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RedFoxRunner | 2024-01-19 22:04:19 | 1,705,701,859 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 19av5bh | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19av5bh/ex_wants_to_have_a_talk_tomorrow_after_we_kissed/ | 1 | I met this girl December of last year. We never had "the talk" but we only saw each other. She never sat me down and asked to be official but we spent every weekend together. July 4th we hung out and had a good time. A few days later she ends things and says we aren't on the same page emotionally and want different thi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ex wants to have a talk tomorrow after we kissed and cuddled the other day. She has left me 3 times. What do I say? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19av5bh/ex_wants_to_have_a_talk_tomorrow_after_we_kissed/ |
sidcastle | 2018-11-07 05:52:09 | 1,541,569,929 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9uwrr2 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9uwrr2/im_feeling_bold_should_i_ask/ | 1 | I recently matched with a guy, had very little text conversation before he asked me out for drinks. I met him, the conversation was good and light, we went to his place and hooked up. After we hooked up the conversation was waaay more easy and fun. He asked me if I was going to spend the night or not and I immediately ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m feeling bold. Should I ask? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9uwrr2/im_feeling_bold_should_i_ask/ |
CurlyNerdyBry94 | 2023-02-20 12:35:25 | 1,676,896,525 | null | null | 0 | 1175kel | true | null | 92 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1175kel/dude_thinks_its_a_cultural_thing_for_guys_to_pay/ | 0 | Went on a bumble date yesterday. We went to a local museum which was super fun cuz I’ve never been to a museum date before. Anyways, when eating and waiting for the check, I went ahead and grabbed for my wallet and he was like “I got it, it’s a cultural thing anyways that guys have to pay for the first date.” I did try... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dude Thinks It’s A Cultural Thing For Guys To Pay On First Date | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1175kel/dude_thinks_its_a_cultural_thing_for_guys_to_pay/ |
HistoricalClient9645 | 2020-11-23 20:15:45 | 1,606,162,545 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | jzphrl | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jzphrl/i_27m_was_dating_a_girl_26f_for_2_months_it_ended/ | 1 | At the start of August I met a girl on tinder and we immediately hit it off. We were dating and speaking pretty solidly for two months, and I really thought it was going somewhere. For the first time in ages I was genuinely happy. We got to the two month mark and I asked how she'd feel about being exclusive. She said t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [27m] was dating a girl [26f] for 2 months, it ended amicably but I still can't stop thinking about her. What's wrong with me? How do I move on? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jzphrl/i_27m_was_dating_a_girl_26f_for_2_months_it_ended/ |
jessaquarius | 2021-02-08 17:35:10 | 1,612,805,710 | null | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | lfh01q | true | null | 57 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/lfh01q/how_long_does_it_take_to_fall_in_love/ | 4 | I (F42) need some help thinking clearly about something. A man (M41) I’ve been dating for about 3 months just broke up with me last weekend because “I’m not madly in love with him.” We met on OLD toward the end of Oct. We met in person the same night that we matched, but since he was just in my city for that one night ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How long does it take to fall in love? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/lfh01q/how_long_does_it_take_to_fall_in_love/ |
[deleted] | 2023-01-08 03:28:56 | 1,673,148,536 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1068h3d | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1068h3d/single_parent_dating_in_rural_community/ | 1 | I’m a solo dad to two kids ages 8 and 6. I got custody of them a few years ago. I used to travel for work but my custody situation required that I find stable work. The only solid job offer I had took me many states away. My family lives around 739 miles away and the kids mom lives in another state 635 miles away. I wa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Single parent dating in rural community. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1068h3d/single_parent_dating_in_rural_community/ |
GraceyCity | 2020-04-04 14:39:10 | 1,586,011,150 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | fuur7k | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fuur7k/quarantine_dating_advice_pls/ | 1 | I (25F) matched with a guy (35M) on a dating app. I only go on dating apps on a whim with low expectations. We vidchat about once a week since he works from home and I work in a hospital so we're kept busy throughout the week/weekends. He's really nice and likes me a lot. He's very wholesome and we've been talking for ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Quarantine dating advice pls? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fuur7k/quarantine_dating_advice_pls/ |
Throwaway449922 | 2022-08-01 03:41:10 | 1,659,325,270 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | wd7bc0 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wd7bc0/matched_with_a_girl_from_the_gym_should_i_act/ | 1 | I go to the gym 3-5 days a week. I've seen this girl at the gym a few times but not a regular occurrence. Per proper gym etiquette I've never said anything to her and haven't really made eye contact or anything either. She's pretty cute and probably out of my league but we matched on Hinge. Should I just treat her like... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matched with a girl from the gym. Should I act like I don't know? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wd7bc0/matched_with_a_girl_from_the_gym_should_i_act/ |
PaleBlueDot9 | 2019-04-29 16:20:31 | 1,556,554,831 | null | null | 0 | bire52 | true | null | 50 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/bire52/why_does_it_seem_most_women_nowadays_insist_on/ | 12 | I seriously think that a lot of women nowadays like to get a feel and judge a guy on “ texting chemistry”. It’s extremely rare finding women that want to talk on the phone, they all want to text instead. I think a lot of women want to see how flirty, witty, and just the overall vibe that they get texting a guy back-and... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why does it seem most women nowadays insist on relying on texting to get to know a guy? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/bire52/why_does_it_seem_most_women_nowadays_insist_on/ |
Mr_Dixon1991 | 2024-03-05 03:31:39 | 1,709,609,499 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1b6v924 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b6v924/intentions/ | 1 | So, I’m back on dating apps again, and I noticed something… people have profiles where they do not disclose their intentions. How come? I’m not saying this to make sound like a bad thing. I’m just curious. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Intentions | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b6v924/intentions/ |
Practical-Finding494 | 2023-09-17 17:14:14 | 1,694,970,854 | 0 | ['dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 16l6bki | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16l6bki/am_i_crazy_or_do_i_just_have_no_self_respect/ | 1 | I (27f) just cut off the guy (33m) who was stringing me along for about a year. I moved up the coast roughly a year ago - I met 33m on a dating site. He was insistent in meeting me "even for a hug". Eventually I gave in and met him in person. He was very hot and cold. We met up again a 2nd time. He would tell me he had... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I crazy? Or do I just have NO self respect? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16l6bki/am_i_crazy_or_do_i_just_have_no_self_respect/ |
hbouhl | 2022-03-27 03:37:57 | 1,648,352,277 | null | null | 0 | tpbnr3 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/tpbnr3/honest_trustworthy/ | 3 | So are dogs IMO, I don't like this opener on men's profiles Ask me how fast I can cross you off of the list when you have a shirtless profile! | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Honest and Trustworthy | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/tpbnr3/honest_trustworthy/ |
steves1069 | 2021-12-08 21:39:21 | 1,638,999,561 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | rc1oko | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rc1oko/ladies_of_reddit_where_is_it_okay_to_get_given_a/ | 0 | We all know dating apps make money off of you not finding anything but feeling like something could pan out. I have yet to land a single date on any app however; I got one by chatting with a nice women on Snapchat. It's obvious that snapping girls is creepy, sliding into DMS on Instagram is for hot fuck Bois, anyone in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ladies of reddit where is it okay to get given a strangers number? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rc1oko/ladies_of_reddit_where_is_it_okay_to_get_given_a/ |
GacinaK | 2022-05-16 20:58:50 | 1,652,734,730 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ur5wp2 | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ur5wp2/i_need_advice_on_how_to_ask_a_girl_out_in_a_weird/ | 1 | INTRODUCTION: I'm \[19M\] and I'm kind of in a weird situation. There is this girl I wanna ask out, but our "relationship" is unusual, to say the least. So, we used to go to the same high school before I transferred to a different school at the beginning of year 3 (we are both about to finish our 4th and last year of h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I need advice on how to ask a girl out in a weird situation. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ur5wp2/i_need_advice_on_how_to_ask_a_girl_out_in_a_weird/ |
AzCarMom72 | 2023-12-24 16:01:19 | 1,703,433,679 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 18pxxtq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18pxxtq/have_you_dated_anyone_that_has_an_annoying_quirk/ | 1 | I met this guy through an online dating ad..i am a little older...he is 8 years younger. 50/42. There is a mutual attraction. He is overall a nice guy. He really likes me and I feel like he is moving a bit fast and now I am starting to get cold feet a little. He has a 9 yr old son..good loving dad...high conflict relat... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Have you dated anyone that has an annoying quirk? How do you get past it? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18pxxtq/have_you_dated_anyone_that_has_an_annoying_quirk/ |
cheesy_and_tasty | 2023-04-25 19:52:35 | 1,682,452,355 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 12ytzec | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12ytzec/theyre_not_ready_to_progress_relationship_and/ | 1 | I was recently dumped by someone after a short while of dating (less than 4 months). They were not ready to continue because of unresolved trauma from a few years ago, and they offered to be friends instead. I said yes because we had still clicked and had a lot in common. But soon afterwards I noticed they had updated ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | They're not ready to progress relationship and ended it. But they're still on dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12ytzec/theyre_not_ready_to_progress_relationship_and/ |
VonStronheim | 2020-01-05 16:47:43 | 1,578,242,863 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ekff9u | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ekff9u/having_a_hard_time_recovering_from_my_breakup/ | 2 | Firstly, i’d like to say I’m new to Reddit so I apologize for any errors I may make. My (21m) ex (20f) and I broke up a few months ago, we were together for five years and met in highschool. We were each-other’s first serious relationship, and had a lot of “first time” experiences together, with sex, travel, growing, e... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Having a hard time recovering from my breakup (long post) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ekff9u/having_a_hard_time_recovering_from_my_breakup/ |
Maximum_Salamander35 | 2023-01-01 04:36:29 | 1,672,547,789 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 100bxj3 | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/100bxj3/is_it_a_red_flag_if_i_dont_have_instagram/ | 8 | As the title says, I'm M29, and I don't have an instagram account. Do women view this as a red flag? I used to have one, but then deactivated it as I hardly had any followers and barely used it (I felt that was a red flag in itself). I want to try OLD but I'm concerned that women will think I'm some crazy person who is... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it a red flag if I don't have instagram? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/100bxj3/is_it_a_red_flag_if_i_dont_have_instagram/ |
AlisaLolita | 2021-01-27 20:02:00 | 1,611,777,720 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | l6d0dp | true | null | 130 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/l6d0dp/i_wish_talking_about_sex_not_sexting_would_not/ | 189 | I'm pretty upfront about two things in my profiles on OLD. The first is that I want kids, and the second is that I'm looking for someone who also shares my interest in a particular sex lifestyle. (it's not anything crazy) Now, maybe I'm just too analytical for my own good, but 'adventurous sex life' listed in my profil... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I wish talking about sex (not sexting) would not lead to attempts at sexting. | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/l6d0dp/i_wish_talking_about_sex_not_sexting_would_not/ |
Stratocaster57 | 2019-12-14 05:41:59 | 1,576,302,119 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | eafxc5 | true | Question | 22 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/eafxc5/how_much_would_having_this_physique_help_a_man_on/ | 0 | This is probably the maximum natural physique a short Asian/Indian man with small bones can reach (see comment below for pic link). I am working my ass off on my physique and I am starting to get my abs showing nicely. I'll have to go through at least one or two more bulk/cut cycle to get close to matching this. Do you... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How much would having this physique help a man on Tinder/Bumble or other apps? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eafxc5/how_much_would_having_this_physique_help_a_man_on/ |
enderparadise | 2020-05-29 16:14:22 | 1,590,768,862 | null | null | 0 | gsvvf7 | true | null | 64 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/gsvvf7/if_youre_accused_of_having_too_high_of_standards/ | 26 | How does one be attracted to people they aren’t attracted to? So for instance on bumble, I always seem to swipe around my matches, I’ll have ten possible but after swiping, none. So I was told my standards are too high, which...I mean how do you fix that. Physical attraction is absolutely essential to a healthy relatio... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If you’re accused of having too high of standards... | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gsvvf7/if_youre_accused_of_having_too_high_of_standards/ |
Sofluffy27 | 2022-08-23 19:32:33 | 1,661,283,153 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | wvxs1l | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wvxs1l/suggestions_for_best_dating_apps_to_pay_for/ | 0 | Hi there, I’m tired of waiting around for someone on the apps and I’m thinking about paying for premium for one of the following: Okcupid Tinder Hinge I’m open to others as well but if anyone has suggestions please let me know… if there are other sites or places better to look I’d love to know too. Thanks | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Suggestions for best dating apps to pay for | null | 0.45 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wvxs1l/suggestions_for_best_dating_apps_to_pay_for/ |
Azzy2019 | 2021-02-03 18:14:26 | 1,612,376,066 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | lbu17k | true | Venting | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lbu17k/dating_frustrations/ | 0 | Why match with someone on tinder bumble fb dating etc and not respond back when someone is making the effort to talk to you. Or adding that person on SNAP and they leave you on read when you introduce yourself. I’m not even looking for a relationship at this point I just want to make new friends and see how things go b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating frustrations | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lbu17k/dating_frustrations/ |
Emma_Rose99 | 2023-07-10 20:21:28 | 1,689,020,488 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 14w54cc | false | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14w54cc/help_why_would_a_guy_do_that/ | 1 | I met a guy about 2 weeks ago on tinder & we have beer talking a lot every day since. On his tinder account he had linked his instagram account- and I had done some usual pre chatting stalking and found his actual insta (don’t judge me ahaha) 😂 Well fast forward to today & he shows me a photo he recently uploaded & I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | HELP- why would a guy do that?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14w54cc/help_why_would_a_guy_do_that/ |
[deleted] | 2020-07-29 16:46:43 | 1,596,041,203 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | i03xtq | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i03xtq/swiping_right_on_matches_that_have_fizzled_out/ | 1 | So on dating apps... do people have the tendency to swipe right on matches that have fizzled out before? I personally don’t. I feel as if the chemistry faded once then it’ll fade again. But I’ve had multiple guys reswipe on me even after things have ended. Is this a common occurrence? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Swiping right on matches that have fizzled out before... | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i03xtq/swiping_right_on_matches_that_have_fizzled_out/ |
throwawayexrso | 2021-06-13 07:06:55 | 1,623,568,015 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | nyqvs0 | true | Support | Trigger | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/nyqvs0/my_ex_boyfriend_is_a_sex_offender_and_i_cant_cope/ | 1 | I don't know what the point of me writing this is, I just need to get this out. I'm sorry in advance for a very long rant. In 2019 my (now) ex boyfriend was charged after filming a woman in a bathroom. We were together when it happened, but I was away travelling. He pled guilty and had to register as a sex offender for... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My ex boyfriend is a sex offender, and I can't cope with it anymore (TW: SEXUAL ASSAULT) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/nyqvs0/my_ex_boyfriend_is_a_sex_offender_and_i_cant_cope/ |
mos1992 | 2018-11-22 05:43:01 | 1,542,865,381 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 9zbaja | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9zbaja/how_to_have_a_successful_blind_first_date_as_a/ | 2 | Sometimes I go on dates through dating apps and the date usually goes like this. We meet somewhere and she is nervous where we break the ice by asking how are you doing? The wheel starts rolling and we keep asking life questions, hobbies and work. The date then mentions that in about half an hour she needs to meet frie... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to have a successful blind First date as a guy (26m)? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9zbaja/how_to_have_a_successful_blind_first_date_as_a/ |
MFRobots | 2022-01-03 10:28:57 | 1,641,205,737 | null | null | 0 | ruyp4g | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ruyp4g/sole_reliance_on_dating_apps_is_a_social_crutch/ | 0 | Saw a woman's response here regarding how she hates being approached in person in any fashion apparently. I asked her in what situation would she liked to be approached, and she said "They can do it through the app". I found this to be rather disappointing and well, I'm hearing this more frequently though...even had a ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Sole reliance on dating apps is a social crutch | null | 0.27 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ruyp4g/sole_reliance_on_dating_apps_is_a_social_crutch/ |
[deleted] | 2013-04-24 20:45:22 | 1,366,836,322 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1d198i | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/1d198i/not_sure_what_it_is/ | 1 | Hi there. I'm a 23 year old female that has never been in a relationship. I've been a chubby ever since I was a kid, and I always thought that guys weren't interested in my because I was fat. I had my first kiss and lost my virginity at age 20. Long story short, I've been losing weight and am now down to a chubby 165 (... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | not sure what it is :/ | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d198i/not_sure_what_it_is/ |
foreverstampsss | 2019-04-25 04:44:03 | 1,556,167,443 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | bh4l5l | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bh4l5l/advice_on_moving_on_from_rejection_from_a_guy/ | 5 | Some background: 26/F and beginning to thin that I am way too sensitive. I can't online date. I've been rejected before but something about this guy I met off Hinge a few weeks ago - who rejected me a week ago after our 2nd date has really sent me for a tizzy. My self-esteem is not as strong as I thought it was and tbh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice on moving on from rejection from a guy? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bh4l5l/advice_on_moving_on_from_rejection_from_a_guy/ |
[deleted] | 2013-10-01 17:38:22 | 1,380,649,102 | 0 | ['dating site', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 1nivgr | null | null | 7 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1nivgr/my_experience_with_a_guy_from_okc_possible/ | 42 | I signed up for OkCupid on a whim following a breakup with my ex (I initiated) and a string of semi rejections, thinking-if nothing else, it might prove to be a confidence booster. Naturally, being a female on a dating site, there came a flood of messages. At first I tried to be nice and respond to everyone regardless ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My experience with a guy from OKC [possible trigger warning] | 42 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1nivgr/my_experience_with_a_guy_from_okc_possible/ |
chameleonn3 | 2019-09-24 00:20:03 | 1,569,284,403 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | d8ff81 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d8ff81/how_do_i_25m_stop_blaming_myself_from_this/ | 2 | I matched a guy \[27m\] on Tinder a month ago and we started talking. We had an amazing two dates. I think what really drew me to him was the fact that he was so interested in getting to know me, was funny and was happy to talk about things. At the end of the second date I started to catch feelings for him because I th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I [25m] stop blaming myself from this rejection? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d8ff81/how_do_i_25m_stop_blaming_myself_from_this/ |
lordofthstrings | 2020-06-29 05:05:24 | 1,593,407,124 | null | null | 0 | hhtrg1 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hhtrg1/how_do_i_be_clear_about_what_i_want_without/ | 21 | I talk to people on apps other than ones used strictly for dating such as Whisper, Instagram, Facebook, Craigslist and Snapchat and I've had a good amount of success there. But the lines can get a little muddy because it's not just assumed in those places that I'm looking for something non platonic. It's gotten me burn... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How do I be clear about what I want without coming on too strong? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hhtrg1/how_do_i_be_clear_about_what_i_want_without/ |
itsme_ok1 | 2020-05-01 10:24:50 | 1,588,328,690 | null | null | 0 | gbfmhr | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/gbfmhr/hey_sweetie/ | 0 | hOw aRe yOu? sEnD mE a PiCtUrE | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | hEy SwEeTiE | null | 0.18 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gbfmhr/hey_sweetie/ |
lastlived1 | 2017-04-13 01:44:46 | 1,492,047,886 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 652krl | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/652krl/feeling_shut_out/ | 0 | For the past few weeks I've been texting a girl I met through Tinder. She and I matched right as I was going out of state for two weeks, and we texted each other and got to know each other while I was away. Days after I came back, we met up for dinner and it went extremely well She and I clicked and it was I have to sa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feeling shut out | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/652krl/feeling_shut_out/ |
AdventurousPlace6180 | 2023-10-22 22:42:13 | 1,698,014,533 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17e5hgc | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17e5hgc/help_i_feel_terrible/ | 1 | I was in a long term relationship and once I got out of it I was out of a relationship for a few years, after all that time I decided to ease my way back into the dating scene. Got on dating apps. There was one guy I talked to exclusively a little bit ago, we got together, then broke up because it wasn’t working out. I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Help I feel terrible… | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17e5hgc/help_i_feel_terrible/ |
Delicious_Kiwi3264 | 2020-11-25 23:28:26 | 1,606,346,906 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | k13ncb | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k13ncb/i_need_your_help_for_a_second_date_ideas_during/ | 2 | So, I will be straight to the point. I've met this girl from tinder yesterday, which I like a lot. We met in a restaurant for a quick dinner. Date went well, we had some laughs, some general and serious talk, but I feel that she's kind of on the fence if she is into me, I have the gut for this shit. I really believe th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I need your help for a second date ideas during lockdown. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k13ncb/i_need_your_help_for_a_second_date_ideas_during/ |
Cat_Cow_Yoga_Queen | 2024-08-18 20:09:30 | 1,724,011,770 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1eviluu | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eviluu/first_date_questions/ | 1 | My best friend (F22) is going on her very first date with a guy (M23) she met on a dating app. They’ve talked mostly on text. And they have decided to meet up. What are some questions she should ask on this date? Also any tips for her? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date questions? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eviluu/first_date_questions/ |
Remarkable-Motor505 | 2021-01-11 16:52:42 | 1,610,383,962 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | kv6kq3 | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kv6kq3/personality_only_matters_for_women_and_good/ | 0 | Most relationships now start online where your "personality" is just three sentences and a few smiling pictures. To actually get a sense for someone's personality, you have to right swipe on them and have a conversation. Then you have to meet the person. Women get infinite matches so infinite opportunities to demonstra... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | "Personality" only matters for women and good looking men in modern dating | null | 0.44 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kv6kq3/personality_only_matters_for_women_and_good/ |
[deleted] | 2019-10-27 02:16:49 | 1,572,142,609 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | dnneh8 | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dnneh8/deleting_online_dating_profile/ | 3 | How many dates would you have to go on to have you consider deleting your dating profile? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Deleting online dating profile? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dnneh8/deleting_online_dating_profile/ |
Bavarus | 2017-09-04 13:25:22 | 1,504,531,522 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6y0an2 | false | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6y0an2/coming_up_with_a_personal_improvement_plan_for/ | 1 | At present I'm a virgin, I've been on Tinder etc. for months now. In that time I've managed to improve my conversation skills. Girls no longer unmatch me after a few messages, and I can keep conversations going on for weeks. The first part of my plan is to go on holidays to the UK/USA/Japan and try Tinder there. Once I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Coming up with a personal improvement plan for dating. I'd appreciate some ideas, feedback, and help so I can lose this virgin status and start dating women. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6y0an2/coming_up_with_a_personal_improvement_plan_for/ |
BeepBopBippityBop | 2023-10-03 03:47:25 | 1,696,304,845 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 16yhpl8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/16yhpl8/update_on_the_tinder_friend_overnight_affair/ | 1 | First of all, thanks to everyone who responded to my orevious post. Some stuff I didn't want to hear, some I needed to hear, all of it was conducive to helping me form coherent thoughts and figure out where I stand. I was really expecting everyone to tell me I was being controlling, and quite surprised to find almost t... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Update on the Tinder Friend Overnight Affair. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/16yhpl8/update_on_the_tinder_friend_overnight_affair/ |
DieSchungel1234 | 2023-01-02 05:04:38 | 1,672,635,878 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1013xoh | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1013xoh/had_crappy_sex_with_the_person_24f_i_25m_am_going/ | 2 | I met this woman on a dating app 2 weeks ago. We have gone on 3 dates so far, and I also spent NYE at her place. We had sex for the first time then but it was pretty bad. I am not sure I am feeling that sexual chemistry yet. Then we slept together and I loved that. She was cool with it and seems to want to keep seeing ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Had crappy sex with the person [24F] I [25M] am going out with, what to do? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1013xoh/had_crappy_sex_with_the_person_24f_i_25m_am_going/ |
SpiritualBlob | 2023-03-18 11:09:25 | 1,679,137,765 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 11uldl1 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11uldl1/should_i_get_to_know_women_longer/ | 0 | So in the past half year I got rejected by more than 30 women. I think 17 or 18 the past few weeks. Most of the times I know these women relatively shortly, from dating apps, classes, extracurriculars and sometimes social activities. Often I hear from them I give them a 'friendly vibe'. It's frustrating and often after... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I get to know women longer? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11uldl1/should_i_get_to_know_women_longer/ |
Unique-Sir-6098 | 2022-03-12 06:53:20 | 1,647,068,000 | null | ['matches', 'dating site', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | tcamzc | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tcamzc/no_new_matches_on_any_dating_site_since_the_fall/ | 3 | Hello I'm 32, I'm on tinder, bumble, match, hinge, okcupid and Facebook dating. I'm 6 ft tall, athletic, I have a stable job, own a car, rent a house, and I recently left a 2.5 year long relationship last year. I don't know why, but, I haven't been able to get any new matches on any of these sites since last fall. I re... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | No New Matches On Any Dating Site Since The Fall, Any Tips? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tcamzc/no_new_matches_on_any_dating_site_since_the_fall/ |
EelWithATopHat | 2022-11-18 08:49:07 | 1,668,761,347 | null | null | 0 | yyfbhj | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yyfbhj/app_like_meetme/ | 0 | Does anyone know any apps like Meetme that are not swipe or match based and let you change your location? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | App like Meetme? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yyfbhj/app_like_meetme/ |
Any_Habit_5166 | 2024-06-13 18:51:40 | 1,718,304,700 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1df6k63 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1df6k63/is_it_weird_to_text_a_hookup_to_meet_after_4/ | 1 | I (20f) met a guy (20m) online a few months ago. He pursued me and we started talking through social media. I found him dry and really bad at responding so I stopped talking to him for a while. To my surprise, he asked me out for drinks a week later and we’ve been on a couple of dates. We had sex on the third date and ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it weird to text a hookup to meet after 4 months? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1df6k63/is_it_weird_to_text_a_hookup_to_meet_after_4/ |
thrawaway00011122233 | 2017-09-02 11:46:59 | 1,504,352,819 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6xlexx | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6xlexx/should_i_25_f_initiate_the_6th_date/ | 4 | So this guy and I met on Tinder. He super liked me and we went out for drinks the first night. Dinner the next. Then movie. Then he cooked dinner. Then he gave me a tour of his office. Then coffee. He insists on paying for everything. We started sleeping together on the 3rd time we saw each other. You get the point. He... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I [25 F] initiate the 6th date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6xlexx/should_i_25_f_initiate_the_6th_date/ |
Monkey6781 | 2016-01-12 03:16:40 | 1,452,568,600 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 40kkwz | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/40kkwz/attracted_to_him/ | 1 | There's a guy I went to high school with(he's a year older 26M) that I met through a good friend. I've always known of him, but now I see him more frequently. Don't usually talk much. He's friends with my friend N's brother. As far as I knew he'd always had a girlfriend, until I came across him on okcupid. Immediately ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Attracted to him | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/40kkwz/attracted_to_him/ |
Hatelovedemonslayer | 2023-01-01 05:48:43 | 1,672,552,123 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 100d0h5 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/100d0h5/how/ | 1 | (32F) How do you meet people?? I’m not from this city and I just don’t know how to make friends, or meet a guy it’s been 3 years. Never clicked up with anyone at work or school. I’ve always just had issues I’ve only ever had one relationship in my life with a man. And no friends in high school. It just seems like men o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/100d0h5/how/ |
kevin_a380 | 2022-02-13 00:47:07 | 1,644,713,227 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | sr5tjq | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sr5tjq/getting_cold_or_overthinking/ | 1 | I have been seeing this girl from a dating app since the beginning of January. Everything was going very well and all. A little background about this person, she is a recent divorcee last year with no kids and is currently living on her own. Recently over the past week, I feel a disconnect from her in terms of talking ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting cold or Overthinking? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sr5tjq/getting_cold_or_overthinking/ |
not_mj | 2019-08-03 18:48:10 | 1,564,858,090 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | clm9w3 | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/clm9w3/girl_lied_about_her_age_on_okcupid/ | 13 | So I met a girl on okcupid the other day. It said 18 on her profile and I am 19 rn about to turn 20 in a month. Well after talking for a couple of days she casually mentions she is 17 and her birthday is in 2 months. Tbh I don’t feel comfortable with it so should I just ghost her or let her know. [Update] Decided to le... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl lied about her age on okcupid | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/clm9w3/girl_lied_about_her_age_on_okcupid/ |
Inmemumcarvroom | 2022-08-15 16:03:10 | 1,660,579,390 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | wp3c0e | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wp3c0e/am_i_being_dramatic_or_is_he_not_that_into_me/ | 0 | I(22f) have been dating a older guy (30m) for the past month . He’s unlike any guy I have ever dated due to his nature of being very calm, introverted and reserved . I have only dated extroverted guys in the past since I am very shy but I enjoy his company ALOT. He originally messaged me On OLD and was very communicati... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I being dramatic or is he not that into me ? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wp3c0e/am_i_being_dramatic_or_is_he_not_that_into_me/ |
Sarvaturi | 2024-09-04 10:11:15 | 1,725,444,675 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1f8pkky | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f8pkky/the_problem_with_dating_apps_that_nobody_talks/ | 3 | The case studies on dating apps really interested me. Analyzing social behavior and the impact of human characteristics and the way they connect is fascinating and after extensive study I see very few people talking about it. A simple question that I've seen few people ask in relation to dating is: What is the best way... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The problem with Dating Apps that nobody talks about | 3 | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f8pkky/the_problem_with_dating_apps_that_nobody_talks/ |
Designer-Brick7155 | 2024-04-24 18:23:02 | 1,713,982,982 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cc5kfq | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cc5kfq/delusional_women_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | First of all I’m not hating, i don’t care what you do with your life. But i truly believe that 85% of the girls i see on here are absolutely self centred, superficial people. Like if you’re so special then why are u still on dating apps? I get a headache just thinking about talking to some of these people. Even if i wa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Delusional women on dating apps. | 1 | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cc5kfq/delusional_women_on_dating_apps/ |
wellthatseemslikebs | 2021-04-06 05:49:22 | 1,617,688,162 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ml4r8e | true | Venting | 114 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ml4r8e/im_kind_of_getting_tired_of_it_all/ | 82 | I don’t want to be that guy but I’ve tried everything. Meeting through mutual friends and dating apps is a never ending black hole of wasted effort. I don’t know if my patience has dried up or what’s wrong with me but I have to snap out of this. Life isn’t a hallmark movie no matter how much I want it to be. I guess I’... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m kind of getting tired of it all | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ml4r8e/im_kind_of_getting_tired_of_it_all/ |
neverhadagf | 2016-05-02 01:01:58 | 1,462,150,918 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 4hd1ks | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4hd1ks/m28_3_year_dry_spell_what_do_i_do_to_date_again/ | 3 | As it says, things have not been going well for a long time. I'm an attractive athletic white guy, look a lot younger than I am, I have interesting hobbies. I'm successful in my career too. Something I constantly face is that I've only dated girls with issues; it happens by default rather than by choice. My friends are... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [M/28] 3+ year dry spell. What do I do to date again? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4hd1ks/m28_3_year_dry_spell_what_do_i_do_to_date_again/ |
PotentialEnergy_qq | 2024-01-08 23:03:11 | 1,704,754,991 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 191yy3z | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/191yy3z/i_have_tried_online_dating_apps_and_a_few_bars/ | 1 | For reference, I am somewhat a shy baby-face college guy, but if approached I can get comfortable and be more open. I don’t have many friends in the city so I go the the bar alone have a few drinks, and try to make eye contact with the ladies around (with no rings), but they don’t seem to eye me back. When I see no fee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have tried online dating apps and a few bars, but I rarely get attention from the ladies. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/191yy3z/i_have_tried_online_dating_apps_and_a_few_bars/ |
Greedy-Job-1800 | 2024-09-29 14:30:07 | 1,727,620,207 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1fs5n8w | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 32 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fs5n8w/got_blocked_after_a_first_date/ | 2 | I 20F, met this guy same age as me on dating app. He was genuinely nice and wholesome. Made me feel special and felt some real human connection cause it felt like he liked for who i was. After 4 weeks of talking and calling non stop. We went on a first date it went so well, but after i git back home he completely ghost... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Got blocked after a first date | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fs5n8w/got_blocked_after_a_first_date/ |
cutie_patoots94 | 2024-03-24 14:43:00 | 1,711,291,380 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1bmmd5f | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bmmd5f/how_late_is_too_late_to_confirm/ | 2 | (28f) matched with a guy (31m) a week ago and we planned a drinks date for later today. We said we would meet around 7/8pm - but he had yet to confirm an exact time with me but promised he would 'keep me updated' during the day. This was 2 days ago when he said this, and it is now approaching 3pm on the day of the date... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How late is too late to confirm? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bmmd5f/how_late_is_too_late_to_confirm/ |
Admirable_Occasion45 | 2023-06-27 16:32:24 | 1,687,883,544 | 0 | null | 0 | 14kieyt | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14kieyt/what_do_you_guys_actually_talk_about_before/ | 2 | I have been using dating apps for about 2 months now. I find the texting phase rather meaningless if I have yet to meet the other person irl. I try to arrange for a date after about 30 to 40 messages. What about you guys? What do you even text about before meeting? For people who have been to many dates irl, do you thi... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What do you guys actually talk about before meeting? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14kieyt/what_do_you_guys_actually_talk_about_before/ |
wheressal | 2023-05-01 18:47:34 | 1,682,966,854 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 134xpm3 | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/134xpm3/best_sites_for_over_50/ | 32 | What are the best dating sites for over 50 people? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Best sites for over 50 | 32 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/134xpm3/best_sites_for_over_50/ |
OrdinaryJord | 2019-03-16 01:32:30 | 1,552,699,950 | null | ['swiped', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | b1mys3 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b1mys3/how_to_get_someone_off_my_mind/ | 3 | I was dating a girl a few months ago and things were going very well until one day she hit me with the "I'm not over my ex" story out of nowhere. That basically signaled the end of it all for me as last year I had been really screwed over by someone who told me the same thing and then preceded to mess me around for 6 m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get someone off my mind? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b1mys3/how_to_get_someone_off_my_mind/ |
bigboy205 | 2020-03-13 17:21:56 | 1,584,120,116 | null | ['dating apps', 'pof'] | 0 | fi37r0 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fi37r0/i_am_a_virgin_and_ugly_and_never_dated_or_been_in/ | 11 | people always say have confidence or get out and meet people, which is something, if unattractive, you should never do. I have been using dating apps for a couple years and get countless views but little or no responses. do you think i should just remain a life long virgin and give up since i am ugly af? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am a virgin and ugly and never dated or been in a relationship | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fi37r0/i_am_a_virgin_and_ugly_and_never_dated_or_been_in/ |
Responsible_Bank7860 | 2021-08-03 13:43:26 | 1,627,998,206 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ox3rah | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ox3rah/how_do_you_deal_with_a_potential_date_that_shows/ | 1 | I’ve met this guy over a dating app and we kinda clicked though not having a ton in common. I proposed 3 things as a date today, but none were a real succes (Because they were too active or with alcohol which he doesn’t drink). Is it weird that I then expect some kind of initiative back?? The only thing he just message... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you deal with a potential date that shows no initiative whatsoever? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ox3rah/how_do_you_deal_with_a_potential_date_that_shows/ |
musicmania1996 | 2020-06-17 08:14:51 | 1,592,381,691 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | han31o | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/han31o/help_moving_too_fast/ | 3 | [24F] have been living at home through Covid 19 with my parents. backstory. My parents and I do not have a good relationship, a lot of abuse in the past leading to broken relationships and lot of arguments nowadays. I have been speaking to a guy [26M] from tinder who lives in the city I'm moving to in August. We've spo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | HELP Moving too fast?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/han31o/help_moving_too_fast/ |
capedbaldy619 | 2024-01-29 12:01:36 | 1,706,529,696 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1adtp7v | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1adtp7v/guys_would_you_date_an_average_looking_woman_if/ | 1 | So I recently decided to start dating and downloaded this online dating app. I've been getting good number of matches but one thing I've noticed is that all good looking women are really bad at texting. They would put in 0 effort into the conversations and would just reply with one liners. On top of that, they take hou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guys would you date an average looking woman if she was really fun to talk to? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1adtp7v/guys_would_you_date_an_average_looking_woman_if/ |
Beautiful_Shine_6787 | 2024-01-16 20:07:57 | 1,705,435,677 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 198ch0b | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/198ch0b/tired_of_being_single/ | 1 | I'm (M24) tired of being single and had zero success with dating apps. How do I rectify this? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tired of being single. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/198ch0b/tired_of_being_single/ |
CN122 | 2023-01-19 03:55:47 | 1,674,100,547 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 10frr3h | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10frr3h/my_matches_on_dating_apps_keep_disappearing_mid/ | 7 | I understand that some people are just on dating apps for attention, looking for someone to talk to, a hookup, among other things but I've noticed a trend over the past year and a half that I've been using the apps. Every single person that I match with either doesn't respond at all (which I know is extremely common) o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My matches on dating apps keep disappearing mid conversation or just don't respond at all despite liking me first | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10frr3h/my_matches_on_dating_apps_keep_disappearing_mid/ |
guyhangingoutintown | 2023-10-10 15:21:44 | 1,696,951,304 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | 174nv0a | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/174nv0a/tips_for_a_better_online_dating_profile/ | 1 | I am a pretty attractive person, but not having much luck getting matches online. What are some tips for making a dating profile more attractive and intriguing? What are the best kind of pics to post? What kind of things are most girls impressed with? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tips for a better online dating profile | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/174nv0a/tips_for_a_better_online_dating_profile/ |
dogtunnel | 2017-10-14 04:53:17 | 1,507,956,797 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 76a6yx | false | null | 84 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/76a6yx/didnt_date_in_college_biggest_regret_of_my_life/ | 74 | 23/M recent college grad. I didn't date in college really due to mental health issues. I had crippling anxiety for years but finally feel comfortable trying to date now I'm on meds. Now that I'm I'm recently graduated and working (although not a snazzy job, i can get by). I've tried OKC for 3 years and have gven up on ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Didn't date in college, biggest regret of my life | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/76a6yx/didnt_date_in_college_biggest_regret_of_my_life/ |
svetaxx | 2023-12-04 12:12:01 | 1,701,691,921 | 0 | null | 0 | 18aiwul | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18aiwul/8_dates_in_suddenly_pulls_away/ | 3 | I've been seeing this guy since the end of September (met online). It's been about 2 months and we've gone on 8 dates but in this time I was out of the country for 2 weeks for a trip and then the holidays came up so the 8 dates were crammed into a shorter period of time. From the beginning, he pursued me - planned ever... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 8 DATES IN - suddenly pulls away | 3 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18aiwul/8_dates_in_suddenly_pulls_away/ |
TemporaryTop287 | 2022-10-23 13:55:55 | 1,666,533,355 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | ybicny | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ybicny/another_one_moved/ | 1 | So just spoke to a good friend of mine who I matched with on an app he. Just told me that he's moving and I'm pseudocrushed because we got along so well I would have loved him to be my boyfriend but he for a bunch of reasons he said that he couldn't so I think he had hindsight that he was moving I just found out today ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Another one moved | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ybicny/another_one_moved/ |
MisterOminous | 2016-03-14 14:03:16 | 1,457,964,196 | 0 | ['okcupid', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 4ad741 | null | null | 15 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/4ad741/rough_week/ | 5 | Sorry to be a Debbie downer guys. Not quite sure if this is the correct subreddit but you guys have been so supportive of my dating questions. Quick back story. I am at one would say a huge cross roads in my life. 37. Divorced 4 years ago. My ex was great and left me the home which at the time had no equity. I have tri... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Rough week | 5 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/4ad741/rough_week/ |
GoodComfortable2784 | 2023-07-08 09:18:30 | 1,688,807,910 | 0 | ['swipe', 'OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | 14tz8nv | false | null | 122 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/14tz8nv/a_question_for_the_men/ | 59 | I think this might be me (46f) accepting that I’m ok being alone for the rest of my days. I’ve been single over 4 years since separating and divorcing. I dip in and out of online dating putting in the effort and going on dates. I have on my profile I’m looking for long term not ons or casual. This was my last try and n... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | A question for the men… | 59 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/14tz8nv/a_question_for_the_men/ |
shayeramartell | 2017-10-26 05:00:40 | 1,508,994,040 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 78tf71 | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/78tf71/i_seem_to_be_unlucky/ | 3 | So I've downloaded multiple lgbt dating apps hoping to find a connection with at least one person. No luck with that since all I seem to attract are people looking for friends or hookups. It's extremely frustrating since I'm introverted and meeting at bars is intimidating to me. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I seem to be unlucky | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/78tf71/i_seem_to_be_unlucky/ |
Alyssa_rain | 2022-02-27 04:27:34 | 1,645,936,054 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | t2ftv8 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t2ftv8/any_advice/ | 0 | I F(19) would like to start dating, but idk where to even start. When I have to talk to new people I get so nervous. I'm a pretty shy person. I was wondering how I could work on putting myself out there/ work on myself? Without out dating apps, also, what helped you get over talking to new people? Any advice is greatly... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any advice? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t2ftv8/any_advice/ |
drunkNeurons | 2018-06-21 23:45:06 | 1,529,624,706 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8swpwc | true | null | 109 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8swpwc/hey_reddit_i_got_my_very_first_date_with_a_really/ | 319 | Hello everyone So I(25/M) have never been into the dating, relationship thing until I recently started using Tinder. After about three weeks I got matched with someone I superliked. She's gorgeous. We chatted about for three days before deciding to meet up for a coffee today. I've never been on a date before and would ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hey Reddit I got my very first Date with a really cute girl in a few hours. Any Tips?? And Wish me luck everyone | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8swpwc/hey_reddit_i_got_my_very_first_date_with_a_really/ |
ritiksingghh | 2024-06-04 20:55:56 | 1,717,534,556 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1d87xg5 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 293 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d87xg5/girlfriend_left_me_for_a_fuck_boy_she_barely_knew/ | 235 | It feels like my heart has been ripped off. I knew something was off and not right when she out of the blue started to act very strangely with me. Yeah you read the title right. She broke up with me and got into friends with benefits with a random guy that I didn't even know the day after our break up. She always said ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girlfriend left me for a fuck boy she barely knew after 1.5 years of our relationship. Need your support. | 235 | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d87xg5/girlfriend_left_me_for_a_fuck_boy_she_barely_knew/ |
croissantyesplease | 2022-07-27 16:21:53 | 1,658,938,913 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | w9j21b | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w9j21b/a_date_with_mr_nice/ | 0 | Talked to this guy on dating app for a week plus. He asked me on a date. Before meeting, we didn't exchange numbers. We had a great date! After the date, we continue texting on the dating app but still haven't exchange numbers. Why so? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A date with Mr Nice | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w9j21b/a_date_with_mr_nice/ |
LiltingGrace89 | 2019-12-30 11:21:39 | 1,577,704,899 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ehkwvy | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ehkwvy/dating_after_being_single_for_8_years_30f/ | 2 | So, my (F30) last relationship ended 8 years ago. I haven't met anyone I've been interested in since then, so I've just been single. I didn't mind, I had stuff to do, focused on myself, career, Yadda Yadda, you know the drill. Now, I've been trying online dating, and it's been a drag. The women just straight up don't a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating after being single for 8 years (30F) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ehkwvy/dating_after_being_single_for_8_years_30f/ |
bubblystrawxberry | 2023-04-20 22:56:01 | 1,682,031,361 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 12ti42i | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12ti42i/gift_for_a_first_date/ | 0 | So basically I met this guy on bumble and we planned a date. Some things came up and I had to cancel. I offered another date to reschedule and he said: “I’m down depending on how you plan to make up for it/ how do you plan to do that.” Isn’t this a little much for someone you have never met? We’re getting coffee and on... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Gift for a first date? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12ti42i/gift_for_a_first_date/ |
Jaansi_ | 2020-10-01 01:52:15 | 1,601,517,135 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | j2zi49 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j2zi49/we_both_suck_at_flirting_how_do_we_break_that/ | 12 | Hi I (21F) met this guy (21M) on tinder. We’ve become really good friends, he’s so nice its amazing. I like him a lot. And i know he likes me too because we do flirt with each other but I feel like, to be blunt. We both just SUCK at flirting. I feel like I don’t flirt enough myself to show him that I do re like him. Th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | We both suck at flirting, how do we break that barrier? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j2zi49/we_both_suck_at_flirting_how_do_we_break_that/ |
Vegetable-Clock672 | 2023-12-14 08:07:25 | 1,702,541,245 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18i3t6s | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18i3t6s/handling_a_complex_situation_with_a_girl_i_met/ | 1 | I met a Russian girl on a dating app, and before our first meeting, she requested my help in purchasing hundreds bucks worth from Amazon, as her Russian card wasn't functioning due to the Ukraine conflict. She then stayed at my apartment for a few weeks. We’re in Vancouver. A few days into her stay, she asked me for a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Handling a Complex Situation with a Girl I Met | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18i3t6s/handling_a_complex_situation_with_a_girl_i_met/ |
scala_ad_infernum | 2024-01-07 16:32:02 | 1,704,645,122 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 190vz83 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/190vz83/how_do_i_make_dating_fun_for_me/ | 2 | 23F/ The dating advice I get from my IRL people is normally something approximate to "go with the flow and have fun". But dating hasn't really been fun for me. Relationships aren't usually very fun for me either. I have to chat with 20+ men on dating apps to maybe find 5 that can carry a decent conversation- and the ch... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I make dating fun for me? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/190vz83/how_do_i_make_dating_fun_for_me/ |
ButterflyNo5044 | 2023-05-10 18:00:44 | 1,683,741,644 | 0 | null | 0 | 13dybhh | true | null | 67 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13dybhh/ghosted_by_guy_i_met_online/ | 10 | I need to vent. Last month I (28F) started seeing this guy (31M) I met on Hinge. We had a really great first date. He was confident, open, we had lot's to talk about, and just seemed to click. We ended up having sex on this date, which I know was probably a mistake if I'm wanting something long-term. The sexual chemist... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ghosted by guy I met online | 10 | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13dybhh/ghosted_by_guy_i_met_online/ |
CN122 | 2022-01-19 03:38:26 | 1,642,563,506 | null | null | 0 | s7ggtm | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/s7ggtm/has_anyone_else_gotten_to_this_point_with_old/ | 25 | Has anyone else gotten to the point where they just don't care about getting matches anymore? I honestly used to get excited to see a new match come across my phone. But now it's just like eh whatever. I'm honestly at the point where I'm expecting them to either not respond or fade away quickly. That's like 85-90% of O... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Has anyone else gotten to this point with OLD? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/s7ggtm/has_anyone_else_gotten_to_this_point_with_old/ |
hr_leroy | 2023-07-19 02:31:09 | 1,689,733,869 | 0 | null | 0 | 153i5v0 | false | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/153i5v0/can_i_double_text_and_just_ask_to_meet_this_early/ | 1 | My questions up top here: 1. Can I double text (follow-up tomorrow, after 24 hours)? 2. Can I also in that double text, just ask flat out, on day 3, "Hey, what if we just meet for coffee or something?" I have a strange gut feeling about in person being good, despite his lack of questioning me about me, and despite the ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Can I double text and just ask to meet this early on (Female asking Male) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/153i5v0/can_i_double_text_and_just_ask_to_meet_this_early/ |
anavram | 2023-09-21 03:08:47 | 1,695,265,727 | 0 | null | 0 | 16o4umi | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16o4umi/is_listing_workplace_location_as_main_location/ | 1 | I was telling my (28F) friend (29F) about my online dating struggles as I just moved into the suburbs of Chicago with my parents. I am saving up money for continuing education, giving myself more time to study, etc for the next two years or so. My friend also lives in my suburban town, but commutes into the city 3x a w... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is listing workplace location as main location shady? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16o4umi/is_listing_workplace_location_as_main_location/ |
Tar-Alcarin | 2018-03-14 19:43:08 | 1,521,056,588 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 84gakj | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/84gakj/met_a_girlnow_i_am_leaving_for_vacation/ | 2 | So long story short I started talking to a girl a month ago and we hit it off very well. I am no stranger to dating (100ish dates 50-60 hook ups) but I am tired of doing it and I really see this girl as something more. We were supposed to meet up late Feb but she ended up canceling on me because she wanted to see where... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met a girl....now I am leaving for vacation | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/84gakj/met_a_girlnow_i_am_leaving_for_vacation/ |
sm-aug | 2021-06-16 21:04:06 | 1,623,877,446 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | o1fgv4 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 26 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o1fgv4/i_just_got_my_first_match_on_tinder/ | 26 | for the first time in my life I got a match, idk what to message her. Can some of you guys give me good suggestions as to what to message her? i don't want to mess up my first time and also i don't want to be desperate. any advice is welcomed. thanks in advance!. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | i just got my first match on tinder | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o1fgv4/i_just_got_my_first_match_on_tinder/ |
youngling9797 | 2019-09-19 03:46:57 | 1,568,864,817 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | d68jrm | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d68jrm/is_dating_this_hard_for_everyone_m22/ | 4 | Maybe that seems like a stupid question, but I can’t help but feel extremely frustrated. Over a year ago I was dating a girl I was in love with. We broke for stupid bullshit reasons (she was immature and even admitted so to me recently) and since then dating has been pretty much a fruitless battle. Tinder and bumble? D... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is dating this hard for everyone? [M22] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d68jrm/is_dating_this_hard_for_everyone_m22/ |
RexxarTheHunter8 | 2023-06-08 11:38:52 | 1,686,224,332 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1446v8a | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1446v8a/how_did_you_figure_out_what_you_wanted_for/ | 10 | I(30M) got a good job, I got some friends, I read every now and then, I work out 5 days a week (BJJ and yoga)... Now what? I've been feeling stuck for the past 6 months, I don't really have any idea what I want to do in life, what to aim for or.. I just find myself thinking "is this all there is?" every week or so. I f... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How did you figure out what you wanted for yourself in life? | 10 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1446v8a/how_did_you_figure_out_what_you_wanted_for/ |
Acrobatic-Software96 | 2023-10-02 18:34:54 | 1,696,271,694 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 16y4fz1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16y4fz1/advice_on_asking_a_girl_to_be_my_gf/ | 1 | I am dating this girl that I felt matched with but not sure how to talk to her about being official together. Long story: Known her for 9 months now. We are both interested in each other but got ghosted once for 2 months due to her problems. She has some avoidance and fearful thoughts which makes her feel unsafe jumpin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice on asking a girl to be my gf | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16y4fz1/advice_on_asking_a_girl_to_be_my_gf/ |
duffman626 | 2019-04-14 13:56:11 | 1,555,250,171 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | bd2z5y | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bd2z5y/tinder_match_deletes_me_after_seeing_my_face/ | 6 | So I matched with a girl on tinder and started texting her on Friday. I asked her if she had any plans this weekend and she said she was just staying in her apartment with just the company of her dog. So I said I could keep her company if she liked. Which she was very keen on the idea and said she was free all day Sund... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder match deletes me after seeing my face | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bd2z5y/tinder_match_deletes_me_after_seeing_my_face/ |
spicychimichangas | 2022-10-23 14:53:18 | 1,666,536,798 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | ybjpoi | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ybjpoi/any_advice_on_how_to_avoid_the_i_just_didnt_feel/ | 0 | Hi all 27m 5'7 middle eastern here living in a white country I've gone out on about 5 dates this past month with 5 different girls. And they have all said the same thing that they didn't feel a connection or a spark between us. Just wondering what i can do to change this and try and get more successful dates in the fut... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any advice on how to avoid the "i just didn't feel the spark" | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ybjpoi/any_advice_on_how_to_avoid_the_i_just_didnt_feel/ |
vincekaufman | 2021-04-11 19:47:27 | 1,618,170,447 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | moxv6z | true | Venting | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/moxv6z/28mi_cheated_we_broke_up_im_getting_the_help_i/ | 0 | Long story short, I was in a relationship for 2 years. The woman wanted to wait until marriage to have sex, and I was opposed to marriage. At the time we had serious sexual frustration on both ends because we never really had privacy to release some of the tension (we both stayed at home with each other's parents at th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [28M]I cheated. We broke up. I'm getting the help I need but I feel unworthy of being able to love again. | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/moxv6z/28mi_cheated_we_broke_up_im_getting_the_help_i/ |
[deleted] | 2022-10-01 12:16:36 | 1,664,626,596 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | xsttrv | true | null | 85 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/xsttrv/meeting_people_without_apps/ | 40 | I’ve suspended my dating apps and have decided to just get out there and meet more people in person. I belong to a few groups and every now and then go to coffee shops to read. Any nice stories you guys are willing to share about how you met a partner in real life? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Meeting people without apps? | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/xsttrv/meeting_people_without_apps/ |
ambivalentbrain | 2018-11-02 23:54:48 | 1,541,202,888 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 9tphhh | true | null | 136 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9tphhh/the_unexpected_consequence_of_being_single_over_30/ | 192 | When considering breaking up with my girlfriend of 4+ years I had the typical fears: I’ll never meet someone else, I’ll be alone forever etc. What I’ve found since being single in my early 30s (M/32) is with OLD it’s easy enough to meet people to date, and hook up if that’s your thing. While there’s a lot of BS out the... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | The unexpected consequence of being single over 30 | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9tphhh/the_unexpected_consequence_of_being_single_over_30/ |
patrick88448899 | 2019-03-31 05:43:00 | 1,554,010,980 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | b7kgez | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/b7kgez/how_do_i_even_meet_people/ | 3 | I'm 30 years old, I go to work every morning and due to work I do in the evening I only have the weekend avalible to meet people new. I have like one close guy friend and he's already in a relationship and we don't have time to hang out much. I don't know how I'm ever going to meet someone when all I do is work and I d... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How do I even meet people? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/b7kgez/how_do_i_even_meet_people/ |
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