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3 | 2 | Hello there, how are you feeling at the moment?
I am feeling okay, but I have been better
Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk about with me?
I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work.
That is not good. Are you thinking of looking for new work?
Honestly maybe. It is exhausting
I had a similar situation myself a few years ago and I moved on. I've never regretted it.
It is just a little scary since I don't have anything else set up
Is your boss's behaviour unreasonable enough to justify making a complaint about him to HR?
I have and they just contacted her boss. Nothing changed after.
It might be worth following up with. There are organisations that could give you free advice.
That might be helpful but I still feel like I am alone in this struggle
You should not have to suffer if you are being bullied. Please contact your local Citizen's Advice!
I guess I could at least try. You're so right
Do any of your colleagues feel the same way that you do?
They don't. I think that is what makes it so much more difficult.
I am sorry to hear that. Perhaps it really is the best time to just move on.
It probably is a sign I need to do something else anyway
Yes, the world is your oyster. I wish you all the best with whatever you do!
Thank you. I appreciate you talking to me.
You're welcome and take care
(you need to press quit first .. I can't :))
Bye! | {
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5 | 3 | Hi, I'm Anna
Hi there, how is life treating you right now?
I am Jo, it is nice to meet you! Is there anything you'd like to talk about today?
Going through a break-up. My 3rd one this year....
Nice to meet you too
It suckssssss
Gosh you've been busy :). I am sorry to hear that though - I know how much it hurts when you split with someone, especially if it was not consensual.
It's a lousy time of year for it too, isn't it?
I feel like a piece of crap, and childish at that. I can't maintain any of my relationships. I think I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life.
That is a defeatist way to talk! Just because a couple of relationships fail does not mean that you will never be able to find happiness.
Well, if past experience has any powers of prediction. I get super clingy, and do this push and pull thingy, where I break up and call them names, and then become so embarrassed it's hard to even bring it up. my last boyfriend said he thought i had borderline disorder
I have been in that position too. I hate it when I realise that I am not being rational but I can't seem to stop myself sometimes and this has sometimes let to problems with my inter personal relationships
Yea, that definitely seems to be part of my problem. I really thought he was different, too. And when he broke up with me, I tried to get him to spend the night with me in a hotel, and I felt so pathetic because I was practically begging for sex
I think I am an addict.
I hear you on that one too! It's horrible to feel that you are losing your self respect but I suspect that we've all done it at some point. Have you considered getting some counselling?
Sigh.. yes. I have seen several. I also take meds from a psychiatrist.
I hear you saying that they are not really effective, is that true?
Well... one told me that I should be put down like a dog to my face.
so, yea
Okay .. I hope you reported him!!
I didn't. I was younger then. who knows. not gonna lie. maybe they're right. Sometimes I think I'm a psycho. My last therapist was always doing deep breathing exercises. It didn't help.
I also have a lot of anxiety. A LOT!
I even got an emotiona support dog
I understand that as well .. I am on medication for it. A dog is a wonderful thing to have! Do you feel that it has helped you?
Yea, he's my best friend. At least I have one boy who has to stick around. He's on a tight leash
Dogs are very very loyal. They never cheat on you or walk out on you!
So trueee :) I just wish I wasn't such a freak.
I think you are probably not anywhere near as bad as you think you are you know :). Anyway I wish you all the very best for the New Year and hope that things pick up for you soon!
Alright, bud. Thanks. You, too
take care!
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4 | 2 | hello how are you?
I don't know how to get over this
I'm just alright.
You are having some trouble getting over something is that correct?
Why are you feeling just alright?
I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming.
I understand that it is hard to have some type of joy especially with the holidays coming along especially when family has passed on.
This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people.
I know it is hard, it also has taken a toll on me as well this pandemic is hard to go through, but I take it day by day. Maybe you should take to someone if there is anyone close to you?
Only my Aunt, but I haven't talked to her in a long time. I just figure she's busy.
maybe you should try to call her sometime im sure she would like that
How do I get over feeling like I'm dumping on her? I know she's family but i'm sure she has problems too.
right I see where you are coming from, remeber she is your family
Yes, I suppose you are right. My aunt is the youngest sister of my mom. We used to see each other at family gatherings. Maybe she won't mind me calling.
see you got this, a call is all that it takes to feel better
I'm going to follow your suggestion and get myself out of this slump I'm in. I know I'm not the only person who goes through this, but it feels this way sometimes.
I used to feel like that all the time but then I thought to myself that i needed to surround myself with people and not be alone.
Im glad that you are going to follow my suggestion, we all go through the same thing but your getting help and thats whats counts
You have a good point there. I used to think if I had my family then I didn't need anybody else. But we all need somebody to talk to.
exactly you got it, we all need to surround ourselves with good people, im glad that you realize this. I hope that my insight has given you motavation to pursue relationships
Thanks for your help. I'll go now and get my thoughts together to call my aunt.
alright awesome it was a pleasure talking to you, have a good day.
Enjoy your holidays!
you too! | {
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3 | 1 | Hello
Hello, how are you doing?
I’m ok. A little down because I am a bit lonely. I have others around me all the time but they want my attention and don’t ever want to really talk to me or listen to me unless I am solving their problems
I just wish someone would want to have a conversation about anything besides their own issues. Friends, family, it’s all the same here
Do you understand what I mean?
Yes i understand what you mean.
I’m glad someone does. I try to speak up but get no where
I'm sorry to hear that.
Is there anything i can help you with? To make you feel better?
It is annoying and sometimes I get really down about it. I just want someone to talk to....I just want to know that someone will listen once in a while. I’m honestly not that needy but everyone needs to know that someone will listen at some point
I am appreciative of the fact that you are taking time to hear what I have to say
I wonder what I should do sometimes. I try to tell friends and family that I cannot always be the problem solver, I try to make them see that I deserve a chance to ask advice, to just vent, or to just have a light talk about the weather or a party or something. They don’t seem to hear me. One friend said she thought I was blowing it out of proportion. But that’s the way I feel
What approach would you take if you were me?
Yes, everyone needs someone to talk to.I think you deserve people who will be there for you when you need them to, and not only just take take and not give anything..
How do I get through to these people or do I need new friends?? Lol
Because sometimes I think a new friend group isn’t a bad idea....
This is probably hard to hear but you need someone you can count on, I think it would be a good idea for you to get new friends that would be their for you and wont take you for granted.
I think it is hard to do that but maybe I should seek out a few new people to be around, some more give and take would be really nice. Not sure how I will do this though...
Do you go out to any public places?
I’m raising my grandchild. Maybe in a group of others in a situation like mine I’d be able to find what I am looking for?
Well, with COVID and my one medication causing a low white blood cell count I cannot go out very much..
Once I can go out more I am sure it would be easier
Yes that work, and yes i know its a bit risky, maybe you can try joining any online groups of people that have things in common with you.
That’s a great idea. I think I will seek out some online groups for support and some where I have similar interests like a book group or something. That’s a great way to start!
I’m actually a little excited to give this a try!
Yes book clubs are great.
I love to read so I think it would be fun too
You’ve been very a very kind listener...thank you for that!
Do you think it will be easy to find online groups?
yes i do think its easy to find online groups, and the people are really nice to. I have tried it.
Awesome!!
Thank you again! I actually feel a good bit better because you took the time to listen!
I think you will enjoy it, and you are welcome.
I’m going to have to leave now...I hope you have a wonderful night/day!! Thanks for everything!
Thank you, you are welcome. Enjoy your day | {
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4 | 2 | Hello!
Hello
How are you today?
I am okay I guess, I am really stressed and not sure how to handle it
Im sorry to hear that you are stressed. Would you like to talk about it?
Yes, I am not sure who to tell
Well as a neutral individual i would be willing to listen to your concerns and or stressors. It can help to be able to vent to someone without judgement.
Ok thank you
I have a lot of homework and housework, and especially during these difficult times it is hard to get support and feel like I am improving in life
It is really stressful and hard to plan out all the things I have to do, and sometimes I get a headache just thinking of it all
I see, it must feel like a lot of pressure to get so much done during an already hectic season.
Yes, and not being able to meet friends or go out much makes it hard to get all my emotions out
Well first off that is normal to feel that way. I think most of us do but just don't speak up about it. Also being away from your friends and family can cause feelings of doubt because you may not feel like you have trusted ones to lean on. However
You should try to take some time out of each day to instead of question yourself to congratulate yourself, because you are doing tough things on your own but hey youre DOING IT!
Do you have any tips on how to deal with headaches or being overly stressed or anxious?
For anxiety and stress i would sugesst taking time out away from all your chores and tasks and just be to yourself. What is something you enjoy? May a cup of tea or an episode of the office. You always have to take a moment for yourself
So something like going for a run, or watching a funny movie?
Meditation, yoga, a warm bath these things can also be soothing as well. SOmetimes using kinectic energy up can help as well like going for a brisk walk to burn off the adrenaline that causes anxiety
Thank you for the ideas
But what if you get so stressed you can't really think of anything else?
Yes! Heck go all out and do both is you have a treadmill ha ha ! do what makes YOU happy even if just for a moment
IF your stress has become that high, then you go ahead and aknowledge the anxiety that is flowing through you. Give it you attention and close your eyes and start to ask yourself what is the root of what is scaring me. What is the official thoing i am afrad of or worried about. When our thoughts begin to race its hard to focus and we make mistakes and that adds to the stress.
Thank you so much, your advice will be really helpful!
Would you like any links to a webpage or group that may also have tips or advice?
I think it is fine, but thank you so much for giving me tips
Youre very welcome! I hope that you are able to enjoy the rest of your holiday | {
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4 | 3 | Hello there, would you be able to give me some advice?
The first lockdown was bad enough but the second has really thrown me into despair. I simply cannot cope without being able to see friends and family for much longer.
I would be glad to. What is troubling you?
I have run out of coping mechanisms!
I completely understand and had similar experiences. What were some ways you tried to interact with people last shut down?
I use facebook quite a lot and it helps but it cannot compensate for face to face contact. I really need to be able to see people.
Digital contact does have its limitations. Could you meet with people outside at a distance?
Well, part of the problem with that is that I am not sure what the rules are any more! We have been told so many different things that I am out of the loop.
I understand. Try sticking to the basics to make it less stressful. Wear a mask outside at a distance.
I always do wear a mask.. I think we legally have to :). I really miss little things like going out for coffee or to the gym though. It makes me feel like will never be the same again.
Have to talked about this with friends? They may be feeling the same way. Just talking this out with the may be reassuring.
I have a little bit but I don't want to burden them. The other aspect is that it is making me anxious about many others things too. I keep having morbid thoughts about what will happen if the pandemic never ends.
That’s understandable. Maybe talking to a professional who you don’t have to worry about burdening with your concerns will allow you to talk about your concerns.
That's why I'm here ;). You are being very helpful, thank you! It's just nice to be able to tell people what I am worried about and not have them think that I am just being silly.
Many people are struggling with the current state of affairs. Don’t be afraid to talk to people they may also be afraid to talk to people and you could miss out on supporting each other.
That does sound like really good advice. The other thing I haven't mentioned yet is that I have been having financial pressures because I am on furlough. I am worried that if this lasts much longer I will end up deep in debt.
I am sorry that wasn’t helpful.
Have you tried looking into local recourses in your city?
I felt that you were very helpful. It is nice to just know that someone is listening. I do not think that there is much in the way of local resources at the moment - everyone is very stretched.
That is true it has been hard for many people.
I do feel better for having been able to talk to you about this - thank you very much!
I think I will be able to carry on for a bit now. Thanks again and best wishes!
I’m glad I could provide you some support | {
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3 | 2 | Hello
Hello, how are we doing today?
I am alright, how are you doing?
I am doing swell
What's on your mind today?
I really want to ask how you are doing and what issues you are having, I have done like 5 of these on the supportive side. I have been getting migraines lately which is making my depression worse
How long has this depression been looming over you?
Pretty much my whole adult life, at least 12 years or so
I am sorry to hear that, you mentioned that you have been getting migraines lately though you have been depressed for a longer duration, lets try to pinpoint that cause first
I honestly have a pretty good handle on the depression, lots of therapy. The migraines are making it hard to get anything done though
Would you say that the migraines are a result of working?
I am honestly not sure, I have gotten one in my entire life before and 6 in the last month. I dont think that it is stress related
you'd be surprised as how much stress actually does to the mind itself. Has anything in your daily life, in the past month alone, changed that would lead to increased stress that you wouldn't normally experience?
Honestly not really, things are going well at work and life is actually going well
from where I am, most businesses require us to work form home. Is this true for you?
No I am stuck going into work, we are essential enough to stay open
Ah, I also know some essential workers who must physically attend work. I am lead to believe that the pandemic inadvertently causes a lot of stress in places that we don't commonly associate stress with. For example, wearing a mask everywhere for us in the United States can become a pain sometimes like when I forget it in the car or the house
Yes honestly covid has definitely been exhausting. masks have been mandatory here for quite some time so I am never without one
I don't blame you, its impossible to keep this composure especially with a pandemic breathing down our necks. When I worked, I found that smaller problems that wouldn't normally phase me began to have a greater effect when the pandemic hit
Thus my stress went up as a result and wearing a mask didn't help the problem
Honestly I wear a mask 8 hours a day and its not a big deal
Hmm I guess we all deal with the precautionary measure differently. Has your daily routine changed at all in the past month?
Not much has changed
are you able to identify any change whatsoever? I ask since any imbalance our body and mind experience is sometimes enough to see a poor reaction, that may lead to things such as migraines
Yes its been surprising, I have talked to my doctor and he suggested I try to document my triggers so I will try to do that
Anyway I have to get going, You have been very helpful. Have a wonderful day!
Glad to know my advice is worth something, afterall I am not a doctor
Nice speaking with you! | {
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4 | 3 | Hello, I am feeling very sad because I tested positive for Covid this week. I am in quarantine away from my family.
sorry to hear about that. So your test results were positive. Did I get it right?
Yes, I tested positive for the Covid virus on Wednesday.
It must be hard to stay alone. Are you having fever or any other sever symptoms. Hope there is someone to take care of you for a while at least.
I'm by myself in my house. My wife took the kids to stay with her father until my quarantine period is over. I have mainly cold symptoms - body aches, stuffy head, sore throat. Nothing too serious so far.
I had COVID last month with mild symptoms. Good to know that you don't have any sever symptoms. You will recover fast.
I hope so. I'm on the older side (not senior citizen yet) with high blood pressure, so I'm a little nervous about how it will affect me.
I can understand staying alone will be devastating. Keep monitoring your oxygen level. If that is normal, you don't have to worry. You can read watch tv or can do video calling to your family.
Thanks for the advice. We're doing a lot of video calls so I can see everyone. That helps.
I wish for your fast recovery. Hope this COVID situation end soon somehow.
That's what is so frustrating - I feel like a couple more months or so and I'd have the vaccine. Made it a year, then get infected during the stretch run of this pandemic.
Very true! It is kind of never ending. There should be some permanent solution for it.
I don't know if that will ever happen, but if it becomes rare and much less deadly like colds and flu, we should be able to return to a pre-covid life or close to it.
We can still hope for the best right now. Let's stay positive and fight it.
I was fighting it, but Covid won this week!
Think other way. You defeat it and you won.
I hope so. I'm only in like the third inning or so right now though.
You are a strong person. You are almost there to win. Your family is always there with you.
Thanks for the encouragement. 10 days cannot come fast enough.
I know but i week has gone so rest will go too. Wishing you fast recovery and take care of yourself.
Thanks, good luck to you. Nice chatting with you.
Thank you! It was nice talking to you too. | {
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5 | 4 | Hi there how are you doing?
I feel sleepy but can not sleep
That is not good. Is this a new thing or has it always been this way?
It has always been that way
Have you ever tried to get any help for it?
Yes I have but I never was able to find someone to understand
That's shame. Not all doctors are understanding. Are you able to see someone else?
Yes I did.
What about over the counter stuff? Have you considered that?
I personally have found some very useful herbal remedies.
I have tried that but it does not help. The images of my past haunt me.
Ah I was going to ask if you thought that some trauma had started this, Do you want to talk about it?
Yes my father used to beat my mother and I would need to watch.
That sounds very traumatic. Have you ever talked with anyone about it before?
Yes I have everyone says to move on
Well that is not very helpful of them! Clearly you are not able to move on or you would not be having disturbed sleep
Yes you are right.
I hope these were not paid specialists you were seeing
Are you there?
Yes I am.
You went very quiet! What else would you like to talk about?
I am sorry I was thinking about the trama
I am sorry to hear that, I did not mean to upset you further. Anyway I hope you can get some adequate help in the future. Anyway, I wish you all the best!
Can you press quit and take the survey? I can't do it my end :)
Thank you.
can you press quit and take the survey? :)
hello? :) | {
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5 | 3 | Hello! How are you doing today?
I don't know.
Do you mind me asking what it is that caused you to reach out to someone for support?
When I first called this number a voice said to state what the problem. Do you have that information?
I'm not aware of there being a phone number for you to call. This is a task that is supposed to be done via Amazon's Mechanical Turk platform. I believe you're supposed to tell me what the problem is. Then, I will help you through it as best as I can.
Give me a minute and I'll restate it okay?
That sounds good!
Friday while out doing last minute Thanksgiving shopping I got a call from my best firend's that my best friend was rushed to the hospital. I hung up and rushed to the hospital. When I got there my fiance and my best friend's family were all there. Hold on let me finish.
I'm so sorry to hear that. Take your time!
The sister told me my friend has advance Kidney Failure and could die at anytime. I just saw my best friend Thursday and she fine. The sister also told me my friend has AIDS and hasn't been taking her medicine. My jaw dropped because this is my best friend. She went on to say I need to get tested because my best friend and fiance has been having an affair. I couldn't believe anything she was saying. I confronted my fiance know he would say it wasn't true. He didn't deny or confirm anything. He kept saying he was so sorry. I've been at moterl since Friday after i ran from the hospital. I don't know if my best friend is dead or where my fiance is. I'm scared and mad.
I dont know if my best friend is dead or alive.
I don't want to see my fiance because him being at the hospitalbefore me verifies what the sister said. How couldthey do this to me.
There was nothing I wouldn't do for either of the two of them and this is how they repay me? I know its wrong but there 's a part of me that wants her and him to die.
Oh my goodness. I am so incredibly sorry that all of this happened to you. I can tell that you are completely overwhelmed with emotions right now.
With all the crap happening in the world this had to land on my head. WHY? WHAT DID I DO?
I don't believe that you did anything wrong whatsoever. Sometimes, really unfair things happen to really good people. I can't even imagine how hard this must be, but I would try to look at it in a positive way. I know that losing your best friend and your fiancé must be devastating, but at least you now know that your fiancé is someone who you most certainly probably don't want to spend the rest of your life with.
I've been cheated on myself, believe it or not, and it was my daughter's father and my best friend. I can't believe how similar our stories are. I'm not even kidding! I refused to get back together with him (we were engaged at one time as well) and because I refused to get back together with him, he got my best friend pregnant and they are now together and recently had a second child. He has completely forgotten that our daughter exists.
Were you married to him?
I think I would start by putting your own health first and getting yourself tested to make sure that you haven't contracted anything from your fiancé. I know this will be incredibly hard, but I wouldn't want to see you getting sick and suffering as a result of his infidelity.
No, we were not married. We were together for almost 7 years and engaged at one point, but I broke it off after he cheated on me. He cheated on me several times. It's the worst feeling in the world.
I'm scared to get tested. What if it comes back positive?
Was the child he had a boy or girl?
I would be scared, too. However, it's better to act now because to my knowledge, the sooner that you find out and treat it, the better the chances are of you treating it. There are a lot of new medications out there that can be used to treat HIV and AIDS.
Have you been tested for AIDS? What do they do when you get tested?
I know that their first child is a girl. I'm not sure if their second is a girl or a boy. I haven't spoken to him in several years. I found out through a friend about their second child. We haven't spoken at all since I found out about the first one.
I have been tested for all STDs because I was cheated on. All of mine came back negative. All they did when I got tested was bloodwork.
Have you thought about reaching out to a therapist or counselor who could help you to work through your feelings and everything that you're dealing with?
Didn't you say you have a daughter by him? And you haven't talk to him since he cheated? What about your daughter feelings? She has a right to know her father doesn't she?
I am so incredibly sorry that you have to deal with all of this at all but especially at the start of the holiday season. My heart absolutely breaks for you.
Yes, we have a daughter. He spent the first eight years of her life in prison. I gave her the choice as to whether or not she wanted to get to know him. He had plenty of opportunities to speak to her and chose not to call or show up when he was supposed to. The last thing she said about him was, "All he does is lie to me and break promises. I don't want to see him or talk to him anymore."
And no I haven't thought or going to therapy. I'm not the one who cheated on anyone and this just happened Friday. I didn't know where to start. So I called here
Are you or your daughter in therapy?
I'm a great mother and I always put my daughter's feelings first. She made the decision not to see or speak to her father. Him and my now ex-best friend are on drugs and don't have custody of their own children. It's in my daughter's best interest that she doesn't know him.
Yes, we are both in therapy. It helps immensely.
I know that you weren't the one who cheated, but I would still highly recommend talking to someone about what happened. This is going to be very hard to get through. Again, I am incredibly sorry that you are going through all of this. Our chat session will only last for a total of about 30 minutes. This is meant to be a one-time task, unfortunately.
I'm not sure if you can help me because I've never did drugs.
I never did drugs either. My daughter's father did.
He still does, and so does my best friend. They lost custody of their kids. I have custody of my daughter.
Anyway, I hope that you eventually become more open to talking to a therapist on an ongoing basis. I hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving.
Oh okay. I hope you and daughter have a nice holiday. My plan for the holdiay was to tell my fiance he's going to be a father and my best that she was going to be a Godmother. Now I don't know. It was nice talking to you. Good luck to you and your daughter.
Oh, wow. I didn't know that you were pregnant. I hope that you and your baby are okay!
I think you will be a great parent anyway! Best of luck to you. | {
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5 | 3 | hello there, how are you?
I am ok. Kinda having a rough day today.
I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it?
Sure. It's coming up on 3 years next month that I lost my boyfriend in a car accident. Its just really rough this time of year.
Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you.
Extremely hard. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. He got killed within an hour after leaving the house on his way to work.
He was killed so soon after you last saw him?
Very soon. And the worst thing is I was upset with him that morning. He had an addiction to xanax. I was not ok with it. He had went and got some that morning and he would always give them to me so I could give them to him so he didn't take them all. I was so upset that he went and got them. He was packing up his truck with things to take to the new shop that day. He was a tattoo artist and just started a new job. I didn't even get out of bed to help him and he knew I was upset with him.
Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault!
I had decided that I was gonna wait to hear from him that day instead of texting or calling him. I wanted him to realize how upset his addiction made me. Instead the phone call I got was that he had been killed.
Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first?
I haven't done any counseling. I know I should and it would probably help me. I don't know why I have not.
I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor
I don't feel guilt about it. Now at least. I was pretty hard on myself at first. But I know that he knows why I was upset that morning. It was something we dealt with a lot.
Are you still in touch with his family and friends?
I went and talked to a therapist once right after and never went back. And I don't know why. He was amazing to talk too. But I just never went back.
I think you should do things in your own time but I would recommend doing it again one day.
I don't have any contact with his family. I actually had to block them on all social media. They are extremely religous. Which there is nothing wrong with that. But he didn't have the best relationship with any of them. They couldn't accept him for who he was. His biological father didn't have anything to do with him. His mom was remarried and had two more kids and they didn't treat my boyfriend very good growing up. He ended up living with his grandparents. He finally had acceptance in my family. He actually talked to my mom more than I did lol.
Sounds like a very complicated set up. It is sad when family members become partially estranged from one another.
His family has been pretty horrible to me and my girls. And I know it's because they have guilt for the way things were with their relationship. They didn't even invite me and my girls to the burial of his ashes.
That is extremely offensive and I think you would have had the right to contest that.
It's very sad. Not what I wanted at all. But they were really horrible to me and my girls. I know he would not be happy that they have treated us so poorly.
I hope that you are able to come to terms with things in the near future. Please try and focus on your girls and not worry so much!
His sisters went and cleaned out and took everything he had from the shop the day after the funeral. Which really hurt. The stuff he had there meant alot to me.
I think you should talk to someone about this. Maybe a lawyer? There must be something people can do to help.
I hope I can too. I just take everything day by day. I start a new job this week and hopefully things will start looking up. The last 3 years have been rough to say the least.
I have to wrap this up now but I wish you all the very best for the future. Please try and reach out to people for help!
We weren't married. And of course he didn't have a will. He was only 32. So according to his family I have no legal rights.
Thank you for chatting with me.
You are very welcome!
Have a good night.
And you too, goodnight.
You can leave now :) I will just wait around till you've gone. | {
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4 | 2 | Hi, how are you?
I am not that good
I have tried everything but not able to find suitable job
I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?
Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?
Yes
I actually created good profile on LinkedIn
We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search.
but so many people apply for same openings within few minutes.
That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?
Its highly competitive nowadays
Yes, I am taking feedback from my ex-colleagues
That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help?
They have been very helpful but because of pandemic its pretty slow and lot of people are applying for same profiles
What sort of position and in what industry?
I actually used to help people in the past in their profiles but now its not working
I have a software background with business intelligence
Looking for position as business analyst of BI Developer
That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances.
I have worked for several years in a dynamic startup enviornment
The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?
Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?
I was working on a senior position but I am looking for profiles like early starters
The senior positions are difficult to grasp because of economic slowdown
Yes, I was working from home for a while in my previous organization
If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs.
Yes, I have atleast 5 different resumes with little tweaks. In a startup, you end up gaining knowledge of various fields.
So you're interested in going into the startup world?
No, I don't want to go back startup world again. That's not at all reliable
Its highly risky
Ok. So you want stability and a higher-level position.
Stability is much more important, I don't need a higher-level position at this point of time. I am already looking for junior profiles to enter faster in the job market
Is it possible that you are overqualified for those positions?
Yes, but I have made customized resumes for different profiles. I tend to remove many things like MBA wherever its not required.
I generally try to apply with a balanced resume, its just that market is highly competitive.
That might work, but I wonder whether HR will want your credentials once you get a job.
I doubt HR will have any concerns about my credentials about being over-qualified after getting hired. The reporting manager may be anxious rather happy to know about my skillset
Ok. It's hard to know how companies play those things now. Sometimes they check your social media accounts for any inconsistency.
Yes, they do check the social media accounts but I tried to keep generic profile over there to avoid concerns.
That's good thinking. Play it safe.
Yes, thanks. I will keep trying I guess. Hopefully I get a job soon.
Is there anything else you would like chat about?
No, that will be all. Thanks
Ok. Have a good day.
Thanks, you too.
Ok. | {
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5 | 1 | hi
is there someone there
Can you help me
hello
did you leave the chat
Please talk to me I need help!
no i am here
I came here for support
Thank goodness
How may I help you
I am having a really hard day today
what happened today?
this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like
I got grounded becuase my parents found out that I recently started dating before age 18. I am 17 and feel like I should be able to have a boyfriend now
Ah i understand. I am sorry about that.
Why do you think you should have a boydriend now?
Also i can relate to what you have been to I was once a 17 year old whos parents did not want her to have a boyfriend as well.
I have waited till age 17 as I knew this was best for me. The boy is my childhood best friend and has waited for years just to be with me and only me
Ok wow that is a very good position to be in. Now I want you to consider your parents perception why would you think that your parents might not want you to have a boyfriend?
Becuase they are trying to control me and dont want me to be happy and to be alone forever
I understand, Parents are complicated creatures. As an adult maybr your parents are worried about your saftey?
Or maybe they dont want to see thire kid grow up that fast your are almost 18!
Why would they worry about my safety? They have raised me to make decisions and I fel like I have made a good one waiting this long and in my own choice of the guy I chose to start a relationship with
Parents worry about thire kids all the time. you know pedophiles, kidnappers and a a lot of other dangerous people out there. it is only natural for parents to worry
Well, I guess I understand a bit more put like that.
Since we might run out of time soon can I give you my advice to you as well?
please do
my advice is too fold 1) demonstrate how mature you are to your parents think of it like a job interview. when you bring this issue up speak in a nonconfirmational tone. 3. patience. it takes time to change minds. | {
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5 | 2 | Hey! How can I help?
How are you?
I am sad because I lost a family member to politics.
How have you lost them?
I was not invited to Christmas and had a separate one. So the family picture is really awkward.
Why do you think you were not invited?
Because he gets really angry at LGBT people.
Does he have a reason or is it just his thinking?
Have a reason for what, do you say?
Does he have a reason for getting angry at LGBT people?
He has the right wing agenda stuck up his ass, but no, no real reason whatsoever.
If he doesn't respect your lifestyle, I'm sure he doesn't hate you as a person, he just needs time to accept your decision.
Perhaps so, but I still feel like it is unfair. I have accepted that we will probably not be on good terms in the future.
You should strive to be on good terms, no matter how long it takes. It's just a matter of how long
I should, I fear that it will take too long, but it is worth it.
Yeah! It will all be worth it. Maybe try to understand it from where he is coming from, did anything happen for him to feel this way?
That's something you would have to ask him, but I feel like I am at peace for now. Let people do their own thing, is what I think.
Yeah that a good way to look at it. Maybe take your mind of it by occupying yourself
Well I think you are right. Perhaps I'll do that right now. Thanks for chatting it was helpful!
Your welcome :)
Yes, thanks :)
No problem! | {
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5 | 1 | Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
Hi, I'm not good. And you?
I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?
I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things
Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.
Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.
Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
probably it's true
Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.
listen to me
Yes, we're going to talk about it
it's better for both of us
go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says.
The eyes is the key
for everything
I'll do it
If he is evasive, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Make him promise you that you will stop fighting or else you are going to find another man who will appreciate you.
a ultimate for him
it's called the take-away in psychological sales.
It's going to help me
I didn't know thay
of course it will.
that*
look it up.
do you love this man?
I'll look it up. Thank you
yes, I love him
Thank you. Bye
Then you sit down and have a serious talk and do what I say and see what happens.
EYES ARE KEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok, I'll do it. thanks. Bye
good luck sweety. | {
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4 | 3 | Hi! How are you doing?
I am dong good. You?
I am okay thanks but it is a worrying year. Have you been worrying about anything?
I have been staying home since last March due to COVID; getting very depressed.
Ah I hear you, I have been self isolating too. Do you have an online support network?
What do you mean by support netwrok?
Well, friends you can talk to during this difficult time? I have a lot of friends on facebook and similar that I can talk to.
I have few friends and can talk to but not sure how would they help.
Sometimes it does just make it easier to know that other people are in the same situation as you :)
You mean share experiences among the friends?
Yes .. or at least share coping mechanisms perhaps?
Do you have any hobbies that you can occupy yourself with right now?
Yes, I pay musical instruments but do to COVID could not play with the band
Could you perhaps set up Zoom meetings where you could play together online?
Any idea how would it work? Would there be any delay between the sounds from different instruments?
No I don't think so :) I think that it is totally live so you could play just as you would if you were together in person.
Thanks for the idea. I will give it a try.
I hope it goes well for you. It has been such an awful year, hasn't it?
Yes, it was.. worst I ever seen..
I wish you all the very best for 2021. I hope that you get to get together with your band again and rock!
I hope so. As they started the vaccination everything should come back to normal in few months..
Thanks for your time and support.
Yes, all we need to do is be patient! Have a great New Year and thanks for talking.
Bye | {
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4 | 2 | Hi
hi what brought you here today?
I am feeling sad and lonely
im sorry you are feel that way. i can feel that way sometimes too. is there anything that helps you feel comforted?
Well I would typically reach out to local friends but I recently moved and with Covid it is difficult to make new friends
thats understanding. with all thats going on in the world right now its hard to get out and make new friends especially being in a new city.
Yes, i wish i had some ideas on maybe some ways I could still make friends
is there a way you could connect with people in your area via social media or chatrooms maybe? I know theres this website i used once called meetup where they sometimes organize activities locally to do things even during this pandemic. sometimes they host virtual meetups to
I could check that out. I know many of us are doing virtual meetings but in person meetings are really the best. Especially when you are an extrovert.
yes i can understand that. im an introvert and even ive been feeling like needing some in person contact to feel more connected
I tried connecting with people via this app, sort of like a friend version of Tinder but no one responded back to me.
yea that can happen ive been on those kind of apps before. sometimes it takes awhile for people to respond.
It can be so frustrating. Why are you on the app if you don't want to respond to people?
yea it can been frustrating i understand your feelings. its seems like you said you are an extrovert so maybe using an app that you could connect with people in person might help?
Yes, that is what i was hoping so i tried that. I guess i will need to give it another try to see if i can find someone who is willing to meet.
yea sometimes you gotta give things another go. things can be frustrating at first but it can help to take a step back or breather and think about the situation and how to approach things again.
True. This has certainly been a year of having to take a breather from time to time.
yes it sure has been a challenging year i can relate to that. though i am confident in you that you will get through this and find connections with others
Thanks for your encouragement
you are very welcome. i am glad i was able to help you today
Yes, I have two good actions to try now. Have a good one!
you too. if you need help again working through things dont hesitate to reach out for support again. take care and have a good day | {
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3 | 1 | Hello!
Hello, how are you today?
Doing okay. How about yourself?
I am doing well. Is anything troubling you?
Sort of, yes.
Would you like to share?
I
If that is okay yes.
Yes I am here to listen.
I feel like my friend group kind of judges me for simply being myself. It makes me somewhat upset.
I know they are most likely joking, but sometimes I take some of the things they say to me very personally.
Should I still hang out with them even if they are making me feel this way?
It sounds like your friends can be judgmental and even though they are joking it ends up upsetting you.
I have been in a similar situation. I always expected my friends to support and understand me but sometimes they made fun of the way I am.
Have you ever talked to your friends about this? Have you expressed how it made you feel?
Right. The people who you think you can go to are sometimes the ones who will not really be there for you.
And I have not. I just try to brush it off.
I feel like I am afraid to confront them about this because I don't know what they will say.
From what I have seen if we avoid expressing our feelings they keep building up and can make us depressed.
That's true.
Maybe I might give it a shot and talk to them about how I feel.
It's just their response is what I'm afraid of because I don't know if they will react positively or negatively.
I can tell that this bothers you a lot.
Kind of. Sometimes I feel like I am better off without friends but then again, I've known them for so long that I just don't want to push them away or anything.
I have found that being honest and expressing our true feelings helps us and helps others understand us.
Ah okay.
It is not easy but you can do it. Everyone needs friends.
You're right. I may just need to communicate with them more.
This was very helpful. Thank you for your time.
No problem. Enjoy the rest of your day.
You as well. | {
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3 | 1 | Hello
Hello, I hope you can help me.
Sure I can
I work hard at my job in an office. We acquired another company and my job is now twice the work.
Two of my coworkers have gotten a raise and I have not gotten anything!
Have you talked to your boss about it?
I have hinted around that my job is sooo busy and he knows it, I haven't come out and said anything yet.
I can understand how you feeling you work extremely hard and get no raise when you deserve it
Yes, I have been at the job for 15 years and make a decent salary but this amount of work is insane. Do you think I should bring it up to him>
oh wow 15 years? I really believe you need a raise and doing more work now.
I honestly think you should bring it up to your boss
Yes, I think so too. I like my boss but he is funny about things sometimes. Any ideas on how I could bring it up to him. I hate feeling this way, my attitude is really turning sour.
I can't believe he has not given you a raise by now
I know!
Just tell him that you need to have a serious talk with him and tell him straight up what is on your mind don't hold it back
So, I guess I'll have to be honest and brave at the same time.
Do you think I should bring in proof....paperwork, etc. I have been working extra as well.
Yes I know you can do it but that is the only way to solve the situation is by communicating with him
Yes that would help more by bringing in proof to him
Ok, I am just so angry over the whole thing, I'm going to have to keep my cool and let him know without getting an attitude, do you think that will work?
Yes just remain calm with him
I will try, I hope I don't start crying! I tend to get frustrated and cry.
getting a attitude with him will not help at all
Yes, you are right, it will make it a bad situation.
Don't let this situation get to you so much
O
oops
I'll try not to, I have to be calm, like you said
Everything will be ok
Thank you so much for your positive support!
I'll let him know I need to talk and I'll remain calm
Your welcome i am sure he will give you a raise once you talk to him
Fingers crossed! I really have gone above and beyond and feel I really deserve it.
I will be praying that you get the raise because you deserve it
Thank you so much, you've been very helpful!
Your most welcome
Merry Christmas!
Merry Christmas to you to! | {
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5 | 2 | Hello, how are you?
Hello
Hanging in there, how are you?
I need some help
I'm doing okay. What's the issue?
I have been having too much anxiety after the pandemic started. I have too much on my plate.
I'm sorry about that. I know that the pandemic has taken a toll on a lot of people. What struggles are you having?
with that said, I have been angry at my kids. I work full time, have to take care of the things at home, cook, clean, etc, and sometimes deal with my 6 year old when he is distance learning
he needs help with the online assignments since he is so young
It seems like you really do have a lot on your plate. Do you have any other family members who can help with your duties? Older children, a spouse or parents nearby?
only my spouse, I don't have family in the United States
I am from Brazil. my family is there. My husband also has a lot on his plate, he is working from home and helping with what he can.
Do you think that you could ask him to help out more around the house? Since he works from home, it would be easier for him to help out if your job is outside of your home. Is there any way that you could hire help, like a tutor for your child?
well, I used to have someone come clean my house, but since the pandemic started, I dont feel safe about bringing other people to my house
my husband is also very stressed out
I went to the doctor and he thinks I should try some medication since I have no help, but I am scared
it's an antidepressant and a sleeping pill since I am having insomnia as well
I'm sorry about that. It seems like a difficult situation to be in. Do you think that the medication could help ease some of your stressors?
Maybe, I am afraid of trying int but I may not have another option
I think that you should try it out, at least for a little while, to see how it affects you. I used to be depressed too, but when I was put on medication, it seemed to make my life a lot easier. I had a lot more energy and was a lot happier
Thank you, good to know. I will fill my prescription
I cant live like this anymore. Thank you for your input.
You're very welcome! I'm glad I could help!
Are there any other problems you're facing?
No, that is it. I guess parents of young children are having a lot of stress with the pandemic and I am one of them unfortunatelly
Did you get addicted to the medication
Did you get addicted to the medication? I worry about getting addicted
No, I didn't. I don't think that antidepressants are addictive, but you could ask your doctor if you have any concerns
Ok, great, I will call him now and check then. But thank you for your help ! | {
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3 | 2 | Hi there, how are you doing today?
I am okay, I am very worried about my friend. I believe she is abusing prescription drugs.
Oh no, why do you think she is abusing them?
I don't think it, I guess I actually know she is. She use to have a heroin problem and went on methadone. She has since started taking anxiety medicine in order to get high.
Thats a tough spot to be in, ive actually been both sides of that coin.
I think I know what I need to do, It is just hard.
It is hard. Unfortunately you can only try to direct them to stop for so long before it can really damage your own well being, which should come first.
I agree, and after going through this in the past with her, I just can't sit and wait for the train crash. she feels like she is doing nothing wrong because she has valid prescriptions.
I feel like I should just cut her off completely, I don't have time for her drama. What do you suggest?
I would actually suggest just that. If you have tried, or do not even feel like going down that path. Then that is your decision. You should look out for yourself!
True, I definitely do not need to be caught up in her mess. I have too much to lose. I just feel bad like i am abandoning her.
The thing is with drugs, that person already abandoned themselves. Sometimes they can get the help they need, but they need to do it on their own terms. Its kind of like a blackhole where everything gets sucked into their life.
True, I know she has to want to help herself.
I hate this disease.
Me too, i dont know how many bridges i burned all those years ago.
Probably a lot, hopefully you made amends. I will talk to her and tell her I am here for her if she decides to get clean.
Thats really all you can do. I made amends with those that would listen.
I will talk to her tomorrow, thanks
Not a problem, thank you for sharing!
bye and thanks for listening
bye
Have a great night! | {
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4 | 1 | Hi! Hope you are doing great! How can I assist you?
I need assistance in sleeping sound at day time.
I looks like you have hard time in sleeping. Correct me if I am wrong.
Yes. I don't want to go by medicine.
Are you working late at night? is that the reason you want to sleep at day time.
Not late at night. But thoughout the night, starting in the evening ending in the morning. In between I can sleep enough I want, no throughout the night.
I can totally understand how you feel without proper sleep. Our body need full rest to function well.
Do you know any kind of exercise that can bring good sleep, not a medicine.
As far as I understand that you don't have long sound sleep.
May I know your schedule please. Just wanted to know how intense is your work and trying to analyze the reason behind sleeplessness.
Yes again. I have to do something to sleep well.
My schedule starts in the evening extends through the night. But I can take sleep as much I want. But not throughout the night.
When I feel restless and want to sleep well, I take warm shower before sleeping and it helps me. At day time try to keep your bedroom dark so you can sleep for longer.
Enough sleep is very important for good health.
Warm shower helps you sleep. I learn to do that. I was thinking a bath will keep me fresh and will reduce sleep. Thanks for your advice. Also I am making arrangements to keep my room full dark, no small light at all.
Thanks again for your advice.
Some people put soothing soft music to make them sleep too. Have you ever tried that?
Yes. I like songs. May be that will also help me for good sleeping. I will try that. I think it will help.
Hope it will help you. Do you any any other help?
Thanks. I feel satisfied having some ideas. I think these will work. Thanks again. Shall I take a leave ?
sure! Have a wonderful sleep ahead
Bye. ! ! !
Bye! You may submit the test now
I will try and find. BYE . . . | {
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4 | 3 | The virus is making it hard on me and causing me loneliness even more this season
I'm so sorry that you are feelingly lonely. If I may ask you a question, when did this start?
It has been for awhile.
about 3 months ago
Were you feeling lonely before the virus came this year?
Not really. I had people to talk with
It sounds that you are feeling lonely because you cannot talk to people face to face. Do I have that right?
I WFH. I am a writer
Basically because I can not at least have the nise of the people around me at times
I WFH as well. It can be very liberating, but oftentimes I feel lonely too.
Do you have more than one job that you do at home?
The only connection we have is like this
I try to write for a company. Personal views
My current living arrangements does not help either.
I know that it's really difficult right now, but it seems that the virus is going to get better in the new year. We need to push through these next few months and then it will be over.
Do you feel that way?
Are you taking the vaccine
Yes, I do feel that way. And yes I will take the vaccine.
I won't take the shot
I don't trust teh vaccine as it has side affects
Apparently, the side effects are usually minimal and temporary if you have them at all. The people that are having severe reactions have had issues with vaccines previously. I would keep an open mind. It might help to ease your anxiety about the future.
There are going to be several vaccines to choose from eventually.
Im never take the vaccines
I never take the flu shot either
It sounds like you're being selfish because you're not going to take the vaccine. Does that seem like a reasonable conclusion?
If the vaccine is that great then why did it take so long to make.
Why because of my personal beliefs, I am not being selfish.
Do you wear a mask every place you go
Yes, I do. It's not bothersome and it's the least I can do to keep myself and others safe.
I protect myself wherever I go. However the people that ignore the mask are more of a health risk than my not getting the vaccine
have a good night
You as well! | {
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4 | 2 | I'm in depression because i have fair of i will lost my job
Why do you believe you will loose your job?
because lots of people in my office they lost their job
because of this job crises situation of covid
This Covid crisis has been effecting so many lives, I totally understand,
how is your situation?
yes all effect because of this Covid
I have been holding on and trying to see the positivity daily. I practice gratitude to show I appreciate what I do have
yes I'm also trying to come out from this situation
Have you thought about talking to your boss?
no i'm trying to talk but i couldn't
i'm sorry , why were you not able to talk?
I'm just thinking but i couldn't i don't no why
I sometimes get nervous when I have to speak up about something that is important to me, can you relate?
I think because i have fear of maybe i lost my job that's why
You will feel like you will loose your job if you speak up?
yes
Honestly, I can see that being concerning for you
Thank you for thinking that much for me
You're welcome. Covid has hit many of us hard and each situation is just as important as the next!
yes , Thank you for your support
Support is needed in this new times!
Thanks, bye
Have a great day | {
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3 | 2 | Hi ! How re you today?
hello, i am struggling with the isolation and lonliness of Covid 19. it has me depressed
hello?
I am so sorry. It is really so hard right now with COVID
Have you been able to virtually connect with people ??
a little bit; it's just not the same. i am a big hugger
I am right there with you, i totally understand missing human contact.
There is a way to connect virtually in a fun way, i've tried doing cocktail tasting and wine tasting, a virtual cooking class.
really? i've never heard of that
It's very fun! You can find a wine list online and have everyone go get the same bottles. You can download tasting notes and instructions. It's really fun!!!
how do find such chats?
For my grandmas 80thi birthday, we hired a chef to do a cooking class which was so fun.
what a great idea!
I find it to be a really good way to connect with everyone . ALso having an activity gives structure to it.
yes, i can see the benefits
I also have started to exerices and go for walks more. It's a really good way to clear my head. Do. you have any hobbies that you can do?
yes, i try to walk outside everyday too; weather permitting. and that does help. it's mostly the evenings, when I'm really bored, and everyone else seems so busy
It's true! do you live alone?
yes. and i'm self employed and work from home, but right now my business is shut down, due to covid
That's so hard. You must feel so stressed. I am so sorry to hear that. It's suhch a crazy time in the world right now.
it sure is. and knowing that it wont last forever, helps a little bit too. i just really miss traveling
are we done?
That's true. I really misst raveling as well. Where do you want to go when this is all over?
I find helping to plan for trips after to be the best way to get through this!!!
anywhere! everywhere!
it's hard to plan, without knowing when it will be safe to travel again. but im researching things, so ill be ready
well, thanks for chatting with me. i feel a little better already | {
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4 | 2 | Hello
Good evening ! How are you on this cold fall night
Not too good. I am owed a lot of money by my friends but they aren't paying me back blaming covid.
I can understand how stressful this could be for you! I would feel taken advantage of too
Have you asked them when they thought they could pay you
Have you asked them when they thought they could pay you
sorry I am not sure why it typed twice
Have your friends ever borrowed money before?
Yes, as recently as yesterday, but they keep delaying. And as though rubbing salt to wound, I can see them spending on personal goods instead of returning the money to me.
I would be furious too!
I am not sure if they have borrowed before, but sure as hell, they have not returning any loan I can tell.
*they are not
I just meant if they had borrowed in past and returned it than maybe they were telling the truth but since you saw them blowing money that s rightfully yours is a problem
Can you talk to a mutual friend of both of you or if you are close maybe their family ?
Absolutely. This has put me in a tight spot financially
I can try talking to their family but I am afraid I am not that close to their family
I understand and have been in your shoes and its NO FUN and they don't get to borrow ever again.
Have you explained just how much of an issue it is to them and flat out tell them you saw them spending money on junk etc when they could have given to you . Something is better than nothing . Maybe work out a plan of 50 a week if they work?
May be I can try that, $50 a week or asking them to pay in instalments sounds like a good idea. Problem is I loaned hard cash and I need as cash, not digital transfers
And depending on how much of a friend they are you need to see if this is worth losing friendship over. I mean if you are great friends I d lay low and never let them borrow again. IF you only knew them a short while and felt sorry for them and lent them money than I D talk to parents or someone
I don't want to lose my friends, because they are the only people that helped me when I shifted to this city. But I don't like them taking undue advantage of me either.
Id be like I helped you when you needed xxx to do get buyxxx . Now its becoming an issue and I can't pay my bills. I wanted to help you now can you please give me cash of xxx for xxx starting next friday.
Yes friends are hard to come by and you certainly don't need anyone to ever take advantage of you. But the other side is do you want this person to be your friend if you can't trust them and they are showing you no disrespect or attempt to pay you back?
It's a good plan. Due to lockdown restrictions, I am unable to travel places. May be if I show up at their doors, they'll pay me back. I am gonna see if talking to them and asking for small payments works first
Awesome! Good luck! If that doesn't work we can chat again and try something else. Keep safe and Keep the faith . Personally I would recommend praying if you believe as I do!!!
Yes, I do pray and it has worked in the past. Let me try to stay calm and follow your ideas. Thanks!
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5 | 3 | what's bothering you today?
i feel like i cant stop crying
why do you feel that way? can tell me more?
i feel like im losing everything
ok I understand. would you like to talk why you are feeling like this?
my other half works so hard and i cant help felling like im not enough that they are going to just walk away
just to let you know you are not alone in this. I too was going through a rough time.
it doesnt help that we lost our baby roo and lost twins not 5 months later
talking about it and I'm sorry to hear. expressing your feelings to someone can help relieve so of that emotion.
how do people move on from a lost of pregnancy
in the end things will work out. you just have to think positive and live. God had other plans for your twins. god wanted them to be your two angels
i get that it was the way it was meant to be but it hurts so bad knowing that we may lose our current pregnancy
have you talk to a professional counselor for advice?
yes and all they say is it takes time
yes it does. Time will heal all. try to keep your self occupied and mind busy with things to enjoy
the things i enjoyed in the past dont seem to be enjoyable anymore. i just cant stop the anxiety takes over
I understand it's tough loosing someone. I know, I've lost someone too. just be positive
i pray several times a day for this baby to be healthy. but its hard to smile when i know what can happen
hopefully I ease your mind a little but remember don't be afraid to see professional help. they can offer good advice and things to keep you motivated
i see a counsler weekly but so far the anxiety wont let up
praying is good and keep on believing
anything else?
any tips for exercises to relieve the anxiety?
i have tried naming 5 things you can touch, smell and see. it helps but not a lot | {
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4 | 3 | hello
Hi
how are you?
Good day
I am fine. How about yourself?
i am alright, thanks
That's good.
yeaa
Is there anything you need today?
well going by my description i believe we are supposed to talk about my previous situation
Yes we are. Would you like to tell me about it ?
I m not sure if you saw that
Okay easy peasy. I broke up with my boyfriend because he heated on me with my friend
I'm sorry, no I didn't see that information. Will you explain your situation to me?
in details?
I see. It sound like your bothered by that.
I had a friend i thought i could trust. i never knew both my Ex and her where sneaking behind my back
I was
at the time it angered me
But im sure i moved past it
So how did you handle that situation?
That's good that you've moved passed it.
Called it quits
Are you happy with your decision?
Took me a long time tho to get over it
It takes time for trust wounds to heal but you've handle it greatly.
Yes all things being equal i believe that was the right thing to do. considering relationships cannot work without some form of trust
Good for you! Have you heard of Cheater's Anonymous?
Is that an app?
Yes it is. They help you learn to trust again if that's what you want. Would you like the web address?
Ohh i see
Yes please. that would be nice.
I'm so proud of you. Here you go. WWW.CHEATERSANNONYMOUS.COM
Thank you somuch
The address is case sensitive so be sure to use all CAPITALS.
Oh right
No thank you. You assured me people can work through their issues. Good luck.
I will remember that
Ofcos. It may take time but it will sure happen
I don't think I could have done as well as you in that situation.
Oh really? Are you somuch of an emotional wreck ?
I mean it isnt easy but we are strong humans and can pull through whatever.
I just meant if I ever got in your situation I would remember what you did and go from there. Thanks
You are welcome
You are right that we are strong humans.
And thank you for listening
it was no problem. I love hearing how people solve their issues.
Good to know
Okay and thank you. | {
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5 | 4 | Hi, what can I help you?
I am getting ready to sue my mother and am very nervous about the ordeal.
You're worried about being in court against your mother or are you worried about your relationship after that?
Both
Can you tell me about the situation, why did you decide to sue her?
My stepdad raped me and got me pregnant and I delivered a still born and i just remember the incident happened 23 years later. So now I am suing my mother.
instead of pressing charges because my sister and I dont want it in the papers
So she knew about the incident but did nothing to help you?
yes
she did not believe me
that sucks, I understand why you resent her so much
I cannot help with your worry about going to court, however, i can offer some help regarding your relationship
yes it is very difficult but im not as upset as i was i cried a lot
Crying is good, you shouldn't bottle your emotions
Have to talked to anyone in your family about this beside your sister?
yes i am kinda numb to it but I have to call the police dept tomorrow for a copy of the police report from when my step dad took the baby to them and I dont want to
No nobody knows except one cousin from my biological dads side
You should talk to someone you trust, they might be able to give you specific advice regarding your situation
that might help, i am just nervous about this whole thing i am estranged from my family for the most part so
Also, you seem to still care about your mom despite what she did. Did you consider reaching out to her after the court?
yes i imagine that we will talk
Maybe talk to your friends, it's easier for people of similar age to empathize with you
i do not have many friends really
Try to keep your cool, let her know you did it because you wanted justice.
yes that is what i am worried about thank you that is really good line i can use when she asks me why
If you still care about her, make sure to let her know you don't hate or resent her and you still hope to be able to fix your relationship
yes but what she did you really can't move past a certain point of tolorence and forgivness so i will always wish she had believed me
I understand you, it's normal to feel what you feel. It's a terrible situation and what she did really is unforgivable
yes it is. but i basically do its just i feel that she doesn't love me
I don't think she doesn't love you. Maybe she just didn't want to believe it happened
You should definitely let her know that
yes i think you are right. I think that my time is running out. i will thank you. I am going to go now.
Sueing won't solve anything, you have to talk to your mom and get all the knots in your mind out
good luck with your court
i will tell her thank you | {
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5 | 1 | hello, how are you tonight ?
Not okay im really depressed and need to talk
I've been dating my partner for a while now it's been like 4 years it tonight after dinner she tells me that she no longer wants to be in a relationship after everything I've done
I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ?
was there an argument
Yes there was an argument that started way before we even got to dinner because we're having Financial issues and it comes up a lot in our arguments
My partner believes i will not make enough money for us to live says shes tired of the same excuses
I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job?
I recently lost my job and now finding new opportunities has been the hardest challenge for me now
What can I do stay positive in this situation because I'm slowly losing my insanity
This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support?
No I actually have it looked into government-funded programs yet did you have any suggestions for me?
there are lots of things you can do , I have been having hard time myself. I had my work hours myself and have had to get creatuve ti stay aflot.
Did you have any suggestions
there are many local agencies to help with things ike rent and electric
Would they help with food and clothing
yes! also , there are many panties around most cities and local churches that help with that stuff
Yes that's great I will look into that because I do need help with a lot of different services and I wasn't aware that services were still available
with the recent change in our economy i have found that there are many places willing to help , things are not hopless and it sounds like you are motuvated
motivated
Yes I'm I'm very motivated continue my path of success
thats great !! in the meantime, have you tried talking to your partner about the situation and asking her to help out ?
it sounds to me like you are willing to do what it takes to be sucsessfull
She refuses to help out with anything but when the paycheck comes she's ready to spend it
oh im sorry to hear that, how does that make you feel? also there are also many midfullness activities you can use to reduce your level of stress and axiety like meditation
its really hard to do everything all by yourself. It seems like you are a good person with a good heart. | {
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4 | 2 | Hello how are you feeling today?
not so well
what about you
I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on?
my love is broken up
she left me alonr
I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit.
but how could I, we are in a relationship for 4 years
suddenly she left me
I understand it's difficult when you were in a relationship for so long. But it's not going to do you any good to cling on to the past. What was her reason for leaving you?
she is engaged to a richman
and they prepared to get married soon
i dont have any idea for what to do
That's even a better reason for you to just forget about her, with her cheating on you like that, you know she's not the type for you. You're so much better than her. So just focus on yourself. If you need some help emotionally, find yourself a counselor to talk to.
I tried to forget her, but whenever i tried the memories are repeating again and again
which sometimes makes me mad
Just try to focus on your hobbies, and hang out with your close friends. Keep yourself occupied on other things so you wouldn't have to think about her. Just think that you're lucky that it ended now, and it would've been worse if you found out about the cheating even later.
whenever i try to share my feelings with my friends, they are making fun on me
and irritates me so much
Awww maybe try to share you feelings with your family then
but its not easy to me tell it to my family members
I see. Over time you'll definitely be able to get over it. There are so many other women out there that are better than her. She may have been the perfect woman for you at one point but you really should come to terms that she isn't the one for you anymore.
I will try to think like that
is that really works
Yes just focus on positivity, doing fun things.
I will try my level best
Okay that's good. I can tell that you're making too big of a deal of the situation. You can think about the good times you've had with her, but that's in the past now so you should be focused on the future instead.
thankyou
i try to do this
I'm happy to provide you advice. If you need advice in the future, you could always find a counselor for you. I hope you are feeling a bit better.
o think so | {
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4 | 2 | Hello good afternoon.
Hello what can i help you with today?
having problems with a friend
i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start?
It started a couple of days ago.
what seems to be the problem?
we got into a fight
What was the fight about?
It was over an item he didnt return
I am so sorry I know exactly how you feel I was in a situation like that one time in my life
really? what did you do?
What I did is to avoid us fighting I sat down and we had a conversation to solve a problem
so you think I should talk it over with my friend?
I believe that is the best way to handle the situation instead of fighting
I see, I will talk to him. how should I start it off?
you should approach him with a calm voice
Ok I'll take that into consideration.
do not let the situation get the best of you. You should handle the situation in a appropriate manner.
He can be aggressive at times.
I can most definitly understand when he becomes aggressive just leave the situation alone and let him calm down
that is great advice I think I'm ready to talk to him
Hope I helped you in some way today. | {
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4 | 1 | Hey
How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?
I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.
Can you share the dilemma you are having?
Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done.
Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.
So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you.
Pretty much. it just happens every single time. It's kind of discouraging and just makes me an angry person
It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though.
Have you tried telling them how they make you feel?
Some of them. The others I never even get a chance because they just ignore my existence anytime I try and reach out to talk. I've just been waiting for them to pour their problems onto me or have the nerve to ask for money. Then i'll tell them. I already know they won't respond but atleast ill say my peace
After you tell them how you feel do you still give them money or listen to what's going on and try to help them.
No. Whenever I do get to say my peace, i'll just cut contact completely. Lately i've been holding it in and just barely responding if at all.
I've told one of them that i have no money and she hasn't contacted me since. But if she tries again i'll say something about the issue. I don't like feeling used. Who even has the nerve to blatantly use somebody like that? It's irritating
It's good that you let them know how you feel. By doing that, you are taking the first step in now allowing them to take advantage of you
Agreed. I just hope that one day I can meet people and form actual friendships with them
It's really hard to stand up for yourself but it sounds like you are off to a good start.
Have you taken any steps in trying to form new more meaningful relationships
I thought I did. My husband and I made a couple friends. Theyre a couple and so are we so we go on double dates but they seem more drawn to him. Me and the other girl got very close and then boom she randomly decided she only wants to talk to me when shes mad or bored
So feel that this new couple might value the friendship with your husband more then you
yeah it seems that way. Most people like him more than me and it's weird because he sucks at socializing and doesn't even like them that much
It just doens't make sense but that's just the way the ca rds were dealt
I used to have a hard time forming a meaningful relationship but then I realized it's because I had nothing in common with the people I was trying to form them with. Once I discovered something I was really drawn to I met people that way like volunteering in my community. Have you tried finding people you have more in common with.
That's actually a great idea! I guess i don't know myself well enough or have any distinct hobbies that would draw me to anybody in particular.
It's been great talking with you! | {
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4 | 3 | Hello, i've been so sad lately.
Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?
I met the love of my life last year and after a few months, i just knew he was for me. We decided to get engaged after 7 months which didn't seem so crazy to us at 29. We decided to get married after 8 more motnhs.
My friends are mostly single and don't understand.
So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe?
I can understand how you could feel sad and left out but its your life. I think you know whats best for you. Its not like you are 16
THat's true but they have been so distant and i don't know how to bridge the gap.
I mean you are 29 give me a break . You are very mature and know what makes you happy and you have had some time to explore the world so to speak. Give me one moment to think of a solution
are they close friends or just friends
Either way have you been able to have a heart to heart and be like I love xxx and I value our friendship how can we work together to make this work?
My best friends, I also left the major city that we all lived in. With COVID, i havent had a chance to meet other friends.
That's a good approach. I should try it.
You are absolutely correct with Covid everything is not normal and I am afraid we have to accept this time as the new normal until this all clears up. Also, it wont do any good to be sad even though you have a right to it is just better to try to be positive. Believe me easier said than not.
I can't wait until things are nromal again so i can take my frineds out for dinner again
Do you guys talk on face time or face book or anything social media related?
Amen everyone will be so much happier. May I say something with no disrespect since we just met
Facetime mostyl!
You can say anything!
God is on the throne and in Control . I am not just saying this because it happens to be Sunday. I haven't been to church since March due to Covid. I used to go weekly but that doesn't make me any better or worst than those who don't . I am just saying prayers help and most people say nothing left but to pray when it should be our first defense
The other thing that comes to mind is since most of us are home more and we have internet maybe you could think of something to buy under 20 or less but would convey to your friend that you are thinking of them / value your friendship and even though you are with love of your life they can be too!! IF they can't accept this after Covid and you talk face to face I am afraid you can make better friends
That's a good idea! Maybe even something fun we can do together as an activity! I will browse amazon.
Sounds great ! I wish you the best and hope I could bridge the gap. Good luck and Keep safe
Thank you so much for all your help | {
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5 | 3 | Hi how can I help you today?
Hello??
hi ..my university is not conducting proper online classes
i am very scaring about my education and subjects and exams
could you please help me out from this fear
I see, that is a problem.
yes for sure,
yea . i need to get A in acdemics but nobody helping me in online classes
I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online.
i have to pay all my student loan if i got good score
wow , you are also facing ..yea its hard these days
well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol
yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago
is ist ..is that much good app
wow sounds good .is that free app or have to buy ?
yes it is actually and its free and also all of your online exams are open book, so you can always google anything you don't know
give it a try its an amazing app
where are you from?
sounds really good dear. Is that shows all academic subjects
sure will try
how about collge fees ?
no, its just a kind of google. so you have to take picture of the question and it will google all the results for you.
my campus job lost . i fight very hard to pay all fee
wow it is a bible for us then, surely will check and write exams in it ..
ummm, fees give everyone a hard time I literally have to pay 8 grand which is due in a month lol
oh god, i barrow some money from all friends and paid and got loan on high interest..very hard times
don't worry, everything will be good at the end.
hope so , covid changed entire life
true
where are you from? you didn't tell me
yea..from chicago
ooh okie nice | {
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3 | 2 | Hello, how are you?
Anyone there?
Hi how are you?
Hi! so nice to chat with you today.
I am haing a difficult time with COVID-19. I want to go out but can't. And I'm an introvert.
I totally understand, I also identify myself as an Introvert. Never thought that in my lifespan I would want to go out and be around other people. what have you done so far to alleviate the lonely feelings?
I have zoomed with people but that is not great. Have you done anything to help?
I have also done that as well, though I do miss the human to human connection. I have learn how to knit, hot make bread ( yes! bread lol), and got out of my comfort zone and watched different genres of movies along with books. I am a creature of habit with set routine, I really tried to get out of my bubble as much as I can. Keeping my mind busy makes the days go by faster. have you tried to do something new and challenging?
how to make**
I saw that bread trend earlier in the pandemic. How did you do?
I am thinking about going to the park...
well I can tell you, the first 3 times I tried to make 'regular bread' it was a disaster. my bread came out hard as a rock. I kept working at it. You are truly involved when making bread. Cool! I did not know it was a trend? look at me I am a trendsetter, lol. YES! I recommend that wholeheartedly, Ive walked and done more sight seeing during this pandemic than my entire life. Do you have scenic place to go? Do you like to read?
I do not have a scenic place but have some nice trails. I do read. I am reading bob iger's new autobiography.
Trails, offer an experience of letting go, I believe, you become immerse in nature. I would definitely explore all trails. I did not know Iger had a book out. That sounds really interesting, I would actually love to read it, is it dull? or engaging? I do remember the headlines, he forgo his salary despite the risk of Disney losing billions in revenue, that takes guts. Do you have a pet?
His book is good. Do you enjoy reading to help relax?
I need to pick it up and dive into it. I love reading, I always tend to have a book in my hands. Yes, reading has served to not only help me relax but to teach me how to do other things, like baking. what is your favorite book?
I love the Harry Potter book series. I picked up Sorcerer's Stone when I was 21 or 22 and it provided me with some alternative to the normal drinking and late nights I had grown accustom to. Helped me apprecate books more too!
Harry potter are THE books to dive into and just immerse yourself in. I would Highly recommend The Hobbit books, I was a bit hesitant about, but dare I say I like them more than Harry Potter? If you want something more adult and edgy go with Game of Thrones. I get it, I think this pandemic is a period to learn about ourselves and truly pick ourselves apart and see what we have missing out on.
I have heard good things about Tolkin's books but have not gotten into them yet. I do like the movies though!
Sounds to me you have been handling the pandemic a lot more better than what you actually think. I have been wanting to check out Lord of the rings, but I feel I wont like, either way, I am hoping to check them out and really see if I dont like. I love movies as well, what is your favorite genre and movie?
I like movies. I usually like spy thrillers or at least have recently. What's yours?
You know what would be really cool to do, to join virtual admission to museums around the world. such a neat option that we now.
I did a bunch of those at the start of the pandemic. I like the Louvre...
Thats a hard one, I do like drama movies, perhaps the movie The boy in striped pajamas? and unbroken. | {
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5 | 2 | Hello
Hi, How are you?
I am feeling down and scared.
What is having you feel scared at this moment?
The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.
Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.
Have you been able to apply for work recently?
Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.
you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?
I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.
Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort.
Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?
I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.
Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities.
You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that?
Yes I am going to look. It will increase my chances of finding work.
It doesn't help that I live with my parents and because I have no work I spend most of my time at home and get into arguments with them.
Tension can be high when you already feel stressed about the job situation.
When I am feeling especially low or tense, I find that helping others significantly helps my disposition.
Would volunteering be something that appeals to you?
It would probably be good to volunteer to get out of the house. I think I will do that once the pandemic restrictions ease.
That would be great! There may also be opportunities to help out online until we can be more free to move around safely. It is important to be safe for us and others.
Can you think of any online volunteering opportunities? You have been very helpful so far.
I know that there are many different opportunities available. If you google "places to volunteer online", they will have a list. Including places like The Smithsonian and Crisis Text Line.
Great. I will try that today. Thank you so much for your help.
You are more than welcome.!! I expect life to start looking up for you.
Best wishes, I'm glad we spoke.
I hope so. I better go get started on the suggestions you gave me.
Thanks again and have a great day.
you too | {
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5 | 4 | Hi! How are you tonight?
Very good thanks
Glad to hear that! Is there some way I can encourage you? :D
I don't now how to cope with this pandemic any more is getting out of hand
What is the worst part of it for you? Can you identify that? I'll be honest, my husband and I don't even see anyone dying.
It is serious here about half of my neighbor are affected,
Half your neighbors died?
Not really but every day ambulance must come to pick one or two because of an emergency
So do you think you can identify the most difficult problem you have? Maybe we can look at that and possible find better ways to cope?
I am feeling depression right now
I can understand feeling depressed. I think that can be debilitating at times, however there are ways to cope and help you get out of it.
I used to struggle a lot with depression, but not much anymore. I learned a lot of coping strategies. I can share a few of those with you if you want.
One of the best ways is to take a walk. Get outside, get fresh air. Look at the sky and the clouds and the trees and the grass. This will not only physically refresh you but help your health as well.
I am really afraid here I don't know what to do
As for the pandemic, if you know no one who has died, I wouldn't worry about it. The CDC has no reported deaths of anyone healthy. People who are unhealthy die, not the healthy, and people who are sick ALREADY are the ones who die. If you are relatively healthy, then you are good to go. Do things to protect your health. What are you eating? What are you drinking? Are you talking to friends and getting social life? Are you getting fresh air? Thinking good thoughts? Or are you living in fear when you are not going to a lot of funerals.
It is well documented that our immune system is affected by our mental state, so it is important that you care for your health. Focusing on the negativity of the pandemic will bring you down. Focusing on being healthy and taking care of your mind, soul, spirit and body will help build up your immunity and make you strong.
I don't like the noise of ambulance at all any time I see one I don't feel happy
I can understand an ambulance sound is hard to hear, but even that can be turned around. You can pray for the person, then switch your mind off. If you focus on the negative, you will stay negative. If you do what you can (pray) then there is nothing else to do. Focusing on the negative will depress you.
One thing I did to help with depression is keep a checklist of things to do when I felt down: call a friend, call a loved one to encourage THEM, go for a walk, eat fruits and veggies, read a book, go for a bike ride, etc. Things like that, then I chose to do those things despite how I felt. Doing those things helped my mood TREMENDOUSLY>
Feelings follow thoughts. If you think negative thoughts, you will feel negative. If you think positive thoughts, you will feel positive. Sometimes this takes time, but it works. Just because you feel sad doesn't mean you should just do nothing, a person can TALK their way out of sadness and choose to do something different.
Thanks your words of encouraging help me a lot
I am glad you were able to talk about how this is affecting you. I think many people are affected. And I encourage you to really do things you like and enjoy to keep your mood better. If you feel down, talk about it, pray about it but do NOT dwell on it, because that will bring you down.
Sometimes we get in a funk, when we do, we can pull ourselves out, I do suggest you write a list of things to do and put on the frige.
You are very correct I like you a lot
Thank you, how very sweet! I do thank you for sharing your life with me. I'm an older person and this has affected me too. Life is full of ups and downs, so I've been through some rough times. You can do this! :D
Lovely I love meeting people like you who has words of wisdom
I had one more thought about when the ambulance comes by and you get upset. Pray for the person, pray for the workers. They are the ones who CAN do something about the sick people. You cannot. You didn't become an ambulance worker. I am not an ambulance worker, I cannot help them either, but I can pray God can help them do their job. Then I let it go.
I cannot worry about what is not my job. I have a home and family to care for and pets and neighbors. So this is what I can do, I cannot fix the sick so the ambulance workers do their job, I do mine. When I try to do their job and worry all about them and the sick people, it's not my job and there will be no peace doing the wrong job. If that makes sense.
Thanks I will continue praying for them
If that is all, then you simply finish the hit. I am sure you will do just fine!
Thanks for everything you are too good
Goodbye
You are very welcome! Goodbye now and God bless you!
Amen! Goodbye | {
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5 | 3 | Good evening
Hey, how are you?
I am pretty depressed and stressed out
Maybe I can be of assistance? What is troubling you?
I overspent and now feel gulity and I have no idea how I can pay my credit cards off
I just saw sale and couldn't pass it up now I am overwhelmed
I see, maybe we can find a solution?
sure thats why I m talking to you . so what do you recommend
Is it important as in do you really need it, if not. Can you return it?
No I got on sale on line . no returns
I see, so you have to pay it. I suggest making a plan of action, trying to pay at least the minimal balance, and try work out a saving plan to pay it off.
Yes I realize that but I have no job. I have minimal balance in a week of 100
Okay, can you reduce any expenses? Maybe a subscription?
I don't have a job and husband pays all the bills and subscriptions. We live paycheck to paycheck and he said this is my fault i pay
this would be fine if i had an income and had money that i could do that but I told you before I don't have a job so that doesn't help me
If you have more free time, you can spend it on Amazon Mturk? It is a good way to earn extra money.
That sounds interesting. How do I make money
Aren't you an Amazon Mturk worker?
Yes thats how I m doing this survey but not sure if we are supposed to talk about it
I think you are supposed to chat to me as a stranger coming to you for help
Oh I see, I was only suggesting an avenue that can help you pay off you debt. I can reword it.
ok go ahead
Maybe you can find work online doing surveys or freelance work.
That sounds great . I will do more research. Thank you . I feel a litttle better. | {
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5 | 1 | hello, what is on your mind today?
my baby who died in my womb at 5th month
i crying everyday and went to depression
how to overcome this pain
miscarriages are really hard
I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago.
It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today.
yes , mine is very worst case .In winter time at midnight heavy bleeding done and lost baby
oh god , you are a such brave person
I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie
this is my first pregnancy
i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory
my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet.
yes that is heard and not able to mingle
are you in a relationship?
yes , our body knows what to keep or not.still our mind not agree to loose
yes ,married my childhood best friend
that is great, i hope he is supportive.
you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society
yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate
wow, that is a lot going on at once!
yes when i think in deep felt yea it is good to loose baby in covid but still i bared lot pain as single in bath room
you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family
except my hubby , nobody in home lot of bed in car and bathroom entire night
lot of blood *
i had to move into a house a week after having a baby because i went into preterm labor and ended up tearing my stitches. it was a nightmare. i would have loved for my timelime to be differnt, but sometime we have to deal with the hand we are given
yes , we need to do and arrange the house
I remember that. So much blood, it was scary thinking it was all coming out of me
yes dear , we will do like that ..you a such a brave and caring person
well, you have time to get the house ready and when covid restrictions lift get yourself in a moms group so you have support and people to answer questions when they come up!
i found a moms group on facebook. They were great to answer pregnancy questions and offer support and suggestions.
wow is it ..please share the name
the depression is normal too. you suffered a loss. Your hormones are still out of whack, those take some time to get back to normal
i just searched for the county i live in and moms group. i bet there is one in your area too!
yea dear ..sure will check and will add in that groups ..it will help for me
it will :)
just hang in there and remember everything happens for a reason, even though we may not know the reason and we don't like that it happened!
thank you dear for ur kind words
sure dear , will do and time will solve many issues
i wish you luck and health!
thank you and wish you the same | {
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4 | 2 | Hi! How are you today?
not too great at the moment
Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?
because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public
I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.
and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in
Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.
yes, I do speak with family through emails and facebook, but not being there in real life makes it hard
That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime?
my computer keeps giving me a hard time when I use Zoom..I have tried video conferencing on facebook messenger
Oh no! How have your video conferences on Facebook gone. Another thing I like to do is to meet up with friends in parks or public so that we are abiding by guidelines but can still be in person.
I have used Facebook messenger a lot so the visual side is easy. I am able to see my new granchild...that helps
Wow that is so exciting! I would love to hear more about your grandchild.
She is beautiful and new to this world. I look into her face and I think maybe she knows more than everyone says..she has got her grandpa and grandma hooked...know what I mean?
Yes definitely! That is wonderful, I am sure she looks forward to meeting you. And luckily with Facebook you are able to get updates and to virtually see her.
I think it would be better when all of this is over so we can see her in real time
time
Oh yes of course that is something to look forward to. For now we just have to remain inside so that you and your new granddaughter can both stay healthy.
my daughter knows I would do anything for her and for my grandchild...staying in should be easy...right?
That awesome. Hobbies are definitely helpful for staying inside. Have you picked up any new hobbies with the extra time we have been spending inside?
because I am a wounded vet, I get craft kits from the wounded warrior site...I have learned how to sew and make jewelry..something I have never done before
Thank you for your service. That is awesome. Have you made anything for your daughter/granddaughter yet?
if you need more info contact Help Heal Veterans online...they send kits at no charge to vet
yes I have main a couple of things but daughter says she might wait until the little one is older...you know to be safe...
I made a beaded "choker" for my daughter
Yes that makes sense. You could always get a head start on future birthday presents for your granddaughter haha. I am sure she would love any jewelry made by you to wear in the future.
yes I will keep that in mind...sorry to end this but I have a phone call to attend to..okay?
Yes of course. I hope you have a great night and enjoy your phone call. Just remember all these covid restrictions are temporary and soon you will be able to reunite with your daughter and granddaughter!
I want to thank you for your time and support..you are very courteous and respectful...may you have a great holiday and new year
Of course anytime. I enjoyed talking with you too. Have a wonderful holiday too. | {
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5 | 3 | Hello there, how is life treating you today?
terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
7 years
Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future
they cheated on me
I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else!
I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time.
thanks, its been tough. i still have my dog at least.
Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now
she is super cuddly. this would be extremely hard without her.
What breed of dog is she? I have two cats and they have been really helping me when I've been feeling low.
i actually dont know. she's a rescue from mexico. she's a mix breed. maybe some whipit and lab. she looks like dobby from harry potter lol
Rescues are the best. My two are rescues and it took them a while to trust me but now they love me unconditionally. It is good that you have a pet in your life .. much better than your useless ex I think!
haha yep. i think my dog is thrilled with having the extra bed space, as mean as that sounds
LOL well it's good that you are able to look on the bright side about this. Have you considered making plans for the future, once the pandemic is over?
Yep, ill be getting back to my life and plans after. i have a bad heart condition so ive had to stay inside pretty much all year. also another messed up thing my ex did to me, cheated on me and then came back into the house. she could have passed it to me.
I am sorry to hear about your heart condition, that obvious compounds your problems. I believe that things are going to improve in the New Year though
Let's face it, there does come a time when it seems that not much can get worse
and thats when it gets worse haha
Try to look on the bright side of things :) At least you can't be dumped twice ;)
haha thats true. thats comforting thanks
I hope that one day you feel that you will be able to date and trust another person though. Don't let one bad apple put you off for life.
Anyway it has been very nice to chat, I hope that I was able to be of help
totally, thanks.
Enjoy the rest of your day! | {
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5 | 1 | hi
Hi! How are you today?
am good ..what about you?
I'm doing well. How can I help you today?
a break up with my partner please read up
I'm so sorry. I went through a bad break up last year. Can you tell me what happened?
Are you there?
yes i am ahere
i and this lady dated for 2weeks
suddenly she said she doesn't love me anymore imagine that
I'm sorry, I'm sure that has made you feel rejected.
very well
I'm sure it is hard to express how you feel with it being a short relationship, people may not understand. But sometimes we can feel such a strong connection and have faith in people very fast.
its very hard
i loved the girl with all my heart
I understand feeling connected to someone you've only known for a short amount of time. I'm sure you feel like you wont be able to let your guard down again anytime soon.
yes i have faith in people very fast
seriously its like your seeing my mind
Maybe this could be a learning experience? I always try to see the best in people, but have learned to let people earn my trust. Not just get it for free.
yeah
Is there anything positive in your life that you can try to focus your attention on?
i heard is better to let a girl love you thank for you loving her
yes
my ACHEIVEMENT IN LIFE AND WORK
Do you enjoy your job? What are some of your achievements?
YES I ENJOY MY JOB | {
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4 | 3 | Hi! How are you doing today?
I am struggling with how to turn in this situation. My son is unreasonable but I am trying to help him get through school. My boyfriend finds the situation intolerable.
That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot?
Yes, since he got back from NYC he is disrespectful. That is what is upsetting my boyfriend so much.
What was he in NYC for?
Have you tried getting counseling together?
He went to school there and left school to get acting jobs. He did get his sag and equity cards. He was also working as a caterer. Everything dried up due to Covid. In June, I convinced him to get into therapy but it is slow and I see jealousy with directed at my boyfriend.
Has he gone to therapy with you? Maybe you can try doing some fun activties together.
I know my brother had a lot of tension with my mom and finding something they could bond over really helped.
I have tried biking and hiking as well as other activities. He is openly hostile. He does not want anything to do with my boyfriend. He does not want me to go to therapy with him.
Does he give a reason why?
He says to he does not like my boyfriend. He does not seem to appreciate that he is an adult living in our house. He is rather moody.
How does your boyfriend handle it?
Not too well I am afraid. He wants Andrew not to yell or be disrespectful. They have gotten into many arguments with each ordering the other out of the house. I work 50 to 60 hour weeks and this is stressing me. I want to make them happy. I feel there are two alpha males in the house. My son clearly needs boundries, but I want him to finish school and stay safe during covid
That's such a hard position to be in. I am so so sorry that you need to go through this. I think trying to get them to therapy would be realaly amazing for both of you.
Maybe you can incentivize your son to go somehow
I can try. I am trying to help him get through school, but if the behavior does not change he will have to leave. I don't want to chose my boyfriend over my son. I would rather side with my son, however he is acting like a spoiled child.
Sometimes kids need some tough love which is really hard todo.
Thank you. I did tell my parents who are in their 80's not to take him in. I feel that he needs to make decisions or at least have some kind of respect or gratitude while living here.
What did your parents say?
They agreed. He needs to get along or realize that at 25 he may need to figure out how to get his own place and support himself.
Oh i didn't realize he aws 25. That's a good point. You can tell him that.
I feel really torn but he needs boundries in behavior. I hate the turmoil.
I am so sorry!
I hope this was helpful!
You have been very supportive. Thank you!
Great!! have a great day.
you too!
You can end the conversation whenever you are ready. | {
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3 | 2 | Hello, how are you today?
I do not know what to do. I feel like shit.
Okay try not to worry. Can you tell me a bit about why you feel so bad?
I got kicked out of the home I was living in.
Wow I am really sorry. Were you living with family, or with friends?
I lived in a rented room.
So you were thrown out from a place you were renting? Did you do anything wrong?
No. The renter said he just wanted me out. He also charged me ninety extra dollars.
Wow that is illegal. Do you know that there are organisations that can help you with this sort of thing?
No. I did not. I asked my exboyfriend at the time for advice. He just say to pay him and move.
I think that that was bad advice to be honest. I think that you are being ripped off. Do not worry, there are things that you can do about it!
That is reassuring. I would like action to be taken for justice.
You are definitely entitled to it. Do you have somewhere else to live in the meantime?
I have a couch to crash on. Another guy said I could store my furniture in his basement. But no official room.
It's a precarious position to be in, especially during a pandemic. Do you have any family members who might help?
Yes, I could call my mother. She has a room to stay in. But I only have the money to drive to her home, not the money for a rental truck to move all my stuff.
Would any family members be prepared to loan you money or a vehicle?
I could ask my aunt to use her car, she has an SUV, where as I drive a sedan.
How much stuff do you have that needs to be moved?
Queen bed, bed frame, small desk, roll chair, bookshelf, rug, boxes of kitchen stuff, etc.
Try not to worry too much - I was in this position once myself and it did all turn out for the best though it was very scary at the time.
Yes, I feel almost numb from the depression. Like non of my stuff matters, only that I am physically safe.
I think it would be a good idea for you to try and get medical help for your depression.
Yes, I agree. Asking for help is a plan.
I wish you all the very best with it - there is help out there!
Enjoy the rest of your day :) | {
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5 | 1 | How can I assist you today?
I am not happy at all
I feel that I can help you.
I have felt bad on Christmas as well, but feelings pass.
The fear of layoff from job
You are making the right decision to talk to me.
So, you are in fear of losing a full-time job or pat-time job?
What makes you think and fear that layoffs at your job are imminent?
Full time, three months a go my salary was cutoff
I feel bad about that.
So, you have been out of a job for three months?
How else can I help?
Not really just the salary was cut into two because of pandemic now they are planning to layoff some staffs which I am scare of, not to affect me
Have you consider becoming an Uber driver or Lyft driver to supplement your income?
Thanks! I am not even thinking about that at all
You can definitely do it as a way to buffer yourself against loss of income.
Does that suggestion help?
Yes! I will consider that,
You could also reduce fear by considering Door dash and other food delivery services.
I feel relived now because of your suggestions
You are too good, thanks
You have been a good person to take my advices.
You must be guidance and counselor,
I once struggled as well with fear over my job security, but decded to work many jobs to pay the bills.
Do you need any other help?
Hoo! I thank God today, I meet a right person.
Thank you for every thing,
I feel good to point you in the best direction.....are we done?
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
Noting more to seek help for, you have help me a lot. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you too. Bye and Thanks
I try and suggest ideas that benefit others.
Thanks
You can select the red Quit and Finish button
Bye for now
Cheers to your health.
You are good. Thanks bye | {
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5 | 4 | Hello
Hello
fuck Arteta , Burley still beat him today, it is seriously distasteful
hi
How can I help you tonight>
I cannot even eat let alone of sleeping
my club let me down
So just so I understand, your sports club struggled today so you are frustrated by this.
yes, on a big way , very frustrated
I can tell how frustrated this has made you just from exchanging these few messages.
the club has been struggling to win a premier league match since, you need to feel happy when you watch match but is on the other way round
I completely understand the frustration, I am also a big sports fan and I get very frustrated when my team struggles.
why is that coach still using the same pattern since? no technic work on the pitch at all. fuck him , I am down
Have you thought about talking to other fans of the team to get their feelings on the subject? Sometimes it helps to vent to people who feel the same frustration as you,
they are happy that my club is fucking up because I always proud of the club and the coach
I understand completley.
too disgusting
Do you have any other sports teams you are a fan of?
NO, I AM A BONAFIDE GUNNERS FAN
What other hobbies do you have? Sometimes it helps to distract from a tough loss to engage in other hobbies to take your mind off of it.
Listening to music
I would definitely go listen to some music and get your mind off of things.
ok...that's a best idea
i think i need to do that right now
I think that would help!
thanks a lot for your time
yes
bye
No problem! If you ever need anything else don't hesitate to reach out!
ok
Have a good night! | {
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2 | 1 | Hi there!
hello! what is on your mind today?
My girlfriend dumped me recently. I'm so lonely. I want another girlfriend, but I'm afraid that I'll never find another one like my last . I don't want to go through the turmoil again.
breakups can be really hard!
can i ask why she dumped you?
Yes. And this one has been so hard on me. I've lost my appetite. I have trouble sleeping.
She said that "we are just not compatible" which sounds like BS. I think she was cheating on me, too.
sounds like you are pretty depressed. that is understandable though
if she was cheating she wanst that good of a girl friend. if she said you were not compatible then it sounds to me like she has someone else
Yeah, but I really liked her a lot. I think that maybe we just needed more time. She didn't know me well enough.
as hard and lonely as it is right now, it was a good thing. yiu seem really great, and you deserve way better than that!
Thanks! I keep telling myself that, but I'm worried that the same thing will happen with the next girlfriend.
it can be hard letting people in so they can get to know you
fear and worry is natural, expecially after being hurt. can you think of anything you could do differnt in a new relationship if you entered one?
I wonder that too. Did I shut her out? Was she needing more from me?
Maybe I could be more open? I'm not sure. After this experience, I really don't trust women.
personally, i think dating right now is hard with all the covid crap. its hard to go on dates and do things other than sit in front of a tv. it makes things difficult
do you trust your mom?
Maybe it is better to wait a bit. But I feel like I need to DO something to get better, not just wait around.
In matters of the heart? No, I don't trust my mom. In matters of the kitchen, yes.
lol i was adopted. i don't trust my mom. either of them... lol that was a horrible example
what i was getting at awas maybe changing your sentance to i dont trust many women
OH! Ok. I see what you are saying. I should be careful about generalization. That's a good point. One bad experience shouldn't color my view.
if you try to get into a new relationship with the mentality that woment cant be trusted.... what re the chances you open up and let the next girl get to know you?
you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders!
True. But how do I learn to trust women without getting badly hurt again?
it does suck with things rae not pre-covid normal and you go from having someone there to being like what do i do now? i just binge watched national geographic out of boredom. i think i am going crazy
Hm. So, Dr. Freud, tell me about your love life.... LOL. Just kidding. I feel ya. I want to learn trust, but I don't know when the right conditions will return.
you are hurt because she broke up with you... that will make you stronger and be more attentive next time. and if everyone was born and met thier solemate it would be odd. life is about ups and downs. by the time you find mrs right, all these idiots that were not good for you will help turn you into the perfect person for the one that wont break your heart
True. You make a lot of great points. I needed to get some perspective on this issue.
Thanks for chatting with me today!
lol i have had my fair share of horrible relationships and breakups trust me
it was nice talking to you!
Thanks again!
have a great night!
You too! Best of luck with your next "client." :-) | {
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4 | 2 | Hi, how are you?
Hi there! I'm great, what about you? How can I help today?
My girlfriend dumped me for someone else! I've been really shook up.
I'm so sorry to hear that :( Do you have any idea why?
I think she just lost interest in me? It happened a couple of months ago. I wish I could get over it. I can't get her off my mind. She's dating this total loser.
That's tough... so you're saying that you grew apart a little? Or do you think it was more one-sided?
It probably was more me than her. Maybe I should have done more to show her that I cared for her. Am I not romantic enough? Some guys just aren't that way.
I completely understand, and I don't think you should beat yourself up over it!
That's a fair point. I shouldn't be too hard on myself. I didn't really grow up in a romantic family. I don't know how to do that stuff, but maybe I could learn.
Exactly, and remember everyone is different, perhaps you just weren't her right one, and that can go both ways.
Do you want to improve for her? or for yourself do you think?
That's true. I really got hung up on her. I thought she was perfect and that we were perfect together. She didn't see it that way. I can't really change who I am, and she couldn't change who she is.
I don't know if I can change myself for her. Maybe there is something basic that she wants that I just don't have? I should probably change for future relationships.
That's a great line of thought, its good that you're able to identify that yourself
What do you think I could do to improve myself?
I suggest that you stay exactly the way that you are. I feel like you'd be happier that way and also more likely to find someone who shares the same values as you
If you change who you are, it sort of means that your ex still has a hold on you, you know?
Will the same problems show up in the next relationship though? It could be a long search before I find someone that matches with me?
That's true. But I feel like I should take away something from this experience.
I guess that depends on you, would you rather compromise for a relationship or find one who'll really last and not have to change?
I think all relationships require compromise and change. No two people are perfectly compatible.
I worry that I have blind spots that I should fix. My ex-GF didn't really specify what the problem was.
That's true, building on that, you could also say that what your ex found to be the problem is not the be-all end-all. What your ex disliked could be what 10000 other girls love in a guy
That's true. I might end up trying to solve a problem that really isn't there. It's not a bug, it's a feature! :-)
Wow, you put that really nicely!
Thanks! You’ve been really helpful today. I can’t thank you enough for your encouragement and insight.
It was no problem! Thank you for sharing and talking it out!
I feel a lot better now. Have a great day! Bye!
Have a great day :) bye!
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4 | 1 | Hi, how are you feeling?
Hey, I'm doing good at the moment. How about yourself?
Not too bad! It looks like a lovely day out.
Haha, I wish I could say the same. New York is depressing, cloudy and cold.
Well make sure you're bundled up and warm!
I got the heater on and a sweater, working from home so it's not too bad.
Sounds cozy. Glad to hear that you're staying safe indoors!
Yeah it's a good benefit, especially with covid going on
Definitely! How are you dealing with the pandemic? It's been a long year.
Not too bad, still have limited work and all remote so wont complain. But the expenses are tough.
How about you, hope your well
I'm not too bad, but cases are also going up here in California. Luckily, my family and I haven't gotten sick.
Thanks good to hear, New York was doing well up until the holidays season. Now we might get another lockdown.
I think that's true for a lot of states since cases seem to be going up everywhere, unfortunately. What are your plans for the holidays?
Mostly stay home with the family, try to save money and cut expenses this year. How about you?
We're planning on camping in the desert. That's a good idea to save money. How do you plan on saving money?
No gifts giving and going make a modest size home made family dinner for thanksgiving this year. Usually we go visit family out state. We just want to get out of debt this year and save for next year.
Coivd really humbled us. But it's a good thing
Those are all really good ideas, and it sounds like you know what's really important! It's definitely been a tough year, but it's also good to look ahead and plan for the future.
Yes, thanks for the chat. Love the positive vibes!
It's been great chatting with you too! Hope you and your loved ones stay safe out there! | {
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3 | 1 | hi there, how are you and how can i help?
hey!
not too bad but like i said
im going into university and my parents want to me to do architecture
when im really into engineering
money is a large factor so-
i see. are your parents paying for your university?
well money as in like salaries later on
tuition fees aren't an issue im in canada and all
but like architects generally make more money than mechanical engineers on average
so they don't approve my career path
oh i see. so you mean that your parents would prefer you to choose the path that will eventually give you a higher salary?
yeah exactly!
but i don't like architecture very much, i don't find myself fond of art
that is a tough situation. it's definitely not easy to go against your family's wishes, but at the same time you have to do what's best for you
well what's best for me is literally a good salary because i'd be lying if money isn't an issue
but am i going to be happy later on doing the job?
i went through a similar experience during my schooling, and i had to explain to my parents that i don't want to disappoint them but i still have to do what makes me happy. having a career that you hate doesn't feel good - i've been there
but there can be careers in engineering that have connections to architecture as well, such as structural engineering
yeah i agree
it's much more suitable if i could mix up the details of each career paths
but frankly i don't think my parents should be concerned with engineering either
it pays well and provides good stability
but like they said architecture suits my strengths more and i can go further with it
honestly i think both are great career paths to pursue and as you said, both are stable and well-paying fields
strengths doesn't always equal happiness though, so that's a tough one.
have you considered speaking with both architects and engineers to learn more about each job? that might be helpful in your decision. sometimes what we think a job does, in actuality can be totally different in real life
yeah!
i went on reddit to ask students in my desired uni
and they all said that what they are doing is what you expect
architects said it's a booming business in Toronto
engineers is always in demand, but not growing
ah well i commend you on taking that step and actually trying to learn about the jobs. you seem like a really smart person and you're able to see things from a logical perspective
thank you i've done the research to dispute my parents' arguments you see
but like-
utimately its about how much i like it o not
*or
i think what you need to do is take that same logical approach and explain calmly to your parents the path you want to take. just because they think your strengths are suited for architecture, doesnt mean you don't also have the strengths for engineering. many of the same skills are probably required for both jobs, and you're right: ultimately it is about what will make you happy
and worst case scenario: you can always change careers later if you find that you don't like what you're doing
yeah you are absolutely right
but about the careers path
not sure if you're in canada or not, but it's much harder to switch careers in canada
you pay more and it's not like in the States where you can finish your degree whenever you want right
once you paid
you sound like a good student and i'm sure your parents must recognize that you're capable of great things, so if you can present to them a logical argument of why you feel engineering is a better path, hopefully they will listen.
yeah that is the plan
you're been extremely helpful and im grateful for that
i don't get to share these things very often
my friends are just as busy too you see
But I'll think we can stop it here
you're welcome. best of luck to you and i hope you find the right path for yourself. i commend you for opening up here and i think you'll find success
It's nice to have someone motivate me hehe thank you so much
best of luck to you too!
once again thank you!
thanks!
bye! | {
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3 | 2 | I just can't make myself get started. There are so many dishes.
Sometimes even every day tasks can seem overwhelming. Do you have an idea of what makes you put off the dishes?
I feel like I just don't know where to start.
How long have you been hesitant to start?
I guess it has been a few days now.
I get it. Sometimes I find dishes so overwhelming that I will let them pile up. Maybe together we can figure out a way to break it into smaller tasks.
Ok, I suppose I can try that. But I don't quite know where to start.
It is so hard to figure out where to start sometimes. Ok, I'll help with a plan. Maybe you can glance at the dishes and pull out the largest one that is dirty. Let's start there.
Ok. That makes sense. There is a large pot. I think if I was that, maybe it would get me started.
yes, starting with the large pot would be a great place to start! Good thinking!
Ok, but then what?
Well, washing the pot will make the overall task look smaller. Then, let's pick a second type of dish to focus on. After you wash the large pot, try to focus on larger bowls, then plates and cups. You could leave the silverware for last.
Oh, thank you so much! It helps my anxiety to talk through a plan. Sometimes I get so anxious, it is hard to figure out how to break a large task down to something manageable on my own.
I am always happy to help. I find it difficult sometimes too.
I really think you are figure out how to get through this and help your anxiety.
Wow do you think so?
Have you every had anxiety like this?
Yes, I have. I often look at work assignments as larger than they are and can only get started when I break them down.
I really think you have done great job figuring out how to tackle the task that is causing you anxiety.
I think so too. I hope I can apply this to other things.
So, it's easy to figure out with things like dishes because there is a size. How do you do it when it is a task that isn't physical like this. Like work?
So, I see that you get how to do this with this task, but it is still hard to figure out how to conquer tasks that aren't physical like dishes. | {
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4 | 3 | I'm still sad about it.
Do you think I should contact him?
Please tell me more about your story
I am living abroad and was really into this guy. We dated for almost a year but both wanted to do our summer vacation with friends. When he got back, he told me he was with another girl. I broke up with him. Now I miss him.
I want to call him or text.
Please don't do that. You made the right decision to break up with him as he doesn't respect you at al
It was just one time, but I wonder if he'd do it again.
But I thought I'd live in this other country forever and we'd be together. Now I may have to go home.
I would say this, if he does it once, he will do it again
How can I know that for sure?
Maybe going home isn't too bad after all. You may even meet someone better there
From my experience, people who cheat always cheat again
I really like it here though, and with Covid, it's hard to think about traveling.
Has someone cheated on you?
Luckily I have never been in that situation but my friends have
It never happened to me before.
I feel betrayed.
But trust me, you made the right decision. If anything, it proves you're a strong and independent person
Maybe I'll just go home for the holiday season.
People can only love and respect you when you treat yourself that way
That's a great idea! Spend time with your friends and family, who actually care about you and your feelings
I wanted to throw something at him, I was so mad. But I just made him leave.
You are very mature. Anyone in that situation would feel the same.
Thank you. It was hard not to let my emotions get the best of me. I don't even know why he told me. But I guess it's good he did.
He did a good thing at least, being honest with you. However, cheating, even just once, is something I always warn people
I don't know if it was good. Maybe he was just being mean.
It's nice of you to listen. Thank you for all your advice.
i hope I can travel home safely now.
And maybe come back in January.
I know it's useless to tell you to not be sad. Go ahead and let it all out by crying or screaming but please know you didn't do anything wrong
I hope I can be help
I just hope I don't see him before I go home.
Except deep down I wish I could.
Thank you very much. You have been kind to listen.
No problem. and don't see him again, it's tough but it's better that way
Have a good rest of the night.
Bye bye
you too, i hope you feel better | {
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3 | 2 | Hello!
Hi, how are you?
I'm stressed out about my finals coming up.
Let me make sure I understand. Your feeling stressed about your finals.
That is correct
I understand what that is like. What is your biggest fear?
I think I'm most scared that I'm going to study a lot but not do well and then not get good grades in my classes.
Did the teacher provide you with a study guide?
Only one of them did. I have a total of 4 finals.
Okay, are you familiar with their testing style? I am assuming you have had other test in these classes.
Yes thankfully I have. In all my classes, I have had tests before. I'm still nervous though.
I can tell you are stressed, try to relax, are you in a study group?
no, I don't really like studying with other people. I do have some friends in the classes though.
They are all probably feeling the same way. Try not letting fear fail you. Study hard and be confident, you have made it this far, your almost done.
Thank you for your kind words! I will take that into consideration.
also make sure you get enough rest, exercise and eat well balanced meals. That will help you feel less stressed.
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Those are very good things I will do.
Thank you for your help!
your gonna do great. your welcome.
have a nice day - bye!
I think you need to respond once more
bye | {
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4 | 2 | Hi. How are you?
I am good
Thats great! How are you feeling?
Now i am better
I know that things have been hard during this pandemic for a lot of people.
Expect to have lot of mixed feelings.
Mixed feelings have you been having? It's completely normal and understandable to have them.
Sometimes when you are having mixed feelings, you can try writing them down on a piece of paper. This can help you identify how you are feeling.
i have very mixed feelings about the whole issues .My mixed feeling stem from the fact that those are not reflected anywhere.
I have no minded with writing things.
I could understand how difficult that must be for you. You could try taking a walk outside and getting some fresh air. Fresh air can always help to clear your mind.
please help another way to reduce my depression.
Does doing art work help you to feel better usually?
You can try to immerse yourself in something you really enjoy doing. Sometimes if you smile while doing things, it can help you to feel better.
yeah sure i will try to reduce my depression with your wonderful ideas . thank you so much.
You're so welcome. I really hope you get back to feeling better soon, Stay safe and have a great rest of your week. Come back if you need any support.
Thank you
your great supporter
Nice to meet you.
Thank you so much. I am genuinely happy to help. It was nice to meet you as well.
have a great day bye.
You too, goodbye, | {
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4 | 1 | Hello how are you?
i am good thank you how are you doing?
how may I help you today?
I'm ok
I'm having a hard time communicating with my husband.
what seems to be making it hard to communicate with him?
Every time we talk about anything we get into an argument it feels like that anyway
how long has this been going on?
We never fight over anything big its always so stupid. Its always someone being rude or their tone wasnt right. But i feel put down and unheard.
We have been together 6 years.
I want to find some kind of at home work shop or things to do. It sounds stupid but its really becoming a problem and we will divorce after christmas if we cant figure it out.
i can understand how you are feeling
have you tried to talk to him and tell him about how you are feeling about when you two argue
yes
Communication is key in a marriage without that the marriage will start to fail and I do not want to see that happen
We always agree and nothing ever changes
you two need to sit down and have a serious discussion about the way your marriage is going
You're right. I'll do that.
have you two ever considered seeing a marriage counselor?
don't feel put down or let it get to you because as long as you trying in a marriage that is what matters and just keep trying
We have but I would be super uncomfortable. He says hes for it then changes his mind
I think I'll talk to him about it again. Thank you you have been very helpful
The only way you two can work it out is by communicating that is the main thing to do in a situation like that.
no problem that is what i am here for | {
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5 | 2 | So it really happened just like that
What happened?
My life just got flipped-turned upside down
In West Philadelphia born and raised, on the playground is where I spent most of my days
Chilling out maxing relaxing all cool and all shooting some b-ball outside of school
when a couple of guys who were up to no good
It seems like you are feeling a little bit like the Fresh Prince of Bell-Air.
Are you having any problems that I can help you with today?
First diagnosis was accurate so I can only trust you from here on out
You see I was just 14 when my parents built a very strange machine
it was designed to view a world unseen
Sounds good. I am glad that you trust me. What did the strange machine do?
When it didn't quite work, my folks just quit so I decided to take a look inside of it
there was a great big flash
everything just changed
MY MOLECULES GOT ALL REARRANGED (phantom phantom)
I can see that you are taking this opportunity as a joke.
What would you rather we discuss?
Favorite Katy Perry song has got to be Fireworks
I am here as your peer-supporter to help you. Is there anything that you have been struggling with recently?
Just everyday sluggishness and feeling down
but they provide medication for that
When did this start?
last year is when I got diagnosed
It sounds like you had a life-changing diagnosis last year. How has it affected your life?
been getting lit a lot
I know getting "lit" is an easy way to deal with our problems, but it is not always the healthiest thing to do.
It sounds like you are trying to escape something.
It's more like constantly feeling like there's a weight on my chest, tired but can't fall asleep, and having a terrible appetite
it helps "escape" those feelings
but if there's something bigger I am trying to escape I have no clue what it is
Life can be really hard, but I know you can turn things around!
From what I have heard, I think that it could be helpful to try and cut back on the "getting lit"
Life has been getting better despite it but doesn't feel like my mood improves for long
the day ends
I get back home
and I'm feeling a shot or a bowl
alcohol bad *dab* so we get lit
Do you have any close friends or family that you can talk to?
I talk to my gf about it but doesn't really improve anything
probably just need stronger medication
I think that's great that you have a girlfriend whom you can talk to!
Stronger medication can certainly help, I would recommend seeing your doctor asap
Yeah probably the best play and we got over 15min
bye
I will miss u
my sweet prince
Good luck with everything, bye! | {
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5 | 1 | hi..how are you today..What is it you want to talk about today?
Hi..Iam doing good..iam feeling very sad about breaking up with my girlfriend
Oh I can understand..when did the break up happened..
A month ago and still iam not able to come out if sadness.
Oh Do you want me to suggest some ideas of overcoming sadness in my life..
Yes i would love to hear them
Did you try talking to friends and relatives..this helps a lot..
yeah I will try that but Iam very embarrassed to talk about my breakup to my friends..
Dont worry..I myself went through the same and talking to friends helped me a lot..
Yeah i will try to find some friends..do you have any other ways..
You can try some online forums to people who are facing the same type of issues..
Are they beneficial in overcoming to the hardest feelings..
ofcourse they are very useful..I myself went to long walks and it helped me a lot
Is considering counselling a better option?
Try other strategies first,if you dont find them helpful and if you can afford a counsellor,then you can try going for therapy.
I didnt know counselling is very expensive.are there any low cost options?
Yeah there atre some NGO s that can offer low cost counselling.You can try them.I myself tried those and found them very useful.
Oh I was not aware of the options about the low cost counselling.Thank you..
You are very welcome..I hope you feel better soon..
Thank you for the reassurance..I appreciate it..
Is there any thing else I can help you with?
No thank you..you are very helpful..bye
bye.. | {
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4 | 1 | Hey there! How are you feeling today?
Not so well
Is something troubling you?
im very sad about my situation
I'm sorry to hear that. I know how bad it can feel when life throws you a curve-ball. Can you tell me about your situation?
my girlfriend was break up with me two days ago
Oh dear. That is a very upsetting situation. It sounds like you might be feeling lonely and rejected as a result of your girlfriend breaking up with you. Is that right?
yeah! we were in a relationship for three years, and suddenly she broke up with me
That's a long time. I was in a similar situation not too long ago and I understand how hard this must be for you.
I taught that she was my everything hereafter.
but the fate plays a great game upon me
During a time like this, some people find it helpful to keep busy doing some kind of activity to take their mind off of their pain. Is there something you can do to take your mind off of it until you're ready to manage your feelings?
I have some activities to do so, but i cannot able to concentrate on what i am doing
Okay, that's very understandable. I'm sure there's another strategy we can come up with.
Do you have a friend or family member you can talk about your feelings with?
yeah! i have few friends
That's great. You've already taken a huge step by reaching out for help and that's a big deal! A good next step might be letting the people around you know that you need some support at this time. Sometimes people don't know something until you tell them, even if it seems obvious. Is that something you can do?
But i can't tell this to them because they also become sad when they know about this
Okay, I understand. Do you feel embarrassed because this is happening to you?
yes i am
and i don't know how to overcome from this kind of sadness
I understand that your feelings of sadness run very deep. Do you have people in your life who you can safely spend time with without necessarily talking about your feelings? Feeling connected to people can help quite a lot.
yes i have someone
who is my well wisher
It's great that you have someone who can give you positivity and support. Do you feel comfortable with trying that or would you like to explore other options?
but, what can i do with them in this situation
do you have any idea?
It might be helpful to simply spend some time together. Connecting with someone who cares about you can help reassure your positive feelings in yourself.
ohhh...I understand
If you feel able to, something outdoors might be good. Fresh air and physical activity can help lower anxiety and doing a mutual activity can help strengthen bonds between people.
shall i try gym workouts? is that work for me to overcome?
Yes, that's a great idea! It sounds like you're already better at this than you think.
The Idea came up to me just now
Fantastic. I hope this strategy works for you and helps you feel better.
yeah! i think so, and i don't have to tell this to anyone
Exactly! You don't have to do anything that you're not comfortable with.
yes, I need to be strong on my emotions
Feeling strong is very empowering but it's okay to feel vulnerable sometimes too. There are no wrong answers here. Do you feel good about the strategies you can use or would you like to continue exploring your options?
I feel good about the strategies i want to use
That's wonderful! You already have the tools to work through this. I wish you all the best!
yeah, i will try to start a new life
(it's up to you to finish and submit :) ) | {
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5 | 1 | Im so depressed
I am really sorry to hear that.
It just wont end
What is making things so hard?
Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house
I dont have anyone to tak to
I definitely understand that. I also have been having a hard time in quarantine.
Plus my work hours have been cut
Do you have people you can talk to digitally? Friends, family?
I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast
I get that. It can be really frustrating when you feel alone and like you've got no one to talk to. Especially when 2020 seems to be dumping things on you.
What have you been doing to pass the time? Is there anything that you've found that makes you feel better?
So my money is now running low and rent is coming due
I like to read
That can be handy!
I like to walk on the beach
Is that something you can do with regularity? Getting out and walking?
I know that I've had good luck battling my depression by just finding ways to not be at home. Hiking, going for walks, going for drives...
Yes I live on the beach but its so cold right now I cant even do that. I feal so isolated
Im going to do that tomorrow
Good! It's hard to start, but it's a good way to start. How far do you plan on going?
Im going to bundle up and go to the beach. Probably walk down to the pier 1 mile
That will be good. Make sure you can take some time and really appreciate not being in the house.
Is there any music or podcats you can listen to while out?
Thats good advice, Im feeling a little better
I can take my iphone for music
I am glad. Practicing mindfulness can really help, and help put things in perspective. Often times we build things up to be even worse than they already are. Being able to be grateful for what's around can help, without diminishing the issues that you are facing.
Thats good advice, thanks I think you helped me
Remembering that it's okay to be sad and depressed, as much as it sucks, can be helpful in reframing. It's a rough time for everyone and you definitely are not alone.
Thats true, it just seems like I am alone cause well I am lol
I absolutely get it. I work from home right now so it's just me all day. Sometimes, I literally only talk to my cats. I am a crazy cat lady.
Cats are cool
I had a whole cry and freak out moment when part 2 of quarantine hit recently. I wholeheartedly understand.
Do you have any pets?
I have a Russian Blue cat ssmart very smart cat
Smart cats are the best. They know when you need cuddles, which it sounds like you do! Also means you aren't alone. ;) Cat needs ya! As much as they don't want to admit it.
He's my buddy for sure. Makes me happy to think of him
If you are healthy/feel comfortable with going out, you could consider volunteering at an animal shelter. You'd get to interact with some folks, some animals, and add something to the resume. I don't know if you are likely to get hours back at work or what you do, but that could be fun!
Thats a good idea I'll look into it. Well we better wrap this hit up?
I believe it needs to be a minimum of 20 minutes and we are at 17 right now.
For the max that is, lol.
Oh sorry thought it was 15 minutes. So where are you at?
West Coast of all things! WA st, so lots of hiking for me. It's been helping so much.
I moved from Renton to here in Myrtle Beach SC
Oh hey! So all of your family is here then. What prompted the move?
Got real tired of the weather and people there
Everyone friendly here and actually talk to one another
Ha. I believe that. I was born and raised in Puyallup, so it's all I know. i couldn't ever think of leaving.
Welp, thanks for the conversation, I hope I helped. Cuddle the cat, enjoy the beach, and remember this is all temporary!
Have you ever left the state
lol, I have.
k bye | {
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5 | 3 | I need help
I broke up with my girlfriend
and i'm very sad and don't know what to do
can you provide any assistance?
I'm so sorry, the alert sound did not play for me.
I'm sorry to hear you broke up with your girlfriend, that is a rough situation to be going through.
yes, she cheated on me
i was suppose to marry her
That is really hard. Are you able to take some downtime and recalibrate, take care of yourself?
When I've gone through break-ups in the past, it's been useful to really take care of myself and give myself some pampering.
Guilty pleasure TV and takeout Chinese food is always a good combination. Tacos, too. Maybe a bottle of wine, but not too much wine, just want to relax, not get sad.
Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over.
I have to drive 3 hours away
Oh dear, that's a long time alone with your thoughts.
When I need to escape intrusive thoughts and rehashing things, I'll put on a podcast. Or documentary, or something that's calm, straightforward and factual.
yes, I know. family is always important during time like these
That's really good that you have that kind of relationship with your mom though! Moms are awesome for that kind of stuff. They can really make you feel protected and safe.
The vulnerability after a break-up is unreal
yes, i can always count on her to be there for me
my younger brother is always there for me too
That's awesome. Family support is crucial.
i guess i'll go make myself a drink
and try to calm some nerves
Just be easy on yourself and know that in the future, you will find someone new, someone much more suited to you.
yea, its hard because ive dated her for over 5 years
I'm sorry you're going through this. I wish I could have been more helpful.
youve been a great help
any more advice?
It's very good that you have a support system though! And that you have people out there waiting for you. I hope you have a safe drive.
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5 | 1 | How can I be of support?
I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried.
That is so difficult because you lost your job. What are your goals at this point?
I want to look for a new job, but I'm worried about being out with COVID.
I see that you are worried because working in an environment while dealing with COVID is scary.
I don't know where to begin.
Are you interested or open to looking for a different career path?
Not particularly but I am open to it.
I can see that it is stressful looking into another career path, but you have work experience which will help you on that path if you choose that.
Where do I begin to look for new jobs?
Often times career centers can help you to find job opportunities or perhaps online college could be an option if you want to further your education.
Those sound like great ideas some of which I hadn't thought about before.
I had a college degree but found out my career wasn't working out financially. Online college became a lifesaver because I could have the flexibility of being at home. You don't have to be exposed to COVID when doing online work or college options.
Yes, that's true. Maybe that will help me pass the time too when it is so hard to be at home. I would be working toward a long term goal.
Some people share their concerns with family members or friends. Are you open to discussing the problem with others to get some support?
I think that would be a good idea.
I think that the support of family can be so helpful especially when in this difficult situation.
Thank you for the help. I feel a lot more comfortable thinking about the future.
I'm glad to hear this. Is there anything else I can do for you?
I think that I'm okay now and can move forward in a positive direction. Thank you.
You are welcome! | {
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2 | 1 | Hello
hello
What's on your mind?
I have real bad anxiety about the possible 2nd shut down due to the rise in Covid
so many people lost their job during the first shut down
We are on the same boat
its extremely draining
I understand how you feel. I think others feel the same too, that we're exhausted no matter if we're directly affected or not
yep.. it just makes me sad, I wish we didnt have to go through this
It saddens me too because even when we have vaccines, the damage has been done and the aftermath is unimaginable
I'm not to keen on taking a new vaccine
Can you tell me why not?
just like you stated, the damage is done
You should still take it though. What done is done, the new vaccine will help situation not getting worse
just because its new, it seems like its being rushed.
i wont be the first in line, thats for sure.
I thin it's rushed because people trying to push it so they voided some troublesome paperwork stage
i will continue to wear my mask and social distance for sure.
this is a hard time for everyone.
Frontliners will get it first, you don't have to worry too much about the vaccine
i still have to worry, because about half of my family are on that line
Then you should be relieved since the sooner they get the vaccine, the less worry for your family
nope, im scared
It's ok to feel doubtful about it, you can keep wearing mask and social distancing and take the vaccine when you feel ready
yes, thats what I keep telling myself.
we all need to play our part to flatten the curve. at my job, people are getting covid and its scary.. so maybe the vaccine can and will help them
thanks for the talk. i feel a little better.
We need to put an end to this and vaccine is the fastest way. It's gonna take very long to find treatment | {
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3 | 2 | hello
Hello, how are you today?
I'm good, I feel anxious whenever I think of my career
I understand. I often feel the same when my day starts.
people around me seems to achieve great things and get promoted but I am still at my current position
Do you know of some triggers that might cause this anxiety?
I fell like I am late on my plan
That sounds like something that could cause anxiety. We all strive to be recognized for our hard work. Have you conversed with your boss?
No i have not, I don't feel comfortable sharing this with my boss or coworkers
It can totally be intimidating to speak to a boss about this topic. It's not always easy to be comfortable in this kinds of conversations.
Do you think your boss might have a negative reaction if you were to have this conversation?
It might, I am not sure but I don't think my boss will like the idea
Sometimes it's important to remember that part of your bosses job is having this kinds of conversations, even though he might not like the idea.
It might be a good idea to have this conversation with your boss. Hold them accountable for this part of their job.
Do you think this could be a good idea?
You are right, I should let them know what I want too
It sounds like this might be a little intimidating for you.
I'm not a very direct person so I don't really like confronting
but I think i should have this talk with my boss
It might feel that way. But if this is something that might benefit your future, it doesn't mean it's a confrontation.
But rather, an affirmation of your skillsets.
You're right, you make me feel better about the decision
I am happy to know you will try this. I know you can do it!
Thank you for your support
It's been my pleasure. I wish you good luck!
Can you give me an idea how to start the conversation?
Of course! It's always good to make a list before the meeting. List out your skillsets and how each of those skills provide value to the company. If you can demonstrate to your boss how you provide value to the company, it can give you confidence when taking the next step; asking for a promotion
What I'm worried is if they reject my suggestion, it will come back and bite me as they will think negatively about me
It's normal to feel that way. As humans we fear rejection. It's not a pleasant feeling!
thank you so much, I will start planning out what I need to talk about | {
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4 | 2 | Hi there
Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?
I'm feeling pretty anxious.
I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think?
I was a bartender before covid and I lost my job and it's really difficult for me. It's causing a lot of anxiety.
So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation?
Yes, that's a big part of it.
Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially?
Well, I don't really want to reach out to charities, if I can help it. It would be much more beneficial for me to earn my money.
There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work?
That might be a good idea.
Do you have any recommendations?
I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky
I guess we're in the same boat.
A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year.
Yes, I am too.
Do you have any tricks for dealing with anxiety?
Have you thought of trying to see a therapist? There are some charities that offer sessions for free
No, I haven't looked into that.
That's a good idea though.
They might be able to teach you breathing exercises or things like tht
That's great.
Thank you very much!
Do you normally have problems with anxiety even before the pandemic?
Sometimes but it's been worse since the pandemic started.
Yes I can imagine that a lot of people feel like that. Do you feel as though things are hopeless without a job?
Yeah, I do. Until I can get a job, I don't think I'll be very comfortable.
Do you have a family to support?
I don't have any kids but I live with my partner so this is putting a strain on our relationship as well.
Do you feel that she feels less of you because of you being unemployed?
Yeah, maybe that' s part of it
I am really sorry for your situation and I really want things to be better for you in the New Year. All the best to you and yours for 2020!
Thanks! Same to you.
Don't forget to quit and take the survey :) | {
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3 | 1 | Hello! How are you today?
Hello. I am alright and yourself?
I am just a little bit upset at the situation
I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong
I am not sure how to deal with this
I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way
Have you tried talking to her?
I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry,
But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.
Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
Yes I truly believe that.
I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know
I am happy you have more support
Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
Accepting the truth is the hardest
That is great you have started saving
I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
I understand what you are saying
Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....
that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!
Not to be hurt again ..to be open enough to trust someone again..
I hear you
that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right....
that's my thought
Truth. I guess I just have to keep that kind of mindset. Go into things and enjoy them but proceed with caution?
Yes! That is a great way to put it!
Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it.
Just never forget you are worthy of love, happiness, and nothing but good things
I feel a little brighter having spoken to someone about it.
Thank you for that tip as well
I am happy I could help
I needed to hear that
Things will look up!
I am happy you let the words sink in!
I really have hope that they will :)
a smile face is a good sign!
I appreciate your help. Have a great day.
Thank you again
Thank you!! | {
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4 | 2 | Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?
hi
feeling upset
I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?
i am sad because of my love
That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?
its gone, she left me
That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?
she is married to a rich man
Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?
she broke me down like a helpless bird
i can over come from her memories
Were you in a relationship with her?
yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years
If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.
I cound not stop remember her memories, its repeating and disturbing for all way
For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?
yes but it is not so effective towards me
How about a therapist, if only temporarily?
yes because of the pandemic no one will provide a proper theraphy
There are many support groups online you can try. I would contact your PCP who can try to get you in touch with someone who could help.
do you know anyone
not online, only locally, and I don't know where you live, sorry.
its okey, i will find by myself
I have to get going, but I encourage you to find a support group or contact a physician asking for a recommendation. Perhaps ask friends you're comfortable with. Keep in mind that this is only temporary and designed to help you not just move on, but grow stronger from this.
im physically fit but mentally hurt by her
and thats my problem
Yes, but mental pain can lead you down a dark path. It is best to catch it while you can, before it is significant.
i will try to recover from it
Thank you, be well, stay positive and know that there are bright days ahead.
try to find the right way to get my way
That's always the challenge. But one worth fighting for :)
yes it is challenging
I must get going, have a wonderful night and be strong. I believe in you.
ok bye
thankyou for your concern
my pleasure
thankyou so much again | {
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4 | 3 | Hello
Hello
How may i help you today?
I have a co worker who sleeps all the time at his desk. I physically work hard everyday
I can understand how you are feeling.
It makes me mad. No one says a word to him, he just sleeps and gets paid for it.
Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?
My boss said (I have been there for five years) to me one day did I see DE sleeping at his desk? I was floored that it seemed he never saw him do it before. How could he not?
That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk
Very weird. I am one of the oldest men there and I am always expected to jump in and do work that is manual labor. Very frustrating to see someone else just sleeping.
Have you talked to your co worker about it?
It really would not be my place, it would be up to my boss. He obviously said nothing.
if your boss said nothing to him then maybe you should step up and say something even though you are right that is not your place
I keep hoping that one of the upper management team will walk by one day and see him.
Your boss does not sound like a good boss at all and not doing his job correctly
Definitely not being fair across the board, in my eyes.
i feel like you should have like a serious talk to your boss about it
You're probably correct. I may feel better just getting it out, even if the situation does not change.
I don't want you feeling how you feeling because you are doing your job and you are doing everything you can to solve the problem
Thank you, that helps hearing that from someone.
How long has this been going on?
Your welcome
Seriously, over two years. True
How many times have you confronted your boss about it?
I never have, I just looked at him like are you for real when he asked me if the guy was sleeping the one day. I had to bite my tongue not to say, yes, and he does it every day!
So he must not believe you
Well thank you for letting me get this out. I appreciate the advice and I will definitely think over talking with my boss. Have a good night!
have a good night to and your welcome | {
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4 | 3 | Hey, how are you doing?
Not the best, but I'm surviving.
hello?
By surviving, it is more of a personal situation or an outside dilemma affecting you.
is it*
I just haven't been able to find any work. I guess that is an outside dilemma, but being this behind on bills and feeling this helpless to change my situation has negatively impacted my mood.
I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make.
I have already been budgeting extensively, the issue is I can't make enough to cover my basic expenses, no matter how much I cut them
Are you also pressed for time? Time management can be a predicament as well.
I have lots of free time, just waiting for unemployment to respond to my claims, applying for jobs online, and trying services like mturk to earn what I can from home in the meantime.
I spend a good portion of my day trying to apply for everything I can and fixating on mturk tasks to make me feel like I'm accomplishing something
Wow, it's slightly uncanny the way our situations are similar. For someone who is also not in the best place financially and just making the bare minimum, it can feel hopeless sometimes.
I know you are feeling stressed at the moment, but I've realized focusing on the long term helps ease the pressure of current stressors.
I get to a point in my day where it feels like I've done everything I can for that day, and then I just have to try not to get too stir crazy.
I feel that if you can focus on using your extra time as an investment into yourself (whether by reading, picking up a hobby, or working out), you can feel more accomplished and at ease with what you are doing in life.
I've been trying to look ahead, but this year has already set me back so much from my intended career path that it's frustrating. I just want my life back.
That is good advice. I have been doing a lot more art during this time.
Being progressive is difficult, but is one of the things in life which compound very easily. I believe many aspects in life are connected and that improving in some parts improves you as a whole
Some days it's tempting to just do nothing and wait for it all to be over, but I feel better when I accomplish something for the day
And if these "improvements" can also make you money/increase your worth/ease your mind, then that can be called a success. In my opinion atleast.
I wish someone was interested in buying my art! That would be a huge confidence boost
Yeah, but imagine how it would if you had days like that knowing it isn't a bad thing to relax. You have already put in the work in being comfortable before, allowing to enjoy your time however way you wanted.
Looks like you already have an interest which can help you in many ways in life. That's really good.
yes, I miss being able to actually relax. When you are financially behind it feels like everything is just making it worse.
thank you for chatting with me and helping me earn the bonus for this task!
Yes, the tension and pressure only seems to mount on, but there will always be things like that in life. It is important to remember whether such problems are in your control or not. If they are, you know for sure that you can change how you are presently.
No problem, this is a very interesting experience for me too. | {
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3 | 2 | Hey, how are you today?
Hello! I am doing ok today. Just getting through the day I suppose.
It sounds like you're having a rough day.
Anything in particular happened?
Just an average day if I had to describe it. Nothing particularly unusual or bad. Worked for about 8 hours and now no plans for the night
I get that. Some days are just meh, but nights can feel especially lonely.
Exactly. I find that when the night starts seeping in the loneliness comes up especially with no concrete plans or things to keep busy
I've felt like that too. The business of the day makes you forget, then it's time for bed and you remember.
And for me it's the build up to bed time. Those hours to fill with either dinner, watching tv, reading or whatever. Plenty of time let me mind wander and think the worst.
It sounds like your day to day gets very lonely.
From time to time yes. I have a dog so that's nice company
Even then I sometimes turn to drinking to clear my mind
Dogs or pets in general really help to alleviate depression.
Yes! Something to make me feel needed and companionship knowing he's depending on me
I'm sorry to hear that. Do you have any friends to talk to or groups about it you can join?
Exactly! Dogs really do love you no matter what.
I do. I've been better about reaching out to people and joining a few online groups. It has helped for sure but I still find myself with the feelings from time to time
Personally, I have a betta fish, but he seems happy to see me.
That's great! The first step in recovery is reaching out for help. You're doing the right thing.
That's cute. Fish are less work than dogs but still a way to feel needed with food and water changes
That's good to hear. Sometimes I think I'm not doing enough to get help but each meeting or talk with friends is a step in the right direction
I'm glad he doesn't need to walk, but I'm sure the fresh air is nice.
I know it can feel like you're a bother, but you aren't. I'm glad you're reaching out to those who care.
Thanks. Good to hear that even from a stranger. It feels like a bother to burden others with my "problems" even though they are supportive
I feel like that too. It's easy to feel "strong" for holding it in, but it's just as strong to let those feelings out.
Well, stronger. I'm sorry. I hope that made sense
Even this was helpful. I was leaning towards pouring that first drink of the night soon, but just a quick chat like this has helped me reframe and stay strong for tonight at least
I'm glad. Things are tough but you can do it! Moment to moment is easier than a day at a time.
Well, thank you so much. This was a nice chat that definitely helped me. Hope you have a good rest of your night
I hope you do too. Keep reaching out when you need it. | {
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5 | 1 | I'm so worried about my child who has so much homework and despite studying all night still is struggling.
Hello! How are you feeling today?
I'm a bit worried today and nervous.
You are a very good parent to care and worry. I get it, I am a mom myself! Is your child doing digital learning or in person?
It's actual a hybrid which is challenging. 2 days in school and 3 days at home.
I can see how that is challenging
Is it the same teacher for both?
She has about 9 teachers and it's only 6th grade.
That has to be really frusterating not having just one teacher you can go to in order to see if there is anyway to help your child not struggle
I want to push her to keep working, but also want to give her a break from all the work. There is so much homework for a little child.
Perhaps you can find out which classes your child struggles with and contact the teacher(s) or school to set up a conference? I know some schools even have peer tutors they say help pair students with!
I'm thinking about tutoring possibly but being home and going to school it is so overwhelming already and to add tutoring to the list is another question for me.
My children are five and eight. My eight year old spent about ten hours doing digital learning the other day when in-perosn was closed. I was so frusterated. I let her pick a movie and snack when she was done to reward her for finishing.
Yes, we've had some months worth of snacks! Good thing for Burger King!
Have you looked into any edulational or learning games?
There is nothing wrong with rewarding your child for doing good in school or getting thier work done! :)
That is a good idea. I wonder if they have one for vocabulary as that is the test tomorrow! She says she loves them.
I'll have to look!
I have done that with my kids. Technology is such a huge part of children's lives these days, they will play a videogame in a heart beat. I don't think they even realize they are learning sometimes!
I have to do some research though and doing this x 3 kids is draining on top of work
check out the website adventure academy. They have things for all ages/grades!
Thanks so much for all your help! I'm feeling somewhat better and encouraged!
Have a good day!
I'm glad I could help! You too!
Actually I have one more question
okay, what is it?
Do you think I should feel guilty for making her study?
I think it is natural for a a parent to feel guilty when they are having thier child do something the child doesn't want to do. i think the benefits outweigh the negatives though. i think finding a way to make studying fun could be a win-win. you are a good parent for wanting the best for your child!
Great advice. Thanks again. Take care!
I think there should be more parents out there that care about their children and their children's future like you do. keep up the good work! | {
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5 | 2 | Hello
Hello
How are you
I've been better.
I'm overly anxious and feeling depressed about work.
What is happening at work that makes you feel likes that?
I just feel like im not getting the support I need.
I'm relatively new at my job, so I go to the more senior staff for advice, but I seldom ever get help.
I see, is there anyone you could talk to at work that could possibly help you?
I have a couple of coworkers that have been helpful, but we don't always work together. And their help isn't always the best, or the type of support I am looking for.
I can see how that would be difficult.
Maybe if there is something specific you need help with, you could ask a coworker or senior staff.
Yeah, it has been very difficult. Do you have any reccomendations? Or what would you do in the situation?
I generally do do that. Sometimes I get the help I need, others not so much. So i feel like im second guessing myself a lot, which puts me under a lot of stress.
Since you are relatively new it is understandable that it may be difficult. I would see if there is someone I could confide in. They may be understanding.
I think thats a good idea. I am concerned it may not work out. What would i do then?
Is there something specific you are feeling you need more help with? Maybe the people you are asking do not understand exactly what you need help with.
Decision making and the little details are where I am struggling. I've had adequate training, but i still feel as though I lack the expertise needed to do my job well. Someimtes I get the support I need, and other times i don't. I'm wondering what i should do in times where I am not getting the support I need if its not available.
That is understandable. I have been in situations where I had to make difficult decisions at my job too. Overtime you will be gaining experience and it will most likely get easier or you'll get better.
Yeah, you're right. I think it will just take time for me to get comfortable and gain confidence in my abilities.
If there are situations you've found difficult, maybe you could practice making decisions in those circumstances, or ask coworkers what they have done in those times as well.
That is a great suggestion
You seem to care about this job and your performance. I believe you will gain experience and confidence will come with it.
Yeah, youre right. It can just be tough at times. But i understand it will take time. Thank you for the advice. It really helped.
Your welcome. I hope you are able to feel somewhat better about the situation at work, and feel at ease.
I do, thank you again for your help
Your welcome. Are you feeling better?
I am, thank you very much
You sound better. Thank you too!
thanks again!
Welcome. | {
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5 | 1 | Hi, how are you doing?
I'm fine and how are you ?
I'm doing well. Did you have anything you wanted to talk about?
I'm doing well. Did you have anything you wanted to talk about?
Yes I am problems with sleeping.
*having
Is getting a good night's sleep becoming an issue?
Is getting a good night's sleep becoming an issue?
Yes very much so
Tons of people deal with this on many levels.
Yes I understand
I can feel that this affects you in a negative way.
I can feel that this affects you in a negative way.
Yes
I have had issues in the past personally with sleep. Many of my friends too.
I have had issues in the past personally with sleep. Many of my friends too.
I just don't know what to do anymore it's even affecting my work b/c I dont get any sleep
There are a lot of things out there to try and get your sleep pattern in better shape.
There are a lot of things out there to try and get your sleep pattern in better shape.
Yes and I have tried many
What about valerian root or other herbs?
What about valerian root or other herbs?
I never thought of that I will definitely give it a try
You could also try adjusting your diet and eating habits.
Thank you for all of your help , this is greatly appreciated.
I never thought of using the herbs I will give this a try soon
You are welcome
You are welcome
Hello are you still there?
You can also try reducing caffeine intake 6 hours before bed.
Oh that is great I drink coffee an hour before bed on some days
As you know this can keep your brain stimulated and prevent you from going to sleep.
I didn't know that
I used to drink too much coffee and I was tired all day but could never sleep right.
I used to drink too much coffee and I was tired all day but could never sleep right.
thanks for the info
Anything else I can help with?
Anything else I can help with? | {
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5 | 3 | Hi, what can I do to help you?
I am having such a hard time because Mom does not deserve this. I wanted her to grow old in love and happy. Now, it's over. I am just so very sad for her.hello
hi
hi
Thanks for your sharing and sorry to hear about that
Ty. Death is so hard.
How would you deal?
I felt the same way as you when your closed family members pass away
I would share my feeling with someone that I felt closed or some family members or your spouse that you can share your feeling.
Do you try to talk to anyone about your feeling?
Or someone that close to you that you can share your feeling with?
My husband is here. He is very afraid of the virus because of his COPD. He i afraid to talk about the virus.
I just moved to this town where there are not so many people because of thi.
Maybe try to talk about something that he is very interesting and help him away of focusing on COVID.
I have not really met anyone like a friend but I do Zoom daily with family at home.
I do pray alot.
That is very good that you share with your family and pray if that helps you to relax.
I workout to relieve the stress.
And I felt the same way that COVID time is difficult to all of us
I am also in the healthcare field but work at home.
I am one of the fortunate office workers who can do this.
Very good! Workout is another way to relief your stress
I'm so glad there is a vaccine now
That is very nice. We are all hoping vaccine can relief us from anxieties.
Sounds like you were doing very well of handling the situation. Please keep it up and always be mindful of sharing with you and your family.
It just sucked her husband passed when there is a vaccine now. Must be heart wrenching for her. I feel like I want to call her now.
And you should do that to share if that you believe that helps both of you to go through this difficult time
I think a pet would help her so I got her one for Christmas. She loves dogs and her passed away 6 months ago. I know she loved her girl so I hope this new puppy will bring her out of the fog she is in.
Wonderful! Pet can bring joyful moments to us and glad you done it for helping
Thank you for your support and listening ear!
Thank you for your sharing. We are all together to overcome this difficulty!
Is there anything that you would like to share or concerns with?
Much love to you and stay safe! You were great!;) Have an awesome day!
You too and enjoy your holidays! | {
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4 | 2 | Hi there, how are things?
Hi Can I help you
Yes trying to get over the passing of my aunt a week ago.
You tell me
That's so sad. I am sorry!
Thanks, it is actually a week today. My mother has taken it particularly hard, they were best friends
I can understand very how your mom is going through hard time.
Thanks. I really have not had much time to grieve myself since she is my first priority.
Time will heel her. That I can assure you.
Do you have any suggestions what I might try to cheer her up? After that I can worry about myself
Tell her to meditation or yoga in the morning. This will definitely helped and her mind will be busy
That might be ok. I know she likes Neil Diamond. Maybe get some of that playing while she meditates.
That is wonderful idea too . She will recover soon
Now what should I do for myself after she is better?
Be busy with your daily routine. Planning is the key
I thought about trying some daily exercise like just walking around the block a couple times with my dog.
Good idea! You can take your mom along with you in the park. She will recover soon.
I thought about redecorating her house a little bit, they lived together for a long time maybe a change of scenery would do some good
Yes, try to do all thgings. But do one by one. That is my advice for you
Ok, well thanks for your help
Your welcome
I think when I start eating a little better things will improve too.
Start eating more fruits like me. I am trying to eat healthy.
Ok good idea, Thanks
Your welcome | {
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4 | 2 | Good afternoon
Good afternoon
I lost my job 1 month ago and I can't find a new one, I have fear and anxiety that soon I will have nothing to pay with for my rent. Would you be able to suggest me how to cope with my fear?
I am sadden to hear that. I'm sure if you think positive and try really hard you will find a job and thinking postive will help with your fear and anxiety.
It's just I feel fear all the time, and now with this pandemic it's really hard to find a job. I have a feelings now that if I fail I have to go back to my country as a loser.
It sounds like the pandemic has caused you to feel fear and have anxiety, is that right?
It some sort of way, I lost my job because of it and my girlfriend is not talking to me as well now...
It sounds like you are under a lot of stress and don't have a way to realse that stress.
Ah could be, what could you suggest me to do?
You can try yoga, or doing activities that cause you to feel relax.
I can try, but I don't see how it will help me to find a job. I barely can sleep at nights
Getting a lot of rest or releasing stress will improve your fear and anxiety, which will lead to a more positive attitude to finding a job. Having a more postiive attuide well help you find a job.
Do you think interviewers see that I have a fear and anxiety and that's why I don't get a job?
Of course they do. They can sense those emotions and take that into consideration when they are interviewing you.
Oh ok I will try yoga then. If it will not help me what else I can try?
You can try to mediate and not focus on such negative things.
Can I have any medications to intake to easy fear?
I am sure they have those, but of course you will need a doctor's opinion.
yeah I will, Thank you so much for today I feel better now.
Your most welcome. | {
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4 | 1 | Hello
Hello, how are you doing today?
I was looking for some assistance. I lost my job 4 month ago
Losing your job is one of the biggest stressors in life, how have you been handling it?
Well first few month was kind off alright, Was looking for a job in different places without success. And now I am really depressed and I feel so useless.
I know what it's like to lose a job, and when it's hard to find a new one it can really make you feel low. What activities have you been doing in addition to seeking new employment?
Nice that you understand me, I was trying job websites alongside with jobcenter in town centre. I have jobseeker allowance but it will not cover the rent
I am living in a high-rent city and the only way I was able to keep my apartment was to find a roommate. Are there ways you can get help from friends or family until a new job opens up?
I am renting just a room at the moment, Before I had a girlfriend so we had to split the bill. After she left I had to take all responsibility just on myself to pay bills. I have few friends but don't think they could lend me a lot of money anyway
One possible solution, if it's possible for you, could be to sub-lease your room to someone else and stay with friends or family. Even if they can't loan you money, they may be able to let you stay with them for a week while you make money renting your room as an airbnb.
Oh AirBnB might be a solution actually. I will speak to my cousin if I could stay couple of nights at his place.
What sort of employment are you looking for? Perhaps we can brainstorm some places you can go to make connections for potential work.
I was working in IKEA warehouse before I got redundant
Working in a warehouse shows you have great skills for several other types of jobs. Have you checked small independent-contractor sites like TaskRabbit or Lyft to make extra funds while you search for a new permanent job?
I even haven't heard about those. I am really useless sometimes... What kind of jobs I can find there do you know?
Well, if you didn't know about them, that's not your fault. It's possible that you could find a new job opportunity while working on smaller tasks or by volunteering for a local organization. You could meet new folks who could provide you with new connections for employment!
I Will definitely try that. You are really helpful. Have you been doing any jobs through those websites?
Yes I am able to make a little spending money by doing small tasks like delivering real estate papers, or delivery take-out food. You can google a list of sites like RentSons.com where you can sign up to do an assortment of tasks, and your warehouse skills will come in handy!
That's cool, I feel now a lot better. Maybe I will be able to find even a girlfriend somewhere on those jobs. I feel lonely after my girlfriend left me
We all feel lonely when life gets hard, but getting yourself out there to do tasks will help you feel useful AND you could meet your future wife, you never know! I wish you the absolute best!
Thank you very much for you help. I learned something new today and feel much better
You're welcome. I think you'll do great.
Have a lovely afternoon!
You too! | {
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3 | 2 | Can you please share what is on your mind?
Hello. I am dissapointed in the teachers that I always get. They seem to make my courses so much harder.
I think I just get incredibly unlucky at times.
I see. You feel unlucky and disappointed that the teachers cause your courses to be challenging?
Exactly. I compare myself to my friends and, for example, they get barely any homework.
It almost seems unfair.
Course work is already stressful enough but to be challenging in addition only adds to the pressure.
Yeah. But I swear, every single one of my teachers just seems so imcompetent at times.
I remember an English teacher of mine, always calling me out in class, saying that she expects better of me when my papers weren't the best. Her class was hard and I worked hard to complete my assignments as instructed. Instead of her speaking with me personally, she'd embarrass me. I did not like her class at all.
Those are the worst teachers. I wish teachers like those would get fired.
I just want to have a chill time like most teenagers
Is there enough time to maybe select more compatible teachers or speak with the school counselor about classes that work best for you?
That's the thing. I never get to pick my classes. And they always give me crap recommendations.
I Think I need to drop by the office
That is a great idea. I'd encourage you to speak with your school counselor to share your needs and maybe the 2 of you can come up with a plan to create a schedule with teachers that can help you be successful.
I am absolutely certain that I am capable of succeeding at school without over stressing. Hopefuly this will fix the issue.
I believe you are correct! Less stress certainly creates a better learning environment. School counselors are your ally. Remember, you can go to them anytime you need them. Are you stopping by this week?
Maybe. If I have time on thursday or friday, I think I will go.
I am so excited for you! This is a big step! Looking out for yourself, to assure you are happy, less stressed and learning the important things to be able to graduate.
I agree...
For your next year, asking upperclassmen about their teachers can give you insight on who you may have next year. The more you know in advance, the better you can plan for what to discuss with your counselor. So proud of you! I know you 2 will come up with an awesome schedule!
Thank you. I will try my best.
Good Luck! | {
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4 | 2 | hello how are you today?
Hi there. I'm OK but have had a difficult time at work recently
i am sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?
Yes I have been given what I can only describe as ridiculous feedback by my manager and it had annoyed me greatly. I'm thinking about complaining about it.
It is always hard to hear any bad feedback, do you feel that you could speak with your manager about it and try to resolve the feelings?
I could do but this seems to be something that she has an issue with and I wouldn't want it to damage our working relationship. She basically said she doesn't like the way I sit in meetings and smile when I'm thinking about something?
Could you possibly go to her and tell her that you have heard the feed back and you are sorry to hear that it bothers her that you did not realize it and it is something you will work on becoming more aware of.
You seem like such a nice person i am sure if you approached it the right way you would not cause any damage.
I'm thinking perhaps I should go to a different manager and voice these concerns. I don't see how I sit in meetings or how I smile when I'm thinking to be constructive work based feedback it's really frustrating it's clear this person just doesn't like me
Going to another manager may be a great idea! Maybe the manager could address the issue with her and help her to realize there is nothing wrong with a having happy employee like yourself.
yeah that's true I mean I'm almost thinking this manager needs to be retrained because this video isn't work related is really quite petty an actually makes me consider not working for her in future. The only problem is I need my job I need a steady income but this person just seems to have it out for me.
Yes i can see where that would be a problem.
perhaps I'm just making too much of a big deal about this. how would you react if someone gave you similar feedback in work?
Do you think you could speak to this other manager about possibly transferring positions so you are not working under your current manager?
I haven't actually thought about that as a solution but that might work actually. I think maybe I'm overthinking this but I've taken it very personally.
Well you have a right to feel how you do, everyone takes things differently. It would bother me but i would proably try to get to know her better to see why she has such a problem with others being happy, maybe she has some problems going on in her life and has no one to share these problems with if she is not happy it may come as a struggle to see others happy all the time.
I think that's an interesting perspective. she might have issues herself and be taking them out on members of her team in work which is quite sad really. Do you think I should just be blunt and ask her the question?
I would let her know nicely that some things she said has been hurtful and ask if there is anything on her mind that she would like to chat about that you would be glad to talk with her.
so be supportive but also make it clear that what she has said has had an impact on me?
Yes you are such a positive person that i think you being supportive will help open up communication, and yes you should make it known that she has said something that has affected you personally and in addressing it may help her not treat others that way in the future.
ok great I'll definitely try that and try and put this advice into practice
In the mean time try to not take it personally you really seem like a nice person so i dont think she meant to cause you any harm.
yeah maybe I should stop being too serious, I'm trying to see the funny side of it. Thanks again! | {
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4 | 2 | Hello.
hello
How are you this evening?
I am doing ok. I am feeling very sad .
How are you?
I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are feeling sad.
What is bothering you tonight?
I am going through a terrible divorce from an abusive narcissitic ex,
But we have two young kids.
I haven't seen them in months because he lied to CPS and told them I abuse my kids.
I just feel very alone. I am afraid my children will forget me.
So, just to clarify, you are going through a hard divorce with your ex-wife and this has you feeling very down..
ex-husband
yes
Sorry about that, ex-husband.
I can definitely tell this is making you feel very anxious and sad from the few messages we have exchanged.
Yes very much so
Do you have any advice?
I recently went through a hard break up with an ex-fiancé who got pregnant from another man, so I know how difficult a situation like this can be,
Oh my goodness
My ex is out to destroy me emotionally
Have you had a conversation with him with some sort of objective third party to try and work through the differences in seeing your children? Often times, having an objective 3rd party helps to get somewhere in a conversation.
Yes, the court right now. They are moving so slow with Covid.
I'm just worried my kids will forget me. or not love me anymore.
Does he allow you to have any contact with your children?
Not at this time. The court is in favor of their father. This situation is a little stickier. In July, I sent recordings of him being abusive to me, to my mother
I told him I wanted a divorce and I didn't love him anymore.
Next thing I know, I'm being arrested for "hitting" him, which never happened
so I am trying to beat this criminal charge
Do you have information to reach out to who is handling your court case? Reaching out to ask for updates or for help from them might help.
That is a great idea
I should try that.
I think it would help to reach out and let them know you would like updates!
I know that I am stronger for going through this situation.
You definitely will be! I know it is hard now, but I know you will make it through this!
Thank you for your support!
Not a problem! I am glad you reached out tonight!
Me as well. I was debating it for a while
have a good evening
You as well!
good night
Good night! | {
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3 | 2 | Hi there how are things with you?
Hi I'm having trouble sleeping, have a lot on my mind...sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night and can't get back to sleep
I am sorry to hear that. I have insomnia and I know how horrible it is. Have you seen your doctor?
not for this
It might be worth it. They might be able to arrange you some counselling.
hmm yes maybe i should make an appointment....any idea what else I could try? what works for your insommnia?
Nothing really lol. But there are things that can make it easier. There is over the counter medication available, for instance
hmm i can't take those, am on other medications
Oh that's a shame. Have you tried, for instance, getting some exercise an hour or two before bed?
it's weird because i fall asleep okay but then in the middle of the night i wake up worried, lol, most inconvenient. I haven't tried that....hmmm maybe an after supper walk would help
It sounds like there might be other issues at work too ... anxiety?
yes, am dealing with cancer and another family member had to go for some serious tests so I get anxious about that
i think you're right I should put in a call to my doctor and get an appointment
Gosh I am very sorry to hear that. Have you spoken to your cancer doctor about it?
no actually i have not, perhaps i should
There may be some relation between the two things, it's worth seeing.
hmm yes you may well be right there, I hadn't htought of that
Did the two things start at around the same time, do you remember?
I have a nurse at the cancer center I can call, she can perhaps advise me
Yes - there may well be some physical thing going on as well as the anxiety.
hmm....i think so now that I think about it, yes
I would definitely advise talking to her then. There might be something helpful she can recommend.
i have too much living to do have to beat this cancer!! And getting a good night's sleep is important for my recovery
Yes it definitely is. Are you at liberty to nap during the day if you feel really tired?
ok so a walk in the evening and call my cancer nurse and make a appointment wtih my doctore, you've given me a plan of action
Try a nice milky drink just before you go to sleep too. Very soothing.
yes I do nap, thankfully i live alone so it's nice and quiet :)
Watch one of your favourite movies before bed too .. that might relax you.
thank yo9u so much for all your help today
You're most welcome - we have to talk for fifteen mins though so is there anything else I can advise you with?
have you tried meditation? i was thinking of trying it
am not much of a movie person but maybe some meditation before bed would help.
I have not but my sister practices it and apparently she finds it really helpful.
how long has she been meditating?
I think for over ten years. A Buddhist friend of hers taught her.
oh cool....yes my sister meditates and has been encouraging me to try
well thank you again :) hope you have a good eve
I would definitely recommend you trying it - at worst, it can't hurt. Anyway I hope I have been able to be of some help to you today and I wish you all the best for the future!
(can you press quit after fifteen mins as I can't do it from this end) | {
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5 | 1 | Hello my name is Sharon, how are you today? :)
Hi Sharon. Am good just concerned about my son.
Oh I see. What's happening with your son?
I suspect my son is in bad company. His most recent behaviour is so different from what I am used to
Oh that's hard to deal with. My daughter ran with a bad crowd for a while and I remember the deep worry.
What sort of behaviour are you noticing? How old is he?
My son is 15. Recently he's keeping to himself and mostly stays locked in his room. He barely allows anyone in.
And when you try and talk to him about it what does he say?
He says he's studying online. But I suspect he's doing other stuff online apart from study
Oh I see. Apart from isolating how is he doing otherwise, like at school? Is he still seeing his friends at all?
It can be scary not knowing what our kids are up to online.
Not really. He just has this one particular friend who comes over sometimes and they lock themselves in the room.
Hmm. So a lot of mystery. I can understand you being worried. Is he your only child?
I am so scared I don't want to confront him I have always tried to show him how much I trust him as away to make him feel responsible enough
Yes. He is my only child and I am single parent
Thats good parenting! Perhaps if you frame it as being about you, e.g. "I am getting really worried, can you please explain....it's affecting me (affecting my sleep/work/whatever" .... maybe it will inspire him to be more forthcoming
Any signs of depression? I have been depresed before, and self-isolating can be a symptom, I've been there...
Never thought of it that way. That could be a possibility. But he always seems happy and we chat a lot onlythat he his behind closed doors in his room for a long time everyday.
Am also concerned about the friend who comes over. I don't really know his family or home just that he's from the neighborhood and they go to the same school.
Hmm. My other thought is tell him what you just told me, that you have been trying to show him that you trust him....but be honest and tell him you are afraid. Hopefully, he won't want you feeling that way, and will open up a bit.
Yes I can see that being concerning when you know nothing about the friend. Yet you walk a fine line because he needs the freedom and autonomy to choose his friends without explanation required...it's such a balancing act. I can tell you that I have raised a daughter, and that teen years were tougher than toddlerhood. Lots of worry, but she came through it and is fine now.
I wonder if there is a teacher he is close to that you could bring your concerns to, perhaps the teacher may have some insight about yoru son to offer?
I find reassurance from your words. Its been tough for me this far we have come with my son and I want us to be close even as he growing up to become a young man. I have a good relationship with their teacher and will definitely give her a friendly call to know more from her.
Oh good. And it may be just a normal part of his development. Teens pull away from parents, peer group becomes far more important. It may be as simple as that.
It took my daughter about 15 years to "come back to me" and now we have a close relationship again....so even if he seems to be drifting away know that it's normal and that will change in the future.
Good to know that from an experienced parent. I will try communicate my worries and my intensions to him. I hope he will understand and not pull away.
And in the meantime remember to take extra good care of yourself :) Sometimes as moms we forget to do special things for ourselves. You are doing the hardest and most imporant job in the world so it's important to recognize that and reward yourself for it. I hope that conversation goes well for you, that you will have with him.
Thank you for your time and experienced advise.
Oh you're so welcome, it's been a pleasure speaking with you.
The pleasure was all mine. Bye.
bye :) | {
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5 | 3 | Hi, How are you doing today?
Hi, How are you doing today?
I feel like shit and I don't know how I can move on.
I can't help but feel there must be something wrong with me, or if I did something wrong.
It sound like you are having a really hard time right now.
Like I had all these plans and they just came crashing down, and now I have to start all over again.
Well yeah, I just broke up with my partner after finding out they cheated on me.
That is a very difficult situation. Starting over again can be a great opportunity for growth.
I feel like I'm too old to start over again. There must be something wrong with me after all.
I understand how you feel. I had a bad break up, but it turned out to be a good thing in the long run.
How so?
Well, looking back the relationship was pretty toxic and everything was better once I was out of it. I am sure your life will be happier and more fulfilling soon.
It sounds like you are blaming yourself for everything. Why do you feel at fault?
I don't know, it doesn't feel like anything's getting better soon. I've been busy with work so I haven't been spending as much time with my partner.
It sounds to me like you have been working hard to support your life with you partner. They should respect that.
Maybe it is my fault, maybe I didn't communicate enough.
Is this a relationship you would want back if you could get it back?
No, I don't think I'd want to get back with someone who cheated on me.
I would agree with you on that! That was how I felt too.
I guess I just need some time to think things through.
For sure. Just take things slowly, one day at a time. Take the time you need to learn to enjoy your new life.
For sure. Just take things slowly, one day at a time. Take the time you need to learn to enjoy your new life.
Sorry for hitting enter twice. :)
Here's to hoping things get better. Thanks for listening anyways.
You're welcome! I'll be rooting for you! | {
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3 | 2 | Hello
Hello
I just don't feel enthused about anything lately.
I am so sorry to hear that. How do you feel right now?
Just kind of "blah."
I understand that feeling. Have you lost interest in things that you normally would enjoy?
I don't know that I have exactly lost interest. I still do them, but somehow it feels like I'm just going through the motions.
I can relate to that. Have you thought about trying something new, or taking up a new hobby? That has helped me before
Not really. I guess that I'm just kind of stuck in a rut.
Would you be willing to try a new hobby to make each day less monotonous?
Yes, I would be, but I'm not sure that it actually needs to be a new hobby. I just need to have some sort of project that I'm working on.
Maybe a new home improvement project?
No! I've got a jigsaw puzzle that I could start, and I also have a list of "21 books that you've been meaning to read."
Those both sound like great ideas! I think starting one, or both, would really make you feel a lot better.
If I start working through the 21 books, that should keep me going for quite a while (even if I'm not interested in all of them)!
I believe it will also help give you a sense of accomplishment. I know that it would me
I agree.
Perfect! It sounds like you may have found a solution to help you get out of this rut and "blah" feeling
Thanks for chatting.
I hope that you start feeling better. I'm glad we were able to chat
It was helpful for me to have a chance to put my feelings into words. It just seems like I haven't had the opportunity to do that recently.
I glad that you were able to talk about how you are feeling. That is a big step in feeling better
I believe that we've successfully completed the task, and I need to go cook dinner. Goodbyt.
Enjoy your dinner! Goodbye | {
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3 | 2 | hello, I need some help
Hi, tell me all do you want to say!
I'm just really nervous about my fnial
final
I have to get a really high grade, a 95, in order. to pass the class
ohhh, but don't worry. do your best effort and you will get 95
I'm trying hard, but I just feel so much pressure
I work 2 jobs to pay for school, and failing. is not an option
I think you should don't be nervous, because it rest to your concentration!
What do you suggest I do? I've been studying all night
Oh God, I can understand you! that's a lot of pressuare
yes it is!
Should I keep studying or try and get some rest?
Well, I think you should take a rest time from your works and take that time to study a lot.
my test is tomorrow! I'm not working right now, I'm studying
Yes of course, You can do it and keeping studying to do your best in the exam
OHHHH!!!! well, you can take a rest like 20 or 30 minutes to desestress yourself and then continuing studying all night
how do I take some pressure off myself?
that's a good idea!
after the exam your pressure will be less than now
True. Do you have any study tips?
tomorrow will be a good day for you! I CAN SEE YOUR GRADE IT WILL BE 95
what if I fail? I will be miserrable
when i am studying i practices a lot everything, special the things that are more difficult
I always started with the difficult things, when I understood those parts I pass to the most simple parts, I think is better for my comprehension
those are good suggestions!
DON'T THINK THAT, you are trying and you can't give up now, I AM SURE YOU WILL PASS!
Thank you!
this made me feel less stressed
You are always welcome!
have a good night!
that's good, you have to eliminate your stress because it rest to your energy and good vibes
I'm going to get some rest
study a lot please! don't give up. | {
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5 | 1 | Hi
hello. How are you?
I'm honestly having a rough time
I'm sorry to hear that. Could you tell me about it?
Sure. I just lost my job and school is out so I feel like I have lost purpose
Thank you for telling me. I'm sorry to hear that. What did you do for your job?
I was a manager of a retail store that closed.
I see. That's a very important role for any business. I bet there are numerous other retailers out there looking for a good manager to hire.
That is true, I am just not sure if that is what I want to do anymore
I see. Well then, if this helps. The store closing might have been a positive thing, so you could find your next passion.
That is a good point.
I will also add, that being a Manager means you have some very important skills that would translate well to your next job, or anything you decide to do.
That's true. I know the experience will help me but I still miss it
Also, let's say you decided to work for another company, something new, outside of retail. Because you were a manager, you could also be promoted more quickly because of your management experience.
That is also true. I guess I just need to decide what I want to do now. That is probably the most difficult part.
Yes, it sounds like a part of you still misses the retail environment. I see that too. My best advice, is take a few days to think about what you really want to do. Think about what you are skilled at. Then decide which route you want to go. I know there will be numerous options out there for you in retail management, but if you wanted to do something different, there will be opportunities there too. Because you have options, you will likely pick the choice that will be most fulfilling for you, in something you will be passionate about - so this will likely be very positive for you.
That is really nice to say. I guess I am also just scared to go for something and have it not be as fulfilling as I thought
that's possible. but you will have plenty of options either way. Could be a different retail store, or something new.
Yeah. It is a big decision, though. Thanks for talking it out with me
Yes, of course. Take some time to think it through. Weigh your options, and the pros and cons of each. Then pick the option that will be the most rewarding for you.
Sounds like a great plan. Thanks again!
Thank you for talking with me.
Bye | {
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4 | 1 | please am not able to get sleep like 6 months now please help me
Are u overthinker?
i think sometimes i am thinking too much will that be the problem since i also avoid to think when am on my bed
I can feel your feelings .. Get yourself tired for something like workouts, House cleaning and traveling . These things made you tired to sleep.
in fact i do get tired like yesterday i did a lot of work going to bed i just slept like 1 hour only
Do you have any past ?
like?
Like lover or favorite person?
yes i do
OK let try to stop thinking about the person by making interest and spent times with dog or other pets
thanks but the problem is that the person stays next t me and we work together i do see the person like everyday
Ohh.. Did you ever tried to talk with them?
yes i did but am unable to forget one
Let try to ask them to be friends . say them just forget our old life be friends or feel your self meet me for the first time
or try sleeping piles to sleep .
okay thank you so much.
also is there anything i can do to sleep more
You are always welcome
what else can i do
Wait
okay
Try to sleep with friends or made a new person to forget your past
like opposite sex or
Like opposite sex
okay thanks am going to try since am suffering a lot
sure you will get best result.
can we really get into a relationship for me to sleep with or what do you see because i lost interest
make interest
okay thanks a lot am gonna try. i appreciate your concern
thankyou bye
bye | {
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5 | 1 | hello
hi
how is your side? Please how may I be of help
I would just like someone to talk to, very reserved because of covid
I could see that you are indoor and bored because of the pandemic season
yes very lonely and no one to talk to, world is so scary
everyone says so, life is in circle, you just need to keep on pushing it simultaneously.
i try very hard but I don't know how much longer i can take it
do you have any hobby? that you can use to wipe away time
i like to watch soccer and basketball
I was once in that situation, but what helped me is that, I never give up, though I may be overwhelmed with the challenges and unpalatable situations ..... I keep on pressing it,
I will keep trying to make people proud
I am a lover of sport, just get use to it, anytime you are down, take your phone and watch football or basket ball either on YouTube or any other means .
yes I will watch highlights and goals on YouTube very nice
that is what you need. Winner never quit !
Life is not friendly at a time, but when you look at mirror and tell yourself that you will make it, by God's grace you will make it
yes thank u
yes I love God and Jesus
Jesus is the son of God and the savior, by His grace, we shall win
Yes I always pray he makes everything better
I hope you have a very Merry Christmas may God bless u and your family
hope you are satisfied, if so, you can end the chat
amen, He will bless you either | {
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4 | 1 | Hello how are you?
I'm, okay, thanks, and you? I'm feeling a bit down because I'm alone for the holidays.
Well that's no good, does your family live far away?
Yes, my family is scattered all over the country, like Seattle, Georgia, PA. I'm sure I'm not the only one with no plans this weekend, though.
True but I can understand that, it is hard being alone at the holidays.
Did you have plans this weekend?
No. My nearby friends all went away for the holidays. I could probably just occupy my time with things I need or want to do in order to distract myself.
What kind of hobbies do you have?
I'm teaching myself the piano. I'm also teaching myself how to work a stenography machine for possible future employment as a stenographer. I also like to read novels.
I have never understood how those work..I find it amazing someone can type out whole words or sentences with one word
Yeah, it's pretty cool. For example, if I hit DRAT in one stroke, then "Did there come a time" will appear in English on my machine's LCD screen.
Wow that is crazy, I don't understand how that works, is it preprogrammed or does it go by how the word sounds?
Each stenographer has their own "Personal Dictionary" which is a list of words in English along with how you in particular write out those words or phrases in steno. This dictionary is present within the actual steno machine after you transfer it from your laptop to the machine via cable or wifi. Thus your machine then knows how you write out words in particular and how to translate those words from steno to English - each stenographer writes a little differently.
OK that makes sense, so you basically program it as the user. I take it your stenography machine becomes pretty close to you lol
Is this your first holiday alone?
Yes, exactly! And it's very important to back up your personal dictionary to the cloud or a seperate drive so that you don't lose it in a hard-drive crash. A lot of work goes into creating that dictionary! No, it's happened before, being along for the holidays; but you've helped to cheer me up, so thanks!
No problem, I hope I have made your day a little better!
You have, thanks! Did you do anything special?
Have a good rest of this year and don't forget to make your New Year's resolution!
I will do that - you too. Thanks, again...
Not really, stayed home lol... Have a good one!
You too... bye now...
Good day!
What else can I help you with today? | {
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3 | 2 | Hello!
Hi!
How are you doing today?
I am so very angry and disgusted with my life
I'm sorry to hear that. Why do feel that way?
My husband keeps calling me names degrading me not respecting me. I am so angry because he does this in front of our kids
He doesnt do it all the time but its enough to make me feel inferior and angry every time I think about it
I understand why you'd feel that way, we should be treated with respect especially with our partners.
Yes we should but tell that to him. If I stand up for myself he ll go into OH Here we go lets play the victim role Poor you only he says my name
and tell boys what a worthless mom I am and white trash
What a terrible thing to say. How do you answer him?
Usually I keep quiet but if I say something it will be what i do for family and how he doesn't help me or respect me
I'm sorry about what you're going through. It might be a good idea to take some time away from him and for yourself, if that would be possible. Do you have friends or family near you?
Not with Covid going on no. I havent seen my mom since march
I have no siblings and a few friends
boys are cyberschooling he works remote so no that is not possible
It really is a difficult situation for everybody. It sounds like you're all feeling stressed and cooped in too, does that sound right?
This happened before Covid. Covid just made it worst
because he went to work boys went to school and I had me time for a few hours before I picked youngest up kindergarted
It would be good if you can reach out to your friends and let them know how you're feeling. Try to make some time for yourself and let your husband know how you really feel.
well I got get going . boys need me to help withhomework.
Great idea . I think I will . Keep safe
I hope you keep safe out there too.
Has this worked for any other people you supported ? talk to you later
I think it's different for everybody and you'll have to find out for yourself what you would want going forward. Stay strong, it sounds like you're a great parent!
thanks. Im trying to end conversation. Ill try one more time | {
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4 | 2 | Hi.
You there buddy?
I would appreciate your help if you're there.
Hey is everything okay?
No, not really. How about you?
Can you tell me what is bothering you? I have many times in holidays past felt like you and I always find it best to talk it out.
Due to this pandemic, I am fearful for my job and financial situation.
Yeah it is a difficult time and understandable to be worried about financial stability.
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Are you worried you may lose your job? I lost mine during the peak of the 2008 financial crisis and went through a similar struggle.
Yea, this is causing me a lot of stress. My firm has cut 10% already. I feel like I might be next.
It may be a stressful situation, but it may be best to update your resume and begin to check out other job listings. You want to hope everything works out, but you do not want to be blindsided.
Ok. Thanks for the helpful tips. The lock down in my city is also causing my stress. Is there a lock down where you live?
Yes the lockdown has been difficult. It has been tough for me too. I live in a city with a lot of parks and nature trails and it has been very beneficial to get out when I can. Do you have a similar situation?
I would so say. I live in Oregon, so there are many parks.
Fresh air is always a great way to get your mind off the difficult situations we all face in life.
Good to know. When do you think things will go back to normal?
I am thinking things will slowly begin to get better toward the beginning of spring and by the end of the next year things should be close to normal.
Has anything else been bothering you?
Just the pandemic, work and financial situation.
I was thinking about getting a dog, is that a good or bad idea during this pandemic?
Yeah it is a tough time, but we will all make it through. Just stay safe and keep in mind that this is only temporary and there is an end to all of this right around the corner.
What's your thoughts on the economy going forward?
I think that is a great idea. It will be a perfect time to get him/her trained and you can get some bonding in with the dog as well!
Thanks. I was thinking the same.
Thanks again for everything.
With the economy, it will take time. Probably years, but once a vaccine hits things will immediatley trend in the right direction. | {
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5 | 2 | Hi there how are you today?
I feel horrible to be honest. I can't get anything done.
I am really sorry to hear that.. would you like to talk about it?
I guess... But I doubt this will be of any help. I am just here because my mother pressured me.
So, I hear you saying that you're not enthusiastic about having to talk about your problems?
I really never find why telling my problems to a stranger can result helpful
I do understand. I've tried therapy myself and was very hesitant at first. But after a while I found it really did help
Do you feel ready to tell me what specifically is wrong?
Everything has been going wrong. I have no friends, 0 luck with dating. School sucks. I fail my classes. I can't find a job.
Well, let's take these one at a time. Firstly, is there something you could do to make friends? Join a group of some kind?
Do you mean like joining a club at school or something?
What about something like a book club or a gym?
You never know, you might also find a date there :)
I hate exercising. I like reading manga every now and then. I guess I am just a depressed weeb. I'm so useless....
No you are not. Thinking like that is a symptom of depression. It is perfectly normal but there is help available.
The thing is I would be in a much better place in life right now if I were capable of it.
I am just not fit for society.
I do understand. I have suffered severe depression and I know how debilitating it is. Can you see your doctor?
Yeah, I probably can
Would you be prepared to take medication? I know a lot of people hate the idea but it can really help.
Medication? Am I some kind of crazy psycho now? No, not at all
I was talking about anti depressants :). I use prozac and it helps a lot.
Prozac? Could you tell me more about it...?
Yes - it is an anti depressant drug that was developed about thirty years ago. It works by preventing your brain from reuptaking serotonin
Is that some kind of hormone that makes me feel down?
Serotonin actually makes you feel good. In a depressed person it can be reuptaken by the brain too rapidly however, leaving you feeling low. Prozac prevents this from happening.
I hope I have been able to help you. Enjoy your day!
Thank you. You too...
Just click the button at the bottom :) | {
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2 | 1 | Hello.
Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?
I am sad since my friends are going out tonight without me.
That's too bad. Did they not invite you? Where are they going?
They are going to the bar. No they didn't invite me. I am not sure why.
I'm sorry to hear that. Did you have a falling-out?.
The pandemic has been hard on many people. I figure many friendships are going through a rough patch, eh.
Not that I can think of. We haven't talked much this week since school took up all of my time. Papers due and all that jazz.
A busy time of the semester. How's school going for you?
Not bad. It is a touch harder than I thought but I am passing and that is all that matters. Thank you for asking.
School's going well enough for you. You'd like to re-establish ties with your friends. Do you do other stuff with them besides going to bars?
We'll grab a coffee in the middle of the day if our schedules line up. Happens once or twice a week.
That sounds like a good opportunity to see which way the wind is blowing, so to speak. Maybe you can feel them out to get a sense of what might be wrong?
Yeah that's a good idea. Open up some line of communication to see what is happening.
Coffee is casual, but people open up when they're drinking. That'll loosen their tongues.
Loosen them if they don't burn them by accident first! lol
Don't take it personally. It's just one trip to a bar. There might be something else going on that you don't know about. Don't jump to conclusion. If they keep snubbing you, then you need to worry a bit.
True. I do tend to jump to conclusions. Probably was some kind of misunderstanding. I will reach out to them on Sunday when I wish them a happy Easter to see if we can set up something during the week next week.
That's a swell idea! Easter is a day of redemption and forgiveness. Maybe invite them over and have some Easter ham and Easter wine.
I am having Easter with the family so I can't do that but good idea otherwise.
Thank you for your help. You did a great job. You are good at this!
I've had a bit of Easter wine this evening. Easter drinking starts on Friday. Puts the "good" in "Good Friday."
Yes it is good Friday. Thank you again and Happy Easter! | {
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5 | 2 | How are you doing today?
I'm not so well.
I see you aren't feeling so well. What seems to be going on?
I'm really anxious over a breakup.
I'm sorry to hear that you are experiencing a breakup. That's really hard.
I'm not sure where to go or what to do?
Just from chatting with you, I can see how anxious you are in trying to get a path forward..
I don't know how to be alone.
That's really hard, but there are supports out there.
Where can I go for support?
There are counselors out there to help with relationships.
That sounds like something I could try.
Do you have any family supports?
My sister has been through a similar situation and perhaps could help.
It sounds like your sister could be a great support being that she has had a similar situation.
That is a good idea.
Family can often be a strength for support.
That is so true. Thanks so much. I'm going to get some help and am feeling better about things.
Yes, family can be a great support. I am glad you are starting to move forward with a plan.
Have a great night. Thanks again.
Thank you for chatting and I wish you well.
I feel so much calmer now after chatting with you. | {
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3 | 1 | Hi, how are you? I am dealing with a lot right now!
Hello! How can I help?
What is wrong?
My job is driving me nuts! I can't handle it anymore.
How is it driving you nuts?
The pressure has been building and building. They keep giving me more responsibility, but no more help! The pandemic has really made my job a lot harder.
I have also went through the same thing as you and I know how hard it feels, so believe in yourself
You have been given responsibility because you are competent enough to carry it out
I want to quit the job and get away from the pressure. I'm worried about my mental health and also about the risk of COVID.
I think that's the problem! I'm TOO competent.
Don't quit your job because it will only make life harder in the long run
I think the company wouldn't give me so much work if I were worse at my job. The reward for doing a good job is more work!
I know, I know! But the anxiety is killing me! Every day at work is worse than the last!
Being competent is good and you will surely get compensation for the amount of work you put in, maybe a promotion
I don't want to quit. How do I find a balance? How do I manage my anxiety?
I don't think the company wants to give me a promotion because that would cost them more money. Maybe another company would pay me better.
You could always work harder and show them you can work, maybe then they will offer you a promotion
You can manage your anxiety by maybe meditating, it seems you have a lot going on so it would help to forget about things for a while
I have never tried meditation. That's a good idea. Maybe some other people at the company would like to try it too.
Yeah! Get others to do it with you and you may start to feel more comfortable
That's true. Meditation is a good way to get in contact with my emotions. It might help me not feel so isolated.
Yeah! You are never alone you can always get through this
Yeah. I *can* get through this, if I reach out to others at the company. Maybe not the managers, but the other employees certainly know what I'm going through.
Yes and maybe they are going through the same thing so they would like to find a solution as well
I feel the anxiety getting better. I know that others have tried meditation to deal with stress and anxiety. It's a good suggestion. Thanks!
Your Welcome anytime!
I'm actually looking forward to work tomorrow! I bet that my co-workers will welcome the suggestion of meditation.
Yes thats the spirit! Don't let your mood change now
Will do! Have a good day. | {
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4 | 2 | Hello! How are you?
I am dong good. How are you?
Also Merry Christmas!
Merry Chirstmas.
I'm doing good!
So how can help you? Is there anything bothering you today?
I lost my job and very distressed about it.
Oh I'm so sorry to hear that :(. That is terrible
Yes..
Have you started looking for a new one?
I know this is difficult but the best thing I would recommend is moving on.
Not yet. Not sure where to start.
Do you have a linkdin account?
I do, but not up to date.
I would start by creating/updating that.
That way you can find newer jobs.
Please tell me more about linkedin, how it could help?
so linkedin gives quite a few suggested jobs given your profile.
What should I look for in linkedin?
So an updated profile will show you jobs that you can apply that fit your skillset.
I would go to the "jobs" section in the menu and see what jobs you like best.
Its a bit vague but really just start looking and you will find something that fits!
First I need to update my resume.
Thats a good starting point too! I believe linkedin can give suggestions on resumes format as well too.
Thanks for your suggestion.
Well it seems you have a good starting point. Is there anything else you want to talk about?
That's all.. thanks.
Have a good day!
Although I get the suggestion from you, seems like I need to wait another 4 mins to close the chat. Please bear with me. | {
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4 | 2 | Hello, how are you today?
Hey, I've been having a really rough day.
My mom and I got into an argument
I'm sorry to hear that, what's happening?
How bad was the argument? What was it about?
She got pretty upset when I took off my shower head without telling her. Somehow, we ended up arguing about how I don't respect her.
Do you think there is any truth to what she is saying?
Family conflict can be very upsetting, I have it in my family sometimes.
Maybe. I don't particularly like her and that she maybe picks up on that. But I feel like that's the underlying issue and the shower head argument is just a coverup for her real feelings.
It's really upsetting. We have "peaceful" moments before we're arguing again
I see. Do you live together?
Yes
That does sound upsetting. So how do you two make peace generally, or do you have silences between you?
I guess it's less peace and more like silence
So what helps you deal with it? I have found journaling so helpful when I have personal conflicts. It helps to get things in perspective, and to vent to a peice of paper
Actually I journal on my computer, and don't save it :)
I've written some of our arguments down before, but it's too painful to look at now.
Thath's why I don't save my journal entries, too painful
I used to talk to friends about it, but idk, it all feels empty now.
Do you have a counselor you can speak with about how to deal with the conflicts? Maybe he/she could arrange a family meeting
I get that. It's hard to look at them. I'm not sure what to do to cope. Lately, my coping skills haven't been all to healthy
I did that with my husband when we were fighting, having a counselor in the room helped us gain insight.
I have a psychiatrist and I'm trying to figure out how to pay for a therapy currently. I know some offer sliding scale options
Exercise is helpful for burning off anger, a good long walk... Oh you must be in US?
Yeah, I'm in the U.S. I used to go on walks and exercise at night. It really helps me sleep.
Maybe I can start doing that again
I think that would be great! A good way to burn off frustration and improve physical health at the same time.
I always fall out of it! Any advice for making a steady habit out of it?
You will get through this....it sounds like you two need to have some good talks to address these conflicts....together the two of you may be able to sort it out. On a day when things are calm, not during an argument.
Yes I do! I used to procrastinate walking....then I got myself a walking partner
That sounds great! I've been wanting a workout partner, I think a friend of mines wants one too...
We are accountable to each other. We both need to walk for our mental health, we have mental health issues
How'd you find one?
Hey that would be great if you two could be accountable to each other
And yeah, we do need to talk, I just feel conflicted because I ask if it would help anything or should I just move out and move on?
My neighbour and I were chatting about how we are not motivated to walk but want to walk, so we made a plan
Well....only one way to find that out....and and challenging as it may seem it could be, it's a less drastic step than moving
If you both want it to work, it will
That sounds nice. My friend just likes being in shape ig, so it works out. We both have kinda hectic, unsupportive families.
Well I hope you two can talk it out.
Yeah, that's a good point. It takes time, but I'm trying to learn to when to give more effort and when to pull away.
Me too. Thanks for talking to me.
oh it's been a pleasure speaking with you, you're very welcome
I wish you all the best, you will get through this :)
Thank you so much. I hope we both can continue to work on being happy and healthy
:) we will | {
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5 | 3 | Hi! Are you having a good day?
doing well, but it could have been better, how are you doing ?
I am okay thanks. Do you have anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about?
yes, I'm currently under pressure to retake a work certification program that is about to expire. I'm not quite ready and I'm about losing my mind as time is fast approaching.
I see .. so you feel that you will not be able to pass this program at the current time?
exactly and I'm afraid of losing my license if I don't, I feel like I'm in a bind
Is there any possibility of postponing this till a later date? For one thing the world situation is very insecure at the moment and you have the right to say that you just feel that you want to self isolate right now
Are you a member of any sort of union that might be able to liase on your behalf? There are plenty of organisations out there
My biggest fear is that they are bringing in a newer version of the exam which will require a lengthy time that I don't have to prepare, I will be better off taking the current version, I feel overwhelmed
Okay, well, firstly I think it's a good idea to try to stay calm and not let yourself be overwhelmed. Is it possible to get any sort of tuition to prepare for the exam?
No I'm not. It's tough for me right now
I am very sorry. I remember very well the stress of exams and the horrible feeling that you might fail.
Thanks for the understanding, the tuition is on me.
My only option now will be to take time off from work and see if I can get myself ready in the little time I have
I can tell how insecure you are feeling about this. Does it help to let you know that you are not alone?
Yes, it helps I'm just hoping the company I work for will understand and give me the time off
Are they normally understanding of things like this? Do you have a good boss?
yes, I have helped them a couple of times when they are hard pressed on something and needed my help. I'm hoping they reciprocate and bail me out as that's my only hope.
It sounds like they are pretty reasonable. I really hope that it goes well for you. Thanks for talking and all the best.
Thanks for listening to me and offering the support, it helped me think it through
I am really glad to hear it. All the best to you.
thank you , it's been nice chatting with you .
Please remember to take the survey :) | {
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3 | 2 | Hello.
Hi how are you doing today?
I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed.
Im sorry you are feeling depressed. Whats making you feel that way?
Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone.
Youre spending thanksgiving alone? Do you usually spend Thanksgiving alone?
Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family.
I understand how you feel. COVID is causing a lot of distance between familys making relationships difficult.
Have you thought about video chatting them on Thanksgiving?
Yes very. My family lives in another state.
Yes, but it's not the same.
I know what you mean, in-person is always better than over the phone. I understand why you would feel this way.
It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holiday grows closer.
You're not alone in feeling this way. A lot of people are missing their families during the holidays. What would help you during this difficult times? besides video chatting? Can you still cook yourself a nice meal and do any traditions you normally do?
Yes I could do that. I was thinking about ordering a Thanksgiving Platter for 2 people so I could have some leftovers from a restaurant that I really like in my town.
They do holiday specials.
thats a great idea!
And AMC always shows great holiday movies so I will watch a bunch.
dont worry, soon this pandemic will end and we can go back to the holidays we are used to. We just have to wait. I understand how hard it can make it on holidays though.
Yes I do hope so.
I love AMC/Holiday movies as well!
I understand the situation is dire and people are sick, but everyone is suffering, even emotionally.
that is very true. our world has been so different this year
Yes it's sad.
Is there any foods you are looking forward to from your favorite restraunt or movie your interested to watch this year?
Yes of course. Mashed potatoes and gravy and the movie Four Christmases is hysterical.
great choices! mashed potatoes and gravy is my favorite too! and that movie is so funny.
Haha thanks. Well thank you for chatting with me, I feel better.
You sound like you have a great plan in place as a temporary holiday until we can be with our familes again. i know its not the same but you sound like you are making the best of the situation. which is all we can really do .
Thank you. I'm trying. I really miss my parents.
im glad you are feeling better and glad we could chat! | {
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4 | 3 | Hello there, how is life going for you right now?
Is there anything on your mind that you would like to talk about?
I am happy to listen if you want to talk.
so sorry i had stepped away
I have been having a bit of a bad time in life lately so I can understand and empathise if you are too
i heard the bell ticking and kept wondering what had happened and what it was
That is no problem! What would you like to talk about?
this is how my mind is won- dering so much now
Okay... do you feel that you are having trouble concentrating?
i just need to hear the voice of someone now as i am into myself so much
bad time to be alone as the miind keeps wanting theings for me that i had left alone
I hear you. It's been a very bad year for everyone, what with the pandemic and everything.
so much stress here with deaths in family, aloneness and bills
Has something specific happened that you'd like to talk about?
yes not to mention the pandemic
i forget to wear my mask from home mostly mine is gone
and swind up hving to buy one somewhere out there or come back home
I am so sorry to hear that. Are you aware that there are agencies out there who could offer you help and advice?
with my rthritis it hurts me so much to wal and walking back home to go bck gain is out of the question, i used to walk for miles and miles and work all day so depressing s ometimes
know there are agencies , i have een worked at a few senior commmunities and day centers , .
So you feel that you have more problems than normal, what with health problems and the pandemic too?
i g to counseling now, but with our pndemic the groups are not meeting anymore
yes i g to the doctor too
Yes I hear you. I have also felt very isolated during this pandemic.
A lot of pepple say they are and then they are home with their families and everything
i just was listening to the tv and it made me feel like why are they so uncomfortable to be home with their families
and let it pass
It is perfectly normal to feel this way at this time. Are you able to see your family at all?
no not really, my friend (boy) had asked me if i wanted to go visit my daughter in Delware and i said no bcquse of the pandemic
she came here with her family this past th of July
this is part of the reason but not ll
How did it make you feel to have to say no?
i have two daughters and they each have a son i have familly here too but we are estranged from each now moe than ever since the sister that as after me died, they looked up to her more since i had left to live with my father when our mother died. my life is a story of broken lives from the time i was born
so being alone is nothing new to me. it is in my bones this lonliness i have
Do you feel as though you have nowhere to turn and that things are just getting worse?
i have financial problems now since i have been sending money to Africa to my new love
I see. Are you likely to be able to meet them in person soon, given the global situation?
unpaid bills and credit all messed up, i was trying to be a responsible grandmother to my grandsons and daughters but he has gotten their money and now it is Christmas
h says he is coming to marry me wihich will be another problems and nothing else will dominate his mind
That sounds really horrific. May I suggest you seek some professional help?
with all of thois flower tak i am not sure i have not been scammed
I hope that I have been able to b of some comfort to you
I must leave now but I urge you to get professional help
there is alsays a sad story which hads also made me so depressed and then they have such terrible things happening to them over there
I hear you. Please try to reach out for professional help
i hank you for lending a listening ear and will continue to pray to God to help me until it gets better. thank you
I hope it will get better!
i will see someone on the 30th.
i pray, Merry Christmas to you and God bless you. thank you.
And you too!
You need to press quit and take the survey :) I can't do it from my end | {
"empathy_score": 4,
"relevance_score": 1,
"understanding_score": 1
} |
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