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{ "description": "dissing diamonds in front of my friend and her BF", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dissing diamonds in front of my friend and her BF?
The title sound like I'm a jerk, but please read for the full story: ​ My SO and I were hanging out with two other couples. For background, all three couples live together in our late 20's, and intend to get married someday in the near-ish future, but no proposals yet or anything. But the main focus was o...
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{ "description": "being a bit upset at my SO's weekly use of pto", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being a bit upset at my SO's weekly use of PTO?
My SO and I are both in our late 20s and moved across country in order for him to have more work opportunity. He currently works a labor-intensive job with a typical 4-10 schedule most weeks and very few holidays. I work as a tutor, and I work six days a week with a lot of additional prep work between/after sessions bo...
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{ "description": "making an autistic person cry", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 17 }
AITA for making an autistic person cry
My older brother is a 23 year old man living with autism (actually I’m pretty sure it would be what most people consider Asperger’s, but that’s not a diagnosed condition anymore, as far as I know). I have always been very defensive of him, since we are very close age and he has always been an easy target for bullies,...
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{ "description": "telling the police about an 84 year old man who may have harassed me", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA - If I tell the police about an 84 year old man who may have harassed me.
A week back, I was walking home from school, where an old man was stood, shaking and struggling to carry his things. I offered to take his bags and help him walk wherever he needed. It turned out he was on his way to the hearing clinic, a 2 minute walk away for someone my age and health. The trip ended up taking an hou...
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{ "description": "considering breaking up with my gf", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 13 }
AITA for considering breaking up with my gf?
So to give context, I'm 21 and almost done with my final year of uni. I've been dating my girlfriend for the past year and a half and we love each other very much and have reached a point in our relationship where we are genuinely thinking about our future but I'm uncertain about our future due to how my family acts ar...
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{ "description": "not telling my abusive dad about my sister's hospital visit", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my abusive dad about my sister's hospital visit?
Warning: very long post and backstory I made a Reddit account purely for this. You'll need some backstory for this too. My father was violent and domestically abused my mum and I. His abuse towards my mother started when I was born and towards me when I was 7 and started siding with my mum. He had manipulated me to sid...
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{ "description": "getting increasingly irritated with my friend for talking-while-eating", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting increasingly irritated with my friend for talking-while-eating?
I use a messaging app called Marco Polo for 90% of my communication these days. Think "video walkie-talkie" if you've never heard of it; you record a video message and they receive it, can be as short or long as you want, you can watch live or later, but you can't talk over each other. Anyway, my buddy has this annoyi...
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{ "description": "getting agitated at my teacher", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Getting Agitated At My Teacher?
In our High School we are fortunate enough to have a Gaming/VR Lab. We can go in there during Lunch/Resource and play games. The main attractions are Overwatch, League of Legends, Apex Legends, Smash Bros, and Fortnite. Personally since I don’t usually have homework for Resource, I go and play Fortnite. It doesn’t hav...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship because they think gay people are the anti-christ", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ending a friendship because they think gay people are the anti-christ?
AITA for ending a friendship/connection because I am gay and they secretly think gay people are evil? I was working on a computer problem for the mother of one of my good friends. She was having issues with her email not sending and was getting the "spinning beach ball" every time she tried to send. Her outbox folder ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to babysit everyday", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to babysit everyday?
I'm 20 years old and my little sister is 2. My mum is always sleeping or going out with friends/boyfriend's which means I'm left too look after my sister, who isn't a difficult child, it's just sometimes I'd like to have time for myself. AITA?
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AITA to my boyfriend and/or mom?
hi reddit, long post incoming. i'm 20F, my BF is 22M, and my mom is 60F. i am a serial dater that has been either in a relationship or on dating apps like tinder and OKC for pretty much my entire (if brief) adult life. ​ i met my BF on tinder early july 2018. he informed me that he was looking for a relat...
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{ "description": "\"snitching\" on coworkers", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for "snitching" on coworkers?
I work as a forklift operator in a distribution warehouse, and we have protocol for certain things that is pretty important in terms of efficiency. Managers, supervisors, and leads all say to call people out on not following this protocol. I have many responsibilities, and have full training in all operations that re...
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{ "description": "lying to charity", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for lying to charity?
Bit of background. I’m a university student in the UK, who doesn’t have any money. The two typically go hand in hand. I was walking down the highstreet from a food shop, and I was stopped by a young lady. Yeah she was pretty so maybe that contributed to why I stopped, but she also pretty much blocked my path and star...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my boyfriend for letting somebody in", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for letting somebody in?
I (19f) live with my boyfriend (19m) and two other guys (19m). One of these guys (who isn’t my boyfriend) has been rather friendly with one guy in particular. This dude has been walking in without anyone’s permission, staying over for days at a time, and generally having strange behaviours that make me uncomfortable (i...
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AITA in this relationship?
I have been in a relationship with someone for just over a year and it's all getting a bit much for me. Half way through I broke up with said person and we had some space apart for a month but eventually sorted it out and got back together. Part 1: I got with this person a little while after getting out of a manipulat...
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{ "description": "wanting to go to college out of state", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to go to college out of state
AITA for wanting to go to college out of state. Just for some background, my relationship with my parents had always been strained at best and I know that if I go to a college in state they'll have me come home almost every weekend which is the last thing I want.
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{ "description": "wanting my parents to give me more money for my wedding", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 352 }
AITA for wanting my parents to give me more money for my wedding?
I sound like the classic entitled millennial, but hear me out! My parents have agreed to contribute $5k towards my wedding (I'm the bride). I had suggested $10K and want to ask them again if they would contribute more. If they didn't have the money it would be a totally different story, but they are choosing not spend...
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{ "description": "being made at my fb for looking at his female coworker's nipple piercings", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being made at my fb for looking at his female coworker’s nipple piercings
We are in a long distance relationship and he brushed it off as his coworkers trust him not to think he will look in a sexual way, even though I don’t know her. I was mad that he didn’t tell me right when it happened and he said it because we were in a fight at that time. I’m also mad because he said “ Oh cool, that m...
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{ "description": "telling my professor off for asking for a copy of my father's death certificate", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 6 }
WIBTA(24F) if I told my professor off for asking for a copy of my father’s death certificate?
So I live in Nevada, I don’t know if this changes things. But anyway, I’m a first year, first generation college student. I try to be as honest with my professors as possible. Fall semester I maintained a 3.8 GPA. I honestly love school. A hiccup in life had me believing I would never attend college and now I am. I do...
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{ "description": "leaving when my gf's brother visits", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving when my gf’s brother visits
To start I love my girlfriend, she’s sweet, kind, and a great mother to our child. Today my girlfriend’s brother brought his family (wife, 2 kids 5 and 1) over to our 2 bedroom apartment with little notification. Just traveling through for the holidays I believe. With her mother coming over of course (she’s over regu...
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{ "description": "exposing my cheating ex-girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 10 }
WIBTA for exposing my cheating ex-girlfriend?
Hello everyone, I would ask you a question. Would I be an asshole for telling the new boyfriend of my ex that she cheated on him with me? This story happened two years ago, we weren't together when that happen, we were friends with benefits and I’m pretty sure that she started dating him before ending with me. To ...
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{ "description": "shouting at my partner for poking my forehead", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for shouting at my partner for poking my forehead?
My boyfriend does this annoying thing where he’ll poke my forehead when we’re about to argue or discuss something. It frustrates me more than I’d like to admit, because it feels mean since I’m too short to reach his head back. I think he knows this as well because immediately after poking my forehead he stands up strai...
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{ "description": "moving my pet dog while they were asleep on my leg", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for moving my pet dog while they were asleep on my leg
Title says enough
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AITA For how I behaved prior to and during the break-up with my Ex-Girlfriend?
This is a long one, tl;dr will be provided. This actually happened last year, but it has been gnawing at me for some time and I figured posting here might help me put the issue to rest. For context, this occurred at the very beginning of the summer after I graduated high school in June. I had been dating my girlfriend...
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{ "description": "not telling my friend we have the ACT test tomorrow", "pronormative_score": 15, "contranormative_score": 13 }
WIBTA for not telling my friend we have the ACT test tomorrow?
So like the title says we have the ACT test tomorrow. My friend has been skipping school a lot. A LOT. And I've kept having to remind him of important things that hes unaware of because hes never at school. He comes to school maybe once a week. You might be wondering why hes skipping. Well, he met some girl on discord ...
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{ "description": "going out without my girlfriend for a bit", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I went out without my girlfriend for a bit
My girlfriend and I are both studying abroad right now, but in different countries. She got very sick last week and was in the hospital for a few days. Her parents paid for me to go help her because they couldn't afford to come themselves. She's back in her apartment now but needs help with pretty much everything when ...
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{ "description": "not knowing what the term celebration of life means", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not knowing what the term celebration of life means?
So I've never heard this term before. To me it sounds like celebrating new life. To make the post short I was with a customer on the phone at work and they said they were coming to my city for a celebration of life so me being a fucking idiot said "oh congratulations!" Being the immediate response as I posted above for...
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{ "description": "not being down with my roommate's houseguests", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being down with my roommate's houseguests?
My roommate texts us last night, asking if two friends can crash at our place last minute. On a long road trip, their plans in our city fell through, and they were scrambling for sleeping arrangements. Our city is about 2 hours from their final destination, so I figure they're rolling up pretty late, sleeping, and movi...
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{ "description": "not telling my s/o about my depression", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not telling my s/o about my depression?
Lately I have been feeling very depressed and I have been having some health complications as well. As bad as it sounds I try my best to not show how I feel to others so I don't believe my s/o has noticed, but I want to speak with a therapist/mental health specialist about how I am feeling but I'm worried that it would...
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{ "description": "confessing to my childhood best friend that I love her", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for confessing to my childhood best friend that I love her?
I(26M) have been in love with my childhood best friend (26F) for at least half a decade now. We were inseparable. She is intelligent, witty and breathtakingly beautiful. I sort of made a promise to be just friends with her in high school since everyone was just hitting on her and very few geniunely cared about her fee...
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{ "description": "being offended when asked to put away dishes", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being offended when asked to put away dishes? (Petty)
Warning: This is completely petty and unimportant. Anyway: ​ I live at home and I'm in my first year of college. ​ So I made dinner for my mom and sister last night because my mom loves when I cook. It was a somewhat time-consuming dish and I made a decent mess. I cleaned everything up right a...
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{ "description": "speaking out against my mother's recent engagement", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I spoke out against my mother’s recent engagement?
Sorry if this seems badly thought out or rushed I don’t have much rime and this is really bugging me. About 1 year ago my mom starting dating this guy, he’s pretty cool and I like him not gonna lie. But at the time my parents were separated and about to get divorced, it wasn’t until 4 months afterword that everything...
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{ "description": "taking back a fortnight character someone elce spent money on", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking back a fortnight character someone elce spent money on?
I'm on mobile so formatting is going to be off. Not really me but my boyfriend had a fortnight account and literally played it for a week before he decided he didn't like the game and was only playing it to play with a freind. He hadn't spent any money on the game at all. Yesterday he noticed that he had a few emails...
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{ "description": "swiping right on everyone on tinder", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for swiping right on everyone on tinder?
The only reason I post asking for judgement is because my friend recently said it was a "dick move" that I swipe right on everyone even if I have no interest in talking to some of them just so I get all my matches. I still dont think it's even that bad, but now I'm second guessing myself.
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{ "description": "taking a basketball away from a child", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking a basketball away from a child?
I'm 18 years old and would consider myself a very active person. This year my friends and I have been playing outdoors more than usual and have grown a love for playing driveway basketball. I personally bought two $25 dollar basketballs for me to play with and take to college with me in the fall. My little cousin who i...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to stop touching my dog's waterbowl", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my roommate to stop touching my dog's waterbowl?
TL;DR at end... For everyone else, i.e., the masochists, I present the wall: Okay so my friend bought a house in another city about 4 years ago and needed a roommate. I moved in and things were going great. Over time, he started spending more time at his GF's place, and eventually moved in with her, leaving me alone i...
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{ "description": "telling an employee at chuck e cheese not to ask my kid if he wants to buy ice cream", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling an employee at chuck e cheese not to ask my kid if he wants to buy ice cream
So Chuck e cheese is now sending employees to walk around and sell cotton candy and ice cream. A young employee approached my table and asked me if I wanted to buy ice cream. I said no thanks and she turned to the kid I was watching and said are you sure you don't want ice cream? I did not let kid answer, and said nop...
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{ "description": "breaking up with MY GIRLFRIEND", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA FOR BREAKING UP WITH MY GIRLFRIEND
so first things first my girlfriend and I were in a relationship for 3 years March 1st. Lets call her Bri. We tried taking a break a few weeks ago but in the end we decided to end things. One thing she was worried about was this girl from my past. We will call her Lea. Lea and I were really good friends and quite fran...
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{ "description": "telling my gf the friend zone isn't offensive", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my gf the friend zone isn’t offensive?
I made a joke about Jorah Mormont being “Ser Friendzone” and now my gf is angry at me because she finds the term friendzone offensive because she’s “put people there”. My point is that the only people who take offence to the term are people who expect to get laid for being nice and I’m only making fun of them, or peopl...
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{ "description": "inadvertently causing my fiancee to call security on a hapless family", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for inadvertently causing my fiancee to call security on a hapless family?
So my partner and I are currently on a getaway with our close friend for a few days. We went out to a yachting club for dinner and picked a seat right out on the water. We had ordered our food and while my fiancee went to the toilet our buzzer rang for our meals. My mate and I left the table to grab our food, and left ...
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{ "description": "knocking over a girl's smoothie in front of the whole class and not apologizing", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for knocking over a girl's smoothie in front of the whole class and not apologizing?
So my class at the time was an auditorium-like setup in the way that there were rows of seats instead of desks. With that in mind, one must be aware that if you're going to sit at the very edge of these rows, people are going to have to pass by the very narrow and inconvenient path you just made in order to get to thei...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "asking space from a best friend so I don't become miserable over her achievements", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking space from a best friend so I don't become miserable over her achievements?
A little back story. I (25F) was in a toxic relationship and i barely had any energy to deal with people. I had started ignoring my best friend’s (25F) calls. Just so you know, i had been lagging off completely in life (Unemployed) whereas my friend, after a few failed attempts, finally made it so it was a pretty big d...
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{ "description": "wanting to tell this girls boyfriend that's she's cheated on him", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to tell this girls boyfriend that’s she’s cheated on him?
So I met this girl and her boyfriend few weeks ago. Me and this girl became super close and we shared a lot. She told me she liked me back after we’d cuddle a lot and I told her, we also ended up having sex. She’s told me she kissed a guy before me and told her boyfriend that it was just physical so she’s cheated befor...
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{ "description": "hating my friend's relationship", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating my friend's relationship
So B is in a relationship with D. She's 18 and hes 21, they met when B and I went to the trampoline park where he works. At first everything was great, but now she's become really obsessive over him, and even pays his rent cause he somehow cant afford £300 a month rent, when he earns about £1000 a month. She's also r...
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AITA? Cancer and a middle school edgelord
I've been thinking about this off and on for awhile back in 7th grade both my Grandpa, and a Mother of one of my classmates had developed the same type of cancer, they were both actively dying of it at this point as well. One of our teachers was really adamant about people going over to the classmates house, and br...
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{ "description": "excluding my depressed friend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for excluding my depressed friend
The title sounds awful, I know, but here’s the background. My group of friends has been together since high school and a few of us since middle school. We’re pretty closely knit, but I personally tend to be on the outside of the group. One girl, Z, recently has been struggling with depression. I won’t pretend to unde...
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{ "description": "not inviting my parents to my wedding", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn't invite my parents to my wedding?
Hi there! Here's some context: my parents and I always had a strange relationship (we didn't communicate much) but since I started my relationship with my boyfriend they started to get angry at me and basically they were causing so much unnecessary drama. This boy that I'm with is everything I ever wished for, he real...
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{ "description": "snapping at my friend for calling my major and life easy", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for snapping at my friend for calling my major and life easy
I have this friend, we went to the same high school and happened to attend the same university. She was a few years ahead of me and we became friends again once I got to college. She graduated in 2017 with a fine arts degree and since then we mostly talk on Instagram. I graduated last month and she saw my graduation p...
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{ "description": "not tipping my waitress", "pronormative_score": 23, "contranormative_score": 15 }
AITA for not tipping my waitress?
Long story short, my girlfriend and I went out to eat at Nifty Fifty's and our waitress neglected us almost the entire time. She did the bare minimum with tending to us the entire time. Now I will defend her a bit; she said that all of her tables were currently (and usually) in the back, and we were seated closer to t...
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{ "description": "not liking a person because they purposely get super drunk", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not liking a person because they purposely get super drunk?
Hey reddit, there has been a person who's been a relatively new member of our college friend group for the past 2 years. They have a tendency to brag about how much they drink and laugh it off a lot but in my mind they really ruin a lot of fun events and parties we go to. I know this is college but they drink to this...
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{ "description": "saying I hate mormons", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for saying I hate Mormons
Talking with a colleague that attended college in Utah, one of us brought up Mormons, I ended up making a half serious half comedic comment “I hate Mormons”. Giggling, she says that she is actually a Mormon, but that she “ totally gets it”. We ended up talking for an hour, mostly me being surprised about the confusing ...
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{ "description": "disabling internet every day until my kids (12,15) finish their homework", "pronormative_score": 68, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for disabling internet every day until my kids (12,15) finish their homework?
So I saw reddit posts on this a while back actually. Some mom was doing something very similar and she was called an abusive parent. Just like some feedback for myself. I'm a single mother with 2 kids (12F, 15M) and the older one has had some issues with video gaming and internet use which heavily affected his grades...
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{ "description": "not giving away my wii to a poor single mother with 2 kids", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I didn’t give away my Wii to a poor single mother with 2 kids
I’m on mobile so sorry for an poor formatting A bit of background: I’ve had my Wii for about 10 years or so. I still occasionally play games on it but the sentimental value this thing has to me is utter insane. I was basically grown up on this thing. Recently my mom asked me if I would be willing to give it away to s...
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{ "description": "killing a fish", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for killing a fish?
We went fishing as a family, to eat not catch and release. I caught a fish small trout. Nothing that fancy. So next I had to kill it. It was flopping around and my dad said I had to hit it hard on its head with a rock. I tried really hard( I was maybe 14) and no luck. The fish kept moving around. It was kind of embarr...
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{ "description": "giving my nephew dating advice", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 21 }
AITA for giving my nephew dating advice?
So my sister's kid is a sophomore in high school and he's been getting into girls like most guys his age. I'm 26, so there's not that huge a difference and as such he's kinda seen me as the cool uncle or whatever. He's a great kid, but I know he struggles with girls since he's shy and too nice, so I sat him down and ga...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "throwing water balloons at people yelling outside in the middle of the night on a weeknight", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for throwing water balloons at people yelling outside in the middle of the night on a weeknight?
I live in an apartment building in downtown Philly. I've lived here for more than five years so I'm used to city life and I don't expect it to be quiet. I'm used to the sounds of traffic, sirens, and drunk assholes shouting outside (mostly on the weekends) but a 24-hour convenience store and sandwich shop recently open...
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{ "description": "stopping talking to a chick after I took her virginity", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA to stop talking to a chick after i took her virginity
So i met this girl on a dating app and at first we didn't really hit it off. Sending messages every few hours. One night we began snapping eachother and had a amazing conversation (where i learned that she was a churchgoer and a virgin. After a couple hours of us making a streak we began talking about sex and well soo...
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{ "description": "avoiding going to my father's house because I don't like the fact he cheated on my mom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for avoiding going to my father's house because I don't like the fact he cheated on my mom? (And some other things)
So.... this is my first post, be gentle haha. Sorry if it's long winded or, well, stupid. I don't know, I just wanted to talk about it with some people who probably know way better then me. SM=Stepmok (I was born in 2004, my brother 2008. This is important later.) My mom and my dad broke up and got divorced around......
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend?
I (17M) have a girlfriend (19F) and we've been together for one and a half years. We have a Long Distance Relationship (80km). We can only see each other in the weekends 'cause her father brings her here. I live with my Mother. My Relationship is going ok, we had a lot of problems some months ago. She thought I was n...
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{ "description": "constantly trying to find a way to contact an ex that ghosted me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for constantly trying to find a way to contact an ex that ghosted me?
This hopefully won’t be a lengthy post and I’m begging for your opinion on this. I dated this guy for around 2 months when this happened. He was on vacation with his family and I really wanted to talk to him. I called him up a few times and he wouldn’t answer. Then finally he picked up but his aunt was the one who ans...
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{ "description": "planning a trip with my friend without another friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for planning a trip with my friend without another friend?
My friend, I'll say N, was telling me about a place she heard from her mother called Cat Island. We were then talking about like "OMG WE *HAVE* TO GOOO" and stuff, blah blah, blah. Then we decided, hey why don't we? We researched how much money a trip to Japan would be as well as the prices of admission for other plac...
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{ "description": "being pissed at a designer that I paid who made me a GIF & not a logo", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed at a designer that I paid who made me a GIF & not a logo?
* I paid them to design me a logo * I gave them a lot of flexibility and some suggestions * They responded hours later with not a logo... but a GIF am I a jerk for not saying thanks but asking for the product I paid for?
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WIBTA if I wanted to fuck up someones life after 20 years, just becouse person dared to contact me?
To start from the top, my mom did not do good choices about her companions in her early years. Currently she is happily married and has been for the past 10 years, all good to her from now on. She has suffered enough. ​ Currently I am in my early 30's and few days back my stepdad (alcoholic, molesting, wif...
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{ "description": "calling out a fake friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling out a fake friend?
Some background: she and her friend had a fall out last year about some petty high school stuff girls fight about. Earlier this school year, Sheila(fake name) tried to reconcile with her. It didn't go over smoothly, but Sheila and her are at least on speaking terms. Fast forward a few months, they hang out for lunch ...
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AITA? My best friend cheated on her bf with me
The title seems bad but let me give context: (This might get long, TL;DR at the bottom) [SLIGHTLY NSFW] I am a girl, and my best friend is a girl. We've been best friends for a little over a year, and when we started hanging out, I had a huge crush on her. (I'm gay and she's bisexual.) I'll call her Grace. Since we ...
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{ "description": "not being able to stand my brother with down syndrome", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being able to stand my brother with down syndrome?
I'm not sure if this is the kind of posts that go in this sub but I would really like to know if I'm being an ass and I need to suck it up. I'm a 15 yr old F, and my brother is a 21 yr old M, he lives at home with my mom and I. He's been heavily influenced by 80s rock. Likes to go to concerts, meet and greets (which ...
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{ "description": "being angry at wife because she tries to \"manage\" my salary", "pronormative_score": 31, "contranormative_score": 52 }
AITA for being angry at wife because she tries to "manage" my salary
Me and my wife(no kids) don't have a common budget. Because I'm earning almost 4 times more than her, I willingly handle most of our expenses (around 80-90% of our expenses). She can use her own salary for whatever she wants(she's saving around 40-60% of it). I have been helping my other family (parents & brothers...
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{ "description": "missing a Close Friend's wedding", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I Miss a Close Friend's Wedding?
Background: All of my friends are really close, and there are 4 of us. We've been friends since we were 14 and we're all mid 20s now. Friends A and B moved to the other side of the country about two years ago, and myself and friend C visited when finances permitted it. Recently friend A has moved to another state aga...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a girl for not revealing she was trans", "pronormative_score": 61, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting mad at a girl for not revealing she was trans?
So basically I met this girl on Tinder, and we instantly had an amazing connection. I've met lots of people off the app and I can tell you, I've never wanted someone as badly as I wanted her before actually meeting IRL. Due to life circumstances getting in the way, we chatted non-stop for 2 weeks. Conversations about e...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I refuse to see her partner again", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend I refuse to see her partner again?
I have a friend of over 10 years. She lives abroad and I am going to visit her area by chance in a little bit. Of course I want to stop and say hello and catch up with her. She has been really there for me and we have matured together. She even hosted a very not super together me a few years ago... for three months. It...
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{ "description": "using facilities not built for my size", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for using facilities not built for my size?
Tall guy; 196cm, 6'5" I believe; living abroad and nothing is built to accommodate my height as I knew before I would even go here. Almost every normal day activity requires a bit of thinking or adapting even those that seem simple like dish washing. I constantly hit my head and can never comfortably travel and start c...
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{ "description": "arguing with my friend because he thinks the girl I slept with \"wasn't good enough\"", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for arguing with my friend because he thinks the girl I slept with "wasn't good enough"
I hooked up with a girl that I've been interested in for a while last night. She's super nice and I'm very attracted to her so naturally I was pretty happy with the situation. Upon hearing this, my friend asks to see some photos of the girl (they've never met) and immediately begins roasting me on how she looks. I thou...
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{ "description": "wanting nothing to do with past sos or people I tried to pursue romantically/ friends", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting nothing to do with past SOs or people I tried to pursue romantically/ friends?
People always tell me about how they keep in contact with ex BF or GF and stay friends. I never understood this because if anyone I had a strong relationship with suddenly stopped being my friend or having a romantic interest in me, I stop any sort of contact or relationship with that person for the rest of my life. It...
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{ "description": "complimenting an immigrant on their English", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA because I complimented an immigrant on their English?
Okay all, I've got something that's been on my mind for a while. This happened back in November of 2017. I was on a trip with my Finance club in NYC. This was when I was an undergrad in college. We were visiting big financial firms in the area, but this part of the trip we were socializing with alumni of our college ...
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{ "description": "dropping a roommate from our next lease", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for dropping a roommate from our next lease
I recently posted "AITA for not wanting to go to a wedding". TLDR; our lease is up and 4 out of the 6 people want 2 of them gone. I have a friend (M, 28) who is going to be married in two days to a 90-day-fiance (F, 28). She moved into our 3 bed 3 bath apartment with us and we're now talking about our next steps for ...
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{ "description": "being upset that my mom won't let me have a candle in my room", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For Being Upset That My Mom Won't Let Me Have a Candle in My Room?
Listen, I enjoy the simple things in life. One of those things being ambiance. I love me the soft glow and flicker of a candle and its gentle wafting scent. But I digress. About a week or two ago, my German shepherd chewed through a few hundred dollars worth of blinds in my mom's brand new home. I completely understo...
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Aita: roommate situation
So I’m a recent college grad. M25, I stayed in the same apartment after school ended cuz I picked up a job at the university. Recently my old roommate left M22, and this random dude moved in, M35. He’s an alcoholic, like I’m talking a dozen can of beers every night level. And he used to leave them stacked in the comm...
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{ "description": "asking for fewer hours at work", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for asking for fewer hours at work?
Sorry for formatting, I'm on mobile. First time posting, so sorry if I'm doing this wrong. I currently work an office job. I have been here for 9 months and it is my first office job. This job has a busy season (May through Sept/Oct) where there is almost an overwhelming amount of work) and a slow season (November-Apri...
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{ "description": "wearing my slippers upstairs", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wearing my slippers upstairs
My wife berated me this evening for wearing my slippers into our daughters room while we got her ready for bed, apparently we agreed not to wear slippers into the bedrooms, only on the landing where we have old carpet which is about to be replaced. I don't recall any discussion about slippers, in fact i think its the c...
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{ "description": "wearing a leather jacket and eating meat on a date with a vegan", "pronormative_score": 117, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wearing a leather jacket and eating meat on a date with a vegan?
Went on a date with a girl I had pretty great chemistry with, and I knew she was vegan beforehand (just it not occurring to me about the leather/suede jacket). She was the first one to bring it up and it hit me then that I screwed up. We got Mexican after and I ordered beef nachos (again, simply was not thinking) and...
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{ "description": "commenting against an anti-JW social media post", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for commenting against an anti-JW social media post?
"Bob" and I met when we were both protesting a local politician who had made racist comments. As it turns out, we would go on to serve on several local agency for us together. He's an acquaintance, not a friend. Yesterday, Bob makes a social media post that JWs knocking on your door may be (bad people who hurt kids). A...
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{ "description": "continuing to have a relationship with my Ex's kid", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for continuing to have a relationship with my Ex's kid?
I left my abusive Ex years ago and have since moved on and am in a happy and healthy multi-year serious relationship. I am over my Ex emotionally, and have done all of the mental health work I've needed to do to heal and identify abusive patterns so that I never find myself in that position again. The problem is, my Ex...
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{ "description": "giving parents cold shoulder after taking suing my father for maintenance", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for giving parents cold shoulder after taking suing my father for maintenance
I apologize for the long post but a bit of background is necessary. My parents divorced when I was three. From what I gather from other family members they were awful together. There was zero contact from my father's family despite the fact that both of our families live less than half an hours drive from each other....
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{ "description": "unplugging someone's laptop in our school working area", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA - For unplugging someone's laptop in our school working area?
Hi reddit! This is my first post on reddit & on mobile too so sorry about any mistakes on formatting and stuff. It's quite short, I just wanted to see if people would think this would be justified if I did something in future if I ever see this girl again. For context this happened in our sixth form working area -...
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{ "description": "laughing at/contributing to dark humor jokes", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 31 }
AITA for laughing at/contributing to dark humor jokes?
I am a white female that attends a large public state university in the US. I’d like to clarify that i am 100% NOT racist. I do believe in equal rights and treating people fairly. That being said, i have a very broad humor and will laugh and enjoy almost any joke. But that does not make me racist. Its starting to ge...
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{ "description": "leaving a depressed friend because I couldn't stand the constant pity", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for leaving a depressed friend because I couldn’t stand the constant pity
I had a great friendship but when self harm and threatening to commit suicide because their life is the “absolute worst” that’s where I draw the line. I was moral support from day one and it obviously wasn’t getting through because the person felt like no one was there. Even though I was. There was no way that someone ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend my leisure time helping my Dad Fix cars", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Wanting To Spend My Leisure Time Helping My Dad Fix Cars?
So, where to begin. So basically, I work a lot - part of the time is delivery work, and part of the time is other writing projects and game projects - I want to try and make it as a writer. Part of that work is writing emails to industry people. I've been taught to spend out a lot, to get out there and try to conne...
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{ "description": "not wanting anything with my ex bf", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting anything with my ex bf?
When my mother found out I was very lonely, she sent me to a new school. There, I (14F) met my best friend (14F). We really hit it off. I was pretty ugly so dating was new to me (by that time, 15F). So I dated this guy (16M) who was my first kiss. I got tired of him and I kindly called it quits. I had to keep seeing hi...
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{ "description": "breaking things off", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking things off?
Background: I'm 18 M and I met this girl at a party of a mutual friend (18 F). Come to find out we work at the same place so get to talking and make out a few times, whatever typical party stuff. We end up talking for a couple months and spending time together on breaks and outside of work. Fast forward a few weeks a...
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AITA in this child custody dispute
Okay. This is a long one so I'll try to trim as much fat as I can. I have an 8 year old son. My son's father and I met in 2010 and about a month into hanging out, I got pregnant. We weren't official and I was 21 and scared so I decided I would have the baby alone. About 8 months into my pregnancy I was hormonal and sca...
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{ "description": "taking an unvaccinated child to a friends birthday when she asked for no unvaccinated people", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 226 }
AITA for taking an unvaccinated child to a friends birthday when she asked for no unvaccinated people?
Ok so here’s the thing. My friends daughter is unvaccinated, it’s her choice and I respect that, and also it’s not the daughters fault. So the daughter was staying with us at the weekend because her parents suddenly had to go away and one of my daughters school friends had a party on Saturday. The mother of the child’s...
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{ "description": "asking my neighbours in a not very polite way to turn the music off", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking my neighbours in a not very polite way to turn the music off?
I have neighbours that have been playing loud music every weekend until 4 am for the past 5 weeks. It is very annoying, but I try to cope with it with my earplugs. They block out some of the sound, but the heavy beat is still there. I haven't talked to the neighbours for several reasons: 1) I'm introverted and shy and ...
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AITA If a friend of a friend got mad at me for hanging out with them
Me and this other person, let's call him Josh used to be best friends from grade 5-8. Josh and I stopped being friends near the start of high school, he started talking to new people and old people that I also knew. Josh had a really good relationship with one person I didn't know very well let's call him Alex. They w...
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{ "description": "getting angry and getting kicked out of my gaming club", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting angry and getting kicked out of my gaming club?
This is gonna be long and sound stupidly petty. There's your upfront warning so you can click away if you don't want to read about a bunch of gaming bullshit. It matters a lot to me and my friends but I get that it won't seem important to some other people. So I joined this gaming club back in December and thought th...
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{ "description": "telling my mother she's arrogant for praying for me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 22 }
AITA for telling my mother she’s arrogant for praying for me?
On Monday I woke up at 5:30 AM and noticed my phone was not charging. Immediately went to go see if my charger was plugged in, and smelt something burning. Turns out, my charger was melting and my pillow was smoking, which I assume means I was minutes away from a devastating electrical fire. All is well, and the situat...
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{ "description": "telling on a cheater", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling on a cheater?
Okay. So. I recently got back in touch with this guy who went to middle school with me. While messaging him, he told me a lot about how he would procure nudes from and have explicit conversations with hismale friends because his gf refused to have sex with him (he even sent me some of the nudes despite my protests). H...
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{ "description": "cancelling my trip to China for new years with GF", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for cancelling my trip to China for new years with GF?
Hi everyone, a few weeks ago my girlfriend invited me to return with her to China to meet her parents during Chinese New year. Her work visa is expiring and she's leaving Amazon as a data analyst in Boston, and invited me to join her for 10 days. I'm working on a startup company and don't have any savings left, only...
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{ "description": "searching through my boyfriends' mother's phone", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for searching through my boyfriends' mother's phone?
So I have been with this guy for 4 years now. Needless to say he is a total narcissist sociopath. Besides all the other dumb shit, there's one part that bothers me more than anything else. He has kept a "friend" of his hidden from me our entire relationship. He knew her before meeting me, but has always sweared up and ...
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{ "description": "not wanting the heat turned on when it's not cold", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting the heat turned on when it's not cold?
We're working in a shared office space and I'm no stranger to compromise. They recently redid the cubes so they are a bit smaller and there are 12-15 of us depending on how you look at it. Three of the cubicles are along one wall with windows and the people with the most seniority got to pick those. Those people are al...
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{ "description": "not wanting my smelly father to stay with me", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my smelly father to stay with me?
My dad lives abroad and has some newfound flexibility with his work schedule as he nears retirement. He wants to start spending more time with me, my brother, and his grandkids, which would be great... expect for his personal hygiene issues. There is no underlying psychological issue causing this but he refuses to show...
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