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throwawaymiff | 2023-09-09 15:09:26 | 1,694,272,166 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16e833t | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16e833t/is_he_texting_multiple_people/ | 1 | I met this guy on a dating app recently. The first few days we talked all night. He was completely focused on the conversation and replied instantly. He asked me if I was talking to other guys and I said I wasn't really and he said he prefered if I didn't. When I was distracted one night with a problem at home he said ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he texting multiple people? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16e833t/is_he_texting_multiple_people/ |
KaleidoscopeNo6843 | 2024-08-14 04:44:28 | 1,723,610,668 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ersv9d | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ersv9d/i_am_undesirable_to_women/ | 0 | I (24m) have struggled with women all my life. I was the fat kid growing up which transferred over to adulthood but I’ve been working on myself in that regard for the last year or so (down around 25lbs, I’m 5’9 215lbs). Growing up with a lot of social rejection and teasing really put a beating on my self esteem. I didn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am undesirable to women | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ersv9d/i_am_undesirable_to_women/ |
jcm_neche | 2024-07-27 13:55:11 | 1,722,088,511 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1edgxdi | true | null | 70 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1edgxdi/women_what_do_you_want_to_see_in_an_introductory/ | 7 | The title says it all. The basics are easy (don’t do a low effort intro, nothing x rated, no misspellings) but want to write the best into possible. I always pick something from her profile that matches with me. I never comment on looks, maybe that is a mistake? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Women, what do you want to see in an introductory message? | 7 | 0.68 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1edgxdi/women_what_do_you_want_to_see_in_an_introductory/ |
SheilaUK63 | 2023-01-27 03:54:13 | 1,674,791,653 | null | null | 0 | 10mbetn | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10mbetn/how_do_you_do_it/ | 17 | I fully gave up trying to date by the time I was about 25 (I'm going to be 34 in a couple of weeks). It was obvious to myself I wasn't what someone wanted even when I was working on myself etc etc. I have a 0% success rate whenever I have tried to ask anyone out, only ever matched with bots of dating sites etc. Recentl... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How do you do it? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10mbetn/how_do_you_do_it/ |
RevolutionaryMenu101 | 2023-06-11 18:09:03 | 1,686,506,943 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1470ssp | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1470ssp/what_happened_to_online_friendship/ | 1 | Just out of the online dating trivia. Can people still find good friends online or did it end with orkut? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What happened to online friendship | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1470ssp/what_happened_to_online_friendship/ |
Queasy_Age_6973 | 2024-06-08 17:46:49 | 1,717,868,809 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1db8gqt | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1db8gqt/hinge_im_on_my_3rd_date_whats_the_dating_culture/ | 1 | Hi everyone, I’ve been on a 3rd date with someone from hinge in london. For reference, I’m 32/F and he’s 34/M both heterosexual. He openly told me that he’s still on the dating pool. We have talked about the background of each other but I still don’t know what his surname is. And we still haven’t exchanged our instagra... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hinge i’m on my 3rd date. What’s the dating culture in London like?q | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1db8gqt/hinge_im_on_my_3rd_date_whats_the_dating_culture/ |
Puzzled-Method-6267 | 2024-08-28 21:26:35 | 1,724,880,395 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1f3kx77 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f3kx77/tinder_women_scam/ | 0 | i've matched with a Russian women on tinder a month ago and i should not have given her a second date.. she turned out to be manipulative, narcissistic and full of mental illnesses that made my life a living hell. when she changed apartments, she asked for a list of furniture for her to buy, she threatened to break up ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | tinder women scam | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f3kx77/tinder_women_scam/ |
teafools | 2019-01-03 20:47:32 | 1,546,548,452 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | aca0yc | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/aca0yc/i_dated_someone_over_the_holidays/ | 0 | He was only in town visiting family. We got on really well, so much so that we squeezed in a second date. Everything seemed quite potential-y. Now, he's gone back home (250 miles away) and I'm all up in my feelings. Which is ridiculous after two dates I know, but i like him. He gave me the impression that he likes me t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I dated someone over the holidays.... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aca0yc/i_dated_someone_over_the_holidays/ |
Daver290 | 2023-03-25 16:16:34 | 1,679,760,994 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 121qp9h | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/121qp9h/gay_dating_advice/ | 2 | Why is it impossible to find a boyfriend? Having tried the online dating, other gay/bi sites and all that, guys only seem to want casual fun and are always "too busy" to actually meet. I've been on my own for years and years and starting to wonder if I will be on my own forever? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Gay dating advice | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/121qp9h/gay_dating_advice/ |
PoseidonLordoftheSea | 2019-06-10 21:50:10 | 1,560,203,410 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | bz3u6h | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bz3u6h/lack_of_hobbiespassions/ | 2 | Is it just me or is there a serious lack of people with real hobbies and passions lately? I have not been on the dating app train for quite a while now, but I find this to be true in meeting people in person too. Whether it's via text or in person and you ask someone "what do you like to do with your free time?" it is ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Lack of hobbies/passions | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bz3u6h/lack_of_hobbiespassions/ |
ldodd60 | 2022-07-01 18:02:26 | 1,656,698,546 | null | ['bumble', 'pof', 'okcupid'] | 0 | vp6y1t | true | null | 77 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/vp6y1t/delete_your_pof_bumble_okcupid_app_right_away_i/ | 78 | I can’t tell you how many men have texted me lately with this demand after exchanging a few texts. Especially after I google their photos and find their profile is fake. I had on demand this last night, I said I would hide my profile. Apparently that’s not good enough. I just had one block me for not deleting the app. ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | ‘delete your pof, bumble, okcupid …app right away I don’t want you talking to any other men. | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/vp6y1t/delete_your_pof_bumble_okcupid_app_right_away_i/ |
FCV2145 | 2022-08-17 17:33:50 | 1,660,757,630 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | wquz7q | true | null | 63 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/wquz7q/one_month_in_looking_for_advice_mental_health/ | 32 | I (34M) matched with her (34F) around a month ago, we've seen each other every weekend since and with our time spent together progressively increasing. We have similar cultural backgrounds (east asian), I grew up in the US, she immigrated after college. We live about an hour away from each other, she has a full time jo... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | One month in, looking for advice, mental health related. | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/wquz7q/one_month_in_looking_for_advice_mental_health/ |
Wonderful_Quarter908 | 2024-08-29 14:29:39 | 1,724,941,779 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1f43v28 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f43v28/should_i_let_go/ | 0 | I met this girl back in January on Bumble and we hit it off instantly. Asked her out within a day and we went out within a week. The date was amazing, by far the best first date I’ve ever had, and I ended up going back to her place and slept over (no sex but we got very intimate with each other). Anyways, we said our g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I let go? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f43v28/should_i_let_go/ |
Ill_Raspberry9207 | 2024-03-18 20:14:40 | 1,710,792,880 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1bi0mxg | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bi0mxg/i_went_on_50_dates_and_hooked_up_with_about_40/ | 1 | 29M Anytime I match with at least slightly attractive girl (petite) on dating apps I ask if they want to hook up. Anytime I see a girl that looks interesting and attractive and I can imagine relationship with her I ask her on a date. I went on sooo many dates but I never will chemistry anymore. I feel "meh" about most ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I went on 50+ dates and hooked up with about 40 girls in the last two years. Why am I unable to fall in love? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bi0mxg/i_went_on_50_dates_and_hooked_up_with_about_40/ |
ImClemFandango | 2021-07-07 01:05:09 | 1,625,619,909 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | of8fyc | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/of8fyc/doing_the_right_thing/ | 1 | I’ve been all over dating apps recently and found someone that was worth deleting them for. So, I queue up the text to tell the women I’m texting with that I won’t be doing that anymore while I’m deleting apps. Long story short, there’s a girl who I’ve been out with twice and we had a third date on the books for next w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Doing the right thing? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/of8fyc/doing_the_right_thing/ |
Arc1894 | 2024-01-21 02:40:44 | 1,705,804,844 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 19bt294 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19bt294/dating_an_older_woman/ | 8 | I matched with a woman a little older than me (I’m 30m she’s 38f) and I want to escalate things, but I don’t want to come across as young or immature. What do women think about dating younger guys? What are some things that would help her feel more comfortable? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating an older woman? | 8 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19bt294/dating_an_older_woman/ |
91377 | 2019-12-30 07:16:28 | 1,577,690,188 | null | ['swipes', 'OLD'] | 0 | ehity8 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/ehity8/old_guidance/ | 0 | How much do you reveal? On OKC I can answer a lot of personal questions. Is it better to say less on OLD and more in-person? I don't believe that some grey hair will increase the swipes. M58 looking for a re-introduction to the dating world. Your guidance? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | OLD guidance? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/ehity8/old_guidance/ |
rooster531 | 2024-06-06 21:46:14 | 1,717,710,374 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1d9u3s1 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d9u3s1/hasnt_asked_me_to_hangout_a_third_time_but/ | 1 | So about three weeks ago I (28F) met a guy (27M) off Bumble for a date. It went well and we ended up sleeping together that night, which is not normally my move but it happens. A week later we went out again and he spent the night. Between the first and second date he texted me continuously without a break in the conve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hasn’t asked me to hangout a third time but continues to texts me | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d9u3s1/hasnt_asked_me_to_hangout_a_third_time_but/ |
thunderchild10 | 2022-01-30 00:23:50 | 1,643,502,230 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | sfvz5n | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sfvz5n/just_why/ | 0 | I'm a 28 year old man who recently met this 31 year old woman on a dating app. She couldn't stop talking to me the first couple of days and then asked me for my WhatsApp. Now she takes like an hour to reply to one message and hardly bothers. Now, i know your thinking she's probably not interested, and that would be fin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just why? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sfvz5n/just_why/ |
camiga_aliners | 2024-03-18 04:17:15 | 1,710,735,435 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bhi2vd | true | null | 611 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1bhi2vd/women_who_have_healthy_relationships_with_your_so/ | 248 | When I look at my friends who look like they’re in happy and healthy relationships/marriages, most of them met in high school or college, only a couple met through friends after college and one from dating apps. Where did you meet your SO? | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Women who have healthy relationships with your SO, where did you meet them? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1bhi2vd/women_who_have_healthy_relationships_with_your_so/ |
Necessary_Trifle_684 | 2024-04-09 12:47:39 | 1,712,666,859 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1bzrbd0 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bzrbd0/getting_icked_out/ | 1 | met this guy on hinge and we went on a few dates when i came home from college for spring break. he was super nice and we vibed super well and have been talking ever since. he kinda took it and ran with it and we have been texting nonstop/calling. i was kinda in a trance bc it’s been a really long time since ive been i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | getting icked out | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bzrbd0/getting_icked_out/ |
updown09090 | 2024-05-01 04:30:48 | 1,714,537,848 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1chdbj5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1chdbj5/does_a_pause_the_end/ | 1 | Long story short, went on 10 or so great dates with a girl I met via OLD. Catch-ups started off as the standard drinks and nibbles, progressed to walks, a couple of dinners and hanging at her place on numerous occasions. Things felt good and natural. Anyhow, the final time we catch-up, we go out for drinks and then hea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does a “pause” = the end? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1chdbj5/does_a_pause_the_end/ |
The919Man | 2017-10-29 04:09:37 | 1,509,250,177 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 79elwb | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/79elwb/how_to_get_back_in_the_game/ | 0 | I (M20) just recently ended a 3 year relationship. I had gone a date with a coworker but it didn't go too well. I want to start dating but don't know where to begin. I work 40+ hours and week and don't go out much. How can I meet someone w/o having to go to online dating? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get back in the game | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/79elwb/how_to_get_back_in_the_game/ |
jillber84 | 2023-12-02 16:32:58 | 1,701,534,778 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 1897dnc | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1897dnc/guy_wants_to_bring_12_year_old_on_our_first/ | 67 | So, I’m supposed to go meet a man I met on Facebook dating. He has a 12 year old son who’s biological mother has abandoned them. I don’t have a problem with children but he keeps inviting me to his home and I won’t go because I haven’t met him in real life but he always has his kid, he’s also an engineer so it seems he... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy wants to bring 12 year old on our first meeting | 67 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1897dnc/guy_wants_to_bring_12_year_old_on_our_first/ |
GiveMeYourHearNSoul | 2017-09-10 20:12:21 | 1,505,074,341 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6zak8g | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/6zak8g/i_dont_know_what_to_do_m28/ | 2 | I'm getting back into the dating world after a few years. I've been using Tinder. Had a few girls that I set up dates with but was either stood up or canceled on. Until I met this girl, we will call her Megan. Megan lives about 40 miles from me. Right off the bat, just on Tinder I decided it was a bad idea and I should... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I don't know what to do (M28) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6zak8g/i_dont_know_what_to_do_m28/ |
Idongu | 2018-03-16 01:07:50 | 1,521,162,470 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 84roql | false | null | 123 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/84roql/does_anyone_else_really_enjoy_dating/ | 8 | I really enjoy dating and meeting new people. I've been online dating since 2002 and I've met probably more than 200 people in that time. Had a few multi-year relps, multi-dated a lot, etc. Obviously the majority of first dates don't work out but that's okay. Currently I'm dating a few different women. Nothing serious ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Does anyone else really enjoy dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/84roql/does_anyone_else_really_enjoy_dating/ |
PandemicPotluck | 2023-10-16 14:31:10 | 1,697,466,670 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1797c3s | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1797c3s/approaching_women/ | 1 | I (m30) have never been the type to approach women I don’t know in public to flirt or ask for their number or whatever. I’ve never had much interest in going on lots of dates, hooking up or dating around. Most of my dating experience has been long term relationships that developed organically, over time out of connecti... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Approaching women | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1797c3s/approaching_women/ |
Vemedetti | 2024-01-18 17:22:17 | 1,705,598,537 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 199vdb9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/199vdb9/if_i_stay_in_this_relationship_im_a_bad_person/ | 2 | This isn’t a post looking for sympathy but I messed up really bad So I met a girl a couple months ago, it was supposed to be just for a hook up, I went to her place and we did it on the same day, the girl caught feelings for me and I’ve always had problems saying no so I just went a long with it, as someone who’s never... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | If I stay in this relationship I’m a bad person but if I end this relationship I’m still a bad person | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/199vdb9/if_i_stay_in_this_relationship_im_a_bad_person/ |
precisoresposta | 2023-04-29 23:36:50 | 1,682,811,410 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 133a4ef | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/133a4ef/i_have_seen_only_fans_men_all_over_tinder_is_this/ | 0 | Just trying to understand what are the family values at this moment in society. Should I be scared of harrassment? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I have seen Only Fans men all over Tinder: is this the new concept of family value? | 0 | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/133a4ef/i_have_seen_only_fans_men_all_over_tinder_is_this/ |
Odd_Bumblebee_2521 | 2024-03-19 22:22:44 | 1,710,886,964 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1bix9ib | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bix9ib/he_assumed_i_was_insecure_f25_m25/ | 9 | F25. I have met a guy through tinder about a week ago. We were supposed to meet today. A first date. However, I am freelancer and I got a project yesterday with a tight deadline. Work has been difficult so I have to accept every opportunity. So I explained to him we couldn't meet because I had work priorities. And the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He assumed I was insecure [F25] [M25] | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bix9ib/he_assumed_i_was_insecure_f25_m25/ |
ihatebeingalive6969 | 2021-03-17 10:18:47 | 1,615,976,327 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | m6x8wv | true | null | 69 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m6x8wv/24m_ive_never_had_a_girlfriend_before_never_had_a/ | 32 | 24M never been in a relationship before nor have I ever had a girl tell me she liked me before. I have tried using tinder and bumble for the past 4 years but yet I've never gotten a match or even a like in that time. I really don't think that I'm unattractive so I have no idea why I haven't even gotten so much as a hoo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (24M) I've never had a girlfriend before, never had a girl tell me she liked me before and girls don't go out of their way to get to know me. Used tinder and bumble for 4 years and have never even gotten a match. What am I doing wrong? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m6x8wv/24m_ive_never_had_a_girlfriend_before_never_had_a/ |
sharkepoxy | 2022-04-28 20:15:41 | 1,651,176,941 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ue44ga | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ue44ga/when_to_stop_dating_seeing_a_man/ | 0 | I’m (20) going to keep this short, but the guy (25 soon) I’m currently dating and I agreed that we weren’t going to be serious. I’m assuming we’re friends with benefits. However, there are a lot of things I’ve learned about him over the 5 months I’ve known him that make me worry (and confirms that I’d never get serious... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When to stop dating (“seeing”) a man? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ue44ga/when_to_stop_dating_seeing_a_man/ |
SpirituallyNotes1551 | 2023-10-10 02:00:15 | 1,696,903,215 | 0 | null | 0 | 1749nwj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1749nwj/is_it_a_red_flag_for_him_to_ask_how_far_ive_been/ | 1 | Alright gonna keep this short and simple. This guy I’ve been messaging for about a week just asked how far I’ve been with someone before? Is this considered a red flag? Is this normal to be asked? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is it a red flag for him to ask how far I’ve been? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1749nwj/is_it_a_red_flag_for_him_to_ask_how_far_ive_been/ |
Apprehensive-Bad1927 | 2024-01-11 21:51:35 | 1,705,009,895 | 0 | null | 0 | 194dl7w | true | null | 110 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/194dl7w/women_really_not_interested_in_casual_sex/ | 1 | I am 6'3, extremely good shape, I'm told facially cute. I get \10 matches a day and I've been on about 150 dates in the past two years, had sex with 24 women out of that. However if I'm being honest I am mostly interested in casual stuff - not pure hookups but still. My profile either says "short term open to long" or ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Women really not interested in casual sex? | 1 | 0.39 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/194dl7w/women_really_not_interested_in_casual_sex/ |
Elegant-Egg3456 | 2024-09-07 06:37:12 | 1,725,691,032 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fb0ror | true | null | 72 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fb0ror/how_can_i_make_myself_approachable_to_a_guy_that/ | 23 | I (33f) only seem to be approached/ asked out by men who are 20-25. I would like to settle down soon and they are not in that stage of their life. I will readily tell them my age and what I'm looking for - at first some of them say they're on the same page and then later get scared of seriousness lol. So I would rather... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I make myself approachable to a guy that would like to settle down? | 23 | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fb0ror/how_can_i_make_myself_approachable_to_a_guy_that/ |
Which-Ordinary-9324 | 2022-03-10 11:53:57 | 1,646,913,237 | null | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | tax1l8 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tax1l8/am_i_overreacting_or_just_burned_out_from_old_he/ | 14 | So I matched this guy and I have a filled out verified profile with my name, age, several photos of me. This has happened before though not often, but this last guy just really irritated me. We matched, he sent a few messages. I asked him if he had any additional pictures because his profile only has one and it’s a sel... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I overreacting? Or just burned out from OLD? He asked my age. | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tax1l8/am_i_overreacting_or_just_burned_out_from_old_he/ |
scream2000s | 2022-02-04 21:11:10 | 1,644,009,070 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | skogbd | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/skogbd/i_feel_like_im_too_ugly_for_dating_apps/ | 0 | I’m 21 and though I’m not hideous and my body is decent, I’m not conventionally attractive. I haven’t had much male attention in around 10 months since breaking up with my ex. All my friends are on hinge and tinder and they all seem to match and go on dates with lots of different people. The only thing is they’re a lot... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel like I’m too ugly for dating apps | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/skogbd/i_feel_like_im_too_ugly_for_dating_apps/ |
jthefreshest | 2020-06-19 04:16:21 | 1,592,540,181 | null | null | 0 | hbtwhu | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hbtwhu/interesting_commonalities_of_most_profiles/ | 5 | So I've been using Hinge and Bumble and I find it more prevalent on hinge. But there's so many like cookie cutter profile like girls just say things because that what other "attractive" girls say, things like must love dogs, love to travel, and want an adventure. Idk just seems like it's every other profile and I find ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Interesting commonalities of most profiles | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hbtwhu/interesting_commonalities_of_most_profiles/ |
superctg | 2018-04-27 18:16:34 | 1,524,852,994 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 8fdt6z | false | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8fdt6z/old_connection/ | 1 | This is a very weird situation, I think. TL;DR- a guy I "dated" in elementary school I randomly bump into every some many years by chance, we're in our 20s now and I want to get to know him again, but not be weird. Growing up there was a boy that I liked a lot in first grade and we were best friends, we said we were da... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Old Connection | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8fdt6z/old_connection/ |
ZigZag123450 | 2021-03-12 03:12:50 | 1,615,518,770 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | m3899f | true | Venting | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m3899f/i_really_want_to_date_a_girl_who_is_open_to/ | 1 | I have heard that there are a lot of couples on dating apps looking for a 3rd and I envy those guys. It will probably never happen. I date so sporadically. My last relationship was 2 years ago and before that I was single for 3 years so the chances are slim. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I really want to date a girl who is open to having a threesome | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m3899f/i_really_want_to_date_a_girl_who_is_open_to/ |
Zhat19 | 2019-11-25 10:02:07 | 1,574,676,127 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | e1dyps | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e1dyps/i_m_23_planned_to_go_on_a_date_with_a_girl_24_i/ | 1 | After we matched I got her whatsapp and we texted for some days. Yesterday I ultimately asked her out for a date. We planned to go there this week and she told me it was a good idea, but when I made the proposal to meet on Wednesday or Thursday, she read but didnt reply. That was about 16 hours ago. 3 hours ago I coinc... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (M, 23) planned to go on a date with a Girl (24) I matched with on Tinder. Now she deleted her profile/our match but is still available on Whatsapp, which she gave me 1 week ago. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e1dyps/i_m_23_planned_to_go_on_a_date_with_a_girl_24_i/ |
KingslayerN7 | 2022-09-28 01:24:34 | 1,664,328,274 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | xpyrf4 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xpyrf4/i_met_a_girl_who_im_really_vibing_with_but_i_feel/ | 1 | I (24M) met a girl (20F) on a dating app and we’ve really hit it off, we’ve been on one date so far, we game together online sometimes, and we have similar interests. However, I feel like kind of a creep because of the age gap and the fact that she has way less relationship experience than me (she’s only had one previo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I met a girl who I’m really vibing with but I feel there would be a power dynamic if we actually dated | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xpyrf4/i_met_a_girl_who_im_really_vibing_with_but_i_feel/ |
NextChamp | 2018-07-07 06:02:54 | 1,530,943,374 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 8wr3qn | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8wr3qn/why_all_the_ghosting/ | 2 | So a few days ago I hit it off with this girl and got her number. I waited till today to contact her cause I didn’t want to rush or feel needy. But it’s been all day since my initial text and no response at all. This happens all the time to me and I don’t know why. Whether it be in person or online dating I just get no... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why All The Ghosting? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8wr3qn/why_all_the_ghosting/ |
Resident-Prize-6144 | 2024-02-06 06:42:39 | 1,707,201,759 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1ak3kiw | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ak3kiw/a_chance_to_rekindle/ | 1 | She (32F) matched with me (30m) last year on bumble. 3rd date went great, held hands, said she told her mom about me, checked all her boxes. Even mentioned that we are going in a nice pace. She commented saying I have a very beautiful soul. we tried to schedule our next date but couldn’t cos of work commitments. But a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A chance to rekindle? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ak3kiw/a_chance_to_rekindle/ |
shehanbope | 2021-09-10 19:17:41 | 1,631,301,461 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | plroi5 | true | Long Distance | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/plroi5/25m_3d_artist_looking_for_a_longdistance_female/ | 0 | Hi I am 3D artist and i'd really love to find someone online to have a long-distance relationship and someday maybe meet them of course and I love it if they love art too is it something I can do on reddit cause tinder doesn't support long-distance relationships I just want some to talk to get to know them and push eac... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 25m 3D artist looking for a long-distance Female partner is it possible to find someone on reddit? | null | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/plroi5/25m_3d_artist_looking_for_a_longdistance_female/ |
oblivious_idiot5 | 2020-04-10 05:14:38 | 1,586,495,678 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | fy91j2 | true | Venting | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fy91j2/is_everyone_in_on_the_joke_except_me/ | 0 | If you hate a pity party, look away now. Throwaway because I don't want anyone who knows me to know I'm this inept/dogshit. So, long story short, I've become dejected over the whole dating thing. Except that being dejected over dating implies that I actually have some sort of dating life. I get that getting dates is a ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is Everyone in on the Joke Except Me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fy91j2/is_everyone_in_on_the_joke_except_me/ |
IlluminationRock | 2017-09-12 02:20:53 | 1,505,182,853 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6zk4hm | false | null | 29 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6zk4hm/i_27m_made_an_ass_of_myself_on_our_5th_date/ | 10 | Last Wednesday I went to dinner with this girl (23/F) I've been seeing. So far, things have been good, we've been on several good dates, have had sex several times as well. We've even opened up to each other about some pretty personal details about our lives. The point is, things were going better than they usually do ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (27/M) made an ass of myself on our 5th date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6zk4hm/i_27m_made_an_ass_of_myself_on_our_5th_date/ |
mojindu464 | 2020-07-09 13:33:41 | 1,594,301,621 | null | null | 0 | ho356g | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ho356g/anything_better_than_tinder_i_hate_spending_money/ | 1 | Switching religion is nothing to me because love conquers all. Except I saw Rick and Morty and then realized water may prove better than love when the water wars come. Let's not get to that point ladies and gentlemen. Fight the machine, break the matrix, continue SWIPING | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Anything better than tinder? I hate spending money too so if its " free"( yea right) then name other apps. Anything for Asians, muslims, latinas , everyone etccc | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ho356g/anything_better_than_tinder_i_hate_spending_money/ |
[deleted] | 2021-10-18 18:02:21 | 1,634,580,141 | null | null | 0 | qas7c3 | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/qas7c3/looking_for_old_advice_pics_inside_am_i_ugly/ | 5 | How should my profile be tailored? Which apps should I be using, so far I have Tinder, Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel and OKC. I am not sure how my profile should be tailored, I also don't have many social pics. Also looking for opinions on if I should cut my hair to how it was short. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Looking for OLD advice, pics inside, am I ugly? Please help me build my profile. | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qas7c3/looking_for_old_advice_pics_inside_am_i_ugly/ |
Heavy_Pipe3150 | 2024-03-14 05:49:11 | 1,710,395,351 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1bee47f | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bee47f/am_i_more_attractive_than_i_think_i_am/ | 2 | I’ve had dudes that I know are straight say things like “why are you such a handsome guy?” And shit like that. Ive also been super liked by a dude once by accident on tinder but i rarely ever receive compliments from woman and rarely do i get matches on tinder. The only time I’ve received compliments from women were so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I more attractive than I think I am? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bee47f/am_i_more_attractive_than_i_think_i_am/ |
Sal272019 | 2020-12-31 00:15:08 | 1,609,373,708 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | knefvl | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/knefvl/this_girl_ive_been_seeing_for_a_while_never_texts/ | 1 | M25/F24 Hi, I've been dating this girl i met on Bumble. Our first 2 dates went great. After each date it's been me that's sent the "i had a great time we should hangout again text". The only time we text is when we make plans for our next date, which we did for this sat. In person the time we spent goes great. I'll go ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | This girl I've been seeing for a while never texts me first. I need advice. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/knefvl/this_girl_ive_been_seeing_for_a_while_never_texts/ |
spoda1975 | 2024-07-29 16:42:19 | 1,722,271,339 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ef48za | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ef48za/how_do_you_define_short_term_or_something_casual/ | 8 | FB dating has ‘something casual’ as an option, Tinder has ‘short term’ with two champagne glasses emoji. I kinda interpret that as open to the possibility of a FWB situationship, and just surprised to see people, especially women, select that. Any other interpretations of this? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How do you define ‘short term’ or ‘something casual?’ | 8 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ef48za/how_do_you_define_short_term_or_something_casual/ |
nevikprime | 2024-04-30 18:37:16 | 1,714,502,236 | 0 | ['dating site', 'dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1ch06db | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ch06db/giving_dating_sites_a_try_again/ | 1 | I’ve tried dating sites a few times like tinder, but every time I’ve tried these dating sites I just end up disappointed. Every time I’ve tried these sites I just end up someone unmatching me, bots or wanted to scam me. So I don’t know what I’m doing wrong here, so I’m trying one more time to see if I get lucky and mat... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Giving dating sites a try again | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ch06db/giving_dating_sites_a_try_again/ |
telltaleharte | 2019-06-30 17:31:38 | 1,561,915,898 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | c7h50o | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c7h50o/i_met_a_girl_i_liked_later_found_out_we_had/ | 8 | I met this girl at an event that I thought was pretty cute, didn't get her number though but was hoping to see her again. Today, as I was looking through my Tinder matches, I realized that I have ALREADY matched with her, but never messaged her. What's the move here? Message her on Tinder, or wait to try to see her aga... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I met a girl I liked, later found out we had already matched on Tinder | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c7h50o/i_met_a_girl_i_liked_later_found_out_we_had/ |
idkshrooms | 2024-04-30 02:44:21 | 1,714,445,061 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1cgi383 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1cgi383/what_should_be_done_in_this_situation/ | 1 | Kinda scared of even posting this here but I need honest opinion. I'm a lesbian who wants to experiment with men. Me and this dude from hinge are meeting up tmrw. But honestly the more I think about it the less I want to have penetration and give him head. Like what even else is there even to return the favour if he go... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What should be done in this situation? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1cgi383/what_should_be_done_in_this_situation/ |
xSimSimx | 2022-12-21 21:14:12 | 1,671,657,252 | null | null | 0 | zs13ls | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zs13ls/dating_sites_for_widows_and_widowers/ | 2 | Does anyone know any good ones? I have yet to find one that's like Match or Hinge. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dating sites for widows and widowers. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zs13ls/dating_sites_for_widows_and_widowers/ |
BB-18 | 2019-07-28 01:14:29 | 1,564,276,469 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | cippba | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cippba/texting_between_dates/ | 1 | Hey so I matched with this girl like a week ago and had a 1st date with her yesterday. Went well and she brought up the 2nd date and said she really wanted to see me. So do I. Thing is we met on my last day of uni and now i've gone back home for a month. I can see her probs once in august and thats it. Just wondering, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Texting between dates | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cippba/texting_between_dates/ |
Burner-5531 | 2023-10-27 12:48:37 | 1,698,410,917 | 0 | null | 0 | 17hmsvr | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17hmsvr/best_pick_up_one_liners/ | 1 | Women of online dating, what’s the best pick up line you’ve heard? (Please I have no idea what to say) | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Best pick up/ one liners? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17hmsvr/best_pick_up_one_liners/ |
lvlrx | 2024-03-24 10:37:26 | 1,711,276,646 | 0 | ['swipe', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1bmhsh3 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bmhsh3/31_yo_m_i_just_stopped_going_to_the_bars_clubs/ | 9 | From what I understood, these places just make me feel worse about myself. As an autistic person, I just get sensory overflow after a few minutes in and feel so overwhelmed that I cannot think clearly. Let alone approaching or flirting with someone that I meet there. Besides these places are also like dating apps. Peop... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 31 yo (m) I just stopped going to the bars, clubs, and uninstalled dating apps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bmhsh3/31_yo_m_i_just_stopped_going_to_the_bars_clubs/ |
FleetwoodMackin | 2019-08-02 01:50:57 | 1,564,710,657 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | ckxolu | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ckxolu/is_there_any_way_i_can_meet_a_girl_besides_online/ | 15 | I’m not really seeing another way at this point. I like online dating because if a girl matches (Tinder/Bumble) with me, I know that she at least is interested in me. But I just don’t like the texting back and forth, it just seems so impersonal. I want something genuine. Meanwhile, out in the real world, I see a girl I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is there any way I can meet a girl besides online dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ckxolu/is_there_any_way_i_can_meet_a_girl_besides_online/ |
lilbowlofsoup1738 | 2022-09-23 01:15:52 | 1,663,895,752 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | xljcgb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xljcgb/is_lack_of_snapstexting_a_bad_sign/ | 2 | I’m 21F and have a close friend 22F who I have been hanging out with and talking to for months. We matched on hinge originally but had already known each other and just started recently hanging out alone. Here’s where my issue is: when we hang out it seems like we’re super into each other. Like just last night she came... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is lack of snaps/texting a bad sign? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xljcgb/is_lack_of_snapstexting_a_bad_sign/ |
slughaspower | 2018-08-26 11:16:08 | 1,535,282,168 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9aetv0 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9aetv0/what_do_women_usually_look_for_in_a_first_date/ | 1 | So I’m a 21M and have been talking to this girl on tinder for a bit and we’ve agreed to meet up for lunch. This is my first ever date (I know, I’ve left it pretty late) and any general advice would be appreciated. I’m slightly introverted so any tips on opening up would be great as well. Thanks! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do women usually look for in a first date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9aetv0/what_do_women_usually_look_for_in_a_first_date/ |
caramelsweetroll | 2019-01-22 18:51:51 | 1,548,183,111 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | aiq1e7 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/aiq1e7/avoid_or_engage/ | 1 | I (F23) recently joined Bumble and matched with a guy I had a college class with some years ago. I had always thought he was cute (he was in a relationship back then) so I messaged him. After catching up on how we were the conversation quickly went as follows: https://imgur.com/a/D4YkzdR I'm not opposed to some hooking... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Avoid or Engage? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/aiq1e7/avoid_or_engage/ |
TheOutdoorsGuy | 2022-08-26 15:31:21 | 1,661,527,881 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wyc72p | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wyc72p/has_dating_culture_really_changed_in_recent_years/ | 0 | Many TikTok's are being made saying how dating has changed over the past few years. Some reoccurring ideas I see being posted: \- Try to care less in the talking phase. \- More ghosting after a date or 2 than in the 2010's \- People always looking for something better \- Situation-ships?:Without an explicit conversatio... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Has dating culture really changed in recent years? Happily in a relationship for 6 years I hear people and see TikTok users saying how different it has become. Has it actually changed in recent years? Or are we only hearing the side that has not seen success? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wyc72p/has_dating_culture_really_changed_in_recent_years/ |
Gratefulgaljade | 2021-08-04 03:02:39 | 1,628,046,159 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | oxjjit | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/oxjjit/double_the_fun_double_the_heartbreak/ | 12 | Well didn’t that come back to bite me on the proverbial? Thinking I could increase my chances of having a successful dating weekend by cramming in two dates. Turns out I liked both of them a lot Despite initial signs of interest, particularly from one, both have now ghosted me and I feel doubly crap Why do ppl have to ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Double the fun - double the heartbreak | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/oxjjit/double_the_fun_double_the_heartbreak/ |
djoko_25 | 2024-01-21 16:57:38 | 1,705,856,258 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 19c7toz | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19c7toz/how_can_i_bring_up_exclusivity_andor_deleting/ | 1 | We matched on bumble exactly one month ago and texted for 3 weeks before meeting up, that was last week. Yesterday we had our second date which we spent on the beach and then at my place to have lunch and watch a show. I still want to have more dates before going official but I feel like there is a middle ground where ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I bring up exclusivity and/or deleting online dating apps with my (25M) date (23F)? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19c7toz/how_can_i_bring_up_exclusivity_andor_deleting/ |
1throw4 | 2021-05-10 07:51:01 | 1,620,633,061 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | n8yxfs | true | Venting | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/n8yxfs/online_dating_site_is_not_a_job_application_site/ | 0 | IDK where this post is headed but I just want to vent. My previous experience of online dating seemed shit. The site I used is so popular and I had over 5k men show interest/ hold conversations with me/ ask me out. Obviously based on my picture and personality it's probably what attracted them and made them stay. Out o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online Dating site is not a job application site FFS! | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/n8yxfs/online_dating_site_is_not_a_job_application_site/ |
MovingOn1994 | 2021-06-08 22:18:55 | 1,623,190,735 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'dating apps'] | 0 | nvg8ii | true | null | 248 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nvg8ii/why_are_they_all_into_hiking/ | 250 | I don't like hiking. I don't like camping, or climbing, or sleeping in tents. My ex was into it and him constantly dragging me on trips I didn't actually want to go on really negatively affected the relationship, and he made no real effort to get invested in what I liked. I finally feel more ready to try serious dating... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why. are. they. ALL. into HIKING? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nvg8ii/why_are_they_all_into_hiking/ |
That0neK1d | 2015-10-22 10:19:37 | 1,445,509,177 | 0 | ['pof', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 3pr8aw | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3pr8aw/the_rules_of_dating_fat_bitches/ | 0 | We've all been there, seen a big girl with a nice face but below that is something much more... much much much much much much much muuuuuuch more. And for those who have tread the deep waters to try and date one, then have mercy on your soul for such bravery. I am one of those and I have lived to tell the tale and I am... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The rules of dating Fat Bitches | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3pr8aw/the_rules_of_dating_fat_bitches/ |
Only_Edge_75 | 2022-08-08 15:59:58 | 1,659,974,398 | null | null | 0 | wjchqa | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/wjchqa/how_to_find_out_if_someone_has_a_tinder_profile/ | 54 | Was wondering if there are any tips on how can I find out someone's Tinder profile. EDIT: not having a Tinder account is your case. That shouldn’t be much of a problem since you can find people on Tinder without signing up, or without joining Tinder. Ask your partner straightforwardly. Find out through a friend – it’s ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | how to find out if someone has a Tinder profile? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/wjchqa/how_to_find_out_if_someone_has_a_tinder_profile/ |
[deleted] | 2021-12-20 17:46:52 | 1,640,022,412 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | rksugx | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rksugx/where_do_i_begin/ | 0 | Umm, hi, this is my first post on here, so please excuse my stupidity or lack of knowledge on this sub. Anyways, I’m a 24 year old man, and I’m thinking of getting into dating and was thinking of getting either tinder or one of the popular dating apps. However, there’s two things stopping me. 1, the lack of photos of m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where do i begin? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rksugx/where_do_i_begin/ |
Raggedyanne9 | 2024-04-30 20:00:32 | 1,714,507,232 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ch26zx | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ch26zx/how_to_find_partner_as_introvert/ | 1 | I don't know which dating apps to try, have no friends to help, and basically work or put time into my hobbies. But I also feel like I want to explore a relationship with someone. There is no one at my work or that I see on a regular basis that i like. Is there a way I can find someone in my 30's ? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to find partner as introvert ? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ch26zx/how_to_find_partner_as_introvert/ |
zahhakk | 2013-08-24 01:31:07 | 1,377,307,867 | 0 | ['dating site', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 1kza7w | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1kza7w/20f_need_advice_on_expressing_availability/ | 2 | I'm a 20 year old girl who is religious in many respects and wears a hijab. But I'm also a 20 year old girl who wants to experiment in relationships and wants to date. Unfortunately I think most people don't really realize I am open to that (or maybe they just find me unattractive, I don't know). I wonder if anyone has... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 20f, need advice on expressing availability | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1kza7w/20f_need_advice_on_expressing_availability/ |
iamOTHER3 | 2023-02-08 18:07:07 | 1,675,879,627 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 10x69ft | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10x69ft/m22_f20_in_a_ldr_advice_needed_please/ | 1 | My gf (20) and I (22) have been going out for just over a month. We are currently in an ldr but she is going to move to my city soon. Recently we’ve had a few issues. She found that I had liked a girl’s pic on instagram from around the time we became official. The pic was a bikini pic of a girl whom I had been in conta... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | M22 F20 in a LDR. Advice needed please | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10x69ft/m22_f20_in_a_ldr_advice_needed_please/ |
moody_economist22 | 2022-12-29 08:48:18 | 1,672,303,698 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | zy0hrj | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zy0hrj/trying_to_build_a_profile_on_dating_apps_need/ | 2 | I (M21) haven't dated anyone yet, always been turned down, to summarise I don't have much luck with girls. I tried dating apps but never got a like, let alone a match. I know I am average so I don't know where I am lacking, maybe I am building a bad profile. So I need help from a woman so that she can help me make a go... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Trying to build a profile on dating apps. Need help from a woman | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zy0hrj/trying_to_build_a_profile_on_dating_apps_need/ |
DishAny1535 | 2024-07-09 01:44:14 | 1,720,489,454 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1dyqewj | true | Question ❓ | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dyqewj/what_should_i_msg_a_guy_who_suddenly_stops/ | 1 | I went on 3 dates with a guy they all went so great. He iniated most of them and I liked him a lot. He seemed sweet and a nice guy and interested in me. We didn’t have sex but did kiss on the second date. I met him on our Third date and it went so good. He even texted me after saying he likes spending time with me. Mad... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What should I msg a guy who suddenly stops texting me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dyqewj/what_should_i_msg_a_guy_who_suddenly_stops/ |
Plastic_Dimension659 | 2023-10-16 13:44:15 | 1,697,463,855 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1796auy | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1796auy/a_girlf23_im_seeing_is_going_to_the_same_eventbig/ | 1 | Matched with her on Hinge, went out for coffee for 2.5 hours, met again for mini golf and drinks and hung out all the evening, on our last date we went swimming and spent the day at her place. In just under two weeks we've seen each other 3 times, and kissed quickly on the last meet. We're still chatting throughout the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A girl(F23) I'm seeing is going to the same event/big party as me (M25), should I pursue her there, or will I be clingy? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1796auy/a_girlf23_im_seeing_is_going_to_the_same_eventbig/ |
Serious-Ad2330 | 2023-07-26 01:53:38 | 1,690,336,418 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 159s7ou | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/159s7ou/i_caught_feelings_for_my_best_friend_and_i_dont/ | 2 | I’m 22 (F) and he is 23 (M). We’ve been friends for 3 years now. Recently I realized that when I am looking for guys to date I’m just searching for qualities (humor/ personality) like his. Because it matches so well with mine. My friends, even my mom can see that I admire him. They keep teasing me about it and I tell t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I caught feelings for my best friend and I don’t know how to get over it | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/159s7ou/i_caught_feelings_for_my_best_friend_and_i_dont/ |
ImpressionPristine46 | 2024-06-05 22:17:50 | 1,717,625,870 | 0 | null | 0 | 1d92kcr | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1d92kcr/best_oral_spray_for_a_date/ | 2 | Guy here. What's a good mouth spray to use before a date? I've heard good things about SmartMouth but it's only available in the States I believe. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Best oral spray for a date? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1d92kcr/best_oral_spray_for_a_date/ |
[deleted] | 2020-03-29 22:20:07 | 1,585,520,407 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | frekjk | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/frekjk/is_it_worth_texting_back/ | 4 | I met this girl on a dating app. We chatted for a month straight before we decided to go on a first date. We went out for coffee and just chatted for a couple hours. To me, i felt like the date went pretty well. Afterwards, we mutually agreed to a second date. That following week, our conversations have been very light... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it worth texting back? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/frekjk/is_it_worth_texting_back/ |
East_Jacket_7151 | 2024-02-20 03:14:31 | 1,708,398,871 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1av7cvy | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1av7cvy/i_think_i_need_to_just_stop/ | 1 | Here is my situation. I’m a 47 year old man with hair loss. I have three kids and live next door to my ex so the kids are close. I’m in a backwards bs town in Southeast Missouri and I’m liberal. I have tried all the dating sites. If I get a match I get left on read or unmatched. I’m not unattractive, play guitar and si... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think I need to just stop | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1av7cvy/i_think_i_need_to_just_stop/ |
TurtleGirl_88 | 2017-08-30 21:22:26 | 1,504,128,146 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6x2cll | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6x2cll/i_am_21f_dating_an_older_dude_36m/ | 4 | Long story short (ish), I met a man on Tinder about a week ago. We text every day, and have talked twice on the phone. He is super sweet, very romantic, charming and funny. I love how easily our conversations flow. We have our first date scheduled for next Thursday (dinner and drinks). I am not bad at dates, but this i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am 21F, dating an older dude (36M) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6x2cll/i_am_21f_dating_an_older_dude_36m/ |
kaytee0707 | 2020-04-18 17:35:26 | 1,587,231,326 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | g3rgdi | true | null | 101 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/g3rgdi/friend_told_me_not_to_fall_in_love_during_this/ | 429 | General thought for all.... I am 5+ months into my relationship (I’m 31F and he is 32M) and things are amazing. The first 2 months were a bit rocky on both our ends because of my own issues that I’ve been working through for years involving a previous relationship where I was very mentally abused and manipulated (I’ve ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Friend told me not to fall in love during this time because everyone is bored. Do you think this is true? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/g3rgdi/friend_told_me_not_to_fall_in_love_during_this/ |
Several-Income5740 | 2024-05-08 09:23:33 | 1,715,160,213 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1cn0b6h | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cn0b6h/dating_app_interesting_no_thanks/ | 1 | So I think the best part to start is day I am no oblivious to dating apps Not being the greatest place for connections and you should set your expectation bar pretty low . With that being said From my brief time on one social media platform (FB) that has a “dating” function I’ve experienced a few things in a short amou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app … Interesting , No thanks | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cn0b6h/dating_app_interesting_no_thanks/ |
Wildjay7931 | 2023-02-10 08:39:35 | 1,676,018,375 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 10yl22r | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10yl22r/is_is_okay_to_start_a_new_conversation_with/ | 1 | So I (26m) have been on a couple dating apps lately. Been a few years since I dated and always seemed to lack knowledge of social interactions. I live in a place where people in my age range seem far and few, and it's usually been easier to meet girls online for me anyway. But again, it's been a while. Anyway, I starte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is is okay to start a new conversation with someone on a dating app? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10yl22r/is_is_okay_to_start_a_new_conversation_with/ |
goodfengshui | 2019-03-24 21:02:10 | 1,553,461,330 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | b51i3e | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/b51i3e/feeling_like_i_knew_it_was_better_to_flake_and/ | 1 | So, a little surprised I'm making a post, but it's on my mind and this is what I guess I was afraid of. I first went online a few months ago, a bit after the separation from my failing marriage and a long time after losing hoping I could have a real connection with someone. So, getting back to dating went well and didn... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feeling like I knew it was better to flake and have him give up on me | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b51i3e/feeling_like_i_knew_it_was_better_to_flake_and/ |
vitogeek | 2019-05-07 22:47:27 | 1,557,269,247 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | blxff6 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/blxff6/things_you_hate_and_love_about_online_dating/ | 8 | I hate how superficial all dating apps are and but I love looking at the kind of "people" are out there. What are some of the things you guys hate about online dating and love? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Things you hate and love about online dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/blxff6/things_you_hate_and_love_about_online_dating/ |
Dipsi1010 | 2022-01-29 21:09:13 | 1,643,490,553 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | sfrrz7 | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sfrrz7/how_do_guys_actually_get_girls/ | 4 | Im stunned on how some guys get girls so easily, it has never been easy for me since middle school to now. And its crazy to me thats its so easy for some. Im 19, and im pretty average but have been told my looks are above average (im not sure about that). But other than that im just a normal guy with very few female fr... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do guys actually get girls? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sfrrz7/how_do_guys_actually_get_girls/ |
jcaesar93 | 2016-07-13 22:21:35 | 1,468,448,495 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 4spukj | null | Question | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/4spukj/when_asked_on_a_date_about_past/ | 2 | So I'm 22M and never had a relationsship lasting longer then a few weeks, which was parly my fault as I never really felt ready to bound and sometimes also on agreement as in a short summer affair. But my question would be, when on a date what would the best answer be when I'm asked about past relationsships? Given my ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When asked on a date about past relationsships-what is the best way to answer if you had none that were lasting? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4spukj/when_asked_on_a_date_about_past/ |
armstadt_94 | 2019-05-13 17:51:45 | 1,557,769,905 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | bo6qyh | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bo6qyh/dating_at_home/ | 1 | 8 months ago i,(M24), (White, average build, reformed country boy) was in a horrendous car accident. All four limbs(I walk with a cane now), four ribs, TBI, and two cranial fractures later, i live with my parents in a very small country town in OK with an eye-patch or taped glasses. I was engaged and living with her in... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating At Home | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bo6qyh/dating_at_home/ |
TrappedKraken | 2023-04-25 18:53:51 | 1,682,448,831 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 12yscix | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12yscix/am_i_m_always_expected_to_carry_the_old_chat_or/ | 6 | I just quit alcohol so I started using online dating apps as I don't meet that many people through real life now. What I see after chatting with few of my messages is that I need to carry and have very open ended conversation so they reply, but they don't really ask about me. Is it normal or am I doing something bad? M... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I (M) always expected to carry the OLD chat or is it just my conversations too dry? | 6 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12yscix/am_i_m_always_expected_to_carry_the_old_chat_or/ |
gotemwithyapunez | 2021-03-24 03:12:50 | 1,616,555,570 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | mbw5sp | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mbw5sp/23_never_had_a_gf/ | 1 | I’ve only ever kissed one women and held her hand I’ve only had sex with escorts sad really dating apps don’t work neither does cold approaching it sucks! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 23 never had a gf | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mbw5sp/23_never_had_a_gf/ |
One_Yogurtcloset3455 | 2023-11-30 00:00:25 | 1,701,302,425 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18744ko | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18744ko/how_do_you_get_into_a_relationship/ | 1 | As the title says, I have no clue how to get into a relationship. I never was in one, not even close. For the most part by choice, but that doesn't change the fact that I now have no clue about it. 1. Where do you find people to date? I haven't really ever been attracted to another person to the point where I even want... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you get into a relationship? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18744ko/how_do_you_get_into_a_relationship/ |
Shramin12 | 2019-05-20 20:34:42 | 1,558,384,482 | null | ['match.com'] | 0 | br0xv3 | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/br0xv3/dont_know_what_i_should_do/ | 3 | I am 31(F) he is 29(M). Don't laugh at me but we haven't met yet. I don't know how but we got connected on for some reason. Don't know how that happened but he lives in a different state/city which is Connecticut and I live in the West Coast. We've been talking since December of 2018 and still haven't met. I understan... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Don't know what I should do | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/br0xv3/dont_know_what_i_should_do/ |
beepboom2 | 2023-01-02 11:10:43 | 1,672,657,843 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 101a4kg | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/101a4kg/photos_for_dating_apps/ | 4 | I recently learned how important photos are in dating apps so I'm wondering what are some good places or activities that would be the best to show in photos. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Photos for dating apps | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/101a4kg/photos_for_dating_apps/ |
el_johnjohn | 2023-08-18 17:25:03 | 1,692,379,503 | 0 | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | 15uqoyu | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15uqoyu/am_i_being_rejected/ | 1 | Hi all, I’m dipping my toes into OLD for the first time ever, after recently ending a decade long relationship. I am a bit rusty so I’m wondering what’s going on. I matched with this girl a month ago and we seemed to click right off the bat. I got her number and a date on the very afternoon we matched. We’ve only met o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being rejected? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15uqoyu/am_i_being_rejected/ |
Appropriate_Tea9048 | 2022-12-25 00:43:49 | 1,671,929,029 | null | null | 0 | zumwlm | true | null | 47 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zumwlm/whats_the_logic_behind_dont_know_yet_or_still/ | 13 | Are these people who are fresh out of a relationship? Too busy to commit to someone? I swipe left on these profiles now. What’s the point of being on the apps if you don’t even know if you want something casual or a serious relationship? Is it just boredom? Anyone else feel this way? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What’s the logic behind “don’t know yet” or “still figuring out my relationship goals” in the “looking for”? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zumwlm/whats_the_logic_behind_dont_know_yet_or_still/ |
LaprasTransform35 | 2023-09-22 09:23:09 | 1,695,374,589 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16p5mqr | true | null | 34 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/16p5mqr/if_you_had_the_power_to_change_a_single_aspect_of/ | 1 | For me, I would use my superpower to remove anybody who uses them for validation or farming for ig followers and make it so they are unable to create another account. If anything, I would try to remove the monetization aspect of dating apps, but that just sounds like fantasy. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | If you had the power to change a single aspect of dating apps (nothing too outlandish), what would it be? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/16p5mqr/if_you_had_the_power_to_change_a_single_aspect_of/ |
pancake-illusions36 | 2023-09-10 02:08:22 | 1,694,311,702 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 16enwj9 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16enwj9/are_my_standards_too_high_only_been_on_one_date/ | 1 | I (26M) have never been in a relationship let alone held a girl’s hand and getting a date for the past year and a half has been a struggle to say the least. Non physical traits: -Ambition -confidence -Compassion -Introspection -Someone that can roast me and call me out on my shit. - Being smart (this doesn’t mean they ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are my standards too high? (Only been on one date ever) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16enwj9/are_my_standards_too_high_only_been_on_one_date/ |
lolbrd | 2013-01-02 01:17:26 | 1,357,089,446 | 0 | ['pof'] | 0 | 15ss1o | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/15ss1o/where_to_locate_gamer_females_besides_conventions/ | 1 | This may not be the right section of reddit. Please forgive a noob. Anyway, I recently moved to a decent sized city and I am attempting to locate a female for romantic interests. I looked at POF and cupid for my area and there's not much to be had that I am interested in or would be interested in me. I am in the southe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where to locate gamer females besides conventions? I am 28m | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15ss1o/where_to_locate_gamer_females_besides_conventions/ |
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