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"description": "not giving a homeless person some food that they requested",
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} | AITA for not giving a homeless person some food that they requested? | I was on the subway to work and a homeless women was walking up and down the train asking for some spare change. Rather than giving them a few dollars, I decided that I would give them something from my lunch. I had an extra apple and banana in my lunch that day so I offered that to them. They rudely declined my offer ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting to better my life",
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} | AITA for wanting to better my life | AITA: So here’s the story. Got out of a bad relationship 2 months ago, got a job within two weeks of me leaving. I have two kids.
I’ve gotten everything but two things off my list that I’ve wanted to do. My license and my GED so I can go to school and obtain a science degree.
Problem is, my family seems like they a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
ffhzG9xLDNCqHRi1Sz3TJPOpH7IRIwS5 | b4iyui | {
"description": "not noticing my shift changed",
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} | AITA: I didn’t notice my shift changed | I got my schedule at around noon yesterday. It had me scheduled at 7 for today. My boss sent a revised schedule at 130 and again at 215 I didn’t notice the 130 one and looked at the 215 one. It had one change stated on the email body, but was for another employee so so I didn’t think to even open the actual revised sch... | HISTORICAL | {
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9pJxDAq4ciK9gPipxoGxJjn1Z575AEAS | ai37fw | {
"description": "sleeping with my friend's long-time crush? is girl-code real",
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} | AITA for sleeping with my friend's long-time crush? Is girl-code real? | I've been friends with Sarah since we were in the 7th grade, not BEST friends but always tight. Like 3rd tier BFF, if you know what I'm saying. Anyway - there's a guy in our friend group, Dylan, who I used to be in a FWB relationship with when we all lived in the same town. No one really knew about it, but I'm sure it ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
DwPtP5CzDu0ZPuFdb6jHrDX6cEjCYiOo | au2d70 | {
"description": "not attending a high school friend's wedding",
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} | AITA for not attending a high school friend’s wedding? | I’m 24 and currently in grad school. My friend, who’s 23, got engaged a few months ago and married officially in December. She had to get married early since she’s in the military and wanted to get reassigned with her fiancé, and there was a deadline coming up. She did have a few family members and such at the December... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
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"description": "getting annoyed at a friend for texting last minute he couldn't make it to a social at house",
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} | AITA for getting annoyed at a friend for texting last minute he couldn’t make it to a social at house. | In the beginning of January I organized a social gathering at my flat to play a few board games and play some video games at the end of the month.
There would of been about 12 people in total but a few didn’t reply so maybe about 9 said they were coming.
Day comes. I get a cancellation in the morning due to a friends ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "thinking my brother's ex gf is faking pregnancy and asking for proof",
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} | AITA for thinking my brother's [18] ex gf [25] is faking pregnancy and asking for proof? | Hi fellow assholes, or not assholes, or whatever!
I am on the fence about this, I've felt really weird about it all from the beginning, and my family and I just don't know what to think about the situation in its entirety. Link for screenshots included!
Let's start from the beginning, April 2018. She lived in an apart... | HISTORICAL | {
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O3uCmolVId1xPtxX0CpiLctDqnv0ua8C | b2wgt0 | {
"description": "purposely parking against the line on the driver's side",
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} | AITA for purposely parking against the line on the driver's side? | A few notes; I have a full sized truck, live in an apartment building, and have an infant still in a huge reverse car seat.
Getting the kiddo in and out of the truck requires the door to be pretty far open and I'm terrified of hitting another car with the door so I park as close to the opposite line as I can without ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
V98rilNEoD3p8Mx99FlzV7cQkNDWh145 | b9lwyf | {
"description": "not wanting to go to my graduation banquet",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to my graduation banquet? | I'm a senior in high school and graduation is coming up. In my high school we do a graduation ceremony in the day then a graduation banquet at night. I will go to my graduation ceremony but I don't want to go to my graduation banquet. The biggest reasons why I don't want to go, are because its kind of pricey (I would n... | HISTORICAL | {
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4u8zpJeTltdT75dYeFLu5PelFLmxNadf | b06wiv | {
"description": "not wishing my sister a happy birthday after going nc",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | WIBTA for not wishing my sister a happy birthday after going NC? | I'm 32M, my sister is 29F. She has anger issues, goes on endless racist, homophobic and otherwise hate-filled rants, is verbally abusive, controlling and demanding(you have to tip toe around her because the smallest thing can set her off in a screaming fit). I have tried many times to reason with her regarding her bigo... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 11,
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} | RIGHT |
26LFbxJryXnjoQoyvAkOMVAsFaWOIlOB | atjoi5 | {
"description": "discouraging my girlfriend from following her dream career",
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} | AITA For discouraging my girlfriend from following her dream career? | My girlfriend wants to become a freelance artist. We both still live at home, but have plans to move out soon. Currently she is making money off of commissions, but it’s not even enough to pay for her car insurance, so she is going’s to have to give up her vehicle.
I had to give up my dream of becoming a professional ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
xX0DSY4PYkMil2sxmg56VE6w423bRR1x | a8o6u9 | {
"description": "being pretty disappointed with my Reddit Secret Santa",
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} | AITA for being pretty disappointed with my Reddit Secret Santa? | For the reddit secret Santa exchange, there are very simple rules. Spend around 20 USD (more if you want), actually send your gift to your person, confirm the receipt of your gift. You can elect to match with people from a different country if you want, but there’s a big warning that international shipping can be quite... | HISTORICAL | {
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M1WamSCK9CsWmHVRLIGTnRPCOgfDKN70 | an4ywu | {
"description": "considering cutting off my friends for hanging out with people I don't like",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for considering cutting off my friends for hanging out with people I don’t like? | So this might get a bit confusing.
Albert - A guy I dated for two years from 16-18 years old
Patricia - The new girl Albert is dating now
Larry - Another guy I dated for a few months when I was 18
Ozzy - My friend of many years
Alicia - Ozzy’s girlfriend of a year.
Basically, I dated Albert for a few years when I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
b3jyTkwzBiiQ3IFMExbFBwdJGJN4MQRC | ak0lzl | {
"description": "eating other people's food at restaurants",
"pronormative_score": 19,
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} | AITA for eating other people's food at restaurants? | Whenever I'm in a restaurant/cafe and the people in a nearby table leave, I eat their leftovers since they'd end up in the trash otherwise. The people in my company (especially my girlfriend) say I'm disgusting and embarrassing, and they usually get pretty mad at me. Am I being insensitive by saying that it's my choice... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 19,
"WRONG": 52
} | WRONG |
zfwvxgAIqDKrm9zLpegQZudlWZ4VSZNn | b6c7uq | {
"description": "not wanting to put my dog down",
"pronormative_score": 14,
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} | AITA for not wanting to put my dog down? |
For some background, my dog is a White German Shepherd, not gonna say her name for anonymity reasons. She's about seven years old now, fairly good health besides glaucoma. With this, the fluid pressure in her eyes builds which causes pain, and she's slowly lost her vision. About two years ago the vet informed us sh... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
mcqBdAMdlqMPDcB4lLJy4Kvin8RnxWUa | b26rrl | {
"description": "not being able to tell my girlfriend I'm moving sooner than she thinks",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not being able to tell my girlfriend I'm moving sooner than she thinks? | This is currently happening. Long story not short, my parents moved to the south from Indiana (both U.S.A.) for my dad’s new job. They need help with my brother, keeping up the house, they miss me, it would be cheaper all around, I could attend graduate school down there and have a “base/supply depot” so to speak. We a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
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"NOBODY": 3,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
mnELFnTvy3pH3jh4NwrS2oJhlsNIHuxI | b2r6uw | {
"description": "requesting that my coworker stop using gay slurs",
"pronormative_score": 27,
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} | AITA for requesting that my coworker stop using gay slurs? | My one coworker (Jen) is very openly gay, which is of course perfectly fine with me. I only take issue with one word that she uses often, whether she’s referring to herself or to someone else: fa***t.
According to Jen, people use to call her this when she was a teenager. She says that as a lesbian, she is allowed to ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 25,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 27,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
fyUT5Tq8u3cf49NZXZy9YrcF1RtIKwE6 | b6xggn | {
"description": "refusing to downgrade my Netflix subscription",
"pronormative_score": 20,
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} | AITA for refusing to downgrade my Netflix subscription? | Wouldn't necessarily call myself an asshole, but I can see how I could be considered bitchy in this situation.
A little background:
I met my bestfriend almost 2 years ago when we were freshman suitemates. She comes from a background that has led her to being a bit stingy with money. Now, I'm not judging her for that... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 19,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 20,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
FOOSNh3GucNV6IkJlIpMlpPlBj4adqwJ | b76z0x | {
"description": "asking my husband not to have a certain friend over",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I asked my husband not to have a certain friend over? | So context I (23f) and my husband (26m) have been together for 8 years and we're currently expecting our first child. I'm currently 27 weeks pregnant and am an anxious mess even without being pregnant. We've been having a lot of discussions about what will be allowed around the baby and one thing I'm very adamant about... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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obswbdXbTOuUBEMBQt7Bp0fneVDJPNMh | b6unra | {
"description": "not putting an item away in the right spot at Target",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not putting an item away in the right spot at Target? |
Hi. So this happened a few weeks ago, but it’s still bothering me because I don’t know. A few weeks ago, I went to target to pick up a few things. I was looking at socks when an old friend of mine who just started working there says hi to me. She comes up to my basket and fumbles with what I was about to buy and at t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 13
} | WRONG |
7BjVJyJXllgkNG0NaE4TX2FvT7ax6DML | 9tgu1h | {
"description": "going off on my cousin for being a completely tactless human being",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA [for going off on my cousin for being a completely tactless human being?] | Am I the asshole for going off on my cousin?
Apologies for any grammatical mistakes, I'm so furious that I'm shaking as I'm typing this.
A couple days ago my sister's health started to rapidly decline. She went from throwing up to being put into a medically induced coma while she's fighting a severe blood infection. Cu... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 7,
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Gxa2x23A4tJqxxMkABJaS6EXhXUYHmsq | aucrcn | {
"description": "confronting my Family",
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"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA If I Confronted My Family? | Hi Reddit, I’m hoping to get some genuine, unbiased feedback. Also I’m on mobile so my apologies.
To make a loooong story short my parents divorced when I was a few months old. I was extremely lucky however and my family (both sides) stayed really close. I grew up spending a ton of time with my dad’s side of the fami... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
xjiU8YwWmc73AgbUQ4vqeWHwwmeD0SEf | b0c9n0 | {
"description": "wanting my house back",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting my house back? | I’ll try and keep this short.
Recently we had a death in the family and as a result my eldest sibling who was living with them had nowhere to stay and asked if they could stay at mine and my partners house temporarily until they found a place to stay which I agreed. They also asked if their partner could stay a few d... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
NPniktbWAwHoR3Et6SYgnkP47u9bONs0 | as2enz | {
"description": "telling my girlfriend she doesn't need to make plans every time I want to game",
"pronormative_score": 77,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for telling my girlfriend she doesn’t need to make plans every time I want to game? | My girlfriend and I have been living together for 4 months now. We’ve been together for 3 years, and I’ve loved every minute of it and we absolutely adore each other.
When we first got together I gave up a lot of my free time for dates and other couple things like that.
We would spend the night together sometimes. B... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 71,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
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"INFO": 4
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 77,
"WRONG": 6
} | RIGHT |
mBWQdj6FXQOeLFqIQqX6dGmgiUQ87bSQ | b7gf0q | {
"description": "allowing my 17 year old female friend to be with a 31 year old male sexually violent offender",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for allowing my 17 year old female friend to be with a 31 year old male sexually violent offender? | She was speaking to me about how much she loved him, and how much he really, really made her heart brighten up. I allowed it, she said all her other friends didn't support it (I understand why.) He treats her as if he truly loves her, and there's no manipulation in between. She deserves a man that is not manipulative a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 9,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 5,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 6
} | RIGHT |
ZQuTlrMpLf2MnINZPMohYYQhSjgwSWGe | ag1uf9 | {
"description": "telling my brother take control of his life and leave his girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my (M26) brother take control of his life and leave his (F43) girlfriend? | Locations, dates, and situations have been slightly changed in the even that he/she/the son see this. This is gonna be a long one, so buckle up.
​
For the last 5 years my (M26) brother has been with his (F43) girlfriend(his first serious relationship) and has plans to marry her in the future. I've heard al... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
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} | RIGHT |
33dVCcuPsYuBUPay86wY4eXiXauF5rFj | b76s6q | {
"description": "hating my coworker's annoying voice",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for hating my coworker's annoying voice? | Made on a throwaway because I don't want to hurt the guy's feelings. Honestly I think I am starting to be the asshole here but I'm just kind of looking for advice on what to do.
I'm a manger at a store where I spend hours at a time standing at the back counter making food for customers. Recently one of our regular emp... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | RIGHT |
2KYMLIXJJ1hOYtVgZbdRxodyBhxuYpd3 | auw1xd | {
"description": "not spending NYE with my girlfriend after she bails on our plans",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for not spending NYE with my girlfriend after she bails on our plans? | This happened a while ago so bear with me as I try to recollect what happened.
​
I planned to go to a concert months in advance with my girlfriend at the time for New Years Eve. She agreed, we bought our tickets, housing, and travel and everything was set. We drive a few hours to get there a few days befor... | HISTORICAL | {
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bLcxdFlm37UELWdA5OnUiS90NDlp38u8 | al09mo | {
"description": "taking a step-back from a complicated friendship with benefits",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for taking a step-back from a complicated friendship with benefits? | TL;DR at the bottom
This is going to require a bit of backstory. There's a a TL;DR at the bottom, but the history is rather relevant to me questioning whether I'm the Asshole:
Background: We both attend the same graduate program, she is a year above me but the school is incredibly small. For the sake of this discussi... | HISTORICAL | {
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hlC7mT1c4neArsZ5a2gqujPz5HejGhQp | asg4iw | {
"description": "breaking up with a girl to pursue therapy for mental health struggles",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for breaking up with a girl to pursue therapy for mental health struggles? | TLDR: broke up with a girl because of severe depression, sought out therapy, got better, tried to reconnect as friends, got screamed at and called a very shitty person.
So about a year ago, I went through a very confusing bout of mental illness. I was absolutely convinced I had schizophrenia, because I kept having ver... | HISTORICAL | {
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yTahn7CAESOxaBB6uKI0EKqyPl0BWQLq | azgqss | {
"description": "insulting a creep at the gym",
"pronormative_score": 59,
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} | AITA for insulting a creep at the gym? | TL;DR at the bottom.
I'm a female and in my early 20s. I've recently started going to the gym. I'm pretty out of shape as I've never really done exercise since finishing school. I'm quite self conscious about exercising in front of people but I've forced myself to start going a few times a week. So far, it's not been ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
NvGe1hX32oB8aj0TXtpvuAKheThx41LJ | a0x42s | {
"description": "being mad that I didn't hear from my bf",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for being mad that I didn't hear from my BF? | I\[25f\] have been going out with my bf\[25m\] for a few months now. He's wonderful but he's really bad at communicating when he's upset and tends to shut down. We're also long distance which I think adds to this.
He texted me about an issue the other day and asked if I was mad. I said no. He responded that my reply s... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
sykuK1MiBGMJ64hdknlpReIqUsU3pBww | b43t53 | {
"description": "giving my ex wife a large amount of money I won despite the anger of my gf",
"pronormative_score": 2583,
"contranormative_score": 209
} | AITA for giving my ex wife a large amount of money I won despite the anger of my gf? | I recently won a ‘fuck you’ amount of money. I won’t say exactly how much but it’s in the millions. It makes me feel funny even typing It’s enough to change the life of myself and my family.
My ex wife is the mother of my 2 kids. She is an amazing woman and good to the bone. We divorced 6 years ago because I had an a... | HISTORICAL | {
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60Yq8Mr1dvEqSdNn4fuBCj4Lf1H9qyom | afb2au | {
"description": "not forgiving a guy after he chose another girl",
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"description": "ending my relationship without telling the truth",
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} | WIBTA for ending my relationship without telling the truth | So me an this girl kind of been on and off for a couple years. Late last year I decided I finally wanted to commit to her and she did too. Fast forward to February and after talking to people online as well as close friends I realised that I’m actually gray asexual (very rarely have sexual desires).
At first I was go... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "calling the police on a car I thought was driving drunk",
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} | AITA for calling the police on a car I thought was driving drunk? | My girlfriend and I were driving on the interstate when we noticed the car in front of us had trouble staying in their lane. We didn’t think too much of it until the driver nearly hit the wall alongside the far right lane. That’s when we decided to call the police to report the driver. After about 4 minutes of talking ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "asking to go home early instead of taking a second break",
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} | AITA for asking to go home early instead of taking a second break? | So, at my workplace, an 8 hr or longer shift is supposed to come with 2 15 minute breaks (paid) and a 30 minute (unpaid) lunch. I was getting carts from outside and finished when the time for my second break came. I asked if I could go take it and got told that I need to wait for a coworker to get off her lunch. The ... | HISTORICAL | {
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gAM4YDeDdv2fuWhjClchAuj23S1j6Osz | awr0sx | {
"description": "stowing away my roommates kitty in my room without her knowledge",
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} | AITA if i stow away my roommates kitty in my room without her knowledge? | My roommate has two cats. She had one when I moved in, and that cat acts like one I would suspect has been either neglected or abused. It does NOTHING. Doesn't even clean itself. Just lays under the coffee table. Then, she got another kitty months later, without consulting me. I'm no asshole, so I didn't make a big dea... | HISTORICAL | {
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OsKT6d71H8uRZa82Lex8P8CCzXu9X2dT | 9u332x | {
"description": "wanting my gf to leave her pet",
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} | AITA for wanting my gf to leave her pet? | Been with my girl for over 2 years and we plan on geting a place together soon. We both are very excited for this but im a little worried because she wants to bring her dog with.
I love my gf and I dont hate animals but i dont think I can deal with hers. Its not trained and it makes mess every where nonstop. When i g... | HISTORICAL | {
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GIoIxGZwQxDJNaolJxXRjUTlShwEyBxD | aiwwuu | {
"description": "continuing to have a close relationship with a married woman, despite us both having feelings for each other",
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} | AITA For continuing to have a close relationship with a married woman, despite us both having feelings for each other. | I am a man in my early 20s, but because of my mental issues (I have anti social personality disorder) I have never been able to find a real friend who shares my interest. I had girlfriends in high school but it was sort of a detached relationship and I ghosted them after I graduated.
I just can't connect with people v... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to pay back my sister-in-law $4000 that she gave us",
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} | AITA for not wanting to pay back my sister-in-law $4000 that she gave us? | This story has a lot of facets; a lot of interested parties. I'll try to be succinct... three years ago, our dog (then a puppy) was hit by a car and broke both hind legs and punctured a lung. After an ER visit and a long hospital stay with two surgeries as well as a 6 month rehab process and about $9k in debt, he's bac... | HISTORICAL | {
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qDFnNSAnz5GFZC3pjDlxAHtJoqLyYXIh | 9xgpkf | {
"description": "not shipping my neighbor's package for him",
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} | AITA for not shipping my neighbor’s package for him? | So my neighbor and his wife were very nice to us when we first moved to the neighborhood, brought us wine and brownies and has had us over to their house for snacks and conversation. They’ve lived in the neighborhood for 15+ years and there are other neighbors on the street that have been for same amount of time, if no... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "cussing out my in laws and getting us kicked out of their house",
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} | AITA for cussing out my in laws and getting us kicked out of their house? | I suffer from an illness that causes me to have regular bouts of vertigo. These present as bad balance, walking around stumbling a little bit, needing to steady myself. This same illness also makes me slur my speech on occasion. So the other day I was at a dinner with my wife and her parents and I got up to go to th... | HISTORICAL | {
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sp3gatit9Ckw38m6bg1sYcl9l9XsztRj | a2rtjc | {
"description": "reminding my traumatized gf that I want to have sex with her",
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} | AITA for reminding my traumatized gf that I want to have sex with her? | My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. Within the first month of our dating she told me she had sexual trauma from a past relationship. It was frequent and long term, and as a result she periodically goes through periods of near asexuality.
By the end of the first month we had sex, at her assurance t... | HISTORICAL | {
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zdm1f6YtQ3w1PPTXWOARoXBnptSrCWkT | 9v67pn | {
"description": "asking a girl she was transgender",
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} | WIBTA if I asked a girl she was transgender? | To start off... I'm a heterosexual male into heterosexual/bisexual females, I have nothing against transgendered people but I am not sexually attracted to them.
I matched with a girl on tinder a couple nights ago, got her number pretty quickly and hit it off well. We were talking about a lot of stuff, I mentioned I pl... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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h576zyR14MWAOwoLTTUojM6C4vOEd3QA | asp4po | {
"description": "being upset that my maid keeps taking my clothes",
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} | AITA for being upset that my maid keeps taking my clothes? | Okay just to get this out of the way - I live in a country where it's extremely common to have house help. Context: I'm 19 and live with my parents so they're her employers not me.
So our help has been with us for over 4 years and over the years she's been taking a bunch of clothes from my closet without permission a... | HISTORICAL | {
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w2qiJ5Qd5JsZhoD3B7MwHy4klyoOI0Z2 | b6z1nm | {
"description": "pointing at someone",
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} | AITA for pointing at someone? | Last weekend I was at a convention with some friends. I saw a particularly cool cosplayer and I (literally) pointed them out. You would have thought I raised a gun at the person for the way my friends reacted. They pushed my finger down and jumped all over for me for pointing, telling me how rude I was being. Now I und... | HISTORICAL | {
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AZjWsS0spAXIL1mC9D7CZTfx9KNjznkQ | b0qmsz | {
"description": "getting upset with my best friend for taking photos of two workers at our school",
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} | AITA for getting upset with my best friend for taking photos of two workers at our school? | (Pardon the formatting and on a throwaway account for some reasons)
So my best friend and I have been friends for about 5 years now and since we started high school, she’s been a bit obsessed over these two workers at our high school.
These two are brothers in their mid 30s to early 40s and they’re the social worker... | HISTORICAL | {
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4xvtoH8vs9rHfaA8NLeiGcat8Ug48EMe | ah17mz | {
"description": "dropping a class that my friends are in",
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} | AITA for dropping a class that my friends are in? | This might need context.
I'm a high school student that does well in school and believe I can choose the classes I want. I've been taking judo for a year in a half as an in school class. Most of my friends are in that class and seem to like me being there but after the second year rolls in I seem to lose interest in t... | HISTORICAL | {
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VMbb6Jl3yFb9IA7uwxt1xZr5bUdUl9kg | a71qve | {
"description": "telling two young woman to shut up",
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} | AITA for telling two young woman to shut up? | I'll provide as much context as I can, but details may be slightly hazy.
​
This time of year, as many of you know, is finals week for students across the US, with me being no exception. In 2 hours I will be taking an advanced Calculus final, of which I am woefully underprepared. In an attempt to correct th... | HISTORICAL | {
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jDGUySOGhyEJYIsCnZ7D7cUhvbArT0uJ | ah1dmg | {
"description": "going home with a girl's friend",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for going home with a girl's friend? | This happened about a year ago and still bothers me to this day.
I met a girl on Tinder. One of those 'she's out of my league' type girls, that I am amazed I even had the courage to message (as I rarely do). The conversations went surprisingly well and we seemed to hit it off, so I nervously asked her to get coffee at... | HISTORICAL | {
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2A9toqbkJlNzl1wWm2YHgQXsBtK7QnE0 | 9t6vik | {
"description": "being pissed at BIL for refusing to help",
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} | AITA for being pissed at BIL for refusing to help? | Long post!!! Okay, so a little backstory is required. I'll try to make it quick, promise! So my BIL (my fiances older brother) graduated college in May. He needed somewhere to stay for a few months until he could start a career pertaining to his degree. Cool, my fiance and I have our own house with a spare bedroom, s... | HISTORICAL | {
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7Rgq8aOzKz0fBXSJc8Rez1rCDmO0uthS | aaitkr | {
"description": "mailing a check to my ex to repay them",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA if I mail a check to my ex to repay them? | My ex and I were together for about two years. Out of nowhere they had a depressive episode and things just fell apart. In the following months, I tried to maintain contact. But, things were irreconcilable. During this same time, I abruptly lost my job and became unemployed. I am just now getting back on my feet. Durin... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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2ekxeZ1aTK8sL9iIIEFUYL9GXZK5VeQm | b0ibop | {
"description": "not wanting to go on birthright to Israel",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go on birthright to Israel? | I'm using a throwaway because a few people in this story know my username. I'm going to use fake names.
I'm 23 years old. I was raised Jewish, had a Bar Mitzvah. Both of my parents are Reform Jews, but I am an atheist (they both know this and are fine with it). My best friend, Russell, is also Jewish. All three have g... | HISTORICAL | {
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qESR5D66fAx1xmLCJucOKNhPsxsZficT | b6mjur | {
"description": "not getting my friends a wedding gift",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for not getting my friends a wedding gift? | Two of my friends I've known for a while are getting married this weekend. It's out of town for me so I am getting a hotel for the weekend so I'm not driving all day the day of. The thing is, it's smack dab in the middle of Richmond, Va. During the weekend around a bunch of museums. The hotel costs are almost $500. Tha... | HISTORICAL | {
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bUemvfy3HpmZbs7Jp4QJTh7IuEAszNfu | a8kkm6 | {
"description": "never tipping when I order food to go",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for never tipping when I order food to go? | Let me start by saying I used to be a pizza delivery guy, so I worked for tips and completely understand how it can be. So when I get pizza delivered, or I'm at a restaurant sitting at the table with a waitress/waiter I tip really well. Usuaully at LEAST 25%.
Having said that, when I get a carry-out order, or the one... | HISTORICAL | {
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Nm5dPk5YQNiI4idyAjPhYzxL82yUCS9b | b099a6 | {
"description": "asking my friend to stop following/talking to me constantly",
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} | WIBTA for asking my friend to stop following/talking to me constantly? | Will need to provide context to explain the situation
As a little precursor, I have Aspergers with one thing being for me that too much socialising can really stress me out. I go to uni with a friend I have who I've known for around 4 years at this point. We get on quite well, although there is a very strange habit th... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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HCfflXCMiUiMlsLEebcYPKJTOugO1k3B | auggfz | {
"description": "refusing g to give my niece in law free reading lessons",
"pronormative_score": 13,
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} | AITA for refusing g to give my niece in law free reading lessons? | My husband’s sister (we’ll call her Mandy) is a bitch. She orders everyone around like they’re her own personal servants (even her own mother who enables it), and she’s ALWAYS yelling, talking over people, and trying to control every situation. Simple things like how the family kids open their Christmas presents, how w... | HISTORICAL | {
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lWUOoXhyKjbMXYPiFnVLzlgeIQyxJ5pA | a92vz5 | {
"description": "accidentally making my friend think everyone hates him",
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} | AITA for accidentally making my friend think everyone hates him? | **TLDR;** *Friend that lives in my dorm made me lose the* ***chance*** *for a sought-after job. I told our dorm and later confronted him alone about it, causing him to feel unwelcome.*
Never took a break from studying, meaning I finished high-school then jumped straight to College. Got into a distance-relationship... | HISTORICAL | {
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u7rHaVouvQhygfQ3myfhiN3Y7PdBBNNe | al79xh | {
"description": "going to a fast food restaurant 15 minutes before closing",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for going to a fast food restaurant 15 minutes before closing? | After work, I am exhausted and hungry I work in the outskirts of town and there is only 2 fast food places. One closes at 10 pm and the other 11 pm. I usually get off work and get in the drive-through around 10:40 - 10:45 pm. I can tell from the sound of their voices they hate me with a burning passion. But I am hungry... | HISTORICAL | {
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BwSTb3zyQWRYHvLREfYkWWDhhUUQEgBw | b0op5y | {
"description": "reconsidering my relationship after my boyfriend tells me he doesn't feel love",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for reconsidering my relationship after my boyfriend tells me he doesn't feel love? |
For context: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a bit over a year and he told me from the beginning that he doesn't feel emotions that strongly and has a hard time with empathy/sympathy towards others.
My boyfriend and I were walking through town. He opened up about himself which he doesn't usually do, so I th... | HISTORICAL | {
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R1wjI4y5YL47QdZQNKh6yw3qv22S2c7Q | a5tj5q | {
"description": "being really happy that my best friend is about to break up with her boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for being really happy that my best friend (F) is about to break up with her boyfriend | Context: they were really happy together, but he lost interested in her, he just stopped responding so she is about to break up
I hated him before that, he is egoistic asshole, he buys people friendship because he doesn't know better and very manipulative (take note that this is my opinion, objectively he isnt that ba... | HISTORICAL | {
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TYztuVsHH0gHTK3gWS1mgythmHrjKfjz | b49mwk | {
"description": "asking for a refund on an art piece",
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} | WIBTA If I asked for a refund on an art piece? | I commissioned an artist to do a valentines picture for my boyfriend. Come around to valentines day and its not finished. She told me she had gotten an eye infection and was trying to deal with that and do my art. I'm like its ok, feel better, and that my boyfriend liked what she showed us.
Well now its getting to be... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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cdol9gCTH4V3q3GiD2D4xp4njqGPnOmj | b5gtr8 | {
"description": "saying \"I told him so\" about his Ex",
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} | AITA if I said "I told him so" about his Ex | Okay, so here is some backstory.
I was cheated on by my ex-girlfriend. She was sending pictures to other guys, flirting and touching with other guys behind my back. My close friend, C,, before me, got cheated on by this same girl, and he told me about it. Being dumb, I still ended up dating her anyways because at the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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mc9Xqevb2k42Dzaz6XqZlCjvl5IlCAFN | axcu03 | {
"description": "not giving my dad's wife the stupidly expensive necklace he wanted me to give her after he passed away",
"pronormative_score": 134,
"contranormative_score": 135
} | AITA for not giving my dad's wife the stupidly expensive necklace he wanted me to give her after he passed away? | Throwaway because some friends follow my main account.
Basically my dad cheated on my mom with this woman. My mom found out and they split up, then he started letting this woman live with him. She slowly tried to cut us out of the picture. Luckily my dad didn't give into her shit and stayed in our lives.
My dad got d... | HISTORICAL | {
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1MCNVfAUXA7WEmUjHh797OnK5JJcccwg | b1tr3a | {
"description": "using tears to make my point",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA if I use tears to make my point? | I’m in a relationship where the other person is really really frustrating me by always being inconsiderate and never putting any effort in to show me she cares at all about me.
I’ve tried numerous times to talk to her like mature adults and let her know how I feel but she really doesn’t seem to care
When I think abou... | HISTORICAL | {
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QsQOmob6t3csAL48q68WsFM7Ri5oVy50 | agr10n | {
"description": "not wanting my future children to spend significant time with my future in-laws",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not wanting my future children to spend significant time with my future in-laws? | I recently had this argument with my girlfriend of 4 years.
Background: my girlfriend had a very rough childhood, with a neglectful father and emotionally/(sometimes, though rarely) physically abusive mother (note: the parents are divorced). The stories my girlfriend told me about them are nothing short of horrible, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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9w5pgdtoQkWPY2KHQYNXwOpgZ0kOEPk3 | aysn76 | {
"description": "being fed up with ex roomie's \"depression\"",
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} | AITA for being fed up with ex roomie's "depression"? | Last summer I (F28) took in a roomie (F18). This girl, "Amy", was starting uni and with the semester one month away she still hadn't found housing. Her mother contacted me, and I took her in.
Things went well to begin with. Amy told me she had depression. I struggle myself, so I was accommodating towards her, taking o... | HISTORICAL | {
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O8Pv4nm9OD9UY21tlFZ8b9KZCAQEvivL | a3cg0x | {
"description": "taking back my UNICEF donation",
"pronormative_score": 185,
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} | AITA for taking back my UNICEF donation? | This past Halloween my family was going to go trick-or-treating so I offered to stay behind and give out candy. My parents live in an upper middle class neighborhood so families from other areas go there to get better candy, which we totally welcome and support. We usually just hold up a big bowl full of candy that kid... | HISTORICAL | {
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JG5rRmqErv3MvHQX1CfrBYizzcvlK02o | aszf1p | {
"description": "asking my bf to stop watching porn",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for asking my BF to stop watching porn? | So boyfriend and I have been having some trouble clicking in the bedroom, I have a higher drive than him, and it has caused a lot of disputes for the past 2 years. Today i found out that he's been watching porn and masturbating everyday and admits that he has a slight addiction starting a couple months ago. The DISRESP... | HISTORICAL | {
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mvFpPlsPARAWBEQ4MV7LkYYKXYvhRG8i | 9wbqco | null | AITA: My friend is asking me for a big favor but I keep refusing | To be specific, my friend is asking me to drive him to his mother's house so he can insulate the water pipes since winter is coming. The issue is that his mom's house is 100 miles away and a two hour drive. When I told him that I didn't want to drive that far, he got upset that I "wouldn't take five hours of my day" to... | HISTORICAL | {
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XCSn5tbyCZzIKmF7u4QQNBVh2mOdQX4z | aeaw4t | {
"description": "defending my right to call myself an American, even if people from Southern/central american countries call me out for this",
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} | AITA for defending my right to call myself an American, even if people from Southern/Central American countries call me out for this? | I was born in the United States. For the past two years I've been living in France. When people me ask where I'm from, I usually say, 'I'm American.' I've met a bunch of people from South/Central American countries these past two years, and several of them have gotten upset when I have called myself 'American.' They ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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OqgOuS25yhvu8FhIK04Jf9dLuVD0car3 | aac6eo | {
"description": "not wanting to be with a girl after a few weeks of texting",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting to be with a girl after a few weeks of texting? | Last semester I sat next to a girl every Wednesday in our history class. On the last day of class before finals she asked me if I could show her around campus. She was a senior but she literally only went to campus for school then went home. I didn't have anything to do so I obliged.
I showed her all around the campus... | HISTORICAL | {
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EHYXDCMPfOqmVRfuQqBwzIXadcED6mxP | a71m5p | {
"description": "refusing an Ambulance after Doctor insisted on it",
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} | AITA for Refusing an Ambulance after Doctor Insisted on it? | I went to my doctor because what felt like a pimple forming had, in less than 24 hours, swelled and paralyzed the muscles on the right side of my face. My doctor decided I was having a stroke and insisted that I take an ambulance to the hospital. She would not listen to reason; as I insisted it was NOT a stroke due ... | HISTORICAL | {
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v8c8uM420Ko58wxdAlxcuV968J3rtKrz | b5ewzi | {
"description": "not responding to texts during class and not letting my sister use my computer",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not responding to texts during class and not letting my sister use my computer? | So I’ve begin to notice recently that my mom is an entitled parent and my younger sister is an entitled child. Now neither of them have grown up amazing but still. They act super entitled to things about me.
The first thing I noticed was my computer I got for Christmas. I asked for it so I could write more as I want to... | HISTORICAL | {
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uVNE4kun6fPyVRmmMOWPJaBnEAfgGQtD | apyn0c | null | UPDATE-AITA for kicking a girl off our airsoft team for not following our rules. Update is we had our meeting and I sincerely took feedback from r/AITA into meeting. | I got permission from the moderators to update and I wanted to share what happened.
Here is the original if you didn’t see it yesterday:
https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/apiwrd/aita_for_kicking_a_girl_off_my_airsoft_team/
Since people had things tonight we agreed to meet over lunch and all but 3 peo... | HISTORICAL | {
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86pDIR72QGOd9hQ4qzuq4gsOVbLoY9Fa | 9ugqhi | {
"description": "asking my friends to stop saying the n word",
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} | AITA for asking my friends to stop saying the n word. | I have a couple of friends (all white M early 20s, UK) who helped me out a couple of weeks ago, letting me crash on their coach while I searched for an apartment after moving to a new city. They are overall, nice guys. However both of them use "n***er" extremely liberally to describe black people and other racial epith... | HISTORICAL | {
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qXjR3vdF16ZUemcmXAmUQ4JvI84tyYJw | b173tm | {
"description": "rehoming one of my pet parrots",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | WIBTA: if i rehomed one of my pet parrots? | Ok so i have 7 parrots. Its not too much at all. However, one has developed serious agression problems that i cant seem to train out. She will fly up and bite my face. Will cackle after biting. Will go into other bird cages and refuse to come out. And its just an all around problem. I have a hard time so much as openin... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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No3aYRKhnWkcng7QY9AeQoJNMi0qMsd3 | ajiru4 | {
"description": "being mad at my friend that she talks to her boyfriend 24/7",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for being mad at my friend that she talks to her boyfriend 24/7? | So, here's the thing. I've known my friend for about 6 months now, but we practically have spent every waking hour together since not only do we go to the same college, were housemates, and we took the same classes. Pretty much I'm always around her therefor, and because of this, we have gotten to know each other reall... | HISTORICAL | {
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dnmlT78pruTbAIUxge7KWV7Xt7Kbm8Lt | aq42yj | {
"description": "snitching in my sister",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for snitching in my sister? | Fairly recently my sister and here friends went out for a bit and I thought nothing of it as you would normally.
About an hour and a half later my sister comes into my room sobbing saying there was a police car (uk)
I asked her what happened and apparently they thought it would be funny to break down a door that see... | HISTORICAL | {
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p3kXw79PB9ioJcapaUypC5vG3QyQ02Ww | as57y4 | null | AITA checker that works for the same company got mad at my goodbye? | Went shopping with my Mom at a store location belonging to my employer, love the company.
As we go to check out, it is crowded. I will be Uvi91 and A.F. the checker Anxious Fool.
Uvi 91 :Hi.
AF: How are you doing tonight?
Uvi: Good.
I was tired and didn't get into conversation with her. Being sleepy I started to y... | HISTORICAL | {
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FFTZAxCUIpxSGZGUDLWpHnCtYxtQnHXv | a5d8am | {
"description": "\"half\" accepting my mom's apology after she belittled me",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA because I "half" accepted my mom's apology after she belittled me | My parents have been going through what has seemed like a divorce, except it's going on 3 years now of conflict. Basically, my mom feels that a friendship my dad had with a woman was further than he says it was. She thinks it was a full blown affair. He's admitted that he became too close and talked to her too often, b... | HISTORICAL | {
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I8K8ABkhqeMK5fJJosLsNs7PkLliXxaG | b5jueq | {
"description": "not wanting to being dads caretaker",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for not wanting to being dads caretaker | I'll try and shorten it. My dad has severe anxiety/depression/vision issues along with a lot of other medical problems that make it very difficult for him to operate on a day to day basis. Along with being his caretaker I work and go to school online. I dedicate most of my free time to him and am up at crazy hours when... | HISTORICAL | {
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ucTMdr1ne0RAYSzE1NvhzPaVw4Gr1xqN | a099ce | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend when she stopped hanging out with her friends",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend when she stopped hanging out with her friends? | **TLDR: My ex refused to hang out with her friends instead of me, and sees being alone with the opposite sex as something shady. I consider spending time with friends and the opposite sex to be healthy, and broke it off.**
I have a very close and tactile relationship with my friends that includes hugging and cuddling,... | HISTORICAL | {
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z5pZ5iiUO9DxNwYNJ5fdnGO1wEDT8zQd | am30t3 | {
"description": "telling my husband to come home",
"pronormative_score": 81,
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} | AITA for telling my husband to come home? | Long story short, my husband has had multiple affairs. Our therapist told us that he needs to be willing to be held accountable and that we need to set up guidelines for him to follow for awhile, to rebuild trust. So, with our therapist, we come up with, for one month, he should be home by 10 and that he shouldn't drin... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 81,
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} | RIGHT |
6Qwl3ohT9A0PvdaFkd37NjyMEc1QuLxX | 9wl0zk | {
"description": "being mad at my flatmate, cause she was uppity in my opinion, in an already cold relationship",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for being mad at my flatmate, cause she was uppity in my opinion, in an already cold relationship? |
Hey guys. I am a 25 year old male and live with two girls, both 28 in a 3-room flat. We are living together for a year now, and my relationship to the girls are very different. Let´s call ´em Ann and Mir. I have a good relationship to Ann and would consider her a friend. We talk about our issues, have fun together, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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506hIhcnNlpkCaXIyWRKtUf5BudM9CsL | a8z0f2 | {
"description": "laughing at my short friend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA For laughing at my short friend? | So, just a few hours ago I laughed at my short friend. AITA?
(TLDR at the bottom)
So, I (M19), was with my friend, (M18), at a small convention hosted at my local mall. We were walking around, mainly talking and buying a couple items before we found a carnival around the back. We decided to give it a try. We tried th... | HISTORICAL | {
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L7dF8m81zWeI46O45XQFoaQGyH03QLNv | ajyxew | {
"description": "mentioning casually while talking about periods with my boyfriend and our roommate that I free bleed and my boyfriend has taken it to this level that insults me",
"pronormative_score": 78,
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} | AITA: I mentioned casually while talking about periods with my boyfriend and our roommate that I free bleed and my boyfriend has taken it to this level that insults me. | Apparently I’m gross for doing this and I’m not acting like an adult because I don’t want to spend my money on tampons. He is so worried that I’ll bleed on everything but for the past 6 months or more I’ve been doing it and even though I haven’t stained anything except for my underwear he’s still all worked up about ho... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
UjzkGBzKz2fJ0BLIMZcMQWMqyixB9geX | aimh29 | {
"description": "cranking my Sub Woofers with my girlfriend's son in the car",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for cranking my Sub Woofers with my girlfriend's son in the car? | I am not that great of a writer so please bear with me as I try to start this out. I am 26, ex US Army going to college in a town near where I grew up. I just started dating a single mother about 2 weeks ago and it's like instant chemistry with all three of us. The boy's dad is an absolute dead beat, and being US Army ... | HISTORICAL | {
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7SkgieyJWGCAlyVKz0N6YGcxYycQ0sDT | adbjpu | {
"description": "making a Nabka/War of Independence Joke",
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} | AITA For Making a Nabka/War of Independence Joke? | I recently went to various countries in the Middle East with a university program, Israel being one of them. I posted a picture of me in Israel on Instagram where the caption was a joke referencing how Israel somehow beat 5 other sovereign nations in Nabka. As background, I am currently a university student, and the un... | HISTORICAL | {
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STFKlxa9NeLgu4papPO96oYDlZp556f1 | a8jv6d | {
"description": "not allowing my grandfathers enablers at his funeral",
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} | AITA for not allowing my grandfathers enablers at his funeral | Sorry for the long post but this is a mess. My grandfather died last week and although we had a good relationship growing up we have been estranged for 10 years as he was an abusive alcoholic.
During those ten years, his neighbours stepped in to “help” by buying him alcohol and taking his money.
He died in horrible... | HISTORICAL | {
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oDaP6tFDmmufVuF4uKCHXwXvikPYyDGu | avsos6 | {
"description": "expecting someone to show up to practice",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for expecting someone to show up to practice? | Here’s the story. I’ve been the vocalist for a band for about a year now. We are a three piece, including myself, the drummer and our guitar player. We ended up renting a small rehearsal space for quite a bit of money. The reason for this is because we had no other option for a place to rehearse, and this one was close... | HISTORICAL | {
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E6IB9xr8UOMZU69W5dv13uQEpX0EhlUm | az5y3k | {
"description": "wanting to tell my friend that she should stop humble bragging whenever she talks about school and grades",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for wanting to tell my friend that she should stop humble bragging whenever she talks about school and grades? | My (16M) friend (15F) and I are both sophomores in different high schools. It's worth noting that her school has "valedictorian" and "salutatorian" titles for each grade and not just seniors.
So my friend and I were talking via SMS about school in general the other day, and she brought up how she was essentially faili... | HISTORICAL | {
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OaQzd6MiWSmAXzGJFWqeCK05TxX60U0V | ath5n0 | {
"description": "telling a person to stop because he was holding his arm over my shoulder",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling a person to stop because he was holding his arm over my shoulder? | On mobile, yadda yadda all that stuff. Context: There's this dude in my class who hates me and is a douchecanoe, not like grade-a douche but still a douche. He is also one of the popular kids. He also thinks im gay. My friend who's a friend of the douche told me that he hates me because I reflexively called him bitch ... | HISTORICAL | {
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GTmQhdqPyPWQxMyl5KBJBZcnaAKv3Otc | awlgx1 | {
"description": "not wanting my living space to be designed like a unicorn's 'flower power' puke",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting my living space to be designed like a unicorn’s ‘flower power’ puke? | Hey guys, I’m a little lost in terms of whether or not I’m being a jerk by getting slightly upset in this scenario. Please let me know AITA.
I am a 27 year old woman and about 6 months ago I got out of an abusive relationship, got clean, went to rehab, and dramatically changed my life for the better. When I got out ... | HISTORICAL | {
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sCdR7TcE5I1sXMFheLOsSCQXTqPcS1E5 | b3imjh | {
"description": "getting mad at my friend for forgetting a deal we made",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for getting mad at my friend for forgetting a deal we made? | Yesterday my friend and I were playing a video game of mine at his place. When it was time for me to leave I was going to take it with me but he was insistent that I leave it for him to play overnight. I didn’t want to do this but we ended up making a deal that he would get me food at his job tomorrow when I pick him u... | HISTORICAL | {
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HMqY4omIFqvluG9CQu7bM5477GH4Z8f7 | ba2tgk | {
"description": "arguing with the Wal-Mart greeter",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for arguing with the Wal-Mart greeter? | When walking out of the Wal-Mart after purchasing my things, I walked by the Wal-Mart greeter without showing my receipt to them. I was carrying a small bath rug in one hand and the rest of my things in a bag. She asked for my receipt, and I thought about just walking away and ignoring her, but something clicked inside... | HISTORICAL | {
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VoYUXWdbTinxCJXlNDAM8dnE5tghSgOA | b9whjf | {
"description": "coming out to my extended family even though my parents don't want me to",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | WIBTA for coming out to my extended family even though my parents don't want me to? | I (25F) came out to my parents (50s M/F) when I was a sophomore in college. They are extremely religious, and while I thought it was kind of obvious that I was gay, my announcement came as a huge shock to them. I'll spare you the details, but basically while they didn't threaten physical violence or kick me out of the ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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XD5EepBUHGny9w8l3M1A2oyKKm4OgXLd | a3vtcj | {
"description": "jokingly making a witty comeback against a coworker",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for jokingly making a witty comeback against a coworker? | Throwaway since work people know my main.
Backstory, I work in a team of 8 in IT. We all are good friends and make jokes all the time. The people that have been on the team will make jokes about anything and some are terrible but that’s what’s funny. Nothing racist or anything like that, mostly jokes about how “oh you... | HISTORICAL | {
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aRfUGBIP7HOazwPUwtLn4NIubu4tZKBj | ajw65d | {
"description": "accidentally making my friend mad",
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} | AITA for accidentally making my friend mad? | Me and my friend usually screw around with each other a lot. It's just the nature of our friendship and there have never really been any real problems between us. He usually intentionally annoys other people just to get a rouse out of them and everyone does it back, admittedly me the most. We're extremely close and we ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
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