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PhrygianSounds | 2020-10-30 05:42:31 | 1,604,036,551 | null | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | jkr6so | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jkr6so/its_been_a_year_since_i_went_on_this_bumble_date/ | 9 | I had just transferred schools last year and moved to a new city. I hardly knew anyone, but was interested in getting involved in the dating scene, so I downloaded bumble. I hadn’t dated anyone in like three years and didn’t have any luck meeting women in person so I thought bumble would help. After a few weeks, I’d ta... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | It’s been a year since I went on this bumble date that totally destroyed my confidence.. how do I regain it | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jkr6so/its_been_a_year_since_i_went_on_this_bumble_date/ |
Legitimate_Bison3756 | 2023-09-30 13:04:32 | 1,696,079,072 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 16w6c8s | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16w6c8s/do_you_continue_dating_after_a_fling_just_ended/ | 1 | Do you think it would lead to hurting other people if I kept on online dating after a fling just ended and I haven’t fully recovered from it? I don’t want to hurt other people. I want to date and see if there is a better match for me, but I’m also worried that I’ll be missing the person I had a fling with while dating,... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you continue dating after a fling just ended and you haven’t fully recovered from it? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16w6c8s/do_you_continue_dating_after_a_fling_just_ended/ |
OKswimmer2684 | 2021-03-31 17:26:25 | 1,617,211,585 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | mhb3lc | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/mhb3lc/tips_for_using_meetup/ | 10 | Just downloaded the meetup app and excited to maybe try meeting people “in the wild.” Any tips for me? I am setting up my profile now. Should I just use my first name? And a real photo of myself? Maybe something less like a dating profile pic? I’m in a small city of about 50k and in a mountainous region. I am going to ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Tips for using Meetup? | null | 0.68 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/mhb3lc/tips_for_using_meetup/ |
[deleted] | 2021-06-02 12:28:54 | 1,622,636,934 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | nqknoc | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nqknoc/why_am_i_getting_no_interest_what_can_i_do/ | 1 | I’m in a hell of a rut. I’ve been on dating apps and other social media trying to make connections and it’s just not happening. I’m getting zero interest no matter what I do. I would think I would be able to find just one person who is interested, but that’s not happening. Everyone is just kinda “meh” about me. I fill ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why am I getting no interest? What can I do? | null | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nqknoc/why_am_i_getting_no_interest_what_can_i_do/ |
According-Froyo-917 | 2024-03-20 00:16:04 | 1,710,893,764 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1bizyln | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bizyln/dating_vs_something_casual_vs_nothing_at_all/ | 1 | I’m 19F and downloaded Bumble about a month ago, and I did meet someone, but we had to part ways because our futures weren’t aligned (different lifestyles and he wants kids eventually, I don’t). Since we went our separate ways about a week ago, I’ve been really questioning what I want. For context, I’m a digital nomad ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating vs something casual vs… nothing at all? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bizyln/dating_vs_something_casual_vs_nothing_at_all/ |
orwellson | 2017-05-08 22:28:34 | 1,494,282,514 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 6a1fso | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/6a1fso/good_bumble_1st_date_i_thought_had_moved_on_texts/ | 1 | I had a great first date with a woman I met on Bumble. She even went in for the kiss before I thought I had the go-ahead. Then she basically disappeared on me: never responded to my conservatively-paced texts (no more than once a week). When she did respond, it was to apologize/tell me she was too busy to text (duh). N... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Good Bumble 1st Date I Thought Had Moved on Texts Out of Nowhere That She's Seeing Someone But Wants to Keep Options Open With me. Huh? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6a1fso/good_bumble_1st_date_i_thought_had_moved_on_texts/ |
WhalerGuy90 | 2023-04-24 01:02:21 | 1,682,298,141 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 12wxbct | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/12wxbct/asking_someone_out_that_you_already_see_routinely/ | 38 | Hello DOT, I'd (32M) like some advice as to the most "suave" way of handling asking out a prospect or at least communicating my interest to her (32F) directly or indirectly. I met this girl through a hobby of mine so I see her at least once a week in a group setting. We also text from time to time. I don't know if I wa... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Asking someone out that you already see routinely | 38 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/12wxbct/asking_someone_out_that_you_already_see_routinely/ |
Primary_Fly1662 | 2024-09-28 05:13:27 | 1,727,500,407 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1fr738k | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fr738k/is_hinge_just_not_working_out_for_anyone/ | 2 | I've been on and off Hinge for about 2 years now, and I swear it's just getting worse. I'm decently attractive, and I'm hilarious but these dates I go on are just with guys who are (no offense) just not there personality wise. So is it me? Is it the app? I'm very confused. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is Hinge just not working out? For anyone? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fr738k/is_hinge_just_not_working_out_for_anyone/ |
kearq | 2024-08-18 22:16:24 | 1,724,019,384 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1evlmhk | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1evlmhk/when_to_disclose_dark_past/ | 0 | Hi folks, I’m a 25m in London On paper I’m doing well, I’ve bought my own place, got a great job, have good friends, apparently decent looking (get multiple matches a day on the apps at least) but I have a dark secret A few years ago I was anxious about still being a virgin and had sec with an escort to lose my v card.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When to disclose dark past | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1evlmhk/when_to_disclose_dark_past/ |
No_Wrongdoer_4311 | 2024-03-25 02:05:25 | 1,711,332,325 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bn2bv3 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bn2bv3/he_said_he_really_liked_me_and_saw_himself_really/ | 1 | We met on a dating app… everything was great at first. He was texting me all day every day trying to get to know me. I liked him he liked me. One problem… he has kids and is divorced. I was hesitant about him having kids and he told me this scared him off. I tried to prove I was willing to be with him despite my initia... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He said he really liked me… and saw himself really falling for me and now he’s lost interest. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bn2bv3/he_said_he_really_liked_me_and_saw_himself_really/ |
Scazza95 | 2024-09-21 10:28:19 | 1,726,914,499 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1flzzfv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1flzzfv/matching_with_someone_you_know_on_an_app_date_or/ | 1 | So earlier this week I got a matched with an old work colleague of mine, someone I last worked with about 6 years ago. We used to get along very well and I had a crush on her, but life got in the way. When she matched with me she sent a message saying how long it had been. We messages for a bit catching up on each othe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Matching with someone you know on an app - Date or Catch up? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1flzzfv/matching_with_someone_you_know_on_an_app_date_or/ |
prophecy623 | 2013-06-11 21:55:00 | 1,370,987,700 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 1g5i1c | null | null | 18 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/1g5i1c/what_do_women_specifically_look_at_in_online/ | 7 | For all the women out there, what do you look for when you look at a man's online profile? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | What do women specifically look at in online dating sites? | 7 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1g5i1c/what_do_women_specifically_look_at_in_online/ |
confuseddating1 | 2024-09-10 02:36:03 | 1,725,935,763 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1fd7jt0 | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1fd7jt0/im_exhausted_where_are_you/ | 43 | I only had two very LTRs before going back to being single, now I’ve been single for about two years, this year I started OLD very seriously but it’s been just a series of unfortunate events. I go on dates, put myself out there, I keep working on myself, get my shit together in every aspect of my life . I know I’m fort... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I’m exhausted , where are you? | 43 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1fd7jt0/im_exhausted_where_are_you/ |
WorldlinessPlayful72 | 2023-10-27 20:12:43 | 1,698,437,563 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17hwcry | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17hwcry/downloading_tinder_has_reminded_me_how_much_i/ | 1 | A day and a half ago, I downloaded Tinder since I feel a bit lonely and it has reminded me how much I hate dating. I hate being valued almost exclusively for my looks, being treated like a commodity where I have to try to "prove that I'm a better option than others," being dehumanized, and the culture that exists aroun... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Downloading Tinder has reminded me how much I hate dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17hwcry/downloading_tinder_has_reminded_me_how_much_i/ |
fr3akona-leash | 2024-03-20 11:08:16 | 1,710,932,896 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1bjav32 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bjav32/as_a_genz_whos_mostly_offline_how_the_hell_do_i/ | 3 | I have looked at free classes offered in my area, they’re all for children. I’ve looked at lots of meetup/hobby groups and they are ALL attended by small groups of people at least 12-15 years older than me. There doesn’t seem to be any local concerts or fun, low pressure community events where to might just meet somebo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | As a GenZ who’s mostly offline, how the hell do I date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bjav32/as_a_genz_whos_mostly_offline_how_the_hell_do_i/ |
Fashion_Fascist | 2024-08-13 00:59:56 | 1,723,510,796 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1equt7e | true | null | 162 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1equt7e/really_really_crushed/ | 82 | Hi all, I am about to turn 40 in a few weeks and I am just shattered by the fact that I have been trying to date for over 15 years now with zero luck. I haven’t had a single long term relationship this entire time. I am attractive, doing well in my job, and well educated, but I do not seem to attract anyone that I am a... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Really really crushed | 82 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1equt7e/really_really_crushed/ |
AceeMalaika | 2022-11-21 02:42:56 | 1,668,998,576 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | z0n72b | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z0n72b/how_do_you_intentionally_become_attracted_to/ | 6 | [29 F] I have never had a bf. I have had short flings at most. I started online dating again. I connected with one guy due to good conversation. He is a great guy character-wise. We are quite different, which I like, and we share a lot of the same values and desires. I enjoy talking to him. We have gone on 2 dates for ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you intentionally become attracted to someone? | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z0n72b/how_do_you_intentionally_become_attracted_to/ |
ZangetsuAK17 | 2021-04-21 12:43:31 | 1,619,009,011 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | mvevb8 | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/mvevb8/how_long_to_wait_before_asking_a_girl_to_meet_in/ | 7 | Hey guys, So I started talking to this girl on tinder, actually she messaged me first and that was a surprise in and of itself, but things have been going really well since we started talking. I've moved the conversation off of tinder and we still talk every day and it seems to be quite flirty, I'm just wondering if as... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How long to wait before asking a girl to meet in person? | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/mvevb8/how_long_to_wait_before_asking_a_girl_to_meet_in/ |
runnerwannabeee | 2024-07-05 17:38:49 | 1,720,201,129 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dw3oja | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dw3oja/hookup_culture/ | 0 | For context, I am gay (26) How do you not get attached to a person after a hookup ??? 🫠🫠🫠 I met a straight guy on a dating app this week. He just broke up with his girlfriend and now trying to explore things. We chatted for a little while that day and decided to meet. He booked a hotel since we don’t have any place ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hookup Culture | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dw3oja/hookup_culture/ |
sneezingfeathers | 2024-03-19 03:01:30 | 1,710,817,290 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | 1bia5jx | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bia5jx/would_you_get_mad_if_a_girl_doesnt_respond_right/ | 1 | This guy I matched with got mad at me because I don’t respond right away. Yes, I do take a few hrs to respond, but that’s because I’m working most of the day, and usually don’t get to check my phone 24/7. Plus when I do respond, I like to make sure I have time to give him my full attention. Anyways he texted at 12am la... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would you get mad if a girl doesn’t respond right away? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bia5jx/would_you_get_mad_if_a_girl_doesnt_respond_right/ |
nationalmimosaday | 2019-07-04 16:26:40 | 1,562,257,600 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped'] | 0 | c94iye | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 24 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c94iye/am_i_being_petty/ | 16 | So I’ve realized that I instantly swipe left on people who don’t know difference between your and you’re. Just a major turn off for me. At the same time I have a fear of missing out, what if I just swiped left on a great guy just because I’m being snobby? Because I don’t know how else to explain why this turns me off s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I being petty? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c94iye/am_i_being_petty/ |
rthefoodie | 2021-02-13 06:54:58 | 1,613,199,298 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | livek2 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/livek2/advice_needed_im_about_to_go_off_at_a_slow_fader/ | 5 | So I 25F met a guy 29M on hinge about two months ago. He was extremely well mannered and we clicked, so i agreed to meet up for coffee in our cars. I thought the date went well and he made his intentions very clear that day - that he is looking for a serious relationship and that hes very interested in getting to know ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice needed - im about to go off at a slow fader but don’t think that’s a good idea | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/livek2/advice_needed_im_about_to_go_off_at_a_slow_fader/ |
backday_everyday | 2021-01-12 21:59:44 | 1,610,488,784 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | kw1tmo | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kw1tmo/time_to_move_on/ | 1 | Soo I'm kinda new to OLD but I somehow managed to match with a girl and we texted for a few days and had some great conversations. I decided to ask her out and she said yes, but then as we were just making plans - she stopped responding. We're still on the app and I can see she read my messages. I texted her once more ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Time to move on? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kw1tmo/time_to_move_on/ |
Unknown_Peace1362 | 2022-09-03 11:12:23 | 1,662,203,543 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | x4rwch | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x4rwch/i_know_this_is_probably_creepysilly_but_would_you/ | 0 | I talked to someone on tinder for a while before the conversation kind of fizzled out, but I did really like them and was hopeful that maybe one day they’d reach out again or that I could since it was partially my fault cause I was just dealing with a lot confidence wise and was holding back a lot on sharing anything a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I know this is probably creepy/silly but would you message them? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x4rwch/i_know_this_is_probably_creepysilly_but_would_you/ |
Smooth_Past_7310 | 2024-01-29 21:48:22 | 1,706,564,902 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ae78np | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ae78np/should_i_booty_call_a_guy_that_ghosted_me/ | 2 | I met a guy on tinder a few months ago, we texted and sexted for a month and a half until we finally met. We went on a date and after went to his place, we slept together and then he toke me home. He was very charming and acted like a gentleman. The week later he continued to text and seemed really interested, we made ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I booty call a guy that ghosted me? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ae78np/should_i_booty_call_a_guy_that_ghosted_me/ |
nouseforaname888 | 2020-08-20 04:22:04 | 1,597,897,324 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | id3kju | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/id3kju/im_dating_a_divorced_girl_with_some_self_esteem/ | 3 | She was married to a military guy for 12 years. She got married at 20 and divorced last year. She said when she was first married to the guy, they had lots of sex every day. Then he of all sudden started dodging attempts to have sex. Then she thought something was wrong. He had to relocate to Bahrain for the military a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m dating a divorced girl with some self esteem issues. How should I help her or interact with her so she feels comfortable? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/id3kju/im_dating_a_divorced_girl_with_some_self_esteem/ |
Hullodurr | 2021-09-19 14:58:35 | 1,632,063,515 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | pr9hq1 | true | I Need Advice | 74 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pr9hq1/as_a_man_is_it_normal_to_always_be_the_one_making/ | 77 | I’m a 30yo man, and as such I accept that usually the guy makes the first move in asking someone out - could be sending the first message on a dating app or simply asking someone you sort of know or meet to go out. My question is, is it normal for the woman to wait for you to continue to ask them out for further dates ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | As a man, is it normal to always be the one making the effort or is it just me? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pr9hq1/as_a_man_is_it_normal_to_always_be_the_one_making/ |
DisneyIsLove | 2019-03-20 19:23:08 | 1,553,109,788 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | b3g70f | true | I Need Advice | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/b3g70f/i_friendzoned_my_best_friend_and_i_feel_terrible/ | 1 | So I (22, F) am close friends with a guy who studies at the same academy of music as me. We regularly meet up, usually just drinking coffee in the academy's canteen or chilling at his house. We've been doing this for over a year; it started while we were both still in a relationship. My relationship ended in a way that... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I friendzoned my best friend and I feel terrible about it. How do I handle this? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b3g70f/i_friendzoned_my_best_friend_and_i_feel_terrible/ |
MajesticOrchid9 | 2020-07-20 23:49:04 | 1,595,288,944 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | huwp60 | true | Question | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/huwp60/rematching_my_profile/ | 0 | Hey guys So I am feeling so petty but Im trying to stay cool becuz its not a big deal but I have to know men WHY DO YOU DO THIS? I casually was talking to some "music producer" on IG and honestly, the convo fell FLAT. ok NO biggie I honestly forgot about him and i erased the DM. That had to be around 6 months ago. A fe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Re-Matching my profile | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/huwp60/rematching_my_profile/ |
Rinat1400 | 2021-07-12 12:41:25 | 1,626,093,685 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | oiqgkg | true | Other | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oiqgkg/dont_used_dating_app/ | 1 | Everyone who I met there for 2-3 days starts asking for money. Don't use these apps, get acquainted in real life. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Don't used dating app. | null | 0.55 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oiqgkg/dont_used_dating_app/ |
rept7 | 2019-11-01 15:34:36 | 1,572,622,476 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | dq5ubk | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dq5ubk/which_dating_app_is_best_for_finding_a/ | 4 | I'm a 25 (Soon to be 26, oh no) year old guy trying to start dating. I unfortunately have no idea which app is my best bet, especially since I'm not some guy thats a little bit of a dork. I'm a huge dork that has the sense to workout and groom myself. Some apps such as Tinder, seem too casual. I've seen apps also reque... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Which dating app is best for finding a relationship with/as a dorky person? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dq5ubk/which_dating_app_is_best_for_finding_a/ |
Theowasnothere | 2023-08-03 12:00:14 | 1,691,064,014 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 15h26x9 | false | Long Distance ✈️ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15h26x9/girl_im_seeing_doesnt_want_to_do_long_distance/ | 1 | CONTEXT: I met this girl off Tinder in April and we instantly clicked. We saw eachother a lot within the first month and a bit and we became very comfortable with eachother. We agreed to see eachother exclusively, and we basically act like a couple (hand holding, etc.). We see eachother multiple times a week She has gr... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl I'm seeing doesn't want to do long distance but I do | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15h26x9/girl_im_seeing_doesnt_want_to_do_long_distance/ |
[deleted] | 2012-03-25 01:44:16 | 1,332,639,856 | 1 | ['okcupid'] | null | rc5f5 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/rc5f5/cant_get_past_first_date_whats_wrong_with_me/ | 1 | 25 year old male. I've been on 5 OKCupid first dates in the last week. None of them has lead anywhere. General facts: Most of these dates have been afternoon get-togethers, either hiking trails or wandering city neighbourhoods (browsing bookstores, getting coffee/drinks, etc). With one exception, I haven't tried to kis... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can't get past first date. What's wrong with me? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rc5f5/cant_get_past_first_date_whats_wrong_with_me/ |
RickWantsBeer | 2023-12-05 17:57:03 | 1,701,799,023 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 18bhwf9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18bhwf9/went_on_a_date_with_a_girl_it_went_well_then_i/ | 3 | I guys, some days ago I (23M) matched with a girl (23F) on tinder and she was the one texting me first (very weird) asking if I was free on the weekend. We arranged a date at a pub for Sunday, it was a really nice evening, we stayed there for a few hours then she had to leave, but she said it was a nice evening and tha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Went on a date with a girl, it went well, then I don't know wtf happened | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18bhwf9/went_on_a_date_with_a_girl_it_went_well_then_i/ |
nicodaho | 2017-09-26 07:03:08 | 1,506,409,388 | null | ['coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 72ip74 | false | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/72ip74/how_did_you_know_you_were_ready/ | 6 | I'm fairly new to both Reddit and DOT so forgive me if this topic has been beaten to death. My first boyfriend ever broke up with me about two months ago, and I can't decide if I should start trying to date again or not. It was a relatively short relationship, only half a year, but I loved him deeply and felt loved by ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How did you know you were ready? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/72ip74/how_did_you_know_you_were_ready/ |
B00B00BABY | 2022-09-28 00:41:56 | 1,664,325,716 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | xpxtsx | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xpxtsx/i_dont_really_get_it/ | 1 | Me (23f) and this guy (25m) started talking a while ago on tinder. Turns out he dosent live locally which i would have been happy to over look had his replies to texts been better- so i cut him off. Its been around a year, and he messaged me again to apologise? Which is fine i guess but he asked if we could “start agai... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I dont really get it? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xpxtsx/i_dont_really_get_it/ |
Wonderstruck91 | 2021-06-29 00:58:25 | 1,624,928,305 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | o9xln8 | true | null | 90 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/o9xln8/the_fifth_date_rule/ | 23 | I’m not the kind of person that wants to sleep around on the first date call me old fashioned I just don’t want to be that type of person. I am doing hinge and I’ve been on several dates the first guy keyword claimed he wasn’t into hookups but he was very very pushy like can kiss you and considering it was at a coffee ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | The fifth date rule | null | 0.74 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/o9xln8/the_fifth_date_rule/ |
ally-cat-04 | 2023-09-29 22:50:04 | 1,696,027,804 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16vq1oi | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16vq1oi/i_19f_am_terrified_about_having_a_crush/ | 1 | i haven’t dated anyone in two years. that was probably the last time i had an actual crush as well. now i’m pretty sure that i like this girl i recently met. the problem is that we’re both super shy and a little bit dense… sometimes i feel like the girl actually likes talking to me. the first time i called her cute she... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | i (19F) am terrified about having a crush | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16vq1oi/i_19f_am_terrified_about_having_a_crush/ |
controlmypie | 2021-02-19 12:43:36 | 1,613,738,616 | null | ['matches', 'okcupid'] | 0 | lnezk2 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lnezk2/how_a_math_genius_hacked_okcupid_to_find_true_love/ | 1 | This article may be old but it's very interesting to see how much effort people spend to find true love. OkCupid was founded by Harvard math majors in 2004, and it first caught daters' attention because of its computational approach to matchmaking. Members answer droves of multiple-choice survey questions on everything... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How a Math Genius Hacked OkCupid to Find True Love | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lnezk2/how_a_math_genius_hacked_okcupid_to_find_true_love/ |
pkiddddd | 2020-01-18 23:54:34 | 1,579,391,674 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | eqomgn | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/eqomgn/34m_brand_new_to_old_would_appreciate_some/ | 4 | Recently divorced, and trying this OLD thing out. I haven't had many matches, so I'm asking for help. Let me know what you think. Deleted link. Updates made. Thanks for the feedback Thanks Edit: Thank you for all of the feedback Okay, "Sarcastic" and "breath game" are gone and kid pic is also out. Keeping group pic for... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | [34M] Brand New to OLD, Would Appreciate Some Profile Feedback. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/eqomgn/34m_brand_new_to_old_would_appreciate_some/ |
xtend | 2018-12-03 23:55:36 | 1,543,881,336 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | a2ushv | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a2ushv/why_do_so_many_women_on_dating_appssites_seem/ | 5 | My (m35) experience with pursuing women on dating apps/sites mostly goes like: 1. I ask them a question. 2. They answer that question, but then ask 0 followup questions. 3. Repeat. I usually take this to mean that they have very little (if not zero) interest in me, and that they simply enjoy the feeling of being pursue... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do so many women on dating apps/sites seem like they're bad at holding conversations? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a2ushv/why_do_so_many_women_on_dating_appssites_seem/ |
2016throwaway0318 | 2016-11-03 22:29:54 | 1,478,212,194 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 5azwsy | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating/comments/5azwsy/whats_the_deal/ | 1 | I [26/f] matched with this guy [25/m] on Bumble about two months ago. FWIW I'm a gemini and he's a capricorn. We hit it off well so we exchange numbers and snapchat usernames. I typically limit my snapchat to close friends and family. We text and snap regularly. He called me first and then we both started calling one a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What's the deal? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5azwsy/whats_the_deal/ |
Persona11_ | 2024-03-20 19:27:34 | 1,710,962,854 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bjm05o | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bjm05o/how_do_i_check_if_were_on_the_same_page/ | 1 | I met a girl on a dating app a month ago, and we’ve been talking every day since then. We’ve met once and plan to meet again this weekend (it would be more but I got injured 😅) and things have been really nice and developed really naturally. I’m definitely interested in seeing where things go, but I’m a bit unsure on ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I check if we’re on the same page? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bjm05o/how_do_i_check_if_were_on_the_same_page/ |
MinFL | 2022-03-19 14:00:45 | 1,647,698,445 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | thvstv | true | Seeking Advice | 89 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/thvstv/havent_been_old_in_years_but_going_on_again_any/ | 35 | Relationship Ready. It's been a while since I've done OLD (mainly websites). Would love thoughts on which apps, creating a profile, how many pics, how specific/heneral should the profile be. In my 50s, in Florida but open to location. Thanks in advance 😍 | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Haven't been OLD in years but going on again. Any Advice? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/thvstv/havent_been_old_in_years_but_going_on_again_any/ |
Booky-Wormy | 2022-07-25 19:23:00 | 1,658,776,980 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | w7xq08 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w7xq08/he_told_me_he_loves_me_on_the_first_date_does_he/ | 0 | I met this guy on tinder and we were talking almost every day for two weeks before meeting (he lives about an hour away) He seemed very nice and I loved our conversations over text we have a lot in common and we bonded over both coming from Brazil . When we met it was a different story it’s like he became a different p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He told me he loves me on the first date. Does he have bad intentions? F(30) M(35) | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w7xq08/he_told_me_he_loves_me_on_the_first_date_does_he/ |
brujeriahaha | 2022-03-02 05:04:10 | 1,646,197,450 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | t4sbna | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t4sbna/i_was_desperate/ | 3 | I was talking to this Brazilian guy for about a month (recently divorced and ready to mingle) and we had the best first date night. Made me dinner, watched tv, smoked some blunts, and had great sex. After only knowing Him for 3 days off of tinder. The week after I stayed over his house, then the next week I stayed at h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I was desperate | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t4sbna/i_was_desperate/ |
AdministrativeAd9896 | 2021-03-03 08:39:34 | 1,614,760,774 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | lwp4za | true | Giving Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lwp4za/make_sure_shes_right_for_you_not_if_youre_right/ | 0 | This is for some inexperienced people in dating, that unfortunately took me a 2 year relationship to learn. I was with a great girl I met on okcupid a phone dating ap. it started off great the conversations were awesome and it was going in a great direction. We had strong political differences that I learned very on, a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Make sure she's right for you, not if you're right for her. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lwp4za/make_sure_shes_right_for_you_not_if_youre_right/ |
moosemousse36 | 2015-11-20 17:21:37 | 1,448,040,097 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 3tl6v4 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3tl6v4/how_do_i_get_the_ball_rolling/ | 5 | So I (23f) met this guy (27m) on an online dating site and we've been hanging out for about a month and a half. But strictly just hanging out nothing romantic or anything like not even kissing. When we first started hanging out he found out about my anxiety and has been pretty reserved and laid back with me, like askin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I get the ball rolling? | 5 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3tl6v4/how_do_i_get_the_ball_rolling/ |
Own_Classroom_9503 | 2024-07-10 03:05:11 | 1,720,580,711 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dzldma | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dzldma/how_can_i_start_dating/ | 0 | 20M, never went on a date. I’ve asked out my fair share of girls, but never got a yes. I was thinking about downloading hinge and trying with the apps, but I am afraid because of the following reasons -I already have low confidence (practically only in the dating market) and dating apps supposedly makes that worse - I’... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I start dating? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dzldma/how_can_i_start_dating/ |
jplew92 | 2019-10-20 23:27:54 | 1,571,614,074 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | dkrqln | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dkrqln/its_probably_dead_right/ | 0 | I am a complete amateur with dating which is kind of embarrassing. I matched with a girl on tinder and she messaged first. We went back and forth talking nonstop for two weeks and then exchanged numbers. After a couple phone convos, we agreed to meet. Dinner for an hour, talking at a bar for 4 hours. No talks of a seco... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | It’s probably dead, right? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dkrqln/its_probably_dead_right/ |
Professional_Onion18 | 2020-08-03 22:08:23 | 1,596,492,503 | null | ['swipe', 'dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | i36ry0 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i36ry0/should_i_dm_her/ | 1 | This probably sounds super pathetic but its been bothering me all day and I'm hoping someone can put my mind at ease. I was scrolling Bumble yesterday and came upon a girl I recognized as an Instagram "model." I decided to swipe right and continued scrolling through. But then I got thinking maybe it was a fake account?... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I DM her? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i36ry0/should_i_dm_her/ |
beee_123 | 2021-11-19 18:48:23 | 1,637,347,703 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | qxmry9 | true | Success! | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qxmry9/3rd_date_rant_trying_not_to_run_away/ | 7 | I put this in success because hey it is progress to me. I have a tendency to avoid guys that show a lot of interest (I freak out and stop liking them) and thus I've dated mostly emotionally unavailable guys, reinforcing my avoidant tendencies. But I have started recognising the pattern and trying to have more healthy r... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 3rd date rant: trying not to run away | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qxmry9/3rd_date_rant_trying_not_to_run_away/ |
burningbrasallday | 2019-11-05 19:51:12 | 1,572,983,472 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ds4i9y | true | Question | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ds4i9y/what_are_some_bad_dating_habits_what_you_hope/ | 1 | What have been your dating pet peeves for this past year or in your history of dating that you wish people would stop doing? This can be related to online dating profile, pick-up lines, establishing the "what are we?", ghosting, etc. And are there things you plan on doing differently next year when it comes to dating? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are some bad dating habits what you hope people leave behind in 2019? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ds4i9y/what_are_some_bad_dating_habits_what_you_hope/ |
plumberoncrack | 2019-01-15 00:33:36 | 1,547,512,416 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | ag2j5g | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ag2j5g/daily_texting_says_she_thinks_about_me_a_lot/ | 13 | tl;dr: She is quite forward about wanting to date me, flirting, (non-sexual) pictures, but apparently hasn't enough interest in actually meeting. We met on OKCupid, and hit it off pretty much immediately. We have both gone through some similar stuff and have a lot in common. She says I'm very easy to talk to, that she ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Daily texting, says she thinks about me a lot, straight up told me she wants to date me (all unprompted), but has blown off two dates... where to go from here? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ag2j5g/daily_texting_says_she_thinks_about_me_a_lot/ |
Candid_Tea_4292 | 2024-04-01 01:56:13 | 1,711,936,573 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bsrmmx | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bsrmmx/anxious_after_being_ghosted/ | 1 | I (22f) was dating a man and he was really genuine about being in a relationship with me. Our connection was solid and before he left he had talked about only being apart for a few weeks to get money together so he could live in my state. But when he went back, he ghosted me, the friends he made here then changed his n... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anxious after being ghosted | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bsrmmx/anxious_after_being_ghosted/ |
rabbit-omscs | 2021-11-20 09:09:16 | 1,637,399,356 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | qy1u9r | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qy1u9r/is_dating_someone_that_is_separated_taboo/ | 1 | I [35m] coming out of a long marriage but have no official divorce decree yet. I know I am ready to start dating and my ex spouse and I both agree to date. We even live separately. She has had plenty of luck but I am having a real difficult time finding anyone that will move past a conversation and just go out for dinn... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is dating someone that is separated taboo? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qy1u9r/is_dating_someone_that_is_separated_taboo/ |
fleetvangreta | 2024-02-21 00:31:54 | 1,708,475,514 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1avxylt | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1avxylt/what_do_you_guys_think/ | 1 | Same sex curiosity? Hey community I’m a 28yo guy, I’ve always considered myself as heterosexual and with this I mean that I’ve never forced myself to like women from a romantic or a sexual point of view. I have been in many sexual relationships (hetero) and 2 serious relationships (women as well). I’m currently in a re... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What do you guys think? | 1 | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1avxylt/what_do_you_guys_think/ |
bwaslo | 2021-03-18 20:20:52 | 1,616,098,852 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'eharmony'] | 0 | m7zpuf | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/m7zpuf/any_overfifties_want_to_review_or_recommend/ | 8 | Saw a lot of eHarmony being recommended for seniors, but then I read the /r/eharmony subreddit and it doesn't look so good. Anyone have positive experiences (including not feeling ripped off) by any OLD apps? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Any overfifties want to review or recommend OnLine Dating apps or sites? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/m7zpuf/any_overfifties_want_to_review_or_recommend/ |
Reeirit | 2024-06-02 02:26:16 | 1,717,295,176 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1d635u7 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d635u7/should_i_call_it_quits_if_a_girl_never_reaches/ | 1 | I (22m) have been talking to this girl (19f) I met on a dating app and we originally had a date planned, but she ended up flaking on me and wanted to reschedule. The thing is, she never reaches out first, but when she texts she adds value to the conversation and that gives me mixed signals. She immediately made plans t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I call it quits if a girl never reaches out first? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d635u7/should_i_call_it_quits_if_a_girl_never_reaches/ |
zeroazucar | 2019-03-22 16:25:04 | 1,553,271,904 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | b473hb | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b473hb/breadcrumbing_now_that_hes_here/ | 1 | 28F with my 25M tinder crush who lives outta town but comes here a lot to see friends. Been texting two months, met once for a short date 1.5 months ago. He's in my city now and has been for two whole days. He's told me he's here, texts me, chats about his plans. But he is just NOT CONFIRMING OURS. i bit the bullet and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Breadcrumbing now that he's here | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b473hb/breadcrumbing_now_that_hes_here/ |
[deleted] | 2015-05-27 21:11:00 | 1,432,761,060 | 0 | ['coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 37ic63 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/37ic63/was_that_a_date/ | 1 | I (f/26) met this guy (m/27) on coffee meets bagel. I've met up with him twice- once for coffee and the second time we went for a long walk and kissed me on the cheek. I don't think dates need to include a meal but is he just feeling this out? Maybe he is just looking for a friend? halp. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Was that a date? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/37ic63/was_that_a_date/ |
Randomself0395 | 2024-07-10 01:07:45 | 1,720,573,665 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dzj1p7 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dzj1p7/am_i_the_problem/ | 1 | Hi im (23F) & I need advice on my dating life, so I've been going on dates, and we've been consistent on talking and have a great time, but every guy I talk to always ends up either becoming like overprotective toxic or they start assuming that I'm talking to other guys or just say something stupid. So is it me? Do y'a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I the problem? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dzj1p7/am_i_the_problem/ |
Apprehensive-Pick232 | 2021-02-28 06:49:32 | 1,614,494,972 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | lu9gg9 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lu9gg9/talking_to_a_grad_student_as_an_undergrad/ | 1 | Hey folks, I could use some advice. I matched with someone on tinder a few days ago, and we hit it off pretty well until today. Turns out she's a grad student (and a TA) at the same college (and in the same department) that I'm attending as an undergrad, so I'm wondering if it's unethical for us to keep talking. Obviou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Talking to a grad student as an undergrad | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lu9gg9/talking_to_a_grad_student_as_an_undergrad/ |
Playful-Rabbit1837 | 2023-09-01 21:34:18 | 1,693,604,058 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 167jta2 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/167jta2/what_are_the_pros_and_cons_of_ending_a_dry_spell/ | 1 | Opportunity to end dry spell well below standards I (22m) have been on a dry spell since last July (July 2022) and it’s starting to really bother me. I have had the opportunity to have sex twice since then, both of which I declined because I either a) didn’t find her attractive enough and also didn’t want my friends to... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are the pros and cons of ending a dry spell with an ugly girl? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/167jta2/what_are_the_pros_and_cons_of_ending_a_dry_spell/ |
UpsetChildhood | 2020-05-26 23:33:33 | 1,590,536,013 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | gr8adl | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gr8adl/am_i_overthinking_this/ | 2 | I met a guy off of tinder last week and went climbing with him and his friends. We didn't get to talk much, due to the group dynamic and me being nervous as fuck. I texted him the next day and i proposed making some plans for this week. He said he was figuring out some ski plans out of state and would hit me up if he w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I overthinking this? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gr8adl/am_i_overthinking_this/ |
Bigbuckrocks | 2021-03-31 01:56:18 | 1,617,155,778 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | mgvizm | true | Venting | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mgvizm/i_hate_love/ | 5 | I hate it when I have a deep connection with someone and then they get a boyfriend. I hate them telling me that they wish they were with me but not making any effort to be with me in the first place. I hate it when they tell me that they just want to be friends. I hate online dating. I hate the process of how it works.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I HATE LOVE | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mgvizm/i_hate_love/ |
sheberelapsin | 2019-04-10 14:43:01 | 1,554,907,381 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bbmtv9 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/bbmtv9/how_do_i_stop_my_body_from_feeling_sadness/ | 0 | Here's some situations that occured yesterday at work that hurt my feelings. But I'm not sure if my feelings should of been hurt or was I just overanalyzing the situation. 1. I was talking to my coworkers at lunch about how my roommate (someone that i met on tinder) told me if we couldnt date, then i have to move out b... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How do i stop my body from feeling sadness? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/bbmtv9/how_do_i_stop_my_body_from_feeling_sadness/ |
iliketires65 | 2020-12-07 15:54:48 | 1,607,356,488 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | k8j541 | true | Venting | 92 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/k8j541/taking_a_break_from_dating/ | 68 | I (28m) deleted all of my dating apps last week. I just can’t do it right now. I had a bad break up a year ago and I was using dating as a way to make myself feel better, but I really just don’t. It doesn’t help that I am not used to online dating. All my exes I’ve known from school or work. I’m not in school anymore a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Taking a break from dating | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/k8j541/taking_a_break_from_dating/ |
Ryderj10 | 2020-02-26 02:22:48 | 1,582,683,768 | null | ['swipe', 'online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | f9ly7p | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f9ly7p/i_dont_get_online_dating_kinda/ | 1 | I posted this on r/OnlineDating to no comment so I figure I'd post it here to see what you guys think. I hope I could word this without sounding weird at all. This is mostly directed towards Bumble I guess since its the most recent service I've used. I would swipe passed girls (I'm a straight 20M) with a ton of the sam... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I dont get Online Dating kinda | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f9ly7p/i_dont_get_online_dating_kinda/ |
throwawaybitchessssx | 2019-06-14 02:02:03 | 1,560,477,723 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | c0eh4c | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c0eh4c/would_you_try_and_pursuit_a_guy_who_is_out_of/ | 7 | 25F - 30M Just met a guy, only talked a bit and went out clubbing with whole group. During clubbing he didn’t really reach out to me. He did dance with a bunch of other girls whom he knew. And heard later on that he went on a date with another girl. He had looks. He has options. He is dating around. And now I met him. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would you try and pursuit a guy who is out of your league? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c0eh4c/would_you_try_and_pursuit_a_guy_who_is_out_of/ |
Ola_maluhia | 2024-09-02 15:17:21 | 1,725,290,241 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1f79ajk | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1f79ajk/man_i_never_met_only_texted_once_casually/ | 13 | Not even sure how to process. I woke up at 0530 from a text, let’s call him John. A man I met in May of 2023 OLD. We spoke once, set up a date, then he canceled saying he had to work. It was done after that, I didn’t bother further because he canceled on me the last second before our date, and that just upset me. Fast ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Man I never met, only texted once, casually requesting I go on a 9 month trip overseas. | 13 | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1f79ajk/man_i_never_met_only_texted_once_casually/ |
EveryUsernameTaken- | 2020-02-04 07:14:15 | 1,580,800,455 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | eymch8 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eymch8/why_did_i_get_ghosted/ | 4 | So i (23M) met a girl(23F) on hinge, I had a prompt as "My ideal first date: Snowboarding" She liked this prompt and we talked for about a week about things like dogs and snowboarding and whatever. and eventually met up to go snowboarding together. The day came (Sat) and i picked her up in the morning around 8:30 and s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why did i get ghosted? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eymch8/why_did_i_get_ghosted/ |
Fit_Put3832 | 2024-07-01 05:20:04 | 1,719,811,204 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1dsl4od | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dsl4od/online_dating/ | 2 | How long do you wait to meet someone? I feel stuck in a cycle where everyone is so busy and people wait many weeks to months to wait and it usually never actually happens and the conversation fizzles into space. On occasion I will be multiple weeks into a conversation and finally bring up that I would actually like to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating. | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dsl4od/online_dating/ |
Queen_Shar | 2022-02-18 12:11:43 | 1,645,186,303 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | svgh9b | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/svgh9b/help_how_else_should_i_approach_him/ | 1 | Hello all I will try to make this short as possible. I’ve been single on FB dating and matched with this nice guy. So he seemed I would say. The conversation flowed smoothly, and after a few days we exchanged numbers and started texting. One day we talked on the phone for 6 hours. Well I should say, he was just talking... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help! How else should I approach him? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/svgh9b/help_how_else_should_i_approach_him/ |
Sweet_sunshine-22 | 2022-09-19 00:53:53 | 1,663,548,833 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | xhxd0j | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xhxd0j/advice_for_virgin_on_dating_apps/ | 3 | So I (25F) start dating on dating apps (bumble). I’m Demisexual and date men and woman. I have no experience in romantic relationship and no experience in sex with a partner (and kissing too ahah). It’s a big insecurity for me even if I’m pretty ok with having no experience and I like that I respect being ready before ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice for virgin on dating apps | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xhxd0j/advice_for_virgin_on_dating_apps/ |
adpat0324 | 2020-09-16 21:29:45 | 1,600,291,785 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | iu58af | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iu58af/in_a_dating_rut_in_college/ | 1 | I feel like i’m missing out on the “prime” of my life because i’m a young 20 year old woman and haven’t even been on a date with anyone since fall of 2018. The pandemic hasn’t helped at all and I’m so incredibly lonely. How do you even meet a guy in a time like this? I never liked dating apps, the guys on there are jus... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | In a dating rut in college | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iu58af/in_a_dating_rut_in_college/ |
Prinlot22 | 2023-10-11 03:45:31 | 1,696,995,931 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1754t0z | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1754t0z/he_said_you_should_be_mine_advice/ | 1 | Idk but I 29F tend to take things too seriously. And this guy on Hinge sent me a comment saying, “you’re gorgeous You should be mine.” Im a late bloomer. I haven’t been alone with a guy. I pressed his profile and he’s 26 and said he’s looking for a serious relationship. And said “I like feminine and sweet women.” I tho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He said “you should be mine.” Advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1754t0z/he_said_you_should_be_mine_advice/ |
tzatziki77 | 2023-10-13 10:23:04 | 1,697,192,584 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 176vjce | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/176vjce/what_should_i_do_differently/ | 1 | Anonymous because I’m extremely private. I, 24M moved to my current city in early 2022. Writer by profession, currently working at an ad agency. Came to this city thinking (part of my reasons) I’ll hookup with the hottest women, and that hasn’t exactly worked out as I planned. Before shifting here, I was in a 4 year lo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What should I do differently? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/176vjce/what_should_i_do_differently/ |
kellbell408 | 2023-01-26 07:19:29 | 1,674,717,569 | null | null | 0 | 10lm9fw | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10lm9fw/ghosting/ | 4 | What do you consider ghosting? Not replying to one text? Or is it when someone doesn’t respond multiple times? Sometimes the conversation is just over and I don’t really know how to respond. Is it ghosting if I don’t continue and they don’t try again? This has happened a couple times where I don’t respond to a message ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ghosting? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10lm9fw/ghosting/ |
thisisathrowaw3ay | 2024-05-08 08:03:16 | 1,715,155,396 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1cmz7ba | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cmz7ba/looking_to_make_the_most_of_my_college_years/ | 1 | I (21M) am in college, and despite being surrounded by thousands of women my age, I’ve never gotten anywhere with a girl. Im in good shape and take care of myself, but I can’t seem to find a girl who’s interested in me. I’m in engineering so my classes are 90% male, and on the off chance I meet a new girl, it doesn’t g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Looking to make the most of my college years… | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cmz7ba/looking_to_make_the_most_of_my_college_years/ |
Fuzzy-Examination606 | 2021-12-18 01:35:34 | 1,639,791,334 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | riw7mp | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/riw7mp/ladies_what_ways_i_could_be_more_engaging_while/ | 2 | I’m talking about the phase after you match with a girl on a dating app, I weirdly find it a lot easier to talk to girls in person because it’s easier to just be in the moment with them. But over text I find myself overthinking everything and I don’t get to see any of her expressions or anything so I can’t tell how she... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ladies what ways I could be more engaging while texting women? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/riw7mp/ladies_what_ways_i_could_be_more_engaging_while/ |
oxfordhyphen | 2021-11-10 19:07:18 | 1,636,571,238 | null | ['matches', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | qr1naa | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/qr1naa/being_too_selfeffacing_or_hedging_when_asking_for/ | 3 | First post here, though I've been lurking for a bit. I'm (33M) about to get back on Hinge and/or Bumble this week after burning out over the Summer. My last go of it wasn't half bad, but with delta and some promising matches that fizzled out, I needed a break. Anyhow, I was catching up with a female friend, who is also... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Being Too Self-Effacing, or Hedging When Asking for a Second Date? | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/qr1naa/being_too_selfeffacing_or_hedging_when_asking_for/ |
flurbyjim | 2021-03-09 23:08:25 | 1,615,331,305 | null | null | 0 | m1j0rx | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/m1j0rx/clubhouse_invite_anyone/ | 0 | In return I’d like an invite to Raya. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Clubhouse invite anyone? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/m1j0rx/clubhouse_invite_anyone/ |
MFRobots | 2020-04-02 10:16:08 | 1,585,822,568 | null | null | 0 | ftjvd0 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ftjvd0/when_people_use_their_real_names_in_their_screen/ | 3 | Noticed a woman on POF that actually used her real name in her screen name. Kind of a bold move, as I could easily found her on FB...in fact we share 2 mutual friends. Not sure what that will lead to men contacting them outside the dating app, yes? Kind of concerning for a lady, yes? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When people use their real names in their screen names | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ftjvd0/when_people_use_their_real_names_in_their_screen/ |
qs_77 | 2020-10-26 02:01:27 | 1,603,677,687 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ji63r9 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ji63r9/tired_of_being_single/ | 6 | I’m sick of being Single. I’m a 20yo male and had never had a relationship more than 3 months. I consider myself good looking I’m fashionable, creative and funny. I am a bit on the short side 5’6 although this doesn’t bother me that much. I have tried desperately to find a girlfriend in the last couple of years, from t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tired of being Single | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ji63r9/tired_of_being_single/ |
glades182 | 2018-09-10 00:55:23 | 1,536,540,923 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'pof'] | 0 | 9ei6pt | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9ei6pt/recently_a_free_agent_after_9_years_marriage_how/ | 1 | Hi All, Been out of the game for 9 years, married for 2 years. So back in 2009-ish I always felt embarrassed going on sites like match and POF as I felt it was a desperate way to find someone. Just the idea of putting yourself out there really bothers me. Now tinder has come along, I signed up for bumble as well and it... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Recently a Free Agent after 9 years and Marriage. How is Online Dating Viewed? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9ei6pt/recently_a_free_agent_after_9_years_marriage_how/ |
nbpa92 | 2015-07-19 10:17:45 | 1,437,301,065 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 3dto0y | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3dto0y/cant_get_past_the_first_date_23f/ | 2 | It's been getting very annoying, a couple of months ago I posted in this website about feeling ugly, since then I've had dates with several men of different ages and backgrounds. The only one that seems to have an interest in me is a married man. It's really upsetting that no guy wants a second date with me, I feel lik... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can't get past the first date (23/F) | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3dto0y/cant_get_past_the_first_date_23f/ |
[deleted] | 2020-07-28 12:24:12 | 1,595,939,052 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | hzdpv4 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hzdpv4/how_many_times_do_you_try_to_set_up_a_first_date/ | 8 | I've been texting with someone I met on a dating app (F30's) for a few weeks now, and it increasingly feels like I'm being strung along. I've tried to setup a date every week since we matched, but it's always met with some kind of excuse. The latest excuse came with a proposed alternate time, a good sign, right? Not so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How many times do you try to set up a first date before walking away? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hzdpv4/how_many_times_do_you_try_to_set_up_a_first_date/ |
daisyfox | 2021-12-22 02:14:22 | 1,640,139,262 | null | null | 0 | rlufsv | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/rlufsv/how_to_tell_if_he_sees_me_as_just_a_hookup_or_a/ | 3 | i’m not sure what to think, we have pretty different dating histories. i’ve never dated at all before so i don’t know the “clues”. i asked him what he’s looking for on the app and he said that he’s been lonely and if he meets someone and vibes he’s down to see where it goes. i told him i’ve been lonely too, but basical... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | how to tell if he see’s me as just a hookup or a potential partner? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/rlufsv/how_to_tell_if_he_sees_me_as_just_a_hookup_or_a/ |
infinitesmarticulls | 2021-09-29 05:39:01 | 1,632,893,941 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | pxovrf | true | Question | 89 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pxovrf/i_love_tall_women/ | 11 | So first I will give a little context. I am in my early 20s and a male in the US, and I am 5'9 or around 176cm. I have always had a thing for taller ladies I think it might be some childhood related events that got me to this point. For example I was always a very overweight child and I was made fun of for it. In fact ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I love tall women! | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pxovrf/i_love_tall_women/ |
ThatNefariousness907 | 2023-09-22 20:21:18 | 1,695,414,078 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 16pkc20 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16pkc20/why_did_a_married_m35_send_me_this_video/ | 1 | https://youtu.be/Rnsn7Y9cVwI?si=1lYKu8Ev5NQKRqJP Some background I matched with him on Hily and he told me he was divorced. I gave him my number and we talked for the past 5 days. He let it slip that his wife hasn't signed the divorce papers and that he's sexually frustrated so I simply said I don't sleep with married ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why did a married (M35) send me this video | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16pkc20/why_did_a_married_m35_send_me_this_video/ |
SnooGuavas5712 | 2023-02-06 20:54:07 | 1,675,716,847 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 10vhv64 | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/10vhv64/new_in_town_he_doesnt_want_to_meet/ | 3 | Ok, so I (F40) just moved to a new country where I only know a family member and his small family. Essentially, I get to start a new chapter, especially in the dating department. I have never been married or had kids. My last LTR ended about 5 years ago. I have had some short term things during the past 5 years but not... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | New in town.... He doesn't want to meet | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/10vhv64/new_in_town_he_doesnt_want_to_meet/ |
alattesmiles | 2020-07-14 01:03:17 | 1,594,688,597 | null | null | 0 | hqrv4d | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hqrv4d/dear_bumble_im_over_it/ | 0 | I met my then boyfriend now fiancé on a dating app. I do know it’s possible to meet someone online, and my experience with them might be one sided - but I know for many single men and women, it’s not so pleasant. I decided to hop on Bumble BFF during the pandemic to try and meet some new gal pals I could safely get in ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dear Bumble, I’m Over It! | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hqrv4d/dear_bumble_im_over_it/ |
waheifilmguy | 2018-05-12 04:03:28 | 1,526,097,808 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 8itnpn | false | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8itnpn/got_ghosted_m_49_after_an_awesome_first_date_f_40/ | 5 | I'm new to dating after being in a long relationship. Is this sort of thing common nowadays? Had coffee with a Bumble match today after a couple of previous attempts at meeting. Walked in the park, sat and chatted. The time flew, we have tons in common--she's funny and a little dark, has family stress, loves animals, l... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Got ghosted (M, 49) after an awesome first date (F, 40)... odd. Does this happen to you? | 5 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8itnpn/got_ghosted_m_49_after_an_awesome_first_date_f_40/ |
throwawaylikearock | 2022-05-20 17:49:03 | 1,653,068,943 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | uu3mj4 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uu3mj4/girl_confusing_me_emotionally_and_not_respecting/ | 1 | Hi I’m a 22 M and been meeting with a 18F lately. We just met a while ago but started talking to each other after matching on tinder a little bit ago. We’ve been eating food and spending lots of time together I asked her to be my girlfriend and she shot it down. This was after eating out together many times, flirting, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl confusing me emotionally and not respecting consent | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uu3mj4/girl_confusing_me_emotionally_and_not_respecting/ |
trapspeed3000 | 2021-03-24 05:19:01 | 1,616,563,141 | null | null | 0 | mby7pu | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mby7pu/do_women_worry_about_having_a_flawless/ | 15 | So this really cute girl that checks off all the boxes messaged me earlier today. We were chatting about how our dogs were a mirror image of each other and then I figured it was time to move the conversation on before it got stale. I'm a budding car collector and just acquired another neat old car. It's an event in my ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Do women worry about having a flawless conversation while messaging? | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mby7pu/do_women_worry_about_having_a_flawless/ |
SeaofCrags | 2020-04-14 12:24:24 | 1,586,867,064 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | g14khe | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g14khe/shes_great_but_we_broke_up_conflicted_feelings/ | 2 | Hi all, Tl;dr at bottom. So last night after seeing a girl for the last two months I called her up to have a chat and she ended up getting upset and I suggested we break up. We’ve been going through an up and down for the last two weeks but I’m wondering were we too hasty or justified? As a background, I’m (27) typical... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She’s Great - But we Broke Up. Conflicted feelings and confusion from someone new to relationships. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g14khe/shes_great_but_we_broke_up_conflicted_feelings/ |
PhotographerwithaPH | 2023-11-16 15:54:12 | 1,700,150,052 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17wq7h6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17wq7h6/what_are_we/ | 1 | Long story short. We met on a dating app several months a go, we instantly clicked, we get along perfectly fine... The problem is that he has to eventually leave the country since this is not his permanent stay.. yes he's military and no he has no Wife kids and all that I did my research. AND no he won't be deployed he... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | WHAT ARE WE ? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17wq7h6/what_are_we/ |
yourbaeb | 2018-10-17 02:46:25 | 1,539,744,385 | null | null | 0 | 9oun37 | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/9oun37/met_my_ideal_guy_on_bumble_but_hes_starting_to/ | 6 | so Im new to the online dating game and I've been using bumble. I've been matched with quite a lot of people (probably cuz I'm a girl). I've never thought to meet the guy of my dreams here. a lot of my friends tell me that i have a very unique ideal type when it comes to men. he isnt the buff beautiful face structure p... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | met my ideal guy on bumble but he's starting to ghost on me. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/9oun37/met_my_ideal_guy_on_bumble_but_hes_starting_to/ |
[deleted] | 2015-01-04 06:38:45 | 1,420,353,525 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 2ra4go | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/2ra4go/cant_tell_if_we_are_interested_in_each_other/ | 0 | So I ( male 20) met a girl on a dating site and we seemed to get along. We have been talking for about a week now but she just left town for the month so we haven't been able to meet in person. We get along well when we text but we have met 3 times on skype and every time we seem to both be distracted. My question is, ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | can't tell if we are interested in each other | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2ra4go/cant_tell_if_we_are_interested_in_each_other/ |
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