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staasie_xx | 2023-08-26 05:07:07 | 1,693,026,427 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 161ltmw | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/161ltmw/dating_as_a_size_1416/ | 1 | I haven’t dated in so long but possibly might go on a date with someone from hinge. I’m super nervous he doesn’t realize im chubby 😭 Anyone feel this way? I have two full body pics on my profile. One is older and I was skinner but not skinny and the other is very accurate. I just feels like guys don’t notice? He also ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating as a size 14/16? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/161ltmw/dating_as_a_size_1416/ |
No-Midnight-1214 | 2024-01-05 01:53:56 | 1,704,419,636 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 18yusbv | true | null | 97 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/18yusbv/hes_got_a_gf/ | 43 | I met a guy OLD a couple of years ago and we’ve kept in touch but never dated, I was always busy and he doesn’t have kids and seemed bothered that I was rarely child free on weekends when he wanted to organise something. Eventually all this time later, we arranged a date for next week. I’m off work and offered to come ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | He’s got a gf | 43 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/18yusbv/hes_got_a_gf/ |
bookbaby888 | 2024-04-25 04:08:21 | 1,714,018,101 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1cciol6 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cciol6/did_i_f23_get_stood_up_by_him_m29/ | 2 | I'll make this quick! There's this guy I've been texting. We haven't met yet. We were texting consistently for a month now. I was out of the city for the weekend and didn't reply to this guy's message on Hinge. Monday comes and I finally do reply, to which he randomly calls me on Hinge out of nowhere. He usually asks m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I (F23) get stood up by him (M29)? | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cciol6/did_i_f23_get_stood_up_by_him_m29/ |
Lud1crousDragon | 2019-01-03 03:28:29 | 1,546,486,109 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ac1eiy | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ac1eiy/i_actually_feel_empowered_that_a_girl_ignored_my/ | 0 | So long story short there was this girl I was really getting along well with. We met on tinder, but she told me that she always thought I was cute as we go to the same college and work similar jobs. Schedules ended up aligning that we would be back at school over break for work at the same time (sounds creepy, but seri... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I actually feel empowered that a girl ignored my text | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ac1eiy/i_actually_feel_empowered_that_a_girl_ignored_my/ |
Discccombobulate | 2021-06-08 08:49:22 | 1,623,142,162 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | nv07lo | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nv07lo/im_getting_friendzoned_i_think_hear_me_out_storys/ | 1 | Hey /r/Dating_Advice, I (25M) recently had a date with a girl (23F) and I'd like to hear your opinion on this matter. Please, read the entire story because right now it's getting quite complicated and I don't really know what to do. Well, I do have an idea, but let's hear you first. I met this girl on a dating app and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm getting friendzoned I think, hear me out, story's inside, what's the best thing to do? | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nv07lo/im_getting_friendzoned_i_think_hear_me_out_storys/ |
throwitawayne | 2022-05-24 05:29:59 | 1,653,370,199 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | uwjkg3 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uwjkg3/a_datingturnedfizzlingfriendship_story/ | 1 | I met a girl on an OLD app about two months ago, and our dates were going along well. I truly truly admire her as a person, but wasn't sure if there was a true romantic connection. Meanwhile, she shut down her app profile, but said it wasn't about me, just something she "needs to do" from time to time. I was about to p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A Dating-Turned-Fizzling-Friendship Story | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uwjkg3/a_datingturnedfizzlingfriendship_story/ |
OhHiItsMe | 2014-04-24 22:11:06 | 1,398,377,466 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 23wdwe | null | null | 11 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/23wdwe/met_the_greatest_guy_ever_and_now_i_need_to_dump/ | 8 | Hello, ladies. I apologize in advance if this seems crazy/trivial, but I have no close girlfriends to talk to right now and am hoping you can offer advice and perspective. About 2 months ago I met this guy on OKCupid, we hit it off right away, he was super good looking, I couldn't believe my luck. We met about 2 weeks ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Met the greatest guy ever, and now I need to dump him | 8 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/23wdwe/met_the_greatest_guy_ever_and_now_i_need_to_dump/ |
Polistera | 2017-11-20 13:25:58 | 1,511,184,358 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7e8u34 | false | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7e8u34/finances_and_future_prospects_when_do_you/ | 4 | First time poster (36f), long time lurker. Before i dive into my question I would like to thank you all for the very illuminating topics and comments on this subreddit. Nearly all of my friends are settled down with their long term partners and i sometimes very much miss being able to talk about the issues that surroun... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Finances and future prospects, when do you disclose information? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7e8u34/finances_and_future_prospects_when_do_you/ |
illgetthere | 2020-03-07 11:05:29 | 1,583,579,129 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | fetrcg | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/fetrcg/how_soon_is_too_soon_to_talk_about_being_exclusive/ | 7 | Quick back story - I seperated from my ex about 18 months ago. I've dated quite a bit during this time and meet 3 women that I was having a lot of fun with, but never saw it as a long term thing. All of those ended because they wanted to keep things moving and I wasn't giving them what they wanted/needed. I had sort of... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How soon is too soon to talk about being exclusive? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/fetrcg/how_soon_is_too_soon_to_talk_about_being_exclusive/ |
c0nfuzzled_ | 2018-10-16 05:22:57 | 1,539,667,377 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 9okn07 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9okn07/confused_and_wondering_if_this_is_common_in/ | 3 | First time online dating, hence why I'm wondering if this is common. This guy super-likes me, and he initiates conversation. We talk quite a bit, and it's actual conversation about interests/work/etc, not just puns/pick-up lines. Exchange numbers, talk even more, and he asks me out on a date. Before the date, we text t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused, and wondering if this is common in online dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9okn07/confused_and_wondering_if_this_is_common_in/ |
LiamBregas | 2022-05-15 09:20:17 | 1,652,606,417 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | uq2c62 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uq2c62/hug_on_first_date/ | 1 | So i've been texting this girl i met on tinder for a couple of days and we have been really hitting it off, she seems very interested in me as I am with her, so i organized a date with her and she said she was excited to meet me. So I was wondering, when I greet her should i just go for a friendly hug or something like... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hug on first Date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uq2c62/hug_on_first_date/ |
jaysaysjello | 2022-06-14 12:05:38 | 1,655,208,338 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | vc1zpd | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/vc1zpd/im_afraid_to_get_another_job_because_of_how_much/ | 162 | I EASILY LOOK 16 BY THE WAY. I’ve been unemployed for 2 months now struggling to get by because working has become fucking traumatizing. At my last job, Lowe’s, in only the span of 8 months, we had a guy whip his dick out in front of two of us women. I had old men call me pet names galore. Tootsie, cutie, angel, cupcak... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I’m afraid to get another job because of how much I get harassed | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/vc1zpd/im_afraid_to_get_another_job_because_of_how_much/ |
MammothSome3999 | 2022-08-21 16:00:49 | 1,661,097,649 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | wu31kz | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wu31kz/im_having_a_huge_crush_on_a_good_friend_and_dont/ | 3 | I met this guy via a dating app actually. We had one date in April, it was really nice but we live in different countries.Since then we have been talking regularly and I recently realized I am thinking about him way too much. We already had a conversation and decided it would be best if we stayed friends since we didn’... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m having a huge crush on a good friend and don’t know what to do | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wu31kz/im_having_a_huge_crush_on_a_good_friend_and_dont/ |
Future-Argument9638 | 2024-09-12 04:50:00 | 1,726,116,600 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1feuhbr | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1feuhbr/m24_feeling_fine_then_boom_now_the_desire_for_a/ | 2 | I'm a 24m, and lately, I've been struggling with a lack of relationships in my life. It’s driving me nuts and actually worsening my chances at dating I suppose people sense that somehow. What do people usually do in these situations? I have never been overly emotional, but about about two years ago, it's like a switch ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | M24: Feeling Fine, Then Boom! Now the Desire for a Relationship Is Overwhelming and Ruining My Dating Attempts | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1feuhbr/m24_feeling_fine_then_boom_now_the_desire_for_a/ |
LeManateeMan | 2021-12-22 23:03:51 | 1,640,214,231 | null | ['hinge', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | rmh86c | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rmh86c/dating_when_you_have_an_anxiety_disorder/ | 3 | Hey everyone, I've been using Hinge and Coffee Meets Bagel to go on dates for the past couple weeks. I'm a 26yr male with an anxiety disorder and ocd. I've went on several dates so far and I met a phd student who seems really cool. I went on two dates with her so far and am waiting for the third one. She said she would... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating When You Have An Anxiety Disorder | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rmh86c/dating_when_you_have_an_anxiety_disorder/ |
tykelly123 | 2018-12-06 14:51:10 | 1,544,107,870 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | a3ok9r | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a3ok9r/what_dating_sites_have_worked_the_best_for_you/ | 4 | I (29m) have been trying dating sites for years and I don't know if it's just my area or what, but I just don't have any luck finding anyone. What sites or apps do you find work best for you? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What dating sites have worked the best for you? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a3ok9r/what_dating_sites_have_worked_the_best_for_you/ |
AdHoliday8745 | 2023-04-30 07:21:07 | 1,682,839,267 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | 133ik05 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/133ik05/need_advice_29f1st_date_story/ | 1 | Hi 👋🏼 I’m 29F and I had the craziest, most memorable 1st date of my life last week that I wanna get a man’s perspective on. Long story short, I had been talking to this man (39) for a week or so very casually online through Hinge & then he very slyly asked for my IG so he could live vicariously when I said I was leav... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need advice (29F)1st Date Story | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/133ik05/need_advice_29f1st_date_story/ |
alibrarian510 | 2017-11-23 05:53:12 | 1,511,416,392 | null | ['matches', 'OLD', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 7exi14 | false | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7exi14/my_experience_of_trying_old_again_vs_when_i_didnt/ | 7 | I went back to give online dating another try on Bumble and Tinder. In the three weeks I've been on, I've not had a single date. I've had matches, messages, plans to meet, ghosting, a girl who got too crazy and another one who barely made an effort. It doesn't make me feel good. I think about my experience before this ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | My experience of trying OLD again vs when I didn't | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7exi14/my_experience_of_trying_old_again_vs_when_i_didnt/ |
AsleepOutcome | 2019-06-06 06:16:56 | 1,559,801,816 | null | ['dating site', 'tinder'] | 0 | bxdbtu | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bxdbtu/is_tinder_the_most_active_dating_site_27m/ | 5 | I would much prefer something as active, but everytime I meet a girl on Tinder she's usually the type of girl who sleeps around. I personally want a real relationship and Tinder seems to be only about sex. Any suggestions on something else or is Tinder the best we got? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is tinder the most active dating site? (27,M) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bxdbtu/is_tinder_the_most_active_dating_site_27m/ |
Revolutionary-Band23 | 2020-09-18 19:50:53 | 1,600,458,653 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | ivd7f6 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ivd7f6/does_old_fashioned_meets_still_exist_30m/ | 5 | I have been a member of various websites looking to meet 'the one' i find dating sites so shallow I am not a 'looker' at all but I know I have a fantastic personality with charm and I am witty and can make people laugh in my everyday life. But the cannot translate into dating sites. Do people out there still meet peopl... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Does old fashioned meets still exist (30m) | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ivd7f6/does_old_fashioned_meets_still_exist_30m/ |
MrMyst3ryz | 2022-06-24 17:18:01 | 1,656,091,081 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | vjth42 | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vjth42/does_she_actually_want_to_be_friends/ | 1 | A few days ago I (22M) went on a date with this girl (21F) I met on Hinge. I thought it was by far one of the greatest dates I've ever been on; she was funny, smart, and beautiful and we had a lot in common. The next day I told her I had a great time and wanted to see if she wanted to meet up again this weekend, and sh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does she actually want to be friends? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vjth42/does_she_actually_want_to_be_friends/ |
akdwyer00 | 2021-05-03 21:53:26 | 1,620,078,806 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | n48gkh | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n48gkh/we_went_from_texting_the_entire_day_after_she/ | 1 | This is sort of a vent post.. by why do girls do this?? She was so interested in talking just yesterday.. SHE was the one insisting on continuing conversation and now she’s barely replying to me today. I met her on match and we went on a date that we both agreed went well and having been talking since. And now today sh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | We went from texting the entire day after she sent the first text to barely anything just one day later | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n48gkh/we_went_from_texting_the_entire_day_after_she/ |
Melalivin | 2022-11-14 18:45:19 | 1,668,451,519 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | yv8mcd | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yv8mcd/dating_advice_new_to_dating_met_a_guy_hes_been/ | 1 | Hi all, first time posting under this subreddit. I’ve got something on my mind that’s been bothering me about this guy that I’ve gone on a few dates with so I’m asking for others advice. The story starts out normally enough. I go on a date with a guy from hinge, he’s a nice guy and puts effort into planning more dates.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating advice - new to dating. Met A guy, he’s been texting “I miss you”since three weeks after we met. Need advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yv8mcd/dating_advice_new_to_dating_met_a_guy_hes_been/ |
InfamouslyJuniper | 2024-04-14 07:07:26 | 1,713,078,446 | 0 | null | 0 | 1c3nhju | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1c3nhju/rematching_again_we_never_went_out_didnt_give_me/ | 1 | Hey so idk if I should do anything with this. We we mid twenties. This guy sent a like on hinge, we matched talked a bit and then he gave me his so we could talk about our plan to meet. Well while we were figuring things out we had plans set for a Friday, but after talking about details we agreed to move it to the foll... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Rematching again, we never went out, didn’t give me his number this time? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c3nhju/rematching_again_we_never_went_out_didnt_give_me/ |
Acid_In_My_Eyes | 2021-06-13 16:55:07 | 1,623,603,307 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | nz0nat | true | null | 68 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/nz0nat/what_do_you_think_about_guys_getting_no_matches/ | 19 | Or very few? Do people have to use boost or tinder gold to get matches? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What do you think about guys getting no matches on Tinder? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/nz0nat/what_do_you_think_about_guys_getting_no_matches/ |
MFRobots | 2023-07-13 10:02:26 | 1,689,242,546 | 0 | null | 0 | 14ygmpr | false | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14ygmpr/is_having_common_hobbies_and_interests_overrated/ | 4 | I was wondering, how overrated is having common hobbies and interests are? For instance, seems just about every woman I'd have common interests in when it comes to movies, geek culture, sci-fi, theme parks, board games, etc etc....it just seems that the interests isn't mutual. I figured sometimes if you had common inte... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is having common hobbies and interests overrated? | 4 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14ygmpr/is_having_common_hobbies_and_interests_overrated/ |
TripleDigitNomad | 2023-06-06 17:30:46 | 1,686,072,646 | 0 | null | 0 | 142n5jg | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/142n5jg/tinder_hack_to_get_more_matches_for_free/ | 1 | I know this sounds like a clickbait title, but it's legit so read on. I personally don't pay for tinder, like most people, so I'm limited to the 30 or whatever free likes it gives you per day. However, I've noticed a pattern when it comes to the swiping system that tinder (and only tinder, this doesn't work for other a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Tinder hack to get more matches for free | 1 | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/142n5jg/tinder_hack_to_get_more_matches_for_free/ |
Devin-Chaboyer223 | 2023-05-15 08:25:39 | 1,684,139,139 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 13i221c | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13i221c/how_can_i_get_a_girlfriend_as_a_person_who_is/ | 2 | I'm 19, male, never dated before I've been wanting to be in a relationship for a very long time, even in high school I never got a girlfriend even though I tried (got rejected) I am currently employed, but all the women at work are significantly older than me and already have husbands/boyfriends And being single someho... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How can I get a girlfriend as a person who is both shy and introverted | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13i221c/how_can_i_get_a_girlfriend_as_a_person_who_is/ |
bobsyourdaughter | 2020-08-20 01:48:53 | 1,597,888,133 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | id1b2k | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/id1b2k/is_it_acceptable_to_ask_a_taken_girlfriend_if_she/ | 12 | I’m 21 (m), and as a second-year university student at a big university, I have embarrassingly little (or I should say basically zero) dating and sexual experience. The closest thing to that was a sexless relationship right before coming to university that lasted six months, with a girl who turned out to be a lesbian a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it acceptable to ask a taken girl-friend if she has any single girl-friends ready to date? (+ general dating questions) | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/id1b2k/is_it_acceptable_to_ask_a_taken_girlfriend_if_she/ |
therevealing1974 | 2018-05-17 20:56:01 | 1,526,590,561 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8k7ohl | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8k7ohl/crush_on_a_younger_friend_odd_situation_can_it/ | 0 | I'm a 44M. I'm happily married with one child. I have serious health issues \(terminal\). My wife will allow me to have a one night only with someone just because she's pretty cool. \(and knows my sex drive outstrips hers\). I've been on all the hookup sites, and Tinder, still not getting anywhere. I saw a friend recen... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Crush on a Younger Friend, odd situation, can it work for a night? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8k7ohl/crush_on_a_younger_friend_odd_situation_can_it/ |
[deleted] | 2020-12-04 12:54:14 | 1,607,086,454 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | k6kctb | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k6kctb/how_to_get_pass_the_talking_stage/ | 2 | I use online dating. I prefer this way of approaching, then talking in real life. Anyway, I struggle in keep going with the talking stage and doesn't go further. I know some people prefer meeting right away, but I prefer talking for a bit. Am I just doing wrong? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get pass the talking stage? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k6kctb/how_to_get_pass_the_talking_stage/ |
abnormalaf | 2023-05-18 13:16:08 | 1,684,415,768 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 13kyy6z | true | Question ❓ | 277 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13kyy6z/do_you_ladies_ghost_for_this/ | 131 | I have my own thoughts on the matter but I want to know what everyone else does. When you’re texting a guy you met in person or off a dating app about random things, and then he makes a sexual comment, do you: •block and ghost •correct him and block after •correct him and move past it, while raising a red flag Example:... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you ladies ghost for this? | 131 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13kyy6z/do_you_ladies_ghost_for_this/ |
Akira176 | 2020-04-20 20:48:09 | 1,587,415,689 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'dating app'] | 0 | g50xqo | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g50xqo/hitting_off_the_second_time/ | 1 | So I was chatting to this guy on a dating app and he showed interest in me for a bit but it fizzled away from his side after a while. I have come across him on another dating app half a year later, should I just let it go or swipe right? Not sure if it's a lost cause? I don't know if it's going to be embarrassing swipi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hitting off the second time? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g50xqo/hitting_off_the_second_time/ |
Jode886 | 2019-02-19 02:23:18 | 1,550,542,998 | null | ['pof'] | 0 | as5971 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/as5971/what_to_do/ | 7 | So recently i discovered my boyfriend of 4 years is using pof .. I havent confronted him yet for the whole simple reason he will flip it on me.. I know im not crazy .. Been having problems with him anyhow.. Makes a big deal about having 2 jobs an doesnt help around the house.. Should i just lose the deadweight | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/as5971/what_to_do/ |
knaganalf | 2019-12-21 22:50:30 | 1,576,968,630 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | edwmc9 | true | Venting | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/edwmc9/this_is_the_hardest_time_of_year_to_date_someone/ | 10 | I (28F) met this guy (33M) on OLD a week before Thanksgiving. We really clicked -- common interests, great sex, excited to explore the city and do activities together. However, with holidays, parties, family events, etc, I honestly think this is the hardest time of year to meet someone new. People travel, see old flame... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | This is the hardest time of year to date someone new | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/edwmc9/this_is_the_hardest_time_of_year_to_date_someone/ |
Apprehensive-Chart88 | 2023-12-07 03:40:31 | 1,701,920,431 | 0 | null | 0 | 18cmjgc | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18cmjgc/advice_for_guy_who_hasnt_reached_out_in_a_week/ | 1 | Had a great time and our date lasted all day (over 8 hours). He kept extending it throughout or date because he said he really enjoyed his time with me. Conversation flowed and there was chemistry/flirtation. He messaged me after our date what a fun time he had and asked me out generally during our date but didn’t soli... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Advice for guy who hasn’t reached out in a week post date | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18cmjgc/advice_for_guy_who_hasnt_reached_out_in_a_week/ |
lizardtonguee | 2019-12-04 11:14:14 | 1,575,458,054 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | e5xqhw | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e5xqhw/28f_never_had_a_serious_relationship/ | 6 | Hi fellow redidtors I'm a 28f who has never been in a relationship before. I'm a late bloomer, did not start dating until the age of 25. I've had a few flings but nothing serious. Growing up in an emotionally and physically abusive family has hindered me from being able to form a genuine connection as all the relations... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 28f never had a serious relationship | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e5xqhw/28f_never_had_a_serious_relationship/ |
CandleEast | 2022-04-05 10:20:06 | 1,649,154,006 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | twrp0e | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/twrp0e/is_it_worth_replying/ | 1 | Silly question but I (f22) was chatting to a guy on hinge (m22) 2 weeks ago and then he stopped replying, he messaged me yesterday apologising for not replying then picked up the convo. We go to the same uni and I think he seems really interesting plus he deffo didn't owe a response so i'm not massively fussed but also... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it worth replying? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/twrp0e/is_it_worth_replying/ |
OwnQuiet5641 | 2024-05-21 13:33:53 | 1,716,298,433 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1cx81c8 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cx81c8/motivation/ | 1 | Recently I m finding myself empty, healing from past at the same time i am an international student. Its my first time going on your own. I recently broke up, i feel lonely. Here i like to stay introvert because its difficult to communicate feeling to stranger. All this time i was only dedicated to one man. Now i find ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Motivation | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cx81c8/motivation/ |
joeldeim | 2017-12-24 09:58:57 | 1,514,109,537 | null | ['tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 7lugki | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7lugki/25_years_old_never_had_a_girlfriend_stressing_out/ | 7 | Hello, last week I had an 25 birthday. However, I wasn’t happy at all during this birthday, I was scared. I’m 25 years old and still couldn’t find any relationship, I’m afraid to be alone for the rest of my life. 2017 was one of the worst I have ever experienced. On last December I went out with a girl few times and ev... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 25 years old never had a girlfriend.. stressing out | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7lugki/25_years_old_never_had_a_girlfriend_stressing_out/ |
Nice-Wealth77 | 2024-02-02 05:13:21 | 1,706,850,801 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1agvzx9 | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1agvzx9/college_student_looking_for_help/ | 1 | College Student Looking for Advice I am senior in college and I want to get back into dating. However, I’m not sure how to get started. It’s been difficult to find the type of woman I want around campus. I have high Christian standards and as you probably know, colleges aren’t the best places to find Godly men and wome... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | College Student Looking for help | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1agvzx9/college_student_looking_for_help/ |
dolviolex | 2018-04-22 01:04:42 | 1,524,359,082 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 8e01ao | false | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8e01ao/how_to_i_35m_put_this_girl_34f_into_the_friend/ | 1 | Back story: We used to work together for a couple years about 6 years ago. She was married and there was nothing between us at the time. Two years ago we ran into each other on a dating app and met up. Her story of leaving her husband, ending up with his good friend, the friend was married with kids, and still, is all ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to I [35m] put this girl [34f] into the friend only bucket? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8e01ao/how_to_i_35m_put_this_girl_34f_into_the_friend/ |
minervassong | 2012-05-05 22:06:31 | 1,336,255,591 | 10 | ['dating site'] | null | t8w3b | null | null | 51 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/t8w3b/hi_ladies_i_was_wondering_what_borderline_crazy/ | 8 | I'm asking because I came to a realization today. I've realized that I have a pattern of behavior just before or during my period that is borderline insane. It only lasts 2 or 3 days and I forget about it and stop. The behavior is, I browse craigslist and recreate dating site profiles for the thousandth time because I ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Hi ladies, I was wondering what borderline crazy things you do during PMS and/or your period | 18 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/t8w3b/hi_ladies_i_was_wondering_what_borderline_crazy/ |
Secret_Edge | 2021-01-05 09:53:34 | 1,609,840,414 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | kqvcb5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kqvcb5/what_is_a_stag_and_vixen_and_why_are_they_looking/ | 1 | Quick summary. I was on an old dating site and a couple liked me. Thier profile states they are a straight married couple looking for a third person for threesomes. They state that I must be straight. However I can only interact with the male. Doesnt this seem really weird? Maybe I'm just out if the loop, but I'm still... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is a stag and vixen and why are they looking for a third? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kqvcb5/what_is_a_stag_and_vixen_and_why_are_they_looking/ |
Icy_Author_7306 | 2024-07-24 00:00:41 | 1,721,779,241 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1ean7sh | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ean7sh/dating_an_european_for_the_first_time_in_my_life/ | 0 | A couple of weeks ago, I decided to install this Bumble app, and met this beautiful European girl, to be more specific, she is from northeastern Europe (Countries like Poland, Slovakia, Ukraine, Belarus, Finland, Lithuania, Estonia, etc) It is the 1st time I have met and have the opportunity to go on a date with a girl... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating an European for the first time in my life. Advice needed. | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ean7sh/dating_an_european_for_the_first_time_in_my_life/ |
appearantly | 2019-12-09 04:16:05 | 1,575,864,965 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | e84tua | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/e84tua/alternative_to_book_club/ | 1 | I’m wanting to have some kind of monthly get together with some like-minded women. I’ve been using bumble bff to find people I might wanna hang out with and I’d love to get all of us together once or twice a month. I don’t want to start a book club—what are some ideas of other “clubs” I could form instead? | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Alternative to book club? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/e84tua/alternative_to_book_club/ |
dinkiedink | 2023-09-10 20:58:04 | 1,694,379,484 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16fbito | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16fbito/feeling_insignificant/ | 1 | I guess I’m just here to vent and maybe feel a bit less alone. I moved to a new city a few months ago and it’s been slow to make friends and build a social life. Of course, dating apps make it easy to have conversations and connect with people, while the IRL world builds up. I’m ready for a relationship and to start bu... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Feeling insignificant | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16fbito/feeling_insignificant/ |
iWumbo_uWumbo | 2019-06-20 15:16:12 | 1,561,043,772 | null | null | 0 | c2x9ho | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/c2x9ho/we_matched_she_messaged_first_then_crickets/ | 5 | We matched on Monday and she immediately initiated and asked me something about my profile, which I really appreciated, I answered and asked her a question but since then, nothing. I realize odds are that she matched with someone more interesting, but I'm still most likely going to follow up sometime soon. Still new to... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | We matched. She messaged first. Then crickets. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/c2x9ho/we_matched_she_messaged_first_then_crickets/ |
itsthotiana | 2022-07-21 01:08:13 | 1,658,365,693 | null | null | 0 | w43306 | true | null | 59 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/w43306/i_think_im_getting_asked_out/ | 63 | I’ve been fat since I was a kid and always struggled managing my weight. Being my size has made dating nearly impossible since no one is really that interested in me. I barely get matches, and when I do, I always have to be the one to message first and put in the effort. But a pretty girl just asked me how I feel about... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I think I’m getting asked out. | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/w43306/i_think_im_getting_asked_out/ |
yoysheh | 2023-10-11 12:37:02 | 1,697,027,822 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 175d0h4 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/175d0h4/online_dating/ | 1 | Hello due to reasons I cannot date local, any advice on where to look online and stuff. also I have zero dating experience so yeah I am planning to wing it anyway. I am bisexual so I prefer somewhere that can accept that. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | online dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/175d0h4/online_dating/ |
Big_b0ss_Omega | 2018-06-25 02:34:48 | 1,529,894,088 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8tn1ak | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8tn1ak/dont_know_where_to_go_from_here/ | 2 | so ive been talking to a girl i matched with on tinder and we have been chating on snapchat for 2 days and i asked her is she would like to catch up and go to a movie or get coffee. she said she had work on the Saturday so she couldn't make it and asked when im free i told her i was free whenever and to msg me if she s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Don't know where to go from here | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8tn1ak/dont_know_where_to_go_from_here/ |
alui-0909 | 2023-04-02 14:59:02 | 1,680,447,542 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 129np5p | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/129np5p/how_do_i_meet_girls/ | 1 | I'm 21 and I never even kissed a girl. I'm not a super model, but looks are not the problem. I don't think my personality is either. My problem is that I never meet any girls. From when I was a child to when I was 15 I only hung out with male friends and from when I was 16 to when I was 19 I had a shitty phase where I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I meet girls? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/129np5p/how_do_i_meet_girls/ |
-Adapted | 2022-05-08 14:22:46 | 1,652,019,766 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ul2sci | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ul2sci/should_i_feel_bad_that_my_tinder_photos_make_me/ | 3 | I’m a guy and have had great success on Tinder, able to secure hookups/FWBs quite easily after the first date, as I think I get along with most people and I generally like meeting new people, so I vibe with most girls. Nonetheless, I feel like my photos on Tinder could be an exaggerated and enhanced version of what I a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I feel bad that my Tinder photos make me look better? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ul2sci/should_i_feel_bad_that_my_tinder_photos_make_me/ |
notanaccount93 | 2019-05-12 15:57:23 | 1,557,676,643 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | bnqh2d | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bnqh2d/i_keep_letting_my_past_dating_failures_ruin_my/ | 1 | So I don’t have the luxury of being able to see a therapist so unfortunately I’m stuck ranting here. Basically I have little to no dating experience and I’m 26 years old. I’m at the point where if I even think about asking a cute girl out, I feel like my heart is about to jump out of my chest. I know everyone gets nerv... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I keep letting my past dating failures ruin my future (26m) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bnqh2d/i_keep_letting_my_past_dating_failures_ruin_my/ |
Hightechhigh1 | 2019-05-29 09:42:40 | 1,559,122,960 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | buckvj | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/buckvj/new_23m/ | 2 | A bit of background about me— I’m a bi male virgin who had never been kissed or on a date. I had gotten crushes before but they were never reciprocated so they were never acted on. I’ve never been particularly comfortable with my attraction towards women. I think largely because I have trouble seeing myself as attracti... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | New, 23M | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/buckvj/new_23m/ |
Swimming-Otter-00 | 2023-09-28 23:06:35 | 1,695,942,395 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16uutqs | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16uutqs/i_want_to_get_to_know_someone_who_lives_next_door/ | 1 | After moving into my new apartment, a chance encounter in the lobby changed the way I viewed my neighbor. While picking up a package, I couldn't help but notice his unique name. Out of sheer curiosity, I decided to look him up and was surprised to discover that he and I had both attended the same university and worked ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I want to get to know someone who lives next door... I need advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16uutqs/i_want_to_get_to_know_someone_who_lives_next_door/ |
PositionEuphoric9318 | 2022-03-15 23:00:41 | 1,647,385,241 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | tf2wlj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tf2wlj/confused/ | 1 | I (f20) have been talking to this guy (m24) I met on tinder for the past few weeks. It’s been great and we have a lot in common. We’ve really gotten to know each other and I have feelings for him. The problem is that on our first date he told me he’s emotionally unavailable since he just got out of a relationship, but ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tf2wlj/confused/ |
okokyky | 2023-04-03 07:26:55 | 1,680,506,815 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 12acsae | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12acsae/i_am_21f_i_met_a_guy_22m_on_hinge_our_date_went/ | 2 | I met a guy on Hinge, and we decided to hang out. He took me to a very nice restaurant, and it turned out to be an amazing date. He made me feel so special that he insisted on paying for the food, even though I wanted to split the bill. We discovered that we had a lot in common, discussing politics, history, school, an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I am 21F, i met a guy 22M on hinge. Our date went so well and i really like him but he didn’t text me. | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12acsae/i_am_21f_i_met_a_guy_22m_on_hinge_our_date_went/ |
EbbRepresentative659 | 2022-10-25 12:59:35 | 1,666,702,775 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | yd48n1 | true | Question ❓ | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/yd48n1/how_to_get_accepted_into_raya/ | 0 | Ok, so I’m not aware of any of my friends being on the Raya dating app. But I also don’t have many conversations with my friends about which dating apps they’re using (except Grindr, because I’m gay, and we’re all on it, and it’s a shit show). So … how do you get referrals without having to make yourself look sad and d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to get accepted into Raya | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yd48n1/how_to_get_accepted_into_raya/ |
fvckspeak | 2023-03-07 14:36:38 | 1,678,199,798 | null | null | 0 | 11l1010 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11l1010/article_ghosted_by_an_app_soft_paywall_read_in/ | 1 | null | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | article: "ghosted by an app" (soft paywall read in incognito mode if you use chrome) | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11l1010/article_ghosted_by_an_app_soft_paywall_read_in/ |
ExtraBaconPlz | 2014-10-27 23:54:00 | 1,414,454,040 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2kilyf | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2kilyf/date_21f_flaked_on_me_22m_where_do_i_go_from_here/ | 1 | I posted on here a couple days ago in search of advice on how to ask out a Tinder match. Fortunately for me, she said yes to a coffee meet up that was supposed to happen earlier today, and seemed pretty eager about it. I showed up to the coffee shop at the agreed time, but after about 15 minutes, she still wasn't there... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Date (21/F) flaked on me (22/M). Where do I go from here? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2kilyf/date_21f_flaked_on_me_22m_where_do_i_go_from_here/ |
Righteousmind9876 | 2024-01-27 18:29:21 | 1,706,380,161 | 0 | ['swipe', 'online dating'] | 0 | 1achewp | false | Question | 132 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1achewp/i_have_3_questions_for_the_ladies/ | 1 | Alright, gentlemen, gather round! It's time for a little enlightenment, a crash course in 'Women's Experiences in Online Dating 101.' Why, you ask? Well, it's simple: understanding each others experiences is key to being less of a mystery and more of a knight in digital armor. Let's face it, the dating world can be a r... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I have 3 questions for the ladies! | 1 | 0.49 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1achewp/i_have_3_questions_for_the_ladies/ |
No_Ladder2623 | 2022-06-05 21:07:20 | 1,654,463,240 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | v5mmpk | true | Support Needed | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/v5mmpk/have_you_ever_met_someone_once_and_they_turned/ | 6 | I’ve never been someone who believes in true love, love at first sight, spirituality, or external forces along that line. I wasn’t raised with the knowledge of religions or think true love exists. I used to hear stories of how others fall in love and lose everything. I didn’t believe in soulmates or how someone could b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Have you ever met someone once and they turned your world upside down, and changed your perspectives on everything you’ve ever known? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v5mmpk/have_you_ever_met_someone_once_and_they_turned/ |
[deleted] | 2014-11-13 04:21:19 | 1,415,852,479 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 2m5feg | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating/comments/2m5feg/going_from_casual_dating_to_long_distance/ | 2 | Tldr: the title Here is a super quick run down of the situation im dealing with. Two weeks ago I met a girl on Okcupid. She suggested we watch Netflix at my place. But that wasn't all... she wanted to watch it in my bed, which was a first. After watching 5 hours of "the 100" on netflix, I suggested we make out and frea... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Going from casual dating to long distance relationship. | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2m5feg/going_from_casual_dating_to_long_distance/ |
polarisborealis | 2023-06-20 21:04:05 | 1,687,295,045 | 0 | null | 0 | 14en5zx | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14en5zx/men_you_match_with_a_woman_who_lives_15hrs_away/ | 2 | null | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Men, you match with a woman who lives 1.5hrs away, when planning the first date you… | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14en5zx/men_you_match_with_a_woman_who_lives_15hrs_away/ |
vega9264 | 2021-02-18 03:17:56 | 1,613,618,276 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | lmcebr | true | null | 194 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/lmcebr/it_cant_possibly_be_this_difficult/ | 59 | F47, intelligent, independent, not hideous, no major hang ups or vices... I was divorced in ‘07 after having been separated for 2 years (although I didn’t realize it at that time). I have tried OLD over and over again, and I’m just really questioning what is wrong with me at this point... I have yet to meet anyone whos... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | It can’t possibly be this difficult.... | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/lmcebr/it_cant_possibly_be_this_difficult/ |
medstudent0529 | 2024-06-26 19:56:26 | 1,719,431,786 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 1dp7wpy | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dp7wpy/dating_apps/ | 1 | Getting lots of likes on okcupid but not tinder and bumble, is this normal? I want to provide a bit more context, I live in UK and my setting for searching a partner is within 400 miles on tinder and bumble (that’s the maximum) and okcupid is anywhere around the world. Can this be the reason?😂 I know all the likes I’v... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dp7wpy/dating_apps/ |
tahitianmangodfarmer | 2021-05-12 13:20:22 | 1,620,825,622 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | naohw2 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/naohw2/should_i_22m_message_this_girl_21f_again/ | 2 | So I matched with this girl on bumble almost 3 weeks ago. Right off the bat she seemed significantly more interested than any other match I'd previously had on all the apps. The conversation was fantastic and we quickly moved over to snap and text after she gave me her number and snapchat. The conversation continued to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (22m) message this girl (21f) again? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/naohw2/should_i_22m_message_this_girl_21f_again/ |
radioactiveicedtea | 2021-05-02 03:13:55 | 1,619,925,235 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | n2xw6k | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n2xw6k/i_cant_tell_if_im_23f_being_used_by_the_guy_im/ | 2 | I'm sorry I've posted here sort of frequently. I just feel like I can't trust my own judgement anymore. You can look at my last post here for more insight, but the summary is that I've been talking to a guy I met on tinder since at least last October. We mostly just hung out at his apartment because it was too hard to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I can't tell if I'm [23F] being used by the guy I'm seeing [M27] | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n2xw6k/i_cant_tell_if_im_23f_being_used_by_the_guy_im/ |
ThisPaige | 2022-07-31 23:01:02 | 1,659,308,462 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | wd1jp3 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wd1jp3/were_over_arent_we/ | 2 | So I started seeing this guy back in March. He’s really sweet and cute and we go on dates. I asked if we were official and we both deleted bumble off our phones. Last week he never texted me. After day 3 I started to get concerned and day 4 I texted him. He said that he was feeling having a bad day and throughout the w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | We’re over aren’t we? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wd1jp3/were_over_arent_we/ |
TortoiseToes1254 | 2024-05-21 23:01:08 | 1,716,332,468 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating site'] | 0 | 1cxlglw | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cxlglw/how_do_i_tell_him_i_like_him/ | 1 | Hi, so I’m a F21 and I matched with a M23 on a dating site and we have been texting for months. We had our first date last week and it was a bit awkward but once we eventually broke through our nervous shell we had an awesome date, we just went on a second date and it was amazing and I wanted to kiss him but I couldn’t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I tell him I like him? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cxlglw/how_do_i_tell_him_i_like_him/ |
DeepPoseidon12121 | 2022-08-11 07:41:25 | 1,660,203,685 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | wllhgo | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wllhgo/tinder_dating/ | 1 | I am a 25M and use tinder with minimal luck but, does anyone else seem to match with really pretty women but don't messaged them because you know they're either bots or filters? (filters being women who swipe right on every guy and go through all their matches and filter out the ugly ones) | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wllhgo/tinder_dating/ |
Middle-Study6338 | 2022-09-06 19:33:01 | 1,662,492,781 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | x7jjfq | true | null | 57 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/x7jjfq/establishing_trust_and_confidence/ | 10 | Hi all. I (51M, divorced 1 year) have been dating a wonderful woman (50F, divorced 5 years) for about 9 months now. We met via OLD. We are very similar in many ways, get along great and I could definitely see this turning in a LTR. We are experiencing a problem which I fear may eventually lead to the end of the relatio... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Establishing trust and confidence | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/x7jjfq/establishing_trust_and_confidence/ |
spotthefun | 2024-04-26 08:15:39 | 1,714,119,339 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cdfzxj | true | Question ❓ | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cdfzxj/why_girls_especially_hot_ones_are_so_impatient/ | 2 | They hardly text rich content and just pop out one or two words every time. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why girls, especially hot ones, are so impatient and indifferent on dating apps? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cdfzxj/why_girls_especially_hot_ones_are_so_impatient/ |
will2fight | 2020-01-15 07:29:25 | 1,579,073,365 | null | ['tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | eoz7bb | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/eoz7bb/out_of_a_5_year_relationship_how_do_i_date_again/ | 2 | So I’m on tinder, okcupid and I’ll be on the lookout in my day to day life. But things feel SO different from when I was 21 and single. I’m 26 now and being in a relationship for that prime time really took me out of the loop. How do I become confident with my approach and wtf should I be asking for? A Snapchat or a ph... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Out of a 5 year relationship. How do I date again with all the new social media? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eoz7bb/out_of_a_5_year_relationship_how_do_i_date_again/ |
Eat_Carbs_OD | 2023-02-04 21:57:11 | 1,675,547,831 | null | null | 0 | 10tsiet | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10tsiet/dating_site_fees/ | 1 | Are there any that are somewhat ok site they don't have a monthly fee? (I don't use aps - unless it's on my PC) I am getting sick of throwing money down the drain. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dating site fees | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10tsiet/dating_site_fees/ |
[deleted] | 2012-09-12 01:06:59 | 1,347,412,019 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | zqp3v | null | null | 13 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/zqp3v/how_compatible_is_compatible_enough/ | 4 | We all have our preferences. Indeed, some of us can be quite picky when it comes to significant others. In fact, some of us are so picky that we can't realistically expect there even to be a "perfect" match. The question is, how good of a match is good enough to try to make it work out? I'll explain. Let us suppose we ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How compatible is compatible enough? | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zqp3v/how_compatible_is_compatible_enough/ |
[deleted] | 2015-07-22 10:35:08 | 1,437,561,308 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3e6meh | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3e6meh/did_i_mess_up_with_this_guy/ | 1 | I talked to this guy on tinder last week and we really hit it off. We talked on the phone for like 8 hours on day, and a few hours the next day, and texted too. I mean if he is willing to talk to me for that long, he must be interested right? We did this for 2 days and decided to meet up. But he ended up canceling the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I mess up with this guy? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3e6meh/did_i_mess_up_with_this_guy/ |
[deleted] | 2020-05-01 05:28:47 | 1,588,310,927 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | gbcbng | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gbcbng/reaching_out_weeks_after_ghosting_worth_it/ | 2 | So I (32m) matched with another girl (29F) and texted a few days and had a 30 minute phone call a few days later. After that I wasn't sure if I was interested and stopped communication... she reached out 3 days later asked how I was but I didn't reply. I realize now that I'm an idiot and ghosting was a bad idea. All th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | reaching out weeks after ghosting... worth it? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gbcbng/reaching_out_weeks_after_ghosting_worth_it/ |
poshandproper | 2019-02-13 13:06:17 | 1,550,063,177 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | aq6e73 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/aq6e73/is_he_catching_feelings_finally/ | 3 | Hi everyone, I started talking to this guy in September after matching on various dating apps. We went on many dates, but the moment he knew I was catching feelings, he cut me off. Basically told me that he didn’t want a relationship. We saw each other on and off maybe once a month until last January. For over a month ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he catching feelings finally? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aq6e73/is_he_catching_feelings_finally/ |
Own-Kaleidoscope-755 | 2024-06-05 01:03:03 | 1,717,549,383 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d8di2v | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d8di2v/should_i_not_even_focus_on_dating_if_i_feel/ | 1 | I am a woman in her late 20's, who has been working on myself and my career. I have come really far and am proud of my accomplishments, but my last career move did not turn out as expected and it is the main stressor in my life now. Obviously this is affecting my finances, and how I spend my time. I feel wrong even try... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I not even focus on dating, if I feel overwhelmed about my career? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d8di2v/should_i_not_even_focus_on_dating_if_i_feel/ |
pwallace79 | 2020-03-02 19:00:54 | 1,583,175,654 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | fcgzvx | true | null | 68 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/fcgzvx/once_i_gave_up_on_dating_i_started_to_make_real/ | 6 | When I became a single women in her late 30s with kids I was so over the idea of love. It honestly felt like a lie hollywood and hallmark fed us. I checked out online dating and found it shallow and crude. I gave up on the idea of "dating" and just opened myself up to authentically getting to know people. There was no ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Once I Gave Up On Dating I Started To Make Real Connections | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/fcgzvx/once_i_gave_up_on_dating_i_started_to_make_real/ |
[deleted] | 2019-06-19 02:55:28 | 1,560,912,928 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c2bmua | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c2bmua/what_do_i_do/ | 3 | I don’t want to make this long and complicated so I’ll keep it as short as I can. I’m a 31 year old guy. I have virtually no dating experience, meaning I have some but compared to other normal people my age, I might as well be a virgin. I have never been in a long term relationship. I’ve been single for close to 10 yea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c2bmua/what_do_i_do/ |
[deleted] | 2020-09-16 16:47:55 | 1,600,274,875 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | itzd58 | true | Question | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/itzd58/what_are_your_experiencesopinions_on_kissing/ | 1 | I don't know how common this is for most people (especially in the age where most people use online dating), but I have had at least seven instances where I kissed a woman I wasn't dating yet and we ended up dating later. My experiences were very mixed, but didn't usually set the tone for a serious relationship (most d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What Are Your Experiences/Opinions on Kissing Someone BEFORE Your First Date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/itzd58/what_are_your_experiencesopinions_on_kissing/ |
Informal-Amphibian-4 | 2023-11-13 03:42:05 | 1,699,846,925 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17u21kr | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17u21kr/this_may_be_controversial_but_im_curious_about/ | 1 | Do you think it’s possible to have an inkling someone’s “the one” based on a dating profile and your limited online interactions with them? (I don’t necessarily believe in “the one” but for the sake of the question let’s go with the broadest meaning of the term.) What would be the signs you might be right and what woul... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | This may be controversial but i’m curious about your opinion | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17u21kr/this_may_be_controversial_but_im_curious_about/ |
PoweredbyPinot | 2023-11-19 19:58:39 | 1,700,423,919 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17z5g00 | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/17z5g00/oops/ | 12 | I'm in the process of moving from Oregon back to Chicago. Just because I was curious what dating might look like in Chicago, I changed my location on one of my dating apps. The likes flooded in. Now, most were ridiculous but I got a bit curious about a few and matched back. A few light conversations and we agreed that ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Oops | 12 | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17z5g00/oops/ |
sobrBlackBeard | 2022-03-14 16:09:07 | 1,647,274,147 | null | null | 0 | te0zwe | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/te0zwe/hello/ | 0 | So I have met this girl online and we took it to instagram. We have not been talking like a lot. She replies very late and then one day she wanted to talk over the phone and we did and laughed. Then again same type of texting. So I also ignored her but when I do she sends me meme or something followed up with HAHA. We ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Hello. | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/te0zwe/hello/ |
far_from_guessing | 2023-07-25 01:25:42 | 1,690,248,342 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 158tl3f | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/158tl3f/advice_on_extroverts/ | 1 | I’m (29F) an introvert whose friends also mostly include introverts. I started talking to a very obvious extrovert, and I am unclear if what he’s displaying are red flags or if this is just the personality of an extrovert. I matched with a guy (39M) a couple weeks ago. He messaged me but then didn’t respond for 2 days.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice on extroverts | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/158tl3f/advice_on_extroverts/ |
OwlBeaniez | 2020-05-16 05:15:05 | 1,589,606,105 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'dating site'] | 0 | gkp50h | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gkp50h/how_do_you_get_out_and_meetdate_people/ | 4 | A bit of context; I'm a 25yo straight male working a M-F job with some personal projects in the evening/weekend. I dated a little in college, but never got past a casual first date. I wasn't interested until after high school, so I didn't really try back then, but now I kind of feel at a loss, like I really missed out ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you get out and meet/date people? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gkp50h/how_do_you_get_out_and_meetdate_people/ |
Minimum-Fox | 2022-11-13 15:33:29 | 1,668,353,609 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | yu4yca | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yu4yca/people_need_to_lower_their_expectations_of_dating/ | 20 | I am a huge hopeless romantic and yet I have seen and heard less romantically inclined friends more upset and disappointed that a date didn't work out than I have ever been, and I've seen post upon post on here about how the talking stage or first 3 dates seemed promising and now you're upset because they didn't work o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | People Need to Lower Their Expectations of Dating | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yu4yca/people_need_to_lower_their_expectations_of_dating/ |
ThrowRAGirlie13 | 2023-07-16 20:13:27 | 1,689,538,407 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 151g9g3 | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/151g9g3/would_you_say_yes_to_a_concert_date_even_if_you/ | 1 | I (25F) recently reconnected with an old Online dating match (36M). I have tickets to a country concert next Saturday, and he wants to go out next weekend. I was supposed to go to the concert with my mom but I’d like to ask him. Idk if he likes country music though and I’m nervous to ask him because I really want to go... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Would you say yes to a concert date even if you didn’t like a the musician? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/151g9g3/would_you_say_yes_to_a_concert_date_even_if_you/ |
juangarces1979 | 2017-07-06 03:34:28 | 1,499,312,068 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 6lj6rp | null | null | 17 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6lj6rp/getting_back_in_the_game_and_not_feeling_great/ | 1 | So I'm 38 from Chicago and recently divorced and I'm trying to get back into the dating scene. I already had awful self-esteem but trying online dating is just making me feel one billion times worse. Every person I get a response from I either don't find the least bit attractive or ends up being a scammer trying to get... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting back in the game and not feeling great about myself | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6lj6rp/getting_back_in_the_game_and_not_feeling_great/ |
D3CKRD | 2019-12-07 22:51:05 | 1,575,759,065 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | e7la3q | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/e7la3q/how_long_is_it_appropriate_to_date_more_than_one/ | 12 | Im going on a first date tonight with a cute girl that Ive been talking to for a little while. I knew her in college and reconnected on Tinder. Last night I went out with some friends and met another cute girl at a bar and have a date planned for next week. I dont really know how to handle this if or when it gets more ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How long is it appropriate to date more than one girl at once? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/e7la3q/how_long_is_it_appropriate_to_date_more_than_one/ |
amycak3s | 2014-08-08 20:05:30 | 1,407,528,330 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 2d0exf | null | null | 58 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2d0exf/men_who_have_beenare_on_dating_sites_how_can_i/ | 25 | Hey there, I am on an online dating site (or two) and many profiles mention the fact most women won't send the first message. I often try reading the profile and commenting on something specific that was mentioned, but still receive few replies. Is there something I can do, or do men prefer to contact us first if inter... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men who have been/are on dating sites, how can I increase responses when I send the first message? | 25 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2d0exf/men_who_have_beenare_on_dating_sites_how_can_i/ |
dirtymuckraker | 2016-01-18 07:20:13 | 1,453,101,613 | 0 | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 41hw42 | null | null | 20 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/41hw42/i_am_so_sick_of_online_dating_is_anybody_else/ | 10 | I'm currently going through yet another breakup -- my bf (now ex-bf), broke up with me six days ago. We were together for only 6 months, but we moved really quickly. We met on OKCupid and even went to Hong Kong together -- we survived the ultimate test of being able to travel with someone. So this breakup was very sudd... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I am so sick of online dating. Is anybody else? | 10 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/41hw42/i_am_so_sick_of_online_dating_is_anybody_else/ |
swampswing | 2023-04-06 11:41:15 | 1,680,781,275 | 0 | null | 0 | 12dhj1r | true | null | 114 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12dhj1r/what_do_women_mean_by_open_minded/ | 5 | I see this expression a lot on women's profiles on Hinge and Bumble and don't really get what they mean. I don't get how open mindedness could be a hobby or interest and no context is ever given on what they are open minded about. Is there something I am not getting? What do they want me to be open minded about? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What do women mean by "Open minded"? | 5 | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12dhj1r/what_do_women_mean_by_open_minded/ |
bibbygee | 2024-04-12 18:21:02 | 1,712,946,062 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1c2gb1a | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c2gb1a/guy_unmatched_after_third_date/ | 1 | Met this guy on Hinge, we went on 3 dates in a week. First date on Saturday, second date on Wednesday, third date was yesterday. The second date was so great, so towards the end I gave him my number cuz we’ve been only using the app to communicate. After exchanging numbers, we texted back and forth and he asked if im f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy unmatched after third date | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c2gb1a/guy_unmatched_after_third_date/ |
kyonlife | 2021-05-04 03:17:56 | 1,620,098,276 | null | ['matches', 'OLD', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | n4eskj | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n4eskj/tips_on_loving_yourself_as_a_man_25m/ | 11 | 25(m) 5'8 mixed race. I've been a lonime lurker since I exited a series of long term relationships that started in my late teens, and I feel there are some things I'd like to add to the conversation here. I think it's important to note (as some people seem to need a disclaimer) this is all my opinion and I don't speak ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tips on loving yourself as a man 25(m) | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n4eskj/tips_on_loving_yourself_as_a_man_25m/ |
ThrowRA_xanniebunny | 2023-07-04 16:43:51 | 1,688,489,031 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 14qk8ys | false | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14qk8ys/what_are_some_things_one_should_know_about_the/ | 1 | Ive been trying to move on from my ex and been on dating apps for a few days now. And i found a good person. What should we know about a person before getting into a relationship if we met them on a dating app ? I don't wanna do anything stupid and I don't wanna hurt or get hurt. All suggestions/opinions are appreciate... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are some things one should know about the person before making a decision of getting into a relationship with someone they met on a dating app? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14qk8ys/what_are_some_things_one_should_know_about_the/ |
Tiny_Air_836 | 2021-07-24 17:50:18 | 1,627,149,018 | null | null | 0 | oqur54 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/oqur54/how_often_will_i_need_to_check_the_app_to_be/ | 0 | I \[40, F\] am considering joining online dating pretty soon, and I know its something that I don't want to get sucked into... I'm terrible at checking my phone, I'm terrible at checking non-work emails and facebook messages. I just got instagram for some unfathomable reason and that seems like too much time commitment... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How often will I need to check the app to be repectful of other users? | null | 0.45 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/oqur54/how_often_will_i_need_to_check_the_app_to_be/ |
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