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dirtydskriayd2819 | 2022-05-27 11:18:29 | 1,653,650,309 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | uyw05z | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 204 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uyw05z/addicted_to_dating_sites/ | 69 | My boyfriend is addicted to talking to women on dating sites. It really bothers and hurts me. Is this considered cheating? Is this normal? Why do men do this?? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Addicted to dating sites. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uyw05z/addicted_to_dating_sites/ |
kwewe | 2016-03-13 21:18:14 | 1,457,903,894 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 4aa2hh | null | null | 8 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4aa2hh/dating_how_where/ | 2 | hi all... 34 F, single for 7 months and no end to that in sight. I feel like I sort of forgot how to date. I've always met boyfriends through other friends, and I'm not seeing that as a possibility now. I have an account on a few dating sites, but I've run across a lot of abandoned profiles and not a long of responses.... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | dating... how? where? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4aa2hh/dating_how_where/ |
WesternInfinite1137 | 2023-02-26 09:33:32 | 1,677,404,012 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 11ca9xa | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11ca9xa/antidating_app_support_groups/ | 0 | Are there any support groups out there that advocate for offline dating? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Anti-dating app support groups | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11ca9xa/antidating_app_support_groups/ |
rafaelfc | 2019-12-11 04:01:33 | 1,576,036,893 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | e91xap | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e91xap/my_first_date_runs_far_better_than_i_expected/ | 40 | So I finally had my first date (I'm 23 M). I met her through tinder and we text each other for about one week and finally decided to go to the movies. At the day we met at the shopping mall one and a half hours before the movie, got ours tickets and went to a another area next to it to wait. We talked for about one hou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My first date runs far better than I expected | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e91xap/my_first_date_runs_far_better_than_i_expected/ |
kissmygritts2x | 2021-11-18 03:31:34 | 1,637,206,294 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | qwglmt | true | Question | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qwglmt/asking_for_pictures/ | 2 | Why do people ask for pictures of the other when leaving a dating site? A guy just asked me for a picture of myself after seeing many of them from the dating site and from my profile pic from WhatsApp. What gives, hey is this a thing? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Asking for pictures | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qwglmt/asking_for_pictures/ |
RadicalWimp | 2023-12-06 01:44:32 | 1,701,827,072 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18bsn7t | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18bsn7t/am_i_a_crazy_ex/ | 1 | My ex 25(F) and I 24(M) broke up nearly two months ago. We dated for three year’s pretty steadily, broke up a few times for a couple weeks at max. We lived together for 2 of those years. We talked about getting married quite a bit and having children. She even considered me her unborn nephews uncle 2 weeks before break... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I a crazy ex?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18bsn7t/am_i_a_crazy_ex/ |
IsopodStrict2220 | 2024-04-07 20:03:19 | 1,712,520,199 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1bydtp5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bydtp5/not_sure_if_im_interested_in_her/ | 1 | So last night I went on a date with this girl I match with on hinge, it went really well and we hit it off. Met her at 5pm and we ended up out all night until 3:30am. It ended up with us getting a cab back together and she actually offered me to stay round hers that night but I declined as she seemed really drunk and I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure if I'm interested in her | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bydtp5/not_sure_if_im_interested_in_her/ |
hollyklav | 2018-01-27 15:54:22 | 1,517,068,462 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7tdg63 | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7tdg63/first_date_tonight_any_tips/ | 17 | First real date in a super long time today. Met a guy on tinder and we hit it off over text. We are meeting for coffee and then we will see what happens. Literally it’s been like 12 years since I’ve been on a first date. So hit me with your tips I’m pretty rusty! | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date tonight! Any tips? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7tdg63/first_date_tonight_any_tips/ |
mytruevoice | 2024-06-21 10:05:11 | 1,718,964,311 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dl0ern | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dl0ern/is_it_fraud_to_only_use_your_good_angles_on/ | 2 | I look like shit but I have a few angles where I look good. Women I meet through dating apps usually look disappointed when they see me IRL. Am I frauding? Should I stop this and include more bad angle pics in my profile? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it fraud to only use your good angles on dating apps? | 1 | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dl0ern/is_it_fraud_to_only_use_your_good_angles_on/ |
throwaway-16378 | 2023-11-08 04:56:05 | 1,699,419,365 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 17qe8zg | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17qe8zg/response_time_after_matching/ | 1 | Do you wait a bit to message back if someone matches with you? If so, how long and why do you wait... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Response time after matching | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17qe8zg/response_time_after_matching/ |
sayskate | 2019-10-10 19:34:36 | 1,570,736,076 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | dg38qb | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dg38qb/anyone_who_wants_to_put_yourself_out_there_and/ | 7 | I'm 22f and have been isolating myself for years, I'm trying to push myself to date people, I'm trying Bumble because I feel it's safer to start there. I suffer from social anxiety and I'm trying to work on dating people. Will I really land up anywhere? Do guys date girls who are perenially loners lol? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Anyone who wants to 'put yourself out there and date people but you have always been a loner? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dg38qb/anyone_who_wants_to_put_yourself_out_there_and/ |
mnsbelle | 2023-12-13 04:49:06 | 1,702,442,946 | 0 | ['swipe'] | 0 | 18h8ww3 | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18h8ww3/whats_something_on_profile_thats_completely/ | 25 | I 26F for example aren't a fan of tracksuits/jogging bottoms being used as "normal/everyday" clothes to go out into the world. especially if it's every picture. I'm not expecting anything particularly extravagant, like a suit, shirt and tie, but preferably something more put together. another thing is when they're cons... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | what's something on profile that's completely harmless or benign that's a pet peeve and makes you want to swipe left? | 25 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18h8ww3/whats_something_on_profile_thats_completely/ |
SnooJokes3362 | 2024-05-12 14:11:56 | 1,715,523,116 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cq8r7c | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cq8r7c/keeping_hope_but_struggling_how_to_keep_spirits/ | 2 | I've been single for a long while now as my least gf was over 6 years ago. Still feel very fresh to dating as it really never happened much in my 20s. I'm trying dating apps and I'm trying to find events to go to. I don't need to date but I really would like to. Feeling discouraged but trying to keep putting myself out... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Keeping hope but struggling, how to keep spirits up when You've been single for a long time (30M) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cq8r7c/keeping_hope_but_struggling_how_to_keep_spirits/ |
pizzaflavordicecream | 2019-10-09 03:40:21 | 1,570,592,421 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | dfbgh6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dfbgh6/should_i_23f_ask_him_22m_to_come_out_with_me_and/ | 1 | Some backstory: I matched with this guy on a dating app and we've really hit it off. We've been texting back and forth for almost 2 weeks now, and we had a first date last week. We talked for about 4 hours and had a great time, but I thought he wasn't interested because he didn't make a move to kiss me or anything. He ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (23F) ask him (22M) to come out with me and my friends? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dfbgh6/should_i_23f_ask_him_22m_to_come_out_with_me_and/ |
OlavoStauros | 2022-12-16 08:07:56 | 1,671,178,076 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | zn9k4n | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zn9k4n/online_relationship_the_desire_for_intimacy/ | 2 | Is online relationship a good way to deal with the desire for intimacy? I realized that I have a desire for intimacy, different from friendship, my parents or NSFW But I don't have a income, I know I can work at McDonalds or Burger King, but I don't want to explain my stuff. I tried Tinder, but it's more of a hookup ap... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online relationship, the desire for intimacy | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zn9k4n/online_relationship_the_desire_for_intimacy/ |
Anacrotic | 2021-04-06 23:01:20 | 1,617,750,080 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | mlobbo | true | Discussion | 49 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/mlobbo/not_a_fan_of_travelling_am_i_in_a_minority/ | 13 | I've come to the conclusion that I really don't enjoy travel, except maybe the occasional weekend away. For whatever reason I never got the travel bug, don't have a burning desire to see the world, find it difficult to relax. The thing is you go on any dating site and everyone is going on about holidays, travelling to ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Not a fan of travelling. Am I in a minority? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/mlobbo/not_a_fan_of_travelling_am_i_in_a_minority/ |
dtan777 | 2018-10-04 02:44:14 | 1,538,621,054 | null | ['matches', 'swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9l800s | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9l800s/0_matches_and_0_likes_on_tinder/ | 1 | I’m a fairly attractive guy living in NYC. I have a premium tinder good account that lets me see who has swiped right on me before I’ve swiped on them. It’s been 2 weeks in NYC, and so far it’s been 0 matches and 0 likes in a 25 mile radius around Manhattan. Ok, I had one match, but turned out to be a bot account. Does... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 0 matches and 0 likes on Tinder | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9l800s/0_matches_and_0_likes_on_tinder/ |
Careless_Language69 | 2024-07-16 18:49:29 | 1,721,155,769 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1e4wjak | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 136 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e4wjak/is_losing_your_virginity_really_a_big_deal/ | 79 | Hi I’m 23(f) I just turned 23 and I’m still a virgin. Most of my late teen yrs I was waiting till I get a bf to give up my virginity but that never happened and now that I’m in my 20’s I sort just want to at least connect with someone, but date right now it a bit hard when you are someone like me who is a bit shy and a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is losing your virginity really a big deal | 79 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e4wjak/is_losing_your_virginity_really_a_big_deal/ |
love_love_kiss_kiss | 2021-06-01 17:36:22 | 1,622,568,982 | null | null | 0 | npzn32 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/npzn32/is_ghosting_ever_ok/ | 11 | So here me out, generally speaking I don't/ haven't ghosted anyone before. I met up with someone from OKC on the weekend and they looked nothing like their profile pic. Like maybe their eyes looked the same, but other than that.. Nope. They also had the or height as 5' 5". I'm a short ass man at 5' 4" and she was proba... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is ghosting ever ok? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/npzn32/is_ghosting_ever_ok/ |
classicqtpie | 2020-08-02 03:58:45 | 1,596,340,725 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | i25u7b | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/i25u7b/never_thought_things_could_be_so_good/ | 124 | Just wanted to brag a bit and hopefully give hope to some people out there. I (36f) have been dating a dude (41m) that I met on Bumble 2 years ago. He’s been divorced twice and me once. He was still going through the last divorce when we met. We both survived being married to a narcissist. We moved in with each other a... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Never thought things could be so good. | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/i25u7b/never_thought_things_could_be_so_good/ |
melodious_bunk | 2015-07-21 04:10:28 | 1,437,451,828 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 3e16za | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3e16za/40m_im_in_a_bad_situation_and_would_like_to_date/ | 3 | Although I had some success dating when I was young, I was never good at meeting new people, and I haven't been in any kind of relationship for several years. I've considered online dating, but whereas once this may have made sense, I've been unemployed for over a year and now feel it would be too embarrassing to put a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [40/M] I'm in a bad situation and would like to date, but not sure how. Advice appreciated. | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3e16za/40m_im_in_a_bad_situation_and_would_like_to_date/ |
tryingthis88 | 2019-03-06 17:24:15 | 1,551,893,055 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ay1ce1 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ay1ce1/girls_asking_the_guy_out/ | 1 | Hey everyone It is mostly a question for the men. If you’ve started talking to a woman on a dating app, would it turn you off if she asked you out for drinks or wv? This would be after, let’s say you’ve put the idea in the air to make it happen sometime soon and have exchanged schedules | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girls asking the guy out | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ay1ce1/girls_asking_the_guy_out/ |
aunttjemima | 2019-01-21 18:02:47 | 1,548,093,767 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'okcupid'] | 0 | aicqt1 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/aicqt1/i_was_asked_out_for_the_first_time_since_2012_how/ | 1 | I signed up to OkCupid a month ago and about two weeks ago, a guy who lives like five minutes away from me messaged me and we seem like we'd get along. He asked me out within a couple hours of messaging back and forth. It was very sudden so I told him that I was busy for the next couple weeks but I'd let him know when ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I was asked out for the first time since 2012. How would you guys handle this? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aicqt1/i_was_asked_out_for_the_first_time_since_2012_how/ |
Shadow_1992 | 2022-06-22 17:48:22 | 1,655,920,102 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | vib01m | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vib01m/should_i_give_up/ | 4 | I just turned 30 last month. I’ve been single for most of my life and I’ve only had three relationships. My first relationship was summer 2011 and it only lasted a month. I remember it felt wonderful but then I found out she was using me as a rebound. I found someone to latch onto shortly after that but all through 201... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I give up? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vib01m/should_i_give_up/ |
Blargh44 | 2017-01-08 17:02:54 | 1,483,894,974 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 5mrspw | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5mrspw/i_dont_really_know_what_to_do_to_find_someone/ | 2 | 29 yo guy here. My problem is multiple things. First, I'm really only interested in long term serious relationship, big part of this is my religion which is a no sex before marriage thing. I don't drink either. You can imagine this shrinks the dating pool quite a bit. Second I'm a minority in the US, which further shri... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't really know what to do to find someone... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5mrspw/i_dont_really_know_what_to_do_to_find_someone/ |
Kitkat0205 | 2023-11-20 01:27:00 | 1,700,443,620 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17zcsen | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17zcsen/im_a_26_year_old_single_female_where_can_i_find/ | 1 | I’m 26 and have been looking for a bf. I’ve been looking for 3 years now and I’m just tired of the dating apps as it doesn’t go anywhere. Too many people looking for hookups or poly. I just want someone I can have the same interests with, a religious guy and none are at my church. I don’t know what to do and I don’t ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m a 26 year old single female. Where can I find guys around my age? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17zcsen/im_a_26_year_old_single_female_where_can_i_find/ |
Bitter_Session381 | 2024-01-22 01:05:19 | 1,705,885,519 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 19cj8nc | true | Question ❓ | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19cj8nc/is_it_necessary_to_talk_to_someone_you_like/ | 2 | So I talked to this guy I met through dating app like for an hour. His conversations were interesting. And I genuinely liked it. But I just don't want him to text me everyday. Is it just me Or why guys want to text everyday. It kills my interest. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it necessary to talk to someone you like everyday ? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19cj8nc/is_it_necessary_to_talk_to_someone_you_like/ |
davejones24789 | 2019-03-22 09:50:35 | 1,553,248,235 | null | ['online dating', 'pof'] | 0 | b43581 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/b43581/pof_tips_please_and_could_someone_check_out_my/ | 5 | Hi all. I'm new to online dating. Always been in LTRs and always met my gfs through friends. I'm already aware that girls get FLOODED with messages, so that's why I've upgraded my account on PoF. I send messages, they read them, check out my profile and that's it. No reply. Anyone got any tips for us guys? And anyone w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | PoF tips please! And could someone check out my profile and help me improve it? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b43581/pof_tips_please_and_could_someone_check_out_my/ |
[deleted] | 2011-03-17 04:36:50 | 1,300,336,610 | 0 | ['online dating'] | null | g5nlc | null | null | 0 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/g5nlc/2xy_i_need_my_ass_kicked_please_help_this_fool/ | 1 | So the long, awful, dumb story. Last year (a complete year this week) I met a man in a chat room. As most these stories go, we became friends and then more. Three months into it I realized I had serious feelings for him and started asking more questions about who he is. Until that point, I was happy to just spend time ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | 2xy, I need my ass kicked. Please help this fool. xpost from relationship_advice and I hope that's ok. | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/g5nlc/2xy_i_need_my_ass_kicked_please_help_this_fool/ |
alibibroker | 2021-03-01 03:02:27 | 1,614,567,747 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | luyal8 | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/luyal8/where_have_all_the_cowboys_gone/ | 27 | I've been single for a few years now, and while I don't mind my own company, I wouldn't choose to spend the rest of my life alone if I can locate a decent companion who shates my interests. I'm a 57 year old woman. I don't smoke, rarely drink, I am healthy and adventurous. But I hate dating sites. I am a Christian, but... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Where have all the cowboys gone? | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/luyal8/where_have_all_the_cowboys_gone/ |
GabeGuy19 | 2022-03-10 18:58:21 | 1,646,938,701 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | tb5vh5 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tb5vh5/workrelationship_balance/ | 1 | I’m 20 yrs old, and I work 60-70hrs a week.I work 5am-5pm 5 days a week and sometimes a Saturday. I live in a small college town, and I’m finding it very hard to be in a relationship. Online dating doesn’t really work, there’s no real events going on meet to meet people. All of the people I work with are in their 30’s-... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Work/relationship balance | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tb5vh5/workrelationship_balance/ |
mrpropane | 2021-05-05 20:10:35 | 1,620,245,435 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | n5pb30 | true | null | 571 | 1 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n5pb30/not_all_hope_is_lost_guys_28_years_as_a_kissless/ | 2,999 | Title is the gist of it. I am 28, soon 29. Basically I was a kissless virgin for a solid \28 years. What really fired up my desire for change was meeting a girl who I really fancied, but realistically I had had no idea how to approach her. Watched her get a boyfriend while I was on the sidelines as a bystander, and I w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not all hope is lost guys. 28 years as a kissless virgin then tried online dating and now after 4 different hookups and in a relationship | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n5pb30/not_all_hope_is_lost_guys_28_years_as_a_kissless/ |
24LT1 | 2023-12-30 08:06:45 | 1,703,923,605 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18uanv8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18uanv8/a_serious_question/ | 1 | So…. I’m ( 25M) am wounding where to find good, wholesome ladies in my age rage. I’ve read all the Typ. Stuff. - I’m the youngest one at church ( not going unless I feel GOD, also where my family all the way back to Germany goes) - I go to the bars with in waking distance of my house every weekend ( no luck, lost of st... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A serious question | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18uanv8/a_serious_question/ |
Ok-Lengthiness6538 | 2024-09-17 10:16:21 | 1,726,568,181 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fivecj | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1fivecj/how_to_make_guys_interested_while_hes_not_here/ | 1 | hi guys, so i match this guy from tinder 3 weeks ago. he is working at other country. i feel we really vibes well and talking about all stuff other than sex (you know how tinder work right) but somehow like after 2 weeks the conversation become dry..i kinda interested with him and him as well. but it seems each day we ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | how to make guys interested while he’s not here? | 1 | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1fivecj/how_to_make_guys_interested_while_hes_not_here/ |
JjFeyFey | 2017-10-09 14:36:24 | 1,507,559,784 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiping'] | 0 | 759g78 | false | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/759g78/some_unsolicited_advice_on_life_love_and_pondering/ | 10 | I’ve been here for a while, mostly reading, rarely posting. And when I do post it’s usually to share or discuss some great experience or insecurity. So, after hundreds, and I mean hundreds of dates, some resulting in relationships, romantic and friendship, some resulting in nothing...this is what I’ve learned (I also u... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Some Unsolicited Advice on Life, Love, and Pondering | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/759g78/some_unsolicited_advice_on_life_love_and_pondering/ |
cat_lover_94 | 2023-04-19 01:36:04 | 1,681,868,164 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 12rc5rs | true | null | 99 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12rc5rs/28f_lonely_af/ | 1 | What am I doing wrong? I have my own apartment, and am a registered nurse. I’m pretty decent looking, go to the gym regularly. I have 2 jobs and spend my free time running or reading. I haven’t had sex in 4 years. Haven’t been on a date in 2 years. Everytime I use dating apps I get discouraged. The men I want don’t wan... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 28F lonely AF | 1 | 0.52 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12rc5rs/28f_lonely_af/ |
One_Country1537 | 2023-08-23 23:15:30 | 1,692,832,530 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15zk8v1 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15zk8v1/should_i_be_using_dating_apps/ | 1 | I'm a 19-year-old college student and I struggle to find any woman willing to date me. A lot of the single women are pretty lame or simply don't suit me in terms of personality, the ones that actually vibe well with me are always in a relationship already. I have never used a dating app, but nowadays they seem to be on... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I Be Using Dating Apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15zk8v1/should_i_be_using_dating_apps/ |
--tthhrroowwawaayy-- | 2019-05-02 09:33:20 | 1,556,789,600 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bjsxw1 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bjsxw1/met_a_girl_on_tinder_texted_for_about_4_days_weve/ | 0 | We had a movie date monday where we made out and talked for like 2 hours. Then we had another date Tuesday where we walked around downtown for 4 hours. And now she's coming over to fuck me on Thursday. Problem is she's already said she considers me my boyfriend. I didn't acknowledge that. I have said how good she makes... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met a girl on tinder. Texted for about 4 days. We've hung out wice and she's falling for me really fast. Help. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bjsxw1/met_a_girl_on_tinder_texted_for_about_4_days_weve/ |
Lady_Catmama12 | 2023-08-04 05:19:24 | 1,691,126,364 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'hinge', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 15hqx99 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15hqx99/am_i_too_ugly_for_online_dating/ | 1 | I've (34 F) been trying to figure out dating apps for almost two years. I've been on eharmony and Hinge for months and I've had almost no likes/messages, even though I try to send multiple likes/messages per day. I like myself and people generally seem to like me. I have lots of friends and get along with all my cowork... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I too ugly for online dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15hqx99/am_i_too_ugly_for_online_dating/ |
TemporarySun6974 | 2024-09-07 16:42:20 | 1,725,727,340 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fbb97x | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fbb97x/eharmony_subscription_victim/ | 7 | Hi! Apparently, I signed up for a year plan and they will delete my profile but I still need to pay £192 for the rest of the year which I find ridiculous. I used revolut and disposable card for it. If I terminate the card, would they still be able to chase me? From the UK. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Eharmony Subscription Victim | 7 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fbb97x/eharmony_subscription_victim/ |
No-Cheesecake-5256 | 2023-11-10 02:20:15 | 1,699,582,815 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating site'] | 0 | 17rtra3 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 2 | /r/dating/comments/17rtra3/casual_dating_am_i_toxic_or_unhealed_for_still/ | 1 | Casual dating I 26(f) had been talking to a guy 24(m) on insta, and went for a coffee date with him, he had told me he was just looking for trust and no commitment but also loyalty and that he felt I was a simple and trustworthy girl. We made out on our third meet, and on our fourth meeting he said you have a career to... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Casual dating Am I toxic or unhealed for still wanting him? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17rtra3/casual_dating_am_i_toxic_or_unhealed_for_still/ |
FutureSource | 2020-08-17 13:29:42 | 1,597,670,982 | null | null | 0 | ibe5g8 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ibe5g8/a_resource_my_buddies_and_i_developed_for_during/ | 0 | Hey guys, I've been struggling with online dating since early 2019. I tried everything -- all the pictures, all the funny profiles, all the copy-pasta first messages that were supposed to get a great response rate. EVERYTHING. A lot of it didn't work. Around November, it started hitting for me ....in a BIG way. There w... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | A resource my buddies and I developed for during the quarantine | null | 0.22 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ibe5g8/a_resource_my_buddies_and_i_developed_for_during/ |
Xirenahdv | 2018-11-01 20:04:15 | 1,541,102,655 | null | null | 0 | 9tcxw0 | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/9tcxw0/3_months_into_online_dating_and_i_break_down_the/ | 4 | Female here! I thought I would share some numbers in terms of my latest experience with Online Dating over the last three months. I break it down in my latest blog post, but for the most part, I went from hundreds of intial interactions to now seeing three guys consistently. That's a lot. Read the entire entry here: I ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 3 months into Online Dating and I break down the numbers | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/9tcxw0/3_months_into_online_dating_and_i_break_down_the/ |
guttttttergirl | 2023-09-12 00:04:26 | 1,694,477,066 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16gbydz | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16gbydz/should_i_cut_my_losses_or_stay_persistent/ | 1 | I (23F) have been talking to someone (28M) for about 5 months now, and I just get the gut feeling that he is either going to end up being my "person" or my biggest heartbreak. We live about 2 hours away from each other and have visited each other a handful of times. I really really like him and have a really good time ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I cut my losses or stay persistent? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16gbydz/should_i_cut_my_losses_or_stay_persistent/ |
ChillyWillster | 2012-06-15 03:07:37 | 1,339,729,657 | 0 | ['online dating'] | null | v2tug | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/v2tug/25m_with_cystic_fibrosis_feeling_rather/ | 1 | There are a lot of posts about meeting people but none of them apply to my situation very well. I've never been good at meeting people but as I've gotten older I've gotten better at talking to them and much less successful at meeting them. I can't drink, can't be in smoky bars, and due to some health complications I ca... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 25M with Cystic Fibrosis. Feeling rather disheartened with regards to dating. | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v2tug/25m_with_cystic_fibrosis_feeling_rather/ |
tortilla17283940 | 2021-12-14 06:39:25 | 1,639,463,965 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | rg1e34 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rg1e34/i_ghosted_him_is_it_too_late_to_message_now/ | 0 | so basically i(20F) met this guy on bumble(20M) and we kind of hit it off. he’s super sweet and the conversation was good, but he wanted to move over to snapchat. i added him and he sent a snap right away, it’s been 3 days since then and i haven’t opened it and stopped responding because snapchat gives me insane anxiet... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | i ghosted him.. is it too late to message now? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rg1e34/i_ghosted_him_is_it_too_late_to_message_now/ |
-autisticSunflower | 2023-04-24 22:25:50 | 1,682,375,150 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 12xyup6 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12xyup6/dating_is_traumatic_for_me_ive_only_ever_been/ | 8 | Being autistic, I have developed feelings for people over my life which have been intense. I finally found someone who is realistic, seemed fairly into me. I made myself vulnerable once again and said to him “I’ll message you” to his face because I happened to bump into him again to which he replied “you better”. So I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating is traumatic for me I’ve only ever been ghosted | 8 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12xyup6/dating_is_traumatic_for_me_ive_only_ever_been/ |
KarenSHoffman | 2021-01-10 03:20:37 | 1,610,248,837 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ku69w2 | true | Question | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ku69w2/a_guy_i_met_online_has_philophobia_how_do_i/ | 1 | I have been dating this guy for 5 months right now, we met over the doulike website and so far, our relationship has been great. Sadly, two weeks ago, he revealed his thoughts about love and life in general. First, I actually could not wait to hear his opinion about it since he seemed very reserved and shy to talk abou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A guy I met online has philophobia, how do I approach this? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ku69w2/a_guy_i_met_online_has_philophobia_how_do_i/ |
KoricaRiftaxe | 2021-10-03 03:35:53 | 1,633,232,153 | null | null | 0 | q09w27 | true | null | 46 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/q09w27/anyone_else_feel_the_ecosystem_of_dating/ | 44 | The purpose and design of all of the sites and apps seem like they have strong drifted away from "helping you find the sort of person you're looking for" to "wasting your time in an effort to get you to pay money" Everything has become a swipe-based Tinder clone that focuses on quick superficial judgements instead of i... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Anyone else feel the ecosystem of dating websites/apps has been degrading rapidly in the last decade? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/q09w27/anyone_else_feel_the_ecosystem_of_dating/ |
throh0eaway | 2018-10-18 01:20:23 | 1,539,825,623 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9p4mri | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9p4mri/is_she_20f_playing_hard_to_get_to_keep_me_20m/ | 1 | I've not had the most dating experience to be honest, since I was in a LTR (3-4 years) until a few months ago, so it's been a while since I've done this sort of thing.. especially as an adult. I matched with her on Tinder, and spoke kinda frequently for about a week until things slowed down a bit. At the time I was ill... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is she [20F] playing hard to get to keep me [20M] keen? Or am I misinterpreting her interest.. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9p4mri/is_she_20f_playing_hard_to_get_to_keep_me_20m/ |
ruiluth | 2020-01-17 20:23:58 | 1,579,292,638 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | eq5vyv | true | I Need Advice | 30 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/eq5vyv/so_dating_is_all_well_and_good_but_where_do_you/ | 8 | I'm a guy, and I've virtually never gotten responses at all on any online dating site, and I've tried every one I can find. I'm a Christian and people tell me to meet people at church, but girls there are either not single or "not looking for a relationship right now." (Aside--does that mean not looking for a guy like ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So, dating is all well and good, but where do you actually meet people to set up dates with? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eq5vyv/so_dating_is_all_well_and_good_but_where_do_you/ |
runningandfishing | 2022-05-16 23:51:23 | 1,652,745,083 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | ur9hgu | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ur9hgu/tinder_to_snapchat_to_idk_what/ | 1 | I've been talking to someone for a while and we've moved to the actual in-person meeting. She said that before she wants to meet that she'd only go out with me if I registered on SDAPASH? It shows itself as some sort of online dating protection website... But seems to me a bit scammy? Maybe it's not and I just don't kn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder to Snapchat to idk what | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ur9hgu/tinder_to_snapchat_to_idk_what/ |
UlyssesCourier | 2023-11-08 17:27:03 | 1,699,464,423 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'match.com', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 17qqpiw | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17qqpiw/are_serious_dating_apps_worth_it_in_finding_a/ | 1 | I'm (25M) personally going out a lot more since I've been serverly unwell throughout my early 20's and was not able to bring myself to seek any relationship in the past. I haven't been in one yet and I'm still a virgin but that doesn't matter to me and I don't want anyone making me think that it should. So on to the to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are serious dating apps worth it in finding a long term relationship? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17qqpiw/are_serious_dating_apps_worth_it_in_finding_a/ |
Artistic-Display8211 | 2024-08-16 23:00:06 | 1,723,849,206 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1eu2lrq | true | null | 159 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1eu2lrq/this_is_a_really_silly_post_probably/ | 45 | I am a 41 year old F, have been in serious relationships but never married. In recent years I started running into some difficulty with narcissistic men, avoidant men, deciphering true intention. I’ve decided I’m letting men initiate plans and important texts such as saying they want to see me again. It’s hard 😵 I wen... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | This is a really silly post probably | 45 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1eu2lrq/this_is_a_really_silly_post_probably/ |
Used-Nefariousness12 | 2024-06-22 04:30:25 | 1,719,030,625 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1dlnfxy | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dlnfxy/did_he_just_want_sex/ | 2 | Soooo he and I matched over a year ago on a dating app. We talked for a good month or two and we honestly had a ton of real stuff in common, great banter all that stuff. He did ghost though, just fell off the map but we had only talked over the phone, life goes on. Flash forward to now, we haven't talked since last yea... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Did he just want sex? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dlnfxy/did_he_just_want_sex/ |
bb_felt | 2024-01-25 21:45:34 | 1,706,219,134 | 0 | null | 0 | 19fkq6s | false | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/19fkq6s/how_to_cancel_a_date/ | 8 | I’ve met someone online and he seems really nice but I’ve realised I’m not ready for anything yet. We have never met but have a date planned for tomorrow. I don’t want to waste any more of his time so how can I tell him nicely without seeming like I don’t care? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to cancel a date | 8 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/19fkq6s/how_to_cancel_a_date/ |
stuntmanbilly | 2020-08-03 07:24:00 | 1,596,439,440 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | i2sojo | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i2sojo/i_just_dont_get_it/ | 2 | I really don’t understand women. I don’t. I’m not good at talking to women, never have been. I’ve never dated a woman that I wasn’t friends with first. I’m not the kind of guy that’s able to just walk up to someone in public and be able to start a conversation. I’m very reserved and it takes a lot for me to let my guar... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just don’t get it... | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i2sojo/i_just_dont_get_it/ |
swaggsmeaN97 | 2021-05-08 03:29:25 | 1,620,444,565 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | n7ga0t | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n7ga0t/im_confused/ | 1 | I matched with this guy on a dating app and we started talking and realized we got along well. We’ve gone on 3 dates (1 virtual, 2 face to face) and will be going on a 4th date this weekend. My question is how do I know if a guy is romantically/physically interested in me? Previously, the guys I’ve met would flirt or c... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m confused | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n7ga0t/im_confused/ |
Herfindahl | 2022-03-23 05:42:52 | 1,648,014,172 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | tkn2g1 | true | Support Needed | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tkn2g1/why_do_people_do_this/ | 2 | After a week of happy chatting on Tinder I decided to ask to meet her in real life. I suggested to go to an art exposition (nice, public place, with many people around. So that she would feel comfortable). I knew she liked to go to museums, so it was no surprise to me that she gladly accepted and profusedly thanked me ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | why do people do this? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tkn2g1/why_do_people_do_this/ |
koz_noz | 2023-03-21 14:47:47 | 1,679,410,067 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 11xj114 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11xj114/thoughts_on_going_out_to_the_barsclubs_alone_as_a/ | 2 | I haven’t “put myself” out there since breaking up with my last girlfriend a year and a half ago. I’ve been on dating apps but rarely ever get any matches so I don’t waste my time on them anymore. Though I’ve had a couple girlfriends in the past, I have always struggled to get myself to go out and meet women. I usually... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Thoughts on going out to the bars/clubs alone - as a guy | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11xj114/thoughts_on_going_out_to_the_barsclubs_alone_as_a/ |
Thundercats-Ho_ | 2023-12-08 20:14:28 | 1,702,066,468 | 0 | null | 0 | 18dvjky | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18dvjky/is_this_suppose_to_be_an_upsell_or_warning/ | 6 | Im sure most have seen this at least once. " I literally have no filter". Is this suppose to be a warning or they think its supposed to make them stand out in a positive way? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | is this suppose to be an upsell or warning? | 6 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18dvjky/is_this_suppose_to_be_an_upsell_or_warning/ |
KKW-WEST | 2019-01-31 21:13:59 | 1,548,969,239 | null | null | 0 | alube3 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/alube3/asking_for_more_pictures_before_a_first_date/ | 1 | So I (21F) matched with a guy (24M) on Bumble about a week or so ago. When trying to add someone else from my contacts into my Snapchat friends list I noticed that this guy’s number was associated with a girl’s account. Does anyone know if it’s possible for someone who previously had his number’s Snapchat could still b... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Asking for more pictures before a first date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/alube3/asking_for_more_pictures_before_a_first_date/ |
Lopsided_Jacket_3035 | 2021-12-16 21:35:09 | 1,639,690,509 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | ri0usa | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/ri0usa/how_did_you_meet_your_current_girlfriend/ | 8 | I tried tinder for a while, and it was fun I met some great women and had some great hookups but not a single one of them ever led to anything serious, which is what I'm looking for now. So to those of you lucky enough to be in serious relationships. Where did you meet your current significant other? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How did you meet your current girlfriend (excluding online dating) | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/ri0usa/how_did_you_meet_your_current_girlfriend/ |
MatrixBlaze | 2018-07-22 03:05:20 | 1,532,228,720 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 90uv48 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/90uv48/after_2nd_date_advice/ | 2 | I (M 28) started talking to a girl (F 24) on bumble and asked her to meet up for tea. Date went well, we talked for about 2.5 hours so i ask her if she wants to meet up again some time. She replies with "Sure, i had fun!" so we go to a batting cage the following week and get food for our 2nd meetup. Things went well an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | After 2nd date advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/90uv48/after_2nd_date_advice/ |
Key_Bobcat_5585 | 2024-05-29 13:51:20 | 1,716,990,680 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d3cpil | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d3cpil/when_youre_dating_someone_but_you_keep_seeing/ | 1 | How do you feel if you've dated someone but you keep seeing them on dating apps? Worst of all they are active on those apps as well. What would you do? How would you feel? I feel like he is also asking other people's opinion about our situation around here. Wtf. What would you do? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When you're dating someone but you keep seeing them on dating apps | 1 | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d3cpil/when_youre_dating_someone_but_you_keep_seeing/ |
OnlyAsianNoob | 2020-10-09 03:38:59 | 1,602,214,739 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | j7rws7 | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/j7rws7/depressed_from_being_single_18_years_of_age/ | 1 | I was in a relationship for 3 years which ended up being very manipulative so I ended it. I have been single for 5-6months and have been very lonely. I have tried reaching out to find women but its so hard to find anyone out in the (real world) especially out of high school. I took a gap year because of covid till the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Depressed from being single (18 years of age) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j7rws7/depressed_from_being_single_18_years_of_age/ |
peepeetookthatlong | 2019-06-21 04:40:59 | 1,561,092,059 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | c36743 | true | Question | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c36743/how_can_an_ugly_person_find_a_date_online_when/ | 6 | I was told to consider online dating as an option if I have trouble finding a partner in real life. But as I made my account and started surfing on Tinder, the vast majority of people here is so damn good looking, almost like celebrities. How can I make myself, an average looking guy, up to their league? I'm pretty sur... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How can an ugly person find a date online when everyone there is good looking? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c36743/how_can_an_ugly_person_find_a_date_online_when/ |
s_abbey | 2020-05-17 19:11:07 | 1,589,742,667 | null | ['OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | gllazg | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/gllazg/so_as_of_last_night_i_am_officially_sleeping_with/ | 0 | Guy 1 (let’s call him) texts morning and throughout the day. He lives 2 hours away. The only thing about him is that we met off tinder and talked for a month before we met because of the distance. The talk got sexual and pictures were exchanged. We made a plan to meet up to sleep together. Then I got hit by my time of ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | So as of last night I am officially sleeping with 2 different men that I met OLD and unsure if it warrants that I have a conversation with them | null | 0.31 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/gllazg/so_as_of_last_night_i_am_officially_sleeping_with/ |
donotquotemepls | 2021-03-05 11:55:00 | 1,614,945,300 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | lya89g | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/lya89g/disappointed_yet_not/ | 10 | Matched with a guy one morning and we hit it off well. Similar career and backgrounds. By that afternoon we already scheduled to meet the following day and he asked for my number. The next morning I was in a car accident and I had to cancel 2 hours before our date. I felt so bad cancelling and I was really looking forw... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Disappointed, yet not... | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/lya89g/disappointed_yet_not/ |
Throwaway278392 | 2023-05-28 07:28:00 | 1,685,258,880 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 13tu7i9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13tu7i9/just_went_through_my_first_breakup_i_feel_terrible/ | 1 | 26M I never dated before due to severe anxiety and struggles with my sexual orientation. I recently decided to finally give dating a shot. I met a guy on Tinder and I honestly thought we were a good match. Let's call him Larry. We texted back and forth for maybe 2 weeks until today. I just told Larry a story about how ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just went through my first break-up, I feel terrible | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13tu7i9/just_went_through_my_first_breakup_i_feel_terrible/ |
Low-Detective-2977 | 2024-05-06 06:03:33 | 1,714,975,413 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1clbye4 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1clbye4/earlystage_dating_dilemma_balancing_distance/ | 1 | I connected with someone on a dating app 2.5 weeks ago, and we've had four dates, including sleepovers, since our first date 10 days ago. While our time together is enjoyable, he's not the most responsive texter. He typically only replies when I initiate contact and only after a few hours and his responses lack enthusi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Early-Stage Dating Dilemma: Balancing Distance | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1clbye4/earlystage_dating_dilemma_balancing_distance/ |
BrandNewJacket | 2019-10-11 15:45:17 | 1,570,808,717 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dgh0bd | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/dgh0bd/how_do_you_guys_deal_with_rejection/ | 14 | Usually I’m pretty resilient when it comes to being rejected, but I was just rejected by three different women in the span of 24 hours. Don’t get me wrong: I didn’t go up to three random women and get rejected. I had been talking to one on tinder and we were vibing really well (she even enthusiastically agreed to a dat... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How Do You Guys Deal With Rejection? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/dgh0bd/how_do_you_guys_deal_with_rejection/ |
hide_or_escape | 2023-02-20 15:56:25 | 1,676,908,585 | null | null | 0 | 117azyv | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/117azyv/blogger_dating_the_end_of_ghosting_no_more_bad/ | 0 | Has anyone ever tried the concept of "Blogger Dating" ? It is about using blogging in online dating where we describe ourselves in great detail then serve ourselves on a plate. If the plate is delicious then they will want more. It is basically sharing (spamming) our blog to all matches then 2 outcomes will happen: 1. ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Blogger Dating: The End of Ghosting and No more bad matches | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/117azyv/blogger_dating_the_end_of_ghosting_no_more_bad/ |
brainsforbreakfast69 | 2024-06-16 02:17:06 | 1,718,504,226 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1dgxio9 | true | null | 243 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dgxio9/girl_invited_me_over_to_help_her_weed_her_garden/ | 339 | Basically the title haha, we matched on tinder, she's extremely pretty and we have a lot in common and I'm really interested in her. She has some pictures of her gardening in her profile and I was asking her questions about that so it didn't come out of nowhere. The conversation was going really well so I asked if she ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl invited me over to help her weed her garden as a date? | 339 | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dgxio9/girl_invited_me_over_to_help_her_weed_her_garden/ |
ninesyntax | 2023-06-05 21:02:19 | 1,685,998,939 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 141rqko | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 103 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/141rqko/guy_i_slept_with_is_being_really_difficult_about/ | 51 | So I’ve been talking to this guy for over a month (met on dating app) and we didn’t meet until about a week and a half ago. Prior to meeting I disclosed that I had just gotten out of a relationship and that I was only looking for a fwb. He agreed. I asked him when he last tested for stds and he said about 3 weeks prior... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy I slept with is being really difficult about me asking him to test for genital herpes | 51 | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/141rqko/guy_i_slept_with_is_being_really_difficult_about/ |
spicysenpai6 | 2024-04-27 00:42:44 | 1,714,178,564 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ce1hng | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ce1hng/i31m_feel_like_im_just_no_ones_type/ | 6 | Title given. I’m really unsure where I fit in spectrum of women’s taste in men. I’m mixed (black/white), 5’9”, have dreadlocks, have some hobbies like guitar, video games, and I recently started dabbling into cooking. I work out occasionally and like to go running. I like to think that I’m a good-hearted person and I a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I[31M] feel like I’m just no one’s “type” | 4 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ce1hng/i31m_feel_like_im_just_no_ones_type/ |
Necessary_Yard8163 | 2023-03-07 03:58:36 | 1,678,161,516 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 11koeu7 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11koeu7/i_am_about_ready_to_just_give_up_dating_for_good/ | 1 | I am not good with relationships, as I got started late and am still very naive about things. I lost my virginity when I was 32, and have only had maybe 2 or 3 relationships. The following is my latest relationship. For the last 3 years, I (37f) have been on and off with a guy who is 10 years older than I am. We had a ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I am about ready to just give up dating for good. | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11koeu7/i_am_about_ready_to_just_give_up_dating_for_good/ |
Polite_Heretic | 2022-02-22 20:05:32 | 1,645,560,332 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | sywx7c | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sywx7c/filters_in_online_dating_profiles/ | 4 | People, PLEASE stop using filters in your online dating profiles. It changes your features to a point where it is a surprising difference when you meet in person. Whether or not you're considered conventionally attractive, the surprise and lack of transparency can be off-putting. I know my small group of guy friends ha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Filters in online dating profiles | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sywx7c/filters_in_online_dating_profiles/ |
MysteriousNeck | 2021-12-09 08:32:39 | 1,639,038,759 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | rcded1 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 383 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rcded1/does_it_ever_work_to_list_yourself_as_60_when/ | 298 | Why do men lie about their height?? I mean I get adding a few inches to your height to make yourself look more impressive on your Tinder profile but like lying by over 4 or 5 inches? Like I wouldn't notice lol I literally had two guys show up at my doorstep this month before I realised that their heights were nowhere n... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does it ever work to list yourself as 6'0 when you're actually 5'6? What are you expecting? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rcded1/does_it_ever_work_to_list_yourself_as_60_when/ |
Hoobastanky69420 | 2023-04-23 02:41:14 | 1,682,217,674 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 12vsq76 | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12vsq76/using_professional_headshot_for_dating_apps/ | 1 | So I just downloaded and signed up for bumble and hinge and thinking about getting back into the dating scene. Is it weird to use a professional headshot as one of my profile photos (not my main one)? I don’t have a lot of pictures of myself and it seems like an obvious and easy choice. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Using Professional headshot for dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12vsq76/using_professional_headshot_for_dating_apps/ |
marrakechmagnolia | 2024-03-10 16:07:00 | 1,710,086,820 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bbdud4 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bbdud4/dating_apps_has_literally_never_worked_but_why_do/ | 2 | every relationship i’ve ever enjoyed started with feeling attracted to them in person. a couple were sparked because we match on an app and that made it clear we liked each other physically, but there was something to go off of in person first. i can’t think of an example where it didn’t fizzle out after 2-5 dates, and... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | dating apps has literally never worked but why do i still do it? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bbdud4/dating_apps_has_literally_never_worked_but_why_do/ |
Standard_Step_2361 | 2023-12-08 12:39:21 | 1,702,039,161 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 18dlyb9 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18dlyb9/is_anyone_else_opposed_to_sharing_a_bed_sleeping/ | 1 | I (34F) am naturally a very light sleeper + have insomnia. I find that I can’t sleep well next to other people, even when traveling with friends and having to share a hotel bed. I’m always conscious someone is next to me and can’t relax, not to mention the general body heat that causes me to overheat and wake up, among... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is anyone else opposed to sharing a bed / sleeping space? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18dlyb9/is_anyone_else_opposed_to_sharing_a_bed_sleeping/ |
Devinionator | 2019-05-04 13:35:02 | 1,556,976,902 | null | ['swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | bkl6yi | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bkl6yi/will_they_see_it/ | 2 | Ok sorry if this is stupid, but basically I joined Tinder for the first time in ages. A guy I fancy older brother came up and I wanted to just see the pics and I ended up swiping right. So I immediately deleted my account. I managed to be on tinder for a solid 40 mins before deleting. My question is now that its delete... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Will they see it | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bkl6yi/will_they_see_it/ |
Valerain_Alice | 2021-11-03 21:37:12 | 1,635,975,432 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | qm4xqc | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 130 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qm4xqc/tinder_matches/ | 139 | I’ve encountered numerous posts of both men and women (mostly men) moaning that the only match with ugly people they aren’t attracted to and how unfair that is…. But for the match to happen you also had to swipe right on these “ugly” people. So here’s my question, why do you swipe on people you have zero interest in on... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder matches | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qm4xqc/tinder_matches/ |
Holiday-Wolverine919 | 2022-08-25 23:03:57 | 1,661,468,637 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wxse4j | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wxse4j/dating_apps/ | 2 | What’s a no-so-good date you have went to? Your reaction? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating Apps | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wxse4j/dating_apps/ |
whatIsLoveBabyDHM | 2015-04-17 01:58:24 | 1,429,235,904 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 32vl2z | null | null | 14 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/32vl2z/26m_sometimes_i_wish_was_born_an_amoeba/ | 1 | So I'm an Indian living in the US for about 5 years now pursuing graduate studies. I'm working on a Ph. D in computer science. I'm 6 feet 1 inch tall. I have an athletic build (I frequent the gym few times a week) and have been deemed as someone who has a good sense of humor (based on sarcasm and word play) by my frien... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [26/M] Sometimes I wish was born an amoeba | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/32vl2z/26m_sometimes_i_wish_was_born_an_amoeba/ |
Xinns | 2018-06-08 19:28:27 | 1,528,486,107 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8pmstm | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8pmstm/tinder_selfie_questions/ | 5 | So, I am 25 M and recently became single after getting divorced. So, I have been on some interesting adventures recently. However, I keep getting fooled by selfies. How do I tell if a girl is overweight when the selfies make them look thinner than what they are? I mean sometimes they have a pretty face and I am okay wi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder Selfie Questions | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8pmstm/tinder_selfie_questions/ |
Reasonable-Cookie783 | 2024-09-28 04:44:28 | 1,727,498,668 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fr6nr1 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fr6nr1/women_mentioning_celebrities_in_there_profiles_why/ | 10 | Fairly often when I'm browsing profiles I'll find one that mentions an attractive male celebrity like Jason Mamoa, Chris Evans, or a professional athlete like Travis Kelce. Why? I'm going to guess they think they are being cute but I feel like most guys, me included, are going to be like what she wants a guy like Jason... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Women mentioning celebrities in there profiles - why? | 10 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fr6nr1/women_mentioning_celebrities_in_there_profiles_why/ |
georgiee108 | 2020-01-28 09:27:48 | 1,580,203,668 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ev3d3o | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ev3d3o/dating_after_abuse_trigger_warning/ | 1 | Background: I (20F) was with my ex (21M) for 5 and a half years. We got together when we were 15 years old, and I left him in October at 20 years old. I left after 3 years of emotional and sexual abuse, but should have left way earlier. I have been seeing a guy (20M) for 6 weeks now. He’s an absolute angel, and I’m get... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating after abuse? trigger warning | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ev3d3o/dating_after_abuse_trigger_warning/ |
best_wank | 2021-05-23 15:32:54 | 1,621,783,974 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | nja3v0 | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nja3v0/how_to_tell_if_someone_youre_dating_isnt/ | 0 | I (28M) have been chatting with this girl on Tinder (25F) for the past two weeks and we went on a date on Wednesday. It seemed to go good, and we hit it off and ended up going on a five hour walk. She seemed pretty interested and asked shortly after the date over text if I wanted to go on another date which was suppose... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to tell if someone you're dating isn't interested but not forward enough to say it? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nja3v0/how_to_tell_if_someone_youre_dating_isnt/ |
racsoleon | 2021-03-31 21:36:08 | 1,617,226,568 | null | null | 0 | mhgd77 | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mhgd77/to_text_or_not_text/ | 4 | I met this girl on Bumble and we've been talking for almost 2 weeks. First week through the app then the past few days through text. I have never been good with OLD(I'm shy and usually don't like to take initiative), and haven't really taken it seriously until I started talking to this girl, who I share many things in ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | To Text or Not Text | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mhgd77/to_text_or_not_text/ |
Hen1795 | 2018-07-17 07:54:36 | 1,531,814,076 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8zj82a | true | Vent/Rant | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8zj82a/every_app_leads_to_nothing_vent/ | 8 | I’ve had two successful matches on tinder, both led to relationships that have obviously failed. As someone who works so much in a place where I have no one except family “getting out there” is just a weird and uncomfortable concept. All I do is work, eat and sleep. So dating apps have made it helpful to find that “spe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Every app leads to nothing [vent] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8zj82a/every_app_leads_to_nothing_vent/ |
[deleted] | 2015-03-26 22:48:00 | 1,427,410,080 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 30ffry | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/30ffry/f22_how_do_i_date/ | 3 | Hi /r/dating, I have made a ton of strides in the last year: I've lost 30 pounds (20 left to go, but I look good in clothes), have tons more confidence, feel pretty good, much better socially. I've built a decent core friend group in my new city (although mostly comprised of spoken-for people in their later 20s), and a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [F22] How do I date? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/30ffry/f22_how_do_i_date/ |
Successful_Camp4378 | 2023-07-12 02:21:52 | 1,689,128,512 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 14xb5d4 | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14xb5d4/meeting_a_girl_for_the_first_time_this_week_of_a/ | 1 | My parents have expressed their concerns with the situation. I really thought and still think she's real but my parents are truthfully scaring me. There's no money or sex involved in any of this so there's no reason that she'd be potentially scamming me. Her profile had a lot of pictures, l've texted her for a good whi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Meeting a girl for the first time this week of a dating app, around an hour away from me, haven’t talked on the phone with her yet. Should I be concerned? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14xb5d4/meeting_a_girl_for_the_first_time_this_week_of_a/ |
Astrimea_ | 2023-10-12 04:57:50 | 1,697,086,670 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 175yreo | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/175yreo/wanting_the_benefit_but_fear_the_commitment/ | 1 | Hi ! So I've been out of my first relationship for about 9 months now. It got me in a bad headspace and I broke up with him. I gave myself time to process and heal but I feel like something is missing. I've tried dating apps on and off (only been on 2 dates with the same guy) and like with what happened its as if I wan... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Wanting the benefit but fear the commitment? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/175yreo/wanting_the_benefit_but_fear_the_commitment/ |
Ryn4 | 2020-10-10 06:00:41 | 1,602,309,641 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | j8fbzq | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j8fbzq/19m_how_do_i_deal_with_feeling_hopelesslike_im/ | 44 | Aside from Covid, this year has been a trainwreck for me. I fell in love with a girl early this year, and she shattered my heart. There isn't a day that goes by where I don't think of her. I've actually been grieving for her twice as long as I knew her, and we weren't even in a relationship. I always hear that I am you... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [19M] How do I deal with feeling hopeless--like I'm never going to find anyone that has feelings for me? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j8fbzq/19m_how_do_i_deal_with_feeling_hopelesslike_im/ |
Groundbreaking_Bid54 | 2023-05-11 05:25:06 | 1,683,782,706 | 0 | null | 0 | 13edypd | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13edypd/keep_getting_ditched_day_of_even_though_i_didnt/ | 2 | I am F27 relatively new to online dating. The last 3 dates I’ve had with guys I thought went fairly well, they all invited me on a second date towards the end of the first and then reached out next day asking for a second date and we make plans/ set a date. Then day prior or day of usually when I confirm (I never go on... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Keep getting ditched day of even though I didn’t even make the plans.. | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13edypd/keep_getting_ditched_day_of_even_though_i_didnt/ |
nobodyknows15 | 2020-12-28 19:04:56 | 1,609,182,296 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | klwnuy | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/klwnuy/my_21f_first_date_since_getting_out_of_abusive/ | 1 | I met a guy on tinder who lives about 45 minutes from me and we are getting drinks tonight. It’s my first date since getting out of my toxic relationship and I just need some advice on how to be calm and also what to expect! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My (21f) first date since getting out of abusive relationship, tips? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/klwnuy/my_21f_first_date_since_getting_out_of_abusive/ |
fishpondlifeguard | 2015-02-18 13:54:24 | 1,424,267,664 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 2wb76w | null | null | 511 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2wb76w/what_is_something_youve_seen_other_men_do_that/ | 287 | For me, it's commenting on women's profile pictures on facebook and dating sites, going "you're so beautiful", "nice body", etc.. I feel like I'd have to lose all my self-respect to do stuff like this. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What is something you've seen other men do that you don't understand? | 287 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2wb76w/what_is_something_youve_seen_other_men_do_that/ |
Ania4863 | 2023-01-25 17:56:03 | 1,674,669,363 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 10l4vn4 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10l4vn4/i_f18_choose_to_date_someone_else_with_similar/ | 4 | Hi, I(18) met a person(18) on bumble around 4 months ago and we hit it off nearly instantly and everything's been great and we did even confessed our feeling and 'love' for each other. The problem that arises is that I want something serious and they currently wants something casual as of now. And had been clear bout i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (F18) Choose to date someone else with similar goals or pursue my current date (F18) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10l4vn4/i_f18_choose_to_date_someone_else_with_similar/ |
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