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{ "description": "splitting up a roommate group", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for splitting up a roommate group?
A bit of background info: I'm a freshman in college. I've made friends with a bunch of guys (my roommates included) on my floor and we all hang out. We recently chose our dormitory housing together for next year, and the way it worked out had 4 rooms of 3 guys each all on the same floor. We were all psyched about it. F...
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{ "description": "attempting to temporarily move my little brothers things out of my room while he was sent away to military school for six months", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for attempting to temporarily move my little brothers things out of my room while he was sent away to military school for six months?
So my little brother got sent off to military school and I decided that I wanted to clean up my room. He was a junior in high school and I am currently a senior. He won’t be back until September so I figured I should put all his stuff away while he was gone. I decided I would pack up all of his clothes and things and ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with my so for passing out drunk on a weekday", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed with my SO for passing out drunk on a weekday?
Sorry for the long post... To give a history, he struggles with alcoholism and anger issues among other things when he drinks heavily. He has been very nasty and uncaring to me frequently in the past, because of this I gave him an ultimatum which consisted of him only drinking a certain amount of alcohol a week so th...
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{ "description": "making my boyfriend try new foods", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making my boyfriend try new foods?
Some background info, I do all the cooking in the house. We have a deal where he does the dishes and I make sure he has lunch and dinner made (does breakfast himself) since I am a good cook. He’s tried to make meals for himself in the past but because he can’t make anything as good as me he’s given me the responsibilit...
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{ "description": "proposing on vacation with my fiancee's family", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for proposing on vacation with my fiancee's family
My fiancee's parents paid for my fiancee, me, her sister, and her sister's fiance to go on a cruise with them. My fiancee and I don't often have time to go on vacations and we were in some really beautiful places and I thought it would make a really beautiful memory for us if I proposed on the trip. I gave her parents...
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{ "description": "being upset that my mom got back with her ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my mom got back with her ex?
For starters, I'm 17 and have [CF](https://www.cff.org/What-is-CF/About-Cystic-Fibrosis/), so I get sick easily. My mom broke up with her BF of 2 years a month ago, and got back with him last week. BF hasn't been very good with respecting my CF and relationship with my mom. He wants mom to himself, and thinks that sinc...
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{ "description": "not moving over", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For not moving over
I live in a speed trap town ... and when possible I maneuver to a position that doesn’t allow me to move over when the police have someone pulled over ... Am I the asshole ?
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{ "description": "needing my twin/roommate to give me chores to do", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for needing my twin/roommate to give me chores to do?
My identical twin sister (we're 22) and I have been roommates for nearly a year. Over the summer and into the winter I suffered with major depression, on a scale that was unfamiliar to me. I ended up leaving my job in the autumn and would spend days/weeks living in my bathrobe barely able to take care of my basic needs...
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{ "description": "asking my parents to move me out a few months early", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for asking my parents to move me out a few months early?
**TLDR at the bottom. I'm not a total asshole.** I'm an 18 year old college student with autism/asd. It's not too severe, and I'm able to bumble and stumble through my day normally. One thing that sort of sets me off, though, is isolated loud noises. Ambient noise like a crowded mall or heavy traffic is fine, but thin...
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{ "description": "staying sexually active with my ex", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for staying sexually active with my ex?
I’ll keep it at short as possible. Me (22m) and my ex (21f) broke up after a 8 month relationship due to personality disconnections. I just didn’t feel as strongly for her as she did for me, and neither of us took it too harshly. She still considers me the ‘perfect’ boyfriend and all these other things, said she woul...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my friend for pranking me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry at my friend for pranking me?
I wanna figure this out once and for all. This is a really bizarre and unnecessary fight I had with my friend. This happened a few months ago over the summer. My (19m) family owns a cottage on a lake about 2 hours north from my home. It is a very special place to me and I always like to go up there to relax. One week...
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AITA : They lied to me to get me to come in, I sabotage their contest.
So the other day I was enjoying my day off, playing some Forest when I hear a ping and my boss had sent me information about a contest going on that day about getting customer's survey for five stars and getting them to say a catchy 2 word slogan to win a prize for our store. I messaged back that I didn't work today an...
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{ "description": "telling my adult brother that he and his fiancée should get their own phone plan", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my adult brother that he and his fiancée should get their own phone plan?
So little backstory, we have a family of 4 and a data plan that just barely supports it if we’re all being responsible with data. My brother is 11 years my senior and is currently living on his own with his fiancé. My brother as an early Christmas present bought his fiancée a phone and added her to the family plan. My ...
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{ "description": "not wanting a baby at my wedding", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for not wanting a baby at my wedding?
Under normal circumstances, I think wanting a child-free wedding is fair. They are noisy and in the way and if we go for a sit-down meal, they need catering for differently. The youngest family member I'm inviting is 13, the rest of my guests are adults. But here's the snag. We want to have our reception at the Cricke...
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{ "description": "not taking my parents/sisters to all the touristy spots in NYC, even though they told me the wanted an \"authentic\" New York experience", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not taking my parents/sisters to all the touristy spots in NYC, even though they told me the wanted an "authentic" New York experience.
So one thing I'll confess right up front, is that I know I'm the asshole for not acting on my intuition of what I KNEW my family would want when the visited me for the first time in NYC. I come from a pretty simple family, our family's favorite restaurant is Outback steakhouse, my parents eat at Chili's when the travel...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend I don't want him talking to his ex wife", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend I don't want him talking to his ex wife?
Recently, My boyfriends ex wife's boyfriend was shot to death. Lets call her Mellie. Mellie is also pregnant with deceased bf's baby. Lets call my boyfriend Grant. Mellie divorced Grant. Grant was devastated and was depressed because not only had he just lost his father and best friend ( they both died) he now lost...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my gf for playing video games", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset with my gf for playing video games
I’ll start off with some backstory. I’ve(25) been in a LDR with my gf(27) for nearly 2.5 years and things have been going a bit rough the last few months. We’ve been fighting over basically nothing, a lot, so we’ve discussed the issue and decided to both work on not getting upset over small things. We had plans to mo...
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{ "description": "not letting my mother in law move in with us", "pronormative_score": 120, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not letting my mother in law move in with us?
My mother in law lives alone and is in her 70’s. My wife has been making comments about how lonely she’s been and right away I knew what was coming, but I really don’t think I would be able to handle living with her. She is a very difficult and judgmental woman. I’ve always been respectful, but seriously a little bi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take my sister to eat", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to take my sister to eat
Ill make it very short and simple Im 17(m) my parents are divorced and im with my dad (i visit 2 times a month) i have a 17(f) stepsister They have me do basically any driving chore because i have a license my sister doesnt, so i take my siblings around etc, i have no problem with it. (Especially for the few days im ...
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{ "description": "trying to continue contact between a classmate over the weekend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for trying to continue contact between a classmate over the weekend?
https://imgur.com/gallery/WoK4EQ5 Contains relevant messages from subject and BF, who was unknown but aggressive
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{ "description": "refusing to pay my roommate for internet", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for refusing to pay my roommate for internet.
WIBTA, So my roommate recently got an $82 bill for internet I never used. When I moved in I set up my own router and modem. I cut the bill from $82 to $55 dollars and had to set up new internet because she was being uncooperative. She claimed that she didnt know who the internet was registered under, even though she wa...
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{ "description": "calling the police on our neighbor", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling the police on our neighbor.
We recently moved to the town. We have a large, mixed breed dog. He is highly trained, fully licensed and registered in accordance with local law, and fully vaccinated and up to date on all shots. He's part of our lease by name and the landlords (two-family, they're the other floor) gave us full permission to have the ...
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{ "description": "being rude to a boy because he wouldn't understand I didn't wanted a relationship with him", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being rude to a boy because he wouldn't understand I didn't wanted a relationship with him?
This is my first post here, and I'll talk about something that happened some time ago. I met this boy and we chatted for a bit. He was depressed at the time and I helped him. A few weeks after we met he starts acting strange. He randomly complimented me, and things like that. And I was happy because I felt like I was h...
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{ "description": "ghosting a 'friend'", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting a ‘friend’?
Throwaway account because they also use reddit and browse this stuff. So about a year ago I went to a different school and tried to be a very friendly person. I met this girl named Anna. Anna was kind of a piece of trash. She was wealthy and didn’t realize it, treated people like garbage, and was a dick about how sup...
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{ "description": "being mad at my buddy whos staying with me for taking off all weekend and leaving his dog behind without checking to see if it was okay", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being mad at my buddy whos staying with me for taking off all weekend and leaving his dog behind without checking to see if it was okay?
I have a friend who has been staying with me for a few months. He has a dog, who also stays here, cause well, theyre a package. However on Friday he left to visit his daughter and said "I'll see you in a bit", and never came back. I was going to say something the next morning asking why he never bothered to see if it...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help people study", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to help people study?
It’s my first semester in college, and I would be lying if I said I had tons of friends. I’m in my school’s honors academy, and all of my close friends are also honors students. My classmates know that I work hard in school because I am always doing my best to participate in class discussions. I know that it can be di...
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{ "description": "telling 3 of my friends I was put in honors science", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling 3 of my friends I was put in honors science?
Sorry for poor formatting I’m on mobile. So my science teacher recently told me that I was going to be recommended for honors science, even though I’m not in the more advanced math class ( which normally is the standard to be put in this class, but isn’t a prerequisite). I work very hard in my science class so the tea...
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WIBTA Headphones
Would it be rude if me to ask my roommates to use headphones when in the common areas? Luckily they don’t listen to anything inappropriate, however it is kind of annoying when I am trying to sleep in or watch tv, they listen to music which isn’t too bad , but I’d rather not listen to it they also FaceTime their familie...
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{ "description": "not liking/feeling any affection for my family", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not liking/feeling any affection for my family?
(First post, not a native english speaker, maybe a little bit long post?) It is not like I hate them, but I just can't seem to like my parents and brothers in any sort of way. I feel this way for my parents because I was always forced to be like my two really intelligent brothers, so I never had the option to try thin...
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{ "description": "making my friends do the dishes", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making my friends do the dishes?
So I cook dinner for myself and three of my friends several nights a week (my roommate, my bf, his roommate). I like to cook so I don’t mind and I usually really enjoy it. The thing I don’t like is doing dishes, in fact I absolutely hate it to the point that it’s probably my least favorite chore. We don’t have a dishwa...
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{ "description": "getting a girl pregnant and wanting nothing to do with them", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 27 }
AITA for getting a girl pregnant and wanting nothing to do with them?
Starting with the sperm donation, a lot of alcohol was consumed, I don't remember much of the night and the next thing I know I'm waking up in a stranger's bed. I don't know her and I quickly get out of there and proceed to never talk to her again. Anyway, approximately 16 weeks later, it was almost forgotten about u...
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{ "description": "telling a woman I didn't want to be serious and still hanging out with her at her suggestion", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a woman I didn’t want to be serious and still hanging out with her at her suggestion?
We were casually going out starting in late October, and in late November I told her I didn’t see us getting serious because I was leaving town for a few months at the beginning of February and I didn’t see us working long distance. She said she understood and would still like to hang out while I was home so we did. ...
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{ "description": "supporting one of my friends breaking up with another one of my friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for supporting one of my friends breaking up with another one of my friends?
This happened almost a decade ago, but I think about it from time to time as it ruined a friendship and I find myself retracing the incident to see if maybe, as I grow older, I get a different perspective on the story. When I was in high school, I had a major crush on a female friend of mine. For the sake of conversat...
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AITA for how I handled a roommate moving out?
This is from late 2018. I’m a college student renting a house with 4 others. The rent is a little higher than other off-campus living options mainly because the house is a 10 minute walk from campus. Background: I knew everyone in the house pretty well, we had all gone from the same dorm and gotten along really well. ...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend she has to lose weight", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for telling my best friend she has to lose weight?
I created this throwaway just today because I don't want her to find this post. I'll keep it minimalist. I've been friends with this person for over 10 years starting when we were very young, probably 7 or 8. I've always been a bit heavier than my other friends, but that doesn't say much when most of my other friend...
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{ "description": "asking a guy on a ski lift to stop smoking and wait until he's off the lift", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking a guy on a ski lift to stop smoking and wait until he’s off the lift?
This happened yesterday. I went skiing with a couple friends and eventually split up for about a half hour so they could grab something to eat. As I was getting on a lift, the guy in the seat in front of me lit a cigarette. He kept puffing on it over and over again until he looked like a fucking chimney and wouldn’t st...
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{ "description": "starting up the same type of business as my brother-in-law after working for him for 3 years", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for starting up the same type of business as my brother-in-law after working for him for 3 years?
Some backstory (and I'm as I'm sort of emotional over some of the things that were said to me, I am trying my very best to be even handed but may not be successful): I married my wife 5 years ago and went to work using my MBA. I quickly got sick of feeling like I was just trading emails around so I quit. My brother in...
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AITA: my boyfriend stole and i told on him
AITA? {P- person who owns house T-boyfriend} Okay so, I was at a friend's house for the football game. My boyfriend (T) stole some of their wine. When outside yelling at him (T) about it, the person (P) who owns the house came outside and yelled at us for making so much noise. I then got held by the throat for tryi...
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{ "description": "telling the woman my ex is seeing that he's highly abusive", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told the woman my ex is seeing that he's highly abusive?
This is somewhat related to my post from yesterday which you can read here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/b0fbgz/aita_for_not_wanting_my_best_friend_to_talk_to_my/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Just to reiterate, me and my ex broke up a bit less than a year ago in a very public and emot...
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{ "description": "unknowingly pressuring my gf to have sex because I felt pressured to have sex", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for unknowingly pressuring my gf to have sex because I felt pressured to have sex?
Back in 2011 I met this girl who was amazing in every single way at least in my eyes at the time. Before we started dating, we revealed facts about ourselves that we think the other person should know. One thing she told me was that she was no longer a virgin at 15 years old. (She thought it was a deal breaker because ...
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{ "description": "not telling my mother that my brother took some of my weed", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my mother that my brother took some of my weed?
My brother is 9 years younger than me. He comes over to spend the night sometimes. More now especially since he will be going off to college soon. Last night he was here and he must have found and gotten into my pot stash when I was grabbing our dinner. There’s a noticeable amount missing, way more than he could ha...
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{ "description": "telling queer students to stop saying straights aren't real", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 14 }
WIBTA if I told queer students to stop saying straights aren't real?
So I'm in college and I'm a straight, cis-genderd woman. I'm involved in some clubs on campus of which people of every sexual orientation and gender identity are a part of. I'm very fortunate to be involved in things with such acceptance and diversity, and usually we all just coexist. Recently, theres been a lot of jo...
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{ "description": "trying to get a loud movie goer kicked out", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: [Spoiler warning] For trying to get a loud movie goer kicked out?
*Mild Spoilers for Captain Marvel* So yesterday was my birthday and I went to see Captain Marvel. I generally enjoy the MCU so I thought it would be fun. I went with some old work friends and my dad tagged along. The theater for the most part is empty. There were probably 3 other groups/pairs for this showing. When...
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{ "description": "not wanting my BIL to run a background check on my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting my BIL to run a background check on my boyfriend?
Last summer I moved into my sisters, well, shed basically. There’s no insulation so it’s impossible to heat (this winter dropped to 9*F), there’s a sort of kitchen but no counter space or cupboards, a breaker trips if I have more than a couple things plugged in and running, and it’s full of spiders and beetles. I pay r...
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{ "description": "wanting to just leave my mother and brother", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to just leave my mother and brother
My mother is someone who wants to be the “cool mom” and often gangs up on me with my brother and his friend who lives with us. For example, my minor brother drinks all the time and openly talks about it, when I told him not to drink and drive he got angry and began yelling about how I act like a second mother and just...
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{ "description": "expecting my mom to want to support me through my first delivery and post partum", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for expecting my mom to want to support me through my first delivery and post partum?
I'm expecting my first child soon and envisioned my mother visiting for a couple weeks before my due date and a couple weeks after (she doesn't have a job). I figured she would help prepare for the birth, throw a baby shower, help around the house, help with new baby, and provide emotional support through the ordeal. S...
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{ "description": "keeping my group mates accountable", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for keeping my group mates accountable?
So, I'm currently a student in my second year at a business college. So far, I've taken strictly online classes and been put in many group projects.. and I've hated every single one. As a preface, online classes are on 7 week terms, so they are really fast-paced. So, I'm in a project management course right now and we ...
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{ "description": "not paying for a drink at a bar", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not paying for a drink at a bar?
So we were watching a football match at a bar and there was a shit tone of people, we orderes the drinks we wanted, the waitress took our oreder, gave it to us. Later she came to pick the empty bottles from the table and didn't give us the bill, almost 2 hours passed and we forgot what we ordered. When I had to go ho...
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{ "description": "not letting my so help me cross the street", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting my SO help me cross the street?
I’m (24F) in a fairly new relationship with this guy, let’s call him M (23M); we’ve been together for about 3 months. He’s slightly more “traditional” in some ways; he likes to open doors for me, wants me to walk in front of him, etc. (this is relevant). We live in a huge city, and it’s extremely common for people to...
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{ "description": "not calling and thanking family for christmas gifts", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if i didn’t call and thank family for christmas gifts?
I have extended family that mailed me christmas gifts (gift cards and checks) and i never got around to calling and thanking them. I feel like an a hole and I want to call now, but I feel like an a hole calling.
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{ "description": "feeling this way", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
Aita for feeling this way
Obligatory sorry for mobile So my gf left me the day before my birthday. I had recently gone to uni and she couldn't handle the distance. She claimed to loved me a lot and wanted me to be the one, and I loved her to bits, but it was a mutual break up as the distance was soul crushing. That night, I spent the early ho...
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{ "description": "getting angry at my dad for failing to pick me up from school for an appointment", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting angry at my dad for failing to pick me up from school for an appointment?
I was supposed to have a doctors appointment today during school hours and my dad was supposed to pick me up at around 10 o’clock. He tells me before I leave that he’s picking me up “a quarter till”. I have absolutely no idea what that means and it’s really hard telling time with my dad so I ask him again before I had ...
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{ "description": "thinking it's weird that a friend charged me for food", "pronormative_score": 307, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking it's weird that a friend charged me for food?
So my friend invited me over for dinner the other day and made pasta. It was a nice evening and I enjoyed every second of it. A couple of days later, we met up again. I was owing her money because of some Uber rides we shared etc. and was planning on paying her back that day. When she told me how much I owed her, I was...
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{ "description": "submitting a complaint to a retail worker's manager", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for submitting a complaint to a retail worker’s manager?
using an alternative account as i don’t like posting with my real account. so a few days ago i was shopping for a dress to wear to a wedding with my husband. i had a $200 gift voucher for one of the stores in the mall so we stopped there first. when we entered i wasn’t greeted immediately, which annoyed me. retail is ...
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{ "description": "taking away something that my brother uses multiple times a day", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking away something that my brother uses multiple times a day?
I don't usually post my problems, but I really don't know what to do. So my older brother(29) and I(17) have always had problems. He's always been mean to me and doesn't seem to care about my well being like he does our sister(19). We both live with our mother(54). My mom had gained custody of me 2 years ago. I broug...
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{ "description": "giving 3 lunch servers a christmas present and not the others", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving 3 lunch servers a christmas present and not the others.
I'm a junior in high school and I am celebrating Christmas by giving my teachers and other people chocolate. Now I gave only the lunch servers that served juniors to seniors chocolate because I see them the most. I feel horrible for not giving chocolate to the other lunch servers because they get paid so little and r...
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{ "description": "leaving my work high and dry", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For leaving my work high and dry?
This is a throw away account since I did not want any of my coworkers or friends linking me to it. Heres a little back story - I have worked with this company for 3 1/2 years, I almost never have missed a day prior and have not taken more then 15 days vacation in that entire time period - since I do online schooling ...
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{ "description": "not taking my coworker's shift when his mother is having surgery", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not taking my coworker’s shift when his mother is having surgery?
Mobile… blah blah… formatting… blah whatever. My coworker wants me to pick up his shift because his mother is having surgery that day and I said I couldn’t get there because of not having a vehicle at that time. He’s known about this surgery for a while and just forgot to tell management or put in a time off request...
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{ "description": "always trying to solve my friends problems", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for always trying to solve my friends problems?
My friends argue with each other a lot, at least once a week and i’m always trying to resolve the situations. I know a one stage one of my friends got mad at me and said ‘don’t even bother’. then i began wondering whether i should stop because it’s considered not my business. AITA for trying to help?
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{ "description": "asking about my mom's business", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking about my mom's business
First time poster on this sub, have mercy. This happened about 5 or 6 days ago and is still bothering me, therefore I'm posting this. This post is a little long, sorry about that! ​ A little background that will become important later. I am 17 years old and my parents have been divorced for about 10 years ...
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{ "description": "trying to console my friend and pissing off another friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to console my friend and pissing off another friend?
This happened about 2 days ago. A friend texted me, (we'll call her A), asking if I thought another friend, (we'll call him B), cared about her. I immediately said yes. A and B are great friends, they trust each other with their lives, and can almost always be seen together. They also have very confused feelings about ...
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{ "description": "not wanting a kid that could potential go blind at age 20", "pronormative_score": 438, "contranormative_score": 102 }
AITA for not wanting a kid that could potential go blind at age 20?
My wife and I are talking about kids. And she has a condition in her family, Retina pigmentosa, which affects the men of the family. If we have a kid and it is a boy then it has 50% chance of going blind in the late 20s. Am I the asshole for thinking that I dont really want to deprive my child of all the joys that l...
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{ "description": "not thinking I need to pay someone who didn't as me to pay", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not thinking I need to pay someone who didn't as me to pay?
Background: I made these 2 friends (let's call them Brenda and Hope) when I was in a mental health group.Brenda and Hope knew I had no money because I had told them about the struggles of being on disability. We started to go out for coffee weekly, either Brenda or Hope paying for everyone. Hope had come over a few ...
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{ "description": "giving a pan sharing ultimatum", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for giving a pan sharing ultimatum
So here's the thing, I live in a house of 4, we are all at university, we split bills and each individually pay our own rent. At the start of the year there were 3 of us, we've all known each other pretty well so we shared plates and cooking equipment. This was fine considering all 3 of us were generally clean people...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my High School sweetheart but letting her keep doing \"girlfriend things\" for me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA For breaking up with my High School sweetheart but letting her keep doing "Girlfriend Things" for me?
The title is basically a TL;DR, but for more background I'm two years out of High school and mostly single. I say mostly because of my predicament. Her name is (Here at least) Sweety. Sweety is a tall, loud, and very pretty latina girl who is as kind and caring as the name implies. I met her my freshman year and instan...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go see my girlfriend's parents over the summer", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to go see my girlfriend's parents over the summer?
Together for four-plus years. 31m, 30f. I'll say up front that the complicating factor here is that her parents told her about five weeks ago that they are getting divorced. After forty years! I can't even imagine the thought process going through her dad's head here. This coming summer, we have her friend's wedding...
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{ "description": "wanting to save up my money to by something I've wanted for ages and not spend it on anything else", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to save up my money to by something I’ve wanted for ages and not spend it on anything else
Ok I’m really sorry I’m probably gonna sound really dumb, please note: no one in saying anything to make me feel this, it’s just me being self conscious anyway. AITA: ok so I’ve been attempting to save up for a fancy art tablet thing for ages, I’m not to good and managing my money so I’m only now cracking down on savi...
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{ "description": "telling my friend of 30 years that he can't come to my wedding with his girlfriend because she's a girl I used to be involved with", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA: telling my (35M) friend of 30 years (33M) that he can’t come to my wedding with his girlfriend because she’s a girl I used to be involved with.
So a couple days ago I met up with my friend and to talk and just hang out and the topic of my wedding came up. My fiancé (31F) does not want his girlfriend to attend and I don’t really either, not because she’s a bad person, I just don’t have an appreciation for who she is anymore and I think she’s annoyingly self-cen...
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{ "description": "wanting to ditch a play I was roped into", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to ditch a play I was roped into?
I am friends with these people and I just wanted to help them with a school project, a play. I hate voice acting and plays, I did not plan on being a part of it. I have six lines but it doesn't matter to me, I have no want to be a part of this, I settled for taking a zero. I can't find it in my heart to tell them all ...
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{ "description": "feeling upset? my gfs family just got a puppy and returned it the next day", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for feeling upset? My GFs family just got a puppy and returned it the next day.
I'll keep the story short. Me and my girlfriend have been together for over a year now and I'm fairly close with her family. Their family just got a puppy in September and he's been doing well and they love him. Yesterday they adopted another puppy (same breed) and today they're returning him because it turns out he i...
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{ "description": "not wanting to fold my roommates laundry", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to fold my roommates laundry?
https://imgur.com/a/VhJLnyI We have 4 people living in one house and doing laundry at different times. My one roommate wants us to fold his laundry for him if we need to use the dryer, despite leaving it in overnight. All of us do our own laundry and take it out in a timely manner with respect of others. Am I the assh...
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{ "description": "being upset that my Mum is making false diagnoses about me, and saying that my nephew (who she is falsley diagnosing with the same thing) is harming his brother", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my Mum is making false diagnoses about me, and saying that my nephew (who she is falsley diagnosing with the same thing) is harming his Brother?
My Mum is an alcoholic. She has a slew of health issues caused by being obese and her crappy diet and lifestyle. She is prone to getting drunk and rambling, and in a recent conversation with my sister she said that both I, and my eldest nephew "are autistic" (neither of us have been diagnosed) and that my Sister should...
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AITA Friend Wants Me To Visit
So before I start, this story isn't very long nor as extravagant as some of the other stories. So...I work a split shift at work 5 days a week, and the weekend i desperately needed comes. Time for a little relaxation and a little time to catch up on a little bit of cleaning around the house. I get a call from my best f...
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{ "description": "not wanting to change my last name after my stepdad adopted me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to change my last name after my stepdad adopted me
My stepdad recently adopted me since my birth father was never really in my life. I have my birth father’s last name and I don’t want to go through the process of changing because I am in a serious relationship and am likely to get married in the next 3-5 years. Since I plan on changing it my boyfriends’s last name whe...
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{ "description": "leveraging a racist Remark at Work into a promotion", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA For Leveraging a Racist Remark at Work into A Promotion?
I'm 22 been working in software sales since last June so about 8 months. My job right now is to primarily call up prospects and see if they're interested in our product and set a meeting for an account exec (closer) to actually sell them the product. The VP of sales in our company called me a phone monkey (I'm brown) l...
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{ "description": "bringing up family to a suicidal friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for bringing up family to a suicidal friend?
Okay so I feel like I just fucked up really badly especially with someones life being at stake here but I also am unsure because my intentions were pure. Okay so one of my best friends who has recently gone though a really rough breakup and is having issues with his family, recently told me that he wanted to end my li...
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{ "description": "calling my roommate out in front of people", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling my roommate out in front of people?
Me and my roommate (R) are both college kids, with him being a year younger than me. The house we live in is a house my mom bought for me and my brother to go to school. R just moved in at the start of the fall term while I’ve been in he house for a few years. I knew he wasn’t the smartest kid before he moved in but I...
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{ "description": "texting my husband on his guys trip", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for texting my husband on his guys trip?
My husband (28m) and I (29f) are both full-time working professionals, and we have a one year old son. I’ve been working 60-80 hour work weeks for the last month, so my husband has had to help around the house more than usual (dishes, laundry, tidying up, etc). When he brought up a preplanned “guys trip” early last wee...
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{ "description": "making my partner wait for me to have a cigarette", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for making my partner wait for me to have a cigarette?
My SO and I work together and drive to work together. My office is a bit antisocial during business hours but occasionally spend 10 minutes or so with a cigarette after we knock off to wind down and socialise. As my partner is a non smoker I generally skip out on the after work cig but it had been a long week so I as...
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{ "description": "being on the phone instead of talking to family", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being on the phone instead of talking to family
My last attempt at making a post because I've spent an hour at this. Background: I grew up in a house with five people. My parents were only ever at home for lunch and to sleep, and my sister was always at her friend's. I grew up mostly with my grandmother. My parents didn't let me go outside and got me hooked on the...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to pay for dinners", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ask my girlfriend to pay for dinners?
Ok so this is my first time posting and I'm on mobile so forgive poor formatting. So, my girlfriend and I have been dating for well over a year and I want to ask her if she could pay when we go out. Currently I am unemployed because my class schedule is very weird. Both of us are students, but she does have a fairly w...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my newly bi GF", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 15 }
WIBTA for breaking up with my newly bi GF
I have been with my gf for 6 months and recently she's come out to me as a bisexual. Now I'm not one to care about sexuality, but what's bothering me is how has she come to this realisation in the time we've been together, I don't see anyway unless she's become attracted to someone of the same sex, how else would you ...
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{ "description": "throwing razor to bin in a shared bathroom in college dorm", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA Throwing razor to bin in a shared bathroom in college dorm
Ok, here it goes: There is one bathroom for every 2 rooms in my dorm. We are 2 males and there are 2 females in the next room. One day the girl next door asked us to clean the bathroom because it is messy and they came to the dorm after us so we should clean it first. My roommate agreed and said yes. I was sitting a...
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{ "description": "getting angry with my team mate because he planned to not show up for an important match", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry with my team mate because he planned to not show up for an important match?
Some background first; I play indoor football/soccer. You play with 5 players to a side. My team comprises of a group of 8 or 9 friends and we play on a weekly basis. We're not good, but neither do we suck. This year we're not doing so well. Some of the players have sustained injuries and as a result we're always a bit...
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{ "description": "telling a girl to stop talking after we had sex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 32 }
AITA for telling a girl to stop talking after we had sex?
So I (20M) hooked up with a girl (20F), and after sex I feel tired. Anyway she's ranting about how she hates her job and I'm nodding along and agreeing things must be hard for her, but then she starts ranting about politics. She starts talking about Mueller Report, Trump, then after 5 minutes she's talking about Social...
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{ "description": "not letting my brother sleep on my couch", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my brother sleep on my couch?
My brother is a heroin addict. It started with pain pills and evolved from there. I have given him thousands of dollars in the form of bail, flights to go get “treatment,” Lyfts and Ubers because he lost his license for a while.....you get the picture. He also completely ruined my credit after I co-signed a car loan ...
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{ "description": "being bitterly upset at left lane drivers (USA) who refuse to move over for faster traffic", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being bitterly upset at left lane drivers (USA) who refuse to move over for faster traffic?
I was raised to drive in the furthest lane right unless I am passing. And I’m pretty damn sure that some states are finally making it a law that you do. I do not road rage on others. But I get REALLY heated internally (I drop a few choice words too) at drivers who make the entire line of cars go around them in the fast...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend over her extreme love of K-Pop", "pronormative_score": 72, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend over her extreme love of K-Pop?
This happened just a few hours ago between me \[18, M\] and my girlfriend \[18, F\]. We have been dating fairly seriously for over a month at this point. ​ We were on the topic of her favorite K-Pop artist (which I don't care for K-Pop whatsoever, but I try my best to pay attention) "Jung Yong Hwa". As us...
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{ "description": "getting free stuff from guys", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for getting free stuff from guys?
Backstory: I've always had a lot of male friends. I know the stigma behind a girl that hangs out with a lot of guys, but I've been like this since I was a kid. Grew up Fixing cars, airsoft,videogames, etc. So its just people i can relate to a lot more due to the demographic of things I enjoy. Anyways, this has cau...
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{ "description": "telling my ex's \"flavor of the month\" that my ex is a narcissist", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my ex's "flavor of the month" that my ex is a narcissist?
Nutshell: My ex and I are coparents of a teen. My ex has partners coming and going all the time which frustrates me because they are 1) demonstrating poor relationship behavior in front of our kid, and 2) our kid gets attached to all of them and then comes to me for comfort and questions when they inevitably leave. A...
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{ "description": "telling my friend's parents that she has just given birth to an unwanted baby, without her permission", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my friend's parents that she has just given birth to an unwanted baby, without her permission?
My friend, 20ish, got divorced 2 years ago and has a child. Unfortunately, her ex did not share any responsibility with her so she takes care of her child by herself. (we're in a 3rd world lawless asian country). She makes a living by working minimum wage job. Lately, she had a relationship with a douche with whom she ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to spend too long on the phone when I'm with her", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to spend too long on the phone when I’m with her?
We’re both currently attending different universities and we both work so we don’t even get to hangout as much as I’d like us to, but I understand that it’s the best we can do right now and it’ll change. 3 nights ago, we had around 3 hours to hangout before she had to work so we decided to go to the mall food court to ...
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{ "description": "trying to cut someone out of mine and my girlfriend's lives", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to cut someone out of mine and my girlfriend's lives?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. On mobile, sorry for formatting issues. So I've known this girl (A) for a few months now, and she was in a long distance relationship with her abusive ex (D) when we first started talking. A broke it off with D to be with me instead, and still called D her 'best friend'. During A and D...
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{ "description": "cutting off a hot mess friend and judging her choices", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off a hot mess friend and judging her choices?
Im friends with a woman named Laura. We both have kids the same age. She has had a divorce, suffers heavily from PD, & has ADD, but she is on meds. There have been a couple instances that make me not want to continue our friendship, but my DD loves her kids. I feel guilty b/c she will FaceTime us & her kid will...
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{ "description": "not telling my out of work girlfriend about an opening at the store I work at", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my out of work girlfriend about an opening at the store I work at?
My girlfriend has been out of work since February. We live together and living on my pay alone has been really tight. There an opening at the hardware store I work at and I have a good relationship with the manager so I think if I really tried I could get her hired. I just REALLY don’t think it’s a good idea. Work ...
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AITA?
18.5% of my paycheck goes to child support. This isn’t court ordered this is a personal agreement between the mother and I. To be noted when I asked an amount she had told me about 25% less than that and I instead give more. Her new hubby had gotten orders to Japan but needed my signature for my daughter to get a passp...
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{ "description": "telling a friend to chew more quietly", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling a friend to chew more quietly?
Hi all, just a minor thing. One of my friends that I see almost every day kinda eats like a slob; mouth open, slurping sounds, all that. We're fairly close and spend a lot of time together, but the noises really really really bother me, and I find myself constantly trying to avoid having a meal with him (it's that bad)...
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AITA, but the asshole in question is someone else.
Here, the asshole in question is a girl I know. She posted a story on her Instagram of a screenshot of her telling a group chat to use guys only for their money. I'm not sure if it was sarcasm or not. Later, she put up more stories that showed guys saying "blow me and I'll pay you if that's what you really care for...
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{ "description": "questioning my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for questioning my girlfriend?
Whenever I'm with my girlfriend and she gets a text message or snapchat, she goes under the covers to look at it. When we're outside she seems to slightly move her screen away from me. When I go under the covers to see what shes doing she immediately puts her phone down. Even when we're cuddling she would put her phone...
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{ "description": "making my gf start paying some of the bills over a single incident", "pronormative_score": 321, "contranormative_score": 15 }
WIBTA if I make my gf start paying some of the bills over a single incident?
Gf and I live together. She only works part time. I pay all the rent and bill. I never minded it until last night. We went to grab some take out and I realized I left my wallet in my work pants. I told her she’d have to get it. Her attitude about the whole thing was so ugly. At first she couldn’t believe i...
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