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3GunGrace | 2023-07-16 07:02:56 | 1,689,490,976 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 150zbgt | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/150zbgt/guy_ive_been_seeing_invited_me_to_sleepover/ | 1 | I’ve matched with this guy on a dating app and he’s pretty cool. We have similar hobbies and interests and we get along well. We’ve hung out 6-7 times, with twice being meeting his friends. As of recently he brought up the idea of me sleeping over at his place mentioning to bring my pajamas, snacks, skincare, do face m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy I’ve been seeing invited me to sleepover | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/150zbgt/guy_ive_been_seeing_invited_me_to_sleepover/ |
Mackliker | 2019-03-05 16:46:20 | 1,551,804,380 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | axn895 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/axn895/i_22m_see_lots_of_cute_girls_on_the_streets_and/ | 2 | So as the title reads I see a lot of girls out and about, and would love to get to know some of them better. I feel like I can judge with who I could get along with pretty quickly, not immediately looking for a relationship, but even for just a nice chat or date. I'm thinking I could just start with a compliment and sa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (22M) see lots of cute girls on the streets and in the train etc. Wondering how/if to approach them. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/axn895/i_22m_see_lots_of_cute_girls_on_the_streets_and/ |
diaryofjuly | 2018-09-23 22:00:32 | 1,537,740,032 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 9icd3w | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9icd3w/breakup_advicelet_it_die_or_look_for_closure/ | 2 | TLDR: "Poly" boyfriend of 1.5 years hasn't called or texted in 6 weeks. Should I attempt closure, or continue moving on with my life? This might be a long one, folks. Bear with me. Might be off-topic for this sub, but I've been reading for a while and you guys are all awesome with amazing advice. We'll call him James. ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Breakup advice...let it die, or look for closure? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9icd3w/breakup_advicelet_it_die_or_look_for_closure/ |
naynayghouls | 2018-12-27 04:52:04 | 1,545,886,324 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | a9w250 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/a9w250/slide_into_the_dms/ | 0 | An important feature of OLD is the slide into the DMs. Has anyone successfully pursued this strategy? For instance I saw a guy on Hinge that I liked and decided to look him up on IG. Amazingly, his IG name matched his Hinge name and so I just sent him a DM. Its brazen but so fun to slide in those DMs. Will report back ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Slide into the DMs??? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a9w250/slide_into_the_dms/ |
LoquatWinter8206 | 2023-01-12 14:30:58 | 1,673,533,858 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | 10a108m | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10a108m/should_i_go_to_a_date_with_a_girl_im_not/ | 0 | I matched with a girl i’m not attracted to and she started conversation. I enjoyed flirting with her and set up a date i had to cancel twice. I started dating 4 months ago, went on a 9 dates with 8 (only 1 girl was from online dating) girls and fucked up almost all of them(dates not girls;)). Most of girls i previously... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should i go to a date with a girl i’m not attracted to | null | 0.3 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10a108m/should_i_go_to_a_date_with_a_girl_im_not/ |
LeadTraditional7470 | 2024-08-19 00:45:21 | 1,724,028,321 | 0 | null | 0 | 1evotdn | true | null | 60 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1evotdn/advice_mens_photos_with_women/ | 36 | I’m curious why so many men post a photo of themselves with a woman or group of women in their profiles. Is there a rumor that it makes you look more attractive? I will literally pass on those profiles as a result. You look desperate to prove you can get attractive women. Also don’t make the group shot of you and your ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Advice: Men’s photos with women | 36 | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1evotdn/advice_mens_photos_with_women/ |
FutanariDraenei | 2021-12-26 02:22:36 | 1,640,485,356 | null | null | 0 | ron2z7 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ron2z7/should_i_give_up_on_online_dating/ | 0 | I've had my accounts on Tinder and Bumble for half a year and I rarely get matches and when I do I seem to scare them off when I reply or reach out. I'm not very great at texting and I'm tired of being on eggshells 24/7. It also kills my confidence when I like tons and people and don't land a single match. Also if it m... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I give up on online dating? | null | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ron2z7/should_i_give_up_on_online_dating/ |
Heyheythrowaway128 | 2017-12-29 01:13:25 | 1,514,510,005 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7mqyvn | false | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7mqyvn/i_consider_myself_attractive_w_pretty_good_social/ | 5 | 20 M. I personally think I’m good looking, and while I used to be “awkward” I was more shy than anything else. I’ve grown out of my shyness really, but I’ve had almost zero luck with girls since my first girlfriend in high school who, coincidentally, we never really had much chemistry because I felt neither of us found... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I consider myself attractive w/ pretty good social skills, yet haven’t had luck in the dating department? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7mqyvn/i_consider_myself_attractive_w_pretty_good_social/ |
Dangerous_Hurry_8815 | 2022-08-22 20:05:17 | 1,661,198,717 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | wv3ny1 | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wv3ny1/should_people_disclose_they_have_children_on_the/ | 1 | I (24 F) recently went on a first date with a guy I met on a dating app. The date went wonderful, the conversation was great I felt we really got to know one another and spent a lot of the date talking about work. I work as a labor and delivery nurse and talked way too much about how wonderful and special my job is and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should people disclose they have children on the first date? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wv3ny1/should_people_disclose_they_have_children_on_the/ |
Joshua34096 | 2022-09-03 19:14:44 | 1,662,232,484 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | x52cip | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x52cip/i_have_been_single_for_a_while_and_i_dont_know/ | 1 | im m19 i dont want to use dating apps but i want to get in social situations to ask girls out or meet girls does anyone have any advice im from utah in the usa | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | i have been single for a while and i dont know where i should look to meet people to date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x52cip/i_have_been_single_for_a_while_and_i_dont_know/ |
aidyged11 | 2022-03-20 10:48:27 | 1,647,773,307 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | tiig7d | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tiig7d/ghostingignoring/ | 2 | Why does this happen, like what do you gain from doing this ? Been chatting to a girl I met on a dating app, not once was I desperate or off-putting, just had general chit chat with this girl and we arranged to meet up and go for drinks one evening. The day before she cancels and says she has to work late ( that's fair... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ghosting/ignoring | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tiig7d/ghostingignoring/ |
McButtox | 2024-09-02 05:30:15 | 1,725,255,015 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f6z2en | true | null | 47 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f6z2en/why_has_dating_become_impossible/ | 6 | Just to start dating has gotten even more difficult right? I can’t even find a female let alone ask out one. Dating apps are a waste of time. On the rarity I do get the chance to mingle they either sell porn on OF or so mentally unstable/unavailable the entirety of the relationship is me being her therapist. Is it just... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why has dating become impossible? | 6 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f6z2en/why_has_dating_become_impossible/ |
Flat-Leg1668 | 2023-03-11 14:13:13 | 1,678,543,993 | null | null | 0 | 11ol718 | true | null | 69 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11ol718/mentioning_no_single_dads_in_profile/ | 45 | So I reopened a new tinder account and for the first time I decided to have a bio that stated If you’re a single dad Please swipe left as I work weird hours which means if they have the kid on a weekend I’ll prob only get to see them one day a fortnight but anyways without even talking to anyone my profile was reported... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Mentioning no single dads in profile | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11ol718/mentioning_no_single_dads_in_profile/ |
ModeComfortable6285 | 2023-12-03 03:44:33 | 1,701,575,073 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 189krw2 | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/189krw2/looking_for_a_girlfriend/ | 1 | I’m 23M and in Orlando near UCF. I would consider myself attractive and in very good shape. I’m looking for someone who is spontaneous and likes so have fun. Everyone I manage to match with on dating apps is either very boring or just looking to hookup and I think im ready to find the love of my life. Pls message me if... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Looking for a girlfriend | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/189krw2/looking_for_a_girlfriend/ |
booboothefool19 | 2018-09-26 03:26:10 | 1,537,932,370 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9iyxx2 | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9iyxx2/going_from_hooking_up_to_dating/ | 3 | So, short background. Matched with a guy on Tinder who I lived in the same dorm hallway as last year and had a crush on the whole year back in late August. We started talking, then on like day 2 of talking, I was white girl wasted and told him I liked him the whole past year. I was mortified, but he thought it was funn... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Going from hooking up to dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9iyxx2/going_from_hooking_up_to_dating/ |
Independent-Ebb454 | 2023-11-29 17:09:29 | 1,701,277,769 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 186uh8u | true | null | 164 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/186uh8u/gen_x_dating_confused/ | 112 | Most of us remember dating before cell phones & texting were a thing. Where we would make plans to see each other in person if we wanted to get to know someone. Has GEN X forgotten this? I just started OLD and I’m surprised that men would prefer to text/msg for weeks… Is is unreasonable to msg each other and talk on th... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Gen X Dating - confused | 112 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/186uh8u/gen_x_dating_confused/ |
DanceMatchmaker | 2019-01-06 03:06:32 | 1,546,743,992 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ad1mtw | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ad1mtw/why_online_dating_is_killing_you_on_the_inside/ | 2 | Dating Apps offer us access to thousands of prospective choices, and more often we sign up to multiple sites at the same time. This increases the number of choices even more, making the task of finding a meaningful relationship even more daunting. Initially it might seem like fun to go through endless profiles and “swi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why Online Dating is Killing You on the Inside, and How to Recover Your Lost Optimism | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ad1mtw/why_online_dating_is_killing_you_on_the_inside/ |
VermillionSoul | 2017-10-14 03:23:33 | 1,507,951,413 | null | null | 0 | 769shd | false | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/769shd/can_anyone_give_me_some_tips_on_this/ | 1 | I'm horrible at it. The pool is not that large at my age (29/m/rural state). Zero responses so far despite trying. I've never done this before. I will need to up my game I think and what better way than to ask some experts? :D Being a beginner it seems fair to assume I'm making dumb mistakes. I'm willing to make whatev... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Can anyone give me some tips on this? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/769shd/can_anyone_give_me_some_tips_on_this/ |
DannyHufflepuff1998x | 2020-07-29 03:02:10 | 1,595,991,730 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | hzswjg | true | I Need Advice | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hzswjg/dating_an_older_girl/ | 4 | Hi guys I am a 22 yr old guy who uses Tinder for dating (also friendship) and well I would like more to date an older girl, here are the reasons why: Most girls who are of my age are just in Tinder for followers in their Instagram or well for attention-seeking, I can really tell this because in their profiles the only ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating an older girl | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hzswjg/dating_an_older_girl/ |
[deleted] | 2017-12-06 22:12:22 | 1,512,598,342 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 7i1mh8 | false | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7i1mh8/solid_tinder_bio_for_a_guy/ | 0 | Alright, so I'm looking to make the best Tinder profile I can since it's my only way of dating due to my logistics and circumstances. I copy and pasted a few things from GQ and one of them worked on OkCupid but I'm not getting any matches on Tinder for some reason. I have: - 3 photos - Career field/College I go to - Bi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Solid Tinder Bio for a guy? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7i1mh8/solid_tinder_bio_for_a_guy/ |
Ch0c0LaT3-c00Kie | 2024-04-22 08:20:30 | 1,713,774,030 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ca5fjo | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ca5fjo/did_he_lose_interest_should_i_keep_trying/ | 4 | I matched with this guy on tinder, we talked a bit on the app then moved on to Instagram, chatted for a good 4 or 5 hours. He said he liked me but then I guess that was that, it’s been a couple of days and we haven’t exchanged much more than a few hi’s and good night’s. He hasn’t even seen the last message I sent and i... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Did he lose interest? Should I keep trying? | 4 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ca5fjo/did_he_lose_interest_should_i_keep_trying/ |
FaithInStrangers94 | 2021-12-14 03:14:42 | 1,639,451,682 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | rfxrbj | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rfxrbj/dont_ignore_the_early_red_flags_or_expect_them_to/ | 135 | The way they speak contemptuously of others (especially friends and family and ex partners) The way they casually rebuff the waiter or bartender and treat others without due respect The fact that they were 15 minutes late and didn’t apologise. The emotional reaction toward inconveniences or annoyances such as an excess... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Don’t ignore the early red flags or expect them to resolve themselves because they probably won’t. | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rfxrbj/dont_ignore_the_early_red_flags_or_expect_them_to/ |
Z0RN92 | 2019-06-21 02:36:24 | 1,561,084,584 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c350j8 | true | I Need Advice | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c350j8/girl_im_seeing_updated_her_tinder_profile/ | 1 | I’ve been seeing this girl for about a month and a half now. We’ve had sex quite a few times and I really like her. She’s on vacation right now and I decided to check out her tinder profile, (I know, just as guilty) she updated a couple pics and stated on her profile she’s on vacation. I kinda want to go exclusive as I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl I’m seeing updated her tinder profile.. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c350j8/girl_im_seeing_updated_her_tinder_profile/ |
FarmNo5483 | 2024-03-11 04:24:13 | 1,710,131,053 | 0 | null | 0 | 1bbunzr | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1bbunzr/why_dont_guys_reach_out/ | 1 | i always see men ask why girls don’t reach out on apps like bumble, but what about for the girls? currently i’m on hinge, wooplus, okay cupid, and tinder. as far as matches go, i get the most on tinder. i get maybe 1 or 2 likes a day on hinge, woo plus is like one like a week, and as for ok cupid… i might as well not h... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | why don’t guys reach out? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bbunzr/why_dont_guys_reach_out/ |
7empest-tost | 2023-07-17 18:59:52 | 1,689,620,392 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 152anu9 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/152anu9/the_girl_im_seeing_still_has_her_ex_in_her_life/ | 1 | I’ve (31M) been seeing a wonderful girl (33F) for the last couple months and we’ve had such a great time together. We have great chemistry, we’re likeminded and have so much in common and similar goals. We’ve agreed to take it slow as we both have dealt with some traumatic experiences in the past. We’re not “exclusive”... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The girl I’m seeing still has her ex in her life | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/152anu9/the_girl_im_seeing_still_has_her_ex_in_her_life/ |
serenaflt | 2021-01-14 17:24:36 | 1,610,645,076 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | kxa615 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kxa615/he_doesnt_talk_to_me/ | 1 | ok so first of all : how are you? good? good. I'm not. I'm in a dating app, and I matched with a 18yo boy (same age as me : a girl, 18) and we talked a little but he was working so I didn't wanted to bother him but I thought we would talk later (we did but he was still working :/) next day (yesterday) we talked a littl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | he doesn't talk to me 😩 | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kxa615/he_doesnt_talk_to_me/ |
teenylilsuperguy | 2022-10-15 07:24:28 | 1,665,818,668 | null | null | 0 | y4hfkh | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y4hfkh/gonna_try_old_like_a_dude_for_science/ | 0 | Just right swiped a bunch of people pretty indiscriminately. I'll continue that over the weekend I'll go through my matches in a couple days decide and who I want to reply to. Anyone I don't reply to I'm not going to unmatch with. Just leave them hanging. Any matches that didn't message me I probably won't message. I'l... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | gonna try OLD like a dude. for science. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y4hfkh/gonna_try_old_like_a_dude_for_science/ |
Conscious_Raccoon123 | 2024-08-11 18:28:56 | 1,723,400,936 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1eprsrp | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eprsrp/free_dating_apps/ | 0 | Is there any free dating apps or sites? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Free Dating apps | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eprsrp/free_dating_apps/ |
ParkingBear1581 | 2024-05-15 19:02:04 | 1,715,799,724 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cssu56 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 23 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cssu56/advice_for_when_a_dude_is_not_accepting_my/ | 8 | backstory- met a guy on a dating app, talked for a few days and our connection was great. the date was actually awesome as well. but as time has gone on since, im not feeling the same, especially on having children (i already have a teen) and i had mentioned i could possibly want another with the right person but ive r... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | advice for when a dude is not accepting my 'rejection' | 8 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cssu56/advice_for_when_a_dude_is_not_accepting_my/ |
Twist_Different | 2020-09-26 19:03:26 | 1,601,147,006 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'badoo'] | 0 | j0bqey | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j0bqey/what_height_is_it_worth_getting_leg_lengthening/ | 0 | We know many women are obsessed with the height of a guy, get upset if he is 1-2" shorter than a certain arbitrary number, and make posts here talking about how "they can't control it" and "can't find shorter men attractive." They also look down on men who wear shoe lifts (even though they can paint their faces, wear f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What height is it worth getting leg lenhening surgery at for a man? | null | 0.36 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j0bqey/what_height_is_it_worth_getting_leg_lengthening/ |
warhorse1245 | 2023-08-14 18:04:10 | 1,692,036,250 | 0 | ['eharmony'] | 0 | 15r234k | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/15r234k/well_the_fairy_tale_is_over/ | 1 | I've posted before on here about the relationship I was in - it seemed wonderful, if a bit unreal. We met on eHarmony, had a long distance relationship over international borders, trips together and were planning a future. There were issues along the way - I'd bring them up, they'd be discussed briefly and then it was ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Well, the Fairy Tale is over | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/15r234k/well_the_fairy_tale_is_over/ |
SpiderMan9876540_0 | 2024-09-21 22:42:09 | 1,726,958,529 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1fmewi4 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fmewi4/why_is_it_so_hard_for_guys_to_find_get_a_date/ | 1 | I'm 18 years old and have been trying on several dating sites to find a girlfriend but no one seems interested, I've tried everything I can think of so I turn to you guys the people of reddit to save me | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is it so hard for guys to find get a date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fmewi4/why_is_it_so_hard_for_guys_to_find_get_a_date/ |
kaishinovus | 2020-03-04 06:51:31 | 1,583,304,691 | null | null | 0 | fd96gr | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/fd96gr/norms_vs_reality/ | 11 | I know it's normal in this day and age of smart phones to play with filters/makeup/angles to make yourself look perfect for each and every photo for a dating profile, but is that really the smart thing to do, for either side? On one side, sure you might get someone into your DM's and even an in person meeting, but if t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Norms Vs Reality? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/fd96gr/norms_vs_reality/ |
Express_Medium_4275 | 2024-03-07 15:40:19 | 1,709,826,019 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1b8xqcg | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b8xqcg/how_to_cool_down_infatuation/ | 1 | I met this girl on tinder and we hit it off really well but towards the end of our date I became infatuated with her. I haven't met a girl this cool since my ex. She is often on my mind and I become stressed, even though I was really confident on our date, not sure what to text her etc, so far I keep the messages to a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to cool down infatuation | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b8xqcg/how_to_cool_down_infatuation/ |
dumbandglossy | 2014-03-27 05:36:47 | 1,395,898,607 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 21hfzr | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/21hfzr/advice_on_how_to_approach_online_dating/ | 3 | Hello, First, thank you for having such an awesome subreddit. So helpful! I am a 25yo female trying out online dating for the first time, and I have a couple of questions: 1. Is it okay to schedule several dates beforehand with different guys? Or is it that when I schedule a date with someone, it's wrong to schedule on... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice on how to approach online dating. | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/21hfzr/advice_on_how_to_approach_online_dating/ |
worried_panda | 2019-05-29 05:55:39 | 1,559,109,339 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | buay84 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/buay84/profile_picture/ | 1 | Hey I'm getting out of a relationship and I want to try online dating, but I'm not sure what picture to use as my main profile pic. I'm hoping someone can look at a couple of my pictures to help me out. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Profile Picture | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/buay84/profile_picture/ |
Ill-Abbreviations933 | 2021-06-15 19:10:59 | 1,623,784,259 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | o0m3bk | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o0m3bk/how_do_i_work_to_come_off_as_less_intimidating/ | 2 | This is probably… a lot, but I just can’t stop spinning out about what to do about my dating (or lack thereof) life. I’m a 39F professional, who, for all intents and purposes, has her shit together. I work full time in a good career, own my own home and live alone, have never been married or had children. I come from a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I work to come off as less intimidating and how do I get passed the anger/frustration when yet another guy I’m interested in rejects me? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o0m3bk/how_do_i_work_to_come_off_as_less_intimidating/ |
niso252 | 2024-04-16 19:32:04 | 1,713,295,924 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1c5p0y7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c5p0y7/i_think_i_just_answered_my_own_question/ | 1 | I think I just need to rant ? Hey guys Im 27F with a 33M The first date went great in my opinion We spent almost 12hrs together. We didn’t kiss but he was very touchy feely from the beginning, maybe a kiss on the cheek at most..we had great conversations, talked about travelling and maybe eventually coming to his house... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think I just answered my own question | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c5p0y7/i_think_i_just_answered_my_own_question/ |
Rowell_B | 2017-06-01 20:14:51 | 1,496,348,091 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 6epg1n | null | null | 30 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6epg1n/men_who_has_never_been_in_a_relationship_till/ | 7 | Is there anyone who has never been in a relationship till your late 30s / 40s etc? Was there any reason like never having the time, too busy with a career, and now just finally tired of waiting and 'settling'? Been seeing this guy for awhile now and he has never have been in a relationship. Says he had never connected ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Men who has never been in a relationship till middle age... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6epg1n/men_who_has_never_been_in_a_relationship_till/ |
Syke9911 | 2023-10-24 18:56:13 | 1,698,173,773 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 17fkazj | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17fkazj/how_many_dates_does_it_take_to_know_if_the_person/ | 1 | I (32M) was in a long lasting relationship over a year ago. Since then I wasn't ready to get back into the dating stage again so I took my time and waited till I was ready. Until recently, I was on a dating site and was messaging two different girls. The messaging part was going really well, I felt I was connecting to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How many dates does it take to know if the person is right for you? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17fkazj/how_many_dates_does_it_take_to_know_if_the_person/ |
peachearlgreytea | 2024-04-02 08:35:20 | 1,712,046,920 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1bttm6f | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bttm6f/are_the_apps_broken/ | 1 | My friends and I are trying to get dates but either we are not getting matches or the guys just stop talking after two sentences. Are the guys just not on apps anymore? Are we all just tired of the apps? Are we all just tired of dating in general? Location wise: Australia. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are the apps broken? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bttm6f/are_the_apps_broken/ |
auroraborelle | 2023-08-18 06:44:50 | 1,692,341,090 | 0 | ['swiped', 'swipes'] | 0 | 15ucr59 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/15ucr59/feminine_energy/ | 1 | Just curious to hear DOF’s thoughts on this. I’m coming across a lot of dating advice (or opinion) about feminine energy. Supposedly the idea goes: a lot women these days are leaning into their masculine energy to be independent and successful at work/career (and that’s working very well for them), but then carry this ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Feminine energy? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/15ucr59/feminine_energy/ |
throwawaywhiskeygirl | 2020-03-22 18:32:46 | 1,584,901,966 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fn4imf | true | null | 87 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/fn4imf/how_would_you_react_to_a_woman_you_plan_on/ | 0 | Hello I am tired of being promised by a man that he's going to absolutely rock my world only to find out he has the equivalent of a Vienna sausage dangling between his legs. I'm 27f and not looking for prince charming. What I am looking for is some consistently good dick. We can argue about size not mattering but from ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How would you react to a woman you plan on sleeping with requesting to see your package in advance? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/fn4imf/how_would_you_react_to_a_woman_you_plan_on/ |
PowerfulEmployment38 | 2024-05-02 01:27:59 | 1,714,613,279 | 0 | ['swiping', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1ci3adu | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ci3adu/forgotten_old_social_media_sites/ | 1 | Does anyone remember the old tv show on MTV Nexxt? I swear i vaguely remember there had been a website and you could make a profile and it was like a dating app only it was a website and instead of "swiping" you would "next" someone you didnt like. Am i the only one who remembers that website? I also remember a social ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Forgotten old social media sites | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ci3adu/forgotten_old_social_media_sites/ |
WinSufficient7854 | 2022-08-01 21:14:54 | 1,659,388,494 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wdsqaq | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wdsqaq/is_she_interested_or_stringing_me_along/ | 0 | This girl I’m talking too has been away with family on holiday to lanzarote. She hasn’t replied back since she landed 1 and a half days ago. She’s been active on WhatsApp be just not opening/ replying to me lol. She’s done this before and we’ve spoken about her going quiet and she told me not to look into it too much a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is she interested or stringing me along? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wdsqaq/is_she_interested_or_stringing_me_along/ |
MissKoshka | 2024-04-17 02:19:49 | 1,713,320,389 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1c5yet7 | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1c5yet7/what_is_the_male_strategy_here/ | 4 | All the time these men on OLD say "I don't have time to text, let's meet IRL." To me, it's worth it to text for a couple days to confirm that I can have a conversation with this dude before committing 6+ hours (incl the round trip). f I said "yes" to every date request as soon as we marched, I'd waste a lot of my life ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | What is the male strategy here? | 4 | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1c5yet7/what_is_the_male_strategy_here/ |
Story-Sea | 2022-11-17 03:20:37 | 1,668,655,237 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | yxf2d0 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yxf2d0/should_i_reach_out/ | 1 | I (23F) met this guy on a dating app. We went on 3 dates and I think they went fairly well. I think I’ve initiated texting more. He has told me he’s not big on texting and prefers in person. We were texting the other day and there was a miscommunication on my end that seemed disrespectful (boundary crossing). We had so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I reach out? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yxf2d0/should_i_reach_out/ |
FlyswatterArcade | 2022-06-23 01:11:47 | 1,655,946,707 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | viknqd | true | Support Needed | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/viknqd/im_exhausted_and_i_want_to_give_up_on_dating/ | 3 | I’m a 28F and to preface I’ll say last year I had a 8 year relationship end, he left me for another woman after cheating. I started dating again in about March using the dating apps. I’ve met some cool people and a lot of it was casual dating for me. There was a guy I was seeing since the end of March and we had great ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m exhausted and I want to give up on dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/viknqd/im_exhausted_and_i_want_to_give_up_on_dating/ |
Majestic_Present6397 | 2024-05-18 02:59:48 | 1,716,001,188 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1cunjlx | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cunjlx/my_long_distance_gf/ | 1 | I'm from Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, and my girlfriend is from Pahang, Malaysia. We're both 16, and the distance between us is almost 200 km. She told me she will move to Selangor, which is only 30 minutes away from me. My family usually visits Pahang for vacation, and I told her that I would be coming next month, but she ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | MY LONG DISTANCE GF | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cunjlx/my_long_distance_gf/ |
LivelyFirefly21 | 2021-11-10 17:24:12 | 1,636,565,052 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | qqzeaf | true | null | 114 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/qqzeaf/online_dating_pictures_prospects_versus_in_real/ | 46 | I (35F) pride myself in putting as accurate pictures of myself as possible because I figure why waste anyone's time. I have also been complimented on how alike to my pictures (positively speaking) I looked in real life which I guess reinforces my choice of pics. I understand that this hasn't necessarily been everyone's... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Online Dating Pictures prospects versus In Real Life - how accurate have they been? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/qqzeaf/online_dating_pictures_prospects_versus_in_real/ |
Robbylynn12 | 2024-09-13 21:24:35 | 1,726,262,675 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1fg5xtv | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fg5xtv/i_played_uber_for_my_first_date_or_why_you_need/ | 0 | Spoiler: learn to say no. This is a date fail that is 90% my fault. I won’t budge on the last 10 percent, take me to court. When on a manic episode (first error, bipolars out there like me stop this shit) I redownloaded tinder. I matched with a Venezuelan girl who spoke little English. We hit things off and go to What’... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I played Uber for my First Date: or, Why You Need to Say No | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fg5xtv/i_played_uber_for_my_first_date_or_why_you_need/ |
Salty-Worth | 2020-04-09 04:33:30 | 1,586,406,810 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fxlvgg | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fxlvgg/am_i_making_a_mistake/ | 2 | While I was helping my BF of 7 months with something on his phone, two Tinder notifications popped up. He turned his phone away so fast, I couldn’t see what they said. I gave him the opportunity to explain. He admitted that 48 hours after an argument we had in February he got back on Tinder (we did not meet on Tinder, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I making a mistake? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fxlvgg/am_i_making_a_mistake/ |
MidnightMascara | 2023-10-21 07:54:22 | 1,697,874,862 | 0 | null | 0 | 17cxf5f | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17cxf5f/i_25f_dont_know_if_i_should_text_guy_31m_tomorrow/ | 1 | So i (25f) went on a date with a guy (31m) today. It went really well, and lasted around 7 hours. He seemed to really like me and basically said it himself. We spoke about ideas to do if we hung again and things like that. However, there were a few red flags. For starters, we were talking about pictures on my phone tha... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I (25f) don't know if I should text guy (31m) tomorrow | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17cxf5f/i_25f_dont_know_if_i_should_text_guy_31m_tomorrow/ |
thousandlimes | 2019-03-24 22:52:34 | 1,553,467,954 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | b52r2v | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/b52r2v/too_soon_to_say_no_thank_you_after_coffee_date/ | 20 | I'm overthinking this, so I'm hoping for some opinions. I just had a lackluster coffee date with a guy from OLD. He seemed nice, just not for me. We didn't really have much to talk about. I'm thinking of sending him a text saying "Hey, thanks for meeting up, I enjoyed getting coffee with you. I didn't really feel that ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Too soon to say "no thank you" after coffee date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/b52r2v/too_soon_to_say_no_thank_you_after_coffee_date/ |
ithinkushouldleave_ | 2021-02-06 19:12:01 | 1,612,638,721 | null | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | le4fxj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/le4fxj/at_a_crossroads_with_my_past_relationship/ | 1 | Hi everyone, This is my first time posting on this sub and on reddit in general so I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read this short novel. So, my ex (23f) and I (24m) broke up about a year and 3 months ago after dating for 5 years. For some background, we met in high school and I was smitten, ended up going to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | At a crossroads with my past relationship | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/le4fxj/at_a_crossroads_with_my_past_relationship/ |
Relevant-Leopard-162 | 2022-07-18 13:32:48 | 1,658,151,168 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | w1zh8z | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w1zh8z/why_do_i_do_these_things_to_myself/ | 1 | So I’ve been talk to this guy for two days met him on a dating app very nice, sweet, and well mannered so by the third day I gave him some and then the day after he told me he had a kid. mind you he didn’t mention it on the dating app and I feel like he should’ve mentioned it right away and before we did anything. I’m ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why do I do these things to myself. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w1zh8z/why_do_i_do_these_things_to_myself/ |
Life-Locksmith6667 | 2024-08-08 19:43:13 | 1,723,146,193 | 0 | ['dating site', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1enfb6p | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1enfb6p/normal_dating_site/ | 0 | I want to date again where the guy doesn't expect sex after dinner on the first or even second date. Match is crappy now. Bumble seems great but not as 'traditional' as I'd like. Is there anything out there sort of in between Match and Bumble? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | "Normal" Dating Site | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1enfb6p/normal_dating_site/ |
welcome2thehylton | 2023-05-31 16:00:23 | 1,685,548,823 | 0 | null | 0 | 13wq67k | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13wq67k/talking_to_multiple_people/ | 5 | How do you guys feel about talking to multiple people at a time? Not being intimate with, but just in the early stages of talking and getting to know each other, you may be doing that with multiple people. I feel like this might be a given for some people but others I’ve spoken to have a general problem with it. They f... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Talking to multiple people | 5 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13wq67k/talking_to_multiple_people/ |
traumaquestions | 2022-01-02 06:56:33 | 1,641,106,593 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ru41r6 | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ru41r6/dating_with_extreme_ptsd_questions/ | 18 | Hey all, this will be a long post but I could really use some help here. I know there's a thousand ways to go about it so hopefully I'll get some perspective. I have a fairly extreme PTSD, and I wanted to ask you guys some questions as to how you would go about online dating or dating in general with it. I'm not sure o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating with Extreme PTSD Questions | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ru41r6/dating_with_extreme_ptsd_questions/ |
mankindisgod | 2019-06-24 03:43:31 | 1,561,347,811 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | c4hs8d | true | null | 69 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/c4hs8d/what_does_not_feeling_a_connection_actually_mean/ | 20 | Hey people over 30, just wanted to get your perspective on a subject I'm pretty sure most of you have encountered at some point. I had what I thought was a great first date with a nice girl I met via OLD. The conversation flowed naturally, no awkward pauses, laughs and some pretty deep and interesting topics that chall... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What does "not feeling a connection" actually mean? Are there more factors involved than just having a great conversation? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c4hs8d/what_does_not_feeling_a_connection_actually_mean/ |
kory1111 | 2024-01-18 04:23:21 | 1,705,551,801 | 0 | ['dating app', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 199hf8u | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/199hf8u/saw_a_girl_on_a_dating_app_i_asked_out_before/ | 4 | So I asked this girl out (let’s call her A) about 3 years ago and she seemed really into it, she gave me her number and told me to call her so she had mine. We texted then eventually she ghosted and I found out from a friend that A had talked to her about the situation and A had concluded she wanted to focus on her stu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Saw a girl on a dating app I asked out before | 4 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/199hf8u/saw_a_girl_on_a_dating_app_i_asked_out_before/ |
grieflord_100 | 2022-03-28 03:58:41 | 1,648,439,921 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | tq0p54 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tq0p54/unsure_to_confess_or_not/ | 0 | I'm 28M who recently found a girl 1y younger than me on Tinder. We have been meeting up several times (in pure sense, no bumping uglies, netflix 'n chill, what ever you may call it) and it has been a month or two since we first meet at Tinder. She is a really nice kind of girl, and whenever we talk, she always have tha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Unsure to confess or not | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tq0p54/unsure_to_confess_or_not/ |
KDwiththeFXD | 2020-03-05 16:06:46 | 1,583,424,406 | null | ['swipe', 'OLD'] | 0 | fdxevf | true | null | 831 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/fdxevf/do_you_have_any_weird_dealbreakers_that_may_seem/ | 127 | There was a post a few days back where a guy asked if he was in the wrong for not wanting to ho out with a girl who had stickers on her car. It sounds silly but I feel like everyone has some sort of quirky dealbreaker and I want to hear what some of you have. I don’t mean like not being able to date someone with a cat ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Do you have any weird dealbreakers that may seem silly but you just can’t seem to budge from? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/fdxevf/do_you_have_any_weird_dealbreakers_that_may_seem/ |
iluvcults | 2024-08-09 04:49:11 | 1,723,178,951 | 0 | null | 0 | 1enr3g6 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1enr3g6/profile_bio_feedback/ | 1 | I’ve been out of the game a while, lol. I’m very hesitant to put too much info about myself in a bio, so I am trying to keep things light. Here it is: “Listening to the same workout playlist since 2008 Recently got into stand up paddle boarding because I failed at stand up comedy Marriage and Family Therapist and Part ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Profile Bio Feedback | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1enr3g6/profile_bio_feedback/ |
Aggravating_Leg_8941 | 2024-07-05 06:55:01 | 1,720,162,501 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1dvrrfx | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dvrrfx/losing_virginity_to_someone_you_met_online_from/ | 1 | So basically I’m a 20 yr old dude you never had sex or done anything and sexual or had a girlfriend yet. I workout 4x a week and am fitter than average (not crazy fit tho, decently toned). A huge reason I haven’t had sex is I am a shy person and only asked out one girl irl, and I can be awkwardish, so it’s more with my... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Losing virginity to someone you met online (from one of those friendship chat apps) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dvrrfx/losing_virginity_to_someone_you_met_online_from/ |
Culticulous | 2024-08-27 01:56:37 | 1,724,723,797 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1f25m72 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f25m72/girl_sending_mixed_signals_somewhat_hard_to_trust/ | 1 | Context: Been talking to this girl for a month-ish, we keep planning things but her life hasn't exactly been easy lately so its fallen through twice. We have a great connection and a lot of similarities and from my perspective it seems that we both really enjoy talking to each other and are excited to keep talking. BUT... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl Sending Mixed Signals & Somewhat Hard to Trust? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f25m72/girl_sending_mixed_signals_somewhat_hard_to_trust/ |
Aggressive_Ad_2083 | 2023-03-03 23:22:02 | 1,677,885,722 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 11hihf5 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11hihf5/my_situationship_isnt_over_his_ex_need_advice/ | 0 | So I met this guy off Bumble we’re both 20 yr old university students for context. We’ve been on 11 dates starting from the end of November. And have been having sex since the 6th date where I also met all of his friends. I’m just very confused because he seems like he really likes me. He shows me a lot of affection, h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My situationship isn’t over his ex, need advice | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11hihf5/my_situationship_isnt_over_his_ex_need_advice/ |
Kaibaman94 | 2024-01-15 23:03:15 | 1,705,359,795 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 197mxm3 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/197mxm3/was_i_right_to_call_off_the_first_date/ | 1 | Context: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/s/tW7uVhy0zR This girl from China expects me to get abs. Past few days of chatting I've noticed - No compliments, just criticism about lack of abs - She would not start a conversation or send me a message first on any given day. - Told me she is still browsing bumble. - A... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Was I right to call off the first date? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/197mxm3/was_i_right_to_call_off_the_first_date/ |
Jackypopper | 2023-09-13 05:28:03 | 1,694,582,883 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16heeod | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16heeod/how_can_i_get_photos_of_myself_for_dating_apps/ | 1 | I [19M] recently decided I want to start dating again and at my college people generally just use dating apps, however I don’t have any pictures of myself and don’t really know anyone close enough to ask them to go out with me to take pics of me without it being weird. Also l, I generally wear just regular clothes, not... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I get photos of myself for dating apps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16heeod/how_can_i_get_photos_of_myself_for_dating_apps/ |
anonym225 | 2011-05-18 05:15:08 | 1,305,695,708 | 10 | ['dating site', 'okcupid'] | null | hdzbi | null | null | 20 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/hdzbi/unpleasant_thing_to_have_to_talk_about/ | 18 | I've never posted here before, and this is a throwaway, but I know this is a good resource for women with problems like mine. I asked about this on r/askreddit and got some depressing misogynist shit for it, but basically about a year ago I was date-raped on an okcupid date. The guy told me it was my fault, and at the ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Unpleasant thing to have to talk about | 28 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/hdzbi/unpleasant_thing_to_have_to_talk_about/ |
[deleted] | 2015-05-03 20:17:25 | 1,430,684,245 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 34qzgl | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/34qzgl/am_i_being_trolled/ | 1 | I met someone through an online dating site and have messaged each other back and forth but I'm getting a sense that it's not sincere. What do you guys think? - Hi there, I've been a huge gamer too while I was in college, tried to cut down but that turned out to be a challenge (thanks to skyrim and oblivion before that... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | am I being trolled? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/34qzgl/am_i_being_trolled/ |
Shezsocereal | 2021-01-18 04:52:10 | 1,610,945,530 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | kznhtj | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kznhtj/im_a_bit_disheartened_and_i_need_advice/ | 3 | I feel a bit disheartened I (21F) was seeing this guy (23M) since November. He had just moved to my city at the beginning of 2020 to pursue a job opportunity. We had matched on Bumble at the beginning of November and had talked pretty consistently before deciding to meet up in person (As per local COVID regulations). W... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m a bit disheartened and I need advice. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kznhtj/im_a_bit_disheartened_and_i_need_advice/ |
Throwawaydeeznuts691 | 2022-10-31 21:02:18 | 1,667,250,138 | null | null | 0 | yioukd | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yioukd/should_i_reask/ | 0 | Hey guys so if someone u match with has put what they are looking for is there a point reasking them? I've had a girl i matched with before and she put that she was looking for a relationship but when i reask her she said friends but then later admit she is still looking for a relationship. Now i don't know if i should... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should i reask? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yioukd/should_i_reask/ |
EddyAsstro | 2024-03-24 23:55:28 | 1,711,324,528 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1bmziyc | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bmziyc/ladies_what_should_i_put_down_for_my_height_on/ | 1 | So I’m a tad bit self conscious about my height and want to get a woman’s honest and objective answer on what I should put down on the apps. I’m currently 5’8” and 1/2 without shoes on and don’t know if I should put down 5’8” or 5’9” on my dating app. I don’t wanna be called out on a date for being shorter than I actua... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ladies, what should I put down for my height on dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bmziyc/ladies_what_should_i_put_down_for_my_height_on/ |
Hotcoco2506 | 2024-03-12 19:43:02 | 1,710,272,582 | 0 | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1bd6hjq | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bd6hjq/advice_on_dating_needed_starting_to_want_to_date/ | 1 | I downloaded Tinder and Hinge the other day & I am quote rusty. I was more open to them few years back when I met my ex on Hinge in 2022 but now I am quite scared. I am 28f, set my age 26-32 to meet someone to hopefully form a bond, friendship and a long life relationship with. I'm not really expecting to meet my husba... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice on dating needed, starting to want to date since being single nearly 2 years | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bd6hjq/advice_on_dating_needed_starting_to_want_to_date/ |
lilbebe50 | 2016-07-01 02:29:25 | 1,467,340,165 | 0 | ['online dating', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | 4qpfwu | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4qpfwu/new_to_online_dating_and_scared_to_meet_people_in/ | 1 | So I am a 22 year old female. I was with a guy for 4 and a half years, was engaged, before he cheated and left me for another girl. I met one guy after that, but he didn't like me like that and isn't ready for a relationship. So now it's back to square one. It's been 3 months since I've been single. Everyone I know has... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New to online dating and scared to meet people in person. | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4qpfwu/new_to_online_dating_and_scared_to_meet_people_in/ |
tomibobo | 2020-02-27 16:39:34 | 1,582,821,574 | null | null | 0 | faesbr | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/faesbr/date_acts_uninterested_but_accuses_me_of_ghosting/ | 18 | So I hung out with this one girl, everything is good for a week even after the date. Then she starts responding the next day. She does this twice and I quit texting her. Two weeks later I get a text from her saying she wasn’t expecting me to ghost her, but I explain the whole issue with delayed responses turned me off.... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Date acts uninterested but accuses me of ghosting. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/faesbr/date_acts_uninterested_but_accuses_me_of_ghosting/ |
[deleted] | 2019-09-10 20:44:56 | 1,568,148,296 | null | ['matched', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'online dating'] | 0 | d2e5pl | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d2e5pl/this_may_be_narcissistic_but/ | 3 | I feel like with online dating more than meeting someone more traditionally, the most humbling experience is the realization that not everyone is interested in you just because you're interested in them. And I know this is true for ALL dating, and that you must be able to cope with rejection, but with online dating it'... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | This may be narcissistic but... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d2e5pl/this_may_be_narcissistic_but/ |
blackorchid_x | 2019-07-01 17:09:08 | 1,562,000,948 | null | ['matched', 'okcupid'] | 0 | c7vxbz | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c7vxbz/i_f28_have_my_first_date_m28_after_being_single/ | 2 | I signed up for okcupid, and matched with a guy who I share similar values with and we can banter pretty well. We’ve been messaging each other for a couple weeks and he is taking me out Saturday. I’ve only ever dated one person and we broke up 8 years ago, so dating feels super foreign to me. He’s planning the date, so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (F28) have my first date (M28), after being single for 8 years... how do you do a first date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c7vxbz/i_f28_have_my_first_date_m28_after_being_single/ |
Dude_The_Guy | 2018-10-15 14:30:10 | 1,539,613,810 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9od65i | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9od65i/me_22m_and_my_crush_21f_unsure_of_my_standings/ | 1 | Background: I went to high school with this girl, but we didn’t talk much at all. My cousin at the same school even said they were friends to some extent. About 2 year ago I approached her at the gym and asked for her number because she was cute, but wasn’t sure what the implication was to her. Maybe a few weeks later ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Me (22M) and my crush (21F) - Unsure of my standings with a girl | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9od65i/me_22m_and_my_crush_21f_unsure_of_my_standings/ |
aLaSeconde | 2019-01-12 00:24:07 | 1,547,252,647 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | af1xse | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/af1xse/how_weird_would_it_be_for_me_f29_to_message_this/ | 1 | I’m into the local music scene and saw this one band about 3 times because my brother's band has played with them but never talked to the singer in person and I actually really like their music. I’ve been listening to them a lot lately and wanted to see if they had any more songs available that weren’t on their band ca... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How weird would it be for me [F/29] to message this guy [27] I am now friends with on Facebook? What’s the best approach? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/af1xse/how_weird_would_it_be_for_me_f29_to_message_this/ |
JAW13ONE | 2022-12-26 02:00:27 | 1,672,020,027 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | zvce54 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zvce54/people_how_should_you_respond_to_a_now_erstwhile/ | 1 | WARNING: This is a long-ass story. The title itself can also serve as the “TLDR”. We first hit off on some dating app, and decided to meet in person just last Mae. She (28) was in my hometown for a vacation whilst waiting for the agency to call her up for another overseas job. Anyway, after shooting the bull, I (M36) d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | People, how should you respond to a (now erstwhile) lover that ignored you for almost 4 months before confirming it’s over? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zvce54/people_how_should_you_respond_to_a_now_erstwhile/ |
aburneraccountlol | 2023-09-04 19:56:49 | 1,693,857,409 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16a26g6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16a26g6/friend_from_my_childhood_sent_me_a_like_on_a/ | 1 | Hey guys Just looking for some advice on this situation. This guy I knew back in grade school sent me a like along with a message on a dating app. He was a pretty cool guy, and I enjoyed being friends with him; we just lost touch because I moved. Anyways, I would be interested in reconnecting with him, but I don’t real... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Friend from my childhood sent me a like on a dating app. Is there a diplomatic way to say I’m down to reconnect as friends or do I just let it go? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16a26g6/friend_from_my_childhood_sent_me_a_like_on_a/ |
Ice-Lake | 2021-03-10 12:41:43 | 1,615,380,103 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | m1wm69 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/m1wm69/why_are_some_men_more_attractive_to_men_than_to/ | 0 | Okay, can't say that for certain but after being on dating sites for years, with only a handful of likes (in all that time) from women, I decided to experiment and change my settings to "everyone" and in one day I get 1 superlike and over 20 likes...from guys... So, assuming it's not just men being men and liking every... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Why are some men more attractive to men than to women? | null | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/m1wm69/why_are_some_men_more_attractive_to_men_than_to/ |
awkwardboner12 | 2017-02-08 19:46:11 | 1,486,583,171 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 5sv03a | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5sv03a/need_help_online_date_adivce/ | 1 | Matched with a girl around 2 weeks ago. Been texting since then. A few messages a day but real long ones. She is soo slow on responding but keeps saying she want to meet and so on. Scheduled a date last weekend. But she then canceled saying she had "a lot going" on with school. Keeps texting with her but the reply time... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [Need Help] Online date adivce. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5sv03a/need_help_online_date_adivce/ |
Aggressive-Round-621 | 2022-11-06 12:16:02 | 1,667,736,962 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ynofak | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ynofak/how_do_you_get_over_someone_who_wasnt_even_yours/ | 4 | I’ve (26/F) been seeing a man (27/M) that I met on tinder over a year ago and I just recently discovered he’s been dating someone very seriously for over four years. I discovered this through a mutual family member that me and the girlfriend share. I feel stupid for never digging deeper into his social media. Everythin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you get over someone who wasn’t even yours? | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ynofak/how_do_you_get_over_someone_who_wasnt_even_yours/ |
[deleted] | 2014-03-27 23:49:28 | 1,395,964,168 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 21ju27 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/21ju27/wanting_a_second_hook_up/ | 1 | A week ago I met up with a girl from a dating site. The initial date went fine and ended in us going back to mine for the night. She was actually a lot more fun than I was expecting, and I'd actually really like to see her again. So I texted her the next day saying I enjoyed the night and that would should hang again s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Wanting a second hook up | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/21ju27/wanting_a_second_hook_up/ |
Shienev | 2021-08-30 20:40:09 | 1,630,356,009 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | peqo9b | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/peqo9b/green_flag/ | 1 | A guy I'm talking to on Tinder says I seem like a genuine person and not the hookup type... Does this may be a sign he is genuily interested? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Green flag? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/peqo9b/green_flag/ |
missmegs702 | 2023-02-14 23:31:38 | 1,676,417,498 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | 112jisr | true | null | 215 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/112jisr/good_morning_texts_before_meeting/ | 37 | Why does someone do this? I've had two matches in the last week do this at the ass crack of dawn, including a new match from yesterday (one I chatted with very briefly and exchanged numbers) who texted me 'Good Morning' at 6am today. I don't want to have a conversation with anyone at 6am, much less someone I've never m... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Good Morning Texts before Meeting? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/112jisr/good_morning_texts_before_meeting/ |
SinnerSharkGWAR | 2021-08-15 01:18:29 | 1,628,990,309 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | p4k7ak | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p4k7ak/22m_no_social_circle_and_very_unsuccessful_on/ | 1 | I've no clue what to do, I've tried tinder but to no avail. Have tried going out with those I do know but that hasn't worked for me. I know love is not something you can force and in Definetly not desperate for it, but I do feel like I'm at a point in my life where now is the time to find someone. My work and education... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 22m no social circle and very unsuccessful on sites | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p4k7ak/22m_no_social_circle_and_very_unsuccessful_on/ |
kraftykraftpaper | 2018-09-24 14:44:33 | 1,537,800,273 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9iii96 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9iii96/it_takes_forever_for_people_to_grow_on_me/ | 12 | I met a lady on Tinder a little over a year ago, and we hit it off pretty well but were both only looking for something casual at the time. So we were basically FWBs, though we didn't call it that. About 8 months into it, she said she was OK with keeping things casual, but would also be open to a relationship. I said (... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | It takes forever for people to grow on me | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9iii96/it_takes_forever_for_people_to_grow_on_me/ |
Secret-Squirrel808 | 2023-08-20 14:01:20 | 1,692,540,080 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 15wc7n3 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15wc7n3/how_can_i_tell_if_someone_im_talking_to_online_is/ | 1 | Loong story: Met someone over FB messenger about a week ago. She has a particular way of chatting. Her FB profile is surprisingly short. But there is a baby photo and a couple photos of her young. But then there's a gap and only photos from July 28th are present, and the rest of her posts are news articles from various... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How can I tell if someone I'm talking to online is real? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15wc7n3/how_can_i_tell_if_someone_im_talking_to_online_is/ |
Some_tx_girl | 2023-04-23 03:48:07 | 1,682,221,687 | 0 | null | 0 | 12vui74 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12vui74/stir_dating_app_reviews/ | 1 | Any reviews or comments on Stir (the dating app for single parents)? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Stir Dating App reviews | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12vui74/stir_dating_app_reviews/ |
chillis972 | 2024-07-08 17:57:30 | 1,720,461,450 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dyfewm | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dyfewm/once_dating_app_scam_or_real/ | 6 | Hi all...new to this reddit thing so asking for advice...signed up for Once app: slightly ridiculous that I had to buy gems 2x already just to chat with women. Also having a tough time discerning who's real and who's not due to.pics. anyone have a similar/same experience? Thanks! | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Once dating app: scam or real? | 6 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dyfewm/once_dating_app_scam_or_real/ |
FrenchFuck | 2015-07-21 16:27:24 | 1,437,496,044 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 3e3591 | null | null | 114 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/3e3591/in_which_ways_are_you_considerate/ | 159 | A slow witted spider has recently set up shop on my balcony, unfortunately it is a desolate and fly-less area. It's been quite a few days since I've seen Carl chow down, his web was looking quite half-assed and he had curled up into a posture I can only describe as "survival mode". In short it seems like natural select... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | In which ways are you considerate? | 159 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3e3591/in_which_ways_are_you_considerate/ |
JarofHearts | 2024-07-26 02:42:10 | 1,721,961,730 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ecdavv | true | null | 138 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ecdavv/ladies_why_arent_you_eating_most_of_your_meal/ | 39 | Weird question, I know but I'm just so curious. I prefer to go on lunch/dinner dates as the first date. I've noticed that 90% of the women don't eat more than half the food. I've had some barely eat any and then just take it to go. They knew ahead of time that we were going to eat, so I really am just so confused as to... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ladies, why aren't you eating most of your meal? | 39 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ecdavv/ladies_why_arent_you_eating_most_of_your_meal/ |
Leading_Economics_79 | 2023-12-29 17:09:13 | 1,703,869,753 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 18try8f | true | Casual Conversation | 61 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/18try8f/venting_why_traveling_on_holidays_and_online/ | 29 | I'm so sick of finding a guy who seems amazing, only to discover that he actually lives 3,000 miles away, is only in town for the holiday, and is hoping to have a quick vacation fling. Even though his profile indicates that he wants a long-term relationship and isn't interested in hookups. Oh, really? Does that mean yo... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Venting: Why? Traveling on Holidays and Online Dating | 29 | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/18try8f/venting_why_traveling_on_holidays_and_online/ |
sureisniceweather | 2024-05-14 07:43:25 | 1,715,672,605 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1crmj30 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1crmj30/alot_of_compliments_and_conversation_competitions/ | 1 | Hey Redditors. I've gone on a couple of dates and hung out with a M(30), I am F(33). He is constantly complimenting me, which I know sounds off to complain about on reddit, but I mean compliments me with anything. Possibly, would compliment my farts. He also gets very competitive, for example in a conversation, let's s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Alot of compliments, and conversation competitions, what do? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1crmj30/alot_of_compliments_and_conversation_competitions/ |
nyleve2380 | 2023-09-24 21:19:08 | 1,695,590,348 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 16r94f7 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/16r94f7/old_app_recommendations/ | 1 | In your opinion which are the best free OLD apps and why do you like it? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | OLD app recommendations | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/16r94f7/old_app_recommendations/ |
Regular_Loquat | 2020-04-21 11:34:17 | 1,587,468,857 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | g5dl2l | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g5dl2l/advice/ | 0 | I need advice and I suffer from anxiety so Im not sure if I’m overthinking with that or if I just feel strongly about this but I met a guy online. We have been talking for a month and we have an amazing connection and lots of coincidences that lead us to one another. We get along great. Im not much of a dating site per... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g5dl2l/advice/ |
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