit of co-dependancy. I also am pretty busy as I'm a grad student and a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Haven't dated in a while. Am I in the wrong here? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8b9tbr/havent_dated_in_a_while_am_i_in_the_wrong_here/ |
justoneminuteplease | 2023-06-13 18:23:43 | 1,686,680,623 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 148m0pi | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/148m0pi/have_to_cancel_a_second_date_through_tinder_app/ | 2 | I hate the dating game but that’s how it is here in my parts. I’d much rather just dive into a relationship but I’ve seen that have it’s negatives too. Anyway there’s this guy that seems to be really into me after just one date. Which is fine. It happens. I am his first date after a divorce so I don’t really feel like ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Have to cancel a second date through Tinder app cus dating someone exclusively now. How to go about it when I’m a scaredy-cat? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/148m0pi/have_to_cancel_a_second_date_through_tinder_app/ |
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