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Efficient_Nobody_123 | 2022-10-20 00:31:23 | 1,666,225,883 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | y8j7km | true | null | 231 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/y8j7km/why_dont_guys_carry_on_convo_outside_of_dates/ | 221 | Honestly, was using dating apps for about two weeks, and had to tell a few people I am no longer interested, as they do not carry on any kind of conversation outside of dates. I try starting conversations first a few times, then wait to see if they will do the same if I don't start convo. Then I realize it is not going... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why don't guys carry on convo outside of dates? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y8j7km/why_dont_guys_carry_on_convo_outside_of_dates/ |
ComprehensivePage954 | 2024-09-13 04:11:35 | 1,726,200,695 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1fflzes | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fflzes/neeed_help_in_a_new_relationship/ | 1 | So I met this guy on hinge a month ago. And it’s going well. He has made efforts to meet. Has not shied away from discussions. I love all of it. The problem is that I think he is too good for me. Like he very well read. And I get so nervous about making a fool of myself around him that I can’t talk only. I am constantl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Neeed help in a new relationship. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fflzes/neeed_help_in_a_new_relationship/ |
Flat-Housing-1704 | 2023-11-01 08:26:44 | 1,698,827,204 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17l7glg | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17l7glg/she_complains_about_online_dating_red_flag/ | 1 | Met a girl off of a dating app, and she was talking about how "men are trash" and that most of her matches are "low quality men". I didn't really know what to say, she was just on a rant bashing men. And I was thinking to myself...."dang , you have thousands of matches and you are blaming all of them for your dating li... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | She complains about online dating. Red flag? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17l7glg/she_complains_about_online_dating_red_flag/ |
DifferentCarrot9920 | 2021-07-10 02:00:40 | 1,625,882,440 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | oh9ppx | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oh9ppx/first_date_in_6_years_this_weekend/ | 2 | I'm (26F) going on a date with someone (28M) for the first time in \6 years and I'm so nervous. I'm proud of myself for getting to this point and I'm excited to meet him in person as we met on Bumble, but I'm worried my anxiety and nerves will take over. Any tips for first dates? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date in 6 years this weekend | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oh9ppx/first_date_in_6_years_this_weekend/ |
greyymo | 2022-05-06 19:21:41 | 1,651,864,901 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ujv2kf | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ujv2kf/am_i_in_the_wrong_trying_to_set_boundaries_with_a/ | 1 | For context, I am a 21F and I believe he is a 22M. We met online through some of my mutual friends while playing league of legends. He has already cut me off in the past after an argument. I had asked if he had feelings for me because I was starting to get a bit uncomfortable/overwhelmed with his texts. As soon as I wo... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Am I in the wrong? (Trying to set boundaries with a male friend) | null | 0.55 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ujv2kf/am_i_in_the_wrong_trying_to_set_boundaries_with_a/ |
GlobalLifestyleLove | 2024-02-09 22:23:40 | 1,707,517,420 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1an0frp | true | Question ❓ | 44 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1an0frp/have_women_given_up_on_dating_apps/ | 16 | I have been running into more and more women who have completely grown tired and disinterested in dating apps. Most women I meet are demoralized after years of being on dating apps, andthese days have deleted their apps and wither given up on dating (men) all together, or have opted to meet meet organically, or using m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Have women given up on dating apps? | 16 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1an0frp/have_women_given_up_on_dating_apps/ |
pluto9659 | 2024-03-25 18:59:37 | 1,711,393,177 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bnlqoc | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bnlqoc/im_happy_with_myself_what_now/ | 1 | I’ve spent the better part of a year trying to get back on my feet after having my very toxic relationship fall apart and having the person I thought was the love of my life and my best friend reveal themselves to be less than I thought they were. It’s no exaggeration to say I wouldn’t still be here if it wasnt for fri... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m happy with myself, what now? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bnlqoc/im_happy_with_myself_what_now/ |
Litchick991 | 2018-02-07 00:34:19 | 1,517,963,659 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7vs49g | false | null | 62 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7vs49g/do_you_read_tinder_bios_or_just_swipe_for_pics/ | 5 | If you actually read the bio, what type of info are you looking for and why? Or why do you mainly judge by pics? Basically... what are you trying to gauge from the limited bio you’re presented with on Tinder? If someone has a blank bio, how does that affect their profile in your view? Just curious! | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Do you read Tinder bios or just swipe for pics? What do you want to see? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7vs49g/do_you_read_tinder_bios_or_just_swipe_for_pics/ |
phoenix208 | 2020-03-31 06:28:23 | 1,585,636,103 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | fs7vaq | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fs7vaq/girl_taking_too_long_to_reply_to_texts/ | 2 | Matched with this girl who I really like. She too seemed to like my sense of humor and it wasn’t long before we exchanged numbers. We had some good conversations over text and spoke on the phone once. Continued to text after that. However, it feels like I’m the one who is always texting first and waiting for her reply ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl taking too long to reply to texts | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fs7vaq/girl_taking_too_long_to_reply_to_texts/ |
Throwaway_Account40 | 2018-06-28 16:20:46 | 1,530,202,846 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 8ukxpk | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8ukxpk/is_sleeping_with_someone_else_after_one_date/ | 0 | Throwaway account for obvious reasons. I feel really guilty about what I did and I'm just looking for a general consensus. I've had one date with someone I met through online dating and I slept with someone else, is this cheating? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is sleeping with someone else after one date cheating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8ukxpk/is_sleeping_with_someone_else_after_one_date/ |
Baby-Heisenberg | 2022-11-17 12:19:58 | 1,668,687,598 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | yxotsk | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yxotsk/opportunity_hard_to_miss/ | 2 | So, i have this person whom I met on Tinder on last year. We started talking and we eventually became friends. Since last month we started seeing each other frequently, we hooked up couple of times and she travelled couple of hours to meet and spent her birthday with me. As we talked and agreed that we are evaluating e... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Opportunity hard to miss | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yxotsk/opportunity_hard_to_miss/ |
distantdreamerrr | 2020-01-08 19:26:25 | 1,578,511,585 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | elxguj | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/elxguj/cant_tell_if_hes_losing_interest_or_its_just_my/ | 6 | So about 2 months ago I (22F) met somebody(27M) on a dating app and we've been talking everyday since and been hanging out once a week . It's basically a relationship without a label at this point but neither of us have brought the subject up. It's been a really fun experience and I can tell I'm starting to really care... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can't tell if he's losing interest or it's just my paranoia :( | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/elxguj/cant_tell_if_hes_losing_interest_or_its_just_my/ |
Rando35Guy | 2021-07-31 19:08:25 | 1,627,758,505 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | ovd0jt | true | null | 74 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ovd0jt/35m_profile_review_request/ | 7 | Update: Thank you to everyone who responded I'm removing the link now because I think I have enough to go on. I got some really helpful advice and have some things to think about/work on. Using a throwaway so I don't doxx my main account. I messaged the mods to let them know as per the rules. So I haven't been getting ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | 35M Profile Review Request | null | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ovd0jt/35m_profile_review_request/ |
Unlikely-Goat-4871 | 2022-12-29 18:04:04 | 1,672,337,044 | null | null | 0 | zybt7r | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zybt7r/guy_wants_to_move_the_conversation_to_snapchat/ | 2 | I've had a very brief conversation with this guy and he wants to move our conversation to Snapchat. If it is really a conversation I'm fine with that, but I don't want unsolicited dick pics. I don't want to make any accusations if that wasn't his intention. Should I give him a chance and make it clear that I don't want... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guy wants to move the conversation to Snapchat | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zybt7r/guy_wants_to_move_the_conversation_to_snapchat/ |
Stammertime_91 | 2021-02-27 16:59:34 | 1,614,445,174 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | lts9qf | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lts9qf/i_know_another_ghosting_story_to_add_to_the_pile/ | 1 | Recently I matched with a girl on hinge the usual talking stage stuff Yada Yada, and we exchange numbers text for a day and then all the sudden I get unmatched on hinge the very next day and no reply. So I go about my life and all and get a text from her saying hey and I was so confused and she got upset that I replied... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I know another ghosting story to add to the pile but has anyone ever had this odd situation happen to them? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lts9qf/i_know_another_ghosting_story_to_add_to_the_pile/ |
WearyCommunication3 | 2019-04-11 02:24:19 | 1,554,949,459 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bburil | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bburil/need_general_advice_on_talking_to_a_girl_via_long/ | 1 | I (20M) knew this girl (19F) form when we were in high school but didn't really speak that much id say we were acquaintances. I ran into her on Tinder and sparked a conversation while i was back home from college and we started talking more. When i came back from college for spring break i ask her out and she said yes.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need general advice on talking to a girl via long distance. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bburil/need_general_advice_on_talking_to_a_girl_via_long/ |
DidntWantSleepAnyway | 2021-03-18 20:34:57 | 1,616,099,697 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | m801i9 | true | null | 107 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/m801i9/a_woman_in_france_was_declared_at_fault_in_a/ | 96 | Someone posted this article in r/worldnews, and the vast majority of the comments are agreeing that lack of sex constitutes grounds for a divorce. Many commenters say it’s grounds for a no-fault divorce, but far too many still agree that she’s at fault for “withholding” sex. I even read a comment referring to her refus... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | A woman in France was declared “at fault” in a divorce for not having sex with her husband. I’m frustrated with how many people are agreeing. | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/m801i9/a_woman_in_france_was_declared_at_fault_in_a/ |
windwarrior42 | 2016-10-23 22:17:56 | 1,477,261,076 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 591453 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/591453/okcupid_first_message/ | 0 | Hey Reddit, I [M22] just recently joined OKCupid and I get the sense that for me to have any success I need to reach out to a lot of different women. So for all of you who have used OKCupid, how to you normally start a conversation? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | OkCupid first message | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/591453/okcupid_first_message/ |
Prestigious_Act_166 | 2023-06-18 20:10:17 | 1,687,119,017 | 0 | null | 0 | 14ctted | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14ctted/awkward_dating/ | 12 | 36/f/straight/monogamous Why is dating still hard where the men in the dating pool are not looking for anything serious? I’ve never been married and I don’t have kids? I’ve even been solo for four years taking a break from even looking and the online dating scene has got worse. What gives? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Awkward Dating | 12 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14ctted/awkward_dating/ |
ApacheTomcat | 2015-12-29 21:16:37 | 1,451,423,797 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 3yp7zl | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3yp7zl/20m_in_need_of_some_advice/ | 2 | I'm a 20 year old male who lives in a very Rural state. Cows outnumber Humans 2-1. I do live in of the larger towns in my state so it's not like my next door neighbor is some 25 miles away from me or anything like that. You could probably compare my city to a suburbs of a larger city. Small mom and pop shops and many c... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [20M] In need of some advice. | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3yp7zl/20m_in_need_of_some_advice/ |
sun1079 | 2021-01-04 16:18:57 | 1,609,777,137 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | kqbvo3 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kqbvo3/a_good_way_to_get_men_to_talk_to_women_in_public/ | 0 | I've been on several dating sites and I get guys messaging me how beautiful I am and I just don't believe it cuz no one ever talk to me in public. I've asked several coworkers and they say I shouldn't have a problem finding a decent guy to date. So what I'm asking is what's a good way to get a man to talk to me in publ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A good way to get men to talk to women in public | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kqbvo3/a_good_way_to_get_men_to_talk_to_women_in_public/ |
ftopen_bar | 2019-11-02 19:06:50 | 1,572,721,610 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | dqos4i | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dqos4i/tinder_texting_issues/ | 1 | Hey despite I have been dating from tinder in the past now I feel myself in a blind spot regarding my first moves when I got a match. I have some matches from while (months) ago without making the first move. As an overthinking person I start thinking what to say, if it is awkward texting after month of matching and ot... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder texting issues | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dqos4i/tinder_texting_issues/ |
8877username | 2023-04-05 03:54:16 | 1,680,666,856 | 0 | null | 0 | 12c7itv | true | null | 75 | 2 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12c7itv/its_okay_that_im_married_right/ | 78 | I’m 26F and I have been struggling with OLD for forever. The town I live in is like 100k people, mostly retirees, I can’t move due to my job so I’m stuck here indefinitely. And somehow this town must be a magnet for poly couples. No shade if you can make it work go for it but the amount of times I’ve been on dates and ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | “It’s okay that I’m married right?” | 78 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12c7itv/its_okay_that_im_married_right/ |
Maniac1075 | 2022-03-21 00:19:23 | 1,647,821,963 | null | ['swiped', 'dating app'] | 0 | tiyvix | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tiyvix/some_helpful_advice_for_women_for_your_dating/ | 2 | 1. Do not use any filters. You have no idea how much of a turn off that is. Your friends might tell you it's cute, but it is not to trying to attract someone. For starters, you won't be able to filter your face in the real world, and secondly it's a form of lying, and showing you are a very insecure person. Even if the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Some helpful advice for women for your dating profile. Especially the pics you choose. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tiyvix/some_helpful_advice_for_women_for_your_dating/ |
NikeTennis13 | 2024-05-16 19:22:31 | 1,715,887,351 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ctl9f1 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ctl9f1/f_boy_vibes/ | 1 | Hey all, how can I make it look like I’m not an F boy? I went out with girl last night that was pretty and she said wow I didn’t expect you to be the way you are. Your profile makes you look like an F boy. She liked way I acted- I was kinda nervous and a nice guy. It really irritates me bc I feel a lot of girls get vib... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | F boy vibes? | 1 | 0.47 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ctl9f1/f_boy_vibes/ |
Appropriate_Tea9048 | 2023-06-26 22:05:50 | 1,687,817,150 | 0 | null | 0 | 14juutp | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14juutp/pretty_sure_im_getting_stood_up/ | 4 | I haven’t heard from this guy in a few days and we were supposed to have a date today. We hadn’t been talking a ton, but it was once a day until now. Our conversations have been on Snapchat and he’s clearly been active on it. He never responded to my message in Friday so I figured he was busy Yesterday I messaged him a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Pretty sure I’m getting stood up | 4 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14juutp/pretty_sure_im_getting_stood_up/ |
MalePenguin551 | 2020-01-25 08:01:51 | 1,579,939,311 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | eto2of | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/eto2of/advice_needed_on_the_coming_of_a_first_date/ | 2 | Hey, I’m a 21[M] year old student who’s about to go on his first- first date since going through a horrible breakup with a girlfriend of 3 years, about 3 years ago, a toxic relationship that ruined me and completely tore my heart to pieces. Sorry that was confusing, essentially broke up 3 years ago and haven’t been on ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice needed on the coming of a first date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eto2of/advice_needed_on_the_coming_of_a_first_date/ |
MalikTheScot | 2017-03-27 21:41:27 | 1,490,650,887 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 61v5xm | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating/comments/61v5xm/apparently_i_suck_irl_or_something_your_opinion/ | 2 | So. I met two girls in the past two weeks (On Tinder). One of which I had been texting for two days, and seemed eager to talk to me, made conversation, replied quickly and everything. And then we met for a drink and talked for like 3 hours. Then afterwards, and it's been a week now, we've been talking kinda sporadicall... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Apparently I suck IRL or something. Your opinion, girls? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/61v5xm/apparently_i_suck_irl_or_something_your_opinion/ |
Pupperochini | 2021-10-03 15:01:36 | 1,633,273,296 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | q0jguk | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/q0jguk/sa_storylines_in_fiction/ | 54 | I just started reading The Queen's Gambit (I have not seen the show) and about 20 pages in the the author decides to insert a storyline about the 8 YEAR OLD CHILD being sexual assaulted by a fellow orphanage member. I was so disgusted I quit reading the book. I read a variety of books and so often when there is a femal... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | SA storylines in fiction | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/q0jguk/sa_storylines_in_fiction/ |
Lingo-7 | 2024-05-12 03:13:29 | 1,715,483,609 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cpydi3 | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1cpydi3/howwhere_people_are_finding_their_dates/ | 1 | People saying all dating apps are useless, don’t even try to use those apps and waste time on it etc. Then where in the world they are finding their dates? Do they openly go and talk to random person and in return they are having a conversation? But then how they got to know that is he/she is single or not? And if they... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How/Where people are finding their dates ? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cpydi3/howwhere_people_are_finding_their_dates/ |
[deleted] | 2020-05-22 05:48:12 | 1,590,126,492 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | godl75 | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/godl75/i_need_advice_im_romantically_bored_but_i_have/ | 2 | So... I'm used to always having something going on in my love life. I'm either dating someone, crushing on someone, someone's crushing on me, etc. When quarantine started, I was talking to someone but that fell apart pretty quickly. At first I was crushed, but now I'm just bored. I'm so used to the thrill of having a c... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I need advice... I'm romantically bored, but I have some qualms about online dating. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/godl75/i_need_advice_im_romantically_bored_but_i_have/ |
Laflo009 | 2023-04-23 03:55:52 | 1,682,222,152 | 0 | ['dating platforms', 'hinge'] | 0 | 12vupqv | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12vupqv/reading_too_much_into_things/ | 1 | I (32f) have been single for going on two years now. I was previously in an abusive relationship and was not interested in romantically dating or letting anyone into my life. I did a lot of inner work, was in therapy for 9 months, and have been enjoying my life and getting back to myself. I know I won't be the same per... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Reading too much into things? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12vupqv/reading_too_much_into_things/ |
flatlittleoniondome | 2020-12-14 04:29:47 | 1,607,920,187 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | kcqkov | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kcqkov/phone_call_before_arranging_a_first_date/ | 1 | What kinds of questions do you normally ask or subjects do you bring up when you talk to someone on the phone as a sort of “screening” tool? I haven’t been on a first “date” in over a year, and the last time I agreed to meet up with someone from a dating app we didn’t talk on the phone beforehand; I feel like if we had... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Phone call before arranging a first date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kcqkov/phone_call_before_arranging_a_first_date/ |
CaptainLeninist | 2024-04-15 09:59:39 | 1,713,175,179 | 0 | null | 0 | 1c4ie96 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1c4ie96/so_is_there_any_online_dating_that_actually_works/ | 3 | What it says in the title. 22M (soon to be 23) here, and I've been moving through multiple online dating sites for the past several years since I turned 18. I can count the nymber of people I've talked to on there on one hand and not once has it ked to ajything other than a couple messages before they vanish forever. I... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | So is there any online dating that actually works or is the whole concept just a scam? | 3 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c4ie96/so_is_there_any_online_dating_that_actually_works/ |
Safe-Palpitation1624 | 2024-05-10 12:20:51 | 1,715,343,651 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1coo87a | true | null | 277 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1coo87a/what_kind_of_places_do_you_attend_to_meet_new/ | 126 | Not into bars/clubs. For context, 33F and meeting a potential person just seems to be getting harder. Not the online dating type of person either. Throw your ideas out please | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What kind of places do you attend to meet new people? | 126 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1coo87a/what_kind_of_places_do_you_attend_to_meet_new/ |
ethanschild | 2023-06-28 15:04:58 | 1,687,964,698 | 0 | ['swiping'] | 0 | 14lbxux | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14lbxux/dating_burnout/ | 1 | I'm a 29 yr old male, been single my whole life. I used to feel bad about being single, but over the last two years I've gotten over that. I like my independence. Over the last seven years, I've felt at times I've gone on dates to make others happy, not myself. About two years ago, I started to feel some dating burnout... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating Burnout | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14lbxux/dating_burnout/ |
deathgivers | 2022-11-13 22:44:44 | 1,668,379,484 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | yuh641 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/yuh641/how_to_deal_with_rude_seniors_when_vending_at_the/ | 0 | Hello. I sell trading cards at a flea market, and every time i go i at minimum get 4-5 men over the age of 60 who need to lecture, ask questions, question my prices, or just make rude remarks such as "having fun with your toys? I collect grown things like cars" I am at the point where I avoid eye contact but i find it ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How to deal with rude seniors when vending at the flea market? | null | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/yuh641/how_to_deal_with_rude_seniors_when_vending_at_the/ |
jackslate246 | 2019-02-12 12:57:05 | 1,549,976,225 | null | ['matched', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | apt21z | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/apt21z/initial_match_to_first_date_prompt/ | 5 | How long do you wait to ask someone out on a date after the initial match using something like Bumble/Tinder/CMB? I've been struggling to find a good balance of initial conversation to gauge interest, to then lead into a drink date. Do you usually give it a few messages to see if there is a solid communication basis, o... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Initial Match to First Date Prompt | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/apt21z/initial_match_to_first_date_prompt/ |
yuckyblucky197 | 2024-02-08 13:54:58 | 1,707,400,498 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1alw82v | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1alw82v/should_i_keep_entertaining_this_guy/ | 1 | I’ll be honest, I haven’t had sex in a while. I’m horny & he is very attractive. I sort of just want someone to sleep with and nothing more, but this man appears to be strange and I wonder if it’s worth me entertaining this further. We matched on hinge and his profile indicated that he was very religious, so I was bit ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Should I keep entertaining this guy? | 1 | 0.21 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1alw82v/should_i_keep_entertaining_this_guy/ |
Greenphoenix94 | 2019-10-24 11:48:47 | 1,571,917,727 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | dmf954 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dmf954/gay_dating_in_a_small_town/ | 1 | So I'm a gay male (19), and I've ran into a few problems in the dating scene. Firstly I live in a very small town in Missouri which I pretty much culturally interconnected by the surrounding small towns. Not very many gay men live here, especially ones within my preferred age range. I feel like I've lost the lottery of... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Gay Dating in a small town | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dmf954/gay_dating_in_a_small_town/ |
Holiday_Card7594 | 2024-05-22 00:26:41 | 1,716,337,601 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1cxn944 | true | null | 311 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cxn944/bf_said_too_good_looking_girls_have_shtty/ | 166 | So, I've been dating this guy for the last 7 months. We were very much in love I thought, I met his parents, we always spend time together etc. I was looking at his photo album one day and there were his classmates from high school. He pointed out one girl and said "everyone found this girl so hot, she was hot but just... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Bf said too good looking girls have shtty personalities, thats why he is with me... | 166 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cxn944/bf_said_too_good_looking_girls_have_shtty/ |
BrilliantBuddy8925 | 2024-07-09 02:46:37 | 1,720,493,197 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dyrnjt | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dyrnjt/how_do_you_meet_someone_today/ | 1 | Hey guys. I’m a 30 year old , in shape , good looking guy. I don’t think I’m model material necessarily, but I was always told I was cute. I’m generally funny and have a solid personality. Basically , I used to never have a problem meeting girls, in fact, I was rather good at it from ages 20-26. Anyway, I’ve been tryin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you meet someone today | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dyrnjt/how_do_you_meet_someone_today/ |
[deleted] | 2012-12-27 12:43:40 | 1,356,612,220 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 15imdd | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/15imdd/i_have_a_crush_on_my_friend_and_want_to_make_a/ | 1 | We actually met on a dating site and went on a few dates, but at that time he met another girl he wanted to date more seriously, so we parted ways. I started dating another guy as well (although it only lasted a few months) but we kept in touch - mostly chatting online, just casual 'Hey, how's it going?' type conversat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have a crush on my friend and want to make a move... but should I? [24F and 25M] | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15imdd/i_have_a_crush_on_my_friend_and_want_to_make_a/ |
cowboyontherun234 | 2021-06-23 07:32:22 | 1,624,433,542 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | o67zvm | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o67zvm/guy_i_went_on_one_date_with_takes_forever_to_reply/ | 1 | Hey guys. so I met this guy on a dating app, and we met up on a date. I noticed he was VERY slow to reply to texts (1-2 days) before the date but I brushed it off. So I went on a date with this guy about a month ago, it went well. We both said we wanted to go on another date. We have been texting etc. However I told hi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy I went on one date with takes forever to reply. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o67zvm/guy_i_went_on_one_date_with_takes_forever_to_reply/ |
trunkrider94 | 2023-01-05 08:07:44 | 1,672,906,064 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 103thng | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/103thng/dating_with_autism/ | 2 | I was diagnosed with Asperger's at childhood, I didn't have any friends as a kid and always looked ugly, never held a solid relationship for most of high school. Now I'm in college with a stable job, I started taking better care of myself because I live alone. For the past couple months people have been telling me that... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating with autism | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/103thng/dating_with_autism/ |
SomeReaction4268 | 2024-09-20 19:47:38 | 1,726,861,658 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1flksxa | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1flksxa/is_it_worth_it_where_to_find_a_good_one/ | 1 | I’m a newly single (3 months) F and I’m 31. I can’t help but feel like my time is running out to find the person I want to settle down and have a family with. I know my fear is a bit unrealistic but my question is this. Where are looking for or trying to meet potential matches? Is there still hope on the dating apps? A... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it worth it? Where to find a good one? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1flksxa/is_it_worth_it_where_to_find_a_good_one/ |
Catladywithplants | 2024-06-22 17:47:33 | 1,719,078,453 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1dm187z | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dm187z/asian_women/ | 1 | Guys, I'm kinda old (mid-30s). I didn't date for a long time after I split with my common-law partner of many years. I've been doing online dating for 8 months and I am shocked by my experience. Since when did the whole world want Asian women??? All races of equal measure have shown interest in me. When I was in high s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Asian women! | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dm187z/asian_women/ |
DynamicSquirrel | 2023-10-19 07:26:57 | 1,697,700,417 | 0 | ['matches', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 17bder9 | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/17bder9/facebook_dating_success/ | 8 | Has anyone had any success with Facebook dating? I get a lot of matches and women that reach out to me a lot but as soon as I respond, 90% of my matches seem uninterested and unengaged. Lots of one word answers to my questions and conversations that go nowhere. I don’t get it, why reach out initially if you aren’t inte... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Facebook dating success? | 8 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17bder9/facebook_dating_success/ |
PerfectlyNormalOlive | 2020-10-12 01:09:05 | 1,602,464,945 | null | null | 0 | j9hfxm | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/j9hfxm/covid_safe_activities_for_2nd_dates_and_beyond/ | 3 | The First date is easy for me, Talk about life, eat some good food, go for a walk. NBD But what do we do on 2nd and 3rd dates? talking is great but after 2-3 hours it feels like we are ready to move onto something else. I find myself not knowing what to do. Pre-covid we might go out on the town, cook together inside or... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Covid safe Activities for 2nd dates and beyond? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/j9hfxm/covid_safe_activities_for_2nd_dates_and_beyond/ |
LeGrandMAG | 2024-01-15 00:42:01 | 1,705,279,321 | 0 | ['matched', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 196vc1f | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/196vc1f/i_am_having_mixed_signals_should_i_move_on/ | 1 | I am pretty new to the dating world, and I've never officially dated someone before. A month ago, I (26m) matched with a girl (29f) on Facebook Dating. We chatted a little bit there, and I sent her my WhatsApp. After a few days, she texted me, and we started talking more often. But the only problem is she lives 7 hours... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am having mixed signals should I move on ? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/196vc1f/i_am_having_mixed_signals_should_i_move_on/ |
Shot_Judgment3627 | 2024-02-03 10:23:45 | 1,706,955,825 | 0 | null | 0 | 1aht4ul | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1aht4ul/is_this_a_red_flag/ | 12 | I (27f) matched with a guy on bumble and we decided to meet yesterday! An hour before the decided time to meet, he messages that he’s still at work & would like to meet at 10:30 I was really excited to meet him and was really disappointed as I don’t really want to meet a stranger this late at night After showing him so... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | is this a red flag? | 12 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1aht4ul/is_this_a_red_flag/ |
R3QUI3MS | 2021-11-30 00:34:32 | 1,638,232,472 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | r5a3h5 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/r5a3h5/been_dating_her_for_2_months_found_out_she_has/ | 5 | I met this girl 2 months ago on Bumble, we've been on date probably about 10 times already and I even met her dad and sister. She opened up to me a week ago saying she has BPD/ADHD and how the guy she dated before me for a month love bombed her and used her. When we're together she always seems genuinely interested in ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Been dating her for 2 months, found out she has BPD/ADHD and never sure about her feelings | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r5a3h5/been_dating_her_for_2_months_found_out_she_has/ |
TheRosebud1229 | 2020-11-05 05:07:13 | 1,604,552,833 | null | null | 0 | jocwkr | true | null | 13 | 1 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/jocwkr/is_it_okay_to_block_someone_if_they_just_seem/ | 2 | Background: So I stopped onl durning this pandemic Bc I just got tired of it Bc a lot of the guys I’ve met seem to be dating Bc they are lonely not Bc they want a relationship. So randomly out of the blue this guy I haven’t talked to in months msgs me and I texted him for like a week and even before we really started t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is it okay to block someone if they just seem like they just want a hook up? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/jocwkr/is_it_okay_to_block_someone_if_they_just_seem/ |
Tgiby3 | 2021-03-31 15:13:12 | 1,617,203,592 | null | null | 0 | mh8990 | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mh8990/paid_services/ | 5 | So, the internet has a consensus that if you wanna pay for dating apps, that eharmony and match are the way to go. But then suggest you use tinder / okc / hinge / bumble for free. But, they all just constantly nag you for microtransactions. Im gonna use OKC as the main example, as it has changed a lot over the years. O... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Paid services | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mh8990/paid_services/ |
Difficult_Map_9762 | 2024-07-19 15:29:49 | 1,721,402,989 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1e76il3 | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e76il3/attempting_to_meet_women_but_it_would_just_be_me/ | 2 | I live in a fairly large city but there's really not much going on, sort of a boring place. Have some friends but they are all married so....how in the world do you go about trying to date by yourself? As in, it's just me trying to meet women. Just feels/seems odd to show up by myself somewhere in the hopes of that. No... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Attempting to meet women but it would just be me going out | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e76il3/attempting_to_meet_women_but_it_would_just_be_me/ |
thevirtualgetaway | 2021-05-02 01:30:48 | 1,619,919,048 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | n2w9ug | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/n2w9ug/is_there_a_single_good_dating_site_thats_free/ | 5 | Basically the title. I just wanna find a good app or site to use for this kind of thing (serious stuff not sex) and I have had great experiences with these kind of sites before but those sites are now garbo. So, where can I get back into this kind of thing? I would go out IRL but I'm not vaccinated and I would have to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is there a single good dating site that's free? Like, completely? I have had relationships that went reasonably well from dating sites but those sites have been overrun with fake girls and prostitutes and onlyfans promoters. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/n2w9ug/is_there_a_single_good_dating_site_thats_free/ |
RhinoStart838 | 2024-07-17 02:59:21 | 1,721,185,161 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1e57md5 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e57md5/how_to_not_let_dating_app_failure_get_to_you/ | 2 | Everyone knows the dating app landscape is terrible. But how do you not let stacking failure affect your view of yourself? I have been on a particularly brutal streak, and as on overanalyzer, I am always trying to figure out why. Of course it’s a relatively fruitless effort. I get fairly steady matches, but only about ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to not let dating app failure get to you? | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e57md5/how_to_not_let_dating_app_failure_get_to_you/ |
tybedrosian | 2020-06-07 10:57:06 | 1,591,527,426 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | gya8c8 | true | null | 50 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gya8c8/this_might_be_a_stupid_question_but_is_there_a/ | 60 | Is there a site that makes it less intimidating, and just more welcoming or casual? I'm just curious | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | This might be a stupid question but is there a dating site for adults who've never been on a date ever before or are virgins? | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gya8c8/this_might_be_a_stupid_question_but_is_there_a/ |
PeppermintLNNS | 2020-08-20 05:04:00 | 1,597,899,840 | null | ['swiping', 'OLD', 'dating apps'] | 0 | id44me | true | Giving Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/id44me/finally_reallocating_all_that_time_i_spent_swiping/ | 8 | It seems miraculous that I [31 F] met someone [28 M] during this pandemic, but it happened And I’m so stoked to have deleted the dating apps that I was admittedly addicted to. But what’s really blown me away is how much time I have back. I was spending so many hours each week endlessly swiping. Now, instead, I’m learni... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Finally re-allocating all that time I spent swiping | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/id44me/finally_reallocating_all_that_time_i_spent_swiping/ |
0Lovelikewaves0 | 2020-08-15 19:39:56 | 1,597,520,396 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | iadxy7 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iadxy7/talk_to_me_about_online_dating/ | 2 | Hi! So, I realise online dating is big in America and the norm among most ages but, how about my fellow Brits? I'm in my mid 30s and honestly, I don't get that many opportunities to meet potential partners in my work or social circles 😬. Seriously considering online dating but, aside from the usual horror stories of w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Talk to me about online dating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iadxy7/talk_to_me_about_online_dating/ |
BlackStar734 | 2022-08-14 22:18:34 | 1,660,515,514 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | woie8q | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/woie8q/how_to_gauge_interest_online_dating/ | 3 | You match with someone in a dating app, and the conversation seems to be going well. However my attempts to meet up in person are rejected due to scheduling conflicts. Is it a fair assumption that there is no interest, due to their repeated rejection and no attempts at trying to schedule something in the future. Feels ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How To Gauge Interest Online Dating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/woie8q/how_to_gauge_interest_online_dating/ |
Zizambamram | 2019-02-16 13:15:05 | 1,550,322,905 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | ar8okw | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ar8okw/i_23m_thought_she_was_interested_but_she_23f_isnt/ | 0 | Hey so a little context. I met this girl in my class back in July and I thought she was cute. I started talking to her and hanging out with her from time to time but she really wasn't that open with me when I first started to hang with her. Eventually, I asked her out and she said yes but called me later that night say... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (23M) thought she was interested but she (23F) isn't looking for a relationship. I'm not sure what to do | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ar8okw/i_23m_thought_she_was_interested_but_she_23f_isnt/ |
Basic_Building4272 | 2024-05-17 20:10:28 | 1,715,976,628 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1cuf0is | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cuf0is/i_need_some_advice_on_this_guy_im_talking_to/ | 1 | I (27m) met him(24m) on hinge while he was visiting my city. We talked for a month before I flew to meet him in his city for the first time. Everything went pretty smoothly. Set up some expectations and asked some questions about how we gonna go about this after I leave. We decided to keep talking, taking it slow as no... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I need some advice on this guy I’m talking to | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cuf0is/i_need_some_advice_on_this_guy_im_talking_to/ |
Niregirl | 2019-06-24 08:32:12 | 1,561,365,132 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | c4k8d1 | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c4k8d1/is_there_an_age_to_stop_dating/ | 1 | Okay, I am very new to this so please don't be mean. I am 39 and I have never had a boyfriend. I am not asked out at all. I am not approached by guys. I have only been kissed 3 times (16, 19, 31). All of the guys I have liked have always rejected me. I have been rejected 18 times and each time it gets harder and harder... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is there an age to stop dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c4k8d1/is_there_an_age_to_stop_dating/ |
Sunnydays405 | 2015-11-23 20:50:30 | 1,448,311,830 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 3tzlkm | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating/comments/3tzlkm/i_accidentally_super_liked_a_guy_who_i_matched/ | 3 | So Tinder now has the "super like" feature where if you really, really like someone, you can super like them. Unlike other matches, you get a notification that someone has super liked you. Anyway, I accidentally super liked a guy I matched with a few months ago. At that time, he cancelled our date a few hours prior and... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I accidentally "Super Liked" a guy who I matched with previously. No take backs ugh | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3tzlkm/i_accidentally_super_liked_a_guy_who_i_matched/ |
StephanieKaye4 | 2024-09-27 01:47:15 | 1,727,401,635 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | 1fqcsh6 | true | null | 73 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1fqcsh6/how/ | 14 | How are you finding someone to date? I get zero matches on OLD. The men I meet are married or partnered, but not out with them. None of my girlfriends know of any single men. If single are also not finding someone. I go out about 3x week by myself, am outgoing, friendly, pretty and look much younger for my age (55). Ho... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How? | 14 | 0.65 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1fqcsh6/how/ |
JamesBillingsBanAss | 2023-07-09 14:13:30 | 1,688,912,010 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 14uzmgv | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14uzmgv/is_this_common/ | 1 | So you write a woman back and forth for awhile on dating app and then we exchange numbers. Either they instantly ghost, or they write about a few things like a relationship and just stop talking. Is this a thing? I'm 38 year old man never been on an actual date I just get screwed over left and right after talking on th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this common | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14uzmgv/is_this_common/ |
DrummerGuy95 | 2023-06-29 22:33:43 | 1,688,078,023 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 14miplt | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14miplt/hooked_up/ | 2 | Matched with a girl on tinder few days ago messaged an 4 or 5 messages in I had her wanting me to come over to her place, we ended up talking an playing games before hooking up for 2 rounds. she was asking questions about my work personal life I asked the same questions back matching the energy. I stayed sorta the nigh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hooked up | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14miplt/hooked_up/ |
22toebeans | 2021-01-31 18:43:03 | 1,612,118,583 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | l9is3y | true | null | 105 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/l9is3y/i_usually_ask_men_out_first_should_i_change_that/ | 21 | I tend to message first and ask people out within the first few days after we've had enough conversation to rule out obvious deal breakers like kids and for me to get a general idea of who they are. I don't like extensive chatting prior to meeting (or video chatting, these days) because I end up with a false impression... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I usually ask men out first. Should I change that? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/l9is3y/i_usually_ask_men_out_first_should_i_change_that/ |
cottoncandytoast | 2019-03-27 17:28:09 | 1,553,707,689 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | b671oz | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b671oz/how_many_dates_do_you_go_on_before_you_stop/ | 1 | If you’re on tinder, and you meet someone off it, how long do you talk/hang out for before you stop using tinder?? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How many dates do you go on before you stop talking to other people? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b671oz/how_many_dates_do_you_go_on_before_you_stop/ |
GnollRanger | 2023-12-12 02:26:47 | 1,702,348,007 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18gb98t | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18gb98t/could_i_get_some_of_your_alls_take_on_this/ | 1 | I met a nice lady off a dating app at a local casino. She was cute and nice and said I was handsome, smelled good and all that. The night went fine and I drove her to my place and we hung out and talked more and I dropped her off home later and she said she really liked me and wanted to see me again. 2 days later she s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Could I get some of your all's take on this? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18gb98t/could_i_get_some_of_your_alls_take_on_this/ |
sailoorscout1986 | 2021-02-18 21:13:51 | 1,613,682,831 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | lmxfk1 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/lmxfk1/match_takes_a_long_time_to_text_back/ | 2 | We met on Bumble and he would take days to reply to messages. I would always reply the same day because I don’t play games and I’m in lockdown so I’m not that busy. Still, it was fine because people don’t check their dating apps every day. We moved on to WhatsApp recently and after a few messages back and forth today h... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Match takes a long time to text back | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/lmxfk1/match_takes_a_long_time_to_text_back/ |
Ishouldhaveknown1 | 2020-12-05 21:41:41 | 1,607,204,501 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | k7ge2x | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k7ge2x/need_adice_how_to_get_over_an_ex_fwb/ | 1 | This all began at the start of lockdown when I (24/f) decided to download Tinder to make new friends and potentially find a guy to be with. During the course of two to three months I talked to a handful of guys and went through a process if ghosting and being ghosted. I had during this time been on Furlough and had amp... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [Need Adice] How to get over an ex FWB | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k7ge2x/need_adice_how_to_get_over_an_ex_fwb/ |
abedofthorns | 2023-09-17 11:15:20 | 1,694,949,320 | 0 | null | 0 | 16ky0xq | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16ky0xq/guy_24m_found_and_messaged_me_23f_on_social_media/ | 1 | Hi everyone A guy on hinge left a lovely comment on my profile, but I wasn't particularly drawn to him so I didn't match. I didn't think much of it. A few hours pass... And he has found me on Instagram (I have a unique name), and sent me a follow request and a message request In the message (which is very long), he ess... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guy (24M?) found and messaged me (23F) on social media | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16ky0xq/guy_24m_found_and_messaged_me_23f_on_social_media/ |
Efficient-Olive2432 | 2022-11-13 16:56:39 | 1,668,358,599 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | yu79u1 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/yu79u1/whats_a_good_tinder_bio/ | 0 | I’m new to this whole thing and find it kinda fake. I want an honest bio that’s not corny as hell. I like working and doing stuff with my business. I go out on weekends occasionally. I just feel like I’m boring lol. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What’s a good tinder bio? | null | 0.45 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/yu79u1/whats_a_good_tinder_bio/ |
IAM_Azumabito | 2024-02-08 00:20:40 | 1,707,351,640 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1aliad3 | true | Long Distance ✈️ | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aliad3/is_my_bf_asking_for_nudes_constantly_normal/ | 1 | I’m (20F) in my first serious relationship with a guy (22M) but it’s long distance, England and Canada respectively. I met him on Hinge, we had one date and he had to leave the very next day (he had been in england for a few weeks.) The reason we had only met once was because he only came to England for a visit and whe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | is my bf asking for nudes constantly normal? | 1 | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aliad3/is_my_bf_asking_for_nudes_constantly_normal/ |
[deleted] | 2022-02-10 00:40:30 | 1,644,453,630 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | sosqv7 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sosqv7/dating_as_a_middle_aged_man_with_autism/ | 3 | Hello all, I am 33M 5'8 280lbs and am diagnosed with Autism/ASD/HFA/your preference for what you may call it, some people are bothered by it being said in some way and not others. Sorry about that tangent, so I have have 0 luck with relationships during my entire life, I have had 0 dates and am a virgin so my love life... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating As A Middle Aged Man With Autism | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sosqv7/dating_as_a_middle_aged_man_with_autism/ |
froawayfosho | 2020-11-16 18:30:21 | 1,605,551,421 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | jvc3ju | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jvc3ju/how_long_do_you_talk_to_someone_online_before/ | 0 | As a girl who doesn’t spend a lot of time on dating apps, I am always surprised when a guy wants to meet within a few messages, especially if they want to meet that same day. I feel like it’s not a lot of time to get to know someone. Would love to hear perspective from others! Additionally, in covid times, is it okay t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How long do you talk to someone online before agreeing to meet IRL? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jvc3ju/how_long_do_you_talk_to_someone_online_before/ |
6equence | 2023-08-13 18:45:07 | 1,691,952,307 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15q6q4y | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15q6q4y/how_do_i_overcome_my_fear_of_setting_up_a_profile/ | 1 | Hey guys, like I already mentioned in the title I wanna try using dating apps but I have this (irrationally?) fear of setting up a profile.. the thing is I know I have to upload a pic of myself and I'm really self concious about my looks and I think I won't get any matches bc of it. Also the thought of people I know se... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I overcome my fear of setting up a profile on dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15q6q4y/how_do_i_overcome_my_fear_of_setting_up_a_profile/ |
CryptographerSalt244 | 2022-11-09 00:48:32 | 1,667,954,912 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | yq3wxg | true | null | 52 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yq3wxg/he_walked_away_so_easily_after_investing_in_me/ | 0 | I 24F met a guy 25M on Tinder about a month and a half ago. We went on 7-8 dates; From the start, he seemed like a nice guy (not in a bad way), he opened every door, ubered me home on our first date, and didn't even kiss me until the 3rd date. When I asked him later on, he said it was because kissing him was intimate a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He walked away so easily after investing in me for a month. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yq3wxg/he_walked_away_so_easily_after_investing_in_me/ |
simplyymeee | 2017-07-05 04:27:18 | 1,499,228,838 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 6lbtv3 | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6lbtv3/why_did_he_ghost_me_after_so_long/ | 3 | I've been texting with a guy that I met on a dating app for 1.5 months. We first hang out a week after virtually meeting then I got really sick and we both got busy with work/ travel. I finally mustered up the courage to ask him out again, he got back to me said that he needs to check with work. He never got back to me... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why did he ghost me after so long? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6lbtv3/why_did_he_ghost_me_after_so_long/ |
Beneficial-Bet6640 | 2023-10-24 01:32:19 | 1,698,111,139 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17f112b | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17f112b/best_dating_apps/ | 1 | I have a friend who is looking for something more serious. She's not in a good area, all the men seem to have the same mindset and very rough around the edges. She's looking for someone who isn't obsessed with being "nonchalant". She's old fashion I'd say, wants to actually go on a date instead of "link up". If y'all h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Best dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17f112b/best_dating_apps/ |
Roses234 | 2015-02-09 05:04:46 | 1,423,458,286 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2v9qln | null | null | 0 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2v9qln/what_are_some_signs_a_second_date_went_well/ | 1 | Hello I would please appreciate some input. 3 weeks ago I went on my first date with a guy I met on tinder it went from 6pm -10pm we talked and go to know each other . He asked if he could drive me home and I agreed and he got out of his car and I was thanking him for a good night and I began rambling as I became nervo... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are some signs a second date went well ? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2v9qln/what_are_some_signs_a_second_date_went_well/ |
impendia | 2020-02-20 22:52:47 | 1,582,239,167 | null | ['online dating', 'dating platforms'] | 0 | f71dil | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/f71dil/smartphone_holdout_if_i_want_to_get_back_in_the/ | 1 | Hello all -- (41M) here, moved back to my hometown after a year of travel, and looking back to get into the dating game. I never got a smart phone. I never wanted one; already I am far too easily distracted! And related, I don't "get" texting; it's one thing to let someone know you're running late, but I remain mystifi... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Smartphone holdout. If I want to get back in the dating game, should I cave and get one? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/f71dil/smartphone_holdout_if_i_want_to_get_back_in_the/ |
gladosguru | 2019-02-16 02:32:51 | 1,550,284,371 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ar4bo0 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ar4bo0/girls_guys_who_ended_up_on_one_night_stands_or/ | 1 | Curious if people actually screen for this on dating apps or ask before hand or does it just happen? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girls / guys who ended up on one night stands or FWB, how did it happen? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ar4bo0/girls_guys_who_ended_up_on_one_night_stands_or/ |
thisismyrealname2 | 2024-09-12 21:04:34 | 1,726,175,074 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ffdesq | true | null | 88 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ffdesq/guys_who_are_just_under_6ft_do_yall_lie_and_just/ | 0 | Looking for honest answers, not looking to judge. I want to know if this is a common thing - not whether its ethical. I imagine 5’10/5’11 guys can get away with it given the right shoes? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guys who are just under 6ft: do yall lie and just put 6’0 to get past filters? | 0 | 0.35 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ffdesq/guys_who_are_just_under_6ft_do_yall_lie_and_just/ |
rosypeache | 2019-06-17 23:50:03 | 1,560,815,403 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c1v0tc | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c1v0tc/guy_i_met_on_tinder_is_not_ready_for_anything/ | 0 | I met a guy on tinder. We clicked very well. Started FaceTiming everyday. Went on a picnic. Overall, we connected on a great level. He was everything I wanted in a partner. In the beginning he told me I changed his mind on wanting something serious. I felt the same. We decided to be exclusive. We sent good morning and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy I met on tinder is not ready for anything serious. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c1v0tc/guy_i_met_on_tinder_is_not_ready_for_anything/ |
andraberghoff | 2024-01-05 03:38:25 | 1,704,425,905 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18ywz10 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18ywz10/the_self_proclaimed_nice_guy/ | 1 | Came across another of the self proclaimed “nice guys” today on dating apps. | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | The self proclaimed “Nice Guy” | 1 | 1 | https://v.redd.it/1sqai7c9ljac1 |
nicolekatie208 | 2024-08-30 20:15:20 | 1,725,048,920 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1f54yng | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f54yng/is_he_embarrassed_or_is_he_ghosting_me/ | 2 | I (34f) met a man (37m) on bumble a month ago. I travel for work and fly every other week to the US (aka I live 50% in the usa, 50% in Canada). Due to my work hours (medical), I'm only free after 8pm most nights. So our dates are usually dinner or drinks when I get off. We've texted daily (he's not a big texter but I u... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is he embarrassed or is he ghosting me | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f54yng/is_he_embarrassed_or_is_he_ghosting_me/ |
Nashman2000 | 2024-05-10 02:24:35 | 1,715,307,875 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1coesq4 | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1coesq4/how/ | 1 | Simply put. I've been dating since highschool and I have tried every dating app, going to parties, I even tried dating a friend. When all said and done I just can't find any women who share the same interest I do. So my question is, for them who found there match, where? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1coesq4/how/ |
roflmctofl | 2020-07-18 14:08:12 | 1,595,081,292 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | hth658 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/hth658/casual_guy_flaked_at_the_last_minute_but_is_still/ | 5 | Long story short, met a younger guy on bumble a couple of weeks ago. We had met up briefly and got down to business. Before that, I told him that I'm looking for something casual and he agreed. It was more of a teaser session than an actual hookup. Anyway, he texted me for a bit after and then since it casual naturally... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Casual guy flaked at the last minute but is still texting me? | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hth658/casual_guy_flaked_at_the_last_minute_but_is_still/ |
throwRAsilversun | 2023-07-11 11:16:06 | 1,689,074,166 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 14woey2 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14woey2/would_you_ever_message_someone_who_chose_someone/ | 1 | say they rejected you for someone else on a dating app after talking extensively for a while. then you come across their profile again. would you message them? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | would you ever message someone who chose someone else over you | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14woey2/would_you_ever_message_someone_who_chose_someone/ |
poitus | 2018-04-27 03:28:01 | 1,524,799,681 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 8f8myo | false | null | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8f8myo/you_could_be_flirting_on_dating_apps_with_paid/ | 16 | This is pretty disturbing: https://qz.com/1247382/online-dating-is-so-awful-that-people-are-paying-virtual-dating-assistants-to-impersonate-them/ | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | You could be flirting on dating apps with paid impersonators | 16 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8f8myo/you_could_be_flirting_on_dating_apps_with_paid/ |
thegirlwhothinks22 | 2021-02-28 19:17:53 | 1,614,539,873 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | luny9w | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/luny9w/acronym_old/ | 10 | I have a suggestion that I hope everyone doesn’t think is silly. Instead of using the acronym OLD for online dating, what about ONLD? I’m 56f and honestly sometimes I do feel “old” trying to step out in the dating waters again. Again it’s just a suggestion that’s all. 😊 | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Acronym OLD | null | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/luny9w/acronym_old/ |
MrManuzh | 2024-05-17 19:02:19 | 1,715,972,539 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1cudcdk | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cudcdk/looking_for_some_good_dating_sites_with_caveats/ | 1 | I don't have a good, or fast phone. And I really, really suck on communicating by phone. What I look for is good free dating sites that don't require you to download an app, but that just have websites that allow you to sign up and create an account from your browser. Ideally, websites that are free, too. If you can gi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Looking for some good dating sites, with caveats | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cudcdk/looking_for_some_good_dating_sites_with_caveats/ |
MomoIsPretty | 2019-12-09 19:34:01 | 1,575,920,041 | null | null | 0 | e8eqnn | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/e8eqnn/about_to_turn_gay_send_help/ | 0 | I can never find a guy thats actually interested. He wither moves too fast, wants to hookup, or disappears. Im an 18 year old female, Ive tried tindee but no luck. Hilly didnt work out. Whats a site thats worth it? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | About to turn gay. Send help. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/e8eqnn/about_to_turn_gay_send_help/ |
Aggravating_Road7160 | 2024-07-29 19:52:23 | 1,722,282,743 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ef907x | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ef907x/advice_needed/ | 0 | (This is going to be long, as clear, and punctuated as possible) I’m 20 years old, male. A little over a year ago now I moved out of my parents, to start a job about 2 hours away as a Diesel Technician. My current girlfriend at the time moved in with me and that worked out for around 4 months, before I broke up with he... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice needed | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ef907x/advice_needed/ |
HedgehogGeneral843 | 2024-05-02 13:36:21 | 1,714,656,981 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cifuxb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cifuxb/myf27_bfm30_7yearrelationship_used_to_sext_online/ | 2 | 7 year relationship, we have been living together for 4 years. To give you some perspective, my bf 30M and me 27F had a lovely relationship. Very healthy in many aspects. We communicated on a very profound level. He seems like a very gentle person, very mannered and kind. We split chores equally and he is the kind of p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My(f27) bf(m30) (7-year-relationship) used to sext online with random people 4 years ago. I forgave him and it never happened again but I have my doubts still. I am thinking about leaving him before he proposes. How can I make a decision? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cifuxb/myf27_bfm30_7yearrelationship_used_to_sext_online/ |
gpgavo21 | 2024-05-13 12:26:29 | 1,715,603,189 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cqy1d8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cqy1d8/dealing_with_an_inconsistency_early_with_dating/ | 2 | So I (26M) met a girl (26F) about a month ago off of a dating app. We’ve both been out of a LTR for about 7 months (we found out that we both ending our last relationship like within 5 days of each-other lol). Before the first date, she was very direct. Asked for a date with me, once she got it, didn’t really communica... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dealing with an inconsistency early with dating. | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cqy1d8/dealing_with_an_inconsistency_early_with_dating/ |
BottleForward9415 | 2023-03-15 03:13:23 | 1,678,850,003 | null | ['matches', 'dating app'] | 0 | 11rkg6p | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11rkg6p/does_anybody_have_an_idea_on_why_he_lost_interest/ | 1 | Sooo I’ve recently gotten back on a dating app just to explore and have fun :) Long story short, this guy matches with me and we start texting each other. We’ve been texting and calling for the past few days and he initiates making a date for us two to hang out soon. We then agree on a good time for both of us. Then al... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does anybody have an idea on why he lost interest? (20F) (24M) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11rkg6p/does_anybody_have_an_idea_on_why_he_lost_interest/ |
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