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{ "description": "for spending less and making home made gifts for Christmas instead of buying them", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for for spending less and making home made gifts for Christmas instead of buying them?
I keep seeing discussions on people's budgets for their friends and family for Christmas and while I spent some money on supplies, my gifts that I am making did not cost that much. I'm nervous that my family and friends will buy me something expensive and my gifts could not compare. I'm currently in school, so it did h...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my sos grandfather's funeral", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my SOs grandfather's funeral
A little bit of background, I'm black she's white. Her grandfather was a flaming racist and regular threw the N word around. He was also a dirty cop in the late 60's and 70's and had plenty of stories about how he beat up "those colored boys". However, he was really a really good grandfather to his grandchildren. Beca...
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{ "description": "remaining friends with a guy who is attracted to me", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for remaining friends with a guy who is attracted to me?
I (22F) am currently in the midst of a *disagreement* with my boyfriend John (26M). The disagreement is mostly about my close friendship with a guy named Cody (23M). Cody has expressed attraction to me before, and I am also fairly attracted to him (he’s an attractive guy). I’ve never had any sort of sexual encounter ...
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{ "description": "being pissed when my friends say they don't want to hangout because they're tired or not feeling well but then hangout together without me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed when my friends say they don’t want to hangout because they’re tired or not feeling well but then hangout together without me
So I have a small group of friends I hangout with frequently sometimes it’s all 5 of us sometimes it’s just 3 of us sometimes it’s just me and one of my friends. Two weekends in a row now I’ve asked 2 of my friends to hangout and their response has been along the lines of “not tonight I’m tired” or “I’m not feeling wel...
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{ "description": "being frustrated at a 14 year old girl who constantly talks about her personal problems", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being frustrated at a 14 year old girl who constantly talks about her personal problems?
This is my first post (and on mobile) so apologies if it looks weird. This happened over the course of about a month in a discord server I am in. For privacy reasons, I won't directly quote messages sent and for context, I am 17. A couple of weeks ago, someone joined a server my boyfriend and I are in and started talk...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship with my ex after seeing something I shouldn't have", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For ending a friendship with my ex after seeing something I shouldn't have?
My ex of 3 years and I broke up about two months ago, at her request. We've tried being friends, and up until this incident it was going fairly well. We'd still hang out and attend events together sometimes, still game together at times, grab lunch and that sort of friendship stuff. The other day I went for a walk thr...
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{ "description": "telling my mom we are no longer on talking terms for giving my sister an ultimatum", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling my mom we are no longer on talking terms for giving my sister an ultimatum?
I’m on mobile so sorry! So first off I’d like to say that my mom throughout my childhood was a great mother. Still is, just I think something has unhinged in her brain the last 5 years. About 4 ish years ago, my mom cheated on my dad with his long time best friend. Baffled would not come close to describe how me an...
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{ "description": "asking my fwb to buy me a new mattress cover", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA for asking my FWB to buy me a new mattress cover? (NSFW)
*Heads up-- some folks my find this a little gross because it involves anal sex and shit* I (M, 25) have been hooking up with a friend of mine (M, 29) on and off for a while now. We've both been pretty explicit about the fact that we are friends with benefits, and nothing more. Just in case you need context for our re...
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{ "description": "just saying I was allergic to a certain ingredient, instead of just asking for it to be taken off", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 18 }
WIBTA if I just said I was allergic to a certain ingredient, instead of just asking for it to be taken off?
Everytime I go to a restaurant and order a burger, I always order the burger with just patty, cheese, bun, nothing else, nada. 9/10 I get the order back with everything I asked not to be on the burger. And no, I can't just take it off the burger, because in the time it took to get here, the tomato and pickle already sp...
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{ "description": "telling my depressed friend I couldn't keep helping her", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if i told my depressed friend I couldn’t keep helping her?
This is sorta me searching for advice, sorta me trying to see whether or not I’m a total ass for thinking these things. Im in my third year of high school and one of my best friends has been depressed for as long as I’ve known her. I’ve talked her out of two suicide attempts and have forced her to go talk to someone w...
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{ "description": "telling my boss my coworkers are mean to me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my boss my coworkers are mean to me?
I started to work in a store a year ago. We are unionized. A lot of people have been working here for years/decades. Those people have some sort of "old people club" where they gossip, nag a lot and act like they own the place. They specifically hate my manager(M) because she got the job pretty young, after being here ...
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{ "description": "asking my mum to be nice to me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my mum to be nice to me?
Long story, but I think i need a fresh pair of eyes to tell me who is wrong here. I'm 14M and my mum is 48F. My mum talks a lot of shit about me in front of my face and behind my back, E.G saying that i'm stupid, telling people that i think i'm always right (i get a lot of things wrong, and i apologise almost immedi...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend to be more careful with my stuff", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend to be more careful with my stuff ?
So i was about to stream on twitch and was setting up my green screen and asked my girlfriend if she would push it over more in doing so the top bar flung down at me and startled me as it almost hit my computer screen dead on in the moment i said "Without breaking anything...jesus....Be more gentle" she then proceeded ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to meet my girlfriend's racist and emotionally manipulative Father", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to meet my girlfriend's racist and emotionally manipulative Father?
On mobile and I'm sorry for formatting. Some backstory: I've been with my SO for three years now going well into our fourth. I am Filipino/Vietnamese and she has a Greek/Italian background. When we started dating I couldn't meet her parents because they originally disapproved of her dating someone that wasn't of Euro...
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AITA for how I approached this situation with my former friend?
I had a close friendship that recently ended. I’m looking to find out if I was unreasonable or reasonable. Friend and I talked everyday, throughout the day. We have an argument one day and she ends it saying that we’re never going to agree on it. I say okay, let’s not talk about it. A few days later I message her agai...
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{ "description": "possibly ruining my friendship with someone", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for possibly ruining my friendship with someone
This one takes a bit of explaining so get ready. ​ I have a group of online friends i like to play video games with. Over Christmas break I went on vacation and couple of my friends (lets call them Sue and Joe for the sake of anonymity and to make events easier to follow I would also like to note Joe is Fi...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my parents for expecting to play on something I own when I say no", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for getting mad at my parents for expecting to play on something I own when I say no?
Hey guys, I’m going to keep this short, My parents bought me a Nintendo Switch last year, but I decided I want to sell it to get a 3DS (Sue me because it has games like Tomodachi Life) and so I told my parents about it and they said no, because I’ll want it after I sell it so I won’t, and they also said that they are g...
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{ "description": "thinking about bailing on my mom", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking about bailing on my mom
English is not my primary language so please keep up with me here. So here's the thing. Earlier this year my father went to prison for some political shit here on my country, so after the initial shock my brother and me took over the family business. My mom was worrying all the time about what would we eat and that s...
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{ "description": "not wanting my parents to stay with me if they retired and I got my own place", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my parents to stay with me if they retired and I got my own place?
Apologies for any odd formatting, I'm on mobile. Some background: I am 19 (turning 20 in a couple months) and I have relied on my parents for most of my life. They are pretty protective. I guess they can also be referred to as helicopter parents? They didn't let me take the bus or walk home until halfway through highs...
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{ "description": "telling a Jehovah's Witnesses lady that her religion is evil", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA I told a Jehovah's Witnesses lady that her religion is evil
JW is kind of cult like and are known for their abuse so fuck them. I am aware the members may not be aware of this so I usually tolerate them and excuse myself. I haven't seen them around in a few years so I was surprised when I saw one in front of my house. I was going to ignore it but she literally said my name and...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut off a person", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut off a person
A couple months ago i broke up with my girlfriend because she cheated on me twice. I have moved on since then, but she hasn't and attempts to call me to try to convince me that we should get back together because she realized that i was a good person to her and that it was wrong to cheat and that her life has fallen ap...
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{ "description": "leaving my friend and his girlfriend at the pool", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my friend and his girlfriend at the pool?
So my roommate and his girlfriend are really lovey-dovey couple which is fine by me it’s just I don’t want to be around him in public or not even in private when you’re doing lovely Dovie stuff .we were at the pool and it was fine at first until my friend and his girlfriend started talking to each other close and inti...
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{ "description": "not telling my parents about my mental health problems", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my parents about my mental health problems?
So, I'm legally an adult, living on my own. My parents are divorced, with new spouses. I started seeing my school's psychologist last fall because I had become very uninterested in living, I felt sad and self harmed. I had waited for almost a year to turn 18 before I went to see her, so my parents wouldn't be told abo...
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{ "description": "telling my boyfriend's friends that I cam", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for telling my boyfriend's friends that I cam?
So my boyfriend of a few months knows that I cam on the side to make ends meet. He hates it and he has been trying to convince me and show me different avenues to make more money. He has been nice about it, in the sense that he has never given me an ultimatum or been "naggy" about it. He just REALLY doesn't like the id...
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{ "description": "not paying my sisters phone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA - Not paying my sisters phone
My parents left the country a while ago, my sister and I stayed behind to pursue college and work, respectfully. I am living pay check to pay check. My parents decided it would be too much of a hassle to keep paying for my sisters phone every month on their own account, so they asked if I would allow my sister to come ...
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{ "description": "telling a woman to stop cussing around a bunch of kids", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA, for telling a woman to stop cussing around a bunch of kids?
Basically as the title says.. Took my little cousin trick or treating tonight around my neighborhood (which is very active.) We stopped at a cross walk with around 20 other kids and parents and waited while cars were passing. The whole time we wait, a woman who appeared to be with her friend and small child is cussing...
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{ "description": "stopping associating with a friend group because we can't hangout without being on some type of substance", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I stopped associating with a friend group because we can’t hangout without being on some type of substance?
Throwaway account. Let me preface this by saying that I’m a 20 year old guy in college pursuing music production so in a way I guess I sort of feel like I’m being a really lame party pooper for this. I understand that a music degree by itself won’t land me a “job”, rather I plan on using music school for connections w...
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{ "description": "leaving work when I was scheduled while my boss and coworker had to stay", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for leaving work when I was scheduled while my boss and coworker had to stay?
Basically, I work retail, we were putting up new sale tags around the store(a fairly large task for 3 people, there was roughly 1800 tags) I was scheduled 3-close, I left at 9:10 after we closed. On the way out my boss stops me and asks if I’m leaving, I told him yeah, he goes “you’re not gonna stay and help with the ...
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{ "description": "blocking my friend after he asked me on a date to \"get him out of a blind date\"", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for blocking my friend after he asked me on a date to “get him out of a blind date”?
This friend/acquaintance (large longstanding friend group) has a history of asking me out every year or so I’ve been single (5 years), often dramatically and uncomfortably. Every time I say no and I don’t think of him that way. All it takes is me being slightly friendly such as a smile or a joke and he does it again. ...
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WIBTA
So i got lucky, my daughter is adorable. More than once people have taken pictures and once a video of her without permission (also its not creepily. People just buat out their phones and want to snap her antics and the video was an older lady who was using her phine like a mirror amd just amusing my daughter from th...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do my husband's date night activity", "pronormative_score": 150, "contranormative_score": 54 }
AITA for not wanting to do my husband's date night activity?
My husband [28] and I [29] are in couples therapy and our therapist recommended doing a Friday night date every week. She specifically stated we should try to make it a fun thing, not chores and stuff like that, and go do it even if it might be something one of us doesnt want to do. We've been doing this for a few mo...
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{ "description": "listening to music too loud", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for listening to music too loud
I have just been confronted by my apartment building neighbour's friend that live below me for making too much noise the day he is moving out. ​ A bit of context, I live in a apartment with a friend and we are musics and films enthusiast, so we like to listen to music and I myself play a little of acoustic...
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{ "description": "assuming someone's preference in food", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for assuming someone's preference in food?
Some background: I (23F) have been with my fiance (24M) for 4 years. I am Asian and he is essentially Caucasian but does have some middle eastern background. It feels silly to have to mention this but I think it will provide some context with this whole food situation. So recently we visited his parent's house for din...
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{ "description": "not being more romantic with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for not being more romantic with my girlfriend?
I love her, of course, but I’ve always been rather introverted and well I went through a divorce that was extremely hard on me. The combination of these two things has made me into a rather inward partner. She gets mad at me and expects me to want to cuddle and say sweet things but I’ve told her time and time again tha...
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{ "description": "treating my bf gaming with his buddies the same as when I hang out with my friends", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I treat my bf gaming with his buddies the same as when I hang out with my friends?
My partner and I are long distance. I live in a few thousand miles away. A few times a year we visit each other for maybe a few weeks. The flight costs about $500-1,000. He's paid for his flight everyone he comes here, and I pay for mine every time I go there, except once, which we spilt. I work one a week minimum wag...
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{ "description": "wanting to avoid autistic class mat after creepy comment", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to avoid autistic class mat after creepy comment?
So I'm in a university for applied sciences (HBO in my country) and in my class there is a guy who has autism, he's honestly really nice but doesn't really know how to handle some social situations. (We'll call him Jihn) Everyone knows he has it and it show sometimes with some weird comments in class or in the chat ...
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{ "description": "hating my ex with a passion", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hating my ex with a passion?
Around June of 2017, I started talking to this girl. She was very attractive to me, and I wanted to try and date her eventually. Around October, I wound up actually dating her. I was ecstatic! A girl I absolutely fell for was dating me. I felt pure joy. Around late November, she broke up with me. I was okay with that...
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{ "description": "not showing someone else my homework", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not showing someone else my homework?
There’s a kid in my Bio class named Grant who’s already taken the course, but he’s doing it again for some reason, so he pretty much knows all of the material and he always gets at least a 90 on his tests even though he doesn’t study. Today he didn’t do his homework. During the period before bio he asked me to show hi...
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AITA follow up: asking my wife to get an OBGYN checkup
I posted a while back about asking my wife to go check checked since we had been unable to conceive for about 6 months of trying. I logged out of reddit after the post and came back to several posts saying I was the asshole, and that I should get checked myself. I had actually already ordered an at-home semen analysi...
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{ "description": "not wanting my fiancee to dance to a love song dedicated to her late fiance at our wedding", "pronormative_score": 121, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting my fiancee to dance to a love song dedicated to her late fiance at our wedding?
Before we met, my fiancee Kayla was engaged to a man she had dated for three years who died in a traffic accident. I had never dated a woman who had that kind of loss before, so I've been learning as I go, but I've tried to respect that he will always be a part of her story, and I accepted her relationship with her lat...
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{ "description": "being to tell my dad to stop talking about how much random people like me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I were to tell my dad to stop talking about how much random people like me?
So a little backstory: I have been working during summers in the past 5 years at the local retirement home. This is a small village where almost everyone knows everyone,and of course my dad talks with everyone. During the school year I am away in a city and I dont go home a lot,maybe once a month,but I make sure to ta...
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{ "description": "asking out a friend of a friend who as it turns out he had a crush on", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking out a friend of a friend who as it turns out he had a crush on?
I've known this Korean guy for a few months now. We go to the same gym at similar times and I used to see him around, so we just got to know each other like that. We would then hang out more often and I got to know a friend, probably his closest friend actually, of his who is a Korean girl the same age who is also inc...
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{ "description": "not initiating further conversation with a girl I was dating after I confessed my feelings and ahe did not correspond", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not initiating further conversation with a girl i was dating after i confessed my feelings and ahe did not correspond?
I wasn't sure what to write as a title to this post so sorry if it is a bit too long, it is my first post here. Here's the story: I met a girl on tinder and we talked during the entire summer and really hit it off, I started to like her a lot and we eventually had a date. It was a normal date, we had dinner and watc...
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{ "description": "standing up to a School coach", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For standing up to a School coach?
FC: Fired Coach AC: A-hole coach ME: Me Backstory: This coach , along with another coach who was eventually fired , were straight up bullies towards the kids they were responsible for. The one who was fired bullied students and made it hard for us for no reason. He made fun of a kid who had a kidney disease for ask...
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{ "description": "feeling uncomfortable about my boyfriend getting drunk with another girl", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling uncomfortable about my boyfriend getting drunk with another girl?
so recently my long distance boyfriend of two months texted me and asked if it was okay if he got drunk for the first time tomorrow. naturally, i was like “of course! why are you asking me permission?” and then he mentioned that it would be only his former resident advisor and him. he has told me that he thinks she is ...
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{ "description": "calling a baby ugly", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 47 }
AITA for calling a baby ugly?
My parents had some of their friends over today, and they brought their newborn with them. This kid's face looked like a lumpy potato that learned how to drool, but my parents showered him with compliments anyways. So when my brother said "Isn't he the cutest?" I involuntarily responded with "No" a bit too loud. Ever...
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{ "description": "telling classmate that I don't care about her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling classmate that i don't care about her !
So my classmate was asking me if i would help her if she ever gets in trouble or if something happens to her And i told her the truth , that i would help if it's not a lot of work and that i don't really think it would affect me a lot if anything happened to her And she went on to say that i am a sociopath and i am ...
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AITA- My Puppy Ate a Drunk Girls Shoes
I threw a party at my house about a month ago and invited co-workers and friends. After a night of heavy drinking I told those who didn’t want to pony up for an uber that they could crash in the extra rooms/couch. About 3 or 4 people stay over including the female co-worker who drank too much. When I wake up, everyon...
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{ "description": "not being attracted to black women", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being attracted to black women?
I once mentioned to a friend that I wasn't into black women and he called me racist. I explained that there was no hatred involved, just my personal taste. I prefer women with lighter skin tones. AITA because of this? Also, does it make me a racist?
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{ "description": "wanting to have the blinds open at work", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to have the blinds open at work?
So I work for a large company, and about two years ago we moved to a new building. At the old building we have almost no natural sunlight (access to widows) due to how our desks were arranged. When we moved to our new location, everything was specifically set up so we could have our desks closer to the windows and have...
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{ "description": "being by upset my gf left because of my ex's abuse", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being by upset my gf left because of my ex's abuse
Mobile, formatting etc etc. I'll try to shorten it this time. But there's a lot of small details so I guess ask in comments if you need more info. 28 Female, lesbian. Ex is my ex duh, gf is the new girl I loved/still do... Me and my ex, whom sadly suffers from bipolar, had a terrible relationship that lasted almost 1...
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{ "description": "not wanting to wake up early", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to wake up early?
So I'm a person which does nearly everything for the family. Like my siblings and my parents. I buy everything they need, I help out with every kind of work that may come up and I try my best to keep a good relationship to everybody. One thing everyone know is extremely important to me is my sleep. If I don't sleep wel...
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{ "description": "\"exposing\" my roommate", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for “exposing” my roommate?
This is super long but I really do want to know if I’m in the wrong, and you need background info decide, I believe. I guess from my post history everyone could see that I have quite a few problems with my roommate. Anyways, everything is just building up and I let some of it leak today. So I live in a dorm room fo...
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{ "description": "denying goody bags to kids", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for denying goody bags to kids?
My 7 year old daughter had a party today and twelve kids showed up. Only six had RSVPed. Anticipating only six kids, I ended up not having enough goody bags for everyone so I didn’t give them to the kids who I didn’t know were coming. I thought about simply not giving any, but my daughter was really excited about putt...
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{ "description": "forcing my potentially mentally ill brother to get help", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for forcing my potentially mentally ill brother to get help?
Some context: My sibling (M, 26) is probably a compulsive liar/has some level of autism that has never been diagnosed. Ever since we were teenagers (I'm F, 25), he's been trying to pull something off to be the "cool guy" and then tells genuinely impossible-to-believe lies when it blows up. No matter how much you work w...
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{ "description": "staying in an open relationship with my best friend and roommate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for staying in an open relationship with my best friend and roommate
I started dating my best friend Chris when we were in high school, after we graduated we chose the same university and found an apartment together. From the start we agreed to be in an open relationship because both of our parents got divorced and we didn't think too highly about standard monogamous relationships. We d...
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{ "description": "telling my gf she shouldn't be doing cheap commissions", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my GF she shouldn’t be doing cheap commissions?
On mobile so sorry for any possible formatting issues. This also might be all over the place as I’m rather worried. My girlfriend and I were having a discussion about art. Basically, I was about to commission a poster from a fellow artist and friend. My GF mentioned offhand that she wanted to do commissions really che...
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{ "description": "not getting out of bed to chase a bat out of the house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting out of bed to chase a bat out of the house
Last year, me and 3 friends were all living in a house together. It's past midnight, and I've already gone to bed for the night. My roommate whose room is upstairs comes running downstairs yelling and banging on my door and my other roommate's door saying we need to get up and help him. The other guy gets up immediatel...
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{ "description": "running up my roommate's electricity bill", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for running up my roommate's electricity bill?
For context, it's about 60-70 degrees F outside where I live but we are having problems regulating the temperature in the house. It's a townhouse 5 stories high, of which the top three belong to us (myself and two roommates) and the lower two to neighbors. It's hot as hell. I think what's happening is the neighbors...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my ex?
So about 2 months back, I felt that I didn't want to be in a relationship anymore so I broke up with my ex. At the time we've dated for about 5-6 months (we broke up for like 1 month in this relationship but got back together). I just felt that I wasn't suited for being in a relationship and I just couldn't handle one ...
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{ "description": "giving my group member a bad eval even though she spent as long on the project as everyone else", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for giving my group member a bad eval even though she spent as long on the project as everyone else?
I'm currently taking a data structures CS class in college, and we just turned in our group project for the semester. Our task was to design an "evil hangman" game that would covertly change the word the user was guessing every time they picked a letter so that the new word doesn't contain any of those letters. Maybe f...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sleep in the same bed after a fight", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to sleep in the same bed after a fight?
A bit of a back story here. I've (18F) been depressed for a good part of my life, me and my boyfriend (22M) have been together for a year and for the most part my depression has gotten better. However as of recent it got worse again. So yesterday I was home alone, I cooked, cleaned, did all of the necessary stuff. Fo...
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{ "description": "interrupting my mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Interrupting my Mom
I have a formal event coming up so I wanted to look nice and rent a tux. There is a local business that does this and my mom said that she would pay for it so I said ok. We went together, I picked a nice tux out, but when it came to the price 190 my mom gasped a little bit. We came here for my senior prom as well so th...
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{ "description": "punishing GF for not realizing her actions were innapropiate", "pronormative_score": 124, "contranormative_score": 371 }
AITA for punishing GF for not realizing her actions were innapropiate.
I (26 M) am in a relationship with my gf (21F). The relationship has been mostly good. She's a gem, super fit and athletic, sex is great, shes really smart. I have a very good paying and stable job while she is a junior in university. I love her a lot. She also comes from a poor and abusive family. She has a athl...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable with my fiancé allowing her nude photos posted online", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being uncomfortable with my fiancé allowing her nude photos posted online?
Hey everyone. This is something I didn’t really think I’d have to ask myself after 3.5 years of being with my SO. We went on a cabin trip with friends, one of which is a cool new friend we’ll call “P”. P does a lot of nude photography in nature, which I think is really cool. She has a website and Instagram where the ph...
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{ "description": "supporting a decision to chase away/put down stray dogs", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for supporting a decision to chase away/put down stray dogs
Last summer the administration at my university decided to do something about the stray dog menace in my campus. They chased out all the dogs they could and took away some more to be put down. There was a lot of backlash from the students over this decision and the administration had to stop this. But I personally thin...
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{ "description": "not wanting to drive my best friend around anymore", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to drive my best friend around anymore?
A bit of context might help here. I have a best friend that I've known since 7th grade (we are both about to turn 21 in February.). His parents have always been really stingy about letting him go out and do things. They never wanted to bring him anywhere, and if my mom picked us up and brought us out he wasn't allowed ...
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{ "description": "switching bedrooms in my new apartment", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for switching bedrooms in my new apartment
So i recently got a new apartment. I've waited for 3 years to get an apartment of this size and location so I'm obviously thrilled. I'm the only person on the lease and I've paid for about 80 % of the furniture in the apartment. Before moving in me and my roommates decided on bedrooms during which both me and my newest...
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{ "description": "leaving an 18 cent tip and getting the waitress fired", "pronormative_score": 670, "contranormative_score": 475 }
AITA for leaving an 18 cent tip and getting the waitress fired?
I was dining at an upscale restaurant and the bill came out to $49.82. I pulled out a $50 to pay, and told the waitress I didn't need change. Goes without saying, but I was planning on leaving the rest of her tip on the table. I used to work as a server. I always tip generously. The waitress misunderstood my intentio...
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{ "description": "trying to go to sleep", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to go to sleep?
Context - Today is my 7 year old step daughter's birthday. She has been counting down the days, extremely excited to share cupcakes with her friends in school. I have had a sporadic sleep schedule the past few weeks. Unfortunately, some of those long nights resulted in me sleeping through the alarm to take her to sch...
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{ "description": "not speaking to my friend for less than one day", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not speaking to my friend for less than one day?
My friend just sent me a long message about how I treat her badly, and she deserves better, and told me to « grow up »... I’m a little like, wtf? I hurt my back badly recently and wasn’t able to walk, i was very afraid (I am doing better now!) My friend tried her best to be consoling. She lives far away, we talk everyd...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girlfriend for making out with a girl", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For getting mad at my girlfriend for making out with a girl?
I (male 15) was at a party with a bunch of friends along with my girlfriend. She’s openly pansexual and has had several long term female partners. We had yet to really discuss any boundaries in our relationship, but when she began making out with another girl for a solid minute, I was shocked and pretty pissed. When I ...
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{ "description": "calling out of work", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For calling out of work.
I work at a small gas station with only 6 employees so calling out does suck but it happens. Today I woke up with one of the worst headaches I’ve ever had, and I feel like puking constantly. I tried some medication and just relaxing before my shift but to no avail. I decided that calling out was my best bet seeing as...
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{ "description": "not taking out the trash", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not taking out the trash?
Some background: I’ve (21F) been living in an apartment with an ex-coworker (25F) for 6 months after her old roommate broke the lease due to a hostile living environment. (The old roommate threatened to burn the place down and a lot of drama happened between them. They were both in the wrong though.) Shortly after I mo...
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{ "description": "not giving this woman a cart", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA Am I the asshole for not giving this woman a cart?
Okay, so I was working at a department store and I was sent out to collect carts when a woman comes up to me and try's to take one out from my line of carts all linked together while i'm moving it, like from the middle.I ask her not to do that, as if she disconnects them cause a errant cart could hit a car. She looks a...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend all my time with my parents", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to spend all my time with my parents?
Background: I'm an only child and I have been homeschooled my entire life. Because of this, we spend a lot of time together (more time than most families), and are very close. I know this sounds crazy, but I probably consider my father to be my best friend. Problem: Recently, as my moving out and going to college ...
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{ "description": "trying to confront my mom about having to endure second-hand smoking", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I tried to confront my mom about having to endure second-hand smoking?
Alright, I'll be honest here: I am a young teenager, which is the main reason I'm in this situation, because I don't get to choose where I am, but I want to hear others' opinions about this. Little backstory: my mom and dad are seperated, and my mom lives in [Place] and my dad lives in [Place.] I live with my dad and...
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{ "description": "ghosting a friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting a friend?
some context: about 6 months ago i worked on a group project with a friend who became very hard to work with, as for example he was being very passive aggressive and rude. i confronted him over this and it seemed we made amends. a few months later during the summer, as we were working on interview questions, he decid...
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{ "description": "telling my dad how I really feel about my stepmom", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my dad how I really feel about my stepmom?
This is gonna take some background, but I'll try to be brief. Also, I'm on mobile, so sorry if the format is bad. My parents are divorced, and my dad married my stepmom when I was in 5th grade. In the early years of their marriage, she was very emotionally abusive. She'd insult me and yell at me over little things, mo...
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{ "description": "sticking my nose where it didn't belong", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Sticking My Nose Where it Didn't Belong?
So about a year ago, I learned someone within my friend group (not necessarily someone I liked all that much but I tolerated him because I liked the other people in the group) had an abusive relationship with a girl I knew, both sexually and emotionally, and it really messed her up, as well as another friend who was (a...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend
I heard from his friends that he used to sleep around a lot. He basically lied about being a virgin. It's just kinda of disgusting that he had 10+ sexual partners. I was a virgin before I met him. I confronted him about this and he just got triggered. He started throwing things around, when I told him we were over. 5 h...
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{ "description": "dating a threesome partner shortly after my boyfriend and I broke up", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dating a threesome partner shortly after my boyfriend and I broke up?
So the people involved are me [26F], my recent ex-bf "Matt" [26M] and my new gf "Stella" [25F]. Matt and I dated for two years, during which time we had several threesomes with female friends and women we connected with on Tinder. I am bisexual so this was great for both of us, and it didn't bother me too much that he...
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{ "description": "spamming a subreddit", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for spamming a subreddit?
So about 3-4 months ago, I made a post in r/SquaredCircle of a link to an article discussing wrestling. A lot of the members immediately commented on the post and started shitting all over it just because it was an article from Ringside News. The began to downvote every comment I made and I literally lost 100 karma on ...
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{ "description": "not helping wife in this situation", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping wife in this situation?
I love her to death and this is my ONLY qualm with her, which is amazing, but my wife (let's call her GD) is the messiest person I've known (her car looks like cookie monster hangs out in there, I'm not joking). B/c we suck at it we have a cleaning lady who comes every two weeks, the house stays clean for about 2 days ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend she's not funny", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA If I told my girlfriend she’s not funny?
So don’t get me wrong, I love my gf and all that good stuff but this is something that’s been going on for about 2 years now. When we first started dating I was spending a lot of time with her friends and this is when I first started noticing. Someone could say something funny, someone will follow it up with a witty c...
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AITA: Me and my group made it to nationals, my group member is pressuring me into doing something i dont want to do (don't worry its not drugs)
**Context:** Note: a team must consist of 3-6 members, or else they can't go. Me, and three other group members made it to Nationals for our Public Service Announcement by getting third place. Top three go. We also participated in biomedical debate, but we got ninth place for that so we are not going. Another grou...
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{ "description": "threatening a break up because my boyfriend won't go out with me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for threatening a break up because my boyfriend won't go out with me
Okay for a little context, I've been in a relationship with "Ren" for about 10 months now. I wouldn't say it's a loving relationship because I'm practically the only one trying at this point. He's a gamer bi dude that's still in the closet with his family. Now in the beginning he was really sweet, he would move his b...
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{ "description": "leaving (fleeing from) my friends early with my date", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for leaving (fleeing from) my friends early with my date?
First post, might get a little longer (sorry), tl;dr at the end. This happened yesterday and I am really stressed out by it, I will discuss it with my friends but I guess I'd like to have some opinions from uninvolved people first. ​ A little backstory first: Yesterday was the funeral of the grandmother ...
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AITA married his best friend
I had been on and off with a guy for 8 years and He and I moved in with his mum and sister to help support them, I lost my house I was renting which was nice and just as big as the house we moved into. We got Rats and I babysat for his family, as well as driving them all around. A few weeks later I started a business...
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{ "description": "trying to offer someone a tissue", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I try to offer someone a tissue?
So let me explain, as I am genuinely concerned that I messed up somehow. So in my business class, I sit next to a guy named (let’s call him Ken). Ken and I have never really talked; he is really quiet and likes to keep to himself. I’ve made a joke here and there throughout the year, but it’s never gone past that, unt...
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{ "description": "calling my friend a braggart", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA Calling my friend a braggart (bragger)
Cast Me : Me B : Friend/Braggart Okay so this happened today and people think I am the asshole. Quick note, I am a thirteen year old boy and in my school we always cuss a lot. But when we say it its actually not that harsh. For example : Sial, Bangang and more (I’ll translate in English) To the story So B came to o...
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AITA for a bookstore chair fiasco?
So my wife and I were at a major retailer bookstore last weekend. She and I were sitting in some chairs perusing a book or two - it was quite busy as it was a rainy weekend. I got done looking at my book and wandered off to find something else to look at. About ten minutes later I notice another seat in the 4 chair cir...
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{ "description": "ruining my ex's life", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for ruining my ex's life?
Two important notes to start with. One is that because of past problems I keep a hidden camera in my living room and I live in a single party consent state. And two is that in my living room I keep a money jar for my daughter. She decides what she wants we take a picture of that thing and tap it onto the front of the j...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to start paying half of the electric bill and to have more boundaries", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I ask my roommate to start paying half of the electric bill and to have more boundaries?
My roommate and I have lived together for almost 2 years now. When we first moved in, there was a bit of a controversy over who got the bigger room. I obviously wanted the bigger room so I told her I would cover the electric bill for the extra 5 square feet of space (stupid, I know). This year, I am in the apartment a ...
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{ "description": "giving my Boyfriend an ultimatum", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA For Giving My Boyfriend An Ultimatum?
Throwaway. TLDR at the bottom. ​ Background: My SO and I have been together for three years and live together with our dog. All of our couples friends have been getting engaged or married recently. Whenever someone asks us what our marriage plans are my SO is quick to say we are just happy being together a...
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AITA got a strike in a discord server for calling a supposed "non binary" character male.
Got a strike in a server im in for cookie run. It was for saying im gonna refer to Dark Choco Cookie how i want. Hes apparently "non binary" cause no gender is in his bio, though he clearly looks male. It started with me saying i should add a character from cookie run into Tomodachi Life. I said i woukd add him but i ...
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{ "description": "sexting my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 23 }
AITA for sexting my friend
I’ve been with my girlfriend Lisa for 2 years. Overall she’s a good girlfriend but she’s a little controlling and really insecure. I have this friend Anna who I’ve known since high school who is a total smokeshow. We used to hookup but we stopped about 3 years ago. Lisa HATES Anna. She thinks that Anna acts inappropr...
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{ "description": "cancelling my joint birthday party", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I cancel my joint birthday party.
A friend and I have birthdays in January. Because we're in our thirties, we have made plans to do a large, combined, party with a lot of our mutual friends. The plan is to spend two days in an Airbnb in a mountain resort town two hours outside of our town. Not sure if this detail is pertinent or not, but I booked an...
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{ "description": "not inviting some of my mom's family to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not inviting some of my mom's family to my wedding?
AITA I'm getting married in October, and I'm trying to keep the guest list to people who are good friends and family (we're anticipating about 100-130 guests). My wedding is in London where we live (most of my side are from Florida/the States), but my fiance is from London. My dad's side of the family is considerably...
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{ "description": "not giving my seatmate the answer while he helped me in some questions", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not giving my seatmate the answer while he helped me in some questions?
So we just had a quiz and I ask asking him some answers and he gave it freely. Minutes passed I saw him trying to say something to me but I cant quite understand what he was trying to sat so I assumed he was asking if I got the answer right, so I just kept smiling and nodding at him. The quiz finished and as I approach...
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