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{ "description": "\"stealing\" a name", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for "Stealing" a name ?
TL;DR will be down at the bottom. Anyway I was on a video call with my half sister a few days ago. She knows that me and my soon to be husband are TTC (trying to conceive) Baby #2. She was super excited for me since my previous pregnancy was an awful experience and so was my birth and I feel like with my next pregnanc...
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{ "description": "asking a question", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking a question?
Guys I need help. Am I the asshole and if I am, what can I do to fix this. And sorry for my spelling. Back story: A friend of mine got into a shit show and we said she could come live with us as she had no place to go, and is now living with me, my husband and my 2 daughters. I'm currently on crutches so pretty much u...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for my step son's friend to come on our family vacation", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 52 }
AITA for not wanting to pay for my step son's friend to come on our family vacation?
My husband, me, stepson John (13), my daughter from previous marriage (15) are all supposed to go on a vacation to New Zealand in a month and my step son's friend was supposed to accompany us. John been friends with this other kid Tom since they're 9. They are inseperable and do everything together. John is atheltic bu...
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{ "description": "keeping the parking space to myself", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I keep the parking space to myself?
So right now, I have 1 roommate in a 3 bedroom condo in a neighborhood with one assigned parking spot and not that much street parking. If you try to park after around 6pm, all the closer spots are all gone and you have to park about 5 minutes away. Generally not too bad but on cold nights or if your running late to ...
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{ "description": "asking a classmate to pay for a new phone because he broke mine", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I asked a classmate to pay for a new phone because he broke mine?
So basically one of my classmates who I have almost no interaction with accidentally knocked my phone out of my hand and it broke. So he’s quite well off and offered to pay for repairs. So I was quite thankful and sent it to the shop. The shop told me they could repair it but after coming back multiple times to only r...
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{ "description": "pretending to be an \"appletarian\" (eating only apple derived foods/drinks) for 3 weeks as a prank, causing my friends to have an intervention for me", "pronormative_score": 942, "contranormative_score": 406 }
AITA for pretending to be an "Appletarian" (eating only apple derived foods/drinks) for 3 weeks as a prank, causing my friends to have an intervention for me?
I got the idea a few weeks ago to prank my friends my pretending to be an "Appletarian", meaning somebody who only eats food products that are derived from apples and would only drink apple juice or apple cider. I told them them all that I had read on the internet that eating only apples was the healthiest thing for ...
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{ "description": "not involving my wife more in my friend's proposal", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not involving my wife more in my friend's proposal?
I've worked with this guy for years, we're good at work friends. My wife gets along with his GF and they've done a few things together, keep touch on facebook, text, etc. He wants to propose. I knew something was brewing when he talked about rings, but he had no plans yet. I can keep my mouth shut, although there...
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{ "description": "making a joke to my friends sister about her fracturing my finger", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for making a joke to my friends sister about her fracturing my finger?
About 4 months ago my sister's friend (N) accidentally dropped a hammer on my finger while I helped them build a shed. N started crying and apologised a lot and her brother/my friend (P) drove me to a hospital (there was no point phoning an ambulance about a sore finger) I told everyone I knew I fractured it when I fe...
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{ "description": "telling a homeless man to go crawl in a trash can", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for telling a homeless man to go crawl in a trash can?
My girlfriend and I finally accrued enough vacation time from work to go on a trip. We decided upon going to Miami since its winter back home and wanted some sun. Fast forward a bit and we realized that we forgot sunscreen so we decide to walk to the cvs that is down the road. On our way we passed multiple homeless p...
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{ "description": "wanting my wife to cook dinner and clean", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting my wife to cook dinner and clean?
I’m 26 my wife is 23. I work about 50-55 hour weeks doing 2 jobs at a factory, desk and stocking soda machines, so she can stay at home and take care of our 11 MO son. I come home and decompress for about 30/45 min before relieving her if mama duties for the night. I feed him, play with him, change him, and put him to ...
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{ "description": "being jealous of my Sister's Serious Physical Health Problems", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Being Jealous Of My Sister's Serious Physical Health Problems
Okay, so, for some background, I (17f) am the oldest of two children. My sister (14f) is a good sister. We argue sometimes, but get along pretty well for the most part. I deal with some pretty serious mental health issues, including (but not limited to) PTSD, Severe GAD, Depression, and ADHD. These have caused serious...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay full price for my haircut", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to pay full price for my haircut?
Wednesday I called a local salon to set up an appointment. I asked for a full highlight and cut, and asked how much it would be. She said that both the highlight and cut would be $193 and I set up an appointment for later that day. I get to the salon and my stylists sits me down and says, “ok, so I have you scheduled...
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{ "description": "inviting men over to my place and making my ex sleep on the couch", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for inviting men over to my place and making my ex sleep on the couch?
So this needs some context. Disclaimer, the guy I’ve been bringing home knows my ex exists and knows he stays at my place but I don’t tell my ex anything. So the background is that me and my ex were together for 3 years, we have a child together, and overall I think he’s a good guy, he’s intelligent and stable so a mo...
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{ "description": "saying no to my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for saying no to my friend?
In my English class, we have mini-group discussions called "fishbowls". For our unit, we got in groups of 3 for a total of 6 fishbowls throughout the unit, with the expectation that everybody would do 2 and only one person from each group would be in a given fishbowl. Everybody must do one from fishbowls 1-3 and one fr...
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{ "description": "being mad at my gf when she gets hammered the night before our date", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my gf(20) when she gets hammered the night before our date? M26
My girlfriend started her second bachelors degree at university last autumn. We met while she studied for her first degree and see each other on weekends and holidays. She is much happier doing this degree, she loves her friends and the course she is doing is a much better fit for her. She told me that even though it’...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my fiancé during his deployment", "pronormative_score": 137, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking up with my fiancé during his deployment?
We are both in our early twenties. I have been dating my fiancé (now ex, I guess) for 1.5 years. At first, our relationship was great. I thought I was so lucky to find someone like him. We moved in together after 5 months of dating. He then became more controlling and posessive. He would do crazy shit like smash my p...
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{ "description": "refusing to let a friend stay over for a fortnight", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to let a friend stay over for a fortnight?
As background, this is a dear friend who I met at college. He’s much older than I am, he’s around 36. He’s a hippie and doesn’t believe in steady jobs or money or savings, and travels around doing odd jobs and helping out with schools and farms. Recently, he took up projects close to where I live and has been traveling...
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{ "description": "reporting my male classmate to the dean", "pronormative_score": 38, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for reporting my male classmate to the dean?
Context: I'm a female student who has a male friend, let's call him Ed. I also have a boyfriend who lives overseas whom Ed has met and even got along with when my bf visited me for 2 weeks. During the time that my bf was in town, Ed did not bother me at all and acted civilly. Me and Ed have the same classes and sit...
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{ "description": "not attending close friends surprise party", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For not attending close friends surprise party?
I'll call my friend Dave for this story. We've known each other for half of each other's lives and while I don't think I'm his closest friend, I'd say we're pretty close. His birthday party is coming up, and his parents invited me and some of our mutual friends to join in on a surprise party for him. The party is...
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{ "description": "cutting contact with my friend after he came out of the closet", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for cutting contact with my friend after he came out of the closet?
The title makes it sound worse than it is. This takes place about 5 years ago. Some friends were talking about this guy recently and it got me thinking about this. I had a friend, been friends with him for the best part of a decade, probably about 7/8 years. I’ll start by saying, I knew he was gay, he confided in me...
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{ "description": "hoarding tp", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for hoarding tp?
Me and my roommate are both very busy college students who live in an apartment. We technically agreed to split all shared supplies 50/50 but it usually doesn't end up that way. We don't have anything in particular assigned, it's a if we need it and you go to the store, get it, kind of basis. He always asks for 50/50, ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my parents to know my location all the time", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I don’t want my parents to know my location all the time?
So, today, I get a notification to share my location with my parents from apples location thing. I am 18(F) and live at home still. A bit of background info, I wasn’t the most behaved kid growing up and my patents forced me into online school when I was 15 and I wasn’t ever really allowed to leave the house, unless it ...
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{ "description": "wanting my serially late sister to turn up on time for me", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting my serially late sister to turn up on time for me?
Lately my sister apologised for making me feel unappreciated and said she was gonna try harder not to upset me. Fast forward to today and we're supposed to be going to a sports practice together. Her attendance is patchy but she knows I really care about it. Like 20 mins before we're supposed to leave I hear her having...
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{ "description": "no longer helping my friend buy figurines and slightly losing my temper", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for no longer helping my friend buy figurines and slightly losing my temper?
My friend and I are both in college, and both like to collect the figurines known as "amiibo" (link [here](https://www.nintendo.com/amiibo/) if you've never heard of these). He is much more into them than I am though (he has about 40-50 last I checked while I have about 10). We both get monthly allowances from our pa...
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{ "description": "writing 'TRUMP 2024' on our car as an April Fool's joke", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for writing 'TRUMP 2024' on our car as an April Fool's joke?
TLDR: On April 1st I wrote 'TRUMP 2024' with my finger in the dust on the back window of my girlfriend's car as we drove around together, someone forcibly stopped us in traffic to wipe it off making my girlfriend cry. I feel bad. Background My girlfriend and I live in west Los Angeles, near the Santa Monica are...
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{ "description": "telling a classmate to shut up", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I told a classmate to shut up
Brief Background, I am in college as an engineering major. (Computer engineering to be specific). This issue takes place in math. ​ I am in a class that is pretty hard to understand, and I desperately need to learn the material from the professor because it is hard to learn on my own. During class, there i...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend my day off with my nephew", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to spend my day off with my nephew?
Some backstory: My sister about three years ago was constantly talking about having kids. Mind you, she was a junky and thought that a child would solve all of her problems and make her happy. She probably also lived with a serious mental illness due to genetics (runs in the family) and brain damage sustained from a c...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go on a Bach party", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go on a Bach party?
My buddy who I don’t talk to that much bc he moved to Connecticut is getting married. The Bach party is 5 hours away. Out of everybody going I’m the only one that’s married and I also have a 1 year old daughter. My wife doesn’t want me to go And leave them here alone for the weekend, I’m gonna be honest I have no desir...
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{ "description": "getting a present that looks like Marijuana for my Moms birthday", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting a present that looks like Marijuana for my Moms birthday?
My brother and I [both 17M] chose to get our mom a present that looks like marijuana. They are chocolate called “kokonuggz”. This is meant to be a joke and something we can laugh about together, but our oldest brother who is college [22M], thinks this is messed up and would make our mom upset. Our mom is very chill and...
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{ "description": "calling out a guy for grabbing my friends jacket", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling out a guy for grabbing my friends jacket?
So I was at a bar with some friends. We were enjoying ourselves, but not overly so and none of us were more than a little buzzed. We were sitting at a table and my friend across from me had her jacket hanging on the back of her chair. I see this guy come up, kind of stumbling and looking pretty drunk, and he grabs my...
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{ "description": "sometimes making my GF bus to work because I am sick of driving her so often", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for sometimes making my GF bus to work because I am sick of driving her so often?
So this is a long story. I have been dating my girlfriend for 8 years now and I am the only one with a car or a license. The way I grew up is to be independent and always do things so it doesn't negatively affect others. So I am used to taking the bus and walking places. So when my girlfriend wants me to drive her ever...
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{ "description": "judging people on the length of their starbucks order", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for judging people on the length of their Starbucks order?
The title really says it all. The longer the Starbucks order, the bigger the asshole I think they are. Am I the asshole here?
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{ "description": "wanting a little notice before they move in", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting a little notice before they move in?
Hey everyone, sorry for the long post but I feel like this situation requires a fair amount of explanation to get the whole picture. Also, obligatory LTL, FTP, and this is a throwaway account because some of my family know my real account. TL;DR at the bottom. ​ So as a little background, my dad has been i...
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{ "description": "ruining my brother's vacation", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ruining my brother's vacation?
Context: I moved out of my home country 2 years ago. My brother (let's call him Jeff) messaged me on Facebook in July. Jeff and his girlfriend Sarah were planning a vacation in my city and needed a place to stay. He asked if they could stay at my place for a week. I politely said no, but Jeff insisted and I continued ...
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{ "description": "parking next to a car that has a \"Baby on Board\" sign in the Window", "pronormative_score": 71, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Parking Next To A Car That Has A “Baby On Board” Sign In The Window?
Tl;dr at bottom, it got lengthy So about two years ago I ordered food on my phone from Panera Bread. I parked my car (within the lines) in the Togo parking spot that has a ten minute maximum. The parking lot was really full as it was lunch time and this place is right next to a military base. I go inside, make my dri...
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{ "description": "requesting someone else not invite a racist to their own home", "pronormative_score": 25, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for requesting someone else not invite a racist to their own home?
Okay, so to start, my in laws host a “family gathering” at their house about once a month. While I won’t go in to all of the politics behind when they choose the date and who they pick, just know they do it strategically. This month it happens to be the Saturday after my daughters birthday which is when we have thrown ...
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{ "description": "getting my mother charged with credit card fraud", "pronormative_score": 328, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for getting my mother charged with credit card fraud?
About 6 months ago my trusty 2001 Corolla was totaled in an accident. I was thinking about getting a different vehicle anyway so it wasn't the end of the world. After insurance finally cut me a check I went car shopping. My husband and I found a good value after a week or so and we decided we'd buy it. This is when th...
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{ "description": "not supporting my friend when he was fired for his own negligence", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not supporting my friend when he was fired for his own negligence?
Hey r/amitheasshole, it's your boi. My dilemma is pretty straightforward, but I'm still on the fence. **Facts:** My lifelong friend (I'll call him Aaron) is notoriously (and self-admittingly) lazy at work, half assing a lot of the things his boss asks of him. Aaron sends me a screenshot of an email conversation s...
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{ "description": "not attempting to help an friend enough", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not attempting to help an friend enough
I have a friend of 13 years who is like a brother to me let's call him T. T is married and has a 1 year old baby boy. Well T got into trouble about 4 months ago and ended up in jail. With my help in court his charges were dropped and should have been released last week but because he isn't a citizen immigration has him...
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{ "description": "celebrating after beating a team who dedicated the game to a player who had recently passed away", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for celebrating after beating a team who dedicated the game to a player who had recently passed away?
My school’s basketball team recently beat another school who lost a player in a car accident. We, along with every other school, offered our condolences to them as soon as we found out what happened. They decided to forfeit some of their games after the incident because they felt they weren’t ready to play after what ...
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{ "description": "calling out my friends for driving while high", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling out my friends for driving while high?
I was with a few friends today, and one of them asks if anyone else ever drives high. And another one said yeah all the time. The first kid I'm gonna say J, says how he likes to look at all the lights while hes driving, cause it looks cooler when he's high. I instantly called him out saying both of them are assholes f...
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{ "description": "wanting to cut off my friends for associating with my ex", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut off my friends for associating with my ex?
AITA for wanting to cut off these two people for being involved with my ex? Just a warning: this post is long and involves some context. So there are three contenders in this story. My ex, Jacob, his best friend, Michael and my (former?) best friend Hannah. Long story short, my ex, Jacob, is a very manipulative a...
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{ "description": "telling my mom to be more quiet in the morning", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
WIBTA if I told my mom to be more quiet in the morning?
Im a freshman in college and I chose to go to community college because of financial issues. I live with my parents because community colleges don’t have dorms. I don’t have really have a choice to move out because of my financial situation, and I’m grateful I get to save money by living with my parents. However, my m...
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{ "description": "trying to make my father and step mum break up", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for trying to make my father and step mum break up?
She hates me i swear. She always makes comments about me, if we go to shopping she will tell me things like you are fat or ugly. I really hate her, also she is racist towards white people, my mother is white my father is a turkish, she is an arab. she always says that white people are devils even though she lives in eu...
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{ "description": "being tired of my spouse's depression and identity crisis", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being tired of my spouse's depression and identity crisis?
To preface, we have been together for awhile. Within the last year, I gave birth and experienced extreme post partum depression. It was hard but I took care of both of our children and could tell he was drifting away. He didn't want to engage with me or the children. I became so paranoid I snooped through his emails, ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend she is making things harder than they need to be", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my friend she is making things harder than they need to be?
I'm not a good student, I know this about myself, I scrape by. My friend is a very dedicated student. She takes hard classes, is a double major, and is upset with anything below an A on her work. She'd usually spend a few more hours doing homework than I would, and was usually the best student in class. We lived togeth...
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{ "description": "not wanting to celebrate my therapist's birthday", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to celebrate my therapist's birthday?
I'm in group therapy, and it is the lead therapist's (who is also my personal therapist) birthday coming up in a few weeks. Everyone in the group is making plans to celebrate. I don't feel like helping, I feel uncomfortable acting like my therapist is my friend. I'm ok with saying happy birthday and signing cards, ...
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{ "description": "jay walking and ignoring a bystander yelling at me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for jay walking and ignoring a bystander yelling at me.
I was running cross country one day and I came to this intersection I had gone through many times. There is crosswalks there but no stoplight so our whole team crosses via jaywalking. I get there just as my team crosses and I hurry and as I am about to cross this lady starts yelling at me saying there is a cross walk a...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my friend choose another friend over me to hang for their birthday", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting upset that my friend choose another friend over me to hang for their birthday.
One of my best friends celebrated their birthday this weekend. Last week she invited me to spend it with her and her boyfriend and a few mutual friends. I did not know who said friends were until Friday. It was a group i didn’t see eye to eye with. I knew that they didn’t want to hang with me and probably threatened no...
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{ "description": "telling my friends I never took their doubts of me getting into Ivy League seriously", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my friends I never took their doubts of me getting into Ivy League seriously?
I (18M) found out in these last few weeks that I got into an Ivy League college, I was over the moon of course... But everyone doubted me. My parents said I couldn't do it. My teachers said I couldn't. Most of all, my friends also said it. They said that its so hard that I should look at applying elsewhere. Now some...
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{ "description": "choosing to step out of a toxic friendship", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for choosing to step out of a toxic friendship?
So there’s a bit of long context here which I feel is important, so bear with me. My husband is in the military and while we were stationed in Japan we became great friends with a woman we’ll call R. R is also enlisted and dated a mutual friend for a while, and while they had a bit of an ugly breakup we stayed friends ...
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{ "description": "letting my wife wear a pair of boxers that weren't actually mine", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for letting my wife wear a pair of boxers that weren’t actually mine?
My wife has a pair of boxers she wears of mine that are her favorite. They’re made of really soft material and she adopted them while we were dating, and even held on to them while we broke up for a short while. The problem is they weren’t ever mine. They were a girls that I hooked up with. She slept in them and then...
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{ "description": "getting pretty mad at my boyfriend for hitting me", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for getting pretty mad at my boyfriend for hitting me (lightly)?
So, title might be misleading. But here’s the backstory. So my boyfriend and I were play-wrestling and he loves to be a fake-asshole when we do to get on my nerves and push my buttons. He said something disrespectful about my mom (as a joke) and i lightly smacked him. lightly. he decided to slap me back, which it wasn...
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{ "description": "calling my GF \"cringey?\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for calling my GF "cringey?"
So about two days ago, I was in my GF's dorm room, and we were just talking, half watching a show. She shows me a video of a mutual friend doing a backflip on Instagram, and says "Look at this boy, he's going to go and get his neck broken" but in a pretty southern-grandma-sounding way. Granted, she's from Mississippi, ...
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{ "description": "ghosting tinder chicks", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for ghosting tinder chicks?
I'm posting this on behalf of my friend James. Jimmy and Porshia met/started dating in 2012. Their relationship progressed quickly: they moved in together within a couple of months and got engaged shortly thereafter. All seemed well until Jimmy discovered that Porshia had cheated on him with multiple guys for pretty m...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my cousins concert", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go to my cousins concert?
First time poster and on mobile so honestly just sorry in advance... for anything. Anyways, this story took place a couple of months ago but just popped back into my brain after I saw my cousins Snapchat post advertising his next concert. My cousin is a sound cloud rapper who is in a group of rappers in the same area...
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{ "description": "asking for the money I lent back", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking for the money I lent back
I know the tittle isn't the best so let me elaborate I am 17 and for my birthday my dad and my uncle pitched in so me and my brother could buy somethings. They gave us each $200 and I wanted to buy a cheap laptop with mine so I could start making music which has always been an interest of mine. Also let me just say t...
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{ "description": "not wanting him to befriend all my friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting him to befriend all my friends?
My FWB of 7 months recently told me that he grew apart from his friends and that the only person he hangs out with regularly is me. This came as a bit of a surprise because he is very sociable and I thought he had many casual friends. We text almost every day, chill out at least once a week (not just Netflix and chill)...
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{ "description": "being upset with my friend that she ruined a movie", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being upset with my friend that she ruined a movie?
As a disclaimer, this did not happen recently but when I was in 8th grade so it’s more of a “Was I the asshole.” I’m just posting this because despite it only being a past memory, I am curious as to what you guys think or would’ve thought if I had discovers this sub four years ago. So when I was in grade 8 I went to a...
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{ "description": "wanting to skip out on my fathers wedding", "pronormative_score": 33, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to skip out on my fathers wedding?
My dad and I have had a very rocky relationship for the past few years of my life. While he lived with my mom he was very aggressive and would often beat her to prove a point. This happened until my mom finally had the courage to kick him out. I've lived with my dad for 6 months with his new wife "they married after ...
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{ "description": "telling my wife and son, to leave me out of buying his next car", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling my wife and son, to leave me out of buying his next car?
First some background, I am a Disabled Vet with PTSD that manifests as anger, that is how I came by my handle. My son who is in his young 20s, had his 1st car accident last week. Ever since the accident, my wife and son have been taking the word of the insurance people over me. Case in point, I told them to requ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my roommate to act like my mom, even though I don't pay rent", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for not wanting my roommate to act like my mom, even though I don't pay rent
I got accepted into my dream school in another state. But my family was too poor to afford residence, and I was totally okay with going to a school in my city. But, my mom has a family friend who agreed to let me stay with her, RENT-FREE. She's been kind of like a "motherly" figure to me in a way, while I'm away from ...
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{ "description": "being jelous of my bff", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being jelous of my bff?
~ first off sorry for the grammatical errors ~ Im 14 at the moment and me and my bff are in the same class. We are completely different but still somehow matched. The story got a start last year at the beginning of a school year, I was totally cool with her hanging out with others and that's not really the problem but...
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{ "description": "being upset with my roommate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Being Upset With My Roommate
(Throw Away because he would recognize my main) I (20 M) live with two other (20 M both). My one roommate, I'll call him James, and I have been noticing that the other roommate, Randy, has been getting more angry recently. A little background, we are all friends and share a room. So basically, Randy has always been mo...
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{ "description": "abandoning my sick mother in order to go to college", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for abandoning my sick mother in order to go to college?
I've never posted before, so I'm sorry if I've formatted anything wrong. This might be a long post because a lot of backstory is required, but I just got into an argument with my brother over this, and I'd like to know your opinion of the situation. ​ I am currently a freshman at a college across the count...
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{ "description": "talking to my sweetheart about considering attending my college", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for talking to my sweetheart about considering attending my college?
So there's a lot of aspects to this, I'll try and cover them all. TL;DR at the end. The reason I call her my sweetheart is because we haven't yet committed to a full relationship. I don't think either one of us is mature enough to handle a long-distance, but we've been talking over text and phone a lot. Both of us hav...
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{ "description": "not making a bigger deal over my wife's graduation than a friend's graduation I attended years ago", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not making a bigger deal over my wife’s graduation than a friend’s graduation I attended years ago?
My wife graduated college last week, and I am supremely proud of her. I told her so, and showered her with praise, love, and encouragement that she’ll do well in her graduate program and in the job market. I took her to the next city over last weekend and we went to Panera to celebrate. It was meant as a day trip to do...
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{ "description": "asking about people's fitness habits in order to collect data for my statistics class", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking about people's fitness habits in order to collect data for my statistics class?
I'm currently taking a statistics class, which requires me to collect data by asking X amount of people a question that can be responded to with a numerical answer. Since beginning the class, I've used Instagram and Facebook as a platform to ask my questions, with really good results. People have been quick to respon...
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{ "description": "abandoning my family", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for abandoning my family?
I want to start this out by saying I never had a dad to be there for me. I learned that life is not fair after my sister hated me and my mother never cared for me. When I was 16, my sister moved out of the house at 18 to go to college, and I was stuck at my house with my mother. I was constantly depressed and my moth...
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{ "description": "not going to a fertility consultation with my sister", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for not going to a fertility consultation with my sister?
I haven't decided what to do here yet, and I feel like anything I do that is not outright fully supporting her in this endeavor will really upset her. So my sister has three boys (two from a previous relationship and an infant son with her current husband), and also three stepdaughters her husband brought into the rel...
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{ "description": "not wanting to play games with my friend because he's bad", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to play games with my friend because he's bad?
I know playing games are supposed to be fun first and foremost, but I can't really enjoy games like apex legends and fortnite since we are constantly losing. I'm never the type to get angry and yell or anything but it is starting to bother me. He constantly gets zero kills and all the wins I get with him he's not alive...
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{ "description": "thinking that the mutants in the x-men universe should probably all be killed", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for thinking that the mutants in the X-Men universe should probably all be killed?
They’re basically walking nukes. I don’t care if they can’t help it, they are too dangerous to exist.
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{ "description": "suggesting an alternative name for a team t-shirt", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for suggesting an alternative name for a team t-shirt
A few weeks ago my parents visited my husband and I in Florida. My father-in-law and his girlfriend, who lives in the same city as us, are very athletic. My FIL and his GF had planned to do a 5K that same weekend and extended an invite to my husband and my parents. To my surprise, my very unathletic parents said yes. ...
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{ "description": "getting my co-workers in trouble", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting my co-workers in trouble?
I work as a host at an arena during sporting events. In our club, which caters to hog paying clients, there are hosts and food services staff members. We essentially work together but have completely different managers. As a host, I’m responsible for who comes in our club. We have been instructed that if people do no...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "being upset that my dad goes on a lot of business trips", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my dad goes on a lot of business trips?
My parents both go on a lot of business trips, especially my dad but my mom does too. At this point he goes at least once a week on average, probably more. Plus the fact that I’m at my mom’s half the time, I don’t get to spend a lot of time with him. I know it brings in money for us, and I don’t want to seem like a bra...
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{ "description": "becoming upset and wanting to physically leave with my child every single time my in laws (parent in law and siblings in law) come over unannounced and take over our quality time", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for becoming upset and wanting to physically leave with my child every single time my in laws (parent in law and siblings in law) come over unannounced and take over our quality time?
Let me preface this by saying I have upmost respect for everyone in this post. We're generally one happy family. To begin, I made the mistake of moving relatively close to in laws. They promised privacy and basically stomped all over that promise for years. Husband wouldn't stop it. My child comes along and it became...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "suggesting a teacher shouldn't receive free legal aid", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for suggesting a teacher shouldn't receive free legal aid?
I work at a legal assistance office, an entity that provides free legal care for people that can't afford it, and have an immediate need for some sort of action or consult. We have very objective (specially financial) parameters that define whether one fits into the definition of "requiring assistance". It's voluntary ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "not letting him re-do our basement based on his history of not finishing anything", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA the asshole for not letting him re-do our basement based on his history of not finishing anything?
My husband and I have an agreement about large expenses, that if one doesn’t agree we don’t do/buy it. My husband has a really bad habit of not finishing projects. Our garage is literally filled with half finished wood working project and an entire freaking car that he bought to restore and just gave up on. He ...
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{ "description": "threatening to throw out my roommates dishes", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for threatening to throw out my roommates dishes?
So, I’m a college student and I live with two other people in a triple room. In our room there is no kitchen, but there is a communal one upstairs. I can’t cook and mostly uses my meal swipes, and because of this I didn’t bring my own dishes, and the same goes for one of my other roommates. However the third person, I’...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "maybe being a ChoosingBeggar type", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for maybe being a ChoosingBeggar type?
I hate choosing beggars. I'm an artist myself and I understand that it's immensely important to value people's creative efforts and to pay for their time. ​ However, being an artist, I'm super fuckin poor lmao. ​ Right now (literally right now) I'm trying to start a digitally published maga...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not wanting my gamer buddy Ive never met to bring his gf to my house for the weekend", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my gamer buddy ive never met to bring his gf to my house for the weekend?
So I've been gaming with a goup of 6 guys for about 3 years. We play almost every day for at least a few minutes. Chat, joke, make fun of each other etc. I finally invited everyone to come hang out and 2 of them can. Ive never met either person irl but were like brothers. One is coming from the west coast to the east c...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not wanting to buy/have unhealthy food in my house for my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not wanting to buy/have unhealthy food in my house for my girlfriend?
I have recently been on a bit of a health kick, and as a result have been eating much healthier and trying not to buy unhealthy foods. My girlfriend (who does not live with me) asked me to pick up some doritos and various unhealthy snacks whilst I was buying ingredients for our dinner. I said I didn't want to buy them ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "calling the police on my missing friend", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling the police on my missing friend?
Last night, I went on a night out with my best friend. After we’d been there a couple hours, she told me she was getting a drink, then never came back. I really freaked out and probably overreacted - she’s never disappeared without a word before so I genuinely thought she’d been drugged or something and I was really ...
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OTHER
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RIGHT
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{ "description": "not giving an online friend my address", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving an online friend my address?
Backstory: So I've been friends with this guy on tumblr for a few years now. He added me on snapchat and we talk occasionally. I've come to consider him a good friend and I told him I'd like to meet him eventually. He lives in the states and I live in Canada. My friends know about him and my boyfriend knows about him. ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "breaking up with my bf for lying about smoking", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I broke up with my bf for lying about smoking?
I've been dating a doctor for eight months. In that time he's told me that he used to casually smoke but quit, and I made it very clear that because of my asthma I wasn't able to be around people smoking or even second-hand smoke from clothes without coughing and having my sinuses clog up. He swore up and down that he ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not going out with my wife", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not going out with my wife?
I’m (male) currently working crazy shifts while my wife is currently on a week long spring break from nursing school. In the past 48 hrs I’ve worked 24, getting home this evening around 6pm. When I got home my wife was away visiting a friend. I texted her when I got home asking if she was having dinner with said friend...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "not wanting to room with my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to room with my friend
One of my friends, let’s call her Sarah, asked me the other day to look at apartments with her for next semester. We live in dorms right now and in the fall we’re going to need a new place to stay, so I go with her. Sarah asks if I’d be one of her roommates, and I say yes, not thinking much about it. When I get home I ...
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{ "description": "not giving up my table", "pronormative_score": 22, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving up my table?
I'm staying at a hotel where there's a breakfast buffet with closed seating; you walk up, a waiter shows you to an open table, they put some silverware down and take your drink order, and then you go grab food from a buffet. This morning I came back to my table with a hot plate of food to discover a different waiter ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "almost getting hit by a driver on their phone and then making a big show of flipping them off", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for almost getting hit by a driver on their phone and then making a big show of flipping them off?
If context is needed, I go to a large university as a school, and while the usual model for students here seems to be to jaywalk whenever possible, I typically try to be as polite as I can to oncoming cars when they are in the vicinity. One thing that REALLY irks at me however is people who are on the phone when drivin...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "breaking up with my annoying depressed girlfriend on her birthday", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
WIBTA for breaking up with my annoying depressed girlfriend on her birthday????
Im thinking about breaking up with her because she is negative and depressed when I’m a relatively positive guy. We’re both in the 12 grade and she is always complaining about her future. I live in a 3 bedroom apartment while she’s in a mansion with rich parents and like 3 dogs. How can you be this gloomy when your liv...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "going directly to hr over an issue on the office and then quit, instead talking to my manager first", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for going directly to HR over an issue on the office and then quit, instead talking to my manager first?
Abbreviations: CR cash register, SP supervisor, OM office manager, GM general manager. AD accounting department. AT accouting ticket. Sorry, long post. My friend recommended me to the GM in a very popular hotels chain here in Mexico, so I took the job as a receptionist. At the end of our work shift we make a deposit t...
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{ "description": "not wanting my gf to dress provocatively when she goes out to party", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 26 }
AITA Not wanting my gf to dress provocatively when she goes out to party
Some context: I'm (M20) she's (F20), have been dating for 6 years, we go to separate colleges about an hour away. She doesn't go party too often, maybe 1 time a week or every other week. I don't mind or care that she does party because I do the same. The only thing that bothers me is that she wants to wear provocativ...
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{ "description": "yelling at my friend after she wouldn't let me speak", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for yelling at my friend after she wouldn't let me speak?
Some context for the title. I was already having a stressful day, I was finishing up an assignment that was due the next day so I decided to call some friends on discord, I was explaining to them how there were some people in my school who were being racist. But she said it would end badly and I would get hurt, I said ...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "making a bad joke to my crush", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making a bad joke to my crush?
First of all, mobile user, so sorry about the bad formatting. Ok, so I’ve been talking to this girl for about 6 weeks now, met up a couple times, but haven’t done anything yet. I keep making this joke (its rickrolling, I know, immature) that she hasn’t really reacted to until today. I make the same joke again, and th...
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{ "description": "not allowing my parents to get a divorce yet", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for not allowing my parents to get a divorce yet?
Id like to apologize for any weird wording. English is my second language and I dont fully know to fully express what I'm trying to convey fully. So my parents have been together for a near 25 years. And they've been good to each other for the most part. Yet for the past few years they've been getting into more and m...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "trying to change lanes in heavy traffic", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA: for trying to change Lanes in heavy traffic
I was driving my giant piece of s*** e250 van yesterday afternoon when I had to make a right onto a busy highway that went into a construction zone with only one lane open and had to immediately cross over three lanes of heavy traffic to get into the left turn lane to make a u-turn. People weren't being particularly ch...
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EVERYBODY
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 5 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "kicking my friends dog in the face", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for kicking my friends dog in the face ?
I was visiting a friend who lives in an appartement and has a medium sized dog. They have a very large balcony where he is normaly kept when there are guests around because he always goes crazy when there are people he isnt familiar with in the house. I've been in that appartement a couple times before and once where t...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "telling the manager of my apartment that my downstairs neighbor may be a hoarder", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling the manager of my apartment that my downstairs neighbor may be a hoarder?
I have lived in my apartment for 4.5 months now and on move-in I asked my neighbor next to me if there were any problems with bugs. He mentioned that there has been issues with roaches and over the months that I have lived here I have definitely seen it. I also have a BIG fear of roaches, like a full-blown phobia much ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "removing my sister's abusive husband from my wedding party", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA to remove my sister's abusive husband from my wedding party?
(I do not believe this violates the violence policy as I am not advocating violence, it just happens to be an important part of the story) I am getting married in 4 months. We have been planning for about 2 years and my sister accepted being my maid of honor as soon as I got engaged. I had more bridesmaids than my f...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 2 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "wanting an out-of-home office while my wife is stuck here", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting an out-of-home office while my wife is stuck here?
Throwaway for obvious reasons. My wife and I have two small kids (under 1.5 years). I love them with all of my heart and love spending time with them but recently our living situation has changed. I own an online store and do a few other things for income, all of which involve a computer. I have recently quit my "p...
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OTHER
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