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{ "description": "vetoing my husband's name choice for our child", "pronormative_score": 338, "contranormative_score": 40 }
AITA for vetoing my husband's name choice for our child?
My husband and I were having trouble agreeing on a name for our daughter, so we decided we'd each pick one and then decide which arrangement sounded better to determine which name would be a first name and which would be the middle. It wasn't an in depth conversation so we didn't discuss vetoes or anything. I genuinely...
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{ "description": "not telling my bf what's in the fridge", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not telling my bf what's in the fridge?
Today my (25F) boyfriend (27M) asked me yet again what's good to eat in our fridge instead of just getting up from the couch and checking for himself. I don't like it when he does that and I've explained that it makes me feel like I'm mothering him. The whole thing blew up into a fight and now he's not talking to me....
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{ "description": "having a boyfriend that's 5 years younger than me", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having a boyfriend that's 5 years younger than me?
I'm 24. In late spring of last year, I met someone online that I found out I had a lot in common with. We kept chatting for a while, and he revealed that he was 18 (19 now). In the summer, he revealed that he had begun developing feelings for me, and wanted to pursue a relationship with me. I was a bit hesitant at firs...
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{ "description": "laughing at my teammates' lateness", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for laughing at my teammates’ lateness
I am very awkward in social situations. I am quiet and I’ve been asked by multiple people whom I’ve never spoken to if I’m mad at them because apparently my extreme shyness translates to a look of hatred. But I do not hate anyone I’ve gone to school with. I’m just socially inept. But this is the way I’m perceived. Gi...
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{ "description": "not wanting a second child due to Autism", "pronormative_score": 69, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting a second child due to Autism?
Today my wife and I found out our young son has Autism. Apparently it is only officially diagnosable at 4 years old but the specialist took one look at our boy, made us answer some questions and said without a doubt our son is Autistic. As upsetting as it is, I saw it coming. Call it intuition or just knowing what the ...
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{ "description": "roasting my mother", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For roasting my Mother?
Background Info: My parents have been divorced as long as I can remember and I have been living with my Dad for about 7 years now and I would say that me and my mom get along pretty good after having some beef a while back. Also I'm 20 years old. ​ So I have a dog that basically lives at my moms place sinc...
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AITA in the story between me and my sister?
So this happend a long time ago but my sister is still blaming me. First of all, I'm male. At the time, I was 26 and she was 23 then. We both graduated from college and we lived apart from each other in the city (Hanoi), away from our hometown where my parents live. One afternoon, she asked me to take her around the c...
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{ "description": "temporarily blocking my \"best friend\"", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for temporarily blocking my "best friend"
I could go on and on but I'll try to be quick. I had this friend online for probably a year, things seemed fine until he started to tell me multiple stories of drama and love triangles he was somehow involved in. These stories always seemed to have a similar type of girl, the damaged, depressed, lonely... You get the p...
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{ "description": "spending a bill I had reason to suspect was counterfeit", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for spending a bill I had reason to suspect was counterfeit?
I've been travelling in Spain, and short story, I got scammed but was handed 30 euros as "change". If you want the full story because your curious or think its critical for context you can check my post history, where I posted about the experience. After I posted said story, a redditor pointed out "that 20 euro note ...
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{ "description": "cutting ties with my married female boss", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting ties with my married female boss.
So it happened like this that in the last project I worked, I had an excellent rapport with my female boss, who was married, it even got to the point where we were little touch feely but nothing major happened, but I guess we were having an emotional affair. We confessed to each other mutually this attraction or whate...
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{ "description": "requesting my partner reject a tinder date", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For requesting my partner (25M) reject a tinder date
I’m on mobile so I apologize in advance for formatting. Also a fake account since he uses Reddit as well. My (23F) significant other (25M) is a talented portrait photographer, he’s always kept his tinder account simply as a way to get business from girls who want pictures for their instagrams. I know some people ma...
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{ "description": "not apologising to my ex for making her 'feel bad' for kissing me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not apologising to my ex for making her 'feel bad' for kissing me?
So disclaimer, on mobile so if it's formatted weird or whatever, I'm sorry. Context: I'm currently attending a highschool my mates and I are pretty gay. We have a few less boundaries than normal friends would. my best friend, which I'll call Beth, kiss, hug, etc It's nothing romantic, we're just close. Its kinda th...
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{ "description": "wanting a ring", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting a ring?
It's a long story, so I'm going to try to keep it as short as possible with as many details as possible. My SO (28m) and I (25f) have been together for almost 7 years. We have a child together, live together, and share all our bills/money. Financially, it wouldnt make sense for us to get married. Our health insurance,...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to cancel plans with her sister who is sick while I'm recovering from surgery", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to cancel plans with her sister who is sick while I'm recovering from surgery?
I just had hernia repair surgery and am in my first day of recovery - I'm in a lot of pain. I'm scheduled to be out of work for two weeks. My girlfriend had plans to go see a show with her sister tomorrow night. To be fair, the show was scheduled before my surgery. But her sister has some undiagnosed illness, and if I ...
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{ "description": "calling out my teacher", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for Calling out my Teacher
My teacher thinks interest is where you pay the bank for storing money in your account. I informed them they were wrong and was promptly sent out of the room. I did not leave the room, and went batshit on her and questioned her sobriety for misinforming children.
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{ "description": "not stopping when I saw a woman being attacked", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not stopping when I saw a woman being attacked?
Going back 10 years I was driving (I am a truck driver) through a dark area when I saw a woman run out from the cover and start waving frantically. Then something or most likely someone pulled her back struggling into the bushes. Fearing it was a trap of some kind I kept driving onto the next stop and then phoned the p...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up w/ my gf of about 4 months", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Wanting to Break Up W/ my GF of about 4 months?
So, I don't really want to disclose my exact grade, not entirely for privacy reasons, but also just because it's kind of embarrassing. All I'll say is that I'm around being a HS Freshman. ​ Anywhoozy doozy, I'll keep this story short. When we first got together we were pretty happy. We've been together for...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pick up my son every weekend if it means driving 200 miles round trip each time", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not wanting to pick up my son every weekend if it means driving 200 miles round trip each time?
Backstory: I(M) have a son(10) with an ex-girlfriend. We have been broken up for about 8 years and have both moved on in our own lives. About 5 years ago, she met the man who she is currently married to while working in the County right underneath where we are from. She married the guy, moved down there with him, whi...
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{ "description": "throwing my best friends out of a party", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for throwing my best friends out of a party?
Using my old account for this (also please excuse my poor english, since it’s not my native language). (I should say that we are 25-30 years old). My and the bf were invited to a small party at new years by his old high school friend (lets call her Tina) . It would be more of a formal thing, than full on house party. ...
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{ "description": "putting my mom on a diet", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
aita if I put my mom on a diet
So my mom never developed good eating habits, and I think because of her, I’ve made a big effort in my life to learn to cook and eat healthy. I’m also a SAHM and very much enjoy meal prepping and planning, her meals were always roast beef, chicken, potatoes, corn and/or peas growing up, or stuff from a box/freezer. We ...
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{ "description": "not agreeing with my sister's crazy baby drama", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not agreeing with my sister’s crazy baby drama?
No she’s not crazy, per se, that she argues with her boyfriend over their son. Because it’s not that kind of baby drama, rather than she gets super jealous of other people boasting about their babies. So first off, my nephews first name initial is E, and my sister calls him her “little e”. She had some girl on Snapchat...
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{ "description": "getting pissed at my family for smoking pot in the house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting pissed at my family for smoking pot in the house?
Disclaimer: I do not dislike pot. I’m a huge supporter of it, but I’m trying to get in to the navy. Also, my UN has nothing to do with this, just an old throw away. Anyway, as I said, I’m trying to get in to the military. I’m going to MEPS tomorrow and I have to get a piss test. My dad and my brothers girlfriend smoke...
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{ "description": "not wanting to press the \"are you okay\" question", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to press the "are you okay" question?
I got into a super interesting debate with a childhood friend today. I said that if I say "are you okay" to someone and they say "yes," I am not going to press it further even if the person is super depressed and mopey looking. My friend said that sometimes people want to be pressed so that they can talk about it, so...
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{ "description": "pointing out my friend's blackheads", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I point out my friend’s blackheads?
Ok I know this sounds bad but hear me out. One of my closest friends has a problem with blackheads all over his face. I’ve known him for over a year and they’ve been there pretty much that whole time. It’s nothing crazy, there’s only about 5 or 6, but they are pretty big and noticeable and very obviously blackheads tha...
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{ "description": "wanting to see the girls", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to see the girls?
Growing up I had gotten along with most of my family pretty well, however there was one cousin that I got along with more than others. We'll call him Adam for anonymity. Adam and I didn't really hang out until into our twenties, but we were the cousins that were similar in age growing up so we hung out at family gather...
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{ "description": "telling a coworker who has rsv that she should stay home or at least stay away from me", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA- I told a coworker who has RSV that she should stay home or at least stay away from me.
On mobile and typing quickly so I apologize for any spelling/grammatical/formatting issues. Context- I have a 5 month old son. My coworker “Jane” has a son who is a few months older than mine. We had a catered lunch today and when Jane came up to get food she was eating right next to me. Jane looked like crap, red ...
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{ "description": "getting with my roommate's crush", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I get with my roommate's crush?
20/M here. Roommate is 19/M. His crush is a 18/F freshman. We all go to the same university. Me and the girl have been kind of an acquaintances before she got into university. My roommate openly expressed his attraction for the girl to me. They recently got to know each other a few days ago. Me and the girl are takin...
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{ "description": "not visiting my sick uncle", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not visiting my sick uncle?
My uncle has lived with my grandmother for his whole life, not really helping in the household, and mostly just watching TV and drinking beer. Every time me and my brother would visit grandma's house we would barely get a mumbled, grumpy hello from him, then be ignored. He honestly makes me uncomfortable. A few we...
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{ "description": "telling a limp (person) to get up from our assigned seats which are technically assigned for the disabled", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling a limp (person) to get up from our assigned seats which are technically assigned for the disabled?
AITA? So i was watching a movie at the theater with my girlfriend the other night. The theater policy goes that ones allowed to buy seats assigned to those with disabilities whens the movie starts previewing trailors. So thats exactly what we did we waited for 10 mins until 8:45pm got 2 tickets which were in the disabl...
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{ "description": "sacrificing a 4-year relationship to music", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sacrificing a 4-year relationship to music?
Ok, so I (25M) have recently made a decision to give up on a 4-year relationship with 24F in order to start making music and to transform it into my main activity. It was my first long relationship, and it was not smooth sometimes, but I loved her and still do. Or maybe I think I do. So our first year was alright, ...
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{ "description": "cancelling a trip to see my dad for the first time in 10 years because he wanted to get married", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cancelling a trip to see my dad for the first time in 10 years because he wanted to get married?
Hello. I've really been struggling with this... So my dad has been in prison since a week after my 10th birthday. His brother has been helping him out and for awhile was pressuring my family to get us to have a relationship. My uncle finally stopped when I told the family that I would cut anyone out who tried to pressu...
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AITA Fro being a guy and going into the girls bathroom to get papertowels?
This happened this morning after class. So after class I went to the bathroom to take a piss and there were some guys in there I knew so I made sure to wash my hands this time. Yeah I know I it's clean to always wash your hands after pissing but I know my dick is clean and if anything I should wash my dick after pissin...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my long distance girlfriend for sleeping over at a friends house on my second to last day at home", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting mad at my long distance girlfriend for sleeping over at a friends house on my second to last day at home?
I (20M) go to college 9 hours away from my home state where my girlfriend (19F) lives. We started dating over the summer and have kept our relationship running smoothly through the fall semester. Winter break has been the first time we’ve been together for more than a week since college started in August. I leave to go...
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AITA for not wanted to talk to my mother about my mental health?
For context I am a 15 (almost 16) year old girl and a sophomore in high school, in this last year I have been suicidal and I’ve been feeling really depressed and my anxiety has gotten way worse over time. I asked my mom a few months ago if I could see a therapist or psychiatrist or whatever because I really wanted help...
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{ "description": "not taking my friends home after going to the mall", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not taking my friends home after going to the mall?
I have four friends: I drive my own car, two friends drive their own car, one could but doesn't drive, and the other doesn't drive at all. The two that don't drive usually bum a ride off of this one guy who drives (he will be R) and the other that drives (H) sometimes takes them home but not often. I never take them h...
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AITA Girlfriends family doesn’t want us to share a tent at the family camp out
First time ever posting on reddit but I really need some outside perspective on this! Ok so here is the background, my girlfriend’s family has a family camp out every year. Last year while at the camp out my girlfriend and I weren’t allowed to share a tent as, apparently her parents/aunts etc thought it would be inapp...
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{ "description": "refusing to help my brother collect chopped wood", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to help my brother collect chopped wood?
Every Christmas, my family goes up to my great uncle’s cabin in the mountains. On Christmas morning, my brother and I are given the task to replace all of the wood that was used in the fireplace. Usually, we need to stack wood 5 feet wide and 6 feet tall. Last year, however, my brother got mad, (we don’t exactly know w...
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{ "description": "being frustrated with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being frustrated with my boyfriend?
Background: last relationship ended after 5 months (second chance with high school boyfriend, 7 years later) because he literally stopped texting me. Ghosted. He’d sustained a trauma, refused any form of help, and shut me out. This occurred in late November but draaaagggggggeeeeddddddd through December because I kept t...
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{ "description": "letting my 5 y/o son have a little bit of my beer", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for letting my 5 y/o son have a little bit of my beer?
So I often drink a couple of beers after work to wind down (not every day, but it’s a normal thing for me). Tonight I was watching tv and my son asked if he could try some. I held the bottle and let him have a small sip. I thought he might spit it out but he just kind of made a small face and that was it. My wife was...
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{ "description": "standing up for my hobbies", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 19 }
AITA for standing up for my hobbies?
My Girlfriend and I have been together for two years and it's been great overall. We're both gamers but have different game preferences. She prefers single player games and I'm more into MMOs. I raid Tuesday, Wednesday and Saturday and she's been okay with it. Her mom came into town on Saturday and we saw her on Sunday...
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{ "description": "not giving anymore money to mother", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving anymore money to mother?
So some background here I've been working a 9 to 5 job for almost 5 years since I was 16 and I've been paid reasonably well. I pay rent towards my parents which equals out to around £550 per month. It's fair to say my mother is somewhat bad with money and sometimes needs the odd £50 to get something paid off or fi...
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{ "description": "wanting my friends to make more effort", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my friends to make more effort?
I've recently started a different college to my friends and we insisted that we'd stay in touch despite not seeing each other as much. However, every time I bring up that we should make plans they say "yeah" and don't make any contribution. I feel like I'm expected to plan everything, but I'm very unmotivated consideri...
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{ "description": "calling out my friend for what I consider to be really disrespectful behaviour", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for calling out my friend for what I consider to be really disrespectful behaviour?
One of my roommates is also one of my best friends. I love her to pieces, but she sometimes acts in a way that I find to be incredibly disrespectful and upsetting. She has a really bad habit of making plans, and then at the time of the plans she’ll be doing something else, and not responding to my texts, essentially le...
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AITA Broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years.
So, my highschool sweet heart and i have been together for 5 long years. Last Thursday I ended the relationship due to my best friend messaging me informing me that he made her uncomfortable by walking with her side by side with his hand on her waist. Not once but twice. Ex boyfriend says that I'm blowing this out of p...
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{ "description": "slapping my Aunt back after she slapped me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for slapping my Aunt back after she slapped me?
This happened 2-3 years ago, I was 15 years old. We got a house and aunt decides to live with us for a few months. Months prior to her slapping me, we had a massive argument. At that argument, I admit, I was being a bratty 15 year old, I got mad at her for complaining about how I burnt the rice I was cooking and we ...
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AITA over not being a functioning human at 0330
Bit of back ground my gf and I work almost opposite shifts I work 0400-1400 she works 1200-2200 both Monday through Friday, (yay for weekends) I tend to stay up till she gets home from work to spend some time with her in and nap in the afternoon to get a few extra hours sleep, I get up for work about 0315 and we recen...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my so is \"flirting\" with other people", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for getting upset that my SO is “flirting” with other people?
Sorry for any formatting issues, I’m on mobile. So, long story short, we haven’t been doing all that well recently because I genuinely HAVE been an asshole for a good chunk of the year. Anger issues, it’s not fun. I’m working on trying to see a therapist as it currently stands but setting up a new doctors appointmen...
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{ "description": "holding this grudge against my dad from a decade ago", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for holding this grudge against my dad from a decade ago
Ten years ago my stepmom accused me of stealing money from my stepbrother. I was 19 at that time, my stepbrother is a month younger. The whole thing was a set up, my stepmom told me it was. She and I had a fight the day before and she told me to just watch what she can do. The next day I got back from work and was met ...
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{ "description": "giving them a reason to uninvite me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for giving them a reason to uninvite me?
My dad's side of the family is kind of a lot and to be honest, I don't like spending time with them. We don't agree on politics, religion, or basically anything. I see them twice a year, give or take. They get a little drunk and loud and judgmental. I try to change the subject to neutral topics like baking so that we c...
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AITA dad won't let me sit on the sofa
i can be a messy person but never on purpose, i'm just really clumsy and drop stuff. about a year ago i ruined my dad's carpet by dropping soda on it and stained a suit jacket of his when i borrowed it. i'm trying to get better at being more careful. dad has a no eating on the furniture rule because our living room s...
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{ "description": "cheating on my abusive gf", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for cheating on my abusive gf?
I was in a long distance relationship with a girl (I'll call her Mary. She started taking over my life and my time, to a point where I was in my phone at family gatherings, parties, etc. Not only did she consume my time, she also started to try and stop some friendships, specificaly, this girl (Rebecca). We were fr...
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{ "description": "not wanting to open my birthday present first thing when I received it", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA when I didn’t want to open my birthday present first thing when I received it?
Today is my birthday. And I’m working at home. I set my alarm early, dragged my laptop to bed with me, and began the complicated process of signing into my work servers. I was doing this, still half asleep. My husband comes from the bathroom, goes to the closet and brings me a gift bag, setting it beside me in the be...
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{ "description": "not wanting to carry my roommate's drink", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not wanting to carry my roommate’s drink?
I live with a good friend from college. Tonight, we were driving home, and he had gotten some Burger King from a drive-thru — none of the food was mine. When we get home, he takes his bag of food out with him, but asks me to grab his drink so he can have a free hand to lock the car (we were in his car). When we get out...
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AITA: Feud With Season Ticket Holder In Front Of Me
Here's the situation: I have very expensive basketball season tickets. There is a gentleman in front of me that is constantly blocking my view of the games. Now, I don't think I'm some uptight guy that expects the people in front of me to remain seated the entire game like it's a classical music concert or play, but I...
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{ "description": "not being able to take a joke", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being able to take a joke?
Just for some background, in my (high school) science class, we are arranged in table groups with four people per group. We typically do labs and other class activities with the people in our groups. There’s this guy in my group, I’ll call him J, that is easy to get along with and likes to joke around. One of his go to...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my boyfriend because he kisses his friends when he's drunk", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset with my boyfriend because he kisses his friends when he’s drunk?
When my boyfriend gets drunk he will try and kiss his friends and sometimes succeed. Most of his guy friends will try and back away no guys really try and kiss him back nor do they go up to him and do the same thing. I got a little upset because I don’t want him to kiss anyone no matter if it’s a guy or girl considerin...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help out my older classmate", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to help out my older classmate?
It might not seem that bad but I’ve been doing it for the past two semesters and I’m at my limit. So I’m in my junior year of college and I’m a “traditional student” (I’m 20). My classmate is a non-traditional student and she’s 40 with four children all under 12. We’re both majoring in public health. I find the mat...
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{ "description": "wanting nothing to do with my sibling's lives", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting nothing to do with my sibling's lives?
I'll try and summarize the best I can. To give a few starting details; I'm a 21yo male living in Canada. Been living alone since I was 16, had a rough upbringing. Military father thought it was okay to take out his anger, stress and PTSD on his son by mentally, emotionally and physically abusing him. Punching, kicking...
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AITA :Sold Nephew's Xbox360 I bought for them after his mom threatened them to smash it into floor
Back into 2006 when Xbox 360 was brand new I bought one for my nephews. Months later both of them stopped going to school , one high school and one college devoting 90% of their lives to it and ignoring all responsibilities, household chores , hygiene, working my sister fed up warned them about smashing it to pieces s...
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{ "description": "disagreeing with my sister", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For disagreeing with my sister?
My sister finished watching Birdbox and began telling the story to me. I havent watched the movie and I wasn't planning to, so this was all fine. When she finished, she said no man could do what Sandra Bullocks character could do. I didn't think that was true and I also thought that her comment was sexist against men, ...
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{ "description": "telling an ex-friend where to get off", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling an ex-friend where to get off?
Last year, this woman (26 F and me (25 M) hit it off. We got each other's rather cynical sense of humor and I thought she was just raw awesome at the time. I didn't even realize I had fallen for her until the fifth time I found myself fantasizing about her. (In my defense, I was incredibly sheltered by my family who ei...
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{ "description": "laughing at a joke where a women gets punched", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for laughing at a joke where a women gets punched?
Here is the joke for context: https://m.imgur.com/gallery/f13czO2 I consider myself to be extremely feminist, but I honestly thought this was hilarious, not once did sex cross my mind when I laughed at this joke because that's not even a factor in what makes it funny, it's the abruptness, the way he cut her off mid s...
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{ "description": "wanting to track spending between me and a friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to track spending between me and a friend?
<apols for the long one> My best friend and I hang out almost every day after work and over the weekend. Usually going to the cinema or at each other's place and we usually get dinner too. Either eating out, ordering in, or cooking for one another. We usually take turns to pay and it switches back and forth gen...
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{ "description": "wanting to move out of home", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to move out of home?
For reference: I am in college and working full-part time I'm asking this because my older sister actually told me I was being selfish and not thinking about how my mom would feel. Let me explain this situation. My mom recently (sometime around January) quit her job to go and search for an RN position (she worked as ...
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{ "description": "not helping my ex co-workers to get a job", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping my ex co-workers to get a job?
We used to work together with these people (3 guys). I have to admit that we became more than co-workers. We became close friends. With time, I advanced in my career while they couldn't. It's not because I was better than them. Actually I really believe one of them is better at this job than me and for the rest, we are...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend her other 'best friend' hates her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my best friend her other ‘best friend’ hates her?
I’ve been best friends with both of these girls since 4th and 5th grade, I’ll use the names Emma and Lily to address them One day I was on the phone with my best friend Emma and Emma said “don’t tell Lily but I secretly hate her, she’s so annoying” I didn’t say anything at the time which I regret but after this I told...
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{ "description": "wanting my sibling to pick a different Lent resolution", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for wanting my sibling to pick a different Lent resolution?
My family and I are Catholic, and as such, from Ash Wednesday until Easter, everyone high school aged and up picks something to sacrifice, like social media or chocolate or something. My sibling chose to give up eating land aninal meat. My sibling and I are in high school, and neither of us can drive or have jobs...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to stop calling herself trans", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 28 }
AITA for telling my friend to stop calling herself trans?
I have a friend who is a trangender girl (assigned male at birth) who came out several years ago. She is happy with her decision, and everyone who knows her agrees shes been much happier since. However, she has dealt with disphoria throughout the whole thing, and has spoken to me more than once about how she doesnt "...
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{ "description": "entertaining someone through text just to find out that it was my fwb (were not dating exclusively) who was testing my loyalty to him", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for entertaining someone through text just to find out that it was my fwb (were not dating exclusively) who was testing my loyalty to him?
I’m single (24F) but seeing a guy (40M) casually. He pretended to be some guy that sent a wrong text to me. Since I’m single and wanted to expand my network and also, I’m looking for a potential lifetime partner, I did respond to the guy. I had a feeling that this guy was trolling me or maybe knows my fwb or he could b...
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{ "description": "not reminding my boyfriend to get me something for Christmas", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for not reminding my boyfriend to get me something for Christmas?
Some background: my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years and have a baby together. I love him very much! The first year we were together he got me a small Christmas present and I was thrilled! However since then every birthday and Christmas has come and gone without a present in sight! Now don't get m...
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{ "description": "exposing a girls nudes to the entire school triggering a dominoe effect", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for exposing a girls nudes to the entire school triggering a dominoe effect?
Long story but the title is pretty much the gist of it (Alt for obv reason) My friend for whatever sudden reason was getting gradually depressed because he was single and a virgin. To help I put him on this thottie I knew. I fucked her last year and still kept the nudes. Anyway, they hit off well after awkward bumps a...
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{ "description": "wanting to tell this girl she's not allowed to come to my house especially with her boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I want to tell this girl she’s not allowed to come to my house especially with her boyfriend
So I’m in an organization with tons of people. We have bigs and littles it’s co Ed. Anyways, my roommates and I have the biggest house because it’s off campus so we usually have parties and kick backs here. Anyways, I posted here awhile ago about this same girl. Story is she cheats on her boyfriend, she cheated emotion...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with this girl who turned into Dr. Jekyll/Mr. hyde", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with this girl who turned into Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde?
So I’ve been talking to this girl for a few weeks, I’ve known/known of her for a few years since she’s related to my cousin’s SO and worked at a store right by where I used to live. So I’d see her every now and then and say hi, you could say she and I had an acquaintance-ship with each other. We both recently (within...
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{ "description": "hiding my online chatting from my mother", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hiding my online chatting from my mother?
Hey, everyone. I’m just gonna get to the point. ​ I'm a 16 year old (closeted) transwoman in my junior year. I've been using things like Kik, Skype, Discord, all that to communicate with my friends and find communities for certain topics. I've always been smart about this, and the furthest I've gone in tel...
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{ "description": "not showing up in person to collect tickets to an award ceremony I was nominated for and cut ties with my ex workplace", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn't show up in person to collect tickets to an award ceremony i was nominated for and cut ties with my ex workplace
While I was a student i had a part time job at this charity as a carer for kids with disabilities. We had a new project that was being developed and I was very excited to get the role of project coordinator. The project was set up to last a year, but about half way through I finished uni and qualified as a nurse. I had...
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{ "description": "parking and not moving", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for Parking and not moving?
So I decided to go out to lunch during work. Just before noon this place fills up so I got there early and the parking lot was starting to get full. There was a mini van that had parked over the line on the front drivers side. I parked next to the van making sure I was centered and straight in the spot. The lady I gues...
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{ "description": "cutting off my relationship with my step sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off my relationship with my step sister?
Long time lurker first time poster, obligatory comment about mobile formatting. To give some background, she’s a year older than me and came into my life when I was around 13(now 20). She was a pretty bad influence on me through my teen years but also helped me out a lot through this time as well. She moved to a di...
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{ "description": "moving in with my brother's friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving in with my brother's friend?
To start things off, I'm a 19 year old male who recently had to move back in with my parents after a pretty nasty breakup. My brother is 24 and so is his friend. My brother had been renting a room from his friend (also my friend, I'm not just randomly moving in with him) but he never actually used the room because of ...
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{ "description": "wanting to stay friendly with my ex despite being in a new relationship", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to stay friendly with my ex despite being in a new relationship?
Me (f) and my current boyfriend have been in a relationship for 4 months now and he is expressing concerns about me being friendly with my ex. Me and my ex were together for 3 years. He helped me through some tough family issues and we moved country together. The relationship started to fall apart when it became appa...
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AITA But She Had A Boyfriend
This girl I went to school since we were little keeps giving me mixed signals. We were really good friends when we went to school up till 6th grade. I guess I asked her out on the last day of school 5th grade and never reached out bc we were too young. I start to freak out bc I never had a gf. Middle school starts and ...
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{ "description": "not going to help a friend trim all his weed, because I am really sick, even though hes helped me alot in the past", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going to help a friend trim all his weed, because I am really sick, even though hes helped me alot in the past?
Okay so let me start with me being sick. Because that's important. So I suffer from a pretty sever chronic illness called gastroparesis. As well as a whole other host of stomach issues caused by it. Bassicly I have really really delayed stomach emptying. My stomach only works at a 25% rate. This causes a LOT of nausea,...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be woken up early so my guest can say goodbye", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for not wanting to be woken up early so my guest can say goodbye?
I (M20) have my friend (F21) over and she's spending the night. We're both on spring break, but she has to get up early and leave tomorrow and I don't. By early I mean 10am, but we've both stayed up to 1 already and even though she's gone to bed at this point I plan on staying up a little later and would like to slee...
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AITA?
Watch out, this will be a long one so TL;DR at the end (I've been really confused if im in the wrong or not but idk) Me and my friend (we'll call her attention because text fill in told me to) go to this place for grade 6-9 can hang out and play games and cool stuff like that. We go there every wednesday since last ...
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{ "description": "turning down a job offer", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for turning down a job offer?
So I am a first year college student looking for an internship. My college program offers me a diploma for Computer Programming. Our internship program is a bit odd. All the jobs posted by our college are also posted at another university that offers degrees for computer science. So what ends up happening is that most ...
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{ "description": "confronting my colleague about our overtime schedule", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA if I confront my colleague about our overtime schedule.
This is my first job after graduation. I’m working as a assistant engineer(AE) I’ve become the favourite between the other AE. My supervisor have been giving me overtime now every weekend to help him do some maintenance which gives me double pay that day for a few months now. Recently, one of my co-workers send out a e...
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{ "description": "being reluctant of letting this friend in", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being reluctant of letting this friend in?
So, I have a really good friends group—we are six people (me included) and get along extremely well. We are like siblings and do lots of things together. Basically, they are my best friends, so we hang out a lot. ​ Last year, my friend D. from our bff group became friends with someone at work and this som...
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{ "description": "asking my cat-loving friend to stop sending me snapchats of them", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I ask my cat-loving friend to stop sending me snapchats of them?
So, for context: this is a friend whom I've known for nearly a decade. We both love cats and each have a few of our own. A couple years ago I moved away from our hometown to a different state well across the country. Being in a long distance friendship where we went months without seeing each other, she would often sna...
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{ "description": "going behind my family's back", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I go behind my family's back?
Basically I really want to move to another country and go back to school. I've done a bunch of research on what I need to do, what to study, how much money I need, etc. If things work out, I can go in maybe two-three years. It's something I'm really excited about and I'm working really hard to make it happen. I told m...
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{ "description": "hitting a kid with my bike", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for hitting a kid with my bike?
So I was in a hurry cycling in a no car area/zone. There were a bunch of people around and I was cycling a little to fast to be honest. There was this kid on a step/scooter (not sure what you call the thing). He was heading in the same direction as me and I was looking at him to make sure I wouldn't hit him. He looked ...
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{ "description": "not helping my middle school aged child with a school project", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not helping my middle school aged child with a school project?
I am a professional reddit lurker, I like to read posts, see what other people say, take the advice and move on. I now need advice and I’m not sure where I can get it so be gentle reddit. It’s long and I’m on mobile so I apologize if the formatting sucks. Background: My step-daughter (SD)is in middle school. I’ve bee...
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{ "description": "not wanting to rehash the past", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to rehash the past?
Buckle up buckaroos... you’re in for a ride. **TLDR** at bottom I(31F) met ex(26F) AJ on a dating app (tinder)... after meeting I realized pretty quickly I wasn’t in any position for a relationship and tried to maintain a friendship. She developed feelings that only blossomed and grew from that point on. While adm...
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{ "description": "screaming at my grandma", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for screaming at my grandma?
Yesterday my grandma picked me up from work at midnight, something that I have never asked her to do, I have no problem taking the bus home, but she insists it's dangerous at night. I was supposed to leave at 11 PM but I had to stay a little longer. I explained to her that my boss is not an understanding person and tha...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with an autistic kid from my high school", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with an autistic kid from my high school?
I went to middle school and high school with this autistic guy. We are now both 22 and go to separate colleges. He messages me on Instagram frequently asking to hang out. I hung out with him a few times in high school, but never alone. My friends think I should hang out with him because he’s “nice” and “harmless” but h...
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{ "description": "not going to my best friends wedding", "pronormative_score": 133, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not going to my best friends wedding.
So my best friend (lets call her G) has decided to have her wedding, that's awesome and I'm happy she found the one. The issue is G never sent out save the dates, meaning last week we got the actual wedding invitations for a wedding that is happening in 1 month. It will be at her grandmother's Ranch and it seems l...
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{ "description": "asking my stepdaughter to give a curtsey knock before she walks into the house", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 26 }
WIBTA for asking my stepdaughter to give a curtsey knock before she walks into the house
Quick background. My husband has two children (stepdaughter 15 and stepson 13) with his ex-wife and she has two children from a relationship before she met him. My stepson lives with me and my husband and my stepdaughter lives with her mother. We get stepdaughter every other weekend. Ex-wife’s oldest son (OS) got ...
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{ "description": "never wanting to drive when my husband and I go out", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for never wanting to drive when my husband and I go out?
The main reason for this is that while my husband works from home, I commute 5 days a week. We live in a downtown area and traffic can get pretty bad. Once I’m home after work or on the weekends, the last thing I want to do is get back in my car. To clarify, if we’re going somewhere that’s at my request, I’ll drive if...
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{ "description": "feeling how I'm feeling", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for feeling how I'm feeling?
A bit of background: I've had a bit of an odd social life - in high school, I had my group of friends, but we weren't very popular (or at least I wasn't). I recently started university, and I started to open up, and this brought a bunch of new opportunities, including my first case of friends with benefits. We started ...
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{ "description": "telling my waitress's manager she did a great job", "pronormative_score": 417, "contranormative_score": 745 }
AITA for telling my waitress's manager she did a great job?
Not a clickbait title, that's actually what happened. I got called an asshole for it, so now I have come here out of curiosity for you fine people to help settle the disagreement. I met a girl online and we clicked, and have gone on a couple dates. Two nights ago was our third date and I was treating her to dinner at ...
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{ "description": "going to hr because my cubicle mate refused to stop calling his girlfriend a racist nickname in front of me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AitA for going to HR because my cubicle mate refused to stop calling his girlfriend a racist nickname in front of me?
I am 1/4 Filipina because my grandfather met my grandmother when he was in the navy. I acknowledge I’m a Hapa but I identify very much with my heritage. I work at a large staffing agency and we have to share cubicles with one other person. I despise my cube mate. We don’t get along and I think he looks down on me bec...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend because I've lost interest in her", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because I've lost interest in her?
So I've (15M) been going out with a girl (15F) for about 6 months with a separation of about 3 weeks in the middle of it. I know it's getting near Valentine's day and I don't exactly want to break it to her during or after the holiday so I decide to do it about 3 hours ago. At first it seemed like a normal conversatio...
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