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Murky-Fruit3569 | 2023-10-31 13:24:49 | 1,698,758,689 | 0 | null | 0 | 17kkz8d | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17kkz8d/facebook_dating_daily_limit/ | 1 | Ok im honestly searching this for the past hour and I can't get a reliable source that can confirm the exact number of "swipes" I can do per day. I just joined yesterday, and i dont know when it will reset. There is no indication for anything. Not even facebook Q&A has that information... I guess I should start being r... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | facebook dating daily limit | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17kkz8d/facebook_dating_daily_limit/ |
Half_Halfling | 2014-06-10 23:42:45 | 1,402,443,765 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 27tyrz | null | null | 17 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/27tyrz/halfasian_guys_any_luck_out_there_at_all/ | 5 | I'm sorry if this comes out as a bit whiny. I'm 25, 5'11" good shape, graduated from a good school with a good degree, going to law school, in the navy reserves, I have a personality and humor, I'm not afraid of girls or anything, I'm not a dork, nerd, or hipster, just a dude. However, I just can't stop thinking my rac... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | @half-Asian guys: any luck out there at all? | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/27tyrz/halfasian_guys_any_luck_out_there_at_all/ |
gerad77 | 2021-03-17 11:53:57 | 1,615,982,037 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | m6ypla | true | null | 194 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/m6ypla/am_i_33_f_limiting_myself_by_not_entertaining/ | 211 | I feel like every time I meet or swipe on someone I’m interested in, they have (a) kid/s. I’m open to having kids myself, although if it doesn’t happen I wouldn’t be sad about it either. I don’t know if I’m still living in my 20s where most guys I meet or date don’t have kids but should I start accepting that I might s... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Am I [33 F] limiting myself by not entertaining guys with kids? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/m6ypla/am_i_33_f_limiting_myself_by_not_entertaining/ |
Tough-Economics-7395 | 2024-05-20 23:59:12 | 1,716,249,552 | 0 | ['matches', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1cwubke | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cwubke/advice_needed/ | 1 | I’m 21M, 5ft 11, uni student yet I get no luck in apps like bumble or hinge, I’ve taken the time to make a solid profile and stuff yet I can’t get matches. Do I need to pay to use it or am I doing something completely wrong? Would appreciate any help. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice needed | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cwubke/advice_needed/ |
Bobthyllama2 | 2024-08-11 16:30:45 | 1,723,393,845 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1epozw6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1epozw6/advice_please/ | 1 | Help me out everyone I (30m) and my girlfriend (32f) have been dating for one and off for about two years. Last night was rough. Let me start by saying I’m only human with the my own flaws and there’s two sides to every story, but here’s mine. My girlfriend has kind of an attitude problem she’ll let imo little things r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice please | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1epozw6/advice_please/ |
_myvanitythrowaway_ | 2021-04-16 03:42:55 | 1,618,544,575 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | mrv46z | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mrv46z/24m_question_for_the_older_guys_late_20s30s_how/ | 3 | So I feel like I have my shit together in terms of looks, fitness, style/grooming career, confidence, personality but I'm finding quite hard to find women my age who show interest, engage in conversations, see me as a dating option or even seeing me as someone worth keeping in contact with. For reference, I'm referring... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (24M) Question for the older guys (late 20s-30s+), how has women's receptiveness and effort towards you changed as you've gotten older? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mrv46z/24m_question_for_the_older_guys_late_20s30s_how/ |
hitormissmwah | 2021-12-22 06:54:21 | 1,640,156,061 | null | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | rlzdsq | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rlzdsq/he_only_wants_to_meet_late_at_night/ | 12 | EDIT: Ok, geez! I got it, guys. He only wants to fuck T-T Sad to hear… I will be ghosting from now on. I [19F] met this guy [20M] on Hinge and we hit it off. The best ‘connection’ I’ve had yet on a dating app. We attend the same college. However, he only invites me to hang out with him (go on walks) at 2am (like litera... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He only wants to meet late at night | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rlzdsq/he_only_wants_to_meet_late_at_night/ |
1CrudeDude | 2024-07-12 20:22:48 | 1,720,815,768 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1e1rjha | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e1rjha/matched_and_talked_to_a_really_hot_girl_she_sent/ | 1 | I only read the first sentence and then poof she disappeared. Unmatched me probably. But we talked on insta. She’s the hottest girl I’ve ever spoken to and we shared some interests. Similar values . Her message took up my whole screen and had emojis.. I saw a house emoji i think. Am I cooked? She’s still on my insta. A... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Matched and talked to a really hot girl. She sent me an essay | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e1rjha/matched_and_talked_to_a_really_hot_girl_she_sent/ |
outofthisworld911 | 2022-01-17 22:17:35 | 1,642,457,855 | null | ['swiping'] | 0 | s6gmnq | true | null | 163 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/s6gmnq/picture_of_a_man_holding_a_dead_fish/ | 16 | Question: Does that bother you? It bothers me and I keep on swiping. I get that he likes to fish but why would I want to see the catch? I might be wrong but I'm not interested in what you would be doing with your man friends. Opinions please. | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Picture of a Man holding a dead fish | null | 0.68 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/s6gmnq/picture_of_a_man_holding_a_dead_fish/ |
IamAFortress | 2019-05-17 20:25:18 | 1,558,124,718 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | bpw9h4 | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/bpw9h4/major_turn_off_am_i_being_too_picky/ | 12 | Early April I started using a dating app for the first time and started chatting with a guy who lives kinda far from me. We have been chatting via text pretty regularly and are supposed to meet for the first time this weekend. He has insisted he is looking for an LTR. Today he asked me to send him a pic of myself in th... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Major turn off, am I being too picky? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bpw9h4/major_turn_off_am_i_being_too_picky/ |
aranfender | 2020-08-07 19:53:37 | 1,596,830,017 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | i5kse6 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i5kse6/my_first_serous_dating_relationship_is_over_and_i/ | 1 | By the way before you judge anything is say I am a 19 (M) and this is my first time dating I just want to you to keep that in mind before you read. So I met this girl on tinder and we started talking around late January but we didn't start talking till about February-March. I set up to go on a date with her and it went... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | my first serous dating relationship is over and I think she was a Narcissist or am I wrong? (long but interesting) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i5kse6/my_first_serous_dating_relationship_is_over_and_i/ |
DimbyTime | 2021-10-14 04:43:22 | 1,634,186,602 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | q7skxj | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q7skxj/textphone_convo_turns_sexual_too_soon/ | 3 | Hey all, I (35f) just met a guy (36m) on Bumble, and we clicked immediately. Texting all day for a couple days, then switched to phone texting, then our first phone call we talked for almost 3 hours. We have a lot in common and get along/communicate well so far, both serious and lots of joking. There’s also a lot of ph... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Text/Phone convo turns sexual too soon | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q7skxj/textphone_convo_turns_sexual_too_soon/ |
Tacotol | 2019-10-31 05:47:36 | 1,572,500,856 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | dpja3t | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dpja3t/update_ii_i_m21_finally_went_on_a_wholesome_date/ | 91 | OG POST: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dmcdxx/i_m21_finally_went_on_a_wholesome_date_that_i/?utm_medium=android_appandutm_source=share UPDATE I: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/do9t4t/update_i_m21_finally_went_on_a_wholesome_date_i/?utm_medium=android_appandutm_source=share tldr of the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | UPDATE II: I [M21] finally went on a wholesome date that I genuinely enjoyed. I'm so happy. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dpja3t/update_ii_i_m21_finally_went_on_a_wholesome_date/ |
Miriambiguity | 2016-05-16 17:03:21 | 1,463,418,201 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 4jm4ek | null | Story/Report | 43 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/4jm4ek/terrible_okcupid_date/ | 22 | After a couple of months on OKC I finally had a real, live date last week. I'm still in shock a little bit because it was just so horribly, terribly bad. His profile said he was 44, owns his own business, yada yada - all perfectly nice things. We emailed back and forth a few times and agreed to meet up. A lot of this i... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Terrible OKCupid date | 22 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/4jm4ek/terrible_okcupid_date/ |
ray2349 | 2023-10-30 01:47:34 | 1,698,630,454 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 17jih62 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17jih62/why_is_dating_so_hard_nowadays/ | 1 | I, 24F, met this guy on bumble, 28M, and hit if off really well. We have had 4 dates in total and i really enjoyed his company and genuinely liked someone after a long period of time. I usually have a hard time liking someone so soon and i was pleasantly surprised how I could go hours talking to him and not want to sto... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is dating so hard nowadays? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17jih62/why_is_dating_so_hard_nowadays/ |
kakernan | 2018-09-23 23:50:09 | 1,537,746,609 | null | ['swipe', 'OLD'] | 0 | 9id649 | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9id649/advice_needed_back_into_old_but_have_to_be/ | 18 | So I’m a 31(f) that just started OLD again after a long break. Had a LD/LT FWB situation and ended up catching feels. It didn’t work out (Bc he didn’t think he could handle the distance) so I’m trying to put myself back out there. The problem is I can’t really date, in the normal context. I have to be friends with a gu... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Advice needed- back into OLD but HAVE to be friends first | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9id649/advice_needed_back_into_old_but_have_to_be/ |
Careful-Midnight5591 | 2023-10-30 05:07:46 | 1,698,642,466 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 17jlz5c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17jlz5c/online_dating/ | 1 | I’m thinking about getting on a dating app for the first time to look for a relationship, but how the do I make sure I’m talking to a nice person and not a college douche bag? (Im 19 and live next to college campus in a small town) How do I know what they’re really like from a dating app or one date? I want to find som... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17jlz5c/online_dating/ |
JimmySteve3 | 2023-08-31 23:23:32 | 1,693,524,212 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 166qjzj | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/166qjzj/how_do_i_avoid_feeling_awful_when_things_dont_go/ | 1 | I had been talking to someone on a dating app for a few weeks and we decided to meet a few days ago. The date went well but it kind of felt like she wasn't putting in much effort to the conversation. She was really nice though so I didn't really mind. I thought she might have been nervous. I tried my best to be interes... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I avoid feeling awful when things don't go well after the first date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/166qjzj/how_do_i_avoid_feeling_awful_when_things_dont_go/ |
tofu_block | 2019-03-20 19:12:29 | 1,553,109,149 | null | ['swipe', 'OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | b3g2d0 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/b3g2d0/snap/ | 3 | So... on other OLD app sub reddits(mainly tinder, but humble too), I see a lot of people post screenshots of usually puns followed by requesting the user's snapchat handle. Is that... just a preference to continue texting? Its fascinating to see what appears to be a new etiquette forming over there, it's something like... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Snap? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/b3g2d0/snap/ |
supergamerz | 2015-03-05 03:00:51 | 1,425,524,451 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'okcupid', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 2xzc1q | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating/comments/2xzc1q/dating_sites/ | 5 | I am 22 and I just got out of a long relationship that left me very confused for how it ended. Despite being out of the game for so long I have never really had luck attracting women.(I'm not fat and I don't think I'm generally that unattractive.) My question to this subreddit is what do you guys think of dating sights... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating Sites? | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2xzc1q/dating_sites/ |
crunchyt4co | 2020-07-01 12:47:15 | 1,593,607,635 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | hj9iie | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hj9iie/35_and_want_kids/ | 1 | I'm 35f and want to have kids and a family of my own. I've never been married and want biological children. I'd be happy to find a guy who already has kids and wants more. I'm just wondering if anyone here has any thoughts on how to date in my situation. I think my plan is to try to do hardcore online dating and trying... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 35 and want kids | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hj9iie/35_and_want_kids/ |
PublicDesperate5265 | 2024-09-18 14:25:45 | 1,726,669,545 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fju48f | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fju48f/i_dont_know_what_i_should_do/ | 1 | To begin I need to say that I was always a shy girl growing up, I didn't really talk to guys or date around I really only focused on school. At 19 I got my first boyfriend who was my first kiss, hand holding, etc. and in the end he ending up rping me and taking my virginity. Long story short I'm now 24 ( it's been five... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don’t know what I should do | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fju48f/i_dont_know_what_i_should_do/ |
knight_call1986 | 2023-05-10 11:42:47 | 1,683,718,967 | 0 | null | 0 | 13do39z | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13do39z/had_a_great_2nd_date_with_woman_i_met_on_fb_dating/ | 18 | I just had another great date with the woman I met on FB dating If you read my post about my perfect yesterday, and I can honestly say that this definitely is something special brewing. You may remember my post about my , I just wanted to share what a successful date story. Well date number 2 was more impromptu than pl... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Had a great 2nd date with woman I met on FB dating. | 18 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13do39z/had_a_great_2nd_date_with_woman_i_met_on_fb_dating/ |
Professional-Tip3342 | 2024-03-21 20:21:03 | 1,711,052,463 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bkgd18 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bkgd18/my_newish_boyfriend_keeps_meeting_up_with_a_girl/ | 1 | My boyfriend \[M33\] and I \[F37\] met on a dating app, and have been together for around 5 months. We are technically "long distance" but he only lives an hour away and visits me most weekends. Right before we met, it turns out he had gotten a girl (also lives in my city) pregnant and she had an abortion. They were ne... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My new-ish boyfriend keeps meeting up with a girl he terminated pregnancy with | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bkgd18/my_newish_boyfriend_keeps_meeting_up_with_a_girl/ |
Calm-Educator981 | 2023-11-01 02:21:12 | 1,698,805,272 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17l1zhe | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 126 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17l1zhe/late_bloomer_lost_her_virginity/ | 503 | Long story short, I (27F) lost my virginity to someone (27M) I met on a dating app. I am a little too old to be this gullible, but in my defense, I do not have any relationship experience. On the app, we are both looking for long-term relationships. Our conversations became long phone calls, and we agreed to go on a da... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Late bloomer lost her virginity | 503 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17l1zhe/late_bloomer_lost_her_virginity/ |
The-Observer | 2012-05-22 19:13:18 | 1,337,713,998 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | null | tzorb | null | null | 15 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/tzorb/why_did_he_disappear/ | 3 | Me: F27. Him M38. We met on Okcupid. He said I was the first woman he'd seen on that site that he felt he could have a good conversation with. We talked for a few days. Had our first date last Tuesday. It was GREAT. Really, a perfect first date. We connected intellectually, emotionally, and we could both sense that sex... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why did he disappear? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tzorb/why_did_he_disappear/ |
AwkaLiwen | 2016-06-03 19:36:42 | 1,464,982,602 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 4memc0 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4memc0/about_online_dating/ | 1 | Hey there So, I decided to give online dating a shot. I'm 27 and I'd like to think I look and express myself alright. Having numerous friends that actually use these sites, I thought, well why not? The thing is, and some of my friends think the same, it feels like women basically create their profiles and do nothing bu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | About online dating. | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4memc0/about_online_dating/ |
withering_heights | 2020-05-20 16:19:32 | 1,589,991,572 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | gnednj | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gnednj/texting_new_guys/ | 2 | Hey guys, I’ve (24F) recently been trying to put myself out there more and I’m on some dating apps. What do you guys talk about when you start texting someone?? I feel like I’m being so boring but I’m not sure how to start a good conversation. Appreciate any advice! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Texting new guys | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gnednj/texting_new_guys/ |
justforfunthrowaway9 | 2022-09-05 23:29:34 | 1,662,420,574 | null | null | 0 | x6upsb | true | null | 64 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/x6upsb/do_guys_tend_to_swipe_right_on_every_girl_and/ | 20 | I (22F) have been on Hinge for around a week and I get a lot of likes and even matches, but I have a lot of matches just sitting in the chat with guys that don’t respond to me starting a conversation or wont start one themselves. I am wondering if this is because guys tend to have a harder time, so they swipe right on ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Do guys tend to swipe right on every girl and then evaluate her profile? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/x6upsb/do_guys_tend_to_swipe_right_on_every_girl_and/ |
Astros2121 | 2023-07-22 23:41:20 | 1,690,069,280 | 0 | null | 0 | 156z05t | false | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/156z05t/the_weirdest_exchange_ever/ | 1 | Matched with 2 people. 1 Me: are you ok dating a person older than you? (They are 37 and I am 47). Them: yes You are beautiful. Me: thank you for that. Them: You'll find someone on here for sure. Good luck! Me: you too. 2 Me: Hi. I see you on a lot of apps. How are you? Them: good. You? Me: great, doing OK. Them: ok. H... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | The weirdest exchange ever | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/156z05t/the_weirdest_exchange_ever/ |
starswalkbackward13 | 2021-02-05 23:43:30 | 1,612,568,610 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ldko08 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ldko08/anyone_else_here_got_a_physical_disability_a/ | 8 | I never used to consider that having a physical disability people could see would make a difference to my personal/romantic life, but I'm 25(f) now and I've never dated anyone, not even held someones hand and never been asked out, only ever been kissed by people who were wasted... and now I can't help but wonder if it ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Anyone else here got a physical disability, a complete lack of experience and only really fancy people when they’ve had chance to know them? What with all this AND the pandemic, I feel like all the odds stacked are against me... | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ldko08/anyone_else_here_got_a_physical_disability_a/ |
MatticusXII | 2015-08-17 20:14:34 | 1,439,842,474 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 3hcuoo | null | Question | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/3hcuoo/has_anyone_here_had_success_with_looking_for_and/ | 2 | I've been talking to this girl and told her that's sort of what i'm looking for and she says she's open to it, we've gone out once but she is really busy with school right now so I don't want to be a nag. Just wondering if anyone has had success finding someone that is willing to go into that type of "relationship" | dating | t5_2qhb1 | has anyone here had success with looking for and getting a friends with benefits type situation from online dating? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3hcuoo/has_anyone_here_had_success_with_looking_for_and/ |
whenruleswerefew | 2022-07-21 04:55:52 | 1,658,379,352 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | w47r9f | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w47r9f/dating_while_working_remotefifo/ | 1 | For those who work in remote areas, or are FIFO workers, how do you juggle dating/seeing someone new, when you’re away for work for extended periods of time? I work a 19 and 9 FIFO roll for an oil and gas exploration company in remote areas of outback Australia, and finding it difficult to keep someone around. Any hint... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating while working remote/FIFO | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w47r9f/dating_while_working_remotefifo/ |
RisingSunMan | 2024-03-31 00:01:51 | 1,711,843,311 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1brwf87 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1brwf87/okcupid_was_a_flop_so_im_gonna_try_dating_irl/ | 1 | So far, I've (26M) been using OKCupid, and it's been a flop. So I'm gonna attempt to try my luck in real life--which I should have done from the jump. Fortunately, I live near a neighborhood with lots of things to do and attractions--specifically, University Circle in Cleveland. The weather's getting a lot better, too,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | OKCupid was a flop, so I'm gonna try dating IRL instead. The problem is, I'm (26M) a man who doesn't want to be "the man". | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1brwf87/okcupid_was_a_flop_so_im_gonna_try_dating_irl/ |
throwawayobviously_6 | 2017-08-16 04:23:45 | 1,502,857,425 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6tzozy | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6tzozy/i_m18_went_on_a_kind_of_first_date_with_a_girlf18/ | 1 | Forgive me if the answer is obvious, I'm kind of new to the dating scene and I completely suck at picking up signals. Essentially I met up with this girl from tinder who I'm really into and we smoked a joint and went to go see a movie. I accidentally got a little too fucked up and I kept telling her how pretty she was,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [m18] Went on a kind of first date with a girl[f18], got a hug at the end but she said she wanted to do it again, some mixed signals got me confused because I'm new to the dating scene | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6tzozy/i_m18_went_on_a_kind_of_first_date_with_a_girlf18/ |
zellllio | 2023-01-12 17:59:20 | 1,673,546,360 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 10a60nc | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10a60nc/how_to_end_a_texting_situation/ | 1 | I 24f matched with this guy over a month ago and we met up for coffee like 3 weeks ago. Honestly wasn’t super into it but I usually give 2 dates because the first isn’t always that telling. We’ve been texting every day with hours being between each of our responses. It’s been the holidays and he went away and came back... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to end a texting situation | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10a60nc/how_to_end_a_texting_situation/ |
yeeeeeehyeeeehhhhhhh | 2020-01-11 18:20:56 | 1,578,766,856 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | enazsb | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/enazsb/what_next_after_online_dating/ | 1 | So, I’ve been on online dating sites/apps for more or less the last 10 years and been on a grand total of 0 dates. My social life is very limited and that’s probably not going to change anytime soon either. Give me hope? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What next after online dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/enazsb/what_next_after_online_dating/ |
Happy-Albatross-17 | 2024-09-04 16:16:20 | 1,725,466,580 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1f8xe9w | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f8xe9w/what_to_do_after_a_first_date_online_dating/ | 1 | We met on an app and he asked me out. Set the time and location. I think the date went well. There was no crazy chemistry but it was fun and light and we had a lot in common. He asked if I wanted a second drink and I agreed, but we did both have plans for later in the evening. He didn't ask for my number though at the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to do after a first date (online dating)? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f8xe9w/what_to_do_after_a_first_date_online_dating/ |
realleeme | 2013-12-10 01:31:40 | 1,386,639,100 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1siegg | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1siegg/hilarious_tinder_text/ | 0 | How to use and master Tinder. My co-writer for my blog called wrote this hilarious article about Tinder. What do you guys think? http://realleeme.com/2013/10/22/tinder-surprise/ | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hilarious Tinder Text. | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1siegg/hilarious_tinder_text/ |
ClearCollar7201 | 2024-06-08 15:42:32 | 1,717,861,352 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'pof'] | 0 | 1db5ruy | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1db5ruy/wanna_get_back_on_dating_sites_but/ | 1 | I live in a small town and they suck. Also I met my ex on POF and I know if I rejoined I'd see her profile and I'd be devastated, I know I shouldn't fear seeing her profile but to be honest I used to be trauma bonded to her so I'm struggling to get back out there. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Wanna get back on dating sites but..... | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1db5ruy/wanna_get_back_on_dating_sites_but/ |
zapreon | 2024-03-02 21:16:24 | 1,709,414,184 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1b4yzo3 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b4yzo3/i_24m_get_plenty_of_matches_and_dates_but_never/ | 1 | Basically, very straightforward point. I (24M),have an easy time getting quite a few matches and arranging dates on hinge (though curiously, pretty much none on other appa?). This is of course very nice and creates opportunities, but very consistently women lose interest after 1 or 2 dates at most. Frankly, I’ve never ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (24M) get plenty of matches and dates, but never past 2nd date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b4yzo3/i_24m_get_plenty_of_matches_and_dates_but_never/ |
heftybacon | 2024-08-05 22:31:16 | 1,722,897,076 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1el19eb | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1el19eb/i_wanted_to_avoid_being_manipulated_and_i_feel/ | 14 | I met this guy two years ago and he confessed his feelings to me last year and wanted to be together. Everything we did was like dating minus the label. I agreed and then he got cold feet and retracted. He explained he has commitment issues, not in the best mental space, did not have a good job, scared of responsibilit... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I wanted to avoid being manipulated and I feel stupid because I fell for it again. | 14 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1el19eb/i_wanted_to_avoid_being_manipulated_and_i_feel/ |
Bostongirl4444 | 2019-07-23 14:55:56 | 1,563,893,756 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | cgtmxx | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/cgtmxx/update_talking_to_guy_on_old/ | 0 | I wanted to share an update with you all about the guy I was talking to for a couple days on OLD. You can read my original post here: So he told me to take care yesterday after we had been heavily texting back and forth. Like I mentioned before he was talking to me a lot asking me numerous questions and some were p... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | UPDATE talking to guy on OLD | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cgtmxx/update_talking_to_guy_on_old/ |
MrJackfruit | 2019-03-18 00:20:13 | 1,552,868,413 | null | null | 0 | b2c1f9 | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/b2c1f9/guys_what_are_the_best_apps_to_find_girls_to_talk/ | 12 | I've had luck on neither of those apps, any apps that actually have a higher chance of even getting a response? So far i'm at least finding women replying on meetup. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guys, what are the best apps to find girls to talk to that are not Okcupid and POF? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/b2c1f9/guys_what_are_the_best_apps_to_find_girls_to_talk/ |
PresentPomegranate | 2022-12-21 10:27:33 | 1,671,618,453 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | zrgilf | true | Support | 372 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/zrgilf/anyone_else_losing_the_ability_to_date_men_advice/ | 898 | Hi. I wish this was a beautiful bisexual or lesbian coming out post. Heck, I wish it was a beautiful asexuality coming out post. Unfortunately it's just another tragic female "screaming into the void that is the modern hetersoexual dating scene" post. I'd just love to know if my current dating experiences are unique or... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Anyone else losing the ability to date men? Advice? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/zrgilf/anyone_else_losing_the_ability_to_date_men_advice/ |
blossomingmoons | 2022-05-21 19:09:45 | 1,653,160,185 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | uutsxr | true | null | 68 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/uutsxr/why_do_most_men_i_meet_only_have_sexual/ | 76 | (to preface this, i don’t say this to generalize. this is my experience. my experience isn’t generalization) i’m 15. ever since i was 10 so many men have sexualized me and harassed me. i miss the innocent friendships i’ve had with boys when i was little. now i have many guy friends. only one of them hasn’t sexualized m... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | why do most men i meet only have sexual intentions? is it my fault? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/uutsxr/why_do_most_men_i_meet_only_have_sexual/ |
inkblowout4 | 2024-08-10 04:14:12 | 1,723,263,252 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1eok2vz | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eok2vz/28m_and_i_never_dated_how_does_someone_get_dates/ | 3 | Like the title says, how does someone actually get into dating because I have no idea where to begin? I've always been shy throughout my life and for for almost 2 years I've been doing a bunch of things to self-improve on myself and I ended up losing 20 pounds, gaining some muscle, fixing up my wardrobe and started to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 28M and I never dated. How does someone get dates? (preferably no dating apps) | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eok2vz/28m_and_i_never_dated_how_does_someone_get_dates/ |
Alarming-Mall1520 | 2024-06-13 06:04:06 | 1,718,258,646 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1deryl8 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1deryl8/a_short_term_1_month_relationship/ | 1 | Im a 29 year old male now, but I ended a long term relationship at 28 years old. It needed to happen. A lot of lying and loss of trust. Could not be salvaged. Been on a couple dates here and there over the course of a year. A couple one night stands that made me feel heartless as these woman wanted something more. So t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A short term, 1 Month Relationship | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1deryl8/a_short_term_1_month_relationship/ |
TheRealLeevo | 2019-04-21 04:45:23 | 1,555,821,923 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | bflan7 | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bflan7/recently_began_dating_an_amazing_girl_but_i_am/ | 4 | So I’m a 23 year old guy, and about 3 weeks ago I met this girl of the same age on a dating app. We hit it off right away, but it was difficult to tell just how big she was by her pictures. We have gone out a few times over the past few weeks and she is incredible in almost every way. She has a bubbly personality, she ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Recently began dating an amazing girl but I am having a hard time getting over her weight. Any advice? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bflan7/recently_began_dating_an_amazing_girl_but_i_am/ |
AdeRa0x | 2022-05-16 03:43:02 | 1,652,672,582 | null | null | 0 | uqmuza | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/uqmuza/what_can_i_do_we_both_are_committed_and_i_am_she/ | 0 | She lives in America(GMT-4) i live in India (GMT+5:30) We both sleep at 11, i wake up at 6 she wakes up at 9 Lately my parents started getting strict so i can't be awake till 2 for her now, so to adjust accordingly i told her to wake up a little early, i really regret saying that, and you know those kind of things like... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What can I do? We both are committed and i am (she has said it and i trust her) | null | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/uqmuza/what_can_i_do_we_both_are_committed_and_i_am_she/ |
WaarLockDarkey | 2022-02-03 20:41:18 | 1,643,920,878 | null | null | 0 | sjtqsr | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/sjtqsr/filipinocupid/ | 0 | Is this a serious site? I would love to try to find my love.. but again, i'm very suspicious about sites like this. I am from norway, do they understand english? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | filipinocupid? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/sjtqsr/filipinocupid/ |
Picardsstinkybutt | 2023-02-26 20:59:41 | 1,677,445,181 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | 11csimg | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 22 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11csimg/struggling_to_recover_after_a_guy_came_on_way_too/ | 4 | 27f. For context, I've been 100% single for the last year after my previous boyfriend of 5 years passed away unexpectedly. I dipped my toe into online dating and matched with a 29m who was cute. The first date was pretty good, we had coffee and walked around, I thought we might have chemistry so I agreed to a second da... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Struggling to recover after a guy came on way too strong | null | 0.61 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11csimg/struggling_to_recover_after_a_guy_came_on_way_too/ |
tzatza12 | 2022-03-04 16:41:33 | 1,646,412,093 | null | null | 0 | t6n385 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/t6n385/is_he_starting_to_care_about_me/ | 2 | We aren’t dating. We’ve just been talking for a while through instagram. He was on boys trip (I didn’t first know about it) when we chatted last time. It took him 12h-22hours to reply to my texts. They were quite short too unlike his previous message. To me they felt dry compred to previous texts. I got annoyed and als... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is he starting to care about me? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/t6n385/is_he_starting_to_care_about_me/ |
CocoaJazz | 2020-07-31 14:35:19 | 1,596,206,119 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | i18k4e | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/i18k4e/lesson_learned/ | 2 | TL/DR: Matched online with guy who seemed too good to be true. Texted quickly escalated to sexting before our first meeting. First meeting was a complete dud and bizarre disconnect from texting persona. Wrote it off to lack of chemistry but then he started sexting again after. I was creeped out and told him this wasn’t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Lesson learned | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/i18k4e/lesson_learned/ |
NoConsideration2376 | 2024-03-01 16:14:31 | 1,709,309,671 | 0 | null | 0 | 1b3y4l2 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1b3y4l2/is_it_even_right_to_move_on_with_the_one_thats/ | 1 | Is it right to move with the one attracted to you even though you attracted to some someone else which mainly don’t care about you? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is it even right to move on with the one that’s attracted to you? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b3y4l2/is_it_even_right_to_move_on_with_the_one_thats/ |
Living-Feedback-939 | 2024-02-06 20:16:24 | 1,707,250,584 | 0 | null | 0 | 1akje28 | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1akje28/am_i_in_the_wrong/ | 8 | i'm trying to see if i'm the problem here. I meet someone online and we talked for a bit. In the beginning it was difficult to meet with her because of her job, she would text me maybe once a day cause she was busy and it took us a while to get together. I was patient, we finally meet and everything went well. I tried ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Am I in the wrong? | 7 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1akje28/am_i_in_the_wrong/ |
BumblingBeta | 2018-10-21 16:13:04 | 1,540,138,384 | null | null | 0 | 9q4pwf | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/9q4pwf/online_dating_and_black_girls_why_do_they_give_me/ | 2 | Hi everyone, I have a question for the guys here. But girls can respond too if they want. I don't know whether it's just me, but I seem to get a disproportionate number of black girls who are interested in me in online dating. Through all the messages I've sent, I've noticed that black girls are the most likely to resp... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Online dating and black girls - why do they give me the most interest? Any other guys find this? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/9q4pwf/online_dating_and_black_girls_why_do_they_give_me/ |
Ok-Truth-5701 | 2022-05-20 05:21:33 | 1,653,024,093 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | utm4pb | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/utm4pb/im_lost_for_some_reason/ | 5 | So I (20m) am really just lost when it comes to meeting girls. I’m a virgin if that matters but I don’t have a problem with talking to them really, it’s just like that I can’t keep a girl talking. I’d say I’m a moderately looking dude. I go on all these dating apps (hinge, bumble, tinder, etc) and I get a few matches h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m lost for some reason | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/utm4pb/im_lost_for_some_reason/ |
Famous-Ad3971 | 2024-06-27 04:42:08 | 1,719,463,328 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dpiwtk | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dpiwtk/can_never_figure_why_it_never_works/ | 1 | Hey there I'm a 22-year-old who's getting his life together I currently am an engineering tech at Tesla. My life is pretty sad and I have great hobbies I work on cars I enjoy going out and I'm also in the Minnesota national guard. I have an awesome life but there's one aspect that I've been really suffering with and th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can never figure why it never works | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dpiwtk/can_never_figure_why_it_never_works/ |
[deleted] | 2015-04-19 23:20:37 | 1,429,485,637 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 336b4n | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/336b4n/did_i_mess_up_my_chances/ | 3 | So I met this girl on tinder about 2 months ago. I got her and she texted me a lot and was flirty and eventually we went on a few dates. We hung out a total of 7 times doing various activities and always ended up cuddling and making out (even on the first date). My only problem is the past few weeks she's been super ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I mess up my chances? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/336b4n/did_i_mess_up_my_chances/ |
Illustrious_Car_3666 | 2021-08-26 08:57:16 | 1,629,968,236 | null | ['dating apps'] | 1 | pbvlvl | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 270 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pbvlvl/why_do_guys_in_dating_apps_suck_at_taking_pictures/ | 279 | They are either pointing the camera up their nose inside a car, looking away from the camera, wearing a mask, have shades on, or have a blurry photo. Sometimes, I genuinely like what their bio says and I'm interested in meeting them, but I look at their photos and I still can't tell exactly what they look like or somet... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why do guys in dating apps suck at taking pictures? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pbvlvl/why_do_guys_in_dating_apps_suck_at_taking_pictures/ |
babyotters_ | 2024-06-16 20:55:35 | 1,718,571,335 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dhh3xp | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1dhh3xp/dating_with_braces/ | 6 | I'm 38F,single for a long time and recently (in the past year) decided to out myself out there again. I've been meeting people through dating apps with the intent of building a long term relationship with someone, but it's been hard as I'm sure a lot of you can relate with. So far I've mostly made physical connections ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Dating with braces | 5 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1dhh3xp/dating_with_braces/ |
PM_ME_YOUR_BUTTplz | 2024-03-25 03:21:28 | 1,711,336,888 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1bn3u9k | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bn3u9k/im_not_ready_for_a_relationship_my_first_time/ | 1 | I matched with a girl on tinder. We clicked immediately. For a month, we talked every day, all day. She would text me telling me to wake up, we would talk on the phone for hours and eventually started calling each other names like "honey" and "baby." We really, really liked each other and I was so happy. We eventually ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | "I'm not ready for a relationship." My first time being hit by this line. Do I wait or do I move on? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bn3u9k/im_not_ready_for_a_relationship_my_first_time/ |
sarahssongs | 2021-06-11 19:31:45 | 1,623,439,905 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | nxo6b7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nxo6b7/weve_only_met_once_since_weve_started_talking_in/ | 1 | Hi guys. I've (F27) been talking/Snapping with this guy(M27) I met on Hinge since early February. We've only met once because he didn't want to meet unless we were going to get down. We finally met a month ago and I was so nervous (not showing the right body signs) that nothing happened \Side note: I've never had sex, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | We've only met once since we've started talking in February. It's summer, I'm out of town, but he says he still wants to keep talking until fall, when we meet up again. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nxo6b7/weve_only_met_once_since_weve_started_talking_in/ |
pfunk26 | 2021-08-08 18:37:13 | 1,628,447,833 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | p0k6sx | true | Question | 46 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/p0k6sx/men_what_is_your_match_rate_on_dating_apps_like/ | 10 | I'd say I am 6-7/10 on an attractiveness scale. 35M in NYC. Have a great job and financially secure. Still only get a few matches a week, most of which are women I am actually not that into. I wonder how many women my profile is being shown to. It's disappointing. What has been your experience? Edit: would be helpful t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Men: what is your match rate on dating apps like Bumble? | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/p0k6sx/men_what_is_your_match_rate_on_dating_apps_like/ |
slutdragon06 | 2024-04-20 11:30:51 | 1,713,612,651 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1c8nqze | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c8nqze/dating_a_single_father_and_poor_communicator/ | 1 | I met a guy on bumble. I really liked him. We went on a first date and on a second date (where he invited me back home) The third date was a home date and we consummated. It was great I had an amazing time & I believe he did too. We explored kinks together on the fourth date and spoke about being exclusive. We have had... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating a single father and poor communicator | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c8nqze/dating_a_single_father_and_poor_communicator/ |
Gentleman_Argentum | 2021-03-17 10:22:49 | 1,615,976,569 | null | null | 0 | m6xayj | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/m6xayj/subtle_cruelty_in_online_dating/ | 0 | I let a woman dump me online I never criticized, never said harsh words, never disagreed... She thinks it is for x, y, or z, and I agreed, and let her be in the "right"... So that she commits the exact same mistakes with the next guy she meets. From her, I learned x, y, and z. From me, she learned absolutely nothing. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Subtle Cruelty in Online Dating | null | 0.27 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/m6xayj/subtle_cruelty_in_online_dating/ |
CamCon2100 | 2018-05-14 21:07:04 | 1,526,332,024 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8jfw45 | false | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8jfw45/this_is_a_red_flag_right/ | 1 | I matched with a girl on tinder. We chatted for a couple days then I scheduled a date for a couple weeks out (just had appendicitis so had to put it further out). She said yes. I gave her my number and had a quick conversation. Fast forward a week didn't really chat (my fault) and shot her a quick message to see if we ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | This is a red flag right? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8jfw45/this_is_a_red_flag_right/ |
KindlySale0009 | 2024-01-05 10:41:01 | 1,704,451,261 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18z3zx0 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18z3zx0/is_this_person_interested/ | 1 | 20M. I don't get many matches on dating apps but when I do it always seems like the person is not interested. Like I matched with this girl on Facebook 2 days ago. I've been asking every question, she's only been answering the questions and not saying "what about you" or asking anything about me. But she's replying rea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this person interested? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18z3zx0/is_this_person_interested/ |
Foreign_Safety2712 | 2022-10-13 12:22:59 | 1,665,663,779 | null | null | 0 | y2xcb7 | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y2xcb7/polite_way_to_tell_someone_you_dont_want_to/ | 8 | I never know what to do. Often I still go for the date. Its awkward. I am the one that is supposed to be asking them out. They can be responding well to me, but then I have a wake up call or notice something I dont like while texting. Two instances right now. First one I really felt great at first. Then she dropped the... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Polite way to tell someone you dont want to meetup after several days of messaging? 29m | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y2xcb7/polite_way_to_tell_someone_you_dont_want_to/ |
Pristine-Ad4044 | 2022-10-25 19:28:54 | 1,666,726,134 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | yddfaj | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yddfaj/he_said_he_didnt_wantwasnt_in_the_space_for_a/ | 1 | So I was seeing this guy from Tinder for a year on and off. Right on our first date when we had the ‘what are you looking for on Tinder’ talk I told him that ultimately I was looking for a long term rs but was open to take things slow. Anyways, we saw each other at least thrice a week for the first three months. It was... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He said he didn’t want/wasn’t in the space for a relationship and then went into a relationship with someone who looked almost exactly like me | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yddfaj/he_said_he_didnt_wantwasnt_in_the_space_for_a/ |
_Yeagerist | 2023-07-03 15:55:14 | 1,688,399,714 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 14pmvjx | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14pmvjx/what_should_i_text_need_help_asap/ | 5 | Alright so I'm going to get straight to the point. I went on a date with this lovely girl just this weekend ago and just to give you guys a backstory, this girl has been into me for a couple of months and I have not given her the chance to take her on a date till she liked me on Hinge again. I dmed her on Instagram cuz... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should I text? Need help asap | 5 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14pmvjx/what_should_i_text_need_help_asap/ |
kdramalover99 | 2021-06-28 01:17:45 | 1,624,843,065 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | o99yz4 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/o99yz4/whats_your_experience_on_online_dating_apps/ | 7 | I’m 21 almost 22 and I’ve been using bumble for a month. I’m only using 1 cause that’s all I have the time and energy for. I get a lot of matches and I’ve talked to a lot of guys. I’m a bit picky: no kids, no smokers, no heavy drinkers, and no big conservatives. I only match with guys who’s profile says they’re looking... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | What’s your experience on online dating apps? | null | 0.74 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/o99yz4/whats_your_experience_on_online_dating_apps/ |
Interesting_Pair6239 | 2024-03-22 19:52:47 | 1,711,137,167 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bl8dyt | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bl8dyt/canceling_a_first_date/ | 1 | Last weekend I exchanged numbers with someone from a dating app and shortly after we made plans for a first date this Sunday. Since then they've been really love bomby, calling me a bunch of pet names and talking about the future of "us". For me it's just WAY too much before I've even met someone, let alone after a cou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Canceling a first date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bl8dyt/canceling_a_first_date/ |
Much-Eagle-467 | 2024-04-19 03:08:34 | 1,713,496,114 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1c7mke8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c7mke8/what_are_his_intentions/ | 2 | i’m 19F, he’s 20. he messaged me on tinder, i responded, he responded, i responded and then he responded 4 days later. then i respond, he responds a day later. and asks me if i have plans that sunday night. i tell him i have exams and won’t be available till later this month. i expect him to unmatch cause that’s still ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | what are his intentions… | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c7mke8/what_are_his_intentions/ |
No_Helicopter9063 | 2024-06-11 19:19:15 | 1,718,133,555 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1ddmk0i | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ddmk0i/need_advice_on_if_im_giving_up_too_quick_on_a_guy/ | 1 | I, 28F, matched with 32M on Tinder around June 30th and we seemed to be really into each other. Fast forward to the last few days or so, we’ve been exchanging like 3 texts a day. I mostly initiate them. 32M runs his own business so I know he’s busy as am I so I respect that he doesn’t have a ton of time to communicate.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need advice on if I’m giving up too quick on a guy I haven’t been on a date with yet (28F/32M) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ddmk0i/need_advice_on_if_im_giving_up_too_quick_on_a_guy/ |
missyrus | 2021-06-21 23:59:32 | 1,624,319,972 | null | ['swiped'] | 0 | o5981z | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/o5981z/but_it_felt_like_a_fairy_tale/ | 17 | Last week I [33F] traveled across the country to visit a friend. While there, I swiped and met Tom [37M]. It was an intense 3 days and I don’t quite know how to process it all. Wednesday - first date. drinks which turns into dinner. We chat, laugh and flirt . Make plans to meet again the next day. Thursday - He let’s m... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | But it felt like a fairy tale … | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/o5981z/but_it_felt_like_a_fairy_tale/ |
apri53451 | 2020-05-24 09:54:59 | 1,590,314,099 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | gpn37q | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gpn37q/love_triangles/ | 3 | This is a throwaway account because I'm a bit embarrassed and I'm not sure that the reactions to this will be positive. After I broke up with my ex, I (21F) started using Tinder. Personally, I'm very easygoing when it comes to sex and I wanted to have some more experience. In February I met a guy (24M), let's call him ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Love Triangles | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gpn37q/love_triangles/ |
Ian1547 | 2022-05-12 00:15:31 | 1,652,314,531 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | unnxik | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/unnxik/what_should_i_do/ | 1 | Hi, so about 2 years ago I met this girl online. Well more like I saw her Instagram handle on her profile on an app and dmed her. She replied that night and we got into chatting. Got her snapchat and for the next 6 hours we texted nonstop. Mind you she first dmed me back around 11pm. Over the course of the time we woul... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What Should I Do? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/unnxik/what_should_i_do/ |
Aggressive-Cod8984 | 2021-04-21 10:30:29 | 1,619,001,029 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | mvcro6 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mvcro6/hopeless_case_or_bug_no_likes_in_months_in/ | 1 | Because in the FD-sub, you won't get an answer, I'm asking here. I(M 25) have been using Facebook dating (location Germany) since last November and have not received a single like so far. No message, no like, no match, nothing at all! I'm not sure if it's really up to me or if the app is broken. When I give out likes, ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hopeless Case or Bug? No Likes in Months in Dating-App | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mvcro6/hopeless_case_or_bug_no_likes_in_months_in/ |
KatCosp | 2021-02-06 23:33:38 | 1,612,654,418 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | le9u8c | true | Venting | 39 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/le9u8c/im_so_disappointed/ | 8 | After being single for almost 4 years and not being able to get attached or attracted by anyone mentally stable and good to me I finally did find someone who managed to captivate me. I used to not believe in dating websites but with the pandemic I gave it a shot. I matched with this guy and we started talking long hour... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m so disappointed | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/le9u8c/im_so_disappointed/ |
sophyno7 | 2021-01-23 12:05:18 | 1,611,403,518 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | l3ay7u | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l3ay7u/mixed_signals_about_sex/ | 1 | I (29F) started talking to a guy (41M) on tinder a few weeks ago. We added each other on snapchat and texts a lot, nothing sexual just real fun banter, joking around laughing a lot. We both felt the chemistry, so we ended up at his place this Tuesday. He told me from the start that he doesn't sleep with people early in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Mixed signals about sex | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l3ay7u/mixed_signals_about_sex/ |
strongmich | 2022-09-13 03:58:12 | 1,663,041,492 | null | null | 0 | xcxc8v | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/xcxc8v/would_you_exchange_number_or_ig/ | 2 | Before a date. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Would you exchange number or ig | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/xcxc8v/would_you_exchange_number_or_ig/ |
alltimegreenday | 2024-07-20 19:12:59 | 1,721,502,779 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1e836lo | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e836lo/already_over_the_apps/ | 1 | 32F. I got blindsided with a divorce earlier this year after 10 years of marriage. I have finally gotten to the point where I’m ready to start dating. Yesterday I mustered up the courage to message someone on bumble for the first time. Their profile said they liked standup comedy. I am a big stand up fan. I asked who t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Already Over The Apps | 1 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e836lo/already_over_the_apps/ |
Weird_Conversation_8 | 2021-11-29 17:50:18 | 1,638,208,218 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | r51bue | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/r51bue/how_do_yall_meet_people/ | 1 | so i’ve (25F) been out of an ugly on again/off again relationship for a few months now and i’m ready to start fresh and start dating again but i’m having trouble meeting people? like idk where and how to meet someone. i live in a college town so i don’t really like using the dating apps bc they’re all horny college kid... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how do y’all meet people? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r51bue/how_do_yall_meet_people/ |
7theneuron | 2024-06-30 02:29:53 | 1,719,714,593 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1drrcws | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1drrcws/mixed_signals/ | 1 | Hi! I've (24F) been talking to this guy (28M )from a dating app of about two ish weeks. What I know about his is that he's a resident doctor, and works long hours (I'm in school right now so it's about the same for me). We met up on Thursday ago, I must say I had a great time. He seemed really sweet and attentive. The ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Mixed signals | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1drrcws/mixed_signals/ |
lotuslibra7 | 2020-07-15 01:02:53 | 1,594,774,973 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | hre0ox | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/hre0ox/how_to_not_attach_myself_to_him/ | 1 | I [35F] have gone a few dates with this guy I met through OLD and we have a great time together (going on 4 weeks now). We have the same weird sense of humor and just enjoy spending time together. We have slept together and text every day but we’re at that weird stage in dating where I’m starting to catch major feeling... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How to not attach myself to him ... | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hre0ox/how_to_not_attach_myself_to_him/ |
Multiplemike4678 | 2022-07-04 21:26:30 | 1,656,969,990 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | vrhsz4 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vrhsz4/how_and_where_can_i_meet_people/ | 1 | I am a 61 year old trans man. I have had too surgery, but not bottom surgery. I am interested in people of all genders and i am exploring just what my sexuality is. I have no idea how to meet people to date. I don’t know if I should be up front and say I’m trans? I’ve been single for over 9 years. Online dating was dis... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How and where can I meet people | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vrhsz4/how_and_where_can_i_meet_people/ |
AmericanViolence | 2024-09-17 21:02:58 | 1,726,606,978 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fjasnm | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fjasnm/how_do_women_in_the_2325_age_range_view_men_in/ | 1 | I’m trying to avoid dating apps. But the only women I feel that are friendly and talkative to me are in that age range. They’re the ones I interact with the most. I can’t tell if they’re just being friendly because I’m older or if they do take a liking to me. One even said I was pretty to my face. But I still feel like... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do women in the 23-25 age range view men in their lives early 30’s dating wise? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fjasnm/how_do_women_in_the_2325_age_range_view_men_in/ |
PrestigiousMess3447 | 2022-04-13 17:02:34 | 1,649,869,354 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | u2v0ve | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u2v0ve/how_to_attract_new_girls_into_someones_life_when/ | 1 | I am 24 years old an currently feeling a large void inside of me because I am missing out on intimate and regular female contact on a love or relationship level. I just can't figure out how to get dates even though I'm smart, decent looking, well dressed, humorous, reliable, pretty confident and have a lot of social co... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to attract new girls into someone's life when your main social circles are male-dominated?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u2v0ve/how_to_attract_new_girls_into_someones_life_when/ |
Shanti021 | 2022-08-03 06:46:10 | 1,659,509,170 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wezc16 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wezc16/ladies_losing_interest_after_a_bit/ | 2 | Hi all, I’m gonna do my best to convey what I mean and don’t sound like a di%ck. Please forgive me in advance if I come across like that. I’m a 28yo dude with above average shape, looks and a reasonable career (engineer). When I go out clubbing, I see ladies making eye contact or smile etc. I have no hesitation to appr... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ladies losing interest after a bit | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wezc16/ladies_losing_interest_after_a_bit/ |
aauaua22 | 2019-10-05 17:16:07 | 1,570,295,767 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ddq3wa | true | Vent/Rant | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ddq3wa/rant_99_of_women_are_terrible_conversationalists/ | 2 | I am male, 24. I am 6'2", long-distance runner, 205 lbs, average/athletic build. I play guitar and bass, and write, record and produce a lot of my own music. My preferred (only) genres are extreme metal, jazz, dark ambient, and some blues. I like to run long-distance (we're talking half-marathons), and occasionally dra... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [RANT] 99% of women are terrible conversationalists. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ddq3wa/rant_99_of_women_are_terrible_conversationalists/ |
froggybirch | 2021-03-03 10:22:22 | 1,614,766,942 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | lwqmgj | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/lwqmgj/why_do_men_especially_on_dating_apps_mention_how/ | 0 | I’ve had numerous people tell me I look young for my age. I’m aware I have baby face and I look younger than I am but why does that need to be mentioned, explicitly that I look underage. The amount of times I’ve been told you look 14/15/16 on dating apps is astounding, especially as the first message. Why did you swipe... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Why do men, especially on dating apps mention how young you look? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/lwqmgj/why_do_men_especially_on_dating_apps_mention_how/ |
Cool-Cup-582 | 2021-02-22 03:59:25 | 1,613,966,365 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | lpej78 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lpej78/decided_to_get_back_into_the_dating_apps_any/ | 1 | Hi people I'm a 26F and I have decided to get back on the dating apps after a long time (the last time I dated seriously was the beginning of 2019). I've had some luck in the past (I had a relationship that lasted a year). I'm a little nervous getting back on, especially during COVID. I know that dating apps can be fru... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Decided to get back into the dating apps! Any advice to navigate the dating scene after a while? Especially during COVID? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lpej78/decided_to_get_back_into_the_dating_apps_any/ |
annoying_gnat | 2022-06-23 14:38:43 | 1,655,995,123 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | viyfnd | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/viyfnd/could_it_be_hes_just_not_that_into_me/ | 1 | Hello people of earth So I met this guy on a dating app and we hit it off wonderfully! Things were great. We were texting and having fun dates where we would literally talk for hours and places would have to kick us out since we didn't realize how late it was getting. That's how nice and fun it was. Not a minute of awk... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Could it be he's just not that into me? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/viyfnd/could_it_be_hes_just_not_that_into_me/ |
SuperAZN | 2018-12-24 11:17:56 | 1,545,650,276 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | a946wv | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a946wv/i_found_him/ | 109 | After so many heart breaks and dumb tinder dates, I talked my crush over a year and he told me I am the person who will make him a better man. He's willing to open up to me after being so reserved and loves me for who I am. I'm so happy and all of my friends approve and know he's an amazing man. Thank you for hearing m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I found him | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a946wv/i_found_him/ |
sweetnspicy93 | 2024-09-23 00:56:49 | 1,727,053,009 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fn8hrb | true | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fn8hrb/f_30_looking_to_meet_and_casually_date_in_dfw_area/ | 1 | dating apps are so hard Here I am giving it a try in a different way | dating | t5_2qhb1 | F, 30, looking to meet and casually date in dfw area! | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fn8hrb/f_30_looking_to_meet_and_casually_date_in_dfw_area/ |
IIIMPIII | 2024-05-28 12:19:18 | 1,716,898,758 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1d2i3dk | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d2i3dk/help_with_online_dating/ | 1 | I’m a male in his mid 30s. I don’t think Im ugly or anything. What are some good ice breakers. I feel like breaking the ice is the hardest part for me but once I’m rolling I’m going. What are some ways i can improve my profile ? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Help with online dating. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d2i3dk/help_with_online_dating/ |
hopeitgetsbetter__ | 2023-11-08 18:52:14 | 1,699,469,534 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17qsm3q | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17qsm3q/what_is_it_that_i_need_to_change_about_myself_or/ | 1 | I’m 24F and I’ve decided to start dating again after 2 years since my last relationship ended with my first boyfriend. My relationship with him was pretty comfortable, but lacked passion but in entirety, safe. I didn’t think that anyone would like me even though my face is conventionally pretty, I am plus size, so it t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is it that I need to change about myself? Or am I just too full of myself? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17qsm3q/what_is_it_that_i_need_to_change_about_myself_or/ |
C4220 | 2021-03-17 21:48:20 | 1,616,017,700 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | m7bluz | true | Seeking Advice | 54 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/m7bluz/need_advice_how_to_transition_from_ons_to_fwb/ | 0 | Long story to ask: how would you approach this if you wanted to upgrade from ONS to FWB? EDIT: Thank you Reddit twelve hours into this and you have helped me to a conclusive reflection: I made a miss-step with the morning-after texts and need to first show her she can trust me to keep the boundary she requested and I ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Need Advice: How to transition from ONS to FWB? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/m7bluz/need_advice_how_to_transition_from_ons_to_fwb/ |
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