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Ok_Lawyer685 | 2024-05-12 21:28:59 | 1,715,549,339 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1cqik47 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cqik47/24m_going_insane_because_of_past_mistakes/ | 1 | TL:DR at the bottom! Read that first because I'm horrible at writing even the shortest of essays, also working right now so I don't have time just an extremely quick vent. Going to keep it short and simple as possible because it's better that way. Most probably going to sound like a wimpy kid but I think it's kind of o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 24M going insane because of past mistakes, pondering about the past too much, what to do, how to get over them? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cqik47/24m_going_insane_because_of_past_mistakes/ |
sihd10 | 2020-09-22 16:12:13 | 1,600,791,133 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ixqhmn | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ixqhmn/is_it_desperate_to_drive_1h30_to_see_a_tinder_girl/ | 2 | So I \[22m\] met a girl\[20F\] on tinder I would like to meet her she seems like a cool girl. The thing is that she lives 1h30 away from my home. I feel like doing 1h30 for a girl on tinder seems very desperate. I don't really have difficulty with girls, I could easily meet a girl that is closer but they seem less inte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it desperate to drive 1h30 to see a tinder girl? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ixqhmn/is_it_desperate_to_drive_1h30_to_see_a_tinder_girl/ |
Soot_Sprout | 2020-05-30 05:21:14 | 1,590,816,074 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | gt8poc | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gt8poc/dont_know_what_to_do_about_friend_that_i_have/ | 1 | So I am bi but I wouldnt say that I have much experience with women and I find it to be difficult to be as flirty with women even though I am much more attracted to them. Anyways, recently one of my friends moved back after not living in the same city for a long period of time and they are also bi but they arent really... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dont know what to do about friend that I have liked for a while | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gt8poc/dont_know_what_to_do_about_friend_that_i_have/ |
ComfortableBanana283 | 2023-03-01 14:56:32 | 1,677,682,592 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 11f5trg | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11f5trg/forcing_myself_on_a_date/ | 1 | I M 23 and am going on my first date after a breakup back in august the relationship I just left was a 6-year-long one we had been together since high school. I am going, to be honest with yall I'm not interested in the girl like at all we met on a dating app and we talked all night the day we matched and she was kind ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | forcing myself on a date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11f5trg/forcing_myself_on_a_date/ |
tyler_burden55 | 2020-06-25 06:19:58 | 1,593,065,998 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | hfh0qa | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hfh0qa/feel_like_dating_apps_have_killed_the_old_school/ | 76 | I've been using the dating apps for over 2 years now and it's been difficult for me to find genuine connection . I resort to these dating apps cause my social life sucks even before the quarantine , mostly it's just work and football and it's been difficult to meet new like minded people in life . I feel like most of p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feel like dating apps have killed the old school romance and possiblity of having genuine relationships . | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hfh0qa/feel_like_dating_apps_have_killed_the_old_school/ |
eggies2020 | 2021-05-14 03:27:37 | 1,620,962,857 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | nbz9cq | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nbz9cq/i_think_he_thinks_im_lying/ | 1 | So, I (29F) matched with this guy (30m) on a dating app. He lives about an hour away from me and he was saying how he'd like to check out the city I live in, as he's fairly new to the area. I suggest we have a video chat, if we hit it off I'll show him around on the weekend Things go great So we plan for him to come to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think he thinks I'm lying! | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nbz9cq/i_think_he_thinks_im_lying/ |
skulley10 | 2021-01-14 06:49:09 | 1,610,606,949 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | kx0f4a | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kx0f4a/drive_to_date_is_diminishing/ | 1 | 24m here, broke up with a girl of 3 years in March 2020. Had a couple one night stands after and I’m single now over all of that stuff. Trying to get back out there on tinder and stuff and I don’t have the drive to meet girls like I used to. Almost don’t even care anymore, sex drive is down too. Everything about me phy... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Drive to date is diminishing | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kx0f4a/drive_to_date_is_diminishing/ |
LaCaipirinha | 2022-07-31 22:30:24 | 1,659,306,624 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wd0vef | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wd0vef/33m_thinking_of_looking_across_the_world_for_a/ | 2 | So I am an attractive, active and successful guy in my early 30s, I have no problem meeting and dating women where I am however I find it is extremely hard to find people in the country I have moved to (which I otherwise love) who share the same hobbies and interests as me. The vibe here is very very different to datin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 33M thinking of looking across the world for a partner via the apps - pipe dream or possible? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wd0vef/33m_thinking_of_looking_across_the_world_for_a/ |
lookslikes | 2021-08-16 19:31:05 | 1,629,142,265 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | p5n8ib | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 156 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/p5n8ib/0_likes_in_3_different_dating_apps/ | 167 | how is that even possible ?! im no brad pitt but damn thats crazy | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 0 likes in 3 different dating apps | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/p5n8ib/0_likes_in_3_different_dating_apps/ |
life__sucks | 2018-08-12 18:36:22 | 1,534,098,982 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 96r7kr | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/96r7kr/tinder_date_forgot_about_second_date_should_i/ | 0 | I went on a date with a girl from tinder last week. It went okay, and afterwards she texted saying she had a good time etc. A few days a later (Tuesday) I texted her asking if she wanted to catch a movie Friday. She seemed into it, and we setup a time. Fast forward to Friday, I text her mid-day making sure we're still ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder date 'forgot' about second date. Should I just forgot about her? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/96r7kr/tinder_date_forgot_about_second_date_should_i/ |
ReclaimingInsanity | 2020-08-16 21:25:23 | 1,597,613,123 | null | null | 0 | ib0s61 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ib0s61/afraidnervous_of_meeting_up/ | 18 | And I don't mean in the "I think this person will murder me" sense. For some reason, I (straight female) have this completely illogical nervousness when it comes to dating/meeting people online, even though, offline, I'm not afraid of mingling in hobby groups gyms etc and meeting new people that way. I use dating apps ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Afraid/Nervous of meeting up | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ib0s61/afraidnervous_of_meeting_up/ |
1500milesandcounting | 2018-12-29 22:37:35 | 1,546,123,055 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | aaptzs | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/aaptzs/dating_anxiety/ | 12 | Am new to this sub. Am 34 and recently have come back to online dating, having had a number of breaks from it in the past. I suffer quite a bit from anxiety and a tendency to low moods and catastrophising. I am also fairly inexperienced relationship-wise (three very short term relationships). There seem to be so many r... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Dating anxiety | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/aaptzs/dating_anxiety/ |
treecatks | 2021-06-13 21:08:35 | 1,623,618,515 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | nz61sa | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/nz61sa/its_not_you_its_me/ | 11 | Had another disappointment with a match not working out. It's ok, it was early and I was having doubts too. But what struck me was how he approached it. First telling me he wanted to slow down (when it was seem he meant go almost completely silent), then finally that he needed to focus on his son. I'm a parent too so o... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | "It's not you, it's me..." | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/nz61sa/its_not_you_its_me/ |
threeprimarycolours | 2019-09-23 14:31:48 | 1,569,249,108 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | d87b6v | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d87b6v/how_to_not_get_attached_when_you_know_it_wont/ | 2 | I’m (F20) a tourist at this guy’s (M22) town and I asked him to go have a drink out of boredom after matching with each other on tinder last night. We didn’t expect shit. We exchanged like 10 messages before meeting but when we finally met... I think we could feel the connection as it is too strong not to notice. We un... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to not get attached when you know it won’t work in the long run? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d87b6v/how_to_not_get_attached_when_you_know_it_wont/ |
SingSangSeung | 2020-07-23 17:47:54 | 1,595,526,474 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hwkao4 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hwkao4/date_idea_too_riskyinterracial_help/ | 2 | Hello I'm 25(m) Korean and I have been talking to 25(f) African American. I have been talking to her on Tinder for about a month and we had our first "date" but more like hanging out. It was surprisingly not awkward and we conversated smoothly and was entertaining. I got her number so I think I am moving in the right d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Date idea too riskyandinterracial help | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hwkao4/date_idea_too_riskyinterracial_help/ |
krisappear | 2019-01-15 03:19:59 | 1,547,522,399 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | ag42z8 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ag42z8/i_19f_think_i_am_afraid_of_falling_in_love_advice/ | 1 | I (19F) finally met up with my online dating match (19M) in person and I have butterflies in my stomach when I think about him... but it’s giving me anxiety A little background: about a month ago I started conversing with this guy on a dating app and things went like a normal beginning of a match would. We small talked... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (19F) think I am afraid of falling in love... advice? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ag42z8/i_19f_think_i_am_afraid_of_falling_in_love_advice/ |
MajesticRate1818 | 2023-09-02 00:00:53 | 1,693,612,853 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 167nc2x | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/167nc2x/need_help_with_a_conversation_phone_calling_a/ | 1 | so i called one of my hinge matches and it felt like I was running out of things to say. Like id ask a question then try to comment on things to say but its like she was saying "mhm" or some short answer and it started to feel infuriatingly hard. I dont know if its common when you speak to introvert girls to respond li... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need help with a conversation phone calling a girl i met off the apps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/167nc2x/need_help_with_a_conversation_phone_calling_a/ |
mubat | 2019-08-09 14:36:34 | 1,565,361,394 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | co3819 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/co3819/nsfw_bloodsugarsexmagik_oversharing_about_my_sex/ | 7 | I recently turned 30, two months after breaking up with someone I liked. Two days after my birthday I decided to check out tinder, and met a 26 year old from my neighbourhood who broke up with someone more recently than I did. We went to the same high school (I was in my senior year when he was a freshman) and the same... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | [nsfw] blood-sugar-sex-magik: oversharing about my sex life because I’m surprised to be enjoying it! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/co3819/nsfw_bloodsugarsexmagik_oversharing_about_my_sex/ |
mightyTheowl | 2022-01-11 12:57:23 | 1,641,905,843 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | s1caad | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s1caad/is_it_ok_to_approach_strangers_that_you_find/ | 1 | Yesterday I (25M) was walking to class when I crossed paths with a beautiful lady. She looked around my age, had an incredibly attractive body and a very cute face. We looked at each other and made eye contact for about 2 seconds, then kept walking our respective paths. Normally at school I see plenty of attractive wom... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it ok to approach strangers that you find attractive? Or is that too shallow and superficial? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s1caad/is_it_ok_to_approach_strangers_that_you_find/ |
[deleted] | 2012-11-28 15:01:14 | 1,354,114,874 | 0 | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 13xoik | null | null | 15 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/13xoik/online_dating_help/ | 6 | Hello askwomen I recently joined okcupid on a whim, and I not expecting the amount of messages I have received So I need your advice: what is the proper way to deal with people I'm not interested in? Just ignore them? Or should I send a response? How long should I talk to them before meeting? I'm 20 years old, if it ma... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Online dating help! | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/13xoik/online_dating_help/ |
SmeltDown | 2021-04-21 10:13:03 | 1,618,999,983 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | mvcj1m | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mvcj1m/need_help_setting_standards_without_ostracizing/ | 0 | Backstory: 27M here, ended a 4 year relationship about a month ago over distance (she developed a desire to travel, I have no intention of jaunting around the world) and difference in libido (mine is high, hers was low). For the majority of the relationship, I was willing to grit my teeth and hope things would improve,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help setting standards without ostracizing myself. | null | 0.11 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mvcj1m/need_help_setting_standards_without_ostracizing/ |
JeffSoda | 2019-06-14 13:12:07 | 1,560,517,927 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c0jxmz | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c0jxmz/dating_a_girl_who_broke_up_3_weeks_ago_m21_and_f21/ | 3 | So I've been single for about 6 months and I'm ready to move on. I went on tinder and went out with two girls which I know I didn't click with. Suddenly I find the girl of my dreams. Literally everything from how she looks to how she acts was exactly what I was looking for. She's wholesome, doesn't party, and is overal... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating a Girl Who Broke Up 3 Weeks Ago M[21] and F[21] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c0jxmz/dating_a_girl_who_broke_up_3_weeks_ago_m21_and_f21/ |
rocksUnder_Chickens | 2021-04-23 18:12:14 | 1,619,201,534 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | mx1frv | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mx1frv/app_to_text/ | 0 | Hi there So bit of advice if possible? Started talking to girl on a dating app (today) and she provided me her number to text her. I am a bit private about my phone number and don’t give it out willy nilly. I mentioned this to her and she said that she wanted to get off the app to be honest. I am not sure how to respon... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | App to text | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mx1frv/app_to_text/ |
CourseFluffy3267 | 2023-12-09 06:09:20 | 1,702,102,160 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18e72ok | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18e72ok/what_went_wrong_i_22f_having_been_talking_to_this/ | 1 | So I (22F) met this guy (25M) on a dating app about two months ago. We hit it off very well The only problem was he was one state over in college. I didn't really know what to think about it, but we really liked each other. We followed each other on all of our social medias, and we talk every single day on each app We ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What went wrong? I (22F) having been talking to this guy (25M) for two months. We went on our first date and now I feel like crap. | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18e72ok/what_went_wrong_i_22f_having_been_talking_to_this/ |
PerfectOriginaln610 | 2023-11-12 04:14:35 | 1,699,762,475 | 0 | ['swiped'] | 0 | 17tcb6c | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17tcb6c/does_anyone_have_experience_withadvice_for_having/ | 3 | I’m not quite sure what to do about this and it’s like being in hell… My ex was everything I ever wanted, he was an incredibly rare person, perfect combo of nerdy, athletic, funny,genuine, loyal, good person, AND he was extremely attractive. Physically and personality wise he was my perfect ideal. You CANT find men lik... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does anyone have experience with/advice for having your standards “ruined” by an ex? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17tcb6c/does_anyone_have_experience_withadvice_for_having/ |
Ecstatic_Attitude_83 | 2024-09-27 03:45:40 | 1,727,408,740 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 1fqey0e | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1fqey0e/irritated_just_a_vent/ | 4 | I’m on a couple of dating sites. I am not ashamed to be on dating sites, I’m not sure how else to meet someone new. But what I didn’t expect was someone messaging me on my work teams chat this morning saying they say me in a meeting earlier this month and knew me from somewhere but wasn’t sure where. And then said he “... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Irritated - just a vent | 4 | 0.61 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1fqey0e/irritated_just_a_vent/ |
Doak193 | 2021-09-18 23:40:16 | 1,632,008,416 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | pqx373 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pqx373/coming_to_terms_with_my_trustcommitment_issues/ | 0 | Warning, this post is gonna probable be long and rambly. So I (20/M) have been single for over 5 years now. Whenever I thought about me being single, I would always blame it on some aspect of myself that I could fix: "oh I'm single because I'm not muscular, oh I'm single because I have no confidence" etc. As my life ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Coming to terms with my trust/commitment issues + Issues with fantasy | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pqx373/coming_to_terms_with_my_trustcommitment_issues/ |
JustSomeOtherThings | 2018-08-24 05:49:10 | 1,535,089,750 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 99uvs0 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/99uvs0/recovery_after_an_abusive_relationship/ | 6 | I was in an abusive relationship from 24-35 (35f). Now that I am older I just look at that young girl who fell so in love and wish I had left long ago. I am feeling like I missed out on the dating years and am also super 'jumpy' in this dating world. I have no problem getting dates but recently deleted bumble due to fr... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Recovery after an abusive relationship | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/99uvs0/recovery_after_an_abusive_relationship/ |
KuriousKat910 | 2024-01-01 00:29:31 | 1,704,068,971 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 18vl01k | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18vl01k/a_few_people_have_told_me_im_intimidating_how_can/ | 1 | I tried online dating and it honestly sucks, so I’d rather meet people irl. However I never have men approaching me in person because I’m ’intimidating’. What can I do to fix this? This is something a few people (both men and women) have told me. Apparently I have a very intimidating aura about me and I’ll give some ex... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A few people have told me I’m ‘intimidating’. How can I make myself more approachable? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18vl01k/a_few_people_have_told_me_im_intimidating_how_can/ |
Equivalent_Scale_201 | 2024-04-12 04:14:02 | 1,712,895,242 | 0 | null | 0 | 1c1zwpm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1c1zwpm/question_about_how_direct_to_be_to_women_as_a_19/ | 1 | Ok to keep it short, im a decent guy physically, but i get matches, been on it a few weeks, no dates, sometimes girls will talk and then ghost, sometimes wont reply at all, etc. Just wondering if i should be doing pickup lines or something as oppose to trying to start conversation. Id like to date but as im still a vir... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Question about how direct to be to Women as a 19 male in college town | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c1zwpm/question_about_how_direct_to_be_to_women_as_a_19/ |
Desperate_Carob_1825 | 2024-02-04 03:26:42 | 1,707,017,202 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1aie8ik | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aie8ik/is_dating_harder_than_what_it_seems_like/ | 1 | I have been trying to get into a relationship but it currently seems like I'm at a roadblock. I'm an average looking guy and I've tried asking women out and I've tried online dating apps but it seems like everything that comes back to me is not what I'm looking for. Girls, as desperate as it sounds, what does it take f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is dating harder than what it seems like? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aie8ik/is_dating_harder_than_what_it_seems_like/ |
Whatislife28 | 2018-04-16 18:26:46 | 1,523,903,206 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8cps00 | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8cps00/how_to_tell_someone_your_seeing_that_you_only/ | 2 | Met on tinder and he had mention that she recently “wasnt innocent” anymore. We texted more and got to know each other. Another sexual thing she said was the “naughtier the better”. After receiving both this text, I was assuming she wanted to do it on the first date. And boy was I right. Now here is where I need advice... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to tell someone your seeing that you only want this relationship to be casual? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8cps00/how_to_tell_someone_your_seeing_that_you_only/ |
Depressed-Toad | 2024-03-29 15:00:10 | 1,711,724,410 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1bqrdjt | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bqrdjt/why_cant_i_progress/ | 1 | I'm able to get matches here and there on tinder and bumble, I keep seeing a pattern where I find someone that I really get along with, we both express attraction, then out of nowhere they ghost me. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why can't I progress? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bqrdjt/why_cant_i_progress/ |
BilfordWilliamson | 2022-02-09 19:11:32 | 1,644,433,892 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | solcbt | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/solcbt/since_dating_is_primarily_online_now_am_i_just/ | 0 | I've heard from several people that dating is 100% online, and if you don't get matches, you simply don't have a chance. Is this true, or is there still a way to meet people IRL since covid shut down all the good social events? Let me know. I don't get any matches, and I'm a decent looking nerdy guy. Should I just give... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Since dating is primarily online now, am I just undateable? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/solcbt/since_dating_is_primarily_online_now_am_i_just/ |
whosbalint | 2024-03-23 17:41:20 | 1,711,215,680 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1bly0en | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bly0en/why_is_it_so_hard_to_find_someone_whos_interested/ | 1 | I (17M) happened to be gay. My parents don't let my date, because it would bring shame to them (wtf?). But I don't really care about this. This is my life and I think I have the right to go on dates if I want to. But that's another story. My problem now is that I don't understand why is it so hard to find someone who's... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is it so hard to find someone who's interested in you? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bly0en/why_is_it_so_hard_to_find_someone_whos_interested/ |
briarcollins | 2024-08-30 21:33:13 | 1,725,053,593 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f56tek | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f56tek/finding_people_to_date/ | 1 | I (26F) have never seriously dated anyone, partly because I didn’t put myself out there in high school or college so that’s my fault. But now it’s like hard to find people to date? I’ve been on and off the dating apps and guys seem to just want to text back and forth for weeks with no intention of going out. I go out o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Finding people to date | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f56tek/finding_people_to_date/ |
Kentwon_the_boss123 | 2021-06-22 22:30:16 | 1,624,401,016 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | o5z20w | true | Question | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o5z20w/is_dating_really_hard_to_get_into/ | 5 | I been trying to find a relationship for a year or two now and I just keep messing it up at the end. So I’m still stuck at ground 0 and I don’t know what I’m doing. I just lost a friend ship just like that for a while now. So my question is how do I get into dating life? I never experienced that once in my life and I’m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is dating really hard to get into? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o5z20w/is_dating_really_hard_to_get_into/ |
wrileyboy | 2021-02-22 13:52:22 | 1,614,001,942 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | lpohfi | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lpohfi/need_some_advice/ | 1 | Throw away account. Hey Reddit, TL:DR I'm awkward as f, in my 30's, looking for a significant other, no luck, and not sure what to do. Should I just give up, is there a better way to go about it, what should I do? I'm reaching a breaking point where I'm about to give up. I can't even get somebody to say two sentences t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need Some Advice | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lpohfi/need_some_advice/ |
[deleted] | 2019-10-16 21:40:03 | 1,571,262,003 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | diwadz | true | Other | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/diwadz/24m_conflicted_about_the_future/ | 3 | Not sure if this is a rant or what it is but it relates to lack of dates and general outlook. I've been single almost 2 years and have dated (as in 2ish dates) a couple women in that time. I've got 9 months of relationship experience between 2 women in my life. Please bear with me if this gets lenhy. I don't know if I'... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | (24M) conflicted about the future | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/diwadz/24m_conflicted_about_the_future/ |
Aggravating-Ad-1598 | 2021-06-25 19:10:46 | 1,624,648,246 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | o7uc5p | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o7uc5p/dating/ | 1 | So I have gone on two dates with this women I met on Tinder and have had a few phone conversations, what first struck me about her (being tinder) was how pretty she was and the fact she had messaged me first. She is a Canadian resident originally from Venezuala and is an LPN working her way to becoming a Registered Nur... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o7uc5p/dating/ |
Educational_Ad_3757 | 2021-10-25 23:34:45 | 1,635,204,885 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | qftext | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qftext/is_there_a_dating_site_where_you_can_choose/ | 0 | I mean I love girls with black hair and thick eyebrows. I’m just trying to find a dating website like that. any ideas? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is there a dating site where you can choose preferences? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qftext/is_there_a_dating_site_where_you_can_choose/ |
Lookingforlove192 | 2018-03-22 18:39:12 | 1,521,743,952 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 86dwvl | false | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/86dwvl/i_want_a_homemaker_but_cant_find_one/ | 4 | Hello all. I posted in /r/relationships but they weren't very helpful. So I'm a man, 27, and well off financially. I've always wanted a traditional family with a homemaker. A woman who is willing to forgo a career to care for the home, cook, clean, and care for the kids when we have them. The issue is the women I meet ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I want a home-maker but can't find one | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/86dwvl/i_want_a_homemaker_but_cant_find_one/ |
Coda1894 | 2024-07-28 22:27:44 | 1,722,205,664 | 0 | ['swiping', 'online dating', 'match.com', 'eharmony', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 1eejkh8 | true | Question ❓ | 22 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eejkh8/help_me_choose_between_eharmony_matchcom_or/ | 2 | I've pretty much narrowed it down to these three. I'm a 45M that has never been on a date. I'm finally desperate enough to try online dating. I'm looking for a serious relationship only. I'm 5'10" and probably average to slightly below average looks but not overweight. I'm a blue collar worker but make a little more th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Help me choose between eHarmony, Match.com, or Facebook dating. | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eejkh8/help_me_choose_between_eharmony_matchcom_or/ |
digitalcelery | 2021-10-14 21:29:12 | 1,634,246,952 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | q890hx | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q890hx/just_divorced_should_i_take_time_off/ | 0 | I had very little feelings left for my ex-wife when we divorced as the root of this was 10 months ago and that's when life really drove over me like a tank. 10 months after, she is a few days away to depart to her own place and I have 0 feelings left for her. Before I met my ex, women were never my priority. I was brok... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just divorced. Should I take time off? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q890hx/just_divorced_should_i_take_time_off/ |
MacMan50 | 2024-08-13 22:06:55 | 1,723,586,815 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1erkdq2 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1erkdq2/long_distance_reluctance/ | 1 | I (M/41) had an amazing text conversation with a woman (F/37) on a dating app. She’s reluctant for a long distance relationship as she just got out of one. We both have two kids and she isn’t able to move. We share loads of common interests and our love language is the same. She seemed to be more open to it as we conti... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Long Distance Reluctance | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1erkdq2/long_distance_reluctance/ |
TheRealTJwolf123 | 2021-03-22 15:48:09 | 1,616,428,089 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | maqps9 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/maqps9/whats_wrong_with_me/ | 1 | I'm a 21 year old woman, short (5'0), a little chubby but my upper body is thinner than my lower. I'm mixed race with multiple hobbies; cooking, gaming, hiking/nature walking, reading, and listening to music. I'm in College with the goal to become a Zoo Curator with a Doctorate in Zoology and Conservation. I'm lonely, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What's wrong with me? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/maqps9/whats_wrong_with_me/ |
helpfulguy2 | 2024-03-30 19:01:21 | 1,711,825,281 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1brpg0n | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1brpg0n/was_i_27m_wrong_for_cutting_it_off_with_this/ | 1 | Matched with her on a dating app, right away she told me she was looking for something serious and physical intimacy would have to wait. So I respectfully asked her if she had engaged in casual physical intimacy before and if any of her previous partners had to wait, she said no they didn’t. So I didn’t want to be the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Was I (27M) wrong for cutting it off with this woman (24F)? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1brpg0n/was_i_27m_wrong_for_cutting_it_off_with_this/ |
gamev666 | 2022-09-13 10:26:08 | 1,663,064,768 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | xd3vqw | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xd3vqw/saw_dating_apps_on_my_bfs_phone_what_do_i_do_i/ | 3 | so me (20) and my bf (22) have been together for 9 months and last week i saw he had dating apps downloaded on his phone when he was showing me something on it and when i confronted him about it he said no i dont. i said “i have to ask you about something and dont lie to me… why do you have tinder on your phone?” and h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | saw dating apps on my bfs phone what do i do i need advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xd3vqw/saw_dating_apps_on_my_bfs_phone_what_do_i_do_i/ |
Original_Payment_655 | 2024-03-08 11:59:03 | 1,709,899,143 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1b9m743 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b9m743/need_actionable_advice_please/ | 3 | I’ve matched with quite a few girls on dating apps but can’t seem to ever secure a date. What am I doing wrong? Over the past two weeks, I’ve matched with about 35 girls (across 3 dating apps). Of the 35 girls, about 7-8 never responded to my opening message and 2-3 responded to my initial message but ghosted me shortl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need actionable advice please | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b9m743/need_actionable_advice_please/ |
melhoney11 | 2020-03-03 00:54:10 | 1,583,196,850 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | fcmekr | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fcmekr/dating_someone_with_hsv2/ | 1 | I recently starting putting myself out there and going on dating apps. I’m looking for causal/fun but I’m not opposed to more. I had a really wonderful time with guy I met on tinder. On the first date I asked about testing and he told me has has genital herpes. I do plan on seeing him again but am not sure I’m willing ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating someone with hsv2 | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fcmekr/dating_someone_with_hsv2/ |
[deleted] | 2020-03-07 16:17:04 | 1,583,597,824 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | fex9g0 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fex9g0/call_me_ms_confused/ | 1 | Hey everyone On a mobile sorry. So as the title says it all; I(31f) am very confused by someone(m28) I went on a first date with. We’ve been texting for the last few months, since September I think, and we finally were able to meet for the first time in person. The date was great, conversation was flowing, we made each... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Call me ms. confused | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fex9g0/call_me_ms_confused/ |
hailnaux | 2023-01-27 21:16:26 | 1,674,854,186 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 10mwbah | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10mwbah/why_would_someone_unmatch_after_a_nice_funny/ | 1 | Last night a woman messaged me on Hinge in a jokey way. We spent the next two hours messaging back and forth about life in New York, our families and backgrounds, her dog, etc. It was all very light, easy, and jokey. At the end I said something like "I'm going to bed soon but want to ask you more about your job some ti... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why would someone unmatch after a nice, funny conversation? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10mwbah/why_would_someone_unmatch_after_a_nice_funny/ |
ozzzy83 | 2023-11-29 14:57:35 | 1,701,269,855 | 0 | null | 0 | 186rbhf | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/186rbhf/anyone_noticed_that_there_are_so_many_bi_and/ | 1 | Ok, I tested with some fake female profile, even girls that are "str8" are matching with me, and have loads of matches, there are even a lot of couples. I even noticed that some girl that matched with me as a guy and were quiet when asked for a date, are so direct with this fake female profile, lmao. So when you are a ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Anyone Noticed That There Are so Many Bi and Lesbians on the Apps? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/186rbhf/anyone_noticed_that_there_are_so_many_bi_and/ |
YoungMozartinaGoKart | 2024-03-06 02:26:11 | 1,709,691,971 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1b7o5e4 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b7o5e4/im_having_a_hard_time_trying_to_figure_out_if/ | 3 | As the title says, I'm having a hard time knowing if this girl I’ve been seeing is interested in me or if I should just cut my losses. A basic rundown: Met on Hinge Talked for a little bit on there and planned a first date (drinks) that went very well She texted me after the date saying she had a great time and wanted ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m having a hard time trying to figure out if this girl is actually interested | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b7o5e4/im_having_a_hard_time_trying_to_figure_out_if/ |
mcjunker | 2016-06-29 22:31:49 | 1,467,239,509 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 4qicv7 | null | null | 18 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/4qicv7/what_are_the_most_common_scams_on/ | 2 | I think I just avoided a scam on Tinder. I'm not sure; it was kinda ambiguous whether it was a scam or not, but it was massively sketchy and shady and I noped out of there. So can we get a PSA going about the scams people run into on dating sites/apps? Forewarned is forearmed, and all that. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are the most common scams on Tinder/OKCupid/Match etc? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/4qicv7/what_are_the_most_common_scams_on/ |
Standard_Carpet_5855 | 2021-06-20 15:00:32 | 1,624,201,232 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | o47jo7 | true | Venting | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o47jo7/regret/ | 3 | I got matched with this guy on tinder last year. After talking for several days I could feel that this guy is actually my type, both physically and personality wise speaking. He asked me out for several times but I was rejecting all the time. At that time I was about to leave the city for college and was pretty busy st... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Regret | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o47jo7/regret/ |
antmantheoneandonly | 2024-04-25 06:16:21 | 1,714,025,781 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1ccktfo | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ccktfo/hard_dating_life_life/ | 1 | Dating's been tough lately, ya know? Everyone's glued to social media, and it feels like nothing you say is ever the right thing. Trying to connect with someone who's actually into you and positive about it is like searching for a needle in a haystack. I've noticed that I vibe better with people when I'm out and about,... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hard dating Life Life | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ccktfo/hard_dating_life_life/ |
FaithInStrangers94 | 2022-01-17 14:06:37 | 1,642,428,397 | null | null | 0 | s64sn8 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/s64sn8/many_single_parents_i_see_on_dating_apps_should/ | 15 | I know how dare he imply that someone isn’t fit for parenthood! Well it just so happens that single parents - judging by their photos and bio or lack thereof - comprise many of the most immature, uneducated, insecure, skankiest, pathetic profiles I come across. Unable to spell basic words and using real vulgar language... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Many single parents I see on dating apps should not have been allowed to breed quite frankly | null | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/s64sn8/many_single_parents_i_see_on_dating_apps_should/ |
InsuranceAltruistic1 | 2023-10-21 23:57:30 | 1,697,932,650 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17dg530 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17dg530/a_few_weeks_ago_i_went_on_this_date_with_a_guy_i/ | 1 | The guy and i went on two dates. I was super into him, but he didn’t want to continue right now and wanted to stay in touch. A few weeks later, i met this guy at the gym and he asked me on a date. I was looking through his social media and realized that he is that guy’s younger brother and they live together. How do i ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A few weeks ago i went on this date with a guy i met on tinder. Now his brother asked me on a date. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17dg530/a_few_weeks_ago_i_went_on_this_date_with_a_guy_i/ |
Inner_Ebb_8728 | 2024-07-26 00:25:35 | 1,721,953,535 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1ecakeb | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ecakeb/i_finally_found_someone_i_really_like_and_click/ | 1 | I (24f) have been out of school for a few years and working a career job. Ever since I broke off with my first college boyfriend, I have been trying to date on the apps on and off. (For about 1.5 years). Despite the "success rate" of being a woman on dating apps, I somehow don't have luck with most working professional... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I finally found someone I really like and click with - the catch is we don't live in the same city | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ecakeb/i_finally_found_someone_i_really_like_and_click/ |
TonyKaroshi | 2016-06-20 15:16:23 | 1,466,435,783 | 0 | ['tinder', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 4oz7v0 | null | null | 44 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4oz7v0/is_dating_hard_for_everyone/ | 22 | So to break things down, I'm a mid 30's guy living in Orange County, CA. I moved here roughly 7 years ago due to a finance position that I was offered when I graduated college. Long story short, after establishing myself at work, paying off school loans, paying off credit card debt, etc (basically trying to mend the fi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is dating hard for everyone? | 22 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4oz7v0/is_dating_hard_for_everyone/ |
JohnnaDunston | 2021-03-17 03:57:14 | 1,615,953,434 | null | ['tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | m6rm8z | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/m6rm8z/i_just_had_to_rant_about_this/ | 5 | So about a year ago I matched with a guy on tinder. He was actually looking for commitment so I thought. We go out first date, we go out to eat. Second date, same thing. Third date, we go out to the movies. This happened in the span of 3 DAYS. So, I’ve i only known him for three days. We go to watch the movie and he wa... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I just had to rant about this... | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/m6rm8z/i_just_had_to_rant_about_this/ |
denarocontante | 2021-08-16 19:24:38 | 1,629,141,878 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | p5n3u7 | true | null | 250 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/p5n3u7/enough_about_red_flags_and_dealbreakers_what/ | 544 | It's hard to sell yourself, especially in a OLD profile, but what great things are you offering potential partners? Forget about your shortcomings or incompatibilities and give yourself a shout out. Be excellent to yourself and remember that even if it doesn't make your short-list of all star characteristics doesn't me... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Enough about red flags and dealbreakers. What positives do you bring to the table? | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/p5n3u7/enough_about_red_flags_and_dealbreakers_what/ |
TrickyFactor9262 | 2023-03-21 20:32:29 | 1,679,430,749 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 11xthlj | true | null | 156 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/11xthlj/undateable/ | 23 | 48F, I think I'm doing ok in the looks department, I'm professionally employed, intelligent, fun, varied interests, in clubs and groups. I'm focusing on one OLD platform and there's not much there. I really don't want to go on any more at this time. I have first dates and they're so so.... The men will say I'm great, I... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Undateable? | null | 0.74 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/11xthlj/undateable/ |
Pointer_dog | 2024-05-07 19:37:19 | 1,715,110,639 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1cmkjfg | true | Question | 57 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1cmkjfg/inappropriate_messages/ | 1 | In a thread yesterday about taking things off OLD apps, a female indicated that she is reluctant to give out her number due to a fear of unsolicited dick pics, and other inappropriate messages. I was surprised. Suppose I shouldn't be, but I was indeed a little surprised that in a dating situation that would happen on t... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Inappropriate messages | 1 | 0.32 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1cmkjfg/inappropriate_messages/ |
Sam44488 | 2022-06-07 03:29:50 | 1,654,572,590 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | v6lehx | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/v6lehx/am_i_ready_to_date_or_do_i_just_feel_lonely/ | 1 | So i had posted this https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v18eqp/falling_for_someone_to_fast_and_need_to_stop/?utm_medium=android_appandutm_source=share Here is a quick recap Oct, 2021 me and my ex decided to get a divorce April, 2022 we both moved out and stopped having sex. She moved to a different country. (yes ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I ready to date or do I just feel lonely? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v6lehx/am_i_ready_to_date_or_do_i_just_feel_lonely/ |
zeonight27 | 2023-09-04 02:10:30 | 1,693,793,430 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 169f8de | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/169f8de/9_years_since_a_relationship/ | 1 | So i've been trying to get back into the dating scene for a while. Last tine i was with someone was high school, about 9 years now and at the time was tired of the games and stuff with people, we all know how high school is/was. But getting back into it now just seems so different then before. Haven't had any luck and ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 9 years since a relationship.... | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/169f8de/9_years_since_a_relationship/ |
htebazile305 | 2020-10-05 09:13:59 | 1,601,889,239 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | j5g76x | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/j5g76x/naming_something_is_the_first_step/ | 15 | (47F) This weekend was rough but I had a breakthrough. On Friday night,I had a date that I expected to go a different way than it did. Of course,my expectations led to disappointment. However, the disappointment did give me the impetus to write down my issues. I looked back through all my recent relationships and notic... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Naming something is the first step | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/j5g76x/naming_something_is_the_first_step/ |
dominantbabyg | 2023-02-21 17:53:46 | 1,677,002,026 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 118bhvj | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/118bhvj/what_should_i_know_about_dating_in_2023/ | 2 | What should I know about dating in general in 2023? I live in Finland and the dating scene doesn't look so different than from other countries but damn. It's actually depressing. Guys don't make a move on you here. They never text you. Never approach you. I do make a move, I text and I have been approaching lately. I j... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | what should I know about dating in 2023 | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/118bhvj/what_should_i_know_about_dating_in_2023/ |
Pip-Pipes | 2016-10-16 01:38:32 | 1,476,581,912 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 57pagx | null | null | 84 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/57pagx/stood_up_on_a_first_date_i_feel_like_garbage/ | 63 | (29F) I ended my last relationship about two years ago. I was unhappy with my job, my boyfriend, my appearance (weight gain), my life. I ended up getting a job in a different state. I broke up with the boyfriend and moved away. It was a good decision and I've been pretty content being single and starting to build my li... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Stood up on a First date. I feel like garbage. | 63 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/57pagx/stood_up_on_a_first_date_i_feel_like_garbage/ |
Emerally80s | 2024-04-25 20:23:18 | 1,714,076,598 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cd1n8f | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 39 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cd1n8f/why_is_it_hard_to_meet_quality_men_to_date/ | 1 | I’m a 40+ female, thick 5’7 with 2 children under adolescence age. All the men that approach me are 10+ yrs older or 25yrs & under. I don’t want to be a nurse nor mother to an adult. I truly am looking for someone to be my partner in everything. Like I don’t want to have casual sex and if I did it wouldn’t be with the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is it hard to meet quality men to date?! | 1 | 0.47 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cd1n8f/why_is_it_hard_to_meet_quality_men_to_date/ |
throwawaysince1991 | 2020-09-29 02:17:09 | 1,601,345,829 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | j1qc61 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j1qc61/found_my_crush_on_humble_should_i_tell_her/ | 1 | Found my crush on Humble. Normally I don't mind teasing when I find someone I know on OLD app. But I've had a rocky relationship with my crush. Also we seem to never like each other at the same time. I've been pretty cold with her lately just due to being busy and kinda shy. Anyway should I say something and what would... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Found my crush on Humble. Should I tell her? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j1qc61/found_my_crush_on_humble_should_i_tell_her/ |
cryocom | 2020-10-28 03:27:17 | 1,603,855,637 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | jjggd0 | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/jjggd0/i_dont_have_enough_goodnatural_pictures_of_myself/ | 8 | Im in my early 30's and just don't get/take enough pictures of myself. This wasn't really on purpose or anything but I think this is likely true for a lot of "regular guys". There is even a recent meme about how "guys can be friends for over a decade and not have a single picture together" Most guys (in my personal lif... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I don't have enough good/natural pictures of myself for online dating. | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jjggd0/i_dont_have_enough_goodnatural_pictures_of_myself/ |
shiroken01 | 2022-02-14 02:55:49 | 1,644,807,349 | null | null | 0 | ss00oi | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ss00oi/rate_my_pic_i_guess/ | 1 | i guess rate my pic since dating sites seem to be about looks | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | rate my pic i guess? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ss00oi/rate_my_pic_i_guess/ |
rytythatguy | 2021-07-23 07:11:30 | 1,627,024,290 | null | null | 0 | opx51x | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/opx51x/messaging_pace/ | 1 | What’s your pace when sending messages? I feel like some conversations have hours and sometimes days in between messages. Others there is more back and forth, where we respond in 30 minutes or less. I enjoy those conversations more and feel more compelled to set up an in person date. Do you feel like the pace of the co... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Messaging Pace | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/opx51x/messaging_pace/ |
waytooindecisivehelp | 2018-01-11 01:42:28 | 1,515,634,948 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7pkmmm | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7pkmmm/should_i_20f_give_up_or_shoot_my_shot/ | 1 | I met this guy a couple months ago on tinder and we go to the same college. Although we hung out once towards the beginning, it wasn’t a date. There were a few signs in the past couple months that he was interested in me so I always questioned what his intentions were. I’m pretty into him and want to get to know him be... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (20F) give up or shoot my shot? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7pkmmm/should_i_20f_give_up_or_shoot_my_shot/ |
The_squirrelgirl | 2020-03-21 06:44:08 | 1,584,773,048 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fmavvr | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/fmavvr/my_mother_keeps_involving_me_in_my_fathers/ | 4 | I don’t really have anyone I feel comfortable sharing this with so I turn to reddit I guess, sorry if this isn’t the right sub. I’m 27 and my mother in her 50’s very often asks me to confirm different things about how iPhones and iMessage work. She doesn’t try to hide that fact that the reason for her asking is because... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My mother keeps involving me in my fathers imaginary affair | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/fmavvr/my_mother_keeps_involving_me_in_my_fathers/ |
Capable_Okra | 2020-08-09 11:40:46 | 1,596,973,246 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | i6hynn | true | null | 67 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/i6hynn/if_location_is_a_deal_breaker_why_do_people_set/ | 78 | I have a lot of matches that fizzle after someone asks me where I live. My location is stated in my profile. I live in a suburb outside of a medium sized city. I get it - I used to live in NY (not my city now) and wouldn't have dated someone in NJ because I didn't have a car. But the city where I live near now is very ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | If location is a deal breaker, why do people set their distance filters so far? | null | 0.98 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/i6hynn/if_location_is_a_deal_breaker_why_do_people_set/ |
lfp_pounder | 2022-12-31 11:53:41 | 1,672,487,621 | null | null | 0 | zzshgl | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zzshgl/i_played_a_scammer_and_i_feel_great/ | 1 | I matched with this woman on hinge. There weren’t any red flags on her profile, and I was really interested in her…but within the 4th message she tried asking my number, I would’ve given it had she not followed it up with a message about how she only has limited subscription to Hinge and will lose it soon. I told her h... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I played a scammer and I feel great! | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zzshgl/i_played_a_scammer_and_i_feel_great/ |
Lazyalgae | 2021-05-08 19:29:23 | 1,620,502,163 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | n7wlcy | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n7wlcy/advice_rant/ | 0 | I’m 18 (f) and never dated. I often feel really lonely because I feel like there has never been a person to have liked me without an obligation. Like my family does love me, but they are supposed to? I matched with a guy on tinder and he was really sweet and mentioned multiple times about how he liked me. We never met ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice? Rant? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n7wlcy/advice_rant/ |
myfairlady987 | 2020-08-27 22:49:22 | 1,598,568,562 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ihveti | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ihveti/its_been_2_years_and_im_ready_to_tell_my/ | 12 | It was 2 years ago this February. I(33f at the time) was fresh out of a 10 year relationship with a narcissistic gaslighter extraordinaire. I was a free women back on the dating scene that had changed significantly since I was last in it. Online dating is now a thing and I figure it out pretty quickly. After no time at... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Its been 2 years and Im ready to tell my story....even if its to internet strangers. trigger warning | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ihveti/its_been_2_years_and_im_ready_to_tell_my/ |
Ellie120721 | 2020-03-04 04:00:01 | 1,583,294,401 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | fd7a7s | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fd7a7s/im_18m_going_to_use_dating_apps_for_the_first/ | 1 | \[english is not my first language, sorry for any mistake\] In November of the last year, I became single again after my high school sweetheart and first love break up with me ( almost a year and a half together ), after a couple of months of a hard break up an emotionally insecure I'm finally feeling good and secure a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm (18m) going to use dating apps for the first time, can you give me any advice? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fd7a7s/im_18m_going_to_use_dating_apps_for_the_first/ |
JRPainter2023 | 2023-11-21 01:40:16 | 1,700,530,816 | 0 | ['match.com'] | 0 | 1805abb | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1805abb/am_i_in_the_wrong/ | 1 | I (M-35) met my ex girlfriend (F-45) on match.com back in April. She has 3 kids, 19, 16, 9. I have no kids. She makes good money as an RN and those kids are spoiled AF, no dad in picture. We had a very strange relationship. I would say something through text and she would get mad and she would breakup with me and stop ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I in the wrong? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1805abb/am_i_in_the_wrong/ |
Bel40z | 2024-06-27 12:35:09 | 1,719,491,709 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1dpq7vy | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dpq7vy/would_you_date_a_recovering_alcoholic/ | 1 | I don’t have any issues getting matches and a lot of these end up being good conversations that lead to planning a date. However, as soon as I (26M) disclose the fact that I’m sober and apart of the recovery community, I almost always get ghosted immediately. So ladies, would you date someone who is sober? Why or why n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would you date a recovering alcoholic? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dpq7vy/would_you_date_a_recovering_alcoholic/ |
Silly_Poetry2819 | 2022-09-02 19:49:59 | 1,662,148,199 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | x4apna | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/x4apna/new_on_reddit_because_dating_apps_are_exhausting/ | 1 | I had a very complicated and lenhy relationship. I am trying to get out of it. Tried so many dating apps and ended up making pretty cool friends. Whenever somebody is trying to get romantically involve with me either i get cold feet or that person just gives me mixed signals. And that just lowers my confidence which le... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | new on reddit because dating apps are exhausting | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/x4apna/new_on_reddit_because_dating_apps_are_exhausting/ |
CuteTerror | 2020-06-30 00:51:02 | 1,593,478,262 | null | ['OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | hicuxc | true | Venting | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hicuxc/opinion_if_you_say_males_or_females_it_makes_my/ | 2 | Maybe it’s because it usually comes attached to a judgment on this subreddit (females are great liars, males just want to get laid). There’s a lot of people in this subreddit who just want to shit on dating/OLD/Tinder and tell us how unfair and biased it is, and they exclusively use “males” and “females”. Yes, yes, I k... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [Opinion] If you say “males” or “females” it makes my skin crawl | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hicuxc/opinion_if_you_say_males_or_females_it_makes_my/ |
zencanuck | 2019-08-21 18:20:58 | 1,566,411,658 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ctks35 | true | null | 146 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ctks35/losing_motivation/ | 54 | So as I get older I’m finding my motivation to date is decreasing. A lot of it is my self-image. I’m male, late 40s, not fat but definite dad bod, I’ve never been a looker just sort of unremarkable, firmly middle class, busy as a full time single dad. I tend to look at myself critically and think “what’s the point?”. T... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Losing Motivation | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ctks35/losing_motivation/ |
Efficient-Avocado-61 | 2024-08-04 19:59:09 | 1,722,801,549 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ek4c96 | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ek4c96/is_it_possible/ | 1 | So met this woman through dating app and while doing the deed. she told me that I have Avg sized p and I took it as challenge. I thought She didn't know it grows and 2 hours loving later she told me without even asking "it happened 12 times". I asked her to confirm if she was talking about her "O" and yes 12 O's in 2 h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it possible? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ek4c96/is_it_possible/ |
mrdisclaimer | 2021-10-03 20:02:24 | 1,633,291,344 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | q0pj1o | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q0pj1o/asking_for_a_dating_advice/ | 1 | Hey guys. I'm 22 y.o. man. I'm from the cold country, which is the biggest country by area. I work completely remotely as a programmer, I have a bachelor's degree. I don't have many friends, I go out once every 1-2 weeks. I'm not a stupid person, i know 2 languages, but I just can't get to date a girl. I don't know whe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Asking for a dating advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q0pj1o/asking_for_a_dating_advice/ |
Wellberry2022 | 2022-05-29 14:14:32 | 1,653,833,672 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | v0c260 | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/v0c260/mixed_feelings_about_first_date/ | 1 | I matched with a guy on an app, and we went on a coffee date. I'm interested in him, but I have mixed feelings about how it went. We had two virtual dates, and then this in-person date. The coffee date lasted almost 3 hours, which is probably a good sign. That said, he also seemed physically uncomfortable at times, so ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Mixed feelings about first date | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v0c260/mixed_feelings_about_first_date/ |
DarkMatterLuigi | 2021-12-22 02:42:33 | 1,640,140,953 | null | null | 0 | rluyvc | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/rluyvc/any_completely_free_dating_sites_like_eharmony/ | 1 | There any completely free online popular dating sites that let you message people without needing to get a subscription? Preferably one that's not swipe left swipe right. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Any completely free dating sites like eharmony? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/rluyvc/any_completely_free_dating_sites_like_eharmony/ |
Plinckochip | 2017-12-29 16:55:30 | 1,514,566,530 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7mvfw5 | false | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7mvfw5/women_who_immediately_delete_profile_or_say_to/ | 2 | Couple weeks ago met a Tinder gal who’s (not into hookups haha). Hate dinner dates but she was with friends already, didn’t mention until I was in the area. Long night, whole thing went well, she was into me, talks with friend in washroom comes back casually says she’s already deleted the app after I got her number. Ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Women who immediately delete profile or say to delete and don’t. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7mvfw5/women_who_immediately_delete_profile_or_say_to/ |
LBSays | 2018-12-10 21:14:31 | 1,544,476,471 | null | ['swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | a4zvis | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a4zvis/distancing_myself_from_dating/ | 1 | I wanted some advice on what to do regarding my dating life. I broke up with my ex in March, mainly because we just wasn’t working out and all she wanted to do was fool around. Now here I am 8 months later and I have no ambition to date again. I’m on tinder and match with a decent amount of girls but I cannot get mysel... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Distancing myself from dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a4zvis/distancing_myself_from_dating/ |
LeavingHomeland | 2023-12-06 21:35:34 | 1,701,898,534 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18cexgx | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18cexgx/is_this_fwb_or_more/ | 1 | I am posting this for my best friend who isn't on reddit as she requested, hoping to get some advice: she(F/35) has been seeing someone(M/36) from a dating app for the past 3-4 months. They meet once every week.They're both introverted homebuddies. They only have been out for drinks a couple of times, and the rest of h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this FWB or more? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18cexgx/is_this_fwb_or_more/ |
HealthyLifestyleRich | 2021-04-23 15:03:30 | 1,619,190,210 | null | null | 0 | mwx9lm | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mwx9lm/lazy_men_and_then_impatient_men/ | 8 | I've talked with a guy on a dating app over the years. He always asked me out but never set up a date. We matched recently and he kept asking if we would actually meet up. I said yes I'm down. Basically he would ask me out in the past, never set up a date, I would move on (not unmatch, just leave his message there). Th... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Lazy men, and then impatient men | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mwx9lm/lazy_men_and_then_impatient_men/ |
MyKensho | 2024-05-14 00:32:21 | 1,715,646,741 | 0 | ['OLD', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1crf3dj | true | Question ❓ | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1crf3dj/the_quality_of_men_in_old/ | 1 | So, I've grown extremely curious about this topic over the years after hearing from quite a few women on the subject. I've looked into it, but not all that deeply, and I wanted to get a current and updated take on this from a broader group of women. Just a relatively simple question for ladies looking for male partners... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The Quality of Men in OLD | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1crf3dj/the_quality_of_men_in_old/ |
Century22nd | 2023-06-30 19:58:19 | 1,688,155,099 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 14nafgb | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14nafgb/honest_question_do_people_that_are_habitually/ | 2 | Do people who are usually always single, find issues with everyone they date, and bounce from one dating app to another have an addiction? The addiction being "there is always someone new I can meet and talk to" like does it trigger the same receptors in the brain as gambling, or drug addicts? Because the same company ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Honest Question: Do People That Are Habitually Single and Serial Date Have An Addiction? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14nafgb/honest_question_do_people_that_are_habitually/ |
Princesspeach0730 | 2023-11-13 10:40:28 | 1,699,872,028 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17u7yfo | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17u7yfo/how_should_i_start_this_conversation_with_the_guy/ | 1 | Rant style post, sorry for this its just hard to summarise my feelings I(24f) started dating C (32m) 2 months ago. We matched on Hinge on a Tuesday planned a date for sunday then met on friday/sat/sunday as we had too much to chat about and it seemed to be a great match. We didn't have a Gf/Bf conversation but we both ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How should I start this conversation with the guy I'm dating? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17u7yfo/how_should_i_start_this_conversation_with_the_guy/ |
suffan1895 | 2021-03-28 12:16:06 | 1,616,933,766 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | mf0d04 | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mf0d04/ladies_what_are_some_dos_and_donts_for_a_guy/ | 7 | I (25m) don't mind online dating, but I also would like to try meeting someone 'irl'. It seems more organic, natural and the superficiality of the apps can get a bit monotonous. It also seems pretty damn scary to me, so it's something I want to do to try and build up my own confidence, even if nothing comes of it, or e... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ladies, what are some dos and don'ts for a guy asking you out IRL (as in, a stranger, asking you out in public)? | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mf0d04/ladies_what_are_some_dos_and_donts_for_a_guy/ |
Cumberbad | 2023-08-17 20:15:47 | 1,692,303,347 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15tydua | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15tydua/what_is_it_with_people_suddenly_stopping_texting/ | 1 | I [20M] see this a lot on dating apps. Now I don't mean this as in you exchange half a dozen short texts and then they suddenly stop texting. That's normal. What I mean is: You exchange over a dozen long texts each about interesting topics. Humor included, obviously. The texts are well thought out with emojis thrown in... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What is it with people suddenly stopping texting? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15tydua/what_is_it_with_people_suddenly_stopping_texting/ |
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