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Segrose4 | 2021-07-03 16:06:01 | 1,625,328,361 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | od0w01 | true | I Need Advice | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/od0w01/context_on_autism_yay_or_nay/ | 5 | Is it a turn off to put you are high functioning autistic in your dating profile? I've been worried about it for a while if it seems like a reason people swipe left on profiles. Is it as bad as I think it is, or is it just me being paranoid? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Context on Autism: Yay or Nay? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/od0w01/context_on_autism_yay_or_nay/ |
Advanced-Warning2961 | 2023-06-03 17:08:08 | 1,685,812,088 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'hinge'] | 0 | 13ziyua | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13ziyua/should_i_right_swipe_a_coworker/ | 0 | I came across a hinge profile for a coworker of mine. I have hesitated swiping right for a couple weeks now because she’s only been a coworker for a few weeks so that might seem weird. I havent had much opportunity to talk to her at work with our schedules/assignments not matching up or being in close proximity. Ive sa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I right swipe a coworker | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13ziyua/should_i_right_swipe_a_coworker/ |
saidit_x | 2021-03-08 08:50:46 | 1,615,193,446 | null | null | 0 | m0bma8 | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/m0bma8/first_date_in_person_and_im_not_sure_what_to_do/ | 16 | I’ve (22/F) been talking to this guy (23/M)I met online for almost two weeks. We live in different cities and he’s coming down in two weeks. We’ve had 4 online dates so far and we keep in touch everyday. The vibe has been great and I’m attracted to him and I think it’s the same for him. I have some things at the back o... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | First Date in person and I’m not sure what to do | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/m0bma8/first_date_in_person_and_im_not_sure_what_to_do/ |
Alwaysdogood1984 | 2020-06-22 18:58:10 | 1,592,852,290 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | hdyeoy | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hdyeoy/ido_datingapp/ | 0 | Has anyone tried the iDo Dating app on google play? Is it any good? I think it’s for people looking to get married. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | iDo DatingApp | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hdyeoy/ido_datingapp/ |
Miku_223 | 2020-11-29 13:00:48 | 1,606,654,848 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | k3907s | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k3907s/paying_to_see_people_who_swipe_right_not_on/ | 0 | (M17) I set up an account to meet people on this app that had a swipe feature and 46 people swiped right on me but I have to pay to see who the are, it's just an app to make friends (but I'm using it as a dating app) why does it need to do the same as tinder. Also if you click this link apparently I unlock one person f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Paying to see people who swipe right not on tinder is a big let down. | null | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k3907s/paying_to_see_people_who_swipe_right_not_on/ |
Peaceandheart | 2019-05-04 23:19:06 | 1,557,011,946 | null | null | 0 | bkr3w2 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/bkr3w2/match_with_a_friend_of_a_guy_i_almost_dated/ | 2 | So I noticed that most of the guys on the apps in my area are friends cause they’re on one another’s pictures. So weird! But is there something off about me matching with some guy’s best friend? We never really dated he asked me to meet up the same day, I said I needed a few days, we had something scheduled then he del... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Match with a friend of a guy I almost dated? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/bkr3w2/match_with_a_friend_of_a_guy_i_almost_dated/ |
BaroqueBitch66 | 2021-03-25 23:24:33 | 1,616,714,673 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | mdbal4 | true | null | 50 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/mdbal4/wheres_the_best_places_a_girl_can_meet_2630yr_old/ | 2 | Extra points if you’re in the DFW I need the prospective of a man. I hate dating apps w/ a passion. And w/ vaccines rolling out I’m ready to put myself out there again. In your opinion, where’s the best spots to potentially meet new people? Thanks 🙏🏾 | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Where’s the best places a girl can meet 26-30yr old guys? | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/mdbal4/wheres_the_best_places_a_girl_can_meet_2630yr_old/ |
dontcare5678 | 2019-07-25 02:18:01 | 1,564,021,081 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | chhmqn | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/chhmqn/new_to_old_all_my_pictures_are_with_my_kids/ | 2 | I'm currently separated, 32M, and looking to set up an OLD profile for the first time ever (married 8 years) and I was trying to figure out what pictures to put up. I realized that any of my interesting pictures (pictures that say something about what I like) are all with my kids. It feels awkward to put those up, but ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | New to OLD, all my pictures are with my kids... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/chhmqn/new_to_old_all_my_pictures_are_with_my_kids/ |
pottassiaverde | 2023-01-30 21:25:59 | 1,675,113,959 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10pejoh | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10pejoh/how_long_should_i_wait_before_giving_up/ | 3 | 15 days ago, I met a girl on instagram. We've exchanged messages daily. I feel like we have a lot in common and similar personalities. So, I asked her out. She said she'd be glad to have a drink with me. However: We've exchanged an average of 4 messages each day, in a span of many hours each time. That's because she sa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long should I wait before giving up? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10pejoh/how_long_should_i_wait_before_giving_up/ |
chattysal | 2019-02-23 21:20:41 | 1,550,956,841 | null | ['tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | au09u8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/au09u8/where_are_they_all/ | 1 | Ok, so I’m 55 but am told I look 45 (not sure about that), still like gigs and festivals and prefer current music rather than harking back to bands I liked when I was younger. I’m on Tinder, POF and have tried Match but never seem to find anyone of my age with my mindset. Seems men my age look about 65 and dress like p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where are they all? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/au09u8/where_are_they_all/ |
Fritopiebabie | 2024-08-05 16:49:22 | 1,722,876,562 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1eksq4p | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eksq4p/what_should_i_do_if_im_still_attached_to_my_ex/ | 1 | Me (F23) and my ex (M23) broke up 15 months ago. We were together 3 years and had a somewhat toxic, very codependent relationship. However, we had a lot of good times too, we did love each other a lot and our relationship started during our freshman year in college, so we experienced a really crucial time of developmen... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What should I do if I’m still attached to my ex after this long? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eksq4p/what_should_i_do_if_im_still_attached_to_my_ex/ |
[deleted] | 2021-05-12 04:53:05 | 1,620,795,185 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | nagr6l | true | Other | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nagr6l/maybe_this_would_make_sense_of_a_lot_of_what_we/ | 5 | So I’ve hung around this sub for a while. Some trends include: 1) Lots of guys complaining about having a hard time with dating and feeling like they have little to no control at all over the outcomes. As in the system may never work for them. 2) Guys and women respond in various ways. Many well-intentioned. Some blata... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Maybe this would make sense of a lot of what we see on here? | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nagr6l/maybe_this_would_make_sense_of_a_lot_of_what_we/ |
Zorrobyte1337 | 2021-12-15 14:34:03 | 1,639,578,843 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | rh0g0l | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rh0g0l/is_there_an_appsite_to_just_meet_friends_i_opened/ | 3 | Now I understand, as a man, why Tinder is a cesspool for women. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there an app/site to just meet friends? I opened my Tinder to men and suddenly had 100+ matches of the most sexual, awful messages ever. | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rh0g0l/is_there_an_appsite_to_just_meet_friends_i_opened/ |
mai9 | 2016-04-08 11:43:36 | 1,460,115,816 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 4dw032 | null | null | 14 | null | /r/dating/comments/4dw032/should_i_try_out_online_dating/ | 7 | Some information about me: -I'm a college-aged guy. I used to have a group of friends in college but I was harassed/bullied by them Sophomore year so we stopped being friends, and I've failed to make friends since due to the insular social culture at the university I attend. -I want to be in a relationship, but if I'm ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I try out online dating? | 7 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4dw032/should_i_try_out_online_dating/ |
itiswhatitis1202 | 2024-07-14 07:36:42 | 1,720,942,602 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1e2wjd7 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e2wjd7/how_many_first_dates_does_it_take/ | 1 | Hi So I’m a 22F and I recently decided to try out dating apps, I’ll just say that I’ve never dated anyone before and relationships have never previously been of priority to me (was dying over work and school instead) so I’m quite new to this. I’m just curious, how many first dates did it take for you guys till you met ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How many first dates does it take | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e2wjd7/how_many_first_dates_does_it_take/ |
Cute_Indication_2787 | 2023-10-13 02:41:23 | 1,697,164,883 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 176oiwy | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/176oiwy/ghosted_for_a_week_what_should_i_do/ | 1 | Need some advice. I met this guy on bumble. Which I hate using. I usually have it for a few days and delete it when I am reminded of how bad it is. We went on a coffee date and he quickly asked me out again. We went to dinner and then we went back to play pool at his place. I ended up drinking a little too much and dec... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ghosted for a week. What should I do. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/176oiwy/ghosted_for_a_week_what_should_i_do/ |
mrsunsfan | 2023-07-10 22:18:23 | 1,689,027,503 | 0 | null | 0 | 14w8bb8 | false | null | 28 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14w8bb8/could_i_get_banned_from_dating_apps_if_i_put_my/ | 1 | For the record I’m a guy and a teacher. I’m looking to get some extra money for school supplies this year. Would I get banned if I put my venmo in my dating profiles asking for donations for my classroom? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Could I get banned from dating apps if I put my Venmo? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14w8bb8/could_i_get_banned_from_dating_apps_if_i_put_my/ |
floyd616 | 2020-09-04 21:07:25 | 1,599,253,645 | null | null | 0 | imocju | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/imocju/is_this_a_good_idea/ | 2 | So, recently I signed up for an online dating site for nerds called Geek2Geek. Unfortunately, I only found out after I had signed up and set up my profile that this site is extremely money-hungry. If you have a free account, you can only send messages to people with a "gold account", the highest level of paid premium a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is this a good idea? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/imocju/is_this_a_good_idea/ |
linus_vanpelt_ | 2018-12-20 22:37:18 | 1,545,345,438 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | a83f0f | true | null | 277 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/a83f0f/all_the_rules_are_depressing_me_a_bit/ | 465 | Kind of a rant. I’m an avid DOT reader and I’m noticing in many posts there are quite a few “rules.” People have rules about how many messages, how many replies, how many syllables per reply before they cut the other person off. Rules on how many hours or days before they unmatch. Rules on how many dates before they sl... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | All the rules are depressing me a bit. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a83f0f/all_the_rules_are_depressing_me_a_bit/ |
MFRobots | 2021-07-16 13:25:50 | 1,626,441,950 | null | null | 0 | olgtvf | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/olgtvf/the_online_dating_blanket_rejection_by/ | 0 | Gentlemen....ever contact a woman, that actually did respond, but...rejected you in a way like this? "Yeah, I am thinking of canceling my membership here soon, because I'm just tired of all this". So before you even ask them out, they say this? But does this kind of sound sketchy? It's kind of hard to buy. They are so ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | The online dating blanket rejection by "unsubscribing" sketchy? | null | 0.3 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/olgtvf/the_online_dating_blanket_rejection_by/ |
No_Food_351 | 2024-08-13 00:23:47 | 1,723,508,627 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1equ0vt | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1equ0vt/30_years_old_never_dated/ | 8 | All my life I've dealt with generalized anxiety disorder and OCD. For a long time, I didn't get out of the house or make friends; I was just surviving each day. The past few years I've made a lot of progress. I have a job I love, my own, car, I'm saving up for my own place, and I've made friends. My next goal is to dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 30 years old Never Dated | 8 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1equ0vt/30_years_old_never_dated/ |
sirlordjax | 2022-04-16 01:59:18 | 1,650,074,358 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | u4ndmf | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u4ndmf/28m_dating_in_covid/ | 2 | Is OLD the way to go nowadays? With COVID, people aren't really going out anymore. It seems to be that the best way to go for dating nowadays is OLD. Most women nowadays don't see the need to go out and about, especially the case if they're looking for their "special" someone. IRL seems to not work out so well unless y... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 28M Dating in COVID | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u4ndmf/28m_dating_in_covid/ |
AK072787 | 2022-03-27 06:40:51 | 1,648,363,251 | null | null | 0 | tpeavq | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/tpeavq/relationship_success_depends_on_the_guys/ | 21 | I've come to an interesting thought about the online dating process that may also apply to real world dating. I've noticed that guys I meet online are either into me immediately (I assume based on a combo of looks / personality) or immediately not into me. There seems to be little room for persuasion. Lavishing attenti... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Relationship success depends on the guy's enthusiasm and effort level | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/tpeavq/relationship_success_depends_on_the_guys/ |
theNickHatter | 2021-12-04 11:53:12 | 1,638,618,792 | null | null | 0 | r8o54i | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/r8o54i/if_spotify_did_dating_apps_wrapped_happy_2021/ | 4 | Seems accurate: Dating apps are the worst. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If Spotify did Dating Apps Wrapped... Happy 2021! | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/r8o54i/if_spotify_did_dating_apps_wrapped_happy_2021/ |
iwantalltheham | 2017-07-01 22:16:55 | 1,498,947,415 | null | ['swipes', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6kpu7c | null | null | 31 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6kpu7c/holding_off_on_starting_to_date/ | 18 | I've decided to hold off on starting to date. My divorce is very fresh and I thought I could bounce back. I've been mindful of my own behavior and I am a textbook example of depression. I'm going to a counselor in 2 weeks so that should help. I don't know what to expect, but I need someone that can listen and help in a... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Holding off on starting to date. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6kpu7c/holding_off_on_starting_to_date/ |
throwra_cmas | 2020-03-06 03:32:30 | 1,583,465,550 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fe7hhs | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fe7hhs/setting_myself_up_for_emotional_failure/ | 1 | I met this guy on tinder the other day and he messaged me first which i always appreciate. He also messaged directly referencing something in my profile and we had a great conversation about it and then slightly transitioned the conversation and he asked me out and we are meeting tomorrow. Im just really worried becaus... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Setting myself up for emotional failure | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fe7hhs/setting_myself_up_for_emotional_failure/ |
LiteraryLyric_ | 2024-04-29 10:37:04 | 1,714,387,024 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1cfvuyj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cfvuyj/how_do_i_keep_this_alive/ | 1 | I (29F) went on two dates with this guy (30M) I met on Tinder a little over a couple of weeks ago. Both dates were great, we talked for hours and he kept mentioning things for us to do next (a party, a bar, a restaurant, etc). The thing is, he's really bad at texting (has been since day 1). In the first week I was tryi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I keep this alive? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cfvuyj/how_do_i_keep_this_alive/ |
Somerandomburnerxx | 2024-09-06 18:07:06 | 1,725,646,026 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1falsif | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1falsif/guilt_about_rejecting/ | 2 | I’ve matched with this girl on a dating app not long ago, and we quickly went on 2 dates. Both dates went well, and I really did enjoy the time we’ve spent together. She really has a lot of the qualities that I’m looking for in a woman, I just don’t have an attraction to her and I know that unfortunately I can’t make i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guilt about rejecting | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1falsif/guilt_about_rejecting/ |
breesara | 2020-12-18 15:51:50 | 1,608,306,710 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | kfnm4b | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kfnm4b/fwb_or_dating/ | 1 | So I met this guy on tinder, we started talking non stop, all day everyday for a few weeks. from the time we wake up to the time we go to bed, talked on the phone, etc. he asks to hangout and I dub him a few times bc I don’t wanna seem so available but also not sure if I wanna see him. We hangout and it’s great. We gen... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | FWB or Dating? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kfnm4b/fwb_or_dating/ |
Howtohuman2711 | 2023-02-09 01:27:15 | 1,675,906,035 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10xhdht | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10xhdht/how_do_i_become_more_affectionate/ | 0 | So I(28F) recently started going out with a guy I met on tinder (27M), I really like him, we went on 3 dates before kissing, we haven’t slept with each other yet but we re on the hot and heavy make out sessions. Now, he asked that we become exclusive, we did…he’s really into it and into me, kisses me like 100 times a d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I become more affectionate ? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10xhdht/how_do_i_become_more_affectionate/ |
EditorPuzzleheaded98 | 2022-03-18 15:08:38 | 1,647,616,118 | null | null | 0 | th3iih | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/th3iih/i_feel_like_im_just_not_gonna_find_another_women/ | 3 | As the title reads. I'm very very sure I'm never gonna find Another women to love me (m28) uk Thought my ex loved me and she cheated on me I've tried tinder,bumble,tagged[ if that counts] and i only get bots or women charging for only fans, what is it about me maybe I'm ugly as f maybe I'm just not suppose to be happy ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I feel like I'm just not gonna find another women to love | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/th3iih/i_feel_like_im_just_not_gonna_find_another_women/ |
RalphKhl | 2018-12-21 02:29:45 | 1,545,359,385 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | a85fqq | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a85fqq/my_best_friend_used_to_like_me_but_im_with/ | 1 | TLDR; I have a best friend who had feelings for me in the past. I'm now in a relationship with someone else. How do I break the news without causing too much ache? \--- I'm 30M, and have been through a long string of attempts throughout my life to establish relationships but always failed for multiple reasons. About a ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My best friend used to like me, but I'm with someone else. What now? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a85fqq/my_best_friend_used_to_like_me_but_im_with/ |
emptythrowawayjan21 | 2021-01-24 01:10:35 | 1,611,450,635 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | l3p61z | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/l3p61z/28m_i_hate_online_dating_culture/ | 2 | Half vent half a cry for help. Last night I posted about a situation with a girl on hinge that has hit me particularly hard. As I’ve read more on this sub I’ve realized it sounds like a textbook scenario of how dating app relationships unfold. I hate dating apps. I hate how superficial I become while swiping and how su... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 28M, I hate online dating culture | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l3p61z/28m_i_hate_online_dating_culture/ |
GeoB6 | 2023-07-27 21:08:36 | 1,690,492,116 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15bdl02 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15bdl02/should_i_tell_him_not_to_show_now/ | 1 | BLUF: Im going to a big city for a 4 day work conference, i’m single and invited the guy i’ve been off and on with (what is even considered off and on, idk) and he told me some information (i’m putting two and two together on that one) and now i’m reconsidering. I (25f) met a (23m) while living in a different state for... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I tell him not to show now? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15bdl02/should_i_tell_him_not_to_show_now/ |
I_Suck_At_Women | 2017-10-23 23:55:51 | 1,508,802,951 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 78by3y | false | null | 74 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/78by3y/shes_a_10_im_not_invited_her_to_dinner_this/ | 85 | Saw one of those gorgeous women on tinder that post their Snapchat in their bio, and thought to myself "why not, worst that happens is that I don't get a response, or she blocks me, no harm either way". I add her, she accepts, and I wait a few days. Post some pictures of me and my buddy making some decent food, and sen... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She's a 10, I'm not. Invited her to dinner this weekend, she said sure. Now what? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/78by3y/shes_a_10_im_not_invited_her_to_dinner_this/ |
Ze_angry_chihuahua | 2024-09-27 23:26:38 | 1,727,479,598 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1fr12g8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fr12g8/everyone_looks_off_limits_and_i_dont_know_what_to/ | 1 | I (22M) am a high functioning autistic and have never been in a relationship before. I have never even approached a woman before, and the main reason is that in my mind everyone is off limits. I just have a feeling that if I talk to a woman they'll immediately be repulsed because I shouldn't be talking to them, like th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Everyone looks off limits and I don't know what to do. | 1 | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fr12g8/everyone_looks_off_limits_and_i_dont_know_what_to/ |
Igloo-Pincher | 2023-04-14 14:01:59 | 1,681,480,919 | 0 | null | 0 | 12lyau0 | true | null | 50 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12lyau0/simps_and_undesirable_women_love_to_use_incel_to/ | 0 | Women‘s mate selection is based almost entirely upon behavior. They may be attracted or initially drawn to a man’s appearance, but it is almost never enough to seal the deal. Further proof that feminism is toxic garbage that just moves the goal posts whenever it suits their bullshit narrative. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Simps and undesirable women love to use “incel” to describe red pillers, but red pill is firmly rooted in the very real concept that women ultimately do NOT care about looks | 0 | 0.16 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12lyau0/simps_and_undesirable_women_love_to_use_incel_to/ |
IllustratorLost9982 | 2023-05-05 14:35:40 | 1,683,297,340 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 138pn9k | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/138pn9k/not_attractive_enough_for_the_girls_i_want_to_date/ | 0 | Good morning, I’m a decent looking guy (21) and pull above my league sometimes. No problem hooking up w girls that are around same level of attractiveness. But not really interested in dating them anymore. Finding it hard to get mutual attraction from girls above my league even though I treat them the same as those in ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Not attractive enough for the girls I want to date? | 0 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/138pn9k/not_attractive_enough_for_the_girls_i_want_to_date/ |
Current_Shame_8299 | 2021-11-15 22:13:35 | 1,637,014,415 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | qurxhl | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qurxhl/what_does_it_mean_when_a_guy_leaves_on_on_read/ | 1 | I’m currently a college student and met this guy on tinder. We met up at one of the hang out spots and just hung out and got to know each other. We went our separate ways and he texted me that he liked me and I responded by saying we definitely can see where this goes. Said goodnight and I texted him the next day and h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What does it mean when a guy leaves on on read after the first met up? | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qurxhl/what_does_it_mean_when_a_guy_leaves_on_on_read/ |
ellejack1234 | 2022-03-06 03:05:04 | 1,646,535,904 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | t7pk8p | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t7pk8p/is_it_a_red_flag_if_a_guy_suggests_going_away/ | 1 | I’d been chatting to this guy on Tinder for a couple of weeks and went out with him yesterday for our first date (coffee and a walk + sitting in the park chatting). It went well - for 5 hours we just talked and I felt good chemistry between us. However, a few hours into our date I mentioned I liked a certain seaside to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it a red flag if a guy suggests going away together during your first date? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t7pk8p/is_it_a_red_flag_if_a_guy_suggests_going_away/ |
datum_data | 2020-06-11 16:54:57 | 1,591,894,497 | null | null | 0 | h133wd | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/h133wd/is_there_a_way_to_convey_authenticity_in_profile/ | 2 | I put things like my interests, hobbies, and "love to connect through conversation" that I hope show I'm a serious and interesting person. But I'm hesitant to use phrases like "normal guy", the dreaded "nice guy", "smart and curious", "high IQ and EQ", or the stodgy "looking for a serious relationship." Call me crazy, ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is there a way to convey authenticity in profile? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/h133wd/is_there_a_way_to_convey_authenticity_in_profile/ |
BriscoeTwelve | 2022-09-02 13:45:09 | 1,662,126,309 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | x41wuj | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x41wuj/genuinely_have_no_clue_about_how_first_date_went/ | 1 | I’m more confused than anything. I’ve been talking to this girl i met on Hinge for about a month. At first, i thought it wasn’t going to work out because she isn’t the best texter (short responses, not a whole lot of emotion in anything) and I thought she was way out of my league. As time went on, she started to get a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Genuinely Have No Clue About How First Date Went | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x41wuj/genuinely_have_no_clue_about_how_first_date_went/ |
Due_Adeptness1676 | 2023-12-06 18:52:53 | 1,701,888,773 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18cb4fk | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18cb4fk/do_not_use_dating_apps/ | 1 | Do not use dating apps all they want is your money | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do not use dating apps! | 1 | 0.17 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18cb4fk/do_not_use_dating_apps/ |
Informal-Aardvark-38 | 2023-09-13 03:12:22 | 1,694,574,742 | 0 | ['swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | 16hbrqk | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16hbrqk/how_tf_do_i_get_started/ | 1 | Had a complete grindset during high school and the first years of college. I got good grades and worked out a shit ton and now I've lined up a nice ass job that I really like and that pays well, and my life feels set up. Problem is, I've barely spent any time with women. I've never been on a date or asked anyone out. I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How tf do I get started? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16hbrqk/how_tf_do_i_get_started/ |
Cams1321 | 2024-09-20 20:20:50 | 1,726,863,650 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fllk8h | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fllk8h/i_did_not_see_that_coming/ | 0 | So I (33M) matched with this girl on hinge (32F) and started to hit it off so we scheduled a date. The first date went really well, according to both of us so we decided to schedule another one but it was for like a week and a half out bc we both had other obligations. We talked each day up until the scheduled second d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I did not see that coming? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fllk8h/i_did_not_see_that_coming/ |
Think_Bottle_330 | 2023-09-25 10:30:12 | 1,695,637,812 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16robg6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16robg6/i_feel_totally_blindsided_and_initiated_things/ | 1 | Dated a guy for just over 3 months, before we met he told me he hasnt dated in over a decade as he was really busy with work and didnt have the time. Now that he has time he is looking for a partner. He also told me openly that he is very shy when it comes to girls, has ocd and supports his family financially and that ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel totally blindsided and initiated things because I genuinely thought he was shy | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16robg6/i_feel_totally_blindsided_and_initiated_things/ |
Septimusattack | 2018-10-22 19:39:19 | 1,540,237,159 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9qh87x | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9qh87x/lost_in_limbo/ | 1 | Hey all, would appreciate an outside view on my current situation. Girl (21F) and I (21M) matched on Tinder, however we live a bit apart so when I asked if we could coordinate meeting in a nearby town, she said “oh can’t make it”. Now, I’d been driving the convo and she hadn’t initiated more than a “hbu” once, so I ask... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Lost in Limbo | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9qh87x/lost_in_limbo/ |
avocado_toastedsocks | 2019-05-15 04:00:34 | 1,557,892,834 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | bot1ir | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/bot1ir/why_food_pic_on_old_profile/ | 1 | I've been seeing more and more profiles with couple of good head shots, and then just some nature or food porn. This made me curious about what stories are they getting tell. Thoughts? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Why food pic on OLD profile | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bot1ir/why_food_pic_on_old_profile/ |
BeLikeToons | 2023-09-26 23:45:04 | 1,695,771,904 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16t48zh | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16t48zh/he_rejected_me_but_is_now_sending_mixed_signals/ | 1 | A few weeks ago this guy (35M) that I (31F) work with (not directly but same office) matched with me on Hinge. We met up for a drink after work to get to know each other and it went ok. We both said we would be interested in getting to know each other more, but when it came time to scheduling a second date (initiated b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He rejected me, but is now sending mixed signals leaving me confused | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16t48zh/he_rejected_me_but_is_now_sending_mixed_signals/ |
burntfusion115 | 2021-03-10 02:22:15 | 1,615,342,935 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | m1myoj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m1myoj/need_help_for_starting_an_keeping_convos/ | 1 | I’m a M(18) and I have matched with several females of similar ages on tinder and I have some added on Snapchat. However since it is sort of a norm for the guy to text first, I am unsure of what to type. In the past I’ve typed “heyyy” as the first line or have complimented them like “Hey beautiful, how’s it going”. sug... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help for starting an keeping convos | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m1myoj/need_help_for_starting_an_keeping_convos/ |
naiveporpoise38 | 2023-11-05 22:23:36 | 1,699,223,016 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17onhi5 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17onhi5/im_23_and_single/ | 9 | I’m 23 and ever since graduating from college about a year and a half ago, I don’t know how to meet people in general, let alone find a relationship with a girl who’s mutually interested in me. I’ve been told to join clubs and I’ve done that, my interests are nerdy though and while I’ve been able to talk to some girls ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m 23 and single | 9 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17onhi5/im_23_and_single/ |
stresssedout | 2024-01-07 06:33:32 | 1,704,609,212 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 190lvr2 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/190lvr2/should_a_guy_pay_for_my_flight_to_see_him/ | 1 | [M30] was in my [F26] city for work— we matched on the apps and went on two great dates, lots of physical chemistry then he went back home. He invited me to fly over to him a couple weeks after and offered to split the cost of the flight and paid for all the food while i was there which i really appreciated but on the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should a guy pay for my flight to see him? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/190lvr2/should_a_guy_pay_for_my_flight_to_see_him/ |
FormerOptimist94 | 2024-03-23 15:15:33 | 1,711,206,933 | 0 | null | 0 | 1blujyx | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1blujyx/what_the_actual_fuck_happened_to_online_dating/ | 14 | It's gotten steadily worse ... these days it's pure dogshit. For reference I'm 6'5, muscular, classically handsome, my photos depict me snowboarding, hiking, at the beach with my dog, at a wedding with my friend, and a silly one from my holiday to Tokyo. My bio / prompts are witty and invite a response. I always make s... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What the actual fuck happened to online dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1blujyx/what_the_actual_fuck_happened_to_online_dating/ |
bigmand4n | 2022-08-09 12:34:44 | 1,660,048,484 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wk26gb | true | null | 184 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wk26gb/my_22m_girlfriend_22f_wants_to_room_with_her_guy/ | 149 | My (22M) girlfriend (22F) wants to room with her guy best friend (24M) We've been talking since June, but been official for almost 2 months now. She's known this guy since May. They met on Tinder, but nothing happened between them. They found each other attractive, but that was it. They have gone on to become each othe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My (22M) girlfriend (22F) wants to room with her guy best friend (24M) | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wk26gb/my_22m_girlfriend_22f_wants_to_room_with_her_guy/ |
Vivid-Ad7541 | 2021-08-22 23:59:23 | 1,629,676,763 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | p9o167 | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/p9o167/is_32f_and_28m_age_difference_acceptable/ | 0 | I (32f) was chatting with a guy (28m) in a dating app and we instantly click. Idk why but I always thought he was 33. He asked me to go on a date and I agreed, but 3 days before the meeting, I checked his profile and saw that he is 28 not 33 like what I always have in mind. I really enjoyed the date, he is charming and... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Is (32f) and (28m) age difference acceptable | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/p9o167/is_32f_and_28m_age_difference_acceptable/ |
Ilostmynewunicorn | 2019-08-01 03:02:16 | 1,564,628,536 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ckimut | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ckimut/i_23m_think_i_need_to_be_constantly_funny_andor/ | 1 | Hey! I think I'm kind of a funny guy IF I'm not trying to be funny. If I'm just enjoying myself and talking my mind or telling stories, or sharing an observation with someone, people tend to find my funny and complement me on it. The minute I TRY to be funny (as in, make a clear joke or comment to make the other person... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (23M) think I need to be constantly funny and/or amusing and it's ruining my dating and social life | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ckimut/i_23m_think_i_need_to_be_constantly_funny_andor/ |
NoKarmaHalp | 2024-06-10 23:12:24 | 1,718,061,144 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dczjxm | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dczjxm/do_you_guys_ever_pay_the_dating_apps/ | 1 | Do you pay 2 win? Or do you not break the two most important rules of online dating? Or did you break all the rules and pay? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do you guys ever pay the dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dczjxm/do_you_guys_ever_pay_the_dating_apps/ |
Papaping0716 | 2021-06-29 01:44:57 | 1,624,931,097 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | o9yd7r | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o9yd7r/dont_know_how_to_handle_certain_situation_with/ | 3 | Hi, I (26M) recently matched up with a girl around mid May, we hit it off went on our first date things couldn't have been better. Just to preface, I haven't dated anyone prior to that date in 2 years, I had a "fling" that didn't amount to anything so im at a position where I don't really know how to handle particular ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Don't know how to handle certain situation with dating . | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o9yd7r/dont_know_how_to_handle_certain_situation_with/ |
Hopeful-Bluejay | 2021-04-13 20:41:39 | 1,618,346,499 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | mqb3wn | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/mqb3wn/what_do_you_do_if_youre_a_straight_woman_and_you/ | 15 | So many men are just not that great, and once you get to a certain age, it feels like almost all the men you meet day-to-day are in relationships, and dating apps are mostly exhausting, disappointing and demoralising. It easily feels like "almost all the good ones are taken", and it's a huge investment of time and ener... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | What do you do if you're a straight woman, and you really do want a relationship, but you've given up on men? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/mqb3wn/what_do_you_do_if_youre_a_straight_woman_and_you/ |
Potaton4 | 2024-02-28 03:30:41 | 1,709,091,041 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1b1vxzx | true | Success Story 🎉 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b1vxzx/people_youll_never_meet_again/ | 1 | I am in nyc this week for work and live maybe 5 hours away. I went on hinge for fun and matched with this girl. Absolutely stunning and probably one of most gorgeous people I’ve met. We went on two dates and had so much niche stuff in common and our connection was easy. If I lived in NYC we’d most certainly date. We en... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | People you’ll never meet again | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b1vxzx/people_youll_never_meet_again/ |
Ben14576 | 2023-04-11 01:22:00 | 1,681,176,120 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 12i3kt6 | true | null | 75 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/12i3kt6/how_do_i_start_talking_to_more_girls_without/ | 54 | Hey everyone, I’m a 21 year old male college student who wants to start asking more girls for their phone numbers and in general trying to date more but I have something holding me back. I am involved in a bunch of stuff and meet a lot of people all the time including girls but I’m scared to ask multiple girls out from... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do I start talking to more girls without being labeled a creep? | 54 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/12i3kt6/how_do_i_start_talking_to_more_girls_without/ |
MarketLittle625 | 2022-04-18 16:09:58 | 1,650,298,198 | null | null | 0 | u6gskc | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/u6gskc/advice_for_those_who_are_burnt_out/ | 2 | I know some people give advice such as taking a break when you're not having luck or getting frustrated. This is good advice because whether you realize or not you might be bottling up this rejection and self sabotaging yourself far worse. OLD is inherently shallow and understand the type of people you might be attract... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Advice for those who are burnt out | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/u6gskc/advice_for_those_who_are_burnt_out/ |
Altedge | 2018-06-19 03:02:05 | 1,529,377,325 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 8s5j32 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8s5j32/when_to_talk_about_being_exclusive/ | 1 | I tried online dating, and the girl in question contacted me first. We talked a little bit for a few days, and then I causally suggested going somewhere we both had mentioned wanting to go. So we did meet up about 2 weeks after planning it, because that was the soonest we both could. And we've been on 7 other dates whi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When To Talk About Being Exclusive? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8s5j32/when_to_talk_about_being_exclusive/ |
gdf122 | 2018-10-29 23:31:18 | 1,540,855,878 | null | ['swiping', 'OLD'] | 0 | 9sihyc | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9sihyc/old_how_often_do_you_go_out_with_someone_for_a/ | 14 | I don't mean a 1st date where you're only going out in hopes of getting laid, or because you had nothing else to do that night, or even because their profile was unique/interesting. I'm talking about people who are seriously looking for a relationship and are only somewhat attracted to the other person in their OLD pho... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | OLD - How often do you go out with someone for a 1st date that you only feel moderately attracted to? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9sihyc/old_how_often_do_you_go_out_with_someone_for_a/ |
awkwardpenguin23121 | 2021-03-27 12:38:03 | 1,616,848,683 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | meczhl | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/meczhl/i_19f_am_getting_mixed_signals_from_23m/ | 7 | Hello! I am on mobile, so sorry for any formatting errors. I met a guy on an online dating app, and he lives about an hour and a half away. We talked on the phone a lot, and went on two dates. The second date, I could tell something was off from how emotionally distant he was acting. I asked him about it when we were d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (19F) am getting mixed signals from (23M) | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/meczhl/i_19f_am_getting_mixed_signals_from_23m/ |
youcantfindme123 | 2017-03-17 11:35:22 | 1,489,750,522 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 5zx27k | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5zx27k/its_okay_to_let_someone_down/ | 12 | I start messaging a guy, and things seem to be going well. Then suddenly, ghost. Look, I've ghosted before too and I'm not saying it's always bad, but it's OKAY to simply tell someone you're not interested. And I don't mean responding to every single "hey" message you receive on whatever dating site. I mean when you've... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | It's okay to let someone down | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5zx27k/its_okay_to_let_someone_down/ |
Mrk3456 | 2024-01-27 12:52:21 | 1,706,359,941 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1aca71c | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1aca71c/seeking_love/ | 1 | Hi, I’m a good guy medical professional looking for a good Asian woman for friendship leading to love and marriage. I have tried the typical dating apps but no luck. Any advice please and thank you | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Seeking love | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aca71c/seeking_love/ |
Cringesque | 2022-02-22 03:50:16 | 1,645,501,816 | null | ['swiping', 'hinge'] | 0 | sydk8i | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sydk8i/heartbroken_from_a_situationship/ | 11 | I've never been in this position before because I've developed this weird defense mechanism where if a guy doesn't reciprocate interest, I tend to lose interest in him. Idk i have a generally busy life so it's been easy. But I recently met someone on hinge that I just really really liked and he seemed very into it too ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Heartbroken from a situationship | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sydk8i/heartbroken_from_a_situationship/ |
Ashinhoc | 2018-10-28 14:32:42 | 1,540,737,162 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 9s3k6k | true | null | 100 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9s3k6k/how_many_red_flags_do_i_exhibit/ | 7 | I'll try to be as open and honest as possible. So my wife of 8+ years and I decided to get a divorce on Memorial Day of this year. We had been unhappy with each other for years and felt that if we split then, it wouldn't turn into bickering and fighting like what I did with my previous ex. Mentally, we were both checke... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How many red flags do I exhibit? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9s3k6k/how_many_red_flags_do_i_exhibit/ |
owleyen | 2023-07-19 14:00:22 | 1,689,775,222 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 153vvdx | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/153vvdx/dated_and_dumped_bc_lack_of_time_to_give_me_what/ | 1 | Met someone climbing. we hit it off pretty instantly. went on a few dates and established that we wouldn’t be seeing anyone else. it was going really well and he was the first person i actually had interest in and feelings for since my last relationship. fast forward about two months while we meet each others friends, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | dated and dumped bc “lack of time to give me what i deserve” but back online? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/153vvdx/dated_and_dumped_bc_lack_of_time_to_give_me_what/ |
Geraldslefthand | 2023-08-02 22:23:53 | 1,691,015,033 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15glyu7 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15glyu7/im_at_a_loss/ | 1 | It’s been nearly a decade since I’ve been on a first date. The last time I went on one I was still in school and had access to an environment in which there were plenty of similar women my age. I now work in an industry with essentially no women, and after using dating apps for over a year I still have not matched with... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m at a loss | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15glyu7/im_at_a_loss/ |
UnimportantGuy2291 | 2019-09-18 02:51:34 | 1,568,775,094 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | d5rkmc | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d5rkmc/single_for_too_long/ | 0 | Hey all! Pretty much what the title says tbh. I (19M) broke up with my last girlfriend a year and a half ago and just havent had any luck getting a girlfriend since. I have had something that was extremely close but then everything crumbled in a truly spectacular fashion. We went from seriously wanting to date to I don... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Single for too long | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d5rkmc/single_for_too_long/ |
ZoraNealThirstin | 2023-02-06 20:43:42 | 1,675,716,222 | null | null | 0 | 10vhlir | true | null | 74 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10vhlir/am_i_the_only_one_turned_off_by_pics_of_someone/ | 27 | I’m about to take a permanent break from online dating but have a few weeks left on my premium subscription. I was looking at the amount of people who have already swiped right on me and noticed that the majority of them have a cigarette sticking out of their mouth. For me it’s a dealbreaker because I have asthma. But ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Am I the only one turned off by pics of someone smoking? | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10vhlir/am_i_the_only_one_turned_off_by_pics_of_someone/ |
bluebrainbot | 2024-02-21 19:14:57 | 1,708,542,897 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1awkkcv | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1awkkcv/how_to_overcome_inexperience_in_dating/ | 1 | I ( 26F) have barely dated but aim to be in a long term relationship. I genuinely want to be a relationship but I'm not going to be irrational and rush into one just to be in one. I'm trying to learn how to be a good partner. When I was younger I belived that dating would distract from my studies or developing myself. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to overcome inexperience in dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1awkkcv/how_to_overcome_inexperience_in_dating/ |
DearUnderstanding970 | 2023-07-18 02:46:14 | 1,689,648,374 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 152m2ci | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/152m2ci/i_have_a_crush_on_my_coworker_and_idk_what_to_do/ | 1 | We don’t technically work together. We both work at a kids summer camp for the same company but different locations. I met him at a training session for summer camp right before camp started and we were thinking up games to play with the kids and one game he suggested that we played and he picked me for. I felt seen an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have a crush on my coworker and idk what to do | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/152m2ci/i_have_a_crush_on_my_coworker_and_idk_what_to_do/ |
F102018 | 2020-05-23 16:13:31 | 1,590,250,411 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | gp7ku5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gp7ku5/quarantine_has_me_feeling_hopeless_about_dating/ | 2 | I’m 28 F and one of the last single girls of my friend group. Lately I’ve been feeling so hopeless about dating. No one knows how long this will last and I’m getting so sick of the apps. I met my ex on tinder and for a while it seemed like we had something really special. After 1.5 years I found out he was cheating - w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Quarantine has me feeling hopeless about dating. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gp7ku5/quarantine_has_me_feeling_hopeless_about_dating/ |
backsidesleddog | 2022-01-11 05:32:20 | 1,641,879,140 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | s15cc3 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s15cc3/date_says_shes_emotionally_unavailable_did_i_make/ | 4 | I (24M) went on two dates with a girl (22F) I met on hinge. We had dinner and drinks the first date and got along great. Lots in common, talked about fairly personal topics and felt comfortable with her. I ended up walking her home and saying goodnight without going for a kiss. She went home for the holidays so we didn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Date says shes emotionally unavailable. Did I make the right decision? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s15cc3/date_says_shes_emotionally_unavailable_did_i_make/ |
Proof_Custard7410 | 2023-12-29 09:40:51 | 1,703,842,851 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18tjf17 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18tjf17/if_a_person_in_your_likes_list_dislikes_you_will/ | 1 | There are a bunch of people in my "Your likes" section of the Aisle app. I just want to know that if one of those people dislike my profile, will their profile still be visible in the list or not? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | If a person in "your likes" list dislikes you, will their profile still appear in the list or not on the Aisle dating app? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18tjf17/if_a_person_in_your_likes_list_dislikes_you_will/ |
PlayfulTheory3 | 2024-08-11 23:37:18 | 1,723,419,438 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1epyxg8 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1epyxg8/do_scammers_ask_for_your_whatsapp_on_tinder/ | 1 | I matched with a verified profile but the guy told me his "real name." This gave me weird vibes. He mentioned that he used to work for the government and intelligence services and didn't want to disclose his name. This made things really weird for me. His profile is complete, has more than 2 pics (all mirror selfies). ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do scammers ask for your WhatsApp on Tinder? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1epyxg8/do_scammers_ask_for_your_whatsapp_on_tinder/ |
LachrymoseLactose | 2020-03-03 09:45:17 | 1,583,228,717 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fcsao6 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fcsao6/our_dating_society_is_really_messed_up_when_you/ | 6 | It's either one extreme or the other (either you're single or you're in a relationship). It just feels like there's so much pressure. But I hate how fake most you are. I'd just like a friend and a peaceful life. Someone I can do things with. Go for walks with. Go to events with. Go get coffee with. Watch movies with. P... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Our dating society is really messed up when you think about. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fcsao6/our_dating_society_is_really_messed_up_when_you/ |
jessicakaren | 2016-08-04 06:34:55 | 1,470,292,495 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 4w3718 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4w3718/review_site_for_top_biker_dating_sites_launched/ | 0 | Stated to be the number one reviewer of biker dating sites, this new service will give expert and unbiased reviews of top biker dating sites and offer tips to biker singles. According to the spokesperson for the newly launched service, this will be a blog site that will be regularly updated with the latest information ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Review Site for Top Biker Dating Sites Launched | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4w3718/review_site_for_top_biker_dating_sites_launched/ |
[deleted] | 2018-03-01 16:31:41 | 1,519,921,901 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 816ixv | false | null | 34 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/816ixv/navigating_single_friends_amid_a_new_relationship/ | 1 | My new relationship is all but a month old at this point and I'm comfortable enough telling my friends about it. I probably have as many friends who are single as I do not, but the ones who are single are the ones I've related more to over the last few years due to similar lifestyles and dealing with the perils of dati... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Navigating single friends amid a new relationship | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/816ixv/navigating_single_friends_amid_a_new_relationship/ |
CDUke93 | 2017-08-28 18:39:12 | 1,503,945,552 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6wleqo | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6wleqo/advice_conservative_or/ | 1 | Hello Everyone, Hoping to see some perspective on this 23y woman I've gone on two dates with. Met on Tinder; similar in that we are both in Life Sciences for University, musical and both looking for something more long-term. After finding out her favorite foods, pastimes and such I used the info to plan dates. Date 1: ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [Advice] Conservative Or ??? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6wleqo/advice_conservative_or/ |
wrinkledshirts | 2022-05-24 05:00:25 | 1,653,368,425 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | uwj4ca | true | null | 142 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/uwj4ca/do_men_prematurely_imagine_what_dating_a_girl/ | 136 | I know myself and other girls I know see a guy on a dating app and imagine dating him and stuff but - do men do this??? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Do men prematurely imagine what dating a girl would be like? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/uwj4ca/do_men_prematurely_imagine_what_dating_a_girl/ |
jorgenvan | 2014-06-07 04:41:04 | 1,402,116,064 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 27j1g9 | null | null | 13 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/27j1g9/i_just_really_need_to_vent/ | 2 | Let me preface this by saying I'm sorry if this is the wrong place to post this, but twoX, no one can make a girl feel better like you can. I went for dinner with my family to celebrate my birthday. I've been vegan for a few years now so we went to what was formerly my favorite all veg restaurant. My parents brought th... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I just really need to vent | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/27j1g9/i_just_really_need_to_vent/ |
robbi____ | 2020-02-12 00:22:26 | 1,581,466,946 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | f2i1b8 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f2i1b8/im_not_sure_what_direction_to_go_with_this_girl/ | 2 | I've been talking to this girl for a while over Bumble after we bonded over music. We've really gotten to know each other and I really like her. She claims she really likes me too, but she doesn't want to move from Bumble in terms of messaging and when I mentioned about meeting up she'd either say she's waiting for her... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm not sure what direction to go with this girl | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f2i1b8/im_not_sure_what_direction_to_go_with_this_girl/ |
mhselif | 2024-09-15 21:24:57 | 1,726,435,497 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fhnnmz | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fhnnmz/women_are_braces_on_a_guy_a_problem/ | 2 | Not sure if this is the right place for this question but. I am 34 and got braces earlier this year because my new employer covers about 40% of them. I just decided to get back onto dating apps now but am feeling really self conscious with the braces now and wanting them off. So are braces a dea breaker? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Women are braces on a guy a problem? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fhnnmz/women_are_braces_on_a_guy_a_problem/ |
McBeerson | 2023-05-14 17:56:27 | 1,684,086,987 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 13hiqzr | true | Question ❓ | 38 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13hiqzr/aside_from_a_bar_where_would_women_feel_most/ | 16 | I’m (28M) trying to organically meet someone. I’ve tried meeting people on dating apps and it just seems weird whenever I meet someone in person because their personality is not what I imagined. OR they’re a catfish. I don’t have an issue matching with girls, mainly just getting them interested through text. Not much o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Aside from a bar, where would women feel most comfortable being approached/hit on? | 16 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13hiqzr/aside_from_a_bar_where_would_women_feel_most/ |
Dragonbombinator | 2023-01-23 02:17:28 | 1,674,440,248 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | 10j17y8 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10j17y8/should_i_make_a_move_or_take_it_slow/ | 1 | I've been at my new job for a few months now and there's a girl that I've just not been able to stop thinking about. She usually works night shifts and I'm in during mornings, sometimes we get shifts together. She also has yet to swipe left on my tinder but she knows I swiped right. She is gorgeous and probably won't s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I make a move or take it slow? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10j17y8/should_i_make_a_move_or_take_it_slow/ |
ThrowRA_Western | 2023-02-14 16:25:47 | 1,676,391,947 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1129h6q | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1129h6q/gf_19f_met_with_her_ex_bf_behind_my_20m_back_and/ | 3 | So I just wanted to get others opinions on my situation with my gf. So we started talking about a year ago to the date and I asked her out on a date immediately. We really clicked and I told her on the first date that I think things went well and would love to keep seeing her. She agreed and we went on more dates. I sa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | GF (19F) met with her ex bf behind my (20M) back and lied to me about it | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1129h6q/gf_19f_met_with_her_ex_bf_behind_my_20m_back_and/ |
Skyroww | 2020-07-25 04:22:30 | 1,595,650,950 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | hxgn29 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hxgn29/when_is_it_okay_to_text_back/ | 2 | Okay so this might sound a little weird but I've never understood when it's okay to text back Like some people take a day to get back to you, should you also wait a day before you reply ? I'm on dating apps atm and I really don't know I'm usually a very fast replier, cause I always have my phone handy. But I'm not sure... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When is it okay to text back | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hxgn29/when_is_it_okay_to_text_back/ |
ManWithShades | 2019-07-16 09:32:15 | 1,563,269,535 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | cdus9f | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cdus9f/im_basically_new_to_dating_and_it_feels_like_im/ | 1 | So, I'm a 22M, and it's been about four years since I've seriously been with someone. It was the first person I've seriously dated, and I learned a lot from it. Here's the backstory for some context, but you can skip the next 7 paragraphs if you want the TLDR (boy I'm out of control with the writing tonight.. just a wa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm Basically New To Dating, And It Feels Like I'm Not Seen As An Option | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cdus9f/im_basically_new_to_dating_and_it_feels_like_im/ |
mariaxoxoxo | 2024-09-17 18:00:13 | 1,726,596,013 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1fj6482 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fj6482/dating_with_kids/ | 1 | I (f25) used to talk to this guy (m27) around 2021-2022 we met on a dating app - long story short he had ghosted me and just recently popped back up in my life and now has a kid. We started talking again when his son was 5 months old, he’s now 11 months old. I really like this guy we have a lot in common and I feel a g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating with kids | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fj6482/dating_with_kids/ |
businessgains | 2021-12-04 11:53:16 | 1,638,618,796 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | r8o562 | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r8o562/painful_end/ | 0 | [SORRY LONG READ] Hello there, I met a girl in Brazil on Tinder back in 2018, at that time we didn't live in the same city but as I went on a road trip with my friends I ended up meeting her anyway as she invited me to go with her to a party. Well, I was sold right away based on her looks but also because of her person... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Painful end... | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r8o562/painful_end/ |
ThrowawaySuicide1337 | 2016-05-01 08:31:51 | 1,462,091,511 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 4h8bhk | null | Brigaded Thread | 380 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/4h8bhk/whats_your_opinion_on_polyamorouspolygamous/ | 80 | I've noticed this trend more and more lately , specifically dating sites, where women either have had a history with this or are seeking such. Is it too much to think it's a deal breaker to you men? Thoughts? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What's your opinion on polyamorous/polygamous relationships with women? | 80 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/4h8bhk/whats_your_opinion_on_polyamorouspolygamous/ |
throwaway_1868a0f6 | 2019-05-13 05:24:52 | 1,557,725,092 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | bnzdgj | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bnzdgj/trying_to_be_friends_instead_because_i_met/ | 1 | Through an unfortunate series of events I'm currently dating two women. Usually, I will (try to) go on first dates with multiple women in the same week, but then quickly try to focus on a single person from the second date onward. Dating multiple people is not something that I actively want nor do I think it's consider... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Trying to be friends instead because I met someone else? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bnzdgj/trying_to_be_friends_instead_because_i_met/ |
Same_Salamander1048 | 2023-09-14 19:18:02 | 1,694,719,082 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 16ir7gh | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16ir7gh/not_happy_with_my_relationship_and_having/ | 1 | I met this friend about two years ago on Tinder, she ghosted me after we talked for a couple of days and I met someone else in the meantime and she texted me after a month and we decided to be friends because I was with someone else but broke up with her after 4-5 months. Since then my friend and I have been going on d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Not happy with my relationship and having feelings for my best friend | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16ir7gh/not_happy_with_my_relationship_and_having/ |
smallLifter | 2020-07-17 11:15:49 | 1,594,984,549 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hstvif | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hstvif/first_date_ever/ | 1 | About me: 22 year old male. So I have been content, happy and satisfied with every aspect of my life except when it comes to having a girlfriend and dating. I have never put myself out there and I recently decided I needed to get out of my comfort zone and try. I’ve met this really attractive smart girl on tinder and w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date ever. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hstvif/first_date_ever/ |
thewanderingman01 | 2023-03-18 17:53:19 | 1,679,161,999 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 11uv136 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11uv136/dating_apps/ | 0 | Do they actually work? I have joined a lot and rarely get any matches. Should I just give up? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11uv136/dating_apps/ |
ConceptLarge | 2020-11-22 22:34:08 | 1,606,084,448 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | jz54v9 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jz54v9/did_i_already_ruin_this_by_asking_too_late/ | 1 | Trying to recap without writing too much so it won't get lost. I (25) met a girl (29) on a dating app. We hit it off well talking and it was interesting. She gave me her number and we continued talking. Then she asked me what I wanted, I said I was ideally looking for my soulmate, but I know I won't necessarily find he... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I already ruin this by asking too late? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jz54v9/did_i_already_ruin_this_by_asking_too_late/ |
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