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{ "description": "not buying my younger brother anime related gifts for Christmas because I think he needs to grow up", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for not buying my younger brother anime related gifts for Christmas because I think he needs to grow up?
My little brother is in his mid 20’s and still lives at home. He is in non traditional school, which requires about $300/month in dues. If my calculations are correct, he is making a little under $2,000/mo after paying his dues. My mother doesn’t charge him any rent or bills, and she sometimes brings him home food. He ...
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{ "description": "expecting a friend to return some borrowed money even though she currently has no place to live or a working car", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting a friend to return some borrowed money even though she currently has no place to live or a working car?
Let me preface this by saying that I usually hate lending people money and I've said no numerous times but since my friend was stuck in a hard place, I decided to help her out. My friend, let's call her Ana, found out that she had 30 days to move out of her current living situation since her landlord was no longer goi...
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{ "description": "refusing to give up a seat to the latecomer who had saved it", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to give up a seat to the latecomer who had saved it?
This was years ago, but I’ve always wondered about it. Tl;dr at the bottom. In college I had a class that met in a conference room that was way too small. There was a large conference table that could seat the professor and about a third of the students and and row of seats along the back wall that could seat another ...
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{ "description": "asking a friend not to text me at night", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a friend not to text me at night?
I have a friend who's always been a bit needy and clingy, which is fine and even endearing sometimes, but lately she's been texting me all day, every day. It doesn't bother me that much during the day, it's nice to have the company and whatnot.... but when I get home from work and I'm winding down I kinda just want to ...
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{ "description": "thinking my brother has a personality disorder", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my brother has a personality disorder
​ My brother and I have had a tense relationship since we were little. I was a typical snitch and he was a typical bully. As we got older our relationship became more faceted and I think his hatred for me grew deeper. I can only assume he hates me based off of what he's said to me, and I can't really blame ...
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{ "description": "triggering one of my school's office staff", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for triggering one of my school's office staff?
This is the entire story. ​ The other day, I had to check something for my friend whom was overseas. She told me to help her check something in the office, and I tried to help her. ​ However, when I tried to help her check and ask the staff about it, she immediately went ''What do you think th...
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{ "description": "not wanting my adopted friend to apply for a minority scholarship", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for not wanting my adopted friend to apply for a minority scholarship
Here is some background: My (18f) best friend (18f) was born in Korea but was adopted by white parents as an infant. She does not speak Korean or know anything about the culture/traditions. (I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that or that it makes her any less Korean.) She makes an obvious effort to separate h...
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{ "description": "stopping doing my fiancés laundry", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stopped doing my fiancés laundry?
Our agreement since I’m not working is cleaning and cooking and laundry. I recently found out he doesn’t wipe his ass right. So his underwear is shit stained literally looks like my nephews underwear who is learning to wipe. It grosses me out since he’s been using my sweatpants and I don’t even want to be touching th...
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{ "description": "breaking off contact with my long time friends for mocking me", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking off contact with my long time friends for mocking me?
hey everyone! So a week ago I stopped talking and with four of my long time buddys. We have known each other for around ten years now but I moved to a different country so we only keep in touch via gaming. In the last few years we were gaming together almost every day and a bit of mocking here and there was pretty mu...
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{ "description": "riding my bike on the sidewalk and flipping off pedestrians who were standing right in the middle", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for riding my bike on the sidewalk and flipping off pedestrians who were standing right in the middle.
So, this happened quite a long time ago,so u don't quite remember the details,but I'll try my best. I was about 14 when this happened and it was my first time in America. I had come over for a holiday with my family and staying with my uncle. So, one fine evening, I decided to take my uncle's bike(bicycle) and just ri...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for not having sex", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend for not having sex
I (28M) was in a relationship with a girl (27F) in my medical school since the last 5 years. We both loved each other and thought we had a future together. It was my first serious relationship and I gave it everything I had. Now coming to the physical part of the relationship. I was a virgin when I met her, and af...
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{ "description": "bashing this girl about an ugly \"joke\" she made", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for bashing this girl about an ugly "joke" she made?
Sad Girl- SG Rude Girl- RG Other people- O Me- M VERY LIGHT PARAPHRASING TO AVOID GETTING IN TROUBLE WITH MY SCHOOL Last Year (girl who attempted suicide last year)- LY this is in a group chat, if you can't tell O- What are you guys up to? **SG**\- Planning suicide O- For real? Why? *M*\- Text me, privatel...
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WIBTA if a stop dating a girl because of her trashy family?
I have a crush that has been dating me for a few months, she is an incredible person, but her family is not that much. I hate all the members I know of her family, The reason? when I went to her house I heard them insulting me, I was in the living room and they were in the kitchen, talking about my appearance, and my...
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{ "description": "sitting in a seat previously sat by another student", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sitting in a seat previously sat by another student?
I don't even know how to word the title properly. I'm in school, which is held 3 days straight out of the month every month. We're about 4 months in, and it's held in someone's home and has about 20 people, so intimate environment (it's in the living room). There's a couch, some chairs, and folding chairs. Every day th...
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{ "description": "thinking these kids shouldn't play outside", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for thinking these kids shouldn't play outside?
I live in a suburban apartment complex where there's not a lot of green space. There's about 10 feet in between the buildings, but even that's just dirt and rocks and dog poop that no one picks up. Mostly it's a lot of parking lot and a few dumpsters. There is a woman who lives in the building next to me who has 3 - ...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my bf for being heroic", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset at my BF for being heroic?
Ok, so I hope to God my boyfriend never sees this; this was so long ago but I still wonder if I was a bitch in this situation. So about a year ago my bf and I were at a store. Guy comes in, runs to the cigarettes counter, and takes off into the parking lot. The man pushed a lot of people to get through, so it was a maj...
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{ "description": "telling someone to \"commit Neck Rope\"", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For Telling Someone To "Commit Neck Rope"?
My friend was being annoying so I told her to "commit neck rope" (As a joke, I would never tell someone to legitimately kill themselves) ​ She suddenly got incredibly offended and began yelling at me because she used to struggle somewhat with depression. I didn't know this and none of the people around us ...
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{ "description": "being always too uptight", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Because I'm always too uptight?
My friends and I planned to leave early (because our teacher was absent) we decided to go to the mall. They wanted to smoke weed before we went and I didn't want to. They kinda made fun of me for it but ultimately respected my decision. They said it wouldn't take too long (like 10 min) and then we could head to the mal...
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{ "description": "talking about my best friend with her ex behind her back", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for talking about my best friend with her ex behind her back
Me(Male) and my best friend(Female) are very close. About a month ago she had met with some guy on Tinder, I will call him Jacob, and they really clicked. She would often mention how great Jacob is and all. I have met him once and he was actually a great guy from a first look. Two weeks forward, they start dating. Ever...
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{ "description": "removing a homeless mans boxes", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I removed a homeless mans boxes?
I live in a secured apartment complex that requires a key to enter. To enter the complex you have to walk under this pass away that is normally gated however the gates have broken recently (management knows) however with gates permanently open it is still clear that this is private property and a secure apartment. Sinc...
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{ "description": "wearing very revealing clothes to a rave when there are guys in my group with girlfriends", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTAH if I wore very revealing clothes to a rave when there are guys in my group with girlfriends?
I love to go to raves and edm shows, I love the culture, and the openess at these events. I will not lie or try to humble brag, but I love my body, I work out and lift 5 days a week, and I feel blessed for having some of the features I have. I get lots of compliments on my body, I love showing it off and wearing cute ...
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{ "description": "screaming \"fuck you\" at my friend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for screaming “fuck you” at my friend?
The four of us were on a road trip to a nearby city and on the way, the three of them decided to smoke a cigarette. My two of my friends are smokers and the third is usually not. I hate cigarettes. I hate the smell, and just being around them. Both of my grandparents are dying because they smoked their entire lives. I’...
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{ "description": "outing my roommate and getting her arrested", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 111 }
AITA for outing my roommate and getting her arrested?
Ohh boy this whole thing has been a rollercoaster. Where to begin... I live with 4 people. One of my roommates and I do not get along. At all. Despite this, we have a lot of mutual friends, so we often end up hanging out together. A couple nights ago, my friends and I all go out She's there too. We go out to a loca...
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{ "description": "demanding full custody", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I demanded full custody?
TLDR: My ex shows almost 0 interest in his 4year old son despite me and my SO strongly encouraging him to be more active in the kid's life (at least more than 4 nights a month!). Every time my son comes back from his father's, he's a right "C. U. N.ext. T.uesday" for at least a week, and it's wrecking havoc on our live...
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{ "description": "blackmailing my mother to keep her from attending events she physically cannot handle", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for blackmailing my mother to keep her from attending events she physically cannot handle?
My mother’s health is not the best. She deals with high blood pressure from alcoholism, no exercise (she gets out of breath just standing up), and poor diet consisting of fast food, soda, and sweets one would find in the snack aisles. Yet she always insists on coming with my father and me to stuff that requires physi...
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{ "description": "being horrified when someone said Asians \"will be Nazis\" to black people", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being horrified when someone said Asians “will be Nazis” to black people?!
I, 29F have been talking online for over a year to a 36F Korean in the USA and he has in the past admitted to holding racist views towards black people. We talked and he agreed that he was wrong but that he was really hurt from all the bad experiences he had with black people and that he had never met a black person wh...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend for trying to get me a girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend for trying to get me a girlfriend?
So recently my friend had been telling his wife that they need to get me a girlfriend. To be fair for the longest time I did say to him and my friends that I would like to date at some point but now I’ve decided that I’d be better off alone forever and I told him to his face I don’t want one anymore. He hasn’t stopped ...
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{ "description": "using my seat's leg room", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for using my seat's leg room?
Right now, I'm currently attending a dance show in which my sister is participating. The rest of the family bought tickets and we got a few seats in the front row, next to the stage. Apparently, the front row was used to easily get from one end of the room to the other, as the other alternative was a few seconds longe...
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{ "description": "moving someone's clean clothes out of my complex's dryer", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving someone’s clean clothes out of my complex’s dryer?
We have two washers and two dryers at this complex, and someone just let their clean clothes sitting in the dryer- AITA for moving them onto the counter nearby so I can dry my wet clothes? It seems like an obvious answer, but I feel really weird moving someone’s personal stuff around
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{ "description": "badmouthing someone who holds less-than-pleasant political views", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for badmouthing someone who holds less-than-pleasant political views?
So there is this guy that I had with in our college choir. He is very awkward, but really harmless. He is kinda sweet, rather, and tries to be friendly with everybody. So when he added me on facebook, I checked his profile. There I discovered that he mainly post about anti-immigration, anti-lgbt, anti-muslim, and typ...
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AITA my girlfriend says I was rude to our dog trainer.
ok, so a little backstory: My girlfriend an I recently took in a 4 month old border collie from my uncle. my uncle recently lost his older border collie to a health condition. He was depressed, so his daughters bought him a pure bred border collie puppy. however, he is 87 years old, a bit senile and almost blind. h...
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{ "description": "not giving my daughter a jacket", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for not giving my daughter a jacket?
My daughters teacher messaged me asking why she didn’t have a jacket coming to school. I responded and told her that our daughter has a long sleeve shirt as well as a sweater on. She responded with “sir it’s 33 degrees outside, yes she has that on. But she should wear a jacket to school too” If a long sleeve shirt ...
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{ "description": "feeling upset that my boyfriend always ignores my texts", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling upset that my boyfriend always ignores my texts?
okay, i’ve been thinking about posting this on here for a while now, but i’ve been kinda nervous. i feel like a huge bitch for being upset about this, but at the same time i feel like it’s partially justified. i just need to hear an objective opinion. anyway, lets get into it. my boyfriend and i have been together fo...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to be considerate once in a while", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to be considerate once in a while?
Some context... I've been dealing with security issues with my boyfriend for a while now. We've known each other for about 10 years, and we've been dating, with a little break in the middle, for 3 years. He finally gave me exclusivity a little more than 2 years ago, but I found out in June that this wasn't entirely tr...
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{ "description": "letting a cat get killed because I was afraid to save it", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for letting a cat get killed because I was afraid to save it?
A few days ago I was walking home in my neighborhood with my sister and we heard animals fighting, and when I turned around to look it was a pair of stray dogs that were attacking a feral cat. This cat is one that my sister considers to belong to her (she feeds it sometimes but it won't come within 20 feet of any peopl...
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{ "description": "asking my fiancé to stop pretending to be single when she streams", "pronormative_score": 46, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I asked my fiancé to stop pretending to be single when she streams?
My fiancé is a streamer. She makes ok money doing it and it gives her plenty of free time. When we were just dating she would pretend to be single. She says that it’s how she makes “super chats” and there’s no flirting or anything. I wasn’t thrilled by it, but tried to get over those feelings considering that’s ...
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AITA dad calls me 4 times a month I don't want too talk to him
A little background so you know where I'm coming from. I have 3 kids my mom occasionally watched my two oldest and a lot more often my younger one since he was a lot less independent (5 days a week). Last month my mom finally left him and moved to a different state (he was having a two year affair had a kid outside the...
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{ "description": "not being able to go to her birthday party", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not being able to go to her birthday party
So I was supposed to go to this birthday party next week however, its on the same day as a soccer game I am supposed to go too. I am already missing an important soccer game for my best friends birthday and my dad who is the soccer fanatic let me go but made a big deal about it. He said that I cannot miss next game at ...
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{ "description": "telling a stranger her husband cheated on her repeatedly", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for telling a stranger her husband cheated on her repeatedly?
Hey fellow assholes! Alt account; my friend might see this. ​ About two years ago, my best friend told me his longtime girlfriend had confessed to cheating on him several times with a guy at work. I didn't ask too much about this other guy, but later found out from a mutual friend that the Other Man is mar...
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{ "description": "stopping talking to my best friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if i stopped talking to my best friend?
Backstory: My friend Carly and i have been friends for about 3/4 years now, and we’ve been through lots together. one of those things being an abusive ex i had, he severely emotionally abused me for 7/8 months and beat me while drunk. we all used to be really good friends but naturally, after he beat me, we stopped ta...
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{ "description": "not taking my girlfriend to Auschwitz and not helping her fulfil her dream", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA If I don't take my girlfriend to Auschwitz and not help her fulfil her dream?
I (20/M) am studying abroad in Lodz, Poland, through europe's Erasmus program. My girlfriend (20/F) of 7 months is coming to visit me from our home country for one week in April. She wants me to take her to Auschwitz because it is one of her dreams to visit the camp. We both agreed that it is dangerous for her to go ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to care for my disabled mother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to care for my disabled mother?
I’m 19, haven’t been to college yet (took a gap year that turned into a couple because I’m poor) working full time while I completely lose myself to my mental illnesses and addictions. I don’t have the money time or effort to take care of myself. I’m battling my own demons that are the worst they’ve ever been and at t...
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{ "description": "just wanting some space from my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for just wanting some space from my friend
the reason i feel i need to post this is i’m feeling quiet guilty. basically, i’ve got this one guy mate, we’ll call him john. john and i have been good mates for about three years, about the second year i noticed that john kind of always wanted to talk to me and only me, would defend me in any situation, take my opi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my granddads funeral", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my granddads funeral?
It's pretty much as simple as the title, my granddad recently passed away and his funeral is coming up. I done my grieving now and don't feel comfortable going into a big room with people and grieving, it's just not how I operate and I already feel really uncomfortable being around my family right now becuase I'm expec...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not telling off a group of middle schoolers", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling off a group of middle schoolers?
Context: My town has low, low tolerance for slurs of any kind and more. This is partly because a couple of years ago, a closeted gay student killed himself due to bullying that included repetition of the f-slur and more. Last year, my school even received multiple bomb threats because the school administration didn’t...
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{ "description": "not trying to pick a side in my friends fight", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not trying to pick a side in my friends fight?
Okay so a bit of backstory is necessary for this story. A few months ago (summer of 2018) two of my best friends(I had been friends with them for over 5 years) that didn't know each other at the time decided to enroll into colleges into a another country. At first i didn't know that they were gonna stay at the same to...
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{ "description": "helping my friend ask someone he likes to prom, even if it's in spite of someone else", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for helping my friend ask someone he likes to prom, even if it’s in spite of someone else
Throwaway account. So the title may not seem so saucy, but this has recently happened and me and my two friends have been painted as villains and I wanted some outside perspectives. It’s gonna be a long one. So I have to explain some stuff here. I have two friends, they are my best friends, A and B. We form this tr...
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{ "description": "not taking my gf to the restaurant she wants to eat at for date night", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not taking my gf to the restaurant she wants to eat at for date night?
We’ve been dating 3 years living together for 1. She’s Filipino and and I’m White and we try and do a date night either Friday or Saturday every week. Today I get home and she wants to go out to eat tonight. She said she wants to eat at this Filipino restaurant however I’m not a huge fan of the cuisine so I counter ...
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{ "description": "firing our cleaning lady for drawing a huge pen!s/b@lls in our steamed-up mirror", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for firing our cleaning lady for drawing a huge pen!s/b@lls in our steamed-up mirror?
The huge (& lifelike) picture only appeared once the steamy shower revealed it. Unfortunately, our young son is the one who noticed it first. (He’s only 4 and could not have reached as high as the big drawing went - and he can’t draw that well). Nobody had been in our bathroom since the day the cleaners did our ...
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{ "description": "keeping the baby", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for keeping the baby?
So, my boyfriend, or ex boyfriend, or whatever he is at this point, met in Spain, when I lived alternatively with my son. I'll just call him bf from now on. It was hot love at first, but at some point we had an on and off relationship, mainly due to the fact that he doesn't like kids, and I had one. He loves to travel ...
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{ "description": "requesting tater-tot casserole for my birthday", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for requesting Tater-tot casserole for my birthday?
This actually happened last year but I still need to know if I am the asshole or not. So my birthday is in August. Two months before my big day my now ex girlfriend asked me what I would like on my special day. I'm not the kind of guy to want much or even want people spending money on me so I thought about something t...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a friend for starting drama at a party and making me late home", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at a friend for starting drama at a party and making me late home?
Firstly I'm on mobile so sorry for the format and secondly they will probably be some spelling errors sorry. Every year I get around 5-6 night outs a year so I tend use them sparingly. Last night 3 of my friends (we'll call them F, K and JD) were hosting a party half way across the country from me so traveling was al...
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{ "description": "not wanting to tell my mother anything about how I feel", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to tell my mother anything about how I feel?
I have a few posts in r/raisedbynarcissists if you want a little more background. ​ ​ *A few reasons why*: I'm on a band at my school and I felt like I was going to vomit because of how nervous I was. I opted to play 1/3 songs and she found out and yelled at me for being a disgrace to the fam...
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{ "description": "buying my neighbor a gift card for shoveling the driveway without consulting my friend/roommate who is also the home owner", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - I bought my neighbor a gift card for shoveling the driveway without consulting my friend/roommate who is also the home owner.
The neighbor, Daniel shoveled the driveway twice now in the past week, last year my friend, Jessica didn't have a car and asked that Daniel not shovel because it makes her feel bad. This year Jessica has a car but both of us don't have time in the morning to shovel. When Jessica found out that the neighbor beat her to ...
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AITA Don't you just adore brotherly love?
Hey, kinda new to posting but I'll see how it goes. Now at this point I'm not feeling to good so I went into the front room to grab a hot choclate and speak to my parents for a bit. I paused my movie in my room to go do this. My brother, who is 19 and has a decent paying job, refuses to but his own HDMI lead. And I'm ...
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{ "description": "disagreeing with my mother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disagreeing with my mother?
So my father and I get in a lot of political or opinions based discussion, which sometimes escalates to arguments but we never really hold any grudges. We understand we have different opinions and are both willing to admit when the other is wrong (usually me because he is much more educated). Sometimes my mother gets i...
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{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "cheating in an art contest", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for cheating in an art contest
Every year my school holds an art contest. There's this girl that enters every single year (lets call her V). V is sort of an artsy student but struggles with having confidence in her art. When the art contest comes around, V enters. The art V submits is absolutely amazing, \*too amazing\*. It was clearly drawn by som...
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EVERYBODY
{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 11 }
WRONG
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AITA cousins born same year have similar names SIL refuses to speak to us or meet our new baby
Me and hubby have been together for over a decade always wanted a big family but didn’t want to start young etc. Sister in law was a career gal and honestly while family assumed she would be child free as she has never made any mention of ever wanting kids. A few years ago my first pregnancy was a rare complicatio...
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{ "description": "telling my gf not to talk to her ex husband", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my gf not to talk to her ex husband
Mobile user. First ever reddit post so excuse the grammar and all that yada yada. Ok so my gf and I have been dating roughly 9 months. We are already talking about marriage and having kids. So we both know that this is a serious relationship and not just a fling. She has been separated from her ex husband for about a ...
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{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 4 }
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{ "description": "wanting to go help my sister move", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go help my sister move
It’s about 9:30 pm right now. My sister is a huge procrastinator so of course she waited until tonight to finish moving. She has to have all her stuff out by tomorrow. She could do it by herself, but she has a history of anorexia and she’s currently underweight and weak. Her friends that live in town are weak and would...
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{ "description": "giving one of my bosses a bit of lip", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving one of my bosses a bit of lip.
I work in a massive mall with two locations in the one centre. Most staff go back and forth between the two stores. One of our bosses is very arrogant and not involved in anything he deems below him. It can take a toll on the work dynamic. Couple days ago he was on his way to the other store and I asked politely if he ...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 1 }
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{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "getting mad every time my SO tells me that I'm crazy", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if i get mad every time my SO tells me that i'm crazy?
I (F23) come cross to other people as very straight forward in the way i communicate. . I tend to be dominant in my relationships, and when i need to make a point i do no hesitate to express myself. That does not mean im 'allowed' to be rude to other people, im just direct and objective. Now, every time i get into an...
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{ "description": "not wanting to leave my house for my Ex's birthday party", "pronormative_score": 49, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to leave my house for my Ex's birthday party?
Me and my Ex-GF broke up about 3 weeks ago. We dated for 5 years. Unfortunately we have to live together until May because we couldn't find someone to take my spot in the lease. She also made these set of rules when we realized our friend couldn't take the lease from me. The rules were no hugging, no cuddling, no kis...
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{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 48, "EVERYBODY": 1, "NOBODY": 1, "INFO": 0 }
OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 49, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "wanting to stay friends with my (sort-of) ex", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to stay friends with my (sort-of) ex?
I’m a senior in college, 22 years old. First you need a little back story about how this guy (we’ll call him Ted) came to be sort-of exes. My freshman year, the first week of school I met this guy—who was a junior at the time. I hit on him, he told me he had a girlfriend of a few years, but he thought I was funny and...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "dating multiple people", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for dating multiple people?
Hey guys, Last night I was on a fourth date with a pretty cool guy. He brought up being exclusive on our third date. I said I was still dating and it was soon for me. Last night we talked about taking it slow. By the end of the night, we were making out on my couch. He asked if I make out with guys on my couch often....
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{ "AUTHOR": 2, "OTHER": 6, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 10, "INFO": 0 }
NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 16, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "wanting to tell off annoying coworkers that won't shut up in the work group chat", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to tell off annoying coworkers that won’t shut up in the work group chat?
So at my job, we have a group chat to share important, work-related information with each other. It’s important to note that the majority of my coworkers are High Schoolers or young adults. We started off on an app called slack, but we had to move to GroupMe because slack was going to make us pay for the service some...
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{ "description": "having a crass sense of humor, especially if others are laughing", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having a crass sense of humor, especially if others are laughing.
I just finished speaking with a friend and apologizing for some things that I have said. I bust this friends chops a lot, I mean A LOT. As a rule of thumb, I look at how other people interact with me to gauge their comfort zone. For instance is someone is nice I try to be nice back, if someone if rude I try to be rude ...
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{ "AUTHOR": 1, "OTHER": 0, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 2, "INFO": 0 }
NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "singling out my Ex in group get-togethers", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for singling out my Ex in group get-togethers?
I didn't really intentionally single her out, but I needed time away at the time. She broke up with me about half a year ago. Well, we actually broke up twice. First time, she broke up with me and told me she doesn't know why it isn't working, she just can't continue on the relationship if she doesn't feel anyth...
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{ "AUTHOR": 0, "OTHER": 2, "EVERYBODY": 0, "NOBODY": 0, "INFO": 0 }
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{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "getting upset when my boyfriend is too friendly", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA because I get upset when my boyfriend is too friendly?
Okay, I apologize in advance because this is the first post I’ve ever made. Woohoo to me. My boyfriend (17) and I (18) have been together for almost a year and a half. One of the things that drew me to him in the first place was his kindness and manners. That being said, I didn’t mind when he was kind to other girls....
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{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "telling my sister she was a cold hearted bitch", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA I told my sister she was a cold hearted bitch.
Dad: What's wrong? You look upset. Me: I'm just scared about starting chemo next month. Dad: What's the worst that can happen, you lose all your hair? Sister: Thank god. (My family hates my beard.) I don't think my dad was trying to be cruel, but my sister was being a cold hearted bitch and told her so.
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{ "RIGHT": 14, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "dealing with my ex like this", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dealing with my ex like this?!?
I have broken up with my ex 2 months ago. I haven’t talked to her in awhile. We didn’t leave on good terms though. A couple weeks ago she hit me up Just asking about me. Just some small talk at the start. But then she starts talking to me about this boy she likes. I’m not really the jealous type but we’re all a little ...
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{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "being creeped out by this girl rocking me off to sleep", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being creeped out by this girl rocking me off to sleep?
We were went on an overnight trip at school and because of a clerical error there was accommodation problems with the male dorms being full. I (male) volunteered to bunk with the women. The teacher who booked this had poured their heart and soul into this and I didn’t want any problems. Now in the past I have had bad n...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "asking my family to stop visiting me at work", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my family to stop visiting me at work
Basically just the tittle, but for back story i have a job at a local ice cream shop and my family members always want to come down to visit me. Now don’t get me wrong i love my family dearly but that little ice cream shop is one of the only places i can relax for the most part and my family stresses me out. i talked t...
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{ "description": "pretending to be Bi", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For pretending to be Bi?
Don't think this truly fits here, but I want an opinion, because the others seem like a-holes. I play online, and as a cover I've been pretending to be Bi, also as a sort of social experiment. I play with two people mainly (around my age,14) and there pretty chill, with an occasional rude comment about gays. Then, th...
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{ "description": "not lending money to my mother in law", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not lending money to my mother in law?
Some months ago, my father in law passed away after a couple of months of fighting a terminal disease (he really was a strong man and we genuinely thought that he would beat his cancer). After funeral arrangements were going on, I learned that my mother in law was mildly struggling to pay for the funeral services, so ...
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{ "description": "sleeping with a friend even though I'm not interested in dating them", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for sleeping with a friend even though I’m (22F) not interested in dating them?
Hi reddit! First time posting but I’d appreciate any advice you can give. Throughout college I guess I’ve gotten used to the “hook up culture” where to some people it’s common practice to sleep with someone without any commitment. Personally for me a lot of these encounters have been with people I’ve been friends with...
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{ "description": "moving this guys seat", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving this guys seat
I just got on a bus. This is a 5-6 hour bus. I picked a seat in the last empty row on the lower section of the bus. I get sick if I go on the upper. I have very long legs and when I sat own my knees were jammed against the seat in front of me. There was no one sitting in the row in front of me, but there was a bag si...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my bestfriend's best friend with permission in their bed", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for sleeping with my bestfriend’s best friend with permission in their bed?
So my bestfriend, G, invited me to her 21st at her place for which I caught a plane to travel to get there. About a month prior to the party she sent me a Snapchat to say that her bestfriend, V, would be keen to get down and dirty if I was at the party, of course I said I was keen. Leading up to this myself and V chat...
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{ "description": "not attending my sister's wedding", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn't attend my sister's wedding
My sister gets married in a few months. I will be a bridesmaid. A number of weeks ago, she came to me saying she was calling off the wedding, she confessed he was abusive and controlling - for context she listed behaviours such as him mocking her young child, mocking her body, dictating how long she could be away from ...
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{ "description": "thinking that elderly people who struggle to even walk to their car should not be allowed to operate motor vehicles", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for thinking that elderly people who struggle to even walk to their car should not be allowed to operate motor vehicles
The conversation began when i helped an elderly woman cross a grocery store crosswalk and get to her car. My wife sees no problem that she struggled to walk across traffic fast enough and then got behind the wheel. The delay in reaction time and physical ability is concerning to me. She took her time exiting her parkin...
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{ "description": "refusing to examine my best friend's private area and then cutting contact when they posted a bad review of my practice on google", "pronormative_score": 69, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to examine my best friend’s private area and then cutting contact when they posted a bad review of my practice on google?
My friend for over a decade doesn’t like doctors and won’t implement whatever advice or medication he is given. I’ve worried that for a while now he only keeps up the friendship on his end for occasional medical advice. On New Years Eve, he came into the bathroom as I was washing up and he cornered me and pleaded tha...
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{ "description": "leaving some friends homeless", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving some friends homeless?
First post on Reddit, I'm on mobile so format may suck. Wall of text incoming. The wife and I were trying to sell our townhome, and it was not happening. Been on the market for months. When we decided to sell it we decided to take my parents up on their offer to stay with them, as we have three young kids and trying t...
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{ "description": "taking my Fiancee's engagement ring from her because of her drinking problem", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA For taking my Fiancee's engagement ring from her because of her drinking problem?
I'll try to summarize this as much as possible. My fiancee is amazing and I love her to bits. But when she drinks she can't stop. She will eventually drink until she passes out and makes an ass of herself. She also doesn't seem to care about personal boundaries, touching other men's faces and legs and the like. I've to...
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{ "description": "accidentally disclosing the sexual past of me and a friend", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For accidentally disclosing the sexual past of me and a friend (NSFW)
Yesterday I was with a group of friends and they were talking about sexual experiences when one of them asks me if I had ever fingered anyone, I say yes and then he asks who. This is where it gets complicated because the girl in question is my ex but still a very good friend of mine. So I stay silent when he asks who a...
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{ "description": "finding out my friend is an Intel and transphobe", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for finding out my friend is an Intel and transphobe
About a couple days ago, my friend posted this comment about defending the fact one r/niceguys where it implies that women reject men who loves them, looks good, etc. When I approached him about this, he said that him not being s good person, I said that I wasn't comfortable being friends with him, though I still brows...
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Money is kinda tight right now because we just had a death in the family and my BF has to take a week of work off and I had to take a day. So I was missing almost 200$ out of my pay. Well the bills don’t stop and we have to eat. Also I take care of my father through the week...money wise. So yeah. Sorry for rambling. ...
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{ "description": "being mad about my sister wanting to go on her choir trip", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for being mad about my sister wanting to go on her choir trip?
My step-sister (15) lives with her mom about 30 minutes away. I (17) live with my mom and stepdad. I just found out that my stepdad hadn't told my mom about her choir trip that she wants to go on. Its $900 total, so my stepdad has to pay $450. My brother, mom, and I were going to go see my grandma in Colorado for sprin...
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{ "description": "buying myself an Xbox even though my girlfriend hates video games and doesn't want me buying one", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I buy myself an Xbox even though my girlfriend hates video games and doesn't want me buying one?
Title says it all. My girlfriend hates all video games and thinks they're stupid and a waste of time. I've wanted an Xbox for a while; AITA if I buy one and go against her wishes?
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{ "description": "skipping my shift at work", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for skipping my shift at work
BACKGROUND: I work as a server for a wedding banquet. I’ve been there for two years and one of their most long term employee. I’ve been told multiple times that I have more responsibilities because I am more experienced suggesting I am an asset to the team. WHAT HAPPENED: So we have a fairly common rule that we must as...
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{ "description": "not wanting my boyfriend to call me the n-word", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to call me the N-word?
So for context, I am a white female, my boyfriend is a black male. Whenever I say something he thinks is silly or doesn’t make sense to him, he says “Ni**a what?!” to me. Almost every time, I say please don’t call me that. It seems condescending when he says it in that tone. It’s hard to explain his tone online, but to...
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{ "description": "not wanting to raise our kids religious", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to raise our kids religious?
My girlfriend and I are super close. We are deeply in love, and talk about getting married, having kids, the whole works. For the most part, we agree about a lot of things. But this is a relationship, so we obviously have things we agree/ disagree on. We mostly always find a compromise. We are not planning on having k...
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{ "description": "'censoring' my cousin and father when they were gossiping about my favourite relative", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ‘censoring’ my cousin and father when they were gossiping about my favourite relative?
Hi Reddit, Please impart your wisdom on me. Some background: My family comes from a South Asian background. In my culture, it’s gravely disrespectful to make a guest feel unwelcome at any moment while they are within your home or visiting you. You are expected to bend over backwards to be hospitable, which is usuall...
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{ "description": "being telling my gf to watch her drink while she goes out to a bar with a guy friend", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being telling my gf to watch her drink while she goes out to a bar with a guy friend
So throwaway account, but my girlfriend got asked to go to a bar with an old coworker. She was friends with him before, not sure how close they were though. They haven't spoken in probably a year, but he randomly dmed her on instagram asking her how she's been and if she'd want to hang out. She took this as just frien...
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So my husband owns his own business and has been working 7 days a week since before our oldest was born. She is 4. I talked him into seeing his sister another city about two hours away today and we brought his mom with us. I was under the impression they would need us to leave by 1-1:30 for their kid’s nap time, but th...
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{ "description": "not trying in a compulsory school race", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not trying in a compulsory school race
I go to a boarding school and recently we had our annual school race. You can walk or run the race and a lot of people walk. My school is divided into separate boarding houses (roughly 50 people per house) and there's a competition on which house is the fastest in the race. I walk the race instead because I'm really ba...
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{ "description": "ratting out someone for cheating", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ratting out someone for cheating?
This is going to be a long story, I'll put a TL;DR at the end Information needed to paint the full picture: I have pretty bad separation anxiety when it comes to a few select people, I cant cut them out of my life no matter how hard I try, so I'll do what ever it takes to keep them around. This starts about 3 years...
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{ "description": "canceling a date with my gf to spend time with a friend who used to be extremely close and haven't seen in years", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for canceling a date with my gf to spend time with a friend who used to be extremely close and haven't seen in years?
I've been dating my gf for 8 months now. She is amazing. But I don't know what to think anymore and I don't really know whether I'm the asshole or not. This all started a few of weeks ago when she told me she really wanted to go to this art museum. It looked cool and I was down. I was busy for next couple of weekends ...
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{ "description": "being mad at a friend who ditches me for alcohol", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being mad at a friend who ditches me for alcohol?
I have a friend. Let’s call her M. She’s a college sophomore and I’m a junior. We weren’t close last semester but we hung out, and she’s like close to the end of her party thot phase. This semester weve hung out a lot more, because our friend group kind of split, and we’ve become better friends. She hangs out a lot at...
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{ "description": "getting upset if I ask something small from my family and they say yes but just won't do it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA getting upset if I ask something small from my family and they say yes but just won't do it.
I am going to a rough time right now, with an injury from an accident and a death in my fiancees extended family. The death was unexpected and I was there with my fiancees family the whole time, spending three days in a hospital. I am behind with work and I sleep at my in laws parents to support them, because they don'...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my dad for showing up the hospital", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting mad at my dad for showing up the hospital?
this happened about an hour ago and currently it has caused a looming shit-storm in the house. so small backstory to pretext to why I got upset in todays events... a year and a half ago my mum passed away. at the time of her passing I myself had just begun to get really sick and had moved in with my parents (I am 33...
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