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This conflict is pretty recent. I (f29) used to use tampons for my periods but due to medical reasons couldn't do it anymore. now I'm using pads which isn't that big of a deal but my husband disagrees. He firstly complained about me not "consulting" him first but like I said it's not a huge deal like BC. He then sai... | Go buy a new bed...
In a new house...with a new husband.
NTA |
My lovely girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months. She slept over at my place last night, and in the morning she woke me up saying she had went out and brought back a couple of lattes and pastries from a coffee shop around the corner from my apartment for breakfast.
My issue with this is that my apartment has... | Oh man! I hope this red flag is enough of a warning for her.
Edit: YTA |
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So, 'the conversation' didn't happen until the weekend of the 14th of March.... | Jesus, if my new partner and spouse to be had basically a third income I would be high fiving every fucker I met about how lucky we were.
Damn dude, good job getting out of that one. It must be really hard seeing 4 years disappear, but sometimes we don't see the real person until it is too late |
I (f27) went to a job interview for a potential job opportunity at this company. The interviewer, we'll call him "Eddie" (30ish) welcomed me into the office and had me sit down. First thing he did was look at my CV then started asking me questions that seemed a little to personal and unrelated to the job. like if I was... | NTA
Notify the company that Eddie used your application info to contact you after he was fired. That is a major security/liability issue for them. Keep a record of all contact in case this guy turns out to be a stalker. |
I want to start by saying that I F25 don't have the best relationship with my mom. I have an older sister and growing up my mom always tended to control me and tried to override any decisions I make saying that I was young and naive and she always knew better. I cut contact with her for a few months after she tried to... | NTA. they violated HIPAA. Report them.
Nothing else matters. this is a violation of law, and you are suffering hardship due to it.
(edit: typo)
(edit 2: i'm informed you can't sue so changed to report) |
My 10 year old son had to watch some snoopy cartoon in class during which woodstock eats a roast turkey. The teacher told the class that this is fictional, and that birds don't eat other birds. My son corrected her and said something along the lines of "my uncle trains falcons to hunt other birds at the airport to prot... | >respect authority
They revealed their true agenda. Not education, obedience. NTA |
So recently I found out my son "Jacob" (15) pulled an incredibly cruel "prank" on one of the girls I'll call "Ashley" that's in his friend group. I know this girl, she's been to our house and even attended Jacob's birthday party a month ago. She seemed incredibly sweet if not a bit shy. So when my oldest son "Mark" (17... | NTA you did the right thing. If there hadn’t been consequences that hit where it hurt, he may not have learned how unacceptable that behavior is.
That cruelty is sadly common in kids around that age, but this is the absolute right step towards him becoming a good man |
I’ve been with my parter for a year now and have met most of his friends. He’s very close to his friend group from high school which I think is very sweet. His best friend is getting married next year, and my bf is one of his groomsmen so we’ve been spending more time with his friend group lately.
I’m admittedly not ... | NTA
She seems like one of the 'im not like other girls' which is so not a nice personality trait. She was out of line for making comments about your friendships but when u said something about hers she is acting so hurt by them, that is not okay. She was saying it in front of every one, i believe all or mostly guys(in ... |
My wife and I got married 2 weeks ago. We wanted a child-free wedding so we've let everyone know my family/inlaws/friends and relatives and everyone was okay with it. Except for my family. I have 3 sisters all with kids from 2-10. My mom said it was illogical to not allow kids since (1 this never happened in the family... | NTA - Your wedding, you set the rules and the guest list. Kids weren’t on it. They broke the rules intentionally and they suffered the consequences. Stand your ground. |
At my 1yo child's birthday some relative gave him 200$. (I) said I'll take it and (R)elative denied. I: don't worry, I spend it on him or put it in his saving account; R: no, i want to give him money myself; I: *surprised pikachu face* that's not the best idea, he will eat it or something; R: but that's his money and i... | NTA. I mean, you told him not to give it to her, what did he think you were trying to do? |
7 years ago I was married and expecting a baby when things went horribly wrong. Around 10 weeks into my pregnancy I suffered a miscarriage and then I returned home to find my husband in bed with my sister. The two of them tried to apologize and convince me that we could all get over it. But I wanted nothing to do with ... | NTA. Your sister fucked around, and now she's finding out.
I'm incredibly sorry that either of you had to go through any of that, both the miscarriage/stillbirth and the cheating, but this is karma wrapped in a big fucking bow.
Edited to add: I am not downplaying the horror of miscarriage/stillbirth, nor would I ever... |
My (18M) parents planned on being a child free couple, but because of religious beliefs they kept me even if I was an unwanted pregnancy.
I don't remember when exactly I was told, but I always knew that I would be expected to move out as soon as I reached 18 years old. I have been working and saving since I turned 13 ... | NTA. They don’t want you back, they want their reputation and social life back. Your parents are cold, mean people. Don’t go back for anything. Hopefully this other family welcomes you and treats you as one of their own. I’m sorry. You deserve a lot better than you’ve been treated so far.
ETA: Thanks everyone for the ... |
I f25 am getting married to my fiance "Kevin" next month. My family love Kevin and Kevin loves them. However, my mom is the "brutally honest" type who constantly dish out her opinions and thought on what people wear, how they look, how well off they are... Mostly negative, tasteless, backhanded comments. She says she c... | NTA
Tell your brother, mother etc that the whole wedding was rescheduled and at another venue. When they complain, that they missed your wedding just say "It's just a joke! You should get over it, I was just messing with you" |
My wife and I have been together for six years, she has a thirteen year old and a nine year old. When we first got together they were both still in her bed, they were both relatively small and I worked nights. It was never an issue. Last year I suffered a work injury and now have to sleep on a memory foam mattress.
I... | NTA - I also think it’s problematic for your wife to expect you to sleep, night after night, with a teenage stepdaughter. That aside, kicking you out of your own bed so she can sleep with a teen and a tween is a strange dependency on her part. Is she planning on moving into their dorm rooms or going on their honeymoo... |
My brother and I do not get on.
When we were younger he'd go out of his way to make my life a living hell. To my parent's credit they did tell him off for it when they caught him but they both worked long hours and didn't have the energy to deal with our arguments. This continued into adulthood. He was salty that he f... | NTA
I think you handled the situation as well as you can.
Also, really? Your ex is going to go and date your brother, and have a child with him, yet not take responsibility for her child with you? That's really messed up. |
So I (f26) have a boyfriend (m24) and recently he got into a dispute with the neighbour's kids. They accidentally kicked their football into our yard and they came into the garden to get it back. Tbh, I didnt care but my boyfriend started screaming at these like 11 year ds about how they are poorly raised and their par... | Yta for sending the message cause I’m sure she would’ve maybe understood how angry you were if you came across nicer. But wow I can’t even imagine being in your position, has he done anything like this before?
Edit: I did not mean that op is the asshole for the entire situation, it’s a very soft YTA. Sorry for any con... |
My friends and I went sightseeing, aware that the weather forecast was warning of heavy rain.
We’re from England, where the correct response to rain is to not acknowledge it, but things are a little different in Japan. It is impossible to walk outside without getting fully soaked. I warned my friends of this and stopp... | You were way more concerned with being right than being a good friend. YTA |
Wow. I have never felt so supported and loved in a very long time. I wasn’t even going to post anything but I’m so happy I did.
I don’t know how to explain just how big of an impact everyone’s comments and dms had on me. It was so lovely. Thank you so much for all the offers of friendship, and more.
So as of a few ... | [Original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/u4dshw/aita_for_telling_everyone_to_leave_me_the_fuck/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) |
Throwaway account and fake names. I don’t think I’m TAH here but one of my coworkers does and we both follow this reddit, so we’re letting reddit decide.
I (28F) was named after a really obscure character from Greek Mythology. My preferred nickname is taken from the end of my name. I always introduce myself with “I’m... | You're NTA. You established a boundary and her determination to break it is gonna keep getting her in trouble.
Edit: So this is what it's like to be a top comment. Everyone replies to you instead of to the post 😂 Thanks for the awards y'all I didn't think I'd get any for the simple truth. |
Context: my husband (m34) and I (f26) got married 9 months ago, we live in a different town from his parents, and his mom visited us unexpectedly on friday.
Now to give some context about my MIL, She is okay-ish but has no respect for her son's privacy and by extension, mine.
When it was time to go to bed, MIL re... | NTA
Girl I would get a divorce asap, these kind of relationships never last for a long time. He is not able to see the disrespect his mother is giving BOTH of you guys. Run
Edit: Never thought my first most liked comment on Reddit would be a device to get divorced lmao |
I'm a stahm and my husband works full time. We have 3 kids and one of them is 2 years old. My husband helps alot with the kids. He's a committed dad but is absolutely against babysitters due to an awful incident with a babysitter that was the reason his younger male cousin James got disabled years ago. I don't go out m... | I have a hard time to believe your husband is a good dad. Every single sentence from him smells like entitlement and selfishness.
If you can't go to your brothers wedding, so can't he.
Why doesn't he stay at home and you attend. Since this never came to his mind he thinks less of you and your needs. You are the serva... |
I got pregnant with my son Julius (28) about a month after my 18th birthday. I tried to do my best for him and he got into a good engineering school but at 19, he got his then girlfriend Iza pregnant and they had Annabella together. I've been the one who has mostly raised her (Iza got deported but they spend July toget... | So he just pawned his child off on you for eternity? Does he send you child support? Does he make any actual effort to be a father to his daughter?
NTA. |
Update at the bottom.
Throwaway. Ok I know the title is confusing but hear me out. I went out to eat with my (34f) bf (35m) and a two other couples. For context I am a mother to a 5yr old (not my bf child). So two tables away was a new parent couple & what I can only assume was the guys parents. I assumed this becaus... | NTA - You waited, assessed the situation and responded accordingly. I think if anything, the fact that she continued to feed her child proved just how thankful she was for you blowing up on them. |
My little brother is 18. I'm 20. I am staying with my family for the holidays and thought it'd be a nice time but I forgot that they treat me like a housekeeper. I do almost all the chores and I don't mind if its MY chore. Obviously, if I notice the dishwashers full, I empty it. If I cook, I clean up. If I make a mess,... | NTA, when I was reading I thought your brother was like 5 then I went back and realized he was **18**!???? Thank God you're out of there |
My ex and I were engaged, living together, and planning on trying for kids after the wedding. The wedding got delayed and I found out I was pregnant shortly after. My ex freaked out. Insisted it couldn't be his baby because he wasn't ready to be a dad, that this was all happening too fast and wasn't how we planned it, ... | NTA. Pretty fucking ballsy of him to get a hold of you when your daughter is 5 god damn months old and the first thing he does is start making demands. |
I’ll try to summarize as much as possible.
I (f19) have an estranged grandpa more or less. He’s my dad’s father, but my dad hardly had a relationship with him. I have two other siblings (one younger, (13) and one older (26). My grandma divorced my grandpa when my dad was only 10, so he lived with my grandma his whole... | NTA, my god these entitled people.
If they want to cut you off for money that your grandpa willed to you show them the door.
Buy yourself a lovely home and move away from them, pay for your sisters college and save the rest.
Edit: thank u for my first silver!! Woohoo!
And also OP be careful of any brand new “friends... |
Edit: for all the people asking, Scott's Tots is an episode of the The Office, the plot is Michael made a promise to a group of grade schoolers that he'd pay for thier college. He assumed he'd be a multi millionaire in 10 years when it came time to pay off. The episode centers around him telling the now graduating kids... | NTA. Tell your family they have two options:
1. They stop harassing you and you’ll execute the will to the best of your ability.
2. They keep harassing you and their share of the estate will be handed over to a lawyer to execute and the lawyer fees will come out of their trust. |
I have 2 kids, 'Clark' and 'Kent'. While they have the same father, only one of them is biologically my child. They were born within 6 months of each other. The boys are currently 6, and for various reasons I have full custody of both of them.
I didn't speak to anyone in my family for several years, and we got back in... | NTA. If she ever finds out, your mother will favor the biological grandchild, otherwise if wouldn't matter to her, who was on the birth certificate. |
I (F20) moved out on my 18th birthday and never looked back. I mostly moved out due to how strict my parents were. When i say strict, i don’t mean something like home by 10pm. I mean, I wasn’t allowed to have friends older than me (even by a few months) i wasn’t allowed any guy friends. If i had a project to work on at... | NTA. You're an adult living in your own house, you can have whoever you like visiting. Your parents have some serious issues. |
I married my wife Lia two months ago. I'm also a woman for the record. Lia's mom seems to have a problem with me, or my sexuality or something, Lia is bi and her mom seems to wish she'd stayed with one of her male exes.
So anyway at Christmas, we were taking photos and her mom was like "OP, we want the photos to be f... | NTA. Your mother in law is an asshole and your revenge was perfectly petty. |
16 years ago my son Matthew had a daughter with his now ex wife Josie. I have always thought of Josie as my own daughter, so when they divorced 7 years ago due to my son cheating, I was conflicted and disappointed. Josie wasn’t particularly close with any of her family, so My husband and I naturally took them in. Josie... | Make sure to leave him and his son $1 each so they can't contest the will by saying you forgot about them. |
My wife is currently battling cancer, and one of the things she’s told me she’s struggling with the most was losing her hair. She’s been given a near 100% chance of survival since we caught it early, but the chemotherapy has destroyed her hair anyway, and she had to shave what was left of it off a few weeks ago.
Not ... | NTA! You're wife is a flaming asshole! I'm sorry that she has cancer, but what she did to your daughter was very abusive! If she is unable to deal mentally with her disease and treatment, then she needs professional help, not to manipulate and coerce your daughter into making a choice that she didn't want to make. ... |
[Original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ic8xq4/aita_for_not_giving_my_friends_dog_back_unless/)
Cindy’s cousin is her lawyer, he told her it would take several months until the case would get seen and she responded that that was way too long and I could just keep the damn dog. I believe her cha... | That's certainly easier than a court case!
However,
1. Make sure you get documentation of that conversation. Screenshot, whatever. Send an email confirming if it was verbal,
"Just confirming that you are relinquishing Kamu to me."
2. Make sure vet records are in your name. Document all your costs
3. Change any regis... |
I’m 33 and I had a serious drinking problem since a young age. My dad was an alcoholic so booze never lacked in our house. It nearly killed me when I was only 27 and was in the ER for alcohol poisoning.
It was too close a call and after that things had to change. With my wife’s support, I went to rehab and proud to sa... | NTA. No is a full sentence. Mark was being pushy and an aashole. Peer pressure isn't cute when your teenagers and its especially ridiculous as adults. He disrespected you by badgering you to drink and he disrespected your wife. No one needs a reason to not do something but since Mark clearly wasn't going to stop pushin... |
I'm a 33-year-old man and my wife is 27.
Since the start of our relationship, my wife has been very particular about how things get done, and tends to believe that she knows the one true correct way for anything related to anything. She has admitted that she can be a control freak. While this bothers me, it has never ... | Man, you were *so close* to being the asshole, but after all you've endured, NTA. |
Longtime lurker, first time account/posting - I’ve debated posting this for a while now, but since I’ve been so vocal the last few days on this subreddit I figured it was time to find out if I was TA instead of just commenting on others.
My wedding was September 21st, 2019. We had a fairly decent sized wedding. My cou... | NTA
You don’t get to hijack someone else’s event to make it your event. And wtf kind of do thinks this is ok???
As it’s your anniversary you will be otherwise occupied. |
My boyfriend, 27, and I, 26 have been together for 2 years. He's a good heart and is normally rational but his one issue is that he expects to accompany me in every ocassion nomatter how big or small. He even went with me to my ex boyfriend's funeral after days of begging.
Now my best friend got married few days ag... | This is abuse. |
My big sister is my best friend in the entire world. She's literally the coolest, funniest, most fun person I've ever known and she's always been my hero. She's also a lesbian. She's currently engaged to a really really cool lady who I love almost as much as my sister. The wedding is going to be happening in December (... | NTA and you’re not wrong! The number of ex’es included in queer wedding parties is rather epic. ;) |
I am a single mom of two boys ages 11 and 10. Their father and I divorced 5 years ago after I learned he was cheating on me. He got her pregnant either right before he told me, and that was why he confessed, or right after. But our divorce was not an easy one. He wanted to stay "friends" and I could not look at him aft... | NTA. He has the nerve to try to manipulate you after cheating? Those aren't your kids and not your problem. I also feel bad for the girl but it's his mess to solve. Give an inch, he'll take a mile. Say no now to prevent future problems |
Our friend isabel is usually 1-2 hours late to anything we do because she unorganized and spends an excessive amount if time getting ready which she tries to do last minute. We got sick of waiting 1-2 hours every time we go out so wed started telling her to show up at 4 when we are actually meeting at 5:30. We did this... | NTA. Being chronically late is a sign of selfishness and of not valuing or respecting other people and their time.
If she was late because she was caring for a family member or work runs her ragged or she had some medical disorder than randomly required treatment, then you would be the ah to some degree, but this girl... |
My sister (20f) and I (27f) don’t get along. I’m gay, and when she was 14 she started being horrible to me, calling me slurs and saying I was going to burn in hell and other typical religious homophobic things. She is the golden child so obviously my parents sided with her, she would make me cry and they would tell me ... | >saying I was going to burn in hell
"Sis if you need a place to stay, why not ask your husband's family? Oh, you're not married. You had pre marital sex? Hmm, guess we'll see each other in hell then."
NTA. Congrats on the wedding. Your reddit fam is there with you in spirit.
Edit #2
Thank you for the awards every... |
My wife and I just brought home our beautiful baby. When we got home, I wanted my older son to hold the baby (he is fourteen), but my wife said no. She said she wasn't comfortable with anyone but us holding the baby yet. I wasn't happy about this, but I respect that, as a mom, she's anxious about how vulnerable our bab... | NTA
Thank you for standing up for your son. He is 14, not a toddler. The day prior she was not comfortable, but now it's fine for her sister?
Is son both your child or a stepchild? |
[OG Post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/cvzd4t/aita_for_not_agreeing_to_house_my_pregnant/)
It's been a little bit more than two weeks since my first post and I guess it's safe to say now that the situation has been resolved in probably the best way possible!!
In my last post, I stated that my siste... | I'm glad to hear everything worked out!
I wish you and your family the best! |
This will sound unbelievable to those not from my country. All I can say is that it is real.
When I was 5, my parents brought my dad’s friend’s daughter X (about 3) to live with me and sister Y (7). X’s family was poor and couldn’t support their children (they had 6) so they sent X here because they really trusted my ... | NTA. Although to some extent it sounds like X is a victim here too, so I think saying you "don’t care that no one will marry her from her village" was a bit harsh. She's obviously been given the impression that you were on board with the idea of marrying her.
Your parents are at fault here. If they didn't want you to ... |
I f25 married my husband m31 3 years ago. I'm currently pregnant with our first baby together. We found out it's a girl and my inlaws wanted to invite us for dinner for "gender reveal announcement and celebration".
We got there, saw many relatives coming to congrat us and celebrate. It was bigger than expected which... | Leaving is the best solution? Yes. And not just the dinner.
He has said more than once he doesn't want his child to look like you. Then he made you the butt of a joke in public. Then he dismmised your PERFECTLY NORMAL feelings. Then he blamed you instead of apologizing.
Pay attention. He had shown you exactly who... |
My best friend Kelly passed away 2 years ago, We were both childhooh friends, she adopted her dog Leo 7 years ago and we became attached to him and he was the bond that made our friendship stronger, When She passed away, I took him in a few months after she passed and it felt like she was there everytime he runs in or ... | NTA. That was NOT his dog, not his decision, and he had absolutely zero right.
He's not actually sorry. He's just realizing how much it sucks to lose a partner and the stability that comes with a committed relationship. That's his problem now. You enjoy your pup, and your life away from someone that inconsiderate and ... |
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