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_littlefluffyclouds | 2024-06-24 19:49:51 | 1,719,258,591 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | 1dnmkz5 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1dnmkz5/women_why_do_you_deleterecreate_your_profiles/ | 1 | I've been seeing more and more of this lately among women in their 30s and even 40s. They delete and re-create their profiles so it says "new here" although I know they're not. Now, I know why guys do this: they get the "new account" boost and are seen by the entire dating pool again so hopefully they get more matches.... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Women -- why do you delete/recreate your profiles? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1dnmkz5/women_why_do_you_deleterecreate_your_profiles/ |
[deleted] | 2017-03-07 08:39:33 | 1,488,875,973 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 5xzb8r | null | null | 13 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/5xzb8r/online_dating_yeah_pretty_close_to_done_with_this/ | 3 | ...and this is why. Here's a profile that just visited me (I don't get many): My Self-Summary: Not my self summary but what an intense game Super Bowl 51 34 / 28 PATRIOTS BABY! :) :) It doesn't get better after that. I'm supposed to find a reason to engage something like this? 39 year old woman, by the way. ;8-/ Ther... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Online dating? Yeah, pretty close to done with this... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5xzb8r/online_dating_yeah_pretty_close_to_done_with_this/ |
praisebe10 | 2020-01-05 04:10:16 | 1,578,197,416 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ek7tce | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ek7tce/i_dont_know_what_i_want/ | 4 | I am 23. I started having sex when I was 22. But it has always been casual sex. Sex with 'friends with benefits'. I've never been able to date anyone I liked, anyone I have cared about. And I don't know why that is. Coming back to the casual sex. I'm in India, and I have friends who have managed to get into serious rel... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I don't know what I want | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ek7tce/i_dont_know_what_i_want/ |
Ready-Statement-5409 | 2024-01-08 19:47:57 | 1,704,743,277 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 191u1xs | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/191u1xs/should_i_go_on_a_date_with_him/ | 1 | I recently divorced and signed up to an online dating app. My experience with those is zero, never done it. I matched with this guy with a very interesting profile. He is older but lots in common and seems normal. We have a dinner date this week but he is overly enthusiastic about it. He was talking about where to spen... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I go on a date with him? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/191u1xs/should_i_go_on_a_date_with_him/ |
ExpensiveSummer45 | 2023-07-30 20:00:20 | 1,690,747,220 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 15dut83 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15dut83/is_it_possible_that_the_guy_im_dating_thinks_im/ | 1 | I met this guy on Bumble, and we have been seeing each other for the past 2 months (usually about once every two weeks). We have had sex, gone to dinners, and the movies. He has always been the one to initiate the texts, and I would always be the one to respond. Sometimes I get busy and I don't respond until about 5 ho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it possible that the guy I'm dating thinks I'm not that interested? I'm so conflicted by this situation. Saw that he was still using dating apps. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15dut83/is_it_possible_that_the_guy_im_dating_thinks_im/ |
JackAndrews88 | 2023-11-27 04:42:35 | 1,701,060,155 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 184uqk9 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/184uqk9/should_i_21m_double_text_them_21_theythem/ | 1 | So I matched with someone on Hinge who identifies as non binary, we talked for a bit on one day and then there was no reply for 3 days before they responded again. I'm a closeted crossdresser but this person was the first match who seemed to openly tease the idea of cross-dressing and being not just open but also encou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (21M) double text them (21 they/them)? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/184uqk9/should_i_21m_double_text_them_21_theythem/ |
guessitsme9907 | 2019-08-15 22:06:14 | 1,565,906,774 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | cqwtle | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cqwtle/why_do_mostly_tall_62super_conventionally/ | 1 | I’m just wonder if anyone else noticed that only super attractive men show a lot of interest. Is this probably because they’re more confident? Or they’re trying to bed as many women as possible? It sucks because my type is not conventionally handsome... it’s not their fault... I’m just attracted to some flaws, But with... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do mostly tall 6’2”super conventionally attractive guys try to go out w me on dating apps, they’re not my type? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cqwtle/why_do_mostly_tall_62super_conventionally/ |
Zealousideal_Weird_3 | 2024-02-05 16:09:02 | 1,707,149,342 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ajk3t7 | true | null | 77 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ajk3t7/guys_if_a_guy_on_an_app_says_to_you_youre_not/ | 1 | Was having a good conversation with this guy and we were bantering and after 20 or so messages he says “you’re not like other girls” I dont like this compliment bc it feels competitive and like he thinks putting others down is a good way to to make someone feel special. He’s not shy or inexperienced because he strikes ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guys! If a guy on an app says to you “you’re not like other girls” is it a red flag? | 1 | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ajk3t7/guys_if_a_guy_on_an_app_says_to_you_youre_not/ |
ventilation_clog | 2021-06-04 06:11:08 | 1,622,787,068 | null | ['dating apps', 'dating sites'] | 0 | nry4pd | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/nry4pd/am_i_weird_for_hating_appearancebased_compliments/ | 0 | I don't consider myself conventionally attractive but after my eight year relationship ending, I've wanted to try dating again. I've heard that dating apps are particularly notorious for abusers, creeps, and people leading people on for sex. I mean, I know there isn't a lot to go by on apps except pictures and a vague ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Am I weird for hating appearance-based compliments from strangers on dating apps? | null | 0.47 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/nry4pd/am_i_weird_for_hating_appearancebased_compliments/ |
theNickHatter | 2021-11-27 23:24:24 | 1,638,055,464 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | r3ptml | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/r3ptml/what_are_the_lamest_first_messages_you_receive_on/ | 1 | Redditors! Male or female (or non-binary), what are the lamest first messages you receive on dating apps? Can you give examples? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What are the lamest first messages you receive on dating apps? | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r3ptml/what_are_the_lamest_first_messages_you_receive_on/ |
[deleted] | 2011-12-02 01:17:57 | 1,322,788,677 | 0 | ['dating site'] | null | mwwc6 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/mwwc6/did_i_just_screw_this_up_wall_of_text_includes/ | 1 | I'm a 23 year old guy. Not a ton of dating experience. I was in a relationship that ended a few months ago, but even with that one we didn't go out on many dates; we mostly just hung out at each other's places. I can definitely be a bit shy and awkward at first, but I don't think I am too bad. I started looking at a da... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Did I just screw this up? (wall of text, includes tl;dr) | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mwwc6/did_i_just_screw_this_up_wall_of_text_includes/ |
Snacking247 | 2019-05-22 01:18:35 | 1,558,487,915 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | brikli | true | Venting | 261 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/brikli/why_does_everyone_feel_the_need_to_date_more_than/ | 238 | Am I the only one disgusted by how dating seems to work - particularly with this new dating app generation? I am a 31M, I date around the 27-34 age group, and I find myself constantly annoyed by how many women (I know men are doing it too) have no problem dating several people at the same time. For example - I take a g... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why does everyone feel the need to date more than one, two, or three people at the same time? It’s disgusting IMO | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/brikli/why_does_everyone_feel_the_need_to_date_more_than/ |
TAB2002 | 2022-03-01 05:25:08 | 1,646,112,308 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | t40c55 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t40c55/she_said_yes_now_shes_ghosting_me/ | 2 | I {M19} am a freshman in college. I started using Tinder. My expectations were fairly low, I mainly got it because a friend convinced me to. Surprisingly, I actually got some matches and was talking to some girls. I met one girl {F19} on there who I got along really well with and we moved our conversation off of the pl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She said yes, now shes ghosting me | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t40c55/she_said_yes_now_shes_ghosting_me/ |
sfdsadf6 | 2014-06-23 14:56:09 | 1,403,535,369 | 0 | ['match.com'] | 0 | 28vjtr | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/28vjtr/25_f_texting_potential_dates_goes_nowhere/ | 3 | Hey guys. I'm a 25 year old female and I'm trying dating on match.com. It's going ok so far, I guess. My concern involves texting in general, so I guess this isn't specific to match.com at all. I'll email guys back and forth many times, and they'll ask for my number. Sure thing. So we're texting. Yes, it's texting and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 25 F - Texting potential dates goes nowhere. | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/28vjtr/25_f_texting_potential_dates_goes_nowhere/ |
ihaveocdandneedhelp | 2024-01-15 01:37:55 | 1,705,282,675 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 196whue | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/196whue/im_going_in_my_first_date_today_and_need_some/ | 1 | So I (18) matched with this guy (22) on tinder and we’ve been texting the entire day. We have the same music taste and he’s just cool from his texts at least. He asked me out in a date and I really want to go but I just want to know the dos and donts first. We’ll meet at his city and he’ll show me around bc he knows th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m going in my first date today and need some advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/196whue/im_going_in_my_first_date_today_and_need_some/ |
StatisticianFalse911 | 2023-06-26 02:33:52 | 1,687,746,832 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14j4sl3 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 29 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14j4sl3/how_to_date_in_your_early_20slate_university/ | 1 | I'm 21M, and I've never had a girlfriend. And I don't mean "I've never been in a serious relationship", I've never been in any relationship. Never had sex, kissed a girl, etc. Being 21 and having no experience kinda sucks. It's not a personal choice not to date right now (as much as my mother wants to believe). I've ju... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to date in your early 20s/late university years if you've never dated before | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14j4sl3/how_to_date_in_your_early_20slate_university/ |
[deleted] | 2022-03-02 17:54:48 | 1,646,243,688 | null | null | 0 | t55we5 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/t55we5/what_do_i_say_to_a_girl_who_suddenly_know_longer/ | 3 | I went on a couple of dates with this girl last week. Over the last few days, I feel like she’s texted less and feels less interested. We had plans today but I was with a “Im not feeling well, so we’ll have to see.” How do I let the girl know it’s fine if she doesn’t wanna keep seeing each other? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What do I say to a girl who suddenly know longer seems interested? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/t55we5/what_do_i_say_to_a_girl_who_suddenly_know_longer/ |
WashedSylvi | 2016-03-15 02:22:28 | 1,458,008,548 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 4aghh3 | null | null | 8 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4aghh3/guy_pushed_it_feel_weird_nsfw/ | 2 | Weird enough to compell myself to write a reddit post. So, was on my phone today, using a dating app. Met a guy, talked for a bit, he came over, we smoked a blunt, then he kind of pulled me over. I liked that kind of uh, forward play But he was rough the whole thing despite me telling him to be gentle. When I got ontop... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Guy Pushed it, feel weird [NSFW] | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4aghh3/guy_pushed_it_feel_weird_nsfw/ |
Intelligent-SoupGS88 | 2024-01-26 18:10:31 | 1,706,292,631 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1abot4w | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1abot4w/the_person_who_ghosted_me_had_actually_died_how/ | 2 | Perhaps a strange one. Last September I (35F) reconnected with someone on Bumble. I knew him (34M) from school. We weren't close friends but we followed each other on Instagram for years. We chatted and had arranged to meet up once I'd come back from holiday. Two days after I got back from holiday, the day of the meet ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The person who ghosted me had actually died - how do I get my head around it. | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1abot4w/the_person_who_ghosted_me_had_actually_died_how/ |
slippy0101 | 2015-07-10 01:53:21 | 1,436,493,201 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 3cqz05 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating/comments/3cqz05/psa_if_you_give_out_your_number_via_an_online/ | 0 | It's frustrating to have to keep switching back and forth between your contact book and the dating app to enter the number. It's an easily avoided annoyance you can save the other person from. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | PSA: If you give out your number via an online dating app, you should type the number by itself in a separate message and not in the middle of a block of text. | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3cqz05/psa_if_you_give_out_your_number_via_an_online/ |
Sammymac1989 | 2023-01-24 00:05:18 | 1,674,518,718 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 10jrtv1 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10jrtv1/the_red_flags_we_always_ignore/ | 1 | I’m not one to put my business out there but after a smear campaign of my character by my ex husbands family I had no choice. It’s funny how a person can assassinate you character without even knowing you and people believe it…hello gaslighter! Im currently separated and going through the movement of divorce from my ex... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | The red flags we always ignore! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10jrtv1/the_red_flags_we_always_ignore/ |
abclucky | 2023-12-16 12:59:45 | 1,702,731,585 | 0 | null | 0 | 18jqprc | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18jqprc/how_many_dates_have_you_been_on_this_year/ | 1 | null | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How many dates have you been on this year? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18jqprc/how_many_dates_have_you_been_on_this_year/ |
Soft-Ad-6181 | 2024-09-14 17:20:32 | 1,726,334,432 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1fgr5zp | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fgr5zp/i_21f_am_scared_im_being_lovebombed/ | 1 | So I (21F) met this guy (19M) in June on a dating app. We were talking for about a month and a half, went on three dates and on the third date we made things official. I met his sisters on the second date, wasn’t like an official thing; it just happened because he had to take them to this event and I was going too. He ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I 21F am scared I’m being love-bombed | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fgr5zp/i_21f_am_scared_im_being_lovebombed/ |
PicklesNBacon | 2019-09-09 01:28:51 | 1,567,992,531 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | d1k3gq | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/d1k3gq/question_for_men_and_women_who_are_old_or_dating/ | 6 | Can you tell within minutes of a first date? After a couple of dates? Is there a certain something that makes you want to see the person again? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Question for men and women who are OLD or dating IRL: How long does it take for you to realize you have chemistry/are attracted to your date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/d1k3gq/question_for_men_and_women_who_are_old_or_dating/ |
EcoGirlThrowAway | 2021-09-11 14:33:39 | 1,631,370,819 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | pm8hwk | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pm8hwk/should_i_break_things_off/ | 1 | My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. It’s been good, no major fights, no cheating, or anything. I just feel like sometimes things are getting a bit stale between us, it feels like we’re more roommates sometimes and he’s always playing video games Morning until night all day everyday. (Nothing wrong... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I break things off? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pm8hwk/should_i_break_things_off/ |
NCAA_Ball_Hawk | 2021-02-13 17:30:28 | 1,613,237,428 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | lj4wrv | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lj4wrv/going_on_a_date_w_a_girl_im_not_super_interested/ | 0 | I [M20] have never been on a real date before. I recently matched w a girl on Tinder [F19] and we had a smooth flirty conversation. I checked out her IG, and then realized that she’s not as attractive as I thought. Should I ask her out anyways? I’m not that interested in her, but I’m 20 and have never been on a date be... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Going on a date w a girl I’m not super interested in | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lj4wrv/going_on_a_date_w_a_girl_im_not_super_interested/ |
Cwellz123 | 2019-04-09 19:57:53 | 1,554,839,873 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | bbcjqf | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bbcjqf/i21m_am_currently_seeing_a_girl_i_matched_with_on/ | 1 | We matched a couple days ago. We have been flirting pretty hard, already saying cute couple things like calling each other cute nicknames like “babe” “hun” “cutie” talking about cuddling together all that. Our first date is this weekend. We have each other’s phone number. I’m planning on calling her telling her that I’... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I(21M) am currently seeing a girl I matched with on tinder(18F) and I will be moving away from my area in a month. I’m hoping she’ll still be down to date temporarily while I’m in my area. How many people here have temporarily dated someone for a limited amount of time knowing they will move? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bbcjqf/i21m_am_currently_seeing_a_girl_i_matched_with_on/ |
Sliceasourus | 2024-06-07 01:26:00 | 1,717,723,560 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1d9ys2x | true | null | 47 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1d9ys2x/just_signed_up_for_tinder_very_skeptical/ | 20 | 67M here. I just signed up for Tinder and all of the profiles that are coming up are of very beautiful women dressed provacatively that look younger than their profile. So I'm pretty skeptical that these are all fake. Anybody else experience this? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Just signed up for Tinder - very skeptical. | 20 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1d9ys2x/just_signed_up_for_tinder_very_skeptical/ |
Lol1778 | 2021-11-04 08:24:45 | 1,636,014,285 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | qmg19h | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qmg19h/shy_or_not_interested/ | 5 | I (F) moved to a new city recently for school and thought, naturally, that tinder was a good way to start. Hey? some casual dates will help me learn my way around the downtown area. So I go on a date with this guy who’s a little bit older and I thought the date went really well, which I really didn’t expect bc well… it... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Shy or Not Interested? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qmg19h/shy_or_not_interested/ |
Single-Macaron-3714 | 2021-05-03 04:28:03 | 1,620,016,083 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | n3nu5m | true | Other | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/n3nu5m/taking_a_road_trip/ | 1 | 37F matched with 36M on tinder about a month ago. So I’ve been keeping it pretty light. No real pressure lol, I think the first night we went out we talked, had a good connection; went back to his place, did what we did. I asked him if he was actually serious about looking for an LTR; he said he was and asked what I wa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Taking a road trip?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/n3nu5m/taking_a_road_trip/ |
MilkToast_Mcgee | 2019-02-08 02:24:54 | 1,549,592,694 | null | ['swiping', 'online dating', 'bumble', 'pof'] | 0 | aobrma | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/aobrma/anyone_ever_go_speed_dating/ | 1 | I am 25f and ive never really dated before except one awkward pseudo date to senior prom. In school i got asked out occasionally not often but like maybe twice a year but they were never really my type and i was very very foccused about breaking into my career field. At least thats the excuse I used. Now i am in my fie... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone Ever Go Speed Dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/aobrma/anyone_ever_go_speed_dating/ |
MyFavoriteArm | 2021-08-08 22:47:39 | 1,628,462,859 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | p0ot9p | true | null | 121 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/p0ot9p/i_31m_want_to_sincerely_thank_datingoverthirty/ | 990 | I (31M) have made many posts in this subreddit over the past few months concerning my dating history and a woman (30F) I'm currently seeing. I'm happy to say thank you for all your advice and help, for as of Friday we decided we were comfortable enough to add the "boyfriend/girlfriend" label to us, after in-person dati... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I (31M) want to sincerely thank datingoverthirty. The advice I got from y'all helped me get my only second ever Girlfriend (30F) | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/p0ot9p/i_31m_want_to_sincerely_thank_datingoverthirty/ |
Mendizzy7 | 2022-12-28 05:10:02 | 1,672,204,202 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | zx11aj | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zx11aj/going_on_a_date_for_the_first_time_in_5_years/ | 2 | Yes, it has been a while. I am going on a date for the first time in 5 years. I was wondering some tips I can do before hand and some tips on not what to do. I have good social skills but since I am a M 30 I don't even know whats acceptable now. We met trough Hinge. Full transperancy, we are going bowling and then dinn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Going on a date for the first time in 5 years | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zx11aj/going_on_a_date_for_the_first_time_in_5_years/ |
ohkillem365 | 2024-06-17 19:36:55 | 1,718,653,015 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1di6uk4 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1di6uk4/this_girl_was_just_recently_engaged/ | 1 | Started dating this girl recently I’m M(30) she is F(28). Hit it off immediately after meeting from bumble, been in plenty of relationships before (never engaged no kids etc) and this girl just seems different. Connection is amazing out the gate, fast forward a few weeks we delete the dating apps talk about exclusively... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | This girl was just recently engaged? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1di6uk4/this_girl_was_just_recently_engaged/ |
Kokopelli872 | 2016-06-23 05:36:16 | 1,466,660,176 | 0 | ['swipe', 'online dating', 'dating site', 'dating sites', 'match.com'] | 0 | 4pf6bi | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating/comments/4pf6bi/web_development_concept_in_context_free_secure/ | 0 | Imagine a dating website, but without the spammers and scammers. Here's a disclaimer for women, because I feel like this needs a little context if you haven't experienced dating from the side of a male seeking women on online dating websites or phone apps. Overall, it is a horrendous experience. Here's a basic synopsis... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Web Development Concept in Context - Free, Secure Online Dating | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4pf6bi/web_development_concept_in_context_free_secure/ |
Icy-Instruction-9790 | 2024-04-12 14:18:58 | 1,712,931,538 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1c2acbk | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c2acbk/what_do_i_do/ | 1 | In my class there’s a guy (27) who sits next to me (22) and was really nice and we often had small talk. he messaged me on hinge, so I replied to be polite and because I knew it would be awkward if I didn’t and saw him again in class. He asks if we can meet for coffee to which I was really hesitant but decided to say y... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I do | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c2acbk/what_do_i_do/ |
pesfan08 | 2018-02-19 01:41:09 | 1,519,004,469 | null | ['matched', 'online dating', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 7yj4zj | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7yj4zj/unsure_about_how_to_handle_post1st_date/ | 1 | I’m a 28(m) that just recently started online dating after a long term relationship. Had a date with a girl I matched on Coffee Meets Bagel yesterday. We met up for drinks and talked for 3 hours before she said she needed to go home because it was pass her bed time. I walked her to her Uber and gave her a hug saying I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Unsure about how to handle post-1st date. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7yj4zj/unsure_about_how_to_handle_post1st_date/ |
markjo12345 | 2022-06-03 20:52:39 | 1,654,289,559 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | v48r50 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v48r50/should_i_text_this_girl_i_met_irl_on_snapchat/ | 0 | So basically in Feb I met saw a girl on tinder. I added her on snapchat (she put it in her bio) and she added me back. I don't think we really spoke all that much. Fast forward to last Sunday: she came into my work (I work customer service) and she wanted to ship out a package. I feel like we both clicked very well wit... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I text this girl I met irl on snapchat? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v48r50/should_i_text_this_girl_i_met_irl_on_snapchat/ |
FuturePigeon | 2021-06-26 00:59:11 | 1,624,669,151 | null | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | o80lr8 | true | null | 52 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/o80lr8/would_you_date_a_neighbor/ | 48 | Matched with someone on OLD and we chatted for few days before he asked me on a date. He just moved into a new place but heard about a great local bar near his place. Yep, it’s the great local bar near my place too. He’s hard to miss in public (purple hair) and that day I saw him walking his dog, it turns out he lives ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Would you date a neighbor? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/o80lr8/would_you_date_a_neighbor/ |
throw_away_acc_5 | 2024-04-02 22:11:56 | 1,712,095,916 | 0 | null | 0 | 1bubko7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1bubko7/cant_tell_if_im_shadowbanned_tinder/ | 6 | I had an account that I made last September and had the 1 photo of me that makes me look really good. My bio was very vague and no effort put in but I did say that I was looking exclusively for something serious. Had tons of matches. At my peak I was getting around 50 likes every 3 days even resulting in a date. Eventu... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Can’t tell if I’m shadowbanned (Tinder) | 5 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bubko7/cant_tell_if_im_shadowbanned_tinder/ |
easythrowaway0321 | 2018-08-12 04:00:06 | 1,534,046,406 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 96mjvl | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/96mjvl/hot_girl_w_no_experience/ | 1 | I am trying to sound as humble as possible when I say I'm attractive. Everyone (friends, family, guys, r/rateme) says I am above average and a typical but basic hot girl. I really grew into my looks after high school ended since I was tall and awkward and had no idea how to do makeup and hair. In high school I never ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hot girl w/ no experience | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/96mjvl/hot_girl_w_no_experience/ |
SunsetCauliflower | 2018-11-08 23:53:04 | 1,541,721,184 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 9vfct3 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9vfct3/i_get_hopeful_super_easily_especially_when_guys/ | 9 | I get super excited and hopeful when a guy I think is cute actually turns out to be intelligent, funny, interested, and can keep the conversation going with me. I always get let down though... either they ghost or something else goes wrong. (specifically regarding online dating) What can I do to eliminate this super ho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I get hopeful super easily, especially when guys are reciprocal and we have good conversation. What can I do to not be let down? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9vfct3/i_get_hopeful_super_easily_especially_when_guys/ |
Babyblueyeti | 2023-11-29 03:43:36 | 1,701,229,416 | 0 | null | 0 | 186fzq9 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/186fzq9/26m_ghosted_after_five_dates/ | 1 | I (26M) am being ghosted by a girl ive been seeing (26F) the past couple months. We met on Hinge. We had some great dates, really got my hopes up thinking could go somewhere. Now she hasn't replied in three days or replied to my phone calls. She mentioned she's not busy this week I can't imagine the indifference it tak... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 26M Ghosted after five dates | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/186fzq9/26m_ghosted_after_five_dates/ |
tinderthrowawayyyyye | 2017-10-27 01:20:05 | 1,509,067,205 | null | ['matches', 'swipes', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7903li | false | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7903li/29_years_old_never_had_a_girlfriend_only_had_sex/ | 3 | Never had a girlfriend in middle or high school because I was ugly and a loser. Never had a girlfriend in college because I was too shy and also was studying a lot. The studying paid off because now I have a good job at a very successful/popular company and make above the national median but that all means nothing beca... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 29 years old. Never had a girlfriend. Only had sex w/sex workers. HELP. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7903li/29_years_old_never_had_a_girlfriend_only_had_sex/ |
RedfireBluewater | 2018-09-28 04:28:42 | 1,538,108,922 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 9jjxds | true | Question | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9jjxds/why_did_he_ghostblock_me_serious_question/ | 2 | I almost feel stupid for asking this but I really want opinions and hopefully, nothing rude. I ( 32/f) met a guy ( 30/m) about 2 months back off a dating app. We conversed for about a week or so, fun and flirty conversation, nothing earth shattering. We exchanged numbers and talked for about a week before he asked me o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why did he ghost/block me? Serious question | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9jjxds/why_did_he_ghostblock_me_serious_question/ |
NineTailFoxFurCoat | 2018-06-25 22:36:59 | 1,529,966,219 | null | null | 0 | 8tuupj | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/8tuupj/whats_the_key_to_a_good_first_message/ | 2 | So I've been trying tinder and I haven't been using it much. I've gotten two matches out of a handful of right swipes. Only issue is that I'm having a real problem with starting off a conversation. I don't really know how to start one which leads the match to just being a waste. Any tips? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What's the key to a good first message. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/8tuupj/whats_the_key_to_a_good_first_message/ |
i-am-hilary-es | 2024-02-19 02:30:58 | 1,708,309,858 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1auc9b7 | true | Seeking Advice | 53 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1auc9b7/is_it_paranoia_or_wrong_to_ask_for_a_video_chat/ | 9 | I am new to online dating really and am looking for some advice. I have been texting a guy from match and then we exchanged our mobile numbers. I recently asked for a video chat and this is his response when I ask for one, "Oh boy are you one of those paranoid types? Lol. Now I'm getting it." I also want to meet anybod... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Is it paranoia or wrong to ask for a video chat? | 9 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1auc9b7/is_it_paranoia_or_wrong_to_ask_for_a_video_chat/ |
Ill_Fated_chap | 2020-02-25 05:47:20 | 1,582,609,640 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | f95kc3 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f95kc3/do_people_just_hit_on_others_in_public_places/ | 2 | I'm willing to admit Ive watched too much TV when I was younger so this all might be just a case of skewed Perspective. Ok so what I meant in the title is - Do guys go up to go girls that they are interested in at a first glance in public places and hit on them? (Not implying it should only be done in private settings)... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do people just hit on others in public places? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f95kc3/do_people_just_hit_on_others_in_public_places/ |
orion8989 | 2022-09-19 02:48:23 | 1,663,555,703 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | xhzst2 | true | null | 720 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/xhzst2/how_do_find_a_girlfriend_when_you_work_in_a/ | 1,388 | ETA: I previously tried online dating a few years ago, but I had a bad experience. That's why I don't want to try it now. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do find a girlfriend when you work in a male-dominated field, work ridiculous hours, and don't want to try online dating? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/xhzst2/how_do_find_a_girlfriend_when_you_work_in_a/ |
CEOofRaytheon | 2023-12-13 13:50:44 | 1,702,475,444 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18hh7xc | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18hh7xc/ghosted_after_1_great_month_very_confused/ | 1 | Hi all. I'm \[29M\] very confused as to why I was ghosted by the person \[24F\] I've been seeing after one fantastic month together that seemed nearly picture-perfect. We matched on Hinge at the end of October, met in early November and found we have loads in common, enough for a spark. At least I think it was a spark ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ghosted after 1 great month, very confused | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18hh7xc/ghosted_after_1_great_month_very_confused/ |
SPdoc | 2021-07-10 14:06:10 | 1,625,925,970 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ohjbdr | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ohjbdr/someone_ive_started_seeing_dealing_with_personal/ | 1 | So as background: 25 M and I (23 F) have talked for a month (we met through OLD) and met up twice. Just yesterday he apologized in advance if he doesn’t respond because he’s going through stuff. And he even told me he can’t talk about whatever it is that’s happening (and thanked me for understanding), which tells me it... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Someone I’ve started seeing dealing with personal stuff. What to make of things now, and how to go from here? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ohjbdr/someone_ive_started_seeing_dealing_with_personal/ |
cigtax | 2023-10-18 03:03:51 | 1,697,598,231 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 17agklc | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17agklc/24m_with_no_friends_and_no_way_to_meet_people/ | 1 | I live in Houston and there isnt much of a night life here. I dont drink but ill occasionally smoke weed. Sometimes it feels impossible to meet women without some involvement of alcohol. I also havent had sex in almost 4 years which basically killed the person I used to be. I used to have a lot of sex just through frie... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 24m with no friends and no way to meet people | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17agklc/24m_with_no_friends_and_no_way_to_meet_people/ |
maahes-ra | 2011-09-17 11:18:15 | 1,316,258,295 | 6 | ['okcupid'] | null | kil78 | null | null | 57 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/kil78/nerds_and_gamers_of_twox_can_you_offer_some/ | 16 | I have left for work, and I won't be able to offer the individual responses I've been doling out all morning. If you feel like responding in turn or challenging some dumb shit I said, I'll get back to you around midnight EST. Thanks for talking with me, twoX. The insight gained is something a lot of people could use. H... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Nerds and gamers of TwoX, can you offer some insight for a curious big brother? | 22 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/kil78/nerds_and_gamers_of_twox_can_you_offer_some/ |
itsgonnabealongtime | 2021-02-15 05:39:58 | 1,613,367,598 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | lk6te8 | true | null | 124 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/lk6te8/sex_anxiety/ | 50 | Hi everyone. First post here. I'm 42f and very recently started OLD. To give a quick background of where I'm coming from, I have been with only one man, before we separated and divorced. Looking back, I had what people call dead bedroom. I didn't know that term until very end tail of my marriage. That said, I recently ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Sex Anxiety | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/lk6te8/sex_anxiety/ |
QueueTee314 | 2020-11-28 20:17:45 | 1,606,594,665 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | k2usra | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/k2usra/all_of_my_dates_have_gone_into_the_final_phase_of/ | 18 | Recently, I decided to dedicate more time on a serious relationship, since I started to have more free time. Through Hinge, I have matched with quite a number of girls and while the dates tend to go OK/nice (from my perspectives, at least), I got deported into friendzones either immediately after the first date, or thr... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | All of my dates have gone into the final phase of "You are truly special/kind/nice, but for me there was more of a friend vibe." What could I do to change that? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/k2usra/all_of_my_dates_have_gone_into_the_final_phase_of/ |
ashleymeaddison | 2017-02-06 06:26:58 | 1,486,362,418 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 5scoyl | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5scoyl/nsa_girls_for_dating_free_meet_women_for_one/ | 0 | Find NSA dating girls for sex hookup. NSA relationship with hot and sexy girls in your local area. How call for sex in your local area. Meet girls for casual sex and one night stand at Online xDate to find lady for sex, love and casual fun tonight and call online dating is a right way to find your perfect match. Some s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | NSA Girls for Dating Free Meet Women For One NIght Stans | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5scoyl/nsa_girls_for_dating_free_meet_women_for_one/ |
Melimelo3220 | 2023-09-26 16:01:54 | 1,695,744,114 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16srxsd | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16srxsd/guy_im_seeing_went_away_for_a_week_and_hasnt/ | 1 | I met this cute guy on a dating app and we instantly clicked, I’ve never met someone like him who share the same personality as mine, we’ve been seeing each other for a whole month, around 4 dates… he is 34 years old, he went to San Diego for vacations, he seemed very interested in me, texting me everyday and even send... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy I’m seeing went away for a week and hasn’t replied to my messages | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16srxsd/guy_im_seeing_went_away_for_a_week_and_hasnt/ |
Mobile_Parfait5532 | 2023-11-09 18:29:22 | 1,699,554,562 | 0 | null | 0 | 17rjk19 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17rjk19/i_dont_like_the_banterperformative_messages_am_i/ | 3 | 34F here, I am trying to genuinely get to know men but it seems pretty hard to find people who want to have a normal conversation. I am talking to a guy on an app right now and he keeps saying things like "is that your passion or is there something else your hiding?" I like to sail and he also said something "I'll only... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I dont like the banter/performative messages. Am I being too picky? | 3 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17rjk19/i_dont_like_the_banterperformative_messages_am_i/ |
ViJackie | 2023-05-09 03:35:41 | 1,683,603,341 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 13ce8v0 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 37 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13ce8v0/nyc_dating_and_our_generation_doomed/ | 43 | &x200B; This generation is absolutely suffering in the social and dating scene, and I feel like in NYC it's abysmal 1. Loneliness epidemic 2. Social media is socially ruining our lives 3. Every 20-something year old in NYC has their thumb in their ass. What I mean by this is they don't even have a quarter of their life... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | NYC Dating and Our Generation Doomed? | 43 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13ce8v0/nyc_dating_and_our_generation_doomed/ |
wew5450 | 2018-09-24 15:12:53 | 1,537,801,973 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 9iir0v | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9iir0v/looking_for_advice_on_a_confusing_situation/ | 1 | So a couple weeks ago I(22M) met up with a friend of mine to catch up on life and just have a good time, well about an hour into talking to my friend her friend (F29) shows up, and we hit it off pretty well, we had a great night. We talked for hours, and I ended up giving her a ride home and got a number. I wasn't enti... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Looking for advice on a confusing situation | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9iir0v/looking_for_advice_on_a_confusing_situation/ |
Human-Werewolf7124 | 2024-09-05 16:03:24 | 1,725,552,204 | 0 | ['swiping'] | 0 | 1f9q2sx | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f9q2sx/if_being_single_is_the_solution_why_even_bother/ | 0 | Hi everyone I (27 male) will give you a bit of context. I started dating early in my twenties with no prior sexual/romantical experiences. I had few cool experiences. But honestly, it wasnt worth all the bullshit that came with it. Like the ghosting, lying, being choked on dates, swiping everyday for 6 months to only h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If being single is the solution, why even bother with dating? | 0 | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f9q2sx/if_being_single_is_the_solution_why_even_bother/ |
no_ideology | 2020-04-18 18:23:25 | 1,587,234,205 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | g3s9z0 | true | Venting | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g3s9z0/too_late/ | 5 | Okay, I've been single for two years spending way too much time on dating apps. Tried foreveralonedating, a few weeks ago. The only thing I can find is Friend-Zone Girl. Then a few days ago, an ex addict led me on a little bit telling me she was open to adoption, and surrogacy. Today she changed her mind because she fo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Too late? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g3s9z0/too_late/ |
TheDonFather | 2016-09-01 19:28:10 | 1,472,758,090 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 50p1jy | null | null | 71 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/50p1jy/how_do_you_take_pictures_of_yourself_without/ | 89 | First off, sorry if this a repost. I tried searching this on reddit but no results up came up in the search bar. So I want to make a tinder account but I don't have any pictures of myself. When I go out I always go out by myself so I don't have anyone to take pictures (ask a stranger?) Do you guys just take selfies or ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do you take pictures of yourself without looking like a prick? | 89 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/50p1jy/how_do_you_take_pictures_of_yourself_without/ |
whtvrhappenshppns | 2024-08-17 20:45:53 | 1,723,927,553 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1eurkc4 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1eurkc4/ex_refusing_break_up/ | 1 | i f(21) have recently broken up with my m(25) of 2 years as i found out he downloaded a dating app. he says that he did not swipe on anyone and downloaded it immediately, but for me the disrespect of downloading the app was enough to leave. There were also many other red flags in the relationship that led me to this de... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | ex refusing break up? | 1 | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1eurkc4/ex_refusing_break_up/ |
Much_Machine8726 | 2023-12-03 22:18:45 | 1,701,641,925 | 0 | null | 0 | 18a513c | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18a513c/matched_and_then_unmatched/ | 5 | Kinda feel defeated and disappointed honestly. If they weren't interested in me then why swipe right at all? I might take a break or leave these apps all together because the majority of people using them feel incredibly fake honestly. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Matched and then unmatched | 5 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18a513c/matched_and_then_unmatched/ |
peterpoyas825 | 2024-09-22 03:05:42 | 1,726,974,342 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fmjq1e | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fmjq1e/was_this_a_sht_test_or_do_i_need_to_change_my/ | 48 | I matched with a woman on tinder and we started a conversation. I asked her at somepoint if she would be comfortable with a dinner date and she said yes, as long as we got to know each other which made sense to me. We started texting back and forth, and on Tuesday she didn't respond to my text. I figured that meant she... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Was this a sht test, or do I need to change my approach? | 48 | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fmjq1e/was_this_a_sht_test_or_do_i_need_to_change_my/ |
IceBubbles50 | 2018-12-10 22:40:03 | 1,544,481,603 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | a50nxo | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/a50nxo/how_much_do_you_lower_your_standards_for_online/ | 4 | Do you believe you have to lower your standards from IRL dating to Online? It is very obvious women get far better treatment online compared to men. Men basically spam the like or swipe right or whatever key while women can be more selective. As a result, do you think men have to lower their standards? I am a pretty bi... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How much do you lower your standards for online dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/a50nxo/how_much_do_you_lower_your_standards_for_online/ |
[deleted] | 2021-01-09 07:42:04 | 1,610,178,124 | null | null | 0 | ktmm73 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ktmm73/18female_single_hmu/ | 0 | Looking to chat hmu Skylertiffany 👻 My bday is today the 9th | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 18[female] single HMU | null | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ktmm73/18female_single_hmu/ |
Weary-Relationship17 | 2023-11-28 20:34:08 | 1,701,203,648 | 0 | null | 0 | 1865yl7 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1865yl7/would_you_date_someone_youve_dated_in_the_past/ | 4 | We all know people date other people, it's the way of the world. People like to keep their options open, and sometime you're not someone's first choice, or even their second or third. If you were dating someone and they ended things with you because they felt more serious about someone else, and then it didn't work out... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Would you date someone you've dated in the past who ended things with you because they were seeing someone else? | 4 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1865yl7/would_you_date_someone_youve_dated_in_the_past/ |
SvenUwesson | 2022-05-29 10:05:50 | 1,653,818,750 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | v0831e | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v0831e/did_i_blow_it/ | 2 | I (22m) met a girl on tinder. Since we both like gaming, our first "date" if you can even call it that was playing valorant while talking over discord. We had a really good time and she later invited me to play a round together with her friends. She works in surgery so we mostly only text at the evening after her shift... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did i blow it? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v0831e/did_i_blow_it/ |
YayStarWars | 2021-05-22 11:51:24 | 1,621,684,284 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | nigxy0 | true | I Need Advice | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nigxy0/would_any_females_be_interested_in_giving_advice/ | 0 | Hey :) I had a photoshoot done recently and made a shortlist of the top photos, but I can't decide which ones are the best for my online dating profile. Would any females be able to help me out? If so, just reply and I'll link you the photos (not sure if links are allowed on here) Thanks :) | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Would Any Females Be Interested In giving Advice On My Dating Photos? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nigxy0/would_any_females_be_interested_in_giving_advice/ |
MilkieMan | 2023-04-14 21:19:55 | 1,681,507,195 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 12mdujm | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12mdujm/how_do_i_find_someone_for_me_m20/ | 2 | Where can I meet people that are interested in dating? as a younger guy and as someone who cant go to a bar what do I do to meet people? Any advice? I've been trying, flirting, texting I've tried tinder, bumble the likes. No matches, no responses, being ghosted irl. Is everything today really about appearance? I get ev... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I find someone for me? M20 | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12mdujm/how_do_i_find_someone_for_me_m20/ |
BlueB12345 | 2020-08-09 03:36:56 | 1,596,944,216 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | i6cp49 | true | Venting | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/i6cp49/i_envy_those_around_me_who_can_get_laid_easily/ | 5 | I had this friend and I’m the years I have known him he has banged at least 50 women. Another friend matched with this woman on a dating app and within a few hours of talking she’s willing to drive 2 hours to meet with him. I envy people like that. I get laid once every 2-3 years. I’m on a 15 month dry spell. I have no... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I envy those around me who can get laid easily | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/i6cp49/i_envy_those_around_me_who_can_get_laid_easily/ |
Tobes_macgobes | 2020-09-08 01:19:54 | 1,599,527,994 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | iokcl9 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iokcl9/when_is_a_good_time_to_ask_what_someone_wants_on/ | 1 | So I (27M) have been on a handful of tinder dates, and most of the time things are unclear about what we want. Personally, I would like to find a serious relationship, but would be happy if the date turned into a fwb or one night stand. Is it better to ask the date in person, or through text before you meet what you’re... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When is a good time to ask what someone wants on a Tinder date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iokcl9/when_is_a_good_time_to_ask_what_someone_wants_on/ |
DeadsDesire | 2024-01-23 22:46:08 | 1,706,049,968 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 19e1fbl | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19e1fbl/finally_realized_why_i_have_never_had_a/ | 10 | I'm 28M, almost 29, and like the title says, I have finally realized why I have never been in a relationship all these years (not even close to one, really). I guess I'm just looking to see if anyone else has shared a similar experience, and what can be done about this. I'll start with college, I guess. I spent much of... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Finally realized why I have never had a relationship at almost 30. Dunno what to do about this. | 10 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19e1fbl/finally_realized_why_i_have_never_had_a/ |
TehHippieWizerd | 2024-04-10 23:02:14 | 1,712,790,134 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1c0zedb | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c0zedb/how_do_i_meet_people/ | 1 | I'm young and have been interested indating for awhilebut just never gad the time outsideof school, now that I'm not in school anymore I want to date but have no idea how to meet or talk to someone, and admittedly I'm scared of dating apps for the amount of horror stories I've heard about them. There are a few spots I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I meet people? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c0zedb/how_do_i_meet_people/ |
JamesJJJamesJJ | 2017-02-02 19:39:30 | 1,486,064,370 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5roxne | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5roxne/im_a_guy_who_gets_emotionally_attached_to_people/ | 10 | I recently got out of a long term relationship, and it was amazing, but they turned out to not be such a nice person. I miss being in a relationship, it was so comforting, there was always someone to talk to (I talked to them every day, either in person or text, for over a year). I've had a few random hookups, but like... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm a guy who gets emotionally attached to people so fast, how can I chill out? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5roxne/im_a_guy_who_gets_emotionally_attached_to_people/ |
Happy-Orchid1475 | 2024-05-28 01:09:00 | 1,716,858,540 | 0 | null | 0 | 1d27fak | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1d27fak/have_the_apps_died_off/ | 1 | I’ve recently tried hinge, and bumble (I refuse to use tinder) - and it feels like hardly anyone uses the apps anymore.. Like expected - you’d see the half assed profile, the profile with nothing of substance, people who don’t know how to converse, etc. It does feel as if people sort of gave up on them? This time last ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Have the Apps Died Off? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1d27fak/have_the_apps_died_off/ |
e0nflux | 2021-11-07 04:57:53 | 1,636,261,073 | null | ['dating apps', 'dating site', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | qohk5b | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qohk5b/do_women_use_dating_apps/ | 1 | I'm going to be re entering the dating game in the near future. The last dating site I used was okcupid , almost 10 years ago. I never really had any luck with it. I completely missed all of the apps. So I'm asking the women of reddit(18 to 35) , do you use tinder? , bumble? Hinge? What apps / sites are you on to look ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do women use dating apps? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qohk5b/do_women_use_dating_apps/ |
Ghostyfrosty32 | 2023-02-13 14:37:00 | 1,676,299,020 | null | null | 0 | 111a6r8 | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/111a6r8/dating_a_muslim_girl/ | 2 | As a non Muslim would you date a Muslim woman if you really liked her. And she said she will not have sex before marriage | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | dating a Muslim girl | null | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/111a6r8/dating_a_muslim_girl/ |
HeftyJohnson1982 | 2024-04-15 05:43:48 | 1,713,159,828 | 0 | null | 0 | 1c4enfd | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1c4enfd/cant_we_all_just_get_along/ | 1 | I mean really. Just call me, I wanna hear the real you. I'm bored of messages and texts. Be you 💛. I really don't even care what you look like tbh... I'm not here for love unless it completely consumes me, I love myself, and people love me, and so it goes. Is there a person who I can't be without? I don't know. I.... ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Can't we all just get along | 1 | 0.19 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c4enfd/cant_we_all_just_get_along/ |
Coastalist | 2019-07-20 21:27:03 | 1,563,658,023 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | cfr4cw | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cfr4cw/at_what_point_should_i_put_myself_back_out_there/ | 1 | I'm a 22 year old guy working in retail for £15,000 a year (I've only recently managed to go full time), which if you're not from the UK - isn't really a whole ton of money. I've been telling myself I shouldn't date until I get out of retail and make about £22,000 a year - enough to run a car and live comfortably by my... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | At what point should I put myself back out there? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cfr4cw/at_what_point_should_i_put_myself_back_out_there/ |
pool2349 | 2023-07-17 07:12:45 | 1,689,577,965 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 151un2m | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/151un2m/toxic_situation_virgin_woman_and_promiscuous_man/ | 1 | Im almost 30. and Have dated and get a lot of attention from men. not to be conceited but I am very pretty when I dress up. But I realized last year that I am Demi-sexual. I can't feel sexual feelings or desires for someone unless I feel a connection with them. And it takes me a long time. I avoided men for some time n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Toxic situation: Virgin woman and promiscuous man. Need advice? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/151un2m/toxic_situation_virgin_woman_and_promiscuous_man/ |
amsterbethh | 2021-10-17 21:54:30 | 1,634,507,670 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | qa8mzw | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qa8mzw/not_sure_if_this_is_the_right_subreddit_for_this/ | 3 | Hi. So a few weeks ago I matched with this guy on tinder. I am 19 F hes 24 M. We went out and had a great first date. After that we hung out almost everyday and had spent multiple nights together. I even met his cousin and his cousins family. He is/was currently living with his ex-girlfriend but stated that she identif... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure if this is the right subreddit for this but I need advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qa8mzw/not_sure_if_this_is_the_right_subreddit_for_this/ |
Artistic-Piccolo5036 | 2024-02-24 13:09:03 | 1,708,780,143 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ayu5gm | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ayu5gm/i_18mgay_find_romance_a_nightmare/ | 1 | I’ve always waited for someone I love before sleeping with someone (hasn’t happend yet), never been in a relationship before. But on instagram I always see people enjoying their romance and looking so free in how they approach others. I don’t feel free at all, if I like somebody I never approach them cause I’m scared t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (18/m/gay) find romance a nightmare | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ayu5gm/i_18mgay_find_romance_a_nightmare/ |
_Pato-Koruna | 2023-04-05 13:26:18 | 1,680,701,178 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 12ckbvr | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12ckbvr/tinder_girl_no_match_but_she_had_there_her_ig_name/ | 0 | What to write to a girl on Instagram? I saw her IG name on her Tinder profile and I don't know what to write to her? I don't know if we have something in common. I want write to her something interesting and original. And we didn't have match there. What are your suggestions? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder girl. No match but she had there her IG name. | 0 | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12ckbvr/tinder_girl_no_match_but_she_had_there_her_ig_name/ |
TheDayManAhAhAh | 2023-02-05 21:22:17 | 1,675,632,137 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 10unx80 | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/10unx80/how_to_be_more_confident_approaching_women_in/ | 1 | 26m. Taking some time off from the dating apps and I need to learn how to approach women in public (social settings, anyway - bars, etc). When I do this I always feel like I’m making the girl uncomfortable. I think a big part of this is I have no idea what to say. Do I just say “Hey my name is blank, how are you?” To m... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How to be more confident approaching women in public settings? | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/10unx80/how_to_be_more_confident_approaching_women_in/ |
2x2cats | 2018-09-17 05:01:04 | 1,537,160,464 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 9ghheb | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/9ghheb/i_seem_to_be_everyones_backup_plan/ | 2 | I am 34 years old, and have suffered from and been treated for depression for the past 20 years. I’ve had many people leave my life, both to death and to disagreements, one of which led my father’s family deserting me after he died when I was in junior high. Because of my past, I tend to hold on to people in my life so... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I seem to be everyone's backup plan | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/9ghheb/i_seem_to_be_everyones_backup_plan/ |
sadnessbrown | 2024-06-24 16:26:54 | 1,719,246,414 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1dnhnx3 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dnhnx3/dating_someone_from_a_dating_site/ | 1 | Hi, I just wanted to vent here please help me out, I love him so much but idk. I was a streamer on a dating site, it’s an entertainment app you know mostly I was just talking shit. Then this guy came, he’s different but according to him he liked me already the first time that he saw me, he dropped me some gifts on my s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating someone from a dating site….. | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dnhnx3/dating_someone_from_a_dating_site/ |
BlissfullyNieve234 | 2024-02-24 20:47:24 | 1,708,807,644 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1az4x0b | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1az4x0b/dating_in_your_late_30s/ | 5 | 37F. I’ve been single for about 6 years now, my last relationship was long term, together for 10 years and engaged. It’s a crazy online dating world out there, the amount of avoidants I’ve been with/ attracting is a little disheartening. It’s crazy to me mostly men in their 40s as well. Do these people ever settle or w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating in your late 30s | 4 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1az4x0b/dating_in_your_late_30s/ |
floyd616 | 2020-10-02 01:06:08 | 1,601,600,768 | null | null | 0 | j3l8oo | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/j3l8oo/cmb_profile_critique/ | 2 | I (28M) started using CMB semi-recently and figured I'd ask you guys to critique my profile. I've gotten a few matches but I figured it wouldn't hurt to see if anyone thinks I should do anything different. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | CMB Profile Critique | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/j3l8oo/cmb_profile_critique/ |
[deleted] | 2014-06-21 19:07:34 | 1,403,377,654 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 28qnq6 | null | null | 19 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/28qnq6/any_guys_use_tinder_update/ | 8 | So I got Tinder and used it for about a week. In the first hour of swiping, I ran out of girls within a 50 mile radius. So after I switched to 100 miles I havent really run out of girls to swipe and probabmy swiped around 600 to 700 girls at least. (I had a lot of free time to just swipe) and I got maybe 15 matches, on... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Any guys use Tinder? [Update] | 8 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/28qnq6/any_guys_use_tinder_update/ |
Ancient-Leading | 2020-05-18 01:41:23 | 1,589,766,083 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | gls3k7 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/gls3k7/grief_and_covid_seeking_advice/ | 1 | I (35F) started seeing a guy (53M) about a year ago now...we met through OLD, and live about 6 hours apart. He initiated, even though we live in different areas. We agreed that we'd meet up if either of us were naturally in the area. I happened to be in his area, and let him know and he arranged a time for us to meet. ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Grief and COVID seeking advice | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/gls3k7/grief_and_covid_seeking_advice/ |
Darkr0se111 | 2023-01-15 00:17:44 | 1,673,741,864 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 10c57ti | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/10c57ti/love_bombing/ | 29 | I recently connected with a man I met on Facebook Dating about 3 months ago. I've been going through a lonely phase in life these past few months and my vulnerability really showed. He made me feel like I was the most beautiful, special person in the world and I fell for his BS. We met a few times and I stayed over at ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Love Bombing | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/10c57ti/love_bombing/ |
MarySue2000 | 2024-09-08 21:00:10 | 1,725,829,210 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1fc85ud | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fc85ud/girl_keeps_turning_down_a_ride/ | 1 | Hey everyone, Ok, so this girl (25) and I (25) met on a dating app about a month ago and have been going out. Everything seems to be going well, we get along great, and things seem to be progressing pretty good. The one thing I'm a bit confused on how to approach is offering her a ride. On the first date, since we were... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl Keeps Turning Down A Ride? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fc85ud/girl_keeps_turning_down_a_ride/ |
tothemax2193 | 2015-07-08 17:26:56 | 1,436,376,416 | 0 | ['tinder', 'pof', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 3ckmwr | null | null | 31 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/3ckmwr/what_has_been_your_best_online_first_date_before/ | 15 | I've read so many horror stories everywhere about creepers, rapists, and other shit. But some of you guys are still on it, and it must be for a reason, right? What are some of the BETTER first dates you've been on that started with PoF, Tinder, Match, and OKCupid/etc.? EDIT: Weirdly phrased title. pls ignore | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | What has been your best online first date before? | 15 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3ckmwr/what_has_been_your_best_online_first_date_before/ |
Andalib_Odulate | 2021-04-12 02:52:55 | 1,618,195,975 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | mp5dw3 | true | Other | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mp5dw3/women_what_are_your_hints_and_how_do_you_want_to/ | 0 | It's super annoying but it's apparently the world we live in where a majority of women have to give men hints and not just be upfront like, "I really like you" or "I think you are attractive" or "Want to hang out" but whatever. So what are your hints. Secondly, as I am almost vaccinated and will be entering the work fo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Women, what are your "hints" and how do you want to be approached by men who are interested? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mp5dw3/women_what_are_your_hints_and_how_do_you_want_to/ |
nicksbrunchattiffany | 2022-02-28 17:54:44 | 1,646,070,884 | null | null | 0 | t3lgek | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/t3lgek/my_latest_experiences/ | 11 | Not necessarily here for advice, but more like support since I can’t share this with a lot of people. I’m back on online dating. It has been a shitshow Some men have accused me of being a whore for talking to more men or going on dates with others (within one day of talking) Some dates have not been great and really th... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | My latest experiences | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/t3lgek/my_latest_experiences/ |
LifeArson | 2021-06-30 02:12:43 | 1,625,019,163 | null | null | 0 | oan8bl | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/oan8bl/old_is_so_selfabsorbed/ | 3 | As guilty as anyone, here. Anyone have any tips on how to step outside your comfort zone and let other people in? I just keep finding myself thinking "ugh, this person is already exhausting to talk to. Why can't we just meet up and get drunk and see if there's chemistry in person? We don't have anything exciting in com... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | OLD is so Self-Absorbed | null | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/oan8bl/old_is_so_selfabsorbed/ |
teadrinker69 | 2018-12-01 06:29:17 | 1,543,645,757 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | a20qk7 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a20qk7/whats_the_worst_way_ever_that_you_found_out_you/ | 1 | Once I was dating this girl and she was always very sketchy about letting me see her phone, one day I told her to show me her phone and to let me see it myself because she did what she wanted with my phone whenever she wanted to make sure I wasn’t cheating but I go to check hers and sure enough I find the multiple dati... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What’s the worst way ever that you found out you were being cheated on? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a20qk7/whats_the_worst_way_ever_that_you_found_out_you/ |
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