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{ "description": "telling a friend that I already have something they gifted me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I told a friend that I already have something they gifted me?
So my friends know I'm interested in vinyl records, and that I have a couple that I listen to. One of my friends wrapped up a record and gifted it to me. Unfortunately, since we had classes, I couldn't spend more time with her and I couldn't open it when she was there. She asked me instead to video myself opening it, s...
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{ "description": "attacking my friend's source of grief", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for attacking my friend's source of grief?
The friend in question we will call Tom. Tom has always been kind of homophobic. Specifically the "I'm not a homophobe, but if I see a gay couple I'm going to call the a couple of f-" brand of homophobia. You might imagine how difficult it was to come out as bi to all my friends, him included. He was suprisingly alrigh...
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{ "description": "being a little possessive over my food", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being a little possessive over my food
My boyfriend and I have lived together for a couple months now and he likes to eat my food and just tonight drink the rest of my liquor. I do have a problem (that I'm trying to work on) of not sharing my food. All I have asked him is to ask me if he can have some of my chips, drink that last of my whiskey, eat my bread...
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{ "description": "hating and refusing to help a mentally disabled person that attack and almost killed my mother", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating and refusing to help a mentally disabled person that attack and almost killed my mother?
Hey, so some backstory. My mother works for a company that inables mentally handicapped people to live on their own. This particular house has anywhere from 3-5 individuals living in it. This one individual, who I'm call B, has never had a problem with my mother or any other worker (to my knowledge). I don't know if B ...
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{ "description": "not helping a stranger pick up all their change", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not helping a stranger pick up all their change?
I was standing outside today waiting to order food at a food truck. There was a woman in front of me who had just received her change from her order. She was attempting to put some coins she got back as change into a coin purse, but she fumbled with the purse and dropped it. This resulted in literally like a hun...
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{ "description": "not telling someone they are being cheated on", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling someone they are being cheated on?
Was at an NBA game recently. In front of me a couple was sitting. The woman kept getting texts from another man. She would keep her phone facing away from who I presume to be her husband (both wearing wedding rings). Some of the texts were pretty suggestive, one being something like "I really wish I could be with you r...
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{ "description": "letting my boyfriend's passport expire before our trip", "pronormative_score": 199, "contranormative_score": 111 }
AITA for letting my boyfriend's passport expire before our trip?
My boyfriend of over a year and I are going to an out of country destination for a week in March. I love him a lot but he can be juvenile and I find myself feeling at times likes a mother and child dynamic. His passport has been expired since May 2018, and I have brought it up several times to get it renewed. We have ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed that my friend always expects me to sit her dog for free", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed that my friend always expects me to sit her dog for free?
I dog sit as a secondary source of income, and have for about a year and a half now. While most of the people I sit for are strangers, I've watched a fair amount of coworker's/friend's dogs as well, and they have always offered to pay me for these services, even when it's only for a night or two. This particular frie...
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{ "description": "not visiting my grandmother for 3 years", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not visiting my grandmother for 3 years
Apologies in advance for the long story. Background: I'm 34. My grandmother is 91 and lives in a nursing home in a small city. The area where she lives isn't rural by any means, but it's not exactly accessible either. It's basically an all-day trip to get there (two flights), and when you arrive there's not really muc...
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{ "description": "expecting my boyfriend to stop being friends with a girl I can't stand", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for expecting my boyfriend to stop being friends with a girl I can’t stand?
Background info: all of us are 5th year medical students, 22-23 y/o, and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 1.5 yrs. My bf and I have been experiencing problems bc I can’t stand his friendship with a certain girl in his group. I’ve known her since school, and she was a bully, and after we both got into med schoo...
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{ "description": "refusing to cancel my plans", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to cancel my plans?
I have a co-worker at my workplace who I would consider to be friends with, we sometimes hang out after work or do stuff on the weekends. Usually when I try to make plans with him I always get the typical "sure, I don't have any plans yet but I can't if I am spontaneously going out" which in 80% of all cases means that...
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{ "description": "being the one that got away", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being the one that got away?
A while ago at the end of my senior year in highschool a few of my friends planned and invited me to participate in a senior prank at the school. Around 10,000 post-it notes were purchased and were to be applied on all surfaces within the main hallways of the school. So the fated night arrived. I invited my GF at the t...
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AITA? My 8th grade bully
Years ago, in 8th grade, I was bullied every day in my history class by a kid who sat next to me. I’m 35 now and I still remember getting punched and verbally harassed when the teacher wasn’t looking. I was a scrawny kid and he was much bigger than me (I think he may have stayed back a year or two). I went to the prin...
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AITA: For the way I ordered at a Mexican restaurant.
Throwaway Background: Born in SoCal, moved to a North Eastern state a year or so ago. I have avoided having Mexican food until now, because I’ve had it all my life and wanted something new. Story: I was with two friends, we were going to go get lunch and someone suggested Mexican. I thought “Why the Hell not?”. ...
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{ "description": "not going to Christmas", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to Christmas
My mom and I have not been getting along the past year and a half. She was a really shitty mom but got a little better over the years. Last year we had a big falling out because she talks so much shit about everyone and I ended up hearing all the shit she talks about me. We havent seen each other much since then but ...
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{ "description": "the wanting to find someone near me after she wanted to cheat on me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for the wanting to find someone near me after she wanted to cheat on me
(This happened about a month ago and I’m on mobile so go easy with the spelling errors) I dated this girl right? It was a long distance relationship for the first 2 weeks everything was going well but I noticed my grades started to slip. What I did was I took 2 days **2days** just to focus on my academics. My ex on the...
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{ "description": "telling my dad that I don't approve of his new girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Telling My Dad That I Don’t Approve Of His New Girlfriend?
The title sounds bad but I do believe I was in the right for saying so. So, my dad has been dating this woman that he met at a massage parlor (she is a massage therapist there) and she has been throwing red flags left and right. And they’ve only been dating for two weeks. Red flag #1: She told him that he is not all...
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AITA My mother feels like an asshole when it comes to babysitting my niece.
This is more about my mother than me. So about a month or 2 ago my sister broke up with her boyfriend, she has a 2 year old daughter (hes not the father but that doesn't really matter at this point) my mother has a full time 5 day a week job like most people, she is currently VERY stressed with work because she is basi...
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{ "description": "not telling my friend that he was being scammed", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not telling my friend that he was being scammed?
Some background info. My friend Mark and I are close friends and met in high school, we smoke weed together frequently and buy off of another friend of mine named Tommy. Tommy and I were friends already before I met Mark but we both trusted him. So about 3 weeks ago, Tommy sells Mark 10 Grams for $100 when 10Gs is supp...
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{ "description": "excluding my sister in my personal life", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I (19F) exclude my Sister in my personal life (23F) ?
Hey there! So some backstory about my sister’s and I relationship -We used to be super close when she was studying abroad and had a BF at the time, she constantly called me and came to me for advice/rant about her BF. After she came back, they had a nasty break up where he cheated on her while being in an LDR (and ...
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{ "description": "telling a friend to sell our tickets", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Telling a Friend to Sell Our Tickets?
So this story starts about a year ago. For clarity, we’ll refer to everyone as Andy (me), April (my SO), Leslie and Tammy. We all planned a trip to see a band we all like, which would have been about a 7 hour road trip. Leslie bought the tickets, and did not make us pay service fees (we’ve all done this before, we neve...
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{ "description": "charging at a kid after he had bullied me for a long time", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for charging at a kid after he had bullied me for a long time?
So a couple of years ago there was a kid in my class who bullied my calling my a Fa\*\*ot nonathletic etc.. So one day, we were playing soccer at recess and I tried to score a goal and I just missed. He was then really made at me and called as slow as molasses and other hurtful things. This was the last straw for me I ...
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{ "description": "getting upset with the members in my group for a massive project", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset with the members in my group for a massive project
I could go on forever about this topic, but to cut it short... I'm in a program through my college that allows the students to design projects (business cards/logos/magazines/annual reports/flyers/booklets/pamphlets/anything graphic design based) for local business in the area. Most of these business are new startup...
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{ "description": "leaving my 18 year old diabetic bro at home", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my 18 year old diabetic bro at home?
So sorry if this doesn't make much sense but I'm currently crying as I type this. My mom came home and we got into an argument as I had informed her prior I would be out on new years evening for a party. Well my ride there consumed alcohol that I didn't even notice until texting my friends prior to making this post and...
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{ "description": "talking about something my friend didn't want to talk about", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking about something my friend didn't want to talk about?
So basically My friend A is transferring from online school to normal school. she's been at the school before but did online for a year. she wanted to call for her last day without school. So we called.. We were laughing the whole time. It was a good conversation, I'd say. Near the end she had to brb in the middle of ...
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{ "description": "getting my ex manager in trouble", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting my ex manager in trouble?
Two years ago, my grandfather passed away. I was working in marketing departmen at this  small branch office of a huge company that sold soil fertilizers at the time. I could not attend the funeral since it was what we call busy month. But I promised my upset Dad that I would take a week off and visit grandpa's grave t...
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{ "description": "refusing the request of my best friend to stop texting his ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing the request of my best friend to stop texting his ex?
This all started when my first gf ever broke up with me, this of course left me in a state of severe depression for several weeks, so my best friend seeing me like this, invites me to a party so he wouldn't go alone. He convinced me to go and there I met some really cool people and in particular I met the girl who had...
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{ "description": "buying an expired domain", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for buying an expired domain?
A previous employer wrongfully terminated me after years of working there, for something I never did. Rather than believing me and other witnesses, I was fired. This employer accidentally let their domain expire recently. I would love to outbid them by one dollar and have them just pay me that amount in exchange for ...
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{ "description": "giving people cigarettes", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Giving People Cigarettes
I smoke occasionally, usually while drunk. Whenever someone asks to "buy" a smoke, I give them one instead. I do it because I don't feel inclined to take money from people for something I felt guilty for waking up with. In pure good points terms AITA? I am helping someone hurt themself, but don't know if it's a bad t...
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{ "description": "trying to make a point in an arguement between my mom and sister-in-law", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to make a point in an arguement between my mom and sister-in-law?
Okay so kind of a long story, but I'll make it as short as possible. Okay so my brother and his sister in law are living with me, and my mother for now until they get back on their feet. They have 3 kids and one on the way. Anyway my youngest nephew, who's not even 3 yet, started running a fever. It consisted for a ...
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{ "description": "getting mad when my husband drinks my alcohol", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for getting mad when my husband drinks my alcohol?
We've both cut back on booze for health and finances. We had none in our house and decided to make an exception for a night in with a friend. I went to the store and bought, per my husband's request, a 6 pack of our friend's favorite domestic beer and a 6 pack of mixed IPAs with a couple specific brands. I'm not a fan...
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{ "description": "returning someones Christmas gift", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for returning someones Christmas gift.
Now I know how you're expecting this to go, but I promise you it's not what you expect. So I have a mate who I used to do everything with, we'd hang out every other night to play games and try new restaraunts etc. But maybe 2 or 3 years ago he got girlfriend who has a LOT of health issues and a daughter of her own, so...
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{ "description": "not wanting my roommate's bf in our dorm as I shower", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my roommate's bf in our dorm as I shower?
Throwaway bc some people in my dorm know my main acct. Formatting may be weird bc I'm on mobile. For some background, I live in a fairly large dorm room. However, our actual shower/toilet area is very small. So, my roommate and I decided to get one of those extendable rod things to place in the door way of our sink a...
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{ "description": "not liking my girlfriend's makeover and telling her she looked bad", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not liking my girlfriend's makeover and telling her she looked bad?
Hey guys I just want to know whether I overstepped my boundary a bit. Me and my gf(both mid 20'sF ) have been dating for 3 years. Recently she got a makeover as a surprise to me for our anniversary. She always knew that I had a thing for septum rings. So she gets her septum pierced and cut off all her hair. Honestly...
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AITA Encounter with Cashier at Gas Station
I come in with my girlfriend and grab some stuff. I walk up to the busy counter. Two open registers, both with customers at them. There was a dude in a white shirt just sorta waiting before us in the now cluster that is the line. But he walks off and starts shopping again. Leaving me and my girlfriend alone waiting. T...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my mom for not cooking dinner", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 191 }
AITA for getting mad at my mom for not cooking dinner?
Okay, the title makes me sound like a brat but here's the thing: I can't cook. My mom never taught me and she never trusted me to teach myself. I'm 17 goddamn years old and i can't cook anything other than ramen noodles, chicken nuggets, and mac and cheese on a good day. Can't make a grilled cheese or Hamburger Helper ...
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{ "description": "being incredibly upset that my partner decided to have a party while I was sick", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being incredibly upset that my partner decided to have a party while I was sick?
I had a nasty bug, wasn't sleeping etc. Had hoped it would clear up before the day of the party arrived, but instead had yet to get any sleep yet at 9am the morning of. I was told "Just stay in bed. I'm going to make this happen" (Normally I would be doing all the cooking/food prep) and promptly ignored for the rest of...
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{ "description": "arguing with my father because I want to stand up for my elder sister", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for arguing with my father because i want to stand up for my elder sister.
My sister is a medical intern. Due to this, she doesn't come back until 11:30 at night. Many days, she takes up night duties as well. In my country, there's a common notion against women that they shouldn't be outside at night and they should come early. It's almost devastating that people take so much pride in misogyn...
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{ "description": "feeling pissed my friends made me a guard", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for feeling pissed my friends made me a guard?
I don't even know how to say this, nor how to feel about it. My friend celebrated his birthday a couple months ago, so he invited me, his girlfriend, and a couple other fellas for a celebration. Turns out, he wanted to do some stuff with his SO because the girl is pissed on him for not sleeping over. He pleaded me to...
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AITA family issues
father who refuses to change his ways . examples range from drunk driving with open containers . coupled with severe depression. unexplained rage . etc . living at home with mother who just had breast cancer . love her to death . and AITA for leaving . attempted to keep my mother away from this but i cant. it feels ...
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{ "description": "not sharing my lunch at work", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not sharing my lunch at work?
Context; there's a freelancer who we hired once before last year and was hired again for these couple weeks. Lets call the freelancer "DEBBIE". I never interacted much with Debbie, only spoke to her once or twice; either about where certain things were (e.g. files) or general greetings (Hi, good morning). &#x200B...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my so about communicating repeatedly with her ex", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset with my SO about communicating repeatedly with her ex?
Little background. I'm not typically a jealous person, prefer transparency to secrecy, yadda yadda. We started dating not long after she broke up with her ex and I knew all about their connection (college love) and was cool about her taking time to fully "let go" as long as she was open about it. I'm on good terms with...
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{ "description": "missing Christmas with my family", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for missing Christmas with my family?
Basically what happened is about a month ago, my dad and I got in an argument and he hit me. We were arguing about a piece of fudge of his that I ate, I said “I’m glad I ate it” to purposely bug him because I was mad (not proud of it), then he hit me. He hit me on the back, pushed me into a corner, and yelled in my fac...
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{ "description": "dropping my sisters old laptop and not thinking it as much of a big deal", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for dropping my(13M) sisters(15F) old laptop and not thinking it as much of a big deal.
So this laptop is like 5 years old and she got a new macbook for her birthday this year (4 months ago). So yesterday after school she said "Alex can you grab my notebook it on top of my old laptop" (we were in her room) so I do just that but my hand must of tugged the laptop and it dropped she screamed at me then chec...
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{ "description": "kicking her out", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking her out?
I am in an lgbtq support group in my church. It’s very small, mostly my gay friends (females) and myself (a gay female). There is a transgender woman who joined our group, and obviously we were accepting to her and even though she is 20 years older than most of us. we are all in our early twenties and she is 41. She ha...
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{ "description": "not tipping this waitress", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not tipping this waitress
I order a burger and ask it to be made with no cheese. The burger came with cheese I call the waitress and ask for it to be remade and instead of just taking it back she starts arguing with me asking why i cant take the cheese off myself. Eventually she takes it back and gives me a new burger. I understand mistakes...
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{ "description": "wanting my money back", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my money back?
So I went to the hairdresser today. It was the best rates hairdresser in my region and because I wanted to bleach my brown hair really light blonde or silver I thought it would be better to go to a good hairdresser then to burn my hair off my head. I looked up the prices beforehand and found that they charge 20-90€ f...
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{ "description": "trying to get my fiancee to admit fault", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for trying to get my fiancee to admit fault?
We were driving. I took out my phone and she objected to me being on it while driving (And rightly so) so I put the phone down and asked her to read the message to me. She was reading wrong, (read my messages as if they were from the other person and read their messages as if they were from me) and it confused me so I ...
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{ "description": "not spending the majority of my time with my mother while she is in town for my birthday", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don’t spend the majority of my time with my mother while she is in town for my birthday?
My mom lives about four hours away and is coming in town with her husband for my birthday. My mother and I have always had a strained relationship, and she is not welcome in the home I share with my sister because my sister wants nothing to do with her. I see my mom about once a month, maybe every two months if I can’...
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{ "description": "snooping and kicking ex boyfriend out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for snooping and kicking ex boyfriend out
I'm from America but live in Australia and invited my good friend and ex boyfriend out to come stay with me rent free for up to a year on a visa. For some background, he was figuring out what he wanted to do with his life and had never traveled much. I told him that he could figure out his life and study for the MCAT a...
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{ "description": "seeing a guy my friend likes", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for seeing a guy my friend likes?
Hi all. This is a bit more complicated than it may seem, and may be confusing for a lot of people, including me! I’ll do my best to explain, let me know if I need more clarity. Fake names, obviously. I have four best friends: Lisa, Tara, Sophie, and Jane, and the five of us are very incestuous. Our larger social circl...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my girlfriend for not remembering my birthday", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA - For getting upset with my girlfriend for not remembering my birthday.
I know it seems small but it matters to me. She claims to have memory issues but she can recall a lot of other things. Am I the asshole?
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{ "description": "preferring the wait staff over my friends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for preferring the wait staff over my friends?
My friends and I have a bar we always go to. Since the beginning I’ve always told which ever bartender who was there to charge my bill separately from my group. The reason I said that is because I’m the only one in the group that tips. Now, the reason I do that is because no one else wants to tip…they leave all the tip...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable/uncertain about being friends with a 13yo", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being uncomfortable/uncertain about being friends with a 13yo?
Hi. I'm a 17 year old kid who recently had an encounter with a 13 year old girl on a game. She proceeded to add me on PSN and also on snapchat. I went along with it because I didn't think too much of it. At that point, she confessed her love to me. But obviously I found this situation way too weird and proceeded to gh...
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{ "description": "not liking GF went away on NYE trip with her EX", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not liking GF went away on NYE trip with her EX?
(throwaway account) So this girl and I have been dating for around 11 months. We're super chill and things were going great. At the end of the year, things get weird. She went out of town for NYE and told me it's a huge friends gathering. Turns out, it was just her and her most recent ex partying it up. She told me...
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{ "description": "not calling out at work properly", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not calling out at work properly?
So for about the past week I have been feeling pretty ill- nausea and such. Well, yesterday afternoon (I work nights) I threw up and there was some blood. Obviously, I immediately freaked out and went to the Emergency Room. I didn't have good service in there but I did have Wifi so I texted my supervisor and asked a co...
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{ "description": "ditching my own birthday party", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for ditching my own birthday party
tonight my friends are throwing me a birthday party in one of their apartments. the issue is, that it’s not my party. they all invited a ton of people i️ don’t know, and it’s a lot bigger than i️ ever wanted (50+ people) it doesn’t really feel like my party and it wasn’t what i️ had agreed to when i️ originally said...
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{ "description": "leaving early", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for leaving early?
Full disclosure, what I did today was shitty, and I think I'm the asshole. But I want to know how egrigious what I did was. ​ I work as a tub refinisher, and I'm currently just a helper. My coworker is out of town for today and tomorrow, so I was sent in to a site, to strip the paint off some tubs. Keyword...
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{ "description": "thinking two straight girls making out and about to have sex was an automatic invitation to a threesome", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for thinking two straight girls making out and about to have sex was an automatic invitation to a threesome?
This is pretty fresh as it's basically like nuclear fall out in this ski cabin were staying at and I'm just trying to hide out. Whether or not I'm the asshole will definitely affect how I approach the weekend. There are 12 of us sharing this huge airbnb house close to a major ski resort. Some of us got here Thursday, e...
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{ "description": "not reconnecting with an old acquaintance after his father passed", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not reconnecting with an old acquaintance after his father passed?
A while back, a buddy of mine (not a close friend by any means) blocked me and ignored my texts out of nowhere. Mind you, this is right after I did him a huge favor for free using my professional skills. Turns out the girl he was dating was jealous or whatever. We have never been romantically involved or even flirtatio...
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{ "description": "excluding the racist guy in my class", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for excluding the racist guy in my class
I don't want to start a political discussion but my views are important to this. There is a pro-life, racist and very homophobic/transphobic person in my class. I always try to speak out against him because I don't want people to start agreeing with him and although his views don't personally attack me they do attack p...
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{ "description": "ignoring my ex for 3 days after she dumps me during which she ran away from home", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I ignore my ex for 3 days after she dumps me during which she ran away from home?
So this time last year me and my ex broke up, we had dated just over one month and she dumped me as she 'didn't want to overstress me', I saw this as bull and blocked her for 3 days. Ignoring phone calls and texts, when I unblocked her she said she had run away from home the night before and needed me, mentioning she h...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my fwb for not having sex with me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For getting mad at my FWB for not having sex with me
First timer here but so I'm FWB with this girl and she does not have a car so when we are ment to hook up I have to drive to get her and she lives 30 mins away so it's an hour drive there and back. So I'll go get her and we will usually get food then go to my place where in the car and when texting she's being super fl...
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{ "description": "resenting my mother for never cooking", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For resenting my mother for never cooking.
I’m kind of conflicted, and figured y’all should tell me if I’m an asshole or not. I’m not sure how to write this so I’ll try to do bullet points of both sides. Her; My mom has a sensitive stomach and says she can’t cook, because she will puke from the smell. She also says she has no time. Me; She bakes fairly o...
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{ "description": "laying off a staff with bad rep", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for laying off a staff with bad rep
I work in a third world country in a hotel as part of HR. My job is basically to recruit and retain good people all the while making sure we don’t have bad staff. The hotels here don’t run like other developed country hotels and as such, it is up to me whether I want to keep the staff or terminate them should they do a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go fishing with my dad", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go fishing with my dad?
I always feel guilty when he asks the hard hitter, "Want to go fishing with me?" And I can never find an easy response. I don't like fishing because I find it extremely boring and time consuming. I can go with him to his fishing areas just to hang out with him but I tried that once and he forced me to fish. So AITA fo...
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{ "description": "not liking a Certain Game Mode", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Liking A Certain Game Mode?
So, to explain what happened. My boyfriend asked me to play this "new" game, and I did. I bought it, despite having limited money, got on and played with him. The first game I ever played, we played together, and I enjoyed it up until he called me a bitch jokingly, but we worked that part out. ​ The next ...
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{ "description": "hooking up with a friend's ex but recognizing and apologizing for it a week later", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for hooking up with a friend's ex but recognizing and apologizing for it a week later?
\~Throwaway account here\~ ​ For some backstory, I became really good friends with this guy (I'll call him 'A') and when he ends up getting into a relationship, I meet and befriend his new partner (I'll call them 'B'). Me and B actually hit things off very well and we became good friends, arguably had a be...
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{ "description": "wanting to make a noise complaint about my neighbor", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to make a noise complaint about my neighbor?
Heading this off with I have not made any actual complaints to anyone but my husband about this situation. We bought a house on a dead end street. Everything was nice and quiet over the summer. Over the last month, the neighbor who has property backing up to our yard has been making a lot of noise. They have about an ...
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{ "description": "being to snitch on the girl whose house I clean", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA if I was to snitch on the girl whose house I clean?
I clean houses for a living. Today I was cleaning my friends house, and when I was cleaning her daughters room, I found some stuff. I found marijuana and a few water bottles with alcohol in them. I am pretty close with this friend as we go to church together, and our families have been friends for years. WIBTA if I tol...
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{ "description": "causing one of my players to leave", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for causing one of my players to leave
the event i am talking about happend about 3 months ago but i still can't get this off my mind from time to time. so to give some background the group consisted of me (the DM), my brother, friend 1 which i will call alex, and friend 2 (the person who left) who i will call frank (it was a small group). my brother a...
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{ "description": "bullying/making fun of this guy", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for bullying/making fun of this guy?
English is not my first language so sorry for spelling mistakes. Ok so there's this new guy in my class, let's call him BM, and I really don't like him. BM seemed like a nice guy at first, but now I just completely thinks he sucks. He's kinda fat and a little short but that's really not the problem. My main problem wi...
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{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 20 }
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{ "description": "being ambivalent/somewhat disagreeing with an r/justiceserved post", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being ambivalent/somewhat disagreeing with an r/justiceserved post?
Referring to this post here: [https://www.reddit.com/r/JusticeServed/comments/ag4130/group\_of\_girls\_harass\_guy\_and\_his\_family\_and\_one/?sort=controversial](https://www.reddit.com/r/JusticeServed/comments/ag4130/group_of_girls_harass_guy_and_his_family_and_one/?sort=controversial) If you can't open the link, ...
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{ "description": "calling out friend in group message", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling out friend in group message
My sorority sister borrowed my aloe Vera in like September for a bad sun burn. She said she would give it back soon. Spoiler: she did not. I’ve asked every few weeks in person and in text with her responding ‘oh yes sorry I’ll return it soon’ without ever following through. I know it would be easy to just buy a new ...
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{ "description": "quitting my job without 2 week notice", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for quitting my job without 2 week notice?
I very recently got a job and I absolutely hate it. I tried sticking it out and I don’t want to work here. The thing is a couple people stuck there head out for me to get this job. I got a job offer for a place I was originally trying to get and didn’t want to take chances by telling them I’d have to start in two wee...
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AITA My neighbour said I was beating my baby and I snapped
In 2016 I moved in with my husband to his house in another city. I am an introvert, so never really talked with my neighbours, and they never tried to have a conversation with me either. One of this neighbours is a middle age woman, single with no children. Her name is Claudia. When I had my baby, 8 months ago, an el...
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{ "description": "not letting all my guests know who's invited for dinner", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not letting all my guests know who's invited for dinner??
I have a close friend Bob. We've been friends for almost a decade. We live in the same city now. Since we've not always been together our friend circles have evolved separately. While we live separately we meet every day after work and have dinner together (a fact most of our common friends are aware of). He introduced...
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{ "description": "ghosting someone that was going through a tough time even if they were abusive", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting someone that was going through a tough time even if they were abusive?
I love away for college and away from my high school bf. Honestly we hadn’t been dating that long and he was starting to show some true colors. He was struggling with mental health issues as well so I was doing my best to be supportive but when I moved away it got really bad. He demanded to know everywhere I went and s...
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{ "description": "constantly getting mad at my girlfriend for us being late", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for constantly getting mad at my girlfriend for us being late
Long post to tl;dr at bottom Whenever me and my girlfriend have to be somewhere at a certain time she somehow always makes us barely get there in time or late. I absolutely hate being late because it makes us look bad and makes my blood boil. I'm always barely on time for work because of her. I am the one who wakes up...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take in my sibling", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to take in my sibling
So. Throwaway acct. but here it goes. My spouse and I currently live on our own in our house and we’re 26 years old and expecting our first child this week. My sibling (16) is still living with our mutual parent. I have never gotten along with our mutual parent as I personally feel they’re a hypocritical pile of shit...
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{ "description": "not caring about holidays and not wanting to make an extra trip to go see family on the day of", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not caring about holidays and not wanting to make an extra trip to go see family on the day of?
Basically title, I have family that lives about 50min away I see them on a weekly basis and do enjoy seeing them. However my girlfriend and I have conflicting schedules and she’s going to go see family in another state while I dog-sit for her, because of this we agreed to make the trip and have an “early Christmas” to ...
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{ "description": "wanting my dog back after he's been with my parents for 2 years", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my dog back after he’s been with my parents for 2 years?
My parents took my dog for what was supposed to be a short amount of time while I dealt with getting some mental health issues under control, but turned into 2 years due to various circumstances on both ends. Things are settled down for everyone now and I really want him back, but now they’re saying they’re too attache...
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{ "description": "taking front seats in theaters, as a tall person", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for taking front seats in theaters, as a tall person?
Title basically explains it. Ive seen a suprising number of memes/jokes today about how annoying tall people in movie theaters or concert venues are, and I get it, nobody wants to be behind a giant head the whole show. But, as a 5'11" woman, I paid for my ticket too! The groups ill be in typically choose our seats, and...
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{ "description": "telling people what someone in my class keeps sending me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA for telling people what someone in my class keeps sending me?
Okay so I've known this friend for about 3 or so years and its been more of sometimes I'm friends with him sometimes I'm not. A couple months ago he sent me what I would call a weird fetish but if he likes that I can't judge him anyways he "accidentally" sent me that on my phone (link to a video from Youtube I'm pretty...
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{ "description": "saying this to my partner", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for saying this to my partner
Me and my partner have been lazy, unmotivated and unemployed for our entire adult lives. I feel myself rotting away. Today I told him I'm try and better myself. I mean business. I've already quit drinking and smoking and I plan on getting a part time job to make ends meet. He didn't seem so interested so I said "...
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{ "description": "getting drunk so I could feel less nervous about initiating a sexual encounter with someone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I got drunk so I could feel less nervous about initiating a sexual encounter with someone?
Okay so a bit more detail on this... let’s start with who drunk me really is. I have two drunk personas: 1. Touchy - I’m super affectionate but really strict on consent when I’m drunk. I won’t even hug you until I’ve asked at least 2 times if it’s okay. But I also get really horny, so I usually just rub one out if I’m...
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{ "description": "banning someone on my hall from drinking", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I ban someone on my hall from drinking
On my dorm hall we have an alcohol fund that is around 8 people. I was recently appointed book keeper so It’s my responsibility to keep track of everything. There’s a kid who came into a pregame and poured himself a drink, when I confronted him he said he paid in last time. I then asked the guy who collected money la...
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{ "description": "not wanting people to come to my band's practice", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting people to come to my band’s practice?
So I play in a band with three other people. We’ve only been at it for about a month or two, so a lot of our songs are still being fleshed out and worked on. Due to schedule conflicts, we typically only get to practice two or three days out of a week. Initially, we practiced in the singer’s house, but moved to mine aft...
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{ "description": "having sex with someone my friend is sleeping with", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I have sex with someone my friend is sleeping with?
So me and this girl have been friends since I was 16 (22 now) we fell out due to another mutual friend we had and didn’t speak for about a year and have just got back in touch. Whilst we weren’t talking we have both been speaking to the same guy, all of it casual on every side. She had already slept with him, I have be...
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AITA When My Best Friend Dated the Guy I Liked
Buckle up, fam, because this is about to be a *ride,* whether you agree with me or not. So, I had two very good friends - my best friend, who we'll call Val, and another, who we'll call Todd. We met in our seventh grade band class, and this story takes place primarily in our junior year of college, so we'd known each...
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{ "description": "not wanting my friends boyfriend to join our plans this weekend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my friends boyfriend to join our plans this weekend?
My friend and I made big plans for this Friday a couple months ago, at the time she was not dating this guy but they ended up meeting during the month of January. I told her on Monday that I do not want this dude there with us because to be honest the guy is annoying and cocky. I didn't tell her the part about him bein...
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{ "description": "telling this girl to mind her own business when she was asking my friend about my financial status", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA- for telling this girl to mind her own business when she was asking my friend about my financial status??
So I’m an 18 year old girl who goes to college and I have this little group of friends. this one girl (lets call her T) so we aren’t putting peoples names out there, asks my friend L “ where do you think all of her money goes?” Mind you this girl doesn’t pay bills and she doesn’t work so she has no idea what it’s lik...
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{ "description": "being upset with my ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For being upset with my ex?
My girlfriend and I met through work. She recently broke up with me for understandable reasons. I had been thinking of breaking it off, stopped going over to her house, and stopped making too much of an effort. She (rightfully in my mind) broke up with me. Well, the next couple of weeks she would come over and play sim...
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{ "description": "exposing my buddies reddit account to our other buddies", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 57 }
AITA for exposing my buddies reddit account to our other buddies?
Backstory: A couple months back I was lurking on my local communities' subreddit and was commenting on a post of someone who got a job and would be moving to the area and wanted to low down on apartments/housing/etc. While I was lurking on that post, I immediately noticed another account that I new for sure belonged ...
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{ "description": "\"vetting\" GF's male friends", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 50 }
AITA for "vetting" GF's male friends?
So, new acc since people know I use Reddit. Anyway, me and my GF, "Jenna" have been together now for about 8 months, and things have been pretty fine. She's fairly outgoing and has many friends, some of them are dudes. The thing is, I don't trust her guy friends. I know there's at least one of them that probably wants ...
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{ "description": "not saying sorry to a beggar when not giving him money", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not saying sorry to a beggar when not giving him money?
So this happened a couple months ago but this is something that I still think about from time to time. I'd managed to bum a cig from a friend and while I was outside smoking with him, a beggar asks me for money. I decided not to apologise or use some excuse to not give him money, and to just say no. I figured that I ...
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{ "description": "\"tattling\" on my boyfriend to his mother", "pronormative_score": 207, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for “tattling” on my boyfriend to his mother
My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, and things were great until our daughter was born 6 months ago. Since then, our relationship has gone down the tubes because he refuses to care for her. He’ll sit on the couch and play video games and he’ll only tend to her while she’s screaming if I tell him to. Even...
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{ "description": "using this to cut contact", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for using this to cut contact?
I just wanted to say thank you to all of those who commented on my other post about my sibling. Throwaway for reasons. So two weeks ago it was my birthday. We have a tradition in our house that no matter what we always go to see the birthday person and wish them HB in person. My older sibling who I have an on/off re...
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{ "description": "not caring about my Ex girlfriend's well being", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not caring about my Ex girlfriend’s well being?
My girlfriend cheated on me with some guy we used to go to school with. I only found out after his girlfriend found out and told me and showed me messages she got off her boyfriends phone. We live rent free in a house my mom owns and she has been given a 30 day notice that she will be evicted. I know she has no where t...
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{ "description": "choosing to spend Christmas with my girlfriend's parents instead of my own", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for choosing to spend Christmas with my girlfriend's parents instead of my own?
For the last few years I've spent Christmas and new year with my girlfriend at her parent's place both because I want to be with her and she wants to be with her parent, but also because I don't want to choose between either of mine who are divorced. My parents split about ten years ago and are on speaking terms but ...
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