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"description": "not wanting to invite our friend on spring break",
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} | AITA for not wanting to invite our friend on spring break? | My three friends and I are seniors in college and are planning a spring break cruise. We have narrowed it down to two options, leaving out of two different cities. However, one of the cities is one of the girl in our friend group’s hometown, and so far she has not been a part of our spring break planning. She is really... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "making my girlfriend's roommate cry",
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} | AITA for making my girlfriend’s roommate cry? | Her roommate, let’s call her X, is very opinionated, so I don’t particularly like her. She’s said things to my girlfriend that make me wanna reach through the phone and strangle her. She’ll say shit like “honestly you’ve eaten so shitty this week, you shouldn’t be thinking about yogurt” and my girlfriend just takes it ... | HISTORICAL | {
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PtnVi5Q9Ds7SMXff1JveYLrAJbBRjPuJ | b4wnft | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend I still need space",
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} | AITA for telling my boyfriend I still need space? | Background: I suffer from mental illnesses, the specifics aren't important. Normally, I can live around them, but lately due to a lot of personal stress, my mental health has been suffering, so I decided to take a break from everything. I posted on Facebook explaining that I needed time to myself to regroup and recover... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "stopping contacting a good friend because of her suicidal tendencies",
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} | AITA because I stopped contacting a good friend because of her suicidal tendencies | Ok guys, honestly just found this Reddit, and every so often I wonder am I the asshole for this. So a little bit of backstory (On mobile so I’m sorry for formatting): A friend of mine, we’ll call her Tal. We’ve been friends since kindergarten, she was there for me when I had no friend, (I was very shy) and she was hon... | HISTORICAL | {
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WzXPuOamtkZ7xezmwuOZgP39jIGr4jNd | a4sr7x | {
"description": "giving my mom the silent treatment",
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} | AITA for giving my mom the silent treatment | So I get home after two 12-hour lifeguard certification training days and right on my bedroom door is a neat aquatics sticker exclusive to my current high school water polo team. Well you could only get one (only one per person ) during the recent water polo season (if you're on the varsity team).
I thought it was pre... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not paying my sitter",
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} | Aita for not paying my sitter? | First time posting and this is quite a long story, however going to make it as short as possible.
So my daughter started using a new sitter last Saturday. I paid up through Friday. Before dropping her off yesterday I got some money to pay the sitter. It’s 25$ a day. So we get to the sitters house and go in, as I’m se... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "asking my husband to miss his sister's wedding",
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} | AITA for asking my husband to miss his sister's wedding? |
My sister-in-law is getting married soon, and my husband and I were super excited to go to the wedding until we received the invitation. The wedding is adults only, no kids allowed. My husband and I have a 2-month old who does not sleep more than 2 hours and is still breastfeeding. The wedding is far away and would ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not giving my parents cupcakes",
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} | AITA for not giving my parents cupcakes? | So I'm a 16 year old boy who loves to bake, I'm pretty good at it, I've done it since I was very little and took a bit of a break in high school, but started again last year. So a few days ago I was making chocolate cupcakes for the first time in ages, and I was wanting to teach myself icing to improve my presentation.... | HISTORICAL | {
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Here is the backstory:
One year ago, something very stressful and sad happened in my life. I became very depressed. I stopped exercising and gained 10 kilogram. Before, I was normal weight i... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ce7dupl590nr0POHkmCRSlYVLWEyUGPF | amke4f | {
"description": "consistently tipping 15% of the total (pre-tax) because I disagree with the gratuity system",
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} | WIBTA if I consistently tip 15% of the total (pre-tax) because I disagree with the gratuity system? | I'm mainly referring to restaurants, but interested if perspectives differ outside of restaurants. | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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C6FN5d1YKB3JkzfVGzipRrNyB1PB2G8F | b0zo28 | {
"description": "encouraging my wife to breastfeed",
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} | AITA for encouraging my wife to breastfeed? | My wife is 22, I am 25 and we have a 1 month old baby girl.
After giving birth, my wife breastfed our baby for a couple of weeks. She says breastfeeding tires her and she gets discouraged when she doesn’t produce enough milk. I’ve read a lot of sources which says breastfeeding is healthiest for the baby. She knows th... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
QZbXhWjwk4lRzC1wdjS4ZwY8Ov9bwqTx | ajr6h5 | {
"description": "snapping back at my mother after she tried to make me feel Stupid/Useless, after my Dad got suspended from work",
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} | AITA: I Snapped Back At My Mother After She Tried to Make Me Feel Stupid/Useless, After My Dad Got Suspended From Work. | **The Issue:**
My dad just got suspended from his job yesterday. For those wondering, he took a lunch break when he wasn't supposed to with a bunch of his coworkers. Somebody found them in the back room but only picked 3-4 people to blame and my dad was one of the unlucky ones.
We don't know how long his suspension ... | HISTORICAL | {
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SjImaEV202polTDeukQRb4ClFS7CdfJL | b5kv3i | {
"description": "profiling african Americans at the Store I work at",
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} | AITA For Profiling African Americans at the Store I Work At? | Hear Me Out…
First off, I would consider myself a tolerant person. I’m a college student going to a primarily liberal college and I’ve learned a lot about the many hardships that African Americans had to suffer through.
I work a part time job at a drug store (Don’t want to give too many details on where I work). My m... | HISTORICAL | {
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73RcOQtCGK0lPmHphBSlfarXP4eglb6S | a50wki | {
"description": "telling my parents I can't stay with them until they clean the house",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for telling my parents I can't stay with them until they clean the house? | A bit of backstory: I love my parents but my mom is a hoarded. Not as extreme as what you see on TV, but a hoarder none the less. Every counter or tabletop in the house is cluttered, hallways have several stacks of clothing, family heirlooms, or containers piled up. There are two rooms of their house that are unused be... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
IYXDsvQFSsQCMDRNNVjU9vnnA4HsjiNi | agx1fr | {
"description": "not wanting to lend my friend money for the vet",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for not wanting to lend my friend money for the vet? | Okay so, a week or two ago, I accidentally told my friend I had received insurance money after my mom passed away a couple of months ago. How did I accidentally tell him? Basically we got to talking about driving and stuff and I blurted out that I'm going to start trying for my drivers license finally and said I got in... | HISTORICAL | {
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AtbOu06gcFyvLO3s4Lg98KCxzOTmVMYa | asnflv | {
"description": "asking my wife to respect me",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for asking my wife to respect me? | My wife and I are going through some shit, that's not the issue.
We have an agreement that when she went out with friends she'd be allowed to make out with guys/girls and have fun. There's only a few rules involved: 1) don't be stupid and put yourself in unsafe situations, 2) must be one and done, no repeats 3) don't... | HISTORICAL | {
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"EVERYBODY": 4,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 5
} | RIGHT |
TPS6N4PqqKRvzzaFcLB9zdn9UtUVpRM3 | b5318l | {
"description": "refusing to cater my sister's wedding because I didn't enjoy catering my other sister's wedding",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | AITA for refusing to cater my sister’s wedding because I didn’t enjoy catering my other sister’s wedding? | When sister 1 got married it was kind of a all hands on deck situation. She was pregnant and neither her or her boyfriend had very much money. My mom paid to rent out the fire hall and for the kegs of beer. I paid for and cooked all the food. My other two sisters set up the tables and chairs as well as the decorati... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 18,
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} | RIGHT |
QyYq3SFhpsBwjZBSeTXxdBNX1wCzN4PO | b8ogcs | {
"description": "leaving my parents because I don't agree with their views",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for leaving my parents because I don't agree with their views? | Hey dear friends, especially those who upvote my posts even when you disagree.
I am a student of eighteen years old that still lives with his parents. They are loving people that still make my bread before I go to school and make sure that dinner is ready when I get home.
This love is not for everyone. They are ver... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 9,
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} | RIGHT |
szZl2t8RwEKSg0b6zzn3smLQzytzqqWE | axfjyy | {
"description": "being annoyed that my significant other cries a lot",
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} | AITA for being annoyed that my significant other cries a lot? | As the title goes, I have been in a relationship with my significant other for about four years now, and we have lived together for the majority of the time. Being in college, my SO is often very stressed out with work, classes, and focusing on graduate school, which I completely understand, I am in the same exact posi... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
snCTnyoryYyUBtFAkaBgYoCOyx42TJxy | b36c3k | {
"description": "calling out my grandma for giving the family pets too much food",
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} | WIBTA if I called out my grandma for giving the family pets too much food? | To start off, one of the cats in the house are fat. Really fat. Every time I walk into the kitchen, she runs over to her food dish and starts meowing like crazy, as if she hasn't been fed in a week, yet she gets fed breakfast and dinner. And the worst part about her is that her shit STINKS BAD. HORRIBLY BAD. I'm talkin... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
3mRqnOURWYcE1sC084FReJChOHS02aP1 | a5t88e | {
"description": "remaining friends with SO's best mates recent ex",
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} | AITA for remaining friends with SO's best mates recent ex? | My partners (Dan) best friend (Keiran) has broke up with his girlfriend of 2 years (Clare). Apparently, certain unspoken social rules say that you must remain friends with your SO's best friend in this situation and stop talking to the other party. Well if these rules are applicable to adulthood even though I think the... | HISTORICAL | {
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6kM7BM4ED1TfJD0jCDaaP74dtVAHvdZv | anh2cr | {
"description": "not wanting to have a tracker on my phone that my girlfriend can see",
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} | AITA for not wanting to have a tracker on my phone that my girlfriend can see | I ride a motorcycle and my girlfriend has been very vocal in the past about how much she hates that I ride it, is always worried sick whenever I ride it. Even just for my daily commute of 38 miles.
I had to ride up to her parents house on Christmas eve to spend Christmas with her and her family. Then ride back Boxing... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 92,
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vgK30j8Q0jGHfNmmWnbQ9XZST5gphLRq | aeg0zt | {
"description": "wanting to stay home",
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} | AITA for wanting to stay home? | So in China in a few weeks it's Chinese New Year. My fiancé has been talking about us going to his hometown to spend the holiday with his family. I'm a bit nervous about this because my Chinese isn't great and actually his older family members only really speak a dialect instead of standard mandarin, so communication i... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
5Ee8hE8SXKwjRFIhaWUtRJutM4gVeP7r | ax3286 | {
"description": "wanting to cut ties with the ex who got me pregnant",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for wanting to cut ties with the ex who got me pregnant? | a few things first: he was *awful* to me. i was in a bad spot, and was binge-eating sugar due to stress at the time. he'd forcefully take any sugar i had while ridiculing and making fun of me for it, which would stress me out more. id basically inhale it when i got it back. he'd also take my phone whenever he wanted, t... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
ZfvKXz7WeYgCrBgCq5M9pl3HTJ3ZO1RE | b1mnk6 | {
"description": "refusing to pay for my friends to come to my graduation from boot camp",
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} | AITA for refusing to pay for my friends to come to my graduation from boot camp? | Hello reddit,
Want to say sorry in advance, as I am on mobile and I tend to word vomit a lot.
So I’m graduating boot camp in June (the dates haven’t been set but it’s definitely in June) and my friends are mad that I won’t pay for their plane tickets and hotels to come see me. I’ve never been close with my actual fa... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
ctkMGqdbM45wcCnaBIbIHHo23I7cE4WC | aiq732 | {
"description": "not paying my roommate back for a container of hers that I broke",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not paying my roommate back for a container of hers that I broke? | So my roommate likes to leave things on top of the shared fridge, like pasta, bread, and snacks. We have a fridge where the freezer is on top. She left for the weekend and was in a rush and apparently just shoved all her shit on top of the fridge/freezer. She must have left some stuff on the top of the closed door of t... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
moScd2IBhFe0WGpL9y3xIqkT3sC1URHO | a474jv | {
"description": "not wanting to spend Christmas Eve with my homophobic extended family",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not wanting to spend Christmas Eve with my homophobic extended family? | I am a woman, married to a woman. I’ve known about my attraction to women for basically my whole life, and because of this I have argued about gay rights with my conservative extended family on many occasions. One such instance had a great aunt (let’s call her Marge) pull out a petition at a family dinner to have recen... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
oC4pguOZ6hqrZClDHH8AAIm9MGMtfrey | amyxm8 | {
"description": "refusing to be my ex's friend and not let him follow me",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for refusing to be my ex's friend and not let him follow me | So as the title suggests, my ex wants to be friends and I don't. We broke up only two weeks ago and I realized that I would only be hanging on to someone who obviously didn't want me if I kept seeing him on my feed. So I unfollowed and unfriended him. But then he kept liking my pictures and it would make me sad so I s... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
x1lfzIgULME3YPLij18qLULu0dBpjxyA | ajk7iy | {
"description": "telling somebody there girlfriend is cheating on them",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for telling somebody there girlfriend is cheating on them? | This was awhile ago. I was a bit drunk and I told somebody that I wasn’t that close with that their girlfriend was cheating on them. This girl I was close with told me on multiple occasions how this girl cheated on her boyfriend. They were in a serious relationship for a couple years and would tell each other they love... | HISTORICAL | {
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3OjYg8Q1RKgkfPxmnoivMNEEF7ZJpBoZ | ao0k86 | {
"description": "laughing at a girl who talked about rape in english class",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for laughing at a girl who talked about rape in English class | So during my high school English clash we were discussing Frankenstein in a giant circle that she called a “debate” where ideas would go thrown around and people would respond with their thoughts. The rules of the discussion were that things discussed had to relate to the book and to stay on topic. About halfway throu... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
IolH4575P7rhzYw0BbMhrYTuchS4a9h8 | ass77z | {
"description": "not being a standby translator for my roommate",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not being a standby translator for my roommate? | Background about us: I’m a 2nd gen American and speak both English and my native language fluently. My roommate is a 1st gen that can understand basic English but can barely speak it.
Basically when we first met as coworkers, he would occasionally ask me to make a call pretending to be him for personal stuff like prob... | HISTORICAL | {
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NKJYBx2TiEpt6wahNrq8fs3X1eTHD9DQ | aqqmzr | {
"description": "not staying with my father at the hospital",
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} | AITA for not staying with my father at the hospital? | I understand that this might be a little but long so there is a tl:Dr below.
A month ago my dad was admitted into the hospital for a bad case of pancreatitis. The doctors told my family and me that he had a stone obstructing one of the main ducts that caused massive damage to his pancreas and his other organs. Fast fo... | HISTORICAL | {
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Vrf7CMcgk2hsBrch17Ji2LbG3hiIUPpc | ai8tdx | {
"description": "declining my friend's wedding invite",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA to decline my friend's wedding invite | One of my friend is getting married next month, I have declined to attend it by telling him I cannot be part of something destined to wreck someone's life (his to be wife), have possible burned bridges with him on this.
A little back story about him, he has been dating this girl for quite a long time, both seem to... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
3RaAX86sa9ThQhJ7WJ9wpYLRd2UnEHPk | azjp00 | {
"description": "not paying the tree service I hired",
"pronormative_score": 22,
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} | AITA for not paying the tree service I hired? | I have a really big cottonwood tree in my yard that is right over my neighbor's garage and recently had a branch fall through my fence. This thing is dangerous and needs to go.
I had several estimates and they ranged from $4500 to $6000 for the one tree. I also have some other smaller trees that were dead and I wanted... | HISTORICAL | {
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gnZwj1Xd4uLkrBINx3b6LN4dKA2KxfIT | awuhw0 | {
"description": "ending a friendship because I was being ignored",
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} | AITA For ending a friendship because I was being ignored? | So I made friends with this girl and we talked for months everyday, we went on one date and it went wonderful, I told her I was searching for a serious relationship, she told me that she had feelings for me but didn't want a relationship anytime soon, I told her that it was fine but I wouldn't go on more dates with her... | HISTORICAL | {
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hOWawpf584Ny2yLQWgHZ47ZCZp0yrOcN | apn1ec | {
"description": "hoping to work it out",
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} | AITA for hoping to work it out? | I'm 18F and my best friend "O" is 18M. We live together in an apartment now and have been friends for 4 years. Upon his request, I promised not to bring "E" over to the apartment because O hates E over old high school drama.
E has been a close friend of mine for 2.5 years. To cut a rant short, I believe he's a good pe... | HISTORICAL | {
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SQYWPTlWHArHLMbAnFeZn0Vf1kJELrWt | ae24ji | {
"description": "not bringing a friendly potentially stray or neglected cat home",
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} | AITA for not bringing a friendly potentially stray or neglected cat home? | Last night around 9-10pm I went for a walk and came across an incredibly friendly, but possibly stray, cat. The cat was young, very affectionate and pretty fat, with no collar. But despite being short haired, it had a big patch (the size of a couple of fingers) of matted fur (solid like a dreadlock) on its back near th... | HISTORICAL | {
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xC2aWUCV4fLyptKEY7W30buA6HCUABST | alt1wy | {
"description": "calling my friend out on taking advantage of me",
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} | AITA for calling my friend out on taking advantage of me? | This situation is still happening, and I don't really know what to feel at this point. Bear with me, there are a lot of details. Good god this is way longer than anticipated, whoops:
I've been good friends with this person for a little over a year now. We met at new employee orientation. Soon after, we decided to star... | HISTORICAL | {
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IIYevLx13VLNFpClYsAZXT5e3BT7jK3e | ajwy26 | {
"description": "throwing a year of friendship down the drain",
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} | AITA : Am I the Asshole, For Throwing a year of friendship down the drain | My friend let’s call them B, we live in different cities so it an IBF sort of thing,and I thought we were getting kind of close but I noticed she would one up me sort of when I complained about work she would lists off how much more work than me she had, I kind of shrugged that off the thing about B is that she likes t... | HISTORICAL | {
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inZ7ML8cztdlg4w0DSm6qgKPL0ztjfPr | a08e0i | {
"description": "reporting my Uber driver because he slowed to look at an accident",
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} | AITA for reporting my Uber driver because he slowed to look at an accident | On mobile etc
Earlier in the week I took an Uber down the busiest road in my city. There are always accidents and people crashing, so it’s not something new. When we were passing the incident my driver slowed completely and put his window down, turning his entire torso to stare and comment on the stupidity of the driv... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ulw418Tkd7m6x5s42AfUuzaPk3Olv7Fn | adooie | {
"description": "applying for a second job or volunteer job without my mom's knowledge",
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} | WIBTA for applying for a second job or volunteer job without my mom’s knowledge? | I’m 18 years old and a senior in high school. My last semester of high school starts tomorrow and it’s going to be a boring one. I already have one job, but it doesn’t give me all that many hours. I want to keep myself busy, so I want to get a second job or some consistent volunteer work to keep myself busy. But my mom... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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7x1CjJYeTpqj4EDYExC01XZeQfvnNkvy | agckb4 | {
"description": "encouraging my fiancé to begin introducing food to his children that their mother believes they are sensitive to and not tell her",
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} | AITA for encouraging my fiancé to begin introducing food to his children that their mother believes they are sensitive to and not tell her? (Long, involved, and filled with medical stuff) | *This part is kind of a tirade, but I think it's important to give context. Skip if you like*
To begin this, I am a big proponent in the scientific method and a believer in the findings of the scientific community. My father is a surgeon and my mother is a nurse, so I was ingrained to believe in medical science and ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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SssolnuUAImrcM3EjcsZ4cUuc4Cga7AJ | axvyf2 | {
"description": "not severing contact with my entire family after abuse accusation",
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} | AITA for not severing contact with my entire family after abuse accusation | Throwaway for obvious reasons.
​
Some years ago my then 3 year old step-daughter accused my dad of touching her inappropriately.
This came completely out of nowhere as my dad has never acted suspiciously around kids.
​
My wife believed our daughter. My mum could not believe my dad would ever ... | HISTORICAL | {
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LBfoC9Hfdmu0h49yDEA9nI4S3L6OEW07 | 9udcrd | {
"description": "calling my mum and sister out for being annoying",
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} | AITA For calling my mum and sister out for being annoying? | AITA My mum always knocks on my door before she enters my room out of respect, which is completely fine with me. Today she knocked on my door and I responded as I usually do with "Yes, come in". She continued to knock my door and was getting louder and louder every time. I kept responding with the same message "Yes, co... | HISTORICAL | {
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SN2jHBmrL48rX9kjxZGwFRiXrztw4CI5 | aae21p | {
"description": "asking my brother to help out a bit when I am taking care of our mother",
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} | WIBTA if I asked my brother to help out a bit when I am taking care of our mother? | Before I act I want to get a feel if this is an asshole move or not.
​
My brother and mother had an extremely strained relationship. At 19 my brother went with his girlfriend and moved out where he joined the military, went to college, and eventually got a nice job far away as a software developer. I have ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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52qRWmfsHu1oOTRyu2TJsaor9RsKJ9GA | aemr7z | {
"description": "not agreeing to a dog with my roommate",
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} | WIBTA if I don’t agree to a dog with my roommate? | I am planning to move in with a friend in a few months and she has been talking about us getting a puppy. While I am perfectly okay with her getting a puppy, I don’t want to be legally or financially liable for the dog.
I just finished college and am not planning to stay in our current city for more than a few years.... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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nMrSoqj9jr95l68PIJIAJENuP2KYThZb | avnprn | {
"description": "not considering my coworker's feelings",
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} | AITA for not considering my coworker’s feelings? | This is a super long story and my first post was removed for length. I’m condensing it so let me know if you need more info.
I work for a chain company. There are two of us that, up until a month ago, were supervisors trying to get promoted to manager. I worked for one store and have been with the company less than 3... | HISTORICAL | {
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l7pyejQkRpaDoUAw1U4oXuzjQ4WQ5o9g | apsf97 | {
"description": "trying to close my bedroom door and not giving up my phone",
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} | AITA for trying to close my bedroom door and not giving up my phone? | Hey there, Reddit. I have a quick story that just happened to me, please be aware that I am mobile so formatting might be sketchy.
Some background- My family, (mother specifically) is a religious family. While, I myself am more of a less religious person (I still believe in God), she believes herself to be a prophpho... | HISTORICAL | {
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PfKG6qbtvXxrno5S3Kc01fAWhNFdLWcO | b70apf | {
"description": "not wanting to lend my parents money",
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} | AITA for not wanting to lend my parents money? | I’m a 19 year old girl. I live with my parents but I pay them rent, pay for my car, buy my own groceries, etc. I’ve been paying for all of my stuff for a while now too. My 25 year old brother lives here too and yet my parents treat him like a baby (buy his groceries, pay for his car repairs, etc).
My mom nickel and di... | HISTORICAL | {
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5sx8JDeuitzhUWFrb1rMyIYm3e5WixqD | b75x8w | {
"description": "trying to be more adult",
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} | AITA For trying to be more adult? | Obviously the title sounds biased but hear me out here.
Obligatory I'm on mobile sorry for formatting/typos
My mother and I recently have been a bit more argumentative since I turned 18.
I got a job making $10/hr for 30+ hours every week back in August of last year while i was 17 but i was out of school so it worke... | HISTORICAL | {
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vxm0HDphworooChL5CRBaGMI4fRga3iy | aliysg | null | AITA for how i deal with my depression? | A bit of context. At the end of 2013 I was diagnosed with clinical depression. I've been dealing with it since then (really i was dealing with it before then, but i didn't have a name for it at that point) and it's been getting continuously worse over time. In spite of my depression, I got engaged, made some great frie... | HISTORICAL | {
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ufWltHaHodGBehiVSXOxrrfoOZiGvUUc | b17l5k | {
"description": "not wishing my sister a happy birthday tomorrow",
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} | WIBTA for not wishing my sister a happy birthday tomorrow? | About 9 months ago, me and my 6 siblings (2 older + 4 younger) called CPS on our parents after we had audio of my mother beating and hurling awful insults at my 9-year-old brother. My parents essentially kicked me and my 2 older sisters out of the house and sent us to live with my grandma.
My younger siblings do not c... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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beQBfOuGlG3C7Zq5kcTXicDQ4RR5Lf9Z | b69f7j | {
"description": "cutting off my dad when he has stage 4 Cancer",
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} | AITA for cutting off my dad when he has Stage 4 Cancer? | Let me explain. Also, this is my first reddit post EVER so I’m sorry if I’m sloppy.
​
Growing up, I was never a bad kid. I was just a normal kid. Spoke too loud, ran too much, a little spoiled, but I was never BAD. I never threw temper tantrums/ hit anyone/ broke things. However, my parents, especially my... | HISTORICAL | {
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oK5iMH6ndP40TjSzuhqGdObcLc1IDLru | apigml | {
"description": "confronting my friend",
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} | AITA For Confronting my friend | So this is my first post on here, So let me start with 2 years a ago I met girl I really thought was beautiful and really kind, Well so I start talking to her and become her friend and everything is great and all for 1 year and I liked this girl of course but she saw me as just a friend. Okie so let get into the detail... | HISTORICAL | {
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ikKR92xfXCX4wLlVUUPrfYBHJhCMmLRR | au7lov | {
"description": "going to a Seniors jam session",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for going to a Seniors jam session ? | The incident happened Friday night, but I'm going to pre face this by telling how I ended up at this jam session. I dont post much on reddit, so I will try to format for easy reading.
A couple months back I was letting my son play at a church playground. When we pulled in I noticed a older gentleman sitting on the ben... | HISTORICAL | {
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g8beJo5hPfSPaqylkjCTZpxhsvl5JKYJ | a1nv73 | {
"description": "being purposefully distant to my boyfriend when he has suicidal thoughts",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA for being purposefully distant to my boyfriend when he has suicidal thoughts? | My boyfriend (22 M) suffers from depression and suicidal thoughts. He lives in a pretty shitty home and his family is abusive to him. I (22 F) also suffer from depression and suicidal thoughts and ideation, so I understand what he’s going through. A few weeks after we started dating, he had a pretty bad depressive epis... | HISTORICAL | {
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7nVJZ6SKB1yChjUdPVfB3sSdozegns9C | 9yl8tj | {
"description": "getting mad at my husband for not telling me about a late work meeting",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for getting mad at my husband for not telling me about a late work meeting? | My husband has a very high stress job. I quit my dream job to help support him and moved to another country with our three kids for this job of his. I’m slightly resentful of this at times. I openly admit it. This is why I’m asking for strangers advice as to whether I’m a complete asshole about this sitch.
He ... | HISTORICAL | {
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YMicMHSldrzqixwOwjI3pTbydeVFlLpJ | b64j2k | {
"description": "choosing a same-sex dance partner",
"pronormative_score": 106,
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} | AITA for choosing a same-sex dance partner? | I'm (25M) a dancer and a few weeks ago my dance group started preparing for a competition. I expressed my desire to compete in the couples' category to my mentor, and she asked me if I'd already thought of a partner and if I wanted them to be male or female. I didn't even think of this detail because I assumed she woul... | HISTORICAL | {
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Qo6TvfNWzuIPlcZ51CUSpw4uG8srU1gx | ap62f7 | null | AITAH Best friend was having a shit day at work and I ended up making it worse. | My best friend f19 recently got a job at pub that her uncle manages. And towards the end of her shift I m20 usually go in to see her so we can hang out a bit and grab food and help her stack the tables and chairs and stuff, and I think it makes her more comfortable there since it's full of creepy old guys. However a f... | HISTORICAL | {
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huQ1sfsuVU3IhKWnX2d21Z36f1YVigKR | b2oxq4 | {
"description": "getting mad at my girlfriend for constantly sending money to her mom",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend(28F) for constantly sending money to her mom? | So I’m in a weird spot right now. My girl and I are going through a lot in our relationship, so right now we basically split finances. She gives me her share (which is like $300 a month) while I pay the vast majority of all the bills; rent, car note, utilities, groceries, rent-to-own stuff. While she handles the phone ... | HISTORICAL | {
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s7neSygth50TRUHAZGw6VSRnfDuAEcVm | 9t6v2h | {
"description": "slowly talking less and less to a clingy \"friend\"",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA For slowly talking less and less to a clingy “friend”. | So I knew this one person, and they were incredibly clingy to me. I thought they were fine at first, but eventually, all they would do is complain about their problems. Every time I would be around them, they would just sit down and sigh, and stare at the ground until I talked to them. And once I talked to them, they w... | HISTORICAL | {
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xyatHbTtWPayoNEhp3JsiDCiCmxVvneM | b6e7ye | {
"description": "faking a message saying I have a crush on my friend",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for faking a message saying I have a crush on my friend? | Friend has a bad time with girls and when their was an anonymous crush servey where u say what you like about them and they post it anonymously online I wrote his name down and said some good stuff.
He saw it and his self confidence boosted a shit ton and he started talking to girls and stuff. My other friend said I'm... | HISTORICAL | {
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I3pQ8jkn0MZmNtCqkLHNM2C82gJj0nx3 | b0iofs | {
"description": "telling someone I know that they're child is being abused",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA telling someone I know that they're child is being abused | This happened about a year ago but it still weighs on my conscience and now that I've been asked if we can put it behind us I want to know where I stand morally.
At a family event, a distant relative's kid(10 yrs old) was saying that her new step dad was always swearing at her. She also said that she was pushed up aga... | HISTORICAL | {
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PZiXENtj0DyYTidAMHQXS1CESogWfFLL | anfi0r | {
"description": "not wanting my partners dog in our bed",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not wanting my partners dog in our bed | Let me say that I absolutely adore this dog and love cuddling him on the couch, I just don't want him in the bed.
So he was originally my partners dog, but we both consider him ours now. He is almost 4 years old and was always allowed on all the furniture since my partner got him as a puppy. But now that we live toge... | HISTORICAL | {
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VPvhccg4ZP9m3wUc7zd0RD6BwDM9mvaB | a0jrga | {
"description": "not understanding how painful a woman's period cramps can be",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | AITA for not understanding how painful a woman’s period cramps can be? | So this isn’t super recent but my friend recently brought up an event that I had forgotten from a few years ago.
This event occurred when I was 17 in Junior college. My class consisted of 20 people, 5 guys and 15 girls. So basically there was this girl in my class that often left school early complaining of period pai... | HISTORICAL | {
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qZRcKfpYFPWH3dhdTwf66dLCbXvIhOnk | 9ycdia | {
"description": "ghosting my friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for ghosting my friend? | (Forgive for formatting, am on mobile) So a little back story, this girl has been my friend all through high school, we are both now 18, and we have helped each other through bad moments in our mental health, and we were each other’s only friend for a long time.
However, this year our friendship became kind of rocky ... | HISTORICAL | {
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fcKlbXajz5reNVr7W6GxATIXSGNmdUZI | b1u4h2 | {
"description": "wanting a flight home after a company I interviewed with flew me out via standby travel and flights were too full to get back",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA For wanting a flight home after a company I interviewed with flew me out via standby travel and flights were too full to get back? | I'm a recent graduate in a unique field. Recently I was flown out by a company via standby travel for an interview. I go to the job interview and botch it. So I leave and go the airport hoping to get on an earlier flight (an interviewer told me the flights were full the next few days to my destination and they're fly... | HISTORICAL | {
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S5BPlUpLLyrwFqfGZ4mJbmg8Zpe1DD2K | b2sr17 | {
"description": "expecting more emotional support from my husband",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for expecting more emotional support from my husband? | I'm (28F), he's (28M). He has three kiddos, my step children, and we are about 4 weeks from bringing home twins of our own. We have been married a year and a half.
Our relationship is normally very loving, he is my best friend. I had some mental health issues before we got married, (depression, anxiety) but I am now... | HISTORICAL | {
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3Cyuv7AOjJUcairrE5I1Rb0Tr1TVvOQT | ahxtit | {
"description": "leaving my speakers on late at night",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for leaving my speakers on late at night | This was last year when I used to work long as night shifts ( usually from 6pm to 8am ) and my flat mighta constantly where playing loud music throughout the day even though I politely asked if they could keep the noise down as I was trying to sleep
( back ground info to this, I didn’t know them nor where we friends ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
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B7lHjHufmxVlo4Rj5FQEex7j3lelQVsJ | axh568 | {
"description": "ending a relationship based on a reaction",
"pronormative_score": 55,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for ending a relationship based on a reaction? | So I'd started seeing this guy semi-seriously. And then this happened. I'm trying to figure out if I'm the asshole here for ending this relationship based on his reaction to 2 things
1. I happened to mention that me and my roommates had needed to go to a food bank this month because we had some unexpected expenses and... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 55,
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 55,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
MiME74UFn9TYJCQzWTSE1XwClrCSER5f | b3fb8j | {
"description": "asking my wife to agree we're not going to be parents",
"pronormative_score": 18,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for asking my wife to agree we're not going to be parents? | My wife and I have been together since college, married for \~4 years now in a commitment ceremony. Found wheelchair-suitable housing last year and moved in together.
The obstacles to us becoming parents are:
1. Financial. We split rent and utilities 70/30 every month. She works P/t at $10 an hour. I work F/T at $15.... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 10,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 18,
"WRONG": 4
} | RIGHT |
uhYkU9hOY808Hg79FU9zNvvUNR6tYmut | ataq45 | {
"description": "starting to fancy my bestfriends crush",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA if i’m starting to fancy my bestfriends crush? | So I know already that I am an asshole but how much of an? So i noticed that my bestfriend had started to fancy a girl. It was clar from how he spokr about her and i thought it was really nice that he finally found someone to fancy. But a couple of weeks ago he said that he had asked her out but she had said no which w... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
xtxMfx38RNyNiPXQ9sKSLjMny2fJ0xpN | az2814 | {
"description": "making a joke deemed offensive towards gay people even though I'm also gay",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for making a joke deemed offensive towards gay people even though I'm also gay? | Hi, so a bit of background here.
I'm gay, but I'm also a trans man, so I didn't have the exact same experiences as someone who knew they were a guy since birth. It took me a while to know my identity.
So perhaps I might be offensive accidentally to cis gay guys but it wouldn't have been my intention.
This post might ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 9,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
F1TdM7Bsb8wm7XccsPkBQzqCjtUuUMan | a1au7h | {
"description": "asking my wife to stop complaining and making an issue of my extended work hours and my lack of involvement in the house chores",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for asking my wife to stop complaining and making an issue of my extended work hours and my lack of involvement in the house chores? | Background:
We moved abroad. Supposedly, I already had a job contract. We sold everything in our home country and moved. When we got here, the contract had irregularities that made it impossible for me to get a work visa and, therefore, my wife was unable to get a residence card.
We had no way of going back, not atle... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
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"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
CEJWZw3lWG0I4GkP1rf45IM1P8FoYWBq | b6zc0g | {
"description": "telling my team member that she has been talked badly about behind her back",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling my team member that she has been talked badly about behind her back? | I (31M) was the lead for a small team at a small company. My team consisted of 1 student and 1 part time employee, who I want to call Lisa (33F).
Our company has a HQ in one city and a subsidiary in another, about 100km away. There are about 25 people working in HQ and another 30 at the other location.
A while ago I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
KM8QQkXEut8rKU2jMrKmMoxi5cuqnvIO | 9xh8gj | {
"description": "telling my son to jump another kid",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 17
} | AITA, I told my son (15) to jump another kid (13). | This kid has been bullying my youngest because he's a 6th grader and all of this dumb preteen bullshit. They always tell kids to tell their parents but they never really tell you, the parent, what to do. I called the school multiple times, my ex wife even threatened a law suit against them. They've still done really no... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 17,
"OTHER": 14,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 17
} | WRONG |
qoEOREyfMpm1WcsSzS2r4x6XeqrZWekS | adjid9 | {
"description": "possibly causing my friend to self harm and thinking she did it for attention",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for possibly causing my friend to self harm and thinking she did it for attention? | so we've been friends for about 3-4 years. she always did little things to get attention and she makes up a lot of fake stories and lies, for example she said that this weekend she had a very low body temperature. seems absolutely believable, until you get to the part where she claims her temperature was 32.5 degrees C... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
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"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
Sk5UIDeKmbZWX5Blz2DjvpoB0hEXwqkc | ba4pcp | {
"description": "refusing to change my baby's diapers",
"pronormative_score": 49,
"contranormative_score": 499
} | AITA for refusing to change my baby’s diapers? | I have an 8-week-old daughter who is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. Overall my wife and I have adjusted really well to our lives as new parents.
The one issue is diaper changing. I have an embarrassingly week stomach. I told my wife before we even started trying for a baby that I can’t do diapers. I think... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 499,
"OTHER": 31,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 18,
"INFO": 8
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 49,
"WRONG": 499
} | WRONG |
dbJEOOymszVNas4xRjwpW44i2S0Nlr9P | 9u512d | {
"description": "not changing seats on a plane to let a mother sit with her kid",
"pronormative_score": 43,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA For not changing seats on a plane to let a mother sit with her kid? | Sitting up front in plus seating row. I pay extra to sit in the aisle plus section. Lady asks me to switch to another plus seat but it's by the window. I say no because I don't like window seating since I'm a big guy (6'3) and don't like how I have a wall to my left. Lady was surprised I didn't move because I figur... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 42,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 43,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
FZRkJsrojy3D2DRTxDnojDf2J5H0AU16 | b5i9uv | {
"description": "not agreeing to joint medical insurance with my girlfriend",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not agreeing to joint medical insurance with my girlfriend? | So me and my girlfriend have recently moved in together, and everything is going well except this one bone of contention. We both have private medical insurance (We are in the UK so it's not mandatory to have insurance) with different companies and hers is up for renewal, when she was shopping around for quotes she got... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
QuuTkRmtMYXdkuySl1PzvCepi2z7wWCy | atkz2q | {
"description": "disabling the Wifi due to my friend's loud teenager",
"pronormative_score": 241,
"contranormative_score": 30
} | AITA for disabling the Wifi due to my friend's loud teenager? | I own my own home and have a friend and his kid staying with me for a week. To make a long story short, this kid (16 years old) is extremely loud and has been keeping me up at night with his gaming.
I can understand the occasional outburst, but his yelling and screaming will go on for hours on end during the night,... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 239,
"EVERYBODY": 15,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 241,
"WRONG": 30
} | RIGHT |
dRdXCEWxHfp6XcvMqoPjBaLL1MJjBycE | a4ljc5 | {
"description": "not getting into kpop",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not getting into kpop? | My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me a couple days ago and as I'm trying to make sense of it all and move on I've found myself unsure of my own morality or if I'm overthinking. I'll try to lay down all the facts:
Years ago we went to a party, we both got completely smashed. I was told, because I couldn't fully re... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
Pzz4d383yKckg3kxH9gwzEdZDeJztmWa | ab1r5s | {
"description": "telling a friend about her coworker hitting on me",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for telling a friend about her coworker hitting on me? | So there's this convenience store that's walking distance to my house that I'm in just about every day to buy cigarettes. It has a rotating staff of guys that are all cousins/brothers/various relatives. They're all flirty to every girl that walks in, so I dont take it seriously when they do the same to me. They know I'... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
7qBdC93T6VnrQEotm2FG6qCaVvbaVdzW | ajz4nv | {
"description": "not wanting to pick up my neighbors kid from school everyday",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to pick up my neighbors kid from school everyday? | This is a long post so bear with me. I’m still upset about the conversation that I was stuck with earlier today.
A little background, I have known my new neighbor across the street for about 14? Years. She is a few years older than me and has lived across from my in laws since I was in high school. We had become fr... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 10,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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} | RIGHT |
8e04Sw08JqT8WKTmpcFFcsKCKHtZif9X | akwz4f | {
"description": "ruining my good friends chances with his ex for naming a girl we saw him cheating with at the bar",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for ruining my good friends chances with his ex for naming a girl we saw him cheating with at the bar? | A little background story: My buddy is a known serial cheater (we'll call him greg). Every relationship he's had has ended with them breaking up because he got caught cheating. So he started dating a new girl about 4-5 months ago. They were in the honeymoon phase meaning they were inseparable. So about 4 weeks ago me a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
JcPkCoOK1xqGCUODMXd9uTZFbgCRxAOg | b5ehzd | {
"description": "refusing to accommodate my MIL",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for refusing to accommodate my MIL? | So me and my son do a lot of trap/sporting clays/skeet/5 stand competitions. It is a big part of our life we go out and practice several times a week and do a lot of competitions on the weekend. It has been a huge bonding experience for the both of us and with our success in these various competitions we have made our ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 2,
"OTHER": 13,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 14,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
CwL3mWu0bQ0GjXWOlBaOiMwTPcUmU5He | alio6d | {
"description": "ghosting this girl after a toxic text convo",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for ghosting this girl after a toxic text convo? |
For context me and this girl were fwbs and also eventually had feelings for each other. We cut that out because of work, stress, and also because we both weren’t ready to be committed. We are NOT mutually exclusive. We remained “friends” at least untill this happened.
So me, her, and several visiting friends at our s... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
ZpxYxkxQGSZ1sWnXzyIWIYaFZlMhTLqT | ag44ki | {
"description": "buying amd using a vibrator when I was specifically told not to",
"pronormative_score": 15,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for buying amd using a vibrator when i was specifically told not to? | Long story short, not even allowed to install handheld shower head because any form of masturbation is considered cheating by my SO.
I have been talking for months about the lack of sex (zero) taking a toll on me. He doesn't like it when I come onto him, or touch him. No amount of asking nicely, begging, logically putt... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 15,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 15,
"WRONG": 2
} | RIGHT |
9IKVFSiZPWkcMcYmc5UCQ2OeVKwDpzzZ | app9ix | {
"description": "cutting off old high school friends who were apart of a group that talked behind my back",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for cutting off old high school friends who were apart of a group that talked behind my back |
This is my first time posting here, so I apologize for anything that’s wrong.
I’m sorry this is so long, I’ll place a tl;dr at the end
In year 12 I was apart of a friendship group that was made up of 12 girls. (Haha 12 girls for year 12). We weren’t all that close as we friendship groups that kind of joined toge... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 5,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
UrlARS7HieUeOJDf1mLqaw5DYKfogHYX | alx311 | {
"description": "completely ignoring my friend over a video game",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for completely ignoring my friend over a video game? | i am 18 and my friend gabe keeps messages me saying stuff like "Oh fu\*k you man you lost that haha" after me and him play red dead redemption and try to see who can kill the most zombies (Undead nightmare) and i keep loosing due to my (volcanic) pistol not having enough ammo and he wont share, So im playing with him a... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 4,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
Ut1Vp7C0cGVPV44P9G81EEzogwuszoPC | b2bzx1 | {
"description": "not letting my ex take our son on holiday with a stranger",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA If i dont let my ex take our son on holiday with a stranger? | This is my sisters story she isnt on reddit.
Context: Just after new years my sisters fiance, who she'd been with for 10 years and has two children with, dumped her by text. He sees his kids for an hour a week, but he has missed this numerous times, once because he didn't set his alarm, another time because he was hun... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
HoiyxWITrdGsXSZnMsiDuXNzrvl7kWe2 | acjonl | {
"description": "deciding to never get my boss lunch again",
"pronormative_score": 15,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for deciding to never get my boss lunch again? | So I work in construction, at a small office that is family owned. There's my boss, his wife, and three other employees besides myself. We usually all eat lunch together, with either my coworker or myself running and grabbing food. I don't mind doing this, although I do enjoy lunch to myself from time to time. When we ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 15,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 15,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
5XnrsbOgIqufG260IRrfk2qJ8gJE3gRu | ay71rd | {
"description": "thinking my friend needs grow up",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for thinking my friend needs grow up? | Okay so a little backstory, I met this friend of mine when I was 14 years old (I am 17 now) and he would always say he is 7 years old, much younger than he actually was. He would keep on lying about his personal life like having 2 siblings when in reality he is an only child. I don't judge him for lying, he probably fe... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
1prQIxxp20qjN1npXikk0RuX3O4HaeM9 | 9xbvzi | {
"description": "not feeling sorry for my sister's (26yo) life falling apart",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA For not feeling sorry for my sister's (26yo) life falling apart? | I've been having an internal strife deciding whether or not I am being a cold-hearted asshole. So my sister is by no means an angel, but she is family. Her life has been becoming harder and harder these past few months (roughly starting 24 months ago). She broke up with her boyfriend of 8 years, because of her hooking ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
oGqPmtWyej4KtuUeFareok4gprhxndDQ | 9z6uqk | {
"description": "critiquing my mother's parenting style in front of her kids",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for critiquing my mother's parenting style in front of her kids | So, some context. This happened a few days ago. I moved out of my parent's house when I was sixteen. It was a toxic environment, and while I was certainly contributing to that, it was taking its toll on my mental health. My mom and I had regular arguments that always went too far, and my dad and I would get into physic... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 1,
"OTHER": 8,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
ihTpNJRiJ1gRdO2r4U73YScEwp14WMUG | a2ipc0 | {
"description": "being upset at my ex",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being upset at my ex? | This girl and I dated for around a month, and we became quite close very quickly. We broke up amicably (we both are dealing with mental health issues and just couldn’t do it) and while it hurt, I wasn’t upset at her or anything.
That was around 2 weeks ago. We agreed that it would be busy to be friends but we haven’t... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 1,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 2
} | INFO | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
JR02GrMMY7iCPfJztjjFHSTczUrK5bie | ai8o3p | {
"description": "continuing to workout while a homeless person is trying to sleep inside my gym",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for continuing to workout while a homeless person is trying to sleep inside my gym? | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 3,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT | |
dD4An1331BCG450aXh5k5p2qyjJe29iF | b5fun6 | {
"description": "driving to work when I could easily take the train",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for driving to work when I could easily take the train? | Up until around January this year I would commute via train, but have recently started driving instead because it actually works out cheaper for me per month. If you're wondering how that's possible, the car is my girlfriend's mum's old car that she gave to me for free when she got a new one. My girlfriend and I (who c... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 6,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 2,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
VMrnEk2Dytdf5CLl5HkAmGS59V5H6agQ | b9e0rc | {
"description": "asking a woman to stop blowing her nose",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 21
} | AITA for asking a woman to stop blowing her nose | So a little backstory: I know it’s really weird, so please don’t judge me, it’s not something I can control. But hearing and seeing people blow their nose makes me sick. Like physically vomit. I have no clue why. For reference, I can’t blow my nose since I got my tonsils out at 5 years old.
So I was at a university l... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 20,
"OTHER": 7,
"EVERYBODY": 1,
"NOBODY": 4,
"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 11,
"WRONG": 21
} | WRONG |
jxA6HXmUfSNUvsE7vICKNvVnIOmynle1 | anjohl | {
"description": "crossing thru someone back yard with permission",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for crossing thru someone back yard with permission | So when I was 14 i had to cross thru 2 backyards to get school and both the yards owners knew I did it and i have had no problems with the first house closet to my house and they have talked to me while i was walking thru the yard but the second yard that is the closest to my school is the one i have problems with the ... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
"OTHER": 2,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 2,
"WRONG": 0
} | RIGHT |
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