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Hot_Tie1467
2023-09-18 05:39:07
1,695,015,547
0
['tinder']
0
16lmz1y
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16lmz1y/suspicious/
1
He’s 40 I’m 30. We met on Tinder. Of course I’m going to do a background check to see what you are all about before I meet up with you. He’s an attorney, his ex has a protective order on him. ( I know this I saw the papers online, he doesn’t know I know this, I’ll continue to play along) She’s in another state with the...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Suspicious.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16lmz1y/suspicious/
Prestigious_Hat1794
2024-09-19 12:28:37
1,726,748,917
0
null
0
1fkjlx0
true
null
59
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fkjlx0/whats_the_best_app_to_connect_with_women_who_have/
0
I want to preface this post by saying that I have absolute nothing against single mothers, people who like tattoos or liberals, I have friends who fall into those categories - it's just not what I'm looking for in a partner. It seems with just those three dealbreakers the vast majority of users from Tinder, Hinge, etc....
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What's the best app to connect with women who have no kids, no tattoos and are not far-left leaning?
0
0.36
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fkjlx0/whats_the_best_app_to_connect_with_women_who_have/
dontBsleepy
2024-03-13 05:52:30
1,710,309,150
0
['dating app']
0
1bdk3q3
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1bdk3q3/what_dating_app_are_the_50_using/
1
I’m (52f) not quite ready yet but am considering signing up for a dating app. What dating app are you using and are happy with? Or is that an oxymoron?
dating
t5_2qhb1
What dating app are the 50+ using?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bdk3q3/what_dating_app_are_the_50_using/
xlegendarypete
2018-12-20 17:40:29
1,545,327,629
null
['dating site', 'okcupid']
0
a80cff
true
Question
1
0
/r/dating/comments/a80cff/ways_to_spot_bots_on_okcupid/
0
Hey guys So ive been okay for about a week now and i have noticed a few things when it comes to profiles and i just wanted to make sure i was right.This isnt my first time being on a dating site so its pretty common knowledge. So the way i can tell if a profile is/could be a bot are these things. 1. One picture with a ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Ways to spot bots on OKcupid
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a80cff/ways_to_spot_bots_on_okcupid/
SurvivalHorrible
2018-10-28 05:38:21
1,540,705,101
null
['OLD']
0
9s10dd
true
null
29
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9s10dd/how_do_you_know_youre_ready/
11
After a few years of heartbreaks and getting dinged up I’ve recently taken a break to actually let myself heal. Some good friends pointed out that I was in a cycle of trying to jump in to things because I wanted to be codependent with someone and not because I was really looking for a solid partner. It’s been over a mo...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
How do you know you’re ready?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9s10dd/how_do_you_know_youre_ready/
lace_n_leather
2018-07-01 19:10:52
1,530,472,252
null
['dating app']
0
8vc8w4
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8vc8w4/i_discovered_that_his_exgf_has_a_picture_of_the/
2
I have been talking to a guy from a dating app for about a week and recently met up with him for coffee. I really like him so far, and we have a lot of the same interests. I decided to look him up on FB, and when it looked like there was an old GF in his pictures, I clicked on her profile... to discover there was a cou...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I discovered that his "exGF" has a picture of the two of them on FB.. do I say anything?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8vc8w4/i_discovered_that_his_exgf_has_a_picture_of_the/
jmis92
2018-04-17 21:07:06
1,523,999,226
0
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
8d02di
false
null
2
0
/r/dating/comments/8d02di/reconnecting_with_a_girl_i_dated_last_year_should/
2
Won't make this too long. But basically I met this girl on Tinder last year and thought we had some great chemistry after 4 dates. After that time dating we were still friends on social media and talking for a good 6 months. But after a quiet period she deleted my number and all connections to me on social media - that...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Reconnecting with a girl I dated last year - should I?
2
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8d02di/reconnecting_with_a_girl_i_dated_last_year_should/
froglilies
2022-11-19 07:08:20
1,668,841,700
null
['tinder']
0
yz60z9
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/yz60z9/canceling_a_third_date_last_minute_because_of_a/
3
So I (24F) met this guy (26M) off tinder two months ago. He was really nice and we vibed really well, he was never pushy or anything of the sort, very kind and down to earth. Our humor and music taste was very similar too. On our second date, we started to loosen up a bit and we had a couple of drinks, and we started t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Canceling a third date last minute because of a potential sexual incompatibility and gut feeling, feeling extremely guilty
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yz60z9/canceling_a_third_date_last_minute_because_of_a/
African_guy
2012-07-13 12:10:53
1,342,181,453
4
['online dating', 'dating site']
null
whuha
null
null
10
null
/r/AskWomen/comments/whuha/ladies_if_you_are_looking_for_a_friend_with/
3
I recently met a girl on an online dating site (I know). We agreed to meet as just friends, and not to worry about anything beyond that, just yet. She is pretty cool, we get along well, and have enough in common. At the end of our first just-friends "date", she happen to mention that she just dumped a guy for getting t...
AskWomen
t5_2rxrw
Ladies, if you are looking for a "friend with benefits", would you still accept just friends?
7
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/whuha/ladies_if_you_are_looking_for_a_friend_with/
Brujula9
2022-02-08 06:13:18
1,644,300,798
null
['tinder']
0
snd1an
true
Question
13
0
/r/dating/comments/snd1an/how_do_you_feel_about_stds/
3
For some context. I was diagnosed with HPV a year and a half ago. I'm still on treatment. I am not ashamed about this, but it still makes me so insecure that I don't even know if I should just write on my tinder profile "I have HPV" so people who don't want it just back off right from the beginning. Please be sincere.
dating
t5_2qhb1
How do you feel about STDs?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/snd1an/how_do_you_feel_about_stds/
Amazing_Hope7096
2020-12-28 02:18:23
1,609,121,903
null
['matched', 'online dating', 'bumble']
0
klh1ys
true
null
35
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/klh1ys/how_do_i_stop_being_dumb_af/
8
Hey I'm 25f have never dated anyone, never kissed, never held anyone's hand, nothing at all. I really want to at least try to find a relationship after many failed attempts (I stopped trying 9 months ago and decided to try again last week). Recently decided to try online dating. Joined Bumble. Matched with some people,...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I stop being dumb af
null
0.9
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/klh1ys/how_do_i_stop_being_dumb_af/
usukjohn
2020-02-11 08:55:04
1,581,411,304
null
['tinder', 'hinge']
0
f25r16
true
I Need Advice
7
0
/r/dating/comments/f25r16/should_i_23f_make_a_move_on_him_25m/
2
So, my \[23F\] long-time friend, Margot \[22F\], and her boyfriend, Mario \[26M\], have both repeatedly suggested I meet his brother, Alex \[25M\], to see if we hit it off. From hearing my friend talk, he’s my type and we have things in common and I know he’s looking for a relationship, like me. When I recently visited...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I [23F] Make a Move on Him [25M]?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/f25r16/should_i_23f_make_a_move_on_him_25m/
ThatHistoryGuy94
2020-07-20 19:37:35
1,595,273,855
null
['tinder']
0
hus27u
true
null
13
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hus27u/youre_definitely_one_of_my_top_contenders_faux/
2
My female friend has recently downloaded Tinder and is attempting to re-enter the dating world after a breakup. With the virus, she's hoping to spend some time getting to know these gentlemen over text before she goes out with them. She often shows me some of the crazier responses she gets, just for laughs, but when ta...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
"You're Definitely One of My Top Contenders" Faux Pas or Perfectly Acceptable?
null
0.63
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hus27u/youre_definitely_one_of_my_top_contenders_faux/
mail_man222
2021-01-04 04:12:14
1,609,733,534
null
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
kq0wqn
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/kq0wqn/generic_openings_on_dating_apps/
2
So to start this off, I’m sort of new to the world of dating apps. I haven’t really put much time and effort into them before, but now it seems like it couldn’t hurt to see what’s out there. I’d also say I’m a decently creative guy in person and on the spot, but when it comes to thinking of a creative joke or pick up l...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Generic openings on dating apps
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kq0wqn/generic_openings_on_dating_apps/
ImpossibleLeek7908
2023-05-27 19:25:41
1,685,215,541
0
['OLD', 'dating apps']
0
13tfwp6
true
null
265
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/13tfwp6/asked_a_man_out_in_person/
974
Hello! I (38f) mustered up some courage today and asked a man out who I see fairly often in my life. I asked "Would you like to go to dinner with me sometime?" I wonder if maybe I caught him off guard in doing this, but he's been flirty with me in the past so I decided to take a chance. Admittedly he was doing somethin...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Asked a man out in person.
974
0.98
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/13tfwp6/asked_a_man_out_in_person/
AlphaJoah
2023-08-04 21:18:27
1,691,183,907
0
['matches', 'hinge']
0
15ic7hz
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/15ic7hz/i_24m_am_not_enjoying_the_dating_scene_due_to_a/
1
For a bit of background, I would say that I am fairly attractive with a good muscular build and decent sense of fashion. I am very ambitious, fit and I'm tall too. I am confident in most scenarios and I try be as chivalrous as I can and a gentleman while also being very transparent about myself as I don't want to be di...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I (24M) am not enjoying the dating scene due to a string of disappointment
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15ic7hz/i_24m_am_not_enjoying_the_dating_scene_due_to_a/
throwtac
2020-05-11 02:44:06
1,589,165,046
null
null
0
ghf8u1
true
null
18
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/ghf8u1/are_any_other_guys_suddenly_getting_tons_of/
13
I stopped using tinder for a couple months. I was getting hardly any matches. This was before quarantine. Now I went on for kicks and I got a tonnnn of matches. a lot of them are from women over 1000 miles away. Are these real profiles or are they fake accounts set up by tinder. Why are many of them far away? Before I ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
are any other guys suddenly getting tons of matches on tinder?
null
0.93
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ghf8u1/are_any_other_guys_suddenly_getting_tons_of/
rachiepants2017
2017-10-19 14:09:25
1,508,422,165
null
['swipe', 'swiped']
0
77elve
false
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/77elve/what_will_make_you_swipe_right_on_someone_if_at/
0
Have you ever swiped right on someone after hesitating? If so I wanna hear about it.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What will make you swipe right on someone if at first you're unsure about them?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/77elve/what_will_make_you_swipe_right_on_someone_if_at/
Spannwellensieb
2023-08-12 23:23:33
1,691,882,613
0
['online dating']
0
15piwin
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
1
0
/r/dating/comments/15piwin/today_my_mum_gave_me_dating_tips/
1
She thinks I'm not sending the right "signals" to "females". - Have you tried online dating? After a about 50 minutes monologe, I asked what her problem is and she just said: "Time is moving on, in the end you just get the left overs." I'm 27 btw. Thanks for the heads up speech, mum. 10/10
dating
t5_2qhb1
Today my mum gave me dating tips
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15piwin/today_my_mum_gave_me_dating_tips/
Fun-Bug5418
2021-02-10 21:03:48
1,612,991,028
null
['hinge']
0
lh3tlc
true
null
6
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/lh3tlc/getting_stood_upghosted_over_over/
0
I’m a 150 pound blonde girl, 21 years old. I use Hinge to date and recently I’m getting stood up left and right. I’ve gone on a handful of dates but none of them have gone anywhere and I’ve hooked up/ONS a couple times as well. I’ve been straight ghosted more times than I can count by guys that I never actually go on a...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Getting stood up/ghosted OVER and OVER
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/lh3tlc/getting_stood_upghosted_over_over/
Cool_Wolf1
2018-05-25 14:23:44
1,527,258,224
0
['dating sites', 'tinder']
0
8m24ws
false
Question
0
0
/r/dating/comments/8m24ws/dating_advice_in_the_uae/
1
Hello everyone. So I am a American in the UAE. I was wondering if anyone has experience with dating in the UAE and where to find dates and how to approach them. Keep in mind most dating sites are blocked and Tinder didnt do much other than land me some hookers. Any help would be appreciated.
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating Advice in the UAE
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8m24ws/dating_advice_in_the_uae/
DriftingThunderCloud
2018-07-22 21:59:18
1,532,296,758
null
['swiped', 'okcupid']
0
911fti
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/911fti/okcupid_profile_help_aka_red_flag_galore_i_guess/
0
So yeah, I'd be very thankful for advice to how make my profile leave a better impression of myself, because I don't think it does. Self summary If you like me: write me Even if it's just a "hi". (This is because OKC doesn't have messaging but instead puts people who swiped right and wrote something higher in the queue...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
OkCupid profile help, aka red flag galore (I guess)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/911fti/okcupid_profile_help_aka_red_flag_galore_i_guess/
bamhawkmagera
2023-07-09 14:12:13
1,688,911,933
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
14uzlfs
false
Question ❓
3
0
/r/dating/comments/14uzlfs/do_i_stop_talking_to_her/
2
I (23M) matched with this girl (25F) on Monday. The same day we matched we went out the following night to this bar because I wanted to go out and wanted company. She tagged along and it went well. I guess you could call it a date. Yesterday we were hanging out and went on another date whatever. During the date she sai...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Do I stop talking to her?
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14uzlfs/do_i_stop_talking_to_her/
gunpas11
2019-07-11 07:26:16
1,562,829,976
null
['tinder']
0
cbsryz
true
Venting
4
0
/r/dating/comments/cbsryz/cant_find_anyone_i_click_with_on_my_dates/
2
Hey, I’m a 35-year-old male. I have never been much of a dater due to my high functioning autism. But I recently started dating again. Mostly from Tinder. I have been on 8 dates in the past few weeks but I do not click with anyone. We have a nice first date where we chat for hours. But I do not feel any connection. It ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Cant’ find anyone I click with on my dates
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cbsryz/cant_find_anyone_i_click_with_on_my_dates/
Hot-Wish-9168
2023-11-30 14:59:55
1,701,356,395
0
null
0
187kipj
true
null
22
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/187kipj/texting_miscommunication/
7
Hello So I’ve been chatting for a couple of weeks with this guy I’ve met on hinge. The convo has been great. We’ve FaceTimed and have really good text convo throughout the days and had a date set for next Sat. Yesterday afternoon he text me a question and I looked at it and forgot to respond. I was working and texting ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Texting miscommunication
7
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/187kipj/texting_miscommunication/
SkippyBluestockings
2024-08-16 10:28:20
1,723,804,100
0
['dating apps']
0
1etl9xb
true
null
33
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1etl9xb/realization/
47
I've seen a number of profiles on dating apps over the years where the guy poses the exact same way in every single picture. Same facial expression, same tilt to the head and everything but the clothes and background are different. I found these pictures very amusing. I just came to the realization of what they remind ...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
Realization
47
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1etl9xb/realization/
Tempestor_Prime
2021-11-17 01:56:15
1,637,114,175
null
['dating apps']
0
qvo40j
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/qvo40j/where_do_i_go_to_find_someone/
2
Everyone on here tells men to get off the dating apps. So where am I supposed to go to find someone? I (31m) have been searching online apps because that is all I have left. I live in a collage town so every place is occupied buy young kids destroying themselves. All of my friends are married with kids so they dont hel...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Where do I go to find someone?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qvo40j/where_do_i_go_to_find_someone/
flowerpow11
2021-11-09 04:02:36
1,636,430,556
null
['hinge']
0
qpvb2r
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/qpvb2r/idk_whats_wrong_with_me/
2
I’m on Hinge and have been for a few months. I get likes from guys I am really attracted to and when we match and talk I rarely feel excitement for longer then a few days. I don’t know if it’s me being super critical or the guy isn’t for me. I probably sound so annoying rn, but I put in a lot of effort to conversations...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
idk whats wrong with me
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qpvb2r/idk_whats_wrong_with_me/
fiddlestick90
2020-07-20 08:50:54
1,595,235,054
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
huhxmz
true
Venting
1
0
/r/dating/comments/huhxmz/met_someone_through_a_video_game_group_hit_it_off/
1
So, I’m not heartbroken by any means, but I am sad. We became fast friends. I’m from the US and he is a Romanian living in London, so it was great to learn different things about his culture. It also seemed that we shared many values and we had many things in common. Eventually we expressed we were attracted to each ot...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Met someone through a video game group. Hit it off reallyI really well, but now we aren’t even friends anymore.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/huhxmz/met_someone_through_a_video_game_group_hit_it_off/
Limbolocal
2019-10-08 03:28:31
1,570,505,311
null
['dating app']
0
deuhul
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/deuhul/i_29f_went_on_a_wonderful_date_10_months_ago_and/
1
I met him [31m] on a dating app. We messaged each other for about a week before we set up the date. As I said, the date was wonderful. We watched a movie, he gave me goo-goo eyes, and said my laugh was cute as hell. We snuggled (it was cold) at the bus stop as we waited for my bus to come. I would have kissed him if it...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I [29f] went on a wonderful date 10 months ago and I can’t stop thinking about him.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/deuhul/i_29f_went_on_a_wonderful_date_10_months_ago_and/
asf97
2022-12-29 01:56:45
1,672,279,005
null
['dating apps']
0
zxsaa5
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/zxsaa5/is_it_considered_a_red_flagdealbreaker_if_i/
1
I'm not into mind games and I whenever I have my phone with me and I see that I got a message I respond right away - I do the same with texts from people I know and work emails.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is it considered a red flag/dealbreaker if I respond quickly on dating apps?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zxsaa5/is_it_considered_a_red_flagdealbreaker_if_i/
mainburner3
2024-09-08 01:22:53
1,725,758,573
0
['matched']
0
1fbmer5
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fbmer5/ghosts_me_to_come_back_and_repeat/
1
Matched this girl 2 months ago. Things were going well and we definitely clicked. She ended up inviting me over but I was suspicious about (for context). Either way , the invite wasn’t off the table until later that week she had said something came up. (Cool) Like I said, conversations with her were nice but she always...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Ghosts me to come back and repeat
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fbmer5/ghosts_me_to_come_back_and_repeat/
Abetterman2day
2018-09-04 22:44:47
1,536,101,087
null
['tinder']
0
9d0iro
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/9d0iro/friendzoned_a_girl_i_met_on_tinder_because_she/
2
I explained to her that I would like to just be friends as she hasn't been showing as much interest as I was. For example I would message her and she wouldn't reply for several hours while she was still online. It's a small issue but shows where I stand to an extent. I also suggested we call to organise to meet again. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Friendzoned a girl I met on tinder because she was ignoring me. Advice?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9d0iro/friendzoned_a_girl_i_met_on_tinder_because_she/
d_lytful
2017-11-11 05:56:17
1,510,379,777
null
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
7c6sd0
false
null
4
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/7c6sd0/how_to_help_a_lonely_single_girlfriend/
3
I have a recently new friendship with an amazing girl I met back at the beginning of summer. We connected right away, and have since been hanging out as often as possible. As we have gotten to know each other, I've learned that a fellow mutual friend had basically ghosted her, and she still hasn't gotten over it, or hi...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
How to help a lonely, single girlfriend.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/7c6sd0/how_to_help_a_lonely_single_girlfriend/
ThymeOwl
2023-11-27 14:36:38
1,701,095,798
0
null
0
1854drr
true
null
3
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1854drr/is_dynamic_partner_code_for_something_specific/
2
Just what the title says. I'm ND and sometimes I can't guess the social cue.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Is "dynamic partner" code for something specific?
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1854drr/is_dynamic_partner_code_for_something_specific/
kaktusface
2018-09-28 08:09:40
1,538,122,180
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
9jl42m
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/9jl42m/is_this_some_sort_of_tinder_scam/
0
Matched with a beautiful woman who had photos with her email on the photo and when I messaged her on Tinder she immediately suggested that I talk to her through email, which I did. I sent her a short email saying hi this is kaktus from tinder, whats up. She replied by a one paragraph description of herself and an extra...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is this some sort of Tinder scam?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9jl42m/is_this_some_sort_of_tinder_scam/
tabsss234
2020-03-27 16:31:42
1,585,326,702
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
fq03z5
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/fq03z5/how_am_i_suppose_to_date_during_this_pandemic/
6
So I'm looking to get back into dating after a recent break-up, but this pandemic is really messing me up. I can't go out and meet people because I live in Illinois where we're having a strict shelter at home order right now. I tried Bumble and Tinder, but they just felt dead. I don't know how to explain it, but it jus...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How am I suppose to date during this pandemic?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fq03z5/how_am_i_suppose_to_date_during_this_pandemic/
theshadypineapple
2022-02-13 20:53:46
1,644,785,626
null
['dating app']
0
srsomq
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/srsomq/has_anyone_here_ever_had_a_bad_convo_on_a_dating/
1
Wondering if I should just pull the trigger and ask her out, but the convo's not been that great so far (me asking all the questions and having to formulate ones out of her answers) so I don't have great feelings about doing so
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Has anyone here ever had a bad convo on a dating app turn into a good one in real life?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/srsomq/has_anyone_here_ever_had_a_bad_convo_on_a_dating/
lowkisavage
2018-04-21 17:30:21
1,524,331,821
0
['dating apps']
0
8dx7lq
false
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8dx7lq/too_young_to_date_seriously/
5
Hey! I recently moved to Chicago and since I’ve tried dating apps and going out. I’ve had a lot of success meeting and matching with people. Frequently, I’ve been told, I am too young to date. I was 21 when I moved here for work and turned 22 a few months back. I’ve been on dates with people from 24-34 and my age seems...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Too young to date seriously?
5
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8dx7lq/too_young_to_date_seriously/
NewWave93
2021-08-10 03:53:47
1,628,567,627
null
['matched', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'tinder']
0
p1hj5w
true
I Need Advice
175
0
/r/dating/comments/p1hj5w/im_heavily_considering_not_dating_anymore/
103
28 years old, African American male, 5'5, average looking, bald, average body but muscle toned. I feel like I'm not a dating option, I wanted to have a girlfriend I clique with, get married, have a family, I really had it all planned out guys, but in reality, none of my expectations have come to fruition I can't even g...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I'm heavily considering not dating anymore
null
0.85
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/p1hj5w/im_heavily_considering_not_dating_anymore/
DeeenaKtyana251
2023-08-07 13:33:33
1,691,415,213
0
null
0
15kkw92
true
null
175
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/15kkw92/am_i_being_scammed_i_sent_4k_for_medical_bills/
1
Basically I matched and contacted by a 21 year old on Hinge, we talked about usual stuff work etc, suddenly she sent explicit pictures and a video saying she is drunk. I didn’t send any inappropriate pictures myself. The next day someone claiming to be her father messaged me that her daughter is under age, and fought w...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Am I being scammed? I sent 4K for medical bills.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15kkw92/am_i_being_scammed_i_sent_4k_for_medical_bills/
NavalOrion
2024-05-19 00:03:35
1,716,077,015
0
['dating app']
0
1cvb0vq
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cvb0vq/how_did_you_break_things_off_after_several_dates/
1
I met this person on a dating app almost two months ago (we’re both 22), the chat was great, we talked a lot before meeting up, and we went out together many times. But I recently realized that somewhere along the way I’ve lost interest and am no longer attracted to them. We haven’t yet had the “so what are we” convers...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How did you break things off after several dates?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cvb0vq/how_did_you_break_things_off_after_several_dates/
carol23445566
2016-12-28 14:25:22
1,482,935,122
0
['dating app']
0
5kqges
null
null
9
null
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5kqges/well_i_just_dont_know_and_wondering_if_i_should/
2
Just before Christmas I put myself back on a dating app. I was feeling quite good and opened it up, looking at men, and this guy catches my eye. Plus he does all kinds of stuff, paddling, music, photography. I put him in my favs but didn't write a note. He sent me a nice note with his phone right away, I replied, but ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Well I just don't know ! And wondering if I should make any more effort?
2
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5kqges/well_i_just_dont_know_and_wondering_if_i_should/
PlumBobNewbie
2019-01-09 07:51:06
1,547,020,266
null
['dating sites']
0
ae4nl9
true
null
157
0
/r/dating/comments/ae4nl9/when_did_cheating_become_so_mainstream/
157
It's the thing to do now. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one genuinely disgusted by it. I meet more married/taken men that are cheating on dating sites than I do singles!
dating
t5_2qhb1
When did cheating become so mainstream?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ae4nl9/when_did_cheating_become_so_mainstream/
Thatzwutshesaid99
2024-04-09 14:56:22
1,712,674,582
0
null
0
1bzu7ea
true
null
53
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bzu7ea/am_i_the_drama/
12
Men of OLD, when you say in your profile "no drama please", what do you mean? Can I get some specific examples of what y'all think is drama when dating?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Am I The Drama??
12
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bzu7ea/am_i_the_drama/
randomtruths89
2021-04-04 18:13:29
1,617,560,009
null
['OLD']
0
mk1jti
true
null
46
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/mk1jti/has_sliding_into_someones_dms_ever_worked_for_you/
13
I am 31F and have loads of difficulties connecting to people on OLD. I feel like it’s too much about looks and can’t seem to keep a conversation going or even develop feelings for anyone on apps. However, I can easily make friends on social media websites connecting over things we have in common. I’ve even have a coupl...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Has sliding into someone’s DMs ever worked for you? Any tips?
null
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/mk1jti/has_sliding_into_someones_dms_ever_worked_for_you/
TweetFinderB0t
2023-07-17 14:36:35
1,689,604,595
0
['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
1523q4h
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1523q4h/am_i_35m_wrong_for_still_using_dating_apps_when/
1
I'm going to do my best to state the facts of things. Hopefully someone can provide some clarity. tl;dr woman I've been talking to moved out of state, doesn't know when shes coming back, had her friend match with me on a dating app, that friend is feeding her bits of our conversation, and is upset I'm still using datin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I (35M) wrong for still using dating apps when I'm not exclusive with her (35F) and she cant tell me what she wants romantically?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1523q4h/am_i_35m_wrong_for_still_using_dating_apps_when/
verysecretlady
2024-07-17 23:59:05
1,721,260,745
0
['online dating']
0
1e5xf80
true
Question
135
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/1e5xf80/what_has_been_the_best_thing_that_has_happened_to/
46
I guess sometimes I can sound a bit jaded when I talk about online dating. But if it wasn’t for it, and for the people I’ve met through it, I would have never tried: - Biking around the city. - Playing tennis. - Driving a boat across a Great Lake - Canoe camping Now I love those things ❤️ And most important of all, I w...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
What has been the best thing that has happened to you because of online dating? 🥰
46
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1e5xf80/what_has_been_the_best_thing_that_has_happened_to/
TheOhioMans
2023-09-18 17:51:17
1,695,059,477
0
['tinder']
0
16m28y1
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16m28y1/going_on_first_ever_date/
1
Hello again, Coming off a fresh catfishing incident (not fishing) and recently I (M22) got a match on tinder and have been talking to her (F19) for a few days now on ft and through text As I mentioned in my last post, I was homeschooled growing up and I’ve only ever had a few friends that were never really that close a...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Going on first ever date
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16m28y1/going_on_first_ever_date/
Wise-Environment-942
2024-06-28 13:50:42
1,719,582,642
0
null
0
1dqk42r
true
null
10
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dqk42r/im_new_to_tinder_and_have_a_rather_basic_question/
4
I have a bit of a noob question. If I super liked someone on Tinder over a week ago and sent them a message, and they are now appearing in my swipes again, that means they did not swipe one way or the other on me, correct? Because if they swiped left, they would not appear for me again? And would the message I sent be ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
I'm new to Tinder and have a rather basic question.
4
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dqk42r/im_new_to_tinder_and_have_a_rather_basic_question/
cheeseandtears
2023-02-10 00:20:01
1,675,988,401
null
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
10yb0zc
true
null
56
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10yb0zc/am_i_a_prude_or_are_men_just_way_too_sexual_when/
60
Some context: I’ve never been in a relationship before and have zero experience dating. Recently though I decided to look for someone to talk to on reddit, probably not the best decision given the type of men that lurk around here, but dating apps still seem scary to me. I figured this was a way to ease into dating. We...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
am i a prude or are men just way too sexual when in the talking stage?
null
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10yb0zc/am_i_a_prude_or_are_men_just_way_too_sexual_when/
Femboyrobots
2024-05-30 06:29:08
1,717,050,548
0
['feeld']
0
1d3xi9x
true
Question ❓
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1d3xi9x/does_anyone_use_feeld/
1
So I just started dating and I primarily use FEELD rn, was my first app (literally like a 1-2 weeks ago 💀) It’s nice kinda sucks sometimes stuff is pay Waller but it’s simple, easy to use, and not a complete money sink The only problem is that it feels like no one uses it? I’ve tried using something like what mint but...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Does anyone use FEELD?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d3xi9x/does_anyone_use_feeld/
Pulitzerprize7
2019-09-09 19:20:08
1,568,056,808
null
['dating sites']
0
d1vlkj
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/d1vlkj/what_could_i_have_done_better_with_this/
1
I've recently given up on dating sites and decided to toughen up and ask women out the old fashioned way. So last night this short interaction occured: Me: Hi Girl: ....Hi Me: I noticed you. And I think you're cute. Wondering if I could get your number? Girl: No, sorry Me: hey, it was worth a shot. Thanks. Do you think...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What could I have done better with this interaction?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d1vlkj/what_could_i_have_done_better_with_this/
Cutterbup4
2023-07-22 09:06:37
1,690,016,797
0
null
0
156f2cc
false
null
14
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/156f2cc/anyone_know_any_free_hookup_sites_that_are_free/
1
I’ve tried MysteryAffair, AdultFinder and DiscreetMeets but they’re obviously just full of fake profiles. No luck on Tinder, Flava or Okaycupid. Ashley Madison, Pure and AdultFriendFinder cost money to do anything. I just want something that actually works. Help?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Anyone know any free hookup sites that are free, actually work and aren’t full of scammers?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/156f2cc/anyone_know_any_free_hookup_sites_that_are_free/
Pretty-Instruction56
2024-07-22 07:08:33
1,721,632,113
0
['dating app']
0
1e97z7s
true
I Need Advice 😩
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1e97z7s/hes_on_a_dating_app_during_talking_stage_with_me/
0
He’s (20M) on a dating app while we’re on a talking stage. It’s reasonable tho cuz talking stage is where u keep options open. We r not in a relationship. I (19F) also still want to know him more. Should I keep texting him but with less interest or ghost him? TLDR: he’s on a dating app during talking stage with me. I w...
dating
t5_2qhb1
He’s on a dating app during talking stage with me
0
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e97z7s/hes_on_a_dating_app_during_talking_stage_with_me/
SR_RSMITH
2023-01-08 16:16:36
1,673,194,596
null
['OLD', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'facebook dating']
0
106n0sm
true
Seeking Advice
104
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/106n0sm/how_has_facebook_dating_worked_for_you/
20
After my last breakup I've decided not to be in OLD for a while because I seriously get tired just by thinking of going back to Tinder, OkC, Bumble, etc. But back then when I was single, Facebook Dating still didn't exist. Is it different to all those others? How has it worked for you?
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
How has Facebook Dating worked for you?
null
0.95
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/106n0sm/how_has_facebook_dating_worked_for_you/
Shogun_Turnip
2019-06-23 22:09:48
1,561,327,788
null
['matched', 'swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
c4d13i
true
Tinder/Online Dating
13
0
/r/dating/comments/c4d13i/am_i_ugly_or_is_tinder_out_to_get_my_money/
0
Hi everybody. I already posted this to r / tinder but I thought I might get some advice here. For context, I am a 23 year old, straight, British-Caucasian Male. I'm a little overweight and I'd overall consider myself a 4/10 on a good day. Before anyone asks why I can't just go to a bar or anything to meet women or some...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Am I Ugly Or Is Tinder Out To Get My Money?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c4d13i/am_i_ugly_or_is_tinder_out_to_get_my_money/
helpwjob
2021-05-19 14:13:12
1,621,433,592
null
['tinder']
0
ng6y4w
true
null
29
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ng6y4w/im_19f_completely_inexperienced_and_going_on_my/
5
hi before meeting this guy (from tinder) i haven't hung out with a guy AT ALL one on one. in fact, i don't really hang out with anyone. you could probably say i'm sheltered? yes. and i told him all this. anyway i met him about a week ago in person at my local park and it actually went well he was very sweet and charmin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
i'm (19f) completely inexperienced and going on my third EVER date in a few hours with a guy (22m)...but i have a sneaking suspicion he likes me only for sexual reasons? :( is this normal?
null
0.78
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ng6y4w/im_19f_completely_inexperienced_and_going_on_my/
princessno
2019-12-20 09:45:31
1,576,835,131
null
['online dating']
0
ed82ft
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ed82ft/how_do_i_curb_the_obsessing_thoughts_and_protect/
3
So I know myself pretty well (36F). A guy shows interest, I get a crush then obsess, chase, crash and burn and my heart hurts. Recently reconnected with and old clubbing/bar fling from 16 years ago (47M). Back then I had a crush on him, we "flinged" for about a year and a half. He was just doing his and being a bachelo...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I curb the obsessing thoughts and protect myself from my emotions?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ed82ft/how_do_i_curb_the_obsessing_thoughts_and_protect/
lilypadindesert
2021-08-30 20:27:30
1,630,355,250
null
['OLD']
0
peqf3a
true
null
114
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/peqf3a/what_are_your_old_profile_tips_for_women/
37
Men of this subreddit, what are you looking for in a woman's OLD profile? What kind of things I should include in my bio? Should I mention career, hobbies (I have too many) etc? What about photos? I love traveling and try new food like many other women but I stay both hostels and 5 star hotels or enjoy street food and ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
What are your OLD Profile tips for women?
null
0.95
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/peqf3a/what_are_your_old_profile_tips_for_women/
Opposite-Score3156
2021-05-04 03:06:47
1,620,097,607
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
n4elpu
true
Venting
5
0
/r/dating/comments/n4elpu/does_anyone_feel_like_theyre_too_wholesome_or_not/
1
So I was a super, SUPER late bloomer. I lost the V card junior/senior year in college. I was afraid of having sex due to my religious upbringing. I didn't have a REAL relationship until my late 20s and that only lasted 9 months. Then my next relationship was a total disaster that lasted about a year and half. I've join...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Does anyone feel like they're too "wholesome" or not "secular" enough for modern dating? Any middle ground?
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/n4elpu/does_anyone_feel_like_theyre_too_wholesome_or_not/
Racksonrackssipping
2021-02-20 06:23:36
1,613,802,216
null
null
0
lo11ej
true
null
19
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/lo11ej/anyone_women_on_here_who_can_help_me_see_what/
5
Hi guys I’m 20 m and I’ve been using lots of dating apps for plenty of time but I never seem to get anywhere with it and it really annoying If any women wouldn’t mind helping me out a bit would be very great full just pm me or something It might sound like a weird question tho I don’t really know so please don’t judge ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Anyone women on here who can help me see what wrong with my dating profile
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/lo11ej/anyone_women_on_here_who_can_help_me_see_what/
Commercial-Gur6162
2024-05-31 02:22:22
1,717,122,142
0
['dating site']
0
1d4kxzl
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d4kxzl/is_it_worth_it/
1
I’ve been friends with this guy for a year. We met on a dating site and he friendzoned me three dates in. We constantly hung out and he told me he’s moving down south for work. Everyone always mistakes us for a couple and we get so defensive about how we’re “just friends” we recently went on a weekend trip and afterwar...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is it worth it?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d4kxzl/is_it_worth_it/
progenito
2017-09-25 05:20:12
1,506,316,812
null
['tinder']
0
72aenj
false
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/72aenj/my_rant/
1
This'll be my first post here and I feel pathetic, but that's never stopped me before I just turned 27. I'm just a white guy from a normal middle class suburban upbringing with parents that are still married. I've spent most of my life and still reside in my home city. What's my problem? What do I want? I just want wha...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
My Rant
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/72aenj/my_rant/
Jetsurge
2023-11-16 08:07:22
1,700,122,042
0
['hinge']
0
17who9p
true
null
147
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17who9p/do_you_think_people_are_too_quick_to_judge_and/
100
I recently restarted my Hinge and every girl I've gone on a date with over the past year was still on there. All of them were looking for serious relationships when I was going on dates with them.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do you think people are too quick to judge and too picky these days?
100
0.85
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17who9p/do_you_think_people_are_too_quick_to_judge_and/
1mJustAg1rl0221
2024-02-06 20:26:13
1,707,251,173
0
['dating app']
0
1akjn4j
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1akjn4j/me_18_f_and_my_ex_18_m_still_love_and_support/
1
I've been in a relationship with my now ex, Luigi, for the past few months. We broke up three days ago and I'm still struggling to grasp everything. It all started close to the holiday time. We met on a dating app and spent the first month and some change getting to know each other over text and Facetime and we both in...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Me (18 F) and my ex (18 M) still love and support each other but the timing isn't right to be in a relationship. Should I wait or try to heal?
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1akjn4j/me_18_f_and_my_ex_18_m_still_love_and_support/
beyondthegravemind
2022-10-28 06:13:40
1,666,937,620
null
['dating apps']
0
yfg2c2
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/yfg2c2/29_m_gf_of_10_ish_years_and_i_broke_up_due_to/
1
For context we met online ten years ago and had been through a lot. It was long distance, her in Wales and me in America. Beginning of 2021 I caught COVID and since have been mentally in a low point since. She felt I wasn't in love with her anymore and I didn't want to stay in a relationship as we have been having trou...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
(29 m) gf of 10 ish years and I broke up due to lack of us moving forward.
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yfg2c2/29_m_gf_of_10_ish_years_and_i_broke_up_due_to/
throwaway736284618
2024-01-08 07:53:25
1,704,700,405
0
['dating apps', 'bumble']
0
191fy70
true
null
10
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/191fy70/how_do_i_meet_men_irl_w_no_social_circle_or/
8
Im a 25 yr old woman who’s never had a relationship. I also never had friends. I subcummed and tried dating apps a little over a year ago. Managed to meet up with 3 men and it all went no where. No relationship came out of any of it. I barely got matches too. One guy I suspected lost interest because I wouldnt sleep wi...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
How Do I meet Men IRL w/ No Social Circle or Mutuals?(tldr included)
8
0.64
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/191fy70/how_do_i_meet_men_irl_w_no_social_circle_or/
temoc4eva
2021-02-15 17:25:59
1,613,409,959
null
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
lkic1l
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lkic1l/any_words_of_advice_for_this_confusing_situation/
1
Hi Dating Advice! 1st time poster here - feeling heartbroken and so very confused so hoping for some words of wisdom. I (26f) start talking to a guy (27m) on Hinge in the beginning on November. He's a medical resident/crazy schedule/pandemic stuff so we talk for 2 months and finally meet towards the end of December. Th...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Any words of advice for this confusing situation?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lkic1l/any_words_of_advice_for_this_confusing_situation/
Rocket8787
2018-11-29 01:39:31
1,543,455,571
null
['matched', 'bumble']
0
a1cqt7
true
Venting
69
0
/r/dating/comments/a1cqt7/i_have_no_patience_or_tolerance_anymore/
45
I am getting so fed up with dating. I matched with a guy on bumble last week while we were both out of town for the holiday. We agreed to get together when we got back. The date was for tonight. We really didn’t talk much between setting it up. He text me last night to confirm. We (actually he) had planned to meet at 8...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I have no patience or tolerance anymore.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a1cqt7/i_have_no_patience_or_tolerance_anymore/
honey_bee_89
2019-07-08 00:25:53
1,562,545,553
null
['dating app']
0
cae44j
true
null
56
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cae44j/met_a_nice_guy_but_maybe_too_nice/
16
Myself(30F) met this guy(31) over a dating app. We texted on and off for a month, the conversation wasn't exciting but it wasn't bad. Finally we go out on a date, he chooses a vegan restaurant since I don't eat meat. The date goes on for hours, we talk , laugh and awkwardly flirt. There's a game he was supposed to catc...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Met a nice guy , but maybe too nice?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cae44j/met_a_nice_guy_but_maybe_too_nice/
layupcharge
2021-06-28 05:31:27
1,624,858,287
null
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
o9dsyo
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/o9dsyo/28m_dating_not_going_so_well/
1
About me so I kind of been in a weird rut for about two years. Three years ago I came off a really bad break up that took me a while to get over. Two bad relationships later I am single again and now I just feel like I lost confidence in myself. I’m trying to balance work/life but I always feel like work gets More out ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
28M dating not going so well
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o9dsyo/28m_dating_not_going_so_well/
joelgray2
2018-09-02 02:47:47
1,535,856,467
null
['tinder']
0
9c8wnd
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/9c8wnd/my_date_is_always_subtly_showing_off_other_guys/
1
Hey guys, so i'm a month into dating this girl and things are going really well, we both love spending time together and she seems really happy. It's her first time properly dating someone and has said she's taking it really seriously. There is just one thing that gets under my skin a little bit, I often notice her bri...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
My date is always subtly showing off other guys she's talking too. Is she trying to make me jealous?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9c8wnd/my_date_is_always_subtly_showing_off_other_guys/
[deleted]
2021-02-26 22:15:51
1,614,377,751
null
['online dating']
0
lt9bn6
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lt9bn6/is_he_sexually_attracted_to_me/
0
On the second date, we cuddled, he kissed me and had a boner all the time. Am I attractive to him or not? Or would you be horny all the time around a girl who you think is unattractive or less attractive than her online dating photos?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is he sexually attracted to me?
null
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lt9bn6/is_he_sexually_attracted_to_me/
enriqueg9031
2021-02-24 01:30:11
1,614,130,211
null
['hinge']
0
lqzjt9
true
I Need Advice
30
0
/r/dating/comments/lqzjt9/i_21m_broke_up_with_my_gf_19f_because_my_friend/
0
TL;DR: I was dating a girl for over a month, told my friend and my parents that she has a lot of baggage and she lives relatively far away. They felt she was below my standards. Broke up with her and we're still friends, but now I kinda want to get back together with her. I don't know if I should or not. Hello everyone...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I [21M] broke up with my gf [19F] because my friend and parents thought she wasn't good enough for me. I'm kinda regretting it now, were they right?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lqzjt9/i_21m_broke_up_with_my_gf_19f_because_my_friend/
AnusMistakus
2019-09-09 08:13:15
1,568,016,795
null
['online dating', 'tinder']
0
d1nzqq
true
null
9
0
/r/AskMen/comments/d1nzqq/how_do_you_know_that_youre_ready_to_have_sex_again/
1
I’m freshly out of an amazing yet short relationship We were both talking about breaking up so it wasn’t a devastating breakup I tried this weekend hooking up with someone off tinder that ended horribly I couldn’t stop thinking about my ex during and it just felt sad. Since then I deleted all my online dating profiles ...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
How do you know that you’re ready to have sex again?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/d1nzqq/how_do_you_know_that_youre_ready_to_have_sex_again/
FucksGuysWithAccents
2017-05-24 19:51:29
1,495,655,489
null
['dating app']
0
6d4jtv
null
null
50
null
/r/AskMen/comments/6d4jtv/what_are_good_first_date_ideas_that_dont_involve/
4
If you have a first "date" with someone that you met off a dating app and you want to meet them in a public place that is not a bar, where would you go? What would men consider not lame or weird? For instance, I would think meeting up at a nice park for a picnic would be fun. My straight guy friend that I ran this by s...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
What are good first date ideas that don't involve going to a bar?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/6d4jtv/what_are_good_first_date_ideas_that_dont_involve/
LongjumpingTea6579
2023-11-04 04:02:13
1,699,070,533
0
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
17ndgtt
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17ndgtt/i_27f_have_been_seeing_a_guy_28m_for_almost_two/
2
I met this guy on bumble and we hit it off pretty quickly. We see each other every week, have sleepovers, cook for each other and talk everyday. But he still has dating apps installed on his phone and that is making me anxious. On our last date we went to a exhibition and he asked me to take a photo of him, and I could...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (27f) have been seeing a guy (28m) for almost two months and he still has dating apps on his phone
2
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17ndgtt/i_27f_have_been_seeing_a_guy_28m_for_almost_two/
PepperoniBeerFarts
2018-12-18 02:18:08
1,545,099,488
null
['dating app']
0
a76oa1
true
null
12
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/a76oa1/am_i_26m_overthinking_on_her_26f/
11
I (26M) met her (26F) a few weeks ago via a dating app. We talked for a few days before we met up for coffee, where we chatted for a few hours. Set up a second date at the end of that where we did an activity followed by dinner and drinks. After that we set up a third date where we spent half the day together. At the e...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I (26M) Overthinking on her (26F)?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a76oa1/am_i_26m_overthinking_on_her_26f/
mrman2217
2021-11-10 18:32:56
1,636,569,176
null
['hinge']
0
qr0w05
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/qr0w05/is_it_normal_that_a_girl_doesnt_show_any_signals/
2
I met this girl on hinge and she seems pretty interested, she laughs at everything I say and is pretty conversational. We hung out for the first time yesterday and she was over at my place for a while. It started off by us just sitting watching TV on the couch. We weren’t Cuddling or anything and I was just kind of ana...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is it normal that a girl doesn’t show any signals for physical touch? (First time seeing each other in person)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qr0w05/is_it_normal_that_a_girl_doesnt_show_any_signals/
ostentika
2019-05-26 05:44:46
1,558,849,486
null
['OLD']
0
bt4gup
true
null
88
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bt4gup/insufferable_old_texting_behaviour/
72
Dudes who complain about ladies unable to carry conversations? Watch me (31F): https://imgur.com/a/02iiSQ6 Somehow it seems to be the absolute opposite where I'm at. I am usually nice, and will give them a few chances to wake up from their coffin/slumber to actually talk. But henceforth, I've decided to leave snarky re...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Insufferable OLD Texting Behaviour.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bt4gup/insufferable_old_texting_behaviour/
CorporateGal27
2023-05-27 16:04:20
1,685,203,460
0
null
0
13tb70i
true
null
25
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/13tb70i/this_guy_i_started_talking_to_keeps_sending_me/
2
I recently started talking to this guy, has been 3 days only. We live in different countries and won’t be able to meet before a month at-least. Today he went to some Bollywood Awards Ceremony and he kept sending me his photos. I think I’m vibing well with this guy but this photo sending stuff is turning me off a bit. I...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
This guy I started talking to keeps sending me his photos 🤔
2
0.63
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13tb70i/this_guy_i_started_talking_to_keeps_sending_me/
melycrn96
2023-02-20 05:44:05
1,676,871,845
null
['dating apps']
0
116yy93
true
I Need Advice 😩
7
0
/r/dating/comments/116yy93/new/
0
Hi everyone, I (f26) have NEVER been in a serious committed relationship. I think it’s because I’m afraid of commitment or idk honestly. But I think it’s time I put myself out there. I’ve never used dating apps. I go out to bars often but haven’t found anyone with potential (don’t think that’s the right place anyway). ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
New
null
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/116yy93/new/
Weekly_Cellist_6998
2021-01-05 16:38:36
1,609,864,716
null
['tinder']
0
kr1zz0
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/kr1zz0/should_i_let_him_make_the_next_move/
2
I (21F) have gone on two dates with this guy (20M) so far. We met in person about 2 years ago and reconnected through Tinder this summer. We talked online for about 3 months before ever meeting up due to coronavirus. The first date went well, we hiked and got lunch, and had good conversation. The second date was the sa...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I let him make the next move?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kr1zz0/should_i_let_him_make_the_next_move/
sashbwills
2020-06-23 17:05:05
1,592,931,905
null
['dating app']
0
heigpn
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/heigpn/i_think_im_dating_someone/
0
HI, So I met this guy during quarantine on a dating app. Since then we have gone on four dates (?) I'm not really sure if walking around parks or picnics count as dates but, he did watch a movie at my apartment with me. I do think I like this guy and we seem to get along well but, he's never made a move. Never even hel...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I think I'm dating someone??
null
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/heigpn/i_think_im_dating_someone/
Electrical-Pin-9096
2022-12-05 00:05:47
1,670,198,747
null
['tinder']
0
zcqiqg
true
null
16
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/zcqiqg/failed_one_night_stand/
2
Me and this girl met from tinder I went home to her uni accom and i haven’t had sex in 2 years so I was nervous and she didn’t like that. I did my usual thing by asking them questions about their lives to get to know them better and she also didn’t like that. I asked her what was wrong and she said she didn’t like that...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Failed one night stand
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zcqiqg/failed_one_night_stand/
taiyed311
2014-09-10 02:59:38
1,410,317,978
0
['dating app']
0
2fyzhj
null
null
27
null
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2fyzhj/am_i_being_silly_here/
3
I need advice, I'm not sure if I am rightly paranoid right now or if I am just being silly. Between 1.5 to 2 years ago I decided to give this stupid 'mobile dating app' a try and ended up talking to this guy. He seemed pretty nice, we had a lot in common and ended up texting for a few weeks before we decided to meet up...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Am I being silly here?
3
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2fyzhj/am_i_being_silly_here/
BrilliantAd2352
2022-10-15 15:34:30
1,665,848,070
null
['bumble']
0
y4qxzu
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/y4qxzu/m24_confused_about_my_girl/
1
Hello everyone, hope you’re having an amazing day, i need a help regarding my girls feeling about me So i met this girl lets name her jane on bumble 45 days ago and we started chatting on instagram and later we moved to whatsapp, and she asked me for a date and we both met on a restaurant and we had an amazing time, af...
dating
t5_2qhb1
M(24) confused about my girl 👧!
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/y4qxzu/m24_confused_about_my_girl/
okraVScucumber
2024-05-22 16:24:17
1,716,395,057
0
['hinge']
0
1cy4elp
true
null
17
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cy4elp/im_25f_engineer_dating_a_finance_bro_30m_and_dont/
2
Sorry this is a long post, but please don't comment without reading the whole thing. TY :) I met this guy on Hinge and we hit it off at first because of a very similar upbringing (FYI he is Asian, I am mixed W/A), lots of common hobbies, perfectly aligned future plans (aka no kids, where to live, where to retire). Then...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm (25f, engineer) dating a finance bro (30m) and don't know what to do about the income disparity and can't tell what he's thinking.
2
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cy4elp/im_25f_engineer_dating_a_finance_bro_30m_and_dont/
Fluffy-Elk-6238
2024-07-06 23:12:39
1,720,307,559
0
['swipe', 'dating apps']
0
1dx2c3q
true
I Need Advice 😩
55
0
/r/dating/comments/1dx2c3q/to_women_when_on_dating_apps_what_makes_you_swipe/
6
I only get a match from time to time, it's been like 2 months since my last one. Idk what I need to do to stand out.
dating
t5_2qhb1
To women, when on dating apps, what makes you swipe right?
6
0.69
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dx2c3q/to_women_when_on_dating_apps_what_makes_you_swipe/
sluttychurros
2021-08-25 03:38:21
1,629,862,701
null
['matched', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'bumble']
0
pb36gw
true
null
16
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/pb36gw/should_i_acknowledge_an_apology/
4
Edit: thanks for your opinions! I’m going to leave it and not reply. I didn’t have a desire to restart anything when I first texted, and that hasn’t changed with his apology either. I’ll try to be brief. Last summer I matched with a guy on Bumble, exchanged numbers andamp; talked for 6ish weeks before we met. I believe...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Should I acknowledge an apology?
null
0.64
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/pb36gw/should_i_acknowledge_an_apology/
throwmyviewsaway
2019-03-22 23:29:40
1,553,297,380
null
['tinder']
0
b4c32a
true
null
48
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/b4c32a/are_my_views_toxic/
11
I will try to be brief because I am afraid that my friend will find out that I am talking about her. here is my story, I grew up in a pretty liberal environment, always had pretty progressive views and pretty progressive friends, one of them, my best friend, I met her during HS and we pretty much clicked right from th...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Are my views toxic?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/b4c32a/are_my_views_toxic/
LittleColette
2015-01-22 12:59:00
1,421,931,540
0
['online dating']
0
2ta8pj
null
Support
26
null
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2ta8pj/i_need_help_should_i_try_finding_a_boyfriend_or/
4
So a little background first. I'm a transgender woman. I've been on hormones for 7 months now and I pass pretty much all the time. I'm 26 and I've never had a boyfriend (I had a couple of girlfriends before I came out but I've always known I was into boys and only boys so they didn't go anywhere and were over quickly)....
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
I need help. Should I try finding a boyfriend or wait?
4
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2ta8pj/i_need_help_should_i_try_finding_a_boyfriend_or/
midnightrider07
2016-08-01 14:05:11
1,470,060,311
0
['tinder']
0
4vmnfm
null
null
10
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/4vmnfm/should_i_hold_off_or_push_for_another_date/
3
I met this girl last week. We had a great first date, and due to some rather lucky and unintended circumstances that night, I slept at hers and we consequently had sex. Later the next day after leaving her place, she initiated convo with me, asking how I was. We then exchanged numerous texts that night and she said she...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I hold off, or push for another date?
3
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4vmnfm/should_i_hold_off_or_push_for_another_date/
Anotheragainx2
2015-08-29 06:23:23
1,440,829,403
0
['tinder']
0
3itjwu
null
null
11
null
/r/AskMen/comments/3itjwu/have_you_ever_been_attracted_to_a_girl_you_arent/
8
I met a girl on tinder, she has a really cute face but her body isn't what im usually attracted to(kind of chubby). We met up, hung out, then went to my place and started hooking up. After we were done we cuddled and what not. I feel odd because i'm usually not attracted to girls who aren't what i'm exactly attracted t...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
Have you ever been attracted to a girl you aren't usually attracted to?
8
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3itjwu/have_you_ever_been_attracted_to_a_girl_you_arent/
Burneracountismyname
2021-03-02 23:00:58
1,614,726,058
null
['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
lwezcj
true
null
17
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lwezcj/24m_i_have_never_dated_and_have_no_idea_how/
1
I just got a therapist, and in a session yesterday, he suggested I should try dating, but I have no real idea how to do that. I had a complicated childhood and went to a very intense school, so dating was never really on the table. Now I have basically no idea how to date or how dating works. However, I know no one wan...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[24M] I have never dated and have no idea how dating apps works, any tips for not being obvious and weird?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lwezcj/24m_i_have_never_dated_and_have_no_idea_how/
SnooKiwis4974
2023-10-22 13:08:14
1,697,980,094
0
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I (26F) don’t know why dating is so difficult for me, but seemingly easy for everyone else. I have experience with dating apps and would get a lot of attention on there, but it was very superficial and it seemed like most of the guys were just interested in sleeping with me. Whenever I would meet up with the guys for d...
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t5_2s4kl
How do I put myself out there without dating apps? Or should I just keep using them?
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RoyalConsequence1633
2024-03-16 23:02:50
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Need advice, honest opinion. M53, separated after 23 years of marriage, soon to be divorced. On separation, gave my car to our kid (senior in HS). Wife got a new car and I drive the family minivan. It was a mutual decision. I did not want to spend on a new vehicle. The van is old, but runs great. Plus it will be helpfu...
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t5_12ieog
Do women judge a guy by the car/vehicle they drive?
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Brownsugargh
2021-09-29 21:38:03
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I’m gonna be honest and admit that I’m pretty hot so naturally I get lots of matches on OLD. I matched with this guy who would constantly turn every conversation/topic sexual. He asked me out on a date and I politely declined…I told him I was looking for something serious and based on our conversations it appeared he o...
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t5_2qhb1
He swore he was into me because of my personality…so I lied about my weight and he ghosted me.
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jdhicnslsss
2020-08-24 08:25:11
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Also, any guys who are passionate and very latched on and almost clingy with a girl, what is your take on this? Does "needing more" make a girl conceited?
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t5_2qpe9
Anyone experience the bummed out feeling when the person is great but you wish they just liked youa littleee more? Online dating hasn't brought me together with a guy that likes me equally as I like him
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