author
stringlengths
3
20
created
stringdate
2010-01-01 00:17:25
2024-09-30 23:32:35
created_utc
float64
1.26B
1.73B
downs
float64
0
395
extraction_keywords
stringlengths
7
166
gilded
float64
0
7
id
stringlengths
5
7
is_crosspostable
bool
2 classes
link_flair_text
stringclasses
146 values
num_comments
int64
0
4.73k
num_crossposts
float64
0
109
permalink
stringlengths
28
88
score
int64
0
46k
selftext
stringlengths
1
38.4k
subreddit
stringclasses
9 values
subreddit_id
stringclasses
9 values
title
stringlengths
1
301
ups
float64
0
8.29k
upvote_ratio
float64
0
1
url
stringlengths
27
119
Sassy_Curmudgeon
2020-07-11 03:34:11
1,594,438,451
null
['matches', 'OLD']
0
hp37l5
true
null
19
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hp37l5/how_many_matches_until_you_find_a_contender/
7
I recently started OLD again after a 10 month relationship. It’s important to note I live in a remote, small, and isolated community. Many of my matches live inconveniently away (ex: ferry schedules, costly travel). I’ve started refining my search to local men only ranging in ages 30-50 (I am 36F). I am open to meeting...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
How many matches until you find a contender?
null
0.74
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hp37l5/how_many_matches_until_you_find_a_contender/
NakovaNars
2020-12-23 05:04:26
1,608,699,866
null
['tinder']
0
kimnht
true
null
16
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/kimnht/the_most_toxic_guy_ive_dated_and_all_of_the_red/
0
I've been seeing a guy a couple of times after I met him in an online chat room. Looking back there were so many red flags that I want to write them down in order to wrap my head around this myself. Maybe you can relate and be smarter than me. I know this is a lot. I'm disgusted by myself that I put up with this and di...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
The most toxic guy I've dated and all of the red flags I ignored (it's a lot)
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kimnht/the_most_toxic_guy_ive_dated_and_all_of_the_red/
Karlplooksafterme
2022-11-17 12:54:16
1,668,689,656
null
['online dating']
0
yxpiie
true
I Need Advice 😩
3
0
/r/dating/comments/yxpiie/meeting_girls_in_your_midlate_20s/
0
So I’ve had a few relationships, but have been single for the last few years. I’ve had a few girls say they like me, but I never have any interest in them whatsoever. I don’t think my standards are to high - I just don’t think those girls have been my type. I’ve had the feeling that I really don’t want to appear to gir...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Meeting girls in your mid-late 20s
null
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yxpiie/meeting_girls_in_your_midlate_20s/
themarshman721
2020-09-18 13:59:18
1,600,437,558
null
null
0
iv6kp9
true
null
5
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/iv6kp9/feedback_on_a_new_online_social_site/
1
Hello... there is a new social site that is called 'Stand-Up Socials' and I would like to offer OnlineDating members a free ticket so I can get your $.02 bc the long-term goal is to make a dating app where we connect people based on their comedy taste. This first event is for everyone but we will put the 'single and lo...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Feedback on a new online social site
null
0.57
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/iv6kp9/feedback_on_a_new_online_social_site/
[deleted]
2021-08-03 15:16:34
1,628,003,794
null
['online dating']
0
ox5kb7
true
Venting
7
0
/r/dating/comments/ox5kb7/m29_disheartned_by_dating_scene/
1
TLDR: Dating in your late twenties is challenging and disheartening. After a rough break up, I decided to get back out into the dating world going through the chaos that is online dating which im not unfamiliar with. My problem has been with a lack of reciprocation in communication after I have a match that successfull...
dating
t5_2qhb1
M(29) Disheartned by dating scene
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ox5kb7/m29_disheartned_by_dating_scene/
Optimal-Twist-5591
2024-02-26 20:01:08
1,708,977,668
0
['matched', 'bumble']
0
1b0r341
true
Question ❓
8
0
/r/dating/comments/1b0r341/am_i_overacting_or_being_insensitive/
2
For context : Matched on Bumble on Valentine’s Day, Finally decided to meet on 02/27. Both profiles verified Had a brunch date planned in advance for a set time of 2:30pm . Confirmed with my date three hours in advance to see if the set t ime was still okay, my date responded ” yes” My date never asked what area was I ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Am I overacting or being insensitive
2
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b0r341/am_i_overacting_or_being_insensitive/
Blondembahayy
2024-01-08 21:52:55
1,704,750,775
0
null
0
191x7m9
true
null
10
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/191x7m9/should_i_agree_to_a_call_to_talk_5_dates_deep_or/
1
5 long planned out good dates and good chemistry (no s$x but everything else thus far). He talked about a dinner with a female “long time friend” at the end our last date when I asked what he was up to for the rest of the weekend ( just making general convo not fishing.) Seemed like a lie to me. Anyways after that last...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Should I agree to a call to “talk” 5 dates deep or just go silent?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/191x7m9/should_i_agree_to_a_call_to_talk_5_dates_deep_or/
ATypicalScholar
2024-06-03 05:03:03
1,717,390,983
0
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
1d6wni7
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1d6wni7/dating_apps_dont_work_now_what/
1
I'm (M, 26) sorry but dating apps just do not work anymore. They're too heavily monetized and capitalized. At this point I've let my married lady friends handle my profiles and pictures because I can't be bothered with the waste of time. They've had the same results, no matches. They think my profiles are set up very w...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating apps don't work, now what?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d6wni7/dating_apps_dont_work_now_what/
MrBeanpod
2020-11-26 15:06:49
1,606,403,209
null
['OLD']
0
k1gqku
true
null
9
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/k1gqku/just_getting_back_into_dating_after_being/
4
I accidentally clicked left on OKC and it is someone whose profile I liked and wanted to send a message. Now I am unable to find the profile. So I paid the $50 get the pain account in hopes to find them. But no. Anybody else do this? And how do you reverse it. I already did the reset in the settings under privacy.
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Just getting back into dating after being separated for 5 years. Trying OLD and struggling with the apps.
null
0.7
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/k1gqku/just_getting_back_into_dating_after_being/
[deleted]
2015-02-23 04:14:53
1,424,664,893
0
['dating app', 'tinder']
0
2wu546
null
null
6
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2wu546/found_my_gf_on_tinder_and_i_need_advice/
1
So I have been dating this girl for around four months and we decided to make things official a few days ago. Just today my friend finds her profile on tinder and that she had been active on it recently. I had previously had a tinder account but I deleted it the day we said we would be exclusive. I messaged her about i...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Found my GF on Tinder and I need advice.
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2wu546/found_my_gf_on_tinder_and_i_need_advice/
danig98
2022-03-23 20:11:15
1,648,066,275
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
tlc0t9
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/tlc0t9/does_he_want_me_or_not/
2
hiii ok so, I (23f) been talking to this guy (23m) for about, 2 years now. yeah, TWO YEARS. we met in college back in 2017 and we've hooked up a couple times but they were always like one time things until the next time we ran into each other kind of thing. Fast forward to April 2020, so beginning of quarantine, we mat...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Does he want me or not?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tlc0t9/does_he_want_me_or_not/
PotentialGlass296
2024-05-02 15:00:59
1,714,662,059
0
['matched']
0
1cihum2
true
null
32
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cihum2/my_girl_wont_do_the_stuff_she_did_w_other_guys_w/
1
Me (18) and her (19) have been together for a year now but before that we had broken up after a 9 month rs. During that period she had talked to a lot of guys, sent them pics and done stuff w some of them. Me and her talked about it and she said because she wants to be high value and follow her values but even before o...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
My girl won’t do the stuff she did w other guys w me because she became “high value “
1
0.2
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cihum2/my_girl_wont_do_the_stuff_she_did_w_other_guys_w/
DelicisioRidiculo
2022-09-21 16:40:03
1,663,778,403
null
['OLD']
0
xk9ytc
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xk9ytc/low_expectations_dating_success/
3
I have known a couple different women that bounced from the apps pretty quickly, and after discussing how this works, I’ve gathered that they just find someone that meets their basic standards, and then just “decide” (for lack of a better term) to pursue that and get off the apps. One friend said she just went in with ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Low expectations = dating success???
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xk9ytc/low_expectations_dating_success/
Cringe79
2023-01-22 21:56:52
1,674,424,612
null
['tinder']
0
10ivh47
true
null
24
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/10ivh47/how_do_i_take_things_further/
1
Heya peeps from Reddit, I have been seeing this guy that I’ve met on tinder, we went on 3 dates over the period of 2 months. He showed me sign of real interest by text AND in real life, we had sex at every date and I can feel he really desire me and tell me I’m beautiful... The sex was not like crazy the first and seco...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I take things further?
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10ivh47/how_do_i_take_things_further/
Winterless
2014-01-15 22:51:24
1,389,826,284
0
['online dating']
0
1vb9q2
null
null
28
null
/r/AskWomen/comments/1vb9q2/women_of_reddit_what_would_be_a_good_place_for/
12
I'm genuinely curious about my attractiveness to women. While I agree with the belief that "everyone is beautiful to someone", I think we can also safely agree that some people get more attention for their features than others. As for me, I am not sure if I'm simply average looking or if I'm just terrible at reading si...
AskWomen
t5_2rxrw
Women of reddit, what would be a good place for getting an honest opinion of a man's attractiveness?
12
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1vb9q2/women_of_reddit_what_would_be_a_good_place_for/
elliusion
2022-01-01 07:07:00
1,641,020,820
null
['facebook dating']
0
rtdyf6
true
Question
9
0
/r/dating/comments/rtdyf6/talking_stage_red_flags/
3
I made it matter of fact on my profile that I’m not actively seeking out a serious relationship or hookup. I suggested getting to know someone as friends and that we could explore a more romantic relationship if that time came. This guy doesn’t seem to be respecting those boundaries. Is it a red flag that he keeps call...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Talking stage red flags?
null
0.72
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rtdyf6/talking_stage_red_flags/
Pmabbz
2022-06-04 18:24:55
1,654,367,095
null
['dating apps']
0
v4urfp
true
I Need Advice
9
0
/r/dating/comments/v4urfp/guys_who_have_successfully_used_dating_apps_which/
2
I've started using some dating apps and found that I'm not getting many hits (no hits at all on some of them). And some I have hits I can't see unless I pay. So which apps worked best for you guys? And what strategies or setups gave you the best result?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Guys who have successfully used dating apps. Which ones worked best for you?
null
0.76
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v4urfp/guys_who_have_successfully_used_dating_apps_which/
princesspuddin9
2021-01-24 05:04:42
1,611,464,682
null
['dating apps']
0
l3szk2
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/l3szk2/what_are_some_good_dating_apps_where_you_dont_get/
2
I feel uneasy when so many users message all at once, sometimes with inappropriate messages. What are some dating apps where I can limit the people who can message me depending on what im looking for?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What are some good dating apps where you don’t get messages from every single person on the app, but just from people you approve?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l3szk2/what_are_some_good_dating_apps_where_you_dont_get/
CatOk1422
2023-06-22 16:18:37
1,687,450,717
0
['dating apps']
0
14g7tno
true
null
54
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14g7tno/how_to_date_when_im_pinching_pennies/
65
Hey y'all, need some advice here. I'm an early 30sF who is back on the dating apps (for what feels like the umpteenth time, but that's for a different post). I live in a big city where most of the men I'm matching with work in tech or other high paying jobs. They easily make 2-5 times as much money as I do (I'm a freel...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
How to date when I'm pinching pennies
65
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14g7tno/how_to_date_when_im_pinching_pennies/
Substantial_Coast224
2024-01-31 21:36:19
1,706,736,979
0
['online dating']
0
1aftg4h
true
Long Distance ✈️
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1aftg4h/long_distance_online_dating_advice_needed/
1
Can’t believe I’m writing this. Please don’t judge me lol I just want some input. I met this guy on instagram, he commented on my picture I went on his page and I was instantly attracted to him & ever since then we have been texting nonstop, I’m talking paragraphs. We already told eachother how much we like one another...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Long distance online dating advice needed
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aftg4h/long_distance_online_dating_advice_needed/
Responsible-Bet-9365
2024-01-11 03:10:48
1,704,942,648
0
['online dating']
0
193rfpo
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
45
1
/r/dating/comments/193rfpo/dating_world_is_toxic/
32
Why is dating so difficult. You put yourself out there online dating (because nobody wants to approach in person) and bam it’s one of the most biggest time wasters EVER. Why am I always the first one to make a move and initiate. Why am I always asking if the dude got home safe or planning dates. Man it’s just frustrati...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating world is toxic
32
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/193rfpo/dating_world_is_toxic/
xMouthFullOfGoldx
2022-11-27 11:58:20
1,669,550,300
null
['dating apps']
0
z5zhia
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/z5zhia/i_want_to_have_at_least_sex_once/
0
I’m a complete failure at dating and have no idea what I should do to ever get to have a good dating life. I’m a 26 year old male, never had a girlfriend, had my first date at 21 and lost my virginity to her even though I had no feelings for her and she treated me like shit. Since then I didn’t even have the opportunit...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I want to have at least sex once
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z5zhia/i_want_to_have_at_least_sex_once/
pulpfree
2012-06-21 16:03:03
1,340,294,583
0
['dating site']
null
vdx48
null
null
1
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/vdx48/been_having_a_really_good_time_getting_to_know/
1
I (23/m) have been talking with her (21/f) for about a month and a half now. We met back in December at a show and didn't really pay attention to each other. About 2 months ago, I found her on a dating site and decided to take a shot in the dark. So we started chatting and becoming friends, about 2 weeks ago we finally...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Been having a really good time getting to know her, but need some advice
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vdx48/been_having_a_really_good_time_getting_to_know/
cvslsc
2024-04-17 15:24:01
1,713,367,441
0
null
0
1c6cnuu
true
null
30
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c6cnuu/what_is_considered_too_long_of_chatting_before/
12
I've (55F) been single for over a decade, and totally okay with it. But then this guy comes along and asks me out and I thought it was worth pursuing. It didn't work out, which was disappointing, but I realized I enjoyed having someone in my life so I've signed up for online dating. I dabbled in it several years ago, b...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What is considered too long of chatting before meeting out?
12
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c6cnuu/what_is_considered_too_long_of_chatting_before/
pixiepixiepix
2019-05-14 15:31:40
1,557,847,900
null
['tinder']
0
bokf0w
true
null
36
0
/r/dating/comments/bokf0w/i_hooked_up_with_a_guy_in_tinder_and_now_he_wants/
6
We met over tinder and had sex one night. I saw him as a one night stand kind of guy, mostly because he’s very pretty. But a week later he suggested studying in the library together then going for a nice meal. Does this mean he might want more than just sex? Update: We are dating :) Early days
dating
t5_2qhb1
I hooked up with a guy in tinder and now he wants to hang out.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bokf0w/i_hooked_up_with_a_guy_in_tinder_and_now_he_wants/
Random60342
2021-04-24 15:19:30
1,619,277,570
null
['tinder']
0
mxm0iz
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/mxm0iz/moving_on_from_divorce_29m/
2
29M here, not entirely sure how to move forward in dating life after my divorce. I started going out with my now ex-wife at 17 (high school sweethearts) and we divorced 1 year ago after she had an affair. Our relationship was definitely not healthy, in the latter years especially; I basically did all household work/coo...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Moving on from Divorce (29M)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mxm0iz/moving_on_from_divorce_29m/
Last-Ad-6739
2024-03-27 07:21:38
1,711,524,098
0
['dating apps']
0
1bovymo
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bovymo/can_friendship_really_turn_into_something_or_is/
1
For context I’m a 30F looking to settle down and I’m on all dating apps imaginable. So basically I’ve known this guy for close to ten years and we were friends, I wouldn’t say we hung out alone a lot but we randomly used to run into each other at events or overseas trips (he was with a different group) and we were intr...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Can friendship really turn into something or is it just loneliness?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bovymo/can_friendship_really_turn_into_something_or_is/
competenceiskey
2023-12-16 18:16:43
1,702,750,603
0
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
18jx3f4
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18jx3f4/lack_of_social_media_usage_making_it_harder_to/
1
I (M24) for about two months now have been on a complete social media cleanse. No Fb, IG, TikTok, or Snapchat. I’ve spent a lot of time on those platforms in the past and have been fairly successful making content and gaining a following, but recently it’s been too much so I’m taking time to reset. In the meantime, I’v...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Lack of social media usage making it harder to find consistent interest
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18jx3f4/lack_of_social_media_usage_making_it_harder_to/
haleygirl9434
2018-12-05 19:44:21
1,544,039,061
null
['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
a3fs90
true
Tinder/Online Dating
16
0
/r/dating/comments/a3fs90/guy_pursuing_me_blocks_me_before_first_date/
3
I matched a guy on an "elite" dating app a few weeks back. We chatted for a few days before the conversation trailed off as they do on dating apps. A few weeks later, I downloaded Tinder and saw him again and we re-matched with him INSTANTLY messaging me, trying to reignite our "connection." He asked for my number, to ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Guy Pursuing Me Blocks Me BEFORE First Date
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a3fs90/guy_pursuing_me_blocks_me_before_first_date/
penguin_jamboree_
2022-11-15 21:55:11
1,668,549,311
null
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
ywasqe
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ywasqe/how_to_let_someone_off_the_hook_nicely/
0
So I got out of a pretty bad marriage about a year ago. A little while ago I tried a couple of dating apps and had a successful match/convo and got the courage to ask her out. We started talking on Snapchat shortly after. We haven’t gone out yet, and I don’t want to anymore. Not for any damning reason; She’s nice, got ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to let someone off the hook nicely.
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ywasqe/how_to_let_someone_off_the_hook_nicely/
ElToreroo
2022-02-14 07:22:54
1,644,823,374
null
null
0
ss4s1w
true
null
0
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/ss4s1w/please_beware_of_scammers/
0
This may be obvious but you’d be surprised I had a freaking scare a few hours ago. Just wanted to go on here and say please be aware of scammers don’t ever give out personal information never text anyone through personal phone. you’d be surprised what they could do with just your number. I spent the last couple hours d...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Please beware of scammers
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ss4s1w/please_beware_of_scammers/
NeighborhoodAway5042
2023-07-19 15:08:25
1,689,779,305
0
['online dating']
0
153xngr
false
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/153xngr/asking_what_kind_of_music_and_band/
1
If a lady on online dating mentioned thatvshe would rather go see a concert vs something she enjoys like a trip out of town and says she would rather see the concert. Is it okay to ask what her favorite band or type of music is that she would like to see in concert?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Asking What Kind of Music and Band
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/153xngr/asking_what_kind_of_music_and_band/
boodododoeoelwj
2023-04-29 16:41:40
1,682,786,500
0
['tinder']
0
1330hrh
true
Support Needed 🫂
4
0
/r/dating/comments/1330hrh/im_about_to_go_on_a_date_for_fun_however_i_am/
2
I have been talking to a woman on tinder for about a week now and it has been feeling like a goofy, genuinely fun connection that I’m hoping transitions into real life. I am majorly depressed because I think I am stupid, and incompetent, with a hint of ignorance that is based on my past social experiences and was bulli...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I’m about to go on a date for fun, however I am majorly depressed
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1330hrh/im_about_to_go_on_a_date_for_fun_however_i_am/
Bull1088
2019-04-01 16:21:57
1,554,135,717
null
['eharmony']
0
b84k60
true
null
14
0
/r/AskMen/comments/b84k60/how_old_were_you_beofre_you_signed_up_gor/
9
I'm 23 and not really worried about finding someone quite yet. I'm finishing up my degree in December. I commute and really don't meet anyone new often. Im just curious when you realized it was a good time to sign up and what was the outcome
AskMen
t5_2s30g
How old were you beofre you signed up gor eHarmony or match? Why did you sjgn up?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/b84k60/how_old_were_you_beofre_you_signed_up_gor/
thetryhard06
2020-07-30 11:05:34
1,596,107,134
null
['matched', 'online dating']
0
i0k4my
true
Tinder/Online Dating
8
0
/r/dating/comments/i0k4my/a_female_supposedly_20f_scammer_trying_to_use_me/
4
Guys, I want y'all to know something that just happened to me. I want y'all to know so y'all don't fall for the same rope. Honestly, it really made me turn off about women and online dating. So, I met this scammer, a girl, on this new app called PearUp. (I thought it's great) We both matched and she was beyond attracti...
dating
t5_2qhb1
A female (supposedly 20F) scammer trying to use me (21M), under guise of a romantic relationship, for help with family "inheritance" through the use of CashApp ---- BUSTED
null
0.7
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/i0k4my/a_female_supposedly_20f_scammer_trying_to_use_me/
bullmarket31
2023-08-22 12:24:14
1,692,707,054
0
['dating apps']
0
15y4am4
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/15y4am4/gymdating/
1
Do you all talk to people at the gym that you might be interested in? I’ve always just exercised and minded my own business. I workout daily so it’s important for me to find someone with the same interests. There’s some pretty girls at the gym I’d ask out but I don’t want someone to get the wrong impression or upset an...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Gym/dating
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15y4am4/gymdating/
sercsd
2018-07-12 17:44:43
1,531,417,483
null
['matches', 'online dating']
0
8ybyr2
true
null
47
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8ybyr2/when_to_unmatch/
2
So starting online dating and first day got quite a few matches, first response the woman in question seemed to dislike my profile as it was written in a confrontational way. I have quite a few interests on there but the part she disliked was "I work by the river which is ideal for walking/reading/coffee in the sun, I'...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
When to unmatch
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8ybyr2/when_to_unmatch/
Lancaster19
2018-12-25 13:07:27
1,545,743,247
null
['dating apps', 'tinder']
0
a9eqyz
true
null
7
0
/r/dating/comments/a9eqyz/21_year_old_male_never_dated_any_advice/
3
I’m 21 and never dated asked girls out all through my teens never went anywhere. Tried tinder doesn’t work tried all dating apps possible basically I’m going to be alone but I have prepared myself for that.
dating
t5_2qhb1
21 year old male never dated any advice?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a9eqyz/21_year_old_male_never_dated_any_advice/
Psychological_Ad1132
2020-07-02 08:12:46
1,593,677,566
null
['matched']
0
hjt2ud
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hjt2ud/why_are_average_and_taller_women_more_lenient/
1
I've talked to a lot of short guys and i'm a short guy myself. A lot of them stated they have better luck with women they're height or taller. I've actually seen plenty of comments with short guys with tall women and theres a good % of them on r/short. Yes its legit, they post pictures of their tall wives on there some...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why are average and taller women more lenient with a guy's height than short women are?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hjt2ud/why_are_average_and_taller_women_more_lenient/
Skiracer6
2020-06-12 14:24:25
1,591,971,865
null
['dating site', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid']
0
h7lm1j
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/h7lm1j/dating_older_women_m21/
1
Is it ok to date a woman who is significantly older than you? say like a range from 25-47, and if so, how do you make it work, how do you deal with the age difference? How do you approach an older woman (on a dating site like Tinder/Bumble/OkCupid)
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating older women? (M21)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/h7lm1j/dating_older_women_m21/
Fun_Dance_1771
2021-06-27 07:58:59
1,624,780,739
null
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
o8sohx
true
null
303
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/o8sohx/so_online_dating_eww/
2,160
Does anyone else ever feel like a total loser when you’re trying to connect with someone when online dating and you realize, you have no real interests, you don’t really do anything for fun, except binge watch Netflix, and you don’t like camping or hiking, or even really people in general and then you realize you’ll pr...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
So online dating, eww.
null
0.95
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o8sohx/so_online_dating_eww/
angry_arugula
2020-10-27 17:23:51
1,603,819,431
null
['hinge']
0
jj5hnp
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/jj5hnp/please_help_how_do_i_cancel_a_first_date/
2
It’s been six months since the ending of my five year relationship. I’ve been hung up on it but as I am starting to slowly move forward, I figured I should get out there and maybe meet some new people. I downloaded hinge. I met a beautiful girl who is also a nurse like me, we set up a breakfast meeting. It’s tomorrow m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Please help- how do I cancel a first date?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jj5hnp/please_help_how_do_i_cancel_a_first_date/
GorviVelgin
2018-05-27 18:38:25
1,527,446,305
0
['swiping', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'pof']
0
8mjqz0
false
null
59
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8mjqz0/feeling_incredibly_low/
14
I'm not sure what the point of this is, but I have to get my thoughts out there because it's driving me nuts. It's probably just because it's my birthday today, but today feels more worse, more soul crushing than others. A bit of background, I'm a full time single father of four, oldest being 11, youngest twins who are...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Feeling Incredibly Low
14
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8mjqz0/feeling_incredibly_low/
Muted-Understanding
2019-12-19 09:44:43
1,576,748,683
null
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
ecr2fz
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ecr2fz/dating_apps_for_mid_20s/
1
“Tinder is for banging, bumble is for dating.” Do you agree with this? Have you had any luck making meaning relationships on either of these sites?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating apps for mid 20s
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ecr2fz/dating_apps_for_mid_20s/
ouchmyfoothurts
2013-04-23 04:57:59
1,366,693,079
0
['online dater']
0
1cx1nf
null
null
8
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cx1nf/first_date_went_really_well_but_her_past_scares/
1
Me: 26 / M. Her: 25 / F. The good news is that we met online, connected really well, and had an amazing first date (one of the best dates I've ever been on, actually). The bad news is that before we started dating, I realized we had common friends of friends. Like any good online dater, I asked around about her and got...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
First date went really well but her past scares the fuck out of me. How do I dip out?
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cx1nf/first_date_went_really_well_but_her_past_scares/
No_Grape5580
2024-08-17 07:41:43
1,723,880,503
0
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
1euc8y9
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1euc8y9/overly_nervous_for_date/
3
I’ve met this guy once before off hinge and he was super nice on the first date. We got along great and had good banter, but nothing really happened other than that. We hugged and that’s as far as physical intimacy went. We both got busy for a couple weeks but continued texted frequently and are set to meet again tomor...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Overly nervous for date?
3
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1euc8y9/overly_nervous_for_date/
Gemdrenched
2024-02-03 00:23:22
1,706,919,802
0
['OLD']
0
1ahithw
true
null
344
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/1ahithw/does_height_matter_that_much/
103
OK, so I (40f) went out on an OLD date this past Tuesday, and I actually liked the guy (35m). More than most I go out with. So I was hopeful He laughed, he reached over to hold my hand, I told him he looked good, he complimented my appearance, etc. We talked about a lot of stuff, the vibe was excellent Until we both st...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Does height matter THAT much?
103
0.91
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1ahithw/does_height_matter_that_much/
GloomyUse8058
2024-07-13 10:29:27
1,720,866,567
0
['matched']
0
1e279la
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1e279la/i_matched_with_someone_that_i_actually_like_advice/
3
He’s 26 and I’m 30F. I think I’m taller or about the same height as him and it doesn’t matter. First thing that caught my attention were his eyes. He reminds me of my celebrity crush Aron Piper! And he’s actually been a gentleman so far and calls me “Miss.” And he asked for my number but then said or if you don’t feel ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I matched with someone that I actually like! Advice
3
0.71
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e279la/i_matched_with_someone_that_i_actually_like_advice/
lemoncrunchies
2023-10-26 07:44:14
1,698,306,254
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
17gr7b4
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/17gr7b4/should_i_pursue_this/
1
I(F23) matched with this guy(M25) on Tinder in June. At the time my intentions were to date different people, however out of the multiple people I had met, this guy in particular was one I kept going back to. His intentions were to date seriously. We had gotten together several times. We slept together after our 4th ti...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I pursue this?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17gr7b4/should_i_pursue_this/
bak1776
2023-06-02 15:36:34
1,685,720,194
0
['matched', 'dating apps', 'hinge']
0
13yg12g
true
null
12
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/13yg12g/do_i_suck_at_dating_apps/
0
Am I too soft, lol? A girl liked my picture on Hinge... 3 days later I matched her and sent the first message: "Hey! Sweet dog you got there, is it a rescue?" Of course, no response... getting real tired of these apps lol. I'm a decent looking dude (maybe 7.5)... I just suck at texting I guess. I know every girl is dif...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do I suck at dating apps??
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13yg12g/do_i_suck_at_dating_apps/
_ipseity
2019-01-20 20:47:50
1,548,017,270
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
ai2508
true
I Need Advice
8
0
/r/dating/comments/ai2508/i_24_f_found_out_she_22_f_slept_with_someone/
0
Story time. We matched on Tinder - she immediately slipped me a message and gave me her phone number instantly (without me asking) - I asked her to add me on Instagram first and we casually started chatting. We clicked straight away, both had the same sense of humour, there was sexual tension etc. great communication -...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I (24 F.) found out she (22. F) slept with someone before and after our date..
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ai2508/i_24_f_found_out_she_22_f_slept_with_someone/
blablaletmeexplain
2023-08-15 11:36:32
1,692,099,392
0
['tinder']
0
15rq6hi
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15rq6hi/to_all_the_men_why_do_i_subconsciously_seem_to/
1
What the headline says, but here is some more context. I (28f) have dated a lot in my life; I've had boyfriends, affairs, male best friends where there never was a vibe of more and male friends where there was maybe a vibe for more. The bottom line of all I've learned is how important it is to take time to really get t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
To all the men: why do I (subconsciously) seem to only meet men who are not into an organic, gentle getting to know each other process?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15rq6hi/to_all_the_men_why_do_i_subconsciously_seem_to/
blueandblackandblue
2020-04-16 15:14:52
1,587,050,092
null
['online dating']
0
g2gsie
true
Question
25
0
/r/dating/comments/g2gsie/anyone_else_worried_about_how_not_having_gyms/
5
Anyone else really missing the gym right now due to them being closed indefinitely? I am grateful that I had a pretty robust collection of dumbbells and a home gym setup and then spend a pretty penny on whatever additional equipment I could get my hands on since gyms closed due to COVID-19, but at the same time, it's n...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Anyone else worried about how not having gyms open right now will affect their dating lives post-coronavirus?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g2gsie/anyone_else_worried_about_how_not_having_gyms/
Hropinator
2020-02-08 16:23:45
1,581,179,025
null
['dating apps']
0
f0tqyz
true
I Need Advice
1
0
/r/dating/comments/f0tqyz/20m_got_out_of_a_4_year_relationship_with_my/
1
I've started taking care of myself more. I.e. working out, eating clean, grooming myself everyday, and I feel pretty confident in how im presenting myself, but as I said I go to a trade school, and as you can imagine their isnt a large pool of girls to talk to lol. So my problem is that, besides dating apps, there aren...
dating
t5_2qhb1
[20M] Got out of a 4 year relationship with my highschool gf. We had good memories but we just wanted different things at the end. I've been trying to get back in the dating scene, but my flirting skills are almost nonexistent right now. Any advice would be appreciated
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/f0tqyz/20m_got_out_of_a_4_year_relationship_with_my/
CripplingAnxiety94
2024-07-10 00:03:33
1,720,569,813
0
['matched']
0
1dzhov0
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dzhov0/i_keep_getting_ghosted_a_day_after_any_date_i_go/
2
I usually wouldn't make a post like this, but I need to share my thoughts and see what some other people think. I apologize in advance for the rambling. So I've had horrific luck with dating most of my life, but recently I've noticed a pattern, and I'm not sure how to fix it. I'll go on a date with someone I'm into, ev...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I keep getting ghosted a day after any date I go on, and I just need some advice
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dzhov0/i_keep_getting_ghosted_a_day_after_any_date_i_go/
Eastern_Ad_3147
2022-03-13 14:27:55
1,647,181,675
null
['hinge']
0
td81vt
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/td81vt/how_much_communication_is_ok_while_on_holiday/
3
I (26F) met this guy (31M) on Hinge about a month ago and we have been on 7-8 dates since then, hooked up, cuddled, went to movies, held hands in public etc. we both admitted that we really like each other and we want eventually a relationship from the app, but we did not talk about exclusivity or anything yet. We are ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How much communication is ok while on holiday?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/td81vt/how_much_communication_is_ok_while_on_holiday/
TreatCautious2315
2024-09-09 20:05:33
1,725,912,333
0
['hinge']
0
1fcz0ez
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fcz0ez/hi_people_i_superliked_sent_a_rose_a_girl_on/
1
We have many mutual friends though haven't spoken in years. I don't fancy her much but both of us are singletons for a long time & are both doctors. I think we can make things work. I'm not sure why I'm posting here or what I'm asking .. perhaps just trying to ask if this was a good idea ... 🙂
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Hi people, I super-liked (sent a rose) a girl on Hinge , who I later realised is an old acquaintance of mine, with whom I did a post grad course 11 years ago.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fcz0ez/hi_people_i_superliked_sent_a_rose_a_girl_on/
Desert_Kitty
2019-09-29 07:49:19
1,569,743,359
null
['tinder']
0
das901
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/das901/unexpectedly_fell_in_love_with_tinder_one_night/
0
Hello, I met a guy on tinder, we had sex on 2. date. I thought its just one(two) night stand - that is what I was looking for on tinder. But he stayed around, bought me flowers, dinners, he is planning time weeks ahead for us to meet and I actually started to like him very much. But after I started to like him, - I don...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Unexpectedly fell in love with tinder one night stand, dont know how to turn it around.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/das901/unexpectedly_fell_in_love_with_tinder_one_night/
longwaitjane
2024-05-07 20:58:44
1,715,115,524
0
null
0
1cmmipw
true
null
62
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cmmipw/is_a_woman_traveling_for_work_considered/
1
If a woman traveled for work (moving every year or 2) would this be considered unattractive? Assuming that all other things were good ie physical attraction, emotional intelligence, secure attachment style, active passions and hobbies, and positive relationships with family and close friends, would the moving make her ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Is a woman traveling for work considered unattractive?
1
0.48
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cmmipw/is_a_woman_traveling_for_work_considered/
Silver-Ad4694
2021-10-14 06:53:51
1,634,194,431
null
['matched', 'online dating']
0
q7ubts
true
I Need Advice
2
0
/r/dating/comments/q7ubts/confused_with_this_guy_behavior/
1
I matched with a guy through online dating around 3 weeks back. First we texted for two days then had a phone call. I found him to be okay. Then after 3 days he asked for a video call date. So he lives in another state and we cannot physically meet. So i agreed for it and we had a video call date and it went fine. So i...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Confused with this guy behavior
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/q7ubts/confused_with_this_guy_behavior/
violeth_earth
2023-04-05 18:24:52
1,680,719,092
0
['dating app', 'tinder']
0
12ctalj
true
null
77
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/12ctalj/am_i_being_manipulated_on_the_first_date/
287
Sorry the title is a bit wrong: Am i being manipulated before the first date? 🤡 I (F18) am going on a date tomorrow with a (M24). There will be a tl;dr at the end, because this has a ton of information. I met this guy on a dating app (not tinder btw). And i thought we clicked pretty well and had full on conversations....
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Am i being manipulated on the first date?
287
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/12ctalj/am_i_being_manipulated_on_the_first_date/
usernamedealer
2021-08-04 02:17:27
1,628,043,447
null
['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'facebook dating']
0
oxirih
true
I Need Advice
16
0
/r/dating/comments/oxirih/whats_wrong_with_me/
6
Every single message i sent out on tinder.... and bumble.... and even the Facebook dating app..... not a single response Messaged some women from high school/college directly.... nobody wants to talk. The ones that do, say they aren't interested or aren't looking to date.... then the next day they post pics of their da...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Whats wrong with me????
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oxirih/whats_wrong_with_me/
Pacific9
2017-09-09 13:15:58
1,504,962,958
null
['online dating', 'dating apps', 'dating sites']
0
6z1mme
false
null
11
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6z1mme/xpost_from_raskmenover30_have_traditional_dating/
6
A few weeks ago, I thought I'd pay a visit to my over-a-year-disabled online dating profile. I have not noticed much of a difference between then and now with the profiles. Am I imagining things when I think that dating apps have diverted traffic from dating sites?
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
[X-post from r/askmenover30] Have traditional dating sites seen a decline with dating apps becoming the norm?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6z1mme/xpost_from_raskmenover30_have_traditional_dating/
Odd-Hyena-9704
2023-03-12 18:33:00
1,678,645,980
null
['dating app']
0
11plx5i
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/11plx5i/deleted_dating_app/
1
I have deleted dating app because it don’t work for me , what I should try next ?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Deleted dating app
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11plx5i/deleted_dating_app/
[deleted]
2015-06-22 04:06:45
1,434,946,005
0
['online dating', 'dating app', 'tinder', 'hinge']
0
3aobyz
null
null
10
null
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/3aobyz/online_dating_after_a_divorce_what_are_the_rules/
6
I just went through a bad divorce and now I'm in my early 30s and single. I've recently started dating again and decided to try Hinge, which is a dating app that matches you with single people in your extended social network using Facebook. You get maybe 10-12 candidates a day, you swipe yes or no. If you both swipe ye...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Online Dating After a Divorce - what are the rules?
6
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/3aobyz/online_dating_after_a_divorce_what_are_the_rules/
FalconLord92
2019-07-16 13:48:14
1,563,284,894
null
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'pof']
0
cdx9re
true
null
25
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cdx9re/27m_tired_of_being_lonely/
3
Sup, everybody, I’m at a good stage in my life. Confident in my job and exercising daily. I am ready to date and have that commitment, but I work with mostly women who are dating, out of my age range, or just not what I'm looking for (I know I probably shouldn't be too picky). I'm not exclusively looking for a long ter...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[27M] Tired of being lonely.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cdx9re/27m_tired_of_being_lonely/
selfhelpjourney
2020-06-19 02:17:18
1,592,533,038
null
['matched', 'online dating']
0
hbs60j
true
Tinder/Online Dating
12
0
/r/dating/comments/hbs60j/online_dating_honesty/
5
I’ve been talking to this girl I matched with online for a couple of days now, we have a lot of common interests, and the conversation has been going pretty good. Long story short, I met her briefly today, and her pics were definitely not a present reflection of her current state. She seemed about 50-60lbs heavier in r...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Online dating honesty
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hbs60j/online_dating_honesty/
Bodacious_Dad_Bod
2020-12-23 14:26:28
1,608,733,588
null
['online dating']
0
kiu0jz
true
null
63
0
/r/AskMen/comments/kiu0jz/so_ive_been_talking_to_this_woman_for_several/
37
Basically met this woman through online dating. Got her number and then shortly unmatched from her to keep profile organized. Well we've been talking and I really don't know her name. We've now had several conversations and I'll look like a jackass if I ask at this point. We have a date coming up next week. What are be...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
So I've been talking to this woman for several days and I don't know her name. What's the best way of going about this without looking like a jackass?
null
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/kiu0jz/so_ive_been_talking_to_this_woman_for_several/
xXAssBlaster69420Xx
2017-06-13 05:42:23
1,497,332,543
null
['dating apps']
0
6gxy12
null
null
24
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/6gxy12/how_im_i_fucking_this_up/
5
I have 3 dating apps and have gotten only one hit in like 2 weeks and it was from this girl who only talked in gifs. I know I'm not brad pit but I'm also not hideous, my bio is usually something like "I'm looking for someone to chill and generally have a good time with". I have pictures of my hobbies and pics of me wit...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How I'm I fucking this up?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6gxy12/how_im_i_fucking_this_up/
Redfang_Foxx
2019-11-17 07:26:17
1,573,975,577
null
['swipe', 'swiped', 'swiping', 'tinder']
0
dxjn1s
true
null
4
1
/r/dating_advice/comments/dxjn1s/i_dont_know_if_im_being_lead_on_or_if_im_going/
0
Guys please I need serious advice on this What do I do? Okay so backstory: I’ve posted something about this long ago on here, but it’s evolved a lot since I last touched on it. Well, evolved for me, and me either realizing something or I’m going slightly mad. For those of you who don’t know, I recently told my best fri...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I don’t know if I’m being lead on or if I’m going mad. What’s going on?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dxjn1s/i_dont_know_if_im_being_lead_on_or_if_im_going/
Pinkturtle---
2022-04-12 16:22:12
1,649,780,532
null
['tinder']
0
u22z0x
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/u22z0x/is_it_a_red_flag/
0
So after six months of texting I (F27) decided to meet him (M31) . I felt as though the date went well and we spent the night together. I noticed the next morning he had Tinder notifications on his phone. It was in his hands. I'm not a snooper We obviously haven't agreed to be exclusive but this has really put me off, ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is it a red flag?
null
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u22z0x/is_it_a_red_flag/
Broccoli_4031
2023-05-27 18:44:21
1,685,213,061
0
['dating app', 'hinge']
0
13tey9n
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/13tey9n/dating_a_woman_13_years_younger/
0
I started dating a girl who is 24 since two weeks, she is amazing, kind, empathetic and compassionate. We met on Hinge and hit it off instantly, she doesnt play games like these other woman on dating app. She communicates and never shys from deep conversations. She is super down to earth, I have put enough work into my...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating a woman 13 years younger!
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13tey9n/dating_a_woman_13_years_younger/
fantasizing247365
2022-01-18 02:51:09
1,642,474,269
null
null
0
s6mm7a
true
null
22
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/s6mm7a/𝙨𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙣𝙨_𝙙𝙤𝙬𝙣_𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙨_𝙪𝙥/
6
Ironically, my consensus is that phones and social media have made the concept of “ghosting” so easy and “genuine dating” so difficult. It’s weird, right? Something designed to bring the world “closer together” inevitably has brought us further apart. Back in MY day (sarcastically speaking): / You wanted to date a girl...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
𝙨𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙣𝙨 𝙙𝙤𝙬𝙣, 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙨 𝙪𝙥 🌜:
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/s6mm7a/𝙨𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙣𝙨_𝙙𝙤𝙬𝙣_𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙨_𝙪𝙥/
lLittleWingl
2022-11-06 16:05:11
1,667,750,711
null
['hinge']
0
ynu4ab
true
I Need Advice 😩
18
0
/r/dating/comments/ynu4ab/guy_37m_calls_me_27f_on_different_phone_to_make/
1
Met this guy on hinge and we went on an first date. Several things stood out to me during and after the 1st date: 1. He was 10 minutes late. Said sorry and seemed embarrassed but was polite and paid for everything. 2. I casually threw out an invite to hit the bars later with me and my friends seeing that we were having...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Guy (37m) calls me (27f) on DIFFERENT phone to make 2nd date … is this a red flag ?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ynu4ab/guy_37m_calls_me_27f_on_different_phone_to_make/
[deleted]
2020-09-12 13:32:29
1,599,917,549
null
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
ircns8
true
Tinder/Online Dating
1
0
/r/dating/comments/ircns8/what_are_the_best_100_free_dating_apps_with_no/
2
Or at least with no restrictions based on not getting a "premium" version. Bumble, Tinder, Hinder, etc. all have something like this. I am wondering if there are any decent free apps which do not hinder your experience by not paying.
dating
t5_2qhb1
What Are the Best 100% Free Dating Apps with No In-App Purchases?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ircns8/what_are_the_best_100_free_dating_apps_with_no/
momo-chat
2024-02-27 23:31:30
1,709,076,690
0
['dating apps']
0
1b1qphe
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b1qphe/is_it_safe_to_hookup_thru_dating_apps/
1
I really want to put myself out there and hook up with people. I’m not interested in a relationship, I just want to hook up. Is there a way to go about that safely on dating apps? I want to be able to do this, but my biggest fear is getting assaulted or put into a dangerous situation. Plz help
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is it safe to hookup thru dating apps?
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b1qphe/is_it_safe_to_hookup_thru_dating_apps/
RestlessChickens
2019-09-28 20:33:04
1,569,702,784
null
['matches', 'OLD']
0
dalghz
true
null
64
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/dalghz/whats_up_with_old_profiles_where_they_want_kids/
103
I’m a woman in my mid-30s and I do not want children, so I try not to match with men whose profiles say they want kids (not trying to fall in love just to get my heartbroken over something that really can’t be compromised on). I’m not dead set on a relationship vs a fling or whatever in between, so I don’t mind profile...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
What’s up with OLD profiles where they “want kids someday” but are also looking for “something casual”?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/dalghz/whats_up_with_old_profiles_where_they_want_kids/
2019056999
2015-04-11 16:08:14
1,428,768,494
0
['tinder']
0
328ooc
null
Support | Possible Trigger
69
null
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/328ooc/i_think_i_was_raped_but_feel_like_its_my_fault/
33
So I met this guy on tinder and we'd been talking quite a lot over the last week and decided to meet. I think I'd made it clear I wasn't looking for just a hook up type thing. Basically, I met this guy, I thought he was leaving his car near where I stay so we could go out but he wanted to take me somewhere else. I know...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
I think I was raped? But feel like it's my fault for being stupid. I don't know what to do so advice would be good.
33
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/328ooc/i_think_i_was_raped_but_feel_like_its_my_fault/
Zick_LaG
2021-05-12 16:34:18
1,620,837,258
null
['dating apps']
0
nat0hn
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/nat0hn/no_luck/
0
Iv bin trying to find a girlfriend for a couple of years now with no luck. Dating apps don't help. And I'm not around any woman to even hit on my classes are all guys and same at work. It's a struggle to find anyone.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
No luck
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nat0hn/no_luck/
froyo-1208
2024-08-14 14:00:21
1,723,644,021
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
1es2c8g
true
I Need Advice 😩
6
0
/r/dating/comments/1es2c8g/should_i_double_text_and_ask_him_out/
1
I (32F) matched with this guy (30M) on hinge. We talked on the app for a week before texting offline and ended up going for our first date last week, which went really well and I thought we had great chemistry and compatibility. We continued talking for a few days before he asked me out for another date and we had our ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I double text and ask him out?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1es2c8g/should_i_double_text_and_ask_him_out/
badpop3000
2020-10-04 15:50:58
1,601,826,658
null
['hinge']
0
j51413
true
null
7
0
/r/AskWomen/comments/j51413/what_shows_that_someone_takes_themselves_too/
0
I see a lot of women on Hinge say that they want a guy who doesn’t do this but I can’t imagine what the behaviours or traits would be.
AskWomen
t5_2rxrw
What shows that someone takes themselves too seriously?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/j51413/what_shows_that_someone_takes_themselves_too/
offlineuser
2018-11-27 20:08:56
1,543,349,336
null
['swipe']
0
a0yhoj
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/a0yhoj/what_is_my_move_here_31m/
1
This might be a silly question, but as I am relatively new to the dating game for someone my age, I'm just not sure what to do here. Story: A few weeks ago I asked out a coworker whom I see once or twice a week to go out for dinner. We went, had a nice time, bade each other goodnight. No kiss or anything like that as I...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What is my move here? (31M)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a0yhoj/what_is_my_move_here_31m/
howardthesnail
2021-07-10 18:19:23
1,625,941,163
null
['OLD', 'bumble']
0
ohnw52
true
null
37
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/ohnw52/just_wanted_to_say_hi/
42
I (F47), just joined this group today and I have really been enjoying reading your posts, sharing and insights. Thank you for sharing I am looking forward to sharing my experiences as well. I have been divorced for 5 years and rebounded into three more relationships immediately following the end of my 17 year year marr...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Just wanted to say hi!
null
0.89
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/ohnw52/just_wanted_to_say_hi/
Initial-Ad4728
2023-08-26 11:20:22
1,693,048,822
0
['dating apps']
0
161sj45
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/161sj45/should_i_feel_guilty_for_talking_to_someone_else/
1
I’ve been on and off with this girl for a few months, recently off although we still text. I was on a night out and was talking to another girl(nothing more than talking happened) and now I have this killer feeling of guilt even though she’s on dating apps I still feel bad.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I feel guilty for talking to someone else on a night out?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/161sj45/should_i_feel_guilty_for_talking_to_someone_else/
uraqtpiee
2022-03-05 01:12:23
1,646,442,743
null
null
0
t6xyjb
true
null
7
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/t6xyjb/can_anyone_else_relate_to_dating_anxiety_and/
1
This is more just a vent post and to see if anyone can relate and help me feel a bit better. I have been talking to a guy for 3 months now. This is the first guy I have seriously tried to date after my first long term relationship of 3.5 years that ended over a year ago. I’m 23 going on 24F and don’t have too much dati...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Can anyone else relate to dating anxiety and changes in behavior being triggering?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/t6xyjb/can_anyone_else_relate_to_dating_anxiety_and/
Sumarbrandar
2022-10-05 13:48:36
1,664,977,716
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
xwb5ha
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xwb5ha/do_you_date_first_and_crushlove_later/
1
Hey everyone So to avoid that alltogether: Yes I know "true" deep love takes time and commitment but to my Situation: I've never really dated anyone, I technically had a girlfriend for 2 weeks but that was a very young and messy situation so lets just ignore that. Through Covid and getting older (25 soon) I started to ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do you Date first and crush/love later?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xwb5ha/do_you_date_first_and_crushlove_later/
urghasif
2024-05-29 13:50:57
1,716,990,657
0
['bumble']
0
1d3cp5p
true
I Need Advice 😩
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1d3cp5p/help_always_going_to_worst_case_scenario/
1
TDLR : slept with this guy, had made plans for similar today but he's cancelled and we've rescheduled. how do I STOP catastrophizing that he's looking for reasons to not see me? I've (F) been talking to someone from Bumble (M), tonnes of chemistry and flirting, and we met up and slept with each other at the weekend. He...
dating
t5_2qhb1
help - always going to 'worst case scenario' ?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d3cp5p/help_always_going_to_worst_case_scenario/
samwisegordon
2020-12-30 05:13:47
1,609,305,227
null
['dating app']
0
kmvp6b
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/kmvp6b/a_good_way_to_make_progress_on_any_dating_app/
8
You probably have heard after a few days talking or after 10 messages ask her out for a time to meet. This is usually just a hit or miss. One way to go for more success is giving her your number first. If you’ve been like talking about movies and TV you both like, say, “we could go on forever about movies or anything e...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
A good way to make progress on any dating app
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kmvp6b/a_good_way_to_make_progress_on_any_dating_app/
Sweetleeleo
2024-05-22 15:58:25
1,716,393,505
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
1cy3r5x
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cy3r5x/how_to_end_a_talking_stage_after_only_5_days/
1
Me and this dude matched on a dating app and we swapped numbers which I usually don’t do, but I thought felt something for him. Long story short, we’ve been talking but I’ve already had some doubts about him by not responding in a timely manner. He also smokes weed casually and has a stuttering problem which is kind of...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to end a talking stage after only 5 days
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cy3r5x/how_to_end_a_talking_stage_after_only_5_days/
onegirl1505
2022-12-23 03:27:03
1,671,766,023
null
['matched', 'dating app']
0
zt57fy
true
I Need Advice 😩
7
0
/r/dating/comments/zt57fy/first_makeout_session_gone_wrong_any_advice/
2
I had a second date with this guys at my place. When we first matched on dating app, he said he doesn't want to rush into a relationship. I thought that is fair Coming to this second date, we started to get physically intimate. But he was not kissing me. Usually it starts with a kiss. He started licking my neck instead...
dating
t5_2qhb1
first makeout session gone wrong. any advice?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zt57fy/first_makeout_session_gone_wrong_any_advice/
doctor_speedy
2024-07-04 15:49:26
1,720,108,166
0
['online dating']
0
1dva3sp
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dva3sp/healthy_and_confident_38_year_old_male_virgin_who/
0
After spending a lot of time searching for reddit posts similar to my situation, I have decided to just straight up describe myself. I am currently a 38 year old male virgin with no experience. I have never even kissed anyone or cuddled, or seen nudity beyond print or screen. I am unlike a lot of other posters that I h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Healthy and confident 38 year old male virgin who wants insight
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dva3sp/healthy_and_confident_38_year_old_male_virgin_who/
offspring_grpie
2019-05-18 16:55:00
1,558,198,500
null
['tinder']
0
bq6406
true
null
27
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bq6406/helping_new_guy_get_over_performance_anxiety/
9
Lurker using throwaway. Looking for advice. TL;DR: New guy can't get hard. How can I help him relax? I (30F) have started seeing (33M). We're both single, never-married professionals with great ambitions and very similar values. We're both quite sexually experienced. We met through Tinder. Both want the same thing (rel...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Helping new guy get over performance anxiety?!
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bq6406/helping_new_guy_get_over_performance_anxiety/
northwinds678
2023-09-09 12:07:57
1,694,261,277
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
16e44if
true
null
0
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16e44if/would_love_an_objective_opinion_here/
1
Should I run? Am I overthinking? Should I run? Am I overthinking? I have needed to get this off my chest and need some advice. So for context, I am a 24M, tall, athletic build. By no means the most handsome but I am confident in my looks. I am always very direct with girls when I go out on dates. I always do my best to...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Would love an objective opinion here
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16e44if/would_love_an_objective_opinion_here/
Potential-Equal3911
2021-11-15 19:29:59
1,637,004,599
null
['bumble']
0
quob5a
true
Support Needed
1
0
/r/dating/comments/quob5a/i_m22_need_advice_on_my_date_f22/
1
Okay so I just got out of a relationship with my ex about 6 months ago it was abusive overall not good for either of our mental health . So last night I met this girl on bumble and she’s literally so fine . Her jawline , her eyes , her curly hair ughh. Anyway I was looking for just a casual thing but the more I talked ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I( M22) need advice on my date ( F22)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/quob5a/i_m22_need_advice_on_my_date_f22/
luna_1998
2018-12-07 21:04:38
1,544,216,678
null
['tinder']
0
a4431j
true
Question
6
0
/r/dating/comments/a4431j/date_lasted_only_50_minutes_cant_tell_if_hes_into/
1
So I (20f) just went on a tinder date with a guy at a restaurant for breakfast. We met up at 10:30 and had decent conversation. There were a couple awkward silences but that's to be expected on a first date and generally the convo flowed pretty well. Prior to meeting up he said he had class at 1pm so I figured that gav...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Date lasted only 50 minutes? Can't tell if he's into me?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a4431j/date_lasted_only_50_minutes_cant_tell_if_hes_into/
InternationalRice944
2022-01-23 11:59:46
1,642,939,186
null
null
0
sas5kz
true
null
12
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/sas5kz/what_should_i_do_now/
2
I’ve met a girl 3 times now and we have gotten along really good. We share a lot of interest and she have taken initiative to met all of these times. I slept over at her house yesterday and got to meet her family and friends. We had really good sex that night and she told me that she tought I was perfect etc. The probl...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What should I do now?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/sas5kz/what_should_i_do_now/
existentialism91342
2019-04-08 00:48:20
1,554,684,500
null
['dating app']
0
bandev
true
null
31
0
/r/AskWomen/comments/bandev/if_you_had_to_write_an_intro_message_to_yourself/
22
In this scenario, you are not yourself. Just trying to get the attention of the "you" that has your profile. It's a cold intro. What do you say?
AskWomen
t5_2rxrw
If you had to write an intro message to yourself on a dating app, guaranteed to catch your attention, what would you say?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/bandev/if_you_had_to_write_an_intro_message_to_yourself/
Savings-Extreme-8240
2024-08-29 23:55:36
1,724,975,736
0
['dating site']
0
1f4hceq
true
Support Needed 🫂
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1f4hceq/i_feel_like_there_is_something_wrong_with_me/
1
For some background, I (26f) have been in 1 serious romantic relationship in my life. That ended 5 years ago, and I had a long-term FWB for 3 years that recently ended. I keep trying to put myself out in the dating world, mainly trying numerous apps. I don’t really go out or have many true friends so I don’t know how e...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I feel like there is something wrong with me…
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f4hceq/i_feel_like_there_is_something_wrong_with_me/
Representative_Leg29
2024-03-24 15:50:13
1,711,295,413
0
['matched']
0
1bmnwpe
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bmnwpe/one_sided_conversation_should_i_keep_going_and/
1
I started talking to this girl I matched with last night. I’ve been asking her questions to get to know her but unfortunately she hasn’t asked me one question yet. She’s just answering my questions. I don’t know maybe it’s me. Here’s the conversation https://imgur.com/a/DkAdsow
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
One sided conversation. Should I keep going and give her a chance or un match?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bmnwpe/one_sided_conversation_should_i_keep_going_and/
Imnobody_who_ru
2024-05-02 23:34:57
1,714,692,897
0
['matches', 'OLD']
0
1ciu93u
true
null
72
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1ciu93u/men_my_age/
10
I’ve just started dating after divorce three years ago. I’m finding OLD very discouraging. I’m hoping to find someone close to my age, 54. I’m fit and attractive and some of my matches tell me that I’m gorgeous, but I seem to only attract men 10 years older. I’ve never looked at what other women put on their profiles a...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
Men my age
10
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1ciu93u/men_my_age/