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9,501 | daddit | Thank you very much! |
9,502 | daddit | This is where the baby got all her good looks ^ This amazing girl right here! I love you u/tessymckay13 |
9,503 | daddit | Will do! Thanks |
9,504 | daddit | Thank you! |
9,505 | daddit | No but this did give her a good laugh |
9,506 | daddit | No way, guy. That baby is adorable. I think you're broken. |
9,507 | daddit | Why the fuck are you even in this sub, you shitheel? |
9,508 | daddit | Why you lyin |
9,509 | daddit | are you really that pathetic and miserable to call a happy 4 month old baby ugly? No need for negative comments. Scroll on loser. |
9,510 | daddit | Hooker fight me |
9,511 | daddit | You do realize what sub this is right? |
9,512 | daddit | [deleted] |
9,513 | daddit | Cuter than the last, you mean? If every face was cuter than the next it would mean that the faces she makes were getting progressively less cute each time. Nice picture! |
9,514 | daddit | Every day is better than the next |
9,515 | daddit | /r/TotalAssholes |
9,516 | daddit | disappointing it is not a real sub :( |
9,517 | daddit | I think he meant your daughter |
9,518 | daddit | <3 |
9,519 | daddit | [removed] |
9,520 | daddit | [removed] |
9,521 | daddit | [removed] |
9,522 | daddit | Please don't feed the trolls |
9,523 | daddit | Such is life |
9,524 | daddit | Yes haha you know what I meant, thank you! |
9,525 | daddit | No real point to being a bellend every waking minute though is there. |
9,526 | daddit | Wow you need your head checked dude! |
9,527 | daddit | Sounds like your just a jealous loser that has nothing to be proud of. He is a proud Papa and this what this sub is about. Sorry it does not fit into your comfort bubble. Next time when you feel it necessary to interject your feelings on something you know nothing about, just count to 3 and then move along. |
9,528 | daddit | Are you drunk or just a pathetic dick? This is daddit, wtf did you expect? Don't subscribe if you don't want to see baby pictures. |
9,529 | daddit | Dude, that is the whole point of this sub, for fathers to share about their kids. Also, you are making an assumption that OP did this for reddit points, and not just because he had a great pic of his kid and just wanted to share it. Your the pathetic one for projecting your own insecurities on others. |
9,530 | daddit | Have you ever considered that maybe *other* people enjoy this sort of content? It's your own retarded fault for coming here and pissing yourself off by looking. You can literally block a sub from showing up if you don't like the content. |
9,531 | daddit | How am I being a bell end. You can call a rake a shovel but it's still a rake. |
9,532 | daddit | [removed] |
9,533 | daddit | Calling me a loser for not wanting others to share pics of their small children on the Internet for the adoration of strangers? Take a good, hard look in the fucking mirror. |
9,534 | daddit | I'm not subscribed, this was on r/all |
9,535 | daddit | And you can call a bellend a bellend. You mate, are a bellend. |
9,536 | daddit | You're sick in the head, dude. That's fucking ridiculous. You don't say shit like that, even as a "joke". Go get some help and get your head straight. |
9,537 | daddit | Nah, I'm good you lurker. |
9,538 | daddit | Well, screw you then. Congratulations /u/USER for making front page. |
9,539 | daddit | This was posted to r/daddit |
9,540 | daddit | I'm guessing in your head that sounded witty and clever right? |
9,541 | daddit | :( I think it was on my second page, though, and I have loads of subreddits filtered out - so I'm not sure what page he would have been on for the average user. |
9,542 | daddit | And I'm sure you shitting on someones post about them and their baby is oh so very witty and clever. I know you're trying your best to troll but seriously dude you're picking on a baby! XD. I know you gotta pick your battles but jeez mate you should be able to troll bigger things than this. |
9,543 | daddit | I think you're confused. I'm glad he's happy, but I'm sure he's on top of the world about it, but doesn't change the fact I think that's an ugly baby. That can happen you. I was a proper horrible looking baby, some would probably still say i am now lol. Don't get so pissed off about everything and anything mate. You'll live longer |
9,544 | daddit | You're just a bad troll that's all. I was just pointing that out. Have a good life being all passive aggressive and all that. Hope it works out for you. Peace out bellend! |
9,545 | daddit | And this, fellow dads, is what healthy communication looks like in a relationship. |
9,546 | daddit | My wife thought I didn’t take pictures of her but turns out I had forgotten to give her access to my google photos. That was an afternoon of her going through all sorts of photos with her and the boys that she hadn’t seen before |
9,547 | daddit | good reminder. it's easy to sort of bear down and do everything you can for the baby not realizing relationships need effort to upkeep too. |
9,548 | daddit | My wife would overcook my grits if I took candid pictures of her. |
9,549 | daddit | I get that. That said, I took a picture of my wife during our vacation (just her and not the two kids) and thought that she was glowing. I guess that didn't qualify because it turns out she was also carrying our third! |
9,550 | daddit | Thanks for the post. You made me realize I’m doing the same exact thing as you. Our daughter is a year old now and my camera roll is nothing but baby and gym stuff. On a different note, I’d love to plot how many photos I’ve taken over time. My camera roll has probably doubled in the past year since my daughter was born. |
9,551 | daddit | If you looked at my phone all you would see are pictures of appliance stickers (make/model/serial), vin numbers, license plates, ID cards, screenshots of QR codes, the inside of a crawl space I refused to enter, dents in drywall that need to be fixed, trim to be painted. Are we supposed to be taking pictures of people? |
9,552 | daddit | When my son was born, I had the realization that my mom had big thick books of photos of my sister and my childhood. So many precious family memories. I just couldn’t imagine sitting my son down when he’s 18 and showing him a Dropbox link of photos of his childhood. My solve? I bought … wait for it… a point and shoot digital camera! I bring it with me everywhere now and it makes picture taking of the family much more fun and intentional. After that, I upload the photos I like to Google photos and then order prints from them; which btw are surprisingly easy to order and nice quality. I ordered like 70 prints for $9, really affordable. I’ve become the family historian and my wife is just over the moon about it. Highly recommend you dads try it out! Added bonus: you get to obsess over camera gear |
9,553 | daddit | Great insight man |
9,554 | daddit | I'm in deep trouble... I all I have in my camera roll is fucking memes. |
9,555 | daddit | Well said, OP. Our little ones became our new loves, but we can't forget about our first loves along the way. |
9,556 | daddit | I few years ago my brother and sister in law were planning their 40th birthday party. As a suprise I asked guests of the party to share pictures of them together to make into a display on the party. A friend my sister in law met about five years earlier in parental class told me that she does'nt have a single picture of the two of them togher. She was suprised by this. She had about a hundred photos of the kids together but none of herself and my sister in law. |
9,557 | daddit | Never ever stop dating her when she becomes your wife or mother of your children. It's easy with life and work and all the day to day crap to forget that you're people and not just mom dad wife husband etc. |
9,558 | daddit | I take a lot of pictures of my kids cause I have a terrible memory and want to be able to go back and remember them as they are in all these little moments, but my partner doesn't take photos of anything really, at all. I find it troubling in a way I struggle to really define, a sort of anxiety that she'll lose out on important memories or that they'll fade too soon. I guess it's one of those little things, as you say. |
9,559 | daddit | Thank you for listening to her, thank you for investigating her observations further and thank you for making a conscious and ongoing effort. You're right. The little things matter. She won't be a mom of a little one for the rest of her life and recognizing the multitudes of her identity is hot AF. sorry, hittin' the sauce after work. just wanna give you props, man. |
9,560 | daddit | I've found talking about the impact of having a baby on the parents relationship is not talked about enough, at least for me. We put so much energy into our baby and my relationship with mum became all about that with little time for each other. The hand holding, cuddling, little presents, meals together etc all took a back seat. Making more of an effort now and it's so much better. Hard work sometimes but I think having happy loving parents is important to the baby / child and often overlooked. |
9,561 | daddit | I had a co-worker whose wife passed away unexpectedly. He told us all to make sure we take pictures of our wives because he, like OP, had mostly stopped when they had their kids. In addition to the reasons OP listed, one of the hardest parts of her passing for his sons was that they didn't have many pictures of their mother to remember her by as they grieved. Broke my heart. |
9,562 | daddit | That first year and a half (and so far, 3 years) flies by and you don't even realize all the crazy lifestyle changes you've made. I can barely remember what it's like to have a full evening of relaxing time to ourselves or for a hobby. Allll that energy is going into the kids and daily grind. But hey, we chose this and we love it. It's very easy to move each other to the back-burner and not even realize it. Nice job on the communication and being intentional about making her feel loved. |
9,563 | daddit | My wife gets mad that I’m still always trying to take candid pics of her when she isn’t dressed up or wearing makeup. To me, I mean, I’d have married her for her personality alone, she is just my favorite damn person to be around. But if I want to show off how hot I think she is in her casual wear without makeup, I don’t see the issue. I don’t think she’s being objective. She is mid 40s and the same weight as when we met 15 years ago. Eh I guess we both curate our public photos a bit. |
9,564 | daddit | Thank you for pointing this out, it's a good reminder for us out here that it's easy to forget how you were before a child. |
9,565 | daddit | I used to have thousands of pictures of my dog. Now he gets bone. Edit: *none…. But I guess bone works too. |
9,566 | daddit | I honestly noticed the same thing but I also noticed the same for myself. My wife wasn’t taking any pics of just me anymore. Kids become the focus and having a family means we don’t want to leave the kiddos out. Our identity evolves and changes as we become less self absorb and take on caretaker roles. It’s good |
9,567 | daddit | This happened both ways for us but we've acknowledged it and give each other grace for it. Great reminder OP. My in-laws have been pleasantly supportive and almost force us to go on dates and spend time with each other, so I'm pretty thankful for that. |
9,568 | daddit | My cat feels this way too. |
9,569 | daddit | Oh damn, guilty. |
9,570 | daddit | Good looking out, Dad. |
9,571 | daddit | Sometimes it's the little things that carry a lot of meaning. Good advice. Thank you |
9,572 | daddit | Good advice! Thanks for sharing |
9,573 | daddit | My baby momma hates having pictures taken of her and it makes me sad because I want them! She's gorgeous and has no need to be self conscious |
9,574 | daddit | Recently had the same conversation And realization with my wife too. Making an effort again. Talking helps |
9,575 | daddit | Thanks for this point. I’m not a dad yet and I’m going to keep this in mind when I’m a dad. |
9,576 | daddit | Yeah wait until you get a dog. Then its all dog pictures and no kid or wife pics. |
9,577 | daddit | Great advice, just went through my photos and more adult naughty of her than nice family. I’ll report back when im finished taking pictures of 8 months preggo… |
9,578 | daddit | Was I supposed to be taking pictures of my wife? |
9,579 | daddit | Been married 11 years. My wife pointed out a couple months ago that I don't take pictures of her anymore either. Absolutely need to keep in mind that she notices that and finds it flattering when I take a picture of her. |
9,580 | daddit | A few months ago we noticed I take like 10x more pictures *with* my daughter than my wife does. She takes lots of pictures *of* our daughter, but rarely puts herself in the photo too. I think it's a concern about looks / my arms are way longer + better at selfies :D Anyway, we're trying to be more purposeful about it now + even take photos with (shocking) all three of us. |
9,581 | daddit | My husband only takes pictures of me when I’m napping or sleeping, doesn’t matter the location. On Valentine’s Day he made a montage of all of those years of me sleeping lol. The ending transitioned with me now sleeping or napping with our LO. Never hated and loved something so much at the same time lol. |
9,582 | daddit | Hmmmmm I think I have been doing the same thing actually. This was a solid heads up, thanks! |
9,583 | daddit | I have always been really good and grabbing the candid photos. I have a Google Photos Live album for each of my kids that automatically adds their pictures. Those albums are set up to my screensaver for my tv and another Google hub. We almost always have some sort of chill playlist or ambient music playing with the screensaver cycling. My kids love to see their pictures and I think it helps strengthen memories. Often my wife and I will intend to watch a show together but get caught up just enjoying the screen saver. I suck at a lot of other dad/husband things, but I get good pictures. |
9,584 | daddit | Your wife seems pretty cool for not making a big deal, but simply mentioning it, and it’s also pretty rad that you took the time to look, take note, and make a positive change for you both. Thanks for this! |
9,585 | daddit | I take pictures of my pregnant gf all the time but she hates them and says she looks fat usually lol |
9,586 | daddit | Mom chiming in… my daughter was over 4 months old before ANYONE took a picture of me and her together. Not a single picture of the two of us in those early days exist except selfies I got myself. No one thought to do it. I felt weird asking people to take my picture and hoped someone (especially my husband) would just do it, but it never happened till I asked. Even now, I still have to ask for pictures to be taken, so there are VERY FEW candid shots of me and her. And non of just me. Guys… get pictures of your wife with her kids, as well as just her being herself. To be clear, I have pictures of every single person holding my daughter for the first time, and about a million of my husband and her… I’m clearly the picture taker in the family, but still, it’s a sore spot in my heart that hasn’t healed yet. |
9,587 | daddit | I stopped taking pictures of my wife cuz she kept glaring at me in them. My favorite picture of my son is when he's all chubby and bubbly and smiling up at me and she's kissing his forehead just death glaring me in the eyes ruining the whole photo. She also will like and share the "take the picture" Facebook spam. smh. |
9,588 | daddit | Seems like a natural progression though...the child is now the "apple of your eye" |
9,589 | daddit | Pre-kids, a lot of the pictures I have if my wife are when she dressed up. Post kids (and with Covid), neither of us dressed up so much as a lot of our former dressy clothes either didn't fit or weren't so comfortable. My wife doesn't really like pictures when she's not made/dressed up. This year I am hoping we can attend the work Xmas parties (hers+mine), so maybe we'll get good pictures again! Sometimes a lack of circumstance doesn't mean a lack of caring, but it's good to communicate such. |
9,590 | daddit | Me too, because she thinks she looks horrible... it wore me down having to try to convince her i still think she's gorgeous after every single photo. I also never send a photo of her and the kids to family for the same reason. Bums me out |
9,591 | daddit | Oh man total opposite in my house. If I take a picture of my wife, she gets super pissed at me lol |
9,592 | daddit | "it's clear why" "obvious", whatcha talkin bout big guy? |
9,593 | daddit | As a father I find there are very few photos of me. I'm the photographer. |
9,594 | daddit | Op just tell her the photoshoots will commence when the baby sleeps through the night and give her a wink lol |
9,595 | daddit | I read this when you posted it and wife just brought this up TODAY. |
9,596 | daddit | I got around this by never taking of my before the baby was born |
9,597 | daddit | If you want to k ow the big picture look at the little details. Good to change it. Being on the opposite side of this and noticing hurts like hell. Been there |
9,598 | daddit | Out of curiosity: did your wife ever take pictures of just you? |
9,599 | daddit | Can y'all explain to me why this matters? I've had the same said to me ...truth is, I don't take pictures of anyone. Well, I didn't until my kid was born. Even then they are sparse. My backup photo history is mostly trees, flowers, birds, cats and sky lines. Until it became all those and child, too. It was a point of contention with my coparent. I just don't feel any need for pictures of people while we are doing things together. I know I'm the odd one. I just don't think about it at all. |
9,600 | daddit | I don't think I ever really took candid pictures of my wife in the first place. It always felt kind of odd to me to just be snapping random photos of her. |
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