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Illustrious-Slide629 | 2023-12-05 18:49:29 | 1,701,802,169 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18bj4lc | true | null | 177 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/18bj4lc/what_struggles_do_men_face_with_dating_apps/ | 112 | Hey there so, I’m a 21-year-old college girl, fairly new to the whole dating app scene and, gotta be honest, I find it scary as hell. I'm not sure if it's just instinct or a culmination of the countless horror stories we girls swap, but anyways… Recently, I had a chilling encounter that nearly made me swear off dating ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What struggles do men face with dating apps? | 112 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/18bj4lc/what_struggles_do_men_face_with_dating_apps/ |
DrArman | 2021-10-25 15:42:56 | 1,635,176,576 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | qfjjav | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qfjjav/i_cant_help_but_feel_like_crap/ | 0 | I (m35) never really did any hard partying and been overweight (250lb 5'9). Probably why I've been single most of my life. I met this girl (f28), we've hung out twice now at a local bar on weekends. She's a party animal and I'm ... Kinda square (trying to be less of that). Last night we started texting, and she suggest... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I can't help but feel like crap. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qfjjav/i_cant_help_but_feel_like_crap/ |
FriedDuckCurry | 2023-07-27 04:35:09 | 1,690,432,509 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 15arx9h | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15arx9h/going_on_dates_with_multiple_girls/ | 1 | Am new to online dating and am texting with a few girls. Have thought about asking them on a date but I also feel like a dick for even considering asking multiple people on a date as it seems like I am not even trying to get settled and just want to have action. I am not interested in dating multiple girls but I also d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Going on dates with multiple girls? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15arx9h/going_on_dates_with_multiple_girls/ |
Last_Elderberry3974 | 2024-05-28 00:03:56 | 1,716,854,636 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1d2661u | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d2661u/strategic_dating_advice/ | 1 | Posted this to r/gay, but I want the opinions of straight people too. I (22M) have recently moved to a big city and after breaking up with my (36M) boyfriend of 2 years have had very little success on the dating apps. I’m looking for a long-term partner, and this experience has me asking the following questions: 1. Sho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Strategic dating advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d2661u/strategic_dating_advice/ |
klementchen74 | 2023-10-15 23:47:26 | 1,697,413,646 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 178sjaf | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/178sjaf/the_girl_im_talking_to_hasnt_asked_me_a_single/ | 1 | I matched with this girl on Tuesday and we've been talking for the past few days. I asked her if she wanted to find a day next week to meet up and she was down, but I honestly can't tell if she's interested in me at this point. She responds to my messages within minutes, but she hasn't asked me a single question, not e... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The girl I'm talking to hasn't asked me a single question. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/178sjaf/the_girl_im_talking_to_hasnt_asked_me_a_single/ |
spentonnails9 | 2019-08-27 10:05:40 | 1,566,900,340 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | cw2bfq | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cw2bfq/having_trouble_falling_for_any_guys_i_date/ | 2 | Like, I know what he looks like in my head and his personality roughly. I know the values that he has and his personality traits. His sense of humor, some of his interests. It’s not that he makes a ton of money or anything like that....he’s a basic guy, but just perfect for me, I just don’t know if I will ever find thi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Having trouble falling for any guys I date because have an ideal guy in my head that I’m not sure I’ll ever find. Anyone understand? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cw2bfq/having_trouble_falling_for_any_guys_i_date/ |
[deleted] | 2013-02-07 02:12:11 | 1,360,203,131 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 181ey0 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/181ey0/dating_sites_been_chatting_for_a_while_now_what/ | 3 | Hi guys, I'm 27M and a 23F started talking to me on an online dating site recently. I've never used them before till recently I thought I'd try something different. Anyways, we have been talking over SMS for about a week and a half now and have been getting along really good and seem to have a bit in common, she has be... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating sites. Been chatting for a while, now what? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/181ey0/dating_sites_been_chatting_for_a_while_now_what/ |
[deleted] | 2023-01-22 19:25:03 | 1,674,415,503 | null | ['OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | 10irsqy | true | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10irsqy/what_sort_of_gym_photo_would_be_in_poor_taste_for/ | 1 | M24 here. The title. I’d like to show that I go to the gym rather than just telling, pictures speak louder than words and all that (not to mention it's one of my “hobbies”, notably weightlifting). But I’m worried that it would make me look obnoxious. Assuming I could put a picture of myself at the gym (i.e. not every g... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What sort of gym photo would be in poor taste for my OLD profile (OKC, Bumble)? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10irsqy/what_sort_of_gym_photo_would_be_in_poor_taste_for/ |
Square_Possession_73 | 2023-09-23 11:54:28 | 1,695,470,068 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 16q2l05 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16q2l05/i_32f_am_confused_about_this_guy_33m_that_ive_met/ | 1 | I matched with this guy a few weeks ago. We actually know each other IRL - we went to the same college more than a decade ago but have never really been friends/kept in touch until matching recently. Anyway we matched on an app and recognised each other instantly. We chatted for a few days, messaging once daily with qu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (32f) am confused about this guy (33m) that I've met online | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16q2l05/i_32f_am_confused_about_this_guy_33m_that_ive_met/ |
stenay | 2023-05-21 20:47:18 | 1,684,702,038 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 13o5v54 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13o5v54/how_to_meet_women_besides_online_dating/ | 0 | I am a 34 year old guy. Online dating has been hit and miss for me. While i met my longest relationship online it hasnt worked for me ever sinc3 my breakup. I dont approach anyone at work. Dont think its appropriate. I dont drink so i dont go to bars. I dont have many options. I am an introvert so all my hobbies are al... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to meet women besides online dating? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13o5v54/how_to_meet_women_besides_online_dating/ |
qwerty10293847565 | 2023-07-27 17:47:53 | 1,690,480,073 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15b8exz | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15b8exz/virgin_dating_advice/ | 1 | I’m (27M) and a virgin I recently had a glow up and finally got the confidence to start dating. I’m talking to a few girls off dating apps and even went on a date with one. It’s been okay but I feel out of place being a virgin and them having so much experience. Just the things they talked about in terms of relationshi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Virgin dating advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15b8exz/virgin_dating_advice/ |
HighlySuspect_Me | 2020-09-15 05:23:09 | 1,600,147,389 | null | null | 0 | it2h8y | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/it2h8y/do_you_expand_your_search_for_love/ | 2 | I am open to long distance relationships but I know that many people aren’t. I live on the west coast so I expend my search to include Wa, Or, and Ca. I don’t think it is that far as I have family in Cali and live close to Oregon. Does anyone else expand their search or only prefer locals? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Do you expand your search for love? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/it2h8y/do_you_expand_your_search_for_love/ |
Tapirsnor | 2021-03-16 08:51:11 | 1,615,884,671 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | m64ltx | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m64ltx/sex_appeal/ | 1 | Hey Reddit, I have been going on a lot of dates lately and it's been nice to meet new people during the lockdown. I also met some great woman, but unfortunately nothing serious resulted from it. I have been thinking about why that is and talking to some female friends and it seems that in general women perceive me more... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Sex appeal | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m64ltx/sex_appeal/ |
boekie321 | 2023-09-05 08:45:39 | 1,693,903,539 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 16aiq9w | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16aiq9w/weird_rejection/ | 1 | So a few weeks ago I met someone and we really matched. We met each other at a festival later and spend two days together. After it we went on a date and it was a date of 7 hours long on a workweek evening all good with great vibes. A few days later we drunktexted in the weekend and we met and she slept the night at my... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Weird rejection | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16aiq9w/weird_rejection/ |
CounterintuitivePaw | 2018-01-05 19:48:15 | 1,515,181,695 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7odqnh | false | null | 11 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7odqnh/advice_for_a_teen_trying_to_help_her_mom/ | 5 | Hi, I realize this is an adult thread, hopefully you guys can help me understand my moms perspective or find a way to help her. Background: So my mom is 40 years old born and raised in Russia/ Germany. She came to the US before I was born some time in 1998 when she married my father. Fast forward she divorced him early... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Advice for a teen trying to help her mom | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7odqnh/advice_for_a_teen_trying_to_help_her_mom/ |
Infamous_Past_3987 | 2023-04-08 15:38:09 | 1,680,968,289 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 12fpkxd | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12fpkxd/im_sick_of_hearing_put_yourself_out_there/ | 1 | I am 18 I know im young but i just feel like ill be single forever, everyone around me is in a relationship or has been in relationships and I dont know why I havent. Im not the most attractive person ever but i dont consider myself ugly I feel so left out i want to experience romance so bad but it seems everyone, even... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Im sick of hearing “put yourself out there” | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12fpkxd/im_sick_of_hearing_put_yourself_out_there/ |
Mmmc1999 | 2024-02-28 22:16:22 | 1,709,158,582 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1b2j8rx | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b2j8rx/why_wont_he_m27_give_me_24f_a_chance_or_does_he/ | 1 | I really like this guy and I feel like we have such good chemistry together. Sex is amazing, he’s so genuine and nice when we’re together. We have lots of banter. He knows im a good person but he just doesn’t want a relationship with me & he’s on bumble. He always replies to my Snapchat stories not with a conversation ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why won’t he (m27) give me (24f) a chance or does he just want a fwb? | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b2j8rx/why_wont_he_m27_give_me_24f_a_chance_or_does_he/ |
Western_Dagger | 2024-06-26 20:18:30 | 1,719,433,110 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dp8fix | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dp8fix/seeing_all_of_these_pretty_ladies_and_not_getting/ | 1 | Nuff said. 20m. My dating life is nonexistent and I'm speaking to so many different people who have at least had one partner. It sucks because a lot of them are around my age. I don't want to have to pay to use a dating app but I might. This is crazy annoying. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Seeing all of these pretty ladies and not getting one is demoralizing. | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dp8fix/seeing_all_of_these_pretty_ladies_and_not_getting/ |
confuzedmesnewname | 2020-06-20 21:57:54 | 1,592,690,274 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hculvt | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hculvt/men_why_are_you_on_tinder_if_youre_still_hung_up/ | 2 | This has happened to me twice now. I am not looking for a commitment, just chemistry, good sex and a friend. But twice now I have come across (and genuinely liked) guys who seem great then boom, they tell me they have feelings for their ex. Glad I could help you out 🙄. I am now drama, no bullshit, attractive and sexy ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Men, why are you on Tinder if you're still hung up on your ex-girlfriend? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hculvt/men_why_are_you_on_tinder_if_youre_still_hung_up/ |
CrypticTacoo | 2024-08-05 06:38:11 | 1,722,839,891 | 0 | ['swiped'] | 0 | 1ekh2ed | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ekh2ed/girl_i_talked_to_think_shes_poly/ | 37 | So ive been trying my hand in the dating game again after 5 years of being single. I got talking to a girl on and off couple messages a day nothing serious, then couple weeks ago we exchanged alot of pictures. I asked her for a date couple days after but she vanished for a week, so i kinda went o well and moved on, but... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl i talked to think shes poly? | 37 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ekh2ed/girl_i_talked_to_think_shes_poly/ |
1fairiris | 2024-08-30 20:05:13 | 1,725,048,313 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1f54pqf | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f54pqf/dating_apps_dying_out/ | 1 | It's been a minute since I've been on a dating app since I've chosen celibacy earlier in the year. But from what I've heard more and more recently is that dating apps are actually phasing out (even for those who are legitimately trying to date and not just hookup). Is there any truth to this? I know it's subjective but... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps dying out? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f54pqf/dating_apps_dying_out/ |
KatCosp | 2021-04-30 12:24:54 | 1,619,785,494 | null | ['swiping', 'dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | n1sq3l | true | Question | 22 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/n1sq3l/which_dating_app_works_the_best_for_you/ | 1 | I deleted tinder and bumble for a moment because I just find it a waste of time swiping on people face. I got Hinge and it seems better ! Is there any apps that works for you ? Also some with some international aspect 😘. Have a nice day everyone. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Which dating app works the best for you ? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/n1sq3l/which_dating_app_works_the_best_for_you/ |
Jack-Crash | 2019-04-07 01:19:34 | 1,554,599,974 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | bab9sh | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bab9sh/online_dating_not_working_what_next/ | 1 | Been using several dating apps for about 2 months now with terrible results across the board. I want to try and just do it in person again but I'm not sure the best way of doing so. I'm pretty introverted and don't like to party or go to bars. Any advice on how I can meet new people for someone who just graduated colle... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating not working. What next? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bab9sh/online_dating_not_working_what_next/ |
allforyoubabyy | 2022-05-15 04:30:56 | 1,652,589,056 | null | ['swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | upy907 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/upy907/going_on_first_tinder_date/ | 1 | Here’s a little story, middle school and even high school I was pretty unattractive, my confidence level was extremely low, and I was depressed. All of my crushes use to reject me. I talked to nobody, I was friendless. Now, I graduated high school almost a year ago. Once I graduated I slowly wanted to change how I look... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Going on First Tinder Date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/upy907/going_on_first_tinder_date/ |
jbalk523 | 2023-12-24 13:28:20 | 1,703,424,500 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18pv8nq | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18pv8nq/how_do_i_even_find_a_date/ | 3 | I (18m) have never dated anyone and I'm struggling to find a date. I've been on dating apps for 7 months with no results.Pls help. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I even find a date? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18pv8nq/how_do_i_even_find_a_date/ |
natavi82 | 2024-08-09 00:55:25 | 1,723,164,925 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1enmim0 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1enmim0/feeling_guilty_for_going_on_a_date_a_few_months/ | 1 | So my ex (26m) and I (25f) broke up a few months ago, and I wasn’t planning on dating again for a very long while. I went on hinge just to see what the vibe was like, and to see if honestly anyone would be interested in me, but with no real intention of meeting anyone (I made it clear on my profile). This guy (30m) and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feeling guilty for going on a date a few months after my 3-year relationship ended | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1enmim0/feeling_guilty_for_going_on_a_date_a_few_months/ |
youngturkey22 | 2021-01-20 11:00:25 | 1,611,140,425 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | l170ng | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l170ng/m_never_dated_anyone_in_my_life_and_i_think_its/ | 13 | I’m 23 and I have never been on a date or really had any real conversations with a girl other than my sister. I had no friends In high school so I don’t really know if I look good or if I look like butt cheeks (never really had any input other than my mom telling me I’m handsome). I’ve changed since then and I told mys... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (M) Never dated anyone in my life and I think it’s about time I did, but I don’t know how. Please help | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l170ng/m_never_dated_anyone_in_my_life_and_i_think_its/ |
max_power4 | 2021-06-21 00:31:50 | 1,624,235,510 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | o4iyxy | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o4iyxy/lonely_covid_people_how_are_you/ | 13 | I'll start...I've been struggling. I don't mind being alone from time to time but I never expected for it to go on for this long - it's been so difficult. How have people been coping? Just a companion would bring a smile to my face. Someone I can hold, I miss touch. I've never enjoyed using dating apps and the pandemic... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Lonely covid people - how are you? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o4iyxy/lonely_covid_people_how_are_you/ |
FromNC | 2020-11-17 01:04:34 | 1,605,575,074 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | jvjeyi | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jvjeyi/me_28m_dating_32f_odd_texter_but_keeps_agreeing/ | 1 | I met a girl on OLD which is a new phenomenon to me, she has never been much of a texter, typically the conversation is me asking the questions, her answering and then asking me how I feel/answer the question I asked her. I just kinda through out a request for her number and a date about 2-3 days into talking to her on... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Me 28M dating 32F, odd texter, but keeps agreeing to dates | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jvjeyi/me_28m_dating_32f_odd_texter_but_keeps_agreeing/ |
Magyarmongol72 | 2023-08-20 22:27:22 | 1,692,570,442 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 15wp2rm | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/15wp2rm/old_in_rural_settings_vs_urban_ones/ | 1 | Wow what a difference health and looks wise. Holy canoli! | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | OLD in rural settings VS urban ones. | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/15wp2rm/old_in_rural_settings_vs_urban_ones/ |
saysanything | 2012-11-01 23:51:42 | 1,351,813,902 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 12hiuk | null | null | 13 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/12hiuk/have_i_been_inconsiderate_in_expecting_immediate/ | 7 | (As a reference, I am a 21 year old female.) For a few months now I have had a "friends with benefits" type relationship with a guy I met on an online dating site. I was never looking for anything serious, and after the third time we hung out we had sex. I texted him after he left saying that I didn't want a serious re... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Have I been inconsiderate in expecting immediate friendship after sexual relationships? | 7 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/12hiuk/have_i_been_inconsiderate_in_expecting_immediate/ |
MotorStable3931 | 2023-03-24 23:39:26 | 1,679,701,166 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 12134i7 | true | null | 221 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/12134i7/is_it_just_me_or_are_more_men_falling_into/ | 781 | Until this year, I had never experienced so much actual hatred and objectification toward women. I've been on dating apps for a long time in the same city. It feels like something has shifted and I feel nervous. Is it just that I'm getting older (I'm early 30s) and the men who don't hate women have gotten off the apps?... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Is it just me or are more men falling into misogyny? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/12134i7/is_it_just_me_or_are_more_men_falling_into/ |
Pierre-Woodrow | 2023-12-02 14:36:07 | 1,701,527,767 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18950yf | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18950yf/i_30m_just_had_first_2_dates_and_first_kiss_28f/ | 1 | I’m 30 and never dated. Severe childhood abuse left me completely isolated in my teens and 20s. After a few years of therapy, I’m ready to date. I downloaded hinge a few weeks ago and got matches right away. Last week I was so nervous but I picked up a girl for my first official date. 2 days later we went out again and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (30m) just had first 2 dates and first kiss (28f). Now I’m going crazy. Help! | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18950yf/i_30m_just_had_first_2_dates_and_first_kiss_28f/ |
confusedpichu | 2019-09-12 10:10:53 | 1,568,283,053 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | d35qwx | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d35qwx/meeting_his_family_on_our_first_date/ | 0 | Okay so, I (F, 21) met a guy (M, 17) on tinder. He kept insisting I meet him for weeks until I finally gave in. There was a point where I started ghosting him but that didn’t work. I agreed to go out with him and just thought maybe he won’t like me and stop. Anyways, We went out on a date. It was fun and I enjoyed it. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | MEETING HIS FAMILY ON OUR FIRST DATE???? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d35qwx/meeting_his_family_on_our_first_date/ |
Sodosopawap | 2020-09-14 03:38:26 | 1,600,054,706 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | isd957 | true | Venting | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/isd957/dating_feels_impossible/ | 0 | I’m (24F) a flight attendant and it feels impossible to date. I see thousands of people a day between the flights, airports and cities I’m in. I’ve never dated anyone before and there could be so many reasons why. I open myself up the acceptable amount when meeting people but they aren’t interesting to me or I guess I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating feels impossible | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/isd957/dating_feels_impossible/ |
Njsinglemama | 2023-04-11 00:31:14 | 1,681,173,074 | 0 | ['swiped', 'bumble'] | 0 | 12i29pq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12i29pq/just_friends/ | 3 | So I’m a single mom. A few weeks ago was my daughter’s bday party and I was talking to one of the dad’s there, who is also single. After the party, he texted me pics from the party and we exchanged a few texts and talked about getting the kids together for a playdate. Today, he swiped right on me on bumble (I pay for p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just friends? | 3 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12i29pq/just_friends/ |
HeraBeara | 2017-05-20 01:15:28 | 1,495,242,928 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6c7pjc | null | null | 32 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6c7pjc/need_help_with_a_response/ | 4 | Heard the buzz of Tinder and was hoping for something promising to appear in my inbox.... Suggestions on how to proceed? Edit: I unmatched the guy. Was tempted to engage simply to read him the riot act but realized that he might has taken my response as encouragement. Just so people do not think I am too horribly prudi... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Need Help With a Response... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6c7pjc/need_help_with_a_response/ |
thingythingthang | 2023-05-01 18:45:04 | 1,682,966,704 | 0 | ['OLD', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 134xncv | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/134xncv/info_from_uk_old_users_please/ | 1 | I have never tried OLD, so I googled reviews to see what might be the best app for me - I had been thinking Match, as that seemed more geared towards LTR. The recent reviews from TrustPilot were absolutely AWFUL. It seems many people - loads of them - are complaining about being overcharged, unauthourised credit card c... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Info from UK OLD users, please. | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/134xncv/info_from_uk_old_users_please/ |
Comfortable_Ad_2716 | 2024-09-27 22:46:09 | 1,727,477,169 | 0 | ['swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fr094r | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fr094r/will_i_ever_be_in_love/ | 1 | I (22m) recently came out of a toxic relationship (1 year) towards the end of June. Up until now, I kept on telling myself that I was the one who fucked up the relationship. However, I was recently told by my therapist that I was in a trauma bond. Upon looking up what a trauma bond is, it immediately sounded like my re... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Will I ever be in Love? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fr094r/will_i_ever_be_in_love/ |
lovewithsky | 2023-10-27 08:33:25 | 1,698,395,605 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17hixtl | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17hixtl/am_i_looking_in_too_deeply_into_this_interaction/ | 1 | I (29F) just started working for a small company. My boss (late 30s male) who is the owner of the company, flew in to help train me for a week. At work he has mentioned his wife and kids. He is very charismatic, chatty, even hyperactive at work. Overall very friendly guy. On his last night here he asked me to dinner. O... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Am I looking in too deeply into this interaction with my male boss? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17hixtl/am_i_looking_in_too_deeply_into_this_interaction/ |
throwtheoawayy | 2018-09-12 19:09:14 | 1,536,779,354 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9faozr | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9faozr/trying_to_decide_if_i_21f_should_try_again_with_a/ | 1 | Also posted in r/dating_advice I (21F) got Tinder last month out of curiosity. I didn't have high expectations for it, and I decided to try it out just to see what it was like and to have a bit of fun with some female coworkers who were also on the app. I had never dated before, or been in a relationship, but I thought... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Trying to decide if I (21F) should try again with a date (25M), become friends, or just let him go. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9faozr/trying_to_decide_if_i_21f_should_try_again_with_a/ |
FarButterfly1992 | 2024-09-20 13:49:23 | 1,726,840,163 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1flch3g | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1flch3g/wanted_to_see_if_i_did_the_right_thing/ | 1 | Hello everyone, I wanted to get your opinion on a decision I made. I had been talking to a guy on the phone for a couple of days after finding him on a dating app. One of the questions I asked was how long ago his last relationship was, and I made it clear that he could choose not to answer. He told me it was three yea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Wanted to see if I did the right thing. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1flch3g/wanted_to_see_if_i_did_the_right_thing/ |
Loraxdude14 | 2023-07-07 01:00:23 | 1,688,691,623 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 14srupa | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14srupa/how_to_get_photos_for_tinderdating_apps/ | 1 | So let me begin by stating my situation (26M, hetero). I'm in a small city with very few young people. I am recently employed out of college, and am living with my parents as I try to figure out my next move. I have not been on a date in 5 years, and I can't even begin to undersand how people are lucky enough to be abl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get Photos for Tinder/Dating Apps | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14srupa/how_to_get_photos_for_tinderdating_apps/ |
Zechappy | 2024-02-25 18:30:47 | 1,708,885,847 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1azv194 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1azv194/am_i_being_led_on/ | 1 | So I (23m) matched with a (24f) on hinge February 14th. We texted extensively for a couple days and we really connected on many levels. She seemed really interested because I don’t think anyone would be texting messages as long as she did and sending good morning and night texts. So I planned a date for that Sunday. Co... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being led on? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1azv194/am_i_being_led_on/ |
Ornery-Perspective-7 | 2021-12-30 02:53:02 | 1,640,832,782 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | rrqieh | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rrqieh/starting_to_date_again/ | 1 | Hi folks! I (31M) haven’t been on an in person date since February of 2020 and I recently took a 6 month hiatus from dating altogether. I did a bunch of virtual dates up until this past summer. None of those developed into any sort of meaningful relationship. I wouldn’t have met up with anyone in person unless both of ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Starting to date again | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rrqieh/starting_to_date_again/ |
Lost-Confusion-9545 | 2023-07-27 21:09:05 | 1,690,492,145 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 15bdley | false | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15bdley/dating_help/ | 1 | Out of a 17year relationship and looking at getting back into dating . What are people tips for meeting people , is online dating the best thing or where in real life can you meet people when your an introvert ? Thanks | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating help! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15bdley/dating_help/ |
Impossible-Might-597 | 2024-03-12 13:30:23 | 1,710,250,223 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1bcxanl | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bcxanl/staying_overnight_together_on_the_second_date/ | 2 | I (31F) got talking to a guy (35M) I met on tinder over a week ago. We spoke on the phone the next day for an hour and then the following 2 days. I found him extremely attractive and we spoke a lot about sex and what we liked. Obviously, we hadn’t met at this point and I was worried about natural chemistry. Friday nigh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Staying overnight together on the second date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bcxanl/staying_overnight_together_on_the_second_date/ |
sebastianotd1991 | 2023-04-28 02:38:38 | 1,682,649,518 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 131fajy | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/131fajy/where_are_you_finding_these_women/ | 0 | Okay so I'm an extrovert no issues meeting/talking to people. Not to make excuses but there are a few issues I expierenced. Online dating sites nobody likes me. Even at church groups most women want to find a husband or boyfriend yet when I approach them they freak out. Same thing when I approach women in public. I mig... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where are you finding these women? | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/131fajy/where_are_you_finding_these_women/ |
NoCarpenter6969 | 2024-04-10 03:34:16 | 1,712,720,056 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1c0bwvi | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c0bwvi/completely_lost_on_how_to_move_forward_and_giving/ | 1 | So I'm 24M and basically I just feel so deflated and lost because I've been trying for so long to find a girlfriend and haven't been able to in like 6 years. It's not even about sex for me (I will not do casual) but I really just want to hold hands, cuddle, all those things. Had one GF when I was 19 (in college) and ne... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Completely lost on how to move forward and giving up hope | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c0bwvi/completely_lost_on_how_to_move_forward_and_giving/ |
ASleepyLawStudent | 2021-10-05 23:49:23 | 1,633,477,763 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | q28nz9 | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/q28nz9/how_to_initiate_sex_with_a_fwb_as_a_woman/ | 5 | So this guy I met on tinder wants to have a fwb relationship, which is perfect for me cause I literally have no time for the emotional drain that comes with a relationship. I’ve never had a fwb before or had casual sex, how am I supposed to navigate this?! | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How to initiate sex with a fwb as a woman? | null | 0.61 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/q28nz9/how_to_initiate_sex_with_a_fwb_as_a_woman/ |
Nicholas_ARR | 2024-03-02 17:21:00 | 1,709,400,060 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1b4tevg | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b4tevg/need_advice_on_a_girl_of_been_seeing_for_a_about/ | 1 | Little bit of context, we are both 21 years-old and met on hinge. I like her, I think she's got a good head on her shoulders and is pretty cute. I need help though, we've meet twice so far and have and a nice time. I just don't know how do go about seeing if she is interested in being my gf. Do I straight up ask, do it... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice on a girl of been seeing for a about two months | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b4tevg/need_advice_on_a_girl_of_been_seeing_for_a_about/ |
Kindly_Tree2859 | 2024-02-13 16:35:03 | 1,707,842,103 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1apxr4z | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1apxr4z/how_do_i_get_a_date_as_a_bad_texter/ | 1 | So for context, where I (21M) am from, most of the girls i know text 24/7. All my friends got their girls by first texting, talking by text alot and then going on a date. The last girlfriend i had about a year ago, i met on tinder by texting her something and her literal first reply was “i’d rather tell you in person” ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do i get a date as a bad texter? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1apxr4z/how_do_i_get_a_date_as_a_bad_texter/ |
nursingstudent2023 | 2024-01-01 01:35:10 | 1,704,072,910 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18vm6cf | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18vm6cf/how_do_you_meet_men_not_on_a_dating_app/ | 1 | Tired of dating apps. I’m a local parks and books shops but where do you go as a single female. Not interested in clubbing or partying. Give me tips! | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you meet men NOT on a dating app | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18vm6cf/how_do_you_meet_men_not_on_a_dating_app/ |
kellsybellsy | 2019-12-02 19:18:41 | 1,575,314,321 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | e53wno | true | null | 55 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/e53wno/breakup_over_money_management_and_debt/ | 31 | I (31F) met a guy (34M) on Bumble that I've been dating for the past 4 months. He is mid-divorce - it should be final by the end of the year. Over the 4 months, I learned more about his debt and observed his poor money management. After talking to him about my concerns a few times, I broke it off last night, realizing ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Breakup over money management and debt | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/e53wno/breakup_over_money_management_and_debt/ |
Hope1995x | 2023-08-23 06:47:13 | 1,692,773,233 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 15yvsjk | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15yvsjk/a_woman_that_works_at_my_walmart_just_liked_me_on/ | 1 | It seems the likely way of approaching her would be at her job, but I want to keep it comfortable and not creepy. I want to know the best way of doing it. There is a 9 year age gap, she's 19 and I'm 28. I never had a girlfriend before and I don't want people to think I'm a creep for showing up to some girl's job. I wan... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A woman that works at my WalMart just liked me on Bumble, should I approach her? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15yvsjk/a_woman_that_works_at_my_walmart_just_liked_me_on/ |
bbstar23 | 2023-05-07 14:46:59 | 1,683,470,819 | 0 | null | 0 | 13ar4a9 | true | null | 73 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13ar4a9/why_do_i_keep_losing_friends_of_benefits_after_12/ | 0 | I’m 34M. I get tons of matches online. Thank god. But it’s so annoying to have 2 friends with benefits. One girl cut me off after we slept together two times and the other girl cut me off after having sex for only four times. This is annoying me. Luckily I can easily get dates so I’m looking for my next girl now. My qu... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why do I keep losing friends of benefits after 1-2 months of seeing them | 0 | 0.22 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13ar4a9/why_do_i_keep_losing_friends_of_benefits_after_12/ |
czlumenarcus84 | 2012-12-11 12:43:49 | 1,355,229,829 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 14nutk | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating/comments/14nutk/i_dont_think_i_like_my_okcupid_test_results/ | 0 | Tests? Sure I have been taking them my whole life. Why not? Holly hell really? I'm more aggressive than average? I have bad manners? I understand the less romantic sure, and the less spiritual... But wtf is capitalistic? Now I'm going to have to go threw the 150+ questions I bumbled threw and figure out why. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I don't think I like my OkCupid test results... | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14nutk/i_dont_think_i_like_my_okcupid_test_results/ |
SUREYOUARE123 | 2016-03-21 16:13:54 | 1,458,576,834 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 4bcwt1 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4bcwt1/m21_is_my_chat_bad/ | 1 | Hi all, mindless depressing post, im sorry. In short, i have never been in a relationship and i really want to give it a shot.. but its not working. So i seem to have no issue with meeting women, i go to bars and clubs, im on tinder and i have even asked a random out on the street. I have been through a phase of hookin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [M/21] Is my chat bad? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4bcwt1/m21_is_my_chat_bad/ |
bigben1234567890 | 2023-08-31 18:12:04 | 1,693,505,524 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 166iguq | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/166iguq/the_whole_just_work_on_urself_and_love_comes_when/ | 1 | I have an issue with a lot of online dating advice I see along these lines. I get that there’s an important balance. I mean, there’s nothing worse than being so focused on getting in a relationship that you have no concept of who you really are as an individual. But believe me, the whole logic of “if you just become go... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The whole “just work on urself and love comes when u least expect it” mentality is mostly fatalistic bs | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/166iguq/the_whole_just_work_on_urself_and_love_comes_when/ |
HighLemur263 | 2021-03-18 21:24:42 | 1,616,102,682 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | m814ft | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m814ft/advice_for_getting_more_matchesresponses_on/ | 1 | I (24M) recently got out of a long term relationship, lasted about year. I'm looking to get back into the dating scene but haven't had much luck on dating apps in the past. Due to the current circumstances however, it's kinda my only option at the moment to try to meet new people. All my friends tell me I'm attractive ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice for getting more matches/responses on dating apps? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m814ft/advice_for_getting_more_matchesresponses_on/ |
Upbeat-Commission422 | 2024-02-20 09:21:36 | 1,708,420,896 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1avdjnf | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1avdjnf/should_i_ask_out_this_girl/ | 1 | So I (25M) matched with this girl (26F) I graduated high school with back over the summer on hinge, we didn’t talk at all in high school but when we matched she recognized me and we started texting a lot and she seemed really interested and wanted to hang out so we hung out a couple times and grabbed food and drinks an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I ask out this girl? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1avdjnf/should_i_ask_out_this_girl/ |
ederzs97 | 2023-07-18 01:48:39 | 1,689,644,919 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 152kt4i | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/152kt4i/lost_access_to_my_hinge_account_and_now_on_the/ | 1 | So, I M26, moved from the UK to Canada three months ago. I was on hinge, signed up with my UK number. In Canada I was getting several matches a day on hinge. However, last week, I was logged out of my hinge and could not regain access to my account, as I signed up with my UK number (which I no longer have access to). C... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Lost access to my hinge account and now on the new one I get no matches? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/152kt4i/lost_access_to_my_hinge_account_and_now_on_the/ |
z0mbieskin | 2017-06-27 00:37:46 | 1,498,523,866 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6jp7m9 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/6jp7m9/have_you_ever_had_two_periods_in_a_row/ | 0 | Hey everyone, this is my first post on this sub. So recently I've been under a lot of stress, I have to turn in my undergrad thesis in a few weeks, and have work, my side job as a watercolor artist and my boxing practice in which I'm compete as an amateur. I legit haven't had a moment to relax for more than a couple ho... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Have you ever had two periods in a row? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/6jp7m9/have_you_ever_had_two_periods_in_a_row/ |
lwb03dc | 2024-06-02 14:06:48 | 1,717,337,208 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1d6e2tn | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d6e2tn/vibes_or_looks/ | 1 | So I'm working in a startup where users can create polls on anything they want. We have slightly above 2m users currently and these users have created around 1.2m polls around various topics. Now the plan is that users are going to get a 'match score' with other users based on their answers to all the polls, and matche... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Vibes or Looks? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d6e2tn/vibes_or_looks/ |
sleepy-muggle | 2024-03-17 15:12:51 | 1,710,688,371 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1bgzwgu | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bgzwgu/confused_about_his_intentions_after_first_date/ | 2 | Confused about his feelings after a great first date Hi So I (F23) just had a lovely first date with a M27 that I met on Bumble (let's call him Mike for the sake of this post). We had been previously texting for two weeks and he would send long and thoughtful respones to my messages (which were also long) and he would ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Confused about his intentions after first date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bgzwgu/confused_about_his_intentions_after_first_date/ |
Pelagic-Loon | 2022-05-26 14:18:18 | 1,653,574,698 | null | null | 0 | uy8nw4 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/uy8nw4/why_is_one_of_the_first_things_a_girl_asks_you/ | 0 | For the most part apps require you to list your age now. But whenever it is left unsaid, it is literally the first thing a girl asks you. Why is this so important if the physical attraction/chemistry is there? I think it’s a by product of our ageist culture and a result of recent demonization of age gap relationships/g... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why is one of the first things a girl asks you how old you are? | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/uy8nw4/why_is_one_of_the_first_things_a_girl_asks_you/ |
Tasty_Spot_5545 | 2021-03-31 05:51:55 | 1,617,169,915 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | mgzbtc | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mgzbtc/newbie_to_online_dating/ | 3 | I (45m) ended a long term relationship a few months ago, and started online dating recently. I am fortunate enough to hit it off with 3 gorgeous women (all in early 40’s) that I like, and have made out with all of them, but been careful not to sleep with them. I’m only looking for a long term and serious relationship. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Newbie to online dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mgzbtc/newbie_to_online_dating/ |
Krillacreat | 2022-01-22 09:51:08 | 1,642,845,068 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | s9z46t | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s9z46t/how_to_tell_tinder_match_family_has_covid/ | 1 | I met up with a match of mine from Tinder and learned in the car that he has a roommate with an immunity deficiency of some sort that I can't remember off the top of my head. The very next morning, my dad and step mom seem super lethargic while I have a sore throat (I initially chalked it up to me being I'll prepared f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | HOW to tell Tinder Match family has COVID? | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s9z46t/how_to_tell_tinder_match_family_has_covid/ |
Prestigious_Gain5421 | 2024-09-08 04:36:07 | 1,725,770,167 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fbpp6a | true | null | 103 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fbpp6a/do_men_ever_change_their_minds_on_a_womans/ | 59 | I’ve heard that men don’t ever date a woman he don’t find physically attractive. For me, as a woman I may not find a man attractive at first sight but maybe after a few interactions , I’ll be like : “He’s quite handsome , actually”. Especially in real life. The reason why I asked this however, in the context of online ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Do men ever change their minds on a woman's attractiveness ? | 59 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fbpp6a/do_men_ever_change_their_minds_on_a_womans/ |
soytypicallyme | 2022-03-29 17:43:19 | 1,648,575,799 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | tramd7 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tramd7/how_do_you_answer_the_question_what_are_you/ | 2 | Specifically, how do you answer this question if you’re looking for a relationship but don’t want to scare the person off or come accross as desperate ? But wanna make it know that you don’t do “casual” or “hookups”. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you answer the question “what are you looking for on dating apps?” | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tramd7/how_do_you_answer_the_question_what_are_you/ |
aquabe | 2018-04-21 20:38:34 | 1,524,343,114 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 8dyfx7 | false | null | 75 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8dyfx7/will_i_29f_ever_find_love_is_it_okay_to_be_single/ | 87 | I have been single for a few years now. Let me clarify, I am very happy in all aspects of my life except for love. Ever since my last break up from two years ago, I took time for myself to hit the gym, learnt a new activity, went travelling, went out on weekends with my friends etc. However, I barely meet any new eligi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Will I (29F) ever find love? Is it okay to be single for the rest of your life? | 87 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8dyfx7/will_i_29f_ever_find_love_is_it_okay_to_be_single/ |
Agitated-Roll4931 | 2024-02-21 02:40:46 | 1,708,483,246 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1aw0spw | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aw0spw/i_25f_curious_about_what_his_23m_intentions_could/ | 1 | Below is a lot of yapping. An absurd amount of yapping probably. The amount of yapping for someone who's bored, nosy, or potentially interested in the inner workings of the mind of a woman who's mostly healthy minded but is determined enough to protect her peace that she is getting a teeny tiny bit triggered from datin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (25F) curious about what his (23M) intentions could be. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aw0spw/i_25f_curious_about_what_his_23m_intentions_could/ |
pusssinboots | 2021-07-24 21:03:44 | 1,627,160,624 | null | null | 0 | oqy6a6 | true | null | 171 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/oqy6a6/if_a_guy_doesnt_text_the_day_after_you_stayed_at/ | 115 | UPDATE: Firstly, thank you all for your responses, this has been my most viral post as of yet. He texted today to check how my Saturday went, he came across pretty cool about it but hasn't responded since. Pre- sex both of us would take a few hours to respond due to work/socials (he's working today) but I am going to b... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If a guy doesn't text the day after you stayed at his and fcked, should you assume he's not interested? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/oqy6a6/if_a_guy_doesnt_text_the_day_after_you_stayed_at/ |
NicoletteBunny1937 | 2023-08-12 15:12:25 | 1,691,853,145 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 15p73zs | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15p73zs/just_had_to_bail_mid_date_after_the_guy_told_me/ | 1 | I was on a date with a very handsome man at a nice restaurant and I used to believe he is very sweet, he is 6’5 well groomed and is in school to be a pharmacist. I thought the date was going well until I started asking about politics and asked which way he leans toward and he said he is a conservative my heart just sto... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just had to bail mid date after the guy told me he’s a conservative | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15p73zs/just_had_to_bail_mid_date_after_the_guy_told_me/ |
Front-Echidna6106 | 2024-02-26 20:22:03 | 1,708,978,923 | 0 | null | 0 | 1b0rmoy | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1b0rmoy/is_my_frustration_justified_or_am_i_overreacting/ | 1 | So I(F18) was seeing this guy(M20)that I met on Hinge for the past two weeks, but recently we broke it off over what we wanted out of the relationship. He made it clear to me early on that he needs the physical aspects of a relationship, and I felt the same way, but I also made him aware of the fact that I had almost n... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is my frustration justified or am I overreacting? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b0rmoy/is_my_frustration_justified_or_am_i_overreacting/ |
E_J_C20 | 2021-05-28 20:27:54 | 1,622,233,674 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | nn6tdf | true | Giving Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nn6tdf/communication_communication_communication/ | 10 | Have I stressed enough about communication yet? It’s something I see so often on this thread that isn’t taken into consideration very often. People get quite scared about asking questions or get scared about scaring people away with something that’s stressing them out when they can simply just ask a little question to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Communication communication communication | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nn6tdf/communication_communication_communication/ |
Chemist-Successful | 2024-09-16 07:51:00 | 1,726,473,060 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating site'] | 0 | 1fhz2uv | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fhz2uv/girl_doesnt_show_up_on_the_date/ | 4 | I am 24(M) got an match from an dating app 24(f) so this girl we had an small conversation she said I was here type and told straight away we should meet like just after 5-7 messages , I was hesitant but said yeah sure and she gave me here number and we chatted an bit and then video calls me up because she wants to see... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl doesn’t show up on the date | 4 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fhz2uv/girl_doesnt_show_up_on_the_date/ |
gharpole0829 | 2019-09-03 00:55:21 | 1,567,472,121 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | cyxste | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cyxste/do_girls_ever_send_a_nude_mass_snap_just_to_see/ | 0 | I matched with some girl on hinge and we talked for a week or so but never hung out bc she was so flaky. I don’t talk to her for 3 weeks then out of nowhere she sends me a tit pic. So I try to see if she wants to come over and she says no. Then I ask if she wants to hang out later on this week and she replies “sure”. I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do girls ever send a nude mass snap just to see who is dtf? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cyxste/do_girls_ever_send_a_nude_mass_snap_just_to_see/ |
ManyAd4684 | 2021-06-30 03:46:47 | 1,625,024,807 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | oaouwn | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oaouwn/is_anyone_else_just_tired_of_dating_like_the/ | 3 | I’ve been hurt so much in the past. SA’d and emotionally/mentally abused. I took a break to work on me. I went back into the dating game and got hurt again. Now I just feel exhausted when I think about dating. I’m on bumble but talking to people gets boring even if the convo is interesting. I’m not even saying I want a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is anyone else just tired of dating? Like the constant work and whatnot? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oaouwn/is_anyone_else_just_tired_of_dating_like_the/ |
False_Room | 2021-04-21 21:59:12 | 1,619,042,352 | null | ['swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | mvqjg7 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mvqjg7/girl_on_tinder_followed_me_on_instagram/ | 1 | I swiped right a girl in tinder few months ago. We did not match but she has followed me on Instagram. I have not given my Instagram id on tinder. What am I supposed to do? 🤷♂️ | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl on tinder followed me on Instagram. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mvqjg7/girl_on_tinder_followed_me_on_instagram/ |
epsylon_pt | 2020-10-31 15:29:16 | 1,604,158,156 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | jlkaeu | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jlkaeu/talking_for_a_month_all_dates_ignored/ | 1 | Tl:dr been (21M) taking with this girl(21F) for a month or more and every time i talk about going for a coffee or something she laughs and changes topics. Met this girl on tinder 1 month or so ago. We hit it off and talked the hole day. In the end i asked hrr for her insta and we have been talking there ever since. We ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Talking for a month. All dates ignored | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jlkaeu/talking_for_a_month_all_dates_ignored/ |
[deleted] | 2021-03-28 13:57:20 | 1,616,939,840 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | mf15xh | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mf15xh/matching_the_same_person_on_tinder_all_the_time/ | 6 | Why are some guys on Tinder matching/swiping right on a girl like a thousand times? If I swipe left on some guys, I still see them again and again after a few days or sth. So actually shouldn’t they notice there is no interest? If I‘d be a guy, I‘d be pissed if I have to swipe right on one girl all the time, because it... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matching the same person on Tinder all the time? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mf15xh/matching_the_same_person_on_tinder_all_the_time/ |
Possible-Fee1722 | 2024-01-14 03:54:41 | 1,705,204,481 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1966q70 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1966q70/how_do_i_nicely_turn_someone_down/ | 1 | I’ve been talking to someone from a dating app for a few days and they’re extremely boring, not really my type, a dry texter and doesn’t really have much of a personality but I don’t want to be rude. They say weird things to me like “I’ll have space for you on my bed” when I just said I’m tired and I barely know them s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I nicely turn someone down? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1966q70/how_do_i_nicely_turn_someone_down/ |
Gr8tJuJuUpDaMountain | 2023-06-29 16:17:35 | 1,688,055,455 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 14m976r | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14m976r/should_i_just_leave_the_market_38m/ | 13 | Uncertain about the best course of action in a situation like this, I find myself pondering my dating journey over the past few years since 2020. It all started after a long-term relationship ended abruptly when I proposed marriage, but my partner wasn't ready for such a commitment. We bid our farewells, and ever since... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I just leave the market? (38/m) | 13 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14m976r/should_i_just_leave_the_market_38m/ |
InfamouslyJuniper | 2024-05-08 00:17:28 | 1,715,127,448 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cmr3f8 | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cmr3f8/guy_texted_me_after_a_first_date_with_no_follow/ | 1 | So I went out w this guy but he initially ghosted me while we were planning the date. I saw him on the dating app again and we rematched and he joked how he remembered me.. finally set a date and time. Met up, I thought it went well but that can be subjective, we are both mid twenties. When I was driving back home he t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guy texted me after a first date with no follow up about a second one, just not that into you? | 1 | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cmr3f8/guy_texted_me_after_a_first_date_with_no_follow/ |
Upbeat_Ad1162 | 2023-09-04 16:29:40 | 1,693,844,980 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 169wm7d | true | (rape) Support | Trigger | 91 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/169wm7d/i_think_i_was_sexually_assaulted/ | 1 | So last weekend, I went out with this guy I matched on Bumble. We matched some three weeks back. Spent a good three weeks speaking to each other and then I met him. Prior to this, we matched on Hinge around 6 months back, but that conversation fizzled out pretty soon. We matched recently on Bumble and we moved the conv... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I think I was sexually assaulted | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/169wm7d/i_think_i_was_sexually_assaulted/ |
[deleted] | 2019-06-01 12:43:46 | 1,559,393,026 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | bvkev5 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bvkev5/feeling_sad_and_lonely/ | 15 | To give some background, I’m 21 and haven’t dated since my high school boyfriend (I think I was like 14-16 when we were together lol). I had one other fling with a guy in high school but that didn’t end up working out either. I’ve definitely had crushes on guys, but of course they weren’t reciprocated lol. I spent all ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feeling sad and lonely | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bvkev5/feeling_sad_and_lonely/ |
Affectionate-Big1275 | 2024-03-15 23:53:04 | 1,710,546,784 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1bfsbrz | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bfsbrz/36m_and_rural_dating_struggles/ | 1 | Hi, I'm a 36M who lives in a rural area but who owns his house, and has a career. This is good, amazing even! I'm super happy with my life, but it has meant I've been single for 10 years with not a single date in the interim. Now I'm trying to put myself out there with online apps over the last month or so and even sig... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 36M and rural dating struggles | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bfsbrz/36m_and_rural_dating_struggles/ |
LowerYourTone | 2024-01-15 06:04:48 | 1,705,298,688 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1971nlu | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1971nlu/would_it_be_an_ick_if_i_planned_out_multiple/ | 1 | So here's the thing, I get a lot of matches on dating apps, but I live outside the major city near me. Most of the women I match with are in the city. I absolutely hate driving in this city in particular just because of how ass the streets/roads are and the ridiculous parking situation everywhere. It's also sometimes a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Would it be an "ick" if I planned out multiple dates on one day? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1971nlu/would_it_be_an_ick_if_i_planned_out_multiple/ |
Mysterious_Memory152 | 2024-07-26 02:10:37 | 1,721,959,837 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1eccodt | true | Question ❓ | 29 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eccodt/are_we_giving_up_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | Hi! I’m (f28) and I was talking to a guy at work (I do hair) and he is around my age and basically said he and all his single friends have given up on the dating apps. I then proceeded to ask other guys/girls through out the following weeks and it seems like all single people from 25-35 are ditching the apps all togeth... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are we giving up on dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eccodt/are_we_giving_up_on_dating_apps/ |
jiryo | 2016-09-03 02:54:24 | 1,472,871,264 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 50wz3r | null | null | 7 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/50wz3r/not_sure_if_my_text_was_ignored_or_not_received/ | 0 | This is a moment where I know I'm overthinking a situation and cannot decide what the best option is to take. For the longest time, I've personally avoided online dating apps and websites until a few weeks ago when I caved. I downloaded the Tinder app after moving to a new state where I didn't know anyone. However, I h... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Not sure if my text was ignored or not received... | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/50wz3r/not_sure_if_my_text_was_ignored_or_not_received/ |
J-ZakD1985 | 2020-07-12 00:37:37 | 1,594,514,257 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | hpl874 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/hpl874/loneliness/ | 2 | I'm trying not to be lonely anymore and finding my significant other. Is it possible to go through online dating without having to pay 80 to $100 just for membership. I would rather start a relationship talking to somebody then actually going on a date. | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Loneliness | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hpl874/loneliness/ |
blackkitty77 | 2022-04-03 08:23:12 | 1,648,974,192 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | tv4i1w | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tv4i1w/anyone_with_older_kids_ever_see_their_kids/ | 7 | I just saw my (38F) son’s (19M) friend on Hinge. Am i too old to be on there? I don’t really want my son’s friend to see me on a dating app. Kinda feel like it’s time to delete. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone with older kids ever see their kid’s friends on dating apps? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tv4i1w/anyone_with_older_kids_ever_see_their_kids/ |
Glum-Conflict-8680 | 2024-06-20 20:26:17 | 1,718,915,177 | 0 | ['dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'badoo'] | 0 | 1dklkw0 | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dklkw0/question_for_women_redditorswhy_do_women_match/ | 1 | So I have been seeing this too much in these past few times,that I get ghosted by women who match me up on Badoo,Tinder or Bumble.I would like to hear why is that,can you women explain that?My approach texting them is with manners and polite,but still get ghosten,not even single one response.Would love to hear your com... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Question for women Redditors:Why do women match with me on dating app,but they ghost when I text? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dklkw0/question_for_women_redditorswhy_do_women_match/ |
Hemightbegiant | 2023-09-12 19:53:45 | 1,694,548,425 | 0 | null | 0 | 16h16y3 | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16h16y3/wth_happened_to_matchcom/ | 1 | Made a profile again just to see if there were any new faces/matches....now you HAVE to pay to see more than 6 people in a search? $55 for one month? These sites are getting outrageous. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Wth happened to match.com? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16h16y3/wth_happened_to_matchcom/ |
betj67 | 2023-06-25 00:15:55 | 1,687,652,155 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 14i7ujj | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14i7ujj/handful_of_bad_first_dates_but_this_one_was_awful/ | 1 | I (26F) broke up with my boyfriend last November, and since March I've been trying to get back out there. March - April I probably went on 6 first dates (via apps). One turned into something short and exclusive and one other would have been a second if not for the exclusive relationship. Anyways, the exclusive relation... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Handful of bad first dates, but this one was awful. Is it the apps or me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14i7ujj/handful_of_bad_first_dates_but_this_one_was_awful/ |
mikess314 | 2022-02-09 18:04:46 | 1,644,429,886 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | sojtlt | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/AskWomen/comments/sojtlt/why_use_fake_names_in_dating_apps/ | 0 | I’ve encountered this with so many of my matches. I completely understand using a fake full name. But it’s just a first name that couldn’t be looked up. | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Why use fake names in dating apps? | null | 0.46 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/sojtlt/why_use_fake_names_in_dating_apps/ |
Alarming-Introvert44 | 2024-09-20 06:09:48 | 1,726,812,588 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1fl5cqw | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fl5cqw/how_to_safely_have_a_one_night_stand/ | 0 | I'm (F) looking for something casual/a one night stand but i've never done it. I've been talking to this guy on hinge and the conversation is going in a very obvious sexual direction versus a "getting to know one another" direction. He's super cute and i want to sleep with him. I live with my parents so can't be at my ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to safely have a one night stand | 0 | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fl5cqw/how_to_safely_have_a_one_night_stand/ |
WhatJerry | 2024-09-13 13:25:14 | 1,726,233,914 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ffuoa7 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ffuoa7/am_i_being_ghostedbreadcrumbed/ | 1 | So this guy and I met on a dating app and we have been talking for a little over a month. We text everyday. We call sometimes throughout the week and we have FaceTimed a couple times. We were really excited to meet We had so much in common and we clicked. I’m 25 and he’s 30. We talked about a lot of stuff and idk he se... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being ghosted/breadcrumbed? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ffuoa7/am_i_being_ghostedbreadcrumbed/ |
Mother-Macaron | 2023-09-23 12:14:51 | 1,695,471,291 | 0 | null | 0 | 16q2zca | true | null | 157 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16q2zca/find_very_few_attractive_men_on_dating_sites/ | 1 | I'm early 50's. I've perused FB dating and several apps. There are a esthetically lots of attractive women my age, but the men are just gross. I'm sorry to be so blunt, but that's really how I feel. And, no I'm not gay. I just think a lot of women put more effort into their appearance and age better. I've been told man... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Find very few attractive men on dating sites | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16q2zca/find_very_few_attractive_men_on_dating_sites/ |
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