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3,001 | * Contest will run for 30 days from post
* Winner randomly selected from posters in this thread
* Naturally, you must be willing to PM me you address so I can mail this to you.
* Limited to addresses in the USA and Canada
* I'd request that you be MtF and planning on FFS at some point; this book will help!
* Offer void where prohibited by law or custom.
Good Luck! | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,002 | I can't speak to Canadian funded SRS, but, the pain isn't so bad. You'll have all the pain meds you could ever want. Aftercare is annoying with all the dilating, but it's worth it. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,003 | [Before/After](https://www.reddit.com/r/transtimelines/comments/57sjom/started_at_27_and_its_been_4_years/)
**Age**
31
**Procedures**
Forehead contouring, Rhinoplasty, Jaw contouring, Hairline advancement.
**Spend**
30K | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,004 | It's great that you want to help your friend. Do you know if this person has seen a therapist, and is on hormones yet? Those are the usual first steps before you even have to think about an expensive surgery. Hormones can actually be fairly cheap, and therapy can be affordable too. If you still want to raise something for all those sorts of expenses and maybe eventually surgery, I'm sure they'd still be appreciative. It might be best to start with a gender therapist that can help keep them safe and guide them toward the right path for transitioning.
And just a note for the future, you should stick with just their preferred pronoun instead of both he/she. It might make them happier to be thought of as that gender :)
edit: Also, there's lots of great resources here on reddit. /r/asktransgender is the big one. The sidebar on there has good links to start and links to more specific subs. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,005 | In the top ten list of countries the United States is not on the list for "Most Equal Genders."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Male_privilege | Not Transphobic | gender | Post | Reddit |
3,006 | In April I appeared to be a 255 lb., full bearded, manly man. Then I came out to my wife. Weight just started disappearing. I'm now bouncing between 190 and 195, clean shaven, and almost full time (2 weeks!) The stress of hiding held onto some of the weight and I greatly reduced my stress eating. My stress eating is now when there is actual stress, not just the stress of being in the closet. At 195 lbs. my wife and friends say I'm passable. I had to find clothes that fit my body shape. Plus size 1x or 2x on top, size 12 (I've been getting size 11 jeans because I have no hips), makes a weird combination. I looked at women I worked with and started figuring out their style and adapting it to me. As usual, YMMV, and HRT has certainly slowed the weight loss.
You can do this, I have never been so completely happy. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,007 | [Video](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LzJr4EaoAsw&feature=youtu.be)
**Age**
**Procedures**
Phase 1 (8-day stay in CA) 1. Hairline advancement 2. Eyebrow raise 3. Brow bone contour 4. 500 hair grafts transplanted to the front my scalp.
Surgery: $13,300 Travel/lodging (incl. caregiver airfare): $1,460 vehicle rental: $257
Phase 2: (10-day stay in CA) 1. Cheek implants 2. Lip augmentation 3. Lip lift 4. Moderate facelift 5. Chin contour 6. Trach shave 7. Voice mod 8. Another 500 hair grafts. 9. Rhino/septoplasty
Cost of surgery: $43,350 1 day at aftercare facility: $795 Travel and lodging (incl. caregiver airfare): $2,160 Vehicle rental: $294 Grocery/Food expenses: $268 OTC Medications and medical supplies: $108 | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,008 | Which surgeries?
Assuming you mean FFS I'd say having poor results or results that are not really visible. I'm getting one shot at this and have to live with the results, so...really *critical* it gets done right. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,009 | If you make this documentary, please note in it that the detransition rate is *extremely* low and that the surgery regret rate is also *extremely* low.
You may find more responses on /r/asktransgender | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,010 | Can't help with Salim, but here's one for Meltzer.
https://goodbyejunk.wordpress.com/ | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,011 | Definitely expensive, but it would be an amazing resource for to familiarize yourself, or to suggest to health professionals who are looking for information on what modern procedures are available. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,012 | Excellent questions and you'd be well served by posting same at r/FtM | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,013 | So here’s the thing, I know this needs more. It’s coming. Just after I get off work and shit. But this is meant to be more central then the polar opposites we have of TL and AL. The point is you are welcome here if you identify as women, but you will be removed for conversations revolving around girl dick, being a terf, and calling people terfs. This is a neutral lesbian spot. If you want to talk trans issues, please take it to a trans sub, if you want to talk lesbian politics, go to AL, TL or right wing. Neither of those belong here.
E: This is still under construction, but I am open to constructive criticism via PM, just know there are a few updates still happening here. | Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,014 | AL: https://imgur.com/a/sEZW8l2
AL: https://imgur.com/a/ZCRMlS0
TL: https://imgur.com/a/hGy070c
My point is that both are polarized versions with neither having a mod team that can take criticism. My goal is to avoid that. I have some ideas for rules but am looking for outside influence.
What are some rules we should see here? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,015 | I'm currently crushing on literally everyone from fanxyred. Such an awesome group of singers, those ladies really make me swoon! Ooh, and another crush of mine is halsey as well. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,016 | A place for coming out stories.
Now I know we all weren’t stuck watching saved by the bell with our brothers, crushing on Kelly or feeling some kinda way when Topanga kissed Cory that first time (wishing we were Cory obvi), or that it all finally clicked in probably one of the worst homophobic situations available, but we all figured it out somehow and decided to come out. Now that you have a brief overview of my coming to acceptance, tell me about yours.
Are you out? How did you know? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,017 | [Dr. Haben](http://professionalvoice.org/feminization.aspx) of New York's page on this. Essentially they are shortened and/or thinned. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,018 | I think we can all agree we want this sub to be successful! But we can't expect that to just magically happen, especially in its infancy. Some subs are so well established you can afford to blindly scroll and enjoy, but right now we all have a role to play when it comes to generating momentum.
How do you think we can all contribute to make this sub successful? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,019 | There are spoilers ahead for season 2 if you haven’t seen it. Hoping this is an ok discussion topic to post.
I have many many complaints about this season. I loved season 1, but I felt like season 2 had some really fucked up ideas about lesbian/q*eer sexuality.
I’m just incredibly uncomfortable with the way Eve was treated. With the turning of her fascination with Villanelle into something overtly sexual - except Eve acts out that sexuality exclusively with men (both with her husband and with Hugo). Plus you have the Eve, Nico and Gemma triangle where Gemma is obviously painted as the pretty ‘Madonna’ figure (especially in the bit where Eve smashes her ballerina figurine and Gemma says she likes missionary) to Eve’s ‘whore’ with her lesbian attraction to Villanelle and kinky sex.
The whole thing just left an awful taste in my mouth. Anyone else find that or was it just me? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,020 | Curious to see how some of you guys manage to meet other people! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,021 | We could post product reviews, or ask advice, or whatever. Examples:
-"Any butches here have any cologne recommendations? Budget is $40 or less. Also I hate patchouli, so nothing that smells like incense."
-"Does anyone know of any black lesbian YouTubers that have tutorials for natural hair?"
-"Got a few samples from friends for the Maybelline FitMe foundation. Which swatch do you think is the best match for my skintone?"
-"Going get my first tailored suit. Any advice on picking out a tailor?" | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,022 | There's a post on how we met our significant others, but not everyone has one - and not everyone is looking for one!
So in general, how's your romantic life going? (: | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,023 | The idea of Flairs [just came up in this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Actuallylesbian/comments/dfjte1/would_anyone_be_interested_in_a_weekly/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share), which got me thinking about what other Flairs everyone would like to see for the mod(s) to take into consideration? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,024 | They are live, they are editable. Use them wisely and keep profanity at a minimum. I’m not sure if we have any youngins but let’s pretend we do for sake of flairs. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,025 | This could be IG, FB, or any other social media apps exist that I may not even be aware of, haha. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,026 | I'm definitely a lesbian stereotype and have 2 cats. Although I really want a house so I can get a backyard for a dog.
(Also my username was inspired by a pet I had growing up; he was pretty great) | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,027 | I live a pretty clean life. No sweets, no drinking, minimal caffeine, not a huge spender. But I’m a smoker. I was smoke free for about a year but when my girlfriend started, I couldn’t resist the bait. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,028 | To the girl that had the procedure done while awake, your fucking amazing and brave! | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,029 | Some of us like boots and flannels and would drop dead in a dress, otherwise can’t live without them, some are somewhere in the middle. Where do you fall? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,030 | We're less than two months out from a new year and a new decade! What are you excited for as 2019 draws to a close? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,031 | I haven't finished the book yet but I'm enjoying it so far.
I am enjoying the new album but it's also a little.. meh? Not bad, it just has a background coffee shop music vibe to it so I may not listen to it all the time. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,032 | Today is World Mental Health Day!
What are some ways you keep your mental health in check?
Are you the type to beat it out with exercises?
Are you the type that just needs to reflect with some mediation?
Maybe you spend time checking in with someone?
How do you take care of your mental health? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,033 | What is (or was) your favourite way to get away from the stresses of work or school with your significant other?
For me, I love getting into nature: I grew up in a very rural area but I've lived in cities since I was sixteen, so any chance to go on a nature hike and get outdoors with someone else was always fun --- especially if there was a chance to cook outdoors. Anything cooked over fire > anything not cooked over fire and any food always tastes better in the great outdoors for some reason. 😋
I also always just liked curling up in bed together with a ton of blankets, the pets, steamy cups of tea and some good books. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,034 | Founded in the United States in 1988 to spread LGBT awareness, October 11 was chosen as [National Coming Out Day](https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/e/ed/Logo_ncod_lg.png) as it is the anniversary of the [1987 National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights.](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Second_National_March_on_Washington_for_Lesbian_and_Gay_Rights) | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,035 | What do you think are the best cities to live in or travel to for lesbians worldwide? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,036 | I feel like I see pretty frequent complaints from lesbians who "fly under the gaydar," but I… don't really mind? I have a couple of pride shirts and a few pride stickers (on my laptop and my hydroflask, mostly) and I come out when it's relevant to the conversation, but I'm not bothered by the fact that I'm usually read as straight.
Anyway, I'm curious—does wanting (or not wanting) to be seen as a lesbian influence how you dress? For me, I think it's just a side effect of the clothing I like. I definitely went through a period of trying to dress "more like a lesbian," but I felt like I was trying to be someone I'm not and I've been so much happier since I accepted that my sexuality and my taste in clothes are two completely separate things. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,037 | Ok so wait... dilating is something that becomes a lifetime thing after SRS? I thought it was just for the first few months post-op. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,038 | This is one of those what do you need to leave the house. Is there a lucky rabbit’s foot you’d carry or other lucky mento you don’t leave with out?
Are you the type to just wing it?
What are your go to grabs? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,039 | You'll not likely find a surgeon to do such an operation. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,040 | New to this subreddit.
We are all over the world !!! Let me know where you like to go to meet and hang out with other awesome lesbians? Is there a city you live near that you like to visit or a bar/hang out?
Me: Asbury park, NJ
Every once in a blue 🤞🏻🥀 | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,041 | Stop posting my friends. Lol. She's awesome. She didn't need much done. If at all. Now she looks just wow. Also remove the review link as it has personal info. As per reddit's no doxxeding policy. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,042 | Was it a friend, or a parent? Were you more or less 'always out'? Or did you come out later in life, or perhaps are still planning who the first person you tell might be!
Share your experience with coming out, whether it was years prior or you're still in the process right now (: | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,043 | Just wondering what Redditors here have thought about having children. Do you have children or are you hoping to have any one day? Would you want IVF or would adoption be an option? Would you like to carry or have your partner carry if possible? Are you totally not into the idea of children at all (apart from the furry four-footed kind)? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,044 | Good Luck!
Links to learn meditation, i prefer the way the woman(Tara?) teaches her method.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6vRqq08Rx2JbFhEY0NQWmhubDROQTBXRmVDSlhEUk5JM0pj/view?usp=sharing
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6vRqq08Rx2JRXJtLUhLcXZobWl5WEN4aVNObjdsZnRqcHdR/view?usp=sharing | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,045 | Now we all know being lesbian comes hand in hand with the classic lesbian jokes on bringing a uhaul on the second date. But we all know this doesn’t always happens.
What is your rule on it?
How long do you wait before moving in with someone?
What is a safe amount of time to know someone before making the leap of merging life’s and signing a lease together?
Tell us your rule of thumb! 🙃 | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,046 | This is the place to share all your lesbian memes, or any other image that wouldn't be considered its own post but you'd love to share! As long as images are respectful, feel free to share any content you'd like - even if it's not specifically related to lesbian humor (we're all people, too!)
Reminder: [Imgur](https://imgur.com/) is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,047 | I've had pets that are way too smart.. and some that are dumb as a rock. What are yours like? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,048 | Happy Week-iversary to AyL, and hello to everyone who has made this possible! I can't believe in 7 short days we have 350 followers, so I think this is a great time to say hello to our fellow lesbians who got in at the ground floor of this operation, haha. I am sure we will do more posts like this as we hit other subscriber milestones, so we can continue to support the community-feel we all appreciate.
Tell us about yourself! Whatever you find most important - be that age and relationship status, career or hobbies, pets and geographic location - whatever you think makes you 'you', we would love to hear it (: | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,049 | Please keep us informed, I can start the paperwork next month hopefully. I would like to know the process as well. I'm in Edmonton. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,050 | Hey... at least they cover most trans surgeries. Most people in the US have no access to any of that.
Edit: not saying we shouldn't strive for better... but as someone trying to uproot my life and move to CA to get coverage for phalloplasty.. its hardto see a Californian complain and not give a note of "appreciate what you have" | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,051 | Procedures planned:
* Forehead reconstruction
* Rhinoplasty
* Liplift
* [Hair transplants](http://facialteam.eu/feminization-of-the-upper-third-of-the-face/ffs-hairline-feminization/)
Rough cost €23,000.00. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,052 | Don't know about the others but Dr. Ting had some favorable feedback. An advantage with Dr. Ting is operating as part of a larger team dedicated to trans care within the hospital. Fewer worries about inexperienced nurses, or being refused treatment by the surgery center, plus post surgical care.
I also appreciated that they were trained and specifically recommended by Dr. Bowers. And the wait list is smaller than many.
I am currently in the early phases of working with Dr Ting and the Mt. Sinai team. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,053 | I’m trying to get back into the gym, but absolutely hate it. Anyone got any good work out routines worth sharing? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,054 | I don't know of any FFS results, but he is famous for SRS and perhaps you can get an idea of his work from that.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Transgender_Surgeries/comments/5xd28p/a_collection_of_links_to_photos_of_srs_results/ | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,055 | Pretty much what the title says. I'm a bookworm, and I'd love to add more good lesbian literature to my never-ending pile of books to read. I have a soft spot for historical fiction, fantasy, dystopian fiction, and mythology- or fairytale-based stuff, but I definitely read a lot outside of those genres. I'm currently wrapping up The Song of Achilles and The Handmaid's Tale and planning to read From the Corner of the Oval next, but I'd like to tackle something lesbian-related after that.
I'd love to hear your recommendations from all genres!
Maybe we could even implement some kind of biweekly or monthly book club discussion thread?
(Also, I *think* the "Media/Culture" flair is the right one? I apologize if it should have been "Discussion"!) | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,056 | If this isn't allowed I apologize ☹
This is my "new" favorite song. Check out the lyrics and try not to google them (cheat).
* Comment the name of the song if you know it. *Include in your comment lyrics to a song that YOU like. Hopefully someone can guess your song correctly as well!
🎶I'm proud of who I am
No more monsters, I can breathe again
And you said that I was done
Well, you were wrong and now the best is yet to come🎶
Can you guess my song? 🤔🤞🏻🥀 | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,057 | Selfies, couple photos, wedding photos, pictures of engagement rings, or just a casual date night - share a little bit about your life with us (:
Reminder: [Imgur](https://imgur.com/) is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,058 | If you got to decide, what would your ideal lesbian movie be like?
Here's mine:
- no male gaze
- no one is involved in a relationship with a man
- no one dies
- the actresses, whatever their sexuality, manage to actually convince the viewers that the characters are in love
- directed, produced and photographed by women edit: and written also, of course!
- preferably a happy ending
My favorite movie, Carol, fails to live up to this list but I still love it. Tell me what your ideal lesbian movie would be like 😊 | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,059 | I was up late last night and I'm super tired this morning. Let me live vicariously through your good sleep habits. Or commiserate with your bad ones. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,060 | Working toward something right now? Let’s hear it. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,061 | I've had clean dishes in my dishwasher since Monday morning. I really need to empty it since dirty dishes are now starting to pile up | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,062 | Ladies,
I’ll be the first to admit I’m not a great cook and I actually hate the task of cooking as a general rule. I’ve gotten better over the years, but I also eat like a 5 year old. Case and point I had grilled cheese last night for dinner and there was a moment I considered bagel bites for breakfast this morning. I have no shame in my game, but I need to get better at cooking.
What are some of your go- to easy meals that you make in the regular? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,063 | I'd do the hair removal. Plenty of surgeons (with a lot more experience than yours) say you don't need it, and it turns out you do. Its only a small percentage with problems, but its really hard to fix.
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=223149.0
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/6fstpl/hair_removal_before_grs/
https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/comments/6gj8tz/im_scared_of_srs_hairs/dirwll6/ | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,064 | I have a genetic disease that does not allow me to go under general anesthesia. I've heard that many mtf surgeons are turned away from the idea of working with local anesthetics, but others are comfortable with it for an extra charge. I've heard it could enlongate my recovery time, that it could cause it to overall turn out less successful, and a lot of other discouraging things. Does anyone know where I can find some legitimate anethesia information on mtf bottom surgery? Things like this are already problematic with simple surgeries, so this one is just going to have to be something I dig around for. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,065 | Physically disabled? Could you elaborate? That could be a more serious problem to investigate first. We definitely don't want you getting hurt during your physical transition! Any doctor in the right mind would agree.
Also, I actually just made a thread on medical conditions and surgery. There's no information on it yet, but it's a place to further discuss that matter specifically. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,066 | I can help if you wanted. Feel free to message me.
Depending on your piece you might want to talk to multiple sources for a wider viewpoint since everyone handles thier transition differently. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,067 | What tiny, relatively unimportant things do you have strong opinions on?
Pineapple on pizza?
The pronunciation of "nuclear"? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,068 | I had a consult for my upcoming SRS, seemed the right thing to do. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,069 | So the thing is, I really want some short sleeved button-ups, but I am struggling to find ones that are not super boring and come small enough. I am 5’3, ~110 lbs with boobs that aren’t too big or too small for my size. I want ones that will fit me and have cool designs like florals or dinosaurs or fruit or something that isn’t plain. I also live in the middle of nowhere, so the shopping options are a bit limited. For those that wear button ups where do you get yours? Men’s small button ups run too big and I’ve yet to find any brand that carries extra small. Help a girl out, please. I’m desperate at this point, ha. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,070 | I would be critical of negative reviews like [this](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M63CTczr8z8) of Dr Chettawut. I heard his aftercare isn't the best and that a lot of his patients use Dr Suporn's dilation schedule, however, you should do your own research.
I wouldn't worry about having surgery with the support team, the doctor he is training is very skilled. Suporn wouldn't be training him if he didn't have faith in him. If it still worries you you could contact them via email or check out that surgeon **(name?)** that does his technique in Germany.
At the end of the day, they are both well-known surgeons with good reputations and will give you good results. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,071 | I can only tell you what I know personally. I had surgery with Bowers, so ymmv.
That said, my clitoral hood and the clitoris itself are part of the retained erectile tissue. When I dilate, or am other wise penetrated, that whole structure has a tendency to push outward.
At two weeks post op, I was way too swollen to know this. Because I was still a big puffy mess. I knew where the clit was supposed to be, but things still looked like a bomb had gone off in my pants.
My suggestion would be to trust yourself. If you think your surgeon is being too caviler about your concerns, you may want to consult another doctor. My GP did all my follow-up care. Her specialty is wound care though. So it worked. You might check with a Ob-Gyn surgeon or even a urologist. Just because a certain surgeon did the operation doesn't mean that they're always right. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,072 | I don't know if my question makes sense or is even something anyone here thinks about. But when you're all pent up and angry, when you're sick of being a minority, when you're tired of fighting all the time for what seems like common sense and basic rights (for yourself or others), what do you do?
How do you let go? How do you be ok? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,073 | here in Canada the mastectomy is covered by universal health.(unless you want a particular DR or they do both the mast and the plastics) its the plastics part aka "top-surgey" grafts and lypo that costs and implants would be the same. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,074 | This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness and respect, not debating, and general codes of conduct still apply, but go ahead and share any and all content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
Reminder: [Imgur](https://imgur.com/) is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden.
PSA: This thread will remain up all weekend, and lock on Sunday night, so please take any active conversations to PM if you don’t want to lose them! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,075 | His price is $20000 Canadian, which is about $16000 US | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,076 | "The experiences of oppression do not grant supremacy, in the same way that being a powerful colonizer does not. Justice will never look like supremacy."
Was worth reading just for that quote. | Not Transphobic | GenderCriticalGuys | Comment | Reddit |
3,077 | Some surgeons here
https://www.reddit.com/r/Transgender_Surgeries/comments/5xd28p/a_collection_of_links_to_photos_of_srs_results/
I've heard Dr Chettawut can arrange both letters in Thailand. Might be around $500, but not sure. Your supposed to get one letter outside Thailand by thai law, so not sure what's going on there.
There's online psychs who can write you a letter. Lookup Dr Graham Peveller. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,078 | r/ftm is a bit more active than this sub and there are lots of people who got top surgery :) | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,079 | I recently got a free Netflix trial. What should I watch? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,080 | This is the place to share all your lesbian memes, or any other image that wouldn't be considered its own post but you'd love to share! As long as images are respectful, feel free to share any content you'd like - even if it's not specifically related to lesbian humor (we're all people, too!)
Reminder: [Imgur](https://imgur.com/) is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post to be public or hidden. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,081 | How much decrease are we talking here?
Are you meaning the colon version of the surgery? Not sure how many people have been through both. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,082 | >There isn't really a "transgender agenda"
Are you really [sure](https://nypost.com/2016/05/19/city-issues-new-guidelines-on-transgender-pronouns/ about [that](http://thehill.com/blogs/pundits-blog/civil-rights/301661-this-canadian-prof-defied-sjw-on-gender-pronouns-and-has-a)
>It's fashionable these days for politically conservative people to disparage trans individuals by grouping them in with a vocal minority of people who use their transgenderism as a way to get attention...
Except these attention-seekers aren't a construction of the vast majority of people who have an issue with transexuals... they are a construction of the progressive/socialist/communist **OPPRESSION OLYMPICS^TM** that rewards abnormality.
>Whether or not the terminology changes is largely irrelevant.
Not a student of Orwell, are you. | Transphobic | Ask_Politics | Comment | Reddit |
3,083 | I would love to know this as well, even if it involves augmentation. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,084 | Uhhh.. stick to the prescription meds. There's no need to add boosters (or "metabolizers") of any kind when your hormone levels are in the right place.
More info: /r/asktransgender /r/transDIY | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,085 | It's very chilling how popular 'boogiewomaning' is. It was probably the biggest barrier for me growing up, and how ironic it is that those very same 'man-haters' they made a strawwomen out of are some of the most rational and well-spoken women I've ever met.
I guess calling them "TERF" is still A-Okay though, right Cracked? /s
>But don't worry, there's a useful quick check to find out if someone's an asshole, and it works on both sides: Ask them how they feel about transgender people. That'll identify who truly cares about equality and who's just being an asshole real quick. | Transphobic | GenderCriticalGuys | Comment | Reddit |
3,086 | Which surgery did you get? I am hoping to somewhat soon do the combination tracheal cartilage reduction and voice surgery. How has it been? | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,087 | Selfies, couple photos, wedding photos, pictures of engagement rings, or just a casual date night - share a little bit about your life with us (:
Reminder: [Imgur](https://imgur.com/) is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,088 | I live in bumfuck Kansas, straightsville USA. No LGBT friends, no gay bars, no LGBT groups or anything, no idea how to meet other LGBT (mainly lesbian) folk. How do yall deal with it when living in small bible belt rural towns? Any lesbian I meet already has a girlfriend or wife and I'm just like...how? How do yall deal with life living in a place like this? It drives me insane sometimes. Then again having mostly straight men as friends doesn't do me any help with meeting other gay women.
People keep telling me to look online, starting to think that'll be my only chance. | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,089 | I’ve seen a few people on here mention this. It may be why we all flocked to this group from elsewhere. I, personally, have some wicked imposter syndrome, where I usually feel like I’m too old, too young, too experienced, too inexperienced, too strange, too boring, and it tends to inhibit my ability to make connections. More specifically, I don’t fit in well in LGBT spaces. I often joke that I’m “not gay enough” usually because I suppose I don’t engage in many cultural activities associated with LGBT people. Which means I don’t make many gay friends, or get involved in many gay social groups/communities. And since I’ve seen some of you mention a similar sounding sentiment, why do you feel like you don’t fit in? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,090 | I know this one is a little silly but I saw a thread about someone wanting to prank the people inspecting their dorm in a harmless way and that got me thinking - what are your best innocent pranks? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,091 | I had ffs with spiegel 4 months ago and you can't see the forehead incision anymore. The worst part was my hair being thin so you could see the incision in my hair line when my hair was up. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,092 | I think I'd put thrifting, camping, and massages near the top of the list! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,093 | Almost every good/experienced surgeon is a year plus wait, it's highly unlikely (not impossible) to get a surgery date of 6 months from now.
Depending on where you live changes how easy it is to get insurance, and if it will cover anything trans related. Look up your states health insurance marketplace, they'll be opening up for 2018 registration in October or November and that will be your option for getting health insurance without it being job related.
Unless your in Cali, Washington, New York, or like two other states it's not very likely that your states insurance option will cover SRS. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,094 | You're essentially limited to the function that they can surgically reassign. Meaning that whatever function you have now, will be the function of the post op result of the surgery.
So while I'm not 100% sure if some people still have some fluid come out even after their testies are removed, it's not going to be "squirting", and if by cum you mean finish, usually you're able to finish. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,095 | There are alot of steps to moving out. Just be sure you have a good budget with wiggle room. Then fly free, little bird. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,096 | I would search /r/asktransgender as this question has been asked many times before. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
3,097 | Going into the weekend, what are some good hangover cures you’ve used to keep yourself feeling like the walk dead after a night on the town? | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,098 | This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness and respect, not debating, and general codes of conduct still apply, but go ahead and share any and all content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
Reminder: [Imgur](https://imgur.com/) is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden.
PSA: This thread will remain up all weekend, and lock on Sunday night, so please take any active conversations to PM if you don’t want to lose them! | Not Transphobic | Actuallylesbian | Post | Reddit |
3,099 | As for me, I don't like it because in my limited experience the sex was pretty bad. Just nowhere near what it's like with an 'actual lesbian'. Certainly nothing worth putting up with anything that might prove a hassle, not in the least potentially falling in love with someone who's emotionally unavailable. So, even though I like a challenge... I don't really see the appeal at all. Or maybe I was just unlucky with the sex? Are straight girls sometimes smokin' in the sack? I am a rather dominant type. Am I missing out by avoiding them? | Not Transphobic | actuallesbians | Post | Reddit |
3,100 | I'm sorry I can't help you, but I thought I'd stop in and let you know your title got a good laugh out of me.
I'm just scrolling along and sudden BREAST.
XD | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Comment | Reddit |
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