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rolltideinmd | 2017-05-23 14:45:20 | 1,495,550,720 | null | ['matched', 'tinder', 'match.com'] | 0 | 6cv35j | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating/comments/6cv35j/getting_over_being_burned_before_trying_to_be/ | 1 | I'm a divorced mother of two that has been dating on and off for the past year. With the exception of one guy in particular, I hardly make it past the first date. I matched with a guy from Tinder a few weeks ago and we hit it off fairly well. We didn't text back and forth that much, just the daily "hey, how's it going.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting over being burned before and trying to be chill.. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6cv35j/getting_over_being_burned_before_trying_to_be/ |
Slippin3D | 2024-06-28 11:37:08 | 1,719,574,628 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1dqhjme | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dqhjme/feeling_stuck_and_unsure_need_advice_on_my_new/ | 1 | I've been dating this girl for about a month now. We've gone on 8-9 dates, ranging from casual outings to fine dining. She's everything I've ever dreamt of—funny, attractive, and we have great chemistry. The issue is, I have no idea how she feels about me. From my past experiences, I expected us to become more affectio... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feeling Stuck and Unsure – Need Advice on My New Dating Situation | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dqhjme/feeling_stuck_and_unsure_need_advice_on_my_new/ |
Charming_East_959 | 2024-04-28 21:34:34 | 1,714,340,074 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1cfhtpo | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cfhtpo/do_i_26f_have_a_chance_at_finding_a_physically/ | 1 | I was in a relationship for a long time (I’m 26) and recently got out. My type is pretty conventionally attractive Caucasian men but I have had absolutely no luck on hinge or bumble, some men I am into that I match with but they mainly only see me as a fetish and don’t want anything more. How possible is it I can find ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do I (26F) have a chance at finding a physically attractive, stable Caucasian man to settle down with me as a plus sized black woman that doesn’t see me as a fetish? Or am I wasting my time? | 1 | 0.21 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cfhtpo/do_i_26f_have_a_chance_at_finding_a_physically/ |
happiIynever | 2023-07-15 12:22:10 | 1,689,423,730 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 150ao5y | false | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/150ao5y/black_women_how_is_your_dating_life/ | 1 | Black women only respond please: Upon knowing that many men don’t really find us attractive, how would you say your dating life is? Are you satisfied? Do you get decent matches on dating apps? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Black women, how is your dating life? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/150ao5y/black_women_how_is_your_dating_life/ |
FroopOG | 2018-04-04 19:34:04 | 1,522,870,444 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 89sof5 | false | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/89sof5/meeting_men_on_a_girls_night_out/ | 3 | Hi, so as the title says, I'm looking for tips on how to meet men when I'm on a girls' night out. I've been single for a while, tried the tinder thing but find I get a better 'feel' for a guy when I can see him in person so I want to make the most of an upcoming opportunity. Me and my friends don't go out a great deal ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Meeting men on a girls' night out | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/89sof5/meeting_men_on_a_girls_night_out/ |
ZucksHotterTwin | 2023-11-29 04:27:35 | 1,701,232,055 | 0 | null | 0 | 186gtzu | true | null | 51 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/186gtzu/guys_when_a_woman_delays_text_responses_are_you/ | 6 | Please start your response with "More" or "Less" and explain, but be honest and don't talk about what you prefer, but how it affected your interest. Many people still think less availability and predictability is a sure fire way to increase interest. For me, it does make me think about the person more and possibly "cha... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guys, when a woman delays text responses, are you more, or less interested in her for a LTR? | 6 | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/186gtzu/guys_when_a_woman_delays_text_responses_are_you/ |
Stock_Produce7775 | 2024-04-21 17:00:01 | 1,713,718,801 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1c9mtbx | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c9mtbx/m25_found_me_on_tinder_he_was_thinking_to_hookup/ | 5 | He was a gentleman through all the date, he told me I'm smart and kind. By the end of the date he kissed my cheeks goodbye and gave me a peck on lips. When I was leaving he stopped me and told me to get close and he gave me a sweet long kiss without tongue, it was so cute! Of course this raised my hopes for a second da... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | M25 found me on tinder, he was thinking to hookup but when we met he understood I'm "decent" (sorry I can't find the word) | 4 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c9mtbx/m25_found_me_on_tinder_he_was_thinking_to_hookup/ |
Spicy6_autism | 2024-04-25 15:11:43 | 1,714,057,903 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ccufka | true | Question ❓ | 46 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ccufka/25_single/ | 22 | I’m 25(f) and I’ve been on dating apps for a while with no success. What are the alternative options for dating?? Where are all the cute guys? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 25 & single | 22 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ccufka/25_single/ |
FarmerFred52 | 2018-11-15 18:04:05 | 1,542,305,045 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 9xdl2r | true | null | 140 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9xdl2r/dating_a_widow_wow_what_a_difference/ | 119 | I'm a widower dating a widow. I've texted probably 40-50 women on OLD and had probably 20 conversations on the phone and been on about 10 dates recently. What a night and day difference it is to talk to and date a widow. She's not bitter or jaded from a bad relationship. Don't get me wrong, she is careful of who she ta... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Dating a widow, wow what a difference. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9xdl2r/dating_a_widow_wow_what_a_difference/ |
grec1227 | 2021-07-09 15:21:54 | 1,625,844,114 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ogxt00 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ogxt00/help_me_understand_if_this_is_normal/ | 1 | So I’ve been talking to this girl I’ve met on Tinder since April and we’ve texted pretty much everyday since and when we text we send lenhy messages so we talk a lot and we’ve gone out 6 times now and each time we went out it’s been a good time and we have fun. But even though she seems to be into me we haven’t had a h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help me understand if this is normal | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ogxt00/help_me_understand_if_this_is_normal/ |
Fancy-Fly1727 | 2021-08-02 17:47:01 | 1,627,926,421 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | owjqu2 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/owjqu2/getting_into_the_mindset_of_dating/ | 1 | I'm a male at 28 yrs old but I've never been on a date nor have had past relationships and am still a virgin. Plus, any attempts go out and meet people or use online dating have been terrible because I'm not socially outgoing (introverted with low-level autism). Overall, my mindset towards dating turned very negative w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting into the mindset of dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/owjqu2/getting_into_the_mindset_of_dating/ |
yogata2 | 2019-03-12 02:42:44 | 1,552,358,564 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | b02hdy | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/b02hdy/small_town_woes/ | 9 | For those of you who live in small towns, what have you done with the limited dating pool? I moved to small town so I'm still a bit of an outsider. It seems like everyone is with their high school sweethearts. I'm not into drugs or people with kids (what else to do in a small town I guess). I own a house here and most ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Small town woes | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/b02hdy/small_town_woes/ |
Estab_2001 | 2024-03-01 15:07:23 | 1,709,305,643 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1b3whng | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b3whng/im_like_a_nervous_teenager/ | 2 | I just need to tell someone as my friends don't know about a guy I've been on dates with yet and I'm bursting at the seams I (23F) matched with him (27M) on Tinder a few weeks ago. So far I've had two dates with him. He organised the whole of the first date down to booking a table for dinner, paying for the date and I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm like a nervous teenager! | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b3whng/im_like_a_nervous_teenager/ |
MrThrowaway44235 | 2024-04-23 02:53:05 | 1,713,840,785 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1catwjx | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1catwjx/difficulty_finding_women_around_my_age_not/ | 1 | I'm a 21 year old guy and I'm honestly having a tough time knowing where to find women to date. My relationship/personal history is a bit complicated and colored by a lot of difficulty finding myself after my father died when I was 17. I have no problems talking to women, my friends are mostly girls and I'm comfortable... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Difficulty finding women around my age? Not interested in dating apps | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1catwjx/difficulty_finding_women_around_my_age_not/ |
thrwawy7080 | 2020-06-08 18:14:43 | 1,591,640,083 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | gz4lrl | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/gz4lrl/am_i_being_too_pickyor_settling/ | 3 | Long post ahead... About 4 months ago, I (31F) logged onto Facebook dating, more in a way to fill a gap, rather than to genuinely date. I wasn't at a place to be dating, because I had just gotten out of a relationship in which I was betrayed majorly. Anyways, I did meet a guy, (33 M) and before covid became serious, we... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Am I being too picky..or settling? | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/gz4lrl/am_i_being_too_pickyor_settling/ |
idkthepurposeofthis | 2024-03-28 00:19:23 | 1,711,585,163 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1bphprq | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bphprq/need_some_advice_as_a_newbie/ | 1 | Hi! I (24 F) recently joined Hinge for the first time. I recently started to see this guy (29 M) and we hit it off and had two great dates. He seemed to really be into me. We texted a little bit after the second date and then he stopped responding. I texted him two days later after my last text to check-in and he didn’... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need some Advice as a newbie | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bphprq/need_some_advice_as_a_newbie/ |
Ilikethiccthighs123 | 2024-09-19 02:37:38 | 1,726,713,458 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fkam3b | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fkam3b/any_dating_tips/ | 1 | I've been using dating apps for awhile and trying to talk to girls, but its just been constant rejection. I'm not here to dwell on that, rather I need some advice. Is there anything you've noticed, or any little things you did to help you out. Just trying to start a conversation is hard enough. Also any tips on how to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any dating tips? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fkam3b/any_dating_tips/ |
OverallAlbatross | 2019-10-19 00:05:39 | 1,571,443,539 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | djw5xu | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/djw5xu/i_met_a_cool_guy_and_had_an_excellent_first_date/ | 10 | So a few weeks ago, I start talking to some guy I met over a dating app. It goes very well- we have very similar political beliefs, values, goals, and senses of humor. He said in his profile since he somewhat recently got out of a relationship, he doesn't have a specific agenda in mind and just wanted to meet people. T... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I met a cool guy and had an excellent first date- why do I keep feeling something will go wrong? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/djw5xu/i_met_a_cool_guy_and_had_an_excellent_first_date/ |
throwawaythemaker | 2021-01-11 14:30:40 | 1,610,375,440 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | kv3q1u | true | I Need Advice | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kv3q1u/28m_10_years_single_not_sure_what_to_do_anymore/ | 1 | Hi, I'm a 28yo French man, I work, I have my driver licence, I'm quite active, even though my job is a desk one, I hike a lot during my weekends and my holidays are mostly like that too, landscape photography and pushing my hiking limits are kind of the only things I really enjoy in my life. I have "normal" friends, hi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 28M 10 years single not sure what to do anymore | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kv3q1u/28m_10_years_single_not_sure_what_to_do_anymore/ |
[deleted] | 2020-05-13 05:03:53 | 1,589,346,233 | null | null | 0 | gise1b | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/gise1b/checking_dating_apps_while_with_the_person_hes/ | 7 | I’ve met this guy who I’ve been talking to for a little bit more than a month. We’re spending the week together and he’s been very nice to me. I’ve notice he’s difficulty sharing his emotions but overall it’s been a great week. The thing is, I’ve seen he opening and quickly closing two dating apps. This happened when h... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Checking dating apps while with the person he’s been seeing ok? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gise1b/checking_dating_apps_while_with_the_person_hes/ |
zindiekitty | 2021-10-16 14:21:54 | 1,634,394,114 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | q9cyut | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q9cyut/how_to_get_men_to_take_my_intentions_seriously/ | 10 | So this is going to be the dumbest thing I (24F) ever complain about. I’m in a phase of my life where I just want sex. Emotionally speaking, I’m not ready to be in a relationship. I’m on dating apps and make it VERY clear that I’m not in the market for a relationship. Even though I feel like I’m making myself clear, an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get men to take my intentions seriously? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q9cyut/how_to_get_men_to_take_my_intentions_seriously/ |
Proskenion | 2023-03-01 09:23:14 | 1,677,662,594 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 11ezb20 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11ezb20/is_this_valid/ | 1 | So I’ve been talking to this person I met off of Hinge for about a month now. So far she’s great but I’m starting to realize that I might not be really physically attracted to her. I realize it’s kind if scummy but that made mot not like her as much. Should I feel bad about this? Should I continue talking to her? Is th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this valid? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11ezb20/is_this_valid/ |
Katiebelle581 | 2023-05-10 16:22:33 | 1,683,735,753 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | 13dvlxo | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13dvlxo/is_this_how_dating_works_nowadays/ | 0 | A little back story before I get into it. I (34f) divorced my ex(37m) of 15 years in 2022. It was an abusive marriage and I'm timid to dating. Since the divorce I've had 1 short relationship and just recently have been talking/dating(only 1 "date") to a guy. I am SUPER new to online dating and the dating world in gener... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this how dating works now-a-days? | 0 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13dvlxo/is_this_how_dating_works_nowadays/ |
General-Push-2813 | 2024-09-07 21:36:34 | 1,725,744,994 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fbhuoe | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fbhuoe/dating_is_so_hard_for_me/ | 6 | I’m 22F, and i’ve been on dating apps since 2 years ago. I couldn’t find my person, i’m always getting not committed to anyone. Recently, i was meeting a guy and then he ghosted me. He even said he like me and so on, but still ghosted me. Why is it hard for me? Do i really need to be hard to get so that men could take ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating is so hard for me | 6 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fbhuoe/dating_is_so_hard_for_me/ |
dylangerescapeplan_ | 2023-07-26 08:09:06 | 1,690,358,946 | 0 | null | 0 | 159zf6d | false | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/159zf6d/why_do_i_only_seem_to_attract_fucked_up_women/ | 1 | Like heroin addicts, girls with face tattoos, BPD love bombers, girls who post self-harm pictures, girls that have messed up family dynamics. These types of girls seem to be drawn to me, I don’t understand why. I seem to have a difficult time getting attention from stable women even though I’m not a toxic person whatso... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why do I only seem to attract fucked up women? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/159zf6d/why_do_i_only_seem_to_attract_fucked_up_women/ |
cupcakieee | 2015-08-20 13:24:10 | 1,440,077,050 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3hpsoa | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3hpsoa/last_minute_flake_should_i_keep_expecting/ | 2 | I met this guy on Tinder about 5 weeks ago (25M) We went on 2 dates, however they both felt really platonic (only hello and goodbye hugs) We text in between and I flirt really hard to make sure he knows I'm interested and he usually replies really quick We made plans late last Friday night to meet up for dinner on Satu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Last minute flake, Should I keep expecting something? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3hpsoa/last_minute_flake_should_i_keep_expecting/ |
BasicallyNuclear | 2024-08-21 06:23:00 | 1,724,221,380 | 0 | null | 0 | 1exiguv | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1exiguv/tinder_consistently_makes_my_photos_look_terrible/ | 0 | I’ve tried everything. I’ve tried fancy cameras, phone cameras, AI upscaling, downscaling, pre cropping, cropping in app. It’s really pissing me off because my photos aren’t terrible, but they lose their quality when I upload them to tinder yet everyone else looks like their photos were taken with the worlds most expen... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Tinder consistently makes my photos look terrible | 0 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1exiguv/tinder_consistently_makes_my_photos_look_terrible/ |
[deleted] | 2012-10-17 14:40:19 | 1,350,484,819 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 11mqh6 | null | null | 8 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/11mqh6/nonsexy_nursedoctorfirefighterbumble_beeflower/ | 2 | So I'm going to a party at my friend's apartment for Halloween. I live in Germany, where Halloween isn't as hugely celebrated as it is in the States. I am also not one for, "Let's dress as a sexy -insert anything here-!" I'm quite nerdy, but I don't want to have to keep explaining who I am to people all night. Do any o... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Non-Sexy Nurse/Doctor/Firefighter/Bumble bee/Flower Halloween Costume Ideas? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/11mqh6/nonsexy_nursedoctorfirefighterbumble_beeflower/ |
ThylacineDevil | 2020-12-29 10:59:08 | 1,609,239,548 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | kmcacx | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kmcacx/not_feeling_good_enough_for_the_girl_im_seeing/ | 0 | Hi. I’ve recently dipped my toe back into the world of online dating, specifically Tinder, after a break and some bad experiences with dating girls that I met at my uni (so, ya know, less “online”)... Anyway, I met a really nice girl through that. Unfortunately we don’t live in the same city. We can get to each other’s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not Feeling Good Enough for the Girl I’m Seeing | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kmcacx/not_feeling_good_enough_for_the_girl_im_seeing/ |
justanotheruser991 | 2022-02-03 21:03:52 | 1,643,922,232 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | sjuamv | true | null | 64 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sjuamv/im_a_lonely_person_no_friends_no_one_to_talk_to/ | 28 | I’m 22 in college, I am slim, Hispanic, 5’7, 140lbs. This is my last year in college and I still have no one that I text/talk to in a daily basis. I feel trapped in my own thoughts and lonely. I have no one to really talk to/hang out with. Will having a girlfriend make me happier in this part of my life? Should I just ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m a lonely person - no friends - no one to talk to - will having a partner fill this void? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sjuamv/im_a_lonely_person_no_friends_no_one_to_talk_to/ |
jarsofmars | 2022-07-12 20:57:10 | 1,657,659,430 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | vxlfx0 | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vxlfx0/a_lot_of_chemistry_through_text_not_so_much_irl/ | 1 | So I met this guy though tinder a couple weeks ago, at first though the Tinder chat we had an amazing chemistry I didn't wanted to give him right away my Instagram or my phone number, so basically we texted there for a while, then I decided to give him my IG and then, though IG (which again we had an amazing chemistry)... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | a lot of chemistry through text, not so much irl, is he nervous or what? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vxlfx0/a_lot_of_chemistry_through_text_not_so_much_irl/ |
swingit582 | 2020-10-07 23:37:48 | 1,602,113,868 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | j722w2 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j722w2/advice_for_31_year_old_returning_to_dating_scene/ | 1 | 31 got out of a relationship. Starting to look my age last year looked 24 this year looking 28 29. Couple years ago I could still get dates. But this year its harder for me. Gaining weight looking older in a town when the age average to get married and have kids is like 23. terrible at online dating. in person is where... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice for 31 year old returning to dating scene | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j722w2/advice_for_31_year_old_returning_to_dating_scene/ |
milinda028 | 2023-08-01 09:30:40 | 1,690,882,240 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 15f7hmk | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15f7hmk/online_dating_and_weight_loss/ | 1 | How important it is to tell someone that you’ve been talking to (online) that you’ve lost a lot of weight? I’ve naturally lost over 100 pounds the past 1.5years, and I’m still on my weight loss journey. I’ve been doing online dating, and I have several up-to-date full body photos on my profile so that people are fully ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online Dating and Weight Loss | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15f7hmk/online_dating_and_weight_loss/ |
Jason--Hunt | 2023-12-22 22:54:03 | 1,703,285,643 | 0 | null | 0 | 18or8fy | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18or8fy/27_m_looking_for_female_friends_above_25/ | 1 | I have these 10 days Vacation from work I don't want to be alone during this time. I just want to feel some love and care that's all I ask. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 27 M looking for female friends above 25. | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18or8fy/27_m_looking_for_female_friends_above_25/ |
MistressSmiles | 2019-01-03 23:31:52 | 1,546,558,312 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | acbq9w | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/acbq9w/confusing_situation_is_there_anything_i_need_to/ | 1 | So I met someone on a dating site. He said he "wasn't looking for a serious relationship," but that we had a lot of common interests and he'd love to chat. That was what I was interested in from him too, so I readily agreed. So I guess I never outright said I was only interested in friendship, but I figured it didn't n... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Confusing situation: Is there anything I need to do here? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/acbq9w/confusing_situation_is_there_anything_i_need_to/ |
Sadthrowcupid7 | 2014-05-26 20:29:04 | 1,401,136,144 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 26jqjo | null | null | 9 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/26jqjo/ladies_how_do_you_make_new_friends_would_love/ | 11 | A here. I'm a fairly attractive 21 year old heterosexual female. I have an easier time befriending men than women. Lately, I've made male friends using OkCupid or Reddit. But problems arise if/when the guy find me attractive and expects things from me because of his attraction to me. I'd love to make new female friends... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | ladies, how do you make new friends? would love help/advice i'm so clueless (gentlemen welcome!) | 11 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/26jqjo/ladies_how_do_you_make_new_friends_would_love/ |
[deleted] | 2021-03-28 16:33:00 | 1,616,949,180 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | mf4ajm | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mf4ajm/great_chemistry_online_but_not_irl/ | 2 | When online dating, why are some people so drawn to you or have great chemistry over text, but in real life when meeting up, they can’t imagine a relationship or anything like that anymore after 2 dates? Is it because of the photos, that I don’t look as good to the guy or what might be the reason? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Great chemistry online but not irl | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mf4ajm/great_chemistry_online_but_not_irl/ |
Stiffwater | 2021-02-10 22:51:46 | 1,612,997,506 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | lh6abc | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lh6abc/dating_apps_are_they_worth_a_try/ | 4 | Male here. I just hit 30 recently and I really never dated seriously. I always wanted to find a girlfriend but just because I had many things going on I just couldn’t commit fully, but now I have time. Things have been difficult since the pandemic hit. Feel like dating apps are not for me since I have trouble texting w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating apps. Are they worth a try? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lh6abc/dating_apps_are_they_worth_a_try/ |
hisparliamentsonfire | 2023-01-01 00:07:59 | 1,672,531,679 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 10079rp | true | Support | Trigger | 9 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10079rp/i_need_to_get_this_off_my_chest/ | 2 | Hi it's been 3 weeks since this incident happened. So this guy matched with me through hinge he's a student like me. We had sex the first time we met. Second time we just chilled and he said we are seeing each other. Third time is not what I planned to happen. I pregamed with my friends, took 5 shots of vodka. I never ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I need to get this off my chest | null | 0.55 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10079rp/i_need_to_get_this_off_my_chest/ |
kiwilein | 2024-03-30 15:41:54 | 1,711,813,314 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1brkt0x | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1brkt0x/excited_for_dates_with_him/ | 1 | So i (f35) met this guy (29) on tinder. We started texting and met pretty fast (after just a couple of days texting). We clicked and i like him. He is the first nice guy i met on tinder. We set another date and had dinner at a little restaurant and afterwards i spent the night at his place. I was really enjoying myself... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Excited for dates with him | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1brkt0x/excited_for_dates_with_him/ |
[deleted] | 2020-06-06 21:41:08 | 1,591,479,668 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | gxzmdr | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gxzmdr/anyone_feeling_extremely_downlazy/ | 1 | i dont know what it is, finally deleted my OLD apps, ALL of them, but have just been not motivated to finish anything -- gym, online classes courses, etc . work from home takes up most of my time | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Anyone feeling extremely down/lazy? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gxzmdr/anyone_feeling_extremely_downlazy/ |
Wide_Lake_9662 | 2024-01-26 22:08:11 | 1,706,306,891 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1abuets | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1abuets/advice_dating_after_a_long_time_and_met_someone/ | 1 | I (26M) got out of a serious relationship around a year ago and took some time to work on my emotional and physical well-being. I'm in NYC now, and luckily, I have many women showing interest in me (whom I met physically or on dating apps), but I didn't wanna date until I felt confident in myself again. All my relation... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | advice: dating after a long time and met someone who I had a great time with | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1abuets/advice_dating_after_a_long_time_and_met_someone/ |
bojanglez34 | 2023-07-26 17:44:24 | 1,690,393,464 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 15ach8o | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15ach8o/how_do_you_best_handle_the_hold_and_cold_behavior/ | 1 | This girl I’ve been seeing for about 7 months of sleeping together and going on dates always says how she adores me and likes me a lot etc but when it comes to making plans or just us talking through the day she seems less excited and enthusiastic and sometimes is too busy for weeks to get together. We use to talk all ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you best handle the hold and cold behavior from someone you are seeing? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15ach8o/how_do_you_best_handle_the_hold_and_cold_behavior/ |
Last_Water_5577 | 2023-02-21 23:28:07 | 1,677,022,087 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 118ik33 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/118ik33/successful_guys_on_tinderhinge_how_do_you_up_your/ | 0 | I match with girls most days which I feel fortunate about. But I message 9/10 of my matches and rarely get a decent conversation going. I’m aware of creepy guys on these apps who make it more difficult for guys everywhere but I can’t seem to generate any spark and I get ghosted constantly. I’ve had my female friends he... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Successful guys on tinder,hinge- how do you up your message game? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/118ik33/successful_guys_on_tinderhinge_how_do_you_up_your/ |
sfuggito | 2022-10-12 09:34:10 | 1,665,567,250 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | y1zci2 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/y1zci2/when_should_i_ask_this_girl_out/ | 1 | So I matched with this girl on a dating app a few days ago, and after a couple messages she offered to get off the app and start talking somewhere else so we did. Turns out we have so much in common and we're having a really great conversation using voice messages. I've been talking to her like this for about 2 days. I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When should I ask this girl out? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y1zci2/when_should_i_ask_this_girl_out/ |
stillIrise514 | 2022-05-15 01:27:25 | 1,652,578,045 | null | ['swiping'] | 0 | upv68g | true | Casual Conversation | 166 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/upv68g/saturday_the_14th/ | 32 | Hello DO40! What are y’all up to tonight? I am sitting on my couch, drinking beer, scrolling Reddit and swiping in the apps. Wondering what your typical Saturday night looks like these days? Any good dating stories (or nightmares) to share? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Saturday the 14th | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/upv68g/saturday_the_14th/ |
Roblin114 | 2019-11-27 09:27:29 | 1,574,846,849 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | e2do4j | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/e2do4j/should_i_keep_pursuing_or_am_i_wasting_my_time/ | 0 | I’ve(22) been seen a girl(23) that I met from a dating app that I met 2 months ago. A month ago we started meeting up and things our conversations and flowing and we have a lot of things in common just like what it is in our texts. Last weekend was our 4th date I invited her to my place for dinner. We cooked some food ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I keep pursuing or am I wasting my time? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/e2do4j/should_i_keep_pursuing_or_am_i_wasting_my_time/ |
[deleted] | 2015-03-28 04:25:29 | 1,427,516,729 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 30kk0o | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/30kk0o/im_taking_my_own_advice/ | 1 | I tell a lot of people to date themselves. I say this because I did this and it worked for me in the past. I would imagine a date i'd like with a lady and do it by myself.. mostly movie and dinner dates. This is something I forgot for myself.... Please read on- I feel it is a beneficial story to tell. -----------------... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm taking my own advice! | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/30kk0o/im_taking_my_own_advice/ |
freakinbob | 2024-02-20 15:38:16 | 1,708,443,496 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 1avkkb7 | true | null | 32 | 1 | /r/AskMen/comments/1avkkb7/how_many_of_your_dates_were_just_a_free_meal/ | 1 | It seems that's all I attract on dating sites. I'm taking a break from dating apps for a while. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How many of your dates were just a free meal? | 1 | 0.31 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1avkkb7/how_many_of_your_dates_were_just_a_free_meal/ |
awkwardlysyl | 2020-09-28 17:06:36 | 1,601,312,796 | null | ['online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | j1g15u | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/j1g15u/how_do_you_know_you_wanna_date/ | 5 | Maybe I'm overthinking this, but how do you know when you actually want to date? Like, how do you distinguish your desire for a relationship versus just feeling lonely? I (21F) went on Bumble a few months ago, but I realized my entire approach was wrong. When I'd match with someone, I kept saying that I just wanted to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | how do you know you wanna date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j1g15u/how_do_you_know_you_wanna_date/ |
Unusual-Passion-6800 | 2023-08-27 22:05:20 | 1,693,173,920 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1633mnc | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1633mnc/how_do_people_find_partners_in_the_uk/ | 1 | I am a guy and I use various dating apps and get no matches. I think I should give up | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do people find partners in the U.K.? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1633mnc/how_do_people_find_partners_in_the_uk/ |
Yung_perccc | 2024-03-27 19:59:58 | 1,711,569,598 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1bpbdj7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bpbdj7/need_help_boosting_my_tinder/ | 1 | I literally have ZERO success on dating sites. Maybe its because im a black guy living in ireland, or maybe its cuz im fucking ugly. Maybe im just boreing? Too nerdy? Not Nerdy Enuf? Not sure. I despriatly need help guys. Ill send pictures too. Maybe its the picutres. Im not very photogeneic so any tips help. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help boosting my tinder | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bpbdj7/need_help_boosting_my_tinder/ |
Flauwoor | 2019-03-08 08:49:34 | 1,552,034,974 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ayo35s | true | Question | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ayo35s/quick_question_did_i_mess_up/ | 0 | Hey redditors and dating guru's ;) Just wondering if you could help me out. I've been talking to this guy for a little over a week now, no dates have taken place yet but we have had some nice chats and I'm definitely interested. Just maybe I messed up now :S This morning I woke up and wanted to send him a message, only... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Quick question, did I mess up? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ayo35s/quick_question_did_i_mess_up/ |
FrothySolutions | 2021-11-04 18:02:52 | 1,636,048,972 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | qmqkk2 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qmqkk2/i_wish_there_was_something_like_tinder_but_with_a/ | 0 | You match with someone on Tinder, they're just one person out of millions. Nobody knows who either of you are. You have no reputation anyone knows about. I'd like it if on Tinder you could see a person's match history, or something. Talk to people they've matched with before. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I wish there was something like Tinder, but with a community. Tinder has no community. | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qmqkk2/i_wish_there_was_something_like_tinder_but_with_a/ |
ThrowAway-Dude12 | 2024-05-04 01:01:26 | 1,714,784,486 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cjo6o8 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cjo6o8/26m_when_i_match_on_dating_apps_the_girls_all/ | 18 | I recently hopped on a few dating apps and every time a girl's shown interest in me, it just feels like something's off. Like the girl has ill-intentions, or is just playing games with me, or wants to use me for food or something. I've had experiences on the apps in the past where great connections always turn to "hey,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [26M] When I match on dating apps, the girls all feel fake. Do I have PTSD or do dating apps suck in 2024? | 17 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cjo6o8/26m_when_i_match_on_dating_apps_the_girls_all/ |
AndrewChengOnReddit | 2019-06-14 22:29:59 | 1,560,551,399 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | c0q6m7 | true | null | 83 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c0q6m7/is_there_any_solution_to_the_growing_inequity_of/ | 18 | Inequity in dating has likely never been higher in modern history. On Hinge, for example: - 58% of women's likes go to the top 10% of men. - 96% of women's likes go to the top 50%. This means the bottom half of all men only get 4% of women's interest spread among them. A top 1% man gets 190 times as many likes as a man... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is there any solution to the growing inequity of modern dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c0q6m7/is_there_any_solution_to_the_growing_inequity_of/ |
BlueLeatherBoots | 2022-12-14 01:33:44 | 1,670,981,624 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | zldlwx | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zldlwx/how_much_should_i_be_texting_someone_after/ | 1 | Im 27F. The vast majority of dates that I go on are from OLD. Typically I don't like to spend a lot of time texting with someone on the apps before I actually meet them in person, so I usually just have a quick introductory convo, and then set up a date for the next few days, then I don't talk to them except to confirm... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How much should I be texting someone after meeting them but before the first date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zldlwx/how_much_should_i_be_texting_someone_after/ |
[deleted] | 2020-08-30 16:13:28 | 1,598,804,008 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ijf8wq | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ijf8wq/help_a_clueless_ace_out/ | 1 | I'm a 24 year old male biromantic asexual. I'm trying out online dating for the first time and I'm clueless. Like how does one even start? Like I don't even know what my opening line should be. I don't want to sound creepy or awkward (though lets be real am awkward). I have dudes and girls as options and I don't know t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help a clueless ace out. | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ijf8wq/help_a_clueless_ace_out/ |
rvhack | 2014-04-07 02:47:40 | 1,396,838,860 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 22e81m | null | null | 21 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/22e81m/if_you_use_tinder_what_are_you_looking_for_from_it/ | 13 | If you're a user of the app called tinder, what are you looking to gain by using it? Are you interested to see who matches with you? Are you looking for conversation? Are you looking to make friends? Are you looking for relationships? For sex? A particular combination of those things or something else entirely? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | If you use tinder, what are you looking for from it? | 13 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/22e81m/if_you_use_tinder_what_are_you_looking_for_from_it/ |
Torvik88 | 2016-12-31 19:13:28 | 1,483,211,608 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 5lb5j7 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5lb5j7/how_to_approach_a_girl_on_facebook_that_i_do_not/ | 1 | So basically that is the question, i saw her on a dating site, but she did not logged in months. Found her on Facebook and gave her a friend request that she accepted. How do i start to talk with her without looking like a big creep? I thought i would be honest and say i have seen her profile on that dating site, but d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to approach a girl on Facebook that i do not know but seen her on a dating site? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5lb5j7/how_to_approach_a_girl_on_facebook_that_i_do_not/ |
Nolaboy99 | 2022-02-27 23:00:56 | 1,646,002,856 | null | null | 0 | t30b10 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/t30b10/i_dont_understand_what_im_doing_wrong_22m/ | 0 | Can someone please try to help me out. Ive never really done well with the online dating scene before and now that Im no longer in school Im not really sure how to meet girls because Im not really into drinking/clubing so dating apps seemed like a good idea. Now I dont mean to brag but I get complements all the time ab... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I dont understand what Im doing wrong..? 22M | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/t30b10/i_dont_understand_what_im_doing_wrong_22m/ |
curry1802_ | 2021-05-12 05:08:13 | 1,620,796,093 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | nagzdb | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nagzdb/is_this_the_new_normal/ | 5 | I (F19) matched with this man (M21) on Tinder about three months ago. We chatted everyday for one and a half months and decided to meet up. The date went great and lead to four more. He was very caring and always made sure to compliment my outfit or tell me how gorgeous I am. I even met his mom and dad, this however wa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this the new normal? | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nagzdb/is_this_the_new_normal/ |
benedictcumberpatch | 2016-04-01 17:31:56 | 1,459,531,916 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 4cwv8k | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4cwv8k/stumped_on_this_unique_situation_approaching_a/ | 1 | A lil backstory first... months ago when I was on OKCupid I messaged this girl I came across who was cute and seemed interesting, no reply. No biggie, sometimes I would get responses, sometimes I wouldn't so I moved on. Fast for to a month or so ago, I end up breaking my finger pretty badly and go to the ER at the same... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stumped on this unique situation approaching a girl at work... Help? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4cwv8k/stumped_on_this_unique_situation_approaching_a/ |
moonxkitty666 | 2022-04-07 21:28:14 | 1,649,366,894 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | tynbqx | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tynbqx/possible_ghosting/ | 2 | So I met this person off of an app called Bumble. We exchanged numbers and seemed to hit it off. I'm more interested in finding a relationship, but he seemed more to having a hook up or maybe fwb type of thing, which is fine for me right now. Is he damn near everything I want/look for in a person? Sure. Am I gonna let ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | possible ghosting? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tynbqx/possible_ghosting/ |
Glass-Ad-4538 | 2024-02-17 06:19:50 | 1,708,150,790 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1asv7hh | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1asv7hh/would_you_take_photos_together_with_your_date/ | 1 | So I (23F) went on 2 dates with this guy (24M) that I met on a dating app. We do live 2 hours away so we can’t see each other often. What I noticed though is that he took photos of us on both of our dates. It’s not a problem at all, I found it really sweet actually because I like we get to keep the memory. I really lik... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Would you take photos together with your date? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1asv7hh/would_you_take_photos_together_with_your_date/ |
AbleStuntCabbage | 2022-05-27 16:03:27 | 1,653,667,407 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | uz1gfb | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uz1gfb/trying_online_dating_for_the_first_time/ | 1 | Just had the second person ask me about my "Online Security Agreement" () or "Online Health License" (). These have my spidey sense tingling. They just look like a scam that at the very best is going to get me nothing and at the very worst is going to be used to take considerable sums out of my bank account. Is this ac... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Trying online dating for the first time. | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uz1gfb/trying_online_dating_for_the_first_time/ |
journo_1 | 2020-05-22 08:59:34 | 1,590,137,974 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | goftk2 | true | Question | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/goftk2/are_people_still_hooking_up_during_lockdown/ | 1 | Hello, I'm a BBC journalist doing some research for a story - I want to ask a few questions and will completely respect anonymity. I wondered if you would be able to help me out with these questions I have around hooking up during lockdown. \- Have you been hooking up since the coronavirus pandemic/lockdown began? Why,... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are people still hooking up during lockdown? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/goftk2/are_people_still_hooking_up_during_lockdown/ |
smsussma | 2020-04-08 01:49:08 | 1,586,310,548 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | fwxfq5 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fwxfq5/what_is_the_best_dating_app_for_serious/ | 2 | I’m a 23F and feel like one of the hardest parts of dating is living in a hook up culture era. I feel like everybody on dating apps just want to hook up but right now I’d really love to just get to know somebody and get into a more serious relationship. I also feel like it’s hard meeting ppl in person when all I do is ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is the best dating app for serious relationships for a 23F? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fwxfq5/what_is_the_best_dating_app_for_serious/ |
Technical_Emu_4916 | 2024-04-26 02:10:46 | 1,714,097,446 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1cd9pxp | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cd9pxp/online_dating/ | 1 | I need help assessing a situation. I'm recently separated and almost immediately went on Tinder looking for love. I listed my intent as looking for "short term fun". I thought I meant it at the moment. However, I started talking to a guy who I thought "OK, perfect I will hook up with this cutie because he's decent" He ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online Dating | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cd9pxp/online_dating/ |
ThadFTTG | 2022-03-26 22:31:56 | 1,648,333,916 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | tp68h3 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tp68h3/should_i_try_online_dating_again/ | 1 | So a while back, Atleast around January, I tried Tinder and Bumble and I hated the experience haha. To be honest I’ve learned quite a few things (you have to be somewhat good looking, the algorithms rank you based on activity, alot of the girls/women on the apps/sites lie about their looks for attention, they are made ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I try online dating again?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tp68h3/should_i_try_online_dating_again/ |
Ok_Grocery1451 | 2024-03-30 23:43:28 | 1,711,842,208 | 0 | null | 0 | 1brw06o | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1brw06o/guys_thoughts_on_question_game_on_bumble/ | 1 | For the guys: How do you feel when the girl starts the chat with the question game on Bumble? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guys: Thoughts on Question Game on Bumble | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1brw06o/guys_thoughts_on_question_game_on_bumble/ |
wildflowerlatte | 2021-12-22 02:32:16 | 1,640,140,336 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | rlurvz | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rlurvz/revealed_my_34f_feelings_to_him_31m_after_a_month/ | 1 | I’ve been talking to this guy for about a month. We’ve been talking consistently everyday. Seen each other about once a week and we’ve also been intimate. No sex but making out and getting touchy feely with each other. Recently though, his text has been getting less and he’s been taking longer to reply. We did meet on ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Revealed my (34F) feelings to him (31M) after a month, was that a mistake? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rlurvz/revealed_my_34f_feelings_to_him_31m_after_a_month/ |
dreamynaiad | 2024-05-15 23:48:39 | 1,715,816,919 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1cszf1c | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1cszf1c/all_the_talk_around_celibacy_has_made_me_realize/ | 49 | The Bumble ads made me (26F) realize that, technically speaking, I'm an incel. I made myself laugh last night thinking about that. My last sexual encounter was just under a year ago with a guy (25M) who made casual sex into a competition. We were dating other people at the same time as seeing each other. He constantly ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | All the talk around celibacy has made me realize that it's involuntary for me simply because I want to be treated well. | 47 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1cszf1c/all_the_talk_around_celibacy_has_made_me_realize/ |
anon912307 | 2024-02-20 13:28:09 | 1,708,435,689 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1avhmnc | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1avhmnc/dont_know_anymore/ | 2 | So. Normally I don't post here but idk where to go with this, it's more venting than anything else. I'm single for about 5 years now. My Ex left me after 5 Years of our relationship. We talked about getting married and we both wanted it. I was making sure to get her a engagement she deserved. Costum rings, getting some... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dont know anymore | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1avhmnc/dont_know_anymore/ |
updogscentedcandles | 2024-06-17 03:35:27 | 1,718,595,327 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dhotec | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dhotec/i_25f_want_to_start_dating_for_the_first_time_in/ | 1 | Minus one short-lived “relationship” with a friend, nothing romantic has ever really happened in my life. I grew up fairly sheltered, so it wouldn’t really have happened in high school, and then I spent my young adult years with multiple jobs on top of school, so there was really no time. Despite all this, I’d really l... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (25f) want to start dating for the first time in my life. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dhotec/i_25f_want_to_start_dating_for_the_first_time_in/ |
Sweetbug33 | 2021-02-15 16:51:56 | 1,613,407,916 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | lkhlhr | true | Question | 76 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/lkhlhr/how_to_bring_up_the_exclusively_dating_talk/ | 32 | How to bring up the exclusively dating talk? How to bring up the exclusively dating talk? So I’ve been dating this guy for awhile and talking even longer and we’re starting to get to the point where it’s getting to be sexual. My thing is I’m not a casual sex type of person and if we started that I’d want to know he isn... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How to bring up the exclusively dating talk? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/lkhlhr/how_to_bring_up_the_exclusively_dating_talk/ |
[deleted] | 2023-04-06 15:53:41 | 1,680,796,421 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | 12doir9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12doir9/had_a_small_short_term_interaction_7_dates_and/ | 3 | I 23 M went out with a 20F from Feb - April last year. We had gone on 7 dates, and we did get close. Looking back, we never did officially have the talk about getting into a serious relationship(which was my fault because I was too scared to bring it up out of the fear of coming across as to needy) but it was sort of i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Had a small short term interaction (7 dates and two months) that ended quite 'suddenly' around this time last year, is it abnormal that I still can't get over it and continue to think about it everyday (see details below). | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12doir9/had_a_small_short_term_interaction_7_dates_and/ |
Rockwrock | 2024-07-06 05:57:49 | 1,720,245,469 | 0 | ['feeld'] | 0 | 1dwirdu | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1dwirdu/feeld/ | 0 | Just deleted the Feeld app because it made me feel like Sly Stallone in Demolition Man (without the physique) 😆 I’ve recently come out of a major relationship and currently open to fwb but the extent to which I felt pressured to define my sexuality – which I understand is kinda the point of the app, it’s a safe space ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Feeld? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1dwirdu/feeld/ |
EnvironmentalFly5120 | 2022-04-07 04:56:33 | 1,649,307,393 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'match.com'] | 0 | ty5dwn | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ty5dwn/are_dating_apps_even_worth_it_anymore/ | 3 | Now granted, I have meet and dated a few amazing women through dating apps (mostly match.com) but is it worth it anymore these days? Tinder use to be a hookup app but now girls just use it to get Instagram followers and when I match with a girl I message first but then they un match after a while. I send messages a lot... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are dating apps even worth it anymore? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ty5dwn/are_dating_apps_even_worth_it_anymore/ |
simonmichelini | 2021-11-14 03:56:55 | 1,636,862,215 | null | ['plentyoffish'] | 0 | qthgnz | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qthgnz/how_do_you_meet_someone_online/ | 1 | I (m41) have always wanted really badly to have a girlfriend, but I've had no luck. A lot of people seem to hook up online these days It seems like about 3/4 couples I ask say they met online. I tried making a profile on plentyoffish a few times. Post some pictures, talk a little bit about my interests and goals. Look ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you meet someone online? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qthgnz/how_do_you_meet_someone_online/ |
Zbest2 | 2022-07-19 11:20:55 | 1,658,229,655 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | w2qas8 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w2qas8/great_first_date_then_got_ghosted/ | 0 | So I've met this girl online from bumble. We were talking everyday and after a week we met in person. We ended up having a 5 hours date which I said that we should be going. While she was waiting for the taxi we kissed. She spent a lot of money because she was living quite far from where we met. I have told her that ni... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Great first date then got ghosted | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w2qas8/great_first_date_then_got_ghosted/ |
vgambit | 2021-10-26 22:21:13 | 1,635,286,873 | null | null | 0 | qghsnr | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/qghsnr/does_anyone_know_when_or_if_dating_app_profiles/ | 0 | So, yeah, this has me feeling some type of way. The woman died more than a year ago, but only just showed up in my batch in The League today. I've already uninstalled that app (adding my own profile to the pile of inactive ones, heh), but which others suffer from that same issue? Coffee Meets Bagel? Hinge? Bumble? I'd ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Does anyone know when or if dating app profiles are deleted/hidden due to inactivity, per app? Just swiped on someone who died last year... | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qghsnr/does_anyone_know_when_or_if_dating_app_profiles/ |
kfromkenya | 2023-07-15 03:53:18 | 1,689,393,198 | 0 | null | 0 | 150183v | false | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/150183v/help_with_r4rs/ | 1 | TL:DR: thought R4Rs would be a better OLD experience, I was naive, need help going forward I'm struggling with online dating in general and figured I could try the R4Rs here and... It's not going well. Has anyone found a partner there, and if so, how did you go about it? What mindset should I have going into it? Some b... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Help with R4Rs? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/150183v/help_with_r4rs/ |
Swimming_Standard689 | 2024-07-24 05:05:33 | 1,721,797,533 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1eat5gi | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eat5gi/its_not_you_its_me_im_not_ready_for_a_relationship/ | 1 | Hi, so I’ve been talking to this guy for a few days and everything seemed fine like he was making me feel comfortable and he was the one who initiated the flirting with me, I wasn’t interested at first but then I realized how respectful he was to me and our history of dating kinda matched up but he seems depressed and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | It’s not you, it’s me I’m not ready for a relationship | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eat5gi/its_not_you_its_me_im_not_ready_for_a_relationship/ |
Creative_Maize9872 | 2024-06-22 21:51:13 | 1,719,093,073 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1dm6jq9 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dm6jq9/22f_me_seeing_26m_him_exclusively_but_found_out/ | 1 | guy i've been seeing online on & off for a few months, recently asked me to be exclusive to which i've agreed to after two weeks of meeting in person. he mentioned deleting the app (said so only verbally) but he saw me delete the app. fast forward, we've been seeing each other practically everyday for the two weeks but... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 22F (me) seeing 26M (him) exclusively but found out he was on active on hinge, what should i do? want to know from a male's perspective what this could mean :( | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dm6jq9/22f_me_seeing_26m_him_exclusively_but_found_out/ |
No-Character9499 | 2024-02-06 07:02:00 | 1,707,202,920 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1ak3vkn | false | Question ❓ | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ak3vkn/average_guys_what_are_your_experiences_with/ | 2 | Wondering what your experiences are as an average looking guy on dating apps. I have a super hard time getting matches & actual dates, even though I don’t think I’m thát ugly. I base this on my experiences with woman in the past. I’ve had pretty good looking woman compliment me before, yet, if you place me in a giant p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Average guys, what are your experiences with dating apps? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ak3vkn/average_guys_what_are_your_experiences_with/ |
Professional_Suit270 | 2023-09-27 17:17:29 | 1,695,835,049 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 16tqeyc | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16tqeyc/i_constantly_see_men_complaining_about_women/ | 1 | It's almost like they just want to be angry at women. For reference, the most recent data shows that 78% of Tinder users are men while just 22% are women https://datingzest.com/tinder-statistics/. And that 22% includes bots, Instagram advertisers, OnlyFans models looking for new subscriptions, girls that download an ac... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I constantly see men complaining about women getting more matches on dating apps, but always ignoring that men are 70-80% of the users on said apps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16tqeyc/i_constantly_see_men_complaining_about_women/ |
TraditionalParsley67 | 2023-04-15 04:33:23 | 1,681,533,203 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 12mq0la | true | null | 155 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12mq0la/i_accidentally_made_a_girl_uncomfortable_with_her/ | 124 | I’ve met a girl on a dating app and I felt like we clicked a lot. We talked for about a month now, and I like her quite a fair bit. She’s however quite reserved about herself, and we couldn’t talk too deeply about ourselves. If she needs space, I’d give it, but I of course would love to be more connected to her. Yester... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I accidentally made a girl uncomfortable with her kink, thoughts? | 124 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12mq0la/i_accidentally_made_a_girl_uncomfortable_with_her/ |
hammerhai2 | 2019-05-28 01:29:04 | 1,559,006,944 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | btu08l | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/btu08l/my_tinder_game_is_about_as_strong_as_north_koreas/ | 15 | Despite the horrible joke, hopefully it interested a few of you to click. I think I miss out on the whole point of tinder, and am looking for some help on my bio. I feel like, my horrible bio, which is just normal a little bit about myself type info holds me back. I have some friends from college who just puts random m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My tinder game is about as strong as North Koreas GDP | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/btu08l/my_tinder_game_is_about_as_strong_as_north_koreas/ |
Honest-Growth7412 | 2021-07-12 13:45:20 | 1,626,097,520 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | oirjp5 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oirjp5/has_anyone_deleted_all_their_dating_apps_and/ | 12 | Thinking of taking a 3-4 month hiatus from dating apps to focus on me. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Has anyone deleted all their dating apps and started dating organically? What was the transition like for you? Any positive or negative thoughts? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oirjp5/has_anyone_deleted_all_their_dating_apps_and/ |
Glittering-Ad9976 | 2021-10-19 03:25:58 | 1,634,613,958 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | qb2wck | true | I Need Advice | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qb2wck/should_i_text_him_or_am_i_being_ghosted/ | 1 | I (F, 24) met this guy (M,27) on a dating app 3 weeks ago and we've been texting ever since. He seemed really interested in me, and we have a couple of friends in common so I took that as a good sign. He asked me to walk our dogs once which was nice but I couldn't and he never asked to hang out after that. He did menti... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I text him or am I being ghosted? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qb2wck/should_i_text_him_or_am_i_being_ghosted/ |
kril89 | 2019-08-03 20:02:51 | 1,564,862,571 | null | ['swiping', 'OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | cln4xa | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/cln4xa/so_im_thinking_of_going_back_on_old/ | 2 | So I'm thinking of getting back on OLD in the next couple weeks. I'll need to take some more pictures but here is my bio I might put just looking for some feedback on it. "If I only had one word to describe myself I'd have to say "unique". I'm a tinkerer. I enjoy taking things apart and seeing how and why they work. I ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | So I'm thinking of going back on OLD | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cln4xa/so_im_thinking_of_going_back_on_old/ |
go_yao | 2021-05-03 01:24:00 | 1,620,005,040 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | n3krkl | true | null | 55 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/n3krkl/how_do_shy_introverted_and_quiet_guys_get_a_gf/ | 13 | Is it from online dating? Is it from a female friends you’ve known for a long time that you’ve finally worked up the guts to confess to? Is it that girl you met at the coffee shop two weeks ago or the one your friend introduced you to? Or from a girl taking the first steps? which pool of acquaintances do you get your g... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do shy, introverted and quiet guys get a gf? | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/n3krkl/how_do_shy_introverted_and_quiet_guys_get_a_gf/ |
bighero76 | 2022-02-27 16:50:57 | 1,645,980,657 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | t2sb8n | true | Question | 151 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/t2sb8n/does_height_really_matter/ | 11 | So I will ask it! I am a successful 45 M with everything that a woman wants but whenever I do the online scene I get immediate rejections since i’m 5’6”. I make well over 6 figures, dont smoke/drink, two kids with an ex, clean and simple guy but literally the only women I get online are not exactly what I’m looking for... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Does height really matter? | null | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/t2sb8n/does_height_really_matter/ |
MagicHatRace | 2019-12-29 19:38:52 | 1,577,648,332 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | ehacj0 | true | I Need Advice | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ehacj0/guy_seems_to_be_getting_too_invested_too_fast/ | 6 | So I matched with a guy on Hinge about a week ago. We've been texting every day since then and just recently started using SnapChat too. I'm a slow texter, I usually get busy and forget to respond, and he's someone who replies back almost immediately, within 30 minutes every time. It was a little overwhelming at first,... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy seems to be getting too invested too fast | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ehacj0/guy_seems_to_be_getting_too_invested_too_fast/ |
skyy2121 | 2023-08-03 17:38:43 | 1,691,084,323 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15halef | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15halef/what_do_you_even_say_on_apps/ | 1 | 30M been single for a little over a year and I have never had any luck with dating apps. Have used all the big ones off and on over the years. I know a lot of people experience the same problem but for me I just can’t keep the conversation going. I’ll get matches, they seem pretty and interesting but I always feel like... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do you even say on apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15halef/what_do_you_even_say_on_apps/ |
[deleted] | 2014-11-20 20:25:46 | 1,416,515,146 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2mwqh4 | null | null | 19 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2mwqh4/too_ugly_to_date/ | 2 | prefer not to post any pics for reasons of privacy so I will describe my plight. For as long as I can remember, I have thought I was ugly. Mainly because it's very likely true. I am 5'10 178 pounds in pretty good physical shape, but I have a strangely structure face, a big nose and just odd structure overall. At the te... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Too ugly to date | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2mwqh4/too_ugly_to_date/ |
ihavetheselucidreams | 2019-02-26 20:06:40 | 1,551,211,600 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | av3vu6 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/av3vu6/would_stop_texting_someone_who_doesnt_text_you/ | 3 | I (33F) met someone (28M) on a dating app in December. At the beginning I had a lot going on but we kept texting and had a first date that went well. It seemed mutual, with him reaching out first some of the time. The last time he text me first was on valentines day when he asked if I wanted to get together that night ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would stop texting someone who doesn’t text you first, but always seems happy to hear from you? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/av3vu6/would_stop_texting_someone_who_doesnt_text_you/ |
taystee2599 | 2022-06-12 23:17:57 | 1,655,075,877 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | vay75q | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vay75q/am_i_just_being_dumb_here/ | 0 | I(F22) started talking to this guy(M26) 2 months ago. We met on hinge and clicked almost immediately. We spoke a lot and sexted a lot. But he had a very important exam in a month, so he ended up going off social media entirely. I get the pressure tbh, i have to give the same exam in an year and I'm already freaking out... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I just being dumb here? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vay75q/am_i_just_being_dumb_here/ |
Gratefulgaljade | 2021-01-12 02:13:17 | 1,610,417,597 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | kvhz5q | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/kvhz5q/asking_for_recent_photo/ | 2 | I re-matched with this guy on Tinder the other day. We have chatted via text and video a bit over the years. We met for drinks about 2 years ago but both knew nothing could happen because he was in an LDR. So, just recently, he sent an enthusiastic message to me on Tinder suggesting we catch up for a drink next time I’... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Asking for recent photo | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/kvhz5q/asking_for_recent_photo/ |
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