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Celestial_Helia | 2024-07-28 13:08:09 | 1,722,172,089 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ee71kz | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ee71kz/dating_multiple_people_while_you_are_still_in/ | 3 | I just came out of a long relationship and started dating again. I downloaded a dating app and everything went really fast.. now I feel kinda bad because I am talking to three people at the same time, idk what to do and if thats fair, but on the other hand I feel like everybody is doing it, and since its nothing seriou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating multiple people while you are still in talking stage with every single one of them | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ee71kz/dating_multiple_people_while_you_are_still_in/ |
fishcazadora | 2016-08-14 20:46:22 | 1,471,207,582 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'plenty of fish', 'pof'] | 0 | 4xpzve | null | null | 28 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4xpzve/dating_online_red_flags/ | 2 | So I opened up a Plenty of Fish account a couple weeks ago. It is a dating site for those who may not be familiar. Anyways, I get a message from a guy. He's 6'10(supposedly), and a college student that wants to go pro in baseball. So we started chatting and everything seemed fine. He was not too interesting, but gave h... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Dating Online: Red Flags? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4xpzve/dating_online_red_flags/ |
themarshman721 | 2024-03-23 15:19:55 | 1,711,207,195 | 0 | null | 0 | 1blunl0 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1blunl0/about_to_start_old_what_are_the_pitfalls_i_should/ | 4 | I have heard lots of positives and negatives about online dating. Looking to understand better what the big challenges are. Thanks for the advice. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | About to start OLD. What are the pitfalls I should look for? | 4 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1blunl0/about_to_start_old_what_are_the_pitfalls_i_should/ |
Different_Corgi_8971 | 2024-05-17 11:00:52 | 1,715,943,652 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1cu2cw0 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cu2cw0/should_i_ghost_him/ | 1 | Me (23F) matched with one guy (33) on some dating app. We had like last minute plan to go for a drink that same night. It was after midnight and he was very special in a way I liked his style, he wasn’t very much of the gentleman though (he didn’t open the door for me of the car, stuff like that) and it’s not very like... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I ghost him? | 1 | 0.13 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cu2cw0/should_i_ghost_him/ |
takecff | 2022-05-17 01:01:54 | 1,652,749,314 | null | null | 0 | urasbr | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/urasbr/great_first_date_but_we_arent_really_texting/ | 4 | So I went on this date last week with this girl I connected with on tinder, but we’ve kind of known about each other through mutual friends. The date went great we connected a little at dinner then went across town to play pool and we eventually went back to her place. We exchanged texts the next day about how we both ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Great first date, but we aren’t really texting after. Should I take the hint or am I just dumb? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/urasbr/great_first_date_but_we_arent_really_texting/ |
LagomorphJilly | 2019-07-12 14:29:55 | 1,562,941,795 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | ccbkg1 | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ccbkg1/has_kids_wants_more_kids_someday/ | 7 | Does anyone else find this...not annoying, but kind of a "nope"? I'm not a parent (38f) but I feel like if I had children from a previous relationship at my age, I'd be content to not have/want more. Especially if the new guy also has children. And my profile specifically states "no kids, does not want kids", my prefer... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | "Has kids, wants (more) kids someday" | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ccbkg1/has_kids_wants_more_kids_someday/ |
missnewjulia | 2021-01-07 23:06:52 | 1,610,060,812 | null | null | 0 | kspb2p | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/kspb2p/is_my_age_range_too_high/ | 26 | I’m a 28 year old woman and have my age range set from 25 to 38. When I talk to men 35+ they seem to ask me if they’re too old for me. Is my age limit really that ridiculous? Should I lower it? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is my age range too high? | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/kspb2p/is_my_age_range_too_high/ |
RefuseSimple317 | 2024-05-31 18:50:37 | 1,717,181,437 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1d532td | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d532td/i_dont_know_what_i_want/ | 1 | I (20m) met this girl on tinder about 6 months ago. I started liking her really early on, only after the first few times hanging out and I've been falling for her since. We've probably hung out 20-30 times, and our dates usually consist of hooking up, then cuddling and talking afterwards, and just hanging out. We've go... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't know what I want | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d532td/i_dont_know_what_i_want/ |
tabular85 | 2017-11-28 16:17:10 | 1,511,885,830 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7g58j8 | false | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7g58j8/how_often_do_you_log_onto_your_online_dating/ | 2 | I'm wondering whether someone might be off the market if they haven't logged onto for three days. I tend to check mine multiple times a day and especially when I get a message - am I the exception to the norm? Thoughts much appreciated as always! | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How often do you log onto your online dating profile (if you have one)? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7g58j8/how_often_do_you_log_onto_your_online_dating/ |
deng35 | 2021-10-22 01:39:01 | 1,634,866,741 | null | null | 0 | qd6gnc | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/qd6gnc/how_does_matchcom_work/ | 2 | I'm not a subscriber to Match. When I first created my account, I seemed to have a limited number of free things I could do, like starting conversations. Now I get this email from that says: "Message all your Top Picks for free. Seriously. Today's free conversations are waiting. That’s right. Send free messages to you... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How Does Match.com work? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qd6gnc/how_does_matchcom_work/ |
itsathrowawayyyyacc | 2023-09-24 21:45:34 | 1,695,591,934 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16r9sdp | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16r9sdp/matching_people_you_know_on_the_apps/ | 1 | Does anyone have any tips/advice for sending a message to somebody you know? Seeing someone on my Hinge I used to know (at least 10yrs ago) and not sure what to say in a message without it being weird? Makes it worse knowing I had a massive thing for them at the time as well, so any help appreciated! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matching people you know on the apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16r9sdp/matching_people_you_know_on_the_apps/ |
Fritochipteeth | 2022-01-21 10:20:53 | 1,642,760,453 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | s97oop | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s97oop/what_should_i_do/ | 3 | Ok this is a lot of words, I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read this for a couple. Long story short dude (23) and I (23) matched on tinder in sept 2021– we vibed really well, have become decent friends also and agreed that we want something casual and sexual, but have become friends in this process. We met on... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should I do? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s97oop/what_should_i_do/ |
IcyImprovement8613 | 2024-02-06 13:14:33 | 1,707,225,273 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ak9gv8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1ak9gv8/am_i_delulu_or_does_he_really_like_me/ | 1 | I 25(F) just got out of a serious relationship(3years) about 8months ago with the father of my child. Dating hasn't really been a priority, a date here and there. Nothjng too serious,I Joined a dating App left my IG on there cause I wasn't on there much. Couple of dates.. nothing serious. No sexual interest either. I r... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I delulu or does he really like me... | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ak9gv8/am_i_delulu_or_does_he_really_like_me/ |
Warm-Philosophy4002 | 2024-08-06 08:09:04 | 1,722,931,744 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1elc6uz | true | Casual Conversation | 6 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1elc6uz/about_damn_time_to_do_this_again/ | 0 | I'm (27f) done using dating apps for a while and I've been trying to meet people differently, I tried reddit and it actually had a good outcome I had the pleasure of getting to know someone for sometime even though we weren't the right match, it was enjoyable. So here I am again trying to put myself out there maybe i'l... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | About damn time to do this again | 0 | 0.14 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1elc6uz/about_damn_time_to_do_this_again/ |
YaboiVlad69 | 2021-05-07 01:40:20 | 1,620,351,620 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | n6nbsd | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/n6nbsd/how_to_have_a_hot_vax_summer/ | 0 | I want to meet women and date and/or hook up this summer but I don't really know how I meet people. Should I use dating apps (if so which one) or do something else (I'm too young to drink) | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How to have a hot vax summer? | null | 0.45 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/n6nbsd/how_to_have_a_hot_vax_summer/ |
PigeDK02 | 2021-07-15 06:05:32 | 1,626,329,132 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | okmqr6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/okmqr6/18yo_dating_advice/ | 1 | Sorry for the long text. I do know how to do this. I'm a 18yo (soon 19) girl. From Denmark, Europe. (north of Copenhagen) I am classical Scandinavian phenotype, white/blonde/blue eyes/fairly tall. Slim, reasonable-to-very attrative. Educated, for my age. Speaks four languages fluently'ish (and read Latin, some Greek), ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 18yo dating advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/okmqr6/18yo_dating_advice/ |
Icy_Register_9067 | 2024-03-27 23:36:47 | 1,711,582,607 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1bpgpsl | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bpgpsl/28f_attractive_socially_competent_but_lacking_in/ | 1 | Preface: I know 28 is not old I’m still in my 20s and frankly self-aware enough to know that I’m hotter than I was 5 years ago. But due to the pandemic & unforeseen circumstances, I spent most of the last 4 years stuck back in my hometown (a smallish city in Canada). I didn’t date much during college, and I later reali... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 28F attractive, socially competent, but lacking in dating experience…would men around my age or early 30s be put off by my age? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bpgpsl/28f_attractive_socially_competent_but_lacking_in/ |
Signal-Ad-5327 | 2021-12-30 12:20:33 | 1,640,866,833 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | rs0jsp | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rs0jsp/twsa_should_i_tell_them_that_ive_been_rped_before/ | 0 | I (F25) have been rped some weeks ago and after some healing time, I chose to start dating again. I don't want it to be a traumatic event that won't allow me to live my life normally so I went back on tinder. I'm chating with some people (mostly guys) and I consider going on a date with them soon enough. I just don't k... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | TW//SA — should I tell them that I've been rped before ? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rs0jsp/twsa_should_i_tell_them_that_ive_been_rped_before/ |
zombieballerinajen | 2019-07-05 05:39:26 | 1,562,305,166 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | c9c8v1 | true | Question | 29 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/c9c8v1/old_question_how_fast_do_you_prefer_to_be_asked/ | 9 | Hi ladies and gents, Just curious. When using OLD platforms do you prefer someone to ask you out for a drink or coffee pretty fast after initially communicating or do you like to go back and forth and get to know each other more first? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | OLD question. How fast do you prefer to be asked out? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/c9c8v1/old_question_how_fast_do_you_prefer_to_be_asked/ |
Recent-Sky3311 | 2023-04-05 05:23:56 | 1,680,672,236 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 12c9jci | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12c9jci/is_it_a_red_flag_if_a_guy_has_thousands_of/ | 0 | So I matched with this guy on a dating app. We’ve been texting for a week now. Today, he asked for my insta, and well when I saw his instagram page I was shocked to find out that he has 12K followers. He apparently does music on SoundCloud and also posts a bit of his music on youtube. He also does traveling blogs. The ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it a red flag if a guy has thousands of followers but only follows back a few? | 0 | 0.3 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12c9jci/is_it_a_red_flag_if_a_guy_has_thousands_of/ |
Zwamps | 2024-04-21 21:35:25 | 1,713,735,325 | 0 | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1c9tf8p | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c9tf8p/no_matches_on_tinder_but_tons_of_matches_on_taimi/ | 1 | There's not many people in my area, so I'm able to swipe right on pretty much every woman I see on tinder and still have to extend my radius like 60+ miles. The few men I swipe on on tinder are way more likely to match with me, but these men I usually swiped on on accident since the kind of men I'm into are extremely r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | No matches on Tinder but tons of matches on Taimi | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c9tf8p/no_matches_on_tinder_but_tons_of_matches_on_taimi/ |
karmasong74 | 2021-01-17 03:15:47 | 1,610,853,347 | null | ['OLD', 'okcupid'] | 0 | kyy4yj | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/kyy4yj/doubletake_problem/ | 4 | "I am looking for..." on my OkCupid is very clear, yet none of these DoubleTakes are what "I am looking for...". So, I go on there infrequently, go through just 10 DoubleTakes, and block anyone who isn't what "I am looking for..." so I'm not presented with them again. Any any of the other OLD sites better at matching y... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | DoubleTake Problem | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/kyy4yj/doubletake_problem/ |
StaticNocturne | 2022-02-21 02:31:42 | 1,645,410,702 | null | null | 0 | sxib7q | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/sxib7q/dating_apps_are_like_psychological_torture/ | 20 | You're like a diabetic kid in a candy shop. Or a hamster on a wheel. "Here's a cute local girl who likes similar music and books" Sorry chief she ain't even seen your profile. Wait you have a match! 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 Sorry chief she ain't replying to your first message. \Unmatched midway through a nice conversation\ et... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dating apps are like psychological torture | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/sxib7q/dating_apps_are_like_psychological_torture/ |
DaveR_77 | 2024-05-06 06:33:25 | 1,714,977,205 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1clcdxx | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1clcdxx/do_you_notice_marked_differences_between_people/ | 1 | I have heard some people say that people on dating apps tend to be the leftovers, serial cheaters, people no one else wanted to date, people who have no other way to meet people, etc. What has been your personal experiences? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do You Notice Marked Differences Between People On Dating Apps Vs The General Population? | 1 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1clcdxx/do_you_notice_marked_differences_between_people/ |
balkanfarmer | 2022-12-23 03:00:11 | 1,671,764,411 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | zt4p5q | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zt4p5q/how_to_get_over_the_fear_of_meeting_someone_for/ | 1 | This is a big thing holding me back I get SO nervous when people mention hanging out and having to meet knew people from dating apps. Any tips on how to ease the nerves? I kinda have a fear of being harmed (as I’m sure others are) | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to get over the fear of meeting someone for the first time? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zt4p5q/how_to_get_over_the_fear_of_meeting_someone_for/ |
Connect-Dust-3896 | 2021-06-24 22:43:09 | 1,624,574,589 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | o7anre | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/o7anre/goals_of_bumble_in_travel_mode/ | 6 | For those of you who have used Bumble in travel mode, what were your goals? Were you looking just meet up with someone and for dinner and conversation? Or were you looking for a hookup? I hesitate to engage with guys using travel mode because I don’t want there to be expectations of sex. I don’t mind going out for a fe... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Goals of Bumble in travel mode | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/o7anre/goals_of_bumble_in_travel_mode/ |
c_df1210 | 2018-10-19 05:03:31 | 1,539,925,411 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 9pgqp7 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9pgqp7/how_to_get_over_that_almost_relationship_person/ | 2 | hey reddit! Im currently a sophomore in college, and at the end of last semester I met this guy through Bumble. We talked for a little bit, both ended up deleting the app and went for about 2 months without talking, until one day he added me on facebook and I messaged him a few hours later. From that day onward, we tex... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get over that almost relationship person | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9pgqp7/how_to_get_over_that_almost_relationship_person/ |
Sufficient_Humor1406 | 2024-04-16 20:48:36 | 1,713,300,516 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating site'] | 0 | 1c5qwv2 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c5qwv2/i_think_my_bf_is_cheating_on_me_with_a_25_year/ | 2 | I, F 17 and my bf M 17 about to be 18 have been together for a little over 3 months. We met by total fate on New Year’s Day and he has been the perfect bf since. We have both opened up about our past relationships and the things that happened during them and what we think we could have done better. He did tell me that ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I think my bf is cheating on me with a 25 year old guy | 1 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c5qwv2/i_think_my_bf_is_cheating_on_me_with_a_25_year/ |
BornPersimmon9290 | 2023-10-11 04:02:44 | 1,696,996,964 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17554cd | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17554cd/going_to_the_late_20snside_but_is_still_nbsb_no/ | 1 | Any advice for people like me who's in my mid 20s, not interested into dating apps, introvert, no "boyfriend potential" friends, never got into serious relationships? I mean, I enjoy time with my friends and going to places/adventures but... I feel like there's something missing. I'm turning 30 in a few years. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Going to the late 20snside but is still NBSB (no boyfriend since birth) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17554cd/going_to_the_late_20snside_but_is_still_nbsb_no/ |
Correct-Stand-7704 | 2024-01-27 04:58:16 | 1,706,331,496 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1ac2wk7 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ac2wk7/texting_every_day_for_a_week_after_first_date_but/ | 1 | I matched with this guy on a dating app. Because it was right before we both went home for the holidays, we ended up talking on the app for a month before actually going on a date. The conversation was great, and we talked every single day without the conversation faltering. The day we both got back to the same city, h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Texting every day for a week after first date, but no mention of second | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ac2wk7/texting_every_day_for_a_week_after_first_date_but/ |
ronnoc81 | 2019-01-07 17:34:49 | 1,546,882,489 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | adjzgk | true | Question | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/adjzgk/is_being_too_available_as_a_male_unattractive/ | 8 | Without going into much detail I've basically had two separate occasions in the past 7 weeks where I've had a 2-2.5 week intense hookup/fling with a girl only to be dropped as fast we matched and hooked up. I'm looking for a looking for a relationship but honestly if something comes up I've taken it. Both times I offer... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is being too available as a male unattractive? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/adjzgk/is_being_too_available_as_a_male_unattractive/ |
[deleted] | 2014-11-11 23:46:48 | 1,415,749,608 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 2m0o9m | null | null | 13 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2m0o9m/texting_red_flag/ | 0 | I'm supposed to go on a date with a guy from Okcupid tomorrow. We had a great rapport/banter and were texting back and forth for two hours. I'm at work and couldn't text him for a little while. I don't think it's a big deal for me not to reply for a couple of hours until I get out of work. 40 minutes after my last text... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Texting red flag? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2m0o9m/texting_red_flag/ |
kushnair2 | 2022-05-28 13:21:08 | 1,653,744,068 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | uzn86v | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uzn86v/do_women_swipe_right_on_18_year_olds_on_dating/ | 0 | Was really curious about this one. Is the reason for me not getting any matches that I'm unattractive, or maybe too young for a dating app? I've heard that women do not like guys younger than them, and would prefer older guys. Girls younger than me can't be on dating apps, though. So is my age a reason? Here are my ima... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do women swipe right on 18 year olds on dating apps? | null | 0.44 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uzn86v/do_women_swipe_right_on_18_year_olds_on_dating/ |
Zingading1020 | 2019-08-31 07:54:43 | 1,567,238,083 | null | null | 0 | cxtc8e | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/cxtc8e/i_have_a_guy_my_number_because_i_thought_he_was_a/ | 14 | I had a dating profile on Skout, and this guy seemed so nice. We’ve been talking on Skout on and off again for about a month. He asked me for my number and I gave it to him because I was genuinely interested in him. He started asking some kind of weird questions. At first I was brushing it off, but then he asked me “Wh... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I have a guy my number, because I THOUGHT he was a potential match. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/cxtc8e/i_have_a_guy_my_number_because_i_thought_he_was_a/ |
Unknownst2Beknownst | 2023-08-03 04:46:12 | 1,691,037,972 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 15gu9t5 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15gu9t5/has_anyone_matched_with_a_friend_of_a_match/ | 1 | Just something I'm realizing is possible but curious if anyone has experienced this. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Has anyone matched with a friend of a match? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15gu9t5/has_anyone_matched_with_a_friend_of_a_match/ |
Maleficent_Ad_6214 | 2024-02-08 01:58:01 | 1,707,357,481 | 0 | ['swipe', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1alkaee | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1alkaee/ways_to_get_dates_as_a_busy_person/ | 1 | Hi all, im 26(M) and I have been wondering about ways to meet people and get dates as someone who is very busy. The purpose of getting dates for me is to find a long-term partner, not really for short term or for fun. The general advice i have heard is to 1) go out and make friends at my hobbies 2) use dating apps 3) g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ways to get dates as a busy person | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1alkaee/ways_to_get_dates_as_a_busy_person/ |
Alternative-Onions | 2024-06-19 05:18:42 | 1,718,774,322 | 0 | ['swipe', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1djbcr6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1djbcr6/how_do_i_do_this_whole_dating_thing/ | 1 | The title isn't a joke, I genuinely need advice here. Okay, so for context I'm rather young (entering early 20's) and I've had almost no experience with dating. I'm autistic and introverted so I don't like getting out much besides work and food. It's not that I can't get out, I'm not cripplingly introverted, I just pre... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I do this whole dating thing? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1djbcr6/how_do_i_do_this_whole_dating_thing/ |
orangecatlady97 | 2024-08-06 00:43:28 | 1,722,905,008 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1el48r9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1el48r9/have_you_gone_on_an_online_date_with_someone_you/ | 1 | I 26F have a date with a guy 26M from Bumble next week. He asked me out quickly and made a plan which I really appreciated. From the few things I know about him so far, we have a lot in common so I'm excited to talk with him about it all. Based off of his pictures, I can't say I'm physically attracted to him. I don't f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Have you gone on an online date with someone you weren't initially attracted to? How did it go? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1el48r9/have_you_gone_on_an_online_date_with_someone_you/ |
Ok_Discussion_2318 | 2024-04-10 16:57:42 | 1,712,768,262 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1c0qhkh | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c0qhkh/venting_got_blocked_by_a_girl_after_knowing_her/ | 1 | I (27M) this girl (25F) on Bumble a few months ago, thought things were going well between the two of us, we met up a few times on friendly terms (since I told her I didn't want to rush into a relationship, and she seemed cool with that) and had some really good conversation, and out of the blue, I get blocked on all s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Venting: got blocked by a girl after knowing her for SEVEN MONTHS | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c0qhkh/venting_got_blocked_by_a_girl_after_knowing_her/ |
AppearanceSad2949 | 2020-10-03 03:53:48 | 1,601,697,228 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | j493uv | true | Venting | 234 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/j493uv/is_it_bad_i_cancelled_this_date_over_poor_planning/ | 1,052 | I was supposed to have a date last Saturday—guy I met off a dating app. I told the guy that I was seeing a friend who lives in his neighborhood and that I could meet him in the evening for drinks. By default, I expected he was going to pick the bar. At noon on Saturday, I texted him asking to let me know where we were ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it Bad I Cancelled this Date Over Poor Planning? | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j493uv/is_it_bad_i_cancelled_this_date_over_poor_planning/ |
No-Cantaloupe4050 | 2023-05-28 11:55:33 | 1,685,274,933 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 13tynuy | true | null | 74 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/13tynuy/1_yr_single/ | 27 | So I was in a 20yr relationship married for 16 of that and got divorced just over a year ago now. I'm 41 m and haven't met anyone or spoken to another women since. My problem is I'm to shy to approach women in public through fear of rejection, I never really know how to start a conversation either. I have very low self... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | 1 yr single | 27 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/13tynuy/1_yr_single/ |
ladygreyhal | 2024-02-08 01:12:28 | 1,707,354,748 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1aljcch | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1aljcch/how_long_to_give_him_a_chance/ | 1 | Late bloomer here (28 F). Went on my first ever third date with a guy tonight and it was sweet and i had a pretty good time! But i guess I’m waiting for butterflies. We met on Bumble so i appreciate that there might be some time between meeting a complete stranger and catching feelings and im trying hard not to be impu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long to “give him a chance” ? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aljcch/how_long_to_give_him_a_chance/ |
Carcharodonfan | 2019-03-24 05:42:26 | 1,553,406,146 | null | ['OLD', 'dating apps'] | 0 | b4t03i | true | Giving Advice | 34 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/b4t03i/throwing_in_the_towel_isnt_so_bad/ | 48 | I give up. Dating apps/OLD have given me some fun dates, but every single thread of potential romance ends in bitter disappointment. Whether it be she got back with her ex, there's no "spark", "I'm not looking to date people" (why are you even on there?? Weirdo) or they end up flaking on dates (or the usual straight-up... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Throwing in the towel isn't so bad | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b4t03i/throwing_in_the_towel_isnt_so_bad/ |
StaticNocturne | 2022-12-31 03:37:16 | 1,672,457,836 | null | null | 0 | zzkcer | true | null | 67 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zzkcer/being_good_conversation_and_being_attractive_seem/ | 31 | At least in recent experience. Just yesterday I had someone match with me and send a huge paragraph asking me questions and all, and unfortunately all I could think was 'when did I swipe right on you?' meanwhile trying to converse with women I'm attracted to is often like trying to piss out a pebble. Why bother replyin... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Being good conversation and being attractive seem to be almost mutually exclusive on dating apps | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zzkcer/being_good_conversation_and_being_attractive_seem/ |
Sherbock | 2018-11-24 22:42:10 | 1,543,099,330 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | a031nn | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a031nn/why_it_is_so_hard_to_start_a_serious_relationship/ | 0 | I am 25f live in the NYC. I broke up with my ex in early October. He is my high school classmate and we been together for 5 years. It is a very deep relationship but we gradually realized although we love each other our personalities still do not fit and we fight more and more often so we decide go back to friend. Afte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why it is so hard to start a serious relationship? What is the deal breaker? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a031nn/why_it_is_so_hard_to_start_a_serious_relationship/ |
mermaid823 | 2024-01-29 01:33:20 | 1,706,492,000 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1adj4ih | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1adj4ih/why_do_men_stare_at_me_only_when_im_on_a_date/ | 1 | (New to posting here) It's really confusing. I never, and I mean never, get attention from men in real life. Online dating that I've briefly tried? Sure. But if I go out around town by myself or with a couple friends I'm never the one that gets glances or gets approached. So this is my normal. But several times now tha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do men stare at me only when I'm on a date with someone else? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1adj4ih/why_do_men_stare_at_me_only_when_im_on_a_date/ |
[deleted] | 2014-01-19 21:55:13 | 1,390,168,513 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1vmd4x | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1vmd4x/please_help_dating_when_unattractive/ | 2 | I'm a 19 yo F. I know a lot of people are too hard on themselves about their appearance, but after years of being mistaken for a man and people assuming I'm a lesbian, I've figured out that I look pretty masculine and are therefore unattractive to most. Please don't tell me I'm not or to boost my self-esteem, because t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Please help: dating when unattractive? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1vmd4x/please_help_dating_when_unattractive/ |
Specialist-Ask8890 | 2024-07-22 00:55:54 | 1,721,609,754 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1e91jw1 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e91jw1/women_why_do_you_put_your_instagram_accounts_on/ | 0 | I noticed that a lot of women who put it out that they are seeking for long term relationships have their Instagram usernames on their profiles. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Women, why do you put your Instagram accounts on dating apps? | 0 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e91jw1/women_why_do_you_put_your_instagram_accounts_on/ |
Miserable-Reward-485 | 2024-08-23 04:29:38 | 1,724,387,378 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ez3x9u | true | null | 52 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1ez3x9u/dreams_deferred/ | 23 | Y'all, I think I'm too messed up to ever find a long-term mate. I was abruptly dumped last Saturday. I knew it was coming, just didn't think he'd have the gall to do it right before I check into the hospital for tests and 2 weeks before my birthday. We had a nearly two-year run, but there were factors involved that jus... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Dreams deferred | 23 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1ez3x9u/dreams_deferred/ |
MyNamesAMeme | 2024-08-03 22:57:25 | 1,722,725,845 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ejgeyn | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ejgeyn/i_need_a_quirky_cute_thing_to_say_to_the_girl_im/ | 2 | This is probably a lame post, but I met a girl on Tinder and we have been texting for a few days. We are getting along very very well, and I like her a hell of a lot. Last night we talked on the phone for about a half an hour and I said something to her that was right off the top of my head and it was damn near peak ri... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I need a quirky & cute thing to say to the girl I'm talking to | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ejgeyn/i_need_a_quirky_cute_thing_to_say_to_the_girl_im/ |
CampMain | 2022-12-26 11:37:07 | 1,672,054,627 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | zvlfio | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zvlfio/how_to_break_things_off_with_someone_you_havent/ | 0 | I’ve been talking to a guy I matched with on Bumble for about a month now. We swapped numbers a few weeks ago and have been texting ever since. Due to both of us being busy with social commitments/work and family in the lead up to Christmas we haven’t actually had the chance to meet. We’ve been keeping in touch through... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to break things off with someone you haven’t actually met … | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zvlfio/how_to_break_things_off_with_someone_you_havent/ |
birdonthecabbagetree | 2024-04-14 11:33:07 | 1,713,094,387 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1c3rgpb | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c3rgpb/is_this_love_bombing_f36_m41/ | 1 | I didn't fall into the trap if it was one. But I'd like to have other people identifying if this was love bombing. Matched with a guy through a dating app. 1st day we texted back and forth for a few hours off the app. He kept indicating that I was his dream type. He replies immediately initially. I've never seen anyone... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this love bombing? (F36 M41) | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c3rgpb/is_this_love_bombing_f36_m41/ |
GerudosValley | 2021-10-14 02:20:58 | 1,634,178,058 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | q7qaik | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q7qaik/person_ive_hung_out_with_4_times_had_recently/ | 1 | They have been txting me pretty regularly since we started hanging out, feel like we vibe very well. Does this mean they aren’t interested in pursuing me? We were just txting last night, noticed new pics today. No bio changes | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Person I’ve hung out with 4 times had recently added new Tinder pics | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q7qaik/person_ive_hung_out_with_4_times_had_recently/ |
justdoo08 | 2021-01-18 01:59:06 | 1,610,935,146 | null | null | 0 | kzkhqo | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/kzkhqo/i_think_i_am_going_for_the_record_for_most/ | 2 | I know OLD is hard for men since women are so inundated with messages, but this is insane. I am a 52 year old male and finally tried Match a couple of months ago. I have probably messaged at least 60 women and not one of them have replied. In fact, I would say 80 to 85 percent of them never even looked at my profile. S... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I think I am going for the record for most messages sent with no replies | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/kzkhqo/i_think_i_am_going_for_the_record_for_most/ |
lazylazyf | 2022-09-22 16:13:54 | 1,663,863,234 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | xl5otn | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xl5otn/seeking_advice_single_who_doesnt_like_to_mingle/ | 5 | I am surrounded by people that think women can't have problems other then men. And it turns out, their solution to all women's problems are men as well. I think these people are delusional. Many people choose single life and are happy with their choices. This is a Ted talk by Bella DePaulo I watched sometime back on si... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Seeking Advice - Single who doesn't like to mingle | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xl5otn/seeking_advice_single_who_doesnt_like_to_mingle/ |
The_unwise_man | 2017-08-11 02:10:50 | 1,502,417,450 | null | ['matched', 'swiping', 'online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 6sy5ux | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6sy5ux/confusing_situation/ | 1 | First of all, I'm a 24y old guy, average looking. I've never dated before in my life. I'm an introvert, I spent most of my time hanging out with my buddys online, that are living in the area or meet up with them sometimes. I'm happy and I don't regret a thing in my life. Well I dont't really get to meet any new people,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confusing situation | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6sy5ux/confusing_situation/ |
IllustriousRegular85 | 2024-06-13 03:45:28 | 1,718,250,328 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1depqlk | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1depqlk/where_to_meet_men_besides_online/ | 1 | I have been single for over a year. I work full-time and I have a weekend job. A total of 60 hours a week. I really love sewing. I am part of a sewing group, but it is all women. I work at a daycare, which is also, all women. Where am I supposed to meet men? My job and hobbies are all women focus. Really do not want to... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where to meet men besides online | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1depqlk/where_to_meet_men_besides_online/ |
No-Department720 | 2024-06-05 15:37:48 | 1,717,601,868 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1d8syjg | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d8syjg/dating/ | 1 | My mother was adopted in a foster family when she was young, I realized that the son of my mothers foster sister had matched with me on this dating app and we have been talking for a bit. Would it be gross if something does happen with us? There is 0% similar blood between us and i just wouldnt want to have things be w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d8syjg/dating/ |
Aquagirl777 | 2022-05-15 02:50:20 | 1,652,583,020 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | upwl3q | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/upwl3q/confused_about_potential_match/ | 1 | I matched with this man on Bumble and he was clear he was looking for a relationship. We had an amazing time talking for hours when we first met for a drink. The chemistry was there from the start and I went back to his place and I’m sure you know the rest. He made sure he responded when I let him know I got home and n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused about potential match | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/upwl3q/confused_about_potential_match/ |
AliensAreComing4Tea | 2021-07-09 06:09:50 | 1,625,810,990 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ogpjj0 | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ogpjj0/do_online_dates_hinder_ones_ability_to_connect/ | 1 | Hey! I'm not really an experienced dater here, so I need the wisdom of people who are. I've been on some online dates and I don't feel the spark (conversation and emotional connection wise) often. Is that because online dating is so boring and so it creates a brick wall to enjoy the experience or is it normal to not ha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do online dates hinder one's ability to connect with people? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ogpjj0/do_online_dates_hinder_ones_ability_to_connect/ |
Lordbolder1 | 2022-08-21 15:37:42 | 1,661,096,262 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wu2i34 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wu2i34/best_free_dating_apps/ | 1 | What are the best dating apps for people who want to meet people? Not for sex | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Best (free) dating apps? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wu2i34/best_free_dating_apps/ |
DauphinDeFlamant | 2024-06-04 11:11:57 | 1,717,499,517 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1d7uj83 | true | null | 201 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d7uj83/her_pictures_werent_the_most_honest/ | 187 | Hi reddit I have no idea how to feel about this date I went on. I matched with this gorgeous girl in my area, with a good jod and a great sense of humor. Small issue though, we meet up and she is atleast like 220 lbs. Listen I am not shallow and I am willing to date people who are plus sized but I feel a bit lied to if... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Her pictures weren't the most honest | 187 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d7uj83/her_pictures_werent_the_most_honest/ |
Slight_Profession630 | 2024-09-12 19:58:07 | 1,726,171,087 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1ffbtjg | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ffbtjg/why_cant_it_be_me/ | 1 | Hi, everyone! I met this guy off Hinge and he did say he didn’t want a relationship. We became friends with benefits. We also hung out often and did things that resembled a relationship. He has been distant lately so today I asked him when is the next time I can see him and he responded that we can’t hang out anymore b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why Can’t It be Me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ffbtjg/why_cant_it_be_me/ |
Terrible_Patience642 | 2021-05-20 19:34:05 | 1,621,539,245 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | nh9ben | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nh9ben/is_it_worth_waiting_for_this_guy/ | 4 | I met this one guy on a dating app two months ago. We hit it off immediately and I gave him my personal cell number. We started texting outside the dating app. Bit since last one month he's been low key ghosting me. He won't text until I make the first move. Replies directly the next day. Sometimes I end up texting him... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it worth waiting for this guy? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nh9ben/is_it_worth_waiting_for_this_guy/ |
Mobile_Specialist_94 | 2023-02-20 10:51:57 | 1,676,890,317 | null | null | 0 | 1173qpk | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1173qpk/very_weird_dating_experience_just_want_to_vent/ | 5 | I (26F) went for a first meeting with a very handsome guy (28M) who I matched with on an online dating app, we had not texted much on the app but just directly decided to meet. The first meeting went great and he really seemed like a normal and nice guy. He was talking about genuine topics. He told me that he has moved... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Very weird dating experience, just want to vent and get some opinions! | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1173qpk/very_weird_dating_experience_just_want_to_vent/ |
NRG_Factor | 2019-11-28 03:41:06 | 1,574,912,466 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | e2s65q | true | Venting | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/e2s65q/dating_apps_are_basically_worthless_to_me/ | 6 | I match with a girl and she literally never talks to me and nothing happens or she acts like she never wanted to talk to me to begin with. Like I ask what are you into, whats your favorite movie, all that kinda thing to get to know them but it always gets stale because I dont really get meaningful answers if I get any ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps are basically worthless to me | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/e2s65q/dating_apps_are_basically_worthless_to_me/ |
SnooCookies4460 | 2023-10-13 11:13:18 | 1,697,195,598 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 176wb4p | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/176wb4p/why_girl_in_tinder_say_my_profile_look_a_bit_fake/ | 1 | Why girl in tinder say my profile look a bit fake? Why she say this? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why girl in tinder say my profile look a bit fake? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/176wb4p/why_girl_in_tinder_say_my_profile_look_a_bit_fake/ |
PerceptionPure476 | 2022-03-15 11:03:28 | 1,647,342,208 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | temfh2 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/temfh2/advice_pls/ | 1 | I started talking to a guy on a dating app and then I found out he met a friend I used to know and I’m pretty sure they slept together and now he tells me he doesn’t like her and wants to meet me but I cut him off told him I don’t want to meet him did I do the right thing it coming him off because he dated one of my ol... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice pls | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/temfh2/advice_pls/ |
Ok_Equivalent_2980 | 2023-11-19 17:35:37 | 1,700,415,337 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17z2apt | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17z2apt/should_i_tell_him_or_ghost_him/ | 1 | I'm having boy trouble right now, so I'm mainly looking for answers from a male pov but I would love to hear experiences from the females too. Do you guys prefer to be told the truth that a relationship is going nowhere or would you rather be ghosted? Here's the story for context: I met this guy on a dating app a coupl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I tell him or ghost him? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17z2apt/should_i_tell_him_or_ghost_him/ |
NateW9731 | 2022-03-31 21:59:18 | 1,648,763,958 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ttawfb | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ttawfb/scared_to_hangout_with_a_girl_in_person_in_fear/ | 0 | If I meet a girl on a dating app or something like that, I'm scared to hangout in person becasue I'm scared they won't like me. Whether its my appearance, or just my personality. I'm not sure how to get over this fear. Anyone know of things that can help me get over this fear? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Scared to hangout with a girl in person in fear she won't like me. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ttawfb/scared_to_hangout_with_a_girl_in_person_in_fear/ |
SensitiveShallot967 | 2022-07-31 16:53:30 | 1,659,286,410 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wct8pl | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wct8pl/is_asking_a_female_friend_what_type_of_person_she/ | 1 | I admit I do like her so I'm not looking for confirmation but I'm just curious in general. Like wanting know where her head is at in general. We've never brought up dating and relationships before but it was on my mind and I didn't know if it was too personal? I got her Snap off Tinder when I was still using it so I wa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is asking a female friend what type of person she likes invasive? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wct8pl/is_asking_a_female_friend_what_type_of_person_she/ |
xWrighty22 | 2023-01-16 01:17:41 | 1,673,831,861 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 10d1186 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10d1186/dating_nowadays_is_so_hard_to_get_into/ | 2 | There’s many ways to find that special someone, but the most accessible is dating apps and they’re very much a shot in the dark. I’ve got friends who’ve met their partner, even their wife, on dating apps. Whereas it seems close to impossible for me. I’ve had some luck in the past, but I just wasn’t interested in the en... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating nowadays is so hard to get into. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10d1186/dating_nowadays_is_so_hard_to_get_into/ |
laylaka | 2017-03-08 06:11:25 | 1,488,953,485 | null | ['pof'] | 0 | 5y6btt | null | null | 13 | null | /r/dating/comments/5y6btt/how_do_i_know_if_he_is_interested/ | 3 | After going out with this guy from POF I told him I had had a great time, he agreed and we started sending snaps to eachother. After a few days I decided I wanted to see him again and since he hadn't asked me out again I asked him. He said yes and that he's check when he's available. A few hours later he sent me a snap... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I know if he is interested? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5y6btt/how_do_i_know_if_he_is_interested/ |
BipolarPunk91 | 2022-07-14 03:42:12 | 1,657,770,132 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | vym7kp | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vym7kp/i_am_confused_here/ | 1 | Met this girl via online dating a year back, we initially vibed well and started talking a lot, then proceeded to exchange phone numbers but only met in person after almost 10 months. We met a few times, had fun,madeout most of the times we met. We decided not to rush it over and take things slowly.She asked me if I wa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I am confused here | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vym7kp/i_am_confused_here/ |
Top_Light_5565 | 2024-01-13 16:55:29 | 1,705,164,929 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 195sel6 | true | null | 59 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/195sel6/tips_for_having_good_luck_with_dating_apps/ | 9 | 43F. I'm on Match, and I'm having good luck with a unique direct approach and having fun dating (for marriage). While it's working well for me, I'm always looking to improve in some way. Any tips you've found useful and effective to polish my profile, pics, communication, or bio? Adding or removing info? Types of pics?... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Tips for having good luck with dating apps? | 9 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/195sel6/tips_for_having_good_luck_with_dating_apps/ |
Ok-Hovercraft1900 | 2024-06-16 01:58:56 | 1,718,503,136 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dgx7cn | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dgx7cn/how_to_find_someone_offline/ | 1 | Hi! So, as many are, I am sick of dating apps. I am a 20 y/o college student and pretty antisocial as i don’t take interest in drinking or partying and work a basic 9-5 job while on summer break. I’m struggling to meet people- where do yall recommend finding new folks, whether friends or dating? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to find someone offline? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dgx7cn/how_to_find_someone_offline/ |
whysadwhore | 2022-10-16 02:33:25 | 1,665,887,605 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | y55fnm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/y55fnm/hi_im_confused/ | 1 | (First of all, sorry for my English second of all I don't know if I can vent here but I don't have anyone who I can tell this and I need to share I'm lonely) I'm 20-year-old woman and I never had a boyfriend and it's not about men not trying to date me but I just never felt like anyone of them actually wanted to date m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hi I'm confused | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y55fnm/hi_im_confused/ |
SnooCauliflowers7258 | 2021-05-01 04:13:24 | 1,619,842,404 | null | ['online dating', 'match.com'] | 0 | n2axiv | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/n2axiv/yall_help_a_girl_out/ | 1 | I have been talking to a guy for two weeks now. We are both in our mid thirties and met on match. Things seemed to be going well with daily talks, text, and FaceTimes. We have plans to meet next weekend when we are both kid free. When he talks to me it’s beautiful this, great smile that, and that he thinks I am perfect... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Y’all help a girl out | null | 0.52 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/n2axiv/yall_help_a_girl_out/ |
carriebradshaw2 | 2023-11-12 06:48:15 | 1,699,771,695 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17tembs | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17tembs/i_like_him_but_i_cant_keep_seeing_him/ | 1 | I (26F) have been seeing this guy (25M) for a short period of time. However, we’ve hung out 50% of this time and already have great communication. I really like him. But I can’t continue dating him. He is a creative and freelances, so his work schedule — and income — are not steady. It inevitably affects our dates (whi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I like him but I can’t keep seeing him | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17tembs/i_like_him_but_i_cant_keep_seeing_him/ |
amatom27 | 2019-03-01 20:42:31 | 1,551,472,951 | null | ['OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | aw9h4d | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/aw9h4d/whats_the_best_scam_youve_caught_on_to_so_far/ | 13 | It's a Friday and most of us are probably trying to finish up some work before the weekend so I figured this thread would be a fun way to end the grueling week. I thought of this from the top post right now that is asking how to spot a scammer. My best scammer story was on Hinge. Naturally, the profile was obviously fa... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What's the best scam you've caught on to so far with OLD? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/aw9h4d/whats_the_best_scam_youve_caught_on_to_so_far/ |
RedThruxton | 2022-10-21 03:32:24 | 1,666,323,144 | null | null | 0 | y9im26 | true | null | 131 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y9im26/is_there_a_double_standard_when_talking_about_size/ | 3 | It’s not uncommon to see a woman’s profile on a dating site and have her write in her description that she only wants men over 6’0” (or some other desirable height). Ladies… do you ever run into men listing a weight limit in their description? If not, why is it permissible for women to plainly communicate a size requir... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is there a double standard when talking about size? | null | 0.52 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y9im26/is_there_a_double_standard_when_talking_about_size/ |
_littlefluffyclouds | 2021-07-04 05:46:26 | 1,625,377,586 | null | null | 0 | ode9fy | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ode9fy/has_anyone_benefitted_significantly_from_a/ | 4 | So a few months ago I got my Hinge profile critiqued and it was by turns humbling, eye-opening, weird, hilarious and very helpful. I took their advice and got a better haircut, did something new with my beard, and got a drastically better wardrobe. My new profile went live a few days ago: it has my new look (also lost ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Has anyone benefitted significantly from a profile critique? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ode9fy/has_anyone_benefitted_significantly_from_a/ |
Educational-Rub979 | 2022-01-25 02:58:56 | 1,643,079,536 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | sc3bb0 | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sc3bb0/anybody_feel_like_this_too/ | 1 | m/29 so about a year ago and 3 months i broke up with my ex. she met someone at her job that ended getting in the way of our relationship and it got extremely toxic and full of lies so i ended it and walked away. story is extremely long so to make it short i was very hurt for about 8 months or so. i feel so much better... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | anybody feel like this too? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sc3bb0/anybody_feel_like_this_too/ |
jacksparser | 2015-07-23 23:32:57 | 1,437,694,377 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 3edtt2 | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3edtt2/introverted_21m_asking_for_advice_on_finding/ | 11 | I just wanted to ask how introverts find each other. I mean, most of us don't go out much-- going to clubs, cafes, and the like and meet new people easily (I can actually go out of my way to do that but I don't think I'll find a fellow introvert in those places). Some things I've tried/considered: 1. I considered going... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Introverted 21M asking for advice on finding other female introverts | 11 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3edtt2/introverted_21m_asking_for_advice_on_finding/ |
Ruru_91 | 2023-10-02 21:40:58 | 1,696,282,858 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16y9ei7 | true | null | 171 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/16y9ei7/on_how_many_dates_with_different_people_you_go/ | 22 | Hi all, Reading all the posts on this subreddit, I was genuinely curios to know your gender, age and on how many dates you go every month (with different people) when you are actively dating. I would also like to know in which country you are dating For me (32F, the Netherlands) it depends: I would say once a month and... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | On how many dates (with different people) you go every month on average? Are all your dates from apps? | 22 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/16y9ei7/on_how_many_dates_with_different_people_you_go/ |
candidburrito | 2018-12-21 06:07:36 | 1,545,372,456 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | a871y7 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/a871y7/disinterest_or_busy/ | 2 | I (31F) matched with a guy (37M) on Bumble who is really interesting and it seems like we have a lot in common. We’d write essays back and forth for a few days and I’d be anxiously waiting for a response...and it was slow in coming. Finally, he asked for my number so we could text and it would be easier. Good sign, I t... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Disinterest or busy? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a871y7/disinterest_or_busy/ |
DireScience | 2019-01-29 22:26:31 | 1,548,800,791 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | al5lvf | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/al5lvf/sick_of_my_social_anxiety_but_dont_know_what_to_do/ | 1 | I don't really know how to explain this well but can anyone give me tips and/or help me connect with people? This semester in school I've seen a few girls around who I find very attractive but I can't bring myself to talk to them or anything due to my social anxiety. To counteract this I've tried online dating a few ti... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Sick of my social anxiety but don't know what to do | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/al5lvf/sick_of_my_social_anxiety_but_dont_know_what_to_do/ |
maconica15 | 2024-07-20 22:01:52 | 1,721,512,912 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1e86sw1 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e86sw1/i_really_cannot_tell_if_hes_interested_or_just/ | 1 | Backstory: I was in a codependent unhealthy relationship for about 4 years about a year and a half ago, and I’m still definitely putting in the work to self-soothe my anxious attachment. However, I haven’t been on the dating scene in a very long time. I (F 25) met (we will call him Mike - M,27) on Hinge about 2.5 weeks... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I really cannot tell if he’s interested or just moving slowly. | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e86sw1/i_really_cannot_tell_if_hes_interested_or_just/ |
YearOk2349 | 2023-12-08 19:48:26 | 1,702,064,906 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18duy4m | true | null | 102 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18duy4m/would_you_date_a_girl_that_is_celibate_would_you/ | 1 | So here’s the thing I’m 29, I’ve only had one serious relationship which ended terribly very toxic. He was an alcoholic, and is now in jail for breaking an entering while he was black out drunk. Just wanted to give a little detail on my past relationship. I lost my virginity to him at 21 we were together for three year... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would you date a girl that is celibate? / would you date a girl who wants to wait until you guys are serious to have sex?? | 1 | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18duy4m/would_you_date_a_girl_that_is_celibate_would_you/ |
smapple | 2018-09-24 12:48:58 | 1,537,793,338 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9ihmlu | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9ihmlu/newly_out_lesbian_where_do_i_start/ | 1 | I’ve tried tinder and HER and the few women I’ve matched with, really don’t seem like we clicked. The conversation fizzeled despite me trying to get it going. Maybe I’ve been out of the dating pool for too long? Maybe I’m expecting more than I should? My goal is to meet a partner not just hook up. Any suggestions or ad... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Newly out lesbian, where do I start? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9ihmlu/newly_out_lesbian_where_do_i_start/ |
ASTROthaDIOS | 2023-06-15 14:14:18 | 1,686,838,458 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 14a3j48 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14a3j48/fake_tinder/ | 1 | TLDR: My girlfriend (23F) & I (22M) have been together 5+ years, her co-worker showed her an account on Tinder that is using my photos (maybe my name) and she believes that it is me. How can I reassure her / prove the account is not me? So back in approximately February I received a text from an old co-worker of my gir... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Fake Tinder | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14a3j48/fake_tinder/ |
proposit | 2014-03-03 11:19:14 | 1,393,845,554 | 0 | ['dating site', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | 1zfcwt | null | null | 26 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/1zfcwt/you_hear_a_lot_about_taking_what_men_say_at_face/ | 2 | I have an account on Plenty of Fish, the dating site. Now there are 5 options to choose from which describe the level of relationship you are looking for with someone. You have to select one. 1. Looking for marriage. 2. Actively looking for a relationship 3. Looking for a relationship. 4. Looking to date, but nothing s... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | You hear a lot about taking what men say at face value, but I am on a dating site, and I would like your opinion on something. | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1zfcwt/you_hear_a_lot_about_taking_what_men_say_at_face/ |
Ryuko1998 | 2020-12-30 19:27:57 | 1,609,356,477 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | kn8vod | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kn8vod/what_i_learned_the_hard_way_never_love_to_your/ | 99 | I learned this lesson the hard way just now. A guy I matched with on Tinder was romantically interested in me, I didn't think much of it at first but later I felt down so hard for him. I quickly began to love him to my fullest extent, wishing him a goodnight, goodmorning. He told me he had fear of commitment, I didn't ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What I learned the hard way: never love to your fullest extent that easily, make them deserve it and seek you out. | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kn8vod/what_i_learned_the_hard_way_never_love_to_your/ |
SnooCookies4460 | 2023-01-31 17:33:29 | 1,675,186,409 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10q53a8 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10q53a8/why_do_girls_in_my_social_circle_never_show/ | 0 | I'm very successful on tinder with unknown girls | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do girls in my social circle never show interest in me but I have success with unknown girls? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10q53a8/why_do_girls_in_my_social_circle_never_show/ |
DrDoominstien | 2024-01-28 22:44:04 | 1,706,481,844 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1adfg77 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1adfg77/what_is_a_good_way_to_meet_women_in_a_casual/ | 1 | I live a private life and do not get out much. I want to begin dating, and to do so I need to put myself out more because while I don't think I'm undatable my looks and style alone are insufficient to attract women via online dating. Before anyone suggests that I just focus on improving myself and that women will just ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is a good way to meet women in a casual setting? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1adfg77/what_is_a_good_way_to_meet_women_in_a_casual/ |
_MoonPi_ | 2021-01-30 01:34:32 | 1,611,970,472 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | l8agka | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l8agka/what_am_i_doing_wrong_everyone_ghosts_me/ | 4 | Given the circumstances of the pandemic, I’ve decided to give online dating a shot. Hardly anyone responds. Most that do, disappear after exchanging a couple of messages. That’s fine. Now, there are a few that have engaged in conversations with me, but they take weeks to reply! Two weeks ago I went on a date and then h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What am I doing wrong? Everyone ghosts me. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l8agka/what_am_i_doing_wrong_everyone_ghosts_me/ |
CausticSofa | 2020-02-17 20:49:32 | 1,581,972,572 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | f5fei1 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/f5fei1/anyone_know_how_to_report_a_concerning_text/ | 4 | Hey all. I suppose this is why it’s best to leave all of the conversations within the app until you’ve met the person but I had an encounter with a lovely gentleman today that went from trying to plan when we would meet on to him being an incredibly nasty piece of work within 20 minutes. I feel like I should report him... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Anyone know how to report a concerning text thread to Hinge? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/f5fei1/anyone_know_how_to_report_a_concerning_text/ |
twentycentis | 2023-03-08 09:27:30 | 1,678,267,650 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 11lrt8j | true | null | 176 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/11lrt8j/men_who_are_lonely_how_do_you_cope/ | 304 | It has hit me that I'm such a lonely person. I yearn for certain types of affection and I don't get any. I am an international student doing my PhD in Japan. I don't have friends outside of my lab/course except these two people...and even then the dynamics of our friendship has been changing. One has a girlfriend and h... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men who are lonely, how do you cope? | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/11lrt8j/men_who_are_lonely_how_do_you_cope/ |
itiswhatitis249 | 2022-11-15 07:07:48 | 1,668,496,068 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | yvpowb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/yvpowb/how_to_not_fall_for_your_fwb/ | 1 | Okay so imma about to start a casual relationship w this guy i met on a dating app. Ive never had a casual relationship before, but i do tend to like people very quickly. I broke up earlier this year and haven't been w anyone since and now i just really miss sex. Been talking to this guy since a month, nothing serious,... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | how to not fall for your FWB | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yvpowb/how_to_not_fall_for_your_fwb/ |
Born-Replacement-854 | 2020-12-19 02:34:30 | 1,608,345,270 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | kfzgxt | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kfzgxt/what_dating_app_would_you_recommend_28f/ | 0 | I recently got out of a lonerm relationship, and am ready to get back into dating. Given the pandemic, it currently seems harder/impossible to meet people in real life, so I want to try app-based dating. I haven't been on the apps in years. What are people using nowadays? Specifically in large cities (I live in SF). Is... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What dating app would you recommend? [28F] | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kfzgxt/what_dating_app_would_you_recommend_28f/ |
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