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{ "description": "selling something that wasn't mine", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for selling something that wasn't mine?
My ex lost a gold bracelet or some kind of jewellery when we were dating. Let me say it was years ago I'm talking 2014-15. She asked about it a lot then and we looked for it together but we gave up and thought it was missing for good. Lo and behold I find it in 2019 buried under garbage in a compartment in my car. I wa...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do the dishes because I'm never home", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I don't want to do the dishes because I'm never home?
I live with two roommates. I go to school full time and have classes everyday starting from 8 am that go all the way into the afternoon, and on top of that I also have night classes. On the days I have night classes, I tend to stay there even after my day classes are finished because I carpool with my best friend, AND ...
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{ "description": "being 'unsupportive'", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being 'unsupportive'
Background, hubby is currently in a PhD program that he wants to quit and he wants to start a JD . I'm very supportive of his decision to do this. Last year, he applied to a handful of PhD programs and only got into one and unfortunately, it's not going well. (It's a new program and kind of running itself into th...
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{ "description": "forcing my gf to break up with me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for forcing my gf to break up with me?
We'd been dating for 2 months, and I really enjoyed spending time with her, talking with her on the phone every night and just doing things with her. But then I went on a week-long vacation and met someone else that I really liked, now this new girl, I didn't want to go out with her, and I didn't feel sexually attract...
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{ "description": "claiming that my GF is overreacting to cultural appropriation", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for claiming that my GF is overreacting to cultural appropriation
First of all, apologies for any typos. I am typing this whilst I am still quite angry and confused, and see this sub as a good place to realise whether I am in the wrong, which I am very willing to accept. ​ In Eurovision 2018 the winning Israeli singer wore a Kimono-style dress. This angered my half-Japan...
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{ "description": "trying to sell my car", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to sell my car?
About a year ago my uncle gave my mum a car. She couldn’t afford it and asked me if I wanted it. I said yes and she said it would cost me £100. I thought she was being greedy asking for £100 for a car she got free but it was still worth it. Fast forward a year and the car is starting to have problems, I had to spend £1...
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AITA? Love square
First time poster so bare with me. So my husband and I split up on Christmas and are currently still living together. no papers filled yet. . 2 weeks later he started dating A friend of my best friend. I'm mad but whatever I don't say anything. He comes home covered in hickeys in front of our children And I feel deepl...
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{ "description": "confronting my friend about the state of our friendship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I confront my friend about the state of our friendship?
Let me start by saying it's hard to explain the this situation, but I'll try to be clear and concise. ​ I have a really, really good friend, the closest person to me for the past 9 years. She and I dated for a short while, broke up and stayed very close friends. She has been with me during the toughest p...
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AITA: Shady Dog Walker
So when I have to work a double shift I will get a dog walker from a dog walking company in my city to take out the doggo. It doesn't happen often but once or twice a month. The other day I put in a request for a dog walker and they didn't respond. So I called to ask if they were coming as sometimes they are just late...
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{ "description": "getting back at a phone scammer", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting back at a phone scammer?
This morning, i got a phone call from the "IRS". An automated one saying i needed to call them back. I already knew it was a scam, but i called back anyway. When i did, It was a man, with a thick Indian accent and he asked my name. Which i gave him, not my real one. I told him it was John Cena. Saying that i owed in...
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{ "description": "being mad that I got a shitty phone for Christmas", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being mad that I got a shitty phone for Christmas?
Alt for privacy. For a bit more context: I currently use a Samsung Galaxy J7, given to me by my biological dad around 2016. I am 15. For Christmas, my mother and stepfather gave me a Samsung Galaxy S5, which, unlike my current J7, can actually make calls and texts, since my biological dad does not pay for the data pl...
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{ "description": "letting my classmates fail an assignment because of me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA if I let my classmates fail an assignment because of me?
There is a project in our government class that we needed to do over the course of the week. We basically needed to make a video "Declaring our Independence" from the school. My role in this project is the editor. Before the weekend started, on Friday, the filmer was supposed to send me all the clips he recorded so I ...
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{ "description": "ordering a kebab whilst stoned", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For ordering a kebab whilst stoned?
So I'll try to make this quick: About 30 minutes ago I was walking back alone after having a joint with a mate when I decided (as is tradition) to stop by and grab a kebab. So I go in and order the kebab at my favourite local balti, wait for a couple minutes to get the food then start to head out. I say thanks to the ...
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{ "description": "not helping a man that is getting robbed", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not helping a man that is getting robbed?
Actually this is a IATA situation, since this actually happened. Two years ago, I was 15 back then, and an Asian student spending summer over at the UK. I was at Cambridge back then, and it's my second week of staying (I stayed for 3 weeks). Being at the UK for the first time, I was still kind of in awe about how the ...
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{ "description": "asking the person who shares my desk at work to keep it organized the way I have it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA if I ask the person who shares my desk at work to keep it organized the way I have it?
At my work we share desks between day shift and night shift. I have worked at this place for 5 years and in that time I’ve been able to set up my desk in a way that is organized and orderly. I have never had to share the desk with anyone until a few months ago and this person feels the need to change the desk around be...
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{ "description": "pissing off a friend on Tik Tok", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA I pissed off a friend on Tik Tok
Yeah, I know I'm cringy for being on Tik Tok, I use it for cosplaying orginal characters (ocs). People make hashtags (tags) to group their and other peoples' ocs. I made a tag called #monsterunioc where mythical creatures go to uni. About a month later (last friday (I.E march 1st)) a good friend of mine, Jane, made a v...
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{ "description": "wanting to end a friendship because I liked them and they don't like me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to end a friendship because I liked them and they don’t like me?
There is this girl that I like and she told me she liked me but just want to stay friends. This was fine but kinda upset me. About a week later I really wanted to start a relationship and I just felt she was being nice saying she liked me because she’s super nice to everyone. I texted her saying I think it would be bes...
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{ "description": "not wanting to talk on the phone with my girlfriend & ignoring calls because I'm in a call with friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to talk on the phone with my girlfriend & ignoring calls because I'm in a call with friends?
Both friends are guys, one of them I met online. The other she knows. I can't talk to either often because of school work. I see her daily on school days. We had previously been on the phone before she had to put it up (said she'd call back on her home phone to talk for a few minutes). Calls back, talk for half an hour...
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{ "description": "moving furniture in our basement and ending up semi-covering two lower shelves of my husband's book collection", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for moving furniture in our basement and ending up semi-covering two lower shelves of my husband’s book collection?
Our basement has many purposes, it the catch all for a lot of stuff we don’t use everyday (as a basement should be). It’s where dh’s 3 guitars and amps live, his star wars Lego collection and 3 tall shelves of books (already read), there’s a small tv for my teenage son and a couch/futon for guests. However it’s also my...
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{ "description": "asking questions on a free dog ad", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking questions on a free dog ad?
I found a young small dog for free on a local site. And so I sent a private message asking some basic info that was not included in the post such as; was the dog socialized, did it resource guard (food water toys), how was it with other animals, was it house trained, was the animal an 'escape artist', did it know any b...
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{ "description": "refusing to see my brother's baby", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 40 }
AITA for refusing to see my brother's baby?
My brother has been dating Amber for close to five years. During one point of their relationship, she cheated on him with his best friend Jessie. They split for a few months and she continued to sleep with Jessie. It was messy as fuck and tore our friend group apart. My family told him to dump her. She comes back cryin...
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{ "description": "comparing a shitty site to a shitty subreddit", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for comparing a shitty site to a shitty subreddit?
A few hours ago I put a thread I one of my old favorite subreddits asking if the site was dead or not. I proceeded to get flagged by its users for no reason and I, in the event of getting pissed off compared to another shitty web community I'm apart of that is not on Reddit. So afterwards I get my post taken down for "...
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AITA after I snooped on my Girlfriends search history.
A few days ago I was happily playing Sims for a few hours on my newly moved in Girlfriends computer. She’d fallen asleep and so eventually at 2 o’clock I went to switch it off and as I did the browser popped up, and randomly I just started pressing letter keys to see her history. So when I pressed P, there was a link ...
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{ "description": "having an abortion without telling my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 43, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for having an abortion without telling my boyfriend?
Sorry if this post is a mess... this is my first Reddit post and I’m new to all this. So I met a guy online a few months ago, let’s call him B. Our relationship actually started off pretty rocky, he has a drinking and drug problem and was verbally and sexually abusive towards me. I don’t know why I had such a hard ...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend that I think she enables our mutual friend's creepy behaviour around her", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my best friend that I think she enables our mutual friend's creepy behaviour around her?
I'm a 29 year old guy, and my friend, let's call her bestie, is a 30 year old girl. We have a mutual friend who is borderline neckbeard/nice guy, has a crush on bestie, and is extremely creepy around her, to the point where he sits beside her, rubs her thigh, puts his head on her shoulder, invites her home for drinks ...
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{ "description": "hiding my friends car to prevent him from driving under the influence", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for hiding my friends car to prevent him from driving under the influence?
AITA Reddit, Background story childhood friend 1 comes over to my house last night after work for a small get together with our other childhood friend 2 who is currently living with me and my wife. We were hanging out and slamming some shots down. Childhood friend 1 gets more intoxicated than I've ever seen him to the...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to stop playing her music out loud", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my friend to stop playing her music out loud?
In my civics class a girl started playing her modern rap music (which she knows that I can’t stand) without earbuds or headphones or anything in front of the class so I asked her to stop, to which she replied that she didn’t want to. I tried to suck it up but it got on my nerves again when I couldn’t focus so I asked h...
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{ "description": "not pressing \"open door\" on the elevator with my hands full", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not pressing "open door" on the elevator with my hands full?
I was holding an Amazon box with cat food inside (kinda heavy) with my arms, my keys on my left hand, and my cell on my right. I had to curtsie and fumbled a bit to call for the elevator with my keys hand. Got in and stood at the far corner from the buttons. The door nearly closed when arm shoved in the gap. My kind o...
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{ "description": "telling an anxious friend to be respectful", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling an anxious friend to be respectful?
Hello Reddit, we meet again through a throwaway. Not sure how to organise this, so please tell if you find something unnecessary/confusing and I'll edit it. I'll try my best to answer questions and be unbiased. I'm 15F. And my friend, let's call her Laura, is 17F. Laura's always been really critical and sometimes very...
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{ "description": "essentially breaking up with my ex-girlfriend because she didn't behave at a gathering", "pronormative_score": 560, "contranormative_score": 50 }
AITA For essentially breaking up with my ex-girlfriend because she didn’t behave at a gathering?
I couldn’t think of a better, more neutral way of putting it, but that’s essentially what happened..so yeah. I dated her for about 3 months. She was really gorgeous ,confident and free spirited. I loved how silly and bold she was, it was something that made her really unique in my book. This whole thing happened a mo...
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{ "description": "ending an emotinoally degrading relationship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA | Ending an emotinoally degrading relationship
So at the beggining of the school year we all got added to grade messaging group. That way we could share homework, projects ect. One of the people from this group, who I shall call "S", added my number and started directly messaging me. It started with a simple "Hi". I responded with "Hry who are you" and the conversa...
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{ "description": "wearing my girlfriend's gift to the gym", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wearing my girlfriend's gift to the gym?
On mobile. Sorry for the formatting. Last year my girlfriend(22f) bought me(25m) a pair of sneakers for my birthday. The sneakers are pretty expensive and I had been eyeing them because they are pretty stylish. Fast forward to a couple months ago when I started going to the gym. I have a pair of sneakers that I reg...
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{ "description": "booking my own accommodation", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for booking my own accommodation?
A few friends (8) and I are traveling to NYC in July. Two of our friends had to drop out due to work commitments and I was informed the group booking would be canceled. I then went ahead and booked my own accommodation. I was later informed the group booking could not be canceled and (apparently) I am still on the hook...
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{ "description": "telling my mom to bring me to the doctor", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I tell my mom to bring me to the doctor?
Background: For the past 3 weeks whenever I eat large amounts of food (It's mostly at dinner) I get a severe stomachache. I also haven't been able to go to the bathroom well (it's just little pellets and I have to force it). I told my mother but she told me to take a laxative. We have the overnight ones. She told me th...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my girlfriend when she doesn't stick up to her family for us", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset at my girlfriend when she doesn't stick up to her family for us
My girlfriend and I share an unbelievably close bond and up until recently both my parents and hers have accepted me and her into our families. But It came crashing down when her parents started to force us away from each other. I'm currently at university and she is on a gap year living with her parents. Our homet...
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AITA Some girl I was infatuated for a (senior) year in high school is in the same class and clubs as I am(college). She feels creeped out. I'm trying to do what I usually do.
So there this girl I knew for about 4 years now. I first met her at the end of 8th grade. I did have a crush on her then. However, I didn't go to the same high school as her until my junior year due to missing the school of choice deadline. (I was overseas). I didn't have any classes with her that year, but I did see ...
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{ "description": "not taking my friend to a concert we planned", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn’t take my friend to a concert we planned?
Okay so first time posting, etc. A few months ago my long distance friend pointed out that an artist we both love was going to be a state above me and performing on my birthday. We agreed if we could get tickets we’d make plans to go, etc. The day tickets came out, I bought us tickets that were actually pretty nice...
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{ "description": "getting a kid expelled", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting a kid expelled
For the story I’ll call the kid I got expelled D Ok so as the title explains, at my old school there was this kid who I never really liked but never did anything about it except keep my distance from him. A little backstory, this was at my old school which primarily consisted of 65% Jewish people. Anyways, at one p...
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{ "description": "laughing at a gift my GF bought for me", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for laughing at a gift my GF bought for me?
A few years ago my Girlfriend bought me a game for my birthday she had seen me watching a lets play of it and thought I would like it. It was a terrible game and the lets play was mocking it, so when I saw the game I started laughing at first thinking it was a joke gift, we later returned the game. I write this becaus...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my mom for telling me as long as I live with her, I can't get a better job", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For getting mad at my mom for telling me (20m) as long as I live with her, I can’t get a better job.
Her reasoning is since I’m her dependent on tax stuff, if I get paid too much she doesn’t get as much back and may even end up owing a lot that she can’t afford. Sometimes she throws that it may affect my VA benefits but absolutely refuses to look into if it would so that’s up to me to figure out. (This was Monday nigh...
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{ "description": "regarding dogs? we are a couple and we are turning to Reddit to settle this", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA regarding dogs? We are a couple and we are turning to Reddit to settle this.
Context : We have an incredible relationship and are very happy with each other. Literally, the only « problem » we have in our relationship comes back to Girlfriend’s dogs. Boyfriend « is not very fond of dogs ». He grew up with cats. Girlfriend has two dogs one of whom she has had for 9 years and the other ...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "wearing this clothing", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wearing this clothing?
Hello everyone, I’m on mobile so sorry for formatting. Later today my friends and I are going to Opening Day for the Seattle Mariners (they technically played their Opening Day game in Japan, but this is their first home game). I am an Angels fan, and don’t really like either the Red Sox, their opponent for tonight, ...
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{ "description": "having a messy room", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having a messy room?
Im using a throwaway account to protect my privacy. Im not using actual names to be on the safe side. My sibling (ill call them S) and their spouse (SP for Sibling’s Partner) currently live with me and my mom. They are messy people. Severely. Dishes will go unwashed for days, laundry stays in the laundry room, etc. Th...
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{ "description": "having an issue with my friend making homeless people act as sheep dogs", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having an issue with my friend making homeless people act as sheep dogs
A friend was recently on a night out (I wasn't present) and got very drunk. He called me the next day (still drunk) and told me that he had paid four homeless people to act as his sheep dogs, running around and responding to his commands. He thought this was hilarious but I made it clear that I was disgusted by his beh...
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{ "description": "trying to sell a guy more stuff", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to sell a guy more stuff?
I advertised an item for sale online, guy offers trade, fair trade, done deal. When we met to trade, I said "oh, I have this I could sell you." He agreed to buy it another day. In the mean time, he takes my item home and apparently it's not working perfectly. Thing is... It was working perfectly for me, I had no reason...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "keying his car", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 25 }
AITA for keying his car?
So, I was in a relationship and it was my first love. We were super attached to each other and admittedly too clingy. I was in high school at the time and he was in college and we both had the same job except he was paid more. He was the type of person who would “borrow” money from everyone and anyone including me. He...
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{ "description": "lieing to my mother about my so and I not being able to have kids", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for lieing to my mother about my SO and I not being able to have kids.
My SO and I are 30 this year and have been together for 8 years with a house and a dog together as well. My mother has been pushing the grandchild topic very hard lately however my So and I do not want kids. A few weeks ago I was over my sisters house with my parents and my mother was again pushing the subject. I told...
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{ "description": "not going to a concert with my fiancee", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not going to a concert with my fiancee
So my fiancee wants to see an artist she really likes while I have absolutely no interest in seeing. It is the day of the concert and tickets are $190. She is mad at me for not wanting to go and she has no one to go with and probably won't go now. We just got engaged and barely paid rent on time this month. We have a w...
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{ "description": "not wanting my gf to smack my face", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my GF to smack my face?
So I'm lying on my bed besides my beautiful girlfriend and I'm already cranky because instead of sexy times she's been tickling me. So I'm trying to get comfortable and ask her to scratch my back and she tickles and blows air on my back and that makes me itchy. Suddenly she yells PIOJOSSO and smacks me hard on my right...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for his windshield", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for his windshield?
So this summer me and some friends went on an excursion to a music festival. We were about 6 hrs away so we drove. One of my friends (driver) offers to drive us with his vehicle, so long as we pay for gas (all good). On the way there we had must’ve been too close to the vehicle in front of us on the highway and had a s...
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{ "description": "not sending my ex back the rent money he paid", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not sending my ex back the rent money he paid?
Long story short: my ex lived with me for 7 months and did not pay half of the rent until the middle of that time (3 months in). When we broke up, he said "I don't think it's fair that I had to pay half of the rent at all when you didn't tell me I'd have to in the beginning. That wasn't agreed upon and I don't think it...
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{ "description": "calling out a coworker who eats too much", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for calling out a coworker who eats too much?
I work in a convenience store with a coworker who is almost always eating. They’re taking lunch and snack breaks like every other hour. Sometimes he will even have a cup full of trail mix or nuts next to him at the register. I’m tired of it because he should be working and not eating. I eat before and after work, never...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my bf of 7 years", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for breaking up with my bf of 7 years?
So 3years ago my bf and I separated for like 1 month if so long because I just felt stifled in the relationship. So within that supposedly short space of time, he started talking to this girl from work. I had no idea about this and I still don't fully know the time table of their friendship. When we got back together I...
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{ "description": "asking to spend less time at home over winter break", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for asking to spend less time at home over winter break?
I go to college in a huge city. I love that there’s so much to do and the independence I finally have to do whatever I want whenever I want. My last final is next Wednesday, and I’m going home on Saturday for winter break. Winter break lasts a little over a month, and I’m honestly not looking forward to it. It’ll be ...
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{ "description": "not really liking to hug my mother", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not really liking to hug my mother
I (19yo F) hate hugging my mom because it makes me feel violently uncomfortable. I hate kisses even more and always kinda have. I cringe when she gets too close and I love my space. She always insists that I should give her a kiss and it grosses me out. Honestly I had a terrible relationship with her until I moved in w...
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{ "description": "accepting an internship offer, but coninuing to interview with other employers", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accepting an internship offer, but coninuing to interview with other employers?
I'm a business student at a US University. Every year, the summer internship cycle gets more and more competitive. After about 20 declines, I finally received an offer for a company that I feel neutral about. The problem is, they only gave me about 5 days to decide whether I wanted to accept or decline. It's an extre...
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{ "description": "asking a cop to use his blinker", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking a cop to use his blinker?
Heading home last night I saw a cop change lanes twice around other vehicle's without using his blinker. I was already pissed becuae I was going 80 mph on the highway and some dude was way up my ass. I moved over to let him pass and it was a cop who then proceeded to fly down the highway at 85 mph. He got off the exit ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "thinking that this constitutes being a bad friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking that this constitutes being a bad friend?
My friend and I used to be in a romantic relationship, but after breaking up about ten months ago we decided that our friendship was still mutually important and we would continue to be close friends. Part of it was necessity, as we were both still on the lease for the same apartment (we live with other roommates, not ...
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{ "description": "asking for a refund for shoes I bought from my regular store but found cheaper elsewhere", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking for a refund for shoes I bought from my regular store but found cheaper elsewhere?
I popped out in my lunch hour to buy a new pair of shoes from an independent store I’ve been frequenting for years. My podiatrist recommended the store originally, my purchase history is in their database, and the consultants who work there really know their stuff and give great advice. I happily handed over the price ...
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{ "description": "wanting to sky dive", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to sky dive?
I’ve had skydiving on my bucket list for quite a while, as most people do. Falling is one of my biggest fears so it’d be a huge accomplishment. I’m finally 18, I found a place to do it and I can afford it. However, it really stresses my mom out. She keeps sending me articles on skydiving deaths, even though I’ve given ...
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{ "description": "trashing the property management company", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I trash the property management company
I have been asked to renew my lease, they are increasing my rent by about 9%. I tried to negotiate that down, meet them half-way, but they won't even discuss it. In context I live in a high rent city but average rent went up 1% this year according to studies. And the building is at least 10% empty, so I know it isn't i...
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{ "description": "wanting my boyfriend to not smoke indoors", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my boyfriend to not smoke indoors?
Background: Together three years, we were close friends for a year before that. He's been smoking for like 15 years, but has been (allegedly) trying to quit for as long as I've known him. Vaping is the thing that helps him the most (He says he's tried the gum, the patch, etc) and I have absolutely no problem at all wit...
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{ "description": "not wanting to start drinking so early", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to start drinking so early?
I’m about to graduate high school and I’m not much of a drinker. I’ve had some sips but nothing tickled my fancy. Me mum is worried that I won’t have a good time at college if I don’t get some experience under me belt before hand. I can see where she comes from but I can still have a good time without getting obnoxious...
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{ "description": "fighting back to my bullies at school", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for fighting back to my bullies at school?
So for backstory: I’m a sixth grader, and some, no, a lot of the kids in my class like to bully me, and i think it’s because of my body. Anyways, whenever someone throws something mean at me, in defence of myself, I throw something back at them. Last year the kids in my class made up this thing called my name touch, an...
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{ "description": "engaging in sexual activities with a drunk friend while drunk", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for engaging in sexual activities with a drunk friend while drunk?
Posted on confession and confessions but someone said it might be more relevant here. It was my first year at university. I was thrilled. Honestly, I was a bit scared. Having gone through my college years of GAD (generalised anxiety disorder) and hardly ever attending, I scrambled together some mediocre grades and got...
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{ "description": "slacking on the job", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for slacking on the job?
I make $24/hr as an EMT which is way less than I'm worth with 19 years of experience. I have a philosophy that one should put X% of effort into their job, where X% is the ratio of how much they're paid to how much they're worth. So if I'm worth $31/hr, I should put 77% effort into my job. But that's unfair to the child...
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{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 8 }
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{ "description": "withholding information about my work from my husband", "pronormative_score": 244, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA for withholding information about my work from my husband?
Throwaway because my husband checks up on my main account. Background information: I am 28. He is 30. I'm a lawyer. He works in business and is getting his MBA at night. Last semester, he took a "business law" class for business students (this is relevant). A few months ago, I stopped providing real answers when ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 244, "WRONG": 26 }
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{ "description": "being grumpy/possible rude, when my girlfriend had a friend over drinking and listening to music until 2 am when I was trying to sleep", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being grumpy/possible rude, when my girlfriend had a friend over drinking and listening to music until 2 am when I was trying to sleep
My girlfriend and I moved into an apartment that she bought a few months ago, so she owns the apartment, she pays the mortgage, I pay the bills. So I am not paying rent. Last night she had a friend over and they were drinking and listening to music (not extremely loud) until 2 am and would likely have gone on longer, ...
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{ "description": "telling my so called best friend I don't care to hear about her adventures that she excludes me from", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA I told my so called best friend I don’t care to hear about her adventures that she excludes me from.
Am I the ass for telling my friend I don’t care about hearing about what she does with her other friends. Ok a little back story first for context. My ex best friend and I had been friends for about 13 years before we decided to get into a relationship. I moved to California to be with her bringing along my two daughte...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate he cant complain about being fat because he eats like shit amd hes lazy", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for telling my roommate he cant complain about being fat because he eats like shit amd hes lazy?
My roommate always complains about being overweight and how he can never get guys and how much he hates being fat he never shuts up about it. Ever. It's so annoying. I also should state I would call us kinda friends, not just two guys who live together. So today we where walking back from class together and he was co...
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{ "RIGHT": 10, "WRONG": 7 }
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{ "description": "turning down free hockey game tickets from my brothers for D&D", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for turning down free hockey game tickets from my brothers for D&D?
So, it hasn't happened yet. But I'm kinda backed into a corner. And if you know a better place to post this, please let me know. My immediate family still in michigan live fairly close to each other. Maybe a 45 minute drive at most. Thing is, none of us are particularly close. But we want to change that. And my brot...
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{ "description": "staying silent about my ex-best friend's mom dying of cancer", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for staying silent about my ex-best friend’s mom dying of cancer?
I’ll try and summarize this the best I can. So, my best friend (at the time) and I had a falling out a few years ago after 6 years of friendship. The reason doesn’t really matter, there were fights leading up to it as well. We were becoming different people and less compatible as friends. She moved away, and we never t...
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{ "description": "asking out a girl whose sister I asked out recently", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If I asked out a girl whose sister I asked out recently?
So I'm straight male. I took an interest in a girl (I'll call her Sarah) about 6 months ago. She was really an amazing person, and pretty too. I wrote her a love poem asking her out. She said no, and I (in my humble opinion) took it like a champ. We are really great friends and I can even drop a joke here or there abou...
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{ "description": "being annoyed that my work wants me to donate to charitable fundraisers", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed that my work wants me to donate to charitable fundraisers?
I started a new job a few months ago, and it's a good but not amazing salary. This company, at EVERY single company meeting or event very uncomfortably makes everyone feel obligated to donate to charities. Usually it's at the sign-in table so you can't avoid it -- and it's not just a jar sitting on the table, they full...
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{ "description": "kicking my SIL out of our small game development team", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for kicking my SIL out of our small game development team?
I guess some backstory needed. Without too much detailes, some time ago I made a mobile game, a clicker that was reletevely succusfull, it gives me about 12$ a day (and a bit more after the launch). For you it may not be a lot, but in my country it is more than some ppl make by working whole day. All the drawing were d...
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{ "description": "telling my father not to purchase scratch-offs/lotto tickets", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my father not to purchase scratch-offs/lotto tickets?
Some context here: I am an adult with my own income source. But his own finances are always exceptionally tight, enough so that I've needed to 'bail him out' occasionally on missed bills and such. I don't begrudge that, I know things come up, but it also makes me a bit sensitive to *waste*. Occasionally he will brin...
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{ "description": "not apologizing", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not apologizing?
So my former friend, who I'll call "E" had some codependency issues. I knew this from the start and did what I could to accommodate without jeopardizing things I wanted to do like screensharing if I just wanted to play video games or link the vid I was watching on Youtube so we could discuss it. Recently, another f...
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{ "description": "rehoming my wife's reptiles", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 236 }
AITA for rehoming my wife’s reptiles?
Throwaway because my wife knows my main account. My wife and I have been together for 6 years. We recently bought our first home together after living in an apartment for the past 3 years. She’s going to school for a PhD in biology and is doing great, and I just landed a job as a CPA while I finish my military contrac...
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{ "description": "telling my co worker that she has lice", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling my co worker that she has lice?
So, a little backstory to this. I had lice in middle school and my friend from back then noticed and told me that I had lice, and I was super grateful for her telling me that. I got all the lice out but I have an irrational fear of getting lice again so every time I talk to someone, new people or not, I always check th...
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{ "description": "buying a motorcycle without my boyfriend's consent", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for buying a motorcycle without my boyfriend's consent?
My boyfriend is opposed to me getting a motorcycle, at least for the present time. We live in a large city with notably bad traffic, it is admittedly dangerous to ride a motorcycle in this city. (Or anywhere.) However, one of the nice things about a bike is that you can lane split and get places faster, which would be ...
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{ "description": "controlling my partner's drinking", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for controlling my partner's drinking?
My partner has had an unpredictable drinking problem for the last 5-6 years. When we first started dating and went out either just us or with friends, I noticed how fast drinks would be consumed and then how quickly it could escalate: blackout, sleepwalking outside of buildings in his underwear, punch windows and get c...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my so for someone else", "pronormative_score": 56, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for breaking up with my SO for someone else?
Using a throwaway because some people know my main who I dont want to be involved. So this is sort of a long and complicated situation, so I'll give sort of a brief rundown. I've had feelings for this girl for about a year now, but she had a boyfriend. So a few months ago, I decided that it was time to move on. I mad...
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{ "description": "kicking out my roommate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For kicking out my roommate?
My boyfriend and I moved out of his brothers basement suite (finally) and got our own house to rent last year. Our buddy and coworker (I work with my boyfriend, family business) was going through a tough time and recently broke up with his fiancee, so we figured, hey this could probably work out! He was renting a room ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to move my wedding date", "pronormative_score": 29, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for not wanting to move my wedding date?
My fiancé and are have finally decided to set a date to get married, we both agreed we wanted an October wedding so we settled on the 12th of October. When we told his family the wedding plans my fiancé’s sister announced that we cannot get married in October as she’ll be too busy with university as they have a prod...
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{ "description": "telling my ex shes being a bit too honest and going off a tangent about me overspending my money", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA, I (28m) told my ex (29f) shes being a bit too honest and going off a tangent about me overspending my money?
It started when I was asking her details on how a NY cheesecake is made. You can make a no-bake version which I can do or a bake version. Well I was also indecisive about either making 3 different cheesecakes or 3 same plain cheesecakes for a Bible study group. http://imgur.com/a/pXhWSq4 Well, as I was asking she was...
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{ "description": "telling people what my ex co-worker is really like", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling people what my ex co-worker is really like
TL;DR at the bottom. A bit of background; so up until a couple of months ago I worked with this guy, let's call him Tony. He's the kind of guy who everyone loves, but is actually a bit of an dick, however people tend to look past it because he is energetic and funny. We both worked in a pretty tight environment with a...
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{ "description": "using a harsh analogy to prove a point", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for using a harsh analogy to prove a point?
So I was on Twitter and I saw a news article about a man who had made a third of all posts on Wikipedia for free. I was looking through tweets about this article and the top one was a woman saying, "Looks like just as I had expected." I was a bit taken aback by how unnecessarily rude to this person who did an impressiv...
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{ "description": "being upset at my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA by being upset at my friend ?
Hello everyone, Yesterday I was supposed to see a friend at 2pm. I was ready to leave my house when she texted me she couldn't make it today. However this is not the first time she has done this to me, actually it is the second time this week. It's been almost 3 weeks since we try to see each other but everytime she e...
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{ "description": "leaving my dog in my car on a very cold day", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for leaving my dog in my car on a very cold day.
Yes, it's very cold out (-27C), and yes she was in there for just over an hour (something that she does all the time because she always prefers to come along instead of being left at home), but I still think I'm not the asshole because: 1. The car was completely warm before I left her. 2. I turned on the heated seat d...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that he shouldn't even be so worked up over his e relationship", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I told my friend that he shouldn’t even be so worked up over his e relationship.
Okay so my friend K is dating a girl who isn’t so great in Thailand who’s manipulative and abusive. In the first week of them dating she lied about having cancer. She’s mistreated him so much and he just sucks it up and takes it. They break up and get back together a lot and it’s toxic. I’ve been warning him about the ...
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{ "description": "attempting to help calm down a child who isint mine", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for attempting to help calm down a child who isint mine.
I work for walmart on the door, and sometimes I get posted at the door by service desk. Around 9 last night a women and her husband and 2 kids came in and went to the service desk. The kids were around the ages of 10 and 4 or 5. I was standing there and shortly after they got to the desk, the woman picks up her younges...
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{ "description": "carrying on a date", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for carrying on a date?
Happened a while ago but was dating a girl for a few months and in the middle of a date. She gets a call from a friend of hers who had been in an accident. She was close by so I went over and picked her up. Driving her to her house when she notices the pocket knife clipped to my belt. Technically not a pocket knife, ...
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{ "description": "taking back a dog day before Thanksgiving and making 4 kids cry", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking back a dog day before Thanksgiving and making 4 kids cry?
So we found a dog around a month and a half ago. It was a very energetic social dog we'll call "Levi." So we took Levi to PetSmart to see if she had a chip and she did! They contacted the owner but could not get in touch with them. Left multiple messages and we ended up just taking Levi in for the time being. Now, Le...
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AITA for how I’m handling this?
Throwaway because I have IRL friends on my main and I’m not really ready to tell them about this. My partner and I have been together for years, live together and have a child together. About 2 weeks ago, I had to go to the ER because of an abscess that ruptured and I started having symptoms of sepsis. While in the ...
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{ "description": "ditching a girl 40 minutes from her house on our first date", "pronormative_score": 123, "contranormative_score": 105 }
AITA: I ditched a girl 40 minutes from her house on our first date
I know the title already sounds like i'm a major asshole, but there is a few more variables that need to be discussed before you make your decision. Also, this is a throwaway acct for obvious reasons So I meet a girl on Tinder named "Kim" and we exchange a few messages before deciding to meet up for coffee. The dat...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to stop buying single-ply toilet paper", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I ask my roommate to stop buying single-ply toilet paper?
This is the dumbest issue and part of me is ready to just drop it and deal with flimsy TP. But I hate using single ply, and I hate making guests use it even more. Even my shitty job doesn't have single-ply in the bathrooms. I bought some nicer stuff recently, but when that ran out he got more single ply. I should prob...
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AITA is I expect my live-in common law boyfriend to send a text at least once during the night that he is out drinking with his friends and possibly ex-wife?
I gladly let him go out as I am trying to cut back drinking and didn't want him to miss out. We usually spend every day together so it was nice for me to have alone time too. But like one text or call would be nice. I've told him many times before that this makes me happy.
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend hanging out with a guy", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I dont want my girlfriend hanging out with a guy?
“Josh” has known my girlfriend since before her and I started dating. They only talked if they ran into each other or snapchat but have never hung out. Josh has a thing for her. I know this because he wanted to take her out on a date when our relationship was new. In the past she has made a fuss about me hanging ou...
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{ "description": "not wanting my room being taken over", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA If I Don't want my room being taken over?
Within the last 2 days, I've ran into a bit of moral conflict. When I got home from school one day, (I'm 15) I was hit with a surprise. A good family friend, let's refer to as FF, came for a visit with my dad. I thought I'd just be a little hello, but I woke up the next morning to see he was still here. Not too bothere...
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{ "description": "requesting a cleaning fee from roommate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for requesting a cleaning fee from roommate
TLDR: Roommate leaves a big mess after moving out, forcing me to clean it up. I requested he pay me a cleaning fee since he knew his move out date well in advance. He doesn’t think he left a big mess and is refusing to pay me or even apologize. I live in a 2 BR / 2 BA apartment, and I suddenly had a room available a...
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