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"description": "using a family bathroom when I was by myself",
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} | AITA if I used a family bathroom when I was by myself? | Hear me out. I was doing some contracting work in an upscale mall the other day. Both I and my friend I was working with had to shit really bad. Men’s room only had 2 stalls and one was already occupied, so I let him go first only if he agreed to make it quick. 5-10 minutes pass, he’s still in there.
I’m crowning at t... | HISTORICAL | {
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RNPzYURtWyIl5MYVNJ6IdkmwRi3GyBjM | b2o7wx | {
"description": "wanting my cousin to leave",
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} | AITA, for wanting my cousin to leave? | Throwaway account.
My cousin(F/32) has been living with me (F/29) and my family rent free for the past 4 years. She had a rough life, from absent parents, hostile relationship with her siblings to abusive romantic relationships. She never finished high school, so while shes staying with me and my family, she's studyin... | HISTORICAL | {
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Tui9CySOeauIMCU8E7fzrnrzUGYepjRA | aycs51 | {
"description": "making my partner deal with her seizures alone",
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} | AITA For making my partner deal with her seizures alone? | So my partner is epileptic. It's currently a bit uncontrolled and the doctors don't know what's causing them or exactly what type of seizures they are yet, despite having had seizures for about 10 years. She's forgotten/refused to take her meds for the past couple of days which has caused her to have some seizures last... | HISTORICAL | {
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qTcLyhICMduQ57AkxELSyYMRqpc6oZe4 | awhlj0 | {
"description": "not saying hello",
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} | AITA For not saying hello? | I had just gotton off the bus, and was digging around for my ear buds. I found them, stuck them in and walked a little before I was about to turn the music on. This random kid, walking with his friend, both probably my age says hi to me. I stared at him blankly, trying to think if I know him or something. I mean, no on... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "breaking off a friendship with a girl because of her social anxiety",
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} | AITA for breaking off a friendship with a girl because of her social anxiety? | I’ve been friends with this girl for about 3 years now and we went on a couple dates as well. But whenever I’m around her I feel very stressed out and frankly I don’t enjoy her presence. It becomes a burden to be around her because she talks almost exclusively about drama that she makes up. She has social anxiety and I... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "asking my boyfriend to not tell his friends about our sex life",
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} | AITA for asking my boyfriend to not tell his friends about our sex life? | To begin, this is a fairly new relationship.
My boyfriend and I are in the same social group and I found out he had told two members of our friend group what we had done the other night.
This had happened a couple weeks before as well and our friend told every other friend in our group. I had told him how I felt abou... | HISTORICAL | {
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rI1ntsJt530TDEjK8NSLAeRHtM0hD22h | awzdw4 | {
"description": "getting upset that my GF made plans after changing plans with me",
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} | AITA For getting upset that my GF made plans after changing plans with me? | So I (24m) am in a polyamorous relationship. My GF (23F) has another BF (24m). My GF and I were planning on spending last night and all day together for most of the week, but complications came up throughout the week and those plans went through several iterations. Now, we did spend most of Wednesday afternoon/evening ... | HISTORICAL | {
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fVfWbOxkhMKtLBB0RtVwSeuXp1hW9wvO | au18sm | {
"description": "making fun of my friend for something he couldn't control",
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} | AITA for making fun of my friend for something he couldn't control? | made a throwaway account to post this
bit of background:
I've spoken to this specific friend about my troubles about being bisexual and all he really did was roast me for being gay so one day he said something that pushed me to my boiling point and I might have gone too far.
basically, me and my best friend were hav... | HISTORICAL | {
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NN15uqV2iEYuMTLZbU9Q3cknxyw4ZfFA | a9kgao | {
"description": "standing up to my girlfriends aunt",
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} | WIBTA for standing up to my girlfriends aunt | Me and my girlfriend have been together for over a year, I never liked her family. To me they’re manipulative and abusive. Today was Christmas Day, I am in Iceland for vacation and she was at her aunts house celebrating. The only thing she got as a present was a target gift card with no price on it while everyone else ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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ZYUWatCcWbGQIyD641BXFJb3lUW7uV2D | aoudbm | {
"description": "being upset after my best friend stops talking to me after having sex once",
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} | AITA for being upset after my best friend stops talking to me after having sex once | Brace yourselves it’s a long winded one.
So I’ve (20m) been friends with this girl (20f) since I started secondary school, so around 8 years. And in that time we’ve never dated, but I’ve been incredibly close to her, I have basically been her best friend and closest friend for all that time. She’s had several serious ... | HISTORICAL | {
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EJK8aBqB3O24f9zr0dNVEAd65eF94be1 | b2mx8r | {
"description": "lying to my crush to spend more time with her",
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} | AITA for lying to my crush to spend more time with her? | My crush, let's call her Rachel, is a national-level tennis player. I just met her at the beginning of this semester, since I moved states during winter break. I haven't been able to get an 'in' with her, so to speak. We're kind of casual friends that hang out at school, but nothing more. So I asked her last week (befo... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 9
} | WRONG |
fgf7V8srcggHRsjrFLopmJAskqn0FkN8 | at8ll0 | null | AITA? I took issue with my friend's costume; she thinks I'm being ridiculous | I've know this person since the start of college, so about two years. I've never known her to be particularly asshole-ish or insensitive, so her current behavior has taken me a bit by surprise. But I think she's being a huge asshole. Here's why:
Last night we went to a rave-ish type theme party on campus. People were... | HISTORICAL | {
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HTY4OkO7C8Xix6P09X8qrF2uqNP3s0Kp | b9lwa5 | {
"description": "calling my cousin (?) to tell her about our grandmother",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for calling my (19f) cousin (26f?) to tell her about our grandmother (80)? | Today was a wild one. The caretaker for our grandmother is going to quit once my mom comes back from an overseas trip. She was really fed up with my grandmother obsessing and ripping the diaper off of herself every time she, the caretaker, would put it on.
During the ordeal I called my cousin as she hasn’t had many u... | HISTORICAL | {
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Wb1Gew77nbMGk0tRmt9l9tYmKTt1OrwL | a67lee | {
"description": "getting upset that my boyfriend went out drinking before my birthday date with him",
"pronormative_score": 27,
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} | AITA for getting upset that my boyfriend went out drinking before my birthday date with him? | BF (m/33) and I (f/about to be 34) have been together 3 years. Last year, he totally dropped the ball and planned nothing (not even a card). This year, I heavily suggested (aka, planned) what I wanted to do... Starting with, we stay up Thursday night and watch the meteor shower and then stay home together from work on ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 27,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
uSnT6FNQ22jimL4Ew45q8MFEWBFTyn1M | aqe7xb | null | AITA for how I handled leaving my old apartment | Right out of college 2.5 years ago I moved to a new city. One of my good buddies (who I've known since elementary school) lived in the same town so we decided to get an apartment together. His girlfriend of 6 weeks was in between leases when we moved in so she and her puppy stayed with us. About a month after we moved ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Eh4SN8dtAMHWnq9kqtSNKtpF8X36NwYT | ankcy6 | {
"description": "wanting to make someone commit to their debt",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for wanting to make someone commit to their debt? | Yeah, it's about a touchy subject, so it's more nuanced than the generalization of the title.
This happened quite a few years back, but it's still something that gets me back and forth in a debate with myself when I'm reminded by it by a single solitary image I can often see floating on the internet. Sometimes I reas... | HISTORICAL | {
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j2Ca2LMl7ALTu4fSkaY9WH4uzvWO10lt | a4f9ae | {
"description": "wanting to go out with my best friend and not hangout with my so",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for wanting to go out with my best friend and not hangout with my SO | Background: I (22M) will be graduating next week and moving away from school to start my job. Me and my SO (22F) spend most of our time together other then when we have class or have a lot of assignments to do. We have been dating for 2.5 years at this point and will continue to date once I leave for work.(Work is 3 ho... | HISTORICAL | {
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2GUjg0SdjD8jtMN0nR50CCqWfuRNEbfW | 9yeqeb | {
"description": "wanting to know why my roommate had a cop go to his room looking for him",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for wanting to know why my roommate had a cop go to his room looking for him? | Let’s set the scene. I am a freshman in my first semester of college, adapting to life far from home in my dorm, which is set up so that myself and my roommate have rather small, separate rooms, and share a bathroom (still better than a larger shared room imo, and you’ll see why). When I first met my roommate, who I wi... | HISTORICAL | {
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qQDMAd8zA6rODct8wwZbsjfcKGVNUFP1 | 9z6mcv | null | AITA-My writing teacher made us write an essay about a person that inspired us so I made up a story about someone dying of cancer. She got emotional over it. | Our school has this contest for kids in the Creative Writing class. The winner gets a scholarship. The topic was someone that inspired us. It couldn’t be anybody related such as mom or dad but it could be a friend or famous person.
There’s no one that inspires me. Not anyone famous or anything. I don’t have any friend... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 12,
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ofkaYmZoCV8CgB8JrgIBYUASdBX1JUxE | a8iiho | {
"description": "not wanting my 19 year old girlfriend to go on a trip with me and my family to Las Vegas for my 21st birthday",
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} | AITA for not wanting my 19 year old girlfriend to go on a trip with me and my family to Las Vegas for my 21st birthday | Im the youngest of my siblings, and my dad wants to take me and my older sister to Las Vegas for my birthday. My girlfriend is 19 and upset that i think she shouldn't come. AITA? | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
QtGDNTbvlEv2VxO4tR9fMVR1gMSV2JOT | ahqtr7 | {
"description": "thinking our neighbor hates us",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA For thinking our neighbor hates us | Around six months ago we had two police officers circle around our neighborhood while we were having a barbeque outside with music playing at a moderate, the officer's did not stop that day. Flash forward to this month where as I was arriving from work and putting the dogs outside, into the fenced in area we recently i... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
JvcobXfYlebidH53f40c0FcHhvOZeXfe | b73a0q | {
"description": "telling my managers that my coworker came into work drunk",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | Aita for telling my managers that my coworker came into work drunk? | A coworker of mine had come into work and told us that she was drunk. You could smell it on her breath, it was that strong. Her reason was because it was the anniversary of her mother’s death. I felt bad for her but this isn’t the first time she’s come into work drunk/high. I told the managers and she tried to lie a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 8,
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M65fxiaO8f6LYwJOO8tui3d9yybhhjcF | a3qfjl | null | AITA spent 300$ at an oil change place, and only tipped 10$. | Context:
1. I know nothing about cars
2. The shop is designed specially to change oil
3. But they checked a lot of things for me for free. — tires, wipers, lights, engine.
4. Checked my transmission fluid, got that changed as well. Though it’s 50/50 whether it’s needed, according to the guy.
5. I am honestly 9.5/1... | HISTORICAL | {
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bhO7bKFxaEJJ71ZMOasCiz8pLFPa2AEa | adomk4 | {
"description": "listening to 50 year old rock music at work",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for listening to 50 year old rock music at work? | I was listening to what I consider extremely mellow rock music, the album Paranoid by Black Sabbath at work quietly at my desk. Everyone listens to music quietly, it's normal here, no one uses headphones for safety reasons and to answer the occasional phone call.
I got called into the HR dept and was told my "heav... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
czKTCcJqwn7nheErf8PLkrwnwWggLlIb | ap944s | {
"description": "refusing to go to my nephew's birthday party",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I refuse to go to my nephew's birthday party? | Let me start off by saying that I love my nephew dearly, he's like a little brother to me and I wish him everything he dreams of.
That being said, with his birthday coming up I'm invited and I promised I'd go without hesitation. It only occurred to me now that my mother could be coming as well. Now, we've all had hor... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
57RsKo2c9EZmTJhe7UCX9eLQheaDU51K | 9tqwp7 | {
"description": "gifting a one year post dated cheque as a wedding present",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | WIBTA for gifting a one year post dated cheque as a wedding present? | My rationale is that the newly wed couple can receive the money only if they make it together for a year... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 5
} | WRONG |
cD2Opj9FesUWgDcMFh450Qveup78d9u9 | b3yyh3 | {
"description": "questioning if my so drove my car drunk",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for questioning if my SO drove my car drunk? | Was chatting with my (24f) boyfriend (27m) and he mentioned how he was drunk at my sister’s wedding, which was last summer. I said I thought he wasn’t and he said he was. So I say “but you drove my car...” For context, the wedding was a 2 minute drive from where we were staying. I went with my parents and sister and he... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
dsIPNZbn9o5U8JBkE0LYI6pBBt0l91x8 | aa17i5 | {
"description": "telling my so to cut contact with an old female friend of his",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA (F) for telling my SO (M) to cut contact with an old female friend of his? | This happened a few years ago, but somehow it came up in conversation (OK, an argument) recently again, and it does still bother me to this day, so I really would appreciate non-biased third party takes on this.
Buckle in, buckaroos. Sorry this is a long one, been thinking about this for years, but finally decided... | HISTORICAL | {
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iRDI459dogKpWENlbaAUclY4LRliMrCe | 9t64uv | {
"description": "getting mad at my roommate with aspergers",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for getting mad at my roommate with aspergers? | I'm not supposed to know this but I'm a sophomore so my friend is the RA for our floor. She let me know that my roommate has aspergers pretty bad as a warning since I'm a pretty closed off guy and people with aspergers dont usually get social cues. I am in the same room as last year with all my old buddies except two m... | HISTORICAL | {
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eZmYoNSmpr2UFdGEhsTzcLanulPYHHsX | b2ltl8 | {
"description": "not wanting a close relationship with my mother",
"pronormative_score": 11,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting a close relationship with my mother? | So a bit of backstory here, growing up I was always closer to my dad than my mom. I’m not sure why, but even when I was younger I favored my dad. I always felt like my mother resented this.
When I was 16 my parents split, mom got custody. My mother by all accounts is crazy. Multiple occasions she both physically and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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MowQWPYjAu556GLmRCLC4GLbTpS81tp2 | b1vu58 | {
"description": "not caring when our baby is born",
"pronormative_score": 551,
"contranormative_score": 15
} | AITA for not caring when our baby is born? | My husband and I have been trying to conceive since early this year. This morning he told me that, if we don't conceive by the end of this month, he wants me to get back on birth control and that we will wait to try again until December of this year. His reasoning is that it will be better if our kid is born sometime b... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
Ypv984wGR9DNBsTH6rS3TBkcznKeMnlx | b87tc7 | {
"description": "telling my mom she has to shower? she only showers once a month and she smells like a homeless person",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | WIBTA if I told my mom she HAS TO shower? She only showers once a month and she smells like a homeless person | I’m 26 and whenever I come to visit my parents (my dad is 60 and my mom is 57) my mom smells HORRIBLE, this has been going on for over a year. No one has the guts to tell her. My mom is an alcoholic and my dad kinda is too (my whole life they both get drunk every night, but my dad is functioning whereas my mom doesn’t ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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yqwAbrjZ0HAmhKqzvWBEOT4bZcmTKCh5 | a751d4 | {
"description": "telling my wife that I'm no longer comfortable with the fact that she vacations with her ex-husband + kids without me and think it's time to make some changes",
"pronormative_score": 30,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for telling my wife that I’m no longer comfortable with the fact that she vacations with her ex-husband + kids without me and think it’s time to make some changes? | My wife (28f) and I (29m) got married in 2016. She got divorced from her ex in 2014. She has 2 kids with her ex (6 y/o twins - boy and girl).
In the time we’ve been together, my wife and the ex vacation together at least once a year in the summer. I’ve never been invited. As far as I know, they’ve always shared one ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ymm3R5GuZ3ZR6IdSStXhFpkzj2trRKho | b8ix6a | {
"description": "refusing to talk to my parents for over half a year",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for refusing to talk to my parents for over half a year? | English isn't my first language so feel free to ask me to clarify anything you don't understand. It's quite long. And I don't live in the US.
About 2 years ago, I moved out to live with my SO. I do housework, cook everyday, and I help making videos on his channel. My mun isn't too happy about me living with my boyfrie... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZG4QWcdKl3PsWFBbS37L1rvW6e3l9UWf | awwybs | {
"description": "refusing to lie to my parents",
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} | AITA for refusing to lie to my parents? | So I‘m 20 and still living with my parents. I do a lot of stuff that my islamic parents don‘t approve of, like not believing in god, having sex before marriage, drinking and smoking yada yada
But I believe in being true to myself, so I don‘t really hide anything about my lifestyle, but we don‘t talk about it either.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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FmIa5dV5Cw2X2nD86ORNeZW161Q9y8z7 | a3etmm | {
"description": "being mad at my crush",
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} | AITA for being mad at my crush | So to keep it short I’ve liked a girl for 2 plus years like a lot. And she’s already been in a thing with another guy but she broke it off. She’s liked me before but she bounces around between liking me and not liking me so much in the past year so I’m pretty mad right now and AITA? | HISTORICAL | {
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2MqqyPLhLpRBHN8mMKO5CccY0fCL6j4X | a69ol8 | {
"description": "not wanting to pay for half a hotel that I didn't stay in",
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} | AITA for not wanting to pay for half a hotel that I didn’t stay in? | I (female) am from the east coast and went to the west coast for a few days for interviews. I told my close friend (let’s call him M for Male), to come visit, as he has free business class flights due to a buddy pass.
We agreed to stay together when he came and split the cost. I tried to book a place to stay a few day... | HISTORICAL | {
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IzWFZjPZdBsZ7BgLlLgrhGXskB8KZSSE | b6adfr | {
"description": "giving my girlfriend an ultimatum on what to wear",
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} | AITA for giving my girlfriend an ultimatum on what to wear? | My girlfriend and I (male) are taking a trip abroad soon, where we plan to swim. She loves swimming, and loves to wear a bikini. We're both of the same religion, however I'm probably a bit more religious than she is, although this doesn't factor in so much when I consider what she wishes to wear. She asked me how I fel... | HISTORICAL | {
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AqY1VYhjhhNAwAiIjrX5RcQBlVRRWW8B | b8zv9p | {
"description": "not supporting my pregnant cousin",
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This cousin of mine is one that I babysat since she was probably 2. I have been in her life in a major way for most of it and I did my best to help guide her into good decisions as I got older and made mistakes I didn’t want her to (I’m ab... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not telling a university class when classes are or when assignments are due as a class rep",
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} | AITA for not telling a university class when classes are or when assignments are due as a class rep? | I'm a class rep for a university level film program. I was voted into the position by the class at the start of the year with my job being the go between for students should they have concerns about the program or teaching methods and are not comfortable enough to go to the teachers themselves.
It's the day before our... | HISTORICAL | {
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Av6Sb0VODIRtyITyfgBTJtJRbWiNURcz | ag6h2x | {
"description": "speaking over a telemarketer",
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"description": "missing one Night of Bachelorette Weekend for Bar Crawl",
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Her bachelor... | HISTORICAL | {
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J5ECJbmCid9SHjy9ubBKw0q8upMI9JPX | arhh1w | {
"description": "telling our friends it was rude & disrespectful to have sex in our apartment bedroom",
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Well we all have another semi mutual couple that are friends. We’ve know each other for a few years but th... | HISTORICAL | {
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0E3d8S8Oz7Hu3AHTH0MzmHhqrTz7uI9m | ag2lml | {
"description": "breaking up with my boyfriend over this",
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} | AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend over this? | Now before anyone jumps into “you have the right to break up with anyone for whatever reason!” I know :) but while of course I have the right to, I need to know if I am being a huge dick here.
Due to a shaky past for the majority of my childhood and early adulthood with male figures and men in general, I developed a... | HISTORICAL | {
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L26YYdgn76FpQXsWHpUpq47dpRga6aqE | 9yaiq9 | {
"description": "telling my friend off after he told me he has been talking to a married woman",
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} | AITA for telling my friend off after he told me he has been talking to a married woman? | This is going to be fairly short and simple.
So a guy I know told me last night that he has been talking to a married woman for a while now. According to him, her husband isn’t kinky enough in the bedroom, so it’s fine that she’s out looking for someone else to fuck and talk with.
I disagreed vehemently with him and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Yx6beoKiBajT3mH6J7CRJXR8G09VLFEf | a3v6l4 | {
"description": "stopping dating a girl during finals after she explicitly told me to not give her any more stress during finals",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA if I stop dating a girl during finals after she explicitly told me to not give her any more stress during finals | We started dating in October. Then she cut me off because she thought I was too selfish, to which I took the high road and wished her well. Then she texted me again about two weeks ago, and I took her on a few dates these past couple of weeks.
Getting back together, she made it abundantly clear that she was hesitant a... | HISTORICAL | {
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X252nWHJYsHJMp1PMoun8RrHTmevCqZe | anos4i | null | AITA my mom works a part time job and goes out to drink four times a week when she's home she basically just sits and watches TV unless she's yelling at us or cleaning a little. (real messy house) | basically my mom got a dog couple years ago and she used to walk him a lot got him lessons and other stuff now she hardly looks at him and tells me to walk him all the time. he's hardly ever bet for more then four seconds a day. anyways I'm I the asshole for telling my mom she needs to atleast pet her dog. she says she... | HISTORICAL | {
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tgFf9VfmUj72hQeZHyUWWUmbEzMFfBDj | aa2uvk | {
"description": "going to my manager behind my co-worker's back",
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} | AITA for going to my manager behind my co-worker’s back | Jessica (not her real name) and I started in the company on the same day, a year ago. We get along pretty well that’s why I feel so bad right now for going to my manager because of her work performance.
Our company is a huge startup company. We only commenced our operations last year. I was hired as an Accountant and... | HISTORICAL | {
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Z8bZYh71dg1BkSWIu0JGu999E9UhAELX | ab4dxi | {
"description": "not wanting my ex and her new bf to celebrate new years in my apartment",
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} | AITA for not wanting my ex and her new bf to celebrate new years in my apartment? | My ex has had a problem of dating people within the friends group and recently she started dating a really close friend of mine (the duo lied a lot about the same to cover up, mind you). It's new years eve and im throwing a little party. Since we're all in the same friends group, some friends expect me to call them and... | HISTORICAL | {
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roufuYIHKJOANEWQV11LrtMc7Xrfwg7J | ba7r4e | {
"description": "donating a book a friend lent me after we stopped hanging out and I was packing my things to move away",
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} | AITA for donating a book a friend lent me after we stopped hanging out and I was packing my things to move away? | My friend lent me a book. Then she stopped responding to me a few months later and I never saw her again. I was moving away from the area and needed to empty my apartment. The book she lent me I just donated with other things. I wanted to return it to her but she stopped hanging out with me or responding to me which ma... | HISTORICAL | {
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J7YrDBwq9NtZIpL5kmO3tb5H2v0bxF32 | aefx14 | {
"description": "questioning why my partner stays",
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} | AITA for questioning why my partner stays? | This is obviously a throwaway, due to identification purposes.
Okay so this will long guys, but I'll to make it as short as possible. I will post a TLDR at the end.
To preface this, I'm aware of the r/deadbedrooms and r/relationships and while I've been reading both of them, I felt like this is the best one to post ... | HISTORICAL | {
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wT9X1cPtisSnVu1hsqOhsZcuw2CSQD6w | ax3c9g | {
"description": "getting mad at my step mom",
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} | AITA if I get mad at my step mom? | So, me and my step mom don't get along at all. I'm a moody angry teen and she's a mother that doesn't know how to handle teens that don't follow everything they are told. Today, I helped her out her daughter by helping make dinner. She told me I was using the wrong spoon. In all honesty I was, but she yelled at me and ... | HISTORICAL | {
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1DNG37umIOsQ3w7L9tCeApmS9SspDZWr | ag5h6l | {
"description": "breaking up with my boyfriend for not wearing sunscreen",
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} | WIBTA for breaking up with my boyfriend for not wearing sunscreen? | Hey reddit! Today I had a pretty big argument with my boyfriend, and it has left me wondering if it's even worth it to try and save this. I debated posting on r/relationship_advice, but he's been throwing the word "asshole" in my face so much that I figured it would be more fitting to come here for support.
I am an av... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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7OsPJeGWpyRaT7nHMJMHUc4mkIMJVclC | a840ya | {
"description": "not cleaning up after my fiancès cats",
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} | AITA for not cleaning up after my fiancès cats. | First, before we were together I had no pets because I didn't like cleaning up after them. (Litter boxes, hair balls, fur everywhere) and when we first got togther she had no pets so there was no problem.
At some point she wanted a cat, I told her that I don't mind but would rather not have one, and if we did get one ... | HISTORICAL | {
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mNd17gPR2sZmb2RUvvTh0dWuGTXCQ5W4 | atmvj8 | {
"description": "being annoyed with my boyfriend for not paying me the money he owes me",
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} | AITA for being annoyed with my boyfriend for not paying me the money he owes me? | My boyfriend and I both are both in college. He doesn't have a lot of money saved up right now since he hasn't worked since the summer, but he recently found a part time retail job near his school and should be starting soon. A couple weeks ago we found a concert we wanted to go that cost $40 per person and since he di... | HISTORICAL | {
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UiAo4NX1SUdUSmgoAKhnZVRmGh8IH4xB | a0yune | {
"description": "not getting rid of a piercing that has majorly upset my parents",
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} | AITA for not getting rid of a piercing that has majorly upset my parents? | About 2 months ago I (23M) got an ear piercing. My parents (both 64) saw it for the first time a couple weeks ago and were immediately upset and angry at what I had done.
My mum, although not a fan of it, was nowhere near as bad as my dad who expressed how disappointed and ashamed of me he was. My mum said to leave i... | HISTORICAL | {
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zwPORpevflzekIzhD04lpAtcy9f0WpMR | aahurs | {
"description": "driving 30 miles on a 2 lane highway with my high beams on web I realized one of my lights went out as to not get pulled over",
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} | AITA: I drove 30 miles on a 2 lane highway with my high beams on web I realized one of my lights went out as to not get pulled over. | As the post puts it, I was filling up gas when I realized my right front light was out. This actually happened on Tuesday as well but to the left front. Once I found out what had happened I drove with my high berms on as to not get pulled over. Both this time and a few days ago have been on rural highways in Illinois s... | HISTORICAL | {
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KE41Dw1pybxnimj6SbnVlZ2oMcegvgW3 | a02gtx | {
"description": "telling my boyfriend's other girlfriend he was cheating",
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} | WIBTA if I told my boyfriend’s other girlfriend he was cheating? | I just found out I’m the other woman in my boyfriend’s relationship. I found her instagram with pictures of them together over the past 6 months. I sent him screenshots of her instagram and he sent one back that looked like her breaking up with him over text.
I don’t know when the screenshot was from and for all I kn... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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fu5HH1N6tYVDX9H5vyJRkkCoR1t9wIdq | b7052w | {
"description": "(accidentally) hatching my roommates egg",
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} | AITA for (accidentally) hatching my roommates egg? | Using a throwaway even though my roommate will immediately recognize this if she sees it.
Me roommate (22 F) and I (24 F) have been living together for six months and so far everything has been gravy. We're friends from college, live our own lives, and both do our share of the chores around the apartment.
A few days ... | HISTORICAL | {
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kpDEt2GZ6zXOxttGxoHku4ipOERIgub3 | b24scn | {
"description": "telling my mother I couldn't commit to walking my dog every day because I have agoraphobia",
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} | WIBTA if I told my mother I couldn’t commit to walking my dog every day because I have agoraphobia? | My mother has recently had an operation on her shoulder and asked me if I could walk our dog in the mornings, a job which she normally does. Of course I’d love to do it, but I have a fear of going outside on some days. It sometimes gets to a point where I can’t leave the house to go shopping or hold a steady job. I’ve ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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kr1iNzC5BpAnJAwIY8X3uiblb8kgN2Pz | b5thj6 | {
"description": "telling my ex to fuck off",
"pronormative_score": 18,
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} | AITA for telling my ex to fuck off? | As always, be advised of the possible mobile formatting errors.
This last December, my boyfriend and I got engaged. We’re both 24 and graduate students in different programs at the same university. My freshman year, before we met, I dated another guy at the same school. I’ll call him K. He was a senior and was gradua... | HISTORICAL | {
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65PsER8hCOV2ycHfQlaFmvp7j6LQ6cP7 | aude84 | {
"description": "making my friend drive me somewhere",
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} | AITA for making my friend drive me somewhere? | My friend/roommate is very well off, a lot more than I am, and she has a car + licence and I don't. We were driving home from a ways away, 2 or 3 hours and got into our home city at around 10 at night.
I wanted to stop by a pawnshop I usually go to in order to buy out my laptop that night, and asked her to stop in. Sh... | HISTORICAL | {
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OlhHJRTgiu1c7CQDyfmJ9XKNwOAi5NH2 | b1b0b5 | {
"description": "asking my family not to refer to my brother as my kids uncle",
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} | WIBTA for asking my family not to refer to my brother as my kids uncle? | First post, I'm nervous as heck and I'm on mobile, so sorry if there's formatting issues. Also, throwaway.
So, a few years back my brother moved in with us (my husband and I) when we got a new place, as we were all ready to get out of my parents place and figured it made sense for us all to live together.
I was pregn... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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NNQmjtzfwivIcqp4qugg4chrG4XVIQBK | b6jl5p | {
"description": "being offended at colonisation jokes",
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} | AITA for being offended at colonisation jokes? | Some context here: I'm Indian, but have grown up abroad my whole life, including in London. As such, I don't have the accent, but still connect deeply to my culture; Hindi is my first language, and I visit Delhi to see my family every year. I grew up pretty well-off, but both of my parents grew up in abject poverty, an... | HISTORICAL | {
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5hqJ2gVbMBec4i0XhpWK3FiQYUe1yh61 | a46cf7 | {
"description": "being brutally honest about my friend's porn habit",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA by being brutally honest about my friend's porn habit? | Last night I ran into my crush, let's call her Amy, at the library, alongside some other people. They were gossiping and shittalking multiple people. They were really mad at a 'friend of mine' named Andy who was working on their group project and didn't show up. They straight up asked me where he was. I didn't know for... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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tgvBe7zuk5nqLItowpzEmQipPl0ebLQt | atr0jl | {
"description": "telling my 'friend' she can't write for nuts",
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} | WIBTA if I told my 'friend' she can't write for nuts | A problematic 'friend' has recently reemerged with a blog. The writing style is basically Taylor Swift accusatory towards everyone she thinks has wronged her. She spams me and other mutual friends with links, asking for an honest review.
I've been noncommittal with my replies so far - the last thing I want is to trig... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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rZtKyNnG86xvTKMN5180mbnH9YLnfX12 | b56hpp | {
"description": "getting jealous at my girlfriend's neighbor",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for getting jealous at my girlfriend's neighbor? | So, lately, I've been dating a girl and she's been great. She makes me super happy, helps me deal with a lot of my anxiety issues, and has been a super sweet and supporting person to me. She does all this for me and I try to do all this for her and we both show appreciation on us having each other's backs
However, she... | HISTORICAL | {
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Tn4ANYxy9gXWWtl8IHrYGqNR2TcH53Io | ajaazm | {
"description": "pushing for more sexual contact in my relationship",
"pronormative_score": 15,
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} | AITA for pushing for more sexual contact in my relationship? | My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2.5 years, and in a lot of ways we are great. Super supportive of each other, open lines of communication, we live together and don't fight much, like all the things you want in your day to day to make things go smoothly. With one exception, our bedroom life.
The first few mon... | HISTORICAL | {
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LFBVOxueaFNiW1tdN8uE8dxPW842Bime | b34yez | null | AITA: For Revenge Against Bullies? | I wanted to post an event of mine on r/pettyrevenge but I was worried people would think I'm an asshole. But I do feel I had a right to do what I did.
Story: I have been bullied for the majority of my life. I've tried telling the school staff and nothing was ever done about it. I've tried ignoring it but it still take... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
mCsrB4OfzQU3duDwHnZ0cQYVAcYVu9HU | as4vqi | {
"description": "being annoyed my boyfriend won't buy me jewelry",
"pronormative_score": 21,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for being annoyed my boyfriend won't buy me jewelry? | So my SO and I have been together for a little over 2 years and known each other for about 8. He is not into gift giving or receiving in general and really only does my birthday and Christmas because it's something I want. I take a lot of joy in finding people the perfect gift. He doesn't want to celebrate his birth... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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cn9bm47ZRBdCIpuQDgEREHcmyTjuO1QC | b4yzfc | {
"description": "not taking my (ex) boyfriend to a concert",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for not taking my (ex) boyfriend to a concert | This happened a while ago but it's been bugging me lately.
A few years ago, a friend of mine had an extra ticket to a concert and asked if I wanted to go. It was a band I've wanted to see for a few years so I jumped on the opportunity. BTW, I paid for the ticket.
I told my boyfriend (now ex) that I was going to go a... | HISTORICAL | {
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Nw2HIzvHueKKHsetqDbkq9I1rEfqS6nv | a9jm95 | {
"description": "telling a virtual friend of mine that he shouldn't come to visit after he bought his plane tickets",
"pronormative_score": 14,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | WIBTA if I told a virtual friend of mine that he shouldn't come to visit after he bought his plane tickets? | Back in 2013, when I was a teenager, a group of real life friends of mine and I used to play online games with this guy from another state. We got along pretty well with that guy and played together until 2015, but never met in real life. Since then we didn't keep much touch to him(We talk on a whatsapp group like twic... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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ToQPjj1DmG92KDnVrDyi2jUXsYkb6G71 | ais29a | {
"description": "not helping clean the kitchen",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not helping clean the kitchen | Me (23F) and my fiance (25M) are currently living with my sister (26) and my mother (50) due to circumstances out of our control.
Bit of background:
We are leasing a 3 bedroom, 2 story house.
My mother works from home and is always here.
My sister pays the least amount of rent for the household.
I work the least in ... | HISTORICAL | {
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JFg46u1MU70IU5GwANnCewA94cS0U77Y | afsw0m | null | AITA A couple of months ago I left my girlfriend after she started becoming controlling. | A couple of months ago I left my girlfriend of 2 years because she was starting to become controlling.
Here’s some back story: we met in highschool but didn’t start dating until a few years after (I’m currently 25), we started dating when I was about 23. For the first year and a half things were going good, we went o... | HISTORICAL | {
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Iu9s7LQvnEDlgtDlBTMSruDfkHq2S9w6 | agiy2z | {
"description": "missing moms graduation",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for missing moms graduation? | Okay so my mom has a bachelor degree but hasn’t worked in her field of study for 12+ years so she went back to a private college to do a 10-month certificate program in her field to jog her memory. I am really proud of her for going back to school at 50 but I might not attend her graduation ceremony. My mom is horrib... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 5,
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} | RIGHT |
5nTJk7DkTZPzMmAGTbGVQNOSwtWlpxzB | azisws | {
"description": "reporting a man begging for money at my local starbucks",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA if I reported a man begging for money at my local Starbucks? | There was a man (about 30 something, maybe 40) who was carrying an index card with a story about how he has no job and is supporting two children. He asked for money (I assume that is why he approached me) as well as some other customers here at my local Starbucks. The man approaching me really bothered me and I report... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 1,
"INFO": 2
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 6,
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} | RIGHT |
RScfTp2PawPH9IcrbFOFB0bHg0ReGONn | autkql | {
"description": "wanting my friend to dump his gf",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting my friend to dump his gf? | I \[19F\] am currently living with one of my best friends \[19M\]. We're college roommates and get along well, despite being extremely different people. He started dating a girl \[18F\] a few months ago who I don't feel good about. She needs to know where he is all the time--for example, they have a shared Google calen... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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S3xIDe5iSw7WutIRGMt0V3N4H58AKYoM | acrw8e | {
"description": "not condoning my boyfriend's use of psychedelics",
"pronormative_score": 9,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | WIBTA for not condoning my boyfriend's use of psychedelics? | I love him to death and want him to be an individual, but lately he's expressed interest in taking shrooms and also defending his friend's acid use. He studies philosophy and believes that experiencing a trip could help him gain a new perspective on his ego/emotional issues. It is true that psychedelics help a lot of p... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 9,
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} | RIGHT |
sxAe4lHOb8XAdXTlvFEXSQDNibUYeNGz | 9tfs7l | {
"description": "telling my friend the truth about the video she and her friends were anonymously sent",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for telling my friend the truth about the video she and her friends were anonymously sent? | okay, so my friend and i are both in our first year of college. she and a few of her friends got a concerning video that was sent to them. it is basically a picture of her and a group of her friends that zooms in on each of their faces. more specifically, their mouths. this is all happening while there is dramatic musi... | HISTORICAL | {
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xANj7QgxObt9QQiAP7nuLAi68jMDxZgZ | awhrxw | {
"description": "dumping my boyfriend after he took me on holiday",
"pronormative_score": 21,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA: I dumped my boyfriend after he took me on holiday | So, this happened last year but I have been thinking about it a bit recently and wondered if I was the person in the wrong within this situation.
I became single in Jan last year.
I was on tinder and I met E. We got talking last March, and E asked me out on a date. I accepted.
We had an amazing date and I really enj... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 21,
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LummV6taeKiCY4z2U1qgvNCm2lKTXC4z | b7d6xi | {
"description": "choosing to spend time with my friends or boyfriend rather than my family",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for choosing to spend time with my friends or boyfriend rather than my family? | So I live with my family, we get along great, I help with works around the house daily, and i help with our bigger cleaning that we do every weekend.
i’m 17, I have a job and also go to art school so I have a lot of homeworks and very little free time. I have a boyfriend and a group of friends.
I usually spend my fri... | HISTORICAL | {
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DMJZUEwKzBRKUi0icQDi8hQXVLBZJoeI | a2hy6r | {
"description": "being upset at my friend who I thought I was dating",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for being upset at my friend who I thought I was dating? | Sorry for the long post in advance, there is just a lot to cover here.
I \[20M\] don't really date because I've just had bad experiences in the past, but it's been 4 years since I was in a relationship so I decided to put myself out there. In my chem class, we have a small group of friends (we all met and started tal... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
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} | WRONG |
DKeig2zjZRNpBwZ2cBtZPjJzb11xBhjQ | b4y01x | {
"description": "not taking my fiance seriously",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not taking my fiance seriously? | My fiancé and I have had a rough time recently that has little to do with our relationship. The personal circumstances we are experiencing have caused us to stress and let go of our anger on each other. We both know that this needs to change and we have been working to resolve this.
We were having an especially rough... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
ToqmSmHq4XYYnQZTEpmvMedZbyaUvM63 | 9zx1us | {
"description": "putting a girl in a bearhug after witnessing her spread lies about me to my whole team",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for putting a girl in a bearhug after witnessing her spread lies about me to my whole team. | Ok, strap in for a long one because there is a lot to explain. I work as a lifeguard at the public pool in my town and we usually work long shifts where no one is around except for your coworker, so you usually get to know the person pretty well. For a period of time me and another coworker (let's call her Amy) and I h... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 4,
"WRONG": 11
} | WRONG |
FhCAPHW3BjQPdWFJUxc6Dbgx0ib8KtsQ | atq62y | {
"description": "cutting off conversations with my wife when I feel antagonized",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 7
} | AITA for cutting off conversations with my wife when I feel antagonized? | An unfortunate pattern seems to be firmly rooted in my relationship with my wife, and I’m not sure whether I’m handling it correctly, or whether I’m just making it worse.
I’ll just leave an example of one of these conversations to avoid biasing this post (as much as possible)
W: I am angry at you
Me: 😮?
W: Guess w... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
qo3uHsKfXkgl2IEPqZTfCxDOTQC8f0MW | azyax2 | {
"description": "trying to get a Twitch streamer to admit fault",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for trying to get a Twitch streamer to admit fault? | So, there was a YouTube (YT) and Twitch streamer I really liked, let’s call her J for jerk. Now, J was fairly family-friendly on YT, but not so much on Twitch. She started streaming on Twitch more often than YT and that community wasn’t too thrilled about it. I was fine with it, though.
I also followed J’s boyfriend ... | HISTORICAL | {
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HHxogfHsvlNLk2HQOPKztwLNRIplu7Uo | afjnm2 | {
"description": "not supporting a former friend",
"pronormative_score": 61,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not supporting a former friend? | I had two best friends, a boy and a girl, who were dating at the time. We'll call them Michael & Elizabeth. We were inseparable, we lived together (in a larger shared house) and had the occasional threesome.
After about a year, I met my current boyfriend, and we started casually dating. I told them, several times,... | HISTORICAL | {
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EBUvdNh0wztqU4zWasnCD0Sqw2thtXQ6 | arhuuw | {
"description": "wanting the grooms men in my wedding to wear the color mint with their suits",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting the grooms men in my wedding to wear the color mint with their suits? | At first they complained about wearing the suits and just wanted to wear a shirt tie my fiancé put his foot down and said they have to wear a suit since he’s wearing one too.
Now my fiancé’s best man and grooms men are whining about wearing mint with their suits. They keep complaining about the color combination.
It’... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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f8ur445p5I493eP8VqivtqlqFPmnPnf8 | a8v9oc | {
"description": "going into my housemates' room without his knowledge and throwing away mouldy food",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 4
} | AITA for going into my housemates' room without his knowledge and throwing away mouldy food. | To get started, let’s call my housemates Ben, Fred & Michael.
During the year, Ben has been secretive about anyone going into his bedroom. There was one instance when I was coming home from work & saw his bedroom light upstairs was on, so I went upstairs to ask if he’d like a cigarette with me. He said n... | HISTORICAL | {
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iliMsmAazh4McpTValApkp1w7GSoT4VZ | amkjkm | {
"description": "breaking up with my girlfriend for her preferences",
"pronormative_score": 8,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend for her preferences? | I made a throwaway account because I don't feel comfortable sharing this on my main. Sorry if the title is confusing, I don't want to make people uncomfortable but I mean fetish. My gf (27) and Me (f23) have been dating for 3 years. We don't do 'that' that often but when we do she never asked me to do this. She told m... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 8,
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BWdbobr1x9vx1zr0YYVinf2Y9Nx8DeCr | auj822 | {
"description": "giving a waitress a big tip",
"pronormative_score": 216,
"contranormative_score": 49
} | AITA for giving a waitress a big tip? | Right now, I'm seeing a woman in a fairly casual situation. I'm 27 years old and she's 25, and the incident I'll talk about happened on our third date.
On Saturday night we went to a gourmet burgers and fries place (think Pulp Fiction John Travolta/Uma Thurman car in the wall joint) for my birthday dinner. It was her ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"NOBODY": 8,
"INFO": 5
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 216,
"WRONG": 49
} | RIGHT |
1jX7rJLSLXB31XaAOhoIo5MOTC6DTvhZ | a8t146 | {
"description": "not believing that my girlfriend didn't accidentally send me a message of her talking shit about me",
"pronormative_score": 13,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not believing that my girlfriend didn't accidentally send me a message of her talking shit about me? | Earlier today I received a message from my girlfriend essentially talking shit about me. I believe she meant to send it to a friend but accidentally sent it to me instead. We've been fighting over this all day and she still FIRMLY denies it, saying she has no idea how it happened and it has nothing to do with her.
Alt... | HISTORICAL | {
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dDTKP80FMvoO5qVfeodqSHTnperamF9i | ai01z7 | {
"description": "breaking up with a girl a couple days after we hooked up",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA For breaking up with a girl a couple days after we hooked up? | Okay here's some more context because I don't think I'm too much of an asshole in this situation although my best friend always jokingly says I am. I'm 18 btw.
My bestfriend(Sam) invited me and our friend(Jennifer) over to his apartment for drinks in the evening. Jennifer brought her best friend (Joyce) along and Joyc... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
o4mleUibH68YgVKV4B1tlVsN0fZYpgLm | apbdev | {
"description": "refusing to talk to my father after an argument",
"pronormative_score": 2,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for refusing to talk to my father after an argument? | So some backstory, I (17F) got into a huge argument with my father (57F) this past Thursday. It has now been 3 days since I’ve said anything to him, and honestly I don’t want to talk to him.
My mom asked me to come out to the living room to talk to be with my father present because she had noticed that something had ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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R2JSt8DXOJ3N9JA2wkDjhbkVjDvzY4O0 | a8nc76 | {
"description": "being grateful to a Nazi for saving my families life",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 8
} | AITA for being grateful to a Nazi for saving my families life? | My family was in desperate circumstances in the 1950's. My father was sick at the time as a child and my grandparents couldn't afford medical treatment. Then a man overheard my grandfather speaking about the difficulty to his friends. He offered to loan my grandfather to pay for my father's medical treatments (he trie... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 8,
"OTHER": 0,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
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"INFO": 0
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 0,
"WRONG": 8
} | WRONG |
TAKpWInIAMjbf4W5COHsKgW24wo0gUHH | as2mt0 | {
"description": "wanting to cut contact with my brother outside of family gatherings",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for wanting to cut contact with my brother outside of family gatherings? | My brother is a great human being. Funny, smart, and just an overall great person. Growing up we didn't get along, like most siblings, but we attended the same university and I spent time with him and his friends more than anyone, so we became close like I've always wanted.
Since college, I've realized I put in more ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
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} | RIGHT |
YpW3NiYNFgy31ie2QISVqoQ7m3N3ByOn | apzok4 | {
"description": "not wanting to buy a house with my brother",
"pronormative_score": 10,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for not wanting to buy a house with my brother? | 19F here. First time posting on a subreddit.. forgive me for formatting errors. Also this post is super long because I'm not even the slightest bit concise. TLDR at bottom.
Last night my father was talking to me (mom in the room) about my plans beyond college. He started suggesting that my brother (24) and I buy a ho... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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RG3fpPRBvRPtf17fZkTkNa0GVgbue1Ht | af3oq1 | {
"description": "needing some quiet when visiting family",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for needing some quiet when visiting family? | There's about a million things that could cause it, but I've never been able to deal with a lot of loud noise. Generally I can function outside of home, because I know I can't expect the world to change because I'm one of those assholes from A Quiet Place but with less murder and more crying and wanting it to go away.... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 3,
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} | RIGHT |
IOAO0625oiJ5zaANnPZDg4JAUOZ2VKrA | b4nz5t | {
"description": "breaking up with him because he cancelled plans on me",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 19
} | AITA for breaking up with him because he cancelled plans on me? | Hey guys, here's the deal: when I was a teenager I was involved in several relationships with several predatory adults. It made me develop pretty rigid standards for my partners in my adult life. Now I'm trying to see if I was too harsh by breaking up with my boyfriend for behavior that I thought was pretty disrespectf... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 19,
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 19
} | WRONG |
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