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{ "description": "getting mad I wasn't invited to a birthday party", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting mad I wasn't invited to a birthday party
I know this is a cliche and petty sounding basis of a story which, taken at face value, may have an obvious answer but I think you need to hear me out. The context is imperative to account for in this scenario. ​ So this girl and I were in the same friends group for about 3 years. We'd hang out every brea...
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{ "description": "not being supportive of my gf", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being supportive of my gf?
A while ago, their semester ended, and there was a talk about an overseas vacation, coincidentally to where my girlfriend is from (the country in general, not the exact place. Gf has not been there either). From the first time I heard of this, I told her that while I obviously couldn't stop her from going, I wasn't rea...
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{ "description": "trying to have my ex forgive and forget three years ago so I can comfortably go back to my hometown", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita for trying to have my ex forgive and forget three years ago so I can comfortably go back to my hometown
I’m a 17(m) and I dated this on and off for years when I was 15 to 16. We ended the relationship in the end because of some personal problems that were happening to me and it affected her in the end which I felt awful about. Because of the personal problems I faced I moved in with my uncle to another state to deal with...
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{ "description": "not wanting my roommate to put furry art on the living room walls", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my roommate to put furry art on the living room walls?
I’m a guy, I live with two women, we’re all in our mid-late 20s. The overall theme of the decor is mid-century modern. One of my roommates, let’s call her Zee, is a **very** proud furry. I have nothing against furries. I find the whole concept strange but ultimately it harms no one, and as a gay man, who am I to judge...
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{ "description": "leaving my friend in the rain when I had an umbrella", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my friend in the rain when I had an umbrella?
So two of my friends had to go get lunch from one of their moms. But it started raining on the way there and it was pouring down hard. So one of my friends, “Joe”, straight up left the other one to get the lunch. Joe had an umbrella while the other friend did not. So he got soaked while getting the food and Joe still j...
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{ "description": "letting a normal customer call me by the wrong name for over the years", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for letting a normal customer call me by the wrong name for over the years?
I work at a family owned independent ship center/ p.o box rental place. Let's just say my name is Jason. A boxholder that we have thinks my name is Troy, even though he called me Jason for the first year. I left to Florida for 3 months. When I came back, he, for some reason, called me Troy. I never corrected him, a...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to graduate school and asking MY parents to cover payments", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA FOR WANTING TO GO TO GRADUATE SCHOOL AND ASKING MY PARENTS TO COVER PAYMENTS
Real short and simple The norm in my country is that the parents are obliged to send you off to college (you dont really work or acquire student loans because your parents cover everything from boarding house to daily expenses) I've graduated from college at the age of 21 Im 23 now and in my second year in graduate sc...
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{ "description": "pursuing legal action against my ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pursuing legal action against my ex
This is kind of a long story. My ex and I split up at the beginning of the year on not great terms. At the time we had been living together for about six months and in the time we lived together problems in our respective personal lives had caused our relationship to break down pretty badly. We were both struggling wit...
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{ "description": "cutting my friend off", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting my friend off?
AITA First off obligatory, I'm a lurker on Reddit, not really a poster so I hope I'm following all the rules. Second, I got the nerve to write this after seeing all the posts lamenting posts seeking validation on here. This story likely has two assholes me (27), him (29) but maybe it's just me, where I'm mostly c...
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{ "description": "wanting my project partner to do his part, even if he has other work to do", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my project partner to do his part, even if he has other work to do?
To give some context: Me and my project partner are part of the same computer science class. We had a project given out and decided to partner up for it. The project was simply, create a game with the criteria provided in a document attached to said project. So we spent multiple class days together working on the proje...
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{ "description": "being reluctant to apologise to my sister", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being reluctant to apologise to my sister?
Recently, I (20M) got into an argument with my sister (18F). The actual topic of the argument isn't overly necessary, as the important part was a miscommunication between her and my father. Necessary context, My sister has a history of anxiety and depression (who doesn't) and frequently has issues with communicating w...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to plan her own wedding rather than Copying Mine", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA If I Told My Friend To Plan Her Own Wedding Rather Than Copying Mine?
Backstory: When I got married a few years ago I did the whole thing homemade. I made candles from scratch for favors. I made a really fun & creative guest signature book with a fujifilm instant camera and a handwritten chalkboard sign asking people to put a silly selfie next to their signatures. (This was an origin...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to quit smoking, even though she knows it's my kink", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I asked my girlfriend to quit smoking, even though she knows it's my kink?
Okay, so the situaiton is a little weird here. To summarize, I somewhat recently entered a relationship, and it's going well all things considered. We're pretty good with communicating, are willing to indulge the other's interests (even though we didn't have a significant amount of the same interests at the start), and...
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{ "description": "getting Angry my dad had me call my uncle to tell him Grandma died", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AItA for Getting Angry My Dad Had Me Call My Uncle to Tell Him Grandma Died?
My paternal grandmother died while my parents were out of country. We knew it was coming and they told me everything would be handled automatically just by calling the memory care facility she was at. This was not accurate. The morning she died I was peppered with questions about her wishes and told I needed to emp...
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{ "description": "throwing away my MIL's stuff", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for throwing away my MIL's stuff
I live in NYC with my partner, and we are very happy together in all respects except one. I have a very strong aversion to storing extra stuff (especially if it has no clear utility or can be easily replaced). I like to live in a relatively empty space. He is quite the opposite (for example, he never throws away boxes...
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AITA or is my friend the asshole for hating me because of my childhood abuse?
I'm 14. She's 15. ​ We're both abused. Emily only got a few slaps and punches from her MOTHER whenever she made mistakes, and I was the victim of my father getting drunk and verbally abusing me from ages 2-6. It has affected me greatly and I now have trust issues and anxiety and depression. She doesn't se...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend for touching the scones", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend for touching the scones?
Yesterday I got a bag of free pastries and scones from a local bakery (they're really nice and sometimes will give away the left over food from the day). I came home and my roommate and her boyfriend were hanging out in the living room. I offered them some pastries and my roommates boyfriend started to rummage around t...
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{ "description": "ending things with my s/o for no valid reason besides I wasn't happy", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA (21m) for ending things with my S/O (20f) for no valid reason besides I wasn’t happy?
Hello everyone, was told to repost this in this sub from r/relationships for some more brutal and honest truth, so don’t hold back. Here it goes I’ve been dating this girl for a little under a year now and she has been the most amazing, caring, loving and compassionate person I’ve ever dated. We have had very few...
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{ "description": "telling a guy that \"instantly\" fell in love with me to first become friends", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a guy that "instantly" fell in love with me to first become friends?
So I met this guy a couple of days ago. Not even after 24h of knowing each other, he already starts flirting and hitting on me. I didn't really react to that, mostly because no one hits on me because I'm really socially awkward, and I don't really know what to do when this happens. Later on he starts asking for nudes...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give up my room for a week when my grandmother visits", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for not wanting to give up my room for a week when my grandmother visits?
Okay, so this is a long story. There will be a TLDR at the bottom. I’m a teenager who really likes my room. Tonight, my mom straight up told me that I would have to give up my room for a whole week to my grandmother. I would either have to sleep in my brother’s room on his second twin bed, or sleep on an inflatable ma...
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{ "description": "telling my wife Id like her to get into better shape, so that we can have a better sex life", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA For telling my wife id like her to get into better shape, so that we can have a better sex life.
Me and my wife have been married for two years. In the beginning of our relationship she had a very attractive hour glass shaped figure, which I enjoyed very much. She also worked out frequently, and ate healthy, and not just because I enjoyed it but because it made her feel happy (her words). She was a dancer while st...
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{ "description": "trying to have sex with my female friend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for trying to have sex with my female friend?
A couple years ago, when I was 20, my female friend who was 2 years older than me invited me to come drink at her house. A little background. I was relatively new to drinking, having only had my first alcoholic beverage 4 months previous, and only having drunk a handful of times since then. I'd never been seriously dr...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for one reason", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend for one reason?
I’m on mobile, sorry for the shitty formatting. So my girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and everyday was fantastic with her until the luster wore off. Around 4 months into the relationship I noticed how negative she was. Every time I’d call her after school she’d always be on about something else. Whet...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to vape weed in the stairwell, and not within my apartment, and dis-inviting him for being an asshole about the request", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my friend to vape weed in the stairwell, and not within my apartment, and dis-inviting him for being an asshole about the request?
I invited my friend to my house for a chill time playing tabletop games. I asked him not to smoke weed in my apartment because my girlfriend's sister will be there, she's 15, and her mom doesn't want her around weed otherwise she won't let her come to my apartment alone. Neither my GF or I smoke weed at all. He said th...
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{ "description": "continuing using my ex's Netflix and Spotify", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I continue using my ex's Netflix and Spotify
We broke up few days ago after several years of dating. He has Netflix and Spotify together with his 3 friends. He gave me password as soon as he subscribed to both and never took money I offered him for using both regulary. Even more than him. I've noticed he hasn't changed the passwords. Now I'm trying to decide sho...
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{ "description": "threatening to tell secrets about my sister", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for threatening to tell secrets about my sister
Before I start the story I need to give a little backstory. This is my first reddit post ever so if I do something stupid my bad. Anyway, I joined color guard my freshman year. Usually when you are returning for the second year it is way less expensive because you already bought all your uniforms and stuff. My now ex-s...
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{ "description": "not letting my little sister get a giant llama plushie", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my (18F) little sister (16F) get a giant llama plushie?
My sister and I went to an arcade where all your tickets for prizes and gaming credits are loaded onto a card. The problem was that each new card that is created has a $5 activation fee and so my sister suggested that we share a card so we only have to pay one activation fee. That made sense since we were going to stic...
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{ "description": "generally not tipping Uber drivers", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for generally not tipping Uber drivers?
Pretty simple. Had this debate earlier with a friend. Uber tips didn’t hit my last city until awhile after I’d used the service, and I left soon after, so it wasn’t a phenomenon for more that a few months for me. The only reason I ever took one was because, especially with a Visa discount, they’re extremely cheap in ...
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{ "description": "saying no to a friend coming to dinner with my friends and I", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for saying no to a friend coming to dinner with my friends and I
I am in high school and tommorow is Valentine's day and we have no school Friday. My best friend and I love to go to buffalo wild wings once and a while and we remembered it was boneless thursday so we had the idea to go to dinner. We immediately decided to bring 2 of our other friends with us. This was all last week....
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{ "description": "deliberately speaking softly to my mostly deaf grandfather-in-law", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for deliberately speaking softly to my mostly deaf grandfather-in-law?
My grandfather-in-law is mostly deaf but refuses to wear his hearing aids. We end up having to shout to be heard, but when we do this, he gets mad and insists he can hear just fine and we need to stop shouting. He gets especially mad when I raise my voice, because he’s a very sexist, traditional old Chinese man and thi...
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{ "description": "throwing away my ex-girlfriends family photos", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for throwing away my ex-girlfriends family photos?
We broke up about 10 months ago. 4 1/2 year very strenuous relationship that ended on quite bad terms. I moved yesterday, about 4 hours away from my small town. A new-start kind of thing for me. I decide to send a fairly lengthy text saying I am not trying to continue any kind of communication, I just want to apologiz...
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{ "description": "not wanting my mother to live with me when I move out", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For not wanting my mother to live with me when I move out
Sorry if this goes all of the place, I'm just trying to talk a little about how she is to show why the title is what it is. Ever since I was little she has always talked about how she was going to move with me whenever I do move out. When I was little I didn't really put much thought or care into it and just said ok. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to play league with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to play league with my boyfriend?
So my boyfriend and i mainly play ranked to climb up and lately he’s kind of being up my ass about doing specific things. Things like “you’re missing CS” or “why didn’t you heal” just being very demanding and wanting me to play in a specific manner. He says it’s criticism and that whenever I get upset, he says “I don’t...
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{ "description": "taking back my money from my sisters who wanted to use it to go to Asia", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For taking back my money from my sisters who wanted to use it to go to Asia?
Ok, let me first point out that my sisters are under 14 years old, and I'm just a teenager. A few months ago they devised a plan to take a trip to Thailand for... well no reason specifically. They just like Asia. They put out dog-walking posters all around the neighborhood in hopes of getting some money to fund their t...
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{ "description": "spending time with family insted of buying a formula machine", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for spending time with family insted of buying a formula machine?
My wife is depressed so we agreed I would take nights with the kids if they need to eat or need assistance during the nights, add to this i work 12-15 hours a day but it's nothing I can't handle. How ever wife said she felt guilty about me taking nights while she stayed home at daytime and said we should get a formula...
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{ "description": "telling my parents I don't want to visit them until next year", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my parents I don't want to visit them until next year?
Some backstory: * I am my mom's only child (my dad has three other daughters he does not talk to much), * I am stationed overseas with my husband for one more year and then we are stationed back into the states, * it has been a year and a half since I have seen them (the last time I saw them, I flew from overseas to t...
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{ "description": "not paying my part in in-laws suprise party", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not paying my part in in-laws suprise party?
So my SIL calls me during the day to put forward an idea for throwing In-Laws a wedding anniversary party and a general excuse to bring the whole family together. I think it's a great idea and dispite the fact my In-laws haven't treat me the best I do love party planning and the rest of my husband's family are so lovel...
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{ "description": "going off on my grandparents because they coddle my 10 y/o cousin", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for going off on my grandparents because they coddle my 10 y/o cousin?
Obligatory I’m on mobile. And probably a validation post. Not really sure Some backstory. My uncle and his girlfriend are genuinely bad people and are in no way capable of raising a child. Thus my grandparents are raising her. Now my cousin has behavioral problems (temper tantrums and refusing to listen to my grand...
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AITA (31) M went to one of best friends wedding GF (27) tell me I’m awful because I didn’t give her enough attention
So I work nights in the local ER I worked the night before wedding got about 3 hrs of sleep then got up and went to do prewedding photos etc. before wedding started I ran and picked up gf. We get there wedding starts best man forgets ring I duck out grab ring back hand it up to him wedding saved. After the ceremony mor...
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{ "description": "being honest", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being honest?
My girlfriend was making a joke about getting a sex change and getting a penis and she was like “would you leave me if I was a man” And I essentially said yes because I’m a straight man and I said that I’m not attracted to men romantically or sexually “I'm just like damn I've tried so hard for you over the past yea...
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{ "description": "shutting down an acquaintence for being antagonistic", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for shutting down an acquaintence for being antagonistic
I'm not much for the whole giving people shit for fun thing. It irritates me, and I don't care to participate. I expect my friends to understand that and leave me out of it or I walk. I'll volley back once or twice, but if it goes beyond three times, I cut that shit off. I understand other guys do this, but I don't gi...
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{ "description": "finding it annoying when my mother tries to contact my sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for finding it annoying when my mother tries to contact my sister?
To give a bit of context - my mother and father have split up for quite a while now, about 8 years maybe, and they really don't like each other. My father is ex-special forces and is pretty 'uptight', but he used to be a solid bloke. I've already had a 'OffMyChest' type thing about him, but the long and short of it is ...
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AITA Grocery Store Line
Crowded grocery store. I walk up to a bit of a line for checking out. Noticed the dude in front of me has allowed a bit too much space between him and the people in front of him. Some random lady steps in front of him. He seems oblivious. I wait a minute or two, and then let the lady know she cut into a line. She...
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{ "description": "being mad at my ex hosting her ex boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for being mad at my ex hosting her ex boyfriend ?
Context: My ex (F24) broke up with me (M24) a few months ago because of personal problems I had to deal with at that time. We saw each other at parties the last couple of weeks and she basically told me that she wants us to get back together because she miss me so much and she is really sorry about what happened. I al...
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{ "description": "not splitting groceries with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not splitting groceries with my boyfriend?
My boyfriend (30M) and I (30F) recently moved in together. We've been dating just under 2 years & we agreed to split rent and bills 50/50. We have similar income levels. So, I get a food benefit in my job, where my company provides me with breakfast and lunch, coffee/drinks, snacks, etc. And for most of my weekday...
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{ "description": "ignoring my old friend's gestures", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ignoring my old friend's gestures?
I've known 'A' for a long time. She's a really cool girl, and we were friends for awhile. Me and her partner 'B' knew each other before they met, and he's also a super cool dude. Me and 'A' kind of lost contact after I moved for work, but I have since moved back. Now when I get back 'A' is super happy to see me. I...
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{ "description": "not wanting to using my daughters christmas present from the in laws", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to using my daughters christmas present from the in laws?
My daughter is 11 months old (9 months on christmas) and my in laws odviously got her gifts. They got her a tickle me elmo which she loves, plays with it all the time. They also got her a potty. Which my husband and I havent taken out of the box. We dont expect her to even potty train her till shes aboug 2+. I dont thi...
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{ "description": "having my gay friend in my phone as \"Buttfucker Bobby\"", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for having my gay friend in my phone as "Buttfucker Bobby" ?
I have a gay friend named Bobby. We've known each other for years and his being homosexual has never even been a topic of conversation other then me initially finding out. He's gay, big deal. Anyways, I have nine contacts in my phone named "Bobby". For some reason I just know alot of people with that name. At one poi...
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{ "description": "wanting to charge three girls for the night to sleep on our boat for Spring Break", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to charge three girls for the night to sleep on our boat for Spring Break
A couple of friends and I rented a boat for spring break, and one of the friends knows three girls that need to sleep somewhere that night because their hotel reservation isn't until the next day. This boat barely sleeps the group of us guys. My friend doesn't even know all of the girls coming. I wanted to charge them ...
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WIBTA "family photos"
Long story short. My MIL demands family holiday photos every holiday. She can be down right evil to me and does it as she pleases. Today she for the 3rd or 4th time ( she does this every photo we take) made the comment of " why can't you smile right? what's with your face doing that?" To which I told her I was sorry i...
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{ "description": "being upset with my family for letting my cat suffer", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my family for letting my cat suffer?
I've been sick since the weekend and I was quarantining myself in my room to avoid getting my family sick. I thought I was doing a nice thing by doing that. Unfortunately my kitty cat took a turn for the worse and I had to put her down :( She was an older cat, but still had a bit of spunk in her until the last week or...
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{ "description": "not really being excited for my brother fiancee's pregnancy", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not really being excited for my brother fiancee's pregnancy?
They've been together for a year (as of 5 days ago), got engaged at 4 months together, moved in together at 3 months, and now she's pregnant. He just turned 23 and she's 22. Now, this normally isn't an issue with me but they just aren't set up financially to have a kid right now. Normally, I would be excited but they ...
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{ "description": "showing her hypocrisy to her", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA for showing her hypocrisy to her?
Long story, any who, three years ago I met this girl on a dating app we started seeing each other. (Currently I’m M22 and her F21) Things were going superbly well and I fell for her. 3 months later I asked to become official, she said no but wanted to be friends. I was very hurt. Eventually she just up and ghosted me....
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AITA because My(19M) GF(20F) is mad that I'm spending time with our mutual friend(20sF)?
Here's some background, this girl used to cheat on her boyfriend with me back in high school. Well, she died recently and since then I have been dating her best friend (my current GF). My old fling's cousin (our mutual friend) has wiggled her way into my life in the past few days and she looks almost exactly like her d...
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AITA - Family & Money Disagreement
A few weeks ago, my parents were on vacation in Minnesota while I was in Kentucky for work (we both live in Indiana). They boarded their dogs for the week and I returned to town on Friday, but they weren’t scheduled to come back until Saturday. I offered to pick up the dogs and watch after them, otherwise they’d have t...
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{ "description": "terminating someones work contract who is addicted to hard drugs", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for terminating someones work contract who is addicted to hard drugs.
http://imgur.com/krBlBcW A member of staff is about to have their contract terminated but it has come to my attention that they are quite possibly addicted to hard drugs. Does it make me an asshole if I fire them and possibly cause them to become homeless / turn to a worse way of making money? They are being fired...
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{ "RIGHT": 10, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "telling my wife that her sister and bf can't move in with us", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling my wife that her sister and bf can't move in with us?
We have a 18 month year old and we are fine the way we are, we live in a 3 bedroom house, the extra room is for when we have guests and for our future children, now she suggested her sister and bf moved in a helped us with the rent (which we can both afford with no issue), but here's my issue and you guys might think i...
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{ "description": "asking a girl if that's her \"natural hair color?\"", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I asked a girl if that's her "natural hair color?"
There's a lady I work with who intrigues me. She has raven colored hair but light colored eyes...I can't remember exactly what color but I think they are hazel or green. I'm a happily married man so I have no intention of hitting on her, although I must admit that I think she's beautiful in a very exotic sort of way. S...
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{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "despising the hypocritical side of my mom", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for despising the hypocritical side of my mom?
Don't get me wrong, I don't hate her. She makes sure I have meals, and a clean house to live in, but god damn she is so hypocritical. Let me explain: \- She *says* (two years ago) that she is going to quit watching k-drama (since they take up soooo much time), and here we are, two years later and she is still hooked ...
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{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 8 }
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{ "description": "talking with my professor about a parter not fulfilling his end", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for talking with my professor about a parter not fulfilling his end?
Im in a physics class where we do labs each friday. At the beginning, before our first report, we made some agreements on deadlines. We said before monday we would have 2/3 of the report done unless we hit roadblocks. The reason I wanted this was so we could ask the prof if we had any questions. The remaining 1/3 is to...
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{ "description": "confronting my girlfriends wonderful mother", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for confronting my girlfriends wonderful mother.
Girlfriends parents were suppose to go to this expensive hotel for a day, but got into a fight and decided not to go.Tried convincing their friends to go for half a price since you cant cancel it, but no one wanted. Offered us to take their place instead for "free" (actually never said free, but something like this: ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to give my ex a ride to school anymore", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to give my ex a ride to school anymore?
So here’s a bit of backstory to everything and yes I’m still in highschool and I’m starting to realize how stupid this all is now that I’m typing it out BUT I used to give my ex a ride to school everyday since she didn’t like to ride the bus and my house was less than five minutes from hers so it was no big deal. One ...
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{ "description": "buying lunch for myself and my daughter out of my family's joint bank account", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for buying lunch for myself and my daughter out of my family’s joint bank account?
My husband and I share a joint checking account, and we each have individual accounts as well. Our “rule” is that if we do things like a meal together, it’s out of the joint account, and if it’s something on our own we use our individual accounts. This week we’re vacationing with his family, and his parents gave us ...
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{ "description": "being honest with my mum", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being honest with my mum?
Ok so it may be a little long sorry. On my ph too so probaly doesn't help. I am currently on holiday with my mum, dad, brother and son. This holiday has been good apart from my mum constantly being negative and aggressive, especially about money. Background: my mum and dad split up 6 months ago. Which is after we h...
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{ "description": "being upset when my ex-fiancé got engaged 6 months later", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for being upset when my ex-fiancé got engaged 6 months later?
When we first broke up she established that she wanted to remain friends. We had been together for almost 5 years, so she was essentially my best friend. Now I tried my best to give her space when she asked for. I respect her whole heartedly, but I just found out she said yes to another man. It eats at my core and I ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my gf after she found out that I watched porn", "pronormative_score": 58, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for breaking up with my gf after she found out that i watched porn
hey, first of all, thx for the judgement on my last post. yesterday evening, my girlfriend (27) of a year and me (m27) wanted to watch a movie, i had already opened the shining on netflix and went to the toilet real quick. when i came back, lina looked at me kind of shocked and said that she wanted to brows netflix an...
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{ "description": "pissing off my coworker with water bottles and other antics to the point of him writing me an explicit note", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for pissing off my coworker with water bottles and other antics to the point of him writing me an explicit note?
Myself (20) and a coworker (50ish) share the responsibilities of delivery driver at the hardware store owned by my family. Although i'm not new to the store itself, i've only recently become the driver for 3 days a week whilst the other 2 are covered by him, as I work weekends as well. This arrangement was prompted by ...
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AITA asked a coworker/friend to play a game online. It's not the friend, instead it's his 8 year old son.
Am I the asshole if I dont want to play with his son? It feels like I'm babysitting. I'm playing games to relax and have fun. This is neither relaxing or fun.
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{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "not tattooing my girlfriend at all, let alone for free", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not tattooing my girlfriend at all, let alone for free?
I (22m) am a tattoo artist and my girlfriend (30f) is desperate for me to tattoo her in places we are told not to tattoo on people who are not heavily tattooed, and she wants me to do it for free. I work at a studio where we are told we cannot tattoo hands, necks or faces of people who are not heavily/decently tattooe...
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AITA? My GF thinks I lied to her over an insignificant comment.
So my GF and I have had some trust issues while in HS (about 2 years ago, we're both two years into uni), but those have all been reconciled with the assumption it wouldn't happen again. ​ We got to different unis so we Facetime every night. I was up late, and she was still on the call because I was finis...
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{ "description": "hoping my parents get a divorce", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hoping my parents get a divorce?
(I'm 16 years old) They are horrible for each other. I am sick of hearing them fight and be abusive (physically and mentally). They are just so much better on their own than with each other. It's like they bring out the worst of each other. Am I selfish? Because I feel like everyone would just be so much better off if...
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{ "description": "thinking you should apologize for things you didn't mean to do", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For thinking you should apologize for things you didn't mean to do?
This is a huge point of contention between me and my partner. Sorry for the long post and maybe bad formatting. So me and my SO fight a lot. A LOT. Before you tell me to break up, the last ~6 mo of our relationship has been HEAVILY strained. Family issues, money issues, both of us struggle a lot with a variety of ment...
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{ "description": "dumping a mentally ill girl", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dumping a mentally ill girl?
I'm in highschool sophomore year. There was this girl and I thought she was cute and just shy so I talked to her and got her number and talked to her for a couple weeks. Things were moving quick and I was already uncomfortable. Then things got crazy. She was texting me like 50 times in an hour begging me to respond. An...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my birthday", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to share my birthday?
Throwaway since the situation is specific enough friends would know its me so don't wanna link my usual account...and sorry for the length. This is a bit off my chest as well and I'm a bit of a wreck and not able to think all that well. My friends and I have an annual holiday party in December, the date of course is n...
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{ "description": "telling my parents they can't stay in my flat while I'm housesitting for them", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my parents they can't stay in my flat while I'm housesitting for them?
Alright. Here's another dilemma in the "my parents are moving to my city to live in a stupid tinyhouse debacle" ([see earlier post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ayf4ec/aita_for_not_letting_my_mother_move_in_with_me/)) So, since I won't let my mother move into the flat that I share with my boyfriend...
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{ "description": "only feeding my dog once a day", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for only feeding my dog once a day?
My family has always fed my dog once a day at dinner time, now I hear people who feed their dogs at breakfast and dinner time and some people do it at breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
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{ "description": "hating my girlfriends little brother", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating my girlfriends little brother?
Me (M 15) and my girlfriend (F 15) have been dating for quite a while now. The relationship is amazing and we haven't gotten into any major arguments. But we do have one issue, her younger brother (11). The first time when I went over to her place I thought he reminded me of myself when I was his age. A bit wild, like...
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{ "description": "hating my brother who may have cancer", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I hate my brother who may have cancer?
So, delete if this isnt appropriate. This is my first time posting on reddit. So, I have an older brother. We both come from different dads. Unfortunately he had a pretty shitty upbringing; he was really badly psychically abused (not by our mother). Ever since we were kids he was... odd. He never seemed really THERE ...
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{ "description": "thinking my siblings who are moving back home should be more grateful", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA- for thinking my siblings who are moving back home should be more grateful?
So due to bad financial planning (aka neither of them getting a job), my older sister and her husband are moving back in with our parents, which also include our two younger siblings. It originally wasn’t a big problem when they were talking about it, but now that it’s actually happening, it’s a different story. The...
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{ "description": "not wanting a girl to be in our friend group because she keeps making the same repetitive joke about me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting a girl to be in our friend group because she keeps making the same repetitive joke about me?
So, I'm going to give a bit of background about this before we jump right in (sorry about the format I'm on mobile while typing also feel free to tell me if I am being a crybaby or if this post doesn't belong here lol). Me and my friend group met somewhere in the beginning of the year, we all got along decently despit...
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{ "description": "disliking/arguing with GF over dress code", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA For disliking/arguing with GF over dress code?
AITA For disliking it when my girlfriend dresses inappropriately in public? I'm talking booty shorts / dresses that show literal ass when she bends over, crop tops that show underboob, etc. We've had a rough relationship at first but now it's great, i really dislike it when my S/O wears very revealing clothing. I've ta...
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{ "description": "having a girl-friend while having a girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For Having a girl-friend while having a girlfriend?
So I just moved to a new city for my 3rd and 4th years of college and I've been trying to meet some new friends. I never really had many but now I REALLY didn't have any besides my girlfriend of 3 years that came along with me to go to the same college. It's been about 2 months now and I finally met a new friend. She a...
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{ "description": "not telling my boyfriend I was attracted to another girl first", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my boyfriend I was attracted to another girl first.
I became good friends with this girl while me and my boyfriend were long distance, it took me a while, but after a couple of months I realized I found her attractive. My boyfriend was back in Canada, and I had no intentions of pursuing anything with her, but she was the first girl I'd ever been attracted to and it made...
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{ "description": "hanging out with my friend's crush and ruining her reputation when she got mad", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for hanging out with my friend’s crush and ruining her reputation when she got mad?
sorry if this story is long and a little confusing. i’ll answer any questions. :) also sorry for long title lmao first, let’s start with information on my personality. i’m a girl, but i only hang out with guys. it’s not that i like them or i’m a whore or anything, they think of me as an equal. they understand my sense...
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{ "description": "calling my neighbour a \"Fucking Piece of Shit\"", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling my neighbour a “Fucking Piece of Shit”?
A little history first: my younger brother had a stroke when he was younger and now his legs are weaker than they should be. Because of this he has to wear leg braces for support and goes to school in a wheelchair in case his legs get to tired during the day. He is embarrassed of the leg braces and usually wears long p...
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{ "description": "looking into/possibly buying a dog my girlfriend doesn't like", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For looking into/possibly buying a dog my girlfriend doesn't like?
So, me and my girlfriend have a long distance relationship, and we've been dating for about a year and a half. I've been seriously considering purchasing a dog lately, and i've sent her several that I like. The dog i'm supposed to visit next week is a purebred black Lab. She was fine with all of the others i've shown h...
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{ "description": "wanting compensation from long-term houseguests", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting compensation from long-term houseguests?
TLDR at bottom I'll try to keep this short but the share house I'm renting in housed four tenants on the lease myself, 'john', 'Harry' and 'Liz'. Two of us (myself and john) are moving out and organising replacements respectively. John is intending to move interstate in 3 weeks with his girlfriend 'Hannah', who has b...
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{ "description": "blocking a boy who has a crush on me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for blocking a boy who has a crush on me?
This is my first reddit post, so I apologize if it's written poorly. There's a tl;dr at the bottom, also I'm sorry that this isn't too scandalous, just some teen drama. ​ For some background, I went to a small junior and senior high school, one of the boys, or B for short, entered in the school at the same...
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{ "description": "having pics of my ex from several years ago", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having pics of my ex from several years ago?
I was scrolling through my 5000+ pics to find something and my boyfriend was offended that I had pics from my ex from several years. I honestly am happy to delete them, but I can’t magically find all his pics and delete theme. He knows I love him so AITA?
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{ "description": "getting mad at my parents for removing my room without telling me", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my parents for removing my room without telling me?
I'm an 18 year old guy still in high school, just started working at a deli up the block from my house part-time a little over two years ago. My family is poorish/lower middle class so it was nice to have spending money, being finally able to buy and save for things like a car, game consoles, PC, etc. Anyway, around Fe...
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{ "description": "complaining to someone about a coworker who loudly listens to music", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTAH if I complained to someone about a coworker who loudly listens to music?
She wears headphones, but its so loud that other people say they can hear her music over their own. I'm not big on listening to anything at work, so it gets to me the most. She also taps her foot and sings sometimes. Now, if she was anyone else, I would ask her nicely to turn it down. This woman is not approachable at ...
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{ "description": "thinking that one of the stupidest things a mother can do is name her kid \"Abcde\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for thinking that one of the stupidest things a mother can do is name her kid "Abcde"?
I just saw the story about a southwest airline gate employee posting a picture of Abcde's boarding pass , and how her mother was offended that the enployee posted it. I'm not saying the employee was justified or right to make fun of someone's name, and i know there are a lot of uniquely named people out there, but come...
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{ "description": "being upset with my bf for ditching me when I have the flu to play soccer", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset with my bf for ditching me when I have the flu to play soccer?
I’ve been throwing up and running a super high fever since last night. I had to call off work today because I haven’t gotten any better. I have literally no sick food to eat in my house and I really want to take medicine to lower my fever but obv I can’t on an empty stomach. My bf of 2.5 years promised me he would bri...
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AITA My girlfriend is mad I didn’t throw my cup after the movies
My girlfriend is mad that I didn’t throw my soda away after the movie ended. She reminds me everytime but I forget. It’s no biggie since everyone else does it so I can do it too right? But I still threw my cup away after she told me to. I just forget everytime. We watch movies almost every single second week and she al...
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{ "description": "cutting my sister off at such a young age", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for cutting my sister off at such a young age
Just a warning that there’s a lot of swearing because I’m absolutely livid rn. So I’m 17 and I have a younger sister who is 15. So we have always had a terrible relationship. We could never get along but I blame my sister for it because she shuts down when something doesn’t go her way. I’ve given her money countless t...
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{ "description": "ghosting my now former best girl friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for ghosting my now former best girl friend ?
Hi, So to be the most accurate I will need to go around 2 years ago, that friend I have, let's call her J, I know her from my parents who are friends with hers, so we had been friends for around 15 years, altough she is 5 years older than I am. So we go way back. Around 2 years ago for my mom's 50th Birthday party,...
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{ "description": "asking a religious friend to refrain from praying for my family member", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITAH for asking a religious friend to refrain from praying for my family member?
So today i had told 2 of my colleagues (who i regard as friends) that we discovered that my family member (a very very close one) has cancer, and that the situation is very bad. They were both very nice and offered emotional support which was much appreciated. Later during the day, one of the two, who is a very religio...
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{ "description": "knocking on my neighbors wall at midnight", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA when I knock on my neighbors wall at midnight?
Last night I went to bed at 10:30pm and was woken up by loud voices and laughing at midnight. I live in an old apartment building which does not have soundproof walls. My neighbor had two young men over (students) who did not need to wake up early. They continued to talk loudly and laugh until almost 3am. I have a Marp...
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{ "description": "wanting to keep my friend to myself", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA? I want to keep my friend to myself.
Excuse the formatting, I’m on mobile and have no idea how this looks. So this sounds weird and oddly clingy, so here’s the background. My best friend lives in America, and I live in Canada. I’ve known her for 9 years and never met her, only face time and text and every other social media we could use. She’s been thro...
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{ "description": "being angry my boyfriend didn't visit me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being angry my boyfriend didn't visit me?
We're in a semi long distance relationship where he goes to a college about 2hrs away by train. I commute to my college so I'm in our hometown. I thought he was coming back this weekend so that he could grab his computer which is getting fixed. We made plans to go ice skating and maybe see a movie and since I have work...
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