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Stareatthemooon | 2023-08-27 01:36:51 | 1,693,100,211 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 162d2l5 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/162d2l5/how_to_break_up_with_someone_when_you_werent/ | 1 | I’ve been seeing this guy met on a dating app and have been on about 6 dates in 3 months. We told each other that we quit the apps about two months in. He got a new job after getting a degree but have since been super busy settling into the job, doesn’t have a personal car, lives with parents and we grew distant bc we ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to break up with someone when you weren’t “official” | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/162d2l5/how_to_break_up_with_someone_when_you_werent/ |
THEVYVYD | 2024-05-14 03:14:15 | 1,715,656,455 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1criano | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1criano/are_you_supposed_to_create_the_connection_with/ | 1 | I really wanna see others perspectives, a bit confused. For context, I'm M20, bi, and I can't date irl due to personal situations. My dating pool is very limited because of gender identity. I've been using dating apps for about two years now. When I text matches I feel absolutely nothing and I don't know why. I've neve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are you supposed to create the connection with time/effort, or just feel it upon matching with someone? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1criano/are_you_supposed_to_create_the_connection_with/ |
RatsInPavlova | 2019-11-17 01:34:26 | 1,573,954,466 | null | ['swiped', 'dating site'] | 0 | dxg49z | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dxg49z/seeing_someone_you_know_on_a_dating_site_what_to/ | 1 | So I saw this girl who I know on it a while ago, was like well this awkward, swiped left and proceeded to pretend like it had never happened. But now I see that she's messaged me and idk I'm just very embarrassed hahaha I see her in lectures and lab stuff so idk what to say or do with her now... Do I just ignore it, sh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Seeing someone you know on a dating site, what to say now ahaha | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dxg49z/seeing_someone_you_know_on_a_dating_site_what_to/ |
domeDUDE89 | 2020-11-28 03:17:07 | 1,606,533,427 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | k2fzzd | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k2fzzd/ive_been_socially_distancing_since_2016_i_feel/ | 1 | I’m a 22 year old guy and I was socially distancing since my senior year of high school. I just didn’t really have close friends in school and I don’t now. I have 2 friends and we’re really not that close. I feel this looks bad from a girls perspective. I just don’t connect with people my age. My taste in music and mov... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’ve been socially distancing since 2016? I feel like I’m behind in dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k2fzzd/ive_been_socially_distancing_since_2016_i_feel/ |
ishanroyc30 | 2024-06-12 07:15:54 | 1,718,176,554 | 0 | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1de0nzc | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1de0nzc/i_always_get_awkward_and_shy_when_talking_to/ | 1 | I've been on a few dates, mostly through the dating app bumble, but the girl either ghosts me afterwards or I end it politely. I get awkward sometimes and find it hard to talk about things... Sometimes when I do get talking I've been told I move too fast and show too much affection too soon... I'm 25 (M) and looking fo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I always get awkward and shy when talking to girls... Any tips ? | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1de0nzc/i_always_get_awkward_and_shy_when_talking_to/ |
RustyRadlay | 2017-12-26 15:05:35 | 1,514,300,735 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7m87al | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7m87al/what_would_make_a_good_dating_service/ | 3 | What functions there should be on a good online dating service? Good in matching people better, giving them what they need not what they think they want. Or is it impossible because people don't want to be realistic? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What would make a good dating service? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7m87al/what_would_make_a_good_dating_service/ |
ReddSpark | 2018-12-28 20:59:08 | 1,546,030,748 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | aaea4t | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/aaea4t/ideas_on_where_to_meet_people/ | 15 | Given most of us would agree that dating apps aren't great for ones mental well being what are some of the best ways to meet to people once you leave education? I'm looking for ideas that: - help you meet a variety of people of the opposition sex in the 25-40 age range - in environments where it's not skewed too heavil... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ideas on where to meet people | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/aaea4t/ideas_on_where_to_meet_people/ |
ForaemonDa | 2020-04-25 04:35:46 | 1,587,789,346 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | g7njl8 | true | Venting | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g7njl8/girlfriend_reopened_tinder_account/ | 4 | So me and my girlfriend got into a really big argument a few days ago. It lasted over a day, and we usually resolve our problems before we sleep, but this one was a bit more intense. We finally talked things through though, but afterwards she came and hugged me and "apologized preemptively" about something, and it turn... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girlfriend reopened Tinder account | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g7njl8/girlfriend_reopened_tinder_account/ |
cerisesymphonie | 2023-01-14 04:21:02 | 1,673,670,062 | null | null | 0 | 10bf7wr | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10bf7wr/when_asked_why_you_broke_up_with_your_ex_on_a/ | 2 | I've gone on first dates with 3 or 4 different guys, and they all managed to get on the subject of previous relationships. Then they'll ask me, "Why did you break up with him (my last ex)?" I typically don't talk about exes/past relationships because I hear it's one of those things you don't bring up on first dates. Bu... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When asked why you broke up with your ex on a first date, what answer do you usually give? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10bf7wr/when_asked_why_you_broke_up_with_your_ex_on_a/ |
RedbullXYY | 2021-01-12 08:47:29 | 1,610,441,249 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | kvnyk5 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kvnyk5/girl_left_me_on_delivered_after_saying_she_was/ | 1 | I met this girl on a dating app about a month ago and we went on a cute date which we both enjoyed. We would send each other tik toks and songs all the time and around Christmas time I asked her if she wanted to get sushi, she said she would love to. I think I might’ve done wrong in never hitting her up for the sushi b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl left me on delivered after saying she was interesting in going on date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kvnyk5/girl_left_me_on_delivered_after_saying_she_was/ |
beevaubee | 2012-06-04 03:37:45 | 1,338,781,065 | 1 | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | null | ujmqk | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/ujmqk/im_suffering_from_depression_and_want_to_take_up/ | 5 | Me: Female, 30, from Germany, suffering from depression for, oh, at least seven years. It's cyclical, I've been to two therapists and am currently on medication. It isn't severe in my opinion, but it does affect me and I get into slumps from time to time that are difficult to get out of. I've been in only one relations... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm suffering from depression and want to take up online-dating again. Do I disclose my illness or should I keep that for when a connection is established? | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ujmqk/im_suffering_from_depression_and_want_to_take_up/ |
bopeeee | 2024-01-08 21:57:20 | 1,704,751,040 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 191xbjo | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/191xbjo/would_you_still_meet_someone_if_they_started/ | 1 | Eg guy on dating app starts making subtle sexual jokes? Eg about ropes, punishments, being innocent etc. He still talks a lot about other stuff too though. Thanks for your advice | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would you still meet someone if they started talking inappropriately? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/191xbjo/would_you_still_meet_someone_if_they_started/ |
Revolutionary-Bed908 | 2024-01-02 23:09:23 | 1,704,236,963 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 18x3eya | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18x3eya/bf_download_bumble_to_check_out_how_people_on_the/ | 1 | My friend has caught my bf’s bumble profile as he recently moved to another country and when I confronted him about it, he said that he downloaded these apps for 5 minutes to check out how people on the apps looks like and it’s normal for people in relationships to check it out - it is not cheating. He also compared it... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Bf download bumble to “check out how people on the app looks like” - considered cheating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18x3eya/bf_download_bumble_to_check_out_how_people_on_the/ |
queefIatina | 2024-05-13 00:13:36 | 1,715,559,216 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cqm0m1 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cqm0m1/trouble_with_facebook_dating_shadow_banned_maybe/ | 1 | I had Facebook dating last year and had a lot of success, tons of likes and matches fairly quickly Just joined again yesterday and I haven’t had a single match or like Anything I can do here? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Trouble with Facebook dating, shadow banned maybe? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cqm0m1/trouble_with_facebook_dating_shadow_banned_maybe/ |
dfrye666 | 2023-03-04 12:35:29 | 1,677,933,329 | null | null | 0 | 11hy6mp | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11hy6mp/psa_own_house_own_car_and_have_all_my_teeth_gold/ | 8 | Lol apparently adding this line to my profile has helped a ton. I guess there's lots of men around my age (40's) that don't have all 3 of these haha Just a public service announcement. My matches and quality of them went way up after I added this bit of gold. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | PSA: Own House, Own Car, and Have all my Teeth = GOLD! :) | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11hy6mp/psa_own_house_own_car_and_have_all_my_teeth_gold/ |
MagicalSyrup05 | 2020-04-03 03:20:14 | 1,585,884,014 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | fu0p71 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fu0p71/is_there_any_attractive_successful_guy_that/ | 5 | I (25F) have been single for about 2 years and have gone on dates with a lot of guys. I’m attractive, educated and financially stable so I attract a lot of guys that are good looking and successful. However, what I realize about these guys is NONE OF THEM has any intention of settling down into a serious relationship. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there any attractive, successful guy that actually wants to settle down? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fu0p71/is_there_any_attractive_successful_guy_that/ |
Original-Ad9086 | 2024-03-29 05:08:58 | 1,711,688,938 | 0 | ['swiped'] | 0 | 1bqh5rv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bqh5rv/am_i_really_missing_out_on_dating/ | 1 | 21M, never been in a serious relationship before, most girls I had interest in never showed the same level of interest back which always led me to be friendzone by most girls I was interested in. Older guys around 27-30 are telling me that I got nothing to worry about but its the stigma from friends that bother me the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I really missing out on Dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bqh5rv/am_i_really_missing_out_on_dating/ |
AbilityTough3314 | 2024-01-29 17:19:33 | 1,706,548,773 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ae0m9f | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ae0m9f/i_have_never_had_a_boyfriend_18f/ | 2 | I would say I am an attractive person I get a decent amount of attention from males in my social circle and I even tried dating apps and I got a ton of attention there too however non of my talking stages seem to last longer than a few weeks in most cases I like the guy a lot (during the first few weeks) then I start t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have never had a boyfriend (18F) | 2 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ae0m9f/i_have_never_had_a_boyfriend_18f/ |
Jaded_Daikon1691 | 2024-06-28 08:34:31 | 1,719,563,671 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dqeu7f | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dqeu7f/thoughts/ | 3 | I just found out my boyfriend had broken up with his ex (i believe they were together for 9 months) only a month before we got together. Apparently, he started going on a dating app just a week after him and his ex broke up. We’re together for 8 months now. Although, knowing this information is kind of bothering me. Th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Thoughts? | 3 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dqeu7f/thoughts/ |
ellengau | 2016-10-02 21:04:11 | 1,475,442,251 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 55k95s | null | null | 18 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/55k95s/6_dating_red_flags_to_take_seriously_for_women/ | 44 | In the era of Tinder and hook-up culture, it can be hard for any of you unicorns looking for love and serious relationships to navigate without getting your dreams and hopes shattered. Dating is no longer simply a way to find out whether two people are suitable for a relationship. No. It’s a battle field out there. Ok,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 6 Dating Red Flags To Take Seriously (For Women) | 44 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/55k95s/6_dating_red_flags_to_take_seriously_for_women/ |
Background_Mix_1578 | 2022-10-06 23:51:44 | 1,665,100,304 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | xxk1s9 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xxk1s9/sick_of_the_apps/ | 12 | I (24M) have been rotating through all of the dating apps as long as I can remember, and I’m honestly sick and tired of it. All I get in return are 1 ended conversations, ghosted, very few first dates that actually go anywhere, and a headache from all of the endless scrolling. Does anyone have any advice for meeting pe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Sick of the apps | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xxk1s9/sick_of_the_apps/ |
Useful_Ad_6191 | 2022-01-17 02:40:24 | 1,642,387,224 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | s5ssb6 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s5ssb6/broke_law_student_late_20sm_concerned_about/ | 14 | On mobile so please forgive any typos and/or rambling. I attend a prestigious law school on a scholarship and I stand to make very good money when I graduate. That said, I am currently on an extremely fixed income (student loans) and don’t come from family money (I can’t ask them for financial assistance, even in a sma... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Broke law student (late 20sM) concerned about dating wealthier women | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s5ssb6/broke_law_student_late_20sm_concerned_about/ |
femaleonthebeach | 2017-08-05 01:15:01 | 1,501,895,701 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 6rowov | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6rowov/how_to_write_a_good_profile_without_sounding_too/ | 1 | I'm a woman who's new to online dating and is looking for a serious relationship. I assume that I should avoid sounding too sexual in my profile because: 1) That might put people off in general 2) That might scare off men who are interested in serious relationships, while only attracting men who are looking for casual ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how to write a good profile without sounding too sexual | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6rowov/how_to_write_a_good_profile_without_sounding_too/ |
skittlesforeveryone | 2024-05-13 22:24:03 | 1,715,639,043 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1crcb6p | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1crcb6p/is_it_normal_to_talk_about_your_sex_life_with/ | 4 | Honestly don’t know why I’m even posting this. Basically there’s this girl that i was “talking” to for about a month/month in a half. Nothing serious, she lives in a different city and in college and im already graduated doing my own stuff. Just started texting her because her friend set us up and I didn’t mind talking... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it normal to talk about your sex life with others in a non exclusive talking stage? | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1crcb6p/is_it_normal_to_talk_about_your_sex_life_with/ |
throwaway_OM | 2017-02-18 01:24:07 | 1,487,381,047 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5uq0i7 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5uq0i7/i_22m_have_no_idea_what_to_do_for_a_a_first_date/ | 5 | Met someone I'm really interested in on tinder. I'm looking for a relationship. I think she'd be open to meeting up. But I have no earthly idea on where to go for a first date. I have 0 dating experience. She can't drink. I hate coffee. I don't want to invite her to my apartment because I don't want to give her the wro... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [22M] have no idea what to do for a a first date with tinder girl [18F] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5uq0i7/i_22m_have_no_idea_what_to_do_for_a_a_first_date/ |
number_92 | 2020-09-29 16:56:57 | 1,601,398,617 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | j238ft | true | Question | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/j238ft/do_you_guys_know_about_good_dating_sites/ | 1 | a list and or sharing your stories would be great thank you | dating | t5_2qhb1 | do you guys know about good dating sites ?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j238ft/do_you_guys_know_about_good_dating_sites/ |
crikeyriley123 | 2019-01-06 05:54:39 | 1,546,754,079 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ad2xn2 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ad2xn2/update_okay_so_now_im_totally_befuddled/ | 0 | Long post TL;DR: went on date. It was great, but i learned things that have made me want to take a step back. He ventured to set up a fourth date (for tomorrow am) in person, which I agreed to, then followed up by texting me the location and time, then before I had chance to reply he'd changed his mind about it. Things... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Update - Okay so now I'm totally befuddled | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ad2xn2/update_okay_so_now_im_totally_befuddled/ |
BakingBare__ | 2020-01-22 22:06:09 | 1,579,730,769 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | esj2pe | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/esj2pe/how_do_i_meet_guys_in_person/ | 3 | I don't want to meet guys on tinder anymore.. I'm so sick and tired of being sick and tired of all sexual comments guys make... especially as their opening message.. I really want someone I consider to be smart which means someone at the freakin Law School. Every guy I've ever met has been online and now that I'm in la... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I meet guys in person? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/esj2pe/how_do_i_meet_guys_in_person/ |
Content_Trick_7580 | 2024-01-07 00:17:46 | 1,704,586,666 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 190ekks | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/190ekks/how_do_you_know_if_your_guy_friend_sees_you_as/ | 1 | I just want some signs on whether or not I’m an ugly “one of the guys” or if my guy friend is potentially interested in me. I honestly have really bad bdd so I don’t know what I look like but I do get a lot of romantic interest on dating apps and have had a few guys interested me from school (high school and college). ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you know if your guy friend sees you as attractive vs. unattractive? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/190ekks/how_do_you_know_if_your_guy_friend_sees_you_as/ |
darkhorse2k | 2019-07-21 18:09:01 | 1,563,732,541 | null | null | 0 | cg21n7 | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/cg21n7/working_out_is_a_good_investment/ | 12 | Went on a date today, body still sore from an intensive gym work out yesterday. She asked how my training was going, flexed my guns, where she was impressed. As the evening progressed, she squeezed my biceps as we were making out. It felt good to be validated this way, and I now understand why people recommend it. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Working out is a good investment.... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/cg21n7/working_out_is_a_good_investment/ |
anxious20something_ | 2021-05-11 20:49:53 | 1,620,766,193 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | na7cik | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/na7cik/i_have_my_first_date_in_5_years_tomorrow_night/ | 1 | I (24M) got out of a long term relationship about 9 months ago and am going on my first date since then tomorrow night with someone (24F) I met on Hinge. However, I haven't been on a date in 5 years. This may be a really stupid question, but how are you supposed to greet someone (taking the pandemic into account). We h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have my first date in 5 years tomorrow night and have a stupid question. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/na7cik/i_have_my_first_date_in_5_years_tomorrow_night/ |
lizard81288 | 2022-05-20 01:48:19 | 1,653,011,299 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | utikek | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/utikek/just_out_of_curiosity_how_did_i_screw_up_this/ | 2 | So I was talking to a girl on a dating app. We haven't been talking long, only a few messages. I asked her about her job. She said she was working from home now so I asked her if she had an office or like a shared room with other staff members, while working there. She replyed with, "are you torturing me?" I was confus... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just out of curiosity, how did I screw up this conversation? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/utikek/just_out_of_curiosity_how_did_i_screw_up_this/ |
kellllzzzzz | 2020-11-30 01:42:03 | 1,606,700,523 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | k3m5z2 | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/k3m5z2/talking_phase/ | 2 | Met this guy I really like on tinder , we had a Netflix and chill date at my house after texting on and off for about a month and a half finally let him come over. We had a lot in common and I really like him. I’m wanting a relationship with him and not sure how he’s feeling. I want to spend more time with him but he o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Talking phase | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/k3m5z2/talking_phase/ |
OkMeeting3920 | 2022-08-26 20:01:46 | 1,661,544,106 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | wyireg | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wyireg/turned_off_by_a_picture_on_app/ | 1 | Okay I’m probably gonna get hate for saying this but I’m gonna post it anyways. I was talking to this guy online through a dating app. We were having a good conversation and even talked about meeting, as soon as both of us were free. The guy was sweet, looked decent on his pictures and overall, we were having good conv... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Turned off by a picture on app | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wyireg/turned_off_by_a_picture_on_app/ |
RepulsiveMotor4557 | 2024-09-24 21:00:53 | 1,727,211,653 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fon9yl | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fon9yl/32m_im_having_a_hard_time_understanding_dating/ | 3 | What I see is that other people around me of all age groups just form sexual and romantic connections with someone they met somewhere, from their circle, workplace or dating apps and then see where things go. It seems the connections form very naturally and spontaneously for them. Everything happens smoothly whether it... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 32M, I'm having a hard time understanding dating and relationships. | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fon9yl/32m_im_having_a_hard_time_understanding_dating/ |
throaway2528588 | 2015-08-07 21:42:03 | 1,438,983,723 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3g6ev3 | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3g6ev3/i_got_myself_into_a_bit_of_a_mess/ | 1 | I've [23F] met this girl [21F] on Tinder and we hung out several times, both alone and with my friends, and did everything but sex. Lets call her M. Recently though shes been busy and I kind of got tired of trying to set up dates so I haven't been texting her as much and I told her to let me know when she is free. Toda... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I got myself into a bit of a mess. | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3g6ev3/i_got_myself_into_a_bit_of_a_mess/ |
margoroths | 2019-04-24 21:47:30 | 1,556,142,450 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | bh0h8w | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bh0h8w/being_single_annoys_me_everyday/ | 15 | So, first post blah, bad formatting on my phone blah. So I (f22) have been single for a while now, about 2 years with a few flings during that gap. I've always been one of these strong, independent, just do you kinda chics. And I'm glad I had time to really understand myself and be single to learn a lot about myself an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Being single annoys me everyday | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bh0h8w/being_single_annoys_me_everyday/ |
Pristine-Layer-943 | 2024-08-17 17:18:02 | 1,723,915,082 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1eumwan | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eumwan/m23_how_to_find_a_girfriend_in_a_male_job_and/ | 1 | Sorry for the long post. Okay, so basically I want a Girlfriend and don't know how to go about it. For some context- I am 23 male who lives in Lancashire UK, I have a decent-paying job for my age, £50k a year, but my industry is all male(rolling stock engineer), and all my hobbies are male-based as well, boxing, muay T... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | m23, how to find a girfriend in a male job and hobbies. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eumwan/m23_how_to_find_a_girfriend_in_a_male_job_and/ |
RedditRookie77 | 2023-05-06 21:14:04 | 1,683,407,644 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 13a2cgy | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13a2cgy/honest_question_how_to_tell_if_she_wants_more/ | 1 | I matched her on Tinder and we met rather quickly. She is new in town and doesn't speak French fluently (I live in France, she is from Portugal). First date was 4 hours long. We grabbed a coffee and ate in a small restaurant. We had no physical contact (except hugging) but had a great conversation and also laughed toge... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Honest question: how to tell if she wants more than platonic friendship | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13a2cgy/honest_question_how_to_tell_if_she_wants_more/ |
LanceKookington | 2019-07-04 13:57:30 | 1,562,248,650 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c92vyv | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c92vyv/barelyex_that_just_wont_let_it_go/ | 3 | So I use the term barely-ex as she's not an ex-girlfriend. We dated for 3 months (Tinder) about 4 years ago, me 25 her 21 at the time. The long and short of it is; dated 3 months and was moving foward as I met her parents etc, she went to Australia (live in UK) for 3 months to visit family, "the talk" was had and we ag... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Barely-Ex that just won't let it go | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c92vyv/barelyex_that_just_wont_let_it_go/ |
happybutnot2happy | 2024-06-16 01:49:19 | 1,718,502,559 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dgx19s | true | Question ❓ | 260 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dgx19s/do_men_approach_women_less_in_public_now/ | 99 | I hate dating apps but never had issues when on them. I dated some guys but l dislike the dates because they feel like interviews. So I got off of them thinking "I'll eventually meet someone in real life"! Anddddd I haven't been on a date in almost 2 years now. This is ok because I've been so busy with achieving my goa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do men approach women less in public now? | 99 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dgx19s/do_men_approach_women_less_in_public_now/ |
MilfLover-98 | 2020-07-20 05:32:08 | 1,595,223,128 | null | null | 0 | hufpj1 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hufpj1/im_gonna_start_tinder_and_hinge_accounts_what_do/ | 3 | Would it be wise to put my politics and religion in my bio apparently I'm looking for nice older introverted women who like nerdy stuff can this be achieved? Are selfies okay? I have no family pictures but would a picture of me and my cute cat help with my below Average looks? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I'm gonna start Tinder and Hinge accounts what do I put in my profile? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hufpj1/im_gonna_start_tinder_and_hinge_accounts_what_do/ |
sucks2suks | 2020-12-15 16:33:12 | 1,608,049,992 | null | ['swipe', 'dating app'] | 0 | kdoyqg | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kdoyqg/rejected_before_we_ever_met_is_there_any_hope/ | 1 | Was on a dating app and some girl asked for my number cause we hit it off. Texted for 4 days when suddenly she says" Sorry I haven't been responding quickly, tbh I met someone so the timing is just off" Ugh. Out of 50 girls, I swipe right on 2 and of that less than half actually talk to me. I was really trying with thi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Rejected before we ever met, is there any hope? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kdoyqg/rejected_before_we_ever_met_is_there_any_hope/ |
Zealousideal_Day_382 | 2023-07-27 22:45:33 | 1,690,497,933 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15bfzt9 | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15bfzt9/over_before_it_began_did_i_end_it_too_swiftly/ | 1 | A couple of months ago I (37F) matched with a guy (34M) on Hinge. He used to live in my city but hadn’t updated his location settings, and was actually now living overseas for work. We hit it off and began texting, sending pics, video chats - felt like a real spark. He started talking about the future, and we are both ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Over before it began - did I end it too swiftly? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15bfzt9/over_before_it_began_did_i_end_it_too_swiftly/ |
Travelthewaters | 2021-12-27 21:20:57 | 1,640,640,057 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | rpxn57 | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/rpxn57/how_do_you_overcome_the_urge_to_contact_someone/ | 78 | About 2 months ago I posted on here about a dating fiasco I had myself in with someone who was recently out of of a 7 year relationship. We both made the mistake of not knowing what we really wanted and let ourselves enjoy the situationship too much - I subconsciously hoped he would want me for more, he enjoyed my comp... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How do you overcome the urge to contact someone you know isn’t good for you? | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/rpxn57/how_do_you_overcome_the_urge_to_contact_someone/ |
MFRobots | 2022-03-06 11:50:05 | 1,646,567,405 | null | null | 0 | t7x6pt | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/t7x6pt/being_an_attractive_woman_in_a_small_town/ | 0 | Every so often, I'd see a rather attractive 40 or 50+ years of age on dating site...somehow they've managed to have good genetics, and look good for their ages. I noticed this one woman, she joined Meetup in that area, was also on Match dot com...now if you do a comparison between Meetup members of the group, to her...... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Being an attractive woman in a small town | null | 0.36 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/t7x6pt/being_an_attractive_woman_in_a_small_town/ |
hellobye2468 | 2023-10-18 16:00:50 | 1,697,644,850 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 17au7w9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17au7w9/so_tired/ | 1 | I 19F invested 4-5 years on a boy who wasn't nt even worth it. I cant find a decent partner now and im tired of looking. Any advice on where to look for good guys? Tried tinder and bumble but since im in pakistan, you can only expect horny ass boys | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So tired | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17au7w9/so_tired/ |
itsfrail | 2023-04-24 14:11:43 | 1,682,345,503 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 12xh42o | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12xh42o/been_a_rough_few_weeks_of_dating_so_just_want_to/ | 1 | Dating has always been hard for me and I don't really know what makes it so hard. These last few weeks especially have been a bit rough on me mentally despite an otherwise really solid time + good stuff going on in my life. Any and all advice/thoughts/etc on the below is appreciated/welcome \-Woman 1: I met a woman a f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Been a rough few weeks of dating so just want to get it off my chest | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12xh42o/been_a_rough_few_weeks_of_dating_so_just_want_to/ |
makesenseofthisworld | 2023-09-27 08:15:13 | 1,695,802,513 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 16tes4n | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16tes4n/a_guy_i_matched_with_online_just_blocked_me_out/ | 1 | I don't expect anyone to tell me why this happened but I just wanted to release some of my frustration here. We matched on Tinder and basically had the best conversations and really good rapport. He was intelligent and cute. And he kept showering me with compliments. Even the night before he blocked me he was super swe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A guy I matched with online just blocked me out of the blue | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16tes4n/a_guy_i_matched_with_online_just_blocked_me_out/ |
Specific_Chip_8852 | 2022-12-19 13:02:48 | 1,671,454,968 | null | null | 0 | zpr08q | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zpr08q/bumble/ | 11 | I am not sure why but i recently downloaded bumble and found a few matches that connect. My question is what if you don't find the person as attractive as on the app. Do you still continue ahead or how to break the connect without ghosting? Need opinions | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | bumble | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zpr08q/bumble/ |
helpmegetlaidnow | 2011-10-26 06:50:08 | 1,319,611,808 | 1 | ['dating site'] | null | lpg8g | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/lpg8g/cheating_wives_or_girlfriend_on_a_hookup_dating/ | 0 | Your wives getting cold or your girlfriends have less time for you. The last thing you may think of, is that your partner may have another guy whether we're talking about sex or just hooking up. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Cheating wives or girlfriend on a hookup dating site | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lpg8g/cheating_wives_or_girlfriend_on_a_hookup_dating/ |
ApatheticDazai | 2024-01-01 03:06:55 | 1,704,078,415 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18vnozg | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18vnozg/i_feel_bad_for_the_other_person_when_it_comes_to/ | 1 | Hey, I’m a 19 year old guy and I have no experience with relationships of any kind. I am more emotionally and romantically inexperienced than almost all people my age. I am yet to actually have a crush on someone, I actually just recently discovered that “butterflies in your stomach” isn’t a figure of speech and that p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel bad for the other person when it comes to dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18vnozg/i_feel_bad_for_the_other_person_when_it_comes_to/ |
OakumCaulk | 2019-09-26 01:31:04 | 1,569,461,464 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | d9crp8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d9crp8/at_a_crossroads/ | 1 | So I [20M] met a girl [22F] off OkCupid yesterday. We'd been talking in the app for a few days and then exchanged numbers and talked a bit more. We arranged to meet up for coffee in the afternoon, and it went super well. We were there for like 2 hours, talking away without any breaks in conversation, and then I walked ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | At a crossroads | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d9crp8/at_a_crossroads/ |
Unlikely_Tap_7648 | 2023-09-11 00:24:56 | 1,694,391,896 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 16fgovl | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16fgovl/my_ex_of_one_week_is_on_tinder/ | 1 | Was going great, we said we loved eachother and then all the sudden he started being super cold and dry so we eventually broke up. He made up some excuse about “not wanting to be with anyone right now” which I know is a bs line but idk I kind of believed him when he said he wasn’t out chasing girls or anything right no... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My ex of one week is on tinder | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16fgovl/my_ex_of_one_week_is_on_tinder/ |
mcdonalds110088 | 2017-04-05 16:15:49 | 1,491,408,949 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 63miws | null | null | 24 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/63miws/always_seem_to_suddenly_lose_interest_in_girls_i/ | 9 | I don't know if anyone else has this issue, but it seems to be almost a guaranteed thing that happens to me whenever I am interested in a girl. In the past 6 or 7 months I have "dated" 4 different girls. They are all incredibly nice, smart, attractive, outgoing, and unique in their own way. I met 2 on a dating app (not... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Always seem to suddenly lose interest in girls I date, not sure what is going on. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/63miws/always_seem_to_suddenly_lose_interest_in_girls_i/ |
BigDan70 | 2023-12-17 11:49:14 | 1,702,813,754 | 0 | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | 18kfpxq | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/18kfpxq/what_the_hell_do_these_acronyms_mean/ | 5 | A little while back, I drove into OLD (online dating), but when I came to Reddit, everybody here seems to use all kinds of acronyms. I have been able to figure out from context, but others even with a Google search I can’t seem to figure it out. What are the acronyms used for OLD or just dating in general? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | What the hell do these acronyms mean? | 5 | 0.65 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/18kfpxq/what_the_hell_do_these_acronyms_mean/ |
AppearanceProud6410 | 2024-06-12 09:26:05 | 1,718,184,365 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1de2g17 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1de2g17/how_to_date_as_a_once_fat_big_man_now_strong_big/ | 2 | I have found on dating apps and when I’m at a bar and a women hits on me or likes my profiles and start chatting with me, I basically right them of as a no because I don’t believe how they could be attracted to a big man. Almost gaslighting myself into not believing any of them are interested. How do I stop myself from... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to date as a once fat big man now strong big man | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1de2g17/how_to_date_as_a_once_fat_big_man_now_strong_big/ |
00fno | 2020-06-12 18:08:12 | 1,591,985,292 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | h7pv0z | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/h7pv0z/cant_tell_if_hes_into_me_or_not/ | 3 | I met this guy on a dating app and we have been talking for about a month now. We really hit it off in the beginning and even made it a competition to see who could stay up the latest bc we had such good convos. however, this didnt last long due to outside obligations(work, school, etc) which is completely understandab... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | can’t tell if he’s into me or not | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/h7pv0z/cant_tell_if_hes_into_me_or_not/ |
BubblyJess | 2020-08-11 07:18:19 | 1,597,130,299 | null | ['dating app', 'dating site'] | 0 | i7n9as | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/i7n9as/i_f36_went_on_a_great_1st_date_with_a_guy_tonight/ | 0 | TLDR: Met a guy at a bar a year ago. Both of us were ending our relationships so even though we had attraction, we could never do anything about it. He found me on a social dating app last week. We met up. Awesome first date. Now I gotta plan the second one and I have no idea what to do I met this guy at a local wateri... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I [F36] went on a great 1st date with a guy tonight. He was a total gentleman. He wants to see me tomorrow but he told me I have to come up with what we do next. I’m kinda freaking out | null | 0.46 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/i7n9as/i_f36_went_on_a_great_1st_date_with_a_guy_tonight/ |
Geo_Girl29 | 2018-12-27 19:37:45 | 1,545,939,465 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | aa2e6o | true | null | 59 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/aa2e6o/whenif_should_i_contact_him/ | 7 | Went out with a guy about 10 days ago. We had an incredible connection. This wasn’t a typical first date for me... the conversation was very deep, very open. Ended up going over to his place. Beforehand he had mentioned that he won’t have time to see me until after NYE (because of his work) and that he may be slow to r... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | When/If should I contact him? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/aa2e6o/whenif_should_i_contact_him/ |
Latter_Stock7624 | 2023-12-10 00:08:03 | 1,702,166,883 | 0 | null | 0 | 18eqtrw | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18eqtrw/how_to_have_sucess_on_feeld_app/ | 1 | So I filled up my profile and put up some good pictures. I dont pay for it. I live in Nashville. Im age 34 male. What do I need to do be sucessfull on there? &x200B; | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to have sucess on Feeld App. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18eqtrw/how_to_have_sucess_on_feeld_app/ |
EaglesCheesesteak | 2023-11-17 20:55:46 | 1,700,254,546 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 17xoty2 | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17xoty2/looking_for_a_matchmaker_on_a_budget/ | 1 | I'm 23, live in New Jersey, and been finding it difficult to get a girlfriend when I go to bars, gyms, a community College, other places and events, and I even find it difficult to get a match on dating sites. I'm looking for a matchmaker to match me with someone. But I researched that matchmakers charge between $5,000... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Looking for a Matchmaker on a Budget | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17xoty2/looking_for_a_matchmaker_on_a_budget/ |
AnnoyedGirl11 | 2021-04-07 12:43:05 | 1,617,799,385 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | mm17c7 | true | Venting | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mm17c7/please_help_how_do_i_get_over_being_ghosted_by/ | 1 | I (F, 22Y) met a guy (M, 22Y) off a dating app around May last year and we hit it off instantly and began talking every single day non-stop. Kind of knew who he was because we had distant mutual friends, but I’d never spoken to him personally before. But yeah we hit it off straight away, like we always had things to ta... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Please help, how do I get over being ghosted by someone I’ve known for almost a year?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mm17c7/please_help_how_do_i_get_over_being_ghosted_by/ |
throw8573 | 2022-08-05 17:25:12 | 1,659,720,312 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | wh16a8 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wh16a8/at_what_point_in_dating_do_you_expect_more_effort/ | 1 | I've (25F) been dating this guy (27M) I met on Hinge for about a month now. We've been on about 5 dates now, and I feel like I'm not seeing effort from him. We both initiate texting/dates about 50/50, but usually he'll just ask to hang out at his place. When I suggest we go out and do something together he's always dow... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | At what point in dating do you expect more effort? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wh16a8/at_what_point_in_dating_do_you_expect_more_effort/ |
blckmlss | 2023-09-06 06:57:59 | 1,693,983,479 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16bd5ok | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16bd5ok/went_on_a_date_w_a_guy_how_do_i_tell_him_im_a/ | 1 | 23F. I’ve never been in a relationship and in fact I’m super insecure. I met this guy on a dating app and decided to see him irl, being sure he wouldn’t even like me but it looks like he did. He’s super handsome and I can tell that he’s been with a lot of girls and he’s hinted a couple of times that he’s interested in ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Went on a date w/ a guy. How do I tell him I’m a virgin? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16bd5ok/went_on_a_date_w_a_guy_how_do_i_tell_him_im_a/ |
Cyboran | 2023-09-19 03:34:15 | 1,695,094,455 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 16mg9pb | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16mg9pb/looking_for_advice_on_what_to_do_now/ | 1 | For context - I am 30M, and just over two years ago I had to end a relationship of 7 years because I could no longer handle her. I won't go into details about that, but it resulted in a series of events that has left me far more socially anxious than before. One thing to note, I am profoundly deaf with an implant so I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Looking for advice on what to do now | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16mg9pb/looking_for_advice_on_what_to_do_now/ |
DeluxeSSG | 2019-08-12 07:04:24 | 1,565,593,464 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cp8uqt | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cp8uqt/honestly_i_dont_even_know_where_to_start/ | 12 | Most of my dating finds are through Tinder because well I don't have the confidence to go just talk to someone in person and I'm terrible with conversations. In text, I can cope better. That's why apps have been better to me I'm [23M] btw, really tall, kinda average looking I suppose. I have gone on several dates over ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Honestly, I don't even know where to start | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cp8uqt/honestly_i_dont_even_know_where_to_start/ |
anthema25 | 2017-12-30 03:11:08 | 1,514,603,468 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7mz5hr | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7mz5hr/online_dating_when_to_ask_someone_outfor_numbers/ | 1 | Hey, M 21 here, I am new to this whole single thing and I have no idea how early is too early to ask people out, or for phone numbers on apps like Tinder. I usually wait too long because I really don't want to be seen as a creep, and I think the person I'm talking to just loses interest because I'm not good at texting,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online Dating, When to ask someone out/for numbers? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7mz5hr/online_dating_when_to_ask_someone_outfor_numbers/ |
jakebiden | 2024-01-11 03:48:28 | 1,704,944,908 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 193s6cu | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/193s6cu/do_girls_get_the_ick_or_become_disinterested_when/ | 1 | (22M) ive notice a common trend on my dating app chat interactions. Even the girls who text first to show interest, the moment I respond or say something that is a little thoughtful, it is followed by ghosting. Even then, a lot of my matches are also very dry, couple word texts. I’m usually the type of person that hate... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do girls get the ick or become disinterested when a guy shows interest via texting on dating apps? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/193s6cu/do_girls_get_the_ick_or_become_disinterested_when/ |
Jump27123 | 2021-08-22 23:14:47 | 1,629,674,087 | null | ['matches', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'eharmony'] | 0 | p9na8r | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p9na8r/bumble_or_time_to_upgrade/ | 2 | So a little about me 26f have been on bumble and hinge for over a year. I live in Orlando, so high traffic tourist area. So it’s hard to be on bumble even if my profile says locals only. I requested my bumble data and have had only 65 matches( handful never responded and some where just looking for hookups)I have gone ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Bumble or time to upgrade? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p9na8r/bumble_or_time_to_upgrade/ |
uncomfortableqs3 | 2021-10-10 15:05:04 | 1,633,878,304 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | q59rcj | true | I Need Advice | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/q59rcj/the_kindest_way_to_handle_an_unfortunate_situation/ | 1 | So I met this person online dating over a month ago and we have had two dates in that time. We have been texting most days in between that and though it is very friendly, there not a strong romantic spark but I wasn't sure if it was just too early for that for me. We went on our third date this weekend and at the end o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The kindest way to handle an unfortunate situation | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/q59rcj/the_kindest_way_to_handle_an_unfortunate_situation/ |
Smart-Emu5581 | 2023-06-07 18:13:55 | 1,686,161,635 | 0 | null | 0 | 143kjq2 | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/143kjq2/either_the_best_or_the_worst_profile_picture_ever/ | 20 | I got annoyed by how you are supposed to have sports pictures, pet pictures, etc. in your profile. So I decided to make a joke out of it and photoshopped a meme that combines travel, adventure, group photo, pet photo, formal wear and tech skills all in one picture. This is either the best or the worst idea for dating I... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Either the best or the worst profile picture ever | 20 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/143kjq2/either_the_best_or_the_worst_profile_picture_ever/ |
urChic | 2024-01-10 06:08:42 | 1,704,866,922 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1931emu | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1931emu/how_should_i_react_and_what_should_i_do/ | 1 | I met this guy I really like but he has to move out of state because of his legal status and a new job is sponsoring him over there. I am very upset, he is as well, but we both understand that this is the best option for him. I’ve been a bit distant today and an hour ago he sent me 3 screenshots of dating apps and they... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How should I react and what should I do? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1931emu/how_should_i_react_and_what_should_i_do/ |
libadelleXO | 2023-10-25 17:54:26 | 1,698,256,466 | 0 | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | 17garwx | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17garwx/my_love_life_is_a_disaster/ | 1 | I’m a 23 yr old transsexual female living in Georgia, I know the odds are against me finding a decent guy but I’ve been holding out hope, I’ve just developed really gnarly trust issues, I’ve been lied to and denied love so much that I fear I’m becoming bitter and overly suspicious when someone shows interest in me, I o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My love life is a disaster | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17garwx/my_love_life_is_a_disaster/ |
Usual_Yellow | 2019-10-06 02:05:26 | 1,570,327,526 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | ddx3jp | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ddx3jp/what_to_do_about_dating_anxiety/ | 1 | As the title says, I’m wondering if anyone has any advice about dating anxiety. I’m 22 and have never been in a relationship before. I’ve never had a bad dating experience before so I’m not really sure why I have so much anxiety about dating. It might be from the fact that I’ve only been on like 2 dates in my whole 22 ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to do about dating anxiety?? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ddx3jp/what_to_do_about_dating_anxiety/ |
Luizg825 | 2022-07-24 00:55:23 | 1,658,624,123 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | w6j10t | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w6j10t/she_ignored_me_and_now_i_feel_so_sad/ | 2 | I met with this girl from tinder and our date was great, she even told me that she wanted a second date but unfortunately I got sick for a week and now that I'm better she just started to ignore me. I don't know why she is doing this or what to do and right now I'm felling really sad because I really like her. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She ignored me and now I feel so sad | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w6j10t/she_ignored_me_and_now_i_feel_so_sad/ |
plshelpmeh284 | 2023-08-20 08:17:40 | 1,692,519,460 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15w5ll0 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15w5ll0/need_good_advice_with_this_girl_i_am_trying_to/ | 1 | So I, M21 am no social butterfly. Its really hard for me to find a girl that matches my criteria in this day and age, and im not very demanding BUT I finally met a girl (22 y.o.), through an instagram. Its also worth noting that i dont get very much matches on dating apps (i had old pics and i wasnt the most handsome, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need good advice with this girl I am trying to date. It is a little bit longer but srsly want some support and help with this situation. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15w5ll0/need_good_advice_with_this_girl_i_am_trying_to/ |
GarlicBroad1727 | 2023-03-01 20:51:25 | 1,677,703,885 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 11fhnzo | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11fhnzo/need_dm_or_tinder_openers/ | 0 | Try this out: https://youtube.com/shorts/qXLgazDSD4A?feature=share | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need dm or tinder openers? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11fhnzo/need_dm_or_tinder_openers/ |
acinorev36 | 2024-05-29 13:08:02 | 1,716,988,082 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d3bs89 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d3bs89/dating_advice/ | 1 | I really am shy and not social at all no dating apps I don’t drink alcohol I don’t go out to party and I am very private as a person. I really like to go on a friendship date with Sam Heughan (if he is still single) I know it will never happen but how do I even meet new people…etc….Please don’t be mean it took a lot of... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d3bs89/dating_advice/ |
alonewithpippin | 2019-08-16 08:50:47 | 1,565,945,447 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | cr3ny3 | true | Discussion | 66 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/cr3ny3/cannot_relate_is_it_just_me/ | 17 | I've been writing and re-writing this to try to make it coherent. Sorry if it gets long. (question and little bit venting) I look at a lot of the dating and relationship subs trying to find help for myself, but none of it seems to relate to me. It's all people asking where to even meet people, or how to approach someon... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Cannot Relate - Is It Just Me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/cr3ny3/cannot_relate_is_it_just_me/ |
jxnva | 2024-06-17 22:32:55 | 1,718,663,575 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1dib1lj | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dib1lj/advice_on_patience/ | 1 | I recently went through a breakup of a 2.5 year relationship, it’s been 3 months. I still loved him when I ended it, but I had tried working on serious issues in the relationship for a long time and he wasn’t able to change or grow. I accept the loss of my partner and don’t want him back. My friend recently showed me h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice on patience? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dib1lj/advice_on_patience/ |
slut4dietcoke_ | 2023-06-29 07:13:50 | 1,688,022,830 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 14ly2ta | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14ly2ta/my_25f_new_boyfriend_25m_revealed_to_me_he_just/ | 1 | We met on a dating app and have been talking for about two months. He revealed to me that he got out of a six year relationship in January. I can’t help but think he might still have feelings for her as they’re still friends. He recently asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes, but now I’m having doubts. What are ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My (25F) new boyfriend (25M) revealed to me he just got out of a lonerm relationship six months ago… | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14ly2ta/my_25f_new_boyfriend_25m_revealed_to_me_he_just/ |
ObligatoryTA | 2016-05-25 18:22:25 | 1,464,200,545 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 4l12sx | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/4l12sx/reconnecting_with_ex_via_text/ | 1 | I'm trying to reconnect with an ex of 6 months that I regrettably dumped about 3 months ago. I was acting needy, and dumped her when I wasn't getting the attention I wanted. I immediately tried to back out of it. Not happening. Tried reaching out again a month later, it worked. We had a fun date and she actually sugges... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Reconnecting with ex via text... | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4l12sx/reconnecting_with_ex_via_text/ |
ty457u | 2022-03-17 02:36:51 | 1,647,484,611 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | tfzwue | true | Question | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tfzwue/should_i_shoot_my_shot/ | 0 | Hey guys, so I just found my husband on Bumble just now. He lives in another city and in my city currently. Like he is the man I’ve been wanting I found him on social media and want message him. I don’t know how the bumble algorithms work but I superswiped him too (first time doing this Haha). Would you guys find it we... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I shoot my shot? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tfzwue/should_i_shoot_my_shot/ |
RichHomieLon | 2019-07-01 03:23:44 | 1,561,951,424 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | c7nhhx | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c7nhhx/have_had_hinge_for_less_than_a_week_ive_already/ | 5 | about this time a week ago i was getting past the unexpected breakup of a brief relationship that had started over tinder with a woman in my college state. we had been long-distance for about a month before closing the gap on a beach trip with myself, her and her friends (which i thought was a dumb idea from the start)... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | have had Hinge for less than a week and i’ve already sworn off tinder/bumble | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c7nhhx/have_had_hinge_for_less_than_a_week_ive_already/ |
HyunCha | 2018-08-17 06:23:58 | 1,534,487,038 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 97zy18 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/97zy18/where_did_you_guys_meet_your_so/ | 3 | I’m just curious and wondering where you first met someone who ended up being your boyfriend/girlfriend (whether or not you’re still together). I feel like the potential of meeting anyone you would end up dating is very limited—places such as school, work (if allowed), wherever else you hang out, and through apps (thou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where did you guys meet your SO? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/97zy18/where_did_you_guys_meet_your_so/ |
Rhymjim | 2022-05-05 01:37:04 | 1,651,714,624 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | uim4pt | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uim4pt/question_about_first_dates/ | 1 | So I recently went on a date with someone from tinder and it was pretty fun. I normally go on dates with women that I've known for a bit and they've shown interest in me but this was the first time I've gone out with someone that I didn't know. My question is, is it common to not have romantic feelings for someone afte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Question about first dates | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uim4pt/question_about_first_dates/ |
giraffelover521 | 2020-07-30 00:31:38 | 1,596,069,098 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | i0c7wb | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/i0c7wb/if_a_woman_says_that_shes_coming_out_of_a/ | 19 | What does it make you think? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | If a woman says that she's coming out of a relationship when talking to you on a dating app, how does that make you feel? | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/i0c7wb/if_a_woman_says_that_shes_coming_out_of_a/ |
jovialbinkie | 2024-06-23 03:50:03 | 1,719,114,603 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dmddg7 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dmddg7/everyone_is_dating_but_not_getting_dates/ | 1 | I'm slowly but surely getting more and more defeated about dating...im only 22F have dated one person for only 3 months and idk im having serious fomo for a lot of aspects of my life. Initially i thought i never had a serious relationship because i didn't seek one out, but now everyone tells me that love finds you inst... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Everyone is Dating but Not getting Dates | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dmddg7/everyone_is_dating_but_not_getting_dates/ |
One_Proof_7589 | 2024-09-05 16:36:49 | 1,725,554,209 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1f9qvyl | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f9qvyl/trying_to_get_into_dating/ | 3 | I'm a 20yo male and only just recently feeling like I'm ready to start dating. I've never had a girlfriend, never even kissed or held hands, so absolutly no experience. The problem is that I'm very shy. Once I open up to someone I let my crazy show, but it takes a while to get me out of my shell. Whenever I see someone... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Trying to get into dating | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f9qvyl/trying_to_get_into_dating/ |
DeadGirlTalking_13 | 2021-04-28 00:23:25 | 1,619,569,405 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | n02lar | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/n02lar/should_i_apologize_or_leave_it/ | 9 | So I’m struggling in my mind with something and I don’t know what to do. Last year I met a person OLD and started seeing them pretty regularly. I really kind of fell for them, they were the first person I’ve even remotely felt a connection with in a long time. I guess I got up in my feelings and they seemed really into... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Should I Apologize Or Leave It? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/n02lar/should_i_apologize_or_leave_it/ |
jepapilex | 2021-01-18 19:02:39 | 1,610,996,559 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | l01795 | true | Question | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/l01795/dating_apps_are_destroying_the_dating_world/ | 0 | So I have a theory: Online dating apps are inflating the egos of all of the women on there and are making the men on there incredibly insecure about their looks. What this is doing is completing distorting the dating 'market' because a guy that is a 7.5/8 will settle for a girl that is a 5 (looks wise). Shouldn't men a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps are destroying the dating world? | null | 0.36 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l01795/dating_apps_are_destroying_the_dating_world/ |
kaylintendo | 2020-04-15 00:57:07 | 1,586,912,227 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | g1hvo2 | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g1hvo2/when_is_an_appropriate_time_to_ask_the_person/ | 1 | I posted this to r/tinder but I think it applies to here too. This probably applies more to people you’ve met off of dating apps. I know there’s an unspoken truth that anyone using these apps will most likely have several people they talk to, and there’s inherently nothing wrong with that. My fear comes from unintentio... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When is an appropriate time to ask the person you’re dating if they are talking to/dating anyone else? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g1hvo2/when_is_an_appropriate_time_to_ask_the_person/ |
akabayashimizuki | 2023-03-27 07:00:52 | 1,679,900,452 | null | null | 0 | 123efhi | true | null | 76 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/123efhi/women_who_enjoy_online_dating_what_is_your/ | 31 | I’m 29F looking for a relationship. The apps give me so much anxiety it’s ridiculous. You never know when someone is going to turn on you and say something hurtful, or unmatch because you haven’t replied quickly enough. It’s difficult to keep up with matches, but you have to make a lot because at least half of them wil... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Women who enjoy online dating, what is your approach? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/123efhi/women_who_enjoy_online_dating_what_is_your/ |
lucylovesdogs | 2018-12-23 21:30:47 | 1,545,600,647 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | a8ykay | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a8ykay/should_i_send_him_a_text_now_or_wait_until_he/ | 2 | I’ve been messaging a guy on Hinge and he’s away for the next week for the holidays. We planned to meet up when he gets back. He’ll be back a week from today and sent me his phone number over the app. I don’t know if I should send him a text now so he has my number or wait until closer to next weekend when he’s back in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I send him a text now or wait until he gets back in town? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a8ykay/should_i_send_him_a_text_now_or_wait_until_he/ |
ckfretty | 2019-08-31 17:37:52 | 1,567,273,072 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cxy7ee | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cxy7ee/i_24f_like_him_but_im_not_attracted_to_him_26m/ | 1 | I recently met a man on Tinder. We connected right from the start from his first message to me. Essentially it's like we have the exact same personality and we completely get each other. We had talked every day for a few weeks before meeting up due to our work schedules. For a little extra info I'm not a skinny woman. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [24F] like him but I'm not attracted to him [26M] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cxy7ee/i_24f_like_him_but_im_not_attracted_to_him_26m/ |
Josh_Eh | 2013-10-23 01:28:05 | 1,382,491,685 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1p0pfw | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1p0pfw/really_wanting_to_add_a_girl_i_like_on_facebook/ | 1 | There's a somewhat complicated story behind this, but I'll explain anyway. So, almost two years ago during my freshman year of college I discovered that online dating websites exist. Out of curiosity, I go to Geek2Geek and look for people in my area. Only one person with a picture shows up who lives in the same town as... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Really wanting to add a girl I like on Facebook, but... | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1p0pfw/really_wanting_to_add_a_girl_i_like_on_facebook/ |
illectronic1 | 2015-03-27 16:27:06 | 1,427,473,626 | 0 | null | 0 | 30i7v5 | null | null | 3 | null | /r/OnlineDating/comments/30i7v5/girls_being_hesitant_to_meet_up/ | 2 | So I have been coming across this a lot. I am texting and talking on the phone with 3 different girls and none of them want to meet up. They are scared or something, I'm not sure. One was even self conscious about talking on the phone. All of these girls are in their mid 20's. What is the deal with this? Am I doing any... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Girls being hesitant to meet up | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/30i7v5/girls_being_hesitant_to_meet_up/ |
[deleted] | 2015-03-29 00:23:31 | 1,427,588,611 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 30nih6 | null | null | 3 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/30nih6/male_colleague_is_dumb_when_it_comes_to_dating/ | 4 | I liked him but the feelings were one-sided. He is a great guy, and I want him to finally find someone he likes, but he is pathetic at dating. I feel really bad for him. He is in his thirties, still single and I know his online dating account and check on it from time to time just to see if he found anyone. And he hasn... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Male colleague is dumb when it comes to dating and understanding women, can/should I help him? How? | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/30nih6/male_colleague_is_dumb_when_it_comes_to_dating/ |
tealjam | 2019-03-27 01:59:39 | 1,553,651,979 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | b5ykr6 | true | null | 114 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/b5ykr6/do_people_on_old_look_their_stated_age_to_you/ | 41 | When I’m looking through men’s photos on OLD, I am constantly questioning the ages stated on profiles. I know aging can manifest wildly over 35, but in the age range I’m looking at, 40-50, nearly everyone looks much older. About 1-2 out of 10 look the age they say they are. For some, I can tell they’ve had a rough life... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Do people on OLD look their stated age to you? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/b5ykr6/do_people_on_old_look_their_stated_age_to_you/ |
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