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{ "description": "getting into arguments with my housemates controlling gf", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting into arguments with my housemates controlling gf?
So a bit of background, im living in a house with 3 other boys and I've been friends with them since the first year of university and this is the first time we've shared a house together. It's amazing, we all get on, do the same substances and we never have arguments and im planning to live with one next year when we d...
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{ "description": "waiting until I get my bonus in a couple weeks before looking for a new job", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for waiting until I get my bonus in a couple weeks before looking for a new job?
I work in an industry where I have certain performance goals to hit each year including sales and operational things. I hit all my goals for 2018 and always get glowing reviews, so I know I should max out my bonus when I have my review in a couple of weeks. The reason I am leaving is because there isn't anywhere for me...
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{ "description": "not cancelling my plans for my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not cancelling my plans for my girlfriend?
I have a friend who I’ve been friends with with a very long time. My girlfriend has already shared with me her distaste for my friend, and asked me a long time ago to stop hanging out with them. I told her that I am not going to do that as I’ve known him forever and I’m not going to cut him off just because she doesn’t...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend after we found out that she's infertile", "pronormative_score": 55, "contranormative_score": 106 }
WIBTA if I broke up with my girlfriend after we found out that she's infertile
It's not easy writing this. I want to make clear that I haven't decided anything yet. I'm just considering all options. About 2 weeks ago me and my girlfriend found out that she's infertile. We had been trying for a baby for almost a year, and we got a bit worried. So we decided to check the both of us, and it turns o...
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{ "description": "not caring my dad had a stroke followed by 9 hour heart surgery", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not caring my dad had a stroke followed by 9 hour heart surgery
My whole life I’ve grown up without a father only being raised by my mum, while it hasn’t been easy I’m now 20 and am definitely aware that I never needed him since mum did a great job on her own so I’ve now become some what angry as any kid who’s father willingly walked out on what was supposed to be his family, anywa...
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{ "description": "cutting all three of my sisters out of my life, rather than just the toxic two", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I cut all three of my sisters out of my life, rather than just the toxic two?
The family drama is long and complicated so I'll try to summarize. I'm the youngest of 4 girls in my family, we're all in our late 20s/early 30s now. My two middle sisters, K and S, have always been very toxic and downright mean which came to a spearhead at Christmas 2017. We all used to go to our parents house and tha...
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{ "description": "forgetting to bring our garbage cans back from the curb", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for forgetting to bring our garbage cans back from the curb?
For context: I [18m] live with my girlfriend [18f] and her step-mother and her father. This morning I woke up and there was a big text from my girlfriends step mom (Who we will call S for now) in a nutshell shell it says “Hey good morning I need you to do something for me can you turn on the dryer, it was beeping ...
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{ "description": "exposing a girl for using bases", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for exposing a girl for using bases
I just wanna say, I am fine with people using bases. That's what they are for. But this situation was different. ​ Right so basically, I was in a discord server with about 4 other people. These people knew each other in real life, so they were very close with each other. Let's call them Chloe, Sam, Jill, a...
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{ "description": "wanting to install a fence around my home", "pronormative_score": 40, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to install a fence around my home?
Hello reddit, I take a lot of pride in making my house look nice. I’m a veteran, so I enjoy using my free time to do gardening, repairs, and general cleaning, especially power-washing. My house is located right next to a popular hang out spot for teenagers, which I completely understand, they need a place to get away ...
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{ "description": "playfully teasing my brother about a girl that liked him", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for playfully teasing my brother about a girl that liked him?
Okay, so my brother (M16) and I (F16) are twins that go to the same high school and are in the same grade. We live together (obviously) and there’s this neighborhood girl that had/has a big crush on him. She was really strange and bitchy and would hit on him in front of her boyfriend which I found both amusing and imme...
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{ "description": "not trading rooms with my housemate", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not trading rooms with my housemate?
I (24f) share a 4-bedroom apartment with three other women around my age. The apartment has two huge bedrooms and two smaller, but still bigger than average, rooms. One of the smaller rooms is a bit smaller than the other, but not by much. We decided amongst ourselves before move-in that my housemate “Jane” and I would...
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{ "description": "reporting my friend's ex to ICE", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For reporting my friend’s ex to ICE?
Throwaway account for obvious reasons. Also on mobile. Okay so my friend, “Linda”, is my closest friend to me. I love her more than anything and about a year to two years ago she started dating this guy named “Aron”. At first everything seemed fine between them and she was saying how much she loved him etc etc. She ...
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{ "description": "killing my friend's tarantula", "pronormative_score": 320, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for killing my friend's tarantula?
My friend is into tarantulas and has a couple of them at his house. I don't like spiders at all, they creep me out tremendously. He invited me and another friend to his house to play PS4. He showed the tarantulas as usual, always inside their enclosures. He knows I hate having them close by, but if they're secured ins...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a woman for shitty reasons", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with a woman for shitty reasons
I will preface this with: I am at least 99% sure I'm the asshole. My ex wife and I separated last June. In January I started seeing someone new, got on well with her, plenty of shared interests. Last week I broke up with her for what I think are shitty reasons: She has no financial security, we are both 40, she has...
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{ "description": "doing my job", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for doing my job?
This is complicated, because I work with a few friends who I also live with, and to complicate matters, I’m their boss. It starts with A, who is my best friend, refusing to talk to me after an incident (which I have to add, could’ve cost us both our jobs) at work. I made it clear to them that I wasn’t talking to the...
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{ "description": "being aggressively negative and \"unsupportive\" towards my friend's new smoking habit", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for being aggressively negative and "unsupportive" towards my friend's new smoking habit?
Im on mobile, so my apologies. We are in high school and my friend, for a while, has been in this dark place in her life. She is doing very well in her classes and is about to graduate early, but she is always depressed and stresses out quite frequently over all of the things she has to worry about. Also, her family...
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{ "description": "telling someone to focus", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling someone to focus
Background: I am the president of choirs at my high school, I have had leadership issues and micro management problems in the past but I am making really good progress and I don’t think it is really much of an issue anymore. So our choir was about to go onstage perform at Disneyland and I was trying to settle everyon...
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{ "description": "being mad at my friend for not telling me that she has been avoiding me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being mad at my friend for not telling me that she has been avoiding me
About 6 weeks ago I was having drinks with a friend I shall call E. At the time I was not in a great place mentally, I had been off my meds and was spiraling a bit. And then I started talking about how tough it is being single. Which led me to asking E why she was with her boyfriend and not me. I didn't mean it in a ba...
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AITA My best friend and relationships
My best friend is in a relationship and it feels like she's rubbing in my face. She's constantly making remarks about me being single the most common one is "We'll find you a man." It completes annoys me. I'm happy for her but it feels like she's pushing me to be in one as well. I don't really voice my annoyance about ...
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AITA property manager issues
AITA, Hi everyone I'm in a weird spot currently. My lease ends on February 4th and I've been dealing with this property manager. In November my friend suggested I come fill a room in their house in March. They said so long as I sign a lease I can crash there before and put my stuff in the garage in between my leases. S...
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{ "description": "asking my fiancé to help out more around the house", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my fiancé to help out more around the house?
Some background: my (26f) fiancé (24m) and I have been living together for about a month. Previously we both lived with our parents. I however, have lived on my own before, just moved back for financial reasons. My fiancé on the other hand has never lived alone. My fiancé’s parents used to rent the house we currently l...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do the dishes in my family's household", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not wanting to do the dishes in my family’s household?
So a little context. I’m a 15 year old male. Last night (April 4th) I was doing my families’ dishes as I have to contribute to the household chores. My parents both put their dishes next to the sink even though they could have put them in the dishwasher. I asked my father-figure “Could you please put that in the dishwa...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang with my brother anymore", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to hang with my brother anymore?
My little brother and I used to be fairly close since we enjoyed many of the same things (music, tv shows, hobbies). I got him his first, his second and his current part-time job and in general I rather liked hanging out with him. When I came out he was very protective of me and gave my girlfriends the "If you hurt her...
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{ "description": "being upset", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset
Tonight my SO and I went to a local community non-profit that is open 24/7. He was going to work on a project, but I had just gotten off work and was tired, but I didn't mind going. In fact I usually enjoy going here, but this time I was mostly just going to wait for him to finish. We got there around 9PM. At 10:40 I w...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mate to come over this week", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my mate to come over this week?
Hes an awesome friend, gives me foot rubs n everything (honestly too often, at one point i was starting to feel less like my body actually belonged to me cause he just wouldnt stop) He always wants to hang out, and when hes over he stays for days. I struggle to have time to myself when hes here, if i leave the room he...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable about a work situation", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being uncomfortable about a work situation?
I'm 19 btw. I have high functioning autism idk if that makes a difference but I thought it was worth mentioning. My first and current job (in a bar) is weird in the sense that everyone is dating everyone else. Absolutely everyone. There's maybe 3 single people (including me) Maybe it's jealousy because I'm single? I d...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend due to depression", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend due to depression?
I have to start by saying I was dating the most incredible woman I’ve met. Since day 1 she’s cared about me so deeply. She’s beautiful, intelligent, attentive, and very funny. All great qualities, and ones I’ve longed for in a SO. I’ve been severely depressed since 18, and it’s gotten progressively worse. I’ve also a...
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{ "description": "standing up to my downstairs neighbours", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for standing up to my downstairs neighbours?
There’s a couple that lives below me. Well, the girl lives there and her boyfriend is always there. I’m constantly woken up at 7am, or 3am to them shouting and him calling her names. Horrible stuff like: “you stupid fucking bitch, I hope I come home and you’re dead. Retard!” Just constantly calling her a bitch and tell...
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{ "description": "not giving back my neighbour's ball after they kick it over the fence", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving back my neighbour's ball after they kick it over the fence?
Warning: it's long. TLDR at the bottom So about 3 months ago some new neighbours moved in next door. Kinda quite, with some small children, and at first we thought that everything would be ok, since we didn't talk to our previous neighbours much either. Alas, it wasn't quite for long. The neighbours got the kids in...
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{ "description": "hating my job", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my job?
I won't say where specifically, but I have a shitty, minimum wage retail job that I've been trying to get out of for a while. Over the last 6 months, the duties of my shift have just about doubled with no alteration in pay (& we are, of course, the worst paid shift). They now give us tiny time tables to complete ...
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{ "description": "being annoyed at my girlfriend pulling faces", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being annoyed at my girlfriend pulling faces?
This is going to sound like a stupid thing to get annoyed at, but whenever me(30M) and my girlfriend(33F) have a disagreement or argument she will roll her eyes or pulls faces at me. I've brought it up a few times that it bothers me (which usually ends with another eye roll) and she keeps saying things along the lines...
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{ "description": "being unbothered by babies", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being unbothered by babies?
Not saying I dislike them, I obviously was one once. It’s just more that I’m impartial. I of course understand people being excited by their own, or those of family members or close friends. But when a work colleague for example brings their new born into the office “to meet everyone” and expects everyone to share thei...
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{ "description": "ending this friendship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ending this friendship?
A couple months ago I used to have regular conversation with a girl who had a pretty rough time at home, I was at a similar situation during my life so I understood fairly well and tried to support her as well as I could. The first few months of this friendship were really successful, we talked about our problems t...
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{ "description": "calling my dad an asshole", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for calling my dad an asshole?
A few hours ago me and my family were eating our dinner when the news started talking about a foreign movie about a child suing their parents for giving birth to them. I had read a few days ago about an Indian man in his mid twenties who was suing his parents for the same reason, and I brought it up. The man's parents...
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{ "description": "not letting people I think are bigots express their opinion", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not letting people I think are bigots express their opinion?
I have recently stumbled upon a subculture of women on twitter who call themselves “radical feminists”. These women believe that transwomen do not have the right to call themselves women, and that they are dangerous because they were born as males. Some of them are intersex, some lesbian, and some straight white women....
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{ "description": "cutting off a friend who gives me constant excuses", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA: Cutting off a friend who gives me constant excuses.
So, I have this friend. I will call her Sarah. We've been friends since we were about 10, so just over 14 years of being friends. She's an amazing person and I do see her as one of my good friends because I can trust her with anything but her excuses to not meet up are driving me insane. She only started doing this in ...
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{ "description": "telling depressed friend we she's giving me anxiety and telling her we cant be friends anymore", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling depressed friend we she’s giving me anxiety and telling her we cant be friends anymore?
Sorry for bad grammar typing on my phone but I’m a 16 year old guy and I have this female friend that is 15 and since last September she’s told me she’s tried to kill herself multiple times she tells me she cuts herself and sends me pictures of her crying and with box cutters on her thighs. This started to make me supe...
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{ "description": "getting infuriated with my father for spending my Grandfather's will money on a hot tub when he constantly complains about bills to pay for the family", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting infuriated with my father for spending my Grandfather’s will money on a hot tub when he constantly complains about bills to pay for the family?
My grandfather passed away last Tuesday. His son (my father), has been making financially ill purchases recently but this one tops the cake. Am I justified In my anger or not? Because it hurt me to feel anger towards him during the time of both of our losses. Am I blinded by love? Is he being the greedy bastard that I ...
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{ "description": "arriving at the theatre with a friend 30 minutes late, splitting up a group who were seated in our spot", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for arriving at the theatre with a friend 30 minutes late, splitting up a group who were seated in our spot?
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{ "description": "telling my tourist guide he should have waited for the whole group", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my tourist guide he should have waited for the whole group?
So I (F22) I'm on vacation with my parents, their friends, my brother(M20) and my boyfriend (M25) in a developing country. Today we went on an excursion with a private guide (M40s, previously lived in Europe and 20 years experience as a guide). We are in a group of 11 people, and when we got out of the bus our group g...
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{ "description": "expecting my boyfriend's parents to help me pay for a trip", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for expecting my boyfriend’s parents to help me pay for a trip?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months and we are about to graduate from college. A month or so ago, he mentioned that his parents want to take their family a European cruise after graduation, and would like me to join them (along with his sister’s long term boyfriend). He said that “they really want to spend...
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{ "description": "disliking the way I look", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disliking the way I look?
I know the title sounds strange, but please hear me out. I’ve always been a really insecure person, and I’ve never liked the way I look. On good days it’s fine and on bad days I hate my face completely.. Today was a bad day, and my mum asked me what was wrong since I can’t hide my emotions very well.. and for the f...
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{ "description": "giving my best mate a used towel", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for giving my best mate a used towel?
Sorry on mobile. Ya. So my best mate from uni days is coming into town tonight and I’ve just gotten back to town myself actually (was away for work). I was getting everything set up for him in the guest room when I realized I was out of clean towels. I didn’t have time to do a load, so I gave him my towel that I’ve...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share a studio apartment with 3 other people for a vacation", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to share a studio apartment with 3 other people for a vacation
Hey there. I'm 19 and my parents were very kind in offering to buy my plane ticket if I wanted to go to HI and visit my grandma. She only recently moved there, and I have never been. I have no real desire to go for the Hawaii part, but I love my grandma. She lives in a 750ish sq ft studio apartment by herself. My sch...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay my roommates' applications fees to reapply for our apartment when I leave", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to pay my roommates’ applications fees to reapply for our apartment when I leave?
Hi folks. Long story short— my lease is up in March, and I am planning on leaving when it ends. My three flatmates all plan on staying until May, and renting from March-May on a month-to-month lease. I’m the only one with plans to leave when the lease is done in March. Since we are not all vacating at the same time,...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my friend after breaking up with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for sleeping with my friend after breaking up with my girlfriend?
So me and my girlfriend (A) had been together for over three years when we broke up. Near the end of our relationship A warned me that a female friend (B) of mine was being overly flirty, and A had become quite paranoid about B and I spending time together. This is fairly out of character for her and I hadn't given any...
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{ "description": "ghosting my so after I had this epiphany", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for ghosting my SO after I had this epiphany
First off, I’d like to acknowledge that I’m probably the asshole in this scenario but I just kinda want to know if this is an ESH situation or whatever, yknow. Out of curiosity. Anyway, I was with this girl for about 3 years and things were rather good between us, great actually. The only problem with our relationship...
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{ "description": "laughing in class", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for laughing in class?
I know it sounds weird but hear me out. I'm a senior in HS and the year is almost over. ​ I'm in my French class and we have an assignment that we are doing atm and my friend plays a hilarious meme that makes me laugh pretty hard. My teacher notices this and gets angry at me and tells me to stop laughing....
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{ "description": "wanting to breakup with my gf for no real reason", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to breakup with my GF for no real reason?
So background here, we met around two and a half months ago on Tinder, and started a relationship a few weeks after that. We go to separate schools but live close enough that it's not a problem to see her whenever I want, and vice versa. Really, the relationship is going great. I like her, and while I obviously don't...
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{ "description": "refusing to take my girlfriend to a concert after she invited me and then uninvited me", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For refusing to take my girlfriend to a concert after she invited me and then uninvited me?
TL;DR at the bottom. Ok so... I’ve been with my girlfriend now for almost 4 years and things are great. We have our ups and downs but hey who doesn’t. Recently she invited me to go to a concert with her in a town that’s 4 hrs away, I said of course I would go and everything was fine, we booked tickets, parking, etc....
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{ "description": "honking (and holding the horn) at people who cut me off at a 4 way intersection", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for honking (and holding the horn) at people who cut me off at a 4 way intersection?
I send my sister to her university (we live 10 minutes away) every day. I drop her off/pick her up at a drop off/pick up area located at a 4 way intersection. The 4 way intersection's traffic mainly goes "left and right" if you were to look at it from above. No one ever goes to the "top" and the only people who go to t...
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{ "description": "being angry at my roommate for kicking out my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being angry at my roommate for kicking out my friend?
My roommate and I share a studio apartment and we’ve gotten along perfectly until this. So I have this friend. We met maybe 2 months ago and only became closer a month ago. We spent half an hour to an hour together every day and he REALLY liked our place so he was here a lot. Didn’t live here necessarily but he was ar...
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{ "description": "telling one of my friends that two of my other friends ripped into him this weekend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for telling one of my friends that two of my other friends ripped into him this weekend
So I am currently a college student, and we had a three day weekend. A couple of friends and I decided to head to one of their houses so that way we could go see a hockey game. One of my friends is roommates with one of my really good friends, and he was complaining about living with him. The complaints slowly turned i...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a friend for not caring about my safety", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
aita for getting mad at a friend for not caring about my safety.
so me and a friend decided we wanted to plan a trip somewhere, we decided to pick some places we liked and then sit down and pick the best one. I picked paris and Japan. she then tells me she wants to travel to Africa, I tell her I would rather not as I'm lesbian and parts of the country want gay people dead, she t...
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{ "description": "not telling this guy I'm not interested in him anymore", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not telling this guy I’m not interested in him anymore
we dated for s couple months last year and then I ended things with him because I wasn’t ready for a relationship and it was all too overwhelming. Now we’re friends again and talk, he always asks about my day and me and is genuinely a nice guy. I know he still has feelings for me, he took me out on Valentine’s Day and ...
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{ "description": "refusing to donate sperm for my sister and her wife", "pronormative_score": 264, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for refusing to donate sperm for my sister and her wife?
Background, I'm 25, my sister is 30 and her partner is also 30. Obviously, my sister is a lesbian. I am also gay (how lucky are our parents haha) We are extremely close, always have been, she's always been there for me and want the best for her. So my sister got married to her partner last year. I'm obviously happy for...
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{ "description": "not apologizing after cutting the line at a tank station", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For not apologizing after cutting the line at a tank station.
This just happened by the way. Okay, so by reading the title you probably think that I´m the asshole. But let me explain, I had to tank at a tank station I don't know very well. Apparently there was one person waiting in front of me but I thought he was not in line. Eventually when I was tanking he takes the pump next...
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{ "description": "resenting my partners desire to control the finances", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for resenting my partners desire to control the finances?
Obligatory “I’m on mobile” preface. My partner and I are not married, however we have been together for upwards of 6 years now and have started to really get into very serious discussions about the future. I’m 24 and she is in her late 20s for context. I am currently still in school pursuing a professional degree with...
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{ "RIGHT": 13, "WRONG": 2 }
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AITA Fight with brother
So I had a bit of a fight with my older brother. I went over and stayed at his place. In the morning I was ordering pizza and wanted to order two so asked him to pick toppings for the second one. He knows I don't really eat or like much meat and right away he wants to put beef ( this is mostly because he wants his wife...
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{ "description": "opening the door for my roomies friend at 12:30am", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for opening the door for my roomies friend at 12:30am?
$jason = my roomie Me and $jason live in a 2 bedroom basement, each with our own room and mine is closer to the door. I'm a working freelancer, and he was doing odd jobs until he recently got a job with more typical work hours. So we both have (had) odd hours and are usually up very late, I would often hear him u...
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{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "telling my sister's boyfriend he's not \"family\"", "pronormative_score": 42, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for telling my sister’s boyfriend he’s not “family”?
My sister has been dating this guy for less than three months. My personal feelings are that he’s an idiot. I mean he’s young (either late teens or early twenties, idk) so it’s understandable. I was an idiot back then too. My problem with him is that he’s made some dangerous choices with my sister involved. He wre...
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{ "description": "no longer wanting to work on my relationship with parents", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for no longer wanting to work on my relationship with parents?
I am 25, English of Pakistani background with not particularly traditional parents. ​ Growing up - parents had a terrible relationship. Dad had a high paying job and a daily alcohol habit. He would force us to study for exams many years ahead and heavily restrict us because a lot of things he perceived as ...
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{ "description": "being pissed off at a friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being pissed off at a friend
Sorry will be a bit long. I have a friend I'll call C. She started at my work a few years after me and knew noone in town. I introduced her to 99% of her friends here, we are very close and have worked together for several years now. Shortly after meeting her, I introduced her to another close friend of mine I will...
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{ "description": "sometimes not tipping", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for sometimes not tipping?
On mobile so formatting might get messed up. I understand that at sitdown restaurants it is courtesy to tip, and I make sure to give a good 20% tip every time I go to them, but here are some situations that I ran into last week that make me question whether I should always tip. 1. I got $3.50 bubble tea, and saw the ...
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{ "description": "breaking up due to lack of texting and communication", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA - Breaking up due to lack of texting and communication
Funny how i found this subreddit after breaking up with my "girlfriend" So From the start I'm a 20 yo m and never had a "real" relationship, kissed girls and hooked up, but not a "real" relationship and thats something I wish I could have honestly but anyway I've been on Tinder for a while and things go ok but usual...
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{ "description": "yelling at my father to flush the goddamn toilet", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for yelling at my father to flush the goddamn toilet?
My dad has a bad habit of not flushing (number one only, always flushes number two) which I personally find disgusting. This morning I finally snapped and yelled at him to come flush the goddamn thing. He in turn was pissed off, and said he's trying to save money by not flushing. I just stood there in shock for a mome...
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{ "description": "cooling down the relationship to a full stop because she was jelous of her friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for cooling down the relationship to a full stop because she was jelous of her friend?
Hello reddit! Recently (4 months ago) for the first time in my life a girl actually likes me! She striked the conversation first too! So its been time, we havent ever actually met but being my first time in some kind of a relationship i am attached and i need help, we got into a fight for what seems to me is very immat...
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{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 5 }
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{ "description": "being a realist about my girlfriends weight gain", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being a realist about my girlfriends weight gain.
So we have been dating for awhile now and my girlfriend has been self conscious of a little weight gain. Maybe like 10lbs. I honestly haven’t even noticed, but she mentions it all the time and how she doesn’t feel good with her body. Her diet consists of mostly Mac and cheese and ramen noodles. When ever she mentions t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sext my so", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to sext my SO?
So, me and me GF don’t really get to talk much, since i move around alot am and pretty busy most of the time. Tonight she messages me asking for me to “talk lewd to her”. Now i generally keep conversations PG with friends, so i dont have any idea what this means i need to do. Plus i’m just not ready for sex yet, and w...
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{ "description": "not running after my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not running after my friend?
It's a pretty long story but I'll post a TLDR on the end of my text. Also please excuse grammar and writing, English is not my first language. This whole subject started some months ago between me and two of my friends. Let's call them H and F. My friendship to F began because we were roomies and she kind of introdu...
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{ "description": "ignoring my girlfriend's \"compromise\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my girlfriend's "compromise"
So I'm now in college and I'm still dating the girl I've been dating for around 3.5 years. She initially had a problem with me living on a co-ed floor even though my roommate was male, but she seemed to let that go by. Now however, she's asking me to not be friends with any girls on the floor or in general. It seems ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to watch Game of Thrones with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to watch Game of Thrones with my girlfriend?
I’ve never seen the show but from what I’ve heard, it’s got all sorts of horrible stuff in it. Brother/sister relations, killing children, etc. I mean I’m sure the action is cool. But from what I’ve heard it’s all really confusing with all the characters so I just don’t really want to watch it. But she keeps insisting ...
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{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "not wanting to associate with my brother in law", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to associate with my brother in law?
So, Xmas of 2017 my brother in law and I got into a huge fight. He has always been kind of a dick to me but this specific time was my tipping point. We were all drinking, having fun. HE brings up race/white privilege and I welcome the discussion because as a grad student in cultural studies, I study/talk about this shi...
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{ "description": "being nervous with gf and new coworker", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being nervous with gf and new coworker?
This woman (Betty) 29F and I (28M) have been dating for 3 months and its been amazing! We have a strong relationship but that has recently been shaken by three exes from her past (all of whom she has blocked). Recently she got assigned a coworker Ryan at the tool service desk (works in an Engineering Company) because ...
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{ "description": "getting mad about taking my little brother home", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad about taking my little brother home.
So I was with my family today and when we were about to leave my sister tells everybody “we can take little brother home”, keep in mind im there with my car and my sister is there with hers. Since my sister said she could take him home, I made plans with friends later tonight. As we are leaving, my sister tells me “OP,...
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{ "description": "telling on my coworkers manager why they're out sick all the time? they have IBS and purposely eats trigger foods all the time", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I tell on my coworkers manager why they’re out sick all the time? They have IBS and purposely eats trigger foods all the time
I have a coworker with IBS. Let’s name coworker ‘IBS’. Me and IBS are somewhat ‘friends’ to put it loosely. IBS randomly told me they have IBS one day over a year ago, have some short discussions about how they’re supposed to manage their condition (avoiding trigger foods). Fast forward a year, IBS is out sick routinel...
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{ "description": "not going to my sister's house for Thanksgiving & possibly Christmas too", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to my sister's house for Thanksgiving & possibly Christmas too?
A little back story. I am 38f and all my life my mother and I have clashed. She is narcissistic and toxic. It's always about her. She takes any situation and makes it about her. I moved out when I was 16 and I've done well for myself ever since. I have an older sister who is bi-polar and worse than my mother (haven...
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AITA for the way I joke with my boyfriend? He's black and I'm white.
So my boyfriend is black and I'm not... We both like to joke around everything and sometimes people think that we are assholes for it. When Trump won the election he got worried and I joked that I would buy him as a slave and keep him around so he didn't have to worry. It became our thing to joke about him being my s...
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{ "description": "expecting my mom to pay for my crossfit", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for expecting my mom to pay for my crossfit?
Ive been going to the gym for about two years. I am supposed to go at least twice a week but lately I just can’t motivate myself to go outside anymore. I decided to switch it up and try crossfit instead. I thought it would be better for what I need and what fits my goals best. I told my mom that I wanted to go to cro...
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{ "description": "being intensely irritated with my neighbours", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being intensely irritated with my neighbours
So, a little backstory: I own a house in a pretty quiet neighbourhood a city of about 10,000 people. I have a shared driveway with the house next to mine. The house next door was previously a rental property. When I moved in about 3 years ago, there was a relatively quiet family with older kids living there. They were ...
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{ "description": "letting a friend know that their group is being infiltrated by cops", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for letting a friend know that their group is being infiltrated by cops?
I am a law abiding citizen, always have been and always will be. However, I do have a friend who has been involved in aspects of organised crime and met up with him about a month ago. I am aware that he has been involved in certain criminal activities, processing goods and such. It is not my business and I have never...
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{ "description": "not wanting a job", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting a job?
right now, i’m 16 years old going on 17 in a couple months. my ex (who is also my best friend) is 18, and has been telling me repeatedly for the past couple months to get a job. this has made me feel super annoyed, because i feel like i don’t need one. i’m middle class, i have a roof over my head, and there is nothing ...
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{ "description": "platonically talking to my best friends ex with him", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for platonically talking to my best friends ex with him? (WARNING: wall of text)
I have a friend, Andrew, who I've been amazing with for about 7 years. He and I had a pretty good friend in Ellie, his former girlfriend, and eventually we stopped talking because they had a nasty breakup and she decided it would be best not to talk to me because I'm his best friend and that would be fucked. Later on...
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{ "description": "jokingly calling a 19yo who is dating a 15yo a pedophile", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For jokingly calling a 19yo(M) who is dating a 15yo(F) a pedophile?
I was informed that a dude I know who is my age (19) has been dating a girl 3 years younger than him (she turns 16 in around 3 months (the age of concent in my country)) for about a year now So I along with a couple of other people jokingly called him a pedophile to his face after which he told me that he has gotten al...
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{ "description": "not letting go of a girl that has ruined me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for not letting go of a girl that has ruined me?
Im 17 , I’ve had a crush on this girl for 3 years. She’s ruined me mentally and emotionally. She is very extraverted, and talks to many guys. She’s told me that she see’s them all as friends. With her being an introvert, Id always get jealous. When I told her I liked her and if she would consider dating (after 1 year o...
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AITA A yelp review led me to block a best friend
Hi this is my first post ever so If im doing this wrong let me know. This all started Saturday. I wanna say that when it comes to restaurants I'm a good customer. I don't care if your busy and I always tip 20 percent because thats how my mom raised me. how ever my friend typically hates to tip and is overly critical of...
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{ "description": "being mad at my brother's gf for not coming to my other brother's wedding", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being mad at my brother's GF for not coming to my other brother's wedding?
There's quite a bit of background and story to this, so I'll try and made a condensed TL;DR at the end. I am the eldest of 5 siblings, 3 girls and 2 boys. We were raised to value our family and each other, and are quite close due to this. This past weekend, my first brother finally got married to his SO of 12 years...
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{ "description": "needing to take painkillers for period pain", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For needing to take painkillers for period pain?
I'm 21f, still living with my parents bc jobs in this area are all parttime and I can't afford travelling to 2 jobs and cannot drive, hence why I'm stuck with them. I get God awful pain when it's "that time" alongside getting a bit lethargic and usual stuff. I'll often curl up and rest myself, sometimes using one of th...
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{ "description": "lying about my boyfriend's age", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for lying about my boyfriend's age?
first post on here, i was contemplating on even posting this but i need some sort of point of views. So I (20f) started talking to this (33m) from an online dating app and honestly was very attracted to him from the beginning. Well, fast forward 8 months (now) and we're together and everything is great. Well, mostly...
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{ "description": "not exercising and my boyfriend leaving me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not exercising and my boyfriend leaving me?
My ex-boyfriend and I met on a dating app, and we really liked each other. He and I had amazing sexual chemistry, and he was frankly the best partner I ever had. He’s really smart (going to Yale Law School next year) and seemed to be really into me. We saw each other for around 2 months, but I was already sort of plann...
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{ "description": "telling an elderly couple to fuck off", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for telling an elderly couple to fuck off?
So this literally just happened 5mins ago as I type this. I just sold a car to a person amd they brought a trailer to bring it back. They had a 2hr trip each way and were in a hurry to get home as it ia very cold today and we have about half a foot of snow on the ground, which makes everyrhinf worse. First I had a who'...
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{ "description": "wanting take our 4wd vehicle home to my parents for the holidays instead of a shitty rental vehicle", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting take our 4WD vehicle home to my parents for the holidays instead of a shitty rental vehicle.
My husband always works over Christmas while I am off. As my parents get older I try to be the one kid that goes home to visit them at Christmas. We also live in Canada (crappy weather at that time of year) and we only have one vehicle. I have started renting a vehicle at Christmas to go home and visit my parents. I ...
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{ "description": "requesting the mod team of a facebook to investigate the authenticity of a person whom they featured in their post", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for requesting the mod team of a Facebook to investigate the authenticity of a person whom they featured in their post?
A Facebook page featured a girl who claims that the played a round of CSGO during their College tournament in such a good way that she managed to make her team win. (For the people who are not into CSGO, it doesn't matter because it's not much relevant to my story, but for the people who are into it, just because of wi...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending a friendship?
So my husband and I had a rough year. He cheated, i caught him, we tried to work through it but it blew up so we separated and went to see counselors and have worked through everything. So before all of that happened my husband and i had been getting really close with one of my husbands coworkers and his wife and fam...
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{ "description": "being so annoyed by my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being so annoyed by my friend?
My (17M) friend (17M) is in two of my classes and my lunch this year. I had a class w him last year and we became good friends but kinda poked fun at each other. He’s a nice guy and it was all in good fun. This year his dad died. I was there for him but he had seen it coming for a long time so he was as prepared as a ...
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{ "description": "wanting to get rid of my girlfriends cat? it's evil and always scratches at the kids", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For wanting to get rid of my girlfriends cat? It’s evil and always scratches at the kids.
We just brought my girlfriends cats over from her old house, they are both basically the biggest form of jerk you could get in form of a cat. They are always fighting/ scratching etc they already trashed the couch by clawing it and now the kids won’t go play in there rooms alone! I want it gone but she doesn’t want to ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend he's being an irresponsible, self-centered dick", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend he’s being an irresponsible, self-centered dick
So my friend wants to scan some documents for his uni application and so comes over to my place to use my scanner. Then he asks if he could keep it on my computer which I agreed. I did ask him why he doesn’t back the documents onto a thumbdrive or cloud drive but he just gives a half-hearted “I’ve thought of it but nev...
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AITA breakup-bf lightly hit me-scared/confused(edit w further details and updated kinda)
Read Original https://old.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/alhmmr/aita_for_breaking_up_out_of_fear_and_confusion/ Reason for this next post is because we talked more and I have further insight and I would like to know what people think. We both are in a stressful class together and he's been stressed about it for ...
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{ "description": "not backing down against my 6 year old daughter in a pointless argument", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 29 }
AITA for not backing down against my 6 year old daughter in a pointless argument?
I’ve been complaining for a while that my daughter doesn’t listen to me. Today I asked her to throw an old flier away for me and she started looking at it. She looked for a while then I asked her again to throw it away. She asked to keep it and I said no. We argued, she cried, the wife cane in and took the paper saying...
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{ "description": "taking another students test paper after they destroyed mine", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
Aita for taking another students test paper after they destroyed mine
I am in middle school and we had a math test on Monday I got a 100 while another student got a 92. When he learned that I got a higher score than him, he ripped my paper in half. I then took his paper and told him I would give it back if he said sorry. He did not say sorry and left. I was showing it to my friends who w...
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