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{ "description": "being jealous of my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being jealous of my friend?
16M here. Recently my school did a theatre production and I managed to get into a small, admittedly insignificant relationship with this girl that I met while doing it, and it lasted three (3) days. Yep. But I wasn’t too upset as it was very short lived. Anyway, the day after she called it off, I found out my friend ...
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{ "description": "being too happy when drunk", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being too happy when drunk?
Hey folks, so somethings happened this weekend and I can't stop thinking about them (as I'm feeling really bad about them). So basically I live with friends and colleagues in a university building, and Saturday night we went out together. We were going to a party nobody had bought tickets for and we were pretty excite...
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{ "description": "confirming to my boyfriend that he's getting fat", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for confirming to my boyfriend that he's getting fat?
I [26M] have been with my boyfriend [27M] for about 5 years. Over those 5 years he has gained a third of his initial weight. There's no denying that but I don't love him any less because of it. He has quit smoking and gained some weigt then, surpassing the 200lbs he already has. There's no denying the elephant in the r...
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{ "description": "getting collided into by a bicyclist", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting collided into by a bicyclist.
I get off the school bus, currently a student. Driver knows me, and knows that I cross the street in front of the bus, usually. He waits, and a car crosses the other side of the road, so I know for a fact that's its safe to cross as no car can come from the right to overtake the bus, so my chances of getting hit by an ...
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{ "description": "hitting on my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hitting on my friend?
Backstory: My wife and I split up over a year ago. Pretty soon after, I reconnected with a “friend with benefits” from many years ago. Both her and I were in much better shape when we were first sleeping together, we’ve both gained a pretty significant amount of weight since then. The relationship this time has been h...
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{ "description": "telling my roommate she is being dramatic", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my roommate she is being dramatic?
My roommate told me about two weeks ago that it makes her uncomfortable when I have the guy I am dating over sometimes. She said: 1. She doesn't like him staying on school nights (she's in college) because she feels weird getting ready in the morning when a man is in the apartment. And 2. She doesn't like him staying ...
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{ "description": "being angry that my parents won't let me live at home anymore", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being angry that my parents won't let me live at home anymore
So I live in Australia and I'm about to enter the last year of my degree at uni. Once I get halfway through next year I won't receive financial support from the government anymore so I don't think I'll be able to afford to live out of home anymore. I do work but I don't want to work more than 15 hours a week so I still...
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{ "description": "not finishing cleaning and getting pissed off so quickly", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not finishing cleaning and getting pissed off so quickly?
I’m 16 and felt like cleaning the house again (It wasn’t that dirty because I cleaned it last week but I’m an anxious person and sometimes I just really wanna clean and listen to YouTube) so I was vacuuming and getting ready to mop. I was vacuuming the house and minding my own business when the vacuum stopped working....
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{ "description": "having 0% contact with any of my exes", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having 0% contact with any of my exes?
I guess the title is pretty straightforward. Anyway, I (18M) started dating *early*, really early, although I'm sort of on a break from relationships as a whole. Either way I've had a few exes, none of which I have any contact with. Literally zero, the moment me and those girls broke up I sort of chose to fade them out...
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{ "description": "being not totally comfortable with my boyfriend hanging out with other girls alone", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA if I’m (f17) not totally comfortable with my boyfriend (m18) hanging out with other girls alone.
I find myself to be a little uncomfortable with my boyfriend hanging out with other girls one on one that I don’t know very well. This is because there have been instances in the past where a girl he thought was “just a friend” was actually harbouring some major feelings for him. It truly has nothing to do with how mu...
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{ "description": "not supporting my little brother's rap songs and stories", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for not supporting my little brother's rap songs and stories?
Background: My little brother is 19, white, lives with our mom, and works at a grocery store. He has never had a relationship so doesn't know anything about them. His ideas of them are from movies and his music. He also has ADHD and is bipolar. About 2 years ago he asked me to read a story he wrote. It seemed like it...
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{ "description": "asking a fat lady to give up her seat to a late pregnant mother and her so", "pronormative_score": 91, "contranormative_score": 130 }
AITA for asking a fat lady to give up her seat to a late pregnant mother and her SO
So I was on the bus yesterday and it was packed. But this lady was so big that none was able to sit next to her. Now I had a seat on the bus for a while but as a student I give up my seat to other people as thats my schools expectation. But the entire time i had been on the bus this lady had been sitting in a 2 person ...
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{ "description": "getting mad people for using the elevator to go up one floor on a 20 floor building", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA if I get mad people for using the elevator to go up one floor on a 20 floor building?
I know it’s super petty but we have limited elevator space for people who live on the higher floors to get up and down. Their requests cause major delays for people on the top floors to the point where I have to plan to leave ~3-5 min earlier so I can ensure I get down. I understand if the person is disabled, but most ...
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{ "description": "not wanting a friends girlfriend to come in an overseas trip", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting a friends girlfriend to come in an overseas trip?
Me and a group of friends, all male, are planning a trip to Europe this summer. There's five of us going and it's basically set in stone, when me and the friend who wants to bring his girlfriend (I'll call him BF from now on) talked about going on the trip he immediately brought his GF into the picture. BF's girlfriend...
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{ "description": "not changing how I usually type in a chatbox and arguing with 3 chat moderators", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For not changing how I usually type in a chatbox and arguing with 3 chat moderators?
So, this happened not too long ago, In a game where there is an clan system as you can form clans for benefits. I didn't know if I was in the wrong here so I decided to post on this subreddit. I joined this clan not too long ago for benefits, but got quickly attached to the community there as it had some very nice pe...
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{ "description": "yelling at my roommate after he accidentally let my dog escape outside", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for yelling at my roommate after he accidentally let my dog escape outside?
Sorry this is gonna be long! TLDR is basically in the title. So a little background, my roommate loves my dog. He helps me out with my dog whenever I need it and in exchange I give him rides whenever he needs it (he hasn’t been able to drive for the last month and a half or so and we work in the same building at ro...
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{ "description": "being upset because my friend implied that I am culturally uneducated", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset because my friend implied that I am culturally uneducated?
I have a friend who is a Star Wars fanboy, and I only have seen the first 3 original movies. He was the one who forced me to watch them, it was hella boring for me. (I really enjoy independent European cinema.) But no problem, I care about him and appreciate his efforts to share his tastes in cinema, music etc. with me...
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{ "description": "wanting to have a \"dry January\"", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to have a “dry January”?
My girlfriend (20) and I (21) have been dating a little over a year. One of our (her) hobbies is drinking wine and making dinners when her dad goes out of town because my kitchen is too small to do so comfortably. Anyway, I’ve been drinking almost everyday since I graduated college December 15, so I decided I need to c...
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{ "description": "expecting free salad dressing at Chipotle after having to wait for them to make it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for expecting free salad dressing at Chipotle after having to wait for them to make it?
So I placed an on-line order at Chipotle today. My wife always orders a salad and every time I go to pick it up she reminds over and over to make sure they don't forget the dressing. So I arrive to pick up the food. After confirming everything she tells me they are out of the dressing. I say "oh man, my wife loves th...
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{ "description": "complaining about housekeeping staff taking my money", "pronormative_score": 19, "contranormative_score": 20 }
AITA for complaining about housekeeping staff taking my money?
Basically, I had left about USD 4 on my hotel’s table, amongst a pile of my stuff and when I came back to the room, I found housekeeping leaving a note that said “thanks very much for the tip”. I had in no way or form whatsoever indicated at all that this was a tip to them. I understand it’s my fault for leaving my m...
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{ "description": "being distant with my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being distant with my friends?
Okay so in high school, I was friends with people from every cliche clique. It's pretty easy in the high school, because bullying doesn't really happen often here. The jocks are nice to everyone, and the 'slutty cheerleader clique' (not slut shaming, just stereotypical names), were charismatic and wanted to improve the...
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{ "description": "liking hentai", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for liking hentai?
My girlfriend and I just finished watching Harry Potter when a trailer for Wakfu (some anime I think) popped up. This prompted a joke from my girlfriend saying I got suggested anime because I browse hentai porn. I laughed and joked about how I only watch tentacle hentai. This got her mad. Aita?
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{ "description": "not indulging my boyfriend's thing for dirty talk", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not indulging my boyfriend's thing for dirty talk?
This is obviously super embarrassing to talk to about with friends, so I'm hoping to get a little perspective here. Basically I've been seeing a guy that I really like a lot in most respects for about a month now. He's attractive, generally very sweet and he does a lot for me (driving me places and helping with home...
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{ "description": "not going to the doctor", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA because I won’t go to the doctor?
I get migraines and have been getting them for over 7 years. 6 years ago I saw a neurologist, tried a medication that didn’t work, had a CAT scan and no major medical issue other than these ongoing migraines. I learned my avoidable triggers like red wine and chocolate but there’s also triggers like the weather, pollen,...
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AITA: My nephew is almost two years old and I haven't met him yet...
My nephew was born a little less than two years ago, and I have yet to meet him. I live about 1,400 miles from my sister (my nephew's mother) and her husband. I moved away five years ago and haven't been back since; I have no desire to go back to my hometown. Since I moved, my mother has come to visit me a couple of ti...
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AITA Roommate constantly breaks the house rules and I'm fed up
AITA Long story short a family member has allowed me to rent a house from them, there are 3 roommates including myself. Roommate 1 and I don’t have any issues however roommate 2 has broken pretty much every rule we’ve laid down from the beginning. Sink is constantly cluttered by his and only his dishes despite a rule w...
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{ "description": "not paying a $50 \"bed fee\" to a friend", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not paying a $50 "bed fee" to a friend?
So I got very drunk last night, and I went home with a friend of mine who was literally carrying me as I was blacked out. He put me in a roommates bed who I know and also consider my friend. There were no sheets on his bed so I slept on the cover. I woke up with a little puke on me and the bed, so I bleached and washed...
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{ "description": "upsetting my friend's gf", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for upsetting my friend's GF?
I was out a few nights ago with a friend of mine (Paul) and his GF (Mary), both of whom I hadn't seen for a few months. We went to a gig, had a great time, and then decided to go to a club. We arrived there at about 1 am and had a fun time dancing amongst ourselves. Mary then became upset when she ran into Paul's ex-GF...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go on a trip with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go on a trip with my boyfriend?
Okay so my boyfriend and I were planning on taking a trip to visit his aunt (who lives 5 hours away). We confirmed the dates today. Later we go to visit his grandmother. He usually spends one day a week with her to run errands for her, housework, etc. Today he announces to her that she will be joining us. Obviously t...
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{ "description": "blocking my mother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I block my mother?
Sorry this will be a bit long. Backstory - We live in different countries so haven't seen each other in person irl for a year. We have an unstable relationship for several reasons, but I try to push through it because I'm the only family member she has contact with (she cut contact with everyone else). However now it'...
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{ "description": "always dumping my friends request to play fortnite with him, even though I was the one who originally made that proposal", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for always dumping my friends request to play fortnite with him, even though i was the one who originally made that proposal ?
This might seem like a smaller issue, but hear me out... About 2 months ago or so, when i still had semester break i told a friend we could play fortnite together when hes bored to stay in contact more. During my break he didn't ask once but now that my break is over and i got new games i'd like to play more he started...
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{ "description": "I am doing with the fights she always picks", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I am done with the fights SHE always picks?
So I'm part of a dance group. We are 9 girls and we get along great most of the time. 5 members already left and the empty spaces were filled again because of trouble... and the trouble is most certainly caused by this one girl I'm gonna call V. V is 17 so by all means you would think she would take responsibility for ...
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{ "description": "not going to breakfast with my girlfriends roommates after we having another very intense fight about my lack of eating and sleeping due to a hypomanic episode", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not going to breakfast with my girlfriends roommates after we having another very intense fight about my lack of eating and sleeping due to a hypomanic episode?
The last 2 weeks, I have had no appetite. I eat a couple of things throughout the day (smoothies from wotk, kind bar, snacks, and drink water) but I can’t seem to really eat more than 1/4 portion of a regular meal. This has happened before and I’ve intentionally taken advantage to lose weight. I’ve grown a lot and have...
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{ "description": "not helping a girl who might have been getting harassed", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not helping a girl who might have been getting harassed?
This happened sophomore year of high school when I was 16 (am male). It was the end of the day and I got out of class a bit late. The halls were mostly empty, but when I turned a corner to head towards the exit there were two people standing next to each other talking, a guy and a girl. I knew both of them. The guy I...
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{ "description": "not giving him the food I picked up as a surprise after being mean to me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not giving him the food I picked up as a surprise after being mean to me?
Backstory- I was with my grandfather at Walmart to pick up some random groceries when we realized that my grandpa forgot his phone at home which he needs since he has his own “taxi service.” So, my grandpa tells me to call my brother to get his phone and tells him to tell anyone that calls to tell them that he’ll be...
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{ "description": "not letting my 16 year old daughter date", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 279 }
AITA for not letting my 16 year old daughter date?
TLDR: Mature 16 year old daughter wants to date, I won’t allow it because as bad as it sounds, she’s a girl. I have a 16 year old daughter. She’s beautiful, does amazing in school, and is constantly surprising me by how mature she is. I often ask her for her opinion in family matters she probably shouldn’t know abo...
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{ "description": "going outside with a friend to get some fresh air and talk when at a birthday dinner", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going outside with a friend to get some fresh air and talk when at a birthday dinner?
My girlfriend and some of my friends went to a birthday dinner last week at a restaurant (that becomes a club later in the night). The music was extremely loud (fact that was brought up by others too) and it was hard to keep up a conversation because of it. We were all at the same table, but there was a clear division...
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{ "description": "not talking to my best friend because when his second child was born he didn't bother telling me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not talking to my best friend because when his second child was born he didn’t bother telling me?
My best friend since I was about 16 (24 now) has had 2 kids of which I am the godfather to both. When his first one was born he told me straight away that she was born, within minutes. Him and his partner went through a rough patch, she cheated on him, tells him she had unsafe sex with another guy and I was there fo...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "becoming distant and unable to forgive my family", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for becoming distant and unable to forgive my family?
I went through the rules, and I don't know if this counts as a validation post or not. I'm genuinely conflicted and I want to know because it's been on the forefront of my life for so long, and I can't tell if I am the asshole. I tried asking my close friends, and they didn't know either, so this is my last try for an ...
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{ "description": "shouting at someone", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for shouting at someone
On mobile and although it's the only language I speak I can't write for shit, I can only apologise I was sat in my living room and I heard my flat door open, my friend had just let themselves out, so it was unlocked (my bad). My neighbor was having a party and one of her guests came into my flat and went into the ba...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not letting a woman borrow my coat", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting a woman borrow my coat
The fire alarm went off at my work place the other day and when we got outside I walked by a couple of women who had not grabbed their coats. Now everyone else outside has a coat on, it's winter the temperature is well known. I was not close to my coat when the alarm went off, but I made the decision to go get it becau...
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{ "description": "leaving my cousin in an airbnb apartament on our last day of the trip", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my cousin in an airbnb apartament on our last day of the trip?
Quick info - my slightly older cousin and I are spending holidays in Prague. Today at 2 p.m. we are coming back home by bus (10h trip) Yesterday however we had a big fight. I just think we travel differently, I value being independent very much, she - to the contrary. Very often I travel abroad on my own and I don't m...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "considering breaking up with my bf because he ignores me for his autistic brother", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For considering breaking up with my BF because he ignores me for his autistic brother?
Note: My mother is paralyzed from the waist down, I also used to work with kids who have autism worse than his brother. His brother hates all women to the point that if anything touched by a woman goes near him it must be cleaned or removed. He is also very manipulative and abusive to everyone in their family. Ok, so ...
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NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "saying I want to teach myself the piano", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying I want to teach myself the piano
I recently got a keyboard because I want to teach myself the piano through online tutorials. When I told this to someone they told me that I sounds like an arrogant asshole for refusing to take lessons, even though I explained I don't work well with a teacher.
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{ "description": "wanting to know if this video is a goof or not", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to know if this video is a goof or not.
I was just scrolling through my feed and this video popped up. https://www.reddit.com/r/synthesizers/comments/9wn4v5/chisel316_youtube_channel_preview/?st=JOFGTOEX&sh=710f793a https://youtu.be/eZdFJfA2ymA I’m not sure if he’s serious or not. The set up looks amazing and the drums sound alright. I’m expecting so...
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{ "description": "wanting to separate", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to separate?
Very long, quick background; Husband and I met a handful of years ago through the internet. On one of our first dates, I got pregnant, and the usual ensuing panicked decision making happened that led to me keeping the baby because it was one of my only chances due to my health, and him sticking around to co-parent but...
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{ "description": "not completely removing ties to my ex from my apartment", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not completely removing ties to my ex from my apartment?
I was with a girl for a long time. Over a decade (28 M) so I was pretty much with her my whole adult life. She moved out seven months ago and over time I realized she was right to do so. Dead love couldn't go any further. Fast forward to today. New girl (who I really like) asked why I have a dozen dried roses hangi...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "leaving my gf over her religion", "pronormative_score": 60, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I leave my gf over her religion?
My gf is Swiss with a Saudi background. When I started dating her, she was mainly secular and called herself „on-paper-muslim“. Everything went fine and all, but recently she found her faith again and even started wearing a headscarf (mostly covering the hair, not everything). Now, I don‘t give a damn about anyone’s r...
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{ "RIGHT": 60, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "refusing to accept a former S.O.'s new boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to accept a former S.O.'s new boyfriend?
Hey guys, I'm going to try and simplify this as much as I can. I just transferred colleges and left behind a lot, but it's better for my own well being this way. Last year I grew quite close with a girl but it regrettably never became anything serious because we both knew I was leaving after that semester. This summer ...
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{ "description": "hiding from a disabled kid at work", "pronormative_score": 125, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for hiding from a disabled kid at work?
I work in an open insurance office, my desk is the very back one and not visible from our doors. We are open to the public so policyholders can come in. For the past 2 weeks, nearly every day, a kid about 18 comes in. He is severely mentally disabled. He has taken a liking to me. The first once or twice it was fine, ...
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{ "RIGHT": 125, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "avoiding talking to my mom about colleges", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for avoiding talking to my mom about colleges?
Freshman and sophomore year I didn’t care about college. I avoided homework, didn’t really study and all of that brought my GPA down to the point where I can only get to a 2.9 if I were to get straight A’s throughout the rest of my high school time. So, I was thinking of going to a community college, to save money, an...
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{ "description": "losing patience waiting for my gf to be more healthy looking", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 30 }
AITA for losing patience waiting for my gf (f28) to be more healthy looking?
My gf of 1.5 years is a little on the healthier side. She was relatively smaller when we first started dating but then she put on a few over the course. After a few months of staying quiet, i broached the subject that I wanted us to be more active and made a lot of plans for outdoor activities, which means she has to g...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 30 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "wanting my husband to pay for my daughter's college tuition", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 61 }
AITA for wanting my husband to pay for my daughter's college tuition?
I married my current husband seven years ago. He has three children from a previous marriage and I have my daughter from a previous one as well. Two of his children are in college right now and one graduated in May, and my daughter is starting high school in August. I really want my daughter to go to a top tier school...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 61 }
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{ "description": "being in a relationship when I don't know if I'm in love", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being in a relationship when I don't know if I'm in love?
Obviously using a throwaway acct Last year I(19F) started dating my current BF(20), who we will call Mike. Mike and I were friends throughout most of high school, but we started dating senior year. Fast forward a year and we are both in local(but different) colleges and thinking about getting an apartment together. Mi...
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{ "description": "allowing a crippled person hold the door open for me", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for allowing a crippled person hold the door open for me?
So essentially what happened was I was walking up to school and this crippled girl got to the door before me and 2 other people and held the door open us. A woman then ran up and yelled at us for not holding the door for her instead. Although, I feel like I can’t be in the wrong because she insisted on holding the doo...
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{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "wanting to see my dying grandpa before he dies", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to see my dying grandpa before he dies?
Got a call from my cousin that our grandpa was put on hospice (end of life care) and is not expected to live longer than 2 weeks. I've quickly planned an 8hour round trip (one day trip) to see him alive. It's been 10 years since I've been to see that side of my family and I'm definitely considered one of "the black she...
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{ "description": "reporting someone for saying they would plagiarize me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for reporting someone for saying they would plagiarize me?
People: Red: Me Blue: Teacher Green: Other student Ok, so context. In my chemistry class, we had a semi-major lab report due Sunday at 11:59pm. Lab partner asks me over a discord group chat to send him my report, and I agree. Other student (OS) then says "ill copy paste yours | thank". Me, being surprised, then go on...
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{ "description": "not letting people copy off my tests", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not letting people copy off my tests?
So i’m in high school. admittedly, i get pretty good grades. I try to keep up with the lessons and understand the material, which leads to me getting good test scores most of the time. but, some of my friends, like most high schoolers, could not give a single shit about the actual class as long as they get the test g...
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{ "description": "cutting my dad out of my life and not talking to him for a year", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cutting my dad out of my life and not talking to him for a year?
So a year ago my dad and I got into a fight. I never liked his girlfriend yet he tried to force her onto me despite it by inviting her to a family party around Hanukkah. When I found out about this I was made for two reasons. The first is that he knew I actively disliked her for a few reasons and the second is he was ...
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{ "description": "not getting a flu shot", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not getting a flu shot
This ones pretty simple. I have a deep pathological fear of needles. I’ve been known to faint after getting shots or an IV put in. Even just thinking about them while writing this post makes my hands clammy. But I also recognize that herd immunity is a thing and is very important for those who can’t get a vaccination...
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{ "description": "saying yes to a group member who wanted to do my part of the project", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for saying yes to a group member who wanted to do my part of the project?
It was the night before it was due and yes I know procrastination is bad. My grade in the class is a C so I can see why this A student would want to write my part of it. I had planned on spending a few hours writing my part which was only 2 pages so it’s not like I wasn’t going to work on it.
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{ "description": "refusing to wear jeans around the house", "pronormative_score": 41, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to wear jeans around the house?
My mom, my son, and I all live together. Recently (the 23rd) my mom moved a male friend of hers in (not dating but I think she wants to). He's been changing things here and there and most of it is minor and I can deal with it to not have it be a fight with my mom (she has been letting him do whatever he wants) Today ...
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{ "description": "forgetting to mention a plan", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Forgetting To Mention A Plan?
AITA? So I got into an argument with my girlfriend. Its Wednesday afternoon and I just read an advertisement for a local game shop having a learning/tournament for a card game. I thought it would be cool to take my daughter and its definitely not something my girlfriend or her duaghter would be interested in sitting th...
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{ "description": "not inviting my extended step family to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don’t invite my extended step family to my wedding?
Throwaway for this because my normal account is fairly public... Hi guys, I’m in a bit of a pickle. My now fiancé recently proposed! Yay! And now I’m in the throes of wedding planning (less yay) for summer 2020. Recently we’ve been budgeting, looking at venues, and talking about who we want to attend, and so on. We’v...
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{ "description": "not wanting to remain friends with my ex-girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not wanting to remain friends with my ex-girlfriend
To start off at the beginning i (20) met this girl (17) through a mutual acquaintance of ours. After that we would sometimes meet randomly on the street, and we would also see each other in a bar i frequent. So eventually i get her number and we go out a couple of times and somehow we hook up, and right off the bat we...
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{ "description": "giving my wife a bad gift and getting upset when she rejected it", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving my wife a bad gift and getting upset when she rejected it
LTR/FTP - Throwaway Account This Wednesday, my wife gave me my Valentine's day gift early. It was a gift bag with some candy, hand lotion, restaurant gift card, and a balloon. It was cute and thoughtful, although it was really just a few things she picked up the day before. Feeling appreciative, I gave her half of my ...
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{ "description": "calling out a guy I recently starting dating for ignoring me for hours", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 103 }
AITA for calling out a guy I recently starting dating for ignoring me for hours?
I met this guy through an online app, went on a date Saturday, things went pretty well, then we went out again on Sunday and we ended up having sex, Monday we texted a bit. On Tuesday I decided to have a little fun so I sent him a sexy picture in the morning, a couple of hours later he responded so I sent back a flirty...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "wanting to block a person with disabilities", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to block a person with disabilities?
Hey reddit. This is my first post ever. Please ignore my awful grammer. I'm a Junior in high school and 16 years old. My freshmen year this guy with disability's walked up to me (Lets call him S for story) and said "what's up Josh." I had no idea how he knew my name. Me not wanting to be an asshole I responded with "wh...
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{ "description": "assuming my childhood friend and her mom were pro-vax", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for assuming my childhood friend and her mom were pro-vax??
So, I’m a frequenter of subreddits like r/insanepeoplefacebook and r/vaxxhappened because I find them both entertaining and aggravating. I’ll even listen to reddit readings on YouTube while I’m doing other things. My mom happens to be a NICU nurse (for those who don’t know that means she takes care of sick and/or prema...
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{ "description": "reporting a guy to the professor for continuous cheating", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for reporting a guy to the professor for continuous cheating
For starters this is my first post and am on mobile. Every day I sit behind this guy in my math class and every test and quiz we take in this class this guy is either using some website for the answers or googling it. I have confronted him before telling him that cheating gets you nowhere. He still does it anyway and ...
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{ "description": "telling my girlfriend she's not beautiful", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 39 }
AITA for telling my girlfriend she's not beautiful?
This happened a while ago and is still causing problems in my relationship with my girlfriend - we are both middle aged. We’ve been together over a year but have known each other for decades and were close friends for a few years before we became involved. We were having sex and she asked me to tell her she was beauti...
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{ "description": "dumping my so-called \"friend\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dumping my so-called "friend"?
So, basically, me and this girl were something like friends since 7th grade, where we first met. Now I'm 11th grade and we don't see each other often because she goes to another school now. When she left, I was kind of relieved because she was not a good friend; she was extremely jealous of my success (e.g. good mark...
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{ "description": "answering back to my MIL", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for answering back to my MIL?
So this all just happened but first some back story, my wife and i live at one of her grandmothers properties and we have 2 beagles, 3 cats and we just recently took in my childhood poodle because unfortunately my mom is struggling (we hadnt told MIL). So my wife and i had plans to go to target and get dinner after sh...
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{ "description": "correcting someone about my sexuality", "pronormative_score": 35, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for correcting someone about my sexuality?
Essentially, I am a bi woman but married to a man. I have had sex with women and men before and I am confident in my sexuality. A person in my circle of friends implied that I was “playing up” my attraction to women to be “cool”; I took offense to this and called them out for being judgemental. They didn’t respond and ...
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{ "description": "burning the gift", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for burning the gift?
I once drew a picture of my ex-boyfriend's favorite "celebrity" (it was a physics professor from a university) and gave it to him as kind of a "thinking of you gift". He left it at my house, on the floor, not once, not twice, but three times so I burned it. He was at my house when I did it. I don't think he even cared....
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{ "description": "threatening to end a friendship over anti-vaccination", "pronormative_score": 26, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for threatening to end a friendship over anti-vaccination?
My best friend has recently let me know that they don't believe in vaccinations. I tried to sit back and let it be but the topic has come up several times including me asking if they intended to extend this to their children. They replied yes. To me this is unacceptable. This view is twisted and ill informed. I told th...
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{ "description": "wanting my parents to pay for the damage to my car", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my parents to pay for the damage to my car?
TLDR: My sister backed into my car (no functional damage, just some minor denting etc.) and she can’t pay for the repairs, so I assumed my parents would be paying. Background: I’m a college student, and just bought a car in August. It’s not new, but it’s my first nicer car that will hopefully last a while. I wasn’t ...
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{ "description": "cutting contact with my aunt", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for cutting contact with my aunt?
I go to an online school now, and my aunt got a job there too. Receptionist I think. Teachers there are not required to put grades in as soon as an assignment is done, so completed assignments may go ungraded for 4-5 days. Near the end of each semester my aunt would get very pushy, and it was a little annoying, but ...
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{ "description": "talking to my good friend's sister", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for talking to my good friend's sister?
Basically, recently I started messaging the sister of one of my good friends. We had been talking for a couple of weeks and had meet up a couple of times when I suggested telling her brother (my friend). I said that I felt better telling him myself, she said the opposite, so I let her do it her way as it is her own b...
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{ "description": "leaking diesel on a customer's drive", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaking diesel on a customer's drive
So we've been working at someone's house doing garden work and one morning I drove to the job in my car which I've been having problems with. I was aware diesel would drip out if the engine was running so I parked half on the pavement half on the road by the front of the house. I work in a gang and I asked the "gang l...
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{ "description": "thinking this might be sexual assault, or am I being too sensitive", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for thinking this might be sexual assault, or am I being too sensitive?
I (21M) met a girl (20F) one day at a function, and we sort of hit it off. Two nights later, we strike up a conversation, and she ends up coming to my place. Fast forward about an hour, and the two of us are making out. Up till now, things are going fine. At this point, neither of us have spoken in a bit, and she slowl...
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{ "description": "getting upset when my SO makes jokes that aren't funny despite me telling him multiple times I do not like the jokes", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting upset when my SO makes jokes that aren’t funny despite me telling him multiple times I do not like the jokes?
I like to play video games, and he watches me play sometimes. Often he will criticize the video game and say it sucks and other variations of that. The thing is, it’s my favorite video game and I really enjoy playing it. But hearing him talk shit about it takes all the fun out of it. He does this a lot. He talks shit w...
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{ "description": "smoking pot while taking care of my daughter", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I smoked pot while taking care of my daughter?
For the record, I have chronic pain. My daily average is a seven. For an idea of what I live with, my recent hysterectomy did not change my daily pain number at all. But even with the diagnoses of psoriatic arthritis I do not meet the criteria for pain control. It's so bad that some days it feels like induced labor hur...
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{ "description": "going into the military while my family is in shambles", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going into the military while my family is in shambles.
So I’ve been dealing with a lot of guilt, and people telling me I should stay to help my family. I’ve wanted to go into the Air Force for years now. I have stayed in my small town working a dead end job and going to community college. Not complaining about that lifestyle I just want to experience more while I’m young. ...
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{ "description": "reporting my upstairs neighbor to the complex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I report my upstairs neighbor to the complex?
I just moved into a new appartment and my upstairs neighbors, who I have never met, are VERY loud and smoke pot pretty much every day. The smell comes through my vents and if I have the screen door open, it is very obvious. They regularly have screaming matches filled with profanities and banging and stomping around on...
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{ "description": "expecting my husband to take care of the baby sometimes even though he works more than I do", "pronormative_score": 103, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for expecting my husband to take care of the baby sometimes even though he works more than I do?
We had a baby less than six months ago and have no other kids. A couple months ago, we moved out of my parent's home and into a different city a few hours away. About a week or two after moving in, he took up a full time job (previously self-employed) where he regularly works 8 to 12 hour shifts. He gets maybe two days...
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{ "description": "interacting with a child", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for interacting with a child?
I was walking through the grocery store the other day. At the end of the aisle was a mother and her 3-4 year old son in the cart. As the mother was doing her shopping, when I walked past, the little boy with a huge smile on his face waved at me and said "hi!!". I waved back with a big smile as well and say "whatsup li...
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{ "description": "not letting my bf meet his ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not letting my bf meet his ex?
After I told him no, I also found messages of him texing her about how immature I was. This happend a few months ago and I still feel terrible about it and I honestly just want to know if I am in the wrong here.
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{ "description": "not going back inside and paying", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not going back inside and paying?
This is short, and not exactly life changing but it's something that's on my mind. So basically, I went grocery shopping, and my total was $20.14, I only had $20's, so I paid the 0.14 on my card. As I was in my car organizing my cards, I noticed the cashier accidentally handed me my $20 back in my receipt. I didn't g...
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{ "description": "not wanting to put my fiancé's name on a house bought with my Father's life insurance money", "pronormative_score": 328, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA for not wanting to put my fiancé's name on a house bought with my Father's life insurance money?
So just to give everyone a bit of context here, my father recently passed away and had life insurance, but because he passed away in his workplace me and my brother received more money than that of his life insurance policy. This was 3 months ago and its only recently we've received payments. So after a huge argument ...
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{ "description": "asking my husband to turn off the tv", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my husband to turn off the TV?
Husband wants to watch TV in the bedroom. TV downstairs in the living room is available. I want to go to sleep and need a dark, quiet room. We do not have an extra room or bed. He says I’m being inconsiderate of his need to relax and unwind after a tough week. He says I could sleep on the couch downstairs as easily a...
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{ "description": "being snappy with my sister because she doesn't understand chemistry that well", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For being snappy with my sister because she doesn't understand chemistry that well?
Pretty much title. Also sorry if formatting is bad, I am on mobile. Some background info: My sister graduated from high school last year, and I'm currently a sophomore in high school right now. She is pretty smart, and is on her last semester for community college. She then plans to get a masters in Biology. So with ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sleep in my girlfriend's house", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to sleep in my girlfriend's house?
I love my GF but everytime I go to her house I never sleep well and I end up cranky and tired for work the next day so I always try to push that we stay in my house which she is now annoyed about because she doesn't understand why we can't stay in hers. I feel bad for it and I do stay in hers when I'm not working till ...
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{ "description": "wanting to jump while my startup starts sinking", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to jump while my startup starts sinking?
We're a small software company, through 4 rounds of funding, but still relying on investments as we haven't been able to sign clients. The few clients we have, 30% are stable, 30% are going out of business quickly, and the rest are unhappy and looking at competitors. Our company is very top heavy, so out of the 10 of u...
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{ "description": "asking my grandad to stop vaping while me and my young sister are in the room", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my grandad to stop vaping while me and my young sister are in the room?
For context I live with my grandparents while my sister lives with my mum. It’s a long story why so I won’t get in get into that at the moment So my grandad used to smoke before quoting and started to vape, I was fine with this and was happy for him until my younger sister was born. At the moment my sister is three ye...
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{ "description": "demanding my fiancée take my socks off for me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for demanding my fiancée take my socks off for me?
So a little background. I love having my socks pulled off by other people (specifically my fiancée). It just feels really good. I like to have it pulled off by the toe slowly, so it slides inch by inch off my feet. However, sometimes my fiancée does not want to do this. To me, it’s just a simple little thing that she k...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to church with my family every single Sunday", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to church with my family every single Sunday?
Basically every single Sunday my parents wake up and wake me up so we can go to church. I’ve expressed my hatred for church numerous times. It is so boring, and I just straight up don’t believe in Christianity. I’m 100% atheist and they’re aware of this. I’ve told them before. For some reason though, every single Sunda...
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{ "description": "getting mad that my boyfriend keeps giving our money to his siblings", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad that my boyfriend keeps giving our money to his siblings?
My boyfriend and his siblings have a great relationship. We all have a good time when together and I like spending time with them. He’s newly 18 and I’m 17. We’re saving up for an apartment, which has been difficult because for unrelated reasons we can’t get a job. But, we’ve managed to save quite a bit, enough to move...
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{ "description": "telling the groom I won't pay him for stuff he bought me for his wedding as he didn't discuss it with me first", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling the groom I won't pay him for stuff he bought me for his wedding as he didn't discuss it with me first?
So my friend who we will call X asked me to be one of his groomsmen for his wedding. I was happy to be as we had been friends for years. Now a short time after this X asks me and our other friend (who we will call Q) about going shopping soon for suits as X had a cheap suit he wanted us all to get. Me and Q were think...
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{ "description": "giving a homeless man the half-eaten leftovers of my meal", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For giving a homeless man the half-eaten leftovers of my meal?
As the title suggests, I gave a homeless man my half eaten leftovers. It was a mostly eaten KFC Wing Bucket mixed in with some leftover chips. All of the food was stone cold but I thought that a homeless man would appreciate it anyway. My friends have been calling the the asshole because I "gave a homeless man my trash...
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