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### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about depression regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I've been struggling to motivate myself generally, and no longer feel pleasure in the things I do on a daily basis.".
sys : (Question) hello! what is on your mind today? usr : Hi there. I don't really know how to start with this, but I've been feeling low for the last year or so, and feel like my mood is getting worse with each day. I don't have any motivation to do anything and I'm not sure exactly where to turn. sys : (Reflection of feelings) it sounds like you are a little depressed usr : I think that might be true. Can you offer any advice or guidance on what I can do to improve it? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) i think a lot of people are feeling that way. covid has really changed up everyone's lives, and it is hard to make drastic changes like we all have. sys : (Providing Suggestions) if y ou have health insurance you can always look into therapy or antidepressants sys : (Providing Suggestions) there are also free sites like 7 cups that does peer to peer supprt usr : Yeah my issues have definitely been compounded by the crisis, and not being able to speak to my friends or family, or even my work colleagues now I work from home. I don't have health insurance unfortunately, otherwise I'd have gone down that route. sys : (Information) sometimes talking to people even through chat can make us feel less lonely and change things up a bit usr : 7 cups, I haven't heard of that one. What do they do? usr : Definitely even this conversation is making me feel a little better. sys : (Information) peer to peer support. you can. try to google it! usr : I will look into it after this conversation then. Is there anything you could recommend I try before I contact them? Just anything I can do to lift my spirits? sys : (Information) if you google lemonaid health that is a doctor you can see virtually its prettty cheap less than a hundres a month for a doctor and meds! usr : Do you think meds are a good option? I'm worried if I take that route I might end up zoned out or addicted to taking them. sys : (Self-disclosure) when i am feeling down i like to go sit outside. vitamin d that we get from the sun is really importnat. i am inside a lot. i have had to start taking a supplement and it helps! sys : (Information) i've been onn and off antidppressants for about twenty years. antidepressants work with natural chemicals in your brain they are not addictive because they are not narcotic usr : Okay sure, so I could just go to my local pharmacy and pick up Vitamin D? Or is that prescribed by a doctor? usr : Okay that's good to know you have first hand experience. sys : (Providing Suggestions) you can look an amazon for herbal or natural options .st johns wort is a good one usr : Okay, what does that do? I havent heard of that supplement before. sys : (Information) vitamin d d is over the counter! any pharmacy, amazon, its easy to find and cheap sys : (Others) my friend swears by st johns wort. its some herb that is a natural anti depressant. you could do some research and see! usr : Okay that's useful. And there are no side effects to taking vitamin D, are there? I'll look into st john's wort. It seems as though there is loads of research to be done here - which is a little stressful! sys : (Reflection of feelings) it can be stressful but a positive stress. remember you are researching how to help yourself and feel better! usr : That's true, it's working towards an end goal of feeling like myself again. You are right. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) you'll be okay. i know its hard to stay positive, but i think you are doing pretty good usr : Thanks for that, it makes a difference to hear some encouragement. sys : (Others) i think we all need to support eachother during these uncertain times. at least with the vaccine there is a light at the end of the tunnel for a lot of people! :) usr : I don't want to overwhealm myself, but I think I'll go grab a coffee and take a look into Vitamin D and St Johns Wort now. I like the idea of using supplements and seeing how they work for me before moving onto heavier antidepressants. usr : That's true, I'm just hoping the end of the tunnel isn't too far away. Can't face another summer locked inside with nothing to do! sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Sounds good! Enjoy your coffee and the rest of your day! :) usr : Thanks, I will do. And thanks again for your help. sys : (Self-disclosure) o man. i went crazy last summer. i did the dumbest thing to get myself out of the funk
(Others) you are welcome! :)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Since covid I havent been doing as well in school. I'm very upset and ashamed at my self".
usr : Hello :)
(Question) Hello how are you doing today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Since covid I havent been doing as well in school. I'm very upset and ashamed at my self".
usr : Hello :) sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I'm doing well how bout yourself?
(Question) I am also doing well, thank you for asking! :) What did you come here to talk about?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Since covid I havent been doing as well in school. I'm very upset and ashamed at my self".
usr : Hello :) sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I'm doing well how bout yourself? sys : (Question) I am also doing well, thank you for asking! :) What did you come here to talk about? usr : I've just been feeling down about school the last couple of months. usr : I havent been doing as well since covid usr : and I'm kind of upset at my self for it
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I see. Yeah these times right now are really difficult to feel motivated and get things done, especially when a lot of school is online
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Since covid I havent been doing as well in school. I'm very upset and ashamed at my self".
usr : Hello :) sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I'm doing well how bout yourself? sys : (Question) I am also doing well, thank you for asking! :) What did you come here to talk about? usr : I've just been feeling down about school the last couple of months. usr : I havent been doing as well since covid usr : and I'm kind of upset at my self for it sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I see. Yeah these times right now are really difficult to feel motivated and get things done, especially when a lot of school is online usr : Yeah the online schooling is tough for me usr : I cant seem to be motivated and I really miss seeing all my buddies at school usr : I haven't seen anyone in person other than my family since march :(
(Self-disclosure) I get that 100%. It's also been really hard on me to not be able to see the people I'm close too. I don't live with family anymore, so I haven't seen my family for months either. So I understand where you are coming from.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an academic pressure. The seeker says "Since covid I havent been doing as well in school. I'm very upset and ashamed at my self".
usr : Hello :) sys : (Question) Hello how are you doing today? usr : I'm doing well how bout yourself? sys : (Question) I am also doing well, thank you for asking! :) What did you come here to talk about? usr : I've just been feeling down about school the last couple of months. usr : I havent been doing as well since covid usr : and I'm kind of upset at my self for it sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Oh I see. Yeah these times right now are really difficult to feel motivated and get things done, especially when a lot of school is online usr : Yeah the online schooling is tough for me usr : I cant seem to be motivated and I really miss seeing all my buddies at school usr : I haven't seen anyone in person other than my family since march :( sys : (Self-disclosure) I get that 100%. It's also been really hard on me to not be able to see the people I'm close too. I don't live with family anymore, so I haven't seen my family for months either. So I understand where you are coming from.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) But you shouldn't feel upset at yourself for how you are feeling. It is completely normal, and I'm sure all your friends are feeling the same way! I have a few things I would like to share with you about how I have been getting through it. Maybe it will help you out :)
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My girlfriend has a rare condition that can be very expensive to just keep her healthy. Her grandparents are supporting us and the grandmother's husband is going through dementia and making everyone stressed and could possibly die leaving 3 houses to pay off.".
usr : Hello.
(Others) Hello, how are you?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My girlfriend has a rare condition that can be very expensive to just keep her healthy. Her grandparents are supporting us and the grandmother's husband is going through dementia and making everyone stressed and could possibly die leaving 3 houses to pay off.".
usr : Hello. sys : (Others) Hello, how are you? usr : Not good.
(Question) What's wrong, do you feel like sharing?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My girlfriend has a rare condition that can be very expensive to just keep her healthy. Her grandparents are supporting us and the grandmother's husband is going through dementia and making everyone stressed and could possibly die leaving 3 houses to pay off.".
usr : Hello. sys : (Others) Hello, how are you? usr : Not good. sys : (Question) What's wrong, do you feel like sharing? usr : Well, my girlfriend and her grandmother are extremely depressed. usr : The husband of her grandfather is driving everyone nuts with his yelling. Nothing makes him happy.
(Providing Suggestions) I am so sorry to hear that. Sounds like your girlfriend and her grandmother could use some time away from her grandfather.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My girlfriend has a rare condition that can be very expensive to just keep her healthy. Her grandparents are supporting us and the grandmother's husband is going through dementia and making everyone stressed and could possibly die leaving 3 houses to pay off.".
usr : Hello. sys : (Others) Hello, how are you? usr : Not good. sys : (Question) What's wrong, do you feel like sharing? usr : Well, my girlfriend and her grandmother are extremely depressed. usr : The husband of her grandfather is driving everyone nuts with his yelling. Nothing makes him happy. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am so sorry to hear that. Sounds like your girlfriend and her grandmother could use some time away from her grandfather. usr : Kind of hard when he is the one that owns the houses. Doesn't seem right to leave him. He is going through dementia right now. usr : He always supported them. Just sucks now he is causing so much sadness. usr : He sees me like a son but end of the day. I have to do right by my girlfriend. I love her and her family.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) His dementia is causing him to become upset? Your right he does need to be around family and needs love and support, and you are not doing wrong being on your girlfriend side.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My girlfriend has a rare condition that can be very expensive to just keep her healthy. Her grandparents are supporting us and the grandmother's husband is going through dementia and making everyone stressed and could possibly die leaving 3 houses to pay off.".
usr : Hello. sys : (Others) Hello, how are you? usr : Not good. sys : (Question) What's wrong, do you feel like sharing? usr : Well, my girlfriend and her grandmother are extremely depressed. usr : The husband of her grandfather is driving everyone nuts with his yelling. Nothing makes him happy. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am so sorry to hear that. Sounds like your girlfriend and her grandmother could use some time away from her grandfather. usr : Kind of hard when he is the one that owns the houses. Doesn't seem right to leave him. He is going through dementia right now. usr : He always supported them. Just sucks now he is causing so much sadness. usr : He sees me like a son but end of the day. I have to do right by my girlfriend. I love her and her family. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) His dementia is causing him to become upset? Your right he does need to be around family and needs love and support, and you are not doing wrong being on your girlfriend side. usr : Yeah. He keeps going to the VA and they keep saying he is losing brain mass. usr : Wish everyone else knew how to deal with him. Doesn't seem like everyone is equipped to deal with this kind of stress. usr : My girlfriend already has enough on her plate with her chronic illness. Mostly the arguing starts when he tells her to eat 'normal' food. Which everyone has to keep reminding can kill her.
(Providing Suggestions) Is there any way you guys could get a nurse that deals with patients that have dementia to help him out?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My girlfriend has a rare condition that can be very expensive to just keep her healthy. Her grandparents are supporting us and the grandmother's husband is going through dementia and making everyone stressed and could possibly die leaving 3 houses to pay off.".
usr : Hello. sys : (Others) Hello, how are you? usr : Not good. sys : (Question) What's wrong, do you feel like sharing? usr : Well, my girlfriend and her grandmother are extremely depressed. usr : The husband of her grandfather is driving everyone nuts with his yelling. Nothing makes him happy. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am so sorry to hear that. Sounds like your girlfriend and her grandmother could use some time away from her grandfather. usr : Kind of hard when he is the one that owns the houses. Doesn't seem right to leave him. He is going through dementia right now. usr : He always supported them. Just sucks now he is causing so much sadness. usr : He sees me like a son but end of the day. I have to do right by my girlfriend. I love her and her family. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) His dementia is causing him to become upset? Your right he does need to be around family and needs love and support, and you are not doing wrong being on your girlfriend side. usr : Yeah. He keeps going to the VA and they keep saying he is losing brain mass. usr : Wish everyone else knew how to deal with him. Doesn't seem like everyone is equipped to deal with this kind of stress. usr : My girlfriend already has enough on her plate with her chronic illness. Mostly the arguing starts when he tells her to eat 'normal' food. Which everyone has to keep reminding can kill her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there any way you guys could get a nurse that deals with patients that have dementia to help him out? usr : Well, problem is that he is extremely fit and stubborn. That could be a solution. Not in his current state though... He would lose his mind. He is a veteran... so. He could lose it.
(Question) What about getting a nurse, would make him lose his mind?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My girlfriend has a rare condition that can be very expensive to just keep her healthy. Her grandparents are supporting us and the grandmother's husband is going through dementia and making everyone stressed and could possibly die leaving 3 houses to pay off.".
usr : Hello. sys : (Others) Hello, how are you? usr : Not good. sys : (Question) What's wrong, do you feel like sharing? usr : Well, my girlfriend and her grandmother are extremely depressed. usr : The husband of her grandfather is driving everyone nuts with his yelling. Nothing makes him happy. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am so sorry to hear that. Sounds like your girlfriend and her grandmother could use some time away from her grandfather. usr : Kind of hard when he is the one that owns the houses. Doesn't seem right to leave him. He is going through dementia right now. usr : He always supported them. Just sucks now he is causing so much sadness. usr : He sees me like a son but end of the day. I have to do right by my girlfriend. I love her and her family. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) His dementia is causing him to become upset? Your right he does need to be around family and needs love and support, and you are not doing wrong being on your girlfriend side. usr : Yeah. He keeps going to the VA and they keep saying he is losing brain mass. usr : Wish everyone else knew how to deal with him. Doesn't seem like everyone is equipped to deal with this kind of stress. usr : My girlfriend already has enough on her plate with her chronic illness. Mostly the arguing starts when he tells her to eat 'normal' food. Which everyone has to keep reminding can kill her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there any way you guys could get a nurse that deals with patients that have dementia to help him out? usr : Well, problem is that he is extremely fit and stubborn. That could be a solution. Not in his current state though... He would lose his mind. He is a veteran... so. He could lose it. sys : (Question) What about getting a nurse, would make him lose his mind?
(Others) It would be in his best interest to help him and others around him.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anxiety regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "My girlfriend has a rare condition that can be very expensive to just keep her healthy. Her grandparents are supporting us and the grandmother's husband is going through dementia and making everyone stressed and could possibly die leaving 3 houses to pay off.".
usr : Hello. sys : (Others) Hello, how are you? usr : Not good. sys : (Question) What's wrong, do you feel like sharing? usr : Well, my girlfriend and her grandmother are extremely depressed. usr : The husband of her grandfather is driving everyone nuts with his yelling. Nothing makes him happy. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I am so sorry to hear that. Sounds like your girlfriend and her grandmother could use some time away from her grandfather. usr : Kind of hard when he is the one that owns the houses. Doesn't seem right to leave him. He is going through dementia right now. usr : He always supported them. Just sucks now he is causing so much sadness. usr : He sees me like a son but end of the day. I have to do right by my girlfriend. I love her and her family. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) His dementia is causing him to become upset? Your right he does need to be around family and needs love and support, and you are not doing wrong being on your girlfriend side. usr : Yeah. He keeps going to the VA and they keep saying he is losing brain mass. usr : Wish everyone else knew how to deal with him. Doesn't seem like everyone is equipped to deal with this kind of stress. usr : My girlfriend already has enough on her plate with her chronic illness. Mostly the arguing starts when he tells her to eat 'normal' food. Which everyone has to keep reminding can kill her. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there any way you guys could get a nurse that deals with patients that have dementia to help him out? usr : Well, problem is that he is extremely fit and stubborn. That could be a solution. Not in his current state though... He would lose his mind. He is a veteran... so. He could lose it. sys : (Question) What about getting a nurse, would make him lose his mind? sys : (Others) It would be in his best interest to help him and others around him. usr : He thinks everyone is out to get him. He was in Vietnam for years and left him with guns without ammo to protect a post. So with that in mind... who knows. Could work out. But he has tackled medical personnel before. usr : You could imagine the trauma that encourages that crazy mindset. usr : However, I think I got a good idea what to suggest. usr : At least to my girlfriend and her family. usr : You left I guess. usr : Interesting. Okay usr : well good bye usr : Man.. not even a proper good bye.
(Others) im so sorry im still here if you would like to talk
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
(Question) Hi, how are you doing today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you?
(Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you? sys : (Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? usr : Well 2020 is bothering me, like everyone else.. earlier this year my job was terminated, then for 3 months I was not bringing in income. Now that COVID is still out there, I fear that my current job will be terminated
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you? sys : (Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? usr : Well 2020 is bothering me, like everyone else.. earlier this year my job was terminated, then for 3 months I was not bringing in income. Now that COVID is still out there, I fear that my current job will be terminated sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone.
(Self-disclosure) I have been through a similar situation in the beginning of the year where I have lost my job. I was fearful but I kept thinking positive thoughts and it helped me get through tough times.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you? sys : (Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? usr : Well 2020 is bothering me, like everyone else.. earlier this year my job was terminated, then for 3 months I was not bringing in income. Now that COVID is still out there, I fear that my current job will be terminated sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone. sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been through a similar situation in the beginning of the year where I have lost my job. I was fearful but I kept thinking positive thoughts and it helped me get through tough times. usr : True, I have been trying to think of other things I can do, like start a business usr : But I have been working for 20 years, that I feel like I am supposed to work for someone else and not for myself.
(Information) That is a great idea. The government has great support programs for new business owners like you.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you? sys : (Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? usr : Well 2020 is bothering me, like everyone else.. earlier this year my job was terminated, then for 3 months I was not bringing in income. Now that COVID is still out there, I fear that my current job will be terminated sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone. sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been through a similar situation in the beginning of the year where I have lost my job. I was fearful but I kept thinking positive thoughts and it helped me get through tough times. usr : True, I have been trying to think of other things I can do, like start a business usr : But I have been working for 20 years, that I feel like I am supposed to work for someone else and not for myself. sys : (Information) That is a great idea. The government has great support programs for new business owners like you.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I think working for yourself is great. You can set your own hours, chart your own path. It would help with your employment situation for sure.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you? sys : (Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? usr : Well 2020 is bothering me, like everyone else.. earlier this year my job was terminated, then for 3 months I was not bringing in income. Now that COVID is still out there, I fear that my current job will be terminated sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone. sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been through a similar situation in the beginning of the year where I have lost my job. I was fearful but I kept thinking positive thoughts and it helped me get through tough times. usr : True, I have been trying to think of other things I can do, like start a business usr : But I have been working for 20 years, that I feel like I am supposed to work for someone else and not for myself. sys : (Information) That is a great idea. The government has great support programs for new business owners like you. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think working for yourself is great. You can set your own hours, chart your own path. It would help with your employment situation for sure. usr : I feel that I have not ideas. I feel like i have been thinking about a business idea for myself and family for some time now. I wonder how others decide on what to do usr : Like how to get that motivation in their head to start something really new
(Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be to think what your local neighborhood needs - maybe it is lacking a cafe or a grocery store?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you? sys : (Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? usr : Well 2020 is bothering me, like everyone else.. earlier this year my job was terminated, then for 3 months I was not bringing in income. Now that COVID is still out there, I fear that my current job will be terminated sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone. sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been through a similar situation in the beginning of the year where I have lost my job. I was fearful but I kept thinking positive thoughts and it helped me get through tough times. usr : True, I have been trying to think of other things I can do, like start a business usr : But I have been working for 20 years, that I feel like I am supposed to work for someone else and not for myself. sys : (Information) That is a great idea. The government has great support programs for new business owners like you. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think working for yourself is great. You can set your own hours, chart your own path. It would help with your employment situation for sure. usr : I feel that I have not ideas. I feel like i have been thinking about a business idea for myself and family for some time now. I wonder how others decide on what to do usr : Like how to get that motivation in their head to start something really new sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be to think what your local neighborhood needs - maybe it is lacking a cafe or a grocery store? usr : I know, i really want a niche company.. Something that no one has thought of, or is not yet in my community.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can identify with that. Motivation is hard - but think about your future job situation and your family.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you? sys : (Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? usr : Well 2020 is bothering me, like everyone else.. earlier this year my job was terminated, then for 3 months I was not bringing in income. Now that COVID is still out there, I fear that my current job will be terminated sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone. sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been through a similar situation in the beginning of the year where I have lost my job. I was fearful but I kept thinking positive thoughts and it helped me get through tough times. usr : True, I have been trying to think of other things I can do, like start a business usr : But I have been working for 20 years, that I feel like I am supposed to work for someone else and not for myself. sys : (Information) That is a great idea. The government has great support programs for new business owners like you. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think working for yourself is great. You can set your own hours, chart your own path. It would help with your employment situation for sure. usr : I feel that I have not ideas. I feel like i have been thinking about a business idea for myself and family for some time now. I wonder how others decide on what to do usr : Like how to get that motivation in their head to start something really new sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be to think what your local neighborhood needs - maybe it is lacking a cafe or a grocery store? usr : I know, i really want a niche company.. Something that no one has thought of, or is not yet in my community. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can identify with that. Motivation is hard - but think about your future job situation and your family. usr : I would love to do a zero waste company or store, since that is what I am really into. usr : Do you think it is hard to set up a business plan?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a great idea! Green is the new way to go! I believe in you.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you? sys : (Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? usr : Well 2020 is bothering me, like everyone else.. earlier this year my job was terminated, then for 3 months I was not bringing in income. Now that COVID is still out there, I fear that my current job will be terminated sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone. sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been through a similar situation in the beginning of the year where I have lost my job. I was fearful but I kept thinking positive thoughts and it helped me get through tough times. usr : True, I have been trying to think of other things I can do, like start a business usr : But I have been working for 20 years, that I feel like I am supposed to work for someone else and not for myself. sys : (Information) That is a great idea. The government has great support programs for new business owners like you. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think working for yourself is great. You can set your own hours, chart your own path. It would help with your employment situation for sure. usr : I feel that I have not ideas. I feel like i have been thinking about a business idea for myself and family for some time now. I wonder how others decide on what to do usr : Like how to get that motivation in their head to start something really new sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be to think what your local neighborhood needs - maybe it is lacking a cafe or a grocery store? usr : I know, i really want a niche company.. Something that no one has thought of, or is not yet in my community. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can identify with that. Motivation is hard - but think about your future job situation and your family. usr : I would love to do a zero waste company or store, since that is what I am really into. usr : Do you think it is hard to set up a business plan? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a great idea! Green is the new way to go! I believe in you. usr : Oh Thank You!
(Information) I think it will take some hard work but you can do it. There are support for you from local governments. I think you should look into it.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you? sys : (Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? usr : Well 2020 is bothering me, like everyone else.. earlier this year my job was terminated, then for 3 months I was not bringing in income. Now that COVID is still out there, I fear that my current job will be terminated sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone. sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been through a similar situation in the beginning of the year where I have lost my job. I was fearful but I kept thinking positive thoughts and it helped me get through tough times. usr : True, I have been trying to think of other things I can do, like start a business usr : But I have been working for 20 years, that I feel like I am supposed to work for someone else and not for myself. sys : (Information) That is a great idea. The government has great support programs for new business owners like you. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think working for yourself is great. You can set your own hours, chart your own path. It would help with your employment situation for sure. usr : I feel that I have not ideas. I feel like i have been thinking about a business idea for myself and family for some time now. I wonder how others decide on what to do usr : Like how to get that motivation in their head to start something really new sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be to think what your local neighborhood needs - maybe it is lacking a cafe or a grocery store? usr : I know, i really want a niche company.. Something that no one has thought of, or is not yet in my community. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can identify with that. Motivation is hard - but think about your future job situation and your family. usr : I would love to do a zero waste company or store, since that is what I am really into. usr : Do you think it is hard to set up a business plan? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a great idea! Green is the new way to go! I believe in you. usr : Oh Thank You! sys : (Information) I think it will take some hard work but you can do it. There are support for you from local governments. I think you should look into it.
(Question) How are you feeling now?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you? sys : (Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? usr : Well 2020 is bothering me, like everyone else.. earlier this year my job was terminated, then for 3 months I was not bringing in income. Now that COVID is still out there, I fear that my current job will be terminated sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone. sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been through a similar situation in the beginning of the year where I have lost my job. I was fearful but I kept thinking positive thoughts and it helped me get through tough times. usr : True, I have been trying to think of other things I can do, like start a business usr : But I have been working for 20 years, that I feel like I am supposed to work for someone else and not for myself. sys : (Information) That is a great idea. The government has great support programs for new business owners like you. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think working for yourself is great. You can set your own hours, chart your own path. It would help with your employment situation for sure. usr : I feel that I have not ideas. I feel like i have been thinking about a business idea for myself and family for some time now. I wonder how others decide on what to do usr : Like how to get that motivation in their head to start something really new sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be to think what your local neighborhood needs - maybe it is lacking a cafe or a grocery store? usr : I know, i really want a niche company.. Something that no one has thought of, or is not yet in my community. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can identify with that. Motivation is hard - but think about your future job situation and your family. usr : I would love to do a zero waste company or store, since that is what I am really into. usr : Do you think it is hard to set up a business plan? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a great idea! Green is the new way to go! I believe in you. usr : Oh Thank You! sys : (Information) I think it will take some hard work but you can do it. There are support for you from local governments. I think you should look into it. sys : (Question) How are you feeling now? usr : I think I will! usr : I actually feel motivated to do some research on this. usr : At least is has taken my mind off possibly not having a job
(Affirmation and Reassurance) That's great to hear! My suggestion is to always think positively. You can do this!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you? sys : (Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? usr : Well 2020 is bothering me, like everyone else.. earlier this year my job was terminated, then for 3 months I was not bringing in income. Now that COVID is still out there, I fear that my current job will be terminated sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone. sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been through a similar situation in the beginning of the year where I have lost my job. I was fearful but I kept thinking positive thoughts and it helped me get through tough times. usr : True, I have been trying to think of other things I can do, like start a business usr : But I have been working for 20 years, that I feel like I am supposed to work for someone else and not for myself. sys : (Information) That is a great idea. The government has great support programs for new business owners like you. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think working for yourself is great. You can set your own hours, chart your own path. It would help with your employment situation for sure. usr : I feel that I have not ideas. I feel like i have been thinking about a business idea for myself and family for some time now. I wonder how others decide on what to do usr : Like how to get that motivation in their head to start something really new sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be to think what your local neighborhood needs - maybe it is lacking a cafe or a grocery store? usr : I know, i really want a niche company.. Something that no one has thought of, or is not yet in my community. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can identify with that. Motivation is hard - but think about your future job situation and your family. usr : I would love to do a zero waste company or store, since that is what I am really into. usr : Do you think it is hard to set up a business plan? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a great idea! Green is the new way to go! I believe in you. usr : Oh Thank You! sys : (Information) I think it will take some hard work but you can do it. There are support for you from local governments. I think you should look into it. sys : (Question) How are you feeling now? usr : I think I will! usr : I actually feel motivated to do some research on this. usr : At least is has taken my mind off possibly not having a job sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's great to hear! My suggestion is to always think positively. You can do this! usr : Thanks for your help. This really helped. I needed to be able to speak/type to someone about this. usr : I believe this app/program is very helpful
(Others) You are welcome. I'm wising you all the luck and success. Have a great day!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about fear regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "I fear that I will not have a job next year, at the beginning of the year. My emotions are in survival mode and I do not want to do anything or buy anything from this fear".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you doing today? usr : Hi, I am doing ok, how are you? sys : (Question) Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? usr : Well 2020 is bothering me, like everyone else.. earlier this year my job was terminated, then for 3 months I was not bringing in income. Now that COVID is still out there, I fear that my current job will be terminated sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone. sys : (Self-disclosure) I have been through a similar situation in the beginning of the year where I have lost my job. I was fearful but I kept thinking positive thoughts and it helped me get through tough times. usr : True, I have been trying to think of other things I can do, like start a business usr : But I have been working for 20 years, that I feel like I am supposed to work for someone else and not for myself. sys : (Information) That is a great idea. The government has great support programs for new business owners like you. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think working for yourself is great. You can set your own hours, chart your own path. It would help with your employment situation for sure. usr : I feel that I have not ideas. I feel like i have been thinking about a business idea for myself and family for some time now. I wonder how others decide on what to do usr : Like how to get that motivation in their head to start something really new sys : (Providing Suggestions) My suggestion would be to think what your local neighborhood needs - maybe it is lacking a cafe or a grocery store? usr : I know, i really want a niche company.. Something that no one has thought of, or is not yet in my community. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes, I can identify with that. Motivation is hard - but think about your future job situation and your family. usr : I would love to do a zero waste company or store, since that is what I am really into. usr : Do you think it is hard to set up a business plan? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's a great idea! Green is the new way to go! I believe in you. usr : Oh Thank You! sys : (Information) I think it will take some hard work but you can do it. There are support for you from local governments. I think you should look into it. sys : (Question) How are you feeling now? usr : I think I will! usr : I actually feel motivated to do some research on this. usr : At least is has taken my mind off possibly not having a job sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) That's great to hear! My suggestion is to always think positively. You can do this! usr : Thanks for your help. This really helped. I needed to be able to speak/type to someone about this. usr : I believe this app/program is very helpful sys : (Others) You are welcome. I'm wising you all the luck and success. Have a great day! usr : Thank you! You also. Have a Merry Christmas and safe Holidays
(Others) Merry Christmas and happy 2021!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I feel like I am never going to be good enough to make it on my own. I'm struggling with finding a job right now, paying for anything for myself, and taking care of my teenage son who's driving me nuts as he's doing school from home. I really feel like I'm in a pit that I'll never get out of.".
(Question) Hello, you there?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I feel like I am never going to be good enough to make it on my own. I'm struggling with finding a job right now, paying for anything for myself, and taking care of my teenage son who's driving me nuts as he's doing school from home. I really feel like I'm in a pit that I'll never get out of.".
sys : (Question) Hello, you there? usr : Yes I'm here
(Question) Good! How are you today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I feel like I am never going to be good enough to make it on my own. I'm struggling with finding a job right now, paying for anything for myself, and taking care of my teenage son who's driving me nuts as he's doing school from home. I really feel like I'm in a pit that I'll never get out of.".
sys : (Question) Hello, you there? usr : Yes I'm here sys : (Question) Good! How are you today? usr : I'm doing ok. Feeling kinda stuck at the moment though. Struggling with everything happening around me without me
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel left out out. Is that what you're saying?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I feel like I am never going to be good enough to make it on my own. I'm struggling with finding a job right now, paying for anything for myself, and taking care of my teenage son who's driving me nuts as he's doing school from home. I really feel like I'm in a pit that I'll never get out of.".
sys : (Question) Hello, you there? usr : Yes I'm here sys : (Question) Good! How are you today? usr : I'm doing ok. Feeling kinda stuck at the moment though. Struggling with everything happening around me without me sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel left out out. Is that what you're saying? usr : Maybe not so much left out but moreso left behind. I really feel like everyone else is where they're supposed to be in life and I'm just floundering here without a clue what to do next. I'm just so used to being a mom that now that my son is getting mroe independent, I really feel like when I try to look at myself, I don't see a path to things working out
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I see and there was a time I felt lost or not needed too. What is it you would like to do with your life?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I feel like I am never going to be good enough to make it on my own. I'm struggling with finding a job right now, paying for anything for myself, and taking care of my teenage son who's driving me nuts as he's doing school from home. I really feel like I'm in a pit that I'll never get out of.".
sys : (Question) Hello, you there? usr : Yes I'm here sys : (Question) Good! How are you today? usr : I'm doing ok. Feeling kinda stuck at the moment though. Struggling with everything happening around me without me sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel left out out. Is that what you're saying? usr : Maybe not so much left out but moreso left behind. I really feel like everyone else is where they're supposed to be in life and I'm just floundering here without a clue what to do next. I'm just so used to being a mom that now that my son is getting mroe independent, I really feel like when I try to look at myself, I don't see a path to things working out sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see and there was a time I felt lost or not needed too. What is it you would like to do with your life? usr : I really have no idea. I've been depressed for a really long time. I don't find joy in the things I used to so I don't even know what I like to do.
(Providing Suggestions) The best way to begin to solve a problem is recognizing there's a problem in the first place. Give yourself some credit because recognize there is a problem. Do you have friends who are mothers too and who are having some of the same issues as yourself?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about shame regarding a/an ongoing depression. The seeker says "I feel like I am never going to be good enough to make it on my own. I'm struggling with finding a job right now, paying for anything for myself, and taking care of my teenage son who's driving me nuts as he's doing school from home. I really feel like I'm in a pit that I'll never get out of.".
sys : (Question) Hello, you there? usr : Yes I'm here sys : (Question) Good! How are you today? usr : I'm doing ok. Feeling kinda stuck at the moment though. Struggling with everything happening around me without me sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) You feel left out out. Is that what you're saying? usr : Maybe not so much left out but moreso left behind. I really feel like everyone else is where they're supposed to be in life and I'm just floundering here without a clue what to do next. I'm just so used to being a mom that now that my son is getting mroe independent, I really feel like when I try to look at myself, I don't see a path to things working out sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I see and there was a time I felt lost or not needed too. What is it you would like to do with your life? usr : I really have no idea. I've been depressed for a really long time. I don't find joy in the things I used to so I don't even know what I like to do. sys : (Providing Suggestions) The best way to begin to solve a problem is recognizing there's a problem in the first place. Give yourself some credit because recognize there is a problem. Do you have friends who are mothers too and who are having some of the same issues as yourself? usr : No. I've isolated myself pretty good. Staying inside because of the virus has definitely helped to ease my anxiety but it makes life pretty lonely.
(Providing Suggestions) I see. You know if you get a mirror and look in it you'll see you are a natural leader. Here's the proof; You realized there's a problem. 2. You reached out for help. 3. You are aware of issues that are bigger than yourself. those are qualities of a leader. Have you thought about starting an online support group for parents? You would be good at it I bet.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure
(Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work
(Question) I understand that. How else are You
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger
(Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday.
(Question) Are things slow at your work?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ?
(Question) How are you feeling right now?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok
(Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like
(Self-disclosure) I love music
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome
(Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like?
(Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other
(Question) What is your favorite instrument?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar
(Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play?
(Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't
(Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be
(Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be sys : (Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress.
(Question) What other hobbies do you have?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be sys : (Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress. sys : (Question) What other hobbies do you have? usr : I am other hobbies is take care of my kid... usr : She is an angle to me.. usr : i love her lot and she is great to me
(Question) I understand that. They definitely bring joy into our lives. Do you just have one?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be sys : (Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress. sys : (Question) What other hobbies do you have? usr : I am other hobbies is take care of my kid... usr : She is an angle to me.. usr : i love her lot and she is great to me sys : (Question) I understand that. They definitely bring joy into our lives. Do you just have one? usr : Yes , only one .. usr : what about you ? and your family
(Self-disclosure) Well I am married with a wife and daughter... Been together for 15 years almost.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be sys : (Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress. sys : (Question) What other hobbies do you have? usr : I am other hobbies is take care of my kid... usr : She is an angle to me.. usr : i love her lot and she is great to me sys : (Question) I understand that. They definitely bring joy into our lives. Do you just have one? usr : Yes , only one .. usr : what about you ? and your family sys : (Self-disclosure) Well I am married with a wife and daughter... Been together for 15 years almost. usr : Awesome , that is happy to hear , So you enjoying the life with beautiful family
(Question) I am actually at the office today. I couldn't the day off.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be sys : (Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress. sys : (Question) What other hobbies do you have? usr : I am other hobbies is take care of my kid... usr : She is an angle to me.. usr : i love her lot and she is great to me sys : (Question) I understand that. They definitely bring joy into our lives. Do you just have one? usr : Yes , only one .. usr : what about you ? and your family sys : (Self-disclosure) Well I am married with a wife and daughter... Been together for 15 years almost. usr : Awesome , that is happy to hear , So you enjoying the life with beautiful family sys : (Question) I am actually at the office today. I couldn't the day off.
(Question) Do you celebrate Christmas?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be sys : (Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress. sys : (Question) What other hobbies do you have? usr : I am other hobbies is take care of my kid... usr : She is an angle to me.. usr : i love her lot and she is great to me sys : (Question) I understand that. They definitely bring joy into our lives. Do you just have one? usr : Yes , only one .. usr : what about you ? and your family sys : (Self-disclosure) Well I am married with a wife and daughter... Been together for 15 years almost. usr : Awesome , that is happy to hear , So you enjoying the life with beautiful family sys : (Question) I am actually at the office today. I couldn't the day off. sys : (Question) Do you celebrate Christmas? usr : Yes, little , some work is there doing remotely
(Others) Merry Christmas!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be sys : (Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress. sys : (Question) What other hobbies do you have? usr : I am other hobbies is take care of my kid... usr : She is an angle to me.. usr : i love her lot and she is great to me sys : (Question) I understand that. They definitely bring joy into our lives. Do you just have one? usr : Yes , only one .. usr : what about you ? and your family sys : (Self-disclosure) Well I am married with a wife and daughter... Been together for 15 years almost. usr : Awesome , that is happy to hear , So you enjoying the life with beautiful family sys : (Question) I am actually at the office today. I couldn't the day off. sys : (Question) Do you celebrate Christmas? usr : Yes, little , some work is there doing remotely sys : (Others) Merry Christmas! usr : Merry Christmas!!!
(Others) I just needed to tell you that in case you haven't heard it from anyone today.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be sys : (Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress. sys : (Question) What other hobbies do you have? usr : I am other hobbies is take care of my kid... usr : She is an angle to me.. usr : i love her lot and she is great to me sys : (Question) I understand that. They definitely bring joy into our lives. Do you just have one? usr : Yes , only one .. usr : what about you ? and your family sys : (Self-disclosure) Well I am married with a wife and daughter... Been together for 15 years almost. usr : Awesome , that is happy to hear , So you enjoying the life with beautiful family sys : (Question) I am actually at the office today. I couldn't the day off. sys : (Question) Do you celebrate Christmas? usr : Yes, little , some work is there doing remotely sys : (Others) Merry Christmas! usr : Merry Christmas!!! sys : (Others) I just needed to tell you that in case you haven't heard it from anyone today. usr : Yes, you little special person from others usr : Shall we finish the conversation
(Others) Yes of course
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be sys : (Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress. sys : (Question) What other hobbies do you have? usr : I am other hobbies is take care of my kid... usr : She is an angle to me.. usr : i love her lot and she is great to me sys : (Question) I understand that. They definitely bring joy into our lives. Do you just have one? usr : Yes , only one .. usr : what about you ? and your family sys : (Self-disclosure) Well I am married with a wife and daughter... Been together for 15 years almost. usr : Awesome , that is happy to hear , So you enjoying the life with beautiful family sys : (Question) I am actually at the office today. I couldn't the day off. sys : (Question) Do you celebrate Christmas? usr : Yes, little , some work is there doing remotely sys : (Others) Merry Christmas! usr : Merry Christmas!!! sys : (Others) I just needed to tell you that in case you haven't heard it from anyone today. usr : Yes, you little special person from others usr : Shall we finish the conversation sys : (Others) Yes of course
(Question) What is on your mind?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be sys : (Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress. sys : (Question) What other hobbies do you have? usr : I am other hobbies is take care of my kid... usr : She is an angle to me.. usr : i love her lot and she is great to me sys : (Question) I understand that. They definitely bring joy into our lives. Do you just have one? usr : Yes , only one .. usr : what about you ? and your family sys : (Self-disclosure) Well I am married with a wife and daughter... Been together for 15 years almost. usr : Awesome , that is happy to hear , So you enjoying the life with beautiful family sys : (Question) I am actually at the office today. I couldn't the day off. sys : (Question) Do you celebrate Christmas? usr : Yes, little , some work is there doing remotely sys : (Others) Merry Christmas! usr : Merry Christmas!!! sys : (Others) I just needed to tell you that in case you haven't heard it from anyone today. usr : Yes, you little special person from others usr : Shall we finish the conversation sys : (Others) Yes of course sys : (Question) What is on your mind? usr : Ok Enjoy the Day ..Be Happy forever usr : Now i am very relaxed usr : Going to enjoy the day with my angle usr : so i am in hurry to finish the work
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok great have a great day
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be sys : (Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress. sys : (Question) What other hobbies do you have? usr : I am other hobbies is take care of my kid... usr : She is an angle to me.. usr : i love her lot and she is great to me sys : (Question) I understand that. They definitely bring joy into our lives. Do you just have one? usr : Yes , only one .. usr : what about you ? and your family sys : (Self-disclosure) Well I am married with a wife and daughter... Been together for 15 years almost. usr : Awesome , that is happy to hear , So you enjoying the life with beautiful family sys : (Question) I am actually at the office today. I couldn't the day off. sys : (Question) Do you celebrate Christmas? usr : Yes, little , some work is there doing remotely sys : (Others) Merry Christmas! usr : Merry Christmas!!! sys : (Others) I just needed to tell you that in case you haven't heard it from anyone today. usr : Yes, you little special person from others usr : Shall we finish the conversation sys : (Others) Yes of course sys : (Question) What is on your mind? usr : Ok Enjoy the Day ..Be Happy forever usr : Now i am very relaxed usr : Going to enjoy the day with my angle usr : so i am in hurry to finish the work sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok great have a great day usr : Thank U
(Question) What work is that?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about anger regarding a/an job crisis. The seeker says "After Covid too much work pressure so to much work tension so i am getting anger".
usr : Too Much Work Pressure sys : (Question) I understand... What kind of work do you do? usr : Administration Work sys : (Question) I understand that. How else are You usr : I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger sys : (Question) I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with? usr : U r good usr : What type of work u r doing usr : What about me ? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. sys : (Question) Are things slow at your work? usr : Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... usr : i am right usr : My work is Slow ? sys : (Question) How are you feeling right now? usr : Not so bad , but Ok sys : (Reflection of feelings) Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life? usr : Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients usr : There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error usr : That time i am getting angry sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful? usr : Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension usr : DO like music? What type of music do u like sys : (Self-disclosure) I love music usr : Great Me Too , really awesome sys : (Question) I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol usr : i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other sys : (Question) What is your favorite instrument? usr : Piano and Guitar sys : (Question) I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play? usr : Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also usr : No, i will not but i like to listen usr : Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen usr : Do u know to play? sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life. usr : Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't sys : (Self-disclosure) I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. usr : That is great pleasure to be sys : (Self-disclosure) I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress. sys : (Question) What other hobbies do you have? usr : I am other hobbies is take care of my kid... usr : She is an angle to me.. usr : i love her lot and she is great to me sys : (Question) I understand that. They definitely bring joy into our lives. Do you just have one? usr : Yes , only one .. usr : what about you ? and your family sys : (Self-disclosure) Well I am married with a wife and daughter... Been together for 15 years almost. usr : Awesome , that is happy to hear , So you enjoying the life with beautiful family sys : (Question) I am actually at the office today. I couldn't the day off. sys : (Question) Do you celebrate Christmas? usr : Yes, little , some work is there doing remotely sys : (Others) Merry Christmas! usr : Merry Christmas!!! sys : (Others) I just needed to tell you that in case you haven't heard it from anyone today. usr : Yes, you little special person from others usr : Shall we finish the conversation sys : (Others) Yes of course sys : (Question) What is on your mind? usr : Ok Enjoy the Day ..Be Happy forever usr : Now i am very relaxed usr : Going to enjoy the day with my angle usr : so i am in hurry to finish the work sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ok great have a great day usr : Thank U sys : (Question) What work is that? usr : Bye Have a Good Day usr : Some Report preparation
(Others) Have an amazing Christmas!
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello
(Question) Hello! How are you doing today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you?
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down? usr : My friends, who I also work with, are upset with me because I am leaving for a new position. usr : I am sad that they are upset.
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down? usr : My friends, who I also work with, are upset with me because I am leaving for a new position. usr : I am sad that they are upset. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position? usr : I am going to miss them, but yes... I am happy about it. Maybe a little nervous.
(Question) So do you think you are feeling down more because of missing your friends or your nervousness about the new job?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down? usr : My friends, who I also work with, are upset with me because I am leaving for a new position. usr : I am sad that they are upset. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position? usr : I am going to miss them, but yes... I am happy about it. Maybe a little nervous. sys : (Question) So do you think you are feeling down more because of missing your friends or your nervousness about the new job? usr : Honestly I don't know. usr : I think I would feel alot better about it if my coworkers were more supportive.
(Providing Suggestions) That only makes things tougher, doesn't it. So is there a way you could reassure your co-workers that this new position doesn't mean you have left their lives?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down? usr : My friends, who I also work with, are upset with me because I am leaving for a new position. usr : I am sad that they are upset. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position? usr : I am going to miss them, but yes... I am happy about it. Maybe a little nervous. sys : (Question) So do you think you are feeling down more because of missing your friends or your nervousness about the new job? usr : Honestly I don't know. usr : I think I would feel alot better about it if my coworkers were more supportive. sys : (Providing Suggestions) That only makes things tougher, doesn't it. So is there a way you could reassure your co-workers that this new position doesn't mean you have left their lives? usr : Maybe
(Others) What kinds of things do you think might help with that?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down? usr : My friends, who I also work with, are upset with me because I am leaving for a new position. usr : I am sad that they are upset. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position? usr : I am going to miss them, but yes... I am happy about it. Maybe a little nervous. sys : (Question) So do you think you are feeling down more because of missing your friends or your nervousness about the new job? usr : Honestly I don't know. usr : I think I would feel alot better about it if my coworkers were more supportive. sys : (Providing Suggestions) That only makes things tougher, doesn't it. So is there a way you could reassure your co-workers that this new position doesn't mean you have left their lives? usr : Maybe sys : (Others) What kinds of things do you think might help with that?
(Providing Suggestions) Could you meet for lunch or coffee now and then?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down? usr : My friends, who I also work with, are upset with me because I am leaving for a new position. usr : I am sad that they are upset. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position? usr : I am going to miss them, but yes... I am happy about it. Maybe a little nervous. sys : (Question) So do you think you are feeling down more because of missing your friends or your nervousness about the new job? usr : Honestly I don't know. usr : I think I would feel alot better about it if my coworkers were more supportive. sys : (Providing Suggestions) That only makes things tougher, doesn't it. So is there a way you could reassure your co-workers that this new position doesn't mean you have left their lives? usr : Maybe sys : (Others) What kinds of things do you think might help with that? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you meet for lunch or coffee now and then?
(Providing Suggestions) Or could you all create a standing "group chat" to touch base regularly?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down? usr : My friends, who I also work with, are upset with me because I am leaving for a new position. usr : I am sad that they are upset. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position? usr : I am going to miss them, but yes... I am happy about it. Maybe a little nervous. sys : (Question) So do you think you are feeling down more because of missing your friends or your nervousness about the new job? usr : Honestly I don't know. usr : I think I would feel alot better about it if my coworkers were more supportive. sys : (Providing Suggestions) That only makes things tougher, doesn't it. So is there a way you could reassure your co-workers that this new position doesn't mean you have left their lives? usr : Maybe sys : (Others) What kinds of things do you think might help with that? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you meet for lunch or coffee now and then? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or could you all create a standing "group chat" to touch base regularly? usr : Well we already have a group chat... we could keep communicating through that. usr : And lunch a few times a month would be nice, but they are all night shifters and I am going to be a dayshifter.
(Question) Cool! But I gather that if you already do that, you don't think that would be enough? Or would it? What else might work?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down? usr : My friends, who I also work with, are upset with me because I am leaving for a new position. usr : I am sad that they are upset. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position? usr : I am going to miss them, but yes... I am happy about it. Maybe a little nervous. sys : (Question) So do you think you are feeling down more because of missing your friends or your nervousness about the new job? usr : Honestly I don't know. usr : I think I would feel alot better about it if my coworkers were more supportive. sys : (Providing Suggestions) That only makes things tougher, doesn't it. So is there a way you could reassure your co-workers that this new position doesn't mean you have left their lives? usr : Maybe sys : (Others) What kinds of things do you think might help with that? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you meet for lunch or coffee now and then? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or could you all create a standing "group chat" to touch base regularly? usr : Well we already have a group chat... we could keep communicating through that. usr : And lunch a few times a month would be nice, but they are all night shifters and I am going to be a dayshifter. sys : (Question) Cool! But I gather that if you already do that, you don't think that would be enough? Or would it? What else might work?
(Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, so you think that being on different shifts may be what has you all concerned about losing touch?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down? usr : My friends, who I also work with, are upset with me because I am leaving for a new position. usr : I am sad that they are upset. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position? usr : I am going to miss them, but yes... I am happy about it. Maybe a little nervous. sys : (Question) So do you think you are feeling down more because of missing your friends or your nervousness about the new job? usr : Honestly I don't know. usr : I think I would feel alot better about it if my coworkers were more supportive. sys : (Providing Suggestions) That only makes things tougher, doesn't it. So is there a way you could reassure your co-workers that this new position doesn't mean you have left their lives? usr : Maybe sys : (Others) What kinds of things do you think might help with that? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you meet for lunch or coffee now and then? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or could you all create a standing "group chat" to touch base regularly? usr : Well we already have a group chat... we could keep communicating through that. usr : And lunch a few times a month would be nice, but they are all night shifters and I am going to be a dayshifter. sys : (Question) Cool! But I gather that if you already do that, you don't think that would be enough? Or would it? What else might work? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, so you think that being on different shifts may be what has you all concerned about losing touch? usr : Yes. We won't even be awake at the same time.
(Providing Suggestions) Is there some overlap between the end of your day shift and the beginning of their night shift? Is there a time you are all awake? Maybe dinner for you, but "breakfast" for them?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down? usr : My friends, who I also work with, are upset with me because I am leaving for a new position. usr : I am sad that they are upset. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position? usr : I am going to miss them, but yes... I am happy about it. Maybe a little nervous. sys : (Question) So do you think you are feeling down more because of missing your friends or your nervousness about the new job? usr : Honestly I don't know. usr : I think I would feel alot better about it if my coworkers were more supportive. sys : (Providing Suggestions) That only makes things tougher, doesn't it. So is there a way you could reassure your co-workers that this new position doesn't mean you have left their lives? usr : Maybe sys : (Others) What kinds of things do you think might help with that? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you meet for lunch or coffee now and then? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or could you all create a standing "group chat" to touch base regularly? usr : Well we already have a group chat... we could keep communicating through that. usr : And lunch a few times a month would be nice, but they are all night shifters and I am going to be a dayshifter. sys : (Question) Cool! But I gather that if you already do that, you don't think that would be enough? Or would it? What else might work? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, so you think that being on different shifts may be what has you all concerned about losing touch? usr : Yes. We won't even be awake at the same time. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there some overlap between the end of your day shift and the beginning of their night shift? Is there a time you are all awake? Maybe dinner for you, but "breakfast" for them? usr : That is a good idea
(Question) What else might minimize the separation? Do you all have weekends off?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down? usr : My friends, who I also work with, are upset with me because I am leaving for a new position. usr : I am sad that they are upset. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position? usr : I am going to miss them, but yes... I am happy about it. Maybe a little nervous. sys : (Question) So do you think you are feeling down more because of missing your friends or your nervousness about the new job? usr : Honestly I don't know. usr : I think I would feel alot better about it if my coworkers were more supportive. sys : (Providing Suggestions) That only makes things tougher, doesn't it. So is there a way you could reassure your co-workers that this new position doesn't mean you have left their lives? usr : Maybe sys : (Others) What kinds of things do you think might help with that? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you meet for lunch or coffee now and then? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or could you all create a standing "group chat" to touch base regularly? usr : Well we already have a group chat... we could keep communicating through that. usr : And lunch a few times a month would be nice, but they are all night shifters and I am going to be a dayshifter. sys : (Question) Cool! But I gather that if you already do that, you don't think that would be enough? Or would it? What else might work? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, so you think that being on different shifts may be what has you all concerned about losing touch? usr : Yes. We won't even be awake at the same time. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there some overlap between the end of your day shift and the beginning of their night shift? Is there a time you are all awake? Maybe dinner for you, but "breakfast" for them? usr : That is a good idea sys : (Question) What else might minimize the separation? Do you all have weekends off? usr : I will at my new job but they do not.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) So maybe the "between shifts" type meeting may help? It might be hard to schedule, but I think you can do that. What do you think?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "I have accepted a new job and my work friends are upset that I am leaving them.".
usr : Hello sys : (Question) Hello! How are you doing today? usr : I am a little down today. How are you? sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down? usr : My friends, who I also work with, are upset with me because I am leaving for a new position. usr : I am sad that they are upset. sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position? usr : I am going to miss them, but yes... I am happy about it. Maybe a little nervous. sys : (Question) So do you think you are feeling down more because of missing your friends or your nervousness about the new job? usr : Honestly I don't know. usr : I think I would feel alot better about it if my coworkers were more supportive. sys : (Providing Suggestions) That only makes things tougher, doesn't it. So is there a way you could reassure your co-workers that this new position doesn't mean you have left their lives? usr : Maybe sys : (Others) What kinds of things do you think might help with that? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Could you meet for lunch or coffee now and then? sys : (Providing Suggestions) Or could you all create a standing "group chat" to touch base regularly? usr : Well we already have a group chat... we could keep communicating through that. usr : And lunch a few times a month would be nice, but they are all night shifters and I am going to be a dayshifter. sys : (Question) Cool! But I gather that if you already do that, you don't think that would be enough? Or would it? What else might work? sys : (Restatement or Paraphrasing) Ah, so you think that being on different shifts may be what has you all concerned about losing touch? usr : Yes. We won't even be awake at the same time. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Is there some overlap between the end of your day shift and the beginning of their night shift? Is there a time you are all awake? Maybe dinner for you, but "breakfast" for them? usr : That is a good idea sys : (Question) What else might minimize the separation? Do you all have weekends off? usr : I will at my new job but they do not. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) So maybe the "between shifts" type meeting may help? It might be hard to schedule, but I think you can do that. What do you think? usr : Yes, thanks
(Question) So, if the "gang" can stay together, what's got you nervous about the new position?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
(Question) Hi, how are you today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks.
(Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels.
(Question) So you’re missing them?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. sys : (Question) So you’re missing them? usr : Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives.
(Self-disclosure) I honestly believe we all go through that.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. sys : (Question) So you’re missing them? usr : Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. sys : (Self-disclosure) I honestly believe we all go through that.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it’s especially difficult with divorce.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. sys : (Question) So you’re missing them? usr : Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. sys : (Self-disclosure) I honestly believe we all go through that. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it’s especially difficult with divorce. usr : Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people.
(Self-disclosure) Friends are so important to me also.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. sys : (Question) So you’re missing them? usr : Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. sys : (Self-disclosure) I honestly believe we all go through that. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it’s especially difficult with divorce. usr : Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people. sys : (Self-disclosure) Friends are so important to me also.
(Question) Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. sys : (Question) So you’re missing them? usr : Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. sys : (Self-disclosure) I honestly believe we all go through that. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it’s especially difficult with divorce. usr : Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people. sys : (Self-disclosure) Friends are so important to me also. sys : (Question) Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces? usr : Right. It's tragic to see so many going through divorces and separations at the same time.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) It’s certainly more difficult to make new friends now.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. sys : (Question) So you’re missing them? usr : Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. sys : (Self-disclosure) I honestly believe we all go through that. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it’s especially difficult with divorce. usr : Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people. sys : (Self-disclosure) Friends are so important to me also. sys : (Question) Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces? usr : Right. It's tragic to see so many going through divorces and separations at the same time. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It’s certainly more difficult to make new friends now. usr : Yes, I have 4 sets of friends divorcing and they all separated after March 2020. usr : It is. Nothing is open anymore and so many people are guarded.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, that’s difficult.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. sys : (Question) So you’re missing them? usr : Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. sys : (Self-disclosure) I honestly believe we all go through that. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it’s especially difficult with divorce. usr : Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people. sys : (Self-disclosure) Friends are so important to me also. sys : (Question) Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces? usr : Right. It's tragic to see so many going through divorces and separations at the same time. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It’s certainly more difficult to make new friends now. usr : Yes, I have 4 sets of friends divorcing and they all separated after March 2020. usr : It is. Nothing is open anymore and so many people are guarded. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, that’s difficult.
(Question) You’re married?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. sys : (Question) So you’re missing them? usr : Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. sys : (Self-disclosure) I honestly believe we all go through that. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it’s especially difficult with divorce. usr : Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people. sys : (Self-disclosure) Friends are so important to me also. sys : (Question) Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces? usr : Right. It's tragic to see so many going through divorces and separations at the same time. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It’s certainly more difficult to make new friends now. usr : Yes, I have 4 sets of friends divorcing and they all separated after March 2020. usr : It is. Nothing is open anymore and so many people are guarded. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, that’s difficult. sys : (Question) You’re married? usr : It is. And 3 of my friends are moving home to be with family who all live out of state and far away. usr : I am married. My husband and I are fine. usr : We've actually grown closer despite all of this.
(Self-disclosure) I sure miss my friends.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. sys : (Question) So you’re missing them? usr : Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. sys : (Self-disclosure) I honestly believe we all go through that. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it’s especially difficult with divorce. usr : Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people. sys : (Self-disclosure) Friends are so important to me also. sys : (Question) Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces? usr : Right. It's tragic to see so many going through divorces and separations at the same time. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It’s certainly more difficult to make new friends now. usr : Yes, I have 4 sets of friends divorcing and they all separated after March 2020. usr : It is. Nothing is open anymore and so many people are guarded. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, that’s difficult. sys : (Question) You’re married? usr : It is. And 3 of my friends are moving home to be with family who all live out of state and far away. usr : I am married. My husband and I are fine. usr : We've actually grown closer despite all of this. sys : (Self-disclosure) I sure miss my friends. usr : Yes, me too.
(Self-disclosure) That’s wonderful, I am closer to my spouse now also.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. sys : (Question) So you’re missing them? usr : Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. sys : (Self-disclosure) I honestly believe we all go through that. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it’s especially difficult with divorce. usr : Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people. sys : (Self-disclosure) Friends are so important to me also. sys : (Question) Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces? usr : Right. It's tragic to see so many going through divorces and separations at the same time. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It’s certainly more difficult to make new friends now. usr : Yes, I have 4 sets of friends divorcing and they all separated after March 2020. usr : It is. Nothing is open anymore and so many people are guarded. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, that’s difficult. sys : (Question) You’re married? usr : It is. And 3 of my friends are moving home to be with family who all live out of state and far away. usr : I am married. My husband and I are fine. usr : We've actually grown closer despite all of this. sys : (Self-disclosure) I sure miss my friends. usr : Yes, me too. sys : (Self-disclosure) That’s wonderful, I am closer to my spouse now also. usr : That's good. It seems this crisis is either a divider or a unifier. There's no in between.
(Providing Suggestions) Have you considered new activities, like hobbies?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. sys : (Question) So you’re missing them? usr : Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. sys : (Self-disclosure) I honestly believe we all go through that. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it’s especially difficult with divorce. usr : Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people. sys : (Self-disclosure) Friends are so important to me also. sys : (Question) Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces? usr : Right. It's tragic to see so many going through divorces and separations at the same time. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It’s certainly more difficult to make new friends now. usr : Yes, I have 4 sets of friends divorcing and they all separated after March 2020. usr : It is. Nothing is open anymore and so many people are guarded. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, that’s difficult. sys : (Question) You’re married? usr : It is. And 3 of my friends are moving home to be with family who all live out of state and far away. usr : I am married. My husband and I are fine. usr : We've actually grown closer despite all of this. sys : (Self-disclosure) I sure miss my friends. usr : Yes, me too. sys : (Self-disclosure) That’s wonderful, I am closer to my spouse now also. usr : That's good. It seems this crisis is either a divider or a unifier. There's no in between. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered new activities, like hobbies? usr : Yes, I have been going to the gym more. I am training to run a 7 minute mile.
(Providing Suggestions) I learned how to how to bake sourdough bread for instance.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an problems with friends. The seeker says "Many of my friends are divorcing and/or moving away and I feel lonely.".
sys : (Question) Hi, how are you today? usr : I am okay, thanks. sys : (Question) Is there anything you’d like to talk about? usr : Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. sys : (Question) So you’re missing them? usr : Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives. sys : (Self-disclosure) I honestly believe we all go through that. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) I think it’s especially difficult with divorce. usr : Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people. sys : (Self-disclosure) Friends are so important to me also. sys : (Question) Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces? usr : Right. It's tragic to see so many going through divorces and separations at the same time. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It’s certainly more difficult to make new friends now. usr : Yes, I have 4 sets of friends divorcing and they all separated after March 2020. usr : It is. Nothing is open anymore and so many people are guarded. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, that’s difficult. sys : (Question) You’re married? usr : It is. And 3 of my friends are moving home to be with family who all live out of state and far away. usr : I am married. My husband and I are fine. usr : We've actually grown closer despite all of this. sys : (Self-disclosure) I sure miss my friends. usr : Yes, me too. sys : (Self-disclosure) That’s wonderful, I am closer to my spouse now also. usr : That's good. It seems this crisis is either a divider or a unifier. There's no in between. sys : (Providing Suggestions) Have you considered new activities, like hobbies? usr : Yes, I have been going to the gym more. I am training to run a 7 minute mile. sys : (Providing Suggestions) I learned how to how to bake sourdough bread for instance. usr : I love sourdough bread. I should learn how to do that too. usr : Well thank you for the friendly chat. I appreciate your suggestions and support.
(Providing Suggestions) One other thing, many insurance companies are providing chat via computer with counseling.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .".
(Question) Hi there, how can I help you today?
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today? usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood.
(Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today? usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is usr : Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me.
(Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today? usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is usr : Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most usr : I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today? usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is usr : Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most usr : I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of usr : Thanks for the encouragement.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today? usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is usr : Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most usr : I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of usr : Thanks for the encouragement. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed usr : I think he is missing out on a lot, but he isn't going to realize this now.
(Affirmation and Reassurance) yes that's the right attitude. As long as you are determined, I believe you can do anything you want.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today? usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is usr : Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most usr : I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of usr : Thanks for the encouragement. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed usr : I think he is missing out on a lot, but he isn't going to realize this now. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes that's the right attitude. As long as you are determined, I believe you can do anything you want. usr : Do you think someone else will love me for who I am?
(Reflection of feelings) Of course, you will find the right one soon.
### Dialogue background ### The following is a conversation between a supporter and a seeker about sadness regarding a/an breakup with partner. The seeker says "I am sad about finding out my boyfriend broke up with me because he saw where I came from .".
sys : (Question) Hi there, how can I help you today? usr : I'm sad because I found out my boyfriend broke up with me once he saw I came from a poor neighborhood. sys : (Reflection of feelings) That's terrible. How awful he is usr : Yes, I kind of depressed over it though because I thought he loved me. sys : (Reflection of feelings) I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most usr : I wish I had a different home, but I can't change that now. I'm trying to work so hard to do better, but it will take time. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of usr : Thanks for the encouragement. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed usr : I think he is missing out on a lot, but he isn't going to realize this now. sys : (Affirmation and Reassurance) yes that's the right attitude. As long as you are determined, I believe you can do anything you want. usr : Do you think someone else will love me for who I am? sys : (Reflection of feelings) Of course, you will find the right one soon. usr : How can I move forward? Should I try to get him back and get him to realize he is not looking at my heart?
(Others) Use the time you have now to invest in yourself. When you're the best version of yourself, the right person will come to you natually