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{ "description": "telling my nephews that they should be the bullies not the victims", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for telling my nephews that they should be the bullies not the victims?
Sadly my Nephews (11M and 12M) get bullied at school and I dont agree with the pacifist education of my brother and his wife that leaded to them being victims at first. I told them to be happy and defend their honour they need to beat the main bully up and get revenge for everything, it would be the best if they destro...
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{ "description": "finding this homeless guy annoying", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for finding this homeless guy annoying?
Background: I work downtown in a city with a very large homeless population, across the street from a homeless shelter. Sometimes homeless people come in and use the bathroom, grab a free cup of coffee, etc, and so long as they don't make a scene and aren't bothering customers I don't mind them. But then there's one ...
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{ "description": "being honest with my brother-in-law about his family", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being honest with my brother-in-law about his family?
My wife and I have been together since high school. Due to her brother being 6 years older, he was already out of the home when I came around, living in a different state, so I saw him infrequently. When my wife and I married, we moved to the same state as BIL and started seeing each other much more often. In the 20+ ...
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{ "description": "being frustrated that my roommate has people over without telling me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being frustrated that my roommate has people over without telling me?
Obligatory sorry for bad formatting, I'm on mobile. Okay for some backstory. I live in a small rural college town in a one bedroom apartment with my "friend." From the very beginning I said I didn't think either of us could ever say that each other couldn't have people over and agreed that we wouldn't have people over...
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{ "description": "fixing a project", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for fixing a project?
Hey this happened a while ago, but I am still really thinking about it so here I go. It was the summer of 2018, and I got an internship at the science center. I lived in St.Louis and was 16 years old. I worked down on center stage, but on that particular day I was sent to the first floor to test a new exhibit. While h...
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{ "description": "making my so quit smoking", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making my SO quit smoking?
Since before thanksgiving, I’ve been sick with asthmatic bronchitis and had to quit smoking for my health after 12 years. I got together with my SO in 2014 and he picked up the habit of smoking. Since I’ve been sick, I’ve asked I’m to take my health into consideration and see how the smell and irritant effects me and t...
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AITA my gf dog keeps peeing and pooingl on my stuff, I refuse to clean it up and am starting to get upset and want her to take her dogs bathroom habits more seriously.
So I moved in about 3-4 months ago things have been good relationship wise besides the dog. I love the dog shes great but she has a bad habit of pissing everywhere and shitting everywhere. More now that she got pregnant... The occurence is probably around 3 times a week at this point and has shit and pissed a few ti...
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{ "description": "dumping my ex by text ..... two times in 2 months", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for dumping my ex by text ..... TWO TIMES in 2 months
I was in a relationship with a guy for around 4 months and he was great gentle...etc in short the perfect guy but i was 18 yrs old at the time and i was heading for college and even though i liked him i didnt want to be in a serious relationship . I wasnt sure how he would take it so i took the easy way out i just sen...
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AITA: On the time I dickpunched an 8-year-old.
So this happened when I was in like Year 2 or 3 at school (I'm now at uni) so I don't see this guy anymore but I'm just wondering what y'all think about what I did to him because it makes me feel hella guilty when I think of it even after all these years. Almost every morning, he would wait at the classroom door, grab...
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{ "description": "wanting to play red dead redemption 2", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to play Red dead redemption 2
So I bought my boyfriend red dead and he hasnt touched it since it came out, I went to his house and asked to play it since he hasnt played it, he got all pissy and didnt allow me to play it saying I got it for him and that he didnt want me to play it because he wont play it at all then, and I told him that was extreme...
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{ "description": "waking up my dorm roommate at night because he snores too loudly", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for waking up my dorm roommate at night because he snores too loudly?
For nights I haven't been able to sleep at all because he always snores so loudly. Since we all share the same room together, there's not really any way i can get away from it. So one night i tapped his shoulder a little and that got him to wake just enough for the snoring to stop, and then went back to bed. Next morni...
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{ "description": "cutting off close friends that ruined my birthday", "pronormative_score": 407, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for cutting off close friends that ruined my birthday.
Let’s start by saying I don’t have a lot of friends. I organized a birthday dinner and invited my best friend and her girlfriend (who is also a close friend). I asked them weeks before the date and then confirmed a few days before hand both times they said they were definitely coming. Keep in mind it was my best friend...
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{ "description": "being upset at my gf of 2ys for saying rude things about my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset at my gf of 2ys for saying rude things about my friends?
Throwaway account because Ive been with my girlfriend for 2, almost 3 years. We had broken up for 6 months at one point late 2017. In that 6 months I made new friends, which have been good friends of mine since. When me and my gf got back together, eventually my friends wanted to meet her. On occasion even to this d...
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{ "description": "refusing to leave the dog park just because ignorant owner thinks play is fighting", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for refusing to leave the dog park just because ignorant owner thinks play is fighting
I’ve been going to the same dog park for about a year, we go to the large dog side because I have a Siberian Husky but he’s on the smaller side, about 45 pounds. He has some regular friends there that he loves to play with. One day this guy with a Boxer shows up, and his dog comes in and is very energetic and excited,...
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{ "description": "not staying awake while waiting for my friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not staying awake while waiting for my friend?
I invited my friend to go eat with me. He suggested that he'll drive to my house and we'll switch cars at my place. I told him to come over in ten minutes. I asked for ten minutes so I can get a nap in. I did not tell him what I was going to do with the ten minutes. Friend leaves his house 13 minutes later. He arrive...
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{ "description": "not wanting to work and go to school full-time", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not wanting to work and go to school full-time?
So a little background to start (sorry if this gets rambly) , I'm a 21 year old student working on a degree in marine biology. Where I was living before I had kinda reached my full potential as far as how much I was getting out of the schools there which didn't have many courses for my specific degree and on top of tha...
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{ "description": "picking my neighbors lemons without asking", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for picking my neighbors lemons without asking?
We had new neighbors move in behind us about a month ago. Since we wanted to make lemonade, we picked about 7 lemons. Now these lemons were on our side of the wall, so we didn't climb on or over the wall to get the lemons. Our new neighbors must have seen us or saw the tree moving, because an hour later we saw the ne...
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{ "description": "getting one a gift but not the other", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I got one a gift but not the other?
I'm a "middle child" and have 2 siblings - an older sibling who is turning 32 in a week from now and a younger sibling who is turning 22 at the beginning of March. I have always bought presents for both of my siblings on their birthdays (as they do for me). Now that my older sibling is turning 32 I don't really fee...
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{ "description": "not taking my mate to work anymore even though he works less than 5 minutes away", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not taking my mate to work anymore even though he works less than 5 minutes away?
So just some back story before I continue, my best mate got a job in Shrewsbury 2 years ago and originally his dad was taking him to work as he only worked around the corner at the time, roll on 3/4 months and his dad is working from home and so being good friends I offered to take him, that started in April 2017. The ...
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{ "description": "telling my so she can't decide how I use all the money in my life", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my SO she can’t decide how I use all the money in my life?
We borh work. We have a household budget that we stick to built around a joint account we both pay into. Then, after we’re both done covering the household budget for the month sometimes I buy stuff just because I can pay for it. When that happens I do so from my personal account. Our budget together covers all our imm...
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{ "description": "not interacting with my mom when it risks causing me a panic attack", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not interacting with my mom when it risks causing me a panic attack?
(sorry if there’s any formatting issues, this is my first post on reddit, and I’m on mobile.) I’m in high school, so obviously, I’m gonna have at least a little anxiety, right? Cus that’s the excuse my mom gives me when I try to talk to her about things that are giving me serious anxiety spikes. But I know it’s not jus...
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{ "description": "leaving my dirty laundry in the kitchen", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my dirty laundry in the kitchen?
I (21F) live in a two bedroom apartment with my boyfriend (23M) and my friend (20F). We’ve been living together for almost a year now. My boyfriend and I are by no means dirty, she just cares about cleanliness a lot more than we do. We do our best to keep up cleanliness for her in common areas, always clean the kitchen...
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{ "description": "using the term \"dame\"", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA Using the term "dame"
I said you're a cool dame to mutual female friend and was told that is offensive because damsel (which means young unwedded lady) implys damsel in distress. E.g. female stereotype and toxic masculinity. The term dame is the equivalent to knighthood in England. Like "Sir" Smith. Google it if you dont believe me. I ar...
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{ "description": "having a different opinion with my brother and kinda laughing at his", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For having a different opinion with my brother and kinda laughing at his?
So me and my brother were just talking, he mentioned he wanted to build a community in the woods and live far away from the city In the future, he talked about it some more, I made some jokes and said it's dumb... We kept going back and forth and he said that I shouldn't be shitting on his opinion ( now my stance o...
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{ "description": "telling my wife she needs to be more interesting", "pronormative_score": 40, "contranormative_score": 33 }
AITA for telling my wife she needs to be more interesting?
Context: my wife (31) and I (31) have been together for 8 years, is pregnant with our first child (12 weeks, planned), and while we've told family members, we haven't announced to the greater world. Lately we've been talking about when we can announce, and while before she didn't want to because of concerns around earl...
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{ "description": "calling my friends out on the fact they never include me in plans", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling my friends out on the fact they never include me in plans?
I feel like an arse for having a go at a group of friends who never invite me and one other to do things with them, but then always brag about how fun it was afterwards in our group chat. I sent them a screenshot of a tweet saying "you're a grade A c*** if you leave people out of plans on purpose" and they thought I w...
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{ "description": "wanting to leave a party early", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to leave a party early?
Apologies because this is long but its been on my mind for a while. For context I suffer from anxiety and I get panic attacks a lot. My boyfriend and I had been invited to our friends birthday party. I knew most people going, including this asshole guy (AG for short) I used to be close friends with but no longer spoke...
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{ "description": "showing up with all of my soon to be ex's stuff at her dorm room to break up with her", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I showed up with all of my soon to be ex’s stuff at her dorm room to break up with her?
I’m going to end my current relationship. I live in a house and she has a dorm room, but stays with me almost every night. She has brought quite a lot of her stuff over here. She really only uses her dorm room during the day in between classes. She has a real temper and bad habit of breaking things/getting physi...
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{ "description": "defending my short film against this guy who apparently won't stop until I hate my work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for defending my short film against this guy who apparently won't stop until I hate my work?
LOL. WTF? How did it go from daylight to midd... https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/acpw6w/my_short_film_about_suicide_just_earned_me_a_full/eda5wo5?utm_source=reddit-android
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{ "description": "not agreeing with this person's terminology", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not agreeing with this person's terminology?
I saw the movie The Mule. There is a scene in the movie where Clint Eastwood's character pulls over to the side of the road to help a black couple with car trouble. His character in the movie is definitely on the racist side of the spectrum. I forget what the exact phrase he uses with the couple is but he uses the term...
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{ "description": "telling a kid I wouldn't tell the bus driver about him chewing dip, then texting the bus driver after I got off of the bus", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 18 }
AITA for telling a kid I wouldn’t tell the bus driver about him chewing dip, then texting the bus driver after I got off of the bus?
TLDR at the bottom About two weeks ago, I was riding the bus home when the kid beside me looks at me and asks; Kid: “Are you a snitch?” Me: “No.” Kid: “Good.” He then pulls out a can of chewing tobacco and pulls some out and starts chewing some. He asks for a kid to pass him a Mountain Dew can, and continues to ch...
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{ "description": "telling best friend his girlfriend sucks", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I tell best friend his girlfriend sucks?
Obligatory mobile notes, apologies for format. TL;DR at the bottom since this'll require explaining. My best friend (22M) has a hero complex. All of his relationships and love interests are women who need 'help' or are dependent in some way, and I'm not exaggerating when I say that. His first girlfriend has anger issu...
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{ "description": "calling out my bf's brother for being racist", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I called out my bf’s brother for being racist?
My bf’s brother is a huge racist and I’m not sure how much more of it I can take. I hate being around him and he’s over at our place a lot. Like if someone asks something he will say “the Jews!” A lot. For example if I asked who knocked the garbage over he will say “the Jews!” I know he’s just trying to be funn...
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{ "description": "not liking makeup shopping", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not liking makeup shopping?
AITA for not enjoying makeup shopping with my gf? I specifically told my girlfriend 'i don't mean to be rude' before I started talking about this. I told her I don't enjoy going make up shopping with her as majority of it is me standing there staring at a wall. I asked her if she enjoyed going shopping with me for my t...
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{ "description": "not waking up my girlfriend on a roadtrip because I accidentally killed/injured a bird", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not waking up my girlfriend on a roadtrip because i accidentally killed/injured a bird.
(Note: English is a second language, apologies beforehand) See my girlfriend is a HUGE animal enthusiast and i know that she has taken and temporarily sheltered injured animals and released them back into nature. Well we were driving town to town and on our way to her parents house(2 hour drive), she was sleeping and ...
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{ "description": "having a bf when that's considered unchaste in my culture", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for having a bf when that's considered unchaste in my culture? [Long read]
So. I'm a 15 yr old Indian girl. My parents are Indian, but I was born in the US. I'm an atheist and so are my parents, we both only follow the religion to honor our ancestors and we place more importance on the language than actual Gods or goddesses (which we don't believe actually exist and are just representations...
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{ "description": "being off-put by someone posting pictures of their dead baby on Instagram", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being off-put by someone posting pictures of their dead baby on Instagram?
My friend and his wife's baby died in the womb 2 weeks before it was born. It was an absolute tragedy and I can't begin to imagine how difficult it must have been for them. Their friends and family (myself included) have done everything to provide support and condolences. All in all my friends seem to be doing well des...
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{ "description": "talking to my friend even though it upsets my so", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for talking to my friend even though it upsets my SO.
So the 3k limit is not long enough to give all the details of the situation so I’m gonna try to make it super bare bones. Basically I’ve been in a long term, long distance relationship with my SO for 5-6 years. We haven’t seen each other since then. I also have a friend who I’m incredibly close to who I’ve known ...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my boyfriend because he has a tba", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend because he has a TBA?
My boyfriend and I have been together a few years and live together. He has a traumatic brain injury which makes him very forgetful. He completely forgets conversations we have, trips we've taken, friends he's met, etc. For the course of our relationship this has just been a funny/cute thing to me, I remind him of thin...
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{ "description": "wanting to talk about things other than my future with my parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to talk about things other than my future with my parents?
Disclaimer: My parents are very caring and I am very fortunate to have them. They're great cooks and they make me work for things (most of the time it kind of sucks for me but I understand it's totally necessary) and they are very understanding. ​ With that out of the way, I'd like to talk about one thing ...
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{ "description": "telling staff members of a Discord server to enforce their rules more strictly", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling staff members of a Discord server to enforce their rules more strictly?
So some context of the situation: The rules in question are "1. No inappropriate or violent images/phrases are allowed. Also, please avoid risky subjects here (politics, religion, etc). Keep it calm. Don't be gross or edgy. 2. Please avoid insulting others or inciting aggression towards users here. Be kind. This server...
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{ "description": "not \"scaling up proportionally\" the size of my gift to income", "pronormative_score": 84, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for not “scaling up proportionally” the size of my gift to income?
We had our wedding anniversary last night. Wife bought me an EIGHTEEN THOUSAND dollar watch. I got her an engraved wood sign with our names and wedding date to hang in our home, that cost $50 with shipping. She got really upset with me and said she was looking forward to something nice like an upgraded diamond wedding...
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{ "description": "sending wife of cheating husband a message", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For sending wife of cheating husband a message?
So this story is a bit twisted- and in the end, I'm an uninvolved bystander who involved herself out of spite. I get it. Asshole reasons. I already know I'm the asshole in this sense... No regrets still... But I am curious about what people would think of my actions. ​ Recently my friends took in a roomma...
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{ "description": "enjoying the flirtations of another man even though I'm married", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for enjoying the flirtations of another man even though I'm married?
Context here is that I'm miserable. He doesn't care to hear it, doesn't care to address it, fix it, or do anything about it. Am committed to our marriage and cheating isn't an option but I'm incredibly lonely and don't know how to fix it alone. So, in the meantime I get a thrill that this guy at work has a crush on...
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{ "description": "not wanting to make a big deal about the fact that I'm moving out of the country for a few years", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not wanting to make a big deal about the fact that I’m moving out of the country for a few years?
Backstory information: my husband is military, we’ve known I’d be moving sometime in the future for a year now, and we’ve known it was overseas for over six months now. I was talking with my sister about how excited I am to finally be leaving soon, and she stated that she was under the impression I’d want to have a g...
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{ "description": "threatening a person by taking their crime to the police", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for threatening a person by taking their crime to the police?
Okay, so let me catch y’all up to speed. My girlfriend and her friends deal with a person in their dorm who is by all means a nuisance. He harasses people, bullies people, and is a general asshole to my girlfriends friends. As for my girlfriend, he’s very nice and regularly asks her on dates. I don’t really care about ...
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{ "description": "not getting my ex girlfriend a direct flight", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not getting my ex girlfriend a direct flight?
I’ll keep this as short as I can. My ex called me saying her friends ditched her in Las Vegas, and was freaking out. I tried to help her by getting her a flight home (in Los Angeles) so bought her a one way to lax. It had a 1 hour layover in SF and she called me from SF saying I’m an asshole for not getting her a direc...
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{ "description": "being this way", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For Being This Way?
My Fiancee (26F) and I (26M) have been together for 7+ years. 3+ of which we've been engaged. Ive been an off and on pot smoker since 18, and until recently (2017ish) I barely drank alcohol. Myself: I dropped out of highschool in grade 12, couple years later got my college diploma, and then got my GED to patch up old w...
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{ "description": "cutting off my friend cuz he started dating a girl I had feelings for and am trying to get over", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting off my friend cuz he started dating a girl I had feelings for and am trying to get over
So story is, there’s the girl I had a huge crush on that I became close friends with a few months ago. She was in a lot of my class and I wanted to date but she just wanted to be friends and I was cool with that until I had started to develop feelings for her. I had to distance myself from her to get over these feeling...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be near my super tight-knit family", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to be near my super tight-knit family?
I come from a very close family. I was raised with the mantra "family, only second to God" and it stuck with me a lot when I was younger. I got in more fights over my little brother getting bullied in school than any other reason. We really were very close Fast forward to today: we're all grown. They (5 total, includi...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hear my stepdad's political views at dinner", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to hear my stepdad's political views at dinner?
Background info: So my stepdad has been living with me, my mom, and my two brothers for over a year and we recently moved in with my grandma because of financial issues. Before we moved here, my mom had a rule about having the TV off at dinner. He happily obliged and we had pretty pleasant dinners. Now he doesn't foll...
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{ "description": "breaking my other two friends' relationship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for breaking my other two friends' relationship?
Lets call my friends Jake and Sarah. Both of them were really close and would hang out everyday. They both said they were just best friends but everyone knew they had a thing going on between them. So basically, when I moved to this new school, Jake dared Sarah to go and prank text me. I just played along and eventual...
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{ "description": "being embarrassed that my partner wore shorts with a hole in public", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being embarrassed that my partner wore shorts with a hole in public?
My significant other has this pair of shorts that he loves because they are stretchy and comfortable. The problem is, they have a huge hole above one knee. Sometimes you can even see his boxers through the hole. Because of the material these shorts are made of, the hole is obviously not meant to be there and in no way ...
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{ "description": "taking a photo of a girl's butt", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA For taking a photo of a girl's butt
Happened 30 minutes ago. I went to buy food at a certain fast food restaurant. The location of the fast food place is on a street filled with bars. And it just so happened that a local university was doing a bar hop. There were groups and groups of students all wearing a specific t-shirt of various colors with most of ...
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{ "description": "leaving my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my friend?
Alright, let’s do this. So my friend (lets call him Tac) has hung out with me since the first few days of school, and at the beginning, I thought he was really funny and fun to be around. Then my friend circle grew larger with 2 more friends, James and Ben. We started hanging out a bit more, but then Tac started ac...
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{ "description": "sharing my depressing thoughts to my gf", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for sharing my depressing thoughts to my gf(now ex)?
I have been diagnosed and struggling with clinical depression for 3 years now. I always share my thoughts to my gf cause she's the only one I trusted and I thought she'd understand. We've been officially together for 3 years and she was really a great help to me. Ffw to 4 months ago, she broke up with me and told me t...
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{ "description": "joking with a straight face to an acquiantance that he doesn't mix with peace and quiet", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for joking with a straight face to an acquiantance that he doesn’t mix with peace and quiet?
For context I see him (max of) twice per week at church related events and talk for only a few minutes every time. So he shares that he needs peace and quiet. I remark (as a joke but very straight faced/stoic) that peace and quiet to him is like fire and water given how sociable he normally is. He blows up and dema...
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{ "description": "not being excited about someone else's good news", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not being excited about someone else's good news?
So this is kind of different from what I see on here and it mostly pertains to people who are Greek (Fraternities and sororities). However, the main idea is easy to understand so anyone is welcome to answer. But real quick... Pdad - Sorority girls tend to ask Frat guys if they would want to be their Pdad. Its usually ...
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{ "description": "not giving someone a refund when they didn't know you needed internet to set up the product", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving someone a refund when they didn’t know you needed internet to set up the product?
I just sold an Xbox One a couple hours ago and I had tested and reset the entire device to make sure everything was good to go. I offered a decent price in my opinion, 100 dollars for 2 controllers, the console and gta5 I went to the meeting place and had to wait close to one hour for them to finally reach the place,...
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{ "description": "objecting to women's parking being in the front at my workplace parking lot and consequently getting fired due to it", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For objecting to women’s parking being in the front at my workplace parking lot and consequently getting fired due to it?
I am 18, have just begun college. I study computer science and got to work at a tech store. I had honestly loved it there for the short time I worked there. One thing to note was that except me, every person who worked in the store was a woman. Many of them were really friendly to me, and I think they are geniunely nic...
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{ "description": "being brutally honest with a friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being brutally honest with a friend
For this one, I need to start a ways back. My first girlfriend was in middle school, 8th grade. It was the typical middle school romance, her coming up to me and asking "Will you be my boyfriend?" and me agreeing while having no idea what having a girlfriend entailed. Needless to say, it didn't last long before she br...
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{ "description": "implementing a strict food policy at work", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for implementing a strict food policy at work?
For context, my workplace is a very small (about 100ft^2 or ~9.3m^2) outbuilding, and only accommodates 2 people (three is stretching it) people at a time. We only have about 5 people who work throughout the week, so it’s a very small department both in terms of space and people. Recently I have been absolutely disgus...
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{ "description": "complaining about my job to my sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for complaining about my job to my sister?
So my sister (28f) and I (24f) haven’t had the best relationship, a little over a year ago we just started speaking... after barely talking for four years She has a masters and is Pursuing a career in therapy. I never completed college and work 2 retail jobs. I really like my work. My coworkers and I often bond over ...
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{ "description": "texting my landlord about my housemates", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for texting my landlord about my housemates?
Sorry for the essay. To keep anonymous I will keep several details different but basically I live in a very old duplex with two people that live above me on the second floor. Now first off I will say that I completely understand that a certain amount of noise from your neighbors is unavoidable and not their fault, I ...
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{ "description": "banning someone from our dev team due to me not liking his controversial opinions", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for banning someone from our dev team due to me not liking his controversial opinions?
So for context, I've been working on an RPG Maker game for over 2 years now with a team helping to voice act aswell as make sprites, art and music for it. We had a Co manager who seemed like a nice person at first, and he was a good guy for a while. Then he started stating some of his opinions, and made a few offensi...
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{ "description": "meeting up with ex, and more recent ex finds out", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for meeting up with ex, and more recent ex finds out
So long story short cause I don’t want to go into too much detail, but I broke up with my girlfriend 6 days ago because I didn’t really feel a connection with her. Great girl so it seemed, but just didn’t have anything there so didn’t want to waste either of our time. Today I decide to go to another ex’s home, whom I b...
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{ "description": "accusing a prostitute I'm seeing of being deceptive and manipulative", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 34 }
AITA for accusing a prostitute I'm seeing of being deceptive and manipulative?
So I (25M) started using an escort agency several years ago ever since I found out its legal in my country. One year ago, I saw one of the girls (25F) from the agency. I really found her attractive so saw her again. And then again. And then again. After finishing sex, we'd use the remaining time left to talk about ou...
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{ "description": "not telling a waiter I was undercharged", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not telling a waiter I was undercharged?
Last night, my fiancee and I went to a semi-fancy restaurant to enjoy a nice quiet dinner together. We don't do this too often, but it feels good to get a little dressed up and have some good Italian food every once in a while. This time, she had a Groupon that was $63 off for four glasses of wine, two apps, and four m...
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{ "description": "wanting some affection", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting some affection?
My (ex) girlfriend and I recently broke up with the main reason being a lack of affection on her part. We only "officially" dated for a month, but we were into each other and practically dating for almost half a year. Although we were "dating", she never really showed any affection. We would never really hang out as th...
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{ "description": "not wanting to read my ex-wife's memoir", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to read my ex-wife's memoir?
My ex and I separated (and subsequently divorced) about two years ago. Since then, she has been very upfront with me that she's writing a memoir about the end of our marriage and her subsequent life being single. She has also told me that I am free to read it after it's done in case I want to object to how I'm portraye...
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{ "description": "getting tired of my girlfriend's poor English", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting tired of my girlfriend's poor English?
Both of us are non-native speakers in the US. We have been together for about a year now. When I first met her, her English didn't seem to be a problem as it's decent enough to have a quick chat but as time passed by I realised that she has a very limited vocabulary and hardly formulates a sentence without making a gra...
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{ "description": "telling 2 of my friends that I think they are very unreliable people who's words having no value for me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If I told 2 of my friends that I think they are very unreliable people who's words have no value for me?
I have a group of close friends. We are all in our late 20's. 2 of them (guy,girl) have proven to be extremely unreliable in an alike manner. All the incidents Im gonna mention happened both individually and in a group setting, MANY times throughout 4-8 years. Examples: \-Being late, CONSTANTLY, (over 40mins). And...
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AITA - GF left me because of snap streaks
Hey, So background info, I (28m) have been dating this girl for two years now and it’s been good. Sure, we’ve had our fights but always made it through it. I’m a registered nurse so 95% of my co workers are female. Anyways, I have a snap streak with 3 co workers. Nothing crazy the streaks are 18, 7, 7. I work with t...
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{ "description": "wanting more attention from my best friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting more attention from my best friend?
Sorry, posting on a throwaway because she knows the name on my Reddit account and I’d rather her not know it was me posting yet because she does use Reddit. ​ For a little bit of background, my best friend and I have known each other for around 10 years. We had a class together when we were younger, but w...
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{ "description": "throwing a kid into a lake", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For throwing A kid into a lake?
This story takes place probably about 9 years ago, when i was around 13. I was at a campground for the weekend, camping with my family and enjoying the summer. The campground was at a lake, and I would spend every day fishing, swimming, and catching snakes, of which there was a great many of at the lake. Now, snakes...
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{ "description": "laughing in his face", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for laughing in his face?
Last week I was minding my own business, crossing the street looking like a walking pile of garbage (hadn't showered in 48 hours, didn't have a stitch of makeup on, my skin was breaking out, and I was wearing baggy boyfriend jeans and an old t-shirt--I'm not proud of myself, but it is what it is). Anyway, a pretty attr...
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{ "description": "not wanting to constantly compliment people", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not wanting to constantly compliment people?
I have a friend who often texts me and it normally goes fine for a while but then they say something like “I’m so stupid,” or “I’m not good anything,” wanting me to say back to them “Don’t say that” or “You’re good at ____.” It gets tiring after a while as they keep arguing with me that they’re not good at anything. To...
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{ "description": "not wanting to forgive child support arrears", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to forgive child support arrears
I do not post a lot so I am sorry if the format is wrong also on mobile. Backstory: In 2014 my wife (29F) and I (29M) got custody of her sisters 5 children. Shortly after that we found out we were going to have our first child. So we went from 0 to 6 kids in 9 months. Well part of getting custody was setting up chil...
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{ "description": "cutting a possibly autistic friend off", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting a possibly autistic friend off?
I’m 15 and in a group of about six other kids. Four girls, two guys. So one of these girls, let’s call her Bowzette, has poor interpersonal skills and is generally not great at relationships in general. She’s also a really private person and can only deal with the ‘flirty friend’ status of relationships. Also, commen...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my chips", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to share my chips
Background: my company is doing a partnership job with a local company therefore we share a house. I’ve been in another country 4months. Country is totally different culture & food wise. The job is in a rural area so there’s not a lot of options to eat/get food and I’m a little picky. I’ll be here two more months. ...
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{ "description": "refusing to be a friend's character reference for army enlistment because I disagree morally with military recruitment", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for refusing to be a friend's character reference for army enlistment because I disagree morally with military recruitment?
Context: United States. ​ A good friend of mine has asked me to be her character reference to support her enlistment in the army. I have advocated on her behalf during her challenging college search and have always been firmly in her corner even when no one else was. She often feels like she's living in m...
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{ "description": "arguing with my mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for arguing with my mom.
I just got in a big argument withy my mom, Im in 10th grade now and I think my mom has some sort of conplex. She always wakes up late in the morning before we plan a family trip and yells at everybody else for not preparing, doesnt work at all and our house is always a mess, and she will never admit she is wrong no mat...
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{ "description": "insulting my Girlfriend's food", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Insulting My Girlfriend's Food?
My girlfriend and I were video chatting each other, and she had gotten home from school so naturally she was hungry. Her family made sure to get her some take out from some restaurant. It's not a restaurant that's particularly special or important to her. In the box was some steak katsu, rice, soup etc. ​ ...
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{ "description": "cutting contact with relatives I don't like", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting contact with relatives I don't like?
This is more "settle a debate" than any real issue at this stage. Growing up I was raised with two cousins like we were siblings. They are sisters, and when we were kids they would randomly bully me because I was younger and smaller and so on. Fast forward to our teens, and they stopped growing around 5 ft. I got the t...
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{ "description": "not sharing a collaborative study guide with a classmate", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not sharing a collaborative study guide with a classmate?
One of my classmates, who I’ll call Jacob, had a pretty bad reputation throughout the department. I‘d heard stories of his behavior before having classes with him. It was pretty obvious to me where his bad rep came from even on day 1 of classes with him. He was the typical college English snob, was outwardly misogynis...
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{ "description": "being upset that my bf retracted his offer paying for my meal", "pronormative_score": 34, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being upset that my bf retracted his offer paying for my meal?
So last night, we all went out with friends. I was fully ready to pay for my meal, which was wings. I ordered a side fries because I thought everything came with fries, but it ended up being an extra $2.99. He offered to pay for my meal and I told him what I ordered and he seemed okay. I ordered another beer and told h...
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{ "description": "not paying rent even though I'm not living at home anymore", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not paying rent even though I'm not living at home anymore...
Ahhhh a family argument on Christmas Eve... brilliant. So here's some facts: My mum and dad divorced when I was 8, 10 years ago. Mum moved out the family home and I pretty much lived with her permanently. We have been fine financially, up until a few months ago. I soon found out that she was using my dads child supp...
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{ "description": "not letting my boyfriend touch me intimately, unless he gets a manicure", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not letting my boyfriend touch me intimately, unless he gets a manicure.
I thought I was weird, but I think this might make me an asshole My boyfriend hasn't fingered me yet or touched me down there. I don't want him to unless he gets a manicure. The thought of unclean, bitten, not manicured nails going INSIDE ME or touching me down there makes me seriously cringe. I have a huge issue wi...
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{ "description": "not telling my friend about people doing coke at her party", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my friend about people doing coke at her party?
So my friend had a party and she invited some boys in our friendship group who are KNOWN for being drug users. She explicitly told them no drugs. During her party one of the boys pulls me to the side and asks if I want some coke. I thank him but say no and tell them they shouldn’t be doing it as my friend has explicitl...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my roommates for not shutting the sliding door all the way closed during winter", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad at my roommates for not shutting the sliding door all the way closed during winter?
Some context: my roommates and I live on the ground floor of an apartment building and thus have a sliding door we can get into and out of our apartment with instead of using the building door. Every time I've come home the last two weeks, if someone else is home, the door is slightly cracked. I live in the US near DC...
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{ "description": "demanding that my roommate get a full time job after just getting hired on part time", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for demanding that my roommate get a full time job after just getting hired on part time?
So I befriended someone online last year (we'll call him A) and learned that he was in a really shit situation financially and emotionally. He used to live in the south and his family and the people in his small town weren't very respectful or accepting of his gender identity/sexuality/general existence. I wasn't in a ...
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{ "description": "asking if something can be done about the dope boys in my historically black neighborhood", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For asking if something can be done about the dope boys in my historically black neighborhood?
I live in a city that is pretty segregated, with the south side being more associated with black residents. I live in a south side community that is probably about 90% black, with whites, Asians, Latinx people mixed in the rest. My specific community is a more affluent historical black community. I am half white, half ...
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{ "description": "smacking a teenager", "pronormative_score": 39, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA For smacking a teenager?
I had my 6 year old daughter at the park earlier today, as there was a community event going on nearby and there would be a lot of kids for her to play with. It didn't take long before I noticed a huge teenager, I'm guessing 16-17, playing extremely rough with his siblings. Like almost sadistically rough, shoving them ...
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{ "description": "being upset that my boyfriend is apparently planning on ditching me for part of our Vegas trip", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for being upset that my [f27] boyfriend [m29] is apparently planning on ditching me for part of our Vegas trip?
Been together a little over 2 years. BF always visits Vegas during March Madness and bets on the games. This was typically a boys’ weekend, but last year his boys couldn’t make it so he invited me. We didn’t actually do much since he was sick the first night and angry at losing the second, but it was still fun to walk ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to take fish antibiotics", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to take fish antibiotics?
My family keeps insisting to take these fish antibiotic pills, which are meant for actual fish. I just feel uncomfortable because it says directly on the bottle: **Not For Human Consumption.**
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AITA for “Yo Wassup” in a Boston accent to some random girl on the street?
Context is key here. It was Halloween of 2018 and my high school let you dress in your costume that day. I dressed up as The Scout, an extremely loud, obnoxious, and bombastic character who talks in a thick Boston accent. There I was, riding my bike to school and I pass this random girl who looked to be walking to a ...
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{ "description": "telling my gf I'm stressed when she is too", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my gf I’m stressed when she is too?
So my gf is sick as of now and wants a lot of comfort and attention since we can only text. So with school I’ve had a p long day stressful and all. So FFW to now and we got in a dispute where she told me all the stuff that’s wrong with her venting and if overwhelmed me and I said “I don’t know what to do okay? It’s str...
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{ "description": "contacting guy's friends after he ignored me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for contacting guy’s friends after he ignored me
AITA for contacting a guy’s friends after he ghosted me Ok so this is what happened. I’ve been casually seeing this guy from a dating app. Everything was going well, we hung out a few times and texted/called almost every day. He called me on Friday to hang out and I wasn’t able to because I was cleaning my place an...
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{ "description": "sparking a fight between coworkers", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sparking a fight between coworkers?
TL;DR; copied from below: I have been the lead on a project for 3 of the last 4 iterations and do a vast majority of the work. My coworker who came up with the project idea was the lead on the 1st iteration. He felt that he deserved half of the allotted bonus while I deserved the other half. People who actually did wor...
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{ "description": "disabling the recline on the plane seat ahead of me", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 61 }
AITA for disabling the recline on the plane seat ahead of me?
For background, I was in the second row of coach for a very long flight. The row in front of me was the bulkhead, so they had a TON of legroom and no one in front of them where they would need to recline to recover their own space from a recliner in front of them. Traditionally, I jam a water bottle in the gap between...
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