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gmack2547 | 2021-08-24 09:55:44 | 1,629,798,944 | null | null | 0 | pak6xo | true | null | 57 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/pak6xo/explain_ghostingwhy/ | 0 | So out of sheer curiosity I’m curious…for those of us who have ghosted or ghost folks once they reach there usefulness would you mind explaining why you do it? Context of the situation would be great too | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Explain ghosting/why | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/pak6xo/explain_ghostingwhy/ |
[deleted] | 2019-10-03 20:24:44 | 1,570,134,284 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | dcwlus | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dcwlus/need_advice_i_21m_have_been_hit_up_by_a_cam_girl/ | 0 | Not really sure if I should post this here or in another sub, but we'll find out, I suppose. So, I'm a 21 male in college. I downloaded Tinder a few months ago mostly just to see if anything would happen (spoiler: nothing did). I recently matched with a girl. Almost immediately the conversation was sexual and flirty. E... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need Advice: I [21M] Have Been Hit up by a Cam Girl to do Some Vids | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dcwlus/need_advice_i_21m_have_been_hit_up_by_a_cam_girl/ |
tralalalalalalalala4 | 2016-05-30 18:00:43 | 1,464,631,243 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 4lqqyd | null | null | 11 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4lqqyd/how_do_you_find_the_nice_guys_on_online_dating/ | 0 | obviously you can only talk to them and see. everyone's an individual. sure. but what are some ways you know to filter out potential narcissists, and filter in truly egalitarian, warm, empathetic men? in an online context. signs to look for, language to use. there are obvious tells (grandiose statements, just sounds do... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | how do you find the nice guys on online dating sites? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4lqqyd/how_do_you_find_the_nice_guys_on_online_dating/ |
Perfect_Cranberry597 | 2023-11-02 18:51:30 | 1,698,951,090 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17map2f | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17map2f/what_is_the_best_way_to_find_someone_you/ | 1 | So I just turned 24(F) on Tuesday and it got me thinking about my love life/romantic side of things. I have no love life, I certainly have crushes and things like that, but I haven’t truly ever connected with anyone. I didn’t go on my first date until I was 19, and it wasn’t that good. I haven’t been on a date in 3 yea... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What is the best way to find someone you like/potentially want to be in a relationship with? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17map2f/what_is_the_best_way_to_find_someone_you/ |
concrete-perspective | 2024-09-03 14:03:13 | 1,725,372,193 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1f80r3m | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f80r3m/for_real_though_how_does_a_friendless_unemployed/ | 1 | I am 28 years old, and haven't been in a relationship in close to 3 years now. I am diagnosed with autism, and although by any standard I'm very high-functioning, I still struggle with social and crowded situations. I'm very introverted and generally don't find much enjoyment in being around other people unless they're... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | For real though: How does a friendless, unemployed, autistic man supposed to find love? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f80r3m/for_real_though_how_does_a_friendless_unemployed/ |
brian122040 | 2022-03-06 21:37:09 | 1,646,602,629 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | t8931a | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t8931a/is_he_not_really_interested_in_me/ | 0 | I (23M) met him (19M) on dating app. We hit it off so we went on a date. I thought the date went well and he messaged me saying he had a great time as well. So far he’s the only date that I really like so I texted him the next day asking if he wanna hang out again. He didn’t reply until a day after. He said he was busy... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he not really interested in me? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t8931a/is_he_not_really_interested_in_me/ |
sir_lance_alot12 | 2020-06-14 19:46:53 | 1,592,164,013 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | h90clh | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/h90clh/online_dating/ | 1 | Has online dating worked well for youngsters? I have tried hinge, okcupid, and tinder for the past couple of weeks and only have 1 match in total. Any tips? (I'm 19 btw) | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/h90clh/online_dating/ |
No_Dig_3005 | 2022-05-04 11:44:09 | 1,651,664,649 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | ui4n6k | true | I Need Advice | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ui4n6k/send_the_message_to_the_boy_who_ignoring_me_for_a/ | 8 | bumble boy is on a trip and ignoring me for a few days. Im planning to text him "are you enjoying? I miss you😭" is it annoying? Because if I don't do anything, perhaps he never texts me again right?? What do you think about it???? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Send the message to the boy who ignoring me for a few days | null | 0.61 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ui4n6k/send_the_message_to_the_boy_who_ignoring_me_for_a/ |
Cautious-Tip-1091 | 2024-07-06 06:58:35 | 1,720,249,115 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dwjoq5 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dwjoq5/what_problem_people_are_facing_on_dating_apps/ | 2 | I was wondering what problems people are facing on a dating app and what they would want them to include in their apps. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What problem people are facing on dating apps | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dwjoq5/what_problem_people_are_facing_on_dating_apps/ |
throwavroom | 2017-04-08 05:03:08 | 1,491,627,788 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 645e2h | null | null | 26 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/645e2h/22m_never_dated_a_girl_in_my_life/ | 20 | So needless to say I am a virgin. The most I've had is probably dancing with random girls at parties and around 2 making out sessions. Basically nothing. I am an engineering major about to graduate and the main problem has just been the lack of opportunities. I don't even have many friends that are girls. Even in HS I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [22M] Never dated a girl in my life | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/645e2h/22m_never_dated_a_girl_in_my_life/ |
SAILOR_SEEKS_MERMAID | 2014-04-03 06:32:36 | 1,396,506,756 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 22317r | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/22317r/28m_i_had_two_lovely_evenings_in_a_row_with_her/ | 1 | Hey, I'm back again, with a new name. Last week I went out with a girl I had met on Tinder. We grabbed drinks, really hit it off, found out that we share a lot of interests, and decided to go back to my place. She stayed over, it was intimate, we didn't have sex, but we couldn't stop making out and staring at each othe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [28M] I had two lovely evenings in a row with her [26F] then she disappeared. | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/22317r/28m_i_had_two_lovely_evenings_in_a_row_with_her/ |
Lionsandtigersandbp | 2016-07-11 15:45:43 | 1,468,251,943 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 4sbkc3 | null | null | 31 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4sbkc3/i_went_to_a_random_tinder_guys_apartment_and_it/ | 0 | I just need to get this off my chest. I'm not exactly sure what I was expecting. I mean, I didn't really think that "watching a movie" was really only going to be "watching a movie. I ended up having sex with the guy. At first it was fine. It was fun. But he didn't listen to me when I said I wasn't up for round two. I ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I went to a random tinder guy's apartment and it went really badly | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4sbkc3/i_went_to_a_random_tinder_guys_apartment_and_it/ |
MasdevalliaLove | 2020-04-20 13:36:40 | 1,587,389,800 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | g4swmf | true | null | 160 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/g4swmf/how_to_be_authenticvulnerable_without_coming_on/ | 196 | Edit: this has gotten far more replies than I expected. Thank you to everyone who has offered advice, constructive criticism and support. I really appreciate it, especially identifying my blind spots, where I set myself up for failure and ways I can strenhen myself to avoid this in the future. To anyone new to the disc... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How to be authentic/vulnerable without coming on “too strong.” | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/g4swmf/how_to_be_authenticvulnerable_without_coming_on/ |
Mommabettor91 | 2022-12-23 20:51:26 | 1,671,828,686 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ztsb3y | true | Question ❓ | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ztsb3y/funny_dating_app_question/ | 3 | What is an “interesting” reason that you have been unmatched on a dating app? I’ll go first…a guy unmatched me because I’ve apparently been single for “too” long😂 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Funny Dating App Question | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ztsb3y/funny_dating_app_question/ |
wnbaloll | 2014-11-08 07:48:06 | 1,415,432,886 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2lnpzn | null | null | 25 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2lnpzn/how_are_you_supposed_to_end_a_date_if_it_starts/ | 15 | I just got back from a sort of date. I assumed it was a meet up for hooking up because we met from Tinder but she had a different idea. I drove to her house and knocked on her door. She opened the door in a way that invited me in, but when I started to walk she started pushing me out. This girl was nothing like her pic... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How are you supposed to end a date if it starts going badly? | 15 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2lnpzn/how_are_you_supposed_to_end_a_date_if_it_starts/ |
mattcantsurf | 2022-05-08 15:00:48 | 1,652,022,048 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ul3k42 | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ul3k42/women_what_are_the_most_played_out_intro_lines/ | 1 | I always feel like I’m all set after I get through the initial intro, but with tons of competition out there saying similar things potentially, it can be tough. I would love to avoid some of these pitfall introductions if at all possible. So, what are some common intros that just seem painfully boring or repetitive? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Women: what are the most played out intro lines you get on dating apps? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ul3k42/women_what_are_the_most_played_out_intro_lines/ |
Snogafrog | 2020-08-29 23:58:05 | 1,598,745,485 | null | null | 0 | ij3007 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ij3007/do_any_men_bother_responding_to_no_photo_profiles/ | 6 | M53. I kind of assume those profiles are people just looking, but curious if: 1) Any men out there bothers responding to them 2) If anyone has had a relationship or even a date IRL with someone whose profile did not include any photos. thanks Edit some people don’t know what CIS and hetero mean so removed that part. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Do any men bother responding to no photo profiles? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ij3007/do_any_men_bother_responding_to_no_photo_profiles/ |
BigAssPizzaPocket | 2024-01-27 23:17:27 | 1,706,397,447 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1acnybi | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1acnybi/dating_app_struggles/ | 2 | So I’m caught between a rock and a hard place. So, to preface, I’m autistic. Basically, a decade ago it would’ve been Asperger’s, but they combined the criteria. This makes it extremely difficult for me to meet potential dates in person first. The combination of that mixed with anxiety make it to where if I’m in public... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app struggles | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1acnybi/dating_app_struggles/ |
rasbperr1 | 2023-11-17 11:38:00 | 1,700,221,080 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17xd5z3 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17xd5z3/i_got_ghosted_from_a_guy_i_like_and_i_dont_know/ | 1 | So I got to know him on dating app who is a university student in United States, and we have been talking around months, and recently he asked me to share his personal phone numbers because he said he is deleting app soon, but he continue to talk with me via text though he knew that I live far away. He said he wanted t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I got ghosted from a guy I like and I don't know what to do | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17xd5z3/i_got_ghosted_from_a_guy_i_like_and_i_dont_know/ |
PastSelect | 2023-09-30 22:50:18 | 1,696,114,218 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | 16wkguf | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16wkguf/i_have_way_more_luck_online_dating_than_real_life/ | 1 | I have been thinking about this for quite a while now. I somehow have way more luck regarding online dating, I get a lot of really nice matches and compliments, than in real life. I actually have never gotten any attention by men during clubbing or in general. Everyone tells me that real life dating is so much better a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have way more luck online dating than real life dating (F26) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16wkguf/i_have_way_more_luck_online_dating_than_real_life/ |
doodledeedle01 | 2018-09-23 01:46:17 | 1,537,667,177 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 9i4x7p | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9i4x7p/guy_deleted_his_account_after_we_had_a_good/ | 1 | Basically what it says in the title. I don't post things like this often (hence the throwaway), but this was kind of a mind fuck out of nowhere. I \[24F\] matched with a guy (I think 28M) on Bumble this am, messaged him and found that we have similar interests, including related career interests. We talked for a bit th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy deleted his account after we had a good conversation? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9i4x7p/guy_deleted_his_account_after_we_had_a_good/ |
GamerGurl3980 | 2022-02-26 19:27:40 | 1,645,903,660 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | t24ykk | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/t24ykk/update_i_set_a_boundary_with_a_guy_and_he/ | 23 | Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/syudqh/i_set_a_boundary_with_a_guy_and_he_canceled_our/?utm_medium=android_appandutm_source=share So for the people who didn't see the post a few days ago; basically I matched with 3 guys (I only mentioned 2 of them in the post though) on Bumble after tak... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | (UPDATE) I set a boundary with a guy and he canceled our date | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/t24ykk/update_i_set_a_boundary_with_a_guy_and_he/ |
Zerilina | 2019-01-17 14:14:15 | 1,547,734,455 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | agy5is | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/agy5is/i_20f_had_a_great_first_date_but_no_sign_of_the/ | 1 | Recently, I was on a date with this guy [24M] I met on OkCupid. The date went smoothly, we went to a public area, we had fun, talked constantly, ate together, etc. I did not make any sexual comments or any sexual moves. We actually didn't kiss. I'm guessing he respected that I didn't make any sexy moves or anything too... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [20F] had a great first date, but no sign of the second yet.. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/agy5is/i_20f_had_a_great_first_date_but_no_sign_of_the/ |
anameorsomething90 | 2023-11-05 19:00:49 | 1,699,210,849 | 0 | null | 0 | 17oiyj0 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17oiyj0/ways_to_deal_with_slow_responders_bad_texters/ | 1 | I often find that some girls are particularly bad for responding to messages. I might get 1 reply per day and that's it. Makes it hard to get things going. Normally I give up but a few months ago I decided to be persistent for the fun of it. It took a few weeks but we eventually met and she was amazing in person. Ended... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ways to deal with slow responders / bad texters? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17oiyj0/ways_to_deal_with_slow_responders_bad_texters/ |
mashedpotato92 | 2016-08-31 23:45:20 | 1,472,687,120 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 50k9wr | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/50k9wr/how_to_meet_people_in_real_life_for_datespossibly/ | 1 | The dating world is literally taken over by apps these days. I mean, I regularly use a dating app which I won't name, and have scored A LOT of dates/hookups etc off it. Some have lasted for a short period of time, others have been one night things. All of that I was totally fine with. I'm at the point of my life now th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to meet people IN REAL LIFE for dates/possibly something more serious? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/50k9wr/how_to_meet_people_in_real_life_for_datespossibly/ |
themanwithnoname86 | 2023-07-11 20:32:18 | 1,689,107,538 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 14x2m1c | false | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14x2m1c/what_dating_sites_do_you_have_the_most_luck_with/ | 1 | As the headline says, curious which sites you have the most luck with. This question has probably been asked before but don't feel like scrolling. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What dating sites do you have the most luck with? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14x2m1c/what_dating_sites_do_you_have_the_most_luck_with/ |
intrigued_beth13 | 2024-01-09 17:04:06 | 1,704,819,846 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'pof'] | 0 | 192jkc9 | true | Question ❓ | 214 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/192jkc9/which_app_is_the_best_in_your_opinion_what_have/ | 166 | My friends usually say Bumble is good, but I found out about other apps like NADA Hinge and POF. I just know Tinder and Bumble have the most people using them need your advice | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Which app is the best in your opinion? What have you guys had most success with? | 166 | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/192jkc9/which_app_is_the_best_in_your_opinion_what_have/ |
Dee-Peoples-Champion | 2021-04-05 23:35:17 | 1,617,665,717 | null | null | 0 | mky1bt | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mky1bt/photo_help/ | 1 | I got professional pictures done. I only want to use one of the headshot for my first photo. The problem is that the background is white and it is unnatural. I look good but it is not a candid. All my other photos will be candids. Thoughts? I’m a guy in his mid 20s | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Photo help | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mky1bt/photo_help/ |
Better_Froyo_3031 | 2023-05-21 06:26:37 | 1,684,650,397 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 13nl15c | true | null | 261 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13nl15c/dating_in_2023/ | 527 | So I (m23) met this girl (f23) on tinder and we really hit it off. Messages were fun, even though I let her know right off the bat that im a horrible texter. We had an awesome first couple of dates and spent the night together. Nothing physical because she wants to take it slow, and I am 100% okay with that. I let her ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | “Dating” in 2023 | 527 | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13nl15c/dating_in_2023/ |
DeviantKhan | 2017-12-29 20:30:09 | 1,514,579,409 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 7mwteq | false | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7mwteq/whats_the_realistic_minimum_for_old/ | 1 | I don't have a lot of good pictures, but I can put together 2 or 3 of them. Is that enough with a decent summary about yourself? Are certain apps better with less details? If so, what pictures would you prioritize if only posting 2 or 3? I was just thinking of putting something out. Are there any disadvantages to this ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What's the realistic minimum for OLD? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7mwteq/whats_the_realistic_minimum_for_old/ |
scully_2024 | 2024-09-02 10:24:48 | 1,725,272,688 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1f73dpg | true | Question ❓ | 59 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1f73dpg/tinder_first_date_end_up_with_intense_oral_sex/ | 40 | I met a guy on tinder last week, and we are both looking for short-term fun. We went to a hotel and did everything there. I was expecting a regular sex but the feeling and touching is so intense and felt so good. He went down on me and ate me up. We had three times a night. He also licked my ass. The second morning he ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | tinder first date end up with intense oral sex | 40 | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f73dpg/tinder_first_date_end_up_with_intense_oral_sex/ |
Swimming-Fast | 2021-09-19 07:22:20 | 1,632,036,140 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | pr3dp7 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pr3dp7/online_dating_asked_out_early_on/ | 3 | Wanted to get some general advice on this. Matched with a girl in an OLD service and opened/exchanged some light banter. Asked her out to a local tea spot and an hour later she replied that she liked to get to know people through messaging before meeting in person. Not sure if I should pursue any further at this point ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online Dating - Asked out early on | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pr3dp7/online_dating_asked_out_early_on/ |
mrs_robot2208 | 2021-02-18 20:50:25 | 1,613,681,425 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | lmwv0r | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lmwv0r/is_it_extreme_to_stop_building_a_potential/ | 3 | I (25,f) met this guy (30,m) over a dating app. We’re texting for two weeks now and totally clicked. We have (had) lots in common, made each other laugh, could talk like we knew each other for a lot longer. I really looked forward to seeing him this Sunday, because I had a really great feeling. Up until now. Turns out,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it extreme to stop building a potential relationship with someone over their political opinion regarding another country’s president? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lmwv0r/is_it_extreme_to_stop_building_a_potential/ |
FrootyBop | 2021-06-30 19:35:35 | 1,625,081,735 | null | ['dating apps', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | ob4qtb | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ob4qtb/dating_sites/ | 3 | I'm looking for dating apps/sites that are semi local. For instance I've had a really positive experience with Bumble but I feel like Tinder attracts more a specific type of person and more for hookups. Are there any good dating/sites that are less like Tinder? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating sites | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ob4qtb/dating_sites/ |
Severe-Cap4602 | 2020-09-08 02:20:15 | 1,599,531,615 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | iola6v | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iola6v/im_f_on_tinder_looking_for_a_fwb/ | 0 | ...and I found a guy I really clicked with. He just got out of a relationship, I’m in an open one, we both found each other extremely attractive. Typically, I like to talk via text with my potential hookups for a few meets before meeting to hook up - to make sure they’re not crazy, and also to give us enough of the fri... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m [f] on tinder looking for a FWB... | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iola6v/im_f_on_tinder_looking_for_a_fwb/ |
mitsuha2015 | 2024-05-25 22:51:57 | 1,716,677,517 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1d0nppa | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d0nppa/finding_people_looking_to_date_organically_in_nyc/ | 1 | Does anyone know where I can meet people who are looking to date in nyc that’s not bars/club setting? I’m not 21 and don’t have a fake and I want to meet someone organically but not anyone at my super small art college. My last relationship while I was in nyc I met on hinge and I want to meet someone organically this t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Finding people looking to date organically in nyc under 21 | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d0nppa/finding_people_looking_to_date_organically_in_nyc/ |
Firm-Vegetable1148 | 2023-01-16 22:37:14 | 1,673,908,634 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 10dusjl | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10dusjl/hes_uncertain_about_dating_but_likes_me_now_what/ | 2 | I 23f am seeing a 24m, PhD student. We met on a dating app. It’s been a little over a month, and three great dates. We talk daily, and when we go out we’re out for hours on end. Not intentionally, the time just passes fast. I’m initiating the texts and asking him out. I know he’s busy with school/work, and I’m trying t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He’s uncertain about dating, but likes me. Now what? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10dusjl/hes_uncertain_about_dating_but_likes_me_now_what/ |
ReasonableCornFlakes | 2022-05-09 05:06:02 | 1,652,072,762 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | uljrbv | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uljrbv/weve_been_texting_for_two_months_and_i_dont_know/ | 0 | We met on tinder six months ago, but then we stopped texting each other. Almost two months ago she just texted me out of nowhere and I just went along to see what she wanted. Since then we text everyday. I just wanted to see what she wanted at first but I began to really enjoy our conversations, yet I have no idea stil... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | we've been texting for two months and I don't know what she wants | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uljrbv/weve_been_texting_for_two_months_and_i_dont_know/ |
Longjumping-Date-475 | 2022-03-15 17:45:06 | 1,647,366,306 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | teuthc | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/teuthc/tinderbumble_f26_here_how_often_does_a_woman_look/ | 1 | Hey there. I am a 26 year old woman and I just got out of a long term relationship with my first boyfriend. This is my first time being single as an adult so - dating general, let alone online dating, is a brand new territory for me. My friends convinced me to pay a week of the premium on dating apps just to see the pl... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Tinder/Bumble. F26 here. How often does a woman look like her dating profile photos? | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/teuthc/tinderbumble_f26_here_how_often_does_a_woman_look/ |
crazykat1234 | 2021-04-21 17:58:18 | 1,619,027,898 | null | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | mvle2r | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mvle2r/doesnt_have_time_to_text/ | 4 | Hey all, I started talking to this 27M guy about a month ago on OLD. He was slow to respond to messages- would consistently message me every other day rotating with my responses which I matched to his pace (day one he messages, then day 2 me, then day 3 him). He would send me paragraphs though and I would do the same. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Doesn’t have time to text | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mvle2r/doesnt_have_time_to_text/ |
mchaggy | 2020-09-04 04:47:09 | 1,599,194,829 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | im9nk1 | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/im9nk1/he_says_hes_interested_in_pursuing_a_relationship/ | 12 | Context is we’ve been talking for 6 months and he’s said that I’m special and that he hasn’t felt emotionally connected like this in years. We’re not exclusive but we’ve even talked about meeting each other’s family and future plans. Why would he still be actively following girls on IG and chatting with them on Tinder ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He says he’s interested in pursuing a relationship but still on Tinder. Is he leading me on? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/im9nk1/he_says_hes_interested_in_pursuing_a_relationship/ |
gprldn | 2018-05-02 13:02:19 | 1,525,266,139 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8gh81l | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8gh81l/first_date_advice/ | 0 | I have a first date this evening (via Tinder) and I'm getting anxious. It's been at least a year since my last date and I've kinda just forgotten how to do it? We seem to get along well and have shared interests but an issue I've always had in dating is transitioning from friendship to something more. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date advice | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8gh81l/first_date_advice/ |
MostAssistant | 2018-10-24 00:30:29 | 1,540,341,029 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 9qutdu | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9qutdu/dating_as_a_physically_disabled_man/ | 1 | Hey, so I've been divorced for about a year, I want to start dating again. So I signed up for an online dating service. So, I have a question. I'm disabled, kind of, I have balance issues and use a cane to walk (I was in a car accident). I can't stand for extended periods of time eithere, unless I'm leaning and holding... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating as a physically disabled man. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9qutdu/dating_as_a_physically_disabled_man/ |
dirtbagceo | 2023-04-25 17:07:05 | 1,682,442,425 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 12ypg6t | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12ypg6t/responsiveness_is_very_attractive/ | 10 | I (29F) recently took a break from the apps and reengaged early this year. As a woman looking for an LTR who gets a decent number of matches (5-10ish a across platforms), the 1 way men have stood out to me since I rejoined the apps is by simply being responsive. Probably 9 out of 10 men that I talk to on the apps are e... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Responsiveness is very attractive | 10 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12ypg6t/responsiveness_is_very_attractive/ |
brianjokess | 2019-08-19 03:58:47 | 1,566,187,127 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | csbu1i | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/csbu1i/were_using_each_other_as_rebounds_what_should_i_do/ | 3 | Hey everyone So, I (29M) ended things with my girlfriend (28F) of 5 years about a month ago. I met a girl (26F) on Tinder last week and we hit it off immediately. I’m starting to think we hit it off too well. We’ve slept together every night this week, having sex, going out, spending pretty much every moment we’re not ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | We’re using each other as rebounds. What should I do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/csbu1i/were_using_each_other_as_rebounds_what_should_i_do/ |
Conscious_Shark_2746 | 2021-07-10 09:43:15 | 1,625,910,195 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | ohfr4w | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ohfr4w/how_to_set_up_a_date/ | 2 | I thought I share some Advice that worked for me When you feel like your match’s interest is peaking, it’s time to move things off the dating app – get her number, or ultimately a meetup. You’ll know she’s keen and ready to hand over her digits if she’s sent any of the positive signals described above. Keep in mind tha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to set up a date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ohfr4w/how_to_set_up_a_date/ |
yoshimeex | 2019-12-02 03:14:18 | 1,575,256,458 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | e4sqy5 | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/e4sqy5/at_what_point_is_it_toxic/ | 7 | I get to a new city and start dating. I do well on Tinder and it becomes the only way I really get dates. My first date is this military girl and she’s what I’m looking for: smart, driven, athletic, beautiful, etc. and we have been talking on and off for almost 2 years. We occasionally had sex, she was basically emotio... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | At what point is it toxic? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/e4sqy5/at_what_point_is_it_toxic/ |
Impressive-Prompt-41 | 2023-05-30 02:55:36 | 1,685,415,336 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 13vei9f | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/13vei9f/whirlwind_weekend/ | 46 | I matched with an American who was in my Canadian town for the weekend and we basically had a 3 day date. I know endorphins and the romance of it all are pumping, but is it crazy to entertain the idea of keep talking? He says he has no doubt that we’ll see each other again and we’ve been texting. Are we setting ourselv... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Whirlwind weekend | 46 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/13vei9f/whirlwind_weekend/ |
bootyholeminer | 2019-11-18 20:59:28 | 1,574,110,768 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | dy9ege | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dy9ege/psa_if_you_want_second_dates_from_dating_apps_use/ | 6 | I like curvy women, I'm not attracted to overweight women. When I show up and you clearly took photos at advantageous angles, or slapped a filter on to smooth your skin in bikini photos I'm outta here. There will be guys out there who like you as you are. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | PSA: If you want second dates from dating apps, use realistic pictures of what you look like | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dy9ege/psa_if_you_want_second_dates_from_dating_apps_use/ |
Pure_Product158 | 2023-09-29 22:50:55 | 1,696,027,855 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16vq2hs | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16vq2hs/did_i_do_anything_wrong_to_be_treated_so_harshly/ | 1 | I was dating someone (we are both 24F) and keep thinking I may have done something wrong? She started by being so sweet and kind to hurtful and a mean girl. We went on 4 dates and she randomly brought up the topic of her using the dating app. She is the one who showed interest in me so I was shocked to know she’s still... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I do anything wrong to be treated so harshly? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16vq2hs/did_i_do_anything_wrong_to_be_treated_so_harshly/ |
Codz1290 | 2020-12-14 04:05:47 | 1,607,918,747 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | kcq6z4 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kcq6z4/matched_with_a_friend_on_tinder_need_advice/ | 2 | So a friend and I were co-workers for a year or two, we have had a bit of chemistry and a good connection (flirty all that) but neither of us took the next step as we were both in relationships. The other day we matched on Tinder. I really like her but I don’t know if it’s for a laugh, curiosity or the real deal. What ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matched with a Friend on tinder - need advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kcq6z4/matched_with_a_friend_on_tinder_need_advice/ |
throwaway43639 | 2020-08-25 09:31:52 | 1,598,347,912 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ig8v2f | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ig8v2f/update_on_the_mixed_messages_post_happened_to_run/ | 1 | So, this is my post from a couple of days ago: I've been out with this girl twice now. It's been an adventure, to say the least. She's not like most girls, in that her sense of humor is basically like one of my guy friends, which is kind of the problem.. She's been pretty straight with me. Most of her friends are other... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Update on the mixed messages post. Happened to run into her at a bar yesterday. Awkwardness ensued.. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ig8v2f/update_on_the_mixed_messages_post_happened_to_run/ |
Dsg1695 | 2023-01-20 02:22:26 | 1,674,181,346 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 10gkpk6 | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10gkpk6/28f_should_i_consider_older_guys_on_the_dating/ | 0 | Okay so when I say older, I’m saying potential matches up to 38. My filter before was 29-34, personally I feel like 40 is too old for me. I mean guys my age likely already have kids, expanding the range will only bring more fathers. A few people have implied that women go after older men because they’re more mature but... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 28F, should I consider older guys on the dating apps? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10gkpk6/28f_should_i_consider_older_guys_on_the_dating/ |
curiousbug92 | 2024-09-05 04:47:27 | 1,725,511,647 | 0 | null | 0 | 1f9e7ib | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1f9e7ib/when_did_bumble_get_so_conservative/ | 0 | Seems like every man is conservative or moderate which is basically code for conservative | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When did bumble get so conservative? | 0 | 0.23 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f9e7ib/when_did_bumble_get_so_conservative/ |
naikel55 | 2024-08-16 11:18:53 | 1,723,807,133 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1etm4fl | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1etm4fl/i_dont_know_how_to_handle_this/ | 0 | For many years I was pretty sure that I was gonna stay single. I (m28) have had alot of bad experiences with girls. Being cheated on, rejection after rejection. So yeah, at one point I was done with dating. After 5 years of being single, I downloaded a dating app, just to explore if I still believe that staying single ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I dont know how to handle this | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1etm4fl/i_dont_know_how_to_handle_this/ |
asker00000 | 2024-08-30 15:32:39 | 1,725,031,959 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1f4y7ir | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f4y7ir/am_i_a_failure_a_25yearold_mans_struggles_with/ | 1 | Hello, dear women. I have a question. What do you want from a man? Do you want him to be good-looking, and does he absolutely need to drive a car? I'm 25 and have never had a girlfriend. I use dating apps, but so far, I've had no matches, and I don't think I'm unattractive. I have a bachelor's degree, but I also have s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I a Failure? A 25-Year-Old Man's Struggles with Dating and Self-Worth | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f4y7ir/am_i_a_failure_a_25yearold_mans_struggles_with/ |
ryhaltswhiskey | 2022-12-19 18:12:49 | 1,671,473,569 | null | ['eharmony'] | 0 | zpyz9q | true | Discussion | 111 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/zpyz9q/based_on_a_survey_on_average_men_take_88_days_to/ | 102 | Men take an average of 88 days (about three months) to tell their partner they love them, whereas women take an average of 134 days (four and a half months), according to a 2013 survey conducted by YouGov and eHarmony. https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/how-long-it-takes-to-fall-in-love::text=sleep%20support%2Bandt... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Based on a survey on average men take 88 days to tell their partner they love them whereas women take 134 days | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/zpyz9q/based_on_a_survey_on_average_men_take_88_days_to/ |
Atlantic-Ad-4494 | 2024-07-09 02:40:41 | 1,720,492,841 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1dyrjh8 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dyrjh8/help_on_being_ugly_with_no_prior_dating_experience/ | 2 | Hello, I feel like I’m quite below average in the looks department, and well, in every department. You can take a look at my photos in my profile / other post history, but like genuinely I am not a looker. I am a 20M, so I think I can really try to work on things to improve there, but what advice would you have to date... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help on being ugly with no prior dating experience | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dyrjh8/help_on_being_ugly_with_no_prior_dating_experience/ |
RejectionSucks123 | 2017-04-05 15:58:34 | 1,491,407,914 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 63meu9 | null | null | 56 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/63meu9/what_are_some_dos_and_donts_on_a_first_date/ | 21 | I'm going on a date with someone I met on Tinder/OkC. Additional question(s) as someone who isn't experienced in the dating game: 1. Is it usually implied that the date wont last the entire day? 2. Should I text the girl to make the date's plans clear or just go with whatever happens after lunch with her? 3. Would aski... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are some do's and don'ts on a first date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/63meu9/what_are_some_dos_and_donts_on_a_first_date/ |
[deleted] | 2020-12-04 19:39:00 | 1,607,110,740 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | k6rvwe | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k6rvwe/not_sure_what_my_next_move_should_be/ | 1 | Hey guys I’m a guy(23) who met this girl(20) from bumble back in September we started it off pretty good. Had a second a date and everything was going smooth. One night she asked the question. “What are we” I told her that I wasn’t sure of what I wanted but I was willing to try something serious with her. After sometim... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure what my next move should be.. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k6rvwe/not_sure_what_my_next_move_should_be/ |
SourpatchJunkie | 2022-03-19 01:12:47 | 1,647,652,367 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | thk5gz | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/thk5gz/looking_for_a_text_game_coach_consultant/ | 0 | Hey guys, I'll get right to the point. Looking for someone with experience and a track record to consult and assist me on my text game. I'm a good lookin guy. No problem getting matches, but I lose them. I either don't open right or lose them at some point before the date. Open to hiring someone and working something o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Looking for a text game coach / consultant. | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/thk5gz/looking_for_a_text_game_coach_consultant/ |
beyonceelover | 2021-04-19 15:29:07 | 1,618,846,147 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | mu33zu | true | null | 446 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mu33zu/all_i_said_to_him_was_i_like_you/ | 2,656 | I (25F) met a great guy (31M) on Tinder. Handsome, fit, educated, and importantly a really kind person. I have a lot of issues of my own (obesity, self esteem etc) so when a guy like that shows even a little interest I tend to jump all in. This is fully my mistake. We were on our fourth date, sitting in his apartment m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | All I said to him was 'I like you' | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mu33zu/all_i_said_to_him_was_i_like_you/ |
seattleswiss2 | 2024-03-22 23:20:34 | 1,711,149,634 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 1bldcfo | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1bldcfo/did_you_notice_getting_fewer_matches_you_were/ | 1 | Not looking for another reason to despair - rather looking for other data points and solutions. I'm specifically interested in the male 40+ folks here, because there are gender-specific nuances I can't speak to on the women's side, but wondering if other men here noticed getting fewer "exciting" matches once they hit 4... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Did you notice getting fewer matches you were excited about after turning 40? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1bldcfo/did_you_notice_getting_fewer_matches_you_were/ |
xannaadoo | 2022-01-10 02:24:47 | 1,641,781,487 | null | null | 0 | s08ixx | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/s08ixx/is_this_flirting/ | 0 | "now I don't wanna waste time asking u what your name is, just rather call you mine from here on out" I (m29) have trouble understanding flirtatious behavior. The above statement was sent to me on bumble by someone (f23) I'm confused because she doesn't need to ask my name, it's on my profile. And why would she call me... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is this flirting? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/s08ixx/is_this_flirting/ |
jakedestroyer1 | 2023-01-04 03:48:48 | 1,672,804,128 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | 102t1yk | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/102t1yk/is_it_too_late/ | 3 | 25yr old male here who has always struggled with social anxiety and just kinda low self esteem from teens until now. Would just like some dating advice! I really want to take the leap and start dipping into the dating pool after years of personal development and trying to improve myself. I've kinda avoided anyone I am ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it too late? 🤔 | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/102t1yk/is_it_too_late/ |
bondibitch | 2022-10-27 12:01:19 | 1,666,872,079 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | yeq405 | true | Question | 47 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/yeq405/people_on_old_that_like_the_same_person_every/ | 0 | I keep getting liked by the same guys every single day and yet no attempt is made to message. If I like someone I’ll message them and I would expect a guy to do the same. The fact he can’t make the first move is a real turn off. | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | People on OLD that “like” the same person every single day for weeks or months without ever sending a message, what’s your rationale behind that? | null | 0.41 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/yeq405/people_on_old_that_like_the_same_person_every/ |
SmittyRalmar17 | 2024-02-09 06:38:02 | 1,707,460,682 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1amhx9c | true | null | 90 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1amhx9c/how_many_people_are_you_dating_at_a_time/ | 6 | I asked because after 2-3 dates with someone and I’m sincerely interested, I deleted the OLD apps. Am I the only one who does this? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How many people are you dating at a time? | 6 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1amhx9c/how_many_people_are_you_dating_at_a_time/ |
[deleted] | 2021-06-28 04:14:21 | 1,624,853,661 | null | ['matched', 'online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | o9cpho | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o9cpho/strange_1st_date_terrible_2nd/ | 1 | Reddit, I've never out of all my dates had one like this. I would appreciate some clarity. Backstory I'm 29 and she's 30. Rating wise she was okay looks 5.5, personality almost nil (from my experience). I would give myself at least a 7, personality the same. I recently got back into online dating and matched with a wom... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Strange 1st Date, Terrible 2nd. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o9cpho/strange_1st_date_terrible_2nd/ |
Silent-Change110 | 2024-02-05 07:37:06 | 1,707,118,626 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1ajb1b8 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ajb1b8/is_there_a_way_to_save_this_missed_opportunity/ | 1 | I 29f matched a dude 28m who i vaguely recognized on online dating. Over the course of our convo and due to his job title, i realized he works in my building. I knew id seen him, but i dont think he recognized me. Anyway, we spoke but once I realized we may have to work together someday i got a lil spooked and stopped ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there a way to save this missed opportunity, with this guy who probably does not know who I am? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ajb1b8/is_there_a_way_to_save_this_missed_opportunity/ |
drummer21496 | 2020-03-20 07:53:18 | 1,584,690,798 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | flr5s0 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/flr5s0/positive_post/ | 20 | So I have something nice to post that I wanted to share as someone who never thought it could happen. After some promising attempts that ended up falling flat I finally have an official girlfriend I matched with someone on Tinder who I went to high school with, and we talked on tinder back and forth a small amount till... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Positive Post | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/flr5s0/positive_post/ |
TheRealBumholeMcGee | 2022-04-19 22:45:30 | 1,650,408,330 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | u7how9 | true | null | 5 | 1 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u7how9/dream_chasing_teen_no_luck_way_finding_the_one/ | 1 | Young 19M here always seems to be working all the time or chasing my goals so finding women isn’t the easiest trying online dating get plenty of matches and normally turn into SC but never gets any thorougher any advice lads or ladies | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dream chasing teen no luck way finding the one | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u7how9/dream_chasing_teen_no_luck_way_finding_the_one/ |
Academic_Painting417 | 2022-10-27 07:19:30 | 1,666,855,170 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | yelbtv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/yelbtv/girl_responding_inconsistently_after_first_date/ | 2 | So i met this girl from Hinge and we ended up meeting up in person, the first date went very well in my opinion, after the date i walked her home and she said she wanted to see me again. A day later i messaged her saying i had fun with the date and i want to see her again perhaps this week and she said sure, but when i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl responding inconsistently after first date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yelbtv/girl_responding_inconsistently_after_first_date/ |
jukeboxhero515 | 2019-10-07 02:13:24 | 1,570,414,404 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ded59r | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/AskWomen/comments/ded59r/anyone_else_try_out_tinders_swipe_night_what_did/ | 0 | I thought it was surprisingly fun! I ended up back at Molly’s house | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Anyone else try out Tinder’s Swipe Night? What did you pick? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/ded59r/anyone_else_try_out_tinders_swipe_night_what_did/ |
Snoo-74459 | 2022-08-06 09:18:06 | 1,659,777,486 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | whk3my | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/whk3my/how_to_move_on_kinda_just_want_to_vent_but_also/ | 0 | I was seeing this guy for almost 6 months. It was nowhere near perfect — caught him cheating, still hung up on his ex, had dating apps in the beginning of our relationship even after I told him I was uncomfortable. I know it should be easy to move on when he's a walking red flag but how come it's still difficult? It's ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to move on? Kinda just want to vent but also need advice | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/whk3my/how_to_move_on_kinda_just_want_to_vent_but_also/ |
eeeyyyyoooo | 2024-05-08 14:07:12 | 1,715,177,232 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cn5fgj | true | null | 65 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cn5fgj/women_what_are_you_looking_for_in_a_first_message/ | 33 | Nearly all of the women who match with me don't respond at all to my first message, no matter what it is. This seems to be common. I can't seem to get my head around what women are thinking when they match on apps like Hinge where I've sent you a direct like, you read my profile, and then consciously choose to match. I... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Women: what are you looking for in a first message? | 33 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cn5fgj/women_what_are_you_looking_for_in_a_first_message/ |
Key_Cardiologist3772 | 2024-06-20 07:46:06 | 1,718,869,566 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dk629b | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dk629b/beware_of_mechat/ | 1 | So I started using this app few months ago. I got curious so I downloaded, and purchased premium. If you purchased premium you can unlock their photos or videos (limited count). They're using photos and nudes of some girls without their consent. I found this because the girl I talked to sent a video with the link of th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Beware of mechat | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dk629b/beware_of_mechat/ |
Scotty_C_89 | 2024-07-30 16:08:01 | 1,722,355,681 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1efx9zr | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1efx9zr/quitting_dating_apps_how_did_it_change_you_and/ | 16 | Realised over the past year or so that I'm a pretty ugly guy who is well below average in real life. Therefore, my chances of meeting someone from a dating app are non-existent. And it showed: record was 6 months without a like or match. I quit dating apps altogether a couple of months ago and feel much happier for it,... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Quitting dating apps: how did it change you and your life for the better? | 16 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1efx9zr/quitting_dating_apps_how_did_it_change_you_and/ |
TheDeridor | 2018-11-07 03:08:47 | 1,541,560,127 | null | ['tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 9uviu6 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9uviu6/where_do_i_go/ | 1 | I'm new to dating, having been in a long-term relationship throughout and beyond high school. I.e. Ive never dated. Im a huge nerd and a fairly socially unept introvert, so Im not exactly outgoing. Online/mobile dating has been a bist, not a single match in the year ive used tinder, or anything via okcupid so far. I do... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where do I go... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9uviu6/where_do_i_go/ |
[deleted] | 2021-01-07 02:09:20 | 1,609,985,360 | null | ['online dater'] | 0 | ks34zu | true | Question | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ks34zu/how_far_into_the_small_talk_do_you_ask_the_other/ | 2 | I’m a recent online dater (6 months) and was wondering how far into the small talk do people ask each other out. I’ve been doing it with this guy for maybe two weeks. Don’t know much about him except his job and hobbies. Never gone on an in person date, and really want to with this guys just because I’m starting to hav... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How far into the small talk do you ask the other person out? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ks34zu/how_far_into_the_small_talk_do_you_ask_the_other/ |
Mindless-Parfait-307 | 2024-04-13 18:54:59 | 1,713,034,499 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1c396br | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c396br/done_with_dating_atm/ | 2 | Not even sure if this belongs in the dating subreddit, but I’m gonna post it anyways cause I just need to someone other than my mother about what just happened. So I was on hinge and matched with this guy. Let’s call him Joe. Joe was really nice, really hot, and it seemed like we got along nicely. He’s not from America... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Done with dating ATM | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c396br/done_with_dating_atm/ |
StrAatMyT | 2018-07-11 21:11:12 | 1,531,343,472 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8y3hkd | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8y3hkd/have_a_date_coming_up_shes_way_out_of_my_league/ | 1 | So I have 5 weeks before I'm back from my work trio. Which gives me time to prepare for this. She's absolutely gorgeous, smart, goofy and has the same interests as me. Pretty obvious that I really want to stand a good chance here So what's the best advice you got? Started working out about a week ago (but there's only ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Have a date coming up. She's way out of my league. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8y3hkd/have_a_date_coming_up_shes_way_out_of_my_league/ |
doublec72 | 2024-03-27 16:51:53 | 1,711,558,313 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1bp6p6o | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bp6p6o/im_a_25m_mixed_college_student_who_doesnt_want/ | 1 | I'm at such a loss idk what to do. I've never been in serious relationship, didn't date in highschool, and I'm doing college online so that's not a part of my dating pool. I spent a few years from age 20-24 basically giving up on dating (read:trying to date) while I had some maturing and self improvement to do, which I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm a 25M mixed college student who doesn't want kids. Am I locked out of the dating pool? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bp6p6o/im_a_25m_mixed_college_student_who_doesnt_want/ |
AdUnhappy377 | 2023-10-18 20:49:59 | 1,697,662,199 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 17b0zrz | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17b0zrz/vibes_were_great_then_blocked_out_of_nowhere/ | 1 | Got blocked on everything unsure why So I M21 was talking to F26 flight attendant (will be referred to as FA the rest of this story) . I am a pilot by trade (different company and different sector of aviation than her’s) so we instantly clicked and bonded over the craziness that is the aviation industry. We have been t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Vibes were great then blocked out of nowhere… | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17b0zrz/vibes_were_great_then_blocked_out_of_nowhere/ |
SketchyDeee | 2024-09-15 17:52:16 | 1,726,422,736 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1fhilmt | true | null | 86 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1fhilmt/loneliness_and_desperation/ | 0 | I'm a man waking up at 40 and realizing I've never been able to commit in a relationship, not because I'm broken, but because I never found the right person. My desires and needs are too specific and no matter how much I try I've never been able to trick myself into being satisfied with anything else. I'm not very soci... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Loneliness and Desperation | 0 | 0.36 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1fhilmt/loneliness_and_desperation/ |
matchalinglee | 2017-06-04 04:22:37 | 1,496,550,157 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 6f5k4w | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating/comments/6f5k4w/feeling_guilty_about_my_frustration_need_advice/ | 1 | Hello everyone, never used Reddit before so tell me if this isn't how it works. I used to use yikyak before it got shut down for advice or venting but here we are. Basically I'm in a bit of I guess odd situation. Me and my bf are both in university and we live about 45 minutes away. There's no way of public transit get... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | feeling guilty about my frustration. need advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6f5k4w/feeling_guilty_about_my_frustration_need_advice/ |
aaaaaaaaazzrr | 2023-08-07 17:55:42 | 1,691,430,942 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 15krw5h | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15krw5h/should_i_text_him_or_just_manifest_it/ | 1 | Hi everyone. Well, this might seem really dumb jeje, but I appreaciate yout time. Ive been trying to meet new people, after 6 months of my last relationship. Currently im working, and i dont have that much time for getting into new activities in order to get to know someone. So, I opened Facebook dating (plz dont judge... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I text him or just manifest it? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15krw5h/should_i_text_him_or_just_manifest_it/ |
IamBre | 2018-08-23 02:27:32 | 1,534,991,252 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 99jjgx | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/99jjgx/is_this_weird_or_am_i_over_thinking/ | 14 | So, I've been talking to a guy (OLD) I've been asking many questions and he responds quickly and in detail. I generally add pieces about myself in my responses to tell him things about me. He seems to be very interested but he doesn't seem to ask me any questions. So I texted him "ok, I feel I've been hogging all the q... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Is this weird or am I over thinking.... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/99jjgx/is_this_weird_or_am_i_over_thinking/ |
Sif_Klaudia | 2023-11-28 20:30:13 | 1,701,203,413 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1865v8c | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 105 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1865v8c/my_husband_wants_me_to_sleep_with_other_people/ | 30 | Ik from that title this sounds absolutely insane(also English isn’t my first language so I’m so sorry for any mistakes.) but I 33F have a husband 40M, we also have a daughter who we adopted 19F. Just recently my husband came to me and asked me to go out on dates, when I asked what he meant he showed me a tinder profile... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My husband wants me to sleep with other people and I have no idea why. | 30 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1865v8c/my_husband_wants_me_to_sleep_with_other_people/ |
Lizzx3 | 2018-02-25 11:04:46 | 1,519,556,686 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 803ur9 | false | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/803ur9/if_i_26f_am_like_that_then_how_can_i_get_a/ | 8 | I never got a boyfriend in my life. I am very introverted and reserved, and I am also a homebody. I like to be with my close friends. I hate parties. I tried to go to few parties when I was in college, and I didn't have a great time so I don't attend anymore. I always felt like I wanted to leave and hang out in my dorm... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If I [26F] am like that, then how can I get a boyfriend? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/803ur9/if_i_26f_am_like_that_then_how_can_i_get_a/ |
Curiousirius | 2021-05-04 19:10:42 | 1,620,155,442 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | n4vf53 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n4vf53/to_ask_or_not_to_ask/ | 1 | I'm having a fling with a guy I met on tinder. I noticed that he deleted it after our first date, however he's made it clear that he wants to take things slow and i never really discussed as to what I expect of him since i mostly want to indulge in having sex with him. It's true, i can't get enough of him since he's gr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | To ask or not to ask? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n4vf53/to_ask_or_not_to_ask/ |
deezseeds | 2021-03-14 14:20:58 | 1,615,731,658 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | m4vwlo | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m4vwlo/shall_i_ask_her_if_shes_free_for_a_video_call/ | 1 | Matched a girl on hinge a month ago, been taking things slowly. We message every day without fail, and so far have had x2 50 minute video calls. I asked her just under a week ago whether she’d be free this weekend to have a video call, she said she doesn’t think so due to her assignment deadline next week. She text me ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Shall I ask her if she’s free for a video call? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m4vwlo/shall_i_ask_her_if_shes_free_for_a_video_call/ |
stassia888 | 2019-04-29 01:16:45 | 1,556,500,605 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | biijmq | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/biijmq/i_think_hes_been_talking_to_someone_else_should_i/ | 2 | Matched with this guy on Tinder a month ago. The first few weeks was non-stop talking but for the past week there has been no conversation whatsoever. He is in fact still active on Tinder. I was scrolling through my Instagram activity last night and saw that he’s following a girl that has no mutual followers or anythin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think he’s been talking to someone else, should I leave ASAP or stay and see | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/biijmq/i_think_hes_been_talking_to_someone_else_should_i/ |
yoadriaaaan | 2023-08-10 11:37:19 | 1,691,667,439 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15na0ci | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15na0ci/fitters_have_made_dating_apps_unusable/ | 1 | I made a similar post on the Tiner sub a year or so ago, but honestly I think the technology has moved on since then, People look unrecognisably better looking on dating apps, and you can't noticeably tell that they've been filtered. I've even noticed that the term Catfishing has changed meaning from someone using some... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Fitters have made dating apps unusable | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15na0ci/fitters_have_made_dating_apps_unusable/ |
goodnight117 | 2023-08-18 19:41:03 | 1,692,387,663 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 15uu6ef | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15uu6ef/im_having_trouble_finding_a_partner/ | 1 | I (20M) got dumped not too long ago and I've been on tinder, but it seems pretty dead for me. Can a woman shoot me a text and I'll send you a picture to rate. Nothing dirty, just a regular picture. Thanks. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm having trouble finding a partner | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15uu6ef/im_having_trouble_finding_a_partner/ |
ScarlettLetterOfNYC | 2019-09-02 06:31:09 | 1,567,405,869 | null | ['swiped', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | cyle3i | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cyle3i/girl_27f_wants_to_date_guy_32m_but_she_is_not/ | 0 | I need your help with this one... is it possible to successfully make yourself become attracted to someone? I found what seems to be a great fit for me- fucking finally After coming here to reddit for advice after getting screwed over time and time again by the likes of men I met on dating apps.... I met what seems to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | GIRL (27F) WANTS TO DATE GUY (32M) BUT SHE IS NOT ATTRACTED (yet): is it possible? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cyle3i/girl_27f_wants_to_date_guy_32m_but_she_is_not/ |
Lonely_Refuse4988 | 2022-09-01 12:00:47 | 1,662,033,647 | null | null | 0 | x35sua | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/x35sua/are_old_apps_doing_enough_to_weed_out_scammers/ | 0 | OLD apps face a basic quandary and conflict. The more users they have, the more power and clout and advertising leverage (creating a disincentive to block or remove users) yet, their platform can be used by scammers to target their legitimate users. On top of all this, users often have little or no rights or protection... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Are OLD apps doing enough to weed out scammers?!? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/x35sua/are_old_apps_doing_enough_to_weed_out_scammers/ |
nerdcorner | 2022-07-26 20:59:17 | 1,658,869,157 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | w8uxj2 | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w8uxj2/mental_load_and_intentional_dating/ | 2 | I 30F have been online dating this guy (both of us are 30) for the past threw months (lots of facetime). I would call my approach to dating as intentional dating i.e. someone looking for a serious long-term commitment..which is something his profile indicated as well. I am pretty jovial and humorous person which is gre... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Mental load and intentional dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w8uxj2/mental_load_and_intentional_dating/ |
foreveralone404 | 2016-05-24 00:11:24 | 1,464,048,684 | 0 | ['tinder', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 4kr31i | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4kr31i/girl_i_was_pursuing_chose_another_guy_over_me/ | 2 | Been dating this Japanese exchange student for about a month, went on 6-7 dates. On the last date a few days ago she wanted to have a talk where she proceeded to say that she liked me but she liked this other guy she was dating more. Upon hearing this, I was crushed as I thought our dates were going great. Having great... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl I was pursuing chose another guy over me; feeling crushed | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4kr31i/girl_i_was_pursuing_chose_another_guy_over_me/ |
rdd_bbr | 2023-08-04 20:07:32 | 1,691,179,652 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 15iacpa | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15iacpa/she_gave_advice_to_have_less_contact_for_a_while/ | 1 | Right. So, I do like a well emancipated woman but isn’t avoiding the friendzone my task? In ultra short without the debatably important nuances. Me 33, she 30. We‘re colleagues in different departments not knowing of eachother. Bumble match. Back and forth, finally met, danced, kissed, intercourse. Met again with inter... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She gave advice to have less contact for a while to avoid friendzoning me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15iacpa/she_gave_advice_to_have_less_contact_for_a_while/ |
Time_Depth_480 | 2024-06-24 00:39:01 | 1,719,189,541 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dn0s06 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dn0s06/what_is_he_thinking/ | 1 | I (25F) was recently seeing a guy (31M) for almost a full month. He knew early on that he only wanted to purse me, so he deleted his dating apps and roster. Shortly after, I did the same. We saw each other almost every day and being together just felt right. He asked me to be exclusive and I said yes, but a week later ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is he thinking? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dn0s06/what_is_he_thinking/ |
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